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Speaker 1: Scrubbing In with Becca Tilly and Tanya Red and I

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Speaker 1: heart radio podcast. Hello everybody, we're scared having in robbing in. Uh.

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Speaker 1: I'm in Santa Barbara right now. So we are not together.

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Speaker 1: But Tania does have a sunny in her lap, which

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Speaker 1: she has been a good girl. I know she'd be

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Speaker 1: such a google. She's been seeing her quiet. I do

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Speaker 1: have to say so. I normally don't have her on

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Speaker 1: Mondays and Tuesdays because those are my longest work days. Um,

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Speaker 1: but my schedule is a little bit different this week,

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Speaker 1: and so I just didn't want to stay home alone

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Speaker 1: all day, so I took her and she's just been

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Speaker 1: sitting in my lap like a cute little angel muffin

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Speaker 1: pop pie. I'm so obsessed by the way I need

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Speaker 1: to read you guys, this text message. This is my

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Speaker 1: life right now. This is how obsessed I am. This

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Speaker 1: is the text message I sent my boyfriend when poop

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Speaker 1: outside all by herself. Poopa's perfection, perfect size, texture, color,

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Speaker 1: didn't smell bad, He's perfect. Wow. Yeah, that's where I'm

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Speaker 1: at my with my dog. Yes, the romance is still thriving.

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Speaker 1: I'm I'm a little bit I'm a little bit worried

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Speaker 1: about you. I know I am too. It's I do

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Speaker 1: feel like you're very self aware, so I do feel

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Speaker 1: like if it gets to place of more concerned. Yeah, yeah,

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Speaker 1: like I'm teetering right now. You know, I'm walking a

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Speaker 1: fine line of like a loving parent and a crazy nut. Um.

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Speaker 1: So I'm just gonna walk that line a little bit longer,

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Speaker 1: you know. Yeah. Yeah, we're here for it. We're here

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Speaker 1: for the journey. I also had another regresation about life

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Speaker 1: and that if it doesn't bring me comfort, I'm not

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Speaker 1: wearing it. So I just want to wear sweats and

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Speaker 1: like workout clothes for the rest of my life. Okay, great,

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Speaker 1: whatever makes you feel good, Tanya, thank you. I'm just

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Speaker 1: here to support you as the best friend and I

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Speaker 1: love that what I can do for you. Yeah, and

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Speaker 1: when you're ready to put a tight dress back on,

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Speaker 1: I'll be supportive of that too. Well. Yes, okay. So

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Speaker 1: comfort and sexy okay, comfort and sexy okay, okay, Well

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Speaker 1: those do not go hand in hand. So there's an

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Speaker 1: occasional you know, want to you know, let the bird up.

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Speaker 1: I've seen some outfits that are that I would not

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Speaker 1: describe as comfortable for me. Recently. So while I respect

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Speaker 1: your sentiment, like I love how you commit to something,

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Speaker 1: and then like as we kind of like really dive in,

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Speaker 1: you're like, well not that, yeah, not that part of it.

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Speaker 1: You know. It's a very Tanya thing. But you guys

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Speaker 1: don't want to look sexy at times. But I'd say

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Speaker 1: the majority, I just want to be comfortable. Yeah, I'm

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Speaker 1: I respect that. Um I'm so, I'm in Santa Barbara

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Speaker 1: with Paramount Pictures for a The Lost City. It's like

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Speaker 1: a screening a little trip that they did, and we're

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Speaker 1: at this on a great trip. I'm on an amazing trip.

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Speaker 1: And you know what's really cool, I'm here with like

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Speaker 1: all the other people with girls here are like twenty

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Speaker 1: five and under, Like I'm the oldest by far. And

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Speaker 1: I was like, I was like, why did I get

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Speaker 1: the right becca, Like I kept hearing that I was

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Speaker 1: going to show up and they were gonna be like,

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Speaker 1: was like, are you talking about back a Toby, like

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Speaker 1: right Becca and the girls that are in charge of

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Speaker 1: the trip that work pre Paramount are huge fans of

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Speaker 1: the podcast. So I was like, we got budget, baby,

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Speaker 1: because you guys are staying at a nice hotel. Well

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Speaker 1: also they I've been on Like so when I used

