WEBVTT - Second Date Update PODCAST: I Have a Secret

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<v Speaker 1>Brook and Jewels second DAT day. Remember, if you want

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<v Speaker 1>a second date update, all you have to do is

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<v Speaker 1>email us Brook and Jewel at Moving nine two five

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<v Speaker 1>dot com. We will call the person that didn't call

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<v Speaker 1>you back. Adam is on the phone with us right now.

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<v Speaker 1>He sent us an email about a girl named Robin.

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<v Speaker 1>They met online and went out for a night of

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<v Speaker 1>karaokeing what's up Adam? Hey, what's up? Jee Willie Brooke? Hey, Adam?

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<v Speaker 1>What's your karaokee song? A choice? Would you used to

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<v Speaker 1>impress her? Living on a prayer? So like my go

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<v Speaker 1>to it? Yeah, I think that's a pretty popular one. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>So tell us about Robin. Well, we met online. She

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<v Speaker 1>was great. I was actually really excited to meet her,

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<v Speaker 1>which isn't always the case. But I picked her up

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<v Speaker 1>and we were really just getting along really well. She

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<v Speaker 1>was laughing at all my jokes. She was really like

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<v Speaker 1>cute and funny, and I liked her. So we took

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<v Speaker 1>the date to the next step and I took her

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<v Speaker 1>to my karaoke bar. Got serious at that point. The

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<v Speaker 1>next I want something else. I want to move this

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<v Speaker 1>along to the next level. That's a big car. So

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<v Speaker 1>the day did you feel like it went well. Was

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<v Speaker 1>was there a moment that you thought it was taking

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<v Speaker 1>a downturn? I thought it went great. We were, you know,

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<v Speaker 1>having some drinks, having a good time. It's kind of

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<v Speaker 1>a popular bar. So it took a long time to

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<v Speaker 1>get up, and then I went up on stage. I

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<v Speaker 1>was killing it. I did kind of So I've got

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<v Speaker 1>a move that I do when I sing the song,

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<v Speaker 1>and I do this high kick and oh okay, So

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<v Speaker 1>so again we're wondering why she wasn't calling you back.

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<v Speaker 1>We're hold on, hold on if you if you can

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<v Speaker 1>see it, it's it's pretty impressive. Okay, Yeah, I mean

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<v Speaker 1>really your signature move. Hey, everyone's got to have one.

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<v Speaker 1>I've you know, I've got mine, right, did you? Did

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<v Speaker 1>you say? I? Uh, maybe A kind of tripped when

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<v Speaker 1>I did it. I kind of fell backwards, so that

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<v Speaker 1>wasn't too smooth. But I got back up. I finished

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<v Speaker 1>the song. So it shouldn't be like that. Did you

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<v Speaker 1>take it as an opportunity to like make fun of

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<v Speaker 1>yourself and be self deprecating exactly exactly? You know? You

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<v Speaker 1>gotta you gotta, you know, play it up and you

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<v Speaker 1>can't pretend something like that didn't happen, so you just,

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<v Speaker 1>you know, roll with it and make a joke out

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<v Speaker 1>of it. Right, it was hysterical, I mean everyone was.

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<v Speaker 1>Everyone thought it was hilarious killed. That's what I stand by.

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<v Speaker 1>Laugh at you or with you, It doesn't matter either way,

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<v Speaker 1>as long as we're having a good time. How'd your

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<v Speaker 1>date end? Well? I don't really remember. I know I

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<v Speaker 1>woke up at home and like the next day I

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<v Speaker 1>had to take a cab back to the bar and

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<v Speaker 1>get my car. Was it from drinking or was it

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<v Speaker 1>from a concussion from your wild I think I just

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<v Speaker 1>maybe drank too much and probably kind a cab or something.

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<v Speaker 1>How do you leave that out of the story that

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<v Speaker 1>you were blackout wasted during karaoke? I don't think I

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<v Speaker 1>was blackout wasted. You know, it just got like a

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<v Speaker 1>little murky at the end. Do you know how you

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<v Speaker 1>said goodbye to her? Then? Do you remember leaving her?

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<v Speaker 1>Not exactly? But okay, See, normal people just check their memory.

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<v Speaker 1>I know myself, even when I drink too much, I'm

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<v Speaker 1>still fine. I'm still like a nice guy. I've never

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<v Speaker 1>like mean or anything. So have you tried to call her? Yeah?

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<v Speaker 1>I've called her four times and I've texted her and

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<v Speaker 1>she hasn't gotten back to me, so I thought we

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<v Speaker 1>had a really great time. I wanted to uh get

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<v Speaker 1>back in touch with her. All right, well, we're gonna

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<v Speaker 1>call her about three and a half minutes, play a song,

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<v Speaker 1>come back, and get your second day update. Okay, all right, awesome, thanks,

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<v Speaker 1>all right, hang on me brooking jubil in the morning,

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<v Speaker 1>Adam is on the phone with us. Adam emailed us

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<v Speaker 1>about Robin, who we went out on a date with.

