1 00:00:01,040 --> 00:00:06,400 Speaker 1: Conversations on life, style, beauty, and relationships. It's The Velvet's 2 00:00:06,440 --> 00:00:08,200 Speaker 1: Edge Podcast with Kelly Henderson. 3 00:00:08,560 --> 00:00:12,000 Speaker 2: All Right, I am here with our favorite master astrologer, 4 00:00:12,200 --> 00:00:13,120 Speaker 2: Marvin Wilkerson. 5 00:00:13,280 --> 00:00:15,000 Speaker 3: Hi Marv, Hello, miss Kelly. 6 00:00:15,200 --> 00:00:18,880 Speaker 2: We were just talking about a lot of things. There's 7 00:00:18,920 --> 00:00:20,840 Speaker 2: a lot. I'm just going to kind of get into 8 00:00:20,880 --> 00:00:22,159 Speaker 2: it because I feel like we have a lot to 9 00:00:22,200 --> 00:00:26,760 Speaker 2: dive sack today. And I told you that the word 10 00:00:26,800 --> 00:00:28,800 Speaker 2: of the month. It came up for me actually when 11 00:00:28,800 --> 00:00:31,240 Speaker 2: I was reading the full Moon outline that you sent me, 12 00:00:31,600 --> 00:00:34,160 Speaker 2: because there were a couple things that mention the word 13 00:00:34,320 --> 00:00:37,879 Speaker 2: confront and I feel like that's a serious energy that 14 00:00:37,920 --> 00:00:41,120 Speaker 2: we've been facing even the past couple years, Like everything 15 00:00:41,200 --> 00:00:44,400 Speaker 2: feels like it's being brought to the surface, and the 16 00:00:44,479 --> 00:00:47,280 Speaker 2: answer for us seems to be that we're being invited 17 00:00:47,320 --> 00:00:51,319 Speaker 2: into how we're going to walk through those things, how 18 00:00:51,320 --> 00:00:53,000 Speaker 2: we're going to face them, are we going to deal 19 00:00:53,040 --> 00:00:56,320 Speaker 2: with them? Like you've said before, all the corruption and 20 00:00:56,400 --> 00:00:59,440 Speaker 2: all of the systems that are broken in our world 21 00:00:59,520 --> 00:01:03,680 Speaker 2: are being magnified right now, like we're seeing that and 22 00:01:03,720 --> 00:01:06,720 Speaker 2: that energy isn't changing. So Chip and I, my co 23 00:01:06,760 --> 00:01:09,759 Speaker 2: host in this podcast, decided we would really just focus 24 00:01:09,920 --> 00:01:13,240 Speaker 2: on that this month and the ways in which we 25 00:01:13,319 --> 00:01:15,959 Speaker 2: can kind of use that energy and work with that 26 00:01:16,160 --> 00:01:19,080 Speaker 2: energy in a maybe a more calming way for us 27 00:01:19,200 --> 00:01:22,600 Speaker 2: or a more positive way. So I think we wanted 28 00:01:22,640 --> 00:01:25,600 Speaker 2: to start with we just had the Sagittarius full moon. 29 00:01:25,959 --> 00:01:28,319 Speaker 4: That was a huge full moon. 30 00:01:28,520 --> 00:01:31,360 Speaker 2: I felt it big time, and I saw my life 31 00:01:31,400 --> 00:01:35,240 Speaker 2: seemed somewhat stable, which is shocking around a full moon, 32 00:01:36,240 --> 00:01:40,120 Speaker 2: but a lot a lot of things and relationships around 33 00:01:40,120 --> 00:01:44,160 Speaker 2: me there I was noticing just really intense things being 34 00:01:44,200 --> 00:01:47,600 Speaker 2: brought up for people. Can you kind of just talk 35 00:01:47,640 --> 00:01:49,800 Speaker 2: through the full moon first, because I know you said, 36 00:01:49,800 --> 00:01:54,559 Speaker 2: we're still feeling that energy for fourteen days after it happens. 37 00:01:55,600 --> 00:02:04,200 Speaker 3: Well, you know, at this a sagittary areas is higher consciousness, 38 00:02:04,240 --> 00:02:11,280 Speaker 3: super consciousness, and it's it operates very quickly. It's a 39 00:02:11,320 --> 00:02:11,960 Speaker 3: fire sign. 40 00:02:12,400 --> 00:02:12,840 Speaker 4: Yeah. 41 00:02:13,680 --> 00:02:19,880 Speaker 3: So this full moon is really a point of the 42 00:02:21,000 --> 00:02:24,400 Speaker 3: of a great turning point as we start moving towards 43 00:02:24,800 --> 00:02:30,040 Speaker 3: the summer solstice around the nineteenth twenty third of the month. 44 00:02:30,919 --> 00:02:36,080 Speaker 3: So where this is all a very important time that 45 00:02:38,280 --> 00:02:42,720 Speaker 3: we need to utilize that higher mind. You know, I'm 46 00:02:42,880 --> 00:02:51,200 Speaker 3: always talking about in the intuition and the the higher understanding. 47 00:02:52,200 --> 00:02:57,320 Speaker 3: So that's what sagittarius is. It's higher learning. Well, what's 48 00:02:57,360 --> 00:03:01,600 Speaker 3: the highest of all learning is listening to our soul, 49 00:03:01,800 --> 00:03:07,840 Speaker 3: our spirit. It's uh, And Sagittarius is all about focus, 50 00:03:08,720 --> 00:03:13,280 Speaker 3: so it's bringing everything into focus. And one of the 51 00:03:13,280 --> 00:03:19,320 Speaker 3: things about Sagittarius is this is a this is the 52 00:03:19,360 --> 00:03:23,800 Speaker 3: turning point of the evolution of the soul as we 53 00:03:24,200 --> 00:03:30,240 Speaker 3: descend in the matter and then we awaken to spirit. 54 00:03:31,560 --> 00:03:36,120 Speaker 3: So this is uh, the you know, we're dealing in 55 00:03:36,160 --> 00:03:40,560 Speaker 3: a third dimension world, but we should be listening to 56 00:03:40,720 --> 00:03:46,120 Speaker 3: our fifth dimension reality. That makes sense, which you have 57 00:03:46,200 --> 00:03:51,400 Speaker 3: to higher intuition, higher mindedness, and so you are always 58 00:03:51,440 --> 00:03:57,760 Speaker 3: looking for breakthroughs and understanding. And this is the guidance 59 00:03:58,200 --> 00:04:03,200 Speaker 3: system that we need to follow. And of course this 60 00:04:03,600 --> 00:04:06,480 Speaker 3: is the full moon from the new moon in. 61 00:04:06,640 --> 00:04:10,920 Speaker 4: Tarus right, which is mid of May. 62 00:04:11,280 --> 00:04:15,320 Speaker 3: R was the mid month of May, and of course 63 00:04:15,920 --> 00:04:19,680 Speaker 3: Jupiter went into Tarus. And you know, we've talked to 64 00:04:19,760 --> 00:04:23,359 Speaker 3: Lot Kelly about values. I'm always talking about values, and 65 00:04:23,400 --> 00:04:26,320 Speaker 3: I got sick of hearing just the word values, because 66 00:04:26,440 --> 00:04:29,120 Speaker 3: values is a hell of a lot deeper than just value. 67 00:04:29,920 --> 00:04:32,600 Speaker 3: I mean when you say values, well that just kind 68 00:04:32,640 --> 00:04:34,640 Speaker 3: of rolls off the tongue, and I mean you know 69 00:04:35,920 --> 00:04:39,080 Speaker 3: that you just kind of okay, that's what I value, 70 00:04:39,240 --> 00:04:46,400 Speaker 3: well values. When we look at Tarus, Tarus is about survival. 71 00:04:47,800 --> 00:04:52,000 Speaker 3: You know, Arees was that action oriented energy we got 72 00:04:52,040 --> 00:04:57,320 Speaker 3: started in April at the spring equinox to where we 73 00:04:57,480 --> 00:05:00,320 Speaker 3: just take action. We're coming out of winter, We're taking action. 74 00:05:00,839 --> 00:05:07,880 Speaker 3: It's the pioneer, it's the courageous adventurer, it's the leader. Well, 75 00:05:08,279 --> 00:05:12,120 Speaker 3: when we get to where we're going, you better, you 76 00:05:12,240 --> 00:05:18,080 Speaker 3: better plant yourself, you better start uh formulating a foundation, 77 00:05:18,839 --> 00:05:24,800 Speaker 3: a place to stay, a place to live. So I 78 00:05:24,920 --> 00:05:31,640 Speaker 3: always use the symbolism of uh when we get into Taurus. 79 00:05:32,800 --> 00:05:36,200 Speaker 3: This is actually learning how to survive in the third dimension. 80 00:05:37,880 --> 00:05:40,280 Speaker 3: I mean, if you went to a whole new land 81 00:05:40,400 --> 00:05:43,720 Speaker 3: or an island, you'd have to search around and go 82 00:05:43,800 --> 00:05:47,640 Speaker 3: around and find out your what food to eat? Uh, 83 00:05:47,800 --> 00:05:52,479 Speaker 3: what shelter you had, what what what you had to 84 00:05:52,560 --> 00:05:58,600 Speaker 3: collect to build your your place to stay comfortable and 85 00:05:58,640 --> 00:06:02,080 Speaker 3: so forth. Yeah, whether it's in the winter or cold 86 00:06:02,200 --> 00:06:06,039 Speaker 3: or heat or whatever. So when you're looking at Tarus, 87 00:06:06,880 --> 00:06:09,960 Speaker 3: Tarus is about you know your abilities. I mean, you 88 00:06:10,000 --> 00:06:13,120 Speaker 3: know when you have if you're on an island, you 89 00:06:13,200 --> 00:06:17,919 Speaker 3: better have some abilities and talents, but we're all born 90 00:06:18,040 --> 00:06:24,359 Speaker 3: with talent's abilities and tools. We all have abilities. So 91 00:06:25,120 --> 00:06:31,560 Speaker 3: these are values, our abilities are need for survival. And 92 00:06:31,600 --> 00:06:34,839 Speaker 3: then the final piece of that is why the hell 93 00:06:34,920 --> 00:06:40,320 Speaker 3: do we even want to be here in the third dimension? Well, 94 00:06:40,360 --> 00:06:44,279 Speaker 3: because it's got a lot of nice pleasures. Yeah, so 95 00:06:45,200 --> 00:06:50,480 Speaker 3: it's our job to establish the enjoyments and the pleasures 96 00:06:50,520 --> 00:06:55,200 Speaker 3: in life. Tarus is about you know, everybody talks about 97 00:06:55,240 --> 00:07:02,240 Speaker 3: sexuality and Scorpio. Well, sexuality is actually a Taurus issue really, 98 00:07:02,279 --> 00:07:08,160 Speaker 3: because that's a yes, because that's the feeling, that's the 99 00:07:08,920 --> 00:07:14,200 Speaker 3: taste and smelling, hearing, sound of of what you're what 100 00:07:14,280 --> 00:07:18,680 Speaker 3: you enjoy about the pleasures of the physical world. And 101 00:07:18,800 --> 00:07:24,520 Speaker 3: so we're looking for those pleasures of why do we 102 00:07:24,560 --> 00:07:25,280 Speaker 3: want to be here? 103 00:07:26,280 --> 00:07:28,320 Speaker 2: This makes so much sense to me. You know, since 104 00:07:28,360 --> 00:07:31,280 Speaker 2: you've brought up the word values the last couple of months, 105 00:07:32,000 --> 00:07:34,720 Speaker 2: I have been starting to pay attention and ask myself 106 00:07:35,000 --> 00:07:39,200 Speaker 2: those questions. And it's so interesting because I don't think 107 00:07:39,240 --> 00:07:42,640 Speaker 2: I realized maybe how much I didn't even think. 