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Speaker 1: Brook and Jewels second DAT day. Remember, if you want

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Speaker 1: a second date update, all you have to do is

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Speaker 1: email us Brook and Jewel at Moving nine two five

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Speaker 1: dot com. We will call the person that didn't call

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Speaker 1: you back. Adam is on the phone with us right now.

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Speaker 1: He sent us an email about a girl named Robin.

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Speaker 1: They met online and went out for a night of

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Speaker 1: karaokeing what's up Adam? Hey, what's up? Jee Willie Brooke? Hey, Adam?

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Speaker 1: What's your karaokee song? A choice? Would you used to

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Speaker 1: impress her? Living on a prayer? So like my go

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Speaker 1: to it? Yeah, I think that's a pretty popular one. Yeah,

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Speaker 1: So tell us about Robin. Well, we met online. She

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Speaker 1: was great. I was actually really excited to meet her,

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Speaker 1: and we were really just getting along really well. She

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Speaker 1: to my karaoke bar. Got serious at that point. The

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Speaker 1: next I want something else. I want to move this

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Speaker 1: along to the next level. That's a big car. So

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Speaker 1: the day did you feel like it went well. Was

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Speaker 1: was there a moment that you thought it was taking

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Speaker 1: a downturn? I thought it went great. We were, you know,

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Speaker 1: having some drinks, having a good time. It's kind of

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Speaker 1: get up, and then I went up on stage. I

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Speaker 1: was killing it. I did kind of So I've got

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Speaker 1: a move that I do when I sing the song,

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Speaker 1: and I do this high kick and oh okay, So

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Speaker 1: so again we're wondering why she wasn't calling you back.

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Speaker 1: We're hold on, hold on if you if you can

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Speaker 1: see it, it's it's pretty impressive. Okay, Yeah, I mean

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Speaker 1: really your signature move. Hey, everyone's got to have one.

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Speaker 1: I've you know, I've got mine, right, did you? Did

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Speaker 1: you say? I? Uh, maybe A kind of tripped when

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Speaker 1: wasn't too smooth. But I got back up. I finished

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Speaker 1: the song. So it shouldn't be like that. Did you

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Speaker 1: take it as an opportunity to like make fun of

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Speaker 1: yourself and be self deprecating exactly exactly? You know? You

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Speaker 1: gotta you gotta, you know, play it up and you

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Speaker 1: can't pretend something like that didn't happen, so you just,

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Speaker 1: of it. Right, it was hysterical, I mean everyone was.

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Speaker 1: Everyone thought it was hilarious killed. That's what I stand by.

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Speaker 1: Laugh at you or with you, It doesn't matter either way,

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Speaker 1: as long as we're having a good time. How'd your

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Speaker 1: date end? Well? I don't really remember. I know I

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Speaker 1: get my car. Was it from drinking or was it

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Speaker 1: from a concussion from your wild I think I just

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Speaker 1: How do you leave that out of the story that

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Speaker 1: you were blackout wasted during karaoke? I don't think I

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Speaker 1: little murky at the end. Do you know how you

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Speaker 1: said goodbye to her? Then? Do you remember leaving her?

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Speaker 1: Not exactly? But okay, See, normal people just check their memory.

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Speaker 1: I know myself, even when I drink too much, I'm

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Speaker 1: still fine. I'm still like a nice guy. I've never

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Speaker 1: like mean or anything. So have you tried to call her? Yeah?

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Speaker 1: I've called her four times and I've texted her and

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Speaker 1: back in touch with her. All right, well, we're gonna

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Speaker 1: call her about three and a half minutes, play a song,

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Speaker 1: come back, and get your second day update. Okay, all right, awesome, thanks,

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Speaker 1: all right, hang on me brooking jubil in the morning,

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Speaker 1: Adam is on the phone with us. Adam emailed us

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Speaker 1: about Robin, who we went out on a date with.

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Speaker 1: They went out karaoking, He got wasted, doesn't even really

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Speaker 1: a second date, Adam, or are you calling her to

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Speaker 1: I'm assuming you did something blacked out that you don't remember.

