WEBVTT - Everyone Needs Some Therapy with AJ Johnson

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<v Speaker 1>Stands Morning shows. Y'all together, y'all are like a mega

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<v Speaker 1>for us. Y'all just took over. Ever without this Chris Brown,

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<v Speaker 1>I've officially joined the breakfast club. Say something, mother, Morning Shows,

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<v Speaker 1>Good morning USA. Hell you hate him? Hey, families. Wednesday,

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<v Speaker 1>Guess what day it is? Guess what day it is?

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<v Speaker 1>That's right, it is Wednesday, is middle of the week.

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<v Speaker 1>Good morning to. You had to pause. I wasn't your

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<v Speaker 1>Charlamagne's coming today? Your night? Oh? I don't know. I

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<v Speaker 1>don't know if he's uh, if he broadcasting from the

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<v Speaker 1>crib boy he's coming in, I'm not sure. But goodn't

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<v Speaker 1>money going on? But happy Wednesday? Yes, it's Wednesday, middle

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<v Speaker 1>of the week. I was out in the Atlantic City

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<v Speaker 1>last night. They had a Real to is a big

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<v Speaker 1>real estate realtors convention in New Jersey yesterday. They do

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<v Speaker 1>it every year. It's huge. They get about I would

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<v Speaker 1>say about maybe five thousand to ten thousand realtists that

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<v Speaker 1>come in and they just politic exchange cards, talk about

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<v Speaker 1>different ways to sell homes better and everything. So I

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<v Speaker 1>dj for all the realtis. So shout to everybody out

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<v Speaker 1>in Atlantic City, all the realtis. We were talking real

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<v Speaker 1>estate all day yesterday and for that area everywhere everybody

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<v Speaker 1>there was people from everywhere, so it was pretty cool.

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<v Speaker 1>It was. It was a lot of fun. I had

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<v Speaker 1>the DJ. It was um. The party I did was

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<v Speaker 1>a huge crossover party, so you know, when I walked in,

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<v Speaker 1>it was kind of like oh, but I had to

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<v Speaker 1>say ye, kind of say man, he was gonna lie

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<v Speaker 1>a long time ago. Yee made a create in my

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<v Speaker 1>m in my laptop, right yeah, and I call it

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<v Speaker 1>and it's gonna sound funny. I call it songs White

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<v Speaker 1>people love and I had like guns and Roses, Jesse's girl.

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<v Speaker 1>I definitely had the stuff I don't know, but had

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<v Speaker 1>tainted love all that. Sometimes I had no idea what

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<v Speaker 1>none of those songs were. Then I had a Spanish

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<v Speaker 1>crate that I had to play a bunch of Spanish music.

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<v Speaker 1>I didn't know none of that stuff either. I was

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<v Speaker 1>just playing it. But thank god it worked. It was

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<v Speaker 1>probably it was rocking last Now maybe they were. Maybe

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<v Speaker 1>they were just drunk, but they had sometimes they drink

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<v Speaker 1>a lot. You like anything, Yeah, yeah, so they were rocking.

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<v Speaker 1>So shout out Old the Realties and New World Title

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<v Speaker 1>for bringing me down to learning so he had a

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<v Speaker 1>lot of fun last nights. Now we have a special

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<v Speaker 1>guest joining us this morning. Okay, A J. Johnson Act.

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<v Speaker 1>I love. She has a show called Life Therapy on

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<v Speaker 1>TV one. We're gonna be talking to her. And you

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<v Speaker 1>also know her, right you said she was in house party.

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<v Speaker 1>She was in the house party. She was Gina's best friend.

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<v Speaker 1>So she was and you know she's like a she's

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<v Speaker 1>a life Coach's coaches seen her in like couples Therapy

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<v Speaker 1>and all of that. Yeah, women, DC and yand he

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<v Speaker 1>got into that whole thing on TV where she asked

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<v Speaker 1>him would you have held me down if I went

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<v Speaker 1>to jail? And he was like, I don't know. She

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<v Speaker 1>was the actual the life coach doing an interview during

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<v Speaker 1>that time. You love the gossip. I'm just putting some

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<v Speaker 1>people remember. That's how they can remember. Okay, all right,

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<v Speaker 1>well let's get the show cracking frontage news what we're

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<v Speaker 1>talking about. Yes, police in Texas are looking for a suspect.

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<v Speaker 1>There was a mall shooting that left to one person injured.

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<v Speaker 1>Imagine you're shopping and you have to shelter in place. Goodness, gracious,

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<v Speaker 1>we never have no positive news or baby was born

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<v Speaker 1>in the mall? Or baby was borne? Is the born

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<v Speaker 1>every second? B right? All right, well we'll get to that.

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<v Speaker 1>Next is to Breakfast club go on, Hey morning, everybody

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<v Speaker 1>is DJ Envy Angela Yee, Charlemagne the guy. We are

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<v Speaker 1>to breakfast clubless getting some front page news? All right,

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<v Speaker 1>where we're starting easy? Well. Police in Texas are looking

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<v Speaker 1>for a suspect after one person was shot at a

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<v Speaker 1>mall in Colleen. And this happened yesterday evening. Shoppers had

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<v Speaker 1>to shelter in place. Please got a call around seven

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<v Speaker 1>seventeen pm there was a disturbance at the mall. They

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<v Speaker 1>were told one person had been shot. There's surveillance photos

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<v Speaker 1>that were issued by the police as suspect is seen

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<v Speaker 1>wearing a white hat and a white faced mask. They

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<v Speaker 1>said people were sheltering place last night around nine pm.

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<v Speaker 1>There were phone calls from employees and people at the

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<v Speaker 1>mall who just basically had to stay there. I gotta

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<v Speaker 1>be scary Christmas shopping and all of a sudden, shelter

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<v Speaker 1>in place. You know, you hear a gunshot on't they

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<v Speaker 1>tell you something? Everybody gets scared. Now they don't know

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<v Speaker 1>if it's an active shooter. Or if it's a bee

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<v Speaker 1>for is somebody just trying to kill them? And then

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<v Speaker 1>you gotta stay in them all anybody, And then you

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<v Speaker 1>gotta stay in them all and you don't know what's

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<v Speaker 1>going on. That's that's scary as hell. The injured person

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<v Speaker 1>was airlifted to a local hospital and it is in

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<v Speaker 1>stable condition. But there was a lot of chaos in

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<v Speaker 1>the mall at the time of the shooting, and that's

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<v Speaker 1>when they sheltered that. That's when they issued that shelter

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<v Speaker 1>in place order. And if you don't know what happened,

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<v Speaker 1>you're in a whole another store, and then they lock

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<v Speaker 1>everything down and tell you you can't leave. Are you scanned?

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<v Speaker 1>And especially if you go to the mall, like I

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<v Speaker 1>go to the mall sometimes, and you know, my older

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<v Speaker 1>kids will go one way. I go the other way,

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<v Speaker 1>and then they shelter in place. I gotta na. I

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<v Speaker 1>can't shelter me in place. Anything you want to do

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<v Speaker 1>is get out. Yeah, I gotta find my kids. Or

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<v Speaker 1>if my wife going to one store, I go on

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<v Speaker 1>another store. Na, I gotta find my wife. All right? Now,

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<v Speaker 1>Christmas trees, are you get anyone? I have mine up already, Okay,

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<v Speaker 1>and I've never had a real tree, never ever, always

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<v Speaker 1>a fake tree. So did you know that roughly forty

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<v Speaker 1>percent of the nation's Christmas tree supply comes from one place. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>I heard it. Heard it as a shortage right from

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<v Speaker 1>our hunt. Yeah, there's a shortage right now. So they're

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<v Speaker 1>struggling after trees were burned by the heat. There's a

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<v Speaker 1>dwindling supply and an increase in prices as well. So

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<v Speaker 1>just giving you all the heads up in case you're

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<v Speaker 1>trying to get your Christmas tree and you're wondering what's

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<v Speaker 1>going on. Yeah, I've never had a real tree for

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<v Speaker 1>two reasons. One, I always used to see the videos

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<v Speaker 1>of the trees catching on fire, so my parents never

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<v Speaker 1>won in one. And also, I mean, we have a tree,

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<v Speaker 1>and then we could use that tree for ten twelve years,

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<v Speaker 1>so we just kept a tree. My dad gets a

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<v Speaker 1>tree and then returns it. I think it's a like

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<v Speaker 1>home depot. You could do that or something, Papa, Ye,

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<v Speaker 1>why dad, do not play? He will save a dollar

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<v Speaker 1>all right. In six states right now account for more

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<v Speaker 1>than half of the country's recent COVID hospitalizations. Those are Michigan, Ohio, Indiana, Pennsylvania,

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<v Speaker 1>New York and Illinois. So while these states make up

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<v Speaker 1>thirty five percent of the population, among states with increasing

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<v Speaker 1>COVID hospitalizations, they make up sixty percent of the added beds,

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<v Speaker 1>and in Michigan they have the highest share of new

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<v Speaker 1>hospitalizations when adjected for population. They said three out of

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<v Speaker 1>four COVID patients in Michigan are unvaccinated. According to a

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<v Speaker 1>public information officer at the Michigan Department of Health, unvaccinated

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<v Speaker 1>people make up eighty seven percent of COVID patients who

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<v Speaker 1>are in ICU in the state. And they said that

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<v Speaker 1>we shouldn't be as worried about the Amara Cron variant,

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<v Speaker 1>we should be more worried about the delta variant. Right Well,

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<v Speaker 1>delta variants still makes up over ninety nine percent of

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<v Speaker 1>the cases right now, So I'm a crown as new.

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<v Speaker 1>But they are saying that it's more highly transmissible but

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<v Speaker 1>not as dangerous, and why they shut down the whole

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<v Speaker 1>country and traveling back and forth. It's not as dangerous. Well,

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<v Speaker 1>I think they still don't want you to get it,

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<v Speaker 1>because you gotta think right now, as the time people

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<v Speaker 1>are getting the flu, they're getting sick for other reasons,

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<v Speaker 1>and it's still too early to tell, so you would

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<v Speaker 1>rather make sure that you get it under control than not. Okay,

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<v Speaker 1>and that is your front page news, all right, get

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<v Speaker 1>it off your chess eight hundred five A five one

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<v Speaker 1>oh five one. If you're upset, you need to vent

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<v Speaker 1>hit us up right now, phone us or wide open again.

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<v Speaker 1>The numbers eight hundred five eight five one on five one.

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<v Speaker 1>Get it off your chest is to Breakfast club. Good

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<v Speaker 1>morning the Breakfast Club. This is your time to get

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<v Speaker 1>it off your chests. Whether you're man or blessed, no plea,

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<v Speaker 1>better have the same. Any we want to hear from

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<v Speaker 1>you on the breakfast Club. Hello, who's this? Hello? How

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<v Speaker 1>you your clop job? Tid? What's up? Hey? Check this out?

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<v Speaker 1>I'm I'm coming back you. How are you? You're that

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<v Speaker 1>hard thing guy? Well? Check this down? Hello, Fishery being kicked.

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<v Speaker 1>My name is Jump and I'm running around it and

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<v Speaker 1>now what is happening? I don't know. I didn't want

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<v Speaker 1>to go there with him. I couldn't today. I couldn't

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<v Speaker 1>sit there mare, not today, not today, tomorrow, drop top? Hello,

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<v Speaker 1>who's this? What up? N me? What's up? Breakfast club? Tyler?

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<v Speaker 1>What's up? Okay, mister Dingo. What's up, Tyler? What's up

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<v Speaker 1>about mister down? Yeah, didn't go up to your north

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<v Speaker 1>throw five street wear clothing? Have you know? What's up? Brother?

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<v Speaker 1>What's up? Y'all? Just wanted to get it off my chests. Man.

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<v Speaker 1>I wanted to shout out to all the d I wires,

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<v Speaker 1>all my fellow entrepreneurs out there that are trying to

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<v Speaker 1>get it out the mud. It's a little tough right

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<v Speaker 1>now at this time of the year. Everybody's buying big stuff.

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<v Speaker 1>But you know that time is almost stuck. We will

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<v Speaker 1>get back out there. You know, the season's gonna break.

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<v Speaker 1>We'll get back out there and make that money. So

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<v Speaker 1>I want y'all to keep it tight, you know, get

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<v Speaker 1>some more work in, you know, hustle it up, get

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<v Speaker 1>ready for the new years. That money have a going

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<v Speaker 1>Thank you guys. Hello, who's this morning? Breakfast club? Is Sylvesta?

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<v Speaker 1>How y'all doing sylvest what's up? Get it off your chests?

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<v Speaker 1>So I'm kind of hot this morning, So I need

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<v Speaker 1>an event because the Sarah Alex being the way I'm

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<v Speaker 1>in La by the way, who covered up his deputies

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<v Speaker 1>sending out the pictures of Kobe Bryant's body is running

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<v Speaker 1>for reelection, so I was wondering if I can get

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<v Speaker 1>him in, just get it off my chest and let

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<v Speaker 1>the country know just how bad of the sheriff he is.

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<v Speaker 1>So first off, when the whole thing went down, he

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<v Speaker 1>tried to cover it up for a month. He wasn't

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<v Speaker 1>trying to have anybody know about it. He told his tariffs,

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<v Speaker 1>if y'all delete the pictures, we're gonna keep it quiet.

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<v Speaker 1>Right now, it comes out that they hit it and

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<v Speaker 1>that they destroyed the evidence. So now we were paying

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<v Speaker 1>a million, like over millions of dollars in settlements to

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<v Speaker 1>the families because you can't do something like that. That's wrong, right,

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<v Speaker 1>So we're dealing with that, and then on top of it,

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<v Speaker 1>in La we gotta sharef deputy gang problem. Right, So

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<v Speaker 1>the sheriffs there's like the bandidos. And you can find

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<v Speaker 1>information about this if you google lsd gags mazing article

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<v Speaker 1>by sers Castle where it's documented how they're, you know,

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<v Speaker 1>unjustly attacking brown and black people and killing them tattoos

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<v Speaker 1>and all to get into these games and initiate themselves

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<v Speaker 1>and our boarder supervisors out here, they said, all right,

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<v Speaker 1>boom let's do a subpoena, come and testify so you

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<v Speaker 1>can clear directress everybody where. They said, I don't want

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<v Speaker 1>to show up. I don't got time for it. I

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<v Speaker 1>don't want to waste people's tax dollars. Right, so you're

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<v Speaker 1>sending off you know, you're covering up for sending off

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<v Speaker 1>pictures of the Brant family. He is refusing and testify

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<v Speaker 1>against sub poenis for for gags within the Department um.

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<v Speaker 1>And on top of that, we got this electflation coming

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<v Speaker 1>down the line that removes slavery from the constitution in

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<v Speaker 1>California and around the country. And he don't support that either.

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<v Speaker 1>So if you can or call the action. If y'all

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<v Speaker 1>people leave snakes Mamba Kobe Bryant mamba snakes on his

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<v Speaker 1>instagrams in his comments with the hashtag being the way

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<v Speaker 1>of must go. What is Instagram page is La c

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<v Speaker 1>O Sharon La the old sheriff. Leave the mamba Instagram

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<v Speaker 1>say hashtag being away must go, get it off your

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<v Speaker 1>chest eight hundred five eight five one oh five one.

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<v Speaker 1>If you need to vent hit us up now. It's

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<v Speaker 1>the breakfast Club. Good morning, the Breakfast Club. What's you

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<v Speaker 1>doing of yo? This is your time to get it

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<v Speaker 1>off your chest, whether you're mad or blessed. Eight hundred

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<v Speaker 1>five eight five one five one. We want to hear

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<v Speaker 1>from you on the breakfast club. Hello, who's this yo?

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<v Speaker 1>This is crazy? They what's up? Casey? Get it off

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<v Speaker 1>your chests, brothers, Hey, y'all. Gotta say good morning dja end,

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<v Speaker 1>good morning Amy y'all. And mine's a higher level craft

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<v Speaker 1>for calls some months ago. I gotta thank y'all for

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<v Speaker 1>putting me on. Um. I got a lot of a

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<v Speaker 1>lot of good things that came out of that I

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<v Speaker 1>make um. I burned the artist the wood, remember, okay, Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>And I got some things on the Uncle's I got

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<v Speaker 1>to be the cowboys stuff on there. I got some

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<v Speaker 1>I got some ny giants clip on the girl. I

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<v Speaker 1>high level crab. They're going hard. Gotta thank y'all again,

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<v Speaker 1>UM starting the guy, I gotta ask you, UM, I

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<v Speaker 1>really want to ask you for a fool. I'm really

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<v Speaker 1>big on mental health or my art really starved my

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<v Speaker 1>life this year. It really put me in a good

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<v Speaker 1>place in my mental health. But he's not here right now,

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<v Speaker 1>but we will save your we will save your information

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<v Speaker 1>for him. All right, man, all right, brother. Hello, who's this? Hello? Hey,

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<v Speaker 1>what's up? Get him off your chests? Hey, what's up? Man?

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<v Speaker 1>I gotta get this New York City traffic off my chest.

