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Speaker 1: My husband hid having lunch with a coworker and said

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Speaker 1: my food was tasteless. What do I do?

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Speaker 2: Divorce him?

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Speaker 1: Divorce? Sophia said, If your partner said your food is tasteless,

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Speaker 1: divorce divorce.

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Speaker 2: If I haven't said beforehand, well, okay, because I do

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Speaker 2: set up my food a lot. I'm like, oh there's

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Speaker 2: you know it's it's not the best I could have done,

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Speaker 2: or like there's something wrong with it. So if I

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Speaker 2: haven't said beforehand that there's something wrong with it, and

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Speaker 2: then they they go to my face and say it's tasteless.

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Speaker 1: Done so done. This comes from throwaway Lunch, who says context,

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Speaker 1: I'm thirty eight female, husband is thirty eight male, and

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Speaker 1: coworker is twenty five female. I want this to be quick.

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Speaker 1: I feel really weird about this, and I'm on the

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Speaker 1: verge of asking for separation. So I've been with my

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Speaker 1: husband for fifteen for fifteen years, married for eleven, amazing relationship,

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Speaker 1: small bumps, of course, but nothing like this. I've always

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Speaker 1: made lunch for my husband to take to work, adorable

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Speaker 1: and up until a little for a month ago, that

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Speaker 1: was fine. Middle of March, he said that a new

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Speaker 1: Turkish food stand opened up outside his office and that

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Speaker 1: he had been eating lunches there instead because they were good.

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Speaker 1: All right, no problem, So he completely stopped asking for lunches.

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Speaker 1: I had maybe packed five during this timeframe for him,

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Speaker 1: but I'm not even sure he was eating them now.

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Speaker 1: So on Thursday, I was at home working and I

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Speaker 1: had a phone call from him. I thought he was

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Speaker 1: calling during his lunch, but he butt dialed me instead,

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Speaker 1: put a nice you in the comments. I feel like

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Speaker 1: there's no some information that is going to be accidentally

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Speaker 1: Oh no, bum bum bum. At first, I didn't hear much,

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Speaker 1: just him talking to someone, and I was about to

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Speaker 1: hang up until I heard a woman's voice. No, I

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Speaker 1: wouldn't say I'm a jealous person, but I was a

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Speaker 1: little bit curious, so I muted my call at work

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Speaker 1: and listen. It was just standard conversation. At first. He

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Speaker 1: was praising this woman's cooking a lot.

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Speaker 2: What a horrible time to be a.

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Speaker 1: Buttile, Sophia. Would you rather someone you you're dating someone? Yeah?

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Speaker 1: Would you rather them heavily comment on someone's another woman's

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Speaker 1: looks behind your back, Oh my god, you're so beautiful,

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Speaker 1: or heavily comment on another woman's cooking behind your back.

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Speaker 2: Looks people are better cooks than me, but I am

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Speaker 2: not the best cooking.

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Speaker 3: A lot of people say the best way to a

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Speaker 3: man's heart is through his stomach.

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Speaker 2: Well, I mean hopefully, hopefully he likes me still and

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Speaker 2: he just likes her cooking more definitely.

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Speaker 1: Yeah.

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Speaker 2: If he's like this woman is way more gorgeous than

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Speaker 2: my partner, I'd be more hurt.

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Speaker 1: And maybe you have seen her dish, which of course

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Speaker 1: made me realize that he was eating lunch that this

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Speaker 1: coworker made. I was a bit peeved, But there's an explanation. Sure,

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Speaker 1: really right, although that went out the effing window when

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Speaker 1: she said, is it better than your wife?

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Speaker 2: She knows what she's doing.

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Speaker 1: She knows, to which he replied, oh yeah, without a doubt.

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Speaker 1: I mean, it's not tasteless for starts. Damn, damn this man, buddy,

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Speaker 1: old pal man.

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Speaker 2: I also don't think I would say that to other

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Speaker 2: people about my partner, even if it was tasteless, even

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Speaker 2: if they were a bad cook. One you should be

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Speaker 2: cooking for yourself if you don't like the food, because like,

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Speaker 2: why can't you do it? They're doing it like a

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Speaker 2: nice thing, but you big boy.

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Speaker 1: Pants, saw yeah, and make some food.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, stop getting your food from elsewhere?

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Speaker 1: Come on. Followed by laughing, he says all this, he's like,

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Speaker 1: you know, uh oh yeah, without a doubt. I mean,

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Speaker 1: it's not tasteless for a start. Shut up before I

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Speaker 1: beat your face with my fists. First of all, what

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Speaker 1: the f is that supposed to mean? Fifteen years of

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Speaker 1: cook and now he has to complaint, and not even

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Speaker 1: to me, but some coworker, some twenty five year old

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Speaker 1: ten years younger. Also, that absolutely isn't innocent on her end, right,

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Speaker 1: I'm not crazy in thinking that's so weird? Why even

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Speaker 2: Yeah? Absolutely, she's not even there. Why are you gossiping?

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Speaker 1: Like like like a reasonable thing could be like oh

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Speaker 1: hey I made I made this new dish, Like do

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Speaker 2: Does he just to compare it at all? Like why

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Speaker 2: did you have just said yeah, as you said? Why

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Speaker 2: couldn't you just say I liked your food?

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Speaker 1: I feel like if you're comparing it is on it

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Speaker 1: only comes as malicious intent.

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Speaker 2: Comparison is the thief of joy.

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Speaker 1: That's true. That's true. And this woman is the thief

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Speaker 1: of your husband. Who boom heck yeah, Anyways, I raised

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Speaker 1: hell end of the call, send him a message not

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Speaker 1: to worry about my tasteless cooking anymore mmm, and that

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Speaker 1: he can eat from the bin from now on.

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Speaker 2: Take that sucker, Damn, it's right.

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Speaker 1: Anyways, he's apologized and said that he loves my food

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Speaker 1: and that was just to seem cool in front of his.

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Speaker 2: Going why does he need to seem cool in front

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Speaker 2: of her?

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Speaker 1: Why? Why does why? Why does? Here's what I would ask,

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Speaker 1: Why does trashing me equal seeming cool? Well?

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Speaker 2: Yeah, that two questions. Why do you need to seem

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Speaker 2: cool in front of this coworker because you're trying to

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Speaker 2: flirt with her?

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Speaker 1: Boom? So many questions, so many questions, stinky, stinky man, stinky.

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Speaker 1: I asked why he lied about where he was getting

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Speaker 1: his lunch from, and he said that he initially did

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Speaker 1: get it from that stand, but the coworker started offering

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Speaker 1: and he didn't want to tell me because he thought

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Speaker 1: I would get jealous. Yeah, can you blame me? So

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Speaker 1: I have been airing him since I'm still pissed. To

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Speaker 1: be honest, I haven't made him lunch or dinner, only

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Speaker 1: for myself since he said he dislikes it. So much.

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Speaker 1: He said today that he's apologized and that I shouldn't

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Speaker 1: keep punishing him. But I'm literally an inch from going

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Speaker 1: to my mom's. I have a suitcase with my clothes

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Speaker 2: I want to say, like this, Obviously, this is not

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Speaker 2: physical cheating. However, this coworker is taking time out of

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Speaker 2: her day to for free cook for Opie's husband or

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Speaker 2: husband husband.

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Speaker 1: Of married eleven years, been together for fifteen.

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Speaker 2: Time, effort and focus like sole focus on Opie's husband,

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Speaker 2: which presumably she's not doing this for anyone else in

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Speaker 2: the office. Looking at that, very clear to me that

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Speaker 2: she is interested in him, especially making the comment, oh

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Speaker 2: is it better than your wife's yep. And So if

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Speaker 2: they're obviously trying to make a move on.

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Speaker 1: You know, I'd be gone and I should tell partner.

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Speaker 2: I would so tell my partner. Yeah, he's saying, oh

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Speaker 2: will he thought you would be jealous? Absolutely, and she

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Speaker 2: has a right to be, yes, because you are, like not,

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Speaker 2: Obviously it's not cheating. But it is being disloyal in

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Speaker 1: But here's the question, do you leave.

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Speaker 2: I don't falter pee for leaving. I think there's a

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Speaker 2: world where they could talk it out, but it is

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Speaker 2: it is a large show of disrespect. Yeah, I don't know.

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Speaker 2: I don't know.

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Speaker 1: What would you I think not. I definitely think that.

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Speaker 2: I think there's a world where you can work it out.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, And I think that while married, especially married.

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Speaker 2: For eleven years, I think there's a world where they

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Speaker 2: can work it out. This is not and maybe end

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Speaker 2: of the end of the relationship, if this was like boyfriend,

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Speaker 1: The circumstances, you know, as as your brother says in

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Speaker 1: his Golden Rules, yeah, for or his his what is

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Speaker 1: it his prediction tool, his prediction's duels. The longer you're married,

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Speaker 1: the more likely to work out, because you have, you know,

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Speaker 1: I think I think I wouldn't leave.

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Speaker 2: I wouldn't. I mean, I don't. I wouldn't falter. I

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Speaker 2: just think that with the marriage thing, I think first therapy, Yes, yeah.

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Speaker 1: I think I think the husband has a lot of

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Speaker 1: work and apologizing to that. Yeah, and he's like, I

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Speaker 1: don't feel like he's taking full He's like, stop punishing me,

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Speaker 1: was a stupid comment, but that I should work it out.

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Speaker 1: Mom is on my side regardless of my decision. But

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Speaker 1: I'm thinking about leaving for a few days at least,

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Speaker 1: maybe a separation, But I honestly just want some reassurance

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Speaker 1: if that's what's best here. So and to be specific,

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Speaker 1: which Obi just clarified, the uh like packing up and

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Speaker 2: Leaving the relationship forever.

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Speaker 1: But but she did say maybe a separation, So I

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Speaker 1: think she's considering leaving. What do you think about that?

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Speaker 2: Do you think that's too hasty? It seems like your

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Speaker 1: Yeah, I think I think I think it's too hasty. Again,

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Speaker 1: I'm this is not too belittle what the husband's doing here,

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Speaker 1: which is really bad, I believe, And yeah, honestly, I

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Speaker 1: don't know if this is worse. But what what makes

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Speaker 1: the fact that forgetting like he still.

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Speaker 2: Thinks it's a simple comment, and that's not a good

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Speaker 1: He's not he's not acknowledging your feelings and validating like

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Speaker 1: why you would be hurt. He's not taking accountability because

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Speaker 1: he's like, stop punishing me, like I said, sorry, babe, Like,

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Speaker 1: but I also don't know that he just takes.

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Speaker 2: Advantage of all the women in his life, like he

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Speaker 2: you know.

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Speaker 1: The pattern, mister Opie's husband. Yeah, for now, Well, we

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Speaker 1: got some relevant comments and we might find out, and

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Speaker 1: we might find out, Opie on if this, if this

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Speaker 1: was a one off situation, we.

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Speaker 2: Literally might find out.

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Speaker 1: We might find out. Opie says, it's a one off

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Speaker 1: and it's so insanely weird coming from him. He's never

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Speaker 1: been that type of person at all. I can't remember

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Speaker 1: a single time he said something negative about me to myself.

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Speaker 1: Never mind is someone else. He hasn't been suspicious with

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Speaker 1: his phone behavior at all. He comes home on time

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Speaker 1: and if he's out with friends, I can pretty much

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Speaker 1: confirm it. So I'm not sure. Maybe at most an

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Speaker 1: emotional affair or a crush At the moment, I don't

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Speaker 1: think he's cheating. I honestly just feel really hurt. So

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Speaker 1: it seems like Opie's being pretty level headed.

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Speaker 2: Opie says, one off situation. However, if this has been

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Speaker 2: going on for a while, is it really a one

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Speaker 1: Hmm, good point, right flag on the fricking play right there,

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Speaker 1: because Shade says this.

