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Speaker 1: Show on demand. You had to go to a planning

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Speaker 1: meeting for a class reunion? Yes, right, how does that work?

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Speaker 1: A planning meeting? And then my understanding is that you

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Speaker 1: then had to you have to plan it because you

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Speaker 1: were the last class president. Yes what? Yeah, exactly what exactly?

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Speaker 1: So if you win class president senior year, then you're

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Speaker 1: responsible for holt for like maintaining all contact with everybody

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Speaker 1: for the rest of your life. Yes, oh, there's one

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Speaker 1: more reason. Then I'm glad I didn't run among the

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Speaker 1: forty two people in my grade. Yeah, I don't think

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Speaker 1: we had a class president. I think maybe we had

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Speaker 1: like a school president or something. There were two other

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Speaker 1: people to the whole high school. So how does this work?

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Speaker 1: Oh my god?

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Speaker 2: So as the class president, you're supposed to be in

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Speaker 2: it and kind of make sure it comes together. And

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Speaker 2: you know, ten years ago, I was that girl, like

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Speaker 2: I was all about unity and friendship.

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Speaker 1: What do you know back then?

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Speaker 2: That's right, and you know, friendship Now I don't want

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Speaker 2: to talk to years.

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Speaker 1: Later, your anti unity, anti friendship.

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Speaker 2: Yes, okay, So so my are like football MVP and

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Speaker 2: Prime King. He reached out and you know, other people

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Speaker 2: had been reaching out to me, right, but I ignored them.

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Speaker 2: But my friend, like the Prime King, he was my

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Speaker 2: well you're none of about friendship unity anymore. So you

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Speaker 2: so he but when he reached out, I'm like, oh,

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Speaker 2: he means business, you know. So he's like, hey, we

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Speaker 2: got to get this reunion going. We got to get

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Speaker 1: Has to happen. So I'm like, okay, what do you

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Speaker 2: So he's like, make a Facebook page, and you know,

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Speaker 1: I can do that. I can do that.

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Speaker 2: Then he's like, we all need to meet, and then

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Speaker 2: they start talking in the face. They make a Facebook

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Speaker 2: on steroids. It's big, big meeting, meaning yes it is.

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Speaker 2: When that happens to me, I freeze up. I don't,

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Speaker 2: I can't. I can't keep up with it all. So

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Speaker 2: I completely went ghosts in the group chat. So then

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Speaker 2: they set a meeting and they're like, okay, everybody, we're

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Speaker 2: going to meet at this spot on Sunday. And I'm like, ooh, sorry, guys,

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Speaker 2: I have an event from twelve to two.

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Speaker 1: They're like, okay, let's do it at three. I'm like, oh,

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Speaker 2: So after my event yesterday, I drive to the location

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Speaker 2: literally like I could just ghost. Like if I just

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Speaker 2: go in here and handle your business, and so I

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Speaker 2: this point, because like I'm in there, I'm just I'm

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Speaker 2: I'm like, oh, yes, that sounds great.

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Speaker 1: Of course i'mou to have that.

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Speaker 2: So it's just like it's a lot of stress, and

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Speaker 1: They're gonna make it happen. How many people are in

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Speaker 2: Well, I mean everybody's needed because I thought you were

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Speaker 1: No, no, no, it's not a thousand.

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Speaker 2: I'm sure I'm not saying the right number because I

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Speaker 1: You were the class president of all these people. These

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Speaker 1: were your constituents and years ago. I cared today today,

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Speaker 1: I don't. You're so funny I want to be on

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Speaker 1: my committee.

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Speaker 3: Why?

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Speaker 1: I don't know.

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Speaker 4: I like planning stuff, but you're right, like, I feel

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Speaker 4: like they're not gonna want my ideas anyway. Then they

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Speaker 4: do the same thing every year. It's at the high

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Speaker 4: school in the parking lot, and they took.

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Speaker 1: A big picnic. What yeah, Jason, I mean there's really

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Speaker 1: not much that's so much better. You can contract me

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Speaker 1: out out of her small fees. I'll go to all

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Speaker 1: the meetings where you get. You can assess this, you know,

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Speaker 1: in private, but I'll go to all the meetings for

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Speaker 1: you and I'll do all the work. Now makes me

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Speaker 1: wonder who planned hours? See I didn't go. But I mean,

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Speaker 1: I have no idea. I feel like, no, we had

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Speaker 1: a whole thing about this. It was uh for it?

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Speaker 1: What was it? Mike twenty year when did I graduate?

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Speaker 1: What year is it? I don't know. Twenty oh god,

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Speaker 1: twenty five? Was it twenty five? No? Maybe, yeah it was.

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Speaker 1: I didn't go.

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Speaker 2: I was busy, see and somebody put their blood, sweat

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Speaker 1: Well I don't know who though, because there were only

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Speaker 1: forty two of us, So if there had been ten

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Speaker 1: need for a reunion because we all would have basically

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Speaker 2: Yes, I feel what's the need? We all see each

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Speaker 2: Like you know, Tanya, big Booty, Judy, Like, I don't

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Speaker 1: I know her right, she's in my phone too. Wait minute,

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Speaker 1: big body to high school with there? Yeah? Yeah, she's

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Speaker 1: cool to be there. Yeah, Like okay, so you're supposed

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Speaker 1: to plan this, but you're not really all that engaged.

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Speaker 2: I mean, I mean I have to now, like I can't.

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Speaker 2: I can't fumble, So I have to show up at least,

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Speaker 2: I don't you know what I'm saying. I got to

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Speaker 2: show up, just be there, and that's what I'm trying

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Speaker 2: to do. Well, yesterday was just struggle, but I made

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Speaker 1: Eleven hundred people. Someone taketed eleven hundred people and then

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Speaker 1: in their red being class in less than one hundred

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Speaker 1: wins of the reunion.

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Speaker 5: See what I'm saying, Oh wow, we don't need the reunion.

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Speaker 5: We know what everyone's doing exactly. We know who's alive,

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Speaker 5: we know who's dead. We think we know who's you know,

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Speaker 5: asking for help and pray for prayers. We know that

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Speaker 5: person all the time.

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Speaker 3: You know.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, we've seen everything. We're good. Yeah, thank you, Mark Zuckerberg.

