1 00:00:01,880 --> 00:00:07,800 Speaker 1: Wine Down with Janet Kramer and I Heart Radio podcast. Okay, 2 00:00:07,800 --> 00:00:12,160 Speaker 1: it is a girl's episode, and I am so excited 3 00:00:12,360 --> 00:00:15,480 Speaker 1: because I have my girls with me, my rider dies, 4 00:00:15,880 --> 00:00:22,799 Speaker 1: Catherine and Pamel and what's so we just got back 5 00:00:22,920 --> 00:00:31,400 Speaker 1: from they know it felt like Vegas. We definitely were 6 00:00:31,440 --> 00:00:34,320 Speaker 1: not in Vegas. We were not We were in Miami. 7 00:00:34,479 --> 00:00:38,120 Speaker 1: We were in South Beach. How was it, girls? It 8 00:00:38,280 --> 00:00:41,400 Speaker 1: was great, epic, I would say. I mean it was 9 00:00:41,440 --> 00:00:45,120 Speaker 1: one of those where we all it's like sometimes you 10 00:00:45,159 --> 00:00:47,080 Speaker 1: just got to dress up and feel pretty, right, I 11 00:00:47,120 --> 00:00:48,720 Speaker 1: mean you kind of said it best. Yeah, I know, 12 00:00:48,840 --> 00:00:51,000 Speaker 1: like it's just good for your soul, you know. I 13 00:00:51,040 --> 00:00:54,160 Speaker 1: mean it's like we're moms, you know most of the times, 14 00:00:54,200 --> 00:00:57,040 Speaker 1: and we're coaches and we're you know, grinding it out 15 00:00:57,120 --> 00:00:59,480 Speaker 1: and then just to like go and feel sexy and 16 00:00:59,520 --> 00:01:01,600 Speaker 1: just know that you have like that side of you 17 00:01:01,720 --> 00:01:04,280 Speaker 1: two is just a good feeling that we should all 18 00:01:04,959 --> 00:01:08,039 Speaker 1: do often. Yeah, I know, it's true. And even when 19 00:01:08,120 --> 00:01:09,760 Speaker 1: we were like trying on clothes, I was like, I 20 00:01:09,760 --> 00:01:12,520 Speaker 1: feel kind of sexit Like is that like you know, 21 00:01:13,400 --> 00:01:15,600 Speaker 1: I could have done without the heels. That part was 22 00:01:15,600 --> 00:01:18,560 Speaker 1: a little rough, but yeah, but I mean it was 23 00:01:18,720 --> 00:01:20,360 Speaker 1: you know, like to your point, like Pamela, like you're 24 00:01:20,480 --> 00:01:23,200 Speaker 1: you're the kid's soccer coach, and you know, it's it's 25 00:01:23,280 --> 00:01:25,080 Speaker 1: it is nice to just like change it up a 26 00:01:25,120 --> 00:01:28,720 Speaker 1: little bit and and have you know, and feel feel 27 00:01:28,840 --> 00:01:30,480 Speaker 1: I feel like you's still got it. Yeah, I know. 28 00:01:30,560 --> 00:01:32,800 Speaker 1: I say like it was good. It was needed for 29 00:01:32,920 --> 00:01:36,080 Speaker 1: my soul as much as for yours. You know. Yeah, 30 00:01:36,200 --> 00:01:40,320 Speaker 1: but it was fun. We we had some good times. 31 00:01:40,400 --> 00:01:42,360 Speaker 1: We got on a yacht, we had Yeah, it was 32 00:01:42,480 --> 00:01:45,440 Speaker 1: it was all. It was all fun. But I'm so 33 00:01:45,520 --> 00:01:50,280 Speaker 1: excited for this podcast because we have someone who is 34 00:01:51,080 --> 00:01:57,120 Speaker 1: she's a legend. I mean, I'm so excited. Yeah, she's 35 00:01:58,640 --> 00:02:01,880 Speaker 1: I mean, she's she's she's amazing, and she is going 36 00:02:01,920 --> 00:02:05,160 Speaker 1: to Vegas because Shania Twain. So we have on. So 37 00:02:05,200 --> 00:02:06,800 Speaker 1: that's why I wanted to have my girls in the show, 38 00:02:06,880 --> 00:02:12,560 Speaker 1: because you know, let's go, girls, let's go. We just went. 39 00:02:12,880 --> 00:02:16,040 Speaker 1: But now we're like now you know, Shania Twain is 40 00:02:16,080 --> 00:02:17,679 Speaker 1: going to come on, and there's just so many things. 41 00:02:17,720 --> 00:02:21,040 Speaker 1: Actually I was when I was cleaning out because you know, 42 00:02:21,680 --> 00:02:25,960 Speaker 1: the house is being cleared of things, and so I'm 43 00:02:25,960 --> 00:02:29,600 Speaker 1: but I kind of love, uh, I like to get 44 00:02:29,680 --> 00:02:32,880 Speaker 1: rid of things. You know, so purging is so good. 45 00:02:32,919 --> 00:02:35,080 Speaker 1: So but when I was going through some of the 46 00:02:35,080 --> 00:02:37,520 Speaker 1: boxes in the addict and kind of separating our stuff, 47 00:02:37,880 --> 00:02:42,080 Speaker 1: I saw these videos that my aunt sent me and 48 00:02:42,120 --> 00:02:44,760 Speaker 1: she had took them from a VCR, which is so funny, 49 00:02:44,800 --> 00:02:47,320 Speaker 1: by the way, because it's a VCR tape, and then 50 00:02:47,320 --> 00:02:49,120 Speaker 1: she converted it to a DVD. But now I don't 51 00:02:49,120 --> 00:02:51,240 Speaker 1: have anywhere to play the DVD. We can get you 52 00:02:51,240 --> 00:02:54,120 Speaker 1: a DVD player, because it's a me lip sinking to 53 00:02:54,200 --> 00:02:58,200 Speaker 1: Shania Twain when I was in ninth grade, like, I'm 54 00:02:58,200 --> 00:03:03,520 Speaker 1: wearing my mom's prom dress, her like black nineteen the 55 00:03:03,560 --> 00:03:10,000 Speaker 1: eighties prompt or seventies prom dress, and I'm lip sinking that. 56 00:03:10,080 --> 00:03:13,880 Speaker 1: I'm sure it's I mean, we have ever they get 57 00:03:13,880 --> 00:03:15,880 Speaker 1: it on a drive? How do I do that? Okay? 58 00:03:16,160 --> 00:03:18,920 Speaker 1: It is it already a DVD. It's a DVD. We 59 00:03:18,960 --> 00:03:22,000 Speaker 1: can go to Target by a DVD player they still exist, 60 00:03:23,400 --> 00:03:27,120 Speaker 1: or Walmart. It'll be all right, there are still DVD players. 61 00:03:27,639 --> 00:03:30,720 Speaker 1: They're not extinct. We can do it. We're not that old. 62 00:03:31,160 --> 00:03:37,280 Speaker 1: I mean, will our kids ever buy a DVD player? Though? No? CD? No, 63 00:03:38,080 --> 00:03:40,280 Speaker 1: isn't that kind of sad. I was in church their 64 00:03:40,360 --> 00:03:42,080 Speaker 1: day did you see the message in church their day 65 00:03:42,160 --> 00:03:45,560 Speaker 1: where he was he was basically like he was the 66 00:03:45,640 --> 00:03:48,320 Speaker 1: lost art, like of all these things and that was 67 00:03:48,360 --> 00:03:51,840 Speaker 1: like a boom box and like boom box, and then 68 00:03:51,840 --> 00:03:54,520 Speaker 1: he then the DVD player and because it's all those things, 69 00:03:54,560 --> 00:03:56,240 Speaker 1: that's kind of like, I don't know, getting off on 70 00:03:56,240 --> 00:04:01,440 Speaker 1: a tangent, but um, what is your's favorite twins? Oh? 71 00:04:02,080 --> 00:04:06,440 Speaker 1: Any man of mine for sure, who's under who's been 72 00:04:06,560 --> 00:04:11,560 Speaker 1: heavy bootsmen? And then any man in mine? I feel 73 00:04:11,560 --> 00:04:16,520 Speaker 1: like that should be my mom better be proud of me, 74 00:04:17,279 --> 00:04:26,120 Speaker 1: even when ugly and for a date that's fun. Yes, 75 00:04:27,680 --> 00:04:31,280 Speaker 1: I have a good voice. Oh oh that's good one 76 00:04:31,279 --> 00:04:36,119 Speaker 1: of our producers. Honey, I'm home in our day home. 77 00:04:38,839 --> 00:04:43,039 Speaker 1: Have a dog bone. Hey, hey, honey, I'm home. She 78 00:04:43,120 --> 00:04:46,560 Speaker 1: just has so many, so many and that just I 79 00:04:46,600 --> 00:04:49,080 Speaker 1: feel like resonate with just so many people, you know, 80 00:04:50,760 --> 00:04:53,920 Speaker 1: I can't wait to talk to her. Um. Yeah, I'm 81 00:04:53,960 --> 00:04:56,320 Speaker 1: immediately in a better mood because I feel like today, 82 00:04:57,120 --> 00:04:58,560 Speaker 1: you know when you just wake up in a funk, 83 00:04:59,279 --> 00:05:01,240 Speaker 1: that was me today. I mean, I know I have 84 00:05:01,279 --> 00:05:03,560 Speaker 1: a lot of life changes, but like it wasn't even 85 00:05:03,560 --> 00:05:05,080 Speaker 1: because of that. I just kind of woke up like 86 00:05:05,360 --> 00:05:09,359 Speaker 1: me annoyed. He can bring you joy though. Oh she 87 00:05:09,520 --> 00:05:16,920 Speaker 1: for sure ken, I mean obviously, but her story is fascinating. Yeah. 88 00:05:16,960 --> 00:05:19,960 Speaker 1: I have a lot of questions because she I have 89 00:05:20,000 --> 00:05:23,080 Speaker 1: a lot of questions, A lot of questions because she married, 90 00:05:23,360 --> 00:05:26,520 Speaker 1: so she got divorced to her he was producer, got 91 00:05:26,560 --> 00:05:29,840 Speaker 1: divorced from him, who