108 00:07:42,440 --> 00:07:44,120 Speaker 4: About what are my values? 109 00:07:44,560 --> 00:07:47,480 Speaker 2: And I think we like go through life often and 110 00:07:48,120 --> 00:07:51,640 Speaker 2: things that are what I would equate to our value 111 00:07:51,720 --> 00:07:54,480 Speaker 2: my values now, like the things that I value, or 112 00:07:54,960 --> 00:07:57,680 Speaker 2: like what you're saying, my skill sets, the ways that 113 00:07:57,680 --> 00:08:00,880 Speaker 2: I survive all of those things. I wasn't even conscious 114 00:08:00,920 --> 00:08:03,440 Speaker 2: of them. I was just doing and thinking them, and 115 00:08:03,480 --> 00:08:06,400 Speaker 2: so I just assumed that they were the same for everyone. 116 00:08:07,040 --> 00:08:09,400 Speaker 2: But what's been interesting is the more that I get 117 00:08:09,400 --> 00:08:12,360 Speaker 2: in touch with what my value system is and what 118 00:08:12,560 --> 00:08:16,200 Speaker 2: my purposes and what my skill sets are, it helps 119 00:08:16,280 --> 00:08:19,240 Speaker 2: me to not only align in my own life, but 120 00:08:19,280 --> 00:08:22,960 Speaker 2: to align in like my relationships and my job, Like 121 00:08:23,000 --> 00:08:25,640 Speaker 2: what am I actually bringing to the table here? What 122 00:08:25,760 --> 00:08:29,520 Speaker 2: am I actually able to show up for? What could 123 00:08:29,560 --> 00:08:32,240 Speaker 2: I do better? Where can I like expand on that? 124 00:08:32,360 --> 00:08:36,040 Speaker 2: Or in relationships it's like, are these are these people 125 00:08:36,080 --> 00:08:38,760 Speaker 2: really in line with my values? Am I trying to 126 00:08:38,840 --> 00:08:41,400 Speaker 2: force my values on them? What can I learn from 127 00:08:41,440 --> 00:08:42,240 Speaker 2: their values? 128 00:08:42,280 --> 00:08:42,480 Speaker 4: You know? 129 00:08:42,559 --> 00:08:45,640 Speaker 2: Like all those kind of questions, And it's been really 130 00:08:45,720 --> 00:08:49,600 Speaker 2: interesting and insightful to me, Like it's helped me, I think, 131 00:08:50,200 --> 00:08:52,880 Speaker 2: kind of grow more into my authentic self by kind 132 00:08:52,880 --> 00:08:56,920 Speaker 2: of asking myself those questions precisely. 133 00:08:57,200 --> 00:09:00,760 Speaker 3: And that's what Taurus is. It's about a statishing all 134 00:09:00,800 --> 00:09:03,440 Speaker 3: of that. The words that I picked out that I 135 00:09:03,559 --> 00:09:12,520 Speaker 3: really enjoyed were attitude, principles, morality, eediology, and our viewpoints. See, 136 00:09:12,520 --> 00:09:14,560 Speaker 3: we have to have all of those to survive on 137 00:09:14,600 --> 00:09:19,160 Speaker 3: our island. And when we get into relationship, we actually 138 00:09:19,160 --> 00:09:23,240 Speaker 3: come to the table and we say, hey, this is 139 00:09:23,360 --> 00:09:28,080 Speaker 3: what's important in my life and my values and my principles, 140 00:09:28,800 --> 00:09:33,040 Speaker 3: and I'm willing to offer these up to the relationship. 141 00:09:33,320 --> 00:09:34,960 Speaker 3: What do you have to offer? 142 00:09:35,520 --> 00:09:35,840 Speaker 4: Right? 143 00:09:36,400 --> 00:09:37,079 Speaker 3: Right? 144 00:09:37,559 --> 00:09:41,760 Speaker 2: And that makes it there's space for more, like there's 145 00:09:41,760 --> 00:09:44,800 Speaker 2: space for two people. Like I've had issues in the past. 146 00:09:45,679 --> 00:09:49,120 Speaker 2: Looking back, I'm like, oh, so much of our conflict 147 00:09:49,320 --> 00:09:53,679 Speaker 2: was because we weren't aligned in values, and neither one 148 00:09:53,720 --> 00:09:57,760 Speaker 2: of us were appreciating the other person's values. So instead 149 00:09:57,800 --> 00:10:00,720 Speaker 2: of like going, wow, well you bring this to the 150 00:10:00,760 --> 00:10:03,200 Speaker 2: table and oh, I see that that's very important for you, 151 00:10:03,320 --> 00:10:06,240 Speaker 2: it was like, why don't you see it through this lens? 152 00:10:06,320 --> 00:10:10,800 Speaker 2: You know, like, and that's not really how it works, right. 153 00:10:11,440 --> 00:10:14,240 Speaker 3: That's why I always say, what do I say about 154 00:10:14,240 --> 00:10:20,680 Speaker 3: relations to ships? Fall in love of someone, not in someone? Yes, 155 00:10:20,800 --> 00:10:24,320 Speaker 3: by fall in love with you, I need your values 156 00:10:24,679 --> 00:10:27,760 Speaker 3: to line up with mine, right, But if I fall 157 00:10:27,840 --> 00:10:32,680 Speaker 3: in love of you, I can enjoy you with your 158 00:10:32,800 --> 00:10:37,120 Speaker 3: values and what you have to offer without trying to 159 00:10:37,360 --> 00:10:44,840 Speaker 3: control and power over you, Scorpio, because now we're two 160 00:10:44,960 --> 00:10:46,600 Speaker 3: individual people. 161 00:10:46,800 --> 00:10:48,960 Speaker 4: Right, that's finally beating for me. 162 00:10:49,280 --> 00:10:54,720 Speaker 3: Yeah, that's the importance of our beliefs and principles and 163 00:10:54,760 --> 00:11:02,080 Speaker 3: moralities and viewpoints and ideology. That's value. So as we're 164 00:11:02,559 --> 00:11:11,760 Speaker 3: moving into it's this is also we're we're trying to 165 00:11:12,040 --> 00:11:17,280 Speaker 3: discover our values and our and what you said was 166 00:11:17,320 --> 00:11:22,760 Speaker 3: the magic word my authentic self. See, it's the authentic 167 00:11:22,880 --> 00:11:27,400 Speaker 3: self that has your values. Yeah, so you're you're taking 168 00:11:28,440 --> 00:11:32,280 Speaker 3: when I looked at this uh and looked at that 169 00:11:32,480 --> 00:11:41,360 Speaker 3: new moon, there's a spiritual process that goes on with Taurus, 170 00:11:41,880 --> 00:11:51,360 Speaker 3: with with this whole value concept. And when we're using 171 00:11:51,559 --> 00:11:57,040 Speaker 3: guidance to travel this journey in on in this planet, 172 00:11:58,040 --> 00:12:02,680 Speaker 3: well then it just unfolds. M hm. It isn't it isn't. 173 00:12:04,120 --> 00:12:08,360 Speaker 3: It isn't confrontational. But when we don't use it, and 174 00:12:08,360 --> 00:12:13,080 Speaker 3: when we're using our ego personality to walk this planet, 175 00:12:13,880 --> 00:12:17,319 Speaker 3: well that's a power and control mechanism. And the and 176 00:12:17,360 --> 00:12:21,199 Speaker 3: then the fear of survival. I mean, just think of that. 177 00:12:21,640 --> 00:12:27,120 Speaker 3: The Taurus is about that survival tech pie. Well, what 178 00:12:27,240 --> 00:12:32,080 Speaker 3: if you have a weak Tarus value system, Well then 179 00:12:32,120 --> 00:12:37,040 Speaker 3: you're you're all about survival. Yeah, whether it's survival in 180 00:12:37,080 --> 00:12:41,240 Speaker 3: a relationship, survival in a in a group, and survival 181 00:12:41,280 --> 00:12:48,440 Speaker 3: on the planet. You see. So Saturn, I mean Saturn 182 00:12:49,080 --> 00:12:54,440 Speaker 3: cars is about trusting yourself, believing in yourself, believing in 183 00:12:54,480 --> 00:12:59,360 Speaker 3: your ability to handle whatever comes at you. And of course, 184 00:12:59,440 --> 00:13:05,200 Speaker 3: now then when we move into that full moon and Sagittarius, 185 00:13:05,240 --> 00:13:12,240 Speaker 3: this time, we're trying to discover the breakthroughs of how 186 00:13:12,280 --> 00:13:18,079 Speaker 3: to make progress, how to communicate and communicate with our 187 00:13:18,640 --> 00:13:23,480 Speaker 3: intuitive surges, because Sagittarius is very intuition. I mean that's 188 00:13:24,240 --> 00:13:29,040 Speaker 3: psychic par excellence. I mean, you know what, Scorpio has 189 00:13:29,040 --> 00:13:33,480 Speaker 3: a thin veil and they live in this supersensitivity in 190 00:13:33,520 --> 00:13:38,800 Speaker 3: that veil. But it's Sagittarius that brings spirit into focus. 