WEBVTT - Second Date Update PODCAST: Weirdest Guy Ever

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<v Speaker 1>Rooking jewels. Second up, people often talk about the one

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<v Speaker 1>that got away. Well, you know, people wouldn't use that

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<v Speaker 1>expression if they'd be smart about it. And when that

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<v Speaker 1>one gets away, you hunt them down and catch them

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<v Speaker 1>so they'll never leave you again and they will be

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<v Speaker 1>yours forever. I feel like that involves duct tape and

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<v Speaker 1>it shouldn't scare. And that's why Craig is on the

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<v Speaker 1>phone for a second date update today. His email says

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<v Speaker 1>that he went out with a girl about a year

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<v Speaker 1>ago and then she slipped out of his grass, and

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<v Speaker 1>so now he wants to hunt her down and make

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<v Speaker 1>sure that she never leaves his side again. What's up, Craig? Hey, Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>that's how you guys doing good. Are you ready to

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<v Speaker 1>hunt down the one that got away? Oh? Yes, I

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<v Speaker 1>have to get her. You know, as if destiny we

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<v Speaker 1>would definitely be together. What are you talking about? I

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<v Speaker 1>was joking round about the creezy part, but you sound

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<v Speaker 1>just straight up creeping Greg. I'm just saying, you know,

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<v Speaker 1>when when you have just a connection that we had,

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<v Speaker 1>it was so perfect. Are you screwing with us right now, Craig? No,

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<v Speaker 1>But honestly, we hung out like a year ago. And

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<v Speaker 1>I called her and she never called me back, and

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<v Speaker 1>her phone was just connected and I just didn't get

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<v Speaker 1>in touch with her. And then randomly sea at a bar,

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<v Speaker 1>I just saw hanging out with her friends and I

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<v Speaker 1>had to go over there. Had to talk, Craig. I

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<v Speaker 1>know that I'm very sarcastic with people, and I mess

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<v Speaker 1>with people a lot, but I feel like, now you're

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<v Speaker 1>screwing with me. Oh no, it was. It was wonderful.

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<v Speaker 1>You had to be there. I was at an antique shop.

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<v Speaker 1>You were at an antique shop. Yes, an antique shop. Okay,

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<v Speaker 1>so you're saying that's where you met her. No, I

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<v Speaker 1>was just collecting some things and I was at an

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<v Speaker 1>antique shop. Okay, help me with this. So he said,

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<v Speaker 1>you went out with her a year ago. And then

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<v Speaker 1>why are you talking about an antique shop right now?

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<v Speaker 1>Because I loved antiques and she loved antiques. That's where

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<v Speaker 1>I met her. And then I saw just picking out

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<v Speaker 1>some things, and I was like, let me help you out,

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<v Speaker 1>and it was perfect. I am so confused. Did you

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<v Speaker 1>actually go on a date with this girl a year ago?

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<v Speaker 1>Or did you just talk to her in some random

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<v Speaker 1>antique shop? Asked afterwards, if she wants to get coffee.

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<v Speaker 1>She said, yes, okay for each other. You guys, you

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<v Speaker 1>are really creeping me out really bad right now. How

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<v Speaker 1>am I creeping? I'm just I'm talking to you. That's

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<v Speaker 1>how I talked. You're talking about destiny and love over

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<v Speaker 1>a girl you met a year ago that you had

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<v Speaker 1>a fifteen minute coffee date with. Yeah, you weren't. It

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<v Speaker 1>was amazing. It was beautiful. And by the way, we've

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<v Speaker 1>had a second date updates like this before where someone

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<v Speaker 1>said I saw a person walking by, we shared a

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<v Speaker 1>glance and I'm in love and Brook you've been like,

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<v Speaker 1>oh my god, this is gonna be amazing. So about

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<v Speaker 1>chasing them down for a whole year and hunting them down?

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<v Speaker 1>In another sponge I talked about the hunting down. I

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<v Speaker 1>don't know who's talking about. Never Craig never said he

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<v Speaker 1>hunted anybody down. Craig, you didn't hunt her down, right?

