1 00:00:00,120 --> 00:00:02,960 Speaker 1: My cousin passed away, and I couldn't be happier. 2 00:00:03,279 --> 00:00:05,040 Speaker 2: Now I don't have to invite them to the wedding? 3 00:00:05,120 --> 00:00:07,800 Speaker 2: Am I the a whole? Sam? Do you have a 4 00:00:07,800 --> 00:00:08,479 Speaker 2: prediction here? 5 00:00:09,000 --> 00:00:12,520 Speaker 3: You might be the a whole? I think my prediction 6 00:00:12,880 --> 00:00:14,840 Speaker 3: is that they might be the a whole. But I 7 00:00:14,880 --> 00:00:17,799 Speaker 3: also just watch Four Weddings in a Funeral and I 8 00:00:17,840 --> 00:00:21,279 Speaker 3: hate everyone in that movie except Hugh Grant. So unless 9 00:00:21,320 --> 00:00:22,680 Speaker 3: oh Grant. 10 00:00:22,720 --> 00:00:27,920 Speaker 2: Probably Grant, the prediction is in. Yeah. No, there's only 11 00:00:28,000 --> 00:00:30,520 Speaker 2: one way to find out. Let's get into a baby, 12 00:00:31,520 --> 00:00:35,360 Speaker 2: all right, let's go. Yeah, it looks right. 13 00:00:36,159 --> 00:00:42,159 Speaker 1: My fiance's cousin died unexpected yesterday. Tragic. Yes to his family? 14 00:00:43,520 --> 00:00:44,839 Speaker 1: Aren't they also your family? 15 00:00:47,400 --> 00:00:47,720 Speaker 2: Wow? 16 00:00:48,600 --> 00:00:51,919 Speaker 4: Well, I love the addition of Jew's family. 17 00:00:52,159 --> 00:00:53,800 Speaker 2: Oh my damn. 18 00:00:55,640 --> 00:01:04,760 Speaker 1: Good god. We are not actually in strong start. We 19 00:01:04,800 --> 00:01:07,280 Speaker 1: are not actually in touch with that part of her family. 20 00:01:08,080 --> 00:01:08,680 Speaker 1: Neither does she. 21 00:01:09,920 --> 00:01:12,520 Speaker 2: Neither does she before we meet. We're not We're not 22 00:01:12,520 --> 00:01:14,880 Speaker 2: actually in touch with that part of me. Neither does 23 00:01:14,920 --> 00:01:19,720 Speaker 2: she before we met. Neither does she. Neither was she. 24 00:01:21,240 --> 00:01:23,240 Speaker 1: We are not actively in touch with that part of 25 00:01:23,240 --> 00:01:26,840 Speaker 1: her family. Neither was she before we met. His family 26 00:01:26,880 --> 00:01:33,959 Speaker 1: has always been the Karen of the family. Okay, okay, dang. 27 00:01:34,040 --> 00:01:39,960 Speaker 3: Wait, so his entire family has been like an amalgamous. 28 00:01:38,880 --> 00:01:43,679 Speaker 1: I'm imagining like like like like in Rick and Morty 29 00:01:43,760 --> 00:01:47,280 Speaker 1: when they have like the different Ferrets into the super Ferret, 30 00:01:47,400 --> 00:01:49,960 Speaker 1: like the Karens combined into a super Karen. 31 00:01:51,080 --> 00:01:54,600 Speaker 3: Yes, I'm very surprised that we're making your Rick and 32 00:01:54,680 --> 00:01:55,800 Speaker 3: Morty reference right now. 33 00:01:55,920 --> 00:01:56,840 Speaker 4: I feel like I have it. 34 00:01:57,880 --> 00:02:02,080 Speaker 3: John never makes uh Rick and Morty or movie references 35 00:02:02,280 --> 00:02:05,480 Speaker 3: or show references, and I'm just glad that that's here 36 00:02:05,560 --> 00:02:09,480 Speaker 3: for one. I listen, Yes, it's exactly. 37 00:02:09,639 --> 00:02:13,840 Speaker 1: I won't get on my soapbox, but I don't watch movies. 38 00:02:14,760 --> 00:02:16,200 Speaker 2: I have watched. 