191 00:13:39,200 --> 00:13:45,199 Speaker 3: See that follows Scorpio. So in other words, now we're 192 00:13:45,440 --> 00:13:50,880 Speaker 3: using instead of the Scorpio power and control problems. We're 193 00:13:51,080 --> 00:13:58,199 Speaker 3: using that spiritual communication and information to now move forward 194 00:13:58,800 --> 00:14:03,120 Speaker 3: in this life through the guidance of spirit. Who are you? 195 00:14:04,240 --> 00:14:06,360 Speaker 2: I read a lot of what you wrote about the 196 00:14:06,400 --> 00:14:09,400 Speaker 2: Sagittarius new moon. It was kind of pinging to me 197 00:14:09,679 --> 00:14:13,760 Speaker 2: about just the integration, Like I feel like a lot 198 00:14:13,800 --> 00:14:16,960 Speaker 2: of what came before. This has been a learning for us. 199 00:14:17,160 --> 00:14:19,600 Speaker 2: And so then now it's like you think you wrote 200 00:14:19,640 --> 00:14:22,440 Speaker 2: the words walk the talk, and it's like, are you 201 00:14:22,600 --> 00:14:26,440 Speaker 2: going to take the information you learned then and apply 202 00:14:26,600 --> 00:14:28,880 Speaker 2: it into your life in certain situations? And I know, 203 00:14:29,040 --> 00:14:32,000 Speaker 2: for me, what I was saying about like what's come 204 00:14:32,120 --> 00:14:34,080 Speaker 2: up around this moon? And I don't know if anyone 205 00:14:34,120 --> 00:14:36,520 Speaker 2: listening has heard this either, but it's like or felt 206 00:14:36,520 --> 00:14:41,360 Speaker 2: this too, but it's it's this thing of situations presenting 207 00:14:41,400 --> 00:14:45,560 Speaker 2: themselves that can for me, they felt very familiar to 208 00:14:45,680 --> 00:14:48,120 Speaker 2: things that I've gone through in the past or you know, 209 00:14:49,080 --> 00:14:51,680 Speaker 2: I mean, like very similar. And it was like, okay, 210 00:14:51,720 --> 00:14:53,280 Speaker 2: now are you going to do it the same way? 211 00:14:53,360 --> 00:14:55,360 Speaker 2: Are you going to take what you learned this last 212 00:14:55,360 --> 00:14:59,640 Speaker 2: time and try to apply those tools and do it differently? 213 00:14:59,800 --> 00:15:02,920 Speaker 2: Like maybe it looks like the same situation, but it's 214 00:15:03,000 --> 00:15:06,280 Speaker 2: probably not. It's probably just an opportunity to integrate. 215 00:15:07,520 --> 00:15:09,200 Speaker 4: That's what I felt, at least. 216 00:15:09,240 --> 00:15:16,239 Speaker 3: Well, I think that's absolutely perfectly uh communicated perfectly said. 217 00:15:16,560 --> 00:15:21,160 Speaker 3: I mean, you know, so when we're in sag we've 218 00:15:21,320 --> 00:15:24,560 Speaker 3: we've got to make sure because sage is also can 219 00:15:24,600 --> 00:15:28,320 Speaker 3: be an exaggeration, and I mean, you know, these these 220 00:15:28,360 --> 00:15:33,720 Speaker 3: are the the zodiac pirates and bandits, I mean, and 221 00:15:33,720 --> 00:15:38,720 Speaker 3: and also the one swinging from the chandelier when the party's. 222 00:15:38,360 --> 00:15:40,200 Speaker 4: Over, right right. 223 00:15:40,640 --> 00:15:48,160 Speaker 3: So exaggeration is a big Sagittarius word as well. But 224 00:15:48,240 --> 00:15:52,160 Speaker 3: we're looking for those sudden urges and we're looking for 225 00:15:52,240 --> 00:15:58,920 Speaker 3: those exaggerated actions and desires. Where do we make it 226 00:15:59,000 --> 00:16:04,320 Speaker 3: too big, too much over indulgence. That's a big Sagittarius 227 00:16:04,360 --> 00:16:09,480 Speaker 3: word versus you know, keeping the you know, keeping the 228 00:16:09,560 --> 00:16:15,960 Speaker 3: middle way, keeping in keeping in harmony. So and when 229 00:16:15,960 --> 00:16:18,840 Speaker 3: we expand out and we look at the macrocosm and 230 00:16:18,840 --> 00:16:22,000 Speaker 3: look at society, I think it's pushing a lot of 231 00:16:22,080 --> 00:16:26,200 Speaker 3: buttons about social morality right now. And the whole political 232 00:16:26,320 --> 00:16:30,920 Speaker 3: environment is pushing the buttons about our social morality in 233 00:16:31,000 --> 00:16:34,840 Speaker 3: the whole country. And I think that that's what's disturbing 234 00:16:35,520 --> 00:16:41,120 Speaker 3: and is probably that's probably responsible, not even probably, but 235 00:16:41,200 --> 00:16:45,280 Speaker 3: that's responsible for such polarization that we're all going through 236 00:16:45,360 --> 00:16:49,440 Speaker 3: right now, whether it's individually, when we're looking out at 237 00:16:49,480 --> 00:16:52,000 Speaker 3: what the hell is going on with people? What are 238 00:16:52,040 --> 00:16:57,760 Speaker 3: they thinking? And I think that this is how we've 239 00:16:57,800 --> 00:17:01,720 Speaker 3: got to come to a sense of balance and a 240 00:17:01,760 --> 00:17:08,040 Speaker 3: sense of what that confrontation is showing us internally. So 241 00:17:08,200 --> 00:17:12,040 Speaker 3: when we get into conference, when we get into that experience, 242 00:17:12,920 --> 00:17:16,360 Speaker 3: what we're really experiencing on the macro cosm as we're 243 00:17:16,359 --> 00:17:21,120 Speaker 3: experiencing in the microk what we see going on in 244 00:17:21,160 --> 00:17:25,440 Speaker 3: society is what's going on inside of us, and we're 245 00:17:25,440 --> 00:17:32,760 Speaker 3: and then when we get into that an evaluation, what 246 00:17:32,800 --> 00:17:36,920 Speaker 3: we're fearful of is the change to who We're fearful of, 247 00:17:37,440 --> 00:17:41,119 Speaker 3: what this could mean, what could it bring about, and 248 00:17:41,160 --> 00:17:44,480 Speaker 3: that kind of questions what maybe might be, could be, 249 00:17:44,600 --> 00:17:51,320 Speaker 3: should be, And so that's what challenges our values, our 250 00:17:51,560 --> 00:17:58,800 Speaker 3: sense of equilibrium, our sense of balance. And so this 251 00:17:58,920 --> 00:18:03,320 Speaker 3: is this is part of the big deal because you 252 00:18:03,359 --> 00:18:10,080 Speaker 3: so we get comfortable in how we think life should be, 253 00:18:10,720 --> 00:18:15,800 Speaker 3: and then when we get into confrontation, we get into 254 00:18:15,840 --> 00:18:19,359 Speaker 3: the fear of change. And that fear of change is 255 00:18:19,400 --> 00:18:23,919 Speaker 3: connected to your attachment to your own selfishness. So, in 256 00:18:23,960 --> 00:18:30,040 Speaker 3: other words, where are we so selfish in fearing you know, 257 00:18:30,440 --> 00:18:34,920 Speaker 3: what society is offering right now instead of just being 258 00:18:35,000 --> 00:18:39,640 Speaker 3: confident that spirit's in charge of all of it. I mean, 259 00:18:39,640 --> 00:18:43,720 Speaker 3: how many times did I said you do nothing? We 260 00:18:43,760 --> 00:18:44,320 Speaker 3: do nothing? 261 00:18:44,680 --> 00:18:45,280 Speaker 4: Yeah? 262 00:18:45,720 --> 00:18:47,600 Speaker 3: Oh, I read a book a long time ago. It 263 00:18:47,640 --> 00:18:50,920 Speaker 3: was a great book. It's called The Spirit Destiny by 264 00:18:50,960 --> 00:18:54,840 Speaker 3: Trevor Ravenscroft, and it was about the spear that actually 265 00:18:54,960 --> 00:18:59,159 Speaker 3: hit Jesus in the side. And near the end of 266 00:18:59,200 --> 00:19:01,719 Speaker 3: the book it was really interesting and I got into 267 00:19:01,760 --> 00:19:07,480 Speaker 3: the fact that as above, so below, we don't understand 268 00:19:07,520 --> 00:19:14,280 Speaker 3: that spiritual battles are taking place above to mirror what's 269 00:19:14,320 --> 00:19:19,960 Speaker 3: going down here. So in other words, we are spiritual 270 00:19:20,160 --> 00:19:25,520 Speaker 3: beings learning to be in balance and stay in that 271 00:19:26,359 --> 00:19:32,080 Speaker 3: balance place of spirit and the soul instead of the 272 00:19:32,160 --> 00:19:38,119 Speaker 3: ego personality, which is the cause of imbalance. And so yes, 273 00:19:38,359 --> 00:19:43,240 Speaker 3: the spiritual realms are fighting battles that we're fighting down here, 274 00:19:43,600 --> 00:19:48,600 Speaker 3: as above, so below. So you know, it's like people 275 00:19:48,680 --> 00:19:51,080 Speaker 3: come in here and say, well, I meditate all the time, 276 00:19:51,119 --> 00:19:56,600 Speaker 3: and I'm getting all of these really scary images. Why 277 00:19:56,600 --> 00:20:00,720 Speaker 3: wouldn't you Everything is there, What do you mean, Well, 278 00:20:00,760 --> 00:20:04,480 Speaker 3: you're in the marphic field, you're in the pontum reality. 