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<v Speaker 1>I cannot it with you. I love you guys, man

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<v Speaker 1>and Vy, I love you. Man. Cannot give a shout out,

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<v Speaker 1>go ahead, good brother. Shout out to my wife's company,

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<v Speaker 1>Swie Spot has it on Facebook. Okay, thank you. But yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>this traffic we gotta get rid of us. Man, how

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<v Speaker 1>you The traffic is crazy and they keep on closing

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<v Speaker 1>more lanes here for people to have bike lanes and

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<v Speaker 1>all of that in New York City anyway, Big love

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<v Speaker 1>to all y'all. I love y'all. I love what y'are

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<v Speaker 1>doing with black businesses. Y'all are supporting her community. Man.

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<v Speaker 1>Shout out to y'all man, keep up to go work,

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<v Speaker 1>Thank you, brother. All right, get it off your chest.

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<v Speaker 1>Eight hundred five eight five one oh five one that

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<v Speaker 1>we got rumors on the way. Man. We gotta started

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<v Speaker 1>off for giving our condolences to Nick Cannon and Alyssa Scott.

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<v Speaker 1>Really tragic situation. I can't even imagine. My heart goes

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<v Speaker 1>out to both of them, and we'll talk about their

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<v Speaker 1>five month old son who has passed away from brain cancer.

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<v Speaker 1>All right, we'll get into that next. It's the Breakfast Club.

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<v Speaker 1>Good morning, the Breakfast Club. Happy holidays, wishing you and

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<v Speaker 1>your family the very best this holiday season for all

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<v Speaker 1>of us here at the Breakfast Club to breakfast. Oh

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<v Speaker 1>goshu report got it's Breakfast Club. Well, some tragic news

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<v Speaker 1>for Nick Cannon and Alyssa Scott. They have a five

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<v Speaker 1>month old son, Zen, and he has passed away from

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<v Speaker 1>brain cancer. Nick Cannon did go on his daytime show

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<v Speaker 1>to talk about the news of what happened. Now Here

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<v Speaker 1>he is describing the symptoms that Zen had. I always

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<v Speaker 1>noticed he had like a little felt like a sinus thing.

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<v Speaker 1>It was like a call. By the time he was

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<v Speaker 1>two months old, I noticed, like, you got it, like

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<v Speaker 1>a nice size head. But I really wanted to, you know,

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<v Speaker 1>take him to the doctor to get the breathing and

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<v Speaker 1>the sinus things checked out. So we thought it would

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<v Speaker 1>be a routine process, and we found out that he

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<v Speaker 1>had another condition where it was fluid that was building

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<v Speaker 1>up in his head. And when we found out it

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<v Speaker 1>was more of a malignant tumor, and so immediately we

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<v Speaker 1>had to have surgery as brain surgery. We put a

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<v Speaker 1>shunt in his head, and we were hoping for the

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<v Speaker 1>best while I was Zen's health did take a turn

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<v Speaker 1>for the worst. That happened around Thanksgiving. Here year is

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<v Speaker 1>describing that. So Thanksgiving we had an interesting turn and

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<v Speaker 1>it was cancer in the brain and the tumor beginning

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<v Speaker 1>to grow a lot faster, and so we knew that

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<v Speaker 1>the time was so this weekend, you know, I made

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<v Speaker 1>a valid effort to spend the most quality time I

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<v Speaker 1>could spend with Zin and after the last holding my

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<v Speaker 1>son for the last time. But it was still it

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<v Speaker 1>was a beautiful setting. I couldn't imagine. Man. I prayed

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<v Speaker 1>for Nick and his family and and I mean, it's

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<v Speaker 1>it's nothing worse than losing your child, you know. And

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<v Speaker 1>baby was five and a half months. You know, you're thinking,

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<v Speaker 1>you're praying for the best, and you're hoping that everything

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<v Speaker 1>is going to work out. You're praying for strength. Are

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<v Speaker 1>years talking about that. I was always talking about you

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<v Speaker 1>don't just go through, which grow through what you keep pushing,

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<v Speaker 1>you know what I mean? And I have so much

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<v Speaker 1>faith in the Lord. I have so much faith in God.

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<v Speaker 1>And you know, people were often telling me y'all should

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<v Speaker 1>pray for miracles, and I did pray for the miracle.

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<v Speaker 1>I pray for the miracle of God's strength. And that's

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<v Speaker 1>why I'm here with you guys today, because I know

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<v Speaker 1>he puts the most and heaviest weight on the shoulders

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<v Speaker 1>of his strongest soldiers. So I'm here to show that

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<v Speaker 1>I can fight through this. I'm feeling it, I'm vulnerable,

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<v Speaker 1>I'm open yall, y'all, but I'm gonna make it through.

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<v Speaker 1>And this is a special show dedicated to my beautiful sons.

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<v Speaker 1>Man oh Man, that is so and speaking of strength

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<v Speaker 1>for him to be able to go to work and

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<v Speaker 1>do his show and discuss this and share this, and

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<v Speaker 1>I'm sure that there's other people who may have had

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<v Speaker 1>experiences that touched them in particular that that was relatable.

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<v Speaker 1>And he said he's always an open book, so in

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<v Speaker 1>this situation, he wanted to make sure that he shared

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<v Speaker 1>what was going on in his life. And he also

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<v Speaker 1>did have grief counselors on the show. He had doctor

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<v Speaker 1>Laura Berman, and he had grief expert David Kessler. And

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<v Speaker 1>here he is talking to David Kessler. One thing, I

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<v Speaker 1>feel like I've been struggling with is guilt. I want

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<v Speaker 1>to spend more time with my kids when I'm here,

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<v Speaker 1>I'm like, I should be with my kids when I'm

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<v Speaker 1>off doing anything. I mean, in other therapy sessions, I

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<v Speaker 1>talk about the one thing that eats at me, the

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<v Speaker 1>thing that keeps me up at night. It's like, I

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<v Speaker 1>should be doing more for my children. Guilt is a

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<v Speaker 1>constant companion and grief. I'm learning that. And here's the thing. Psychologically,

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<v Speaker 1>we're always rather guilty than helpless. So your mind wants

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<v Speaker 1>to find some control in an uncontrollable situation. Let me

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<v Speaker 1>tell you, the fact that you're in guilt you wish

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<v Speaker 1>you would have done more is what makes people a

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<v Speaker 1>good father. I think a lot of parents deal with that,

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<v Speaker 1>you know, not spending enough time or wanting to spend

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<v Speaker 1>more time. But on the other angle, you want to

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<v Speaker 1>make sure that you could provide that you could provide food,

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<v Speaker 1>You could make sure that they pay for you pay

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<v Speaker 1>for their high school, their college, their basketball games and

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<v Speaker 1>tournaments and all that. So it's it's a thin line.

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<v Speaker 1>But you try to play both sides. And that's why

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<v Speaker 1>I fly back and forth so many different times. Man,

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<v Speaker 1>I try to be at the kids games and the

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<v Speaker 1>acting classes and ballet and dance and soccer and tennis

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<v Speaker 1>and whatever they do in football. And you know, my

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<v Speaker 1>daughters play whatever I possibly can. But that that that

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<v Speaker 1>is guilt that you sit through all the time, is

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<v Speaker 1>you want to spend more time, but you also want

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<v Speaker 1>to make sure that financially you set them up right.

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<v Speaker 1>And kids aren't thinking when they're young, like, oh, he's

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<v Speaker 1>doing this because he's got to make money so I

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<v Speaker 1>could do. They're like, where is my father? That's right,

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<v Speaker 1>all right? So we appreciate Nick Cannon for even being

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<v Speaker 1>able to speak on that and to a list of

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<v Speaker 1>Scott another. Had to be really hard for both of

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<v Speaker 1>them to have to deal with this. But I'm gonna

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<v Speaker 1>see him later on. I'm gonna give him a big hug, man.

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<v Speaker 1>He does a lot for us, our people, our community.

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<v Speaker 1>I'm just gonna give him a big hug and tell

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<v Speaker 1>him we love him, man, because it's it's nothing you

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<v Speaker 1>can say that make him feel better, but you know

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<v Speaker 1>the fact that he knows that we love him and

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<v Speaker 1>we support him, we continue to pray for him. It's

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<v Speaker 1>just a start, all right. Well, that is your rumor reports. Jeez,

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<v Speaker 1>I know that I know that was heavy, but it

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<v Speaker 1>was very necessary. You know, me and my wife were

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<v Speaker 1>talking about that last night and it was just like,

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<v Speaker 1>it's just I couldn't even imagine. I couldn't be you know,

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<v Speaker 1>he's a strong he's a strong rubber because I couldn't

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<v Speaker 1>even imagine being able to function for people deal with

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<v Speaker 1>with with grief differently. So again, salute to Nick Cannon

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<v Speaker 1>and condolences to his family. Is listen man? All right,

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<v Speaker 1>Well we got front page news. Next. What we're talking about, Well,

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<v Speaker 1>let's talk about Chris Cuomo. He was fired by CNN

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<v Speaker 1>last Saturday, and that is for his involvement with his

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<v Speaker 1>brother Andrew Cuomo's sexual misconduct scandal. But we'll tell you

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<v Speaker 1>what's happening now with the aftermath. All right, we'll get

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<v Speaker 1>into that next. It's the Breakfast Club. Good Morning, So

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<v Speaker 1>the guy we are to breakfast Clubleskin in some front

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<v Speaker 1>page news where we're starting easy. Well. Chris Klomo, he

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<v Speaker 1>was fired by CNN last Saturday, person involving with his

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<v Speaker 1>brother Andrew Chromos sexual misconduct scandal, and he also has

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<v Speaker 1>now lost his book deal and his severeigns. CNN released

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<v Speaker 1>a statement where they let everybody know that he was terminated.

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<v Speaker 1>Chris Komo was suspended earlier this week pending further evaluation

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<v Speaker 1>of new information that came to light. We retained a

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<v Speaker 1>respected law firm to conduct the review and have terminated

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<v Speaker 1>him effective immediately. Wow. Now, Chlomo released a statement saying,

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<v Speaker 1>the way my time ended a CNN was hard. While

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<v Speaker 1>I have a thick skin, I also have a family

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<v Speaker 1>for whom the past week has been extraordinarily difficult. So

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<v Speaker 1>right now I have to take a step back and

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<v Speaker 1>focus on what comes next. Why would he lose his

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<v Speaker 1>book deal while he's also facing sexual misconduct charges of

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<v Speaker 1>his own, and so all these things are also being

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<v Speaker 1>brought back to light and to light from a former

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<v Speaker 1>junior colleague at another network who chose to come forward

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<v Speaker 1>now after hearing his on air statement about his brother's scandal.

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<v Speaker 1>Don't that sound wow? That an accusation could get you

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<v Speaker 1>to lose your book deal because you figure it book

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<v Speaker 1>deal where you'll be able to tell your own story,

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<v Speaker 1>but an accusation could get you to lose it. He's

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<v Speaker 1>not convicted, right, and now he's not. But you know,

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<v Speaker 1>HarperCollins was doing his book deal. That's the publishing company,

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<v Speaker 1>and they announced they'll no longer be publishing his book.

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<v Speaker 1>It's called Deep Denial. It was supposed to come out

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<v Speaker 1>in the fall of twenty twenty two, and so now

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<v Speaker 1>they're not publishing the book anymore, all right. Chris Como

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<v Speaker 1>also is prepping to sue CNN for more than eighteen

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<v Speaker 1>million dollars and that's over the contract that they have

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<v Speaker 1>if they don't pay him at least what's left in

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<v Speaker 1>his contract that they have to do that. So he's

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<v Speaker 1>hired lawyers. He's preparing the father lawsuit. It was a

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<v Speaker 1>four year contract that he signed last year year, and

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<v Speaker 1>so his contract was reportedly worth six million dollars a year,

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<v Speaker 1>so that leads between eighteen and twenty million that he

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<v Speaker 1>would be old. But CNN has no intention of paying

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<v Speaker 1>him a Penny. So if he gets a settlement, there

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<v Speaker 1>would be an uproar, according to a source. But CNN

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<v Speaker 1>does have a standard morality cause in their contract that

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<v Speaker 1>if the employee does anything like that, they can be

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<v Speaker 1>immediately fired. Yeah, I mean that's in most people's contracts.

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<v Speaker 1>If you do something else side or do something, you

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<v Speaker 1>can't get fired. But the fact that he's fighting it,

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<v Speaker 1>it seems like it has to be a loophole. I'm

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<v Speaker 1>sure Chris Pomo got some of the best attorneys out there,

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<v Speaker 1>so if he's fighting, it got to be a loophole somewhere, right.

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<v Speaker 1>And there's also a CNN probe going on into an

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<v Speaker 1>unspecified sexual misconduct allegation against Chris Cuomo. They got that

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<v Speaker 1>just last week and that dates to his time working

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<v Speaker 1>for ABC News, and his spokesman has insisted that those

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<v Speaker 1>allegations are not true. All right, Well I'm angela ye,

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<v Speaker 1>and that is your front page news, all right, So

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<v Speaker 1>Charlemagne is out today. So if you want to give

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<v Speaker 1>somebody donkey of the day eight hundred five eight five

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<v Speaker 1>one oh five one, wherever you want to give donkey too,

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<v Speaker 1>it could be your boss, could be your co worker,

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<v Speaker 1>it could be the fact that you can't find Christmas

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<v Speaker 1>trees because there's a Christmas tree shortage. It could be

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<v Speaker 1>that guy who had the fake prosthetic arm and try

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<v Speaker 1>to get the vaccination that was his fake arm. That

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<v Speaker 1>was funny. It could it could be a bunch of things.

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<v Speaker 1>It could be the fact that that you don't you're

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<v Speaker 1>not feeling your baby daddy right now, your baby mama,

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<v Speaker 1>whatever it may be. Eight hundred five eight five, one

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<v Speaker 1>oh five one. Hit us up right now, Donkey of

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<v Speaker 1>the Day, and now up next, we have A J.

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<v Speaker 1>Johnson now A J. Johnson. She's an actress, wellness coach.

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<v Speaker 1>She has a show on TV one called Life Therapy. Now.

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<v Speaker 1>You also might have seen her in Baby Boy. She

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<v Speaker 1>was also in House. She was dancing with Gina Ain't

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<v Speaker 1>got hurting the body. Yeah, So she'll be joining us

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<v Speaker 1>in a little bit. She had her own show before

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<v Speaker 1>the AJ Zone. All right, So we'll talk to A. J.

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<v Speaker 1>Johnson when we come back. So don't move. It's to

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<v Speaker 1>Breakfast Club, Go Morning, the Breakfast Club Morning. Everybody is

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<v Speaker 1>DJ Envy, Angela Yee, Charlemagne the guy. We are the

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<v Speaker 1>Breakfast Club. We got a special guest in the building.

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<v Speaker 1>I thought she was up here, So I thought you

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<v Speaker 1>up here before. No, my first time. I'm like, I'm

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<v Speaker 1>a breakfast nup version. I just know your face, like

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<v Speaker 1>I grew up on you, so I just know we

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<v Speaker 1>just I just thought you were here. You're part of

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<v Speaker 1>the family. I love it. Well, now, just Johnson, good morning?

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<v Speaker 1>What's what's up? Good morning? Now, if you don't know

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<v Speaker 1>who A. J. Johnson is and you don't know her

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<v Speaker 1>from Life Therapy and all the shows that she did,

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<v Speaker 1>she was on one of my favorite movies of all time,

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<v Speaker 1>House Party. You know, I'm surprised you said that. I

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<v Speaker 1>thought you was gonna say baby boy, Yeah, that too, well,

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<v Speaker 1>I was gonna say. Usually you see guys say baby

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<v Speaker 1>boy yeah, and girls say house party Yeah. House party.

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<v Speaker 1>You know from New York. So it was like I

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<v Speaker 1>grew up on that. So I want to start from

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<v Speaker 1>the beginning. If you don't mind, you like, how did

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<v Speaker 1>you get into acting? How did you get the part

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<v Speaker 1>in the house party party? Let's talk about it. Oh

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<v Speaker 1>my goodness, you don't have enough time from New Jersey, Jersey? Yeah, yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>well yeah, we're just about man. I went to school

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<v Speaker 1>in Atlanta, and the beginning was Spike Lee shooting school

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<v Speaker 1>days on campus, and so as a premim major, I

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<v Speaker 1>still put my foot in the arts. Let's go back

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<v Speaker 1>to the real beginning. So, growing up in Jersey, my

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<v Speaker 1>parents used to bring me up to the city. So

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<v Speaker 1>every time I come to New York is real nostalgic

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<v Speaker 1>for me, because you know, I grew up on alvin

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<v Speaker 1>Alee Dan's classes and going to see Brawlway shows and

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<v Speaker 1>so that's where I feel like the performance bug got me.

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<v Speaker 1>But I came from an academic family, so it was like, yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>you know, that's fun, but you're gonna be a doctor,

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<v Speaker 1>You're gonna be a lawyer, or you're gonna be an accountant.

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<v Speaker 1>So I always saw it as fun until Spike showed

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<v Speaker 1>up his butt. He shows up on campus and he's like,

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<v Speaker 1>you know, I think I want you to be in

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<v Speaker 1>my movie. I was Miss Moorehouse at the time, you know, yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>so I was, you know, I was kind of doing

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<v Speaker 1>it at school and he was like, you know, I

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<v Speaker 1>think I kind of want your presence in the movie.