39 00:02:16,040 --> 00:02:19,200 Speaker 1: Most of the show, and I don't remember most of it. 40 00:02:19,240 --> 00:02:22,800 Speaker 1: When Sam calls it out there, it is, that's what 41 00:02:22,919 --> 00:02:23,320 Speaker 1: it is. 42 00:02:23,360 --> 00:02:26,000 Speaker 3: He never he never remembers any of my Ricky Morty references. 43 00:02:26,040 --> 00:02:28,359 Speaker 3: But also Rick and Morty kind of got canceled. 44 00:02:28,400 --> 00:02:32,959 Speaker 1: So really, and oh dang, I'm completely it's kind of 45 00:02:33,000 --> 00:02:35,160 Speaker 1: a creep of course, of course. 46 00:02:35,320 --> 00:02:37,600 Speaker 2: Wow, well there you go. 47 00:02:41,000 --> 00:02:44,240 Speaker 1: So Opie says, not to mention his mother was pretty 48 00:02:44,240 --> 00:02:48,560 Speaker 1: hostile to my fiance's family. Some typical family drama. Fighting 49 00:02:48,639 --> 00:02:53,119 Speaker 1: for inheritance, et cetera. Do I do I smell another. 50 00:02:53,000 --> 00:02:57,320 Speaker 2: Story he's also made. 51 00:02:57,360 --> 00:03:00,839 Speaker 1: He has also made racist remarks about our relationship and 52 00:03:00,880 --> 00:03:05,000 Speaker 1: mocked my ancestry on a few occasions. Okay, so this 53 00:03:05,240 --> 00:03:09,119 Speaker 1: family is sounding pretty terrible. 54 00:03:09,360 --> 00:03:10,639 Speaker 2: The more and more we go. 55 00:03:10,600 --> 00:03:12,800 Speaker 4: Into fairly dysfunctional. 56 00:03:12,919 --> 00:03:18,760 Speaker 3: I see, I see the uh the Karen super like yeah, 57 00:03:19,360 --> 00:03:20,440 Speaker 3: and also like. 58 00:03:21,360 --> 00:03:24,640 Speaker 4: Editors, please put in a reference the reference please. 59 00:03:25,919 --> 00:03:30,720 Speaker 1: Also, I'm guessing that the cousin was talking about like 60 00:03:31,480 --> 00:03:34,560 Speaker 1: Op's side of the family that they don't share. But 61 00:03:34,639 --> 00:03:37,400 Speaker 1: I'm also like, they are cousins, so I have to 62 00:03:37,440 --> 00:03:40,000 Speaker 1: assume it's the part of the family that they don't 63 00:03:40,000 --> 00:03:41,200 Speaker 1: share as cousins. 64 00:03:41,200 --> 00:03:44,400 Speaker 2: But I'm like, yeah, still confused. But this is crazy. 65 00:03:44,960 --> 00:03:47,920 Speaker 2: We can hope. I hate our family. 66 00:03:48,760 --> 00:03:55,000 Speaker 1: Okay, Now it has created some friction between my fiance 67 00:03:55,240 --> 00:03:58,480 Speaker 1: and my future father in law, and we were forced 68 00:03:58,640 --> 00:04:02,680 Speaker 1: into inviting them to our wedding regardless of whether they 69 00:04:02,680 --> 00:04:05,560 Speaker 1: are willing to come or not, which they probably will, 70 00:04:05,880 --> 00:04:08,000 Speaker 1: for the free meal and the free boosts. 71 00:04:08,360 --> 00:04:09,160 Speaker 2: That's hilarious. 72 00:04:10,080 --> 00:04:13,960 Speaker 4: Wow o, truly truly. 73 00:04:16,400 --> 00:04:18,479 Speaker 2: No respect. 74 00:04:18,760 --> 00:04:23,080 Speaker 1: Now that the problem has resolved itself, they ain't here 75 00:04:23,160 --> 00:04:23,640 Speaker 1: no more. 76 00:04:24,800 --> 00:04:30,159 Speaker 4: No that the problem resolving. 77 00:04:30,360 --> 00:04:34,240 Speaker 1: Resolve, I need I need the staples like that was easy, button, 78 00:04:34,880 --> 00:04:36,880 Speaker 1: that was easy? Wow? 79 00:04:38,320 --> 00:04:39,039 Speaker 2: Oh my god. 80 00:04:39,200 --> 00:04:41,719 Speaker 4: Now I'm thinking Op is the murderer. 