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Speaker 1: Now I don't have to go to my high school

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Speaker 1: reunion because I know what's going on thanks to Facebook.

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Speaker 1: That's true.

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Speaker 4: Not you don't know everybody's up to, especially like the

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Speaker 4: guy who's always like so cute or whatever, Like.

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Speaker 1: I don't know what he's up to. Guy who's so cute? Yeah,

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Speaker 1: yeah cute. Okay, so is someone uber driver? It's fine,

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Speaker 1: But like I want to know a guy who's being

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Speaker 4: Like the guy that was so cute, but like you know,

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Speaker 4: he didn't have potential, like you know, he's just he

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Speaker 1: He's a cute loser. Right, there was a cute one.

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Speaker 1: People were saying, like, you should go to your reunion

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Speaker 1: because you've had success. So then like you know, some

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Speaker 1: level of success, so then you can like show off.

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Speaker 1: But then are we returning to our high school ways again?

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Speaker 1: Like I don't. I'm not trying to live like that anymore. Right,

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Speaker 1: take me back, Like, I don't need to prove anything

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Speaker 1: to these people, And it was twenty five years ago.

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Speaker 1: I don't talk to any of them, Like what am

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Speaker 1: I going. I'm gonna walk in there, gonna go o.

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Speaker 1: So wearing your own merch, I mean I did. I

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Speaker 1: REA is a subtle reminder, you know, I mean have

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Speaker 1: sponsored it. This cocktail brunch is brought to you by

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Speaker 1: the Friend Show. Oh yeah, that's another thing.

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Speaker 2: This committee, they were like, okay, I got five hundred

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Speaker 2: wowed up a thousand. Then I'm sitting there like, huh.

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Speaker 1: So you're supposed to pay for this thing too.

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Speaker 2: Well, if somebody has to buy a barbecue, you gotta

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Speaker 2: have the jumpy house for the kids.

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Speaker 1: Took the discharge it mission the kids. Wait, you're having

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Speaker 1: kids at your reunions. It's like a family field day

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Speaker 1: that they're all in.

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Speaker 6: Reunions are for getting drunk and seeing what everybody's up to.

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Speaker 2: Oh, it's all and everybody has the money, right, adult

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Speaker 2: money is hell?

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Speaker 1: I have no adult money. Hey, kids, don't run for

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Speaker 1: class president because this is what's gonna happen. You're gonna

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Speaker 1: wind up like Kiki here and a bunch of years.

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Speaker 1: You're gonna have to plan and pay for the thing.

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Speaker 1: And the school doesn't offer anything. They don't throw in

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Speaker 1: anything on that About my high school close? What do

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Speaker 1: you have it there then? Because it's empty on the

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Speaker 1: football poo, Yes, you're high school closed close. That's so mean.

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Speaker 1: I've never even heard of such a thing. High schools closed.

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Speaker 2: They closed, and then they combined with another school. It's

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Speaker 2: a whole thing. It's shout out to rich Township.

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Speaker 1: Oh yeah, we had a high school like guidance counsel

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Speaker 1: like college advisor. I guess he was. I don't know

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Speaker 1: what it was a moron, but but but he like

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Speaker 1: you had to go to him and then he would

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Speaker 1: help you figure out where you should go to college.

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Speaker 1: And if you went in there and told him you

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Speaker 1: I'm not signing off on that because he had to

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Speaker 1: us to a college that closed. It doesn't exist anymore.

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Speaker 6: Lastly, Paul McCartney once sought revenge on a very harsh

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Speaker 1: I need you to get to work. Here's some plastic bags.

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Speaker 1: You guys, I got some great relationship advice this morning.

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Speaker 1: My friend Paul Pierce called me and he used to

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Speaker 1: you know, Kiki, if a woman really loves you. Okay,

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Speaker 7: Non really want to know if a girl love you

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Speaker 7: I have no idea what she's about to say, but

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Speaker 1: Yeah, that's all you gotta do. That's why they need

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Speaker 1: to ban podcast equipment. Thank you. Everybody doesn't need it.

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Speaker 1: Lock it up like in Walgreens. Yes, everybody does have

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Speaker 1: It's because people have been cheated on before and they've

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Speaker 2: Let's just let's just keep cheating on each other, see

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Speaker 1: I like that. Write that one. Write that one down.

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Speaker 1: Then I can use that one the next two years,

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Speaker 4: On business, I'm the persident using different words. I was

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Speaker 4: What is that jenn Alfo the next one on to them, Oh,

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Speaker 4: I don't know.

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Speaker 1: They I think we go from Z back to A.

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Speaker 1: I think we do whatever they are.

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Speaker 4: You think sometimes sound like a fourteen year old like,

441
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Speaker 4: oh my nephew says locked in. I'm like, you're not

442
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Speaker 4: the never said locked in number two like they use

443
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Speaker 4: it in the corporate world at this point, and number three,

444
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Speaker 4: I was like, I'm the price fread hasn't taken that

445
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Speaker 4: one yet.

446
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Speaker 1: I think I said locked yet. Yeah, Okay, okay, I

447
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Speaker 1: know I'm proud of you. Well I haven't, in fairness,

448
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Speaker 1: I haven't been saying stand on business like every day. Yeah,

449
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Speaker 1: I'm proudly occasional drop it a vacational you know where

450
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Speaker 1: it's appropriate. Well, so that's your one example.

451
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Speaker 4: Of yeah, Because then I was like, how to get

452
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Speaker 4: into like how Santa on Business came to be from

453
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Speaker 4: this room and I was like, yeah, it's it's and

454
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Speaker 4: then he's like, you're gonna say six seven next.

455
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Speaker 1: I'm like, no, I'm not. I don't know, I'm not.

456
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Speaker 1: I'm just trying to say what I like to say.

457
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Speaker 1: I'm still after weeks of it, I'm still unclear on

458
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Speaker 1: what it really means. I don't know what that is.