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Speaker 1: day up date. You ready? Yeah? Yeah? Okay? Hello? Alli?

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Speaker 1: Is Robin there? Hello? Hello? Hi Robin? Hello, can you

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Speaker 1: don't know why she would have a phone. Yeah, why

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Speaker 1: Adam would invite her to karaoke just to like Rob? Yeah? No,

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Speaker 1: wonder is he's not calling you back? Adam? Your j

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Speaker 1: I'm singing, It's amazing. All right, here we go. I'm

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Speaker 1: how are you? This is Jewel from brook and Jewel

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Speaker 1: in the morning. I'm moving ninety two point five. Hey,

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Speaker 1: what's going on? I don't know what's going on? Well, oh,

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Speaker 1: a guy named Adam. Do you remember going on a

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Speaker 1: and actually that was hilarious. Okay, if you had a

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Speaker 1: I just thought, you know, it was just like a

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Speaker 1: Can blue that you actually rob and not Robin? What

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Speaker 1: it is is that I have a baby, and so

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Speaker 1: I never told him that, what you have a baby? Hey,

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Speaker 1: Robin Adam is on the phone right now. He just

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Speaker 1: heard everything. He said. Oh baby, Yeah, I mean, I mean,

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Speaker 1: actually trying to see him. Now. How old is he?

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Speaker 1: Oh he's like five weeks old. Wow, you had a

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Speaker 1: baby five weeks ago. That's not something that you would

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Speaker 1: I just wanted to go out and have a good time.

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Speaker 1: just aren't interested in going out again. That is that it.

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Speaker 1: I mean, it's like this, If he really likes me,

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Speaker 1: he'll quit partying so much and stay home and watch

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Speaker 1: for somebody to try and like make me completely change

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Speaker 1: just saying, if you want to go out again, those

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Speaker 1: are the rules, Those of the stipulations. And besides, I

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Speaker 1: Oh my gosh, where's the baby daddy at? He's not

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Speaker 1: at the karaoke bar, that's for sure. Say where's he at?

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Speaker 1: I ain't even around, but he's not, you know, really relevant.

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Speaker 1: So it didn't really matter a guy. There's a guy

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Speaker 1: I don't think she means he's around like he's a boyfriend.

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Speaker 1: a little bit. I feel like I'm on Jerry Springer

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Speaker 1: it was cool. Don't put it on me, you know what,

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Speaker 1: there's other websites for that kind of thing, Adam. What

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Speaker 1: you may have felt like was a connection may have

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Speaker 1: just been your paternal instincts kicking out. Knew see father,

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Speaker 1: Hey you guys, we will send you out on a

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Speaker 1: second date. We'll pay for it if you'd like to

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Speaker 1: Adham again, have a good time. I mean, if he

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Speaker 1: can adhere to the stipulations. Yeah, Adam, some steep stipulations. Look,

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Speaker 1: I really liked you, and I'd be open to seeing

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Speaker 1: where it goes. I just don't want to feel like,

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Speaker 1: on a second date. So he wants to go out

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Speaker 1: again and give it another shot, Rob And that's a

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Speaker 1: pretty good offer right there. Yeah, I mean it's cool.

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Speaker 1: I mean we can see you know, it's I just

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Speaker 1: we can go out on the second date. That sounds cool. Perfect,

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Speaker 1: We'll send you guys out again. That's awesome. I really

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Speaker 1: didn't expect you guys to agree to a second date,

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Speaker 1: but that's cool. Make sure you guys schedule the night

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Speaker 1: that your baby daddy could baby say. You know what.

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Speaker 1: Along with us paying for the date, I will offer

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Speaker 1: my services as a babysitter. Robin Run Run, Robin bro

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Speaker 1: bono for free. I'll watch that little tike, you know

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Speaker 1: what they're calling. You know you can't just you can't

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Speaker 1: do you just throw some food on the floor and

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Speaker 1: they're good. Broken Jupel in the morning along the f