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Speaker 1: My boyfriend is binging alpha male podcasts and it's about

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Speaker 1: to destroy our relationship.

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Speaker 2: What positives have we seen from these podcasts?

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Speaker 1: Dam dudes doing more pushups, guys smoking cigars, not drinking

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Speaker 1: from water bottles because water bottles are for pussies.

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Speaker 2: Real men don't drink out of this no way, gross,

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Speaker 2: it's this, drink it, drink it like a mule. Yeah, David,

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Speaker 2: I got all over my beard.

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Speaker 1: My beard is dripping, dripping in masculinity.

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Speaker 2: Ah.

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Speaker 1: I've been with my boyfriend for three years now and

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Speaker 1: it has been wonderful. We have been talking about marriage lately,

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Speaker 1: as it felt right for both of us about what

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Speaker 1: our goals. Over the course of relationship, we often talked

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Speaker 1: about what our goals are and what we wanted our

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Speaker 1: future together to look like. I was always vocal about

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Speaker 1: how I wanted a more equal, non traditional relationship, you know,

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Speaker 1: like not like hey, you cook, you clean, I make

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Speaker 1: the money, Not like that nuclear family thing like uh nah.

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Speaker 2: Not like I'm bringing home to bacon so you better

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Speaker 2: fra up some for me, babe.

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Speaker 1: Not that energy, that nineteen fifties energy. We both work.

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Speaker 1: We both don't want children. I expect to have a

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Speaker 1: joint account with him and pay our expenses proportionally based

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Speaker 1: on our income. I do make more than him, but

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Speaker 1: I don't mind, since I believe us to be a team,

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Speaker 1: and for the last three years he's agreed with me.

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Speaker 2: Or so I thought, what as soon as she said

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Speaker 2: I make more than him, I put I see you

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Speaker 2: in the comments if you see where this is going.

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Speaker 1: But you see a man with a big ego and

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Speaker 1: a lot of insecurity in the comments.

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Speaker 2: Big ego, something else a little small though. Yeah, his

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Speaker 2: bank accounts. That's it, That's what I miss. That's right.

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Speaker 2: These past two to three weeks, we have been setting

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Speaker 2: a timeline on our wedding plans at all, basically talking

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Speaker 2: about all the concrete steps and little details. And so

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Speaker 2: I asked him again how he wanted our marriage to

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Speaker 2: be like, but in more detail. He suddenly told me

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Speaker 2: that he wants us to have traditional gender roles. And

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Speaker 2: I was so confused. These past three years have not

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Speaker 2: been that way. Also, what does that.

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Speaker 1: Even mean traditional gender roles? Well, like, like, what does

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Speaker 1: he expect her to do? Is just like you cook

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Speaker 1: and clean while I work?

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Speaker 2: That's true? What if his version of traditional gender roles

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Speaker 2: it's like all the way where it's like, all right, babe, look,

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Speaker 2: you gotta you gotta take care all the cleaning and

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Speaker 2: the kids and everything and I but they don't even

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Speaker 2: have kids or want kids. They don't want kids. Just

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Speaker 2: in case anything happens, Babe, you gotta you gotta clean

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Speaker 2: and cook for five children, justin case. You gotta start

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Speaker 2: meal prepping now, Babe.

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Speaker 1: I am so confused how he just expects us to

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Speaker 1: change after marriage. I have been dating him and wanting

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Speaker 1: to pursue something serious with him because I love our

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Speaker 1: current dynamic, and he seemed happy too. I have made

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Speaker 1: it clear since day one that I want to maintain

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Speaker 1: what we have now until forever. He has never told

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Speaker 1: me that this was not the case for him. Now

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Speaker 1: I feel tricked, slash lied to. He told me that

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Speaker 1: although I make more of the income, he wants to

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Speaker 1: be man of the house, king of the castle. La

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Speaker 1: la lie of a chair. I am big man. I

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Speaker 1: get to sit in chair. You make bacon for me?

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Speaker 1: You you make bacon, and make bacon?

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Speaker 2: Do it? Do it? Make those piggies squeaky clean going.

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Speaker 1: He wants to be the leader, and so what he

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Speaker 1: says goes what a Dick. He has the final saying

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Speaker 1: the decisions, and I cannot be questioning him. I told

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Speaker 1: him this will lead me to not being heard and miserable.

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Speaker 1: It will make me feel less valued, he says. It's

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Speaker 1: the best way to avoid arguments. The best way to

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Speaker 1: avoid arguments.

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Speaker 2: Babies. Just don't fucking argument. Baby. If you stopped having

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Speaker 2: opinions and thoughts and feelings, do you know how much

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Speaker 2: easier it would be? Bro?

