Speaker 1: Rooking jewels. Second up, people often talk about the one
Speaker 1: that got away. Well, you know, people wouldn't use that
Speaker 1: expression if they'd be smart about it. And when that
Speaker 1: one gets away, you hunt them down and catch them
Speaker 1: so they'll never leave you again and they will be
Speaker 1: yours forever. I feel like that involves duct tape and
Speaker 1: it shouldn't scare. And that's why Craig is on the
Speaker 1: phone for a second date update today. His email says
Speaker 1: that he went out with a girl about a year
Speaker 1: ago and then she slipped out of his grass, and
Speaker 1: so now he wants to hunt her down and make
Speaker 1: sure that she never leaves his side again. What's up, Craig? Hey, Yeah,
Speaker 1: that's how you guys doing good. Are you ready to
Speaker 1: hunt down the one that got away? Oh? Yes, I
Speaker 1: have to get her. You know, as if destiny we
Speaker 1: would definitely be together. What are you talking about? I
Speaker 1: was joking round about the creezy part, but you sound
Speaker 1: just straight up creeping Greg. I'm just saying, you know,
Speaker 1: when when you have just a connection that we had,
Speaker 1: it was so perfect. Are you screwing with us right now, Craig? No,
Speaker 1: But honestly, we hung out like a year ago. And
Speaker 1: I called her and she never called me back, and
Speaker 1: her phone was just connected and I just didn't get
Speaker 1: in touch with her. And then randomly sea at a bar,
Speaker 1: I just saw hanging out with her friends and I
Speaker 1: had to go over there. Had to talk, Craig. I
Speaker 1: know that I'm very sarcastic with people, and I mess
Speaker 1: with people a lot, but I feel like, now you're
Speaker 1: screwing with me. Oh no, it was. It was wonderful.
Speaker 1: You had to be there. I was at an antique shop.
Speaker 1: You were at an antique shop. Yes, an antique shop. Okay,
Speaker 1: so you're saying that's where you met her. No, I
Speaker 1: was just collecting some things and I was at an
Speaker 1: antique shop. Okay, help me with this. So he said,
Speaker 1: you went out with her a year ago. And then
Speaker 1: why are you talking about an antique shop right now?
Speaker 1: Because I loved antiques and she loved antiques. That's where
Speaker 1: I met her. And then I saw just picking out
Speaker 1: some things, and I was like, let me help you out,
Speaker 1: and it was perfect. I am so confused. Did you
Speaker 1: actually go on a date with this girl a year ago?
Speaker 1: Or did you just talk to her in some random
Speaker 1: antique shop? Asked afterwards, if she wants to get coffee.
Speaker 1: She said, yes, okay for each other. You guys, you
Speaker 1: are really creeping me out really bad right now. How
Speaker 1: am I creeping? I'm just I'm talking to you. That's
Speaker 1: how I talked. You're talking about destiny and love over
Speaker 1: a girl you met a year ago that you had
Speaker 1: a fifteen minute coffee date with. Yeah, you weren't. It
Speaker 1: was amazing. It was beautiful. And by the way, we've
Speaker 1: had a second date updates like this before where someone
Speaker 1: said I saw a person walking by, we shared a
Speaker 1: glance and I'm in love and Brook you've been like,
Speaker 1: oh my god, this is gonna be amazing. So about
Speaker 1: chasing them down for a whole year and hunting them down?
Speaker 1: In another sponge I talked about the hunting down. I
Speaker 1: don't know who's talking about. Never Craig never said he
Speaker 1: hunted anybody down. Craig, you didn't hunt her down, right?
Speaker 1: I googled her. Everybody was. I wasn't hunting everybody googles
Speaker 1: people or facebook stalk to them. You didn't legitimately stalk
Speaker 1: this person, right, No, like I was saying. I googled her,
Speaker 1: I went on her Facebook. I looked for her friends,
Speaker 1: and I just followed her. I mean, you wasn't creepy
Speaker 1: though you followed her online or in person. Now I'm
Speaker 1: starting to decide with broken say that we can't do
Speaker 1: the second day update because you're stalking somebody. I am
Speaker 1: going with my gut on this one. I was just
Speaker 1: walking around and I happened to see the bar that
Speaker 1: she usually goes too, and I just stopped by. And
Speaker 1: that's why I ran into Oh yeah, because you normally
Speaker 1: know where a person hangs out all the time when
Speaker 1: you just go to coffee with them. Well, yes, we
Speaker 1: had a conversation. We talked like, I'm not creepy. You're
Speaker 1: making it sound like I'm creepy. We talked for a
Speaker 1: while and we go get coffee. She told me her
Speaker 1: favorite bar, and I thought, hey, maybe she might be there. Okay,
Speaker 1: so you didn't fully stalk her. You knew her favorite
Speaker 1: places to go, and you just went hoping that she
Speaker 1: would show up. Yes, isn't that what we all do? Okay?