81 00:04:43,440 --> 00:04:47,640 Speaker 1: Now that is an and and they're posting the redist 82 00:04:47,680 --> 00:04:49,520 Speaker 1: story to get people like off the scent. 83 00:04:49,520 --> 00:04:53,080 Speaker 2: Like why would why would you post it if you 84 00:04:53,160 --> 00:04:56,400 Speaker 2: did it? Wow? Okay, trying to use it out now? 85 00:04:56,960 --> 00:04:59,360 Speaker 2: Oh you know what you I'm not buying it. 86 00:05:00,000 --> 00:05:05,479 Speaker 1: Super fun is a special segment for our conspiracies. So like, 87 00:05:05,520 --> 00:05:07,440 Speaker 1: there's the story, what's our conspiracy? 88 00:05:07,800 --> 00:05:08,480 Speaker 4: Okop? 89 00:05:09,400 --> 00:05:13,600 Speaker 2: Yes, yeah, that's super fun. I'm going to add. 90 00:05:15,680 --> 00:05:19,400 Speaker 1: Possible like when we feel one, we're like, okay, we 91 00:05:19,440 --> 00:05:20,120 Speaker 1: can throw it in. 92 00:05:24,960 --> 00:05:26,800 Speaker 4: Okay cool, So. 93 00:05:30,160 --> 00:05:31,479 Speaker 2: Uh resolve. 94 00:05:33,320 --> 00:05:36,839 Speaker 1: I told my fiance exactly how I felt. Well, I 95 00:05:36,880 --> 00:05:39,599 Speaker 1: told my fiance exactly how I felt when being asked 96 00:05:39,600 --> 00:05:42,760 Speaker 1: about it privately. She is upset that I don't feel 97 00:05:42,800 --> 00:05:46,400 Speaker 1: any sympathy about his passing. How am I supposed to 98 00:05:46,440 --> 00:05:52,679 Speaker 1: feel about it? Everyone passes away sooner or later. It's 99 00:05:52,800 --> 00:05:58,279 Speaker 1: unfortunate that he passed away unexpectedly, but death doesn't suddenly 100 00:05:58,320 --> 00:06:00,919 Speaker 1: make an awful person a saint. 101 00:06:07,160 --> 00:06:07,640 Speaker 2: Man. 102 00:06:08,360 --> 00:06:11,200 Speaker 4: He can't help. But dunking on that you really like. 103 00:06:11,720 --> 00:06:15,479 Speaker 1: Just can't like he just cannot hold back over here. 104 00:06:18,000 --> 00:06:20,960 Speaker 1: It's tragic to his family and the two children with 105 00:06:21,040 --> 00:06:23,679 Speaker 1: a mother that cannot financially provide for the family. 106 00:06:24,080 --> 00:06:27,120 Speaker 2: Bro he yeah, he had a two children. 107 00:06:27,720 --> 00:06:32,679 Speaker 1: I mean, at least feel something for the children are innocent, at. 108 00:06:32,560 --> 00:06:34,120 Speaker 2: Least feel something for them. 109 00:06:35,000 --> 00:06:39,080 Speaker 3: Oh my goodness, ah man, I feel like I feel 110 00:06:39,120 --> 00:06:41,640 Speaker 3: like OPI is like not like the cousin in executed 111 00:06:41,800 --> 00:06:42,320 Speaker 3: his kids. 112 00:06:43,440 --> 00:06:44,840 Speaker 2: Okay, okay, well, well here's this. 113 00:06:46,080 --> 00:06:49,640 Speaker 1: I do feel sorry for the children, but there's nothing 114 00:06:49,720 --> 00:06:53,000 Speaker 1: I can do slash will do about other people's past 115 00:06:53,040 --> 00:06:56,640 Speaker 1: life choices. I am quite relieved that we no longer 116 00:06:56,680 --> 00:06:59,440 Speaker 1: have to put her family in an awkward situation and 117 00:06:59,480 --> 00:07:02,360 Speaker 1: that we are not inviting every one of her cousins 118 00:07:02,400 --> 00:07:06,000 Speaker 1: to our wedding. Maybe I am just an unsympathetic a 119 00:07:06,120 --> 00:07:07,840 Speaker 1: hole all along. 