1 00:00:02,040 --> 00:00:08,120 Speaker 1: This is Unbreakable with Jay Glacier, a mental wealth podcast 2 00:00:08,840 --> 00:00:13,720 Speaker 1: Build you from the inside out. Now here's Jay Glacier. 3 00:00:14,440 --> 00:00:17,160 Speaker 2: Welcome into Unbreakable, a mental Wealth podcast. 4 00:00:16,720 --> 00:00:17,560 Speaker 3: With Jay Glazer. 5 00:00:17,600 --> 00:00:20,600 Speaker 2: I'm Jay Glazer and joining me today is somebody I've 6 00:00:20,640 --> 00:00:21,360 Speaker 2: known for a long time. 7 00:00:21,360 --> 00:00:23,520 Speaker 3: I's seen at Madison Square Garden back in the day, 8 00:00:23,760 --> 00:00:25,480 Speaker 3: back when I was a young pupp I was hosting 9 00:00:25,480 --> 00:00:26,080 Speaker 3: the show with. 10 00:00:26,079 --> 00:00:28,880 Speaker 2: Kurt Menafie called Unnecessary Roughness, and I used to see 11 00:00:28,880 --> 00:00:30,000 Speaker 2: this cat and then he made. 12 00:00:29,880 --> 00:00:32,200 Speaker 3: Me laugh my ass off back then, and he still 13 00:00:32,280 --> 00:00:32,839 Speaker 3: is now. 14 00:00:32,680 --> 00:00:36,440 Speaker 2: And I actually now he's the political commentator. He's talking about, 15 00:00:36,479 --> 00:00:38,839 Speaker 2: you know, issues that people don't want to hit, but 16 00:00:38,840 --> 00:00:41,280 Speaker 2: he's talking about him in terms we could all understand. 17 00:00:41,640 --> 00:00:44,760 Speaker 2: My dude, Michael Rappaport, one of the funniest, Hey, I'm 18 00:00:44,760 --> 00:00:46,000 Speaker 2: gonna say it right here, one of. 19 00:00:46,000 --> 00:00:47,440 Speaker 3: The funniest motherfuckers on the planet. 20 00:00:47,440 --> 00:00:49,040 Speaker 2: I want to set the stage for you so you'll 21 00:00:49,080 --> 00:00:51,120 Speaker 2: understand what kind of podcast this is. 22 00:00:51,520 --> 00:00:52,760 Speaker 3: You have free reign to be you. 23 00:00:53,320 --> 00:00:55,520 Speaker 4: I appreciate it, Jay, Thanks for having them. My man, 24 00:00:55,880 --> 00:00:57,000 Speaker 4: So I know you got a. 25 00:00:56,960 --> 00:00:58,000 Speaker 3: Million things going on. 26 00:00:58,120 --> 00:00:59,320 Speaker 2: You just started well, I don't know if you just 27 00:00:59,320 --> 00:01:03,720 Speaker 2: started new podcast, going your touring all over the place. Yeah, 28 00:01:03,800 --> 00:01:05,960 Speaker 2: but I kind of want to talk to you about 29 00:01:06,480 --> 00:01:09,000 Speaker 2: where your career started, but now kind of where it 30 00:01:09,040 --> 00:01:11,600 Speaker 2: is now you are just like it's almost like, hey, 31 00:01:11,720 --> 00:01:14,280 Speaker 2: I'm going to be the unfiltered voice for the world, 32 00:01:14,680 --> 00:01:15,399 Speaker 2: whether you like. 33 00:01:15,360 --> 00:01:15,760 Speaker 3: It or not. 34 00:01:17,000 --> 00:01:17,399 Speaker 4: Thank you. 35 00:01:17,480 --> 00:01:20,360 Speaker 5: Well, I you know, I started as an actor. Well, 36 00:01:20,360 --> 00:01:22,760 Speaker 5: I actually started as a stand up comedian. That's my 37 00:01:22,880 --> 00:01:27,000 Speaker 5: first sort of goal. Dream was to be the next 38 00:01:27,080 --> 00:01:30,840 Speaker 5: Eddie Murphy or the white Eddie Murphy, and you know, 39 00:01:30,880 --> 00:01:32,600 Speaker 5: and I wanted to be a stand up comic the 40 00:01:32,640 --> 00:01:35,920 Speaker 5: way you know in the eighties and nineties stand up comics, 41 00:01:35,959 --> 00:01:38,119 Speaker 5: you know, would do their stand up and then sort 42 00:01:38,120 --> 00:01:41,399 Speaker 5: of you know, segue into you know, acting sort of 43 00:01:41,400 --> 00:01:42,639 Speaker 5: based on their stand up comedy. 44 00:01:42,680 --> 00:01:44,360 Speaker 4: I was nineteen. I didn't know what I wanted to 45 00:01:44,360 --> 00:01:45,080 Speaker 4: do with my life. 46 00:01:45,200 --> 00:01:49,480 Speaker 5: I'd spent my entire youth since I was about ten 47 00:01:49,560 --> 00:01:52,800 Speaker 5: years old, hoping and dreaming that I'd be in the NBA. 48 00:01:53,160 --> 00:01:55,320 Speaker 4: That's what I really wanted to be, was a basketball player. 49 00:01:55,560 --> 00:01:59,080 Speaker 5: And then when I realized that wasn't going anywhere, you know, 50 00:01:59,160 --> 00:02:02,000 Speaker 5: I said, let me I stand up comedy. And I 51 00:02:02,040 --> 00:02:04,120 Speaker 5: tried that and I you know, I wasn't that good 52 00:02:04,120 --> 00:02:05,920 Speaker 5: of a stand up comedy. But as soon as I 53 00:02:05,960 --> 00:02:08,880 Speaker 5: went on stage in LA, I had moved from New 54 00:02:09,000 --> 00:02:12,799 Speaker 5: York to LA to pursue this dream. I would get 55 00:02:12,840 --> 00:02:17,480 Speaker 5: called in for acting auditions, and you know, honestly, the 56 00:02:17,560 --> 00:02:22,440 Speaker 5: first time I read side the scenes to audition, it 57 00:02:22,520 --> 00:02:25,880 Speaker 5: was like it made perfect sense to me. It was 58 00:02:25,960 --> 00:02:30,240 Speaker 5: easier than stand up comedy. It was certainly easier than basketball. 59 00:02:30,480 --> 00:02:32,800 Speaker 5: Was it just made sense to me, like, you know, 60 00:02:33,000 --> 00:02:37,519 Speaker 5: acting and expressing emotions and the beats and the sort 61 00:02:37,560 --> 00:02:40,600 Speaker 5: of fundamentals of acting was like a fish in water. 62 00:02:40,639 --> 00:02:42,080 Speaker 4: And I was like, this is what I'm going to do. 63 00:02:42,680 --> 00:02:45,519 Speaker 5: And I started doing that had you know, a lot 64 00:02:45,520 --> 00:02:49,240 Speaker 5: of success quickly, and you know, I haven't looked back. 65 00:02:49,280 --> 00:02:52,239 Speaker 5: And I shortly after that I stopped doing stand up comedy, 66 00:02:52,280 --> 00:02:54,960 Speaker 5: which I'm back doing and now again, as you mentioned, 67 00:02:55,000 --> 00:02:56,880 Speaker 5: I'm going on tour in the fall. 68 00:02:58,120 --> 00:02:59,040 Speaker 4: I'll be all over the. 69 00:02:59,000 --> 00:03:01,680 Speaker 5: Country, touring all over you know, all all the cities 70 00:03:01,680 --> 00:03:04,079 Speaker 5: where where the big games will be playing. And you know, 71 00:03:04,080 --> 00:03:06,640 Speaker 5: I'm actually doing a show in Israel, which I'm excited 72 00:03:06,639 --> 00:03:07,760 Speaker 5: about that that's awesome. 73 00:03:08,080 --> 00:03:11,040 Speaker 3: I love it, which I could definitely use some definitely 74 00:03:11,080 --> 00:03:12,320 Speaker 3: use here that around how perfect. 75 00:03:12,360 --> 00:03:15,360 Speaker 5: I love it absolutely, and uh, you know, and I 76 00:03:15,440 --> 00:03:17,640 Speaker 5: fell in love with acting and I'm always gonna love 77 00:03:17,639 --> 00:03:19,560 Speaker 5: my acting. And as far as like, you know, the 78 00:03:19,600 --> 00:03:22,120 Speaker 5: social media of it all. You know, in the last 79 00:03:22,280 --> 00:03:25,959 Speaker 5: ten eleven years, when social media has emerged, I at 80 00:03:25,960 --> 00:03:28,640 Speaker 5: first I would talk about the mundane. I talk about sports, 81 00:03:28,680 --> 00:03:31,560 Speaker 5: I talk about popular culture, talk about music, you know, 82 00:03:31,680 --> 00:03:34,840 Speaker 5: silly things, you know, walking my dog and walcome doing this. 83 00:03:35,160 --> 00:03:37,960 Speaker 5: And then you know, one day I said something that 84 00:03:38,080 --> 00:03:41,800 Speaker 5: was a social you know, had some social substance, and 85 00:03:42,080 --> 00:03:42,720 Speaker 5: people just. 86 00:03:42,680 --> 00:03:43,520 Speaker 4: Responded to that. 87 00:03:43,920 --> 00:03:47,560 Speaker 5: And you know, I didn't pay attention to politics at all. 88 00:03:48,240 --> 00:03:50,800 Speaker 5: I didn't pay attention to I mean literally at all 89 00:03:51,240 --> 00:03:54,320 Speaker 5: eight years ago. But I do now and I talk 90 00:03:54,360 --> 00:03:56,400 Speaker 5: about that. And you know, as you get older, I think, 91 00:03:56,680 --> 00:04:00,320 Speaker 5: you know, certain things you know, mean take on more 92 00:04:00,360 --> 00:04:02,400 Speaker 5: meaning and you know, and I try. 93 00:04:02,160 --> 00:04:05,040 Speaker 4: To balance it all. You know, I'm always gonna love acting. 94 00:04:05,680 --> 00:04:09,920 Speaker 5: I feel like, you know, now, every single day is changing, 95 00:04:10,000 --> 00:04:12,240 Speaker 5: you know, in the sports world, you know, the news 96 00:04:12,240 --> 00:04:14,880 Speaker 5: cycle is quick, and it's like you know, in the 97 00:04:15,080 --> 00:04:18,040 Speaker 5: you know, political social world, you know, and it's especially 98 00:04:18,120 --> 00:04:20,200 Speaker 5: this past week it's been one of the craziest weeks 99 00:04:20,240 --> 00:04:22,080 Speaker 5: we've ever had, and you know, I try to talk 100 00:04:22,120 --> 00:04:24,040 Speaker 5: about it all, you know, I it's been a little 101 00:04:24,040 --> 00:04:25,760 Speaker 5: bit hard with everything that's going on. 102 00:04:26,040 --> 00:04:27,440 Speaker 4: To focus on the mundane. 103 00:04:27,440 --> 00:04:29,560 Speaker 5: You know, I was talking to my friend about last 104 00:04:29,560 --> 00:04:34,320 Speaker 5: season's fantasy football uh uh season, and I have not 105 00:04:34,360 --> 00:04:36,480 Speaker 5: only did my team suck, but I wasn't even able 106 00:04:36,520 --> 00:04:38,720 Speaker 5: to focus on my team sucking. But just because of 107 00:04:38,760 --> 00:04:41,640 Speaker 5: everything that that's been going on for the last nine 108 00:04:41,640 --> 00:04:45,000 Speaker 5: months in Israel. So I want to try to balance 109 00:04:45,040 --> 00:04:46,960 Speaker 5: it more because you know, I'm getting pumped up for 110 00:04:47,080 --> 00:04:50,000 Speaker 5: my fantasy football season, which is up the utmost important, 111 00:04:50,120 --> 00:04:53,479 Speaker 5: Like whatever you're doing in your life, whatever, the most 112 00:04:53,480 --> 00:04:56,599 Speaker 5: important thing is how is my team rap reports the 113 00:04:56,680 --> 00:05:00,520 Speaker 5: light aka history of violence aka make get stopped? 114 00:05:00,560 --> 00:05:02,800 Speaker 4: But how how am I going to be doing that? 115 00:05:02,800 --> 00:05:06,279 Speaker 5: That's the utmost important and rightfully so, but that's what 116 00:05:06,400 --> 00:05:07,160 Speaker 5: sports is great. 117 00:05:07,279 --> 00:05:07,359 Speaker 1: Like. 118 00:05:07,400 --> 00:05:10,359 Speaker 2: Look, I'm like, you are trying not to watch politics, 119 00:05:10,760 --> 00:05:13,200 Speaker 2: try not to watch the news, try not to watch social. 120 00:05:13,040 --> 00:05:14,880 Speaker 3: Media, and sport. 121 00:05:14,960 --> 00:05:17,440 Speaker 2: I think like this year, especially because when you have 122 00:05:17,680 --> 00:05:20,000 Speaker 2: you know, the way the political landscape is right now, 123 00:05:20,080 --> 00:05:23,760 Speaker 2: it's people are war in our country, and sports kind 124 00:05:23,760 --> 00:05:25,440 Speaker 2: of brings everybody together, and that's fine. 125 00:05:25,520 --> 00:05:26,040 Speaker 4: You have to. 126 00:05:26,040 --> 00:05:28,960 Speaker 3: Remember to go to those welcome distractions. 127 00:05:29,000 --> 00:05:30,599 Speaker 2: That's why I think sports and movies and stuff are 128 00:05:30,640 --> 00:05:33,279 Speaker 2: so important because it gives us our welcome distraction. 129 00:05:33,680 --> 00:05:35,320 Speaker 3: But what the real world is if you will. 130 00:05:35,960 --> 00:05:36,800 Speaker 4: One hundred percent. 131 00:05:36,960 --> 00:05:39,279 Speaker 5: And I you know, like I said last season, I 132 00:05:39,360 --> 00:05:41,400 Speaker 5: wasn't able to do it. You know, it is the 133 00:05:41,400 --> 00:05:43,440 Speaker 5: first time in a long time, like I wasn't able 134 00:05:43,480 --> 00:05:46,760 Speaker 5: to appreciate. By the time the playoffs went around, like 135 00:05:46,800 --> 00:05:48,120 Speaker 5: I was just like, I have to do it. 136 00:05:48,160 --> 00:05:48,840 Speaker 4: But you know, during the. 137 00:05:48,760 --> 00:05:52,760 Speaker 5: Regular season, you know, football Sundays, Monday nights, you know, 138 00:05:52,839 --> 00:05:56,720 Speaker 5: sometimes Thursday nights, but Sunday is It's Americana. 139 00:05:56,800 --> 00:05:58,279 Speaker 4: And I wasn't able to do it. 140 00:05:59,040 --> 00:06:01,320 Speaker 2: But I have them why, like, as a Jewish man 141 00:06:01,320 --> 00:06:03,280 Speaker 2: in this country stand for me, and you know, I don't. 142 00:06:03,360 --> 00:06:05,480 Speaker 2: I never talk politics or anything like that. I just 143 00:06:05,760 --> 00:06:07,080 Speaker 2: think the way we are on our show, we keep 144 00:06:07,120 --> 00:06:09,760 Speaker 2: away from from things. But yeah, there was a lot 145 00:06:09,800 --> 00:06:12,360 Speaker 2: to be worried about it just the climate of this country. 