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Speaker 1: twenty four years old. Max and I were married for

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Speaker 1: It was a mutual decision and we agreed our kids

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Speaker 2: Again, that's the twenty four year old.

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Speaker 1: Previously we would do holidays and kids' birthdays together, but

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Speaker 3: I mean, I could see that the like nearly forty

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Speaker 1: Of yeah, I mean children, and has gotten her life

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Speaker 1: maybe a little bit more figured out. Yeah, is wives

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Speaker 1: and my kids were less than thrilled. My daughter especially,

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Speaker 2: First.

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Speaker 1: My ex called me yesterday saying he is giving me

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Speaker 3: Get over yourself. Get over yourself.

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Speaker 1: Also, a lot of last names are shared by a

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Speaker 1: That's crazy. Oh, Wilson, there's like fifty Wilson's on Vemo.

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Speaker 1: You never find the right one.

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Speaker 1: And Riley has a weird Vemo name. Now type in

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Speaker 2: I know. I have to type it in.

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Speaker 4: Oh, sorry, you're making him type Riley. You understand from

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Speaker 1: Riley, go downstairs. I had to put a number on there.

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Speaker 1: I have to put it under score. You make me

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Speaker 2: Okay, I'll change it. Just it was me and my instagram?

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Speaker 2: What's my instagram? Daniel Donner?

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Speaker 1: Exactly, I'm sorry, you can't exactly can't get Riley Wilson anymore.

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Speaker 2: They are all taken up. That do Riley Welson Wilson.

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Speaker 5: Two thousand those still numbers, and you still have an underscore.

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Speaker 2: You have to do an underscore. To do an underscore,

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Speaker 2: Siley why why why forty two?

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Speaker 4: Wait?

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Speaker 2: Shit, well, I says, matter why forty two?

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Speaker 5: I always liked the number forty two Jakie Robinson.

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Speaker 2: Meaning of life. Oh true, I forgot about that thang

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Speaker 5: That's the first one I remembered.

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Speaker 2: Anyway, what's the deal with like, what's the deal with this?

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Speaker 2: This girlfriend wanting the She's young and stupid, that's it. Yeah, yeah,

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Speaker 1: But also, usually when people get divorced, don't they change

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Speaker 1: Well, I told him we agreed in our divorce that

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Speaker 2: And there is update? Do you think is the a

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Speaker 3: I think so, most specifically because of the reason behind it.

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Speaker 3: It is just to appease the insecurities of his twenty

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Speaker 1: You're saying OPI is the a hole? Oh no, wow,

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Speaker 1: se that takes dolly.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, No, I think that Op is definitely not the

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Speaker 1: Yeah, because it wasn't a problem before this insecure, immature,

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Speaker 1: Yeah, So what are we talking about here? Yeah, we're

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Speaker 1: talking about immaturity, That's what we're talking about.

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Speaker 5: Suret.

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Speaker 1: So, Yeah, I don't think Op is the A hole?

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Speaker 1: Do you think I think obviously the twenty four year

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Speaker 2: Without a doubt? Yes he is. This is the another

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Speaker 1: Another classic case of a person is just acquiescing to

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Speaker 3: Like, oh no, my kids get a great get a

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Speaker 3: name because you listen up, buddy, you already agreed to it.

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Speaker 2: Yes, it's in writing.

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Speaker 6: That was the prior agreement.

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Speaker 1: So if you really believe that, why did you not

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Speaker 2: Didn't care.

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Speaker 1: You didn't care until your twenty four year old baby,

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Speaker 2: Yeah. Anyway, there, Okay, let's get into that.

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Speaker 1: So several of you have asked for an update on

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Speaker 2: I having the same last name.

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Speaker 1: Well, I tried to link the original postpus not allowing

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Speaker 1: The reason he gave me a year is because they

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Speaker 1: He stated he did not realize how common this is,

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Speaker 2: Wow. That I was not expecting that. Wow.

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Speaker 1: The apologizes for the way he initially approached me about

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Speaker 1: I'm someone realizing that they were wrong and then apologizing

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Speaker 2: I wonder if the last name was Johnson.

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Speaker 1: Me, John Johnson, I mean, also you. That'd be kind

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Speaker 1: John john would be kind of a Samson Will Wilson.

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Speaker 1: Will Wilson's going to Riley Riley soon. Y. I've been

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Speaker 2: Oh was it? You should watch it? Good? Pretty? Pretty fire? Pretty? Yeah? Really? Movie?

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Speaker 2: It was an argument. It was a discussion of feelings.

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Speaker 3: I was like, no, I thought I thought you were

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Speaker 3: gonna say old married couple. Same because that's like, that's

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Speaker 5: Yeah, that's exactly. One was very stern, the other one

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Speaker 2: Yeah, because we love each other so much. That's right,

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Speaker 2: that's right, they've been they've been with each other for

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Speaker 2: so long.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, but you know who we've been together with for

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Speaker 1: for okop Rewam. My son's in laws banned us from

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Speaker 6: Like, yeah, the long the long haired guy.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, it's like put the Yeah, I'm gonna need you

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Speaker 2: Let's just say, I'm gonna go through your chimneys. Nice nice,

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Speaker 1: Here's co We just went down like full Christmas, dude,

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Speaker 1: See, I thought that would be like not the problem.