basically he I don't want to 92 00:05:29,839 --> 00:05:31,440 Speaker 1: say like he made. I hate when it's like he 93 00:05:31,560 --> 00:05:35,479 Speaker 1: made her, but I mean like his he had a 94 00:05:35,520 --> 00:05:37,479 Speaker 1: lot to do with her success and her sound and 95 00:05:37,520 --> 00:05:40,599 Speaker 1: all that she made herself. But I mean he helped, 96 00:05:41,560 --> 00:05:45,000 Speaker 1: uh you know, get it out there in a in 97 00:05:45,040 --> 00:05:50,840 Speaker 1: a really thank you off um. But they got divorced 98 00:05:50,920 --> 00:05:54,640 Speaker 1: and then her husband now was the best friend of 99 00:05:54,680 --> 00:05:56,680 Speaker 1: the It's just like, how do I how do I 100 00:05:56,680 --> 00:06:01,040 Speaker 1: describe the girl that he was cheating on with. Yeah, 101 00:06:01,120 --> 00:06:04,200 Speaker 1: it's like a couple of best friends. And so they 102 00:06:04,279 --> 00:06:07,200 Speaker 1: just like swapped. I don't know if I could do that, 103 00:06:08,360 --> 00:06:10,160 Speaker 1: and like are they all cool? Now? That's like if 104 00:06:10,200 --> 00:06:11,599 Speaker 1: I was like you you know what I mean, like 105 00:06:11,680 --> 00:06:17,000 Speaker 1: you know, like you married Mike, Oh, let's not go 106 00:06:17,200 --> 00:06:21,680 Speaker 1: that far. And then and then you know, I'm married Nick, 107 00:06:21,760 --> 00:06:24,279 Speaker 1: and it's like that I don't know, but I didn't 108 00:06:24,279 --> 00:06:26,880 Speaker 1: even imagine, Like I know one other couple that that 109 00:06:27,000 --> 00:06:29,839 Speaker 1: happened to just like a you know, family kind of 110 00:06:29,920 --> 00:06:33,200 Speaker 1: friend situation. Um, and no, they didn't hang out. I 111 00:06:33,240 --> 00:06:36,919 Speaker 1: mean I didn't hang out. And you wonder like, was 112 00:06:37,000 --> 00:06:41,320 Speaker 1: there like those kind of you know, underlying feelings. Well 113 00:06:42,000 --> 00:06:45,120 Speaker 1: obviously for for her ex husband and the woman obviously, 114 00:06:45,120 --> 00:06:47,160 Speaker 1: because I mean they were but then again, maybe she 115 00:06:47,279 --> 00:06:50,280 Speaker 1: had the feelings too though for him. I'm saying it 116 00:06:50,400 --> 00:06:52,920 Speaker 1: might have been something there already. See that's like so 117 00:06:53,000 --> 00:06:55,479 Speaker 1: interesting to me because that would eat me up every 118 00:06:55,520 --> 00:06:57,560 Speaker 1: time I'm like, oh we had that like game night, 119 00:06:57,640 --> 00:07:02,160 Speaker 1: like were you given giving each other eyes? And then 120 00:07:02,240 --> 00:07:04,640 Speaker 1: was I giving the other guy eyes? Like? I mean, 121 00:07:04,680 --> 00:07:07,039 Speaker 1: I love how things always work out, but it is interesting. 122 00:07:07,080 --> 00:07:09,320 Speaker 1: I would just trust you know, that was probably like 123 00:07:09,920 --> 00:07:11,960 Speaker 1: God's plan from the beginning and we just have to 124 00:07:12,040 --> 00:07:14,720 Speaker 1: roll with it. Right. Oh, that'd be a hard one 125 00:07:14,800 --> 00:07:19,480 Speaker 1: to I'm all about God's plan and I am all 126 00:07:19,480 --> 00:07:22,280 Speaker 1: about God's plans too, but I I you know, my 127 00:07:22,480 --> 00:07:24,160 Speaker 1: X ends up with one of my best friends, that's 128 00:07:24,160 --> 00:07:27,120 Speaker 1: going to be a really hard I'm pretty sure that's 129 00:07:27,160 --> 00:07:32,120 Speaker 1: not gonna that will never happen. Maybe it's God's plans. 130 00:07:33,040 --> 00:07:38,760 Speaker 1: All right, take it back, But I'm saying she's so happy, 131 00:07:38,960 --> 00:07:42,040 Speaker 1: you know what I mean for her to be with him, 132 00:07:42,120 --> 00:07:45,600 Speaker 1: you know, I mean, you know, do we know how 133 00:07:45,640 --> 00:07:51,680 Speaker 1: long after she got with the man? No, I don't 134 00:07:51,680 --> 00:07:55,760 Speaker 1: have questions. Sorry, I'm not gonna ask that questions. Never mind. 135 00:07:56,960 --> 00:08:00,840 Speaker 1: It is interesting though, Um, but I am should we 136 00:08:00,840 --> 00:08:02,280 Speaker 1: go to Vegas? I feel like we have to go 137 00:08:02,320 --> 00:08:04,920 Speaker 1: to Vegas for this residency because I've never seen her live. 138 00:08:05,360 --> 00:08:08,240 Speaker 1: I mean I listened to her all the time. You 139 00:08:08,280 --> 00:08:11,160 Speaker 1: have to go and it's going to be December. And 140 00:08:11,520 --> 00:08:16,600 Speaker 1: in December, so we had divorce party. We're going to 141 00:08:16,720 --> 00:08:20,280 Speaker 1: have like now we're gonna have let's go girls, because 142 00:08:20,280 --> 00:08:24,760 Speaker 1: now it's all about positive and happy. Yeah, it'll be 143 00:08:24,800 --> 00:08:27,720 Speaker 1: like six months after D Day and that's when you 144 00:08:27,840 --> 00:08:33,920 Speaker 1: kind of you know, let's go girls. It's perfect. Holy moly. Well, 145 00:08:34,080 --> 00:08:37,400 Speaker 1: I'm so excited and I can't wait to get the 146 00:08:37,520 --> 00:08:41,880 Speaker 1: one and only Shania Twain on Wine Down after the break. 147 00:08:42,400 --> 00:08:58,400 Speaker 1: Oh we're gonn. I'm so excited. Okay, so Shania will 148 00:08:58,440 --> 00:09:00,560 Speaker 1: be on soon. But I just got come from should that. 149 00:09:01,400 --> 00:09:04,320 Speaker 1: I believe we are going to the opening night in 150 00:09:04,440 --> 00:09:11,160 Speaker 1: Vegas to see Shaniya Let's go girls on my birthday. 151 00:09:12,360 --> 00:09:16,440 Speaker 1: Like things are looking up guys, you know, you know 152 00:09:16,679 --> 00:09:18,720 Speaker 1: the other day, Katherine, when you were in the podcast 153 00:09:18,800 --> 00:09:24,080 Speaker 1: and you're like, I'm excited for you. I'm excited see there. Yeah, 154 00:09:24,480 --> 00:09:26,920 Speaker 1: it just takes a few months. Oh, I'm so happy 155 00:09:26,960 --> 00:09:29,800 Speaker 1: to be like on the trip with you, you know, 156 00:09:29,840 --> 00:09:32,000 Speaker 1: like I mean on the journey, you know, like I 157 00:09:32,200 --> 00:09:34,319 Speaker 1: just cannot wait, Like I just know it's going to 158 00:09:34,400 --> 00:09:37,959 Speaker 1: be beautiful. What is it for like friends when they 159 00:09:37,960 --> 00:09:39,720 Speaker 1: go through that, because it's like I see, like I'm 160 00:09:39,760 --> 00:09:42,280 Speaker 1: so thankful for y'all. But what is it like for 161 00:09:42,480 --> 00:09:46,160 Speaker 1: on the other side of things? I mean, you know, 162 00:09:46,320 --> 00:09:48,320 Speaker 1: with me, I mean cripe, I got sick, you know, 163 00:09:48,520 --> 00:09:52,520 Speaker 1: just from like dealing, um, dealing with all of it 164 00:09:52,600 --> 00:09:57,760 Speaker 1: going down, Like it literally took me to an illness. Um. 165 00:09:57,800 --> 00:10:00,640 Speaker 1: So it's I mean because I just care, you know, 166 00:10:00,760 --> 00:10:02,560 Speaker 1: like I mean, I just love you so much. And 167 00:10:02,559 --> 00:10:06,520 Speaker 1: it was like so um, like deep and layered and 168 00:10:07,000 --> 00:10:09,400 Speaker 1: you know, like sad and for so many levels. But 169 00:10:09,960 --> 00:10:13,600 Speaker 1: I am just so proud of you know, like how 170 00:10:13,640 --> 00:10:15,600 Speaker 1: you've come out of this so far. And it's like 171 00:10:15,640 --> 00:10:18,760 Speaker 1: only the beginning, and I'm just I'm proud as hell 172 00:10:18,840 --> 00:10:20,960 Speaker 1: of you. Like I'm so proud. I mean I could cry, 173 00:10:21,160 --> 00:10:24,959 Speaker 1: you know, because we didn't know me and we didn't 174 00:10:24,960 --> 00:10:27,959 Speaker 1: know how this was going to go down. Yeah, I 175 00:10:27,960 --> 00:10:30,120 Speaker 1: mean we didn't know. But at the same time, I 176 00:10:30,200 --> 00:10:33,319 Speaker 1: knew we'd get here, so I wasn't as like, I 177 00:10:33,360 --> 00:10:36,200 Speaker 1: knew we'd get here eventually. And now that we're here, ladies, 178 00:10:36,280 --> 00:10:46,439 Speaker 1: let's get Shania on the funnies. Oh there you are, Shania. 179 00:10:47,320 --> 00:10:50,120 Speaker 1: Oh my goodness, girl, I can't even First of all, 180 00:10:50,120 --> 00:10:53,600 Speaker 1: my name is Janna, this is Catherine, and this is Pamelin. 