459
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Speaker 1: It's just a thing to say. And I know, I

460
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Speaker 1: know we feel stood. I mean, I know we look stupid,

461
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Speaker 1: an old bite. You know the people listening now going

462
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Speaker 1: you don't know what that means? No, I it's different stuff,

463
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Speaker 1: right right, So a lot of different contexts, and I've

464
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Speaker 1: looked it up. I've read, I asked day, I asked

465
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Speaker 1: jat GPT, like how do I use this? And then

466
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Speaker 1: Jeedgpt said, don't ever use it? Just never let it

467
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Speaker 1: come out of your mouth.

468
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Speaker 4: Worry.

469
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Speaker 1: How's your chat going? I haven't. We're not We're not

470
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Speaker 1: fully acclimated yet. We're still we're still like feeling each

471
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Speaker 1: other out. We're not going steady. They haven't learned. No,

472
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Speaker 1: I don't. I don't think it's predictable. But I will

473
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Speaker 1: tell you this. The other day, I I typed into

474
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Speaker 1: chet GPT an Instagram caption that I was going to

475
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Speaker 1: write just I wrote it, and I just wanted to

476
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Speaker 1: see what chet gpt would would suggest, and I gotta

477
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Speaker 1: tell you something. It came up with some fire stuff.

478
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Speaker 1: They spit back something similar to what I wrote, but

479
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Speaker 1: it was like, here's here's a more like verbose version

480
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Speaker 1: of what you wrote, and then here's a punchier version

481
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Speaker 1: of what you wrote, and then here's a version of

482
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Speaker 1: what you wrote that tis it's just shorter, and then

483
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Speaker 1: here's one with emojis, and then it gave me the

484
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Speaker 1: emojis to and I was like, this is so cool,

485
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Speaker 1: like that one looks so much cooler than mine. Copy

486
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Speaker 1: paste boom. At least it was it was based on

487
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Speaker 1: something I actually wrote, but no as far as like

488
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Speaker 1: what my rich guy was talking about how it is

489
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Speaker 1: controlled a O life, which, right, I got a rich friend, Okay,

490
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Speaker 1: I know you. It's like, I'm jealous. Who is it?

491
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Speaker 1: His parents used to own fast food restaurants. He's rich,

492
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Speaker 1: and and he was he's the guy that pays for

493
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Speaker 1: all the two hundred and fifty dollars chat GPT subscription

494
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Speaker 1: and he's like, oh my god, this thing does everything.

495
00:21:18,880 --> 00:21:20,960
Speaker 1: But then his wife is like, it's so annoying because

496
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Speaker 1: he sits there and talks to this thing all day

497
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Speaker 1: instead of talking to me. And he's like, no, but

498
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Speaker 1: it's learning me and it only plays with his chat GBT. Yes, well,

499
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Speaker 1: and and that's that Chad GPT, but it learned some

500
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Speaker 1: other things too, because I think his wife is less interested.

501
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Speaker 1: It means nothing. Someone said about six seven. As a teacher,

502
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Speaker 1: I can't even uh, I can't even count aloud saying

503
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Speaker 1: six seven, eight, nine, ten, and the kids start freaking

504
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Speaker 1: out because they're seven year olds. So you can't even

505
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Speaker 1: say one, two, three, four, five, six, h this is

506
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Speaker 1: the sixth seventh thing. Like the D's Nuts thing was

507
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Speaker 1: like in the two or at least that made that

508
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Speaker 1: like I got it. Oh god, you know I called

509
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Speaker 1: into HR for that for D's Nuts when I lived

510
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Speaker 1: in Charlotte.

511
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Speaker 3: I did.

512
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Speaker 1: Everybody was playing the game and the girl on the

513
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Speaker 1: show just didn't get it or no, I think she

514
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Speaker 1: got it, but she like was mad at me. So

515
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Speaker 1: she went to HR and said he always talks about

516
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Speaker 1: and and so then I get called into a room

517
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Speaker 1: with like two seventy year old people who were like

518
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Speaker 1: I can't believe this, and I had to like show

519
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Speaker 1: them on the internet like no, no, no, no, this

520
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Speaker 1: is a trend that has nothing to do with that.

521
00:22:30,000 --> 00:22:31,840
Speaker 1: It's just a thing. It's just you're just trying to

522
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Speaker 1: get people to say something. And they were like, oh,

523
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Speaker 1: well that's stupid. I'm like, yeah, I know, but I

524
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Speaker 1: had to explain it to them. You know, it would

525
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Speaker 1: be like, God, who is it? And if you don't

526
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Speaker 1: know what I'm talking about somehow because you weren't alive

527
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Speaker 1: in the two thousand, it was like who is that DJ?

528
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Speaker 1: You know the guy that was on Jersey Shore? Who

529
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Speaker 1: is that guy? Nut? That was?

530
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Speaker 3: That?

531
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Speaker 1: That was the whole day. Oh okay, how did you

532
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Speaker 1: all just fall for? Yeah? I was like, we're gonna

533
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Speaker 1: start talking about him? Yeah, I got no. The whole

534
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Speaker 1: thing was just trying to get someone to say dam like,

535
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Speaker 1: well I just said, I just telegraphed the whole thing

536
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Speaker 1: to go, oh poly d it worked.

537
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Speaker 6: I'm going to h talk about your nuts.

538
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Speaker 1: Yeah, because it's because I'm locked in guys, That's what

539
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Speaker 1: I'm around you're talking about. I will never forget. I

540
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Speaker 1: had to explain to like a sixty year old man,

541
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Speaker 1: like he's like, why are you saying this? Dude? It's

542
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Speaker 1: a thing. It's going around. It's a thing on the interwebs, dude.

