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Speaker 1: It's Brooke and Jeffrey in the morning. And if I've

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Speaker 1: learned anything from watching the movie Frozen over and over,

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Speaker 2: The sisters always have each other's back. Yeah, I love

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Speaker 2: it doesn't mean that they always get along.

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Speaker 1: Okay, maybe that's They might be a little annoying sometimes

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Speaker 1: But you know what, for the most part, is zero drama.

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Speaker 2: Seriously, sometimes she can be in a mood and I'm

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Speaker 2: just like, oh.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, yeah, that's normal, though strangely adult. It's not the

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Speaker 1: case for one of our listeners named Amelia, who's reached

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Speaker 1: out for a closure call, needing help with a little

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Speaker 1: bit of her family drama. That's happen. Let's talk to her.

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Speaker 1: Name is again, Amelia, Amelia, welcome to the show.

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Speaker 3: Thank you, you're welcome. Do you have more than one

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Speaker 3: sister or is it just you and her?

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Speaker 4: It's just the two of us?

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Speaker 3: Okay, okay, what's awesome?

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Speaker 1: What's going on with you and your sister? What made

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Speaker 1: you reach out to us?

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Speaker 4: Okay, this is a lot, but I'll give you the

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Speaker 4: cliff notes. So I am traditionally super close with my family, Okay,

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Speaker 4: close with my mom and dad. We all kind of

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Speaker 4: live near each other. And like my little sister Carissa

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Speaker 4: was like in the same boat.

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Speaker 1: I mean, like you lived on a boat together. That's

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Speaker 1: kind of cute.

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Speaker 3: It's the tropical version of frozen.

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Speaker 2: Yeah.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, Okay, I know you're close with all of your family.

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Speaker 1: That's nice.

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Speaker 4: Yeah, but I mean sisters are how they are. I mean,

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Speaker 4: like I'm not going to sit here and say that

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Speaker 4: my sister and I didn't fight a lot about trivial things.

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Speaker 2: But I was just talking about this with Alexus because

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Speaker 4: Right, And that's always the case. I Mean, we had

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Speaker 4: like it's not anything out of the ordinary.

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Speaker 1: I worked, Okay, so there were a lot of little fights,

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Speaker 1: but it sounds like it leads up to one big fight.

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Speaker 4: Yeah, So things have gone completely off the rails, and

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Speaker 3: So why what happened?

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Speaker 4: Yeah, one night we were on our way out and

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Speaker 4: like before we even went to the bar, I noticed

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Speaker 4: that she was wearing my mom's jewelry with a necklace

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Speaker 4: like a little pendant and this ring that I'm obsessed

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Speaker 4: with that's like this pearl ring that's surrounded by a

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Speaker 4: little tiny diamonds. It's adorable and you're.

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Speaker 2: Always jockey and like, hey, Mom, you should really give

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Speaker 4: Yeah, like I'm the oldest I wanted on these things.

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Speaker 3: Oh my god.

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Speaker 2: At my grandmother's house, we just put our names in

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Speaker 3: All my grandparents were still.

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Speaker 1: A live yea god. Well, at least that gives you

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Speaker 1: a little bit of perspective, Amelia, your situation could be worse.

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Speaker 1: You could be brooksisters. So wait, how did she get

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Speaker 4: So my mom does have quite a few pieces that

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Speaker 4: But like my issue with it is like we're going

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Speaker 4: on some cheap stuff from forever twenty one, like you

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Speaker 1: Did something happen?

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Speaker 4: Yes, so the ring is gone. She took it off

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Speaker 4: to like wash her hands or something, and like, hey,

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Speaker 2: Okay, yeah, so how long ago was the ring lost?

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Speaker 4: So this was over a year ago?

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Speaker 1: A year I know?

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Speaker 3: No, Yeah, I talked to us to talk to her.

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Speaker 1: What's happened since that night with you and your sister?

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Speaker 4: Absolutely nothing except she moved out of state. That's all

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Speaker 4: I know. We have not spoken.

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Speaker 1: Nothing, but she moved a thousand miles away so she

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Speaker 3: Wait, you guys aren't talking.