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Speaker 2: Was not the only time he insulted her. This was

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Speaker 2: just the only time.

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Speaker 3: He got on.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, it just so happened and he said he started.

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Speaker 1: Oh I wonder how long that was. I think I

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Speaker 4: And as Riley said, you know, this woman cooked him

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Speaker 3: He'll leave you if you can't cook. You're right, right, Yeah,

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Speaker 4: I think you know, yeah, I actually think a way

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Speaker 1: WHOA now that I can get behind, But I'm I'm

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Speaker 1: So I'm going to keep the good times wrong. Let's

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Speaker 4: Hang, dude, I can't believe he thinks his dick is

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Speaker 4: minutes and we're already on pegging.

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00:22:54,560 --> 00:23:00,760
Speaker 1: Yeah, boys, bully straight, bully straight, bully straight bo. Anyways,

436
00:23:00,880 --> 00:23:05,239
Speaker 1: he is packing his bags. This is mah house and

437
00:23:05,280 --> 00:23:08,080
Speaker 1: it will be treated as such. I really don't care anymore.

438
00:23:08,680 --> 00:23:12,160
Speaker 1: If he's seriously deluded himself into thinking this is going

439
00:23:12,200 --> 00:23:16,680
Speaker 1: to last, he can crack on get out of here. Wait,

440
00:23:16,760 --> 00:23:18,800
Speaker 1: is this is op from a different country? Crack on?

441
00:23:19,480 --> 00:23:24,000
Speaker 1: Probably crack on feels like British. That yeah, that feels British.

442
00:23:24,040 --> 00:23:28,240
Speaker 1: He's not American. I am genuinely so angry. More than anything.

443
00:23:28,600 --> 00:23:32,000
Speaker 1: I did everything for him. I make double what he does,

444
00:23:32,040 --> 00:23:33,960
Speaker 1: so I paid all the bills while he used his

445
00:23:34,040 --> 00:23:36,960
Speaker 1: money for fun stuff. When he when we met, he

446
00:23:37,040 --> 00:23:41,680
Speaker 1: had crippling c PTSD and body dysmorphia. I did effing

447
00:23:41,840 --> 00:23:44,439
Speaker 1: everything to help him get over it. I dealt with

448
00:23:44,480 --> 00:23:48,439
Speaker 1: his night terrors every bloody night, despite it ruining my

449
00:23:48,520 --> 00:23:53,680
Speaker 1: sleep every night. That's insane, that's too much, that's that's

450
00:23:53,720 --> 00:23:55,880
Speaker 1: a lot. We had a story where someone had night

451
00:23:55,960 --> 00:23:59,560
Speaker 1: tears and they they had their partner ultimately like leave

452
00:23:59,600 --> 00:24:05,680
Speaker 1: address that oh addressing fixed address it by divorcing. No Oh,

453
00:24:05,760 --> 00:24:10,280
Speaker 1: I reassured him constantly, despite not getting it back, all

454
00:24:10,320 --> 00:24:14,040
Speaker 1: of it without a bloody complaint. You love someone so

455
00:24:14,160 --> 00:24:17,120
Speaker 1: much just for them to throw you away so easily.

456
00:24:17,880 --> 00:24:20,399
Speaker 1: He cried, had a panic attack that I had to

457
00:24:20,440 --> 00:24:23,159
Speaker 1: calm him down from. And now he is taking his

458
00:24:23,280 --> 00:24:27,440
Speaker 1: time packing's he keeps stopping to come into the living

459
00:24:27,520 --> 00:24:30,440
Speaker 1: room to ask for a hug. I can't even express

460
00:24:30,480 --> 00:24:33,520
Speaker 1: how disgusted that I feel, like I physically can't look

461
00:24:33,520 --> 00:24:36,600
Speaker 1: at him anymore. Oh, there was no need. If he

462
00:24:36,640 --> 00:24:39,200
Speaker 1: was unhappy, he should have told me. I don't know

463
00:24:39,280 --> 00:24:42,720
Speaker 1: why the heck he even felt the need to get

464
00:24:42,760 --> 00:24:47,080
Speaker 1: some validation from this girl. But sure whatever, he kept saying,

465
00:24:47,200 --> 00:24:49,240
Speaker 1: he doesn't know why he did it. But of course

466
00:24:49,240 --> 00:24:51,640
Speaker 1: he knows. He's just too much a coward to tell

467
00:24:51,680 --> 00:24:53,919
Speaker 1: me what what what? What? What is?

468
00:24:53,960 --> 00:24:54,080
Speaker 3: It?

469
00:24:54,600 --> 00:24:56,399
Speaker 1: Is not in love with her anymore? Oh that's a

470
00:24:56,400 --> 00:24:58,199
Speaker 1: good question, Yeah, I mean goes, I don't like what

471
00:24:58,320 --> 00:25:00,000
Speaker 1: of course he knows? What? What is the thing he knows?

472
00:25:00,320 --> 00:25:08,040
Speaker 1: I think maybe she's hinting at that he's like looking elsewhere,

473
00:25:08,200 --> 00:25:11,480
Speaker 1: he's you know, maybe getting bored of her either, like

474
00:25:11,880 --> 00:25:14,320
Speaker 1: sexually or that.

475
00:25:14,240 --> 00:25:17,280
Speaker 4: And he was too much of a coward to say

476
00:25:17,440 --> 00:25:20,040
Speaker 4: like those things, and so he took the easy way

477
00:25:20,080 --> 00:25:21,520
Speaker 4: out by just cheating.

478
00:25:21,640 --> 00:25:24,199
Speaker 1: I want a new piece of a Yeah something. I

479
00:25:24,240 --> 00:25:25,200
Speaker 1: heard this quote.

480
00:25:25,240 --> 00:25:27,879
Speaker 4: I read this quote actually the other day, and it

481
00:25:28,040 --> 00:25:31,560
Speaker 4: was all other values stem from courage. And it's like,

482
00:25:31,760 --> 00:25:37,200
Speaker 4: to exercise any value to a degree that you should,

483
00:25:37,280 --> 00:25:39,760
Speaker 4: you need courage to start. And like, if he's going

484
00:25:39,800 --> 00:25:42,800
Speaker 4: to be honest, you have to have courage. Courage requires

485
00:25:42,840 --> 00:25:44,359
Speaker 4: honesty and doesn't have any courage.

486
00:25:44,560 --> 00:25:47,400
Speaker 1: That's true. He did admit to getting offered to BJ though.

487
00:25:48,080 --> 00:25:52,240
Speaker 1: That takes courage. My man's got kajones and they're still false.

488
00:25:52,840 --> 00:25:53,960
Speaker 1: It's a little too late, you know.

489
00:25:54,000 --> 00:25:58,200
Speaker 4: You gotta be courageous before she says, oh everything, Like, actually,

490
00:25:58,200 --> 00:26:00,680
Speaker 4: that's not courage because she said, oh, don't worry, everything

491
00:26:00,680 --> 00:26:01,200
Speaker 4: will be all right.

492
00:26:01,240 --> 00:26:04,199
Speaker 1: It doesn't take courage. There's no risk there. She's like,

493
00:26:04,240 --> 00:26:06,400
Speaker 1: here's the gain in the Joe free car go. That's

494
00:26:06,440 --> 00:26:10,160
Speaker 1: totally right. Well, whatever it's done. Now he's leaving. His

495
00:26:10,240 --> 00:26:14,040
Speaker 1: family is back in Germany, so f knows who he's

496
00:26:14,040 --> 00:26:18,280
Speaker 1: staying with, probably her, But I'm washing my hands of him.

497
00:26:18,560 --> 00:26:20,359
Speaker 1: Thank you for all the advice you gave me on

498
00:26:20,400 --> 00:26:23,240
Speaker 1: the last post, so many great ideas that I didn't

499
00:26:23,280 --> 00:26:26,280
Speaker 1: even end up needing to use because he just downright

500
00:26:26,440 --> 00:26:30,520
Speaker 1: admitted it all to me. Now we have some relevant

501
00:26:30,800 --> 00:26:33,760
Speaker 1: comments here, Okay, okay, so we do have a big,

502
00:26:33,840 --> 00:26:37,399
Speaker 1: big thick updates still after that, or a decent sized update.

503
00:26:37,400 --> 00:26:41,280
Speaker 1: But let's pause really quick here. So to be clear,

504
00:26:41,760 --> 00:26:46,560
Speaker 1: there was like super super super heavy emotional cheating here.

505
00:26:46,600 --> 00:26:48,600
Speaker 1: He said, like, oh she she offered to give him

506
00:26:48,600 --> 00:26:50,240
Speaker 1: a BJ but he's like, oh, you can like feel

507
00:26:50,320 --> 00:26:58,639
Speaker 1: my muscles or whatever. Okay, but he so weird. I

508
00:26:58,680 --> 00:27:03,160
Speaker 1: know it's this is this guy he did.

509
00:27:03,359 --> 00:27:06,080
Speaker 4: Ultimately, Wait, John, when you get super rip, you let

510
00:27:06,119 --> 00:27:07,120
Speaker 4: me feel your muscles.

511
00:27:07,920 --> 00:27:13,119
Speaker 1: Oh yeah, Oh yeah, dude, I'm trying to get that water.

512
00:27:13,800 --> 00:27:18,040
Speaker 4: Oh dude, you just start eating creatine. You're gonna take creatine.

513
00:27:18,280 --> 00:27:19,440
Speaker 1: We started last night.

514
00:27:19,640 --> 00:27:22,119
Speaker 4: Actually you started dating creating last night. Yes, dude, you're

515
00:27:22,119 --> 00:27:24,439
Speaker 4: gonna have you taken creating before never in my life. Bro,

516
00:27:24,480 --> 00:27:27,280
Speaker 4: You're gonna get swoll dude, I'm so I just I'm

517
00:27:27,320 --> 00:27:29,080
Speaker 4: just like a lot of water though, you know that, right?

518
00:27:29,240 --> 00:27:32,399
Speaker 4: I yes, okay, cool, yes, like a lot of water,

519
00:27:32,480 --> 00:27:35,040
Speaker 4: like you need to drink like a gallon a day,

520
00:27:35,119 --> 00:27:37,080
Speaker 4: like a lot, like like a ship.

521
00:27:37,160 --> 00:27:39,800
Speaker 1: Yeah, I like a lot, but I didn't know that much.

522
00:27:40,160 --> 00:27:42,920
Speaker 1: It's a it's a ton good to know. There we go.

523
00:27:44,359 --> 00:27:50,440
Speaker 1: But yes, back to it, he didn't actually like technically

524
00:27:50,680 --> 00:27:54,360
Speaker 1: cross the full like like it was like as far

525
00:27:54,400 --> 00:28:00,280
Speaker 1: as emotional uh cheating, as as you can go. Yeah,

526
00:28:00,280 --> 00:28:04,399
Speaker 1: but Blue Alki twelve says, you know he accepted that BJA, Like,

527
00:28:04,440 --> 00:28:10,000
Speaker 1: are we having a little bit of uh trickle truth? Yeah? Yeah,

528
00:28:10,040 --> 00:28:12,119
Speaker 1: I think you're totally right. I think you're totally right.

529
00:28:12,280 --> 00:28:15,399
Speaker 1: I mean I don't think we know for sure. We

530
00:28:15,440 --> 00:28:17,320
Speaker 1: don't know for sure, but we can we can, we

531
00:28:17,359 --> 00:28:21,920
Speaker 1: can infer for sure, and you can say, like look

532
00:28:21,920 --> 00:28:24,240
Speaker 1: at the end of the day. Uh, not only did

533
00:28:24,240 --> 00:28:29,240
Speaker 1: he break the trust, like honestly, if he had gone

534
00:28:29,280 --> 00:28:32,480
Speaker 1: and hooked up with someone on a one off occurrence

535
00:28:33,200 --> 00:28:36,399
Speaker 1: totally separate and not like developed this emotional affair with

536
00:28:36,640 --> 00:28:40,000
Speaker 1: trash talking his wife. Yeah, the trash talking the wife

537
00:28:40,040 --> 00:28:43,480
Speaker 1: is pretty whack. That honestly is is I feel worse

538
00:28:44,280 --> 00:28:45,040
Speaker 1: than running off?