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Speaker 1: The Fresh Show, Coode Morning, Welcome to Wednesday. We'll get

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Speaker 1: gonna be Paulina and and more. What was it? Put

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Speaker 1: the game on two player? Yep, okay, good, I gotta

549
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Speaker 1: write that one down at the game on. You know,

550
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Speaker 1: I'm not cool, right, but the good thing about not

551
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Speaker 1: being cool and never have been cool, never have being

552
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Speaker 1: cool ever. Wait, No, I'm just I'm not cool. I

553
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Speaker 1: was never cool. I've never tried to be cool doing this,

554
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Speaker 1: which means I don't have to be like some of

555
00:24:01,760 --> 00:24:04,720
Speaker 1: these guys. Oh fake it, who like if they're sixty

556
00:24:04,800 --> 00:24:07,359
Speaker 1: years old, going yeah, yeah, you know, six seven, you know,

557
00:24:07,480 --> 00:24:11,080
Speaker 1: so whatever, it's like, no, stand it, I'll business you

558
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Speaker 1: know that they're sixty five years old and they're trying

559
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Speaker 1: to act cool and they're dyeing their hair and stuff. No,

560
00:24:14,840 --> 00:24:17,040
Speaker 1: my hair is gray. My beard is gray, and it's

561
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Speaker 1: not gonna change it only gonna get worse. It was

562
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Speaker 1: I had I had brown hair last year, so I

563
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Speaker 1: don't know what Actually I do know what happened in

564
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Speaker 1: the last year. But yes, I had brown hair last

565
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Speaker 1: year and now I have white hair, so that should

566
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Speaker 1: explain it to you. But the nice thing about it

567
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Speaker 1: is if if you well, if you don't like me now,

568
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Speaker 1: you won't like me in five years. And if you

569
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Speaker 1: like me five years ago, you'll still like me now.

570
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Speaker 1: And then I have all of you to keep me cool.

571
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Speaker 1: All of you make me look cool. You know, you

572
00:24:42,160 --> 00:24:44,159
Speaker 1: guys teach me new stuff, and then I could like

573
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Speaker 1: say it, and then you know, you can tell me

574
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Speaker 1: what's it's great. No, it's great, it's great. But it's

575
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Speaker 1: like it's like that dude that works for our company,

576
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Speaker 1: John Ivy, who said to me in his profound ways, uh,

577
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Speaker 1: you know for it, you sounded old when you were

578
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Speaker 1: twenty three, and you say an old when you're forty three,

579
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Speaker 1: So you're always going to sound old. Oh I think

580
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Speaker 1: he met my voice. But I was like, well, that's neat.

581
00:25:07,040 --> 00:25:08,840
Speaker 1: It means I'll always sound just like this. That may

582
00:25:08,840 --> 00:25:10,399
Speaker 1: have been a problem when I was much younger, but

583
00:25:10,400 --> 00:25:12,040
Speaker 1: then I will sound like this when I'm one hundred

584
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Speaker 1: saying six seven on the radio, trying to keep my job.

585
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Speaker 1: Do you guys want to talk about a public proposal

586
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Speaker 1: or do you want to talk about one of the

587
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Speaker 1: favorite things that we talk about on this show, tipping,

588
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Speaker 1: Because I do I do have a new I do

589
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Speaker 1: have a new breaking tipping story. Yes, it's a breaking

590
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Speaker 1: tipping story. Which do you want tipping? No? No, no,

591
00:25:31,880 --> 00:25:34,440
Speaker 1: let's do both. We're talking about tipping on this show.

592
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Speaker 1: People go crazy. The biggest topics in the history of

593
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Speaker 1: our show are tipping and what's your favorite flavor of

594
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Speaker 1: ice cream? And it's hard to know which one is better.

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Speaker 1: Internships people love that one. Oh that one behind you?

596
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Speaker 1: Or any time that I advocate for a woman, then

597
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Speaker 1: I'm a man basher apparently, So that's cool.

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Speaker 6: I know.

599
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Speaker 1: I love when you advocate for a woman. Keep well,

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Speaker 1: I do it every day. But it's like, uh, doesn't

601
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Speaker 1: matter if I say something. If I say a guide

602
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Speaker 1: is something crappy. I'm surprised that I played that Paul

603
00:26:02,160 --> 00:26:04,640
Speaker 1: Pierce audio and nobody texted up here. Oh here goes

604
00:26:04,640 --> 00:26:07,879
Speaker 1: feminist fread again, because I think it's terrible that you

605
00:26:07,920 --> 00:26:10,160
Speaker 1: test someone's affection by cheating on them. Yes, I guess

606
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Speaker 1: that makes me a feminist. I'm proud of it. It's exciting.

607
00:26:12,760 --> 00:26:15,119
Speaker 1: Everybody should be a feminist in that case. Okay, so

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Speaker 1: you wanted the proposal one, then you want to do

609
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Speaker 1: the tipping story. But here's the thing. Now, people are

610
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Speaker 1: get a bunch of texting to come in. Well, what

611
00:26:20,640 --> 00:26:23,520
Speaker 1: was the tipping story? Right? We gotta do it. I'm curious.

612
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Speaker 1: We'll get back to it. I'm not sure if there's

613
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Speaker 1: much well, I guess there could be debate on it.

614
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Speaker 1: But a twenty two year old woman and her boyfriend

615
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Speaker 1: of three years attended his parents anniversary party, where he

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Speaker 1: unexpectedly proposed in front of his family and friends, and

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Speaker 1: despite earlier conversations where she had expressed that she wasn't

618
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Speaker 1: ready for that, he did it anyway. At the moment

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Speaker 1: of the public proposal, she felt pressured and said yes

620
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Speaker 1: to avoid embarrassing him in front of all these people,

621
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Speaker 1: even though inside she knew that she couldn't yet accept. Later,

622
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Speaker 1: in private, she told him that she would not move

623
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Speaker 1: forward with the engagement because she wasn't ready, and he

624
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Speaker 1: responded by saying that she embarrassed him by saying yes

625
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Speaker 1: and then changing her mind. She said that she never

626
00:27:01,760 --> 00:27:04,959
Speaker 1: intended to hurt him and only accepted publicly to spare

627
00:27:05,560 --> 00:27:09,200
Speaker 1: the moment but acknowledge. The situation has now become more complicated,

628
00:27:09,480 --> 00:27:11,840
Speaker 1: and of course people online are going both ways on this.