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Speaker 4: No, we got into a huge fight, and like, granted

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Speaker 2: Oh wait, did your parents know what happened? Do your

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Speaker 4: No, she won't talk to anybody, Like I know what happened.

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Speaker 4: It's between us and you guys now. But like she

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Speaker 3: I mean, Okay, I get it.

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Speaker 2: It's a huge deal, but it's not a big enough

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Speaker 4: I agree you need to get.

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Speaker 1: On the phone and apologize to you. I think Brooks

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Speaker 1: saying that you should find a different sister to replace her, there's.

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Speaker 2: A replaceable that makes me so sad for you, and

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Speaker 2: I bet it would break your mom's heart. Like, of

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Speaker 2: course your mom's going to be upset that the ring's gone,

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Speaker 3: Because of it.

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Speaker 1: That's why you reached out to our show to do

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Speaker 1: this closure call. So we could try and help you

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Speaker 2: Right, she moved exactly, and you haven't had any chance

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Speaker 4: Right, Because I mean I would have had she been

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Speaker 4: want to, like, you know, dump on her via text

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Speaker 2: And forth.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, so do it the healthy way by going through

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Speaker 1: Clarissa did respond back.

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Speaker 3: Did Clarissa explain it all? Come on.

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Speaker 1: That was funny because it was I don't know what

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Speaker 1: It's gonna happen when we do your closure call. Right

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Speaker 1: after this, we're in the middle of a closure call

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Speaker 1: with our listener Amelia. Just a quick recap of what's happened.

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Speaker 1: She and her little sister have not spoken to each

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Speaker 1: night and her sister drunkenly lost their mom's heirloom jewelry.

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Speaker 1: Oh no, so that led to an argument. Some things

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Speaker 1: were said that Amelia now regrets because the sister ended

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Speaker 3: I can't imagine what you said.

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Speaker 1: I mean, honestly, do you want to repeat some of

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Speaker 4: I mean, I will say I said a lot of

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Speaker 1: Okay, that's fair.

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Speaker 3: See if she says the same thing.

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Speaker 1: I know Brooke has said. There's gotta be something else,

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Speaker 4: If anything, this ring has more sentimental value than financial value.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, your family heirlooms are like my family heirlooms, like

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Speaker 2: But then you go get it a praise and you're like, well,

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Speaker 1: Yeah right, yeah, Okay, we can all call our parents

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Speaker 1: call question. We said. First of all, I feel completely

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Speaker 1: I'm super sorry. Can you forgive me?

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Speaker 4: So?

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Speaker 3: I mean that, but would hit me wrong. I'm gonna

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Speaker 4: I mean, I wish it was a little more brief.

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Speaker 4: I probably rambled on because haven't talked run so long.

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Speaker 4: But yeah, it gets the overall point across, I guess.

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Speaker 1: And also I'm not a very good reader, so they'll

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Speaker 2: Mean, Jeff, I know exactly how she felt in her

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Speaker 3: What she said, we're.

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Speaker 1: Basically asking for forgiveness, and your sister wrote back she said, well,

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Speaker 1: hundred percent forgive you. Oh, I will let you know.

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Speaker 1: I had a friend tell you that I moved out

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Speaker 1: I'm about seven blocks away.

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Speaker 4: From No, that's what. Yeah, that sounds ridiculous. I haven't

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Speaker 2: Like she wears eyes, she wears a mustache, maybe some sunglasses.

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Speaker 1: I mean, I don't know if she would go that far.

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Speaker 3: Are you shocked? I am shocked the casual sounding response.

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Speaker 4: I feel like I wouldn't put the mustache and loss

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Speaker 3: God' that's what you wanted.

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Speaker 4: Yeah, accountability is important, and like she has lacked accountability

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Speaker 4: in other situations, so like, yeah, I do still hold

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Speaker 1: Okay, Okay, we're asking for an apology from her. She

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Speaker 1: wrote back, Absolutely, I am sorry that that happened. I

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Speaker 3: Why is so reasonable?

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Speaker 1: And because she's sober when she's writing back, I think

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Speaker 1: the fights were all.

