Speaker 1: Rooking jewels second day. You know, since I've been single
Speaker 1: for a while now, I've had my friends girlfriends ask
Speaker 1: if they can set me up with one of their friends,
Speaker 1: and I tell them no. What are they thinking? Because
Speaker 1: I know that that's going to just end poorly, like
Speaker 1: we're not going to be friends anymore after that, So
Speaker 1: I say no. And you guys have been set up
Speaker 1: through friends before and you've done it, right, Yeah, everybody
Speaker 1: has it. They always say it's the best way to
Speaker 1: meet someone. That's how David met Rachel. Right, that's right.
Speaker 1: It sounds super pumped up about David. Your email said
Speaker 1: that you met through friends. You went out for a
Speaker 1: happy hour, and in your words, you had a few
Speaker 1: drinks or maybe too many drinks. I definitely had a
Speaker 1: couple before, a couple of during. Okay, is it one
Speaker 1: of the same, David, where we should multiply a couple
Speaker 1: by a few more and then we get to the
Speaker 1: real number. Well, you can never really tell how the
Speaker 1: bartender poors, especially when you're drinking before the date. David
Speaker 1: did she was she also on your same path of drunkenness? Well,
Speaker 1: she drank the same amount I drank when we were together.
Speaker 1: Just I don't know what she was doing before. Okay,
Speaker 1: so what happened on the date? How'd it go? I
Speaker 1: thought it went good. It's fun, she's hot, nice, yeah,
Speaker 1: great style, red hair. I love how men describe dates.
Speaker 1: I thought it went well, she's hot, she's got red hair.
Speaker 1: That tells me nothing about what happened, how it works.
Speaker 1: But that's all you guys want to know, or like
Speaker 1: the men in the room are like, oh, I got it.
Speaker 1: Sounds like a good date to me. Did you have
Speaker 1: good conversation? Did you connect? Do you have similar interests?
Speaker 1: I probably talked about my X a little too much.
Speaker 1: You talked about your X on a first date. It's
Speaker 1: you know, it's one of those things and like, don't
Speaker 1: do it, don't do it, don't do it, and just
Speaker 1: end up doing it. David, how does that subject come up? Well,
Speaker 1: you can find a lot of ways to if you're
Speaker 1: trying to. Yes, you can. But I mean she didn't
Speaker 1: ask you any questions about it specifically, right, No, But
Speaker 1: I just had been to that bar before with my ex,
Speaker 1: so that was not it was uncomfortable transition, but unfortunately
Speaker 1: that's how we got there. Would you say, like, hey,
Speaker 1: nice meeting you here? Me and my ex used to
Speaker 1: come here all the time. Yeah, I mean I didn't
Speaker 1: mean it to sound like that, but I bet that's
Speaker 1: exactly how it sounds. So how did the date end?
Speaker 1: When did she get like pissed at you for this? No?
Speaker 1: I mean she seemed cool. That's why, you know, I
Speaker 1: called her a couple of times. But then you know,
Speaker 1: I started getting in my head. You know, did I
Speaker 1: really mess it up by just talking about Linda so much? Linda?
Speaker 1: Did you when you were talking about your X, did
Speaker 1: you call her my first name like that? Yeah? That
Speaker 1: definitely my ex all the time. Yeah, that sounds bad.
Speaker 1: Did you try to save yourself at all at the
Speaker 1: end of the date by saying, Hey, I'd really like
Speaker 1: to see you again. I think you're amazing. No, I
Speaker 1: you know, I kind of was buzzing pretty good, so
Speaker 1: I was just was felt real good, and so you know,
Speaker 1: it's just like later, like he tried to say that,
Speaker 1: but all he said was whoa date? Usually when we
Speaker 1: do the second date updates, there's like some mystery like
Speaker 1: why didn't she call me back? There's so many options
Speaker 1: to choose from here. I was drunk, I talked about
Speaker 1: my X the whole time. All right, If we get
Speaker 1: her on the phone in a couple of minutes, how
Speaker 1: do you want me to approach it? What do you
Speaker 1: want me to say to her on your behalf that
Speaker 1: will hopefully get you a second date? Say there, I
Speaker 1: thought we had a good time, and if I did
Speaker 1: anything wrong, I'd love to know because I'm about shelf improvement. Okay,
Speaker 1: and I like her. Okay, hold on, I'm gonna play
Speaker 1: a song, come right back, and then call her and
Speaker 1: get your second date update? All right, think about your
Speaker 1: ex the whole time. Frocking Jubil in the Morning update.