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Speaker 3: A few minutes later, my wife and daughter come out

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Speaker 1: They come over and tell me that we're leaving and

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Speaker 2: How could you say that?

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Speaker 1: Like, like the balls on you to be like I

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Speaker 2: Yeah, Like that's what.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, if their parents are like that.

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Speaker 3: Then that makes sense. But these parents are doing everything

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Speaker 1: Yeah, yeah, and they like they let you stay in

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Speaker 2: Good God.

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Speaker 3: According to what I was called, we're not there kind

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Speaker 2: It's like like.

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Speaker 3: They're walking you down the aisle, have a spray with

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Speaker 2: It's gonna be like one of those like like drive

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Speaker 1: I called my son and asked him what the heck

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Speaker 2: Whmbarrass how?

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Speaker 6: I want to know how?

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Speaker 2: I want to know how? Also not good enough? That's crazy.

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Speaker 2: This needs to be like get his life in check, dude.

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Speaker 3: We need we need to create like we need to

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Speaker 2: Yeah you know practical jokers. No I don't.

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Speaker 1: Actually, it's like this like classic prank show kind of

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Speaker 2: And then a guy comes out and says you're.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, uh is actually getting prank because they pried a

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Speaker 2: It's a reverse prank, Uno cars. I like the reverse prank.

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Speaker 3: I would do it, you know how they like watching

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Speaker 2: Like armed schwartzeninger, like bust.

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Speaker 3: Down the door and then just start like there's like

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Speaker 3: to attack them and that person just.

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Speaker 2: Like holy shit.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, Like they think they're watching the prank, yeah, but

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Speaker 2: Back back to back to our our protagonists who are

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Speaker 3: Call myself down, and then I drive back to the

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Speaker 3: Pennsylvania house. The new future in laws are in the

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Speaker 3: into the house. What so you uninvite me from the

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Speaker 3: all of them the parents do.

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Speaker 1: I don't understand how they think that this family will

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Speaker 3: It's like, guys, guys, we don't want to embarrass us,

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Speaker 3: so we're just gonna live in your house and and

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Speaker 2: Like I get, I mean this is it would be terrible.

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Speaker 1: But I could understand if like the other family was

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Speaker 1: can't come to the wedding because you're a bunch of hicks, right,

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Speaker 1: like so terrible some sort of like that like reason, yeah,

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Speaker 1: like that makes reason. But what the heck is the reason?

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Speaker 6: There's not even any logic behind it, like they have.

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Speaker 1: No I don't understand. I really want to know, Like

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Speaker 1: I want to yea, sit them down and say what

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Speaker 1: the fuck is going on?

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Speaker 2: They asked me what I'm doing there? Gee, I own

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Speaker 3: I told them that since we aren't invited, I was

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Speaker 2: Ridiculous about we're about to live the other shoes about

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Speaker 2: to draw. Are you ready, Sam?

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Speaker 6: We're fully cocked and loaded over here.

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Speaker 2: I'm ready to be cocked cocked. I lost it.

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Speaker 3: I told them that they had thirty days to get

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Speaker 2: Thirty days is a lot.

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Speaker 3: Very generous over here. I told my son I'm selling

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Speaker 3: with all of them. I go to a realtor in

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Speaker 2: Wow, that was quick.

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Speaker 3: Daddy ain't playing around. They call my son at work

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Speaker 3: and tell him what I said. Apparently they thought he

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Speaker 2: Now? Who's embarrassing? How did they think he owns it?

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Speaker 2: He's in college?

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Speaker 6: He listened to Gary Vee.

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Speaker 8: Yeah, I decided to fuck my parents and like, I

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Speaker 2: Fuck your parents, your parents don't sleep.

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Speaker 1: He calls me and asks me why I'm selling the house.

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Speaker 1: I told him I paid for it along with the

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Speaker 1: taxes on.

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Speaker 2: It, so it's mine. Damn straight.

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Speaker 3: The only answer you need. He was living there rent free.

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Speaker 3: But since he decided he doesn't want us in his

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Speaker 3: new fancy schmancy life, he has to get out.

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Speaker 2: Punishment fits the crime. Yeah it does.

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Speaker 3: I tell him the same as I told it's his

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Speaker 3: future in laws. He has thirty days to get out

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Speaker 3: and then I'll get my lawyer and get them evicted.

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Speaker 2: Shit.

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Speaker 1: So the question is, so the question is am I

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Speaker 1: the a hole for taking this hard stance on them?

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Speaker 1: He is my son, but the in laws seem to

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Speaker 1: take over and we no longer count.

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Speaker 2: I mean, he needs to learn a lesson. Honestly, this

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Speaker 2: is this is the exact appropriate punishment.

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Speaker 1: This is reality hitting it like sitting in right right,

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Speaker 1: like like, oh you think like you think that you're

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Speaker 1: better than us. Now, well let's let's let's see. Let's

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Speaker 1: see if you can fend for yourself.

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Speaker 3: Yeah you know what, Yeah, go go buy and go

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Speaker 3: go buy a mansion with all you you're clearly like

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Speaker 3: so much better than us, better making money and all

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Speaker 3: that stuff.

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Speaker 2: Then go go be better and buy a house. Go

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Speaker 2: do it. Fuck that guy,