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<v Speaker 1>And I was like, yeah, you think I need you

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<v Speaker 1>to be sure. He was like, see that's what I'm

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<v Speaker 1>talking about, that energy, And so God bless him because

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<v Speaker 1>he put me in school days and that started everything

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<v Speaker 1>because it gave me my Screen Actors Guild membership, which

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<v Speaker 1>is what you need. Of course, no, and it's not.

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<v Speaker 1>And so I loved Spike forever for that because he

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<v Speaker 1>believed me enough to finance that, and and the rest

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<v Speaker 1>took off after. What about your parents because they everybody

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<v Speaker 1>wanted you you know, you were premed. Oh yeah, well

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<v Speaker 1>I lost my mom my first year at school. But

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<v Speaker 1>but my dad and the rest of my family was like, no, no, no, no,

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<v Speaker 1>this is supposed to be fun. And my dad actually

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<v Speaker 1>didn't speak to me until the house party premiere because

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<v Speaker 1>then you want our tickets for a second line? Did

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<v Speaker 1>you for a second say, I don't know, you haven't

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<v Speaker 1>been talking to me. No, because I knew, I knew,

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<v Speaker 1>you know, and he knew we were closed. So he said, listen,

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<v Speaker 1>I'm just scared for you, like that life, like you know,

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<v Speaker 1>He's like, you know, I'm from Jersey, I'm an engineer.

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<v Speaker 1>I don't know nothing about Hollywood and auditions and red carpets.

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<v Speaker 1>He's like, but now I'm gonna find out because my

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<v Speaker 1>girl doing it, you know, so break down a house party.

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<v Speaker 1>So how did House Party come to you and what

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<v Speaker 1>was the vision when you first seen it? Okay, well,

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<v Speaker 1>did you know that I was in Living Color fly

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<v Speaker 1>girl choreographer. Yes, okay, so actually House Party conflicted within

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<v Speaker 1>Living Color. So Keenan Ivory Wayans was like, you gotta

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<v Speaker 1>do either. So I was like, okay, so I'm out love,

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<v Speaker 1>you gonna leave. And Living Color one of the biggest

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<v Speaker 1>shows on TV. But at the time, it was the beginning,

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<v Speaker 1>it was growing. I was pioneering, correct, right, So I

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<v Speaker 1>called him Rosie, my girl, Rosie Perez. I said, listen,

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<v Speaker 1>I gotta I gotta take a step back for a second.

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<v Speaker 1>Go try to do this movie thing. I need you

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<v Speaker 1>to handle it for me. That's hope that you hooked

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<v Speaker 1>a friend up, because some people might have been like, oh,

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<v Speaker 1>I gotta make a choice. I'm out good luck. Oh no,

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<v Speaker 1>no no, Because Rosie was the you know at the time,

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<v Speaker 1>you know, as dancers, it was like Rosie was holding

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<v Speaker 1>down the East coast. I was holding down the West coast.

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<v Speaker 1>So we shot and Living Color on the West coast. So,

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<v Speaker 1>I mean, and Keenan was a friend, so I was like,

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<v Speaker 1>you know, I'm gonna take this opportunity, but I'm not

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<v Speaker 1>gonna leave my boy hanging. So I was like, let

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<v Speaker 1>me get let me go get you the baddest dancer

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<v Speaker 1>I know, which was Rosie and so cars Rosie and

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<v Speaker 1>then and you know, Tsha and I were friends because

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<v Speaker 1>we met doing school days and I said, listen, I'm

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<v Speaker 1>trying to do this movie. I think you know they

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<v Speaker 1>came to the location to check me out on Living Color.

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<v Speaker 1>You're looking for a brown skin ship who can dance

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<v Speaker 1>and who? And she's like, oh no, they're looking for

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<v Speaker 1>a light skin girl for another role. I wonder if

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<v Speaker 1>it's me and you Now you know we don't have

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<v Speaker 1>to wonder. You know, what do you think that right? Deep? Right?

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<v Speaker 1>Do you think that you're a training and what you

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<v Speaker 1>do like for people as a life coach that helps

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<v Speaker 1>even when you're on set just being there with people,

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<v Speaker 1>because I can imagine how pleasant it must be to

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<v Speaker 1>be around you, because you have a lot of the

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<v Speaker 1>skills and tools to make sure that you know how

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<v Speaker 1>to treat other people. Some people don't know how to

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<v Speaker 1>do that. I love you saying that, and because I

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<v Speaker 1>think that part of my life and personality is what

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<v Speaker 1>got me to the life coaching. It was like as

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<v Speaker 1>people as I'm you know, I mean, I've been doing

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<v Speaker 1>this for thirty years. So as I work with different people,

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<v Speaker 1>as I'm around different people, they're the ones saying, can

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<v Speaker 1>I talk to you? You know, can I get your

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<v Speaker 1>take on this? You know, I heard you went through

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<v Speaker 1>a hard time, but you know, I can't even you know,

0:28:43.640 --> 0:28:46.040
<v Speaker 1>you're not wearing You're you know, you're not wearing your story,

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<v Speaker 1>Like how how are you so up? And so that's

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<v Speaker 1>where the life coaching came from. The psychology degree in background,

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<v Speaker 1>I just started helping people. And before my dad passed,

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<v Speaker 1>he was like, well, are they paying you for it?

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<v Speaker 1>And I was like, no, no, no, I'm helping my friends.

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<v Speaker 1>He was like, well can they pay me? Because I

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<v Speaker 1>pay for spellment, so can they that right? You know?

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<v Speaker 1>And so in his passing he said, you know, promise

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<v Speaker 1>me you'll just try it because that's part of your

0:29:09.160 --> 0:29:12.320
<v Speaker 1>gift and your talent and you know, you help people

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<v Speaker 1>and you're in service as a person. But at the

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<v Speaker 1>same time, that's a job, right. So here we are

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<v Speaker 1>and TV one. TV one said whoop and said we

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<v Speaker 1>want you to executive produce. It's your show eighteen episodes

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<v Speaker 1>show us how you do it. I love it because

0:29:26.200 --> 0:29:29.520
<v Speaker 1>it is really difficult to be in these high stressful situations.

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<v Speaker 1>So many people don't like the people who they have

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<v Speaker 1>to work with. So imagine like having somebody including me sometimes. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>so it's like, you know, finish your question. But I'm like,

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<v Speaker 1>you know, don't, don't act like I'm the therapist who's

0:29:40.480 --> 0:29:42.360
<v Speaker 1>not going through it. I'm the therapist to help you.

0:29:42.840 --> 0:29:45.920
<v Speaker 1>I'm coming from experience. But go ahead and finished. No. No,

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<v Speaker 1>but I'm saying, just imagine. I was talking to one

0:29:48.240 --> 0:29:49.880
<v Speaker 1>of my friends about that, and we were saying, how

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<v Speaker 1>so many people just have to go to situations where

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<v Speaker 1>they go to work every day and they just can't

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<v Speaker 1>stand their job. They can't stand the people that have

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<v Speaker 1>and that can be like really every day, just break

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<v Speaker 1>you down, girl. The breakdown can start with, how about

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<v Speaker 1>I don't even want to go to work or I'm

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<v Speaker 1>at work and I like work more than I like home.

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<v Speaker 1>I mean, there's a whole lot that goes on. I

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<v Speaker 1>don't like my family. You know, I'm married. I can't

0:30:14.520 --> 0:30:16.640
<v Speaker 1>stand my husband, you know. I mean there's a whole lot,

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<v Speaker 1>especially during this pandemic. You know how many people were

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<v Speaker 1>locked away at home and typically we're doing okay because

0:30:22.160 --> 0:30:24.640
<v Speaker 1>they weren't home so much, and now that's all they

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<v Speaker 1>could be. So life shifted. Some people say I don't

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<v Speaker 1>like my kids. I mean, listen, I'm telling you life

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<v Speaker 1>is hard. I think for me, like I messed up

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<v Speaker 1>my my situation at the crib because they had a situation.

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<v Speaker 1>They get up at a certain time, they eat at

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<v Speaker 1>a certain time, they do this at a certain times.

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<v Speaker 1>That's coming home and I'm like, it's too early to

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<v Speaker 1>eat this where we've been doing this like eighteen Like

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<v Speaker 1>we've been doing this. Dad, get out of here, right.

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<v Speaker 1>I messed up the house a little bit, right, And

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<v Speaker 1>you know what, I love. You know. TV one has

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<v Speaker 1>been amazing because in creating the show, you know, one

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<v Speaker 1>of the things I asked and and they completely partnered

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<v Speaker 1>with me on is that I wanted to keep it

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<v Speaker 1>real and authentic and do with genuine issues. I didn't

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<v Speaker 1>want to be the doctor on the couch, the therapist

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<v Speaker 1>on the couch. I wanted to dive in and say, listen,

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<v Speaker 1>you know, therapy is me and you trying to find

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<v Speaker 1>a solution. It's friends, it's family, it's a camaraderie approach.

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<v Speaker 1>It should be fun, it should be safe. You know,

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<v Speaker 1>no matter what the issue is, we all need help

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<v Speaker 1>going through life. So whatever it is, big or small,

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<v Speaker 1>we got more. With A. J. Johnson, we're getting his

0:31:27.360 --> 0:31:29.760
<v Speaker 1>free life Therapy this morning, so don't move. It's the

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<v Speaker 1>Breakfast Club. Good morning morning. Everybody's DJ Envy, Angela Yee,

0:31:34.480 --> 0:31:36.520
<v Speaker 1>Charlomagne and the guy we are The Breakfast Club was

0:31:36.560 --> 0:31:39.240
<v Speaker 1>still kicking in with A. J. Johnson's actress wellness coach.

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<v Speaker 1>She has a show on TV one Life Therapy. Now

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<v Speaker 1>you spoke with with Yan dm DC. Yeah, thats gious

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<v Speaker 1>and he was so mad about which part, which part,

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<v Speaker 1>the part where you d left. He was like when

0:31:56.800 --> 0:31:58.280
<v Speaker 1>he was like when she was like, well, would you

0:31:58.320 --> 0:32:00.360
<v Speaker 1>hold me down? And he was like, I don't know right,

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<v Speaker 1>but here here, here's what I love. First of all,

0:32:02.680 --> 0:32:05.240
<v Speaker 1>that's my family. I love them. Just here. She was

0:32:05.320 --> 0:32:07.880
<v Speaker 1>here about a week ago. Yeah. Yeah, that's a couple's retreat.

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<v Speaker 1>That's vh one um. And you know I love the honesty.

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<v Speaker 1>See that's my thing. We can all we can only

0:32:13.280 --> 0:32:15.400
<v Speaker 1>get to the help and the step forward when you're

0:32:15.400 --> 0:32:17.920
<v Speaker 1>willing to be honest, no matter how bad the situation is,

0:32:18.160 --> 0:32:20.760
<v Speaker 1>and they needed to have that conversation. I was watching

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<v Speaker 1>them as we were filming, and I could tell that

0:32:23.680 --> 0:32:27.160
<v Speaker 1>they were off about the truth of you know, how

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<v Speaker 1>did you feel when you were incarcerated? And I was

0:32:29.600 --> 0:32:32.280
<v Speaker 1>blowing up, you know, on the outside, and so there

0:32:32.320 --> 0:32:34.840
<v Speaker 1>were conversations they hadn't had yet. So to me, I

0:32:35.000 --> 0:32:36.720
<v Speaker 1>was like, you know what, if y'all trust me, we

0:32:36.800 --> 0:32:39.120
<v Speaker 1>can really do this work and get down to the true,

0:32:39.240 --> 0:32:42.960
<v Speaker 1>the true conversation, which is like, what are you really feeling?

0:32:43.160 --> 0:32:44.720
<v Speaker 1>You know, Yandy, what are you feeling? I just want

0:32:44.760 --> 0:32:46.720
<v Speaker 1>to know, you know, all the stuff I did? Would

0:32:46.760 --> 0:32:47.960
<v Speaker 1>he have my back? And I was like, well, what

0:32:48.000 --> 0:32:49.960
<v Speaker 1>if he doesn't, where are we going from there? She's like,

0:32:49.960 --> 0:32:51.920
<v Speaker 1>I don't know. I just gotta get the answer. I said, okay,

0:32:51.920 --> 0:32:53.960
<v Speaker 1>well I'm gonna help you, says get the answer. I

0:32:54.240 --> 0:32:58.680
<v Speaker 1>never expected to get the answer. We all got the answer, right,

0:32:59.240 --> 0:33:01.840
<v Speaker 1>But you know what, that's the step forward. You know,

0:33:02.000 --> 0:33:04.240
<v Speaker 1>they had already dealt with where they were for years,

0:33:04.640 --> 0:33:07.200
<v Speaker 1>right in terms of that space, you can only step

0:33:07.280 --> 0:33:09.360
<v Speaker 1>forward when you get to the truth. So now you

0:33:09.440 --> 0:33:11.360
<v Speaker 1>start to heal. You know, now we know the truth.

0:33:11.640 --> 0:33:13.360
<v Speaker 1>Now we know that. He didn't say no, he said,

0:33:13.360 --> 0:33:15.160
<v Speaker 1>I don't know, so now we have to figure it out.

0:33:15.400 --> 0:33:17.040
<v Speaker 1>Let me ask you a question when people say I

0:33:17.160 --> 0:33:19.520
<v Speaker 1>want the answer, and your thing is, well, what are

0:33:19.520 --> 0:33:21.239
<v Speaker 1>you gonna do when you get that answer? Right? Right?

0:33:21.320 --> 0:33:23.400
<v Speaker 1>And most of the time is nothing, So why do

0:33:23.440 --> 0:33:25.479
<v Speaker 1>you get the answer someone? Because he says that all

0:33:25.520 --> 0:33:27.680
<v Speaker 1>the time, like, if you get the truth, what you're

0:33:27.680 --> 0:33:29.000
<v Speaker 1>gonna do when you get that truth? If you ain't

0:33:29.040 --> 0:33:30.440
<v Speaker 1>gonna do Some people don't want to know the truth

0:33:30.440 --> 0:33:32.400
<v Speaker 1>because they want to just keep living how they're living.

0:33:32.520 --> 0:33:35.360
<v Speaker 1>And they're like, okay, because if I'm gonna stay, but

0:33:35.480 --> 0:33:37.440
<v Speaker 1>I want the truth, but I'm staying, I'm just gonna

0:33:37.440 --> 0:33:39.920
<v Speaker 1>stay and be mad, right, And then you're gonna stay

0:33:39.920 --> 0:33:42.280
<v Speaker 1>and be mad and not happy and evil and not

0:33:42.400 --> 0:33:46.360
<v Speaker 1>fun to be around, and vindictive and revengeful, and I mean,

0:33:46.560 --> 0:33:48.720
<v Speaker 1>who wants that life? I mean, I don't. Some people

0:33:48.800 --> 0:33:51.640
<v Speaker 1>don't know they don't want to know the truth. Sometimes

0:33:51.720 --> 0:33:54.719
<v Speaker 1>in the therapy sessions is where you uncover and discover

0:33:55.360 --> 0:33:57.400
<v Speaker 1>you know, I don't I probably won't do anything with

0:33:57.480 --> 0:33:59.280
<v Speaker 1>the truth. So maybe I don't want the truth, and

0:33:59.360 --> 0:34:02.000
<v Speaker 1>maybe the lie I'm living it is probably okay for

0:34:02.080 --> 0:34:04.360
<v Speaker 1>my life. Now, if you can be okay living a lie,

0:34:04.800 --> 0:34:08.480
<v Speaker 1>that that's on you, right, You know I personally can't

0:34:08.520 --> 0:34:10.560
<v Speaker 1>live that lie. I'm I'm a truth seeker. Are you

0:34:10.640 --> 0:34:16.560
<v Speaker 1>a truth seeker? Absolutely? Are you? No? You rather live

0:34:16.600 --> 0:34:18.240
<v Speaker 1>the line when it comes when it comes to certain

0:34:18.280 --> 0:34:21.000
<v Speaker 1>things like it's honestly when it comes to friends and

0:34:21.760 --> 0:34:23.640
<v Speaker 1>my kids. But if my wife cheated on me, you

0:34:23.680 --> 0:34:25.360
<v Speaker 1>wouldn't want to know. I wouldn't want to know. You know,

0:34:25.560 --> 0:34:27.960
<v Speaker 1>I've seriously, you wouldn't want to know. You don't think

0:34:28.000 --> 0:34:29.680
<v Speaker 1>you could learn the truth hell from it and keep

0:34:29.760 --> 0:34:32.080
<v Speaker 1>going No, he can't do it. Wow, But the other

0:34:32.120 --> 0:34:36.080
<v Speaker 1>guy's penis is definitely that and we know size matters.

0:34:38.200 --> 0:34:40.120
<v Speaker 1>The reason the reason I wouldn't is because you know

0:34:40.120 --> 0:34:42.160
<v Speaker 1>I've been with my wife twenty seven years, right, Yeah,

0:34:42.200 --> 0:34:45.080
<v Speaker 1>you've been married twenty So all the stuff that I've

0:34:45.120 --> 0:34:47.719
<v Speaker 1>done to my wife in a relationship is foul. I

0:34:47.840 --> 0:34:50.640
<v Speaker 1>was insecuted starting to go together when we were fifteen, right,

0:34:51.040 --> 0:34:53.399
<v Speaker 1>So you learn from your wife like you learn those

0:34:53.440 --> 0:34:56.759
<v Speaker 1>experiences with your spouse. So if she did something to me,

0:34:57.320 --> 0:35:00.880
<v Speaker 1>I'm not leaving. You deserved it. I deserved it. So okay,

0:35:00.920 --> 0:35:02.480
<v Speaker 1>So it's kind of like a guilt thing. No, it's

0:35:02.520 --> 0:35:03.759
<v Speaker 1>not a guilt thing. I just don't want to I'm

0:35:03.800 --> 0:35:05.920
<v Speaker 1>not leaving because you don't even want to think about it.