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Speaker 1: and they were always like really thoughtful and like there

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Speaker 1: people just were like, no, it's not worth it because

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Speaker 1: we're not getting anything out of it. This trip. It

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Speaker 1: feels like when I first started doing this, it's been

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Speaker 1: So I love malls. I worship mall people. And Rick

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Speaker 1: Caruso who has developed the Grove of the Americana that's

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Speaker 1: it's crazy. Yeah, I love that Rosewood hotel, But I

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Speaker 1: in that one. Well, yeah, it's a dream. There's something

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Speaker 1: very symbolic about like looking at an ocean, which is

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Speaker 1: just like infinity. It's like there's like infinite water and

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Speaker 1: and an ocean, there's just something about it. Wow, that's

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Speaker 1: I've never put those two as a symbolic thing together.

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Speaker 1: But I love that you did that. But I'll take it.

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Speaker 1: We got married on Lake Michigan. You cannot see the

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Speaker 1: other side, so it was an infinite horizon. I've never been.

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Speaker 1: I've always wanted to go to Lake Michigan. I'm sorry

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Speaker 1: I didn't know you when we got married. I would

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Speaker 1: have invited you. That's what I was looking for. I

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Speaker 1: But like Michigan, that's a yeah, I don't think I've

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Speaker 1: you know, it's interesting. Red Star was talking to me

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Speaker 1: she has been using it. It just seems like a

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Speaker 1: But you know, you can't just pull over on the

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Speaker 1: an actual place, right, you can do it in like Walmart,

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Speaker 1: at six bucks ago? It's definitely not. No, it's not

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Speaker 1: getting the prius and have a good time. Yeah. Actually,

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Speaker 1: you bring up a great point. Uh, well, you know,

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Speaker 1: Oh my god, we so much to catch up on. Also,

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Speaker 1: Friday morning. I'll be there like before you guys wake up,

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Speaker 1: springbreakers were. I have never felt so elderly in my life,

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Speaker 1: but I was like, I can imagine because that squid

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Speaker 1: I'm ready for whatever Kabo has to offer. A bachelorette party.

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Speaker 1: basically so like, buck up, you really rushed the year.

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Speaker 1: I didn't do that to call myself down. You know

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Speaker 1: You're right because because everyone always says I should be

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Speaker 1: more in the moment, I want to work on that.

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Speaker 1: I want to live more in the moment. Becca's two

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Speaker 1: I'm like, this is dark. It's very dark to say

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Speaker 1: get a response. Oh I couldn't tell you who it was. Yeah, yeah, yeah,

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Speaker 1: they like attach a guy. They attached his name, his info,

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Speaker 1: to email somebody when you know that they're like in

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Speaker 1: doing her job. Maybe she listened to some episodes where

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Speaker 1: I constantly get messages and they're like, oh, I can't

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Speaker 1: Like that's very nice, But I have found that four

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Speaker 1: years ago, four years ago, is it gonna be five soon? No,

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Speaker 1: it's gonna be four times four. You almost four. So

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Speaker 1: I was trying to rush to next year. Already was April,

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Speaker 1: April's four? Got it? Okay? Yeah? And basically like, wh

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Speaker 1: what just throwing it out there, I proposed it for okay, relax, Mark,

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Speaker 1: marky Mark right, Marcus just reiterating, um market is just

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Speaker 1: reinforcing facts from his past, not projecting onto your future

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Speaker 1: exact exactly, Okay, Okay, I hear that, um I have

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Speaker 1: continue the podcast, but on not know, I gotta go,

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Speaker 1: So Beca's gotta go. We have some great interviews for

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Speaker 1: and I'm just excited about them. You know, we don't

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Speaker 1: We just get upper echelon exactly. Yeah, very good, perfect, yeah,

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Speaker 1: brushing it today White the Hella Balue. Um. So I'll

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Speaker 1: be back on my regular schedule next week for a

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Speaker 1: longer podcast that we Owe you, And this is just

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Speaker 1: whole new episode on Thursday with Colton Underwood, so definitely

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Speaker 1: check that out. I love you guys. I'm gonna go

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Speaker 1: Adventure the Law City and uh we'll see Thursday. Enjoy.

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