181 00:10:54,679 --> 00:10:57,720 Speaker 1: Thank you so much for doing this podcast. I'm just like, 182 00:10:57,920 --> 00:11:01,240 Speaker 1: you are an idol of mine for for so many years, 183 00:11:01,280 --> 00:11:04,800 Speaker 1: so this is a true honor. Well it's I mean, 184 00:11:04,800 --> 00:11:08,160 Speaker 1: the plugure is mine. Thank you, Thanks for having me. 185 00:11:08,400 --> 00:11:12,000 Speaker 1: So you are going back on tour. You are going 186 00:11:12,040 --> 00:11:14,839 Speaker 1: to be doing your residency in Vegas. How excited are 187 00:11:14,880 --> 00:11:17,240 Speaker 1: you just to get back, especially with everything that's been 188 00:11:17,240 --> 00:11:21,000 Speaker 1: going on the last year or so well, I mean 189 00:11:21,040 --> 00:11:24,640 Speaker 1: it's already been over a year. I was, you know, 190 00:11:24,960 --> 00:11:31,320 Speaker 1: just doing my show in Vegas and in March Plug 191 00:11:31,360 --> 00:11:34,000 Speaker 1: got pulled, like you know, for every like everybody else, 192 00:11:34,160 --> 00:11:37,480 Speaker 1: and I never got a chance to say goodbye to 193 00:11:37,920 --> 00:11:41,320 Speaker 1: the fans, to the you know, to the dancers, to 194 00:11:41,400 --> 00:11:46,079 Speaker 1: the band, to the crew. So um, I'm just ready 195 00:11:46,120 --> 00:11:50,360 Speaker 1: to get back and get in a big hug, I mean, 196 00:11:50,480 --> 00:11:54,440 Speaker 1: just like you know, old fashioned hug and have fun 197 00:11:54,480 --> 00:11:58,080 Speaker 1: again and and be together for sure. I mean, what's 198 00:11:58,200 --> 00:12:01,360 Speaker 1: what makes this different this time around? I mean what, like, 199 00:12:01,800 --> 00:12:04,480 Speaker 1: obviously it's been a while since you've gone out and performed, 200 00:12:04,520 --> 00:12:06,000 Speaker 1: but is there something where you're just gonna are you 201 00:12:06,040 --> 00:12:07,920 Speaker 1: gonna like take it in a little bit more, or 202 00:12:08,000 --> 00:12:09,960 Speaker 1: is there one thing that you're just like really looking 203 00:12:09,960 --> 00:12:17,120 Speaker 1: forward to to doing again. I mean, I've missed Vegas, 204 00:12:17,640 --> 00:12:20,959 Speaker 1: and I mean I'm like I say, like I'm I've 205 00:12:20,960 --> 00:12:23,160 Speaker 1: been lonely for Vegas and does not make any sense really, 206 00:12:23,200 --> 00:12:29,920 Speaker 1: but um, I've just missed uh being in the spirit 207 00:12:29,960 --> 00:12:34,640 Speaker 1: of Las Vegas and on the stage sharing what I 208 00:12:34,760 --> 00:12:38,440 Speaker 1: love and what I do. I mean, I've created this 209 00:12:38,600 --> 00:12:43,240 Speaker 1: show and all this fashion and all this um music 210 00:12:43,480 --> 00:12:47,520 Speaker 1: and design, and I'm not able to share it. So 211 00:12:47,520 --> 00:12:50,800 Speaker 1: there's nothing more frustrating than that. So um, it's gonna 212 00:12:50,800 --> 00:12:54,440 Speaker 1: be a big relief. It's gonna be I think it'll 213 00:12:54,440 --> 00:12:58,960 Speaker 1: be emotional too. Um, just being able to reconnect with 214 00:12:59,000 --> 00:13:02,120 Speaker 1: everybody again. And and I've even got like a little 215 00:13:02,480 --> 00:13:08,160 Speaker 1: another little party share in the show. So are you 216 00:13:08,200 --> 00:13:10,839 Speaker 1: guys already rehearsing or will you all have to wait 217 00:13:10,840 --> 00:13:13,800 Speaker 1: a little while or how wout that work this go around? Um, 218 00:13:13,800 --> 00:13:22,280 Speaker 1: I'll go into rehearsals probably um late November, and um yeah, 219 00:13:22,320 --> 00:13:24,640 Speaker 1: and then all the and ends. I'm going to be 220 00:13:24,720 --> 00:13:29,480 Speaker 1: adding a little you know, like holiday spirit to the 221 00:13:29,520 --> 00:13:32,760 Speaker 1: show as well. Being December and my first you know 222 00:13:32,880 --> 00:13:36,440 Speaker 1: time back after so long, so I'll be doing something 223 00:13:36,520 --> 00:13:40,760 Speaker 1: holiday in there which will be just great and heartfelt. 224 00:13:40,880 --> 00:13:43,840 Speaker 1: And then oh and then in February, she scored me, 225 00:13:44,160 --> 00:13:46,040 Speaker 1: I have more shows in February, and I'm going to 226 00:13:46,160 --> 00:13:50,920 Speaker 1: do a very like romantic theme show on Valentine's Day. 227 00:13:51,040 --> 00:13:55,480 Speaker 1: So I'm just busy being like anxious and impatient about 228 00:13:55,480 --> 00:13:59,200 Speaker 1: getting back and coming up with more things to add 229 00:13:59,200 --> 00:14:03,440 Speaker 1: in the show. Um. So on a personal note, I'm 230 00:14:03,480 --> 00:14:05,360 Speaker 1: I'm going through a divorce right now, and obviously I 231 00:14:05,400 --> 00:14:08,560 Speaker 1: know that we share that in common. Is there one 232 00:14:08,679 --> 00:14:11,760 Speaker 1: thing that you can tell me or that something that 233 00:14:11,800 --> 00:14:15,880 Speaker 1: helped you kind of regain your confidence, regain your energy 234 00:14:15,960 --> 00:14:21,120 Speaker 1: and your light again after um that you know that breakup. 235 00:14:21,880 --> 00:14:26,520 Speaker 1: Oh that's I'm sorry to hear that. Um. Even you 236 00:14:26,520 --> 00:14:29,320 Speaker 1: know sometimes it's for the better to be a part 237 00:14:29,360 --> 00:14:34,000 Speaker 1: and you know, not to not be together. But um, 238 00:14:34,040 --> 00:14:36,880 Speaker 1: even just through this COVID bit, I would say that 239 00:14:36,920 --> 00:14:44,240 Speaker 1: my advice is to search for your own Um. I 240 00:14:44,240 --> 00:14:47,960 Speaker 1: mean I always used the word escape because I like 241 00:14:48,080 --> 00:14:50,960 Speaker 1: to get You know, you've got to use your imagination. 242 00:14:51,120 --> 00:14:53,880 Speaker 1: You have to dig deep and say, okay, where is 243 00:14:53,960 --> 00:15:01,240 Speaker 1: my happy place? And um, get yourself unstuck. There's no 244 00:15:01,320 --> 00:15:03,640 Speaker 1: easy way and you're the only person that can do it. 245 00:15:03,720 --> 00:15:07,760 Speaker 1: So I don't know if you're stuck, but um, I 246 00:15:07,880 --> 00:15:12,880 Speaker 1: certainly was when I got divorced. And I know a 247 00:15:12,920 --> 00:15:15,360 Speaker 1: lot of people feel stuck now with this COVID and 248 00:15:15,600 --> 00:15:18,920 Speaker 1: um the isolation and all the limitations. So we have 249 00:15:19,160 --> 00:15:21,920 Speaker 1: I go to music, for example, So I turned to music. 250 00:15:22,080 --> 00:15:24,680 Speaker 1: That is my inspiration. That is where I say, Okay, 251 00:15:25,280 --> 00:15:27,560 Speaker 1: I want to feel happy. I need to feel happy, 252 00:15:27,600 --> 00:15:29,720 Speaker 1: I need to feel good, I need to feel confident, 253 00:15:29,800 --> 00:15:33,520 Speaker 1: I need to feel uplifted. And I go to music. 254 00:15:33,640 --> 00:15:37,600 Speaker 1: That's my medicine. Yeah, I love that. And when you 255 00:15:37,680 --> 00:15:40,240 Speaker 1: weren't able to go to music for those years when 256 00:15:40,280 --> 00:15:43,720 Speaker 1: you took the break, Like what, um did you feel 257 00:15:43,760 --> 00:15:46,080 Speaker 1: lost or what other things did you do to like, 258 00:15:46,600 --> 00:15:50,240 Speaker 1: you know, find your your identity and like find yourself again. 