539
00:28:45,080 --> 00:28:47,760
Speaker 4: So you would rather your partner fully cheat on you

540
00:28:48,360 --> 00:28:50,640
Speaker 4: than talk bad about your sandwiches.

541
00:28:50,680 --> 00:28:54,520
Speaker 1: I don't know if I would say that, but would

542
00:28:54,560 --> 00:28:56,320
Speaker 1: you say what? Would I say?

543
00:28:56,760 --> 00:28:56,800
Speaker 5: What?

544
00:28:57,000 --> 00:28:57,600
Speaker 1: Like? What's worse?

545
00:28:57,840 --> 00:29:02,480
Speaker 4: Yeah, so you got two choices. Uh, you have two choices,

546
00:29:02,480 --> 00:29:05,080
Speaker 4: all right. Either your partner fully cheats on you one

547
00:29:05,160 --> 00:29:09,560
Speaker 4: night stand over, right, or she has this friend at

548
00:29:09,600 --> 00:29:11,800
Speaker 4: work that's much younger than you.

549
00:29:14,080 --> 00:29:24,920
Speaker 1: Maybe Okay, he's literally a toddler, and you lose. That

550
00:29:25,040 --> 00:29:26,920
Speaker 1: was a checking me, right, that was a checking me

551
00:29:27,000 --> 00:29:28,240
Speaker 1: all my own self anyways.

552
00:29:29,200 --> 00:29:33,680
Speaker 4: But this friend from work is like feeling up your

553
00:29:33,840 --> 00:29:39,959
Speaker 4: girlfriend but just your arms and talking crap about your podcast.

554
00:29:40,000 --> 00:29:46,920
Speaker 1: I don't know, like what you choose. I feel like

555
00:29:46,920 --> 00:29:49,960
Speaker 1: like if it was like a I'm really trying to

556
00:29:50,000 --> 00:29:50,560
Speaker 1: think here.

557
00:29:50,720 --> 00:29:52,840
Speaker 4: And it's like a long term crush. Yeah, like I

558
00:29:52,920 --> 00:29:56,960
Speaker 4: just says Sam's terrible scenario, Yeah exactly, this is this

559
00:29:57,120 --> 00:30:00,600
Speaker 4: was fuaturing John. This might have just might take cake here.

560
00:30:01,640 --> 00:30:05,040
Speaker 1: But I yeah, I think if you've developed this like deep, deep,

561
00:30:05,040 --> 00:30:09,440
Speaker 1: deep emotional thing versus like it was like, oh there's

562
00:30:09,480 --> 00:30:16,040
Speaker 1: this one time thing, like they're both terrible, it's like

563
00:30:16,120 --> 00:30:19,760
Speaker 1: fifty to fifty. I think, so which one do you choose?

564
00:30:19,880 --> 00:30:24,160
Speaker 1: I think I think that the emotional the long term

565
00:30:24,200 --> 00:30:27,880
Speaker 1: emotional affair, long term emotional affair, I think would hurt

566
00:30:27,920 --> 00:30:30,160
Speaker 1: more to you than a one night It's not much

567
00:30:30,360 --> 00:30:32,440
Speaker 1: more because the one night stand is really bad, but

568
00:30:32,720 --> 00:30:35,840
Speaker 1: I think it is like it is a beca split

569
00:30:35,960 --> 00:30:36,959
Speaker 1: right now. Yeah.

570
00:30:37,120 --> 00:30:40,600
Speaker 4: Ethereal says, I hate both of these options. Kamsas says,

571
00:30:40,640 --> 00:30:42,080
Speaker 4: I'm conflicted.

572
00:30:41,520 --> 00:30:44,000
Speaker 1: With this vote so awful.

573
00:30:44,440 --> 00:30:47,880
Speaker 4: Wow, would would I think I would probably choose one

574
00:30:47,960 --> 00:30:48,520
Speaker 4: night stand.

575
00:30:49,240 --> 00:30:50,480
Speaker 1: I think I'm in your boat.

576
00:30:50,480 --> 00:30:53,520
Speaker 4: You know, yeah, yeah, rip it off because it's like

577
00:30:53,640 --> 00:30:56,320
Speaker 4: coworker feeling up you're given another over like three months.

578
00:30:56,640 --> 00:30:59,680
Speaker 4: That's like, I think that's harder to remove than a

579
00:30:59,680 --> 00:31:02,640
Speaker 4: one night stand in terms of from like the context

580
00:31:02,640 --> 00:31:05,640
Speaker 4: of the relationship, because that is emotions built up over

581
00:31:05,720 --> 00:31:09,160
Speaker 4: time versus one night stand is like maybe just one mistake.

582
00:31:09,800 --> 00:31:13,440
Speaker 1: Yeah, And it's like in terms of like rebuilding the trust,

583
00:31:13,600 --> 00:31:18,200
Speaker 1: I feel that the coworker like emotional.

584
00:31:17,960 --> 00:31:20,320
Speaker 4: Yeah, cheating because it's a lot of a lot more

585
00:31:20,360 --> 00:31:23,600
Speaker 4: bad decisions like that. The one night stand is one

586
00:31:24,320 --> 00:31:26,760
Speaker 4: really bad Well, I guess there's multiple decisions that lead

587
00:31:26,760 --> 00:31:29,520
Speaker 4: to it, but it's one day of bad decisions or

588
00:31:29,560 --> 00:31:32,440
Speaker 4: one night of bad decisions, whereas coworker feeling of your

589
00:31:32,480 --> 00:31:35,720
Speaker 4: seeing for another is ninety days three It was three

590
00:31:35,760 --> 00:31:38,640
Speaker 4: months and as we know, like you could get married

591
00:31:38,680 --> 00:31:39,440
Speaker 4: in ninety.

592
00:31:39,200 --> 00:31:42,160
Speaker 1: Days, you can get married in less You can go.

593
00:31:42,160 --> 00:31:45,400
Speaker 4: To Vegas right now without two of your other co

594
00:31:45,480 --> 00:31:46,360
Speaker 4: hosts and get married.

595
00:31:46,600 --> 00:31:52,320
Speaker 1: That is true. We're not going to say the end

596
00:31:52,320 --> 00:31:59,080
Speaker 1: of it. Riley, how does it feel? Boys? Feels great?

597
00:32:00,080 --> 00:32:01,840
Speaker 1: It was ragging on Riley earlier because he wanted to

598
00:32:01,840 --> 00:32:03,200
Speaker 1: go on a solo camping trip.

599
00:32:03,320 --> 00:32:06,360
Speaker 3: Oh my gosh, it's not another one. I gus, do

600
00:32:06,400 --> 00:32:07,720
Speaker 3: you guys want to go camping with me?

601
00:32:08,200 --> 00:32:11,600
Speaker 1: And I think it's totally fine to go camping solo.

602
00:32:12,200 --> 00:32:13,720
Speaker 3: I was gonna go with my girlfriend.

603
00:32:14,000 --> 00:32:18,560
Speaker 1: Are you totally okay? I don't force John to invite

604
00:32:18,560 --> 00:32:20,280
Speaker 1: me to every movie night that he and I'm a

605
00:32:20,400 --> 00:32:24,560
Speaker 1: go to. That's nice, but I should you actually do

606
00:32:24,680 --> 00:32:27,000
Speaker 1: have to come? You both need to come see our

607
00:32:27,040 --> 00:32:29,200
Speaker 1: new team. Yeah, I have a big as I have not.

608
00:32:29,520 --> 00:32:31,520
Speaker 1: I have not and I would would like to wait.

609
00:32:31,560 --> 00:32:34,600
Speaker 3: Have you not seen the new sectional Sam? What I

610
00:32:34,600 --> 00:32:36,400
Speaker 3: haven't been Is that even your co host?

611
00:32:36,520 --> 00:32:36,760
Speaker 5: John?

612
00:32:37,640 --> 00:32:41,160
Speaker 1: Yes, it is my co host. They're both pretty new.

613
00:32:41,520 --> 00:32:43,560
Speaker 1: But anyways, is the end of that story.

614
00:32:44,640 --> 00:32:45,960
Speaker 3: We have a long update.

615
00:32:46,000 --> 00:32:48,080
Speaker 1: We have a long update, So let's freaking get into it.

616
00:32:48,240 --> 00:32:52,560
Speaker 1: Another update, Yeah, there is, so I can post another

617
00:32:52,680 --> 00:32:55,120
Speaker 1: update on the relationship sub. I didn't know people would

618
00:32:55,120 --> 00:32:57,680
Speaker 1: see it. I just made it on myself to another post.

619
00:32:57,840 --> 00:33:00,520
Speaker 1: Some crap went down, but I'm okay. Esterday and Night

620
00:33:00,560 --> 00:33:02,800
Speaker 1: might soon to be ex contacted me. A lot of

621
00:33:02,840 --> 00:33:05,200
Speaker 1: people told me to delete my recent update. Made of

622
00:33:05,240 --> 00:33:08,000
Speaker 1: the post. It honestly slipped my mind that he could

623
00:33:08,040 --> 00:33:10,520
Speaker 1: be reading it too. He said that he was a

624
00:33:10,520 --> 00:33:13,800
Speaker 1: bit hurt that I think he would go for alimony,

625
00:33:13,840 --> 00:33:16,800
Speaker 1: but he understands given everything. He told me that he

626
00:33:16,880 --> 00:33:19,360
Speaker 1: wasn't going to but if he needed a sign of

627
00:33:19,400 --> 00:33:23,480
Speaker 1: something to prove he would, I said, given everything has happened,

628
00:33:23,520 --> 00:33:26,400
Speaker 1: he can't blame me for being on alert. He said

629
00:33:26,440 --> 00:33:28,840
Speaker 1: that he's quit his job and that he's thinking about

630
00:33:28,880 --> 00:33:31,800
Speaker 1: returning to Germany to be with his family there. Additionally,

631
00:33:31,840 --> 00:33:34,600
Speaker 1: he says he's cut contact with that coworker. Okay, so

632
00:33:34,680 --> 00:33:38,360
Speaker 1: he's quit the job, meaning like he's like fully severed ties.

633
00:33:38,560 --> 00:33:40,920
Speaker 1: He's not even working at the company where that Yeah,

634
00:33:40,920 --> 00:33:45,640
Speaker 1: he's he's very much trying to make things right by

635
00:33:45,720 --> 00:33:48,800
Speaker 1: completely cutting off contact. Also, could you imagine he like

636
00:33:48,880 --> 00:33:51,680
Speaker 1: quits his job, can't get another job and he's still

637
00:33:52,000 --> 00:33:56,440
Speaker 1: on his own. Yeah, get aft. He apologized again and

638
00:33:56,480 --> 00:33:59,480
Speaker 1: wished me the best, right, And that would have been

639
00:33:59,600 --> 00:34:02,600
Speaker 1: just fine by itself. But I woke up at about

640
00:34:02,680 --> 00:34:06,320
Speaker 1: two point fifteen am last night needing a WII and

641
00:34:06,400 --> 00:34:10,560
Speaker 1: I saw my ring doorbell going off. I have footage

642
00:34:10,560 --> 00:34:12,839
Speaker 1: of him just standing outside of my house.

643
00:34:12,640 --> 00:34:16,120
Speaker 4: Talking to himself. Wait, so they broke up. They've broken up.