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Speaker 3: It's been a year, Jeff. I'm sure she's been sober

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Speaker 1: Sure, yeah, but she keeps going, She says, that's not

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Speaker 1: I knew it.

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Speaker 3: What is it? What is it?

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Speaker 1: Does she say?

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Speaker 2: Right?

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Speaker 5: What is it?

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Speaker 4: Like? I'm more confused now than ever, honestly.

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Speaker 1: Okay, well, maybe we'll get some more answers as we

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Speaker 1: in the closure call we sent. We haven't been able

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Speaker 1: is there anything else I should know? Your sister wrote back, well,

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Speaker 1: I'm nervous to tell you this, but the main reason

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Speaker 1: someone and we became very very close. Okay, please don't

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Speaker 1: I've been seeing your ex Ryan.

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Speaker 3: What gosh did you hear that?

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Speaker 1: Yeah?

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Speaker 4: I heard it, but like, no, I also did not

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Speaker 4: just hear that, because that is like, that is such

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Speaker 4: Literally lived together when she was living like a few

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Speaker 4: Are you kidding me?

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Speaker 1: You understand that's why she said she it's inappropriate, and that's.

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Speaker 4: Why she's that's disgusting. I'm completely disgusted. I'm not mad.

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Speaker 1: She does keep going and says, I'm really really sorry

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Speaker 1: it just happened, and we didn't want to hurt you,

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Speaker 4: Oh oh yeah, that's way. That's way better, right, that's

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Speaker 2: I love how she says, I don't want to hurt you,

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Speaker 3: Like what do you think? Yeah, are you still in

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Speaker 4: No? I mean, like I'm said that was the first

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Speaker 3: That's kind of creepy on his part.

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Speaker 5: Like and what if like what if they are like

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Speaker 1: I'm so sorry, but we're running out of time here,

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Speaker 1: and I have to get to the fourth and final

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Speaker 4: I get it.

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Speaker 1: So what we wrote to her was, I know we

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Speaker 1: fight sometimes, but I do really miss you. We're sisters

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Speaker 1: and we need to love and cherish each other. Is

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Speaker 2: Yeah?

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Speaker 4: Well, hard path?

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Speaker 2: Did you say hard pass?

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Speaker 4: Was red?

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Speaker 1: We write before we get entered the answers.

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Speaker 4: Back, So right, if that did not age, well, wait,

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Speaker 1: See it, she should see I'll tell you that she

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Speaker 1: did answer it. What say she wrote? Well, actually, Ryan

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Speaker 1: and dad know already about me and Ryan. They've known

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Speaker 4: Girl.

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Speaker 3: You'll show them you can handle it.

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Speaker 4: Right, ye, Like I'm literally speechless. I have no I

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Speaker 4: have no words. I mean, like what am I even

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Speaker 4: supposed to say to that? Like so, like my mom

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Speaker 4: and dad have been lying to me too, Like that's perfect,

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Speaker 4: that's great stuff.

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Speaker 3: Why well they could tell that you're I mean, you know, no, there's.

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Speaker 4: No excuse, Like you can't protect somebody by like hiding

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Speaker 4: the truth from them. You can't protect somebody by freezing

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Speaker 4: them out but not talking to them. Like none of

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Speaker 4: sitting here feeling guilty about some out of pocket comments

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Speaker 4: that I made when I was rightfully angry like that, like, okay, way.

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Speaker 3: More deep breath, deep breath. Does Ryan have a brother

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Speaker 3: you could date?

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Speaker 1: I'm just saying, yeah, Dad.

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Speaker 4: If anything, I will like I'm going after Ryan's dad.

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Speaker 1: Oh well, at least maybe the good news that came

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Speaker 4: I think after you sit with this, we'll communicate.

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Speaker 3: Okay, Well, I was going to.

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Speaker 2: Say, I think after you sit with this for a minute,

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Speaker 4: As I'm going to sit with it. On Ryan's dad's

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Speaker 1: D that was your closure fall.

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Speaker 2: I actually support that, Okay, Yeah, only if Ryan's dad's

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Speaker 2: rich Brook and Jeffrey in the morning brooking Jeffrey in

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Speaker 2: the morning,