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Speaker 1: I think it would have been more embarrassing to say

630
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Speaker 1: no in front of all of these people. I mean,

631
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Speaker 1: this was his parents anniversary party, so this would have

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Speaker 1: been a home crowd. First of all, not the place

633
00:27:25,760 --> 00:27:28,440
Speaker 1: you do, not the place to propose. But second of all,

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Speaker 1: it would have been more embarrassing. I think if if

635
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Speaker 1: she had said no in front of his parents and

636
00:27:32,680 --> 00:27:35,320
Speaker 1: all these other people. Instead, it was okay, yeah, now

637
00:27:35,600 --> 00:27:38,159
Speaker 1: he has to walk it back now because but she

638
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Speaker 1: also told him that she didn't want to be engaged

639
00:27:39,920 --> 00:27:43,280
Speaker 1: to him right So rather than stay engaged to this

640
00:27:43,320 --> 00:27:46,199
Speaker 1: man and marry him and she's not ready, she just

641
00:27:46,240 --> 00:27:48,120
Speaker 1: went back later and said, look, I didn't I didn't

642
00:27:48,119 --> 00:27:49,600
Speaker 1: want to do this in front of everybody, but I

643
00:27:49,640 --> 00:27:51,240
Speaker 1: did tell you I wasn't ready, and so I don't

644
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Speaker 1: want to be engaged to you right now, and so

645
00:27:53,520 --> 00:27:55,560
Speaker 1: go tell your parents that it was a little premature.

646
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Speaker 1: And then I thought about it, and I want to

647
00:27:57,119 --> 00:27:59,120
Speaker 1: take a step back. That to me is a whole

648
00:27:59,200 --> 00:28:02,200
Speaker 1: lot kinder yes than just saying because if you say

649
00:28:02,280 --> 00:28:05,760
Speaker 1: no in front of everybody that that probably is the

650
00:28:05,840 --> 00:28:08,040
Speaker 1: end of the relationship. I don't know you recover from that.

651
00:28:08,680 --> 00:28:11,800
Speaker 2: And that's embarrassment in like real time. That's four k

652
00:28:12,000 --> 00:28:14,679
Speaker 2: right there in front of your whole family. Off, get up,

653
00:28:14,720 --> 00:28:17,840
Speaker 2: off your knee, looks at it. No, like she did

654
00:28:17,880 --> 00:28:20,160
Speaker 2: you a favor actually by saying yes and then telling

655
00:28:20,240 --> 00:28:22,359
Speaker 2: you later, so she's not wrong.

656
00:28:22,680 --> 00:28:24,320
Speaker 1: But I want to know from you, guys, eight five, five, five,

657
00:28:24,440 --> 00:28:27,040
Speaker 1: nine one one oh three five would you rather would

658
00:28:27,119 --> 00:28:29,560
Speaker 1: you rather say yes and just get out of the

659
00:28:29,600 --> 00:28:31,800
Speaker 1: sort of public eye of the whole thing that's happening,

660
00:28:32,000 --> 00:28:34,119
Speaker 1: and then later go back and figure it out, or

661
00:28:34,160 --> 00:28:36,720
Speaker 1: would you rather just say because I again, you see

662
00:28:36,720 --> 00:28:38,600
Speaker 1: it online sometimes I don't know if it's real. You

663
00:28:38,640 --> 00:28:40,520
Speaker 1: see it to the sporting events. I think those are stage.

664
00:28:40,560 --> 00:28:42,440
Speaker 1: But you see it where people propose and the person

665
00:28:42,480 --> 00:28:44,680
Speaker 1: says no and runs away. That to me is like

666
00:28:44,840 --> 00:28:49,360
Speaker 1: life crushing rejection, public rejection, Like I don't know that

667
00:28:49,400 --> 00:28:50,240
Speaker 1: you can get over that.

668
00:28:50,360 --> 00:28:52,760
Speaker 6: Here's what I will say about this situation, though, there

669
00:28:52,760 --> 00:28:56,720
Speaker 6: should be no situation in my opinion, just me where

670
00:28:56,800 --> 00:28:59,440
Speaker 6: you are proposing and you don't know, you have not

671
00:28:59,480 --> 00:29:02,480
Speaker 6: already spoke. I really don't feel like that should be

672
00:29:02,520 --> 00:29:05,040
Speaker 6: a conversation. There should be planning. You should know that

673
00:29:05,120 --> 00:29:07,200
Speaker 6: she wants to do that. So you should not be

674
00:29:07,280 --> 00:29:10,800
Speaker 6: just willing, nearly proposing, and obviously this situation, she said

675
00:29:10,800 --> 00:29:11,400
Speaker 6: she didn't want to.

676
00:29:11,520 --> 00:29:14,160
Speaker 1: When here comes to my man bashing segment, I think

677
00:29:14,200 --> 00:29:15,840
Speaker 1: that it was a power trip on his part. He

678
00:29:16,320 --> 00:29:18,720
Speaker 1: wasn't listening to her, he wasn't paying attention to her.

679
00:29:18,920 --> 00:29:20,680
Speaker 1: She said, I am not ready, and he said, no,

680
00:29:20,800 --> 00:29:22,960
Speaker 1: watch this, hold my beer, and then he gets on

681
00:29:22,960 --> 00:29:25,680
Speaker 1: one knee and does it anyway, and it's almost like

682
00:29:25,720 --> 00:29:28,520
Speaker 1: it's almost like he was trapping her in some ways, yes,

683
00:29:28,600 --> 00:29:31,000
Speaker 1: because it's it's like a power thing. It's like but

684
00:29:31,440 --> 00:29:35,480
Speaker 1: we talked about it and we said and I said

685
00:29:35,480 --> 00:29:37,959
Speaker 1: I wasn't ready, so he knew what the answer would be.

686
00:29:38,000 --> 00:29:39,400
Speaker 1: So it was almost like the only way to get

687
00:29:39,440 --> 00:29:41,680
Speaker 1: her to say yes was to pressure her and do

688
00:29:41,720 --> 00:29:43,440
Speaker 1: it in front of everyone. Paulina, I think.

689
00:29:43,320 --> 00:29:45,760
Speaker 4: It was very much planned because he knew, like, if

690
00:29:45,800 --> 00:29:47,160
Speaker 4: it's in front of a lot of people, she's probably

691
00:29:47,160 --> 00:29:48,880
Speaker 4: not going to say no, even though they've talked about it,

692
00:29:48,960 --> 00:29:51,400
Speaker 4: and she said, I'm not ready, And honestly, she should

693
00:29:51,400 --> 00:29:54,200
Speaker 4: go home and if they use protection, check those or

694
00:29:54,280 --> 00:29:56,040
Speaker 4: she's not on birth control, get on that, because this

695
00:29:56,080 --> 00:29:58,880
Speaker 4: man will trap her. It sounds like, Okay, I take

696
00:29:58,880 --> 00:30:00,640
Speaker 4: it to the next level. I know, like I'm thinking

697
00:30:00,680 --> 00:30:01,160
Speaker 4: ahead for her.