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Speaker 1: It's like almost like you wouldn't be here, which would

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Speaker 1: be great, that's kind of what I want. But I

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Speaker 1: want you here a little bit, but just like I

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Speaker 1: don't want you to be seen or heard, you know.

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Speaker 2: Come to think of it, could you just like send

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Speaker 2: me all your money in like thirty seconds in the

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Speaker 2: morning and evenings, just like come over for thirty seconds

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Speaker 2: and then just like leave all your money, Like, yeah,

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Speaker 2: it seems fair to me.

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Speaker 1: You know what I'm talking about, babe. Yah, don't question

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Speaker 1: my decisions. Don't question my decisions. It starts now, Oh

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Speaker 1: what is that?

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Speaker 2: La la la la la. I can't hear you because

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Speaker 2: I am the man. Yeah, yes, sheez, what a dirt bag.

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Speaker 1: It's also like one of my least favorite things is

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Speaker 1: like when people say they're a leader, it's like, yeah,

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Speaker 1: I'm a big leader, Like I lead people people respect me.

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Speaker 1: You don't say that people respect you. People respect you

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Speaker 1: because of how you act. You don't say that you're

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Speaker 1: like you're a leader. People follow you because of how

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Speaker 2: Maybe the wife would give him a lot of what

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Speaker 2: he wants if he was actually contributing in like, you know, yeah,

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Speaker 2: being a good partner period.

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Speaker 1: You want such a fucking beta, Maybe your wife would

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Speaker 1: follow your lead. Come on, bro, sure less arguments because

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Speaker 1: when I think, would it matter? But I would build

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Speaker 1: resentment and then it's no longer a happy marriage. In

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Speaker 1: my previous post, I mentioned that I have seen him

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Speaker 1: binge watching Alpha Male podcast recently, and I don't know

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Speaker 1: if he has always thought this way or if it's recent.

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Speaker 1: All I know is that my whole body is telling

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Speaker 1: me this is not it. I cannot marry him. It

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Speaker 1: sounds like trouble. But am I correct for thinking this way?

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Speaker 1: I don't know why, but the last three years have

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Speaker 1: been so wonderful that it's so hard for me to

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Speaker 1: wrap my head around this, this sudden switch please give

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Speaker 1: the comments because there is some key that is built.

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Speaker 2: But John, what do you think? What is your advice

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Speaker 2: slash courage for Pie? This is like massive, major red flags.

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Speaker 2: It's all signs are pointing to. It is these podcasts

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Speaker 2: which we've had similar situations of, like a guy who

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Speaker 2: like read about women lying in saying, you know, the

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Speaker 2: baby was the dad's and then he started questioning his

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Speaker 2: wife and the kid was his.

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Speaker 1: Right, Like yeah, and you know, like I wouldn't categorize

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Speaker 1: our podcast as an alpha male podcast even though John

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Speaker 1: and I are massive alphas, and so you beta boys

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Speaker 1: better watch out because like, bro, are you whip? Bro

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Speaker 1: you whip wow? Gross be alpha like your boys.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, yeah, protein, we're so alpha.

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Speaker 1: Only women watch us? Yeah bro, we're so we're so alpha.

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Speaker 1: Eighty percent of our audience is women. Come on, we

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Speaker 1: got we're senses. We're the most sensitive. We're the most

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Speaker 2: Come on.

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Speaker 1: But all right, like from one alpha to another, OPI,

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Speaker 1: you gotta put on those alpha big boy pants and

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Speaker 1: basically tell your your husband, like if you want to

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Speaker 1: salvage it, it'd very well be not saligible at all,

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Speaker 1: and like you could should probably hit the road. But

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Speaker 1: if you have, like what like want a chance, just

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Speaker 1: be like hey, like how you're talking to me is

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Speaker 1: not respectful. I don't like it. These are my ground

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Speaker 1: rules for marriage. I thought we were on board. Are

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Speaker 1: you sure you want this? Because I don't? Right, And

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Speaker 1: maybe that's like enough to knock some sense into him.

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Speaker 1: Maybe he's momentarily being a fucking dummy. But it is

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Speaker 1: a like that all being aside, this is a major

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Speaker 1: red flag. Major Also, I like that for this Alpha

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Speaker 1: Male podcast episode, I'm wearing my frattiest outfit yet.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, dude, and I'm wearing my fruit its sot it. Yeah,

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Speaker 2: I'm from singap Who do you know here? Shot up?

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Speaker 2: Who invited you? Bro?

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Speaker 1: I don't think any of my boys are boys with

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Speaker 1: your boys, So like, what the fuck are you even

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Speaker 2: Bro? There's this party down the street. Yeah it's it's

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Speaker 2: this old lady. Yeah, like go over there.