0:35:06.120 --> 0:35:07.360
<v Speaker 1>So I don't want to even think about it. So,

0:35:07.560 --> 0:35:09.719
<v Speaker 1>for instance, like when it comes to me, I'm the

0:35:09.800 --> 0:35:12.160
<v Speaker 1>type I can put something in the past and continue

0:35:12.160 --> 0:35:15.440
<v Speaker 1>to move forward. Does she know all your dirt? Yes? Okay,

0:35:15.760 --> 0:35:18.480
<v Speaker 1>and she stayed Yes, So is that why if you

0:35:18.600 --> 0:35:21.080
<v Speaker 1>knew her dirt, you could say he's not gonna go.

0:35:21.200 --> 0:35:23.560
<v Speaker 1>That's why he's saying because you're saying you're not gonna leave,

0:35:23.600 --> 0:35:25.279
<v Speaker 1>So why not? You just don't need to know the dirt.

0:35:25.440 --> 0:35:27.440
<v Speaker 1>I don't. I don't know how I would feel if

0:35:27.520 --> 0:35:29.480
<v Speaker 1>that was kilt. Let's say let's say my wife did

0:35:29.560 --> 0:35:31.680
<v Speaker 1>something foul. Right, Let's say she could it be more

0:35:31.680 --> 0:35:33.960
<v Speaker 1>foul than whatever you did, I mean anything could be faust.

0:35:34.000 --> 0:35:35.640
<v Speaker 1>She could, you know, have sex with a friend and

0:35:35.719 --> 0:35:38.719
<v Speaker 1>not not just cheating, just the insecurities that how I

0:35:38.840 --> 0:35:41.719
<v Speaker 1>treated her as being young and through our you know,

0:35:41.719 --> 0:35:44.719
<v Speaker 1>through our relationship, and she did something I would not

0:35:44.840 --> 0:35:46.840
<v Speaker 1>want to know. So does that make you does that

0:35:47.000 --> 0:35:51.000
<v Speaker 1>does that make you slightly like lifelong uncomfortable to say

0:35:51.160 --> 0:35:54.319
<v Speaker 1>no no, because even with me, like for instance, if

0:35:54.360 --> 0:35:56.480
<v Speaker 1>you do something, let's say you do something to me,

0:35:56.760 --> 0:35:58.560
<v Speaker 1>I'm the type where I could let it go, say

0:35:58.800 --> 0:36:00.799
<v Speaker 1>you and keep it moving and everything about you. Ever again,

0:36:01.320 --> 0:36:03.600
<v Speaker 1>you're never in my life. Some people harp on that

0:36:03.719 --> 0:36:06.279
<v Speaker 1>I agree, but but no, I agree. But when it's

0:36:06.280 --> 0:36:08.960
<v Speaker 1>your wife, it's kind of like I feel like there's

0:36:08.960 --> 0:36:11.919
<v Speaker 1>this little cloud like a Charlie Brown clown that could

0:36:12.000 --> 0:36:15.000
<v Speaker 1>hover of There could be something I don't know that's

0:36:15.040 --> 0:36:19.200
<v Speaker 1>holding me back from being my best self just because

0:36:19.280 --> 0:36:21.719
<v Speaker 1>I don't know my full truth. That could be, but

0:36:22.200 --> 0:36:25.160
<v Speaker 1>there hasn't been any discrepancies with her and our manner.

0:36:25.160 --> 0:36:27.480
<v Speaker 1>Do you know that? But like, AJ, let me ask

0:36:27.520 --> 0:36:30.080
<v Speaker 1>you something. I heard that if you cheat on somebody,

0:36:30.120 --> 0:36:31.759
<v Speaker 1>you're not supposed to tell them if they're not going

0:36:31.800 --> 0:36:33.440
<v Speaker 1>to find out, because that's just to get rid of

0:36:33.560 --> 0:36:35.680
<v Speaker 1>your own guilt and that puts a burden on the

0:36:35.760 --> 0:36:38.160
<v Speaker 1>other person. And I've read that in several places. So

0:36:38.280 --> 0:36:39.920
<v Speaker 1>can we back up before that? And why are you

0:36:40.000 --> 0:36:42.880
<v Speaker 1>cheating anyway? So there's there's something going on for you

0:36:42.920 --> 0:36:45.120
<v Speaker 1>to be a cheater. First, Now, all of a sudden,

0:36:45.120 --> 0:36:48.360
<v Speaker 1>you're a cheater and you're keeping secrets. So where are

0:36:48.400 --> 0:36:50.759
<v Speaker 1>we going with that? Because what if like, okay, let's

0:36:50.800 --> 0:36:52.960
<v Speaker 1>just say his wife went on vacation with her girls

0:36:53.040 --> 0:36:55.160
<v Speaker 1>while mby was doing him well, don't use envy in

0:36:55.200 --> 0:36:58.520
<v Speaker 1>this one book ahead, and she had a little fleeing

0:36:58.719 --> 0:37:02.120
<v Speaker 1>somewhere in Jamaica and no one would ever know about it,

0:37:02.320 --> 0:37:06.960
<v Speaker 1>came back home and just should she tell I years later?

0:37:07.080 --> 0:37:10.560
<v Speaker 1>He didn't find out it was fifteen years ago. I think,

0:37:10.920 --> 0:37:13.160
<v Speaker 1>first of all, like I said, depending on what's leading

0:37:13.200 --> 0:37:15.880
<v Speaker 1>you to the cheat, that's the issue is what what

0:37:16.080 --> 0:37:19.720
<v Speaker 1>what's happening that you even want to cheat? He knows? Okay,

0:37:19.840 --> 0:37:23.000
<v Speaker 1>well see I would say it wasn't but I know,

0:37:23.080 --> 0:37:25.640
<v Speaker 1>well let's be true. Let let's be honest. Let's be honest.

0:37:26.640 --> 0:37:28.879
<v Speaker 1>So so are we just are we are we kind

0:37:28.920 --> 0:37:32.320
<v Speaker 1>of putting icing on a nasty cake saying you weren't

0:37:32.400 --> 0:37:35.520
<v Speaker 1>you were just not the best when you know were

0:37:35.760 --> 0:37:40.440
<v Speaker 1>you were? You were you? Yeah? Okay, see okay, that's okay.

0:37:40.600 --> 0:37:43.239
<v Speaker 1>So so that again that's the truth. So but you're

0:37:43.520 --> 0:37:45.360
<v Speaker 1>in order for you to be better, you have to

0:37:45.480 --> 0:37:47.680
<v Speaker 1>admit that, so that you so that you know what

0:37:47.760 --> 0:37:49.720
<v Speaker 1>better is going to be right, correct, So the cheating,

0:37:50.280 --> 0:37:52.279
<v Speaker 1>what's going on for her to cheat? Something's going on

0:37:52.320 --> 0:37:54.880
<v Speaker 1>with herself before it even comes to the relationship. Something's

0:37:54.880 --> 0:37:57.400
<v Speaker 1>going on inside Now that you cheat, Now it depends

0:37:57.440 --> 0:37:58.919
<v Speaker 1>on where she wants to go in the relationship, because

0:37:58.960 --> 0:38:01.960
<v Speaker 1>now you're holding onto a secret, a lie, because now

0:38:02.480 --> 0:38:05.000
<v Speaker 1>my valty you is a lie, her val is a lie.

0:38:05.120 --> 0:38:08.319
<v Speaker 1>She cheated. You think some people cheat out of revenge too.

0:38:08.640 --> 0:38:11.200
<v Speaker 1>I think people cheat for all kind of reasons insecurity, revenge.

0:38:11.400 --> 0:38:13.719
<v Speaker 1>But what you saying, I look, look, he pulled the

0:38:13.760 --> 0:38:17.120
<v Speaker 1>mike closer. He's like, wait, hold on, no. I think

0:38:17.120 --> 0:38:19.480
<v Speaker 1>people cheat for many different reasons, for many reasons. But

0:38:19.560 --> 0:38:22.080
<v Speaker 1>I think the main reason I think a lot of

0:38:22.120 --> 0:38:24.200
<v Speaker 1>fellows cheap is because and it's gonna sound so crazy,

0:38:24.239 --> 0:38:26.000
<v Speaker 1>I know women hate when we say it, because that's

0:38:26.040 --> 0:38:29.840
<v Speaker 1>what our community was, I cheating community. Correct. Think about it.

0:38:29.880 --> 0:38:31.440
<v Speaker 1>When you listen to music and you listen to things,

0:38:31.440 --> 0:38:33.520
<v Speaker 1>it's almost like you're supposed to cheat. When you hear

0:38:33.800 --> 0:38:35.799
<v Speaker 1>songs and you see people doing this, and you see

0:38:35.800 --> 0:38:37.719
<v Speaker 1>people doing that and you're at the club. That's what

0:38:37.840 --> 0:38:39.960
<v Speaker 1>our community was growing up. That's how it was, and

0:38:40.040 --> 0:38:41.920
<v Speaker 1>that's what I because I feel like it's kind of

0:38:41.920 --> 0:38:45.000
<v Speaker 1>shifted to twicls change, Like now it's torking, like all

0:38:45.000 --> 0:38:47.279
<v Speaker 1>the music is. You know, if I can't drop down low,

0:38:47.400 --> 0:38:50.640
<v Speaker 1>stay down low and make it go counterclockwise clockwise, it's

0:38:50.640 --> 0:38:52.719
<v Speaker 1>like I feel like I'm not worthy. You can do

0:38:52.800 --> 0:38:58.719
<v Speaker 1>it though I can't. That's at the point you still yeah, yeah, yes,

0:38:59.000 --> 0:39:02.719
<v Speaker 1>that was a community. But how many times did you

0:39:02.800 --> 0:39:05.719
<v Speaker 1>see your favorite autors, favorite celebrity out with their wife?

0:39:06.239 --> 0:39:08.359
<v Speaker 1>You know, you not a lot of seeing rappers talk

0:39:08.400 --> 0:39:11.000
<v Speaker 1>about their wives and just seeing actors talked about their

0:39:11.040 --> 0:39:13.520
<v Speaker 1>wives in the last ten years before that, every you

0:39:13.640 --> 0:39:16.040
<v Speaker 1>had to be single. But listen, you know that's what

0:39:16.160 --> 0:39:19.919
<v Speaker 1>our community did. What you're talking about the men part,

0:39:20.120 --> 0:39:22.600
<v Speaker 1>and you're asking about the female part. So I think

0:39:22.600 --> 0:39:25.560
<v Speaker 1>there's also different reasons why as women we cheat and

0:39:25.680 --> 0:39:28.360
<v Speaker 1>why as men cheat, But it still goes back to

0:39:28.480 --> 0:39:30.880
<v Speaker 1>what's going on within me. Very seldom, I mean, I

0:39:30.960 --> 0:39:32.360
<v Speaker 1>think that people cheat for a lot of reasons, like

0:39:32.400 --> 0:39:34.600
<v Speaker 1>we were talking about, but very seldom, I feel like

0:39:34.680 --> 0:39:36.640
<v Speaker 1>the cheating has to do with the other person. The

0:39:36.760 --> 0:39:38.400
<v Speaker 1>cheating has to do with how I feel about myself

0:39:38.520 --> 0:39:41.000
<v Speaker 1>right now. You can help me not feel good about

0:39:41.080 --> 0:39:43.680
<v Speaker 1>me right. You can help me not be courageous, not

0:39:43.800 --> 0:39:48.080
<v Speaker 1>be confident, not be confirmed right, but you can't validate me.

0:39:48.239 --> 0:39:54.280
<v Speaker 1>I gotta validate me. So if I'm cheating looking for validation, attention, love, honor, respect,

0:39:54.719 --> 0:39:56.759
<v Speaker 1>that's something that I'm looking for somewhere else. So now

0:39:56.840 --> 0:39:58.239
<v Speaker 1>I have to deal with you on why am I

0:39:58.320 --> 0:39:59.959
<v Speaker 1>with you as a life partner? And I'm like getting

0:40:00.040 --> 0:40:02.640
<v Speaker 1>what I need you follow. So it's not about telling

0:40:02.680 --> 0:40:05.360
<v Speaker 1>do I cheat? It's I need to fix what's happening

0:40:05.440 --> 0:40:07.560
<v Speaker 1>here because I, you know, because I went somewhere else,

0:40:07.840 --> 0:40:09.680
<v Speaker 1>or I think we can be better, and just so

0:40:09.840 --> 0:40:12.000
<v Speaker 1>you know, we're so aft up right now, I did

0:40:12.080 --> 0:40:14.800
<v Speaker 1>go somewhere else. But can we fix it? Imo? We

0:40:14.840 --> 0:40:16.600
<v Speaker 1>have more with A. J. Johnson when we come back.

0:40:16.600 --> 0:40:21.040
<v Speaker 1>It's the Breakfast Club, the Morning Envy, Angela Yee Charlemagne,

0:40:21.080 --> 0:40:23.080
<v Speaker 1>the guy we are the Breakfast Club was still kicking

0:40:23.080 --> 0:40:26.040
<v Speaker 1>in with AJ Johnson's actress wellness coach. She has a

0:40:26.120 --> 0:40:29.560
<v Speaker 1>show on TV one Life Therapy and ye question envy,

0:40:29.640 --> 0:40:34.120
<v Speaker 1>why did you cheat? A lot of different reasons insecurity

0:40:34.200 --> 0:40:37.239
<v Speaker 1>is the main one. I think one because when I

0:40:37.360 --> 0:40:39.600
<v Speaker 1>was home, I was this shoe I was with Shawn Casey.

0:40:39.800 --> 0:40:41.319
<v Speaker 1>But when I was in the street, I was DJ MV.

0:40:41.560 --> 0:40:44.080
<v Speaker 1>So I almost felt like I was a superhero, like

0:40:44.239 --> 0:40:46.080
<v Speaker 1>I put my k forward. I'm a different person. And

0:40:46.200 --> 0:40:47.840
<v Speaker 1>what part of your life, though, what part of your

0:40:47.880 --> 0:40:50.239
<v Speaker 1>life did this happen? Because y'all been together a long

0:40:50.400 --> 0:40:54.680
<v Speaker 1>time when I started popping, and when was that? I

0:40:54.719 --> 0:40:58.759
<v Speaker 1>would say, maybe my late was feeling yourself myself, because

0:40:58.760 --> 0:41:00.680
<v Speaker 1>you gotta think I was. I hate to say. I

0:41:00.800 --> 0:41:04.080
<v Speaker 1>was a kid with the glasses the brain where we go. Listen,

0:41:04.200 --> 0:41:06.520
<v Speaker 1>he had a little tight shorts on with his sides

0:41:06.600 --> 0:41:09.759
<v Speaker 1>up to his the nerd. Yeah it was DJ Shrimp.

0:41:09.840 --> 0:41:11.759
<v Speaker 1>I was only five foot four. At first I thought

0:41:11.760 --> 0:41:13.560
<v Speaker 1>it was because it's something else, No shut up. But

0:41:13.719 --> 0:41:17.239
<v Speaker 1>I grew from five to six foot so it was like,

0:41:17.520 --> 0:41:19.160
<v Speaker 1>you know, as a kid, I was, I was the nerd.

0:41:19.200 --> 0:41:21.360
<v Speaker 1>I was Nobody was going me, nobody's hollered at me.

0:41:21.560 --> 0:41:23.800
<v Speaker 1>But now I'm six foot. I got lay Sick, my

0:41:23.880 --> 0:41:30.440
<v Speaker 1>braces off, I got lay Sicks number two. I got Lai.

0:41:30.640 --> 0:41:32.400
<v Speaker 1>There was no more metal mouth, it was no more

0:41:32.480 --> 0:41:34.439
<v Speaker 1>four eyes, it was no more none of that. Listen

0:41:34.719 --> 0:41:37.960
<v Speaker 1>now they say that again. That dusted you off, right

0:41:38.080 --> 0:41:40.239
<v Speaker 1>and fixed you up. She dusted me off and fixed

0:41:40.280 --> 0:41:42.160
<v Speaker 1>me up. And now I'm how are you out there?

0:41:43.520 --> 0:41:45.879
<v Speaker 1>But you know how many how many stories are the same,

0:41:46.400 --> 0:41:49.600
<v Speaker 1>male and female. You know, the chubby girl in high

0:41:49.600 --> 0:41:52.600
<v Speaker 1>school who who couldn't make the cheerleading team all of

0:41:52.640 --> 0:41:57.840
<v Speaker 1>a sudden becomes the beauty queen and high school. You

0:41:57.880 --> 0:42:00.480
<v Speaker 1>know what I mean? So I think it was great

0:42:00.520 --> 0:42:02.240
<v Speaker 1>with you guys, is that you have such a history,

0:42:02.480 --> 0:42:04.600
<v Speaker 1>that's your foundation. You had to know you were going

0:42:04.640 --> 0:42:07.279
<v Speaker 1>to grow up together, so that that growing years. I mean,

0:42:07.320 --> 0:42:09.759
<v Speaker 1>most people don't really find their their person, told a

0:42:09.880 --> 0:42:12.439
<v Speaker 1>good reason person until like thirty, So you have all

0:42:12.600 --> 0:42:15.160
<v Speaker 1>that growing and maturing to do before you lock down.