279 00:20:04,720 --> 00:20:09,280 Speaker 3: All is God, there is no separation. We make it 280 00:20:09,400 --> 00:20:14,320 Speaker 3: good and bad in our minds, and our minds are 281 00:20:14,440 --> 00:20:21,040 Speaker 3: the filter for what we're experiencing from our minimalist view, 282 00:20:22,240 --> 00:20:24,440 Speaker 3: and then we make it good or bad and we 283 00:20:24,520 --> 00:20:28,600 Speaker 3: pomeriize it. And so this is kind of what we're 284 00:20:28,640 --> 00:20:32,040 Speaker 3: going through as we start now moving into the Gemini 285 00:20:32,160 --> 00:20:38,359 Speaker 3: New Moon on the eighteenth. Gemini is duality, so communications 286 00:20:39,080 --> 00:20:45,440 Speaker 3: and everything is dual. And the challenge with Gemini is 287 00:20:47,119 --> 00:20:51,720 Speaker 3: to resolve the conflict between the ego and the shadow 288 00:20:52,440 --> 00:20:57,480 Speaker 3: in any given personality. And so the ego strives to 289 00:20:57,560 --> 00:21:01,919 Speaker 3: take the conscious path, whether the founded in the individual 290 00:21:02,000 --> 00:21:05,919 Speaker 3: will the mores of society at large, and the shadow 291 00:21:06,800 --> 00:21:12,280 Speaker 3: represents the values we have repressed or refused to acknowledge 292 00:21:13,320 --> 00:21:19,520 Speaker 3: from several lifetimes or even in this lifetime. So values 293 00:21:20,119 --> 00:21:23,640 Speaker 3: can be either feral and violent or they can be 294 00:21:23,720 --> 00:21:29,200 Speaker 3: spiritual and transcended. And so depending on our value system 295 00:21:29,320 --> 00:21:34,520 Speaker 3: is how we use to shape the conscious mind. Remember 296 00:21:34,600 --> 00:21:40,040 Speaker 3: Carl Hume said, when the conscious mind knows the shadow, 297 00:21:40,160 --> 00:21:45,840 Speaker 3: stuff in the subconscious mind will be enlightened. So we're 298 00:21:45,880 --> 00:21:51,520 Speaker 3: here to understand all of our past where we've aired 299 00:21:51,680 --> 00:21:56,560 Speaker 3: in perception and perspective. And so this is what we 300 00:21:56,600 --> 00:22:01,520 Speaker 3: get in Gemini and why we polarize. We pull the 301 00:22:01,640 --> 00:22:05,600 Speaker 3: rise out of the fear of change, and that's connected 302 00:22:05,640 --> 00:22:08,760 Speaker 3: to our attachment to the status quo. 303 00:22:10,640 --> 00:22:14,960 Speaker 2: This always reminds me of that Buddhist story. I think 304 00:22:15,320 --> 00:22:17,159 Speaker 2: I've talked about it on the podcast. I don't know 305 00:22:17,160 --> 00:22:19,120 Speaker 2: if you and I have specifically talked about it about 306 00:22:19,160 --> 00:22:22,240 Speaker 2: the farmer whose son gets injured. 307 00:22:22,760 --> 00:22:24,040 Speaker 4: Have we talked about that? 308 00:22:24,920 --> 00:22:25,760 Speaker 3: I don't remember that. 309 00:22:25,920 --> 00:22:29,320 Speaker 2: He basically, basically the gist of the story is all 310 00:22:29,359 --> 00:22:31,639 Speaker 2: of these things start happening to this farmer, like his 311 00:22:31,800 --> 00:22:34,640 Speaker 2: crop dies, and the whole town freaks out and they're like, 312 00:22:35,200 --> 00:22:38,280 Speaker 2: oh my god, this is so terrible, and he's like, 313 00:22:38,359 --> 00:22:40,960 Speaker 2: I don't know if it's terrible, like you know, a 314 00:22:41,000 --> 00:22:43,399 Speaker 2: guess we'll see or whatever. And then something happens where 315 00:22:43,680 --> 00:22:46,199 Speaker 2: he ends up developing in this whole new crop and 316 00:22:46,240 --> 00:22:48,400 Speaker 2: it's all this stuff. And then it's like his son 317 00:22:48,520 --> 00:22:51,320 Speaker 2: is working out with the horses and falls off one 318 00:22:51,320 --> 00:22:53,640 Speaker 2: of the horses and loses a leg, and the whole 319 00:22:53,640 --> 00:22:56,560 Speaker 2: town freaks out again and they're like, oh my god, 320 00:22:56,680 --> 00:22:59,080 Speaker 2: this is just so terrible. How will you survive? And 321 00:22:59,080 --> 00:23:01,480 Speaker 2: he's like, well, I don't know if it's terrible. And 322 00:23:01,560 --> 00:23:06,040 Speaker 2: then literally the week later, the whole town of young 323 00:23:06,119 --> 00:23:08,840 Speaker 2: men get sent off into war and they're killed in battle. 324 00:23:08,880 --> 00:23:10,920 Speaker 2: But his son couldn't go because he lost his leg 325 00:23:11,440 --> 00:23:13,400 Speaker 2: And so it's just like the idea that like, we 326 00:23:13,600 --> 00:23:16,880 Speaker 2: don't really know what the universe is up to at 327 00:23:16,920 --> 00:23:20,399 Speaker 2: any point in time, but if we attach to outcomes, 328 00:23:20,440 --> 00:23:23,240 Speaker 2: just as you're saying, we look at things like God, 329 00:23:23,280 --> 00:23:26,840 Speaker 2: this is terrible or this is bad, or that person's 330 00:23:26,880 --> 00:23:29,200 Speaker 2: bad or that person's good, and it's like no, it's 331 00:23:29,320 --> 00:23:31,880 Speaker 2: just all like we don't see the bigger picture always. 332 00:23:31,920 --> 00:23:34,360 Speaker 2: And so like I hear a lot of what you're 333 00:23:34,400 --> 00:23:39,000 Speaker 2: saying of just detachment and saying like, Okay, well this 334 00:23:39,080 --> 00:23:41,320 Speaker 2: is what's being presented to me. How do I navigate 335 00:23:41,359 --> 00:23:44,840 Speaker 2: the next right step instead of attaching to some outcome? 336 00:23:45,920 --> 00:23:51,080 Speaker 3: Yeah, yeah, I heard it from the standpoint of maybe 337 00:23:51,119 --> 00:23:51,919 Speaker 3: so maybe not. 338 00:23:52,800 --> 00:23:54,280 Speaker 4: Yeah, that's that's the story. 339 00:23:54,400 --> 00:23:59,760 Speaker 3: Yeah, it's the same. It's the same basis. And that's 340 00:23:59,800 --> 00:24:06,560 Speaker 3: part of the whole basic quantum physics idea of what 341 00:24:06,600 --> 00:24:11,239 Speaker 3: we look at is what changes, Right, So we're in 342 00:24:11,400 --> 00:24:17,479 Speaker 3: charge of looking at something and then manifesting it. If 343 00:24:17,520 --> 00:24:21,400 Speaker 3: there is no time in space, and what we look 344 00:24:21,480 --> 00:24:27,760 Speaker 3: at we change, that could be a very scarer reality 345 00:24:27,800 --> 00:24:30,399 Speaker 3: because if we look at it negative, we produce a 346 00:24:30,440 --> 00:24:34,520 Speaker 3: negative reality. If we look at it a positive, maybe 347 00:24:34,600 --> 00:24:40,200 Speaker 3: we'll produce the harmony of acceptance of what it is, yeah, 348 00:24:40,240 --> 00:24:43,480 Speaker 3: and wait to see how it plays out. 349 00:24:43,960 --> 00:24:49,000 Speaker 2: Yes, and so does that takes dropping the ego big 350 00:24:49,119 --> 00:24:52,200 Speaker 2: time because it's like we immediately or I know, I 351 00:24:52,200 --> 00:24:55,720 Speaker 2: immediately just want to go into control, fix, you know whatever. 352 00:24:55,760 --> 00:24:59,000 Speaker 2: And sometimes it is just about sitting back and waiting 353 00:24:59,000 --> 00:25:00,000 Speaker 2: to let things unfold. 354 00:25:01,160 --> 00:25:04,240 Speaker 3: Well. And this is why, I mean I struggle with 355 00:25:04,880 --> 00:25:07,600 Speaker 3: trying to get people to live in the moment, right. 356 00:25:08,560 --> 00:25:11,959 Speaker 3: I mean, I'll settle for living in one day at 357 00:25:11,960 --> 00:25:17,160 Speaker 3: a time, but living in the moment can be very, 358 00:25:17,240 --> 00:25:21,800 Speaker 3: very difficult, and it takes practice. Yeah, I mean, you know, 359 00:25:21,920 --> 00:25:24,119 Speaker 3: you just don't live in the moment. You have to 360 00:25:24,800 --> 00:25:29,160 Speaker 3: when you're confronted with anything that you're trying that's causing 361 00:25:29,240 --> 00:25:33,600 Speaker 3: any kind of imbalance, disharmony, or confusion. You're trying to 362 00:25:33,640 --> 00:25:37,520 Speaker 3: bring yourself back to center and say, all right, wait 363 00:25:37,520 --> 00:25:39,800 Speaker 3: a minute, what's going on right now? What's going on 364 00:25:39,880 --> 00:25:44,760 Speaker 3: right now? Yeah, And that way you can be much more, 365 00:25:44,960 --> 00:25:50,359 Speaker 3: much closer to the moment when when you're confronted with 366 00:25:50,480 --> 00:25:54,080 Speaker 3: something that could be difficult. And of course you know 367 00:25:54,160 --> 00:25:57,840 Speaker 3: we're going to go through a I mean we've already 368 00:25:57,920 --> 00:26:01,480 Speaker 3: started our political year and a half. Here we're going 369 00:26:01,600 --> 00:26:08,520 Speaker 3: to be going through communications and polarizations and heavy thoughts 370 00:26:08,520 --> 00:26:12,080 Speaker 3: and communications, and we're going to need to learn how 371 00:26:12,119 --> 00:26:17,840 Speaker 3: to step back from it think alone. I mean, you know, 372 00:26:18,080 --> 00:26:22,639 Speaker 3: we all we all need that space to reflect of 373 00:26:22,680 --> 00:26:26,439 Speaker 3: what's going on inside of us, what what what is 374 00:26:26,480 --> 00:26:29,960 Speaker 3: our real values? You talked about it earlier, and so 375 00:26:30,800 --> 00:26:34,760 Speaker 3: that's very important in Gemini as well. I mean, typically 376 00:26:34,840 --> 00:26:38,439 Speaker 3: Gemini is the squirrel cage of constant chatter in the 377 00:26:39,080 --> 00:26:43,400 Speaker 3: in the conscious mind, it doesn't shut up, so it's 378 00:26:43,440 --> 00:26:46,760 Speaker 3: always going and going and going and going. And when 379 00:26:46,840 --> 00:26:50,840 Speaker 3: people get attached to that conscious mind, well then that's 380 00:26:50,880 --> 00:26:55,600 Speaker 3: what the conscious mind wants. That ego wants recognition, and 381 00:26:55,640 --> 00:26:59,680 Speaker 3: it wants the power to manipulate and control you into 382 00:26:59,720 --> 00:27:04,919 Speaker 3: which way it sees that is best for you. So 383 00:27:05,160 --> 00:27:12,560 Speaker 3: we need to step back and think about where you know, 384 00:27:12,720 --> 00:27:15,960 Speaker 3: what it is it's important for us. I mean, you know, 385 00:27:16,160 --> 00:27:20,200 Speaker 3: we've got to I wrote down here, imitating the image 386 00:27:20,960 --> 00:27:26,760 Speaker 3: of one's idealized self until it becomes reality. Of the 387 00:27:26,920 --> 00:27:29,560 Speaker 3: One of the Buddhist things or one of the Yogi things, 388 00:27:29,680 --> 00:27:34,320 Speaker 3: is you know, whether you've achieved your greatness or haven't 389 00:27:35,280 --> 00:27:40,560 Speaker 3: see yourself has already having achieved it, and act like 390 00:27:40,640 --> 00:27:45,120 Speaker 3: it and become it, and that's the way you become 391 00:27:45,920 --> 00:27:46,959 Speaker 3: your higher self. 392 00:27:47,359 --> 00:27:51,240 Speaker 2: Yeah, that's true. In twelve step, they say act as if. 393 00:27:52,440 --> 00:27:59,040 Speaker 3: And then you separate what's phony, yeah, which is the 394 00:27:59,160 --> 00:28:03,399 Speaker 3: conscious of thoughts. Yeah, so you know, we have to 395 00:28:03,440 --> 00:28:08,320 Speaker 3: get the we have to really pull in sometimes and 396 00:28:08,359 --> 00:28:11,560 Speaker 3: think about a lot of rigid viewpoints. There's going to 397 00:28:11,640 --> 00:28:14,760 Speaker 3: be some rebellious things that come up, probably because of 398 00:28:16,200 --> 00:28:19,640 Speaker 3: an indictment. So I would imagine, you know, it's got 399 00:28:19,920 --> 00:28:22,720 Speaker 3: uranus mars and we've been dealing with that for a while, 400 00:28:23,320 --> 00:28:28,800 Speaker 3: and that's war, that's sudden rebellion, that's conflict. Uh So I. 401 00:28:28,800 --> 00:28:33,480 Speaker 5: Anticipate there's going to be some uh some rattling cages 402 00:28:33,560 --> 00:28:37,160 Speaker 5: over the next couple of months as well, especially as 403 00:28:37,160 --> 00:28:40,400 Speaker 5: we get into And that's why your whole thoughts on 404 00:28:40,520 --> 00:28:45,840 Speaker 5: confrontation is important because it gives us the opportunity to 405 00:28:45,960 --> 00:28:48,720 Speaker 5: stay in balance when all. 406 00:28:48,560 --> 00:28:51,240 Speaker 3: Around us is falling to pieces. 407 00:28:52,040 --> 00:28:52,440 Speaker 4: Yeah. 408 00:28:53,040 --> 00:28:56,160 Speaker 2: Well so that's a little bit about that, because I 409 00:28:56,240 --> 00:28:59,800 Speaker 2: actually think, like my friend Mary came to see you 410 00:29:00,040 --> 00:29:02,040 Speaker 2: think it was last week, and she told me about 411 00:29:02,040 --> 00:29:04,120 Speaker 2: what you said about this, about just kind of the 412 00:29:04,800 --> 00:29:09,120 Speaker 2: rebellious attitude and maybe some of those things coming back up, 413 00:29:09,520 --> 00:29:11,800 Speaker 2: And I was like, oh, my immediate reaction is just 414 00:29:11,960 --> 00:29:14,920 Speaker 2: heavy because it's just like ugh, I think we all 415 00:29:14,960 --> 00:29:17,040 Speaker 2: just need a break, you know, like can we just 416 00:29:17,160 --> 00:29:21,000 Speaker 2: coast for a minute or maybe like not be so 417 00:29:21,120 --> 00:29:23,520 Speaker 2: volatile and divisive, Like I feel like a lot of 418 00:29:23,560 --> 00:29:27,760 Speaker 2: people are calling for that energy. So what are some 419 00:29:27,880 --> 00:29:29,920 Speaker 2: of the ways that we can stay a little more 420 00:29:30,000 --> 00:29:31,840 Speaker 2: balanced as things like that come up? 421 00:29:33,560 --> 00:29:37,280 Speaker 3: Well, and I would say that that is where that 422 00:29:38,040 --> 00:29:44,600 Speaker 3: withdrawal and get that loan time downtime. Okay, see this 423 00:29:45,400 --> 00:29:48,360 Speaker 3: is kind of important for cancer. I mean when you 424 00:29:48,400 --> 00:29:51,800 Speaker 3: get when they go through all of their emotions, they 425 00:29:51,840 --> 00:29:55,200 Speaker 3: have to sometimes step back from those emotions and weed 426 00:29:55,240 --> 00:29:59,960 Speaker 3: them out and kind of get them integrated and organized 427 00:30:00,240 --> 00:30:03,200 Speaker 3: to where there's not so volatile. Yeah, well it's the 428 00:30:03,240 --> 00:30:07,080 Speaker 3: same thing within all the communications that's going on around us. 429 00:30:07,760 --> 00:30:12,320 Speaker 3: So and then when we got a neptune factor involved, 430 00:30:13,880 --> 00:30:18,560 Speaker 3: Neptune is this is the all in all. This is 431 00:30:18,680 --> 00:30:22,680 Speaker 3: universal consciousness. So everything is there and it can cause 432 00:30:22,720 --> 00:30:28,840 Speaker 3: a lot of diffusion, delusion and confusion, and so we've 433 00:30:28,840 --> 00:30:33,000 Speaker 3: got to become more self assured during this time Okay, 434 00:30:33,600 --> 00:30:37,200 Speaker 3: that's why the values were so important. Yeah, what do 435 00:30:37,280 --> 00:30:42,360 Speaker 3: we believe in? Yeah, and not what our parents believed in, 436 00:30:42,560 --> 00:30:45,480 Speaker 3: not what we were raised to be, But what do 437 00:30:45,560 --> 00:30:49,040 Speaker 3: we believe? What's my morality? What I think is right 438 00:30:49,160 --> 00:30:53,240 Speaker 3: for society? What kind of society do I think? And 439 00:30:53,280 --> 00:30:56,000 Speaker 3: that's not for you to go out and be confrontational. 440 00:30:56,560 --> 00:31:01,560 Speaker 3: That's for like mindedness, which is what friends are. Groops 441 00:31:01,640 --> 00:31:05,719 Speaker 3: are light minded people. So I think that this is 442 00:31:06,960 --> 00:31:09,800 Speaker 3: what we're all doing, is trying to find a balance 443 00:31:09,840 --> 00:31:12,600 Speaker 3: between the needs of self and the needs of others. 444 00:31:13,840 --> 00:31:20,600 Speaker 3: When we when we take care of ourselves and nurture ourselves, well, 445 00:31:20,640 --> 00:31:23,800 Speaker 3: then it's easier to nurture and take care of other 446 00:31:24,120 --> 00:31:31,760 Speaker 3: others that may need some support or need some talking through. 447 00:31:31,840 --> 00:31:34,040 Speaker 3: I mean, you know, a lot of a lot of 448 00:31:34,120 --> 00:31:37,880 Speaker 3: counseling is just seeing more than what we call holding space. 449 00:31:39,560 --> 00:31:43,960 Speaker 3: If I hold the space, why you download, Well, then 450 00:31:44,440 --> 00:31:49,200 Speaker 3: I'm letting you get it out. And that's what friends are. 451 00:31:49,400 --> 00:31:53,280 Speaker 3: That's what people need to do for each other, be 452 00:31:53,480 --> 00:31:56,280 Speaker 3: there for I'm there for you if you need me. 453 00:31:56,920 --> 00:31:59,600 Speaker 3: I mean, just that little bit of confidence can change 454 00:31:59,640 --> 00:32:01,840 Speaker 3: somebody's life very dramatically. 455 00:32:02,440 --> 00:32:04,959 Speaker 2: Oh, I think it changes everything because I feel like 456 00:32:05,000 --> 00:32:08,360 Speaker 2: the second we can say are hardships or are like 457 00:32:08,520 --> 00:32:13,400 Speaker 2: inner turmoil to someone else and still feel accepted and loved. 458 00:32:13,960 --> 00:32:17,600 Speaker 2: It opens up our own connection with our intuition, with 459 00:32:17,640 --> 00:32:19,760 Speaker 2: all the things to where we might know what the 460 00:32:19,800 --> 00:32:23,120 Speaker 2: next right step would be. But it's like so important 461 00:32:23,120 --> 00:32:26,200 Speaker 2: for us first to feel seen and heard. And I 462 00:32:26,240 --> 00:32:29,120 Speaker 2: think that that is so calming to everyone's nervous systems. 463 00:32:30,640 --> 00:32:34,960 Speaker 3: Well, and what it causes this whole nurturing thing is 464 00:32:34,960 --> 00:32:37,920 Speaker 3: is I get a lot of clients, a lot that 465 00:32:38,800 --> 00:32:43,000 Speaker 3: they're just they're they're disappointed, they're they're there, they have 466 00:32:43,080 --> 00:32:46,800 Speaker 3: no happiness in their life because they've spent their entire 467 00:32:46,960 --> 00:32:52,680 Speaker 3: life trying to fix others. Yeah, and do for others. 