259 00:15:51,880 --> 00:15:53,840 Speaker 1: I always go to whatever it is that makes me 260 00:15:53,920 --> 00:16:01,000 Speaker 1: feel happy. And sometimes it's just um the roses. I mean, 261 00:16:01,040 --> 00:16:04,520 Speaker 1: I know what that might sound really like corny, but 262 00:16:04,640 --> 00:16:10,000 Speaker 1: I love that, you know, being in nature. My child 263 00:16:10,120 --> 00:16:12,480 Speaker 1: at the time when I lost comes a new mom. 264 00:16:12,600 --> 00:16:17,320 Speaker 1: So um, I just dove into being the best mom 265 00:16:17,360 --> 00:16:20,560 Speaker 1: I could and loving that. And I think and I 266 00:16:20,720 --> 00:16:24,720 Speaker 1: filled up. I think wherever your gaps are or your 267 00:16:25,720 --> 00:16:27,920 Speaker 1: um emptiness is, you have to fill out up with 268 00:16:27,920 --> 00:16:31,720 Speaker 1: other things. You just um, you got to fill them 269 00:16:31,760 --> 00:16:33,960 Speaker 1: up with things that make you feel good. And what 270 00:16:34,040 --> 00:16:37,320 Speaker 1: about when you know that new relationship or that new 271 00:16:37,400 --> 00:16:39,600 Speaker 1: kind of like flirt comes in, Like was it hard 272 00:16:39,640 --> 00:16:41,880 Speaker 1: for you to open yourself back up again to that? 273 00:16:41,920 --> 00:16:44,640 Speaker 1: Because I feel like I'm like, I'm excited, and I 274 00:16:44,680 --> 00:16:46,920 Speaker 1: know that I deserve that because I haven't had I 275 00:16:46,960 --> 00:16:49,040 Speaker 1: haven't been happy for a really long time. But I 276 00:16:49,080 --> 00:16:52,000 Speaker 1: also am like I get scared because like, oh my gosh, 277 00:16:52,080 --> 00:16:54,080 Speaker 1: is it too soon or like you know, should so 278 00:16:54,080 --> 00:16:57,240 Speaker 1: it's like I'm I'm I'm almost like fighting with myself 279 00:16:57,400 --> 00:16:59,680 Speaker 1: when it's like, why shouldn't I just be you know, 280 00:17:00,040 --> 00:17:02,040 Speaker 1: will allow that flirt to happen or allow this to 281 00:17:02,120 --> 00:17:04,000 Speaker 1: like come into my life. So I'm just curious, like 282 00:17:04,040 --> 00:17:07,879 Speaker 1: how you went away through that. I think it's a 283 00:17:08,480 --> 00:17:13,960 Speaker 1: I personally think it's a good thing to care about 284 00:17:13,960 --> 00:17:20,840 Speaker 1: yourself enough to hum, I'm all into something that's going 285 00:17:20,880 --> 00:17:25,520 Speaker 1: to make you unhappy again, I would say, focus on 286 00:17:25,520 --> 00:17:29,000 Speaker 1: yourself and if you're not, even if you're I just 287 00:17:29,040 --> 00:17:32,439 Speaker 1: think patience is a great great thing to exercise. And 288 00:17:33,800 --> 00:17:39,760 Speaker 1: when you're falling in love again and it's all moven fun. Um, 289 00:17:39,800 --> 00:17:42,200 Speaker 1: I don't know. I think sometimes waiting a little bit 290 00:17:42,320 --> 00:17:44,840 Speaker 1: is a good thing. It makes you dream more, makes 291 00:17:44,840 --> 00:17:49,160 Speaker 1: it even better in the end. And I say, don't rush. 292 00:17:49,520 --> 00:17:54,200 Speaker 1: If you're not fighting, If you're fighting with yourself, um, 293 00:17:54,400 --> 00:18:00,520 Speaker 1: you're probably maybe not ready. I just I would say earlier, 294 00:18:00,560 --> 00:18:02,760 Speaker 1: how when I was twelve years old or not twelve 295 00:18:02,800 --> 00:18:05,919 Speaker 1: years old, I was like fourteen fifteen, I was I 296 00:18:06,040 --> 00:18:08,320 Speaker 1: lip synced one of your songs because I used to 297 00:18:08,320 --> 00:18:10,280 Speaker 1: do like these like stupid videos because I wanted to 298 00:18:10,280 --> 00:18:14,000 Speaker 1: be a country singer. And I I have a DVD 299 00:18:14,280 --> 00:18:17,000 Speaker 1: of me lip syncing to your songs and my mom's 300 00:18:17,040 --> 00:18:18,919 Speaker 1: prom dress, and so the fact that I'm even like 301 00:18:19,000 --> 00:18:22,120 Speaker 1: talking to and just told you that story, like I'm humiliated, 302 00:18:22,200 --> 00:18:25,920 Speaker 1: but you know, I I love how you because you know, 303 00:18:25,960 --> 00:18:29,479 Speaker 1: I did country music for like you know, I still do. 304 00:18:29,640 --> 00:18:33,520 Speaker 1: But I I love the fact that, like you didn't 305 00:18:33,520 --> 00:18:35,680 Speaker 1: make any apologies for your sound and at the time, 306 00:18:35,720 --> 00:18:37,800 Speaker 1: it's like, oh, everyone thought that you were so poppy, 307 00:18:37,800 --> 00:18:39,239 Speaker 1: and it's like, now I listened to your song, I'm 308 00:18:39,280 --> 00:18:41,560 Speaker 1: like you were so country, you know, compared to what 309 00:18:41,640 --> 00:18:43,800 Speaker 1: it is now, but you just didn't care. And I 310 00:18:43,840 --> 00:18:46,840 Speaker 1: love that about you, and I just I yeah, but 311 00:18:47,160 --> 00:18:50,680 Speaker 1: I like what you said about the Brad Pitt. Yeah, 312 00:18:50,920 --> 00:18:53,560 Speaker 1: we want to know, like in that you know, the 313 00:18:53,640 --> 00:18:56,760 Speaker 1: one sentence in the in your song about who do 314 00:18:56,800 --> 00:18:59,120 Speaker 1: you think you are? Brad Pitt? Like how did you 315 00:18:59,280 --> 00:19:02,040 Speaker 1: choose at Pit out of like all of the famous 316 00:19:02,080 --> 00:19:04,360 Speaker 1: men you know during that time? And we think it's 317 00:19:04,400 --> 00:19:08,200 Speaker 1: so crazy because it's still resonates today because he's still 318 00:19:08,600 --> 00:19:11,000 Speaker 1: so great and so hot, Like how did how did 319 00:19:11,040 --> 00:19:15,000 Speaker 1: you choose him? I mean I was thinking with a 320 00:19:15,040 --> 00:19:17,760 Speaker 1: smile on my face, and how I mean the most 321 00:19:17,880 --> 00:19:22,439 Speaker 1: obvious you know, I mean still now, but even in 322 00:19:22,480 --> 00:19:24,680 Speaker 1: that moment, it's like, Okay, who is the most obvious 323 00:19:24,720 --> 00:19:27,399 Speaker 1: guy that everybody is obviously impressed with. It's gonna be 324 00:19:27,400 --> 00:19:31,320 Speaker 1: Brad Pitt or it was for me. Um. And so 325 00:19:31,359 --> 00:19:33,360 Speaker 1: I did that, you know, with a sense of humor 326 00:19:33,520 --> 00:19:39,800 Speaker 1: and certainly no insult Bradfitt know you know, Um, So 327 00:19:39,840 --> 00:19:41,800 Speaker 1: it was it was a little bit of an indulgence 328 00:19:42,200 --> 00:19:44,560 Speaker 1: in sense of humor and just having fun with that. 329 00:19:44,600 --> 00:19:48,679 Speaker 1: I mean, of course, even a rocket scientist or you 330 00:19:48,680 --> 00:19:52,840 Speaker 1: already know, it's very very instive. Um. And bradfat was 331 00:19:52,880 --> 00:19:58,159 Speaker 1: on my mind. He was going through a lot of like, um, 332 00:19:58,200 --> 00:20:01,760 Speaker 1: a lot of tabloid pressure and all that sort of thing, 333 00:20:01,760 --> 00:20:04,600 Speaker 1: and I just thought, there's nothing like a bit of 334 00:20:04,600 --> 00:20:08,360 Speaker 1: comic relief and just have a little bit of a 335 00:20:08,480 --> 00:20:12,080 Speaker 1: laugh and some fun with lyrics. I mean it even 336 00:20:12,119 --> 00:20:14,200 Speaker 1: works to this day. So that's so great because it's 337 00:20:14,200 --> 00:20:16,280 Speaker 1: like you could have picked someone that wasn't you know, 338 00:20:16,320 --> 00:20:18,199 Speaker 1: I mean he might have been a star then, but 339 00:20:18,280 --> 00:20:21,240 Speaker 1: he wouldn't be you know, So like you did great 340 00:20:21,320 --> 00:20:24,040 Speaker 1: on that Evergreen. Is there a song that you have 341 00:20:24,119 --> 00:20:28,200 Speaker 1: a hard time singing? Oh my gosh, of my own 342 00:20:29,400 --> 00:20:33,000 Speaker 1: or anything of your own that like either you don't 343 00:20:33,040 --> 00:20:36,280 Speaker 1: like or you are just like it it because it's 344 00:20:36,440 --> 00:20:38,399 Speaker 1: or it hits you and it reminds you of something. 345 00:20:39,680 --> 00:20:43,439 Speaker 1: Uh yeah, you're still the one can do that to something. 