644
00:34:16,200 --> 00:34:20,000
Speaker 4: They've broken up, and he still to prove to her something.

645
00:34:20,080 --> 00:34:21,359
Speaker 4: He's like, I'm going to quit the job.

646
00:34:21,800 --> 00:34:25,399
Speaker 1: Yes, calls her, tells her that and wishes her the best.

647
00:34:25,400 --> 00:34:28,600
Speaker 1: So it's like, actually, not a terrible scenario in that

648
00:34:28,680 --> 00:34:31,399
Speaker 1: specific instance of he's calling her to tell her like, Hey,

649
00:34:31,400 --> 00:34:33,360
Speaker 1: I quit the job. I'm totally cutting ties and I

650
00:34:33,360 --> 00:34:37,200
Speaker 1: wish you the best. Honestly, that is a stand up move. Yeah. However,

651
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Speaker 1: literally he got there at one am ish, knocked and

652
00:34:41,520 --> 00:34:44,080
Speaker 1: sat down on my front steps and just started talking.

653
00:34:44,640 --> 00:34:46,520
Speaker 1: I slept through it and only woke up because I

654
00:34:46,520 --> 00:34:48,680
Speaker 1: needed to go to the bathroom. I literally sat in

655
00:34:48,719 --> 00:34:51,799
Speaker 1: my closet for ages, just washing the camera, not knowing

656
00:34:51,800 --> 00:34:54,719
Speaker 1: what to do until he left at three am. So

657
00:34:54,760 --> 00:34:58,800
Speaker 1: he showed up at around one am, rings the doorbell

658
00:34:59,320 --> 00:35:04,440
Speaker 1: sits there talking to himself until three a m. What

659
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Speaker 1: is he saying to himself? That is a great question.

660
00:35:08,360 --> 00:35:13,239
Speaker 1: Didn't take the look that's I hope he's okay, Like

661
00:35:13,320 --> 00:35:15,760
Speaker 1: it seems like he's having a mental break. Yeah, this

662
00:35:15,960 --> 00:35:19,719
Speaker 1: is bad. He's probably going to read this too. But

663
00:35:19,840 --> 00:35:22,200
Speaker 1: I'm somewhere safe. I just can't tell you all for

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00:35:22,280 --> 00:35:24,879
Speaker 1: obvious reasons. He sent me a message saying he can't

665
00:35:24,920 --> 00:35:26,799
Speaker 1: lose me, that I'm the love of his life. I

666
00:35:26,840 --> 00:35:29,600
Speaker 1: told him to f off and block him. I really

667
00:35:29,640 --> 00:35:33,000
Speaker 1: can't say much, but I am taking action. Absolutely, don't

668
00:35:33,000 --> 00:35:36,120
Speaker 1: worry about that little prick. Just a possible update. It's

669
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Speaker 1: a bit risky to tell you what's happening now that

670
00:35:38,400 --> 00:35:41,319
Speaker 1: it's gotten a bit crappier, just in case it gets

671
00:35:41,400 --> 00:35:42,239
Speaker 1: back to him.

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Speaker 4: So this is a developing situation. And ope he's worried

673
00:35:45,440 --> 00:35:49,320
Speaker 4: that he's gonna see this. Yeah, this is getting weird.

674
00:35:49,480 --> 00:35:51,120
Speaker 4: This is getting weirder. Like I thought it was gonna

675
00:35:51,120 --> 00:35:53,480
Speaker 4: be a cut and dry case, but this is like

676
00:35:53,640 --> 00:35:56,919
Speaker 4: he's like, I don't know, he's Catherine Snyder. That's some

677
00:35:57,040 --> 00:35:59,200
Speaker 4: freaky shiz. Yeah, I'm a little freaked out.

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Speaker 1: I think a possible able psychotic break is a great point, and.

679
00:36:03,000 --> 00:36:05,520
Speaker 4: I mean we have no idea, like a psychotic break

680
00:36:05,600 --> 00:36:09,040
Speaker 4: is like a lot of like uh, clinical baggage with

681
00:36:09,200 --> 00:36:09,720
Speaker 4: that term.

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Speaker 1: But he's definitely not right of mind. Yes, it's it's

683
00:36:12,960 --> 00:36:16,359
Speaker 1: cause for it's honestly, who knows exactly what's happening, but

684
00:36:16,400 --> 00:36:20,720
Speaker 1: there's like cause for possible major concerns here, maybe even

685
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Speaker 1: like alerting authorities or someone definitely just some just someone

686
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Speaker 1: a mental health hotline, family, something like that.

687
00:36:29,239 --> 00:36:33,320
Speaker 4: And that is the end of the story. That's it, dude.

688
00:36:33,320 --> 00:36:36,239
Speaker 4: That's like that's literally ending a story. And that's like

689
00:36:36,360 --> 00:36:38,560
Speaker 4: ending a horror movie where the killer is at your

690
00:36:38,560 --> 00:36:41,160
Speaker 4: door and it's like we're trying to break in and

691
00:36:41,200 --> 00:36:45,320
Speaker 4: then not telling me the resolution. But we have Canny

692
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Speaker 4: Kitty Ierene Renee Rene.

693
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Speaker 3: She is going to call in and give her thoughts on.

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Speaker 1: Oh let's freaking go hello, Hello, Hey is it Kitty

695
00:36:57,840 --> 00:37:02,280
Speaker 1: Renee by the way, yes, okay, awesome. So first question

696
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Speaker 1: for you, let's say you were plopped in this exact

697
00:37:05,719 --> 00:37:10,840
Speaker 1: same scenario and just a reminder, the husband had this

698
00:37:10,960 --> 00:37:13,600
Speaker 1: kind of like three month emotional affair, was eating the

699
00:37:13,640 --> 00:37:20,160
Speaker 1: coworkers lunch every day trash talking you in this scenario?

700
00:37:19,760 --> 00:37:23,880
Speaker 1: What would you do with your partner? How would you react?

701
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Speaker 6: So I actually have been in this scenario.

702
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Speaker 1: Oh, tell us more, I'm petty.

703
00:37:31,080 --> 00:37:33,040
Speaker 6: I got really good at cooking and made him fat.

704
00:37:33,160 --> 00:37:41,800
Speaker 1: So what did you make him?

705
00:37:42,080 --> 00:37:46,040
Speaker 6: Well, he loves pasta and I actually make it's my

706
00:37:46,080 --> 00:37:49,000
Speaker 6: own personal recipe. It's a chicken white sauce pasta.

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00:37:49,360 --> 00:37:53,279
Speaker 4: Oh wow, So it was like you got him fat

708
00:37:53,320 --> 00:37:55,920
Speaker 4: so he would never be able to emotionally cheat again

709
00:37:56,000 --> 00:37:59,880
Speaker 4: because no one would find him like attractive.

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Speaker 1: Yes, are you still together? Yes? We are.

711
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Speaker 6: We have been together for sixteen years and we're celebrating

712
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Speaker 6: ten years married in December.

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Speaker 1: Wow. Okay, so so actually that's that's actually very interesting

714
00:38:16,360 --> 00:38:19,440
Speaker 1: because this went in I feel like the complete opposite path.

715
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Speaker 1: Did he end up being like more apologetic and like

716
00:38:23,239 --> 00:38:27,400
Speaker 1: understanding of what he did wrong? Yeah? Yeah, how'd you

717
00:38:27,440 --> 00:38:28,320
Speaker 1: get through it?

718
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Speaker 6: Well, we've known each other since we were twelve, so

719
00:38:32,360 --> 00:38:34,200
Speaker 6: we have a lot of history.

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Speaker 1: Would you agree with Sam? There's a lot of Would

721
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Speaker 1: you agree with Sam's golden rule that that that time

722
00:38:42,320 --> 00:38:44,200
Speaker 1: made it so that way you could you could last

723
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Speaker 1: and weather through the storm.

724
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Speaker 6: Uh? Surprisingly, Yes, Sam's golden rules actually hold fairly true.

725
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Speaker 1: He's very happy right now.

726
00:38:57,719 --> 00:39:03,560
Speaker 6: So funny, Riley, I heard your question. I will send you.

727
00:39:03,719 --> 00:39:05,799
Speaker 6: I have a picture of my recipe card. I'll send

728
00:39:05,840 --> 00:39:06,279
Speaker 6: it to you.

729
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Speaker 1: Oh my goodness, thank you. Put it in the discord please.

730
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Speaker 3: But I'll cook it for salmon John every night.

731
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Speaker 1: Can we call it like revenge.

732
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Speaker 6: That I can post in there? So if anyone's interested

733
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Speaker 6: in them, please please.

734
00:39:19,760 --> 00:39:24,480
Speaker 1: Yes, please do for the community. Let's freaking go. And

735
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Speaker 1: could I ask what advice would you give ope in

736
00:39:28,160 --> 00:39:30,319
Speaker 1: this scenario if you were able to kind of like

737
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Speaker 1: sit down with her.

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Speaker 6: So if I didn't have the history that I do

739
00:39:34,520 --> 00:39:38,920
Speaker 6: with my husband and know him as a person and

740
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Speaker 6: how to move on from that, I would have split

741
00:39:42,040 --> 00:39:50,920
Speaker 6: two just because don't My husband took accountability. He realized

742
00:39:50,960 --> 00:39:54,080
Speaker 6: what he did wrong, He realized where he messed up,

743
00:39:54,840 --> 00:39:58,520
Speaker 6: and he sought to change things. The husband only realized

744
00:39:58,520 --> 00:40:01,680
Speaker 6: what he was doing wrong. He got caught. My husband

745
00:40:01,719 --> 00:40:03,800
Speaker 6: came to me and told me what was going on,

746
00:40:04,840 --> 00:40:08,839
Speaker 6: which very realized. Emotional fair.

747
00:40:09,120 --> 00:40:12,720
Speaker 1: Yeah, he came to you, and he like took accountability

748
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Speaker 1: for it. And I'm guessing kind of did he did

749
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Speaker 1: he work after that? To kind of like build your

750
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Speaker 1: trust back. He did great.

751
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Speaker 6: Okay, so there's different there.

752
00:40:22,360 --> 00:40:24,560
Speaker 1: Got you So wow, being in the same scenario, you

753
00:40:24,560 --> 00:40:28,600
Speaker 1: would still advise OP to split. That's that really really

754
00:40:28,640 --> 00:40:31,280
Speaker 1: interesting perspective giving him in the exact same scenario exactly.

755
00:40:31,320 --> 00:40:34,320
Speaker 1: I feel like if there's anyone that I would trust,

756
00:40:34,440 --> 00:40:36,720
Speaker 1: it would be a resident experts.

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Speaker 3: Another question, how much did he, like roughly weigh before

758
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Speaker 3: you started poking.

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Speaker 6: He weighed roughly one hundred and seventy and eighty pounds,

760
00:40:49,400 --> 00:40:52,839
Speaker 6: but he's also five foot nine so it balanced out

761
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Speaker 6: pretty well. And he weighs around two fifty now, So.

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Speaker 1: You got him grow. You got it, girl, you got

763
00:41:02,400 --> 00:41:06,760
Speaker 1: let's freaking go well. Wow, Kitty, thank you for calling

764
00:41:06,800 --> 00:41:10,200
Speaker 1: in with just a just a banger of a personal story.

765
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Speaker 1: My god, yeah, not a problem.

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00:41:13,320 --> 00:41:16,800
Speaker 6: I love watching your guys a show and you honestly

767
00:41:16,880 --> 00:41:20,800
Speaker 6: are my daily dosa serotonin. I love you guys, we are.

768
00:41:20,680 --> 00:41:22,799
Speaker 1: Hearing you, We love you back. Thanks so much for

769
00:41:22,880 --> 00:41:31,880
Speaker 1: chatting with this Kitty. Bye. Wow. Incredible. Wow, I'm dying dude.