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<v Speaker 1>I googled her. Everybody was. I wasn't hunting everybody googles

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<v Speaker 1>people or facebook stalk to them. You didn't legitimately stalk

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<v Speaker 1>this person, right, No, like I was saying. I googled her,

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<v Speaker 1>I went on her Facebook. I looked for her friends,

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<v Speaker 1>and I just followed her. I mean, you wasn't creepy

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<v Speaker 1>though you followed her online or in person. Now I'm

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<v Speaker 1>starting to decide with broken say that we can't do

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<v Speaker 1>the second day update because you're stalking somebody. I am

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<v Speaker 1>going with my gut on this one. I was just

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<v Speaker 1>walking around and I happened to see the bar that

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<v Speaker 1>she usually goes too, and I just stopped by. And

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<v Speaker 1>that's why I ran into Oh yeah, because you normally

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<v Speaker 1>know where a person hangs out all the time when

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<v Speaker 1>you just go to coffee with them. Well, yes, we

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<v Speaker 1>had a conversation. We talked like, I'm not creepy. You're

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<v Speaker 1>making it sound like I'm creepy. We talked for a

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<v Speaker 1>while and we go get coffee. She told me her

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<v Speaker 1>favorite bar, and I thought, hey, maybe she might be there. Okay,

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<v Speaker 1>so you didn't fully stalk her. You knew her favorite

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<v Speaker 1>places to go, and you just went hoping that she

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<v Speaker 1>would show up. Yes, isn't that what we all do? Okay?

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<v Speaker 1>So here here's going to be the key in this

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<v Speaker 1>whole puzzle. What was her reaction to seeing you? Because

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<v Speaker 1>if the feeling's mutual, great, I'll give you a pass.

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<v Speaker 1>She was very surprised, in a good way or a

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<v Speaker 1>bad way. I believe it was a good way. I mean,

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<v Speaker 1>she saw me, I bought her drink and we talked

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<v Speaker 1>for an hour. Okay, so she hung out with you

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<v Speaker 1>for an hour? All right? To me? That would say

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<v Speaker 1>that she likes you, Yes, at least a little bit.

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<v Speaker 1>Thank you? Or you were following around the barn? Say,

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<v Speaker 1>how was the conversation we caught up? I asked what

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<v Speaker 1>she's been doing for a year, what happened to her phone?

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<v Speaker 1>How was her friends doing on Facebook? Well? You asked

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<v Speaker 1>her all that you checked in on her friends on Facebook,

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<v Speaker 1>So you grilled her about where her phone was and

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<v Speaker 1>her friends on Facebook and everything. Look, it's not weird.

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<v Speaker 1>You're making it sound weird. I didn't know how to

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<v Speaker 1>reach out to her, so that was the best way

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<v Speaker 1>I could do it, because you don't have to find

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<v Speaker 1>out where she was. So I had to talk to

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<v Speaker 1>her friends on Facebook, and I was very caring and

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<v Speaker 1>her phone was disconnected. How to reach her? Okay? Well, God,

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<v Speaker 1>let me ask you this. It's a long story, I know,

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<v Speaker 1>but how did everything end with her the last time

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<v Speaker 1>you saw her? I talk to her? Well, the last

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<v Speaker 1>time I saw her, it ended normally, all right. She

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<v Speaker 1>said she's gonna call me, and then I didn't hear

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<v Speaker 1>a call, so I decided to call her, and her

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<v Speaker 1>phone is its connect to at Her phone is disconnected again. Yes, okay,

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<v Speaker 1>you guys realize that she's disconnecting her phone because she

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<v Speaker 1>doesn't want to hear from this weirdo. Oh maybe it's

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<v Speaker 1>not true. You never know, it could be this whacky coincidence. No,

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<v Speaker 1>I have protecting her. I'm thankful that we can't get up.