346 00:20:45,160 --> 00:20:47,879 Speaker 1: And because it was so true in the moment, I 347 00:20:47,880 --> 00:20:52,359 Speaker 1: really felt that way. And so sometimes when I'm singing 348 00:20:52,359 --> 00:20:57,440 Speaker 1: and I'm like, Okay, I don't really mean that same 349 00:20:57,440 --> 00:21:00,920 Speaker 1: way anymore, and I have to Um, it doesn't mean 350 00:21:00,960 --> 00:21:03,159 Speaker 1: the same thing either to me now, so I have 351 00:21:03,280 --> 00:21:09,639 Speaker 1: to find another reason to believe in the song. So 352 00:21:09,680 --> 00:21:12,960 Speaker 1: I'm genuine when I'm singing it, right, if you're when 353 00:21:13,000 --> 00:21:17,080 Speaker 1: your life has changed, Um, you have to find another 354 00:21:17,200 --> 00:21:22,760 Speaker 1: another reason, another meaning behind the sentiment. And for me, honestly, 355 00:21:23,080 --> 00:21:25,639 Speaker 1: so many people have gotten married to that song and 356 00:21:25,720 --> 00:21:31,200 Speaker 1: engaged to that song and are celebrating anniversaries to still 357 00:21:31,240 --> 00:21:35,560 Speaker 1: the one that it's a renewed emotion for me to 358 00:21:35,680 --> 00:21:40,080 Speaker 1: know that people have taken it on as their own story, 359 00:21:41,800 --> 00:21:45,000 Speaker 1: and I kind of feel like I've written it for 360 00:21:45,000 --> 00:21:48,320 Speaker 1: for all of them. It's a it's a funny. It's 361 00:21:48,359 --> 00:21:52,800 Speaker 1: a funny thing that once you share your your music, 362 00:21:53,280 --> 00:21:57,800 Speaker 1: it belongs to the listener. M and that has made 363 00:21:57,840 --> 00:22:00,800 Speaker 1: it easier for me with that song. But yeah, so 364 00:22:00,840 --> 00:22:02,600 Speaker 1: I have to get into I have to go through 365 00:22:02,640 --> 00:22:08,080 Speaker 1: that um process. When I'm doing it, every once in 366 00:22:08,119 --> 00:22:11,359 Speaker 1: a while it does grab me. That's a good tip 367 00:22:11,400 --> 00:22:14,080 Speaker 1: because this other well, like a week ago, I was 368 00:22:14,160 --> 00:22:16,760 Speaker 1: I played my first show and I didn't realize how 369 00:22:16,800 --> 00:22:21,120 Speaker 1: many songs were tied to my ex and we started 370 00:22:21,240 --> 00:22:23,399 Speaker 1: playing a song and it was, you know, it was 371 00:22:23,440 --> 00:22:25,119 Speaker 1: my song called love like I Still Believe in You, 372 00:22:25,400 --> 00:22:28,399 Speaker 1: and I just I looked at my guitar guitar player 373 00:22:28,400 --> 00:22:31,080 Speaker 1: and I couldn't, like I was, I physically couldn't saying. 374 00:22:31,080 --> 00:22:32,440 Speaker 1: I just started crying and I was just like, we 375 00:22:32,520 --> 00:22:34,879 Speaker 1: gotta stop the song because I'm like, I don't and 376 00:22:34,920 --> 00:22:37,399 Speaker 1: it was I was so embarrassed. But it's like, you 377 00:22:37,440 --> 00:22:40,800 Speaker 1: don't know how like how close those songs are, do 378 00:22:40,800 --> 00:22:42,520 Speaker 1: you when you write them and you sing them and 379 00:22:42,520 --> 00:22:46,400 Speaker 1: you perform them, and like who they remind you of? Too? 380 00:22:46,480 --> 00:22:49,040 Speaker 1: So I like how you are able to change that. 381 00:22:49,200 --> 00:22:52,080 Speaker 1: I mean, it's better to let it out anyway. And 382 00:22:52,119 --> 00:22:54,960 Speaker 1: then I think that once it, once it goes, I 383 00:22:55,080 --> 00:22:56,800 Speaker 1: just don't have a lot of back game again, you know, 384 00:22:56,920 --> 00:23:01,080 Speaker 1: just let that stuff flow. I and I think that 385 00:23:01,080 --> 00:23:03,320 Speaker 1: those I think those songs just take on your meaning. 386 00:23:03,760 --> 00:23:07,200 Speaker 1: I really do. And then once they do, it's, um, 387 00:23:07,240 --> 00:23:09,120 Speaker 1: there's a whole other light on it. And like I said, 388 00:23:09,160 --> 00:23:10,920 Speaker 1: I mean, I think it's that it's what it means 389 00:23:10,960 --> 00:23:17,080 Speaker 1: to the fans. Really, Um, that matters so much to me. Now, um, 390 00:23:17,119 --> 00:23:19,399 Speaker 1: I've had so many great stories. I just I just 391 00:23:19,480 --> 00:23:23,200 Speaker 1: heard this populous storage. I gotta share it with you. Okay, 392 00:23:23,480 --> 00:23:30,159 Speaker 1: perfect example. So from this moment on, oh no, even 393 00:23:30,240 --> 00:23:35,000 Speaker 1: better now okay, because this has happened, but from the 394 00:23:35,000 --> 00:23:38,360 Speaker 1: smullment on as well. But man, I feel like a woman. Okay, 395 00:23:38,600 --> 00:23:44,000 Speaker 1: so this lady, this is her first baby she puts on, Man, 396 00:23:44,040 --> 00:23:47,760 Speaker 1: I feel like a woman, lasting it during her delivery 397 00:23:49,280 --> 00:23:52,639 Speaker 1: and of course screaming along with it during her pains 398 00:23:52,720 --> 00:23:58,360 Speaker 1: and has a baby girl. I'm thinking, Okay, I mean 399 00:23:58,400 --> 00:24:01,440 Speaker 1: now I'm never gonna see that on me the same again. 400 00:24:01,880 --> 00:24:03,960 Speaker 1: So this is kind of what I'm meaning. You know, 401 00:24:05,000 --> 00:24:10,480 Speaker 1: the songs take on meanings and new purpose as they evolved, 402 00:24:10,640 --> 00:24:14,159 Speaker 1: and you know it's usually the fans that decide that. 403 00:24:14,320 --> 00:24:16,560 Speaker 1: So there you go. Now I feel like a woman. 404 00:24:16,760 --> 00:24:19,639 Speaker 1: I can just see this little girl coming into the world. 405 00:24:19,960 --> 00:24:25,080 Speaker 1: Kicking and screaming, strong and healthy. Well you're any man 406 00:24:25,080 --> 00:24:27,640 Speaker 1: of mine. I mean it was our sorority theme song 407 00:24:27,960 --> 00:24:31,200 Speaker 1: UM from n to two thousand and we would clear 408 00:24:31,240 --> 00:24:33,119 Speaker 1: a dance floor and we would go out there and 409 00:24:33,200 --> 00:24:37,600 Speaker 1: stomp our feet and honestly, like it gave us this 410 00:24:37,720 --> 00:24:40,439 Speaker 1: sense of like, yeah, you know, like we're not going 411 00:24:40,480 --> 00:24:43,439 Speaker 1: to just let any guy into our lives, and like 412 00:24:43,560 --> 00:24:46,679 Speaker 1: I think it just like help these year olds, like 413 00:24:46,800 --> 00:24:49,639 Speaker 1: you know, for their future. So you bring me so 414 00:24:49,760 --> 00:24:52,040 Speaker 1: much joy, Like every time I hear that song, I 415 00:24:52,080 --> 00:24:56,400 Speaker 1: think of those times, Well, thank you. I love that 416 00:24:56,480 --> 00:24:58,600 Speaker 1: story and I love all you know. These stories is 417 00:24:58,640 --> 00:25:03,800 Speaker 1: what really mix the music carry on and makes it 418 00:25:03,840 --> 00:25:05,680 Speaker 1: fun for me every night too, because I mean, listen, 419 00:25:05,800 --> 00:25:09,640 Speaker 1: you know you're out there and you're doing the same 420 00:25:09,720 --> 00:25:14,160 Speaker 1: songs year after year after year, and what keeps them 421 00:25:14,160 --> 00:25:17,480 Speaker 1: fresh as the audience. That's what makes it fun, haven't 422 00:25:17,480 --> 00:25:20,679 Speaker 1: I You know, I gotta give you props too, because 423 00:25:20,720 --> 00:25:24,320 Speaker 1: I've been I've been told like get on TikTok, get 424 00:25:24,320 --> 00:25:26,520 Speaker 1: on TikTok. I'm like, I don't understand it. I don't 425 00:25:26,520 --> 00:25:28,320 Speaker 1: want to do it, Like there's just too much. I've 426 00:25:28,320 --> 00:25:30,320 Speaker 1: got two kids, like I don't have time. But then 427 00:25:30,359 --> 00:25:31,960 Speaker 1: I saw that you were on TikTok. I was like, 428 00:25:31,960 --> 00:25:34,560 Speaker 1: I okay, Like if you can do it, I can 429 00:25:34,600 --> 00:25:37,320 Speaker 1: do it like you. But your stuff is hilarious, like 430 00:25:37,400 --> 00:25:43,600 Speaker 1: you're funny. I'm like, like, I want to jump on 431 00:25:43,640 --> 00:25:45,400 Speaker 1: the bed Like Chanel, I have a friend that that's 432 00:25:45,440 --> 00:25:47,480 Speaker 1: all she's been talking about. I'm like, oh my gosh, 433 00:25:47,520 --> 00:25:49,880 Speaker 1: I've got to get on TikTok. That's all about Shania. 