0:42:15.640 --> 0:42:18.440
<v Speaker 1>If you lock down sooner, you're gonna have those growing pains,

0:42:18.520 --> 0:42:20.319
<v Speaker 1>as they say, correct, so you have to go through

0:42:20.320 --> 0:42:21.920
<v Speaker 1>them together. Me and my wife wrote a book During

0:42:21.920 --> 0:42:23.560
<v Speaker 1>a Pandemic, which is which just comes out next year,

0:42:23.560 --> 0:42:27.080
<v Speaker 1>next year. But we talked about all that because I

0:42:27.200 --> 0:42:30.040
<v Speaker 1>was insecure, she was beautiful. I didn't want her to

0:42:30.080 --> 0:42:32.520
<v Speaker 1>go outside, you know, I didn't want her to wear

0:42:32.920 --> 0:42:35.920
<v Speaker 1>a form fitting clothes like I was that type of

0:42:36.040 --> 0:42:38.479
<v Speaker 1>guy like this, the guy that if my daughter dated

0:42:38.680 --> 0:42:40.600
<v Speaker 1>a guy like me, I'd be like, we gotta give

0:42:40.600 --> 0:42:42.640
<v Speaker 1>it this. I got a question, Yes, man, So is

0:42:42.680 --> 0:42:46.360
<v Speaker 1>there anything from that guy? Because that's a soul? Is

0:42:46.400 --> 0:42:49.359
<v Speaker 1>there anything from that soul? Although we fixed a lot

0:42:49.400 --> 0:42:51.920
<v Speaker 1>of the outside, is there anything on the inside that

0:42:52.080 --> 0:42:56.120
<v Speaker 1>still needs healing when it comes to that. No, you're

0:42:56.120 --> 0:42:58.200
<v Speaker 1>absolutely sure. So why do you think you don't want

0:42:58.200 --> 0:43:02.520
<v Speaker 1>to know her truth? If there's something to tell. Well,

0:43:03.320 --> 0:43:06.120
<v Speaker 1>I don't think about the past. I don't think about anything.

0:43:06.960 --> 0:43:08.560
<v Speaker 1>He don't want to think about his path. I don't

0:43:08.600 --> 0:43:10.560
<v Speaker 1>think about anybody's past. But I think I did be

0:43:10.640 --> 0:43:12.480
<v Speaker 1>tame place where I don't want to think about it.

0:43:12.600 --> 0:43:15.040
<v Speaker 1>Like some people, you know, they drink to forget about things,

0:43:15.080 --> 0:43:18.080
<v Speaker 1>or they use drugs. For myself, I focus on the future,

0:43:18.520 --> 0:43:20.719
<v Speaker 1>like I focus on my kids and the future and

0:43:20.760 --> 0:43:22.600
<v Speaker 1>what's coming on next. I never want to go back

0:43:22.680 --> 0:43:26.120
<v Speaker 1>to that person. I never want to think you're I

0:43:26.239 --> 0:43:27.719
<v Speaker 1>know who that person is, and I don't like talking

0:43:27.719 --> 0:43:29.560
<v Speaker 1>about that person. I don't like like even with my wife,

0:43:29.600 --> 0:43:31.239
<v Speaker 1>she got cut in her face, right, she had like

0:43:31.360 --> 0:43:34.000
<v Speaker 1>sixty stitches. Girls beat her up when she was fifteen,

0:43:34.080 --> 0:43:36.120
<v Speaker 1>jumped to a cut of face. I never want to

0:43:36.200 --> 0:43:38.520
<v Speaker 1>think about that again. So every time she brings that

0:43:38.600 --> 0:43:40.120
<v Speaker 1>story up, I have to walk out the room. You

0:43:40.160 --> 0:43:41.799
<v Speaker 1>don't even want to hear abody talk about the more

0:43:41.840 --> 0:43:44.080
<v Speaker 1>because I dealt with that. I didn't, we didn't cry.

0:43:45.200 --> 0:43:47.360
<v Speaker 1>So you're already he from that. No residual math that

0:43:47.520 --> 0:43:50.120
<v Speaker 1>exactly because I would, I would find a person and

0:43:50.239 --> 0:43:52.040
<v Speaker 1>blow the house up. But I'm heal from it. Well,

0:43:52.160 --> 0:43:54.440
<v Speaker 1>see that means that you're still not healed because you're

0:43:54.480 --> 0:43:56.960
<v Speaker 1>telling that you if that that you have thoughts of

0:43:57.120 --> 0:43:58.680
<v Speaker 1>if you don't have thoughts about that. If I did,

0:43:58.719 --> 0:44:01.960
<v Speaker 1>I would, I would, I would have done it. Complicated,

0:44:02.200 --> 0:44:05.960
<v Speaker 1>I know, but you know this is life therapy because

0:44:06.000 --> 0:44:09.360
<v Speaker 1>and I also I also think that he could justify

0:44:09.520 --> 0:44:11.600
<v Speaker 1>if GI had cheated on him. And that's maybe why

0:44:11.640 --> 0:44:14.239
<v Speaker 1>he doesn't want to know, because because it's justified. Your

0:44:14.360 --> 0:44:18.239
<v Speaker 1>highest come on life, coach, Come on, come on life coach.

0:44:18.320 --> 0:44:21.239
<v Speaker 1>Exactly finished, Yes, you're right, you know, because you could

0:44:21.239 --> 0:44:24.120
<v Speaker 1>look at the situation and say she should have cheated

0:44:24.480 --> 0:44:27.400
<v Speaker 1>because in his head, you know, I deserved it. He

0:44:27.480 --> 0:44:30.480
<v Speaker 1>probably thinks he deserved it because he wasn't present the

0:44:30.520 --> 0:44:32.719
<v Speaker 1>way that he should have been. He was doing what

0:44:32.800 --> 0:44:36.400
<v Speaker 1>he was doing. Her feelings were hurt and what did

0:44:36.400 --> 0:44:41.239
<v Speaker 1>he think? She? I know, I don't know exactly, but

0:44:41.360 --> 0:44:43.600
<v Speaker 1>you know what, Yeah, this is a great example of

0:44:43.680 --> 0:44:46.160
<v Speaker 1>what right right, I know it is it is and

0:44:46.280 --> 0:44:47.920
<v Speaker 1>this is what this is what therapy is. I mean,

0:44:47.960 --> 0:44:50.280
<v Speaker 1>the reason why we're doing the show is to hopefully

0:44:50.320 --> 0:44:53.759
<v Speaker 1>show the black and brown community that doesn't necessarily know

0:44:53.920 --> 0:44:57.360
<v Speaker 1>a go to therapy. We're trying to show and hopefully

0:44:57.400 --> 0:45:00.440
<v Speaker 1>succeeding that therapy is this. It's exactly what we're doing.

0:45:00.560 --> 0:45:03.680
<v Speaker 1>We're talking things out, looking for solutions in a safe place,

0:45:03.960 --> 0:45:06.360
<v Speaker 1>you know, where you can feel like like you have

0:45:06.520 --> 0:45:08.640
<v Speaker 1>no reason to hide your truth and open and honesty

0:45:08.680 --> 0:45:11.359
<v Speaker 1>because the next step is moving forward in your life.

0:45:11.680 --> 0:45:14.480
<v Speaker 1>And so we're blocked by so much as a people,

0:45:14.760 --> 0:45:16.520
<v Speaker 1>right Like you're saying, a lot of the male cheating

0:45:16.640 --> 0:45:18.839
<v Speaker 1>is coming from you know, our music in the day,

0:45:19.160 --> 0:45:21.400
<v Speaker 1>and and what society is telling us we are and

0:45:21.560 --> 0:45:23.920
<v Speaker 1>are not and how good we are or not. I mean,

0:45:23.960 --> 0:45:25.560
<v Speaker 1>we go on and on all you know, in terms

0:45:25.600 --> 0:45:29.160
<v Speaker 1>of how does your family upbringing play a part in

0:45:29.239 --> 0:45:31.239
<v Speaker 1>your adult life? Like what did you see? A lot

0:45:31.280 --> 0:45:34.480
<v Speaker 1>of African American men don't come from two parent households,

0:45:34.760 --> 0:45:36.920
<v Speaker 1>so they didn't have an example of what a man

0:45:37.080 --> 0:45:39.520
<v Speaker 1>is really supposed to be in a relationship. I luckily did.

0:45:39.840 --> 0:45:42.120
<v Speaker 1>I'm all over my wife, I'm all over my kids.

0:45:42.200 --> 0:45:46.160
<v Speaker 1>I'm always constantly hugging in my relationship. I need that

0:45:46.520 --> 0:45:48.839
<v Speaker 1>because I watched it and that was what That's how

0:45:48.880 --> 0:45:52.400
<v Speaker 1>I identify love. How do you identify love? Well, I

0:45:52.440 --> 0:45:54.960
<v Speaker 1>would say this, my parents are definitely not very affectionate.

0:45:55.080 --> 0:45:57.640
<v Speaker 1>People see so deep. But our parents are divorced, will

0:45:57.640 --> 0:45:59.080
<v Speaker 1>live with each other, go everywhere with each other. You

0:45:59.160 --> 0:46:01.120
<v Speaker 1>gotta be on the show too. We got a whole

0:46:01.160 --> 0:46:04.240
<v Speaker 1>lot of life therapy in the same house, travel everywhere,

0:46:04.440 --> 0:46:08.080
<v Speaker 1>but not married. But I'm probably very like multimately unavailable.

0:46:08.200 --> 0:46:11.680
<v Speaker 1>I'm cool in my relationship and I'm very laid back

0:46:12.080 --> 0:46:14.799
<v Speaker 1>and chill, and we don't really argue. Everything's pretty calm.

0:46:15.000 --> 0:46:16.800
<v Speaker 1>Do you want to fix that? Do you feel like

0:46:16.840 --> 0:46:20.840
<v Speaker 1>it's something to fix? No, I think everything's fine. Like

0:46:21.000 --> 0:46:23.200
<v Speaker 1>I feel like we don't have like super deep conversations,

0:46:23.280 --> 0:46:27.120
<v Speaker 1>but we also are like best friends, so best friends

0:46:27.239 --> 0:46:31.040
<v Speaker 1>and romantic but not super deep. Yeah, but we don't

0:46:31.080 --> 0:46:34.080
<v Speaker 1>have those conversations. We could, but I just feel like

0:46:34.360 --> 0:46:36.640
<v Speaker 1>we never have had the need. How long have you

0:46:36.719 --> 0:46:39.440
<v Speaker 1>been together, um like six years. See and I think

0:46:39.640 --> 0:46:41.640
<v Speaker 1>you tell me because you both you are in a

0:46:41.680 --> 0:46:43.879
<v Speaker 1>relationship longer than ones. I mean I last two weeks.

0:46:43.920 --> 0:46:46.840
<v Speaker 1>That's long for me. But but but my question is

0:46:47.160 --> 0:46:50.160
<v Speaker 1>do you think being the married one that the hard

0:46:50.239 --> 0:46:54.799
<v Speaker 1>conversations are what cements the relationship. I think I think

0:46:54.840 --> 0:46:57.200
<v Speaker 1>he's scared of marriage. It won't say it right, Well,

0:46:57.680 --> 0:46:59.560
<v Speaker 1>I can say it, and the reason being is because

0:46:59.719 --> 0:47:01.319
<v Speaker 1>I think she's seen it with her mother and father,

0:47:01.440 --> 0:47:03.600
<v Speaker 1>So you're scared of it. Well, I don't feel like

0:47:03.680 --> 0:47:07.399
<v Speaker 1>marriage is necessary for me personally. And and listen, that's

0:47:07.440 --> 0:47:09.879
<v Speaker 1>not a whole other show women women who don't feel

0:47:09.880 --> 0:47:11.960
<v Speaker 1>like marriage. I feel the same way, but I don't.

0:47:12.000 --> 0:47:14.120
<v Speaker 1>I'm not against it, Like if one day I changed

0:47:14.200 --> 0:47:15.920
<v Speaker 1>my mind, I'm okay with that. But I'm okay with

0:47:16.080 --> 0:47:19.800
<v Speaker 1>not being married and being in a monogamous relationship. See that.

0:47:19.960 --> 0:47:21.920
<v Speaker 1>That's that There's a lot of women who are not

0:47:22.080 --> 0:47:25.640
<v Speaker 1>okay with not being made and that's a decision. Some

0:47:25.760 --> 0:47:28.120
<v Speaker 1>people have a goal like I want to be married,

0:47:28.160 --> 0:47:30.680
<v Speaker 1>and there's nothing wrong with that, right, I agree, I agree,

0:47:30.719 --> 0:47:33.080
<v Speaker 1>But I also think ye is an individual that has

0:47:33.120 --> 0:47:36.000
<v Speaker 1>been doing it for so long and being an entrepreneur

0:47:36.160 --> 0:47:38.520
<v Speaker 1>and being independent. I don't think she could ever get

0:47:38.560 --> 0:47:40.120
<v Speaker 1>to it. And it's just me personally. I don't think

0:47:40.160 --> 0:47:41.640
<v Speaker 1>she could ever get to a place where she has

0:47:41.680 --> 0:47:44.560
<v Speaker 1>to check in and tell somebody what she's doing, how

0:47:44.640 --> 0:47:46.480
<v Speaker 1>she's doing it, where she's I don't think she don't

0:47:46.520 --> 0:47:48.400
<v Speaker 1>look at that it's checking in though. Yeah, I was

0:47:48.480 --> 0:47:50.759
<v Speaker 1>gonna say, but but her marriage doesn't have to be that.

0:47:50.880 --> 0:47:53.920
<v Speaker 1>I know, well, right, my marriage is not gonna be

0:47:54.000 --> 0:47:57.800
<v Speaker 1>that's not that's not gonna be a marriage. Or you

0:47:57.800 --> 0:47:59.560
<v Speaker 1>know where your wife is all the time? Well, what

0:47:59.640 --> 0:48:01.080
<v Speaker 1>do you mean? Do we know where we are all

0:48:01.120 --> 0:48:04.480
<v Speaker 1>the time? For instance, well, do you feel like when

0:48:04.560 --> 0:48:07.040
<v Speaker 1>I go somewhere, my wife knows? When my wife goes somewhere,

0:48:07.120 --> 0:48:09.279
<v Speaker 1>I know, like we know where we each other will going.

0:48:09.320 --> 0:48:11.040
<v Speaker 1>So if I ever need her, she ever leaves me,

0:48:11.200 --> 0:48:13.480
<v Speaker 1>she can know if if a bomb blew up in

0:48:13.520 --> 0:48:15.279
<v Speaker 1>the city, she could be like, my husband's not in

0:48:15.320 --> 0:48:18.680
<v Speaker 1>the city, he's in Queens. I didn't hear that as

0:48:18.760 --> 0:48:21.560
<v Speaker 1>the same thing as the check in thing, that that

0:48:21.800 --> 0:48:23.719
<v Speaker 1>that you won't you got to check and all you

0:48:23.800 --> 0:48:26.760
<v Speaker 1>in trouble, But like where that's partnership to collect exactly

0:48:26.880 --> 0:48:30.480
<v Speaker 1>right right at all times. Like if I'm like, I'm

0:48:30.480 --> 0:48:31.719
<v Speaker 1>not coming to work this day, you have to do it.

0:48:31.800 --> 0:48:35.320
<v Speaker 1>Like it comes up in regular conversation and you figure

0:48:35.360 --> 0:48:37.120
<v Speaker 1>it out. You know, as you're moving forward, you know

0:48:37.200 --> 0:48:39.480
<v Speaker 1>where you are now may not be the relationship you

0:48:39.640 --> 0:48:42.320
<v Speaker 1>want in two months, three months, right, you know that.