146 00:06:12,400 --> 00:06:14,600 Speaker 2: So it's almost like you're like, and I even't talked 147 00:06:14,600 --> 00:06:16,400 Speaker 2: about a guys on our show, like guys, I know, 148 00:06:16,440 --> 00:06:18,120 Speaker 2: I need to talk sports but this happened when we 149 00:06:18,160 --> 00:06:20,359 Speaker 2: came back from COVID. I'm like, I know I'm supposed 150 00:06:20,360 --> 00:06:23,200 Speaker 2: to talk about the NFL inside or stuff, but I 151 00:06:23,240 --> 00:06:26,479 Speaker 2: feel guilty when people are dying out there, you know, 152 00:06:26,600 --> 00:06:30,279 Speaker 2: feel guilty when there's hostages still out there. And but Jay, 153 00:06:30,279 --> 00:06:31,920 Speaker 2: this is your job. You've got to do this. So 154 00:06:31,960 --> 00:06:33,719 Speaker 2: I understand what you're saying. And we, I think, do 155 00:06:33,839 --> 00:06:37,880 Speaker 2: have to do a better job of making sure we find. 156 00:06:37,600 --> 00:06:39,919 Speaker 3: A balance that we keep. 157 00:06:40,240 --> 00:06:41,840 Speaker 2: You look, if we have to fight one fight on 158 00:06:42,000 --> 00:06:43,880 Speaker 2: one side, we have to make sure we balance it 159 00:06:43,920 --> 00:06:44,320 Speaker 2: on the other. 160 00:06:45,040 --> 00:06:46,080 Speaker 3: We almost have to force. 161 00:06:45,960 --> 00:06:49,960 Speaker 4: Ourselves to one hundred percent, you know, one hundred percent. 162 00:06:49,960 --> 00:06:52,560 Speaker 5: You know, And and it is tough and the balance 163 00:06:52,600 --> 00:06:54,960 Speaker 5: and you know, what you should say, what you shouldn't say, 164 00:06:55,520 --> 00:06:59,560 Speaker 5: what you can say, what's acceptable to say, what's the 165 00:06:59,640 --> 00:07:00,599 Speaker 5: time of it all? 166 00:07:01,200 --> 00:07:02,640 Speaker 4: You know? For me, I just jump in. 167 00:07:02,720 --> 00:07:04,600 Speaker 5: I say what I want when I want to say it. 168 00:07:04,880 --> 00:07:09,760 Speaker 5: And you know, I don't think of ramifications. I don't 169 00:07:09,760 --> 00:07:12,920 Speaker 5: think of feelings like I just articulate myself for better 170 00:07:12,960 --> 00:07:13,440 Speaker 5: and for worse. 171 00:07:13,480 --> 00:07:16,400 Speaker 4: And you know, especially regarding social. 172 00:07:16,080 --> 00:07:18,680 Speaker 5: Media, when I do that, that's why it comes off 173 00:07:18,720 --> 00:07:21,520 Speaker 5: the way it comes off. Because it is not premeditated, 174 00:07:21,600 --> 00:07:24,000 Speaker 5: like if something's going on. Like the good thing about 175 00:07:24,000 --> 00:07:26,560 Speaker 5: social media for me is that it is an outlet, 176 00:07:27,000 --> 00:07:29,720 Speaker 5: uh for for for for those those thoughts and those 177 00:07:29,720 --> 00:07:31,920 Speaker 5: feelings and those frustrations. 178 00:07:32,320 --> 00:07:34,040 Speaker 4: But it's it's it's a crazy time. 179 00:07:34,080 --> 00:07:38,280 Speaker 5: It's it's a crazy time, and you know time, it's 180 00:07:38,400 --> 00:07:40,520 Speaker 5: crazy time, it's scary time, and and you know it's 181 00:07:40,560 --> 00:07:42,520 Speaker 5: be you know, you think like the the like I 182 00:07:42,560 --> 00:07:45,200 Speaker 5: said the sports news, you know, you know when you 183 00:07:45,240 --> 00:07:47,840 Speaker 5: do your updates game right before is this person playing? 184 00:07:47,920 --> 00:07:50,160 Speaker 5: Is this person not playing? You know, and you're giving 185 00:07:50,240 --> 00:07:53,720 Speaker 5: us this information. I mean, you know it's like you 186 00:07:53,760 --> 00:07:56,320 Speaker 5: know so and that's fun. For the most part, it's fun. 187 00:07:56,360 --> 00:07:58,280 Speaker 4: You know if somebody's not injured, you know, like this 188 00:07:58,320 --> 00:08:01,880 Speaker 4: person starting or you justin Jefferson, is hip this filly? 189 00:08:01,960 --> 00:08:02,600 Speaker 4: You know all that. 190 00:08:02,520 --> 00:08:05,520 Speaker 5: Stuff which which we wait for your your updates every morning. 191 00:08:05,680 --> 00:08:08,920 Speaker 5: How do you get those those updates? Is it coming 192 00:08:08,960 --> 00:08:11,080 Speaker 5: in via text? Are you getting phone calls? I know 193 00:08:11,200 --> 00:08:12,720 Speaker 5: sometimes you're at the stadium, you're. 194 00:08:12,640 --> 00:08:14,320 Speaker 2: In this No I'm out stadium and was it well 195 00:08:14,360 --> 00:08:18,640 Speaker 2: only only a postseason but no, it's constant text and 196 00:08:18,760 --> 00:08:20,800 Speaker 2: phone call and it doesn't stop and it doesn't stop, 197 00:08:20,840 --> 00:08:21,400 Speaker 2: and dun stop. 198 00:08:21,520 --> 00:08:21,960 Speaker 3: I'll tell you. 199 00:08:22,040 --> 00:08:24,040 Speaker 2: It was like there was a quarterback who was uh 200 00:08:24,160 --> 00:08:29,480 Speaker 2: who everybody was saying was out. And I don't want 201 00:08:29,520 --> 00:08:31,800 Speaker 2: to try not to keep my source up, so trying 202 00:08:31,800 --> 00:08:32,439 Speaker 2: to do this. 203 00:08:32,679 --> 00:08:34,880 Speaker 3: And my producer's like, hey, so we got to come 204 00:08:34,920 --> 00:08:36,839 Speaker 3: and say he's out. I'm like, he's not out. He's like, 205 00:08:36,920 --> 00:08:37,280 Speaker 3: what do you mean? 206 00:08:37,320 --> 00:08:40,080 Speaker 2: I said, my guy is making the decision and he's 207 00:08:40,200 --> 00:08:42,439 Speaker 2: ten feet fromhim right now, texting me in real time 208 00:08:42,480 --> 00:08:45,320 Speaker 2: what's going on. And here's the truth. They just gave 209 00:08:45,400 --> 00:08:47,160 Speaker 2: him a turtle injection. And my guy's like, what's out. 210 00:08:47,160 --> 00:08:48,880 Speaker 2: I'm like, well, that's the other thing you guys don't understand. 211 00:08:49,080 --> 00:08:51,200 Speaker 2: Turtle takes a half out to really kick in. They 212 00:08:51,320 --> 00:08:53,120 Speaker 2: gave him a turtle. Then they're shooting them over here 213 00:08:53,120 --> 00:08:55,360 Speaker 2: with Lighty Kane and so we're gonna know him about 214 00:08:55,360 --> 00:08:57,000 Speaker 2: half hour. But I'm not willing to go with it. 215 00:08:57,040 --> 00:08:59,679 Speaker 2: And my producer was like, you're fucking crazy, but we're 216 00:08:59,679 --> 00:09:02,360 Speaker 2: going you're crazy. And I'm literally getting it in real time, 217 00:09:02,440 --> 00:09:04,800 Speaker 2: real time, real time, and I'm like and I'm sending 218 00:09:04,840 --> 00:09:07,240 Speaker 2: texts that I know the other insiders don't send like, hey, 219 00:09:07,320 --> 00:09:08,439 Speaker 2: is the so we're all work? 220 00:09:08,520 --> 00:09:10,920 Speaker 3: Yet has it kicked in as it shot kicked in? Yet? 221 00:09:11,000 --> 00:09:14,280 Speaker 3: These motherfuckers have no idea what that is and or 222 00:09:14,320 --> 00:09:14,880 Speaker 3: how it works. 223 00:09:14,960 --> 00:09:18,079 Speaker 2: Unfortunately, I've got to take too many towdolls because my 224 00:09:18,160 --> 00:09:21,400 Speaker 2: dumb ass still fights with people and trains these guys. 225 00:09:21,679 --> 00:09:25,200 Speaker 2: But it's literally that I have from day one. And 226 00:09:25,240 --> 00:09:26,840 Speaker 2: it goes back to my first day in the Giant 227 00:09:26,880 --> 00:09:30,920 Speaker 2: locker room in ninety three. I had no experience and 228 00:09:31,559 --> 00:09:33,760 Speaker 2: you know, no education compared to these cats. 229 00:09:33,800 --> 00:09:36,600 Speaker 3: Nothing. But I was like, man, how could I be different? 230 00:09:37,120 --> 00:09:39,520 Speaker 2: And I was like, these guys all use their pen 231 00:09:39,559 --> 00:09:42,480 Speaker 2: as a weapon. I'm going to start relationships. And for 232 00:09:42,559 --> 00:09:45,720 Speaker 2: the first ten years I got destroyed for starting relationships 233 00:09:46,160 --> 00:09:52,679 Speaker 2: fifteen years. But over time, like those relationships, man, thirty 234 00:09:52,720 --> 00:09:55,240 Speaker 2: five of those guys become head coaches, thirty of them 235 00:09:55,280 --> 00:09:56,480 Speaker 2: become general managers. 236 00:09:56,520 --> 00:09:59,880 Speaker 3: And I've been with guys forever. Never burn anybody. 237 00:10:00,000 --> 00:10:03,960 Speaker 2: It's like you you collect these relationships over over the years, 238 00:10:04,320 --> 00:10:06,280 Speaker 2: and I kind of look at like, we're not doing 239 00:10:06,360 --> 00:10:08,040 Speaker 2: You're not doing We're not covering the Middle East, we're 240 00:10:08,040 --> 00:10:09,840 Speaker 2: not We're not that important. 241 00:10:09,840 --> 00:10:10,679 Speaker 3: We're talking about sports. 242 00:10:10,720 --> 00:10:13,760 Speaker 2: It's it but the art of the relationship and the 243 00:10:13,880 --> 00:10:16,880 Speaker 2: art of loyalty is a dying art and it was 244 00:10:17,000 --> 00:10:19,720 Speaker 2: back then, and I kind of looked like, I'm going 245 00:10:19,760 --> 00:10:21,800 Speaker 2: to try and perfect that as much as I can. 246 00:10:22,320 --> 00:10:24,480 Speaker 2: And that's how I get those and my guys, thank God, 247 00:10:24,520 --> 00:10:27,000 Speaker 2: have been there for me forever with stuff like that. 248 00:10:27,040 --> 00:10:29,160 Speaker 3: But it's pretty wild, man, it's pretty wild. Do you do? 249 00:10:29,480 --> 00:10:30,640 Speaker 3: You do? You do? You like? 250 00:10:30,760 --> 00:10:36,160 Speaker 5: The landscape in sports media, social media, but specifically sports 251 00:10:36,200 --> 00:10:40,040 Speaker 5: media has changed so freaking much just since and since 252 00:10:40,080 --> 00:10:40,720 Speaker 5: you being. 253 00:10:40,600 --> 00:10:43,400 Speaker 4: Involved, you know, with now every pot. 254 00:10:43,000 --> 00:10:44,160 Speaker 3: Everybody does relationships. 255 00:10:44,240 --> 00:10:47,199 Speaker 5: Yeah, everybody, everybody got a podcast, everybody got a d M, 256 00:10:47,360 --> 00:10:49,520 Speaker 5: everybody got this, everybody you. 257 00:10:49,559 --> 00:10:51,000 Speaker 4: Know, it's an expert AI. 258 00:10:51,480 --> 00:10:54,600 Speaker 5: You know, everybody knows numbers and all this I mean, 259 00:10:54,720 --> 00:10:57,280 Speaker 5: is it Is it frustrating to you, Like how do 260 00:10:57,360 --> 00:11:01,160 Speaker 5: you sort of continue to keep you know, your information 261 00:11:01,320 --> 00:11:04,520 Speaker 5: and your sort of brand and you know, like everybody 262 00:11:04,720 --> 00:11:07,240 Speaker 5: you know, because because like everybody, everybody thinks they're a 263 00:11:07,280 --> 00:11:09,040 Speaker 5: nod ale and I've heard this and I've heard that, 264 00:11:09,120 --> 00:11:11,520 Speaker 5: and you just say shit all the time, like to. 265 00:11:11,520 --> 00:11:13,520 Speaker 4: Keep your shit the most fresh, not. 266 00:11:13,520 --> 00:11:15,640 Speaker 2: Just say shit, but they steal shit in two seconds 267 00:11:15,679 --> 00:11:17,840 Speaker 2: and I've talked to gods. Right, let's not do this. 268 00:11:18,200 --> 00:11:19,920 Speaker 2: You know, I talk to the other inside about it. Hey, 269 00:11:19,920 --> 00:11:22,160 Speaker 2: don't do it. You know, when there's enough scoop for 270 00:11:22,200 --> 00:11:24,160 Speaker 2: all of us to go around. But when guys start, 271 00:11:24,400 --> 00:11:28,080 Speaker 2: I tell them two things, Hey, don't ever get anything wrong. Ever, 272 00:11:28,840 --> 00:11:31,440 Speaker 2: most guys, they get so much pressure from their bosses, 273 00:11:31,920 --> 00:11:32,680 Speaker 2: they don't give a shit. 274 00:11:32,840 --> 00:11:34,160 Speaker 3: They just want to placate their bosses. 275 00:11:34,240 --> 00:11:36,040 Speaker 2: I'm like, look, you're gonna have a pressure to not 276 00:11:36,120 --> 00:11:38,920 Speaker 2: get beaten by me and Adam Schefter, but just make 277 00:11:38,960 --> 00:11:42,400 Speaker 2: sure you hold just don't get anything wrong. And that's huge. 278 00:11:42,640 --> 00:11:45,800 Speaker 2: And you know, I can count on less than one 279 00:11:45,840 --> 00:11:48,319 Speaker 2: hand things I've gotten wrong over the past thirty years. 280 00:11:48,320 --> 00:11:51,640 Speaker 2: My thirty second team and the same right, it's the 281 00:11:51,679 --> 00:11:54,440 Speaker 2: same time two years, and. 282 00:11:54,480 --> 00:11:59,320 Speaker 3: I look fantastic. I look, you look good. You look good, Jake. 283 00:12:00,120 --> 00:12:03,160 Speaker 2: But at the same time, I tell these guys also, 284 00:12:03,160 --> 00:12:05,520 Speaker 2: don't get anything wrong, but also don't steal people shit 285 00:12:05,800 --> 00:12:10,720 Speaker 2: like you'll never see me confirm something that ESPN, NFL 286 00:12:10,760 --> 00:12:11,319 Speaker 2: netward cats. 287 00:12:11,360 --> 00:12:13,400 Speaker 3: I'm like, if they got it, they must have confirmed it. 288 00:12:13,440 --> 00:12:14,240 Speaker 3: I don't do this shit. 289 00:12:14,640 --> 00:12:15,280 Speaker 4: You guys got it. 290 00:12:15,280 --> 00:12:15,800 Speaker 3: You guys got it. 291 00:12:15,840 --> 00:12:17,559 Speaker 2: But I would say, there's enough for us all to 292 00:12:17,600 --> 00:12:20,439 Speaker 2: go around just letting somebody else have it. But they've 293 00:12:20,559 --> 00:12:22,760 Speaker 2: kind of all got it down with science now where 294 00:12:22,800 --> 00:12:25,400 Speaker 2: they'll like credit you with the first tweet and then 295 00:12:25,440 --> 00:12:28,439 Speaker 2: put their own tweet out two seconds later that doesn't 296 00:12:28,440 --> 00:12:30,160 Speaker 2: have an name, so they could say we credit you, 297 00:12:30,600 --> 00:12:33,440 Speaker 2: and then that's the second tweet is the one that 298 00:12:33,520 --> 00:12:37,200 Speaker 2: gets They constantly retweet, retreat, so it gets forgotten about. 