698
00:30:01,240 --> 00:30:05,880
Speaker 2: Yeah, right, check your condom.

699
00:30:06,920 --> 00:30:08,960
Speaker 1: We'll go far into the future with the story. Guy's

700
00:30:09,040 --> 00:30:12,120
Speaker 1: poking holes and stuff. Man, Yeah, this is crazy. Well

701
00:30:12,200 --> 00:30:14,080
Speaker 1: she said I'm not ready, and he still did it.

702
00:30:14,200 --> 00:30:16,720
Speaker 1: He did it anyway. I remember when I was young,

703
00:30:17,200 --> 00:30:19,160
Speaker 1: there was a dude proposing. I was weird in some

704
00:30:19,200 --> 00:30:22,160
Speaker 1: fancy restaurant and the guy I was proposing to his

705
00:30:22,200 --> 00:30:24,640
Speaker 1: fiance and we knew because she would get up to

706
00:30:24,680 --> 00:30:26,320
Speaker 1: go to the bathroom and he was like I think

707
00:30:26,320 --> 00:30:28,320
Speaker 1: he handed maybe handed the ring to the waiter. There

708
00:30:28,360 --> 00:30:30,560
Speaker 1: was like some negotiation going on. Maybe the waiter told

709
00:30:30,640 --> 00:30:32,880
Speaker 1: us like, hey, that guy's about to propose something like that.

710
00:30:33,160 --> 00:30:35,400
Speaker 1: So but this was like in the salads, like be

711
00:30:35,440 --> 00:30:38,760
Speaker 1: eating salads, and so I'm watching this guy. I'm maybe

712
00:30:38,840 --> 00:30:42,040
Speaker 1: like nine, and I'm watching this guy and he's sweating bullets.

713
00:30:42,040 --> 00:30:44,520
Speaker 1: She has no idea, she's just eating her food or whatever.

714
00:30:44,760 --> 00:30:46,840
Speaker 1: And I knew that it was coming with the dessert.

715
00:30:47,040 --> 00:30:48,720
Speaker 1: And We're all sitting there watching and at one point

716
00:30:48,760 --> 00:30:51,240
Speaker 1: I said to my dad, I go, hey, like this guy,

717
00:30:51,520 --> 00:30:54,520
Speaker 1: this is agonizing, and my Dad's like yeah, but you

718
00:30:54,600 --> 00:30:57,520
Speaker 1: don't ever ask that question unless you already know the answer,

719
00:30:58,200 --> 00:31:00,440
Speaker 1: like and it kind of like blew my mind. I

720
00:31:00,520 --> 00:31:02,360
Speaker 1: was like, I thought the whole thing was like mystical

721
00:31:02,400 --> 00:31:05,600
Speaker 1: and surprising, you know, I thought because because the person

722
00:31:05,600 --> 00:31:08,440
Speaker 1: who gets, you know, proposed to you typically acts like

723
00:31:08,480 --> 00:31:10,480
Speaker 1: they didn't know it was coming, and maybe they didn't

724
00:31:10,520 --> 00:31:13,240
Speaker 1: exactly know that it was coming, like then, but it's

725
00:31:13,280 --> 00:31:15,400
Speaker 1: not actually the first time it's It shouldn't be the

726
00:31:15,400 --> 00:31:18,360
Speaker 1: first time it's being discussed. It should not on one knee.

727
00:31:18,680 --> 00:31:20,160
Speaker 1: But I never as a little kid, I was like,

728
00:31:20,160 --> 00:31:22,280
Speaker 1: I never. I'm like, wow, dude, you just you go

729
00:31:22,320 --> 00:31:24,320
Speaker 1: out and buy a ring and then you just one

730
00:31:24,400 --> 00:31:26,200
Speaker 1: day get on one knee and you just hope she

731
00:31:26,240 --> 00:31:30,080
Speaker 1: says yes, and it's like but no, No, I had

732
00:31:30,120 --> 00:31:31,720
Speaker 1: a pretty good idea what your mom was going to

733
00:31:31,800 --> 00:31:33,800
Speaker 1: say before I asked, Like it's kind of like you ask,

734
00:31:33,920 --> 00:31:36,680
Speaker 1: you kind of pre ask, you know, like you do

735
00:31:36,760 --> 00:31:39,200
Speaker 1: the thing where even like when you're talking about going

736
00:31:39,320 --> 00:31:43,040
Speaker 1: like from dating to like being girlfriend boyfriend, don't you

737
00:31:43,120 --> 00:31:44,520
Speaker 1: kind of do that. I mean, I guess it's a guy.

738
00:31:44,560 --> 00:31:45,800
Speaker 1: You kind of do the thing where you're like, what

739
00:31:45,840 --> 00:31:49,480
Speaker 1: would you say if I how would you feel about, like,

740
00:31:49,480 --> 00:31:51,600
Speaker 1: like what are your thoughts on? Like basically, you just

741
00:31:51,600 --> 00:31:52,880
Speaker 1: make it so that when you finally said do you

742
00:31:52,880 --> 00:31:54,680
Speaker 1: want to be my girlfriend, like you know the answer

743
00:31:54,720 --> 00:31:57,240
Speaker 1: is yes. Yeah, because you don't because nobody wants to

744
00:31:57,240 --> 00:32:00,360
Speaker 1: get rejected no, and like you shouldn't, like you should

745
00:32:00,360 --> 00:32:04,680
Speaker 1: know what people are looking for, right, Like Anthony, you're

746
00:32:04,720 --> 00:32:07,240
Speaker 1: saying the same thing. Man, it is this guy got

747
00:32:07,320 --> 00:32:09,760
Speaker 1: what's coming to him. Yeah.

748
00:32:09,800 --> 00:32:11,880
Speaker 8: Absolutely, you kind of you hit it on that head.