Speaker 1: So here here's going to be the key in this
Speaker 1: whole puzzle. What was her reaction to seeing you? Because
Speaker 1: if the feeling's mutual, great, I'll give you a pass.
Speaker 1: She was very surprised, in a good way or a
Speaker 1: bad way. I believe it was a good way. I mean,
Speaker 1: she saw me, I bought her drink and we talked
Speaker 1: for an hour. Okay, so she hung out with you
Speaker 1: for an hour? All right? To me? That would say
Speaker 1: that she likes you, Yes, at least a little bit.
Speaker 1: Thank you? Or you were following around the barn? Say,
Speaker 1: how was the conversation we caught up? I asked what
Speaker 1: she's been doing for a year, what happened to her phone?
Speaker 1: How was her friends doing on Facebook? Well? You asked
Speaker 1: her all that you checked in on her friends on Facebook,
Speaker 1: So you grilled her about where her phone was and
Speaker 1: her friends on Facebook and everything. Look, it's not weird.
Speaker 1: You're making it sound weird. I didn't know how to
Speaker 1: reach out to her, so that was the best way
Speaker 1: I could do it, because you don't have to find
Speaker 1: out where she was. So I had to talk to
Speaker 1: her friends on Facebook, and I was very caring and
Speaker 1: her phone was disconnected. How to reach her? Okay? Well, God,
Speaker 1: let me ask you this. It's a long story, I know,
Speaker 1: but how did everything end with her the last time
Speaker 1: you saw her? I talk to her? Well, the last
Speaker 1: time I saw her, it ended normally, all right. She
Speaker 1: said she's gonna call me, and then I didn't hear
Speaker 1: a call, so I decided to call her, and her
Speaker 1: phone is its connect to at Her phone is disconnected again. Yes, okay,
Speaker 1: you guys realize that she's disconnecting her phone because she
Speaker 1: doesn't want to hear from this weirdo. Oh maybe it's
Speaker 1: not true. You never know, it could be this whacky coincidence. No,
Speaker 1: I have protecting her. I'm thankful that we can't get up.
Speaker 1: How we're not gonna be able to get a hold
Speaker 1: of her. She has a disconnected phone that actually her
Speaker 1: iced out to one of her friends, and she's given
Speaker 1: me a different number. Friend should give you a different
Speaker 1: number for okay, Yeah, all right, Craig, Well, hold on
Speaker 1: the phone. Okay, we're gonna play a song, come back
Speaker 1: and get your second date update. All right. I'm so
Speaker 1: surprised to doing this, but thank you, thank you. So
Speaker 1: I feel like doing this is just a public service,
Speaker 1: all right, Hang on the phone. Fucking jubil in the morning.
Speaker 1: I have never heard such a beautiful love story. Oh
Speaker 1: my gosh, it's like the one for today's second date update.
Speaker 1: Craig is on the phone with us, and today he
Speaker 1: wants to call a girl named Jennifer. Craig went out
Speaker 1: with her about a year ago, and after they went out,
Speaker 1: somehow her number got changed or disconnected and he couldn't
Speaker 1: get ahold of her for a whole year. And then
Speaker 1: cut to a year later, Craig is at one of
Speaker 1: the bars that she frequents a lot and he runs
Speaker 1: into her coincidence, and then she has drinks with Craig
Speaker 1: and then after that her numbers disconnected again. What a
Speaker 1: strange coincidence. But Craig didn't let that stop him. He persevered.
Speaker 1: He ended up hitting up one of her friends to
Speaker 1: get her new number. And now we're about to call
Speaker 1: her and find out why she's not calling Craig back. Greig, Jess,
Speaker 1: maybe dawn on you that she wants nothing to do
Speaker 1: with you. She's never said those exact words to me, okay,
Speaker 1: And I refuse to believe that until she says it, okay.