299 00:12:37,400 --> 00:12:38,960 Speaker 2: And I tell you a funny one. When I broke 300 00:12:39,080 --> 00:12:42,120 Speaker 2: this offseason that was pretty much at it came out 301 00:12:42,120 --> 00:12:45,599 Speaker 2: of nowhere that the Chargers were trading Keenan Allen to 302 00:12:45,640 --> 00:12:46,000 Speaker 2: the Bears. 303 00:12:46,240 --> 00:12:49,240 Speaker 3: Came out of nowhere. The person who told me. 304 00:12:49,280 --> 00:12:51,679 Speaker 2: I said, hey, I want you to and he's like, hey, 305 00:12:51,679 --> 00:12:53,920 Speaker 2: when you basically, when do you want to break it? Uh, 306 00:12:54,440 --> 00:12:56,760 Speaker 2: we got this done. It's up to you and it's yours. 307 00:12:57,040 --> 00:12:59,000 Speaker 2: I said, man, I'm gonna middle do it something. I 308 00:12:59,040 --> 00:13:01,480 Speaker 2: want to get it now. But I couldn't. And I said, hey, 309 00:13:01,600 --> 00:13:03,960 Speaker 2: probably about ten to fifteen minutes you think it a hold. 310 00:13:03,960 --> 00:13:06,800 Speaker 2: They're like, yeah, it's definitely hold. I said, great, no way, yeah, 311 00:13:06,880 --> 00:13:10,080 Speaker 2: I should have told you. No, I said, I want 312 00:13:10,120 --> 00:13:13,319 Speaker 2: you to watch what happens. I want you to bring 313 00:13:13,400 --> 00:13:16,480 Speaker 2: up every insider their Twitter, and I want you to 314 00:13:16,520 --> 00:13:18,480 Speaker 2: see what my business is like, and I want you 315 00:13:18,520 --> 00:13:21,400 Speaker 2: to see how they do it. And they called back 316 00:13:21,440 --> 00:13:23,679 Speaker 2: and they're like, your business is fucked up. 317 00:13:24,559 --> 00:13:25,560 Speaker 3: These people just. 318 00:13:25,760 --> 00:13:28,640 Speaker 2: Man, they're shame or they'll have somebody whople say they've learned, 319 00:13:28,880 --> 00:13:30,000 Speaker 2: but clearly they didn't. 320 00:13:30,559 --> 00:13:32,520 Speaker 3: Like they clearly didn't learn it, you know what I mean. 321 00:13:32,559 --> 00:13:34,640 Speaker 2: I decided when it came out, so it didn't happen 322 00:13:34,640 --> 00:13:36,440 Speaker 2: a second ago, and I was but it was really 323 00:13:36,440 --> 00:13:38,520 Speaker 2: fun and they were just it was an education for them, 324 00:13:38,559 --> 00:13:40,199 Speaker 2: but it was pretty wild. But I want to go 325 00:13:40,559 --> 00:13:42,800 Speaker 2: and you just talk about social media part how things 326 00:13:42,840 --> 00:13:46,720 Speaker 2: are changing, all right. So for me, I definitely was 327 00:13:46,840 --> 00:13:48,800 Speaker 2: crazier back in the day. I think as I've got 328 00:13:48,840 --> 00:13:51,200 Speaker 2: and that was kind of like my brand. Hey, Glazer's crazy. 329 00:13:51,200 --> 00:13:54,320 Speaker 2: But now, man, I started talking more mental health instead 330 00:13:54,320 --> 00:13:56,040 Speaker 2: of just crazy and more to pain of it, I 331 00:13:56,040 --> 00:13:56,760 Speaker 2: can help people. 332 00:13:57,000 --> 00:14:01,040 Speaker 3: I've become a lot more tame and almost like, all right, 333 00:14:01,080 --> 00:14:02,760 Speaker 3: now you got all this shit to lose you. 334 00:14:03,440 --> 00:14:05,600 Speaker 2: In the past, I was crazy because I figured I'd 335 00:14:05,640 --> 00:14:08,360 Speaker 2: lose it because I didn't deserve it, so I didn't care. 336 00:14:08,480 --> 00:14:10,000 Speaker 3: I was like, fuck, I'm gonna lose it anyway, I 337 00:14:10,040 --> 00:14:12,560 Speaker 3: might as well go. And that's kind of more where 338 00:14:12,559 --> 00:14:12,960 Speaker 3: I want to be. 339 00:14:13,000 --> 00:14:14,160 Speaker 2: And now I'm like, all right, I don't want to 340 00:14:14,200 --> 00:14:16,880 Speaker 2: lose what I have, So I become more tame, but 341 00:14:17,000 --> 00:14:18,920 Speaker 2: also as crazy as I am. 342 00:14:19,280 --> 00:14:21,080 Speaker 3: Right, I functioning, trained. 343 00:14:21,640 --> 00:14:24,600 Speaker 2: Thousand football players and fired as mixed martial arts. I 344 00:14:24,760 --> 00:14:27,480 Speaker 2: tangle with the best room. But my feelings get hurt easy. 345 00:14:27,880 --> 00:14:30,880 Speaker 2: So on social media when people say shit, shit, fucking 346 00:14:30,880 --> 00:14:33,480 Speaker 2: burd it gets me. So I tried not to look anymore. 347 00:14:33,800 --> 00:14:37,880 Speaker 2: You are attacking social media in a way where you 348 00:14:37,920 --> 00:14:41,880 Speaker 2: get fucking all this, where you get the worst, most hateful, 349 00:14:42,200 --> 00:14:46,040 Speaker 2: pain ash shit I've ever seen. How do you, Hey, 350 00:14:46,080 --> 00:14:48,720 Speaker 2: do you block it out? And how are you able 351 00:14:48,760 --> 00:14:49,680 Speaker 2: to compartmentalize it? 352 00:14:50,080 --> 00:14:53,560 Speaker 5: You know the way I compartmentalize it and the way 353 00:14:53,600 --> 00:14:55,360 Speaker 5: I block it out and the way I deal with it. 354 00:14:55,560 --> 00:14:56,720 Speaker 4: Uh, don't try. 355 00:14:56,720 --> 00:14:58,000 Speaker 3: I say it doesn't hurt the feelings. 356 00:14:58,360 --> 00:14:59,760 Speaker 4: It doesn't really hurt my feelings. 357 00:15:00,240 --> 00:15:04,080 Speaker 5: To be totally honest with you, you know, I got 358 00:15:04,120 --> 00:15:05,920 Speaker 5: a lot to learn from you here. You know the 359 00:15:05,960 --> 00:15:09,280 Speaker 5: people on social media. God blessed the ones who I know. 360 00:15:09,400 --> 00:15:13,360 Speaker 5: God blessed the ones who I don't know. First of all, 361 00:15:13,520 --> 00:15:17,760 Speaker 5: the majority of social media, particularly with the hate and 362 00:15:18,320 --> 00:15:24,040 Speaker 5: the political and the social and the anti anti semitism 363 00:15:24,080 --> 00:15:26,440 Speaker 5: and all that stuff, the majority of those people and 364 00:15:26,480 --> 00:15:29,480 Speaker 5: the majority of the tweets and the majority of the 365 00:15:29,520 --> 00:15:31,200 Speaker 5: responses are robots. 366 00:15:31,360 --> 00:15:33,400 Speaker 4: That's a fact. That is a fact. 367 00:15:33,640 --> 00:15:38,360 Speaker 5: Really, And fuck yeah, there's so many fake accounts, puppet 368 00:15:39,520 --> 00:15:43,200 Speaker 5: sock puppet accounts, you know, computer accounts and all that shit. 369 00:15:43,800 --> 00:15:44,280 Speaker 4: Number one. 370 00:15:44,360 --> 00:15:46,480 Speaker 5: Number two, if it is a real person, you know, 371 00:15:46,520 --> 00:15:49,120 Speaker 5: whether it's a compliment or negative. As far as on 372 00:15:49,160 --> 00:15:51,560 Speaker 5: social media, Like you know, if you say on the 373 00:15:51,600 --> 00:15:55,960 Speaker 5: greatest things since slice bread, I don't walk around going yo, 374 00:15:56,040 --> 00:15:58,280 Speaker 5: that person said, I'm the greatest thing since sliced bread. 375 00:15:58,600 --> 00:16:00,800 Speaker 5: So if I'm not going to take the compliment, I'm 376 00:16:00,840 --> 00:16:02,520 Speaker 5: certainly not going to take their insult. 377 00:16:02,880 --> 00:16:03,520 Speaker 4: There are some. 378 00:16:03,640 --> 00:16:06,840 Speaker 5: Times where you know you'll be like h. But for 379 00:16:06,920 --> 00:16:09,600 Speaker 5: the most part, I just keep keep rocking. It's just like, 380 00:16:10,680 --> 00:16:13,640 Speaker 5: you know, as far as fame and and people you 381 00:16:13,640 --> 00:16:16,200 Speaker 5: know coming up to me, you know, which I've been 382 00:16:16,280 --> 00:16:19,320 Speaker 5: fortunate enough, you know, to be an actor successful actor 383 00:16:19,360 --> 00:16:22,600 Speaker 5: for so many years, you know, and I've had so 384 00:16:22,680 --> 00:16:25,280 Speaker 5: many you know interactions with people saying, I love you 385 00:16:25,320 --> 00:16:26,720 Speaker 5: in this, I love you in that, this is my 386 00:16:26,800 --> 00:16:28,800 Speaker 5: favorite thing, This is my favorite and I and I 387 00:16:28,880 --> 00:16:32,480 Speaker 5: take it all in and I appreciate every single time 388 00:16:32,520 --> 00:16:35,640 Speaker 5: someone says that to me, because you know, it's being 389 00:16:35,640 --> 00:16:37,960 Speaker 5: an actor. There could be far worse things and nobody 390 00:16:38,040 --> 00:16:40,560 Speaker 5: knowing who you are. So sometimes you're like, you know, 391 00:16:40,600 --> 00:16:43,880 Speaker 5: you don't want to talk sometimes, but I I'm blessed 392 00:16:44,120 --> 00:16:46,440 Speaker 5: to be doing this so long that people, you know, 393 00:16:46,480 --> 00:16:49,360 Speaker 5: if I've given joy, you know, from one thing or another. 394 00:16:50,160 --> 00:16:52,680 Speaker 5: But it doesn't make me feel like I'm you know, 395 00:16:52,800 --> 00:16:55,840 Speaker 5: I'm the shit. I'm the greatest actor ever, you know. 396 00:16:55,880 --> 00:16:58,000 Speaker 5: And if someone said you sucked in this, you sucked 397 00:16:58,000 --> 00:17:00,280 Speaker 5: in that, it wouldn't matter really at the end of 398 00:17:00,320 --> 00:17:00,680 Speaker 5: the day. 399 00:17:01,360 --> 00:17:03,920 Speaker 4: And it sounds like a cliche. It sounds like a cliche, 400 00:17:03,960 --> 00:17:04,720 Speaker 4: but it is true. 401 00:17:04,800 --> 00:17:08,199 Speaker 5: And because when people you know, young young actors or 402 00:17:08,640 --> 00:17:11,160 Speaker 5: podcasters or even you know, people that want to get 403 00:17:11,200 --> 00:17:13,919 Speaker 5: in you know, sort of media, they ask me, you know, 404 00:17:14,160 --> 00:17:16,960 Speaker 5: what's the thing I say, the most important thing, and 405 00:17:17,040 --> 00:17:19,640 Speaker 5: I say this to myself still at fifty four years old, 406 00:17:19,960 --> 00:17:22,960 Speaker 5: is you must be your biggest fan and you must 407 00:17:23,000 --> 00:17:26,080 Speaker 5: be your harshest critic, and that's what sort of keeps 408 00:17:26,119 --> 00:17:29,240 Speaker 5: me in, you know, in line, you know that, and 409 00:17:29,320 --> 00:17:30,240 Speaker 5: my wife. 410 00:17:30,240 --> 00:17:31,080 Speaker 4: Keep me bounced. 411 00:17:31,200 --> 00:17:31,359 Speaker 3: You know. 412 00:17:31,520 --> 00:17:34,040 Speaker 4: So as far as the social media shit, I don't 413 00:17:34,080 --> 00:17:36,639 Speaker 4: take the compliments, you know, to heart. 414 00:17:36,800 --> 00:17:39,280 Speaker 5: I appreciate every single one of them, and I certainly 415 00:17:39,320 --> 00:17:42,640 Speaker 5: am not going to take, you know, the insults to heart. 416 00:17:42,680 --> 00:17:45,000 Speaker 5: And it's part of the game, you know. I'm used 417 00:17:45,000 --> 00:17:48,560 Speaker 5: to it, you know, and I do. I do know 418 00:17:48,680 --> 00:17:52,240 Speaker 5: that a lot of it is is is faith your stuff, 419 00:17:52,560 --> 00:17:57,480 Speaker 5: because you know, especially regarding football, football fans are fucking crazy. 420 00:17:57,520 --> 00:18:00,520 Speaker 5: Sports fans are not. So if you just pointed with 421 00:18:00,640 --> 00:18:02,400 Speaker 5: Das and Jay, you don't know what the fuck you're 422 00:18:02,400 --> 00:18:05,400 Speaker 5: talking about or whatever shit they might say to you. 423 00:18:05,400 --> 00:18:08,119 Speaker 5: You know, you you told Michael Rapport you look fantastic, 424 00:18:08,200 --> 00:18:10,280 Speaker 5: you look like shit, blah blahah blah blah blah. 425 00:18:10,359 --> 00:18:11,479 Speaker 4: You know all these things. 426 00:18:11,840 --> 00:18:14,399 Speaker 5: You know, it's like, all right, cool whatever, But you know, 427 00:18:14,440 --> 00:18:17,239 Speaker 5: football and sports fans, it's it's it's a crazier thing. 428 00:18:17,280 --> 00:18:19,480 Speaker 4: Like if you get bad information or misinformation. 429 00:18:19,680 --> 00:18:22,200 Speaker 5: You said, you know, Aaron Rodgers is gonna play and 430 00:18:22,280 --> 00:18:24,800 Speaker 5: you know his achilles is healthy, but he didn't. 431 00:18:24,560 --> 00:18:27,080 Speaker 4: Make it past this gi you know, all those things, you. 432 00:18:27,040 --> 00:18:28,879 Speaker 5: Know, But at the end of the day, I'd like 433 00:18:28,920 --> 00:18:31,040 Speaker 5: to think that most of those people are are you know, 434 00:18:31,080 --> 00:18:32,400 Speaker 5: they're crazy sports fans. 435 00:18:32,400 --> 00:18:35,080 Speaker 4: They're not just crazy people gonna do something crazy. 436 00:18:35,119 --> 00:18:37,480 Speaker 3: It's just, yeah, why I think half of it is 437 00:18:37,600 --> 00:18:38,080 Speaker 3: hurt people. 