434 00:25:50,920 --> 00:25:56,520 Speaker 1: I love the platform because it's it's spontaneous and it's 435 00:25:57,160 --> 00:26:00,840 Speaker 1: it's just a real little moment. And I mean one 436 00:26:00,840 --> 00:26:03,720 Speaker 1: of my favorite ones is um the Marica like a 437 00:26:03,760 --> 00:26:08,840 Speaker 1: woman in my pajamas and and and the fact that 438 00:26:08,880 --> 00:26:11,000 Speaker 1: I didn't think about that that's what's so great about it. 439 00:26:11,040 --> 00:26:13,760 Speaker 1: I mean, I mean, don't overthink it. So I mean 440 00:26:13,800 --> 00:26:20,959 Speaker 1: my pajamas. There's butterfly print on the pajamas. And if 441 00:26:21,000 --> 00:26:22,840 Speaker 1: I would have thought too much about it, I would 442 00:26:22,840 --> 00:26:28,480 Speaker 1: have put a brat on. It's like thinking, okay, but 443 00:26:28,520 --> 00:26:31,080 Speaker 1: then I'm like, no, I don't sleep with a bra on. 444 00:26:31,720 --> 00:26:34,480 Speaker 1: This is this is me in the moment, and I'm 445 00:26:34,520 --> 00:26:37,639 Speaker 1: just gonna do this, and so I love it. I 446 00:26:37,640 --> 00:26:39,800 Speaker 1: love it for that. I love it for the just 447 00:26:39,920 --> 00:26:42,159 Speaker 1: the I don't know. I think it's it's it's a 448 00:26:42,200 --> 00:26:45,720 Speaker 1: really genuine and fun platform. It's a great laugh and 449 00:26:45,800 --> 00:26:48,480 Speaker 1: we all need a laugh. We need to just let 450 00:26:48,480 --> 00:26:51,040 Speaker 1: our hair down, let our boots out. Whatever. I mean. 451 00:26:51,080 --> 00:26:52,720 Speaker 1: I just got a new pair of boobs, so I've 452 00:26:52,760 --> 00:26:56,280 Speaker 1: been letting them out. Look at look at look at that. 453 00:26:56,400 --> 00:26:58,360 Speaker 1: I mean like I got them out like they were. 454 00:26:58,440 --> 00:27:00,680 Speaker 1: We just went to Miami this past weekend and those 455 00:27:00,720 --> 00:27:04,080 Speaker 1: girls were out there having fun. I feel like, man, 456 00:27:04,119 --> 00:27:06,280 Speaker 1: I feel like a woman is definitely our theme song 457 00:27:06,359 --> 00:27:13,440 Speaker 1: for Miami. Boy, I'm like a divorce body. Hey, let's 458 00:27:13,520 --> 00:27:16,119 Speaker 1: celebrate it. Oh my gosh. Okay, well, well when you 459 00:27:16,160 --> 00:27:21,080 Speaker 1: get to the Vegas show, Oh girlfriend, well have some fun. 460 00:27:21,520 --> 00:27:25,239 Speaker 1: I gotta go back stage two and yeah, okay, this 461 00:27:25,280 --> 00:27:27,320 Speaker 1: is getting really interesting. Yeah, so we are going to 462 00:27:27,400 --> 00:27:30,760 Speaker 1: see you. We're coming to opening night in Vegas to 463 00:27:30,880 --> 00:27:35,200 Speaker 1: see um let's go because let's go girls. It's gonna 464 00:27:35,240 --> 00:27:37,919 Speaker 1: be so fun. Um. But thank you so much for 465 00:27:37,960 --> 00:27:41,639 Speaker 1: coming on Wine down And uh, what can I'll say this? 466 00:27:41,720 --> 00:27:44,439 Speaker 1: What can the fans expect that they've seen you before 467 00:27:44,440 --> 00:27:46,960 Speaker 1: in Vegas? Like, what's going to be different about this? 468 00:27:46,960 --> 00:27:50,720 Speaker 1: This residency. Well, first of all, the fact that I'm 469 00:27:50,760 --> 00:27:53,639 Speaker 1: starting up again in December. It's going to have a 470 00:27:53,760 --> 00:28:00,119 Speaker 1: Christmas little um holiday uh addition to its spiritual it 471 00:28:01,520 --> 00:28:05,320 Speaker 1: And I think I'm just gonna be so hyperactive. I'm 472 00:28:05,359 --> 00:28:09,040 Speaker 1: probably gonna make a fool of myself because it's it's 473 00:28:09,080 --> 00:28:13,760 Speaker 1: just one of those moments where I'm not sure. I 474 00:28:13,800 --> 00:28:16,040 Speaker 1: wasn't sure it was ever gonna happen again. I don't 475 00:28:16,080 --> 00:28:20,400 Speaker 1: think any of us knew that it would or when 476 00:28:20,440 --> 00:28:24,359 Speaker 1: it would. So I'm gonna be just celebrating. I'm gonna 477 00:28:24,400 --> 00:28:27,679 Speaker 1: be bopping around and having a really good time. And 478 00:28:27,720 --> 00:28:31,760 Speaker 1: I just look forward to some hubs like when you're there. 479 00:28:32,280 --> 00:28:36,840 Speaker 1: Imagine if we can't hug. So I'm not getting my 480 00:28:36,880 --> 00:28:41,200 Speaker 1: hopes too up high, but hopefully we'll be able to, 481 00:28:41,280 --> 00:28:46,000 Speaker 1: you know, just really be um personal person again. I'm 482 00:28:46,080 --> 00:28:48,920 Speaker 1: looking forward to love that. Well, Shan, I thank you 483 00:28:49,000 --> 00:28:51,640 Speaker 1: so much. Um, I can't wait to see you, and 484 00:28:51,680 --> 00:28:53,200 Speaker 1: I'm really excited for you, and I can't wait to 485 00:28:53,240 --> 00:28:55,760 Speaker 1: see the show. So thank you for everything and your insight, 486 00:28:56,000 --> 00:28:59,120 Speaker 1: and um, I'll see you soon, Okay, I look forward 487 00:28:59,120 --> 00:29:05,040 Speaker 1: to it. Okay in Vegas, so you in Vegas, So everyone, 488 00:29:05,120 --> 00:29:08,600 Speaker 1: go to uh ticket master dot com on June one 489 00:29:08,760 --> 00:29:11,680 Speaker 1: at ten am Pacific time to get your tickets for 490 00:29:11,720 --> 00:29:14,920 Speaker 1: this Shania Twain Las Vegas residency. It's going to be 491 00:29:14,960 --> 00:29:18,520 Speaker 1: an amazing show and if you want to see us, 492 00:29:18,560 --> 00:29:34,880 Speaker 1: there will be there opening Now, she was great. Oh 493 00:29:34,880 --> 00:29:38,920 Speaker 1: my gosh, she's beautiful. She's so pretty. But she's just 494 00:29:38,960 --> 00:29:41,440 Speaker 1: like got a very calming oh my god in her 495 00:29:41,440 --> 00:29:48,280 Speaker 1: whole setup. Like seriously, she had I know you guys 496 00:29:48,320 --> 00:29:49,840 Speaker 1: probably can't see the picture. I'll put it on the 497 00:29:49,880 --> 00:29:52,680 Speaker 1: YouTube later, but it was, Yeah, she had her dog 498 00:29:52,920 --> 00:29:56,239 Speaker 1: the whole like furry set up. I mean it's she's like, 499 00:29:56,320 --> 00:30:00,520 Speaker 1: she's like the country Mariah Carey, you know, the queen, 500 00:30:00,840 --> 00:30:04,800 Speaker 1: the queen. It's like Mariah was the pop queen. She's 501 00:30:04,840 --> 00:30:13,160 Speaker 1: the country queen. But yeah, I mean I love her. Alright, guys, 502 00:30:13,280 --> 00:30:16,680 Speaker 1: it's time to send in those emails. Answer your questions. 503 00:30:16,880 --> 00:30:19,680 Speaker 1: Email us at wind down at iHeart radio dot com 504 00:30:19,960 --> 00:30:25,080 Speaker 1: and we will answer whatever you want. We'll talk about it, 505 00:30:26,200 --> 00:30:29,080 Speaker 1: and I'm clearly not an expert and all things love, 506 00:30:29,200 --> 00:30:33,600 Speaker 1: but you know I've got some advice for you. So 507 00:30:33,880 --> 00:30:36,440 Speaker 1: email us at wind down at iHeart radio dot com. 508 00:30:36,480 --> 00:30:39,200 Speaker 1: So you know what I thought was interesting, what Catherine 509 00:30:39,480 --> 00:30:42,960 Speaker 1: that Shania said that you should be patient and not 510 00:30:43,160 --> 00:30:47,920 Speaker 1: jump into the next relationship. What do you think about that? 511 00:30:49,840 --> 00:30:55,320 Speaker 1: Do you feel about that? I mean, I definitely hear that. Um, 512 00:30:55,360 --> 00:31:01,120 Speaker 1: And I how do I say this? I I mean, 513 00:31:01,120 --> 00:31:04,080 Speaker 1: I've talked to you girls. I'm like, Okay, this person's 514 00:31:04,120 --> 00:31:06,760 Speaker 1: maybe slid into my DM or you know, I've had 515 00:31:06,760 --> 00:31:11,600 Speaker 1: a few d M slips, um. And you know, I 516 00:31:11,600 --> 00:31:15,120 Speaker 1: I spent the first month, like you know, just grinding 517 00:31:15,160 --> 00:31:18,040 Speaker 1: it out, reading books, crying, and I know I still 518 00:31:18,080 --> 00:31:21,480 Speaker 1: have a lot of time to like, you know, process 519 00:31:21,520 --> 00:31:23,040 Speaker 1: all of this stuff, and I don't want to get 520 00:31:23,080 --> 00:31:26,959 Speaker 1: into anything right away. But I also feel like if 521 00:31:26,960 --> 00:31:32,080 Speaker 1: there's someone beautiful that comes into my life, that I 522 00:31:32,120 --> 00:31:34,840 Speaker 1: don't wanna be like, oh well, it's too soon, do 523 00:31:34,840 --> 00:31:38,240 Speaker 1: you know what I mean? Like, I just because it's 524 00:31:38,280 --> 00:31:39,840 Speaker 1: it's one of those things where I'm like, I have 525 00:31:40,080 --> 00:31:44,760 Speaker 1: not been happy for so long that I I deserve 526 00:31:44,840 --> 00:31:47,600 Speaker 1: to be happy like I deserve And it's like, yeah, okay, 527 00:31:48,240 --> 00:31:51,200 Speaker 1: you know, I just got divorced. But if there's someone 528 00:31:51,240 --> 00:31:54,000 Speaker 1: amazing that comes into my life, I want like, I 529 00:31:54,000 --> 00:31:56,240 Speaker 1: don't want to be like, oh well, the book says 530 00:31:56,320 --> 00:31:59,400 Speaker 1: that it's too soon, you know, like people say my 531 00:31:59,440 --> 00:32:01,560 Speaker 1: friends say this says and it's like I don't want 532 00:32:01,600 --> 00:32:04,360 Speaker 1: to like, yes, I know I need time to myself 533 00:32:04,400 --> 00:32:07,480 Speaker 1: and I know, but I also don't want to miss 534 00:32:07,480 --> 00:32:10,520 Speaker 1: out on something