468 00:32:52,800 --> 00:32:56,600 Speaker 3: I'm doing for others. I'm doing for others. When when 469 00:32:57,040 --> 00:32:59,640 Speaker 3: when at some point you get to the place to 470 00:32:59,680 --> 00:33:02,640 Speaker 3: where when you're pulling the board out of your own 471 00:33:02,760 --> 00:33:05,760 Speaker 3: your brother's eye, and you leave it in your own 472 00:33:05,880 --> 00:33:09,560 Speaker 3: eye and give you a pretty bad disposition. Yeah, And 473 00:33:09,640 --> 00:33:16,320 Speaker 3: so it's always you're always looking and saying, Okay, how 474 00:33:16,440 --> 00:33:20,280 Speaker 3: am I taking care of me? How am I making 475 00:33:20,800 --> 00:33:25,640 Speaker 3: me happy on this island? How am I making me happy? 476 00:33:27,000 --> 00:33:30,320 Speaker 3: In third dimension reality. How am I enjoying the world? 477 00:33:30,680 --> 00:33:34,360 Speaker 3: How am I building the home around me that I 478 00:33:34,520 --> 00:33:39,760 Speaker 3: enjoy and love and decorate it all? So a happy 479 00:33:39,880 --> 00:33:45,160 Speaker 3: person can help be supportive of another person that's trying 480 00:33:45,200 --> 00:33:50,880 Speaker 3: to find happiness. Yeah, it can't work. Unhappiness can't develop 481 00:33:50,920 --> 00:33:52,600 Speaker 3: happiness on its own. 482 00:33:53,400 --> 00:33:55,320 Speaker 4: No, you can't give someone else what you don't have 483 00:33:55,440 --> 00:33:56,080 Speaker 4: for yourself. 484 00:33:56,520 --> 00:34:01,320 Speaker 3: Right, So if you don't love you, well, I mean 485 00:34:01,360 --> 00:34:05,040 Speaker 3: that goes into what I've always talked about. Love thyself 486 00:34:05,080 --> 00:34:07,600 Speaker 3: with all thy heart, with all thy mind, and with 487 00:34:07,680 --> 00:34:13,400 Speaker 3: all thy soul. Then love thy neighbor as thyself, and 488 00:34:13,440 --> 00:34:18,040 Speaker 3: then the and then the bottom line edict is don't 489 00:34:18,080 --> 00:34:21,400 Speaker 3: remove from the shoulder the burden of one that's supposed 490 00:34:21,440 --> 00:34:25,359 Speaker 3: to carry it. You can listen to them, you can 491 00:34:25,560 --> 00:34:30,160 Speaker 3: be objective, you can you can have empathy, but you 492 00:34:30,239 --> 00:34:35,600 Speaker 3: are not to fix people. And that's service. 493 00:34:36,280 --> 00:34:39,560 Speaker 4: That one hits for me, Okay, And so. 494 00:34:40,960 --> 00:34:43,839 Speaker 3: I think that that's how we need to really go 495 00:34:43,920 --> 00:34:46,840 Speaker 3: through this time is making sure we stay in balance 496 00:34:46,920 --> 00:34:50,279 Speaker 3: with ourself and with others. And if you're realizing that, 497 00:34:50,800 --> 00:34:54,000 Speaker 3: you know, everything that happens in your life is an 498 00:34:54,040 --> 00:35:01,760 Speaker 3: opportunity for you to to get a new perspective, a 499 00:34:59,560 --> 00:35:05,600 Speaker 3: new about something that you're needing to get, a new perspective, 500 00:35:05,680 --> 00:35:10,840 Speaker 3: perception about that's coming out of the past life. A Remember, 501 00:35:11,000 --> 00:35:14,120 Speaker 3: there is no time, and if there's no time and 502 00:35:14,160 --> 00:35:18,080 Speaker 3: no space, you're living a thousand lifetimes all at once. 503 00:35:18,480 --> 00:35:22,319 Speaker 3: You think, linearly, well, I'm here now. If I pitched me, 504 00:35:22,400 --> 00:35:25,080 Speaker 3: it hurts, right, But the truth of the matter is 505 00:35:25,880 --> 00:35:33,040 Speaker 3: there is no disconnect between the past, present, and the future. No. 506 00:35:33,320 --> 00:35:35,680 Speaker 2: I'm really starting to buy into that more too, because 507 00:35:35,760 --> 00:35:37,760 Speaker 2: especially like if you want to use the word trauma 508 00:35:37,960 --> 00:35:40,440 Speaker 2: or whatever you want to say, like I've found it 509 00:35:40,480 --> 00:35:44,759 Speaker 2: in my lifetime, like there's certain catalysts that open up 510 00:35:45,120 --> 00:35:49,440 Speaker 2: certain wounding against me. But I feel like a lot 511 00:35:49,480 --> 00:35:51,960 Speaker 2: of what I'm starting to realize is how much is 512 00:35:52,080 --> 00:35:56,160 Speaker 2: carried over from other lifetimes and so you are like 513 00:35:56,400 --> 00:35:59,439 Speaker 2: working through all of it all at once, and it's 514 00:35:59,480 --> 00:36:02,080 Speaker 2: not us like what's happening right in front of you. 515 00:36:02,520 --> 00:36:04,560 Speaker 2: A lot of times, that's just the thing bringing all 516 00:36:04,600 --> 00:36:07,400 Speaker 2: of that to the surface into your awareness again. 517 00:36:08,360 --> 00:36:12,200 Speaker 3: Right, and that gives you an opportunity. So everything in 518 00:36:12,320 --> 00:36:17,399 Speaker 3: life is an opportunity, right about If we looked at 519 00:36:17,440 --> 00:36:21,040 Speaker 3: it like that, that would keep you out of confrontation. 520 00:36:20,440 --> 00:36:24,520 Speaker 4: Wouldn't it Yeah, yeah, yeah. 521 00:36:25,120 --> 00:36:30,000 Speaker 3: And so that balance is a big deal. And now 522 00:36:30,320 --> 00:36:32,279 Speaker 3: what's going to make this a little bit of a 523 00:36:32,320 --> 00:36:37,719 Speaker 3: struggle as the Pluto's went retrograde now back into Capricorn, 524 00:36:37,719 --> 00:36:40,800 Speaker 3: and we're going to have a lot of exposure of 525 00:36:40,920 --> 00:36:47,440 Speaker 3: all the indecencies, the corruptions, the problems and our probably 526 00:36:47,520 --> 00:36:50,560 Speaker 3: in our personal lives as well as in the social 527 00:36:52,040 --> 00:36:56,200 Speaker 3: the macrocosm in society. And so as we go through 528 00:36:56,239 --> 00:36:59,520 Speaker 3: a lot of this, Uh, it's going to be polarizing, 529 00:36:59,600 --> 00:37:03,399 Speaker 3: it's going to be confrontational. But it's just like we 530 00:37:03,440 --> 00:37:07,359 Speaker 3: talked earlier about the article that I sent you. If 531 00:37:07,400 --> 00:37:12,279 Speaker 3: you can't if you have your ideas and you can 532 00:37:12,400 --> 00:37:18,680 Speaker 3: you can discuss, not argue, discuss your perspective in points 533 00:37:19,200 --> 00:37:23,520 Speaker 3: with somebody that will be honest and discussing their perspective 534 00:37:23,600 --> 00:37:29,760 Speaker 3: in points without getting into conspiracies, without getting into non 535 00:37:29,960 --> 00:37:33,480 Speaker 3: factual information. I mean, if you're going to talk non 536 00:37:33,560 --> 00:37:38,080 Speaker 3: fact well, we have nothing to discuss. I'm not going 537 00:37:38,200 --> 00:37:41,080 Speaker 3: to get into your conspiracies. I'm not going to try 538 00:37:41,120 --> 00:37:44,440 Speaker 3: to change your mind. I mean, my job isn't to 539 00:37:44,560 --> 00:37:49,120 Speaker 3: change your mind. My job is to help clear your 540 00:37:49,200 --> 00:37:53,360 Speaker 3: vision so you can find balance an opportunity in your life. 541 00:37:54,280 --> 00:37:57,840 Speaker 2: I've had a really interesting experience in a work environment 542 00:37:57,960 --> 00:38:02,759 Speaker 2: recently where it's dealing with I'm working for people who 543 00:38:02,800 --> 00:38:06,239 Speaker 2: see have a very different political view than me. And 544 00:38:06,280 --> 00:38:08,840 Speaker 2: I was so torn at the beginning of taking this 545 00:38:09,000 --> 00:38:12,479 Speaker 2: job because I was because of all the divisiveness. It's 546 00:38:12,480 --> 00:38:15,440 Speaker 2: like I almost felt like, oh, like that's the enemy 547 00:38:15,560 --> 00:38:18,200 Speaker 2: at first, or like I can't work with them, you know, 548 00:38:18,320 --> 00:38:20,799 Speaker 2: Like I found myself having these thoughts, and I was like, wait, 549 00:38:21,320 --> 00:38:23,279 Speaker 2: this is not what I'm about. Like, if we're going 550 00:38:23,320 --> 00:38:26,480 Speaker 2: back to values, one of my highest values is love 551 00:38:26,880 --> 00:38:32,000 Speaker 2: and so like valuing everyone and producing, you know, giving 552 00:38:32,040 --> 00:38:35,000 Speaker 2: out giving love where I can and get giving and 553 00:38:35,040 --> 00:38:38,200 Speaker 2: receiving love. This is big thing that I've been learning 554 00:38:38,239 --> 00:38:41,560 Speaker 2: the past couple of years. And so I took the 555 00:38:41,680 --> 00:38:43,960 Speaker 2: job anyway and thought, I'm just going to show up 556 00:38:44,000 --> 00:38:45,600 Speaker 2: every day and I'm going to. 557 00:38:47,480 --> 00:38:48,360 Speaker 4: Be kind. 558 00:38:48,680 --> 00:38:50,960 Speaker 2: That's just like my only goal is do my job 559 00:38:51,000 --> 00:38:54,399 Speaker 2: and be kind. And what's been so interesting is that, 560 00:38:54,480 --> 00:38:58,720 Speaker 2: like I don't really have these massive discussions about political views, 561 00:38:58,960 --> 00:39:02,080 Speaker 2: but what