438 00:18:38,160 --> 00:18:42,120 Speaker 2: Hurt people, and everyone's hurt nowadays, right, so they want 439 00:18:42,160 --> 00:18:44,159 Speaker 2: to I did melt down a couple of years ago. 440 00:18:44,200 --> 00:18:46,320 Speaker 2: I reported that out of nowhere that Giants we're going 441 00:18:46,359 --> 00:18:49,639 Speaker 2: to trade Odell Beckham, and you Giant fans, what fucking 442 00:18:49,720 --> 00:18:50,679 Speaker 2: ballistic on me? 443 00:18:51,240 --> 00:18:53,080 Speaker 3: By the way, I've been covering the team since ninety three. 444 00:18:53,280 --> 00:18:55,520 Speaker 2: So then I get mad, going, oh shit, Gladiers said 445 00:18:55,520 --> 00:18:58,240 Speaker 2: that must be true, and they did it, and I 446 00:18:58,359 --> 00:19:00,359 Speaker 2: ended up sending out a tweet, and I've got in 447 00:19:00,400 --> 00:19:01,240 Speaker 2: trouble a couple of times. 448 00:19:01,440 --> 00:19:02,119 Speaker 3: I regret it. 449 00:19:02,280 --> 00:19:04,520 Speaker 2: One time I got into it with some OF's wife what. 450 00:19:04,840 --> 00:19:07,000 Speaker 2: I liked the guy a lot and probably should have 451 00:19:07,000 --> 00:19:08,280 Speaker 2: I definitely shouldn't say what I said. 452 00:19:09,119 --> 00:19:13,440 Speaker 3: I was coming back from a fighting. 453 00:19:11,920 --> 00:19:13,719 Speaker 2: But chuck Leedell and he just lost and I was 454 00:19:13,840 --> 00:19:17,520 Speaker 2: with him and I was in a bad mood. But 455 00:19:17,600 --> 00:19:19,320 Speaker 2: a couple of times I kind of do shit and 456 00:19:20,440 --> 00:19:24,040 Speaker 2: but this one was to all those giant fans who 457 00:19:24,080 --> 00:19:24,560 Speaker 2: were killing me. 458 00:19:24,560 --> 00:19:27,080 Speaker 3: I was like, hey, all you fuck sticks out there who. 459 00:19:26,920 --> 00:19:29,480 Speaker 2: Got mad at me and my mom and my kid's 460 00:19:29,560 --> 00:19:32,320 Speaker 2: mom and my son's like all this shit. I said, 461 00:19:32,440 --> 00:19:34,119 Speaker 2: do you get this man when your kid gets a 462 00:19:34,200 --> 00:19:36,760 Speaker 2: D on the report card? No, so shut the fuck up, 463 00:19:36,880 --> 00:19:39,240 Speaker 2: leave me the fuck alone. And it went it's about 464 00:19:39,320 --> 00:19:42,360 Speaker 2: viral thing I ever did, and really yeah, my bosters 465 00:19:42,359 --> 00:19:44,920 Speaker 2: were and then Strayhand was even like, bro, we all 466 00:19:44,920 --> 00:19:47,080 Speaker 2: wish we could do that. 467 00:19:47,080 --> 00:19:49,560 Speaker 3: That's who you are. You're that guy now right back 468 00:19:49,600 --> 00:19:49,880 Speaker 3: that guy. 469 00:19:49,920 --> 00:19:51,879 Speaker 2: And they called me, they go, hey, y okay, I'm like, 470 00:19:52,000 --> 00:19:54,200 Speaker 2: yem fine, They go, well, you you know, did you 471 00:19:54,240 --> 00:19:56,199 Speaker 2: really have to call people fox sticks? And said I 472 00:19:56,240 --> 00:19:58,640 Speaker 2: did because they weren't just hitting me. They're going on 473 00:19:58,720 --> 00:20:02,119 Speaker 2: my friends. And then people who I was helping with sobriety, 474 00:20:02,320 --> 00:20:05,720 Speaker 2: they're going on here Instagram saying hey, I hope you 475 00:20:05,800 --> 00:20:08,120 Speaker 2: fucking fall up because you're you're friends with this guy. 476 00:20:08,119 --> 00:20:11,080 Speaker 2: I hope you fucking you junkie this and fucking terrible. 477 00:20:11,160 --> 00:20:12,600 Speaker 2: Who would say that's crazy? 478 00:20:12,680 --> 00:20:15,000 Speaker 5: That's crazy And if the if the worst thing you said, 479 00:20:15,000 --> 00:20:15,720 Speaker 5: it's fox sticks. 480 00:20:15,760 --> 00:20:21,159 Speaker 4: I mean, it's good, that's g rating for you. It's sticks. 481 00:20:21,160 --> 00:20:23,040 Speaker 5: I mean, that's like, that's what at least it's an 482 00:20:23,040 --> 00:20:27,040 Speaker 5: insult that makes you like a fox stick is a funny. 483 00:20:27,240 --> 00:20:29,199 Speaker 2: So I got another question pre here, but I know, 484 00:20:29,440 --> 00:20:31,399 Speaker 2: fuck I got you know clinical ADHD. 485 00:20:31,440 --> 00:20:31,919 Speaker 3: I know you have. 486 00:20:32,240 --> 00:20:35,280 Speaker 2: You've talked about your A D D. Also, so you 487 00:20:35,320 --> 00:20:39,080 Speaker 2: said the sides for you when you're acting were easy. Yes, 488 00:20:39,240 --> 00:20:40,600 Speaker 2: I'm going to ask you how so what I did? 489 00:20:40,640 --> 00:20:44,080 Speaker 2: I did five years of Ballers, right, and yeah, I 490 00:20:44,240 --> 00:20:46,600 Speaker 2: got saying thing. I couldn't remember any when I do Fox, 491 00:20:46,600 --> 00:20:49,760 Speaker 2: I don't have any Telepropter. I just go and you know, 492 00:20:49,840 --> 00:20:51,400 Speaker 2: I have to names the guys I'm gonna talk about 493 00:20:51,400 --> 00:20:53,679 Speaker 2: for the ins and ounce, but none of us besides 494 00:20:53,720 --> 00:20:56,639 Speaker 2: Kurtent of Telepropter, we just go. But also I wasn't 495 00:20:56,680 --> 00:21:00,280 Speaker 2: really able with my add to remember ship and if 496 00:21:00,280 --> 00:21:04,200 Speaker 2: finally Dwayne, thank god, the Rockers, just like, just just 497 00:21:04,200 --> 00:21:04,960 Speaker 2: just let him be him. 498 00:21:05,040 --> 00:21:06,960 Speaker 3: Just don't feel like I'm like I said, right, just 499 00:21:07,000 --> 00:21:07,680 Speaker 3: let him do him. 500 00:21:08,000 --> 00:21:12,800 Speaker 2: How are you able to remember pages and pages of 501 00:21:13,280 --> 00:21:15,920 Speaker 2: copy to remember of your lines and side? 502 00:21:16,480 --> 00:21:19,960 Speaker 5: You know, you you go over it. It's it's like 503 00:21:20,000 --> 00:21:22,359 Speaker 5: a muscle it's like a memory muscle. For me, it's 504 00:21:22,400 --> 00:21:24,159 Speaker 5: like a memory muscle. It's like if you you know, 505 00:21:24,200 --> 00:21:26,879 Speaker 5: you're doing a weird exercise and you know, like a 506 00:21:26,880 --> 00:21:29,520 Speaker 5: burpie or something like that. It's like eventually you'll it'll 507 00:21:29,520 --> 00:21:33,560 Speaker 5: start to become easier and easier, and and to be honest, 508 00:21:33,600 --> 00:21:36,480 Speaker 5: if it's good writing, I have no problem with it. 509 00:21:36,720 --> 00:21:39,400 Speaker 5: Like the only time I've had problems with with lines 510 00:21:39,520 --> 00:21:42,520 Speaker 5: or scenes. And one thing people don't understand is when 511 00:21:42,560 --> 00:21:45,080 Speaker 5: you shoot a movie, you shoot a TV show, you 512 00:21:45,119 --> 00:21:48,119 Speaker 5: shoot that scene, whether it's a one page scene, a 513 00:21:48,160 --> 00:21:51,040 Speaker 5: five page scene, so you're not focusing on the whole 514 00:21:51,119 --> 00:21:53,720 Speaker 5: one hundred and twenty page script or sixty page script. 515 00:21:53,720 --> 00:21:56,160 Speaker 5: If you're doing TV, you show. 516 00:21:55,960 --> 00:21:57,200 Speaker 3: It over and over and over and over. 517 00:21:57,280 --> 00:22:02,440 Speaker 5: Yeah, yeah, exactly. But but in general, as far as 518 00:22:02,480 --> 00:22:07,560 Speaker 5: memory memorizing lines and stuff like that, it's it's not 519 00:22:07,560 --> 00:22:10,480 Speaker 5: that hard, particularly if it's if it's good writing. If 520 00:22:10,520 --> 00:22:12,919 Speaker 5: it's good writing, and this is what we do, you know, 521 00:22:13,000 --> 00:22:15,320 Speaker 5: like this is this is what I do. And it 522 00:22:15,480 --> 00:22:19,040 Speaker 5: just like I said, you know, I spent you know, hours, 523 00:22:19,440 --> 00:22:23,119 Speaker 5: more than ten thousand hours hoping, praying, working on my 524 00:22:23,200 --> 00:22:26,119 Speaker 5: left hand, working on my right hand, you know, crossover dribble, 525 00:22:26,119 --> 00:22:28,520 Speaker 5: step back dribble, you know, step back, jump shut. 526 00:22:28,640 --> 00:22:30,280 Speaker 4: And it just never came as easy. 527 00:22:30,040 --> 00:22:32,200 Speaker 5: As acting to me. And it just makes sense to me. 528 00:22:32,320 --> 00:22:35,000 Speaker 5: It just makes sense to me. And performing, you know, 529 00:22:35,160 --> 00:22:36,400 Speaker 5: it just it makes. 530 00:22:36,240 --> 00:22:37,760 Speaker 4: Sense to me, right Like. 531 00:22:37,680 --> 00:22:40,119 Speaker 5: It's just like it's a it's like an intrinsic thing. 532 00:22:40,160 --> 00:22:42,200 Speaker 4: It's just like like a natural thing. 533 00:22:42,280 --> 00:22:44,280 Speaker 5: Not to say that I don't work at it, but 534 00:22:44,320 --> 00:22:47,240 Speaker 5: it just it just comes naturally to me. And getting 535 00:22:47,240 --> 00:22:49,720 Speaker 5: the emotions and all that stuff, it all comes naturally 536 00:22:49,760 --> 00:22:50,000 Speaker 5: to me. 537 00:22:50,840 --> 00:22:53,479 Speaker 3: You know again, you started a stand up comic. I 538 00:22:53,520 --> 00:22:57,920 Speaker 3: actually started as coming in nineteen eighty nine, what a 539 00:22:57,960 --> 00:22:58,760 Speaker 3: lot of people don't know. 540 00:22:59,400 --> 00:23:02,880 Speaker 2: And that to me was way harder than getting kicked 541 00:23:02,920 --> 00:23:04,960 Speaker 2: in my face by Chuck Wodell in a cage. 542 00:23:05,640 --> 00:23:06,480 Speaker 4: That's crazy. 543 00:23:06,920 --> 00:23:09,919 Speaker 3: It's because I felt like I had no control. I 544 00:23:09,960 --> 00:23:12,200 Speaker 3: felt like I get it right, like if I had. 545 00:23:12,400 --> 00:23:13,359 Speaker 3: You got a great set. 546 00:23:13,400 --> 00:23:16,080 Speaker 2: But like the guy before you shit the bed or 547 00:23:16,160 --> 00:23:19,639 Speaker 2: the waiter sucks, or the someone in the crow, whatever 548 00:23:19,680 --> 00:23:23,640 Speaker 2: it is. I mean, what for you is the hardest 549 00:23:23,640 --> 00:23:26,000 Speaker 2: thing about comedy and the easiest thing. 550 00:23:26,400 --> 00:23:28,440 Speaker 4: That's a good question. The easiest thing is I never 551 00:23:28,480 --> 00:23:29,240 Speaker 4: had any fear. 552 00:23:30,040 --> 00:23:32,919 Speaker 5: You know, you get nervous sometimes a big show, you know, 553 00:23:33,359 --> 00:23:34,840 Speaker 5: or or if you're doing new stuff, there. 554 00:23:34,840 --> 00:23:37,040 Speaker 4: Might be a little tinge of adrenaline. 555 00:23:37,520 --> 00:23:40,680 Speaker 5: That's the easiest part of it, you know, I would 556 00:23:40,720 --> 00:23:43,440 Speaker 5: say the hardest part of it is, you know, writing, 557 00:23:43,520 --> 00:23:45,840 Speaker 5: coming up with new stuff, coming up with stuff that's 558 00:23:46,440 --> 00:23:50,640 Speaker 5: totally genuine to me. And but you know, the silence 559 00:23:50,760 --> 00:23:55,680 Speaker 5: never never made me feel scared. You know, failing never 560 00:23:55,720 --> 00:23:59,399 Speaker 5: made me feel scared. On stage, I would be way 561 00:23:59,440 --> 00:24:01,760 Speaker 5: more concerned about getting kicked in the face by Chuck 562 00:24:01,840 --> 00:24:06,240 Speaker 5: Ladell or you or any any any anybody else, and 563 00:24:06,600 --> 00:24:08,679 Speaker 5: that would be way more of a concern for me. 564 00:24:09,080 --> 00:24:09,320 Speaker 4: You know. 565 00:24:09,800 --> 00:24:12,879 Speaker 5: The reality about stand up is, you know, for the 566 00:24:12,920 --> 00:24:15,239 Speaker 5: most part, unless you're at that level where people are 567 00:24:15,240 --> 00:24:18,600 Speaker 5: just gonna laugh, you know, Kevin Hart, the great ones, 568 00:24:18,640 --> 00:24:20,520 Speaker 5: the big ones who people come to see and they 569 00:24:20,600 --> 00:24:24,040 Speaker 5: spend their money. You know, they've built this such a 570 00:24:24,080 --> 00:24:27,560 Speaker 5: trust with the audience. Uh, and they've earned that, Jerry Seinfel, 571 00:24:27,560 --> 00:24:30,960 Speaker 5: whoever it is, they know that at a certain point 572 00:24:31,080 --> 00:24:33,000 Speaker 5: they're getting laughs because of who they are. 573 00:24:33,040 --> 00:24:34,679 Speaker 4: You know, and obviously they fight through that. 574 00:24:35,119 --> 00:24:36,479 Speaker 5: But at the end of the day, you know, if 575 00:24:36,480 --> 00:24:38,760 Speaker 5: you're doing, you know, just you know, a spot at 576 00:24:38,760 --> 00:24:40,919 Speaker 5: the improv or a spot at the laugh actor are 577 00:24:41,240 --> 00:24:44,919 Speaker 5: like a local club. You know, Uh, some nights you 578 00:24:44,960 --> 00:24:46,920 Speaker 5: got it, some nights you don't have it. You could 579 00:24:46,960 --> 00:24:50,040 Speaker 5: bring some shitty energy to a crowd and it not 580 00:24:50,160 --> 00:24:53,679 Speaker 5: worked you. The crowd just might not be driving with 581 00:24:53,760 --> 00:24:56,080 Speaker 5: you. You might not be on your game, and you know, 582 00:24:56,160 --> 00:24:58,640 Speaker 5: it's like it's like bad, it's like batting. It's like, yo, 583 00:24:58,920 --> 00:25:01,920 Speaker 5: all right, I struck out next night. You you keep going. 