Speaker 1: Oh yeah. People change their number all the time, all
Speaker 1: the time. That's crazy. So if we make this phone
Speaker 1: call and she says never talk to me again, you will,
Speaker 1: honest to God, honor that request of course, I'm not
Speaker 1: a creepy stalker. All right, man, Well, I'm gonna dial
Speaker 1: her phone number and get her on the phone and
Speaker 1: find out why she's not calling you back. God bless you.
Speaker 1: There we go. Oh my gosh, So, hi is Jennifer there?
Speaker 1: This is her? Hey Jennifer, this is Jewbil from brook
Speaker 1: and Jewbil in the morning. How are you great? What's
Speaker 1: going on to day? How's your day going? Everything cool,
Speaker 1: Everything's good, wonderful. Just call him to check in. Is
Speaker 1: this some kind of joke that you're playing. No, it's
Speaker 1: not a joke at all. You went out on a
Speaker 1: date with a guy recently, and he liked you so
Speaker 1: much that he emailed us to see if we could
Speaker 1: get you on the phone and find out why you're
Speaker 1: not calling him back. Okay, I haven't really been on
Speaker 1: a date recently though. Actually this is you know what?
Speaker 1: This is actually two dates you've been out on. Who
Speaker 1: who emailed you? Who is this? Well I'll start out
Speaker 1: by saying you went out with him over a year ago.
Speaker 1: A year ago. Yeah, and you guys just reconnected. His
Speaker 1: name is Craig. Oh my gosh, I'm so sorry. Are
Speaker 1: you kidding me? I'm so freaking out for you right now.
Speaker 1: Oh my god, So did he get this number? I
Speaker 1: have a different number. I changed my number. Yeah, he
Speaker 1: told us that actually he got your number now because
Speaker 1: apparently he hit up one of your friends on Facebook
Speaker 1: and they gave him your new number. I'm sorry, what, Yeah,
Speaker 1: I don't know which friend it is. We need to
Speaker 1: find that out. I cannot believe someone would give my
Speaker 1: number out without even asking me. So I'm going to
Speaker 1: take a shot in the dark here and just guess
Speaker 1: that you don't like Craig very much. That's a good guess. Yeah,
Speaker 1: is there a reason why? I don't know what you
Speaker 1: know already? But I met him at an antique store,
Speaker 1: and he was there because he, I guess, also likes antiques.
Speaker 1: But the entire conversation I wish that I could remember
Speaker 1: word for word what exactly he said. But it was
Speaker 1: so so strange. He would ask me about like previous
Speaker 1: relationships were like, and I'd be like, oh, this is
Speaker 1: kind of what has happened in my life, and he's like, well,
Speaker 1: when i'm your boyfriend, blah blah blah blah blah, not
Speaker 1: like I guess I was your boyfriend. But when I'm
Speaker 1: your boyfriend. And I was like, Okay, that's a little
Speaker 1: too intense for me, especially going for tolf hour of
Speaker 1: meeting someone. Jennifer, that's the power of positive thinking. I say,
Speaker 1: you're already doing it, and you'll do it. Happened? Why
Speaker 1: did yeah? Why didn't you run just then? I mean
Speaker 1: just even those words alone are enough to be a
Speaker 1: trigger point for me. It was a trigger for me.
Speaker 1: And he reached out to me over seventy times through
Speaker 1: protext and Facebook, and then I disconnected my number so
Speaker 1: that he couldn't get to me through my phone. Numbering
Speaker 1: over seventy times? How long the times? When are we
Speaker 1: talking about just like a couple of days? Was this
Speaker 1: was over the entire year? It doesn't matter that any
Speaker 1: messages over the course of a year all ignored. Now
Speaker 1: you never replied to Nope, not a single reply. What
Speaker 1: did you do when you saw him in the bar?
Speaker 1: I would have pissed myself. I heard his voice first,
Speaker 1: and I instantly knew who it was. He was behind
Speaker 1: me and he said hey, Jennifer, and I was like,
Speaker 1: literally hated. My stomach dropped out because I knew it
Speaker 1: was him, and I turned around and I didn't know
Speaker 1: what to do. I'm sure my face was pure oh God.
