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Speaker 1: It is the Strawberry Letter, subject I don't want to

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Speaker 1: hurt the little guy. Dear Stephen Shirley. I dated a

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Speaker 1: guy off and on for about three years, but we

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Speaker 1: never had sexual relations because I was having myself a

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Speaker 1: good time dating several men at once and I was celibate.

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Speaker 1: He was a perfect gentleman and had every quality that

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Speaker 1: I prayed for in a man, but I wasn't ready

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Speaker 1: to settle down. Now that I'm twenty nine, I decided

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Speaker 1: it was time. My heart led me back to the

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Speaker 1: guy I've been casually dating and he was still single

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Speaker 1: tell him that I don't want him and it's over.

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Speaker 1: Before we had sex, he kept telling me that he

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Speaker 1: couldn't wait. It finally happened, and it was a very

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Speaker 1: lot of wet kissing and licking my face, which was

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Speaker 1: different than his usual sensual kiss He proceeded to lick

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Speaker 1: my entire body with his tongue drenching me in his saliva,

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Speaker 1: He got a condom, put it on, then turned to me,

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Speaker 1: it easy on me since it's been a while. Negro, Please,

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Speaker 1: how should I let little man know that I won't

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Speaker 1: ever be going back for sex for seconds? Please advise? Hey,

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Speaker 1: first of all, I want to thank y'all for a

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Speaker 1: while right here. Yeah yeah, this is what Taylor made

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Speaker 1: This is some criticism that has no happy ending. I mean,

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Speaker 1: You can't tell anyone something like this. He's too small,

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Speaker 1: You didn't feel anything. You can't tell him that. No

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Speaker 1: I say all of that because you called him little man.

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Speaker 1: You know, you kind of clowned him a little bit.

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Speaker 1: And please don't forget that. You said your heart led

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Speaker 1: right after this. You're listening Steve Morning Show. All right, Steve,

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Speaker 1: come on, let's recap my strawberry letter for it today.

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Speaker 1: The subject is, I don't want to hurt the little guy.

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Speaker 1: Oh sounds so sad. Twenty nine year old girl been

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Speaker 1: Well you hadn't, You had been sellable and everything, and

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Speaker 1: It's chest. Hang it off with him, boil. Let me

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