584 00:25:02,320 --> 00:25:04,919 Speaker 5: I don't take that ship personally. I think you know, 585 00:25:05,080 --> 00:25:06,560 Speaker 5: a lot of stand up comics. 586 00:25:06,200 --> 00:25:09,840 Speaker 4: State they struggle with that, you know, specific specifically. 587 00:25:09,240 --> 00:25:11,480 Speaker 5: Stand up comic. I think that's why they get, you know, 588 00:25:11,520 --> 00:25:14,679 Speaker 5: they're they're they're very specific breed. I consider myself. 589 00:25:14,440 --> 00:25:16,119 Speaker 4: An actor before I am a stand up comic. 590 00:25:16,440 --> 00:25:19,800 Speaker 5: Like stand up comedians, their personality is fucked up, like 591 00:25:20,000 --> 00:25:21,040 Speaker 5: pure stand ups. 592 00:25:21,400 --> 00:25:24,320 Speaker 4: They're they're weird. They're weirder than actors and they're weirder 593 00:25:24,320 --> 00:25:24,680 Speaker 4: than you. 594 00:25:24,960 --> 00:25:28,840 Speaker 5: And that's hard to be wed h J. But you know, 595 00:25:28,880 --> 00:25:31,080 Speaker 5: I just keep it in perspective, and you know, if 596 00:25:31,119 --> 00:25:33,360 Speaker 5: you kick ass, I don't think I'm you know, Eddie 597 00:25:33,400 --> 00:25:35,840 Speaker 5: Murphy in the Red suit and and if I if 598 00:25:35,880 --> 00:25:38,120 Speaker 5: I suck, I don't think that you know that there's 599 00:25:38,200 --> 00:25:39,280 Speaker 5: there's not the next show. 600 00:25:39,320 --> 00:25:41,560 Speaker 4: You know, you just keep keep swinging. And I know 601 00:25:41,600 --> 00:25:43,280 Speaker 4: that sounds kind of basic, cause. 602 00:25:43,119 --> 00:25:45,800 Speaker 5: If like that, but that's just how I I keep, 603 00:25:45,920 --> 00:25:48,480 Speaker 5: you know, I keep a level sort of playing field 604 00:25:48,520 --> 00:25:49,120 Speaker 5: with myself. 605 00:25:49,320 --> 00:25:50,280 Speaker 4: I'm fair to myself. 606 00:25:50,280 --> 00:25:52,480 Speaker 5: And like I said, I'm my biggest critic and my 607 00:25:52,760 --> 00:25:53,400 Speaker 5: biggest fan. 608 00:25:54,520 --> 00:25:56,720 Speaker 2: I understand the biggest fan part, right, kind of love 609 00:25:56,760 --> 00:25:58,080 Speaker 2: yourself up. A lot of us don't know how to 610 00:25:58,119 --> 00:26:01,399 Speaker 2: love ourselves up. You have to write and we have 611 00:26:01,440 --> 00:26:04,120 Speaker 2: to give ourselves grace. And most people they just well, 612 00:26:04,200 --> 00:26:06,560 Speaker 2: I shouldn't say most, a lot too many, Oh know 613 00:26:06,640 --> 00:26:08,719 Speaker 2: how we have to practice that. If I get up 614 00:26:08,760 --> 00:26:11,040 Speaker 2: every morning, I'll put a song on it, I'll meditate. 615 00:26:11,080 --> 00:26:13,639 Speaker 2: And now i'll meditate, I'll think about things that I 616 00:26:13,640 --> 00:26:16,760 Speaker 2: am grateful for. For one song, it could be anything. 617 00:26:16,800 --> 00:26:18,600 Speaker 2: It could be fucking pair of shoes I was going by, 618 00:26:18,640 --> 00:26:20,200 Speaker 2: but it could be things I've done in the past. 619 00:26:20,280 --> 00:26:21,800 Speaker 2: It could be the same thing over and over and over. 620 00:26:22,680 --> 00:26:24,760 Speaker 2: But then also things. The next song is things I'm 621 00:26:24,800 --> 00:26:27,439 Speaker 2: proud of, and I I've got. 622 00:26:27,320 --> 00:26:29,200 Speaker 3: To work at it. I've got to work at being 623 00:26:29,320 --> 00:26:30,439 Speaker 3: proud at these things. 624 00:26:31,080 --> 00:26:33,959 Speaker 2: And you know, people look and they feel like, well, 625 00:26:34,000 --> 00:26:37,080 Speaker 2: I'm not being humble if I'm bragging about myself. Fuck, 626 00:26:37,160 --> 00:26:39,240 Speaker 2: yes you are. You you did it. It ain't bragging 627 00:26:39,240 --> 00:26:42,240 Speaker 2: if it's true, you can do it right. So but 628 00:26:42,359 --> 00:26:45,879 Speaker 2: my question is how what to look like to be 629 00:26:45,920 --> 00:26:46,639 Speaker 2: your biggest critic? 630 00:26:46,920 --> 00:26:47,520 Speaker 3: What does that mean? 631 00:26:48,080 --> 00:26:48,919 Speaker 4: That's a good question. 632 00:26:49,600 --> 00:26:51,240 Speaker 5: What it looks like to me to be my biggest 633 00:26:51,240 --> 00:26:55,320 Speaker 5: critic is it's really in relationships. You know, all the 634 00:26:55,359 --> 00:26:58,439 Speaker 5: business shit and acting and you know this show, that 635 00:26:58,520 --> 00:27:02,000 Speaker 5: show and this takes that take, you know, this meeting 636 00:27:02,160 --> 00:27:02,840 Speaker 5: that shit is. 637 00:27:03,600 --> 00:27:05,960 Speaker 4: It's it's really like in my personal life. You know, 638 00:27:06,000 --> 00:27:08,840 Speaker 4: it's really with my wife. It's really like how. 639 00:27:08,680 --> 00:27:12,280 Speaker 5: I behave uh, you know, throughout the day, how I 640 00:27:12,400 --> 00:27:15,560 Speaker 5: keep you know, I'm a very emotional person, as you 641 00:27:15,560 --> 00:27:20,080 Speaker 5: can imagine. And you know, sometimes with my emotions, you know, 642 00:27:20,240 --> 00:27:21,040 Speaker 5: get the better of me. 643 00:27:21,960 --> 00:27:23,879 Speaker 4: They've gotten I've gotten way better as. 644 00:27:23,840 --> 00:27:26,439 Speaker 5: As I've getting gotten older, and and it could just 645 00:27:26,560 --> 00:27:29,639 Speaker 5: be you know, even in the car seeing you motherfucker 646 00:27:29,680 --> 00:27:31,199 Speaker 5: get the fuck out of my way. You know, like 647 00:27:31,320 --> 00:27:34,080 Speaker 5: I used to not even pay attention to that kind 648 00:27:34,119 --> 00:27:35,879 Speaker 5: of thing. Just simple as that. I'm not telling them 649 00:27:36,040 --> 00:27:38,840 Speaker 5: like I'm never like crazy road rage person, but even 650 00:27:38,960 --> 00:27:42,240 Speaker 5: simple as that or you know, stupid shit like traffic. 651 00:27:42,320 --> 00:27:45,280 Speaker 5: But you know, just being the best person I can't 652 00:27:45,320 --> 00:27:48,040 Speaker 5: be in the best listener I can, and being in 653 00:27:48,119 --> 00:27:52,000 Speaker 5: control of my emotions, and and being you know, the 654 00:27:52,400 --> 00:27:55,640 Speaker 5: best husband, the best father, the best friend, and and 655 00:27:56,000 --> 00:27:58,119 Speaker 5: you know, and and the list goes down. But it really, 656 00:27:58,240 --> 00:28:00,479 Speaker 5: you know, has to do with you know, the personal 657 00:28:00,560 --> 00:28:04,080 Speaker 5: ship is the most important, and you know the other things. 658 00:28:04,280 --> 00:28:06,600 Speaker 5: You know, I feel like I have a good traction 659 00:28:06,680 --> 00:28:08,520 Speaker 5: on professional life, you know. 660 00:28:08,680 --> 00:28:11,000 Speaker 4: But but I'm you know, sorry as being grateful. 661 00:28:11,040 --> 00:28:14,640 Speaker 5: I mean, I'm certainly you know, during this hostage crisis, 662 00:28:14,680 --> 00:28:15,480 Speaker 5: you know, Jay. 663 00:28:15,720 --> 00:28:18,840 Speaker 4: You know, like really, you know, being grateful. 664 00:28:18,960 --> 00:28:22,760 Speaker 5: It sounds stupid, you know, or it sounds sort of cliche, 665 00:28:22,840 --> 00:28:25,199 Speaker 5: but like being grateful to be able to wake up 666 00:28:25,240 --> 00:28:27,359 Speaker 5: in my own bed, being grateful to be able to, 667 00:28:27,400 --> 00:28:29,359 Speaker 5: you know, go piss when I want to piss to 668 00:28:29,440 --> 00:28:32,080 Speaker 5: being grateful to be able to you know, get a 669 00:28:32,160 --> 00:28:34,520 Speaker 5: kiss and a hug like these these things have gotten 670 00:28:35,320 --> 00:28:39,000 Speaker 5: so much more important to me, and I've become a 671 00:28:39,040 --> 00:28:41,960 Speaker 5: lot more aware of them. To be totally honest with you, 672 00:28:41,960 --> 00:28:44,160 Speaker 5: you know, through throughout this because I know that so 673 00:28:44,240 --> 00:28:47,520 Speaker 5: many other people you know, can't. And and and I'm 674 00:28:47,600 --> 00:28:49,560 Speaker 5: conscious of that, you know, throughout the day. 675 00:28:49,680 --> 00:28:50,480 Speaker 4: I really am. 676 00:28:50,560 --> 00:28:53,400 Speaker 5: And and you know, and I and I and I am. 677 00:28:53,480 --> 00:28:56,400 Speaker 5: I'm aware of that every single day. And and you know, 678 00:28:56,440 --> 00:28:58,560 Speaker 5: the more and more I think I'm aware of those things. 679 00:28:58,600 --> 00:29:00,400 Speaker 5: You know, there's a you know, it gets bigger and 680 00:29:00,400 --> 00:29:02,040 Speaker 5: bigger of what you can do, what you can't do, 681 00:29:02,080 --> 00:29:05,400 Speaker 5: what you you know, the blessing to be even have internet, 682 00:29:05,440 --> 00:29:07,440 Speaker 5: to be able to talk to you on this, you know. 683 00:29:07,800 --> 00:29:10,440 Speaker 5: I mean there's so many different things that I can't 684 00:29:10,480 --> 00:29:13,720 Speaker 5: complain about, you know, if fucking traffic or you know, 685 00:29:13,800 --> 00:29:16,719 Speaker 5: my my coffee getting fucked up. It's like, you know, 686 00:29:17,920 --> 00:29:21,440 Speaker 5: I live a super duper blessed life, you know, and 687 00:29:21,520 --> 00:29:24,760 Speaker 5: my health fortunately is in good, you know condition. 688 00:29:24,920 --> 00:29:28,520 Speaker 4: So it's hard to you know, really really complain about 689 00:29:28,560 --> 00:29:29,920 Speaker 4: a lot. That's the truth. 690 00:29:30,280 --> 00:29:33,240 Speaker 2: Look, I love the fact that you're constantly out there also, 691 00:29:33,680 --> 00:29:35,800 Speaker 2: you know, make sure everybody knows that there's still houses 692 00:29:35,960 --> 00:29:37,000 Speaker 2: just God, and I love that. 693 00:29:37,040 --> 00:29:37,600 Speaker 3: I love that. 694 00:29:37,880 --> 00:29:39,600 Speaker 2: And I think the whole thing has kind of got 695 00:29:39,760 --> 00:29:43,240 Speaker 2: convoluted of you know, between war of Israel and God's 696 00:29:43,280 --> 00:29:44,960 Speaker 2: and what's going on. But it really is about those 697 00:29:45,000 --> 00:29:47,560 Speaker 2: people that we're living everyday lives and all of a 698 00:29:47,560 --> 00:29:50,760 Speaker 2: sudden their lives were taken from them, and we people 699 00:29:50,800 --> 00:29:52,080 Speaker 2: have kind of lost their eye on the ball, in 700 00:29:52,080 --> 00:29:52,600 Speaker 2: my opinion. 701 00:29:52,920 --> 00:29:55,520 Speaker 3: So I do appreciate that you've constantly done that. 702 00:29:56,160 --> 00:30:00,160 Speaker 2: You just and again, I had a guest on here 703 00:30:00,160 --> 00:30:04,520 Speaker 2: and I'm Shawshanna Johnson, the first ever black female American 704 00:30:04,520 --> 00:30:08,280 Speaker 2: pow and her description and she was caught. She was 705 00:30:08,360 --> 00:30:11,479 Speaker 2: in captive for keptating for twenty two days, and she 706 00:30:11,480 --> 00:30:13,680 Speaker 2: told she was a day away from losing her life. 707 00:30:13,800 --> 00:30:15,640 Speaker 2: She thought she got her last meal the night before 708 00:30:15,880 --> 00:30:17,800 Speaker 2: next to Saddam's hometown to greet. 709 00:30:17,960 --> 00:30:18,840 Speaker 3: They kept moving her. 710 00:30:19,000 --> 00:30:21,520 Speaker 2: But she said, right when it happened, she said, and 711 00:30:21,560 --> 00:30:24,200 Speaker 2: this is on the podcast, she said, I they did 712 00:30:24,320 --> 00:30:26,800 Speaker 2: mean the same thing that Amasa has done to the 713 00:30:26,840 --> 00:30:29,280 Speaker 2: Israelis that they've taken from the music. 714 00:30:29,000 --> 00:30:33,080 Speaker 3: Festival and the kibbutz. She said, they put me in 715 00:30:33,080 --> 00:30:33,520 Speaker 3: the back. 716 00:30:33,400 --> 00:30:35,200 Speaker 2: Of a truck and they spit at me, and they 717 00:30:35,280 --> 00:30:37,479 Speaker 2: beat me, and they paraded me from town to town 718 00:30:37,640 --> 00:30:40,520 Speaker 2: and she got put I think at seven different places. 719 00:30:40,840 --> 00:30:44,600 Speaker 3: And it's just man's it's not the way God wanted 720 00:30:44,640 --> 00:30:47,880 Speaker 3: a stack. Let's say that. Okay, not at all. 721 00:30:48,400 --> 00:30:50,760 Speaker 2: And you know, again, I think we've lost track of 722 00:30:50,840 --> 00:30:52,520 Speaker 2: those innocent. 723 00:30:52,160 --> 00:30:54,400 Speaker 3: People you were just there. 724 00:30:55,560 --> 00:30:58,360 Speaker 2: How was the experience for you in Israel when you 725 00:30:58,360 --> 00:31:01,200 Speaker 2: were there? And also like, how are I know what's 726 00:31:01,240 --> 00:31:04,680 Speaker 2: going on? How is the relationship and I don't want 727 00:31:04,720 --> 00:31:07,760 Speaker 2: to diving a whole political thing or the relationship inside 728 00:31:07,880 --> 00:31:12,120 Speaker 2: Israel between the Israelis and the the Iarbs who lived 729 00:31:12,120 --> 00:31:12,600 Speaker 2: there together. 