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Speaker 1: Yeah you have some tea and cookies with like fucking

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Speaker 1: Just bro, but here this is for people who are

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Speaker 1: fucking alphas. Yeah, big dogs, bow wow, big dogs. Go

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Speaker 1: go hang out with Gertrude. She needs the company, that's right, Yeah,

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Speaker 2: The kitties, maybe completely with her kitty God kitties is

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Speaker 2: named smooches. Oh you thought I was making a euphanism

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Speaker 2: Who's says It sounds like you never really knew him.

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Speaker 2: He sounds like he's always been a misogynist. You just

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Speaker 2: You never mentioned if he agreed with you. You said

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Speaker 2: solid answer. Yet you both talked about marriage. Did he

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Speaker 2: both agree on things? Or was he passively acknowledging? These

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Speaker 2: are all great questions. This doesn't sound like a sudden switch.

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Speaker 2: This sounds like he was passive and now he's actively

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Speaker 2: acting in his own best interests. It's just that it's

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Speaker 2: come to crunch time. Maybe when you look back at

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Speaker 2: passivity on his part. Not saying that this is the

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Speaker 2: case or it's on you, but it's that the signs

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Speaker 2: were always there.

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Speaker 1: It's just not easy to recognize them. Women, especially our

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Speaker 1: conditioned to tolerate a lot of things, because being single

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Speaker 1: as a woman is the quote unquote worst thing ever

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Speaker 1: to quote unquote alpha males, as it happened. Be wary

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Speaker 1: of what you think is right for you and what's

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Speaker 1: expected of you, to tolerate great advice. I basically agree

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Speaker 1: taking on these alpha male podcasts and then like changes

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Speaker 1: his whole world view. But that is a red flag

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Speaker 1: in itself, Like maybe he didn't always think about this way,

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Speaker 1: but like the very fact that he could be influenced

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Speaker 2: I the direction is a great question to ask, but

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Speaker 2: either direction is big red flags all over the place. Also,

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Speaker 2: how's Andrew Tate doing these days? You know in jail?

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Speaker 2: Maybe I don't know. I've checked in on my boy,

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Speaker 2: A man, A man, my man.

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Speaker 1: If there's one person that can lick this taint. It's

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Speaker 1: the Tait Yeah, the Tate man, the Tate liquor, Tait.

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Speaker 2: Oh bi. I think you were right.

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Speaker 1: Actually, there were many times where he would just nod,

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Speaker 1: and if I directed a question, he'd answer vaguely to

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Speaker 1: kind of match mine and deflect. I think that made

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Speaker 1: me think he agreed, especially since he never said anything

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Speaker 1: I just expected people to be honest, gave him the

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Speaker 1: benefit of the doubt. I guess I'm naive. Thanks for

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Speaker 1: your response, Dwell's two three oh one. Another comment or

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Speaker 1: says this seems unrealistic. People change as they mature. Life

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Speaker 1: and circumstances change. You need to be able to grow

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Speaker 2: One hundred percent. I'm very curious for everyone in the

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Speaker 1: Have, or do you know a friend that's gone down

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Speaker 2: for okop rework. Am I the a hole for eating

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Speaker 2: How little is he can he feed himself? He is

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Speaker 2: how his go to thing is just punching celebrities in

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Speaker 2: and I'm a pancake. It's over. It's over, or he

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Speaker 2: fourteen inches fourteen inches, so about half his height or sorry,

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Speaker 2: yeah for almost basically fifteen inches. Okay, Still that's big.

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Speaker 2: It's dangerous. So back to the story. Engine. Yeah, we

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Speaker 2: came back to our trip last night. It was very

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Speaker 2: late and my little brother meal five male. I thought

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Speaker 2: it was like my little.

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Speaker 3: Brother Neil, little brother Neil before you before your superior,

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Speaker 3: and I seventeen female were quite hungry, and so my

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Speaker 3: parents bought two sandwiches for us.

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Speaker 2: I need to add that my parents are against fast food.

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Speaker 2: The number of times I've eaten fast food in my

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Speaker 2: entire life is less than ten. Sounds like my parents.

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Speaker 2: My parents never let me eat McDonald's. Really okay McDonald's,

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Speaker 2: but like what about uh in and out or in

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Speaker 2: and out was a lot fla or something like Chick

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Speaker 2: fil a was not a lot interesting and that was

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Speaker 2: only a lot with my dad though, after surfing, after surfing,

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Speaker 2: only after surfing interesting interesting. That's how feel did you?