amazing because you're saying, like listening to 535 00:32:10,920 --> 00:32:12,600 Speaker 1: you know, people tell you that there has to be 536 00:32:12,680 --> 00:32:15,040 Speaker 1: like six months or whatever it is. Because honestly, when 537 00:32:15,040 --> 00:32:18,400 Speaker 1: people say, you know, take time, well what is that time? 538 00:32:18,440 --> 00:32:20,720 Speaker 1: Like how long is that time? They don't even have 539 00:32:20,800 --> 00:32:22,640 Speaker 1: any answer to that. You know, I think that it's 540 00:32:22,680 --> 00:32:25,600 Speaker 1: not a time frame. I think it's just a feeling. Yeah, 541 00:32:25,600 --> 00:32:27,840 Speaker 1: and I do get it, Like I I have been 542 00:32:27,880 --> 00:32:29,800 Speaker 1: that person. It's like I don't like being alone, but 543 00:32:29,880 --> 00:32:31,959 Speaker 1: I have noticed the last month I love being alone, 544 00:32:32,000 --> 00:32:33,800 Speaker 1: like I love like my own space. And it's like 545 00:32:33,840 --> 00:32:36,640 Speaker 1: I'm so happy to hear that. I knowld you, I 546 00:32:36,680 --> 00:32:38,760 Speaker 1: told you would love it. I know. It's even it's like, 547 00:32:38,880 --> 00:32:41,120 Speaker 1: you know, you guys have been amazing, but other people 548 00:32:41,120 --> 00:32:42,680 Speaker 1: have been like, hey, like I'll come over tonight. I'm like, 549 00:32:42,760 --> 00:32:45,600 Speaker 1: I'm actually good, like I kind of just want to 550 00:32:45,600 --> 00:32:48,240 Speaker 1: like chill, but no, so I've I've genuinely enjoyed my loads, 551 00:32:48,480 --> 00:32:52,360 Speaker 1: like my alone time, you know, and I have you know, 552 00:32:53,920 --> 00:32:59,080 Speaker 1: you know, I say no, I'm just it's it's it's 553 00:32:59,120 --> 00:33:02,040 Speaker 1: one of those things where if I'm not going to 554 00:33:02,160 --> 00:33:05,760 Speaker 1: say no to an opportunity, if my heart feels that 555 00:33:05,880 --> 00:33:07,680 Speaker 1: they could be a good fit in my life and 556 00:33:07,720 --> 00:33:10,320 Speaker 1: someone that is a beautiful addition that could be in 557 00:33:10,320 --> 00:33:13,320 Speaker 1: a beautiful addition to me in my kids lives, and 558 00:33:13,720 --> 00:33:15,400 Speaker 1: I'm not gonna be like, oh, well, you know, I 559 00:33:15,400 --> 00:33:17,080 Speaker 1: have to wait this certain amount of time. It's like 560 00:33:17,240 --> 00:33:20,920 Speaker 1: if they fit into my life, and I'll take it slow, 561 00:33:20,960 --> 00:33:23,400 Speaker 1: like I'm not gonna like get engaged in six months, 562 00:33:23,440 --> 00:33:25,760 Speaker 1: but like I want to take it slow. But again, 563 00:33:25,800 --> 00:33:28,160 Speaker 1: I'm not going to shut the door to someone that 564 00:33:28,880 --> 00:33:32,640 Speaker 1: potentially might be who I'm supposed to be with. I 565 00:33:32,680 --> 00:33:39,520 Speaker 1: think exploring, you know, is totally Again, I've been so 566 00:33:39,720 --> 00:33:42,680 Speaker 1: unhappy for so long, like even you know what I've 567 00:33:42,720 --> 00:33:46,120 Speaker 1: I've just tried to like make it work, and it's 568 00:33:46,160 --> 00:33:49,240 Speaker 1: like it's exhausting, and like I deserve to feel loved, 569 00:33:49,240 --> 00:33:51,640 Speaker 1: Like I deserve to feel everything that I've given to 570 00:33:51,800 --> 00:33:54,480 Speaker 1: like people in my life well and not I mean, 571 00:33:54,520 --> 00:33:57,080 Speaker 1: like I said that you to this to you before 572 00:33:57,120 --> 00:34:00,440 Speaker 1: it's like, and you know you are going to make 573 00:34:00,600 --> 00:34:03,880 Speaker 1: somebody so amazingly happy, and like I can't wait to 574 00:34:03,920 --> 00:34:05,640 Speaker 1: see that too. It's like, you know, we keep talking 575 00:34:05,640 --> 00:34:08,400 Speaker 1: about like you, but you have this you know, beautiful 576 00:34:08,440 --> 00:34:12,799 Speaker 1: gift to give to somebody else too, Yes, you do, 577 00:34:14,000 --> 00:34:18,319 Speaker 1: thanks toam What I mean? I mean, I guess I'll 578 00:34:18,360 --> 00:34:21,000 Speaker 1: tell my wine down people when I when that moment 579 00:34:21,040 --> 00:34:23,080 Speaker 1: happens though, like y'all will be the first to know 580 00:34:23,120 --> 00:34:26,839 Speaker 1: if I'm giving my heart to someone after us after 581 00:34:26,880 --> 00:34:34,480 Speaker 1: you know. But you know, I'm just I'm not saying no, right, 582 00:34:34,680 --> 00:34:37,520 Speaker 1: I'm not saying no to to the to the opportunities 583 00:34:38,360 --> 00:34:41,160 Speaker 1: controlling it anyway. You don't need to control the situation. 584 00:34:41,400 --> 00:34:43,400 Speaker 1: I think she was more just saying be patient instead 585 00:34:43,440 --> 00:34:45,960 Speaker 1: of trying to push it, trying to force Like I'm 586 00:34:46,000 --> 00:34:48,719 Speaker 1: not on like dating apps or anything. It's the you know, 587 00:34:48,840 --> 00:34:51,799 Speaker 1: there's the conversations that you know that I've had. It's 588 00:34:52,560 --> 00:34:54,200 Speaker 1: if it and don't feel right, then I'm not gonna 589 00:34:54,200 --> 00:34:56,600 Speaker 1: have the conversations. I'm not a dator anyways. Like I 590 00:34:56,640 --> 00:35:01,520 Speaker 1: don't like to just like date people. Know what Catherine 591 00:35:02,239 --> 00:35:06,240 Speaker 1: what nothing? If she dates then it's like a boyfriend yeah. 592 00:35:06,040 --> 00:35:10,040 Speaker 1: I always like, I wouldn't go on a date if 593 00:35:10,080 --> 00:35:12,040 Speaker 1: I didn't think that it was gonna be major potential 594 00:35:12,160 --> 00:35:13,759 Speaker 1: because well exactly, And it's like, what's the point. I'm like, 595 00:35:13,760 --> 00:35:14,880 Speaker 1: I'm not going to go on a second date if 596 00:35:14,920 --> 00:35:17,279 Speaker 1: I don't see you being a great stepdad to my 597 00:35:17,360 --> 00:35:20,120 Speaker 1: kids or a great husband to me. Like I don't 598 00:35:20,160 --> 00:35:22,359 Speaker 1: need I don't dinner, but I don't need a dinner either. 599 00:35:22,360 --> 00:35:24,440 Speaker 1: I don't need to free dinner like no, I'm like, 600 00:35:24,560 --> 00:35:26,960 Speaker 1: i'd rather have chicken nuggets like I don't need like 601 00:35:27,400 --> 00:35:29,560 Speaker 1: and like, now this is how I know I'm different 602 00:35:29,600 --> 00:35:34,280 Speaker 1: because the Jana pre mic was like, yeah, I'll, I'll. 603 00:35:34,520 --> 00:35:35,799 Speaker 1: You know, I don't want to be alone, so I'm 604 00:35:35,800 --> 00:35:38,640 Speaker 1: gonna have a dude tonight. I don't want that anymore. 605 00:35:38,680 --> 00:35:41,600 Speaker 1: I'd rather just be alone. But it's it's like, why 606 00:35:41,680 --> 00:35:43,920 Speaker 1: go on the second date if I don't see potential? 607 00:35:45,080 --> 00:35:46,480 Speaker 1: But I'm also not going to say no to the 608 00:35:46,560 --> 00:35:49,080 Speaker 1: date because I want to see him. Just do what 609 00:35:49,120 --> 00:35:54,160 Speaker 1: feels right, Yeah, no pressure, just do whatever. Like the 610 00:35:54,239 --> 00:35:56,799 Speaker 1: first time that I would make out with someone, Oh 611 00:35:56,840 --> 00:36:01,880 Speaker 1: my god, you guys, that's gonna be so weird. We 612 00:36:01,960 --> 00:36:05,319 Speaker 1: know what it's been like seven years. Well, I mean 613 00:36:05,320 --> 00:36:09,319 Speaker 1: I've done like movie kisses, but it's different. There's no 614 00:36:09,400 --> 00:36:12,800 Speaker 1: emotion behind us. But I mean I'm kind of like 615 00:36:13,000 --> 00:36:21,760 Speaker 1: riding a bike. Oh, I'm just like getting like sweaty 616 00:36:21,840 --> 00:36:27,839 Speaker 1: thinking about it right now. I just like, I just 617 00:36:28,440 --> 00:36:29,880 Speaker 1: what is going to be your first question that you 618 00:36:29,920 --> 00:36:34,440 Speaker 1: asked my next guy, like my next relationship, because I'm 619 00:36:34,440 --> 00:36:36,600 Speaker 1: obviously not gonna you know, I have fifty I mean 620 00:36:36,600 --> 00:36:40,960 Speaker 1: the first one. Um, I'm like literally getting sweaty. What 621 00:36:41,000 --> 00:36:47,480 Speaker 1: you're talking about this? My first one is are you nice? 622 00:36:47,680 --> 00:36:50,360 Speaker 1: That That's a good one. I like that one. What 623 00:36:50,440 --> 00:36:56,680 Speaker 1: about yours? Do you like kids? Come on, I'm just kidding. 