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<v Speaker 1>How we're not gonna be able to get a hold

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<v Speaker 1>of her. She has a disconnected phone that actually her

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<v Speaker 1>iced out to one of her friends, and she's given

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<v Speaker 1>me a different number. Friend should give you a different

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<v Speaker 1>number for okay, Yeah, all right, Craig, Well, hold on

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<v Speaker 1>the phone. Okay, we're gonna play a song, come back

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<v Speaker 1>and get your second date update. All right. I'm so

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<v Speaker 1>surprised to doing this, but thank you, thank you. So

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<v Speaker 1>I feel like doing this is just a public service,

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<v Speaker 1>all right, Hang on the phone. Fucking jubil in the morning.

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<v Speaker 1>I have never heard such a beautiful love story. Oh

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<v Speaker 1>my gosh, it's like the one for today's second date update.

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<v Speaker 1>Craig is on the phone with us, and today he

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<v Speaker 1>wants to call a girl named Jennifer. Craig went out

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<v Speaker 1>with her about a year ago, and after they went out,

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<v Speaker 1>somehow her number got changed or disconnected and he couldn't

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<v Speaker 1>get ahold of her for a whole year. And then

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<v Speaker 1>cut to a year later, Craig is at one of

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<v Speaker 1>the bars that she frequents a lot and he runs

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<v Speaker 1>into her coincidence, and then she has drinks with Craig

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<v Speaker 1>and then after that her numbers disconnected again. What a

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<v Speaker 1>strange coincidence. But Craig didn't let that stop him. He persevered.

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<v Speaker 1>He ended up hitting up one of her friends to

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<v Speaker 1>get her new number. And now we're about to call

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<v Speaker 1>her and find out why she's not calling Craig back. Greig, Jess,

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<v Speaker 1>maybe dawn on you that she wants nothing to do

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<v Speaker 1>with you. She's never said those exact words to me, okay,

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<v Speaker 1>And I refuse to believe that until she says it, okay.

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<v Speaker 1>Oh yeah. People change their number all the time, all

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<v Speaker 1>the time. That's crazy. So if we make this phone

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<v Speaker 1>call and she says never talk to me again, you will,

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<v Speaker 1>honest to God, honor that request of course, I'm not

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<v Speaker 1>a creepy stalker. All right, man, Well, I'm gonna dial

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<v Speaker 1>her phone number and get her on the phone and

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<v Speaker 1>find out why she's not calling you back. God bless you.

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<v Speaker 1>There we go. Oh my gosh, So, hi is Jennifer there?

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<v Speaker 1>This is her? Hey Jennifer, this is Jewbil from brook

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<v Speaker 1>and Jewbil in the morning. How are you great? What's

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<v Speaker 1>going on to day? How's your day going? Everything cool,

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<v Speaker 1>Everything's good, wonderful. Just call him to check in. Is

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<v Speaker 1>this some kind of joke that you're playing. No, it's

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<v Speaker 1>not a joke at all. You went out on a

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<v Speaker 1>date with a guy recently, and he liked you so

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<v Speaker 1>much that he emailed us to see if we could

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<v Speaker 1>get you on the phone and find out why you're

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<v Speaker 1>not calling him back. Okay, I haven't really been on

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<v Speaker 1>a date recently though. Actually this is you know what?

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<v Speaker 1>This is actually two dates you've been out on. Who

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<v Speaker 1>who emailed you? Who is this? Well I'll start out

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<v Speaker 1>by saying you went out with him over a year ago.

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<v Speaker 1>A year ago. Yeah, and you guys just reconnected. His

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<v Speaker 1>name is Craig. Oh my gosh, I'm so sorry. Are

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<v Speaker 1>you kidding me? I'm so freaking out for you right now.

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<v Speaker 1>Oh my god, So did he get this number? I

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<v Speaker 1>have a different number. I changed my number. Yeah, he

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<v Speaker 1>told us that actually he got your number now because

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<v Speaker 1>apparently he hit up one of your friends on Facebook

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<v Speaker 1>and they gave him your new number. I'm sorry, what, Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>I don't know which friend it is. We need to

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<v Speaker 1>find that out. I cannot believe someone would give my

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<v Speaker 1>number out without even asking me. So I'm going to

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<v Speaker 1>take a shot in the dark here and just guess

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<v Speaker 1>that you don't like Craig very much. That's a good guess. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>is there a reason why? I don't know what you

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<v Speaker 1>know already? But I met him at an antique store,

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<v Speaker 1>and he was there because he, I guess, also likes antiques.