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Speaker 2: Did you end up like gorging it as likedlledge fucking

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Speaker 2: three by three four by four. I stacked those in

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Speaker 2: and out burgers there my last in and out. And

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Speaker 2: when we got home, Neil was running around as usual,

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Speaker 2: fucking Neil, why do you gotta be five? Yeah, dude,

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Speaker 2: why don't you just neel somewhere else? That's a big

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Speaker 2: age difference, five and seventeen geez, twelve years the exact

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Speaker 2: a twelve year difference. Neil was running around while my

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Speaker 2: parents tried to get him to sit down and eat,

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Speaker 2: but he grabbed a sandwich and just ran in a way, Neil,

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Speaker 2: get a hold of yourself, seriously, like, like, have some composure,

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Speaker 2: you five year old twat twat? I feel like that's

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Speaker 2: like a insulting and innocent at the same time. That is,

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Speaker 2: doesn't it mean like wiener twat? Or is it pint? Is?

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Speaker 3: Like?

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Speaker 2: What is a twat? A stupid or not? Okay, you're right, true,

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Speaker 2: but also a stupid or obnoxious person. So it's kind

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Speaker 2: of dual dual purpose. So that's you, Neil. You're a twat.

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Speaker 2: Twat interpret how you will. At one point, he went

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Speaker 2: to the bathroom and accidentally dropped the sandwich in the bathroom.

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Speaker 2: Damn fricking Neil, freaking butter fingers over here. He couldn't

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Speaker 2: eat it anymore, so my parents look for something else

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Speaker 2: for him to eat, but we only had eggs at home,

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Speaker 2: and he doesn't eat eggs. Sensory issues, and it was

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Speaker 2: too late to get anything for him. Is the autistic

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Speaker 2: there's no mention of that. When I hear sensory issues.

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Speaker 2: I think autism is like afraid of eggs. I do

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Speaker 2: not know. I'm I'm not sure autistic people afraid of eggs?

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00:24:01,960 --> 00:24:04,440
Speaker 2: Is that a thing? Maybe maybe the feeling of eggs.

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Speaker 2: I don't know. Let's see, like autism. I guess there's

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Speaker 2: color based like preferences more with autism anyway. Anyways, doesn't

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Speaker 2: like eggs, doesn't like eggs. My parents told me to

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Speaker 2: give my sandwich to my brother and eat eggs instead.

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Speaker 2: Like hate eggs. I hate eggs. They said, if I

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Speaker 2: do this, they will buy me a sandwich tomorrow. Now

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Speaker 2: I know they wouldn't, because that's what they always do.

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Speaker 2: They always take my sandwich and give it to my brother.

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Speaker 2: Filthy parents. Every time I give Neil something, the next

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Speaker 2: day I ask them when they're going to buy it

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Speaker 2: for me, and they say, oh, we're not archly, don't

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Speaker 2: buy it for you. Oh, I say that. Why is

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Speaker 2: Neil getting everything? God, it's just it's a sandwich, Like,

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Speaker 2: come on, just give her like five ten bucks to

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Speaker 2: buy sandwich or just I feel like, I feel like

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Speaker 2: she's getting starved, dude, She's she's getting missing out all

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Speaker 2: these meals exactly. Watch her like maloo over here, just

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Speaker 2: eating rats. Oh yeah, eating human bodies, delicious through her

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Speaker 2: own arm, my favorite. I mean, she could eat Neil,

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Speaker 2: she could eat. That would be I'd be like that

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Speaker 2: the ultimate Trump card. Parents would let me eat, so

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Speaker 2: I ate. Parents wouldn't refuse to let me eat because

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Speaker 2: they gave all the food to my little brother. So

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Speaker 2: I am so before anyone could take it, I grabbed

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Speaker 2: my sandwich, went to my room, locked the door, and

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Speaker 2: ate it. I like this. I like this, Hey take

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Speaker 2: that little brother, that's right, Hey, you want it. I'll

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Speaker 2: be done digesting in a few hours open. Why buddy,

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Speaker 2: now I'm grounded, And they say that it was an

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Speaker 2: a whole move to make my little brother go to

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Speaker 2: bed hungry? Yo, But how about how about Opie? What

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Speaker 2: about her hunger? A kid is probably more annoying because

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00:26:03,000 --> 00:26:07,600
Speaker 2: like kids, they just don't understand. It's like, but to

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Speaker 2: be just annoying, that's true. You're right, you're right, you're right. Yeah,

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Speaker 2: I think I think if you ought surefire away to

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Speaker 2: get everything you want in your life, be a more

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Speaker 2: annoying than your younger siblings. You heard it here first, folk,

519
00:26:22,760 --> 00:26:24,359
Speaker 2: you heard it here first. This is how you this

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00:26:24,440 --> 00:26:27,480
Speaker 2: is how you navigate parent siblings. That's right. Just be

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Speaker 2: more annoying, Yeah, just be more annoying. You should lands

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Speaker 2: change me. Hey, at least, I mean at least she

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Speaker 2: can shit because hopefully she's eating that sandwich. Hey, given

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Speaker 2: more Ammo digestion, real will, baby,