I'm finding that I'm learning from them is 562 00:39:02,480 --> 00:39:06,720 Speaker 2: they actually maybe they have different views on certain things, 563 00:39:07,160 --> 00:39:11,640 Speaker 2: but they're not this version of whatever has been created 564 00:39:11,680 --> 00:39:13,000 Speaker 2: in the media that's made. 565 00:39:12,920 --> 00:39:17,040 Speaker 4: Me hate the other side. Like most people I do. 566 00:39:16,960 --> 00:39:22,080 Speaker 2: Believe have a little more like middle ground or desire 567 00:39:22,120 --> 00:39:25,920 Speaker 2: for peace or desire for compromise than what we're presented 568 00:39:26,000 --> 00:39:28,799 Speaker 2: on a daily basis. And so it seems like if 569 00:39:28,840 --> 00:39:31,280 Speaker 2: we actually took a step back from what's being presented 570 00:39:31,280 --> 00:39:33,719 Speaker 2: to us, like on the news and all the shit 571 00:39:33,760 --> 00:39:37,240 Speaker 2: all the time that's clickbait, maybe we could actually discuss 572 00:39:37,280 --> 00:39:39,279 Speaker 2: with each other and we could just say, hey, I 573 00:39:39,320 --> 00:39:42,239 Speaker 2: respect your views, like it doesn't. You don't have to 574 00:39:42,320 --> 00:39:45,480 Speaker 2: change everyone to think exactly like you. That's why we 575 00:39:45,520 --> 00:39:48,200 Speaker 2: live in this country, you know. But it's been really 576 00:39:48,239 --> 00:39:53,440 Speaker 2: interesting for me to to entertain the idea of like 577 00:39:53,680 --> 00:39:58,399 Speaker 2: not trying to change other people's opinions or how they 578 00:39:58,440 --> 00:40:00,520 Speaker 2: see the world or what their life is journey is 579 00:40:00,560 --> 00:40:03,840 Speaker 2: bringing them on, but also like being able to stay 580 00:40:03,840 --> 00:40:07,000 Speaker 2: in the same space as them in a kind considerate manner. 581 00:40:07,320 --> 00:40:09,719 Speaker 2: I don't exactly remember I brought that up, like what 582 00:40:09,760 --> 00:40:12,399 Speaker 2: you said that pinged that for me, but but that 583 00:40:12,600 --> 00:40:14,680 Speaker 2: is something in this energy that I feel. It's like 584 00:40:14,719 --> 00:40:18,280 Speaker 2: we don't have to just like shift everyone we don't 585 00:40:18,280 --> 00:40:21,200 Speaker 2: have to fight all the time. Like there are ways 586 00:40:21,239 --> 00:40:22,960 Speaker 2: for us all to exist together. 587 00:40:24,800 --> 00:40:28,279 Speaker 3: Sure, I mean you know the way I like to 588 00:40:28,320 --> 00:40:33,160 Speaker 3: deal with uh, that is to just find commonality. 589 00:40:33,800 --> 00:40:35,480 Speaker 2: Yeah, and there. 590 00:40:36,719 --> 00:40:38,800 Speaker 3: And that's all you deal with. I mean, you're sure 591 00:40:39,680 --> 00:40:42,600 Speaker 3: when you're trying to all your all you care about 592 00:40:42,719 --> 00:40:46,960 Speaker 3: is being supportive of and caring for other people. I 593 00:40:47,000 --> 00:40:52,080 Speaker 3: think you know that's I mean that that's a that's 594 00:40:52,080 --> 00:40:58,560 Speaker 3: a very strong, powerful lens that people see you as, Oh, 595 00:40:58,640 --> 00:41:02,759 Speaker 3: she really cares all, that he really cares all. And 596 00:41:02,800 --> 00:41:05,440 Speaker 3: then you can and then there's always you know, fun 597 00:41:05,560 --> 00:41:09,759 Speaker 3: and and and and so forth. And I always look 598 00:41:09,840 --> 00:41:17,800 Speaker 3: at some situations and realize that, uh, it's more important 599 00:41:17,840 --> 00:41:23,120 Speaker 3: for me to have empathy and and understand that that's 600 00:41:23,440 --> 00:41:28,040 Speaker 3: whatever value is going to cause pain. Well, it's not 601 00:41:28,160 --> 00:41:32,120 Speaker 3: for me to correct that. Yeah I can, I can. 602 00:41:32,320 --> 00:41:36,520 Speaker 3: I can understand that's that's what they've got to go through. 603 00:41:36,680 --> 00:41:40,280 Speaker 3: I mean, I've certainly been through enough pain in my life, right, 604 00:41:40,440 --> 00:41:45,120 Speaker 3: and so and I didn't listen to anybody, so why 605 00:41:48,400 --> 00:41:49,239 Speaker 3: to me? Right? 606 00:41:49,280 --> 00:41:51,360 Speaker 2: And that's like you said earlier, like it's not actually 607 00:41:51,400 --> 00:41:54,759 Speaker 2: our job to protect people from their own journey, which 608 00:41:54,960 --> 00:41:57,960 Speaker 2: can include pain unfortunately, like pain is the biggest teacher 609 00:41:58,000 --> 00:42:01,000 Speaker 2: in my life most of the time. But that's not 610 00:42:01,040 --> 00:42:03,400 Speaker 2: really our job. But our job is to be kind 611 00:42:03,480 --> 00:42:06,520 Speaker 2: and loving I do feel and in service to others. 612 00:42:06,560 --> 00:42:09,719 Speaker 4: As you said, I don't know really. 613 00:42:10,200 --> 00:42:13,160 Speaker 3: So I think that as we go into this Pluto Capricorn, 614 00:42:13,280 --> 00:42:19,000 Speaker 3: especially for the rest of the year until January twenty second, 615 00:42:19,640 --> 00:42:22,880 Speaker 3: twenty four, I think that we're going to be confronted 616 00:42:22,960 --> 00:42:26,440 Speaker 3: with some pretty foul stuff. I mean, you know, struggling 617 00:42:26,480 --> 00:42:33,080 Speaker 3: with communications and practical schemes, even religious interference and non 618 00:42:33,120 --> 00:42:39,400 Speaker 3: religious concepts and ideas, ideals, a lot of political theater, 619 00:42:40,200 --> 00:42:44,240 Speaker 3: and so this is giving us an opportunity to stay 620 00:42:44,280 --> 00:42:48,720 Speaker 3: in balance with it all in instead of buying into 621 00:42:48,719 --> 00:42:54,319 Speaker 3: the fear, instead of buying into a confrontational latitude. So 622 00:42:54,800 --> 00:42:59,520 Speaker 3: I think that we're it's a great time to be 623 00:43:00,040 --> 00:43:07,560 Speaker 3: an observer and realize that Spirit's in control no matter 624 00:43:07,600 --> 00:43:13,600 Speaker 3: how it turns out. And my favorite story is the 625 00:43:13,640 --> 00:43:17,400 Speaker 3: one with the Angel of Cycles and Solutions riding at 626 00:43:17,400 --> 00:43:22,120 Speaker 3: the front of the train and just well that's where 627 00:43:23,040 --> 00:43:25,080 Speaker 3: the people on the front of a train. When you're 628 00:43:25,080 --> 00:43:28,440 Speaker 3: going through the journey, you're always looking out the front 629 00:43:28,480 --> 00:43:31,640 Speaker 3: window saying, oh, look at God's handiwork. Ain't that nice? 630 00:43:31,680 --> 00:43:36,360 Speaker 3: Ain't that wonderful? Ain't that interesting? One? You know, how's 631 00:43:36,400 --> 00:43:40,600 Speaker 3: that going to play out? You know, enjoying what's being 632 00:43:40,680 --> 00:43:43,880 Speaker 3: made manifest. People on the side of the train are 633 00:43:43,880 --> 00:43:47,040 Speaker 3: looking up the side of the window going, oh my God, 634 00:43:47,160 --> 00:43:51,560 Speaker 3: that's horrible. That's terrible. Somebody ought to do something about that. 635 00:43:52,120 --> 00:43:54,080 Speaker 3: And then the people on the back of the train 636 00:43:54,160 --> 00:43:56,560 Speaker 3: want to get off the train and get involved and 637 00:43:56,680 --> 00:44:01,239 Speaker 3: change God's plan. Yeah, And so I always try to 638 00:44:01,280 --> 00:44:03,520 Speaker 3: stay in the front of the train just look at it, 639 00:44:03,719 --> 00:44:08,680 Speaker 3: see it unfold, without getting into the fearfulness, the confrontation 640 00:44:08,880 --> 00:44:12,799 Speaker 3: of it all, and just letting go and trusting, you know. 641 00:44:13,160 --> 00:44:18,160 Speaker 3: And on the Native American medicine wheel, trust comes before love. 642 00:44:19,440 --> 00:44:26,239 Speaker 3: So spirit always always ask you to trust first, then 643 00:44:26,280 --> 00:44:27,279 Speaker 3: you can find love. 644 00:44:28,080 --> 00:44:36,120 Speaker 2: Oof that that I mean, yeah, I can't even find 645 00:44:36,160 --> 00:44:38,960 Speaker 2: words because that was just the way that that's worded 646 00:44:39,080 --> 00:44:42,359 Speaker 2: is exactly what I have found in life. And it's 647 00:44:42,400 --> 00:44:45,360 Speaker 2: sort of like like we were talking before the podcast 648 00:44:45,400 --> 00:44:48,759 Speaker 2: and I said, you know, it's so interesting, Like I 649 00:44:49,239 --> 00:44:53,560 Speaker 2: coming out of COVID was so just feeling like, Okay, 650 00:44:53,600 --> 00:44:56,759 Speaker 2: I've got to get the hustle back to like get 651 00:44:56,800 --> 00:44:59,759 Speaker 2: financially set again, and just like that was such a 652 00:44:59,800 --> 00:45:02,520 Speaker 2: hard time. And then we're talking everyone's talking about this 653 00:45:02,560 --> 00:45:04,560 Speaker 2: recession and all the things, and You've been kind of 654 00:45:04,600 --> 00:45:08,200 Speaker 2: like laughing that off like a little bit, and you 655 00:45:08,200 --> 00:45:11,080 Speaker 2: were like, just don't worry, Like there's it's just there's 656 00:45:11,080 --> 00:45:13,400 Speaker 2: too much abundance coming, like you could see it in 657 00:45:13,440 --> 00:45:17,200 Speaker 2: the charts. And I swear I have not done anything 658 00:45:17,280 --> 00:45:20,400 Speaker 2: different in life lately, but I've just trusted like you 659 00:45:20,440 --> 00:45:22,479 Speaker 2: were seeing it, and I was hearing that from other 660 00:45:22,520 --> 00:45:25,239 Speaker 2: healers as well, and so it was like, Okay, if 661 00:45:25,239 --> 00:45:28,040 Speaker 2: everyone's saying this is the energy, like I'm just gonna 662 00:45:28,040 --> 00:45:31,000 Speaker 2: trust the universe, because Lord knows, the universe knows more 663 00:45:31,000 --> 00:45:33,839 Speaker 2: than I do. And sure enough, like it has been 664 00:45:33,920 --> 00:45:37,440 Speaker 2: a season of just so much coming in, like and 665 00:45:37,480 --> 00:45:40,640 Speaker 2: not because of anything I'm doing different. It's just flowing 666 00:45:40,680 --> 00:45:44,320 Speaker 2: in though, And that is just like that's coming up again. 