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<v Speaker 1>They went out karaoking, He got wasted, doesn't even really

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<v Speaker 1>remember saying goodbye. Do you want to call her for

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<v Speaker 1>a second date, Adam, or are you calling her to

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<v Speaker 1>apologize slash find out what happened with the rest of

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<v Speaker 1>your evening. I want to apologize, I guess, but I

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<v Speaker 1>want to go out with her again, So let's call her.

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<v Speaker 1>I'm assuming you did something blacked out that you don't remember.

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<v Speaker 1>I hope not. All right, We're gonna call her right now.

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<v Speaker 1>I get her on the phone and get your second

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<v Speaker 1>day up date. You ready? Yeah? Yeah? Okay? Hello? Alli?

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<v Speaker 1>Is Robin there? Hello? Hello? Hi Robin? Hello, can you

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<v Speaker 1>hear me? Hello? Hello? She can hear right? Adam what like,

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<v Speaker 1>is she deaf? Yeah, she's a hearing person. Okay, I

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<v Speaker 1>just want to check in my church because she couldn't

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<v Speaker 1>hear me there. I'm gonn try and call back. I

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<v Speaker 1>don't know why she would have a phone. Yeah, why

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<v Speaker 1>Adam would invite her to karaoke just to like Rob? Yeah? No,

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<v Speaker 1>wonder is he's not calling you back? Adam? Your j

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<v Speaker 1>I'm singing, It's amazing. All right, here we go. I'm

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<v Speaker 1>trying to call her again. Obviously there was a problem

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<v Speaker 1>with the connection. Okay, Hello, Hi is Robin there? Hey Robin,

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<v Speaker 1>how are you? This is Jewel from brook and Jewel

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<v Speaker 1>in the morning. I'm moving ninety two point five. Hey,

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<v Speaker 1>what's going on? I don't know what's going on? Well, oh,

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<v Speaker 1>just be straight up with you. Somebody emailed us and

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<v Speaker 1>wants us to get a hold of you to find

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<v Speaker 1>out why you're not getting back to them. Okay. It's

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<v Speaker 1>a guy named Adam. Do you remember going on a

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<v Speaker 1>date with him? Yeah? Do you think he remembers going

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<v Speaker 1>on a date with you? I know he was drunk,

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<v Speaker 1>he was, okay, I think so he had a really

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<v Speaker 1>good time. So you did? You did have good time

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<v Speaker 1>without him? Yeah? It was it was cool, it was nice.

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<v Speaker 1>You didn't even mind his high kicked during his karaoke performance,

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<v Speaker 1>and actually that was hilarious. Okay, if you had a

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<v Speaker 1>good time, why aren't you calling him back? I don't know.

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<v Speaker 1>I just thought, you know, it was just like a

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<v Speaker 1>one time thing type of dealing. Did he do something

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<v Speaker 1>stupid while he was drunk? Oh? Yeah, he definitely did

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<v Speaker 1>stupid stuff while he was drunk. He tried to kiss

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<v Speaker 1>me and he was like pousy, like, you know, tried

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<v Speaker 1>to touch me whatever during the date. It was funny.

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<v Speaker 1>So did I bother you? It doesn't sound like that

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<v Speaker 1>bothers you though normally it would bother me. But after

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<v Speaker 1>you see him fall on the stage, like I realized,

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<v Speaker 1>he was way like overserved. Robin, you're awesome. Yeah, I

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<v Speaker 1>want to go on a date with you. So you

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<v Speaker 1>had a fun time. You're not mad about his drinking.

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<v Speaker 1>Why do you not want to go on a date

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<v Speaker 1>with her? I am baffled. There's the secrets that I

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<v Speaker 1>have that I just didn't tell him. You know a

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<v Speaker 1>secret that you have? Yeah, and it's not a boyfriend?

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<v Speaker 1>Can blue that you actually rob and not Robin? What

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<v Speaker 1>it is is that I have a baby, and so

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<v Speaker 1>I never told him that, what you have a baby? Hey,

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<v Speaker 1>Robin Adam is on the phone right now. He just

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<v Speaker 1>heard everything. He said. Oh baby, Yeah, I mean, I mean,

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<v Speaker 1>he doesn't even matter. Was that was that the baby

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<v Speaker 1>in the background? Yeah, that's him in the background. I'm

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<v Speaker 1>actually trying to see him. Now. How old is he?