0:48:42.440 --> 0:48:43.960
<v Speaker 1>That's the one thing too that I love about the

0:48:44.040 --> 0:48:47.000
<v Speaker 1>timing of life therapy is that we're dealing in a

0:48:47.080 --> 0:48:50.440
<v Speaker 1>time when the world keeps turning and flipping. You know,

0:48:50.719 --> 0:48:52.880
<v Speaker 1>we didn't know that we'd be here. You know, this

0:48:53.080 --> 0:48:55.919
<v Speaker 1>long and a pandemic and it's not going anywhere anytime soon,

0:48:56.040 --> 0:48:59.359
<v Speaker 1>and we're getting ready to going to another slump in it. Right,

0:48:59.680 --> 0:49:03.200
<v Speaker 1>So our lives, our work, our relationships, our families, everything,

0:49:04.080 --> 0:49:07.640
<v Speaker 1>everything is affected. Is it draining sometimes when you leave

0:49:07.800 --> 0:49:12.560
<v Speaker 1>from doing the therapy, because it is? It really deep? Yeah,

0:49:12.719 --> 0:49:14.640
<v Speaker 1>Like there's one picture I posted on Instagram in the

0:49:14.680 --> 0:49:16.600
<v Speaker 1>middle of shooting where I was getting like a vitamin

0:49:16.680 --> 0:49:19.920
<v Speaker 1>IV because I was so drained. But but the difference

0:49:20.000 --> 0:49:21.600
<v Speaker 1>for me is this is not a job. For me,

0:49:21.880 --> 0:49:24.400
<v Speaker 1>I really believe it's a calling. You know, all of it,

0:49:24.600 --> 0:49:26.520
<v Speaker 1>all of my life, all of my career has led

0:49:26.560 --> 0:49:28.120
<v Speaker 1>to this. I mean, think about it. When you talk

0:49:28.160 --> 0:49:31.800
<v Speaker 1>about clients and you talk about Stevie Wondershaka Khan, you know,

0:49:31.920 --> 0:49:34.920
<v Speaker 1>Beyonce Celo. I mean the list. You know, I've been

0:49:34.960 --> 0:49:36.640
<v Speaker 1>so blessed to work with so many people and gain

0:49:36.719 --> 0:49:39.120
<v Speaker 1>their trust, to work with so many people tsha, I mean,

0:49:39.160 --> 0:49:41.919
<v Speaker 1>the list goes on. What I love is that part

0:49:41.960 --> 0:49:44.239
<v Speaker 1>of the trust comes from I've lived the life. I'm

0:49:44.280 --> 0:49:47.520
<v Speaker 1>in the industry. I have struggles, but they're seeing where

0:49:47.640 --> 0:49:51.600
<v Speaker 1>I'm managing my life. I'm managing my happy I'm managing

0:49:51.680 --> 0:49:54.399
<v Speaker 1>my mental and my stress. So basically the business came

0:49:54.480 --> 0:49:56.520
<v Speaker 1>because they said, you're doing a better job at the

0:49:56.560 --> 0:49:58.880
<v Speaker 1>management than I am. Please show me and teach me

0:49:59.239 --> 0:50:05.759
<v Speaker 1>how you do it. Okay, said they say invoice. He said,

0:50:05.760 --> 0:50:08.240
<v Speaker 1>He's just say no, this is this is my Christmas,

0:50:08.960 --> 0:50:11.200
<v Speaker 1>this is my Christmas game, my Christmas again. And when

0:50:11.200 --> 0:50:13.480
<v Speaker 1>I come back and see y'all in January. Now we're

0:50:13.480 --> 0:50:15.839
<v Speaker 1>gonna start charging this. This is the first free life

0:50:15.960 --> 0:50:18.680
<v Speaker 1>is A. J. Johnson is the breakfast Club, Boding Morning.

0:50:18.719 --> 0:50:22.400
<v Speaker 1>Everybody is DJ Envy angela Ye, Charlemagne, the guy. We

0:50:22.480 --> 0:50:25.080
<v Speaker 1>all the breakfast club. Good morning. Let's get to the rumas.

0:50:25.160 --> 0:50:28.760
<v Speaker 1>Let's talk NBA Young Boy. This is the rumor report

0:50:29.239 --> 0:50:38.920
<v Speaker 1>with Angela Ye. Well, NBA Young Boy has boosted the

0:50:39.080 --> 0:50:43.040
<v Speaker 1>numbers on Clubhouse. Now, Clubhouse was super popular during a pandemic,

0:50:43.080 --> 0:50:46.960
<v Speaker 1>but the numbers have gone down. But according to academics,

0:50:47.000 --> 0:50:49.640
<v Speaker 1>when Young Boy did that appearance on Clubhouse and joined

0:50:50.080 --> 0:50:52.440
<v Speaker 1>and his entire fan base went on there and went

0:50:52.520 --> 0:50:55.080
<v Speaker 1>from being sixtieth on the app store to being top

0:50:55.200 --> 0:50:58.879
<v Speaker 1>five in a matter of days, it was number four. Yeah.

0:50:59.040 --> 0:51:01.000
<v Speaker 1>I mean he has a lot of fancies and the

0:51:01.040 --> 0:51:03.719
<v Speaker 1>most streaming artists out there on YouTube, yes, yes, and

0:51:03.760 --> 0:51:06.880
<v Speaker 1>then he takes videos off YouTube, so yeah, I mean

0:51:06.960 --> 0:51:08.520
<v Speaker 1>everybody wants to hear what he has to say. And

0:51:08.640 --> 0:51:10.520
<v Speaker 1>he's our house arrest, so it's not like you're going

0:51:10.600 --> 0:51:13.480
<v Speaker 1>to see him out and about doing too much all right. Now,

0:51:13.600 --> 0:51:16.200
<v Speaker 1>Houston Attorney has filed more than fifteen hundred cases on

0:51:16.320 --> 0:51:19.840
<v Speaker 1>behalf of victims of the Astro World Festival tragedy. So

0:51:20.000 --> 0:51:22.359
<v Speaker 1>the total number of plaintiffs in relation to the ten

0:51:22.440 --> 0:51:25.840
<v Speaker 1>deaths and three hundred injuries is nearly twenty eight hundred

0:51:25.920 --> 0:51:28.080
<v Speaker 1>as of this point. We told you yesterday that Travis

0:51:28.120 --> 0:51:30.960
<v Speaker 1>Scott has requested that one of the claims against him,

0:51:31.719 --> 0:51:34.320
<v Speaker 1>Jack Enterprises and Cactus Jack be dismissed. That is his

0:51:34.440 --> 0:51:38.160
<v Speaker 1>way of getting started of separating himself from these lawsuits

0:51:38.880 --> 0:51:42.520
<v Speaker 1>and PowerBook two Ghosts has been renewed for a third season.

0:51:42.600 --> 0:51:45.719
<v Speaker 1>So congratulations shout to fifty. I don't think anybody didn't

0:51:45.719 --> 0:51:47.600
<v Speaker 1>think that's gonna happen. I mean, it's so popular and

0:51:47.680 --> 0:51:50.520
<v Speaker 1>it's so damn good. So so they're going to start

0:51:50.680 --> 0:51:54.000
<v Speaker 1>shooting that in early twenty twenty two. All right, Tristan Thompson,

0:51:54.040 --> 0:51:55.960
<v Speaker 1>who wants to get a gag order to silence his

0:51:56.040 --> 0:52:01.200
<v Speaker 1>alleged baby mother, and so he basically filed an emergency

0:52:01.239 --> 0:52:04.000
<v Speaker 1>petition yesterday asking the judge to issue a gag order

0:52:04.080 --> 0:52:06.600
<v Speaker 1>in that case, barring the parties, which includes himself and

0:52:06.760 --> 0:52:09.400
<v Speaker 1>Marilyn Nicholes, from speaking out about the case as it

0:52:09.440 --> 0:52:12.840
<v Speaker 1>plays out in court. So in the documents, he claims

0:52:12.880 --> 0:52:15.560
<v Speaker 1>that she's been doing interviews with the media, leaking personal info,

0:52:15.640 --> 0:52:18.719
<v Speaker 1>and even taking to ig and other social media that

0:52:18.760 --> 0:52:22.080
<v Speaker 1>spread what he says are blatant lies about himself and

0:52:22.320 --> 0:52:25.080
<v Speaker 1>his family. He's just a mess. He is a mess.

0:52:25.239 --> 0:52:29.000
<v Speaker 1>I mean he's all right. Congratulations to Halle Berry. She

0:52:29.120 --> 0:52:31.799
<v Speaker 1>did a speech during the celebration of Black Cinema. Stop

0:52:31.960 --> 0:52:35.160
<v Speaker 1>letting awards measure our worth. Is what she had to say.

0:52:35.320 --> 0:52:37.640
<v Speaker 1>Here is Halle Berry. I want to say thank you

0:52:37.760 --> 0:52:42.040
<v Speaker 1>to the Critics Choice Association for this wonderful honor. You

0:52:42.080 --> 0:52:44.960
<v Speaker 1>don't want. I started thirty years ago the one rooms

0:52:45.040 --> 0:52:48.480
<v Speaker 1>like this. I was often alone. I was only one

0:52:48.520 --> 0:52:53.600
<v Speaker 1>of the few black people in the room searching them.

0:52:55.400 --> 0:53:07.920
<v Speaker 1>He accomplished, congratulations to her. She also got the People's

0:53:08.040 --> 0:53:11.120
<v Speaker 1>Icon Award at the People's Choice Awards that happened last night.

0:53:11.200 --> 0:53:13.440
<v Speaker 1>Cardi B presented her with the award that honored her

0:53:13.480 --> 0:53:17.080
<v Speaker 1>contributions in TV and film The Rock. He also got

0:53:17.120 --> 0:53:20.040
<v Speaker 1>the People's Champion Award at that same thing. Kim Kardashian

0:53:20.719 --> 0:53:23.880
<v Speaker 1>she got the Fashion Icon Award, and here's what she

0:53:24.000 --> 0:53:27.200
<v Speaker 1>had to say. I stopped as a closet organizer and

0:53:27.320 --> 0:53:30.040
<v Speaker 1>a stylist, So the fact that I'm winning a Fashion

0:53:30.320 --> 0:53:33.560
<v Speaker 1>Icon Award, it's like a pinch me moment. Thank you

0:53:33.680 --> 0:53:36.400
<v Speaker 1>to Zach Cozen who dressed me and took me to

0:53:36.480 --> 0:53:40.880
<v Speaker 1>my first CFDA Awards, and so many amazing designers like

0:53:41.080 --> 0:53:45.839
<v Speaker 1>Ricardo and Olivier that really believed in me and will

0:53:45.880 --> 0:53:47.920
<v Speaker 1>probably were like talked into it by getting a call

0:53:48.040 --> 0:53:52.200
<v Speaker 1>from Kanye. So thank you, you know, to Kanye even

0:53:52.320 --> 0:53:55.920
<v Speaker 1>for really introducing me to the fashion world. You know,

0:53:56.040 --> 0:53:59.360
<v Speaker 1>you forget about that. She started out as a closet organizer,

0:54:00.040 --> 0:54:02.680
<v Speaker 1>organizing people's posts in LA That is crazy to where

0:54:02.719 --> 0:54:06.000
<v Speaker 1>she is today, that is that's crazy, all right. And

0:54:06.120 --> 0:54:08.920
<v Speaker 1>we have a big announcement to make also, And the

0:54:09.120 --> 0:54:13.720
<v Speaker 1>rumor is apparently we have an author amongst us, DJ

0:54:14.040 --> 0:54:18.239
<v Speaker 1>mv Aka, Rashaan and Gear Casey. Yes have a book

0:54:18.320 --> 0:54:21.640
<v Speaker 1>coming out, Real Life, Real Love, Life, Lessons on Joy, Pain,

0:54:22.160 --> 0:54:25.400
<v Speaker 1>and the Magic that holds Us Together. Yes, you can

0:54:25.480 --> 0:54:27.840
<v Speaker 1>pre order that book. Now, we talk about everything in

0:54:27.920 --> 0:54:30.839
<v Speaker 1>the book. This book is a guide and a lot

0:54:30.920 --> 0:54:33.160
<v Speaker 1>of times when people are in relationships, they don't talk

0:54:33.160 --> 0:54:35.200
<v Speaker 1>about their relationships. They only talk about the good part.

0:54:35.320 --> 0:54:37.400
<v Speaker 1>So when people are going through problems, they don't know

0:54:37.480 --> 0:54:39.160
<v Speaker 1>what to refer to. So when this book we talk

0:54:39.200 --> 0:54:41.439
<v Speaker 1>about everything. Get and I've been together twenty seven years,

0:54:41.880 --> 0:54:44.960
<v Speaker 1>we've been married twenty so we talk about everything. Insecurities,

0:54:45.400 --> 0:54:49.800
<v Speaker 1>raising kids, for giving, cheating, you name it. Everything is

0:54:49.800 --> 0:54:53.360
<v Speaker 1>in that book. We detail everything. We dive deep. So

0:54:53.480 --> 0:54:55.880
<v Speaker 1>during the pandemic when everybody was at home chilling, we

0:54:56.160 --> 0:54:57.919
<v Speaker 1>were finishing up this book. It was a lot because

0:54:57.920 --> 0:54:59.680
<v Speaker 1>we had to relive a lot of those things that

0:54:59.680 --> 0:55:02.040
<v Speaker 1>we've been through. But the book you can pre order

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<v Speaker 1>right now, Shout Out the Abrams, is two hundred and

0:55:04.280 --> 0:55:07.120
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0:55:07.239 --> 0:55:10.359
<v Speaker 1>we detail everything, how we first met, how we first

0:55:10.400 --> 0:55:13.719
<v Speaker 1>started to talk, how we keep the relationship lively and

0:55:14.760 --> 0:55:17.680
<v Speaker 1>sparks still, and we talk about sex, life and everything.

0:55:17.760 --> 0:55:21.320
<v Speaker 1>Everything that is holding a relationship together we discuss and

0:55:21.360 --> 0:55:23.080
<v Speaker 1>we talk about so hopefully we can help some people

0:55:23.080 --> 0:55:26.239
<v Speaker 1>out there out of in relationships or in marriages or

0:55:26.320 --> 0:55:27.959
<v Speaker 1>not and just try to help them keep it together.

0:55:27.960 --> 0:55:29.600
<v Speaker 1>So we're excited about that. So you can pre order

0:55:29.680 --> 0:55:32.520
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0:55:35.680 --> 0:55:39.080
<v Speaker 1>super duper excited. It's real life, real love life, lessons

0:55:39.160 --> 0:55:41.840
<v Speaker 1>on joy, pain and the magic that holds it together.

0:55:41.920 --> 0:55:46.880
<v Speaker 1>And about the situation you had. What situation you talk about,

0:55:46.960 --> 0:55:50.239
<v Speaker 1>you fool, the toy that you got called shut up.

0:55:50.280 --> 0:55:52.080
<v Speaker 1>That that's not real, But we talk about that too,

0:55:52.160 --> 0:55:54.560
<v Speaker 1>So we talk about everything in the book just what

0:55:54.760 --> 0:55:57.479
<v Speaker 1>keeps our relationship together, and how we raise our kids,

0:55:57.520 --> 0:55:59.480
<v Speaker 1>and how we talk to each other, how we communicate,

0:56:00.120 --> 0:56:02.520
<v Speaker 1>how we started because it wasn't always like that. Our insecurities.

0:56:02.520 --> 0:56:04.600
<v Speaker 1>I know we spoke about earlier, how I was a

0:56:04.719 --> 0:56:08.719
<v Speaker 1>very insecure person. I didn't want gear to wear, like

0:56:09.239 --> 0:56:12.000
<v Speaker 1>tight clothes or any like. We go through the whole thing.

0:56:12.040 --> 0:56:14.480
<v Speaker 1>How would change me and our relationship with God? So

0:56:14.640 --> 0:56:16.520
<v Speaker 1>pre order the book, man, We're excited. Man, I can't

0:56:16.560 --> 0:56:18.000
<v Speaker 1>wait for you guys to read it. It comes out

0:56:18.120 --> 0:56:20.080
<v Speaker 1>next year, but you can pre order it right now.

0:56:20.200 --> 0:56:22.239
<v Speaker 1>I am a guest so much for dealing with you.

0:56:23.040 --> 0:56:25.200
<v Speaker 1>You know, it's like she already had six kids before

0:56:25.239 --> 0:56:28.839
<v Speaker 1>this last one just came. Shut up now, but shout

0:56:28.880 --> 0:56:31.439
<v Speaker 1>out to you guys, So congratulations on that. I heard

0:56:31.480 --> 0:56:33.160
<v Speaker 1>she used to be mad when you used to wear

0:56:33.239 --> 0:56:35.680
<v Speaker 1>tight clothes too. Shut I thought those pictures of you

0:56:35.760 --> 0:56:37.600
<v Speaker 1>when you were younger, when you had them little shorts on,

0:56:37.920 --> 0:56:39.719
<v Speaker 1>I know she was like, you are not going out

0:56:39.760 --> 0:56:43.560
<v Speaker 1>in that? My mother showed you that picture? Yeah, all right?

0:56:43.960 --> 0:56:45.600
<v Speaker 1>Was it your mom or your dad? I can't remember

0:56:45.760 --> 0:56:48.360
<v Speaker 1>one of them. When I tell you those to listen,

0:56:48.600 --> 0:56:50.759
<v Speaker 1>I can see why she'd be mad, alright, not going

0:56:50.800 --> 0:56:53.000
<v Speaker 1>out like that? Is your room or report? Now? Up

0:56:53.080 --> 0:56:55.120
<v Speaker 1>next donkey of the day. Who do you wanna give

0:56:55.160 --> 0:56:57.520
<v Speaker 1>donkey to? Eight drink five eight five one on five

0:56:57.560 --> 0:56:59.479
<v Speaker 1>one phone lines a wide open you could give donkey

0:56:59.520 --> 0:57:02.200
<v Speaker 1>to day to whoever you want to call us up

0:57:02.239 --> 0:57:05.439
<v Speaker 1>right now. It's the Breakfast Club. Good morning, So Breakfast Club,

0:57:05.520 --> 0:57:09.920
<v Speaker 1>Your morning's will never be the same. It's here, the

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0:57:31.600 --> 0:57:36.160
<v Speaker 1>your own, remember now, that's it's how they choose. Call

0:57:36.240 --> 0:57:40.479
<v Speaker 1>in now eight hundred five eight five one oh five one. Hello,

0:57:40.600 --> 0:57:43.520
<v Speaker 1>who's this? I'm New Tina from New Poe News, Virginia

0:57:43.920 --> 0:57:45.480
<v Speaker 1>Uber Drama. I've been trying to get through to you

0:57:45.560 --> 0:57:48.480
<v Speaker 1>guys for years, trying to get through yesterday. Congratulations on

0:57:48.560 --> 0:57:52.160
<v Speaker 1>your eleven years. I've learned paces no matter how much

0:57:52.200 --> 0:57:54.000
<v Speaker 1>I call and call and call, I never got through.