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Speaker 5: Kitty crushed it Kitty for Kitty, Kitty, take back to

771
00:41:40,640 --> 00:41:43,360
Speaker 5: breakfast thing I'm cooking you.

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Speaker 1: Oh man is that is that the end of the

773
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Speaker 1: other side, the end of the episode. Oh man, wow,

774
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Speaker 1: there you go. You want to do the honors? John? Yes,

775
00:41:51,760 --> 00:41:54,120
Speaker 1: if you love us, make sure to subscribe we love

776
00:41:54,160 --> 00:41:58,200
Speaker 1: you and see it tomorrow. This is an episode from

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Speaker 1: Deep Within the Archives. Time for o kaope Rewam. I

778
00:42:03,800 --> 00:42:06,400
Speaker 1: divorced my wife because she loved ping pong too much.

779
00:42:06,560 --> 00:42:10,160
Speaker 1: But her response was way out of line. Sam reel

780
00:42:10,200 --> 00:42:14,319
Speaker 1: er Ai, Oh, I'm gonna have to say real. In

781
00:42:14,400 --> 00:42:16,240
Speaker 1: high school, I had a bunch of kids that played

782
00:42:16,239 --> 00:42:19,200
Speaker 1: ping pong all the time. Yeah, and they had no girlfriends.

783
00:42:19,360 --> 00:42:22,520
Speaker 1: So I need some advice and perspective. I've been married

784
00:42:22,520 --> 00:42:24,560
Speaker 1: to my wife for five years and we have a

785
00:42:24,560 --> 00:42:26,680
Speaker 1: two year old daughter together. We used to have a

786
00:42:26,719 --> 00:42:30,120
Speaker 1: happy and healthy relationship, but over the last year things

787
00:42:30,160 --> 00:42:34,760
Speaker 1: have changed dramatically. What's happened? Well, you see, sam Op

788
00:42:35,120 --> 00:42:38,440
Speaker 1: used to support her passion and encourage her to pursue

789
00:42:38,440 --> 00:42:42,120
Speaker 1: her dreams, but now I feel like ping pong has

790
00:42:42,200 --> 00:42:43,880
Speaker 1: taken over her life the way.

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Speaker 4: Her dream is ping pong. I think you're the Olympics.

792
00:42:46,600 --> 00:42:49,000
Speaker 4: I think you're Yeah, I am, I am, I am?

793
00:42:49,080 --> 00:42:50,479
Speaker 4: I mean balls?

794
00:42:50,520 --> 00:42:53,279
Speaker 1: Do you just do you just create content? Yes? What

795
00:42:53,320 --> 00:42:55,239
Speaker 1: you do. You're right, You're right, You're right. I'm sorry.

796
00:42:55,280 --> 00:42:57,799
Speaker 1: Ping pong is a serious profession now. She loves the

797
00:42:57,840 --> 00:43:00,000
Speaker 1: game and spends most of her free time playing it,

798
00:43:00,160 --> 00:43:02,720
Speaker 1: either at the local club or at home in our garage,

799
00:43:02,760 --> 00:43:05,600
Speaker 1: which she has converted into a ping pong room. She

800
00:43:05,760 --> 00:43:10,040
Speaker 1: even quit her job to focus on playing pong. She's

801
00:43:10,080 --> 00:43:14,560
Speaker 1: going full time and she dreams of becoming a professional player. Yeah,

802
00:43:14,680 --> 00:43:20,040
Speaker 1: she's like Forrest Gum. I mean, look, we had different

803
00:43:20,040 --> 00:43:22,520
Speaker 1: things that we left for for this world of content.

804
00:43:23,200 --> 00:43:27,480
Speaker 1: We've converted a room into this studio. We have left

805
00:43:27,560 --> 00:43:32,800
Speaker 1: things to do that different from content. I think not honestly. Honestly,

806
00:43:32,840 --> 00:43:38,240
Speaker 1: I seems plausible now. I used to support her passion

807
00:43:38,280 --> 00:43:40,279
Speaker 1: and encourage her to pursue her dreams, but then she

808
00:43:40,280 --> 00:43:43,040
Speaker 1: started cheating on me with her big puns. Should be

809
00:43:43,160 --> 00:43:45,759
Speaker 1: slapping something else. But now I feel like ping pong

810
00:43:45,800 --> 00:43:49,480
Speaker 1: has taken over our lives. She spends all day practicing,

811
00:43:49,719 --> 00:43:52,960
Speaker 1: watching matches, and talking about ping pong. She has no

812
00:43:53,400 --> 00:43:56,960
Speaker 1: she has no time and energy for our daughter, our relationships.

813
00:43:57,000 --> 00:44:00,680
Speaker 4: Oh, they have a daughter just out there the ping

814
00:44:00,760 --> 00:44:03,400
Speaker 4: pong all day, and her daughter's just like Momy.

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Speaker 1: Our probably she's just crying. She's like, like, well, changing

816
00:44:08,440 --> 00:44:12,960
Speaker 1: your diapers, help me, help me perfect my my curve serve. No,

817
00:44:13,040 --> 00:44:18,560
Speaker 1: not at all. She's also become competitive and aggressive and

818
00:44:18,640 --> 00:44:21,000
Speaker 1: gets mad at me if I don't play with her

819
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Speaker 1: or if I beat her. I mean, I'm shocked that

820
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Speaker 1: you can beat her. Okay, she sounds like she sounds

821
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Speaker 1: like a force of nature. Yeah, the lebron of ping

822
00:44:29,560 --> 00:44:32,000
Speaker 1: pong over here. I've tried to talk to her about

823
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Speaker 1: this and find a compromise, but she doesn't see anything

824
00:44:35,080 --> 00:44:37,560
Speaker 1: wrong with her obsession. She says ping pong is her

825
00:44:37,600 --> 00:44:39,920
Speaker 1: passion and her life, and she doesn't want to give

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Speaker 1: it up. She also says that I'm the one who's

827
00:44:42,520 --> 00:44:45,640
Speaker 1: being selfish and unreasonable, and then I should support her

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Speaker 1: and be proud of her. What is there to be

829
00:44:47,360 --> 00:44:49,799
Speaker 1: proud of here? So Obie says, I don't know what

830
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Speaker 1: to do. I love my wife and I don't want

831
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Speaker 1: to hurt her, but I also cannot live like this anymore.

832
00:44:55,360 --> 00:44:59,439
Speaker 1: I feel neglected, unappreciated, and lonely. I've thought about leaving her,

833
00:44:59,560 --> 00:45:01,319
Speaker 1: but I'm not not sure that that's the right thing

834
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Speaker 1: to do. Am I the a hole for leaving my

835
00:45:03,360 --> 00:45:05,239
Speaker 1: wife because she loves ping pong too much.

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Speaker 4: There's one solution to this, become the best ping pong

837
00:45:08,120 --> 00:45:11,120
Speaker 4: player in the world to secretly go against his wife.

838
00:45:11,440 --> 00:45:14,120
Speaker 4: That's I may become a ping pong couple. But Sam,

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Speaker 4: there is an update. I've made the difficult decision.

840
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Speaker 1: To leave my wife. No no, no, no doubles tea no,

841
00:45:22,040 --> 00:45:24,560
Speaker 1: no ping pong wife, no ping pong husband. It was

842
00:45:24,640 --> 00:45:26,920
Speaker 1: not an easy decision, and it hurt her and our

843
00:45:27,000 --> 00:45:30,200
Speaker 1: daughter very much a daughter, but I felt like I

844
00:45:30,239 --> 00:45:32,960
Speaker 1: had no other choice. I couldn't keep living in a

845
00:45:33,000 --> 00:45:38,840
Speaker 1: relationship where ping pong was the only thing that mattered. Okay,

846
00:45:39,480 --> 00:45:42,879
Speaker 1: after I left, I met someone new. She is a

847
00:45:42,880 --> 00:45:47,439
Speaker 1: circus clown and she's nothing like my ex wife. Yeah,

848
00:45:47,600 --> 00:45:51,160
Speaker 1: your ex wife does seem like a clown though. She's fun, adventurous,

849
00:45:51,200 --> 00:45:54,680
Speaker 1: and creative. She loves to make people laugh and smile

850
00:45:55,040 --> 00:45:58,359
Speaker 1: because she's a clown, and she's passionate about her art.

851
00:45:58,680 --> 00:46:01,319
Speaker 1: She's also a caring and port of partner, and she

852
00:46:01,520 --> 00:46:04,799
Speaker 1: understands my feelings and needs. We've been together for a

853
00:46:04,880 --> 00:46:08,080
Speaker 1: year now and I'm happy. I feel alive and free,

854
00:46:08,320 --> 00:46:11,160
Speaker 1: and I enjoy spending time with her and her circus friends.

855
00:46:11,280 --> 00:46:14,120
Speaker 1: She also has a great relationship with our daughter and

856
00:46:14,160 --> 00:46:16,239
Speaker 1: they have a lot of fun together. Now. I know

857
00:46:16,320 --> 00:46:18,600
Speaker 1: some people might think it's weird or crazy that I

858
00:46:18,680 --> 00:46:22,359
Speaker 1: left my wife for circus clown. Man, It's a thing

859
00:46:22,400 --> 00:46:24,759
Speaker 1: that works for me and makes me happy. So that

860
00:46:24,800 --> 00:46:27,319
Speaker 1: begs the question, Am I the a whole for leaving

861
00:46:27,360 --> 00:46:29,279
Speaker 1: my wife for a circus clown? Yo?

862
00:46:29,600 --> 00:46:32,719
Speaker 4: Her life was completely taken over by ping pong? You

863
00:46:32,800 --> 00:46:36,680
Speaker 4: can't have that with the marriage ending. The wife can

864
00:46:36,719 --> 00:46:38,960
Speaker 4: go find someone who loves ping pong. The husband has

865
00:46:38,960 --> 00:46:40,800
Speaker 4: found someone who understands his needs.

866
00:46:40,880 --> 00:46:43,200
Speaker 1: That's the best option. Like, that's long term happiness for

867
00:46:43,239 --> 00:46:46,120
Speaker 1: both of them. Yeah. Yeah, but Sam Sam, I left

868
00:46:46,120 --> 00:46:48,319
Speaker 1: with two questions here. Number one is op the A whole?

869
00:46:48,400 --> 00:46:50,680
Speaker 1: And then the big one Number two? Human a AI?

870
00:46:51,280 --> 00:46:54,920
Speaker 1: I mean again, crazy crazy story. I say real, It

871
00:46:55,000 --> 00:47:01,080
Speaker 1: is real, lee fake because it's artificial intelligence chat GPT.

872
00:47:01,560 --> 00:47:04,960
Speaker 1: It's insane. What AI can do it is incredible, and

873
00:47:05,120 --> 00:47:07,279
Speaker 1: we're inviting all of you in on this game. So

874
00:47:07,800 --> 00:47:10,759
Speaker 1: go to our Social Kop show on Reddit and throw

875
00:47:10,760 --> 00:47:13,640
Speaker 1: a prompt at us with human or AI. We're gonna

876
00:47:13,680 --> 00:47:15,600
Speaker 1: pick the best ones and we're gonna put them on

877
00:47:15,640 --> 00:47:18,160
Speaker 1: the show and we'll play the game. I'm excited, well

878
00:47:18,280 --> 00:47:20,399
Speaker 1: though it Okayop, all.

879
00:47:20,440 --> 00:47:25,040
Speaker 4: Right, welcome to another episode of Okay Oupy with Samuel

880
00:47:25,120 --> 00:47:28,000
Speaker 4: Donner and John Fry. All Right, so, John, I got

881
00:47:28,280 --> 00:47:29,640
Speaker 4: a juicy one for you.