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<v Speaker 1>But the entire conversation I wish that I could remember

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<v Speaker 1>word for word what exactly he said. But it was

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<v Speaker 1>so so strange. He would ask me about like previous

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<v Speaker 1>relationships were like, and I'd be like, oh, this is

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<v Speaker 1>kind of what has happened in my life, and he's like, well,

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<v Speaker 1>when i'm your boyfriend, blah blah blah blah blah, not

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<v Speaker 1>like I guess I was your boyfriend. But when I'm

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<v Speaker 1>your boyfriend. And I was like, Okay, that's a little

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<v Speaker 1>too intense for me, especially going for tolf hour of

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<v Speaker 1>meeting someone. Jennifer, that's the power of positive thinking. I say,

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<v Speaker 1>you're already doing it, and you'll do it. Happened? Why

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<v Speaker 1>did yeah? Why didn't you run just then? I mean

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<v Speaker 1>just even those words alone are enough to be a

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<v Speaker 1>trigger point for me. It was a trigger for me.

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<v Speaker 1>And he reached out to me over seventy times through

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<v Speaker 1>protext and Facebook, and then I disconnected my number so

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<v Speaker 1>that he couldn't get to me through my phone. Numbering

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<v Speaker 1>over seventy times? How long the times? When are we

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<v Speaker 1>talking about just like a couple of days? Was this

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<v Speaker 1>was over the entire year? It doesn't matter that any

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<v Speaker 1>messages over the course of a year all ignored. Now

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<v Speaker 1>you never replied to Nope, not a single reply. What

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<v Speaker 1>did you do when you saw him in the bar?

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<v Speaker 1>I would have pissed myself. I heard his voice first,

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<v Speaker 1>and I instantly knew who it was. He was behind

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<v Speaker 1>me and he said hey, Jennifer, and I was like,

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<v Speaker 1>literally hated. My stomach dropped out because I knew it

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<v Speaker 1>was him, and I turned around and I didn't know

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<v Speaker 1>what to do. I'm sure my face was pure oh God.

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<v Speaker 1>And because I didn't know what to do, so I

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<v Speaker 1>just said high and then he sat down next to

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<v Speaker 1>me and he sat there for almost an hour talking

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<v Speaker 1>to me, right, and then luckily I was meeting someone

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<v Speaker 1>and they showed up and we left and went to

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<v Speaker 1>a different place. Yeah, because it felt like you could

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<v Speaker 1>just leave the bar, he's gonna follow you, and then

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<v Speaker 1>that's even creepier because you're in a back alley somewhere

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<v Speaker 1>with it. Here's my question, though, Jennifer, why did you

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<v Speaker 1>give him your number again? That's a good one, yeah, Jennifer. Well,

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<v Speaker 1>I didn't know what to do because I felt like

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<v Speaker 1>those sorts of situations I'm very uncomfortable because I hate

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<v Speaker 1>to say no to people. So I was like, I'm

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<v Speaker 1>going to see him again. Is it going to be

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<v Speaker 1>more awkward if I don't give him my number and

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<v Speaker 1>like I turn him down at this bar in front

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<v Speaker 1>of everyone. Or should I just like give him my

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<v Speaker 1>number and then avoid him like I did last time

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<v Speaker 1>and just ignored the situation, which is probably not the

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<v Speaker 1>healthiest approach. But I wasn't sure what's do. Hey, I

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<v Speaker 1>don't blame you whatever you needed to do to get

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<v Speaker 1>out of it. I am fully supportive of you. So basically,

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<v Speaker 1>he's a weirdo who loves himself from Jenner and Jennifer

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<v Speaker 1>does not love herself from Craig. No, I do not