Speaker 1: It's moving on two point five Brook and Jubil in
Speaker 1: the morning if you're just tuning in today. Second date update.
Speaker 1: David went out with a girl named Rachel. He talked
Speaker 1: about his ex girlfriend Linda the whole time. Apparently David
Speaker 1: was also kind of drunk when he showed up to
Speaker 1: the date. David, what do you hope to accomplish when
Speaker 1: we get her on the phone? Best case scenario, I
Speaker 1: just hope, you know, I can just tell her it
Speaker 1: was just an innocent mistake, you know, being so buzzed
Speaker 1: when she got there, and that I will make a
Speaker 1: habit of talking about my ex. So you know, I
Speaker 1: don't want her to hold that against me and just
Speaker 1: kind of apologize for that. You know, if she was
Speaker 1: my girlfriend and my girlfriend told me this story, I
Speaker 1: would say, don't ever go out with this dude together. Yeah,
Speaker 1: you're gonna have to do some really serious sweet talking here.
Speaker 1: I'm ready for it. Okay, all right, here we go, David.
Speaker 1: I'm gonna get her on the phone right now. All right,
Speaker 1: sounds good? Right? Hello? Hi is Rachel there? Yeah, this
Speaker 1: is Rachel, Rachel. How are you? This is jew Well
Speaker 1: from Brook and Jewel in the Morning. I'm Moving ninety
Speaker 1: two point five. Yeah, Hi, how are you? I'm good?
Speaker 1: Who's this? Jebil from Brook and Jewel in the Morning
Speaker 1: on the radio station Moving ninety two point five. We
Speaker 1: do a morning show. Okay, and we're calling you because
Speaker 1: you recently went out on a date with a guy
Speaker 1: named David and he's been trying to get a hold
Speaker 1: of you, but you haven't returned as calls or texts.
Speaker 1: We're curious. Why why are you so curious about my date? Well,
Speaker 1: we do a segment on our show called the Second
Speaker 1: Date Update. It's where if you go out on a
Speaker 1: date with somebody and don't call them back, they email
Speaker 1: us to get the reason. Why did he tell you
Speaker 1: about the date? He did? He emailed us and said
Speaker 1: that he really liked you. He enjoyed the time that
Speaker 1: you guys spent together. He said that he mistakenly maybe
Speaker 1: had a little bit too much to drink. Yeah, so
Speaker 1: he told you about Linda? Yes, is Linda the reason
Speaker 1: that you won't call him back? Well? What else did
Speaker 1: you tell you about Linda and our first date? That's
Speaker 1: pretty much it. He said that he brought his ex
Speaker 1: girlfriend Linda up a few times and he knows that
Speaker 1: that was probably stupid. Did he mention that he took
Speaker 1: me to a restaurant that he used to go with
Speaker 1: her too? Yeah? He did say that. Okay. Did did
Speaker 1: he mente what else he used to do with her? There? What? No? What? Rachel?
Speaker 1: What did he say? I'd say for our first date?
Speaker 1: He definitely overshared information. Apparently this restaurant was one of
Speaker 1: the restaurants that they would have sex in the bathroom. Oh,
Speaker 1: I didn't think you could get worse than bringing up
Speaker 1: your axe on a first date. What? Yeah? I mean,
Speaker 1: it was just who who thought that? Who talks like
Speaker 1: that on a first date? How did he? How did
Speaker 1: he bring that up? Rachel? I think he started drinking
Speaker 1: before the date, to be honest with Okay, yeah, a
Speaker 1: little bit loose, and he just started talking about the
Speaker 1: rest drawn and how they did meet there. And the
Speaker 1: reason it was a favorite is because they've had sex
Speaker 1: in the bathroom and I had the PA and I
Speaker 1: wasn't going to go in there after I heard that.
Speaker 1: I have told it, so the rest of the date,
Speaker 1: it was miserable. Of course, you're scared to go in
Speaker 1: the bathroom. Youre scared you might fall you in there exactly.
Speaker 1: He proceeded to tell me that he had a goal
Speaker 1: with Linda to do it all over the city in
Speaker 1: all different places and all different positions, sort of giving
Speaker 1: me the walking tour, Rachel, because they did it in
Speaker 1: like I let the starbuck Rachel. Yes, David is actually
Speaker 1: on the other line listening right David's on the phone.