882
00:47:29,760 --> 00:47:32,759
Speaker 1: Juicy, spill it on me. Juicy is actually a little

883
00:47:32,800 --> 00:47:37,080
Speaker 1: bit of a spoiler. Today, I fed up by eating

884
00:47:37,160 --> 00:47:43,440
Speaker 1: over a gallon of putting and vomiting everywhere content warning,

885
00:47:43,680 --> 00:47:46,080
Speaker 1: I've seen worse on here, so I thought i'd share.

886
00:47:46,520 --> 00:47:49,760
Speaker 1: This is gross, though, so just warning you. I love gross.

887
00:47:49,840 --> 00:47:51,200
Speaker 1: Let's get into it. Okay.

888
00:47:51,280 --> 00:47:53,359
Speaker 4: So when I was in middle school, I had more

889
00:47:53,480 --> 00:47:57,160
Speaker 4: or less the exact same breakfast and lunch every day.

890
00:47:57,560 --> 00:48:00,600
Speaker 4: My mom liked to keep things simple and cheap. Breakfast

891
00:48:00,600 --> 00:48:03,000
Speaker 4: I had fruit loops, and lunch was a peanut butter

892
00:48:03,040 --> 00:48:06,360
Speaker 4: and jelly sandwich, capri son pear fruit cup, and something

893
00:48:06,400 --> 00:48:08,879
Speaker 4: that switched depending on what was on sale at.

894
00:48:08,760 --> 00:48:10,800
Speaker 1: The time, so all sugar. Basically all sugar.

895
00:48:10,840 --> 00:48:15,560
Speaker 4: This is by far not a healthy breakfast at lunch

896
00:48:15,600 --> 00:48:18,480
Speaker 4: Like freaking Americans, for most of the second semester, that

897
00:48:18,640 --> 00:48:20,920
Speaker 4: moving thing. The thing that was on sale was a

898
00:48:21,040 --> 00:48:24,480
Speaker 4: large vanilla cup of pudding sixty percent more than normal

899
00:48:24,560 --> 00:48:25,200
Speaker 4: vanilla cups.

900
00:48:25,239 --> 00:48:30,640
Speaker 1: Actually hey, and it was creamy. Sometimes I was not

901
00:48:30,800 --> 00:48:33,360
Speaker 1: hungry and saved it for later in my locker and

902
00:48:33,480 --> 00:48:35,799
Speaker 1: ended up just never eating it, which like, dude, are

903
00:48:35,840 --> 00:48:38,719
Speaker 1: you really saving things in your locker? Like, but thing

904
00:48:38,800 --> 00:48:41,399
Speaker 1: goes bad, man, I would do that. I'm not gonna lie.

905
00:48:41,440 --> 00:48:44,520
Speaker 1: That's definitely something I would have done. I would. I'm

906
00:48:44,520 --> 00:48:48,560
Speaker 1: a child, Like, all right, well I would do it,

907
00:48:48,600 --> 00:48:49,319
Speaker 1: and neither should you.

908
00:48:49,920 --> 00:48:52,399
Speaker 4: Sometimes I was not hungry and saved it for later

909
00:48:52,520 --> 00:48:54,880
Speaker 4: in my locker and ended up never eating it.

910
00:48:55,040 --> 00:48:56,479
Speaker 1: At the end of the year, I.

911
00:48:56,440 --> 00:49:00,880
Speaker 4: Had over three packs worth of cups, around eighteen of

912
00:49:00,920 --> 00:49:06,080
Speaker 4: these jumbo cups, which is basically like almost thirty regular cups. Yeah,

913
00:49:06,160 --> 00:49:09,680
Speaker 4: that's a lot of cups, a lot of pudding. In

914
00:49:09,719 --> 00:49:12,200
Speaker 4: the last week of school, I took them all out

915
00:49:12,239 --> 00:49:14,759
Speaker 4: at lunch, wondering what to do with him, imagining like

916
00:49:14,800 --> 00:49:17,239
Speaker 4: this tower of cups and he's looking at his kingdom and.

917
00:49:17,200 --> 00:49:20,080
Speaker 1: He's like, what should I do with all these cups? Also,

918
00:49:20,280 --> 00:49:23,239
Speaker 1: did you ever have at the elementary school table like

919
00:49:23,320 --> 00:49:26,040
Speaker 1: the market for like trading stuff like grapes for cookies

920
00:49:26,120 --> 00:49:29,920
Speaker 1: and like no, no, dude, literally, like, honestly, I love it.

921
00:49:29,920 --> 00:49:32,400
Speaker 1: It's like an economic experiment. Every day at lunch, it

922
00:49:32,400 --> 00:49:35,040
Speaker 1: would basically be like a bizarre and everyone to be

923
00:49:35,080 --> 00:49:37,439
Speaker 1: training like, Okay, you have a kit cat, I'll trade

924
00:49:37,480 --> 00:49:39,839
Speaker 1: you a pop chart. Okay you have carrots, will trade

925
00:49:39,840 --> 00:49:42,600
Speaker 1: you grapes. Like your school was very entrepreneurial. What was

926
00:49:42,640 --> 00:49:44,880
Speaker 1: the best thing you traded for? Oh my gosh, I

927
00:49:44,920 --> 00:49:47,520
Speaker 1: think I would trade maybe like carrots for chips or

928
00:49:47,560 --> 00:49:49,520
Speaker 1: like something like that. Oh yeah, that's a good trade.

929
00:49:49,560 --> 00:49:50,399
Speaker 1: It's a good trade. Yeah.

930
00:49:50,480 --> 00:49:56,880
Speaker 4: I was actually called salad boy. Yeah, salad bar I had.

931
00:49:56,960 --> 00:50:00,319
Speaker 4: I had the worst in the middle school standards, worst

932
00:50:00,400 --> 00:50:03,040
Speaker 4: lunches because all I had was salad. No one wanted

933
00:50:03,080 --> 00:50:07,400
Speaker 4: to tread with me. In fact, it got so bad

934
00:50:08,080 --> 00:50:10,200
Speaker 4: that this was at the time when Soldier Boy was

935
00:50:10,200 --> 00:50:12,480
Speaker 4: like really big. Oh for sure, They fucking made a

936
00:50:12,600 --> 00:50:15,439
Speaker 4: rap about me called salad Boy.

937
00:50:16,160 --> 00:50:21,080
Speaker 1: Oh my god. To this day, I still remember it.

938
00:50:21,280 --> 00:50:24,640
Speaker 4: He goes salad boy up in the Oh uh wait, wait,

939
00:50:25,040 --> 00:50:27,839
Speaker 4: salad boy up in They Oh, whymy cranked that wymy roll,

940
00:50:27,880 --> 00:50:30,799
Speaker 4: whiny crank that pamesean and super bad. And it wasn't

941
00:50:30,840 --> 00:50:35,960
Speaker 4: even that creative. It just they replaced salad. But it

942
00:50:36,000 --> 00:50:40,800
Speaker 4: was mortifying Oh my god.

943
00:50:41,200 --> 00:50:45,799
Speaker 1: Wow, I am genuinely so entertained. Wow yeah, oh my god,

944
00:50:45,920 --> 00:50:48,680
Speaker 1: not a popular kid in middle school. Wow. I am

945
00:50:48,760 --> 00:50:51,239
Speaker 1: sorry about the haters, And like, I like, definitely I

946
00:50:51,239 --> 00:50:54,200
Speaker 1: would probably be like so sad if that was me.

947
00:50:54,320 --> 00:50:58,960
Speaker 1: But also that is just it's hilarious entertaining. Also it's

948
00:50:59,000 --> 00:51:01,800
Speaker 1: so sad because it's like like your mom was doing

949
00:51:01,920 --> 00:51:02,440
Speaker 1: the right thing.

950
00:51:02,480 --> 00:51:04,560
Speaker 4: Oh yeah, she was trying to feed me, right, trying

951
00:51:04,600 --> 00:51:08,680
Speaker 4: to make me not a little fat kid, and.

952
00:51:08,040 --> 00:51:10,480
Speaker 1: I made it and it's so sad. Man.

953
00:51:11,360 --> 00:51:14,120
Speaker 4: Actually, another thing like that is I had a six

954
00:51:14,200 --> 00:51:17,120
Speaker 4: pack like basically since I was born.

955
00:51:18,080 --> 00:51:21,120
Speaker 1: And subtle flex flex.

956
00:51:21,360 --> 00:51:24,920
Speaker 4: But bro, in fucking middle school they called me vagina stomach.

957
00:51:28,920 --> 00:51:31,880
Speaker 1: Bro, what you got made fun of for having a

958
00:51:32,120 --> 00:51:34,799
Speaker 1: six pack? To make fun of you for anything in

959
00:51:34,840 --> 00:51:38,160
Speaker 1: middle school? Dude, what I know? I know it was

960
00:51:38,200 --> 00:51:40,919
Speaker 1: that I was out here trying to have a six

961
00:51:41,000 --> 00:51:44,120
Speaker 1: pag wow, vaginas you know what? You know what that

962
00:51:44,160 --> 00:51:46,600
Speaker 1: you know what? That was? That was all the other boys,

963
00:51:46,680 --> 00:51:49,719
Speaker 1: because it's like it's it's all ego and its security, right,

964
00:51:49,760 --> 00:51:51,800
Speaker 1: So it's like, Okay, here's the guy who like actually

965
00:51:51,840 --> 00:51:53,799
Speaker 1: looks good. And the ladies were like, how do we

966
00:51:53,840 --> 00:51:55,799
Speaker 1: put him as far down as possible. We make a

967
00:51:55,880 --> 00:51:59,200
Speaker 1: rap about cranking Promeisan. I call his stomach a vagina.

968
00:51:59,760 --> 00:52:02,759
Speaker 1: Like wow, dude, middle school was a rough dime.

969
00:52:02,800 --> 00:52:03,160
Speaker 4: Wow.

970
00:52:03,200 --> 00:52:06,160
Speaker 1: This also, this might be the best banter of the

971
00:52:06,320 --> 00:52:09,239
Speaker 1: entire series, Like this is this is just say the

972
00:52:09,320 --> 00:52:12,800
Speaker 1: new things about each other all the time. Wow. Anyway,

973
00:52:13,000 --> 00:52:14,200
Speaker 1: and the last week.

974
00:52:14,000 --> 00:52:16,880
Speaker 4: Of school, I took them all out at lunch wondering

975
00:52:16,960 --> 00:52:19,480
Speaker 4: what to do with them, when my really rich friend

976
00:52:19,520 --> 00:52:22,799
Speaker 4: Max says he will give me one hundred dollars one

977
00:52:22,880 --> 00:52:25,839
Speaker 4: hundred smack robe yo to eat all of them. One

978
00:52:25,920 --> 00:52:30,160
Speaker 4: hundred dollars. That's ten thousand dollars a kid. Yeah, that's

979
00:52:30,239 --> 00:52:32,000
Speaker 4: that's hella, that's hell. I didn't even know what I'd

980
00:52:32,040 --> 00:52:32,839
Speaker 4: do with one hundred dollars.

981
00:52:32,840 --> 00:52:33,320
Speaker 1: Seriously.

982
00:52:33,800 --> 00:52:36,120
Speaker 4: Now, my mom never gave me an allowance and I

983
00:52:36,160 --> 00:52:39,120
Speaker 4: never had money, so this was like winning the lottery.

984
00:52:39,160 --> 00:52:40,719
Speaker 1: For this is one hundred thousand dollars.

985
00:52:40,760 --> 00:52:43,960
Speaker 4: One hundred thousand dollars in kid money. Baby, Plus everyone

986
00:52:44,040 --> 00:52:46,319
Speaker 4: wanted me to do it, so I did.