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<v Speaker 1>love myself from Craig, Jennifer. I need to let you

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<v Speaker 1>know he is on the other line listening to this

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<v Speaker 1>conversation what and he wants to talk to you, But

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<v Speaker 1>oh my god, I will not put him on the

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<v Speaker 1>phone unless you want to talk to him, because at

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<v Speaker 1>this point I feel like he could be a weird stalker. Dude,

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<v Speaker 1>you make the call on that. I could just hang

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<v Speaker 1>up on him, or if you like, want to just

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<v Speaker 1>tell him off one last time, you can. It's up

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<v Speaker 1>to you. I mean, I guess at this point, I

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<v Speaker 1>guess he heard everything, which is when I was kind

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<v Speaker 1>of avoiding. So maybe just maybe I should just tell

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<v Speaker 1>him this is at least not face to face. I'm

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<v Speaker 1>not afraid of I'm not afraid of him on the

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<v Speaker 1>phone with you, guys. Yeah, don't hang up on the

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<v Speaker 1>crazy stocker. I mean, you don't want to make him angry, Craig,

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<v Speaker 1>are you there? He you guys, Hey, Craig. Craig, did

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<v Speaker 1>you did you hear what Jennifer was saying? I heard?

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<v Speaker 1>I don't. Maybe I did something wrong, Jennifer. Hi, how

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<v Speaker 1>you doing? Hi? Craig. Just great, hear your voice again.

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<v Speaker 1>I'm so glad I got in touch with you. Oh God, Okay, listen.

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<v Speaker 1>I honestly don't know what to say to you. When

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<v Speaker 1>I saw you at the bar, I was like a

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<v Speaker 1>little overwhelmed and shocked because I have been avoiding you,

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<v Speaker 1>and I'm sorry if that's hurts your feelings. But you're

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<v Speaker 1>very intense and maybe someone will appreciate that intensity. I

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<v Speaker 1>do not. However, I find it to be very odd

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<v Speaker 1>and it's a little overwhelming. But we we got coffee.

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<v Speaker 1>We had a good time. I'm not saying that we didn't.

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<v Speaker 1>It was nice chatting with you. It was fine. But

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<v Speaker 1>I'm not interested in you, and I will never ever

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<v Speaker 1>ever want to date you ever. Not gonna happen. That's

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<v Speaker 1>really clear, Craig. You cannot miss hear that. I just

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<v Speaker 1>I just I don't don't understand. I mean, we had

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<v Speaker 1>a great time. You was there, I was there. We

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<v Speaker 1>got a drink. Like how you're too intense? I changed

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<v Speaker 1>to my number twice so that you could not get

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<v Speaker 1>a hold of me. I thought, I thought sudden just

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<v Speaker 1>happened to your phone and you had to change in line.

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<v Speaker 1>I nope, nope, that was me on purpose. So you

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<v Speaker 1>don't want to date me? Oh I do not at all?

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<v Speaker 1>Do you know what, Jennifer? You're being very clear and

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<v Speaker 1>obviously you don't want to date or get more coffee,

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<v Speaker 1>so I'll leave you alone. I'm sorry. Are you serious

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<v Speaker 1>about that, Craig? Yeah? I mean if she don't want

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<v Speaker 1>me to bother her, she's just told me she didn't

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<v Speaker 1>have to change her number twice. What so you're like

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<v Speaker 1>a reasonable crazy person. Yea, yeah, I'm not a crazy person.

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<v Speaker 1>You never said nothing to me. She didn't respond over

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<v Speaker 1>seventy times. I thought you were busy. If she would

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<v Speaker 1>have said you don't want to see me, I would

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<v Speaker 1>have stopped. Oh oh my god, Oh my gosh. I

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<v Speaker 1>I would have known that. That's a lot easier than

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<v Speaker 1>what I was doing. Craig, I just need to ask again,

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<v Speaker 1>just I wouldn't feel right if I didn't get clarification again.