120 00:07:10,920 --> 00:07:15,200 Speaker 4: I think, all right, okay. 121 00:07:14,240 --> 00:07:17,680 Speaker 2: Well, let's let's get our our our people's opinions. 122 00:07:17,960 --> 00:07:22,000 Speaker 4: Uh this is yeah, yeah, before before we give our judgments. 123 00:07:22,040 --> 00:07:24,800 Speaker 1: This is a tough one. So we're gonna really need 124 00:07:24,920 --> 00:07:27,720 Speaker 1: you all to go into the comments. Say if A 125 00:07:28,080 --> 00:07:30,960 Speaker 1: is OP the A hole? Is he the angel? Who 126 00:07:30,960 --> 00:07:34,120 Speaker 1: are the a holes and angels? Please tell us who 127 00:07:34,160 --> 00:07:37,440 Speaker 1: you think and give us some details because I am 128 00:07:37,440 --> 00:07:40,240 Speaker 1: confused on this one. Sam, I have to pass it 129 00:07:40,280 --> 00:07:42,000 Speaker 1: to you for the breakdown. 130 00:07:42,880 --> 00:07:44,440 Speaker 2: What do you think? What say you? 131 00:07:45,200 --> 00:07:48,800 Speaker 3: I'm not I'm not okay, I'm not like okay, I 132 00:07:48,800 --> 00:07:50,240 Speaker 3: don't think there are any angels. 133 00:07:51,680 --> 00:07:53,080 Speaker 2: Yes, that's the one. 134 00:07:53,160 --> 00:07:58,880 Speaker 3: Maybe maybe the kids little cherubs flying around having done 135 00:07:58,920 --> 00:08:05,280 Speaker 3: no wrong. But the cousin sounds like a little bit 136 00:08:05,280 --> 00:08:08,280 Speaker 3: of a bag right, Like you know, the cousin was 137 00:08:08,360 --> 00:08:11,680 Speaker 3: making fun of the ancestry, whatever that ancestry may be. 138 00:08:13,720 --> 00:08:18,120 Speaker 3: But to like dance on the grave of this cousin 139 00:08:18,600 --> 00:08:20,760 Speaker 3: that has kids. 140 00:08:21,120 --> 00:08:23,000 Speaker 4: A little bit of asshole, a little bit. 141 00:08:22,960 --> 00:08:26,480 Speaker 3: Asshole, you know, like, you know, don't don't be so 142 00:08:26,600 --> 00:08:30,480 Speaker 3: happy that a family member they'll be so happy, especially 143 00:08:30,520 --> 00:08:33,520 Speaker 3: like and it sounds like they're a little assholey but 144 00:08:33,559 --> 00:08:35,840 Speaker 3: maybe not dance, Yeah, not. 145 00:08:36,240 --> 00:08:37,120 Speaker 2: To that level. 146 00:08:37,600 --> 00:08:40,800 Speaker 1: Yeah, you know, Like like there's people who who it's like, 147 00:08:41,440 --> 00:08:44,640 Speaker 1: you know, people who cause mass genocide. It's like amazing, 148 00:08:45,000 --> 00:08:47,559 Speaker 1: you know what I mean. But it's like, I don't. 149 00:08:47,440 --> 00:08:50,520 Speaker 4: Know if what the mass genocide is amazing. 150 00:08:51,200 --> 00:08:52,880 Speaker 2: Yes, that's exactly what I'm trying to say. 151 00:08:55,080 --> 00:08:56,120 Speaker 4: People who thought. 152 00:08:55,960 --> 00:09:01,160 Speaker 1: That somebody's got a love of No No, I listen, 153 00:09:01,240 --> 00:09:04,120 Speaker 1: no no, Kanye's over here. Okay, ladies and gentlemen, I 154 00:09:04,160 --> 00:09:07,400 Speaker 1: know someday someone's gonna clip that. Oh goodness, gracious, that'll 155 00:09:07,400 --> 00:09:08,240 Speaker 1: be an interesting day. 156 00:09:08,360 --> 00:09:11,520 Speaker 3: Yoh, John's about to put on a full on ski 157 00:09:11,679 --> 00:09:13,640 Speaker 3: mask right now, spurt some. 158 00:09:13,480 --> 00:09:16,240 Speaker 2: Shit good gravy. Not not today, guys. 159 00:09:16,320 --> 