987
00:52:46,440 --> 00:52:49,319
Speaker 1: Peer pressure or no. I wanted that money, and I

988
00:52:49,400 --> 00:52:50,640
Speaker 1: wanted to impress people.

989
00:52:50,680 --> 00:52:52,920
Speaker 4: I love how like impressing people that I'm gonna eat

990
00:52:52,920 --> 00:52:56,880
Speaker 4: a fucking one hundred hundred cubs of pudding like wow, man,

991
00:52:57,120 --> 00:52:59,320
Speaker 4: So I went and grabbed what are the plastic sports

992
00:52:59,600 --> 00:53:02,319
Speaker 4: the caf Tiri let us have and started eating one

993
00:53:02,360 --> 00:53:05,520
Speaker 4: cup after another. Now, at the time, I loved vanilla

994
00:53:05,560 --> 00:53:08,520
Speaker 4: pudding cups, so it wasn't really that hard to eat them.

995
00:53:08,600 --> 00:53:11,480
Speaker 4: But I felt a pressure building at the back of

996
00:53:11,480 --> 00:53:14,759
Speaker 4: my throat, and it quickly became difficult to swallow the

997
00:53:14,920 --> 00:53:21,479
Speaker 4: semi solid pudding, over, semi solid and over. Eventually, though,

998
00:53:21,920 --> 00:53:26,000
Speaker 4: I finished the pudding and Max gave me one hundred dollars.

999
00:53:26,239 --> 00:53:28,919
Speaker 1: But the story is far from over, fam. I felt

1000
00:53:28,960 --> 00:53:32,040
Speaker 1: good about the money, not so good about the gagging

1001
00:53:32,160 --> 00:53:35,280
Speaker 1: feeling from the back of my throat. The next period

1002
00:53:35,320 --> 00:53:38,800
Speaker 1: goes by and I cannot remember what was talked about.

1003
00:53:39,280 --> 00:53:43,040
Speaker 1: I was too focused on keeping the growing dense.

1004
00:53:42,840 --> 00:53:46,120
Speaker 4: Pressure at the back of my throat from erupting out

1005
00:53:46,120 --> 00:53:46,959
Speaker 4: in class.

1006
00:53:46,680 --> 00:53:48,440
Speaker 1: Use it as an excuse to get out of class.

1007
00:53:48,440 --> 00:53:51,880
Speaker 4: I would have done that, though, Unfortunately in eighth period

1008
00:53:52,239 --> 00:53:54,279
Speaker 4: I could not hold it anymore.

1009
00:53:54,320 --> 00:53:54,440
Speaker 1: Oh.

1010
00:53:55,000 --> 00:53:56,960
Speaker 4: I told my teacher I had to leave to go

1011
00:53:57,000 --> 00:53:59,440
Speaker 4: to the bathroom and stayed there for the rest of

1012
00:53:59,440 --> 00:54:03,719
Speaker 4: the period. And an hour or two after school, an

1013
00:54:03,800 --> 00:54:05,800
Speaker 4: hour or two I threw.

1014
00:54:05,719 --> 00:54:07,200
Speaker 1: Up a lot.

1015
00:54:07,840 --> 00:54:11,480
Speaker 4: Two whole hours of non stop gagging. Oh it was

1016
00:54:11,640 --> 00:54:16,240
Speaker 4: like syrup, not liquity whatsoever. I was barely able to breathe.

1017
00:54:17,840 --> 00:54:21,440
Speaker 4: I'm fairly positive I passed out briefly after all a

1018
00:54:21,560 --> 00:54:24,440
Speaker 4: while of vomiting. I believe this because I remember my

1019
00:54:24,560 --> 00:54:27,640
Speaker 4: face and glasses being covered in a mixture of pudding

1020
00:54:27,719 --> 00:54:32,320
Speaker 4: in bits of my lunch. Eventually, my eighth period teacher

1021
00:54:32,360 --> 00:54:35,200
Speaker 4: got my male history teacher to head into the bathroom,

1022
00:54:35,400 --> 00:54:39,080
Speaker 4: where he found me still coughing and gagging into the toilet.

1023
00:54:39,480 --> 00:54:42,280
Speaker 4: I think I might have gagged looking at the scene

1024
00:54:42,360 --> 00:54:45,479
Speaker 4: of putting on the toilet the floor in my face. Dude,

1025
00:54:45,560 --> 00:54:47,640
Speaker 4: that honestly must have been like a murder scene. Now

1026
00:54:47,680 --> 00:54:49,120
Speaker 4: I'm about to gag right now, bro.

1027
00:54:49,120 --> 00:54:56,320
Speaker 1: I'm literally like, yeah, I'm feeling great, dude.

1028
00:54:56,440 --> 00:55:00,440
Speaker 4: I'm just imagining like the history professor coming in and

1029
00:55:00,560 --> 00:55:01,680
Speaker 4: just slipping everywhere.

1030
00:55:02,200 --> 00:55:08,040
Speaker 1: I'm skating, whoa, whoa. Honestly, I thought I would die.

1031
00:55:08,520 --> 00:55:11,680
Speaker 4: How honestly I thought I would die with how hard

1032
00:55:11,719 --> 00:55:15,480
Speaker 4: it was to breathe. After what seemed like forever an eternity,

1033
00:55:15,800 --> 00:55:17,000
Speaker 4: I was stable enough.

1034
00:55:16,800 --> 00:55:20,840
Speaker 1: To stop crying. He was crying. Oh, p was crying.

1035
00:55:20,960 --> 00:55:23,920
Speaker 1: I would cry today if I was bombing for two hours.

1036
00:55:24,280 --> 00:55:28,560
Speaker 4: Guaranteed he wash his face clean, attempted to drink some

1037
00:55:28,600 --> 00:55:31,600
Speaker 4: water and eat some solid food to get over the nausea.

1038
00:55:31,680 --> 00:55:33,279
Speaker 4: My mom picked me up after she got off of

1039
00:55:33,320 --> 00:55:34,920
Speaker 4: work as a nurse surround ate at night.

1040
00:55:35,440 --> 00:55:36,120
Speaker 1: I was off.

1041
00:55:35,960 --> 00:55:38,439
Speaker 4: School the next day with people thinking I was sick

1042
00:55:38,480 --> 00:55:41,520
Speaker 4: with a virus. I never told anyone this the last

1043
00:55:41,560 --> 00:55:44,200
Speaker 4: six years. I don't know if one hundred dollars was

1044
00:55:44,239 --> 00:55:47,880
Speaker 4: worth it, but that was probably the stupidest thing that

1045
00:55:48,080 --> 00:55:50,520
Speaker 4: happened to me when I was in school and the

1046
00:55:50,560 --> 00:55:54,480
Speaker 4: TLDR is I ate a gallon of pudding for money

1047
00:55:54,520 --> 00:55:57,920
Speaker 4: and fame and threw it up before passing out face

1048
00:55:57,960 --> 00:55:58,680
Speaker 4: first into it.

1049
00:55:58,840 --> 00:56:01,759
Speaker 1: Oh my god. Now, now here's the thing. Though this

1050
00:56:01,880 --> 00:56:06,240
Speaker 1: might be a controversial take, but honestly, as a kid,

1051
00:56:06,480 --> 00:56:09,640
Speaker 1: I would still take the vomiting experience. And here's a

1052
00:56:09,760 --> 00:56:12,000
Speaker 1: hundred thousand dollars. Here's why it's it's one hundred thous

1053
00:56:12,120 --> 00:56:14,360
Speaker 1: Like I maybe got like, uh, maybe like five or

1054
00:56:14,400 --> 00:56:17,319
Speaker 1: six dollars a week, So like, how how many weeks

1055
00:56:17,400 --> 00:56:21,680
Speaker 1: is that? Twenty weeks? That's like twenty weeks worth of money,

1056
00:56:21,719 --> 00:56:24,279
Speaker 1: and like I'm going to Walmart immediately and copying like

1057
00:56:24,360 --> 00:56:27,120
Speaker 1: the the yu gi oh.

1058
00:56:26,480 --> 00:56:28,439
Speaker 4: I would vise I was a Pokemon guy. I would

1059
00:56:28,480 --> 00:56:31,000
Speaker 4: buy so many Pokemon I was. I was all in

1060
00:56:31,040 --> 00:56:31,560
Speaker 4: on yukiyoh.

1061
00:56:31,600 --> 00:56:33,919
Speaker 1: But like to me, it's like okay, Like that would

1062
00:56:33,960 --> 00:56:36,640
Speaker 1: be like someone going to me right now and saying, like, hey,

1063
00:56:36,640 --> 00:56:39,440
Speaker 1: would you like to eat a gallon of expired putting

1064
00:56:39,440 --> 00:56:40,640
Speaker 1: for like ten thousand dollars?

1065
00:56:40,880 --> 00:56:42,600
Speaker 4: Yeah, I would do that, dude, don't get to do

1066
00:56:42,640 --> 00:56:45,600
Speaker 4: it two minutes for ten thousand dollars easiest money I'd

1067
00:56:45,600 --> 00:56:46,000
Speaker 4: ever make.

1068
00:56:46,239 --> 00:56:54,240
Speaker 1: Maybe sick and then yeah worth come on? Come on? Also,

1069
00:56:54,600 --> 00:57:00,440
Speaker 1: okayop fam, if you haven't already freaking subscribe, Yes sorry,

1070
00:57:00,480 --> 00:57:05,759
Speaker 1: I just realized my okop entitled father steals money as

1071
00:57:05,760 --> 00:57:09,399
Speaker 1: a payment for his good deedek. I thought it would

1072
00:57:09,400 --> 00:57:11,680
Speaker 1: be at least a few months since I had another

1073
00:57:11,960 --> 00:57:15,080
Speaker 1: entitled parent encounter, but less than a week since my

1074
00:57:15,200 --> 00:57:18,880
Speaker 1: last one it happened again. Oh God, you think you're safe.

1075
00:57:18,920 --> 00:57:21,840
Speaker 1: You think you're safe, safe from the entitled barads, But

1076
00:57:22,120 --> 00:57:27,720
Speaker 1: ye spooky. I was working on the tills at my supermarket,

1077
00:57:27,760 --> 00:57:30,640
Speaker 1: serving customers during the school rush. It's around four pm.

1078
00:57:30,800 --> 00:57:33,600
Speaker 1: I had just got done serving an elderly gentleman and

1079
00:57:33,840 --> 00:57:36,520
Speaker 1: was now serving a middle aged man and his daughter.

1080
00:57:36,720 --> 00:57:39,600
Speaker 1: The previous customer was standing to the side putting away

1081
00:57:39,600 --> 00:57:42,440
Speaker 1: his loyalty card and his bank card when I noticed

1082
00:57:42,560 --> 00:57:45,040
Speaker 1: that he had dropped his bank card instead of putting

1083
00:57:45,080 --> 00:57:47,400
Speaker 1: it away, the father, who I was serving we will

1084
00:57:47,400 --> 00:57:50,600
Speaker 1: refer to as entitled dad, quickly ran over and grabbed

1085
00:57:50,600 --> 00:57:52,880
Speaker 1: his card. I assumed he was going to return it,

1086
00:57:53,080 --> 00:57:55,920
Speaker 1: but instead he ran back to the till basically the cashier,

1087
00:57:56,360 --> 00:57:59,120
Speaker 1: and tapped the old man's card on the reader to

1088
00:57:59,240 --> 00:58:04,280
Speaker 1: pay for is shopping before grabbing his items and returning

1089
00:58:04,320 --> 00:58:08,520
Speaker 1: it to the old man. What can you imagine a

1090
00:58:08,880 --> 00:58:14,080
Speaker 1: scum that you possibly imagine freaking Oh my god. Bro,

1091
00:58:14,680 --> 00:58:16,960
Speaker 1: you see someone drop it, You're like, I know who

1092
00:58:17,040 --> 00:58:21,200
Speaker 1: owns this card. You take it quickly, pay for your groceries,

1093
00:58:21,440 --> 00:58:23,640
Speaker 1: and then go back to bring it back to him.