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<v Speaker 1>You're over it, then you know you're not gonna try

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<v Speaker 1>to hit her up anymore. Yeah, she has nothing to

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<v Speaker 1>worry about. She wants to Craig out of her life.

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<v Speaker 1>Craig's out of her life. I almost believe him. I

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<v Speaker 1>guess I'm glad. I'm sorry, but I think this was

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<v Speaker 1>for the best. Jennifer the future reference. If you don't

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<v Speaker 1>want to deal with men, just tell them you know

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<v Speaker 1>what they'll do to leave you alone. Okay, good advice.

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<v Speaker 1>I'd still be changing your number one more time, Jennifer.

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<v Speaker 1>I might actually, Craig. I'm sorry you didn't get a

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<v Speaker 1>second day out of the deal, but at least now

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<v Speaker 1>you're free to move on. Yeah, yeah, I guess. I

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<v Speaker 1>mean I spend a whole year looking for her. I

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<v Speaker 1>feel so stupid. Oh god, I think we all kind

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<v Speaker 1>of do, Craig. I think we all kind of do.

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<v Speaker 1>Broken Jupil in the Morning text in at seven eight,

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<v Speaker 1>five nine two that says this is why communication important.

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<v Speaker 1>People Tell people how you feel. Don't avoid the truth,

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<v Speaker 1>and you won't have crazy stalkers or unresolved feelings. Breck

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<v Speaker 1>and Jewel in the Morning talking about today's second date update. Craig,

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<v Speaker 1>it's kind of a weird, dude, let's be honest about that.

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<v Speaker 1>But Craig wanted to call a girl named Jennifer. They

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<v Speaker 1>met about a year ago and he has been in

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<v Speaker 1>love with her ever since. And he finally reconnected with

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<v Speaker 1>her probably because he stalked her online and found out

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<v Speaker 1>where she was. And by probably you mean exactly after

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<v Speaker 1>she changed her number twice and tried to get away

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<v Speaker 1>from it, and he kept bugging her to meet up

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<v Speaker 1>and go out, and she wasn't responding to anything. So

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<v Speaker 1>we got the two on the phone. He was very

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<v Speaker 1>he's creepy, Okay, I get that, but she said, look,

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<v Speaker 1>I'm not interested in you, and then he goes, oh,

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<v Speaker 1>you should have just said so. Yeah, So her mistake

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<v Speaker 1>changing the number and everything else should have been a

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<v Speaker 1>clue that she wasn't interested, But she never outright said

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<v Speaker 1>to him I don't want to go out with you.

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<v Speaker 1>She just avoided him change your number and he didn't

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<v Speaker 1>get it for whatever reason. So she said that to

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<v Speaker 1>him at the end, and he was like, oh, yeah, cool,

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<v Speaker 1>that's all you needed to say. You should have just

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<v Speaker 1>been honest, because I thought maybe it was an accident

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<v Speaker 1>that you changed your number and didn't let me know.

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<v Speaker 1>I love how people are texting in Oh it's totally

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<v Speaker 1>Jennifer's fault for having a crazy stock or yeah, because

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<v Speaker 1>she wasn't clear with the way she felt. No, they

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<v Speaker 1>had coffee for fifteen minutes. People, Well, this guy is

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<v Speaker 1>creepy and she still needs to do some sort of like,

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<v Speaker 1>I don't know, go into hiding. He sounded perfectly rational,

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<v Speaker 1>because if you ever go missing, he will keep looking

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<v Speaker 1>for you. He will find you. Closure, he will find you.

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<v Speaker 1>He all he needed was a little bit of closure,

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<v Speaker 1>and he's like, all right, fine, I'm done. Screw you

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<v Speaker 1>for not being honest. I wasted I wasted two years

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<v Speaker 1>investing in this relationship. Remember, if you want to do

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<v Speaker 1>a second day update, all you have to do is

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<v Speaker 1>email the show and we will call the person who

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<v Speaker 1>didn't call you back. And I hope we all learned

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<v Speaker 1>the lesson about honesty today. That is not the lesson

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<v Speaker 1>honest Moving ninety two point five