Speaker 1: And because I didn't know what to do, so I
Speaker 1: just said high and then he sat down next to
Speaker 1: me and he sat there for almost an hour talking
Speaker 1: to me, right, and then luckily I was meeting someone
Speaker 1: and they showed up and we left and went to
Speaker 1: a different place. Yeah, because it felt like you could
Speaker 1: just leave the bar, he's gonna follow you, and then
Speaker 1: that's even creepier because you're in a back alley somewhere
Speaker 1: with it. Here's my question, though, Jennifer, why did you
Speaker 1: give him your number again? That's a good one, yeah, Jennifer. Well,
Speaker 1: I didn't know what to do because I felt like
Speaker 1: those sorts of situations I'm very uncomfortable because I hate
Speaker 1: to say no to people. So I was like, I'm
Speaker 1: going to see him again. Is it going to be
Speaker 1: more awkward if I don't give him my number and
Speaker 1: like I turn him down at this bar in front
Speaker 1: of everyone. Or should I just like give him my
Speaker 1: number and then avoid him like I did last time
Speaker 1: and just ignored the situation, which is probably not the
Speaker 1: healthiest approach. But I wasn't sure what's do. Hey, I
Speaker 1: don't blame you whatever you needed to do to get
Speaker 1: out of it. I am fully supportive of you. So basically,
Speaker 1: he's a weirdo who loves himself from Jenner and Jennifer
Speaker 1: does not love herself from Craig. No, I do not
Speaker 1: love myself from Craig, Jennifer. I need to let you
Speaker 1: know he is on the other line listening to this
Speaker 1: conversation what and he wants to talk to you, But
Speaker 1: oh my god, I will not put him on the
Speaker 1: phone unless you want to talk to him, because at
Speaker 1: this point I feel like he could be a weird stalker. Dude,
Speaker 1: you make the call on that. I could just hang
Speaker 1: up on him, or if you like, want to just
Speaker 1: tell him off one last time, you can. It's up
Speaker 1: to you. I mean, I guess at this point, I
Speaker 1: guess he heard everything, which is when I was kind
Speaker 1: of avoiding. So maybe just maybe I should just tell
Speaker 1: him this is at least not face to face. I'm
Speaker 1: not afraid of I'm not afraid of him on the
Speaker 1: phone with you, guys. Yeah, don't hang up on the
Speaker 1: crazy stocker. I mean, you don't want to make him angry, Craig,
Speaker 1: are you there? He you guys, Hey, Craig. Craig, did
Speaker 1: you did you hear what Jennifer was saying? I heard?
Speaker 1: I don't. Maybe I did something wrong, Jennifer. Hi, how
Speaker 1: you doing? Hi? Craig. Just great, hear your voice again.
Speaker 1: I'm so glad I got in touch with you. Oh God, Okay, listen.
Speaker 1: I honestly don't know what to say to you. When
Speaker 1: I saw you at the bar, I was like a
Speaker 1: little overwhelmed and shocked because I have been avoiding you,
Speaker 1: and I'm sorry if that's hurts your feelings. But you're
Speaker 1: very intense and maybe someone will appreciate that intensity. I
Speaker 1: do not. However, I find it to be very odd
Speaker 1: and it's a little overwhelming. But we we got coffee.
Speaker 1: We had a good time. I'm not saying that we didn't.
Speaker 1: It was nice chatting with you. It was fine. But
Speaker 1: I'm not interested in you, and I will never ever
Speaker 1: ever want to date you ever. Not gonna happen. That's
Speaker 1: really clear, Craig. You cannot miss hear that. I just
Speaker 1: I just I don't don't understand. I mean, we had
Speaker 1: a great time. You was there, I was there. We
Speaker 1: got a drink. Like how you're too intense? I changed
Speaker 1: to my number twice so that you could not get
Speaker 1: a hold of me. I thought, I thought sudden just
Speaker 1: happened to your phone and you had to change in line.
Speaker 1: I nope, nope, that was me on purpose. So you
Speaker 1: don't want to date me? Oh I do not at all?
Speaker 1: Do you know what, Jennifer? You're being very clear and
Speaker 1: obviously you don't want to date or get more coffee,
Speaker 1: so I'll leave you alone. I'm sorry. Are you serious
Speaker 1: about that, Craig? Yeah? I mean if she don't want
Speaker 1: me to bother her, she's just told me she didn't
Speaker 1: have to change her number twice. What so you're like
Speaker 1: a reasonable crazy person. Yea, yeah, I'm not a crazy person.