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<v Speaker 1>Oh he's like five weeks old. Wow, you had a

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<v Speaker 1>baby five weeks ago. That's not something that you would

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<v Speaker 1>tell me. I mean, this is what I'm saying, Like,

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<v Speaker 1>now I have to talk about it. I really didn't

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<v Speaker 1>want to talk about it, you know what I mean.

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<v Speaker 1>I just wanted to go out and have a good time.

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<v Speaker 1>Oh I don't know what you mean. How are you

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<v Speaker 1>like that's kind of a talking point. Yeah. I just

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<v Speaker 1>wanted to go out, and half the time I didn't

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<v Speaker 1>want to get all deep. You know. Well apparently you

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<v Speaker 1>got pretty deep. So you're just enjoying the night off

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<v Speaker 1>from watching your baby, and you had fun and you

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<v Speaker 1>just aren't interested in going out again. That is that it.

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<v Speaker 1>I mean, it's like this, If he really likes me,

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<v Speaker 1>he'll quit partying so much and stay home and watch

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<v Speaker 1>the baby with me, then sure, I'll go out. Wait

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<v Speaker 1>a second, hold on, how are you going to look

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<v Speaker 1>for somebody to try and like make me completely change

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<v Speaker 1>who I am and not even say who you are,

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<v Speaker 1>not even like on your on your dating profile. I'm

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<v Speaker 1>just saying, if you want to go out again, those

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<v Speaker 1>are the rules, Those of the stipulations. And besides, I

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<v Speaker 1>didn't call you four times after the day you called me,

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<v Speaker 1>Oh my gosh, where's the baby daddy at? He's not

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<v Speaker 1>at the karaoke bar, that's for sure. Say where's he at?

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<v Speaker 1>I ain't even around, but he's not, you know, really relevant.

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<v Speaker 1>So it didn't really matter a guy. There's a guy

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<v Speaker 1>who's around, and you're going out on a date with me, Well,

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<v Speaker 1>he's around, and what to watch? What's the baby? I mean,

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<v Speaker 1>in that instance, you better be glad he's around, because

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<v Speaker 1>I couldn't have gone out he was watching the baby.

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<v Speaker 1>I don't think she means he's around like he's a boyfriend.

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<v Speaker 1>He's around, like he's still taking care of his kid.

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<v Speaker 1>That happens, man. I feel like I'm on Jerry Springer

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<v Speaker 1>a little bit. I feel like I'm on Jerry Springer

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<v Speaker 1>a little bit. I'm not the one that called the

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<v Speaker 1>radio station. You did, you know, it wasn't me, it

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<v Speaker 1>was you. I wanted to go out and just have

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<v Speaker 1>like a fun, crazy night out, and we met and

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<v Speaker 1>it was cool. Don't put it on me, you know what,

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<v Speaker 1>there's other websites for that kind of thing, Adam. What

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<v Speaker 1>you may have felt like was a connection may have

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<v Speaker 1>just been your paternal instincts kicking out. Knew see father,

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<v Speaker 1>Hey you guys, we will send you out on a

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<v Speaker 1>second date. We'll pay for it if you'd like to

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<v Speaker 1>go out again, Robin, you're interested in going out with

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<v Speaker 1>Adham again, have a good time. I mean, if he

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<v Speaker 1>can adhere to the stipulations. Yeah, Adam, some steep stipulations. Look,

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<v Speaker 1>I really liked you, and I'd be open to seeing

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<v Speaker 1>where it goes. I just don't want to feel like,

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<v Speaker 1>you know, there's absolutely no point in seeing each other

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<v Speaker 1>again if I'm not going to commit to you forever

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<v Speaker 1>on a second date. So he wants to go out

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<v Speaker 1>again and give it another shot, Rob And that's a

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<v Speaker 1>pretty good offer right there. Yeah, I mean it's cool.

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<v Speaker 1>I mean we can see you know, it's I just

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<v Speaker 1>don't want to do anything major or anything serious. You know,

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<v Speaker 1>we can go out on the second date. That sounds cool. Perfect,

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<v Speaker 1>We'll send you guys out again. That's awesome. I really

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<v Speaker 1>didn't expect you guys to agree to a second date,

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<v Speaker 1>but that's cool. Make sure you guys schedule the night

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<v Speaker 1>that your baby daddy could baby say. You know what.

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<v Speaker 1>Along with us paying for the date, I will offer

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<v Speaker 1>my services as a babysitter. Robin Run Run, Robin bro

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<v Speaker 1>bono for free. I'll watch that little tike, you know

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<v Speaker 1>what they're calling. You know you can't just you can't

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<v Speaker 1>just put them in a closet, right, No, you don't

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<v Speaker 1>do you just throw some food on the floor and

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<v Speaker 1>they're good. Broken Jupel in the morning along the f