00:09:18,959 Speaker 1: Y'all, y'all, y'all, aren't y'all are I'm not getting got 160 00:09:19,000 --> 00:09:23,720 Speaker 1: like that, but like what Opie has done, I don't 161 00:09:23,760 --> 00:09:26,120 Speaker 1: know if they deserve a full like yeah, straight up, 162 00:09:26,160 --> 00:09:29,480 Speaker 1: I mean, bro, forget break dancing. This this man is 163 00:09:29,520 --> 00:09:32,760 Speaker 1: like moonwalking in nineteen eighty four over this grave, like 164 00:09:32,920 --> 00:09:35,120 Speaker 1: just like absolute. 165 00:09:35,400 --> 00:09:39,280 Speaker 4: Oh you know what he's doing is. 166 00:09:38,240 --> 00:09:44,480 Speaker 1: Togethering all over this grave like we're off again because 167 00:09:44,679 --> 00:09:52,160 Speaker 1: instead go ahead, keep going, keep going, We're all in 168 00:09:52,200 --> 00:09:54,400 Speaker 1: this wait this. 169 00:09:56,160 --> 00:09:56,679 Speaker 4: Cousin. 170 00:09:56,679 --> 00:10:02,880 Speaker 3: Instead, my face is red because I'm so happy because 171 00:10:02,960 --> 00:10:07,600 Speaker 3: it's dead and the ground. Uh, put your booty on down, 172 00:10:07,960 --> 00:10:10,680 Speaker 3: let's do it, everybody go on. 173 00:10:11,400 --> 00:10:12,880 Speaker 2: I forgot the breakdown. 174 00:10:13,600 --> 00:10:15,840 Speaker 3: I like how you go instantly to high school musical 175 00:10:15,920 --> 00:10:18,400 Speaker 3: like that is like the most disrespectful. 176 00:10:18,920 --> 00:10:24,719 Speaker 5: So it really is, though, now I kind of now 177 00:10:24,760 --> 00:10:27,680 Speaker 5: I want definitely I want literally, like, you know, the 178 00:10:27,760 --> 00:10:32,360 Speaker 5: saddest moment where they're like lowering the pages. 179 00:10:36,080 --> 00:10:37,800 Speaker 3: Yeah, I dude, I think I think you should put 180 00:10:37,800 --> 00:10:41,200 Speaker 3: it in your will right now. These play high school musical. 181 00:10:41,280 --> 00:10:42,160 Speaker 3: We're all this together. 182 00:10:43,080 --> 00:10:46,680 Speaker 2: I'm definitely gonna do that. But okay, so so there's 183 00:10:46,679 --> 00:10:47,480 Speaker 2: no angels. 184 00:10:47,800 --> 00:10:53,240 Speaker 1: What would you say, OPI and the cousin, we're both 185 00:10:53,760 --> 00:10:57,360 Speaker 1: a holes in their respective you know, and like the 186 00:10:57,400 --> 00:11:00,760 Speaker 1: cousin while they were alive before this expected death and 187 00:11:00,800 --> 00:11:04,920 Speaker 1: then o P in this this situation. 188 00:11:04,920 --> 00:11:08,360 Speaker 3: Well, I think still in death, the cousin is still 189 00:11:08,400 --> 00:11:13,560 Speaker 3: in a deer alive, the cousin is an a hole. Ops, 190 00:11:13,600 --> 00:11:14,719 Speaker 3: A little bit of a too. 191 00:11:16,200 --> 00:11:17,000 Speaker 2: That's a whole. 192 00:11:18,840 --> 00:11:20,839 Speaker 4: Editors, please put like a little bound. 193 00:11:24,679 --> 00:11:27,520 Speaker 3: Yeah, I think I think. I think everyone's a bit 194 00:11:27,559 --> 00:11:30,080 Speaker 3: of a Yeah, everyone's a way. I think you shouldn't 195 00:11:30,120 --> 00:11:32,000 Speaker 3: dance on the grave of anyone dead, especially if they 196 00:11:32,000 --> 00:11:34,240 Speaker 3: have you know, two kids that are you know, offending, 197 00:11:34,360 --> 00:11:35,200 Speaker 3: going to be fending for them. 198 00:11:35,800 --> 00:11:41,520 Speaker 2: Yeah, but damn, bro, this is this is a big one. 199 00:11:41,559 --> 00:11:44,800 Speaker 1: But Sam, I mean, you got something crazier for me, 200 00:11:45,960 --> 00:11:47,520 Speaker 1: You got a crazier story? 