624 00:36:57,080 --> 00:36:58,600 Speaker 1: We really did that when you showed up. Do you 625 00:36:58,640 --> 00:37:00,839 Speaker 1: have a job? And do you like kids? I think 626 00:37:00,840 --> 00:37:04,720 Speaker 1: they would know we're going to date. I'm more about 627 00:37:04,760 --> 00:37:06,839 Speaker 1: like not I'm not going to be that girl that's 628 00:37:06,840 --> 00:37:08,640 Speaker 1: sitting there and just like you know, hitting them with 629 00:37:08,719 --> 00:37:11,440 Speaker 1: questions like it's just gonna be like me talking to 630 00:37:11,520 --> 00:37:14,400 Speaker 1: them in like my normal like way and like just 631 00:37:14,440 --> 00:37:17,080 Speaker 1: getting that feeling like back from them, like is this 632 00:37:17,160 --> 00:37:19,120 Speaker 1: is this natural? Is this organic? Because this like a 633 00:37:19,160 --> 00:37:21,560 Speaker 1: genuine person, like I'll be able to feel by like 634 00:37:21,680 --> 00:37:25,200 Speaker 1: them just like talking to me, you know, yeah, no, 635 00:37:25,239 --> 00:37:27,680 Speaker 1: I agree. Jana is the one with the million. She 636 00:37:28,040 --> 00:37:30,520 Speaker 1: she will ask enough questions like we won't have to 637 00:37:30,680 --> 00:37:33,840 Speaker 1: like we were just going to get the vibey. And 638 00:37:33,920 --> 00:37:38,279 Speaker 1: here's the thing too, like you know, if there's someone 639 00:37:38,320 --> 00:37:40,520 Speaker 1: that I'm speaking to, like there's going to be that 640 00:37:40,600 --> 00:37:43,080 Speaker 1: question like, hey, I have two kids and they're my 641 00:37:44,160 --> 00:37:48,160 Speaker 1: everything and number one, like you gotta know that, like 642 00:37:48,239 --> 00:37:52,040 Speaker 1: you won't be the top, like my kids are my everything, 643 00:37:52,160 --> 00:37:54,239 Speaker 1: and I come with I come with kids, like I 644 00:37:54,280 --> 00:37:56,520 Speaker 1: come like are you even prepared for that? Because if 645 00:37:56,520 --> 00:37:59,160 Speaker 1: you're not, don't waste my time. And it's again because 646 00:37:59,160 --> 00:38:01,319 Speaker 1: I don't want to, like I'm not wasting time here. 647 00:38:01,480 --> 00:38:04,640 Speaker 1: I'd rather be alone and not entertain. But I think 648 00:38:04,680 --> 00:38:09,360 Speaker 1: any man that is interested in you obviously knows that 649 00:38:09,400 --> 00:38:11,600 Speaker 1: you have two kids, um, and that you know how 650 00:38:11,640 --> 00:38:13,640 Speaker 1: great of a mother you are and all of those things, 651 00:38:13,680 --> 00:38:17,680 Speaker 1: so like they wouldn't even be entertaining the idea if 652 00:38:17,680 --> 00:38:21,040 Speaker 1: they weren't okay with that. I don't know though, because 653 00:38:21,040 --> 00:38:24,240 Speaker 1: there because there were some guys in my past where 654 00:38:24,920 --> 00:38:29,480 Speaker 1: it's like what I actually said it he was like 655 00:38:29,520 --> 00:38:34,399 Speaker 1: I just wanted to see if like that's the problem. Well, 656 00:38:34,400 --> 00:38:37,480 Speaker 1: I'm talking like if you're really like you know, relationship, 657 00:38:37,600 --> 00:38:40,600 Speaker 1: like I mean, they're going to be okay, because then 658 00:38:40,600 --> 00:38:44,040 Speaker 1: how hard is that they pretend like to see if 659 00:38:44,080 --> 00:38:46,719 Speaker 1: they can go out with you, and they pretend like 660 00:38:46,760 --> 00:38:48,319 Speaker 1: they're fine with it, but then you really get into 661 00:38:48,360 --> 00:38:50,160 Speaker 1: it and they're not. So it is something that needs 662 00:38:50,200 --> 00:38:52,080 Speaker 1: to be It's hard because it's like you go ahead 663 00:38:52,120 --> 00:38:53,920 Speaker 1: and talk about it from the beginning, like hey, are 664 00:38:53,960 --> 00:38:58,320 Speaker 1: you good with up step kids, But at the same time, 665 00:38:58,360 --> 00:38:59,959 Speaker 1: it's like you don't want to go through six months 666 00:39:00,080 --> 00:39:02,439 Speaker 1: it then pretending like they like kids, and then wait, 667 00:39:02,440 --> 00:39:04,439 Speaker 1: I don't want step kids. So I don't know. That's 668 00:39:04,440 --> 00:39:07,160 Speaker 1: a hard but here's yeah, that's and but then also 669 00:39:07,280 --> 00:39:09,680 Speaker 1: I think about what if they say to me, well, 670 00:39:10,200 --> 00:39:13,839 Speaker 1: do you want more kids? And that's something where I'm 671 00:39:13,880 --> 00:39:16,560 Speaker 1: like I never even imagine. So I'm going way ahead 672 00:39:16,560 --> 00:39:20,520 Speaker 1: of myself, right, Okay, this is like this is this 673 00:39:20,600 --> 00:39:23,040 Speaker 1: is like dream land here, like you know, to get 674 00:39:23,080 --> 00:39:26,239 Speaker 1: to that place, but if and when that happens, like 675 00:39:26,280 --> 00:39:27,600 Speaker 1: those are things I have to think about. I'm like, 676 00:39:27,800 --> 00:39:30,040 Speaker 1: I don't know, do I like I've had terrible pregnancies. 677 00:39:30,080 --> 00:39:32,960 Speaker 1: I never you know Mike and I, Yeah, we talked 678 00:39:33,000 --> 00:39:34,680 Speaker 1: about maybe having a third, but it was going to 679 00:39:34,760 --> 00:39:37,200 Speaker 1: be most likely surrogate because of my miscarriages and then 680 00:39:37,239 --> 00:39:40,200 Speaker 1: my you know, hyporemesis on both ones. So it's like, 681 00:39:41,200 --> 00:39:42,440 Speaker 1: I just never thought I would ever have to have 682 00:39:42,480 --> 00:39:45,320 Speaker 1: that conversation with somebody else. And who knows, maybe maybe 683 00:39:45,360 --> 00:39:48,040 Speaker 1: the next person that I meet has kids too, and 684 00:39:48,680 --> 00:39:51,520 Speaker 1: you know, doesn't want kids. But these things that I 685 00:39:51,600 --> 00:39:54,560 Speaker 1: think about. If you fall in love with somebody and 686 00:39:54,920 --> 00:39:59,719 Speaker 1: they want kids, I think that you will be excited 687 00:40:00,080 --> 00:40:08,360 Speaker 1: to have another kid with somebody that you already is 688 00:40:08,360 --> 00:40:14,759 Speaker 1: the new twenty Hello South Beach. By the way, I'm 689 00:40:14,840 --> 00:40:17,399 Speaker 1: five years older than her, so when she says she's old, like, 690 00:40:18,719 --> 00:40:21,680 Speaker 1: I'm just saying, but we knows our things. Just I 691 00:40:21,719 --> 00:40:24,439 Speaker 1: would just keep everything open. You don't go right now 692 00:40:24,520 --> 00:40:27,560 Speaker 1: until you're in that relationship, And to answer that question 693 00:40:27,600 --> 00:40:30,160 Speaker 1: now doesn't even make sense right and right now, I'm 694 00:40:30,200 --> 00:40:33,320 Speaker 1: just I'm not putting myself out there. But I'm also 695 00:40:34,400 --> 00:40:35,960 Speaker 1: I'm not gonna you know, I'm not going to be 696 00:40:35,960 --> 00:40:37,880 Speaker 1: like no, I can't because it hasn't been this amount 697 00:40:37,880 --> 00:40:42,080 Speaker 1: of time. I'm just gonna slow step it. Agree, Thank you, 698 00:40:42,680 --> 00:40:44,200 Speaker 1: so if you want to send in your resume to 699 00:40:44,239 --> 00:40:53,399 Speaker 1: wind up, we'll have East and mark through because it's 700 00:40:53,440 --> 00:40:59,279 Speaker 1: not me. Oh Lord, have mercy. I mean, I will 701 00:40:59,320 --> 00:41:01,400 Speaker 1: say it's kind of fun to like flirt a little bit. 702 00:41:01,440 --> 00:41:04,399 Speaker 1: Though it's a little fun. You think you're good at 703 00:41:04,440 --> 00:41:15,200 Speaker 1: it too, No, pammymi um, speaking of Miami, Pam. She 704 00:41:15,280 --> 00:41:17,560 Speaker 1: has a book called Gratitude the Great. It's out. It's 705 00:41:17,560 --> 00:41:20,759 Speaker 1: an amazing kid's book all about gratitude and um, so 706 00:41:20,880 --> 00:41:22,920 Speaker 1: make sure you guys get it Amazon or wherever you 707 00:41:22,960 --> 00:41:26,440 Speaker 1: shot for your books, of course. And Catherine is I 708 00:41:26,480 --> 00:41:33,280 Speaker 1: got nothing. I'm just here. Catherine's killing it. Um, guys, 709 00:41:33,320 --> 00:41:35,360 Speaker 1: this was fun. See you in Vegas.