749
00:32:12,640 --> 00:32:16,120
Speaker 8: It was at his parents anniversary. It was a power

750
00:32:16,200 --> 00:32:18,320
Speaker 8: trip thing. He wanted to be in front of people.

751
00:32:19,160 --> 00:32:21,560
Speaker 8: And I missed who said it. It might have been Kaylin.

752
00:32:22,080 --> 00:32:24,440
Speaker 8: You don't go into that if you don't know what

753
00:32:24,480 --> 00:32:26,920
Speaker 8: the answer is going to be. Right, if you had

754
00:32:26,960 --> 00:32:31,120
Speaker 8: a conversation like I proposed to my now wife, I

755
00:32:31,200 --> 00:32:33,000
Speaker 8: knew what that answer was going to be, and I

756
00:32:33,080 --> 00:32:35,560
Speaker 8: still did it in private because I knew she didn't

757
00:32:35,560 --> 00:32:36,640
Speaker 8: want to be a public thing.

758
00:32:36,760 --> 00:32:39,320
Speaker 1: Hmmm. Yeah. That's another thing, is you got to be

759
00:32:39,360 --> 00:32:42,080
Speaker 1: with somebody who wants the production, you know, like some

760
00:32:42,440 --> 00:32:44,000
Speaker 1: I think there are people I think you would know

761
00:32:44,280 --> 00:32:47,440
Speaker 1: if your partner, Like this is the whole thing. He

762
00:32:47,480 --> 00:32:49,680
Speaker 1: should have just known none he didn't listen to her

763
00:32:49,680 --> 00:32:52,560
Speaker 1: on any of this, and so I wouldn't be surprised

764
00:32:52,600 --> 00:32:54,600
Speaker 1: if she bails. But it sounds like she's not bailing.

765
00:32:55,000 --> 00:32:56,720
Speaker 1: It sounds like she just wants to take a step back.

766
00:32:56,760 --> 00:32:58,880
Speaker 1: She didn't dump him, she didn't leave the relationship. I

767
00:32:58,880 --> 00:33:00,240
Speaker 1: think she just said, hey, man, you got to go

768
00:33:00,320 --> 00:33:02,440
Speaker 1: undo everything you just did.

769
00:33:03,960 --> 00:33:06,400
Speaker 8: Right because now it's either we have to commit to

770
00:33:06,800 --> 00:33:10,360
Speaker 8: a year's long engagement until they're actually ready to tie

771
00:33:10,400 --> 00:33:13,920
Speaker 8: the knot and then that looks bad. Or he could

772
00:33:13,960 --> 00:33:15,880
Speaker 8: have listened in the first place, and, like you said,

773
00:33:15,960 --> 00:33:18,280
Speaker 8: has to go back and say like, hey, we're we're

774
00:33:18,320 --> 00:33:21,680
Speaker 8: going to reevaluate some things. We're not over, but it's

775
00:33:21,720 --> 00:33:22,880
Speaker 8: just not happening right now.

776
00:33:22,960 --> 00:33:25,080
Speaker 1: Yeah, yeah, which I think you can move past that.

777
00:33:25,160 --> 00:33:26,400
Speaker 1: Thank you, Anthony, have a good day.

778
00:33:27,240 --> 00:33:28,280
Speaker 8: Yeah you too, well, you guy.

779
00:33:28,360 --> 00:33:31,080
Speaker 1: Yeah, thanks. Man, if I did something, my parents would

780
00:33:31,080 --> 00:33:32,680
Speaker 1: be like that was stupid. Like if I did something

781
00:33:32,720 --> 00:33:34,160
Speaker 1: like that and then I went back and had to

782
00:33:34,160 --> 00:33:36,000
Speaker 1: tell him me ask so we're not actually engaged because

783
00:33:36,040 --> 00:33:38,240
Speaker 1: like she didn't want that, and my parents would be like,

784
00:33:38,240 --> 00:33:39,400
Speaker 1: what did you talk to you about it for? Like,

785
00:33:39,400 --> 00:33:41,680
Speaker 1: why did you do that? Then my parents would come

786
00:33:41,720 --> 00:33:44,560
Speaker 1: they crack me, you know, they'd be like, you're an idiot,

787
00:33:44,560 --> 00:33:46,400
Speaker 1: Like that's not how this works, dude, Like why did

788
00:33:46,400 --> 00:33:48,240
Speaker 1: you do it? Like that? But I also think it's

789
00:33:48,280 --> 00:33:50,720
Speaker 1: a reasonable thing to go back and say to family

790
00:33:50,760 --> 00:33:52,640
Speaker 1: and friends, like, you know, we got caught up in there.

791
00:33:52,880 --> 00:33:54,480
Speaker 1: You could make it. You could make it a little

792
00:33:54,520 --> 00:33:56,960
Speaker 1: more romantic than it was. Hey, he got caught up

793
00:33:57,000 --> 00:33:58,600
Speaker 1: in the moment. He was just so excited he got

794
00:33:58,600 --> 00:34:00,840
Speaker 1: the ring and whatever, and we I've talked about it,

795
00:34:00,880 --> 00:34:03,440
Speaker 1: but we're just not quite there yet. I think anybody

796
00:34:03,440 --> 00:34:06,280
Speaker 1: in a relationship or any period of time would respect that. Yes,

797
00:34:06,560 --> 00:34:09,360
Speaker 1: just like, Okay, so you weren't quite ready, you got excited,

798
00:34:09,680 --> 00:34:11,520
Speaker 1: You're not gonna break up. You're just gonna like take

799
00:34:11,560 --> 00:34:14,680
Speaker 1: a step back rather than let that weigh over you.

800
00:34:14,719 --> 00:34:17,520
Speaker 1: Because that's a horrible way to start to start an engagement.

801
00:34:17,560 --> 00:34:20,080
Speaker 1: And the process where the girl didn't even want to

802
00:34:20,120 --> 00:34:23,080
Speaker 1: do it. Yeah, as I'm watching it, as I'm watching

803
00:34:23,160 --> 00:34:25,120
Speaker 1: Kiki do all this wedding planning and stuff, like, if

804
00:34:25,120 --> 00:34:27,480
Speaker 1: you weren't elated with the process, this would be one

805
00:34:27,520 --> 00:34:28,399
Speaker 1: hundred times worse.