667 00:45:44,360 --> 00:45:46,760 Speaker 2: It's like why do we get in the way so often? 668 00:45:46,840 --> 00:45:50,080 Speaker 2: But if we trust and we keep just showing up 669 00:45:50,080 --> 00:45:53,120 Speaker 2: every day and doing you know, taking the next right step, 670 00:45:53,800 --> 00:45:55,840 Speaker 2: doing the work whatever you want to call it, Like 671 00:45:56,200 --> 00:46:00,879 Speaker 2: it really does manifest in whatever where the universe has 672 00:46:00,880 --> 00:46:01,719 Speaker 2: prepared for us. 673 00:46:02,680 --> 00:46:05,080 Speaker 3: Yes, And I mean, you know, the big word through 674 00:46:05,120 --> 00:46:08,799 Speaker 3: all of this is focus. Yeah, you know, we've got 675 00:46:08,800 --> 00:46:12,399 Speaker 3: to focus on all the negative self talk. We've got 676 00:46:12,400 --> 00:46:17,080 Speaker 3: to focus on our discipline and develop that in an 677 00:46:17,160 --> 00:46:22,799 Speaker 3: intense focus so that we have a single mindedness. And 678 00:46:22,840 --> 00:46:25,880 Speaker 3: then you know, single mindedness can be positive or negative. 679 00:46:26,480 --> 00:46:30,920 Speaker 3: That can be obsessive, exaggerated, or it can be a 680 00:46:31,120 --> 00:46:41,319 Speaker 3: desire to become more self realized, more authentic, more and 681 00:46:41,800 --> 00:46:48,600 Speaker 3: more in our ability to become paying attention more to 682 00:46:49,600 --> 00:46:54,560 Speaker 3: uh spiritual conversations that goes on within us. And so 683 00:46:55,160 --> 00:46:59,120 Speaker 3: the power lies in walking that middle road. And the 684 00:46:59,280 --> 00:47:06,239 Speaker 3: challenge is is are we healing or are we just 685 00:47:07,880 --> 00:47:17,080 Speaker 3: placating our our old habits and beliefs and conditions and patterns. 686 00:47:18,520 --> 00:47:23,279 Speaker 3: So as we shift our focus away from light and 687 00:47:23,360 --> 00:47:29,000 Speaker 3: dark scenarios, we really see a unified reality with all 688 00:47:29,040 --> 00:47:32,399 Speaker 3: the manifestations. And the one thing that I always walked 689 00:47:32,440 --> 00:47:37,719 Speaker 3: about David Hawkins, Doctor David Hawkins, in his work he 690 00:47:37,840 --> 00:47:43,400 Speaker 3: talked about just view the world as entertainment. It's a 691 00:47:43,400 --> 00:47:48,040 Speaker 3: big amusement park. Every single thing that goes on in 692 00:47:48,080 --> 00:47:53,279 Speaker 3: the world is nothing more than some soul has the 693 00:47:53,400 --> 00:47:59,239 Speaker 3: opportunity to grow from that experience. And we've got of 694 00:47:59,360 --> 00:48:04,520 Speaker 3: seven big people, there's seven billion souls has a variety 695 00:48:04,600 --> 00:48:10,719 Speaker 3: of different experiences. They need to become self realized. So 696 00:48:10,880 --> 00:48:14,920 Speaker 3: everything that happens, whether it's war, whether it's death, no 697 00:48:14,960 --> 00:48:19,680 Speaker 3: matter what it is, we have to gain something from 698 00:48:20,200 --> 00:48:27,520 Speaker 3: that greater understanding that that's that's the perfect manifestation of 699 00:48:27,560 --> 00:48:32,760 Speaker 3: the universe. It's balanced. There's nothing imbalanced in the universe. 700 00:48:33,560 --> 00:48:37,360 Speaker 3: And so when we look at the amusement park of life, 701 00:48:37,640 --> 00:48:39,640 Speaker 3: we can have a little bit of way to laugh 702 00:48:39,680 --> 00:48:43,040 Speaker 3: it off. That's what you do in the amusement park. 703 00:48:44,760 --> 00:48:47,320 Speaker 4: Well, you laugh and you scream if we're being honest. 704 00:48:50,960 --> 00:48:53,920 Speaker 3: So we're just we're just going through tough times to 705 00:48:54,560 --> 00:48:55,920 Speaker 3: master ourselves. 706 00:48:56,400 --> 00:48:57,800 Speaker 4: Yeah, that's all it is. 707 00:48:58,400 --> 00:49:01,960 Speaker 3: Yeah, or that's is what it is, not all it is, 708 00:49:02,040 --> 00:49:08,520 Speaker 3: but yeah, and enjoy the life you're given because there's 709 00:49:08,560 --> 00:49:09,560 Speaker 3: abundance there. 710 00:49:11,520 --> 00:49:12,080 Speaker 4: I feel that. 711 00:49:12,600 --> 00:49:14,600 Speaker 2: I feel that now for sure, and I think that that. 712 00:49:14,880 --> 00:49:16,440 Speaker 2: Like I think a lot of times it's easy for 713 00:49:16,560 --> 00:49:18,560 Speaker 2: us to be like, well that's easy for you to say, 714 00:49:18,680 --> 00:49:21,400 Speaker 2: or like sometimes I'll be listening to Oprah's podcast and 715 00:49:21,440 --> 00:49:23,879 Speaker 2: I'm like, well, of course that's easy for Oprah to say, 716 00:49:23,920 --> 00:49:26,839 Speaker 2: look at Oprah's life, you know, but I think that 717 00:49:26,880 --> 00:49:30,560 Speaker 2: we all individually, if we stop the comparison, can look 718 00:49:30,640 --> 00:49:32,800 Speaker 2: it's the same thing as looking at our different values, 719 00:49:32,880 --> 00:49:36,320 Speaker 2: Like there is a skill set that every single human 720 00:49:36,360 --> 00:49:39,680 Speaker 2: being brings to this planet. There is a value, There 721 00:49:39,760 --> 00:49:43,040 Speaker 2: is something, and it's the same thing with abundance, like 722 00:49:43,160 --> 00:49:45,200 Speaker 2: in whatever that looks like in your life. It might 723 00:49:45,200 --> 00:49:47,480 Speaker 2: not look like Oprah's life or my life or whatever, 724 00:49:47,560 --> 00:49:50,759 Speaker 2: but there is abundance if you're willing to look for 725 00:49:50,880 --> 00:49:53,439 Speaker 2: it and see it. And I feel like we get 726 00:49:53,480 --> 00:49:56,400 Speaker 2: exactly what we're supposed to get in this life. 727 00:49:56,440 --> 00:50:00,880 Speaker 3: Well, yeah, because we're getting opportunities to grow, right, So 728 00:50:01,040 --> 00:50:05,759 Speaker 3: everything is an opportunity. Yeah, it's not a confrontation. 729 00:50:06,360 --> 00:50:08,480 Speaker 4: Yeah. 730 00:50:08,560 --> 00:50:11,720 Speaker 2: Well, if anyone wants to discuss this further with you, Marv, 731 00:50:11,800 --> 00:50:13,600 Speaker 2: or look at how it's playing out in their own 732 00:50:13,600 --> 00:50:15,600 Speaker 2: individual life, where can they find you? 733 00:50:16,800 --> 00:50:21,000 Speaker 3: They can find me at Marvin at astromarv dot com, 734 00:50:22,080 --> 00:50:26,040 Speaker 3: send me an email, or they can go to my 735 00:50:26,120 --> 00:50:30,239 Speaker 3: website astromarv dot com and all my information is. 736 00:50:30,200 --> 00:50:31,920 Speaker 4: On there all right. 737 00:50:32,080 --> 00:50:34,000 Speaker 2: Well, as always, I will put that in the description 738 00:50:34,080 --> 00:50:35,440 Speaker 2: of this podcast for you guys. 739 00:50:35,960 --> 00:50:38,320 Speaker 4: Marv, thank you for being here with us. 740 00:50:38,800 --> 00:50:41,120 Speaker 3: Oh I was. I had more fun than you. 741 00:50:41,280 --> 00:50:48,200 Speaker 2: Kelly, Well, happy gens to you guys. Let's look at 742 00:50:48,200 --> 00:50:50,200 Speaker 2: the way as we can confront in a peaceful way. 743 00:50:50,440 --> 00:50:52,200 Speaker 2: It sounds like we might need that a little bit, 744 00:50:53,880 --> 00:50:55,880 Speaker 2: all right. Thank you guys so much for listening. 745 00:50:56,280 --> 00:50:59,280 Speaker 1: Thanks for listening to the Velvet's Edge podcast with Kelly Henderson, 746 00:50:59,440 --> 00:51:01,960 Speaker 1: where we believe everyone has a little velvet and a 747 00:51:01,960 --> 00:51:06,120 Speaker 1: little edge. Subscribe for more conversations on life, style, beauty 748 00:51:06,200 --> 00:51:09,879 Speaker 1: and relationships. Search Velvet's Edge wherever you get your podcasts.