730 00:31:13,040 --> 00:31:16,640 Speaker 5: From what you saw, yeah, well, you know, obviously Israel 731 00:31:17,720 --> 00:31:19,840 Speaker 5: there's a lot of sadness, there's a lot of heartbreak, 732 00:31:20,560 --> 00:31:24,400 Speaker 5: There's a tremendous amount of of PTSD. 733 00:31:24,720 --> 00:31:27,080 Speaker 4: It's a small place, you know, Israel is the size 734 00:31:27,080 --> 00:31:27,840 Speaker 4: of New Jersey. 735 00:31:28,160 --> 00:31:32,560 Speaker 5: You know, the populated areas are are even you know closer. 736 00:31:33,640 --> 00:31:38,800 Speaker 5: You know, everybody knows somebody who was unfortunately either killed 737 00:31:39,360 --> 00:31:44,960 Speaker 5: or kidnapped or kidnapped and released or injured on October seventh. 738 00:31:45,000 --> 00:31:49,120 Speaker 5: And when I say everybody, I mean everybody from here. Yeah, 739 00:31:49,600 --> 00:31:53,680 Speaker 5: I mean everybody, every single person. So you know the 740 00:31:53,680 --> 00:31:56,720 Speaker 5: fact that it's ongoing, you know, people haven't been able 741 00:31:56,760 --> 00:32:00,520 Speaker 5: to mourn correctly, you know, because you know, how can 742 00:32:00,560 --> 00:32:02,600 Speaker 5: you mourn when this is still happening. 743 00:32:03,200 --> 00:32:06,520 Speaker 4: You know, there is something, you know, we talk about. 744 00:32:06,320 --> 00:32:09,520 Speaker 5: Like New Yorkers, there's a thing about us, you know, 745 00:32:09,600 --> 00:32:12,240 Speaker 5: you talk about you know, like there's a certain thing 746 00:32:12,240 --> 00:32:16,440 Speaker 5: about and and and there is a there is a 747 00:32:16,520 --> 00:32:18,479 Speaker 5: thing about the people of Israel. 748 00:32:18,600 --> 00:32:21,120 Speaker 4: And there's a thing about the Jewish people. And it 749 00:32:21,240 --> 00:32:21,800 Speaker 4: is true. 750 00:32:22,240 --> 00:32:26,440 Speaker 5: They have a light and a resilience and a lust 751 00:32:26,520 --> 00:32:29,560 Speaker 5: for life, a true lust for life. And you talk 752 00:32:29,600 --> 00:32:33,160 Speaker 5: about being appreciating the little things and appreciating light. That 753 00:32:33,520 --> 00:32:36,480 Speaker 5: is as a it's a characteristic that you'll find in 754 00:32:36,880 --> 00:32:41,560 Speaker 5: israelis as soon as you get there, through through crisis. 755 00:32:41,160 --> 00:32:42,440 Speaker 4: And and and not through crisis. 756 00:32:42,520 --> 00:32:46,520 Speaker 5: They have a lust and appreciation for life, and there's 757 00:32:46,560 --> 00:32:48,000 Speaker 5: a light within them. 758 00:32:48,240 --> 00:32:48,400 Speaker 4: You know. 759 00:32:48,440 --> 00:32:51,640 Speaker 5: As far as the way you know, people are getting along, 760 00:32:51,720 --> 00:32:53,680 Speaker 5: it's hard for me to answer that. You know, I 761 00:32:53,680 --> 00:32:57,240 Speaker 5: think it's in general, you know, at the end of 762 00:32:57,280 --> 00:32:59,200 Speaker 5: the day, I think that people just want to live 763 00:32:59,240 --> 00:33:02,360 Speaker 5: their lives. And people want to, you know, want everything 764 00:33:02,400 --> 00:33:04,040 Speaker 5: around the world. You know, people want to wake up, 765 00:33:04,080 --> 00:33:05,520 Speaker 5: they want to you know, be able to take care 766 00:33:05,520 --> 00:33:08,080 Speaker 5: of themselves. They want safety, they want you know, their 767 00:33:08,120 --> 00:33:09,560 Speaker 5: family to be able to eat. 768 00:33:09,680 --> 00:33:13,040 Speaker 4: You know, two three meals a day, you know, you 769 00:33:13,080 --> 00:33:14,880 Speaker 4: want a couple of weeks of vacation, you know. 770 00:33:14,960 --> 00:33:16,960 Speaker 5: And I think that the one thing that you know 771 00:33:17,080 --> 00:33:19,560 Speaker 5: is a parent, you know, without going too far in 772 00:33:19,800 --> 00:33:21,320 Speaker 5: the politics of it all. 773 00:33:21,280 --> 00:33:24,880 Speaker 4: Jays is that the reality is that Israel. 774 00:33:24,640 --> 00:33:27,800 Speaker 5: Whether you think they have a right to exist or not, 775 00:33:27,880 --> 00:33:32,320 Speaker 5: they have been you know, Israel has been attacked ten 776 00:33:32,400 --> 00:33:36,240 Speaker 5: hours after it was announced as a state, literally ten 777 00:33:36,280 --> 00:33:39,320 Speaker 5: hours afterward was announced as a state forty eight years ago, 778 00:33:39,680 --> 00:33:41,720 Speaker 5: and it's been under attack ever since then. 779 00:33:42,440 --> 00:33:45,960 Speaker 4: And that there are some people that that never wanted. 780 00:33:45,640 --> 00:33:47,960 Speaker 5: It to exist and do not want it to exist 781 00:33:48,480 --> 00:33:49,680 Speaker 5: seventy five years later. 782 00:33:50,280 --> 00:33:50,520 Speaker 4: You know. 783 00:33:50,680 --> 00:33:52,960 Speaker 5: I think that's why you have the lust and the 784 00:33:53,000 --> 00:33:57,840 Speaker 5: appreciation for life within Israel, and also the the resilience 785 00:33:57,920 --> 00:34:01,680 Speaker 5: to continue to be tough and not take any shit. 786 00:34:02,120 --> 00:34:03,960 Speaker 3: Well, you know, it's try because you're talking about, you know, 787 00:34:04,000 --> 00:34:05,920 Speaker 3: the right to exist. Everybody's had the right to exist. 788 00:34:05,920 --> 00:34:08,000 Speaker 3: It's ridiculous that we don't. 789 00:34:08,000 --> 00:34:12,240 Speaker 2: And it's not just Israel and God's and parasites, places 790 00:34:12,239 --> 00:34:15,160 Speaker 2: in Africa, places, I mean, there's been it's constant, you know, 791 00:34:15,239 --> 00:34:16,320 Speaker 2: through our history. 792 00:34:17,600 --> 00:34:19,919 Speaker 3: But it's funny. I get the questions, and kids asked 793 00:34:19,920 --> 00:34:21,840 Speaker 3: me so often that I was like, how come we 794 00:34:21,880 --> 00:34:22,960 Speaker 3: already has you? 795 00:34:23,080 --> 00:34:23,239 Speaker 4: Why? 796 00:34:23,280 --> 00:34:25,920 Speaker 3: Everybody? You know? It's like, why doverybody hate you guys? Why? 797 00:34:25,960 --> 00:34:26,680 Speaker 3: And so it's like. 798 00:34:26,840 --> 00:34:29,640 Speaker 2: It's now bringing an issue to be able to talk 799 00:34:29,680 --> 00:34:32,239 Speaker 2: to my friends. Look, I grew up in Jersey Shore 800 00:34:32,680 --> 00:34:34,080 Speaker 2: looking like I'm Italian and. 801 00:34:34,080 --> 00:34:35,600 Speaker 3: I'm Jewish, so I heard it all. 802 00:34:36,160 --> 00:34:39,040 Speaker 2: I heard the closet stuff coming out and saying stuff, 803 00:34:39,160 --> 00:34:40,759 Speaker 2: and I had to defend myself early on. 804 00:34:41,800 --> 00:34:44,319 Speaker 3: But it look, it shouldn't be with any group. 805 00:34:44,680 --> 00:34:46,520 Speaker 2: I am one of the guys who believes it should 806 00:34:46,520 --> 00:34:48,920 Speaker 2: be one united world under God, and I'll live that 807 00:34:49,040 --> 00:34:50,000 Speaker 2: for the rest of my life. 808 00:34:50,160 --> 00:34:51,799 Speaker 3: I'm never not going to live that way. I'm gonna 809 00:34:51,800 --> 00:34:54,440 Speaker 3: believe it, and I know it's not It's kind. 810 00:34:54,280 --> 00:34:56,839 Speaker 2: Of hard when everybody has, you know, different beliefs, how 811 00:34:56,840 --> 00:35:00,880 Speaker 2: they go along. But for to hate any group, whether 812 00:35:00,920 --> 00:35:04,640 Speaker 2: it's Jews or Blacks or Mexicans, are Asian, whoever it is, 813 00:35:04,719 --> 00:35:07,080 Speaker 2: because of how they look or how they have, there's 814 00:35:07,120 --> 00:35:11,280 Speaker 2: certain how they live their culture is ridiculous. 815 00:35:11,600 --> 00:35:13,600 Speaker 3: Frankly has nothing to do with you, right. 816 00:35:13,480 --> 00:35:15,400 Speaker 4: And it's fucking ridiculous. 817 00:35:15,440 --> 00:35:16,200 Speaker 3: Yeahs ridiculous. 818 00:35:16,400 --> 00:35:18,839 Speaker 2: Like, I'm never gonna shame someone because they were brought 819 00:35:18,880 --> 00:35:21,960 Speaker 2: up differently in a different set of cultures that they 820 00:35:21,960 --> 00:35:24,840 Speaker 2: were born into. It's nothing to do with them. So 821 00:35:24,920 --> 00:35:27,480 Speaker 2: I just think it's look, I think I wish the 822 00:35:27,520 --> 00:35:29,799 Speaker 2: rest of the world would look at it like, hey, 823 00:35:30,040 --> 00:35:31,560 Speaker 2: it is one united of world under God. 824 00:35:32,120 --> 00:35:32,239 Speaker 4: Uh. 825 00:35:32,400 --> 00:35:34,120 Speaker 3: But I know that's just that's a far cry. But 826 00:35:34,160 --> 00:35:35,000 Speaker 3: I just want to say, man, I. 827 00:35:35,400 --> 00:35:40,520 Speaker 2: Appreciate you bringing the attention for those hostages and also 828 00:35:40,560 --> 00:35:42,640 Speaker 2: for their you know, differences and how kind of people 829 00:35:42,640 --> 00:35:44,799 Speaker 2: go about this oh right to exist thing. So it's 830 00:35:44,840 --> 00:35:48,080 Speaker 2: just I know it's not We're certainly not a political podcast, 831 00:35:48,440 --> 00:35:51,080 Speaker 2: but I do think voices like yours. 832 00:35:50,880 --> 00:35:54,880 Speaker 3: Are important that caunteract, the ones that make no sense, 833 00:35:56,280 --> 00:35:58,399 Speaker 3: they're born out of ignorance. I really appreciate it. 834 00:35:58,360 --> 00:35:59,400 Speaker 4: Man, I appreciate it. 835 00:36:00,080 --> 00:36:02,120 Speaker 3: Quick here talk about your podcast. 836 00:36:02,080 --> 00:36:05,399 Speaker 4: Uh, the im Rapp Reports Stereo podcast, which is, uh, 837 00:36:05,520 --> 00:36:06,440 Speaker 4: you know, we've been going. 838 00:36:07,719 --> 00:36:10,360 Speaker 5: You know, we started before everybody and their cousin and 839 00:36:10,400 --> 00:36:13,640 Speaker 5: their mother and their sister has had a podcast. I 840 00:36:13,680 --> 00:36:15,120 Speaker 5: would love for you to be a guest because I 841 00:36:15,160 --> 00:36:16,760 Speaker 5: have so many kids. I could ask. 842 00:36:16,640 --> 00:36:17,160 Speaker 4: You because. 843 00:36:18,719 --> 00:36:21,759 Speaker 5: Yeah, being Pittsburgh, San Francisco all over the country and 844 00:36:21,800 --> 00:36:25,000 Speaker 5: all tickets information is available Michael Rapportcomedy dot com. 845 00:36:25,160 --> 00:36:27,120 Speaker 4: And you know, and I'm just you know, doing my thing. 846 00:36:27,239 --> 00:36:30,000 Speaker 5: And then, uh, you know, like I said, I'm pumped 847 00:36:30,040 --> 00:36:31,200 Speaker 5: up for fantasy football. 848 00:36:31,560 --> 00:36:33,440 Speaker 4: I'm psyched up for fantasy football. 849 00:36:33,960 --> 00:36:36,359 Speaker 3: Uh you got one team? How many teams in leads? 850 00:36:36,360 --> 00:36:39,399 Speaker 4: You got two teams? Two teams? 851 00:36:39,719 --> 00:36:42,120 Speaker 5: And like I said, last year, in one of my leagues, 852 00:36:42,200 --> 00:36:44,120 Speaker 5: in the Stern Show, the Howard Stern Show League, I 853 00:36:44,120 --> 00:36:46,640 Speaker 5: went to the finals that law and lost, which means 854 00:36:46,640 --> 00:36:49,359 Speaker 5: I lost. I don't know why I came in second place. 855 00:36:49,400 --> 00:36:52,279 Speaker 5: No one gives a shit that you can't listen. No 856 00:36:52,320 --> 00:36:54,240 Speaker 5: one gives a shit that you came in second place 857 00:36:54,440 --> 00:36:56,759 Speaker 5: in the NFL. Certainly no one gives a ship that 858 00:36:56,800 --> 00:36:59,359 Speaker 5: you came in second place in your fantasy football league. 859 00:36:59,360 --> 00:37:02,160 Speaker 4: So I love that. And then in my money league, 860 00:37:02,200 --> 00:37:03,600 Speaker 4: I took a fucking bath. 861 00:37:03,680 --> 00:37:05,759 Speaker 5: And I'm talking about a big bubble bath with a 862 00:37:05,840 --> 00:37:09,520 Speaker 5: rubber ducky that's always And I am not used to 863 00:37:09,560 --> 00:37:14,399 Speaker 5: losing my fantasy football So you know, revenge is going 864 00:37:14,440 --> 00:37:17,239 Speaker 5: to be served out all over the place, and I'm 865 00:37:17,320 --> 00:37:20,280 Speaker 5: gonna be I just I'm so excited for this season. 866 00:37:20,600 --> 00:37:23,640 Speaker 5: There's so many questions, so many new faces, new places. 867 00:37:23,880 --> 00:37:24,960 Speaker 4: You know, it's a. 868 00:37:25,120 --> 00:37:28,360 Speaker 2: Fast reality show on the planet. Right is the greatest 869 00:37:28,360 --> 00:37:29,120 Speaker 2: reality show. 870 00:37:28,920 --> 00:37:29,480 Speaker 3: On the planet. 871 00:37:29,719 --> 00:37:32,160 Speaker 2: And half the time listen, I put out about one percent. 872 00:37:32,160 --> 00:37:34,080 Speaker 2: I want to know, have you gared the other shit? 873 00:37:34,160 --> 00:37:36,360 Speaker 3: You'd be like you bowlers was tame? 874 00:37:37,239 --> 00:37:40,560 Speaker 2: It's not the shit we really know is it's funny 875 00:37:40,600 --> 00:37:43,040 Speaker 2: and the world doesn't know this the other reports kind 876 00:37:43,080 --> 00:37:45,600 Speaker 2: of do. Every NFL Owners meeting, I go and I 877 00:37:45,640 --> 00:37:48,000 Speaker 2: have a thing just with me and all the coaches. 