806
00:34:28,520 --> 00:34:31,480
Speaker 2: Yeah, and if you messed up my first proposal in

807
00:34:31,520 --> 00:34:32,640
Speaker 2: any way, shape or form.

808
00:34:32,800 --> 00:34:34,320
Speaker 1: I'm out the door, like, bro.

809
00:34:34,680 --> 00:34:36,640
Speaker 2: Yeah, Kaitlin, Like, I don't want now you're going to

810
00:34:36,680 --> 00:34:39,799
Speaker 2: do a redo of this. You've already gotten down. You're

811
00:34:39,800 --> 00:34:42,160
Speaker 2: looking goofy on the floor. Your family got photos and

812
00:34:42,239 --> 00:34:45,320
Speaker 2: videos of this, Like you didn't mess this whole experience

813
00:34:45,360 --> 00:34:45,719
Speaker 2: up for me.

814
00:34:45,880 --> 00:34:48,600
Speaker 1: Yeah, we may have to. We'd have to pretend that

815
00:34:48,920 --> 00:34:51,879
Speaker 1: was it, Like, yeah, OK, some day, some day I'll

816
00:34:51,920 --> 00:34:53,719
Speaker 1: tell you, like in six months or a year, just

817
00:34:53,719 --> 00:34:55,400
Speaker 1: hand me the ring back and we'll pretend like that

818
00:34:55,480 --> 00:34:57,359
Speaker 1: happened and that was it, Like, because we can't do.

819
00:34:57,280 --> 00:35:04,800
Speaker 3: This again, redo it. It's weird, right exactly. Hey Lucas, Lucas,

820
00:35:04,800 --> 00:35:07,600
Speaker 3: are you are you moving someone right now? What are

821
00:35:07,600 --> 00:35:11,239
Speaker 3: you doing? Are you? Are you cutting a tree down? No?

822
00:35:11,239 --> 00:35:13,319
Speaker 1: No, I'm not the work right now? Well I knew

823
00:35:13,360 --> 00:35:15,759
Speaker 1: I just like I can hear that. I like a

824
00:35:15,760 --> 00:35:20,480
Speaker 1: guy who can work and together you're putting what together?

825
00:35:21,360 --> 00:35:25,280
Speaker 9: All the chiefs, Minima, Takatas Mussy, his oldest.

826
00:35:24,960 --> 00:35:27,600
Speaker 1: Oh, bring some of those over here. I need some

827
00:35:27,640 --> 00:35:30,359
Speaker 1: breakfast anyway, So what do you get? The final say

828
00:35:30,400 --> 00:35:33,120
Speaker 1: on this? The dude proposes to his girlfriend in front

829
00:35:33,120 --> 00:35:34,799
Speaker 1: of his parents and all their friends at his parents

830
00:35:34,840 --> 00:35:37,640
Speaker 1: anniversary party. She'd already said she wasn't ready. He did

831
00:35:37,640 --> 00:35:39,640
Speaker 1: it anyway, and now she's having a backtrack and he's

832
00:35:39,640 --> 00:35:40,200
Speaker 1: mad at her.

833
00:35:42,040 --> 00:35:44,440
Speaker 9: Well, in my opinions, first of all, you you too

834
00:35:44,560 --> 00:35:45,759
Speaker 9: your parents' spotlights.

835
00:35:46,640 --> 00:35:50,120
Speaker 1: He took the parents spotlight. That's another all. You put

836
00:35:50,200 --> 00:35:50,920
Speaker 1: her on the spot.

837
00:35:51,000 --> 00:35:54,439
Speaker 9: So basically, you know she in my opinions, she got

838
00:35:55,280 --> 00:35:58,080
Speaker 9: like you guys talk, She's gonna say no, you're embarrassed,

839
00:35:58,280 --> 00:35:59,960
Speaker 9: embarrassed the guy find of everybody.

840
00:36:00,440 --> 00:36:03,400
Speaker 1: So basically give you You gave her no choice, no choice.

841
00:36:03,520 --> 00:36:06,800
Speaker 9: You gotta say yes, you know, and to make you

842
00:36:06,880 --> 00:36:09,239
Speaker 9: look good and everybody, I'm happy on the party and

843
00:36:09,280 --> 00:36:10,880
Speaker 9: continue the party with the good moods.

844
00:36:11,200 --> 00:36:14,880
Speaker 1: Yeah, yeah, you gotta keep part of it. You gotta

845
00:36:14,960 --> 00:36:16,640
Speaker 1: keep partying after that, that's for sure.

846
00:36:17,120 --> 00:36:17,520
Speaker 3: Exactly.

847
00:36:17,719 --> 00:36:20,400
Speaker 9: So you know, like imagine she's gonna say no, like

848
00:36:20,480 --> 00:36:22,200
Speaker 9: all the head out of that room probably would be

849
00:36:22,200 --> 00:36:22,920
Speaker 9: out right now.

850
00:36:22,920 --> 00:36:25,319
Speaker 1: The party is. It's like he knew this, Like the

851
00:36:25,360 --> 00:36:28,080
Speaker 1: party would be ruined, the parents would hate her, there'd

852
00:36:28,080 --> 00:36:29,920
Speaker 1: be no coming back. It was like it was like

853
00:36:29,960 --> 00:36:33,560
Speaker 1: a U, Yes, it was Lucas, I gotta go have

854
00:36:33,600 --> 00:36:36,600
Speaker 1: a good day, man, Thank you have a good day

855
00:36:36,600 --> 00:36:41,120
Speaker 1: at work. Yeah no, but but why would you why

856
00:36:41,160 --> 00:36:44,080
Speaker 1: would you even want that? Like as a man, like

857
00:36:44,200 --> 00:36:46,959
Speaker 1: what or whoever's proposing woman whatever, why would you even

858
00:36:47,080 --> 00:36:48,960
Speaker 1: want that? Like, why would you want to know? I'm

859
00:36:49,000 --> 00:36:52,240
Speaker 1: doing this because I know she'll say yes out of pressure.

860
00:36:52,480 --> 00:36:55,200
Speaker 1: To Paulina's point, he's trying to trap her. Yeah, it's

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