Speaker 1: He's listening to me right now. Yes, say Rachel, I'm sorry,
Speaker 1: I'm a little bit in shocked right now. So he
Speaker 1: heard everything. Yeah, David, you said you don't remember saying
Speaker 1: that stuff. No, I mean I trewed up. Obviously, I
Speaker 1: would not something like that. I'm just sorry. I just
Speaker 1: I don't think that's you know, good behavior, especially for
Speaker 1: first date. And I'm sorry. On the first day it
Speaker 1: made me feel horrible, like you're talking about another woman
Speaker 1: by name and all the places you did it with
Speaker 1: her and what you did with her, and you see
Speaker 1: to be enjoying it. I was not. I mean, you didn't.
Speaker 1: You didn't read me at all. It was awful. You
Speaker 1: were I mean, you've had drinks before our date, had
Speaker 1: you not? I mean you smelled like up and you're
Speaker 1: very much to drink too fast. You're very like, I mean,
Speaker 1: that's not me, like that's I mean normally like that's
Speaker 1: just that's just a mistake that I apologize for that.
Speaker 1: I hope, like you, you're supposed to be there, you know,
Speaker 1: taking care of me and and entertaining and getting to
Speaker 1: know one another, and you're drunk. You don't remember it
Speaker 1: well now, Rachel, I think it was probably pretty entertaining. No,
Speaker 1: it's splaining. That's not laughable. It's just it's horrible. Oh yeah,
Speaker 1: it's horrible, But you know, like a plus time horrible
Speaker 1: could work out and be laughable. Trust me, Me Me and
Speaker 1: my friends laughed about you, David Funny, what would make
Speaker 1: you think and I know you're I know you were drunk,
Speaker 1: but what would make you think it's okay to talk
Speaker 1: about doing things with your ex girlfriend in the bathroom.
Speaker 1: I imagine that something she must have said that got
Speaker 1: me going in that direction. I didn't even know what
Speaker 1: cowboy style was. I don't want to. I mean, I
Speaker 1: don't blame it on different things. David, are you ready
Speaker 1: to date? Are you not over your ex? No? I'm over.
Speaker 1: I'm over. It's over on the side underneath, which is
Speaker 1: like why I like trash Rachel Rachel. There's a long
Speaker 1: list of reasons you shouldn't call David back. Was there
Speaker 1: anything that you liked about him on the date? Um?
Speaker 1: When it was over? I listened to him now, though
Speaker 1: he's sober, he sounds really apologetic. It's not like he does,
Speaker 1: you know, agree he does not sound really apologetic. David. No,
Speaker 1: I am, I am I really apologetic. I just I'm
Speaker 1: kind of you know, you're telling me things that are
Speaker 1: awful that I did that I don't remember doing. So
Speaker 1: I'm just no woman is going to stand for this
Speaker 1: unless I've I've no woman that have stood for it girlfriends,
Speaker 1: and just don't generalize women. I mean, we all have
Speaker 1: our things, you know, David. Okay, try to state your
Speaker 1: case here. Look, I made a mistake and I'm sorry,
Speaker 1: and most men won't apologize for their mistakes. And uh
Speaker 1: I was. I think he was super hot and I
Speaker 1: had a good time, and I would love to get
Speaker 1: a chance to prove to you that I'm not any
Speaker 1: of it. I'm pretty sure I already know the answer
Speaker 1: to this, but I'm gonna ask it anyway. Rachel, would
Speaker 1: you like to go out on a second date with David?
Speaker 1: We'll pay for it. Um. It takes a certain kind
Speaker 1: of man to say that sort of thing and to apologize,
Speaker 1: So I I'm gonna give you an answer, David. Here's
Speaker 1: your answer. Wow, all right, I thought I'm not gonna
Speaker 1: call her back. David. Did you did you learn something
Speaker 1: at least maybe about yourself on dates and not drinking beforehand? Yeah?
Speaker 1: I mean everything I learned is in that sentence. Just
Speaker 1: don't do that next time, David. Two words for you,
Speaker 1: two words for you in your dating future? Right? Okay?
Speaker 1: But Keini Baristas after its broken jubil in the morning.
Speaker 1: From the start, you were safe. You stole my heart
Speaker 1: and I