1094
00:58:23,640 --> 00:58:26,760
Speaker 1: That dude, dude, you there's a special place for you.

1095
00:58:27,000 --> 00:58:29,360
Speaker 1: There really is a special place, and it's not even

1096
00:58:29,440 --> 00:58:32,320
Speaker 1: like this is. It would still be unacceptable if he

1097
00:58:32,360 --> 00:58:34,960
Speaker 1: paid for it and like did the work to hunt

1098
00:58:35,080 --> 00:58:36,160
Speaker 1: down the guy.

1099
00:58:36,560 --> 00:58:39,240
Speaker 4: Yeah, you know like later, you're killing money, but he

1100
00:58:39,280 --> 00:58:41,320
Speaker 4: literally was right there, you're stelling money.

1101
00:58:41,480 --> 00:58:42,920
Speaker 1: Just absolutely no.

1102
00:58:43,080 --> 00:58:46,160
Speaker 4: That's like someone dropping a wallet and then just taking

1103
00:58:46,200 --> 00:58:48,280
Speaker 4: out the money from their wallet and giving the wallet

1104
00:58:48,320 --> 00:58:48,640
Speaker 4: back for.

1105
00:58:50,800 --> 00:58:54,160
Speaker 1: I had no customers after entitled Dad, so I approached

1106
00:58:54,160 --> 00:58:56,800
Speaker 1: the two as they were talking, and I overheard the

1107
00:58:56,960 --> 00:58:59,840
Speaker 1: entitled dad saying, you drop your cod them mate, can't

1108
00:59:00,120 --> 00:59:03,680
Speaker 1: losing that. I guess he's Australian, a terrible Australian accent.

1109
00:59:03,880 --> 00:59:04,919
Speaker 1: I should have left that the same.

1110
00:59:05,240 --> 00:59:07,400
Speaker 4: I like it, let it pass, I got this little

1111
00:59:07,480 --> 00:59:11,480
Speaker 4: koala there. He then promptly handed over the card and

1112
00:59:11,600 --> 00:59:14,160
Speaker 4: turned to walk away. I intervened and told the old

1113
00:59:14,240 --> 00:59:17,320
Speaker 4: man that entitled Dad had used his card to pay

1114
00:59:17,400 --> 00:59:20,440
Speaker 4: for his shopping. I also waved to our on duty

1115
00:59:20,480 --> 00:59:23,800
Speaker 4: security guard to stop the entitled dad, which he did

1116
00:59:23,840 --> 00:59:26,640
Speaker 4: myself and the old man walked over to the entitled

1117
00:59:26,720 --> 00:59:29,280
Speaker 4: Dad and I asked him to stay put while I

1118
00:59:29,360 --> 00:59:32,680
Speaker 4: called a manager down, and the entitled Dad played dumb,

1119
00:59:32,920 --> 00:59:34,920
Speaker 4: spouting you have no right to stop me.

1120
00:59:35,600 --> 00:59:40,360
Speaker 1: I need to get my daughna home. This is false imprisonments, etc.

1121
00:59:40,760 --> 00:59:44,160
Speaker 4: I love how the steaks are like are raised so high.

1122
00:59:44,480 --> 00:59:48,680
Speaker 1: This is imprisoned. I will break free from these chains.

1123
00:59:48,800 --> 00:59:52,919
Speaker 1: This prison can't hold me. He's bane of buying other

1124
00:59:52,920 --> 00:59:56,200
Speaker 1: people's groceries. I was born.

1125
00:59:58,600 --> 01:00:00,800
Speaker 4: On the other other side of the world. It's dark

1126
01:00:00,840 --> 01:00:04,920
Speaker 4: there when it's light here. How Australians were the original prisoners?

1127
01:00:05,560 --> 01:00:07,080
Speaker 1: Really? Now there are a bunch of prisoners sent from

1128
01:00:07,120 --> 01:00:10,800
Speaker 1: over from England to Australia. Wow, that was how Australia dark.

1129
01:00:10,960 --> 01:00:13,920
Speaker 1: That's how Australia started. Though. Once the manager arrived, I

1130
01:00:14,000 --> 01:00:17,000
Speaker 1: explained what had happened, and the scumbag of a person

1131
01:00:17,120 --> 01:00:21,919
Speaker 1: had the audacity audacity to say, entitled Dad, I could

1132
01:00:21,960 --> 01:00:23,960
Speaker 1: have kept his cad and used a lot more. Is

1133
01:00:23,960 --> 01:00:25,880
Speaker 1: that what you want me to do? He shouldn't be

1134
01:00:25,920 --> 01:00:30,480
Speaker 1: complaining about ish. I only used it a bit. I

1135
01:00:30,480 --> 01:00:33,320
Speaker 1: only used it a bit. You bought all your brushes

1136
01:00:33,400 --> 01:00:36,120
Speaker 1: with this thing, dog, you have no room talking about.

1137
01:00:36,240 --> 01:00:38,960
Speaker 1: He then turned to the old man and said something

1138
01:00:39,360 --> 01:00:43,560
Speaker 1: equally disgusting, entitled Dad, just consider it compensation for giving

1139
01:00:43,600 --> 01:00:46,080
Speaker 1: it to you back. At this point, the old man

1140
01:00:46,160 --> 01:00:47,920
Speaker 1: was asking if he could get his money back. I

1141
01:00:47,960 --> 01:00:50,320
Speaker 1: headed back to the till and printed up a copy

1142
01:00:50,360 --> 01:00:52,120
Speaker 1: of the last receipt and took the old man to

1143
01:00:52,160 --> 01:00:55,440
Speaker 1: the customer service desk. I got his transaction refunded and

1144
01:00:55,520 --> 01:00:58,560
Speaker 1: he was happy to leave there. Dude, Oh he is

1145
01:00:58,840 --> 01:00:59,640
Speaker 1: super nice.

1146
01:00:59,760 --> 01:01:02,640
Speaker 4: Yeah, Op's doing the right thing here, Like like the

1147
01:01:02,680 --> 01:01:05,720
Speaker 4: amount of crap that these people go through, like in

1148
01:01:05,760 --> 01:01:10,400
Speaker 4: service jobs is ridiculous. And the fact that Ope still

1149
01:01:10,600 --> 01:01:14,280
Speaker 4: is mustering up the mental bandwidth, Yeah, solve this and

1150
01:01:14,320 --> 01:01:14,919
Speaker 4: do what's right.

1151
01:01:15,000 --> 01:01:18,280
Speaker 1: Like and also like, how many times have we been

1152
01:01:18,320 --> 01:01:20,400
Speaker 1: in a situation where it's like, oh, we dropped something,

1153
01:01:20,480 --> 01:01:24,200
Speaker 1: something broken, They're like, oh no, I can't refund. Like

1154
01:01:24,800 --> 01:01:27,400
Speaker 1: this guy is doing the absolute right Yeah. And the

1155
01:01:27,440 --> 01:01:29,800
Speaker 1: older gentleman did not want to press any charges for

1156
01:01:29,880 --> 01:01:33,400
Speaker 1: theft or anything like that. So both the cashier and

1157
01:01:33,480 --> 01:01:36,200
Speaker 1: the older gentlemen are I think, you know, being very

1158
01:01:36,240 --> 01:01:38,960
Speaker 1: reasonably good people. We make entitled dad pay for his

1159
01:01:39,040 --> 01:01:43,520
Speaker 1: shopping and then he stormed off, and yes he is

1160
01:01:43,640 --> 01:01:49,000
Speaker 1: now banned from the store. Serves your right, Dad serves

1161
01:01:49,040 --> 01:01:49,680
Speaker 1: you right?

1162
01:01:49,840 --> 01:01:50,080
Speaker 3: Wait?

1163
01:01:50,120 --> 01:01:52,720
Speaker 1: Can I get serves you right in an Australian accent,

1164
01:01:53,200 --> 01:01:57,360
Speaker 1: serves you're right, Yes, Scully Wag, you have a freaking bogan.

1165
01:01:58,440 --> 01:02:01,000
Speaker 1: What's what's dogan? Bogan? Bogan?

1166
01:02:01,440 --> 01:02:05,320
Speaker 4: So I'm actually Australian I'm a citizen and Bogan is

1167
01:02:05,360 --> 01:02:08,480
Speaker 4: basically an Australian redneck. It's like the people who eat

1168
01:02:08,880 --> 01:02:12,680
Speaker 4: meat pies and go to the footy super drunk. Yeah,

1169
01:02:13,080 --> 01:02:14,040
Speaker 4: pies of cigarettes.

1170
01:02:14,040 --> 01:02:16,360
Speaker 1: Baby. Also, I didn't know you were a double citizen,

1171
01:02:16,360 --> 01:02:18,600
Speaker 1: double citizen, right, dual citizen right now? So what kind

1172
01:02:18,640 --> 01:02:20,520
Speaker 1: of perks do you get? I can leave whenever I

1173
01:02:20,560 --> 01:02:22,560
Speaker 1: want cool, I can.

1174
01:02:22,400 --> 01:02:26,000
Speaker 4: Live over there, go to shit in America.

1175
01:02:26,360 --> 01:02:28,760
Speaker 1: You know, I'll be on the next plane to Australia.

1176
01:02:29,040 --> 01:02:31,480
Speaker 1: Give me what was on? Now? That was quick? No practice?

1177
01:02:31,480 --> 01:02:33,440
Speaker 1: What's on a scale from zero to ten? How was

1178
01:02:33,480 --> 01:02:37,040
Speaker 1: my Australian accent? I mean it's better than mine? My Yeah,

1179
01:02:37,520 --> 01:02:38,440
Speaker 1: I can't really do.

1180
01:02:38,840 --> 01:02:41,840
Speaker 4: My mom is Australian, right, she speaks in Australian accent

1181
01:02:42,560 --> 01:02:44,640
Speaker 4: her whole life and to me, my whole life. But

1182
01:02:44,760 --> 01:02:47,640
Speaker 4: for some reason, I could do a British accent way

1183
01:02:47,680 --> 01:02:49,120
Speaker 4: better than I can do Australian accent.

1184
01:02:49,400 --> 01:02:51,120
Speaker 1: I would say yours was at least an eight in

1185
01:02:51,160 --> 01:02:53,040
Speaker 1: mine was like a solid six and a half.

1186
01:02:53,240 --> 01:02:56,480
Speaker 4: I would say ours were at least equal. If not,

1187
01:02:56,560 --> 01:02:59,200
Speaker 4: yours is better. Wow, Well so there you go. Look

1188
01:02:59,240 --> 01:02:59,480
Speaker 4: at this.

1189
01:03:00,040 --> 01:03:03,280
Speaker 1: I know I just can't do one. Well, there you

1190
01:03:03,360 --> 01:03:08,560
Speaker 1: have it, folks, don't steal from people, don't be a butthole,

1191
01:03:08,760 --> 01:03:13,440
Speaker 1: and don't eat ten eighteen company. But definitely don't do that. Actually,

1192
01:03:13,520 --> 01:03:14,800
Speaker 1: you know what he should have done. He should have

1193
01:03:15,160 --> 01:03:17,600
Speaker 1: brought that back home with him and then traded it

1194
01:03:17,720 --> 01:03:20,880
Speaker 1: on the public market.

1195
01:03:20,720 --> 01:03:24,000
Speaker 4: The classroom stock exchange, the cafeteria stock exchange.

1196
01:03:24,080 --> 01:03:25,200
Speaker 1: Exactly you gotta do.

1197
01:03:25,840 --> 01:03:31,400
Speaker 4: And if you haven't already subscribe, we'll see you next time.