878 00:37:48,320 --> 00:37:50,560 Speaker 2: This year we had twenty five of us, just me 879 00:37:50,600 --> 00:37:53,160 Speaker 2: and the coaches, no one else. You and the head coaches, 880 00:37:53,280 --> 00:37:56,000 Speaker 2: twenty five us and a couple gms. Right, And I've 881 00:37:56,000 --> 00:37:57,359 Speaker 2: been doing this Mike Tomlin. 882 00:37:57,040 --> 00:37:58,520 Speaker 3: And I started. It's like seventeen years ago. 883 00:37:58,640 --> 00:38:01,719 Speaker 2: But we start telling the new head coaches, hey man, 884 00:38:02,160 --> 00:38:04,680 Speaker 2: this is what's about to come across your desk, and 885 00:38:04,719 --> 00:38:07,120 Speaker 2: I make the old coaches tell them the crazy shit 886 00:38:07,239 --> 00:38:09,960 Speaker 2: that's happened to them, which is which I can't say here. 887 00:38:10,080 --> 00:38:13,560 Speaker 5: But it's so it's just like private stuff. 888 00:38:13,719 --> 00:38:15,480 Speaker 3: Yes, but that's really happened. 889 00:38:15,719 --> 00:38:18,480 Speaker 2: So if you if I if you went in right 890 00:38:18,520 --> 00:38:20,640 Speaker 2: now and try to sell a Hollywood script and I 891 00:38:20,680 --> 00:38:23,239 Speaker 2: gave you these stories that actually happened. They would laugh 892 00:38:23,280 --> 00:38:24,719 Speaker 2: you out of the room and saying there's no way 893 00:38:24,840 --> 00:38:28,400 Speaker 2: these things happened. They're so outlandish, there's no way they happened. 894 00:38:28,680 --> 00:38:33,120 Speaker 2: And it's just it's fucking unbelievable. It is the greatest 895 00:38:33,360 --> 00:38:34,319 Speaker 2: reality show the world. 896 00:38:34,320 --> 00:38:36,319 Speaker 3: But I mean, there are ships, there's shit that goes on. 897 00:38:36,400 --> 00:38:39,360 Speaker 3: That's just. And the crazy thing is these are coaches. 898 00:38:39,840 --> 00:38:40,200 Speaker 4: They're not. 899 00:38:40,960 --> 00:38:43,000 Speaker 2: They didn't get most of them. They didn't get mastered 900 00:38:43,000 --> 00:38:46,759 Speaker 2: in psychology. They didn't you know, they weren't schooled in 901 00:38:46,880 --> 00:38:49,520 Speaker 2: how to be therapists. And all of a sudden they 902 00:38:49,520 --> 00:38:52,040 Speaker 2: go from you know, calling x's and o's to being 903 00:38:52,040 --> 00:38:53,480 Speaker 2: a head coach is more about all the ship that 904 00:38:53,560 --> 00:38:56,040 Speaker 2: comes across your desk than it is about the xident os. 905 00:38:56,120 --> 00:38:57,160 Speaker 3: Really, same with the g. 906 00:38:57,440 --> 00:38:59,839 Speaker 4: Sure, and let me ask you a question. 907 00:39:00,080 --> 00:39:01,400 Speaker 5: Let me ask you a question because I know we 908 00:39:01,440 --> 00:39:03,200 Speaker 5: don't have a lot of time, and I have. 909 00:39:03,200 --> 00:39:04,399 Speaker 4: All these questions for you. 910 00:39:04,920 --> 00:39:08,520 Speaker 5: And I was in your gym one time and Jadavian Clowney, 911 00:39:08,680 --> 00:39:10,160 Speaker 5: Jadavian Clowney was in. 912 00:39:10,120 --> 00:39:14,279 Speaker 4: There and and I just was like, I like, you was. 913 00:39:14,280 --> 00:39:16,879 Speaker 3: On there with with fifteen other players. 914 00:39:17,120 --> 00:39:19,160 Speaker 5: But I just remember because I was like, you know, 915 00:39:19,239 --> 00:39:22,000 Speaker 5: like I saw him in like I've been around NBA players, 916 00:39:22,000 --> 00:39:24,480 Speaker 5: but I was like, he looks like an NBA player. Yeah, 917 00:39:24,800 --> 00:39:26,840 Speaker 5: like you know, I don't want to say on steroids 918 00:39:26,840 --> 00:39:29,280 Speaker 5: because I know he's not on serious, but like he's 919 00:39:29,400 --> 00:39:32,760 Speaker 5: built like an NBA player, but like sixty pounds heavier, 920 00:39:33,400 --> 00:39:36,440 Speaker 5: and and I was just like holy shit, and wrestled 921 00:39:36,480 --> 00:39:38,520 Speaker 5: as yeah, that's what. 922 00:39:42,280 --> 00:39:42,839 Speaker 3: Who are the. 923 00:39:43,040 --> 00:39:48,840 Speaker 5: Three most spectacular athletes that you've like wrestled with, Like, like, 924 00:39:48,880 --> 00:39:51,759 Speaker 5: I know there's probably ten of them, twenty of them, 925 00:39:51,760 --> 00:39:53,160 Speaker 5: and I know you can go on and on, but 926 00:39:53,200 --> 00:39:54,879 Speaker 5: if you said, like off the top of your head 927 00:39:54,880 --> 00:39:57,000 Speaker 5: with you know, without and I know you're gonna run 928 00:39:57,040 --> 00:39:58,719 Speaker 5: people out, but if I said, who are the three 929 00:39:58,800 --> 00:40:01,880 Speaker 5: most impressive app I think that you've had in the gym. 930 00:40:01,680 --> 00:40:04,280 Speaker 4: Not on a field, but you've had firstly in the gym. 931 00:40:04,520 --> 00:40:06,600 Speaker 2: So all right, yeah, I've trained, Like I said myself, 932 00:40:07,080 --> 00:40:09,480 Speaker 2: I started this program in two thousand and seven with 933 00:40:09,560 --> 00:40:13,560 Speaker 2: Jared Allen, who was like a part time d end 934 00:40:13,600 --> 00:40:15,600 Speaker 2: and a full time long snapper. People don't remember that 935 00:40:15,719 --> 00:40:18,360 Speaker 2: they trained with us. He went out and got fifteen sacks, 936 00:40:18,680 --> 00:40:20,000 Speaker 2: highest contract. 937 00:40:19,520 --> 00:40:21,440 Speaker 3: Ever and that everybody called said whatever you did for him, 938 00:40:21,480 --> 00:40:21,960 Speaker 3: do it for us. 939 00:40:22,320 --> 00:40:24,880 Speaker 2: And the next guy was Patrick Willison and Brian Cushing 940 00:40:24,920 --> 00:40:27,319 Speaker 2: and then Clay Matthews. He went from ten sacks to 941 00:40:27,360 --> 00:40:29,120 Speaker 2: seventeen and then the flugates open. 942 00:40:29,120 --> 00:40:31,680 Speaker 3: Everyone called. So I teamed up with Randy Gatour and 943 00:40:31,719 --> 00:40:33,920 Speaker 3: we brought in like Chuck Ladell and Jay Iron and 944 00:40:33,960 --> 00:40:34,879 Speaker 3: Tyron Woodley and all. 945 00:40:34,760 --> 00:40:36,440 Speaker 2: These people over the years to come up with this, 946 00:40:36,520 --> 00:40:38,239 Speaker 2: m am a training program for guys where it was 947 00:40:38,280 --> 00:40:42,200 Speaker 2: also like, we're gonna teach football players to turn it 948 00:40:42,239 --> 00:40:44,600 Speaker 2: into a fight, and we're gonna give him this fight 949 00:40:45,080 --> 00:40:48,120 Speaker 2: the fighter mentality. At the same time, these football players 950 00:40:48,120 --> 00:40:50,440 Speaker 2: are going to teach all my fighters the sport. 951 00:40:50,520 --> 00:40:50,680 Speaker 4: IQ. 952 00:40:50,960 --> 00:40:54,000 Speaker 2: You've got to be brilliant to play football, dude, brilliant 953 00:40:54,160 --> 00:40:56,880 Speaker 2: like you talked about add I can't remember like you 954 00:40:56,880 --> 00:40:57,560 Speaker 2: know lines. 955 00:40:58,200 --> 00:41:01,360 Speaker 3: These cats have a book of shit that they have 956 00:41:01,480 --> 00:41:04,120 Speaker 3: to remember. And the plays. 957 00:41:04,200 --> 00:41:07,520 Speaker 2: It's not in English, you know, it's thirty two double trip, 958 00:41:08,160 --> 00:41:12,040 Speaker 2: call my Eggy, Papa Smurf albut Querque. 959 00:41:12,560 --> 00:41:16,760 Speaker 3: You know, slam damn thank you, ma'am. Fourteen double rod salad. 960 00:41:16,840 --> 00:41:20,120 Speaker 2: It's fucking crazy and then all cha pages and pages, 961 00:41:20,440 --> 00:41:23,160 Speaker 2: so you got to be brilliant, but also like teaching. 962 00:41:23,280 --> 00:41:25,000 Speaker 3: Like these guys would watch film over and over and 963 00:41:25,040 --> 00:41:27,800 Speaker 3: over and over and over to look for the littlest nuance. 964 00:41:28,000 --> 00:41:29,440 Speaker 3: And I would sit there. Look, I'm blessed. 965 00:41:29,560 --> 00:41:31,759 Speaker 2: My best friend was Strayant, and he I didn't have 966 00:41:31,880 --> 00:41:34,560 Speaker 2: enough money when I started to go from New York 967 00:41:34,600 --> 00:41:36,600 Speaker 2: City to take a subway to a bus to Giants Stadium, 968 00:41:36,600 --> 00:41:38,719 Speaker 2: back and forth every day. So Michael drive me back 969 00:41:38,719 --> 00:41:41,680 Speaker 2: home every single day from ninety three to ninety nine, 970 00:41:42,719 --> 00:41:44,160 Speaker 2: twenty eight Grand and Lincoln Tunnel fair. 971 00:41:44,239 --> 00:41:46,080 Speaker 3: But I'd sit there with them. He watched film and 972 00:41:46,120 --> 00:41:47,879 Speaker 3: watch film and watch film. He'd be like, dud, dude, 973 00:41:47,880 --> 00:41:48,960 Speaker 3: look at this. Look at this. I'm like, what are 974 00:41:49,000 --> 00:41:49,400 Speaker 3: you look at it? 975 00:41:49,400 --> 00:41:53,040 Speaker 2: It's like, look notice this on third downs when they're 976 00:41:53,040 --> 00:41:55,800 Speaker 2: gonna run a certain play, watch the right guard's elbow. 977 00:41:55,800 --> 00:41:57,520 Speaker 2: I'm like, what are we looking at He's like, look 978 00:41:57,520 --> 00:41:59,680 Speaker 2: at twitches. I'm like, the fuck are you looking at it? 979 00:42:00,000 --> 00:42:02,759 Speaker 2: He's like, look at twitches on run blades, watch this, 980 00:42:02,880 --> 00:42:05,160 Speaker 2: watch the difference. I'm like, bro, I can't see what 981 00:42:05,200 --> 00:42:09,480 Speaker 2: you're fucking talking about. Eventually, over after years of it. 982 00:42:10,000 --> 00:42:12,360 Speaker 2: I started seeing it for it's glaring. But then I 983 00:42:12,400 --> 00:42:16,160 Speaker 2: started having like having these guys teach the fighters the 984 00:42:16,200 --> 00:42:19,120 Speaker 2: same thing, these nuance, these little things because they just 985 00:42:19,160 --> 00:42:21,839 Speaker 2: went out fought right. So and Randy Gatour is really 986 00:42:21,840 --> 00:42:24,440 Speaker 2: the first to start watching film and they can do that. 987 00:42:24,480 --> 00:42:25,600 Speaker 3: But back to your things. 988 00:42:25,640 --> 00:42:27,440 Speaker 2: So we've done so many of these guys, and I'm 989 00:42:27,440 --> 00:42:30,960 Speaker 2: going to talk about like the most impressive listened out 990 00:42:30,960 --> 00:42:33,640 Speaker 2: in Cleveland. We tr train Miles Garrett and the first 991 00:42:33,640 --> 00:42:35,240 Speaker 2: time we teach him a lot of an fighting. 992 00:42:35,680 --> 00:42:37,640 Speaker 3: The first time he did everything anything to me. 993 00:42:37,680 --> 00:42:39,920 Speaker 2: And now this huge pan of my forum and I've 994 00:42:39,920 --> 00:42:42,359 Speaker 2: been get hundreds and hundreds of dns do shit and 995 00:42:42,480 --> 00:42:47,080 Speaker 2: strike my forms. I'm like, that shit fucking hurt. Damn 996 00:42:47,120 --> 00:42:50,600 Speaker 2: his sockside. So Miles was like really high up there, 997 00:42:50,800 --> 00:42:51,600 Speaker 2: he went, how. 998 00:42:51,520 --> 00:42:53,000 Speaker 4: Big is he? How tall is he? 999 00:42:53,480 --> 00:42:56,720 Speaker 3: Well, I think he's like six ' five to eighty whatever, 1000 00:42:56,760 --> 00:43:00,359 Speaker 3: but he is so solid and so he cracked through 1001 00:43:01,280 --> 00:43:06,560 Speaker 3: the strongest is Kyle Long. Holy shit, he is fucking ridiculous. 1002 00:43:07,000 --> 00:43:09,160 Speaker 2: And Kyle, I've known him since he was like seven 1003 00:43:09,800 --> 00:43:11,920 Speaker 2: or nine, so he looks still like to me his 1004 00:43:12,000 --> 00:43:14,640 Speaker 2: uncle Glaze, you know. And big breather, so he still 1005 00:43:14,680 --> 00:43:16,680 Speaker 2: like will jump on my back when I'm out, looking 1006 00:43:16,960 --> 00:43:19,600 Speaker 2: like he's still seven years old. He's fucking three forty. 1007 00:43:19,960 --> 00:43:21,960 Speaker 2: This year I was able to work a little with 1008 00:43:21,960 --> 00:43:26,560 Speaker 2: Max Crosby. He's different, he's gumbay, he gets you know again, 1009 00:43:26,600 --> 00:43:28,680 Speaker 2: I'm five seven and I'm wrestling with these guys. My 1010 00:43:28,719 --> 00:43:31,200 Speaker 2: whole thing is keep your base, but get under me. 1011 00:43:31,840 --> 00:43:33,640 Speaker 2: We teach him kind of greg Our Roman wrestling, because 1012 00:43:33,640 --> 00:43:36,200 Speaker 2: you can't touch below the waist to really helps lineman. 1013 00:43:36,640 --> 00:43:37,960 Speaker 3: He was able to bend. 1014 00:43:37,840 --> 00:43:40,960 Speaker 2: All the way under me and still have strength and leverage, 1015 00:43:40,960 --> 00:43:44,000 Speaker 2: and that was pretty fucking sick. Man the words and 1016 00:43:44,000 --> 00:43:47,600 Speaker 2: I'm trying to think, oh, but athletic wise, Odell Beckham 1017 00:43:47,719 --> 00:43:50,439 Speaker 2: like he would do it wasn't even he just picks 1018 00:43:50,440 --> 00:43:52,680 Speaker 2: shit up so fast. But then he would do other 1019 00:43:52,719 --> 00:43:55,560 Speaker 2: stuff in the gym, like like agility work, where the 1020 00:43:55,560 --> 00:43:56,880 Speaker 2: whole gym would just stop. 1021 00:43:56,680 --> 00:44:00,920 Speaker 3: And be like, what the fuck was that? Like I 1022 00:44:01,000 --> 00:44:03,719 Speaker 3: ain't never seen anything like that before, And yeah, it's 1023 00:44:03,800 --> 00:44:04,480 Speaker 3: it's pretty cool. 1024 00:44:04,520 --> 00:44:07,520 Speaker 2: By the way, real quick, the way Jadavian Clowney came 1025 00:44:07,560 --> 00:44:10,560 Speaker 2: to us, I meant the orders meet and his head 1026 00:44:10,600 --> 00:44:11,400 Speaker 2: coach Bill O'Brien. 