0:57:54.080 --> 0:57:55.880
<v Speaker 1>Thank you so much. This has made my day. My

0:57:56.040 --> 0:57:59.800
<v Speaker 1>shadow goes to Uber passengers, please light up or put

0:57:59.840 --> 0:58:02.120
<v Speaker 1>the numbers on your house. We can't see your house

0:58:02.160 --> 0:58:03.720
<v Speaker 1>and rising up and down the street like a plan

0:58:03.840 --> 0:58:06.240
<v Speaker 1>of four correct, Please light up or at least be

0:58:06.320 --> 0:58:09.640
<v Speaker 1>standing outside death my donkey. Thank you? Okay, she had

0:58:09.680 --> 0:58:13.360
<v Speaker 1>a prepared was ready? Thank you? Mama? Yes, yes, thank

0:58:13.440 --> 0:58:15.400
<v Speaker 1>you so much. You guys have a blessed day. You too.

0:58:15.640 --> 0:58:18.280
<v Speaker 1>I feel like that's just that's the second time we've

0:58:18.320 --> 0:58:20.200
<v Speaker 1>heard that. Right to have to make sure you had

0:58:20.240 --> 0:58:22.880
<v Speaker 1>the numbers outside your house. Yeah, I mean that's difficult,

0:58:22.920 --> 0:58:24.680
<v Speaker 1>I know for a lot of Uber drivers. I mean

0:58:24.720 --> 0:58:26.360
<v Speaker 1>I said my house and deter I gotta make sure

0:58:26.360 --> 0:58:30.360
<v Speaker 1>I put my address outside. Yeah. Hello, who's this? This

0:58:30.760 --> 0:58:32.920
<v Speaker 1>is anonymous? And I have to give donkey other day

0:58:33.000 --> 0:58:36.480
<v Speaker 1>for my ex boyfriend. What are you doing little with me?

0:58:37.200 --> 0:58:39.120
<v Speaker 1>He we broke up like five months ago and he's

0:58:39.120 --> 0:58:42.360
<v Speaker 1>still living with me. What you gotta go? Why? But

0:58:42.480 --> 0:58:44.080
<v Speaker 1>why are you letting him live with you? Though he

0:58:44.200 --> 0:58:45.840
<v Speaker 1>must have some good people if he still if he's

0:58:45.840 --> 0:58:48.240
<v Speaker 1>still living with you, he won't leave. He does not

0:58:48.880 --> 0:58:51.800
<v Speaker 1>to watch it. You can come out. I have multiple

0:58:51.880 --> 0:58:57.200
<v Speaker 1>times even makeuses my house. Mama, you let him in

0:58:57.280 --> 0:58:59.520
<v Speaker 1>that house. They gotta be a reason why why he's

0:59:00.120 --> 0:59:06.280
<v Speaker 1>let him back in because you get dalky today. No,

0:59:06.560 --> 0:59:09.160
<v Speaker 1>he was dressed buck to day. Nah. No, you just

0:59:09.320 --> 0:59:11.160
<v Speaker 1>come on. You said you want him to leave, he

0:59:11.200 --> 0:59:13.080
<v Speaker 1>won't get out, But then you said you still love him,

0:59:13.120 --> 0:59:15.240
<v Speaker 1>so you don't even want him out. No, I don't

0:59:15.240 --> 0:59:17.480
<v Speaker 1>feel love him, I said, I feel bad for him.

0:59:17.920 --> 0:59:19.680
<v Speaker 1>Oh you felt bad for him? I thought? She said,

0:59:20.040 --> 0:59:23.080
<v Speaker 1>why do you feel bad for him? Because like I'm

0:59:23.120 --> 0:59:26.800
<v Speaker 1>a very big, pinhearted person, I'm still do for you regardless,

0:59:27.400 --> 0:59:30.400
<v Speaker 1>regardless because you know like you I mean, yeah, grown

0:59:30.440 --> 0:59:35.760
<v Speaker 1>ass man and you and he taking advantage of you,

0:59:35.920 --> 0:59:42.760
<v Speaker 1>and you letting it happen. That happened, change your life? Goodbye? Hello?

0:59:42.880 --> 0:59:48.280
<v Speaker 1>Who's this? I heard somebody scream out. I want to

0:59:48.320 --> 0:59:52.360
<v Speaker 1>go viral. I'll give him Dunky of the day to

0:59:52.480 --> 0:59:55.840
<v Speaker 1>my boss. Right, what happened with your boys? He finds

0:59:55.880 --> 0:59:58.520
<v Speaker 1>me right before Christmas? Yeah? What do you find you for? Though?

0:59:58.800 --> 1:00:03.440
<v Speaker 1>Because my kid would say, donkey today I had to

1:00:03.480 --> 1:00:06.000
<v Speaker 1>miss work because my kid was taken. Now my kid

1:00:06.080 --> 1:00:10.240
<v Speaker 1>kid having Christians? So thank you? Wow? What we want

1:00:10.240 --> 1:00:13.280
<v Speaker 1>you to do? What's the email? Guys? Change for change?

1:00:13.400 --> 1:00:17.280
<v Speaker 1>So what we're gonna do on December sixteenth is we're

1:00:17.280 --> 1:00:19.919
<v Speaker 1>gonna be giving away people money that need help. Giving

1:00:20.160 --> 1:00:22.360
<v Speaker 1>away money to people. Man, well you know what I mean.

1:00:22.560 --> 1:00:24.000
<v Speaker 1>So what we need you to do is just hit

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<v Speaker 1>up this email BC change the number four change dot com.

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<v Speaker 1>Tell us exactly what happened and what you need money

1:00:31.000 --> 1:00:32.760
<v Speaker 1>for and we might be able to slide you a

1:00:32.800 --> 1:00:37.000
<v Speaker 1>little So. So okay, BC change BC change the number

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<v Speaker 1>four change dot com. You right us, what happened, how

1:00:40.600 --> 1:00:42.280
<v Speaker 1>much money you need, what you need the money for,

1:00:42.640 --> 1:00:44.800
<v Speaker 1>and we try to help you out a little bit. Okay,

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<v Speaker 1>thanks guys, All righty, mom, have a good one. Hello.

1:00:47.360 --> 1:00:50.160
<v Speaker 1>Who's this? Hi? Good morning breakfast club. How are you?

1:00:50.360 --> 1:00:56.400
<v Speaker 1>This is Cassandra from New Jersey. Hey, guys, I want

1:00:56.440 --> 1:00:58.880
<v Speaker 1>to give over my no. I want to get donkey

1:00:58.920 --> 1:01:02.440
<v Speaker 1>of the day. Who my niece? Who's an issue? Are

1:01:02.560 --> 1:01:04.120
<v Speaker 1>cused up for you? Because I don't want to say

1:01:04.200 --> 1:01:09.840
<v Speaker 1>her name? I like it. She said that white teachers

1:01:11.080 --> 1:01:17.440
<v Speaker 1>black students better black teachers. Oh my god, she prefer

1:01:18.400 --> 1:01:21.120
<v Speaker 1>her children to be taught by white teacher. Let me

1:01:21.160 --> 1:01:23.320
<v Speaker 1>ask a question. Has she ever had a black teacher

1:01:23.400 --> 1:01:27.680
<v Speaker 1>teacher kids? Yes? Yeah, she has Okay, we we our

1:01:27.720 --> 1:01:29.919
<v Speaker 1>kids go to school in North oh No, Okay, Brick City.

1:01:30.240 --> 1:01:32.680
<v Speaker 1>I mean she's bugging our kids go to school in

1:01:32.800 --> 1:01:36.480
<v Speaker 1>north and she said that she thinks that, Um, the

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<v Speaker 1>white teachers teach the black students no matter where, no

1:01:40.920 --> 1:01:43.280
<v Speaker 1>matter where the setting is. I've had both, and I

1:01:43.400 --> 1:01:46.840
<v Speaker 1>feel like the black teachers understand me better and understand

1:01:46.920 --> 1:01:49.320
<v Speaker 1>me more. Shut to Hampton University. I went to you know,

1:01:49.360 --> 1:01:51.440
<v Speaker 1>I went to HBC Hamton University, and I would say

1:01:51.520 --> 1:01:54.320
<v Speaker 1>ninety percent of my teachers were or black, and I

1:01:54.440 --> 1:01:56.160
<v Speaker 1>just the way that they taught, the way that they

1:01:56.200 --> 1:01:58.600
<v Speaker 1>spoke to me. I felt like they weren't talking down

1:01:58.640 --> 1:02:00.560
<v Speaker 1>to me. So, I mean, I don't know where she's

1:02:00.560 --> 1:02:02.240
<v Speaker 1>getting there from. Maybe she just had a couple of

1:02:02.280 --> 1:02:04.919
<v Speaker 1>bad teachers. But I wouldn't trade that experience for the world.

1:02:05.240 --> 1:02:08.640
<v Speaker 1>But she's a she's she's an educator herself. Wow, that

1:02:08.800 --> 1:02:11.280
<v Speaker 1>is a crazy blanket statement to make. And that's your

1:02:11.400 --> 1:02:14.520
<v Speaker 1>that's your niece, my name. You might have you might

1:02:14.600 --> 1:02:17.400
<v Speaker 1>have to fight, you might have to fight at one time.

1:02:18.080 --> 1:02:20.880
<v Speaker 1>I want, yeah, I do. We all was in office yesterday.

1:02:20.960 --> 1:02:23.600
<v Speaker 1>I mean we had it out all right. My partner

1:02:23.640 --> 1:02:25.560
<v Speaker 1>started Actually now we had it out. I know you

1:02:25.640 --> 1:02:27.240
<v Speaker 1>from new Him, so don't do nothing crazy. I know

1:02:27.320 --> 1:02:30.280
<v Speaker 1>you from New Him. Yeah, no, Judge Harricut, she's from

1:02:30.320 --> 1:02:33.240
<v Speaker 1>new new parents are a little crazy. I got you

1:02:33.960 --> 1:02:36.480
<v Speaker 1>always see, I know how to do it new parents.

1:02:36.760 --> 1:02:38.120
<v Speaker 1>I ain't gonna lie. When my son played for the

1:02:38.120 --> 1:02:40.000
<v Speaker 1>Brick City Lions and we was at the game and

1:02:40.040 --> 1:02:41.680
<v Speaker 1>we'll be allgeing with the other team, I know Newa

1:02:41.800 --> 1:02:44.880
<v Speaker 1>got my back so I could argue even loud any

1:02:44.880 --> 1:02:48.560
<v Speaker 1>because she's always just acting fourteen shooters and about oh

1:02:48.600 --> 1:02:51.800
<v Speaker 1>my gosh, you went too far. I wasn't talking shoot,

1:02:53.200 --> 1:02:55.160
<v Speaker 1>don't shoot nobody. Goodness crazy. See, I'll tell you know.

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<v Speaker 1>It's a little crazy. Hello, who's this? Yeah, Jeff, don't

1:02:59.200 --> 1:03:02.800
<v Speaker 1>you day? So Mike from Pukataway that work with dipens

1:03:02.840 --> 1:03:04.840
<v Speaker 1>foot making my wife think he was up friends and

1:03:04.960 --> 1:03:08.680
<v Speaker 1>fleet was what Mike slept with your girl? Your wife?

1:03:09.160 --> 1:03:13.560
<v Speaker 1>Ye wait, I'm confused. I know exactly what happened. Brother, Yep,

1:03:13.800 --> 1:03:15.360
<v Speaker 1>trying to make a thing of years up. Friends. You

1:03:15.360 --> 1:03:17.840
<v Speaker 1>can get here on girls and yeah, he's gonna he's gonna.

1:03:17.880 --> 1:03:19.240
<v Speaker 1>You're gonna see me when you're gonna to see me

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<v Speaker 1>one day, Bro, yeah, and it worked. I mean yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>I mean he probably was. He probably was was talking

1:03:24.880 --> 1:03:26.840
<v Speaker 1>to about this guy right here and saying he's dead

1:03:26.960 --> 1:03:29.880
<v Speaker 1>his dad, and became a friend and became closer than friends,

1:03:30.040 --> 1:03:33.280
<v Speaker 1>a little closer to friends. And then he smashed yep, Mike,

1:03:34.320 --> 1:03:38.240
<v Speaker 1>are you still with her? Yep? Okay, yeah, I feel you, bro.

1:03:38.360 --> 1:03:40.000
<v Speaker 1>Just don't do nothing stupid. Don't do nothing's gonna get

1:03:40.000 --> 1:03:42.800
<v Speaker 1>you locked up. You got kids. I know you want

1:03:42.840 --> 1:03:44.320
<v Speaker 1>to I know you want to rip Mike's head off.

1:03:44.520 --> 1:03:46.280
<v Speaker 1>I know you want to pop off on Mike. But

1:03:46.360 --> 1:03:47.920
<v Speaker 1>don't do nothing that's gonna get you locked up. And

1:03:47.960 --> 1:03:49.479
<v Speaker 1>then you know what's gonn happened when you go to jail,

1:03:50.120 --> 1:03:54.240
<v Speaker 1>Mike gonna have your girl. I understand how you feel.

1:03:54.360 --> 1:03:56.680
<v Speaker 1>You won't give Mike five minutes, ten minutes, but just

1:03:56.760 --> 1:03:59.800
<v Speaker 1>don't do nothing stupid. Is she still talking to Mike? Nah?

1:04:00.440 --> 1:04:02.840
<v Speaker 1>You sure? Yea, bro? I know what it is when

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<v Speaker 1>you start talking short like that, that means you're about

1:04:04.840 --> 1:04:07.040
<v Speaker 1>to go see Mike right now. Just don't do nothing, stupid, bro,

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<v Speaker 1>all right, he said that short again. I gotta go.

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<v Speaker 1>If I was you, just just don't go home today, Mike.

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<v Speaker 1>I'm not saying that that he gonna do something. But

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<v Speaker 1>he wait when they got when they start one word

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<v Speaker 1>answering you, Mike, you're in trouble. Goodness, gracious, all right,

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<v Speaker 1>that was donkey of the day. Up next ask ye

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<v Speaker 1>eight hundred five day five, one on five one. You

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<v Speaker 1>should have helped him out? Ye, that's what you should

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<v Speaker 1>have helped him out because he's about to do something

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<v Speaker 1>stupid today. I mean, she made a decision to sleep

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<v Speaker 1>with somebody. Yeah, I know, but this dude, he about

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<v Speaker 1>to do something stupid. I can hear him in his voice. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>it sounds like you need to help him out with that. Goodness, gracious,

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<v Speaker 1>ask his next eight hundred five A five one on

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<v Speaker 1>five one is the breakfast Club? Good morning, the breakfast

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<v Speaker 1>Club Morning. Everybody is dch Envy Angela, yee, Charlomagne, the

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<v Speaker 1>guy we are the breakfast club. It is time for

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<v Speaker 1>asking ye, Hello, who's this? How did Janelle pottuffy? Janelle?

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<v Speaker 1>What's your question for you? How do you keep yourself

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<v Speaker 1>balanced in the midst of a relationship, like when you're

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<v Speaker 1>a mom, when you're a white everything else, Like how

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<v Speaker 1>do you still stay grounded in you and what you're

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<v Speaker 1>going on. Well, I think that, So talk to me

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<v Speaker 1>about what the issue is. Like you're feeling like you're

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<v Speaker 1>not being yourself, Like I feel like I'm being myself,

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<v Speaker 1>but I feel like I don't have time to write,

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<v Speaker 1>I don't have time to do at the school programs

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<v Speaker 1>like I don't. I don't make the time because I'm

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<v Speaker 1>worried of making sure the house is situated. I'm worried

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<v Speaker 1>to making sure my husband my daughter is situated. Like.

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<v Speaker 1>I love them, so I put so much energy into

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<v Speaker 1>them right, and I don't. I don't regret that. It's

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<v Speaker 1>just how can I balance, you know, still having time

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<v Speaker 1>for me? Like I've been getting up earlier and that's

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<v Speaker 1>been helping, but even still, sometimes I feel like I

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<v Speaker 1>get mixed up in the sauce and what I'm trying

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<v Speaker 1>to do get put to the side, not by them,

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<v Speaker 1>but by me. Well, schedule it, just like you schedule

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<v Speaker 1>everything else in your life. You know what time you

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<v Speaker 1>got to pick the kids up, you know what time

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<v Speaker 1>you got to do dinner, you know what time you

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<v Speaker 1>got to be at work. You know it's schedule that

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<v Speaker 1>time for yourself and stick to it and let everybody know. Hey,

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<v Speaker 1>between six and eight on Tuesday or whatever days that

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<v Speaker 1>you pick and have that time alloted for yourself. Pick

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<v Speaker 1>that time and stick to it, put it in the schedule.