Speaker 1: You never said nothing to me. She didn't respond over
Speaker 1: seventy times. I thought you were busy. If she would
Speaker 1: have said you don't want to see me, I would
Speaker 1: have stopped. Oh oh my god, Oh my gosh. I
Speaker 1: I would have known that. That's a lot easier than
Speaker 1: what I was doing. Craig, I just need to ask again,
Speaker 1: just I wouldn't feel right if I didn't get clarification again.
Speaker 1: You're over it, then you know you're not gonna try
Speaker 1: to hit her up anymore. Yeah, she has nothing to
Speaker 1: worry about. She wants to Craig out of her life.
Speaker 1: Craig's out of her life. I almost believe him. I
Speaker 1: guess I'm glad. I'm sorry, but I think this was
Speaker 1: for the best. Jennifer the future reference. If you don't
Speaker 1: want to deal with men, just tell them you know
Speaker 1: what they'll do to leave you alone. Okay, good advice.
Speaker 1: I'd still be changing your number one more time, Jennifer.
Speaker 1: I might actually, Craig. I'm sorry you didn't get a
Speaker 1: second day out of the deal, but at least now
Speaker 1: you're free to move on. Yeah, yeah, I guess. I
Speaker 1: mean I spend a whole year looking for her. I
Speaker 1: feel so stupid. Oh god, I think we all kind
Speaker 1: of do, Craig. I think we all kind of do.
Speaker 1: Broken Jupil in the Morning text in at seven eight,
Speaker 1: five nine two that says this is why communication important.
Speaker 1: People Tell people how you feel. Don't avoid the truth,
Speaker 1: and you won't have crazy stalkers or unresolved feelings. Breck
Speaker 1: and Jewel in the Morning talking about today's second date update. Craig,
Speaker 1: it's kind of a weird, dude, let's be honest about that.
Speaker 1: But Craig wanted to call a girl named Jennifer. They
Speaker 1: met about a year ago and he has been in
Speaker 1: love with her ever since. And he finally reconnected with
Speaker 1: her probably because he stalked her online and found out
Speaker 1: where she was. And by probably you mean exactly after
Speaker 1: she changed her number twice and tried to get away
Speaker 1: from it, and he kept bugging her to meet up
Speaker 1: and go out, and she wasn't responding to anything. So
Speaker 1: we got the two on the phone. He was very
Speaker 1: he's creepy, Okay, I get that, but she said, look,
Speaker 1: I'm not interested in you, and then he goes, oh,
Speaker 1: you should have just said so. Yeah, So her mistake
Speaker 1: changing the number and everything else should have been a
Speaker 1: clue that she wasn't interested, But she never outright said
Speaker 1: to him I don't want to go out with you.
Speaker 1: She just avoided him change your number and he didn't
Speaker 1: get it for whatever reason. So she said that to
Speaker 1: him at the end, and he was like, oh, yeah, cool,
Speaker 1: that's all you needed to say. You should have just
Speaker 1: been honest, because I thought maybe it was an accident
Speaker 1: that you changed your number and didn't let me know.
Speaker 1: I love how people are texting in Oh it's totally
Speaker 1: Jennifer's fault for having a crazy stock or yeah, because
Speaker 1: she wasn't clear with the way she felt. No, they
Speaker 1: had coffee for fifteen minutes. People, Well, this guy is
Speaker 1: creepy and she still needs to do some sort of like,
Speaker 1: I don't know, go into hiding. He sounded perfectly rational,
Speaker 1: because if you ever go missing, he will keep looking
Speaker 1: for you. He will find you. Closure, he will find you.
Speaker 1: He all he needed was a little bit of closure,
Speaker 1: and he's like, all right, fine, I'm done. Screw you
Speaker 1: for not being honest. I wasted I wasted two years
Speaker 1: investing in this relationship. Remember, if you want to do
Speaker 1: a second day update, all you have to do is
Speaker 1: email the show and we will call the person who
Speaker 1: didn't call you back. And I hope we all learned
Speaker 1: the lesson about honesty today. That is not the lesson
Speaker 1: honest Moving ninety two point five