1027 00:44:11,480 --> 00:44:13,200 Speaker 3: I't really met him yet. I was with a bunch 1028 00:44:13,239 --> 00:44:13,480 Speaker 3: of guys. 1029 00:44:13,520 --> 00:44:15,920 Speaker 2: I was friends with my John Fox and Bruce Arians 1030 00:44:15,920 --> 00:44:18,080 Speaker 2: and Seam Payton, all these guys and Tomlin and I 1031 00:44:18,080 --> 00:44:20,640 Speaker 2: have this, like you said, that New York attitude, right, 1032 00:44:20,680 --> 00:44:23,319 Speaker 2: I have it. And Bill O'Brien said something to me, 1033 00:44:23,440 --> 00:44:24,839 Speaker 2: like they asked him something. 1034 00:44:24,840 --> 00:44:26,359 Speaker 3: He goes, hey, I better not see this on Fox 1035 00:44:26,360 --> 00:44:27,360 Speaker 3: sports dot com. 1036 00:44:27,400 --> 00:44:30,080 Speaker 2: And I said, motherfucker, who the fuck you think you're 1037 00:44:30,120 --> 00:44:33,319 Speaker 2: talking to. Don't ever fucking embarrass me in front of. 1038 00:44:33,239 --> 00:44:35,319 Speaker 3: My guys and my too. I will beat the fuck 1039 00:44:35,360 --> 00:44:37,360 Speaker 3: out of you. I said that. And he looked to 1040 00:44:37,480 --> 00:44:38,640 Speaker 3: me and I said, just. 1041 00:44:38,640 --> 00:44:40,719 Speaker 2: Because you coach football and I don't, does not mean 1042 00:44:40,760 --> 00:44:41,640 Speaker 2: you can whip my ass. 1043 00:44:41,640 --> 00:44:44,000 Speaker 3: And you can't because I'll beat the dog fuck out you. 1044 00:44:44,080 --> 00:44:46,799 Speaker 3: Don't you ever? And all the other coach said well, 1045 00:44:45,920 --> 00:44:49,520 Speaker 3: well well, and Bill goes, is he really liked this 1046 00:44:49,600 --> 00:44:50,120 Speaker 3: all the time? 1047 00:44:50,440 --> 00:44:55,319 Speaker 2: And Tomlin's like, absolutely absolutely, Bill, don't go And he's like, 1048 00:44:55,520 --> 00:44:56,919 Speaker 2: holy shit, I. 1049 00:44:56,800 --> 00:44:59,439 Speaker 3: Got to start sending some players to you about it. 1050 00:44:59,560 --> 00:45:02,799 Speaker 2: And I clowny. He goes, if you could get over that, 1051 00:45:03,000 --> 00:45:05,279 Speaker 2: clowny were set. He had him on a plane to 1052 00:45:05,320 --> 00:45:08,439 Speaker 2: me the next week that's just funny. Yeah, not taking ship. 1053 00:45:08,560 --> 00:45:11,439 Speaker 2: But it's also like again, you it's it's it isn't 1054 00:45:11,520 --> 00:45:13,759 Speaker 2: authenticity we have. And that's why I said, I feel 1055 00:45:13,760 --> 00:45:16,400 Speaker 2: like I'm losing mine as I've gotten I guess more refined, 1056 00:45:16,400 --> 00:45:18,560 Speaker 2: if you will. But I like that version of me better. 1057 00:45:18,800 --> 00:45:21,480 Speaker 2: But I also know that version of me gets on hints. 1058 00:45:21,520 --> 00:45:23,759 Speaker 2: So I'm trying to get my mental health in a 1059 00:45:23,760 --> 00:45:26,400 Speaker 2: better place and not always unhinge. I call it the beast. 1060 00:45:26,480 --> 00:45:29,399 Speaker 2: I love that beast. But I saw Mike Tyson talking 1061 00:45:29,400 --> 00:45:31,279 Speaker 2: about I'm working on the art of humility now, and 1062 00:45:31,320 --> 00:45:33,480 Speaker 2: it's it's hard. It's hard to balance him. 1063 00:45:35,280 --> 00:45:39,480 Speaker 4: I totally understand. I totally understand, and I think you know, 1064 00:45:39,640 --> 00:45:40,880 Speaker 4: I think you know. 1065 00:45:41,080 --> 00:45:46,440 Speaker 5: It's it's age, it's mistakes, it's you know, wanting to 1066 00:45:46,520 --> 00:45:47,440 Speaker 5: learn from the mistakes. 1067 00:45:47,480 --> 00:45:49,760 Speaker 4: And I think it's I think you're in a good place. 1068 00:45:49,760 --> 00:45:51,239 Speaker 4: And I think that you know you. 1069 00:45:51,520 --> 00:45:54,160 Speaker 5: You you hit the gym enough to be able to 1070 00:45:54,280 --> 00:45:54,800 Speaker 5: get all. 1071 00:45:54,680 --> 00:45:58,120 Speaker 3: The you know, the dogs to count down. Yeah, exactly. 1072 00:45:58,520 --> 00:46:00,920 Speaker 5: Listen, you gotta be able to have to man, you 1073 00:46:00,960 --> 00:46:02,600 Speaker 5: can't keep up especial if we get older. 1074 00:46:02,640 --> 00:46:05,239 Speaker 4: Man, you know you gotta be able to. You got 1075 00:46:05,280 --> 00:46:07,040 Speaker 4: to be able to at least learn from your mistakes. 1076 00:46:07,280 --> 00:46:08,880 Speaker 3: You can't lay that shield down somehow. 1077 00:46:08,960 --> 00:46:12,640 Speaker 5: Yeah, ship man, If you can't learn from your own mistakes, 1078 00:46:12,800 --> 00:46:13,439 Speaker 5: then you. 1079 00:46:13,360 --> 00:46:16,560 Speaker 4: Know, fuck you gotta you gotta it. 1080 00:46:16,680 --> 00:46:20,040 Speaker 5: You know, got to me making another mistake, but I'll 1081 00:46:20,120 --> 00:46:21,000 Speaker 5: keep learning from him. 1082 00:46:21,320 --> 00:46:23,640 Speaker 2: I'm asking one last question here, brother, I asked, all 1083 00:46:23,680 --> 00:46:27,760 Speaker 2: I guess this. Yeah, it's called Unbreakable, a Mental Wealth podcast. 1084 00:46:28,120 --> 00:46:31,879 Speaker 2: Give me your unbreakable moment in life. Something that should 1085 00:46:31,920 --> 00:46:35,240 Speaker 2: have broken, you could have but didn't, and as a result, 1086 00:46:35,280 --> 00:46:37,360 Speaker 2: you came through the other side of that tunnel stronger forever, 1087 00:46:37,880 --> 00:46:41,759 Speaker 2: could be in anything, could be career, life, ship it. 1088 00:46:41,760 --> 00:46:44,680 Speaker 4: It doesn't matter what I would say, you know. 1089 00:46:44,760 --> 00:46:49,000 Speaker 5: The most the most relatable, uh you know, sort of colorful. 1090 00:46:48,600 --> 00:46:50,960 Speaker 4: Story that I could give you is the first movie 1091 00:46:51,000 --> 00:46:51,760 Speaker 4: that I was doing. 1092 00:46:52,960 --> 00:46:56,320 Speaker 5: This movie that Oliver Stone produced called zebra Heads, small 1093 00:46:56,320 --> 00:46:59,200 Speaker 5: little independent movie won an award at Sunday. It's the 1094 00:46:59,200 --> 00:47:01,880 Speaker 5: same year that Read of Our Dogs, you know, won 1095 00:47:01,920 --> 00:47:05,840 Speaker 5: an award at Sundance. I know nothing about nothing about nothing. 1096 00:47:06,160 --> 00:47:08,439 Speaker 5: I got cast in it, and I was the star 1097 00:47:08,520 --> 00:47:10,279 Speaker 5: of this movie. I didn't know anything about being on 1098 00:47:10,320 --> 00:47:13,040 Speaker 5: a set, you talk probably like, you know, the camera 1099 00:47:13,120 --> 00:47:14,799 Speaker 5: was over here. I'm I didn't know what the. 1100 00:47:14,760 --> 00:47:17,319 Speaker 4: Fuck was doing, but I knew I was doing good. 1101 00:47:17,320 --> 00:47:19,360 Speaker 5: And I knew between action and take I was able 1102 00:47:19,400 --> 00:47:22,520 Speaker 5: to do I was doing good. And halfway through the 1103 00:47:22,560 --> 00:47:28,040 Speaker 5: movie the producer tried to get me fired. No, yeah, 1104 00:47:28,200 --> 00:47:30,800 Speaker 5: and and and I remember hearing it, and I remember 1105 00:47:30,880 --> 00:47:33,319 Speaker 5: literally being in my hotel in Detroit, like just like, 1106 00:47:33,840 --> 00:47:36,120 Speaker 5: just stay focused, don't worry about that. But I remember 1107 00:47:36,160 --> 00:47:38,959 Speaker 5: literally going like this, I put like, just don't don't 1108 00:47:38,960 --> 00:47:40,799 Speaker 5: fucking listen to it. Don't believe like I know, I'm 1109 00:47:40,840 --> 00:47:43,520 Speaker 5: doing good, like and like and and and and and 1110 00:47:43,600 --> 00:47:46,920 Speaker 5: I was able to, you know, to continue that movie. 1111 00:47:47,000 --> 00:47:48,520 Speaker 5: And you know, like I said, you know, we won 1112 00:47:48,600 --> 00:47:51,000 Speaker 5: an award at the Sundance Film Festival, and you know, 1113 00:47:51,040 --> 00:47:52,920 Speaker 5: and I was able. That was the beginning of what 1114 00:47:53,000 --> 00:47:55,080 Speaker 5: I was able to do. But I know that if 1115 00:47:55,120 --> 00:47:57,279 Speaker 5: I had been rattled by it or freaked out by it, 1116 00:47:57,400 --> 00:47:59,680 Speaker 5: or didn't have that belief in myself and didn't have 1117 00:47:59,719 --> 00:48:01,839 Speaker 5: that trust, even though I didn't know what I was doing, 1118 00:48:02,000 --> 00:48:05,160 Speaker 5: I knew what I was doing was real. Like I 1119 00:48:05,239 --> 00:48:08,400 Speaker 5: knew like my, like my what I what I didn't 1120 00:48:08,440 --> 00:48:11,920 Speaker 5: know was that one hundred percent of what I was 1121 00:48:11,920 --> 00:48:16,399 Speaker 5: doing was authentic one hundred percent, and and that would 1122 00:48:16,440 --> 00:48:18,359 Speaker 5: have really fucked me up. And then the other thing 1123 00:48:18,400 --> 00:48:21,440 Speaker 5: I would say, Jay, is right now, you know, because 1124 00:48:22,040 --> 00:48:25,040 Speaker 5: you know, as as as a Jewish Man with all 1125 00:48:25,040 --> 00:48:28,400 Speaker 5: the anti Semitism and all the anti Jewishness, with all 1126 00:48:28,400 --> 00:48:31,080 Speaker 5: the chaos in the world and the you know, don't 1127 00:48:31,120 --> 00:48:33,600 Speaker 5: say this, don't say that, and you're gonna get canceled 1128 00:48:33,640 --> 00:48:36,840 Speaker 5: and all that stuff, to be able to really intrinsically 1129 00:48:37,440 --> 00:48:41,160 Speaker 5: not only just trust what I know, but also to 1130 00:48:41,440 --> 00:48:45,680 Speaker 5: educate myself even more, to be able to stand on 1131 00:48:46,800 --> 00:48:49,839 Speaker 5: what I know is right, yeah, authentic because because because 1132 00:48:49,960 --> 00:48:52,279 Speaker 5: I'm I'm going through something right now, and I think 1133 00:48:52,320 --> 00:48:54,160 Speaker 5: a lot a lot of people are going through something 1134 00:48:54,200 --> 00:48:56,120 Speaker 5: right now, and I don't know where it's going to end. 1135 00:48:56,480 --> 00:48:59,040 Speaker 4: But you know, I talk about my wife a lot. 1136 00:48:58,960 --> 00:49:01,680 Speaker 5: You know, and you know, you're like, is it worth 1137 00:49:01,680 --> 00:49:02,680 Speaker 5: it to say what you're saying? 1138 00:49:02,760 --> 00:49:04,320 Speaker 4: Is it not worth it to say what you're saying? 1139 00:49:04,680 --> 00:49:07,759 Speaker 5: I have to stand by, stand up for myself, and 1140 00:49:07,760 --> 00:49:11,440 Speaker 5: stand up for my people because you know, not to 1141 00:49:11,440 --> 00:49:16,360 Speaker 5: get too political, I've spoken on everybody's behalf everybody's fucking behalf. 1142 00:49:16,719 --> 00:49:18,640 Speaker 4: When there's you know this, that and the. 1143 00:49:18,600 --> 00:49:21,520 Speaker 5: Third, I've spoken up, So I'm certainly gonna speak up 1144 00:49:21,560 --> 00:49:24,480 Speaker 5: the loudest, uh you know, from my people, especially when 1145 00:49:24,480 --> 00:49:27,520 Speaker 5: there's been so much doubt, uh you know, put out there. 1146 00:49:27,560 --> 00:49:30,759 Speaker 4: At about uh you know, being Jewish. So those those 1147 00:49:30,760 --> 00:49:32,520 Speaker 4: are the two things, brother. 1148 00:49:32,320 --> 00:49:34,360 Speaker 2: I appreciate it. I got to go on your podcast. 1149 00:49:34,640 --> 00:49:36,880 Speaker 2: Let's you pep me with every then I'll open up 1150 00:49:36,880 --> 00:49:39,400 Speaker 2: to you more than if people don't really talk to 1151 00:49:39,440 --> 00:49:41,400 Speaker 2: me a lot anymore about how it wasn't and all 1152 00:49:41,440 --> 00:49:42,160 Speaker 2: that type of things. 1153 00:49:42,160 --> 00:49:43,600 Speaker 3: So I would love to, man, I'd love to do 1154 00:49:43,719 --> 00:49:44,320 Speaker 3: you on yours. 1155 00:49:44,480 --> 00:49:45,239 Speaker 4: I appreciate that. 1156 00:49:45,320 --> 00:49:48,000 Speaker 5: I appreciate yet that, Jay, And I love all your shit, 1157 00:49:48,160 --> 00:49:50,040 Speaker 5: and you know, I know the world loves your stuff, 1158 00:49:50,040 --> 00:49:51,920 Speaker 5: but I love your evolution and. 1159 00:49:51,880 --> 00:49:55,239 Speaker 4: You shouldn't be You should continue with your revolution. It's important. Man. 1160 00:49:55,400 --> 00:49:57,640 Speaker 5: If you were the same lunatic you were twenty years ago, 1161 00:49:57,680 --> 00:49:58,759 Speaker 5: how could you still be here? 1162 00:49:58,840 --> 00:50:01,480 Speaker 3: My man? Man, you dude, I appreciate it so much. 1163 00:50:01,800 --> 00:50:03,719 Speaker 2: Michael Rockin Gurt, thank you for joining us here on 1164 00:50:03,760 --> 00:50:06,040 Speaker 2: the Unbreakable Mental Wealth podcast. 1165 00:50:06,640 --> 00:50:07,400 Speaker 4: I appreciate it. 1166 00:50:07,480 --> 00:50:07,680 Speaker 3: Jay,