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<v Speaker 1>And I feel like you, but my thing is asking

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<v Speaker 1>for that time, Like it's almost like I don't want

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<v Speaker 1>to ask for it because I feel like, well, you

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<v Speaker 1>don't have to ask. You, you're a grown up, you

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<v Speaker 1>don't have to ask. You let them know. You let

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<v Speaker 1>your husband know, and I'm sure that he does. He

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<v Speaker 1>respect you enough to understand that you need that for sure,

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<v Speaker 1>because he tells me to do that. I just don't

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<v Speaker 1>do it. Yeah, it's kind of you putting all this

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<v Speaker 1>on yourself, and so I want to see you understand

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<v Speaker 1>that you deserve it, you need it, you earned it.

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<v Speaker 1>It's necessary for you to have your sanity, because even

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<v Speaker 1>the reason why you're calling talking about balance is because

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<v Speaker 1>you don't have it and you're talking yourself out of it.

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<v Speaker 1>And you've put all these responsibilities on yourself. But guess what,

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<v Speaker 1>life will go on the world will go on and continue,

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<v Speaker 1>and I don't want you to wake up and be like,

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<v Speaker 1>you know two years now, like, man, I should have

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<v Speaker 1>took that time that I needed. So I feel like

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<v Speaker 1>it is. It's okay for you to do things for yourself.

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<v Speaker 1>It's okay to be selfish. It's okay to have that

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<v Speaker 1>time to look forward to. You just have to figure

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<v Speaker 1>out how much time is that? Is it six hours

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<v Speaker 1>a week? Is it? I'm gonna do one hour, you know,

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<v Speaker 1>three times? You just have to figure that out, schedule it,

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<v Speaker 1>and stick to that schedule and keep that. No one's

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<v Speaker 1>stopping you. All right? Yeah, have a good one too.

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<v Speaker 1>Ask ye ain't on five A five one oh five one.

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<v Speaker 1>If you need advice, relationship advice, and any type of advice,

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<v Speaker 1>call her now. It's the breakfast club. Good morning. I'm

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<v Speaker 1>gonna keep for real, there's some real advice with Angela. Yet,

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<v Speaker 1>ask ye want to get everybody you see j Envy, Angela, Yee, Charlomne,

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<v Speaker 1>the guy with all the breakfast club with in the

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<v Speaker 1>middle of ask ye, Hello, who's this yo? Yo? What's

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<v Speaker 1>going on this day? Drey? What's your question for you?

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<v Speaker 1>How do our let this lady know that lover her.

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<v Speaker 1>I can care for her, I could beat her, even

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<v Speaker 1>helpful support her, but she's just not going for you.

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<v Speaker 1>Who Okay, Well, it's like ripping a band aid off, right,

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<v Speaker 1>because the longer you stay with somebody who you know

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<v Speaker 1>you don't want to be with and who your heart's

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<v Speaker 1>not in it, the more of a disservice that you're

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<v Speaker 1>doing to her. So if you care about her at

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<v Speaker 1>all as a person, then the sooner you tell her,

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<v Speaker 1>the better. And you know people always do that oh

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<v Speaker 1>it's not you, it's me type of speech. But I

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<v Speaker 1>think you just have to be honest and be like, look,

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<v Speaker 1>I don't see this going any further than where it is,

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<v Speaker 1>and I want you to be happy and find your happiness.

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<v Speaker 1>But I respect you as a person. I have so

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<v Speaker 1>much love for you. If you need anything from me,

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<v Speaker 1>let me know. But I don't see this progressing. Yeah.

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<v Speaker 1>See the thing good, She don't want no support. If

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<v Speaker 1>she don't have me, we have a you know, like

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<v Speaker 1>you don't no matter what it is, I can help

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<v Speaker 1>out with her. Thing is like if look you, if

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<v Speaker 1>I ain't your girl, then I don't want your health.

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<v Speaker 1>Well yeah, and there's nothing wrong with that, And that

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<v Speaker 1>might be what she needs to cut all ties because

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<v Speaker 1>you're not doing any body a service by you know,

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<v Speaker 1>you're helping her because you feel she's a good person.

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<v Speaker 1>You feel guilty because you're not together. It would be

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<v Speaker 1>better for you to just cut all ties because that's

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<v Speaker 1>the only way she'll be able to move on. I guess,

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<v Speaker 1>I guess I gotta rip the band aid off for

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<v Speaker 1>myself too. I appreciate you, so, yeah, absolutely, and I

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<v Speaker 1>hope you find happiness. But like I said, you know,

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<v Speaker 1>there's nothing worse than being stuck in a relationship that

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<v Speaker 1>you don't want to be in because I can't imagine

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<v Speaker 1>she wants to be in it. If you're not even

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<v Speaker 1>wanting to be there, you can tell yeah, all right,

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<v Speaker 1>I gotta make that. Gotta just gotta do what you

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<v Speaker 1>have to do sometimes, Yeah, listen, a lot of the

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<v Speaker 1>right thing isn't always the easy thing. Then right around

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<v Speaker 1>Christmas two shut up envy, damn it, man. If you

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<v Speaker 1>I appreciate that, you right not. I don't even want

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<v Speaker 1>to say nothing. And listen, don't nobody You're just gonna

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<v Speaker 1>get them. Listen this first of all, this is when

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<v Speaker 1>most people break up is around the holidays. But don't

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<v Speaker 1>make her spend one more holiday and have another memory

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<v Speaker 1>with the person that you're not going to end up with.

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<v Speaker 1>So I can't either, girl, give her like a nice soap.

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<v Speaker 1>If that's a good five. You can send her whatever

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<v Speaker 1>you want if you want to do that, if your heart,

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<v Speaker 1>heart and gifts, if your heart is in it. Yeah

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<v Speaker 1>you look, it is what it is. He don't want

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<v Speaker 1>to be with her. I don't know, man, I'll just

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<v Speaker 1>take it day by day, but I gotta say something.

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<v Speaker 1>It can't wait until Christmas to say it. Yeah, don't

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<v Speaker 1>do it. Don't wait till after Christmas. My goodness. All right,

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<v Speaker 1>brother to it now? All right, appreciate it? All right?

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<v Speaker 1>Ask ye eight, don't you five? Day five? One oh

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<v Speaker 1>five one? Now we got rumors on the way. Let's

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<v Speaker 1>talk about Kanye and Drake. They had the Larry Hoover

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<v Speaker 1>benefit concert happening. I'm gonna tell you where you can

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<v Speaker 1>actually watch it. All right, we'll get into that next.

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<v Speaker 1>Keep it. Lock this to Breakfast Club. Good morning morning.

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<v Speaker 1>Everybody is DJ Envy Angela, Ye Charlemagne the guy. We

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<v Speaker 1>are to Breakfast Club. Let's get to the rum us.

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<v Speaker 1>Let's talk on Ye West. It's about Angela on the

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<v Speaker 1>Breakfast Club. All right. Well, Amazon Music is going to

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<v Speaker 1>be bringing to you the Larry Hoover Benefit concert. It's

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<v Speaker 1>going to be on Amazon Prime and Imax with Drake

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<v Speaker 1>on December ninth. What is that tomorrow? That's tomorrow. So

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<v Speaker 1>they said, this is the first concert Kanye has headlined

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<v Speaker 1>in five years. That should be pretty interesting to watch.

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<v Speaker 1>You can watch that. He's been doing concerts and performances

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<v Speaker 1>the last year. Has he headlined? I thought that was

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<v Speaker 1>his album listening. I guess you're right. Yeah, same difference. Okay, yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>that's a little different. It's not like he's been doing

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<v Speaker 1>other songs when he's been doing his rings. You're right,

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<v Speaker 1>all right, So um, Larry Hoover Junior talks about what

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<v Speaker 1>exactly is going on. He did say that his father

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<v Speaker 1>is a little bit worried about the show. He was

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<v Speaker 1>on the Drea Oh Show. Yeah, he's aware of it.

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<v Speaker 1>He's a little bit concerned. He doesn't know how it

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<v Speaker 1>may affect him. He's concerned that it may affect him

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<v Speaker 1>negatively because showing his influence. But his influence is positive,

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<v Speaker 1>all right, So we'll see. But it is happening Kanye

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<v Speaker 1>and Draking. That's a huge deal for the two of them.

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<v Speaker 1>I think that's dope. Yes, I think there's still some

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<v Speaker 1>tickets available too, so definitely get your tickets. I know

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<v Speaker 1>while our business partners season Flipping New Jersey, he satting

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<v Speaker 1>out there. He's taking his daughter to see the show.

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<v Speaker 1>So they're heading out there today. I might go to

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<v Speaker 1>it because I'll be out there too, all right now,

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<v Speaker 1>Juice World they tomorrow, By the way, it's Juice World Day.

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<v Speaker 1>Also just the FYI So HBO Max also shared the

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<v Speaker 1>official trailer for Juice World into the Abyss over the weekend,

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<v Speaker 1>and here is a snippet of that for you. He

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<v Speaker 1>was so bad articulating his feelings. We ain't realized that's

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<v Speaker 1>the way you're feeling. Because it's turned into so much

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<v Speaker 1>beautiful art. It was hard to separate the two. You know,

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<v Speaker 1>you're telling you whatever that you feel like you got anxiety.

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<v Speaker 1>It's like you got depressions. They don't look at you

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<v Speaker 1>like you're crazy. That needs to change, and hopefully I'm

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<v Speaker 1>one of those people that could bring that change. I'm

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<v Speaker 1>talking is overwhelming, but this is what I asked for.

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<v Speaker 1>Juice was a therapist for millions of kids, a voice

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<v Speaker 1>of that generation. The documentary will be on December sixteenth

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<v Speaker 1>on HBO Max. And in addition to that, like I said,

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<v Speaker 1>tomorrow is Juice World Day. So that event is confirmed.

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<v Speaker 1>It will be at Chicago's United Center. It'll be a

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<v Speaker 1>pre released listening experience for his upcoming postumist album Fighting Demons,

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<v Speaker 1>and also an exclusive preview of the HBO documentary Juice

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<v Speaker 1>World Into the Abyss. There'll be special guest performances and appearance. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>my son loves Juice World in his music, so I'm

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<v Speaker 1>sure he'll be checking it out, all right. And y

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<v Speaker 1>Ko Cyrus So people were having things to say about

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<v Speaker 1>him lexing when he was on Air Drake and sharing

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<v Speaker 1>that on social media. Here it is, oh my god,

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<v Speaker 1>who's doing it? Like all right now? And after that

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<v Speaker 1>people were like hating on him, I guess for posting

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<v Speaker 1>on Air Drake. And here's what he had to say

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<v Speaker 1>about that. If you were doing the same thing I

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<v Speaker 1>was doing. Y'all take pict y'all do videos too? Who

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<v Speaker 1>what y'all crazy? You better enjoy every moment. I mean,

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<v Speaker 1>they need to stop it. People will be taking pictures.

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<v Speaker 1>We didn't dealt to comfort all. They take pictures within

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<v Speaker 1>in first class he's in, he's on Air Drake, he

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<v Speaker 1>gonna take pictures. Everybody would take pictures too, all right, right,

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<v Speaker 1>And I'm sure Drake knew he was doing that absolutely,

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<v Speaker 1>all right. Now, Jesse's small lat We told you he's

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<v Speaker 1>been testifying in his own trial. So yesterday he was

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<v Speaker 1>back on the stand and Jesse, just so you know,

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<v Speaker 1>we should have some type of resolution to this. Testimony

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<v Speaker 1>concluded yesterday and it was more than five days of testimony.

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<v Speaker 1>There were fourteen witnesses. The defense rested its case. The

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<v Speaker 1>prosecution did not call any rebuttal witnesses, which really is

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<v Speaker 1>his word versus the two brothers words. That's really what

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<v Speaker 1>this case is. Yeah, but they do have there is

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<v Speaker 1>there's text messages and things like that. It just depends

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<v Speaker 1>on how you interpret it correct because the cross examination

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<v Speaker 1>continued yesterday and how his version of events is different

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<v Speaker 1>than the events of the two brothers, Bola and Ola

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<v Speaker 1>Osundairo to be fairly guilty should be without a doubt though, right,

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<v Speaker 1>without guilty without a doubt. Yeah, if there's any doubt,

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<v Speaker 1>then yea eagle wal all right. So Jesse Smallette is

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<v Speaker 1>saying that it was not a staged attack and that

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<v Speaker 1>he did not recruit the brothers for a staged attack.

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<v Speaker 1>He said he never told them to buy a red

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<v Speaker 1>hat to look like Trump supporters or any items in particularly.

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<v Speaker 1>He also said he never told them to do any

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<v Speaker 1>sort of rehearsal of the alleged fake attack. If you recall,

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<v Speaker 1>they were saying that they were driving around and JERRYS

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<v Speaker 1>saw footage of the vehicle riding around smalltt neighborhood, but

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<v Speaker 1>no one ever got out. So Jesse's explanation is that

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<v Speaker 1>he was phone texting about doing an interview and so

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<v Speaker 1>he didn't want to do it right then because it

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<v Speaker 1>was weird that Ola was there. So he told Jerrys

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<v Speaker 1>it was easier to just use the interview as a reason. Well,

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<v Speaker 1>now we can't really work out, so I'll drive you back.

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<v Speaker 1>And they also said that they passed the staircase where

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<v Speaker 1>the alleged attack unfolded three times during this drive around,

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<v Speaker 1>and he said, well, it was around my apartment, so

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<v Speaker 1>that's why. Yeah, all that, you still got to prove

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<v Speaker 1>without a doubt that that was the reason. I mean,

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<v Speaker 1>because people do things, stupid things, and in the law

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<v Speaker 1>you have to prove without a doubt, and you know

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<v Speaker 1>there is doubt. There was. They didn't write on text

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<v Speaker 1>like yeah, it worked, let's keep it moving on. There's

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<v Speaker 1>no phone taps one thing that did happen though, Special

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<v Speaker 1>Prosecutor Dan Webb was reading some things from off Instagram

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<v Speaker 1>and he kept using the N word. He was reading

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<v Speaker 1>messages out loud that included the N word, and he

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<v Speaker 1>kept doing it. So Smilett was like, Uh, can you

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<v Speaker 1>just say the N word or spell the word out

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<v Speaker 1>of respect for every African American here? And so I

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<v Speaker 1>thought that was honorable, yeah, because that is like, why

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<v Speaker 1>would Occasian prosecutor keeps saying no, sir, sir, Come on, sir,

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<v Speaker 1>can you just say the N word? We know what

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<v Speaker 1>you mean? All right? So yes, so I guess we'll

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<v Speaker 1>find out pretty soon what's going to happen. We'll keep

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<v Speaker 1>you updated, all right, and that is your room of report,

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<v Speaker 1>all right, thank you, miss Yee. Now I don't forget.

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<v Speaker 1>We announced earlier today that me and my wife are

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<v Speaker 1>Everybody's DJ Envy, Angela Yee, Charlemagne the Guy. We are

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<v Speaker 1>get your tickets and shout to A. J. Johnson for

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<v Speaker 1>joining us this morning. Yes, you got some free therapy

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<v Speaker 1>That's right. And when we come back, we got the

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<v Speaker 1>positive notes, so don't move. It's to Breakfast Club. Good

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<v Speaker 1>morning morning. Everybody is DJ Envy, Angela Yee, Charlomagne the guy.

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<v Speaker 1>We all the Breakfast Club and again shout out to

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<v Speaker 1>my wife Gia. We announced our book. It's finally done.

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<v Speaker 1>It comes out in April, but you could pre order

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<v Speaker 1>So we're just trying to help people out there and

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<v Speaker 1>hopefull that you won't go through some of our problems

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<v Speaker 1>and some of the things the mistakes that we made,

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<v Speaker 1>and your relationship will be healthy. Okay, Well, Gear, it's

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<v Speaker 1>definitely gonna come on lip Service solo though. We don't

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<v Speaker 1>want to envy there. Yeah. Yeah, she's coming up here too.

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<v Speaker 1>She's gonna come up here before the book comes out. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>but I'm not gonna come on lip Service. And what

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<v Speaker 1>you should do is you should do Hull by herself

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<v Speaker 1>on lip Service and then me by myself on lip Service.

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<v Speaker 1>And we don't want to hear from you. We want

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<v Speaker 1>to hear from Gears. No oh, or we could play

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<v Speaker 1>a game, but both of it. We should do half

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<v Speaker 1>an episode with Gear and half with you and then

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<v Speaker 1>bring you all together and play a game. Yeah, we

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<v Speaker 1>could do that. We could definitely do that. So definitely

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<v Speaker 1>pre order the book and then when you pre order,

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<v Speaker 1>just make a little snapchat and tag me uh and

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<v Speaker 1>repost it. Right, Gear will two? Right. I just want

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<v Speaker 1>to see who's following us and who's effing with us?

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<v Speaker 1>Out there? Now? Easy? You got a positive note? Yes,

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<v Speaker 1>and today's positive note comes from Winston Churchill. Success is

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<v Speaker 1>not final, Failure is not fatal. It is the courage

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<v Speaker 1>to continue that counts. Breakfast club you don't find. So

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<v Speaker 1>y'all done,