201 00:11:48,280 --> 00:11:50,600 Speaker 4: Wait should we do? 202 00:11:51,040 --> 00:11:53,280 Speaker 2: Oh? Yeah? Was this even? And I guess yeah, we 203 00:11:53,320 --> 00:11:53,560 Speaker 2: did that. 204 00:11:55,040 --> 00:11:57,320 Speaker 4: I think, well, do we want to do what should 205 00:11:57,320 --> 00:11:59,040 Speaker 4: O P do? What should O P do? 206 00:11:59,240 --> 00:11:59,440 Speaker 5: Oh? 207 00:12:00,040 --> 00:12:00,600 Speaker 4: Before we do that? 208 00:12:00,920 --> 00:12:04,160 Speaker 2: Yeah that's cool? Yeah yeah, yeah, yeah absolutely. 209 00:12:05,679 --> 00:12:08,079 Speaker 3: I mean, like I think, like what OP should do 210 00:12:08,480 --> 00:12:10,959 Speaker 3: if we're like thinking about the best thing that was 211 00:12:11,080 --> 00:12:15,440 Speaker 3: angelic thing OP could do is like, you know, grief 212 00:12:15,520 --> 00:12:18,560 Speaker 3: for the kids that lost lost parents, right, and like 213 00:12:18,760 --> 00:12:21,160 Speaker 3: make sure to help out that family anyway. 214 00:12:22,600 --> 00:12:23,040 Speaker 2: He can. 215 00:12:23,400 --> 00:12:27,520 Speaker 3: And honestly, I think the best way to do that 216 00:12:28,040 --> 00:12:32,080 Speaker 3: is uh to turn on the TV, put in High 217 00:12:32,080 --> 00:12:35,720 Speaker 3: School Musical one through three and fucking jam out on 218 00:12:35,800 --> 00:12:40,080 Speaker 3: that graves again. 219 00:12:44,960 --> 00:12:47,280 Speaker 1: My parents try to cancel my wedding and cut me 220 00:12:47,320 --> 00:12:49,199 Speaker 1: out of their life on my birthday. 221 00:12:49,360 --> 00:12:51,760 Speaker 4: Okayop, this is Okayop. 222 00:12:52,000 --> 00:12:55,920 Speaker 3: I'm samuel daughter and we tell the funniest stories on 223 00:12:56,120 --> 00:12:58,920 Speaker 3: Reddit and the internet to John, can you tell me 224 00:12:59,400 --> 00:13:02,040 Speaker 3: your story they have for me today that is going 225 00:13:02,120 --> 00:13:03,720 Speaker 3: to make me raffle in play. 226 00:13:03,760 --> 00:13:05,680 Speaker 4: It's a little rhyme for your little Haiku. 227 00:13:05,440 --> 00:13:10,720 Speaker 2: Bores bores, bors, bores. Thanks. 228 00:13:12,080 --> 00:13:14,400 Speaker 1: My parents tried to cancel my wedding and cut me 229 00:13:14,440 --> 00:13:16,319 Speaker 1: out of their life on my birthday. 230 00:13:16,679 --> 00:13:17,800 Speaker 4: On the birthday. 231 00:13:17,920 --> 00:13:22,040 Speaker 3: Terrible Birthday, gift, Happy Birthday, not me to no one. 232 00:13:22,080 --> 00:13:25,520 Speaker 1: That's the worst time. Definitely the worst birthday gift of 233 00:13:25,559 --> 00:13:26,000 Speaker 1: all time. 234 00:13:26,080 --> 00:13:27,720 Speaker 2: Guarantee Ajeed agreed. 235 00:13:27,960 --> 00:13:30,240 Speaker 1: Our parents came to us and offered to help pay 236 00:13:30,280 --> 00:13:32,400 Speaker 1: for our wedding. We didn't just ask for money. They 237 00:13:32,440 --> 00:13:34,880 Speaker 1: offered it after the engagement and wanted to help us 238 00:13:34,920 --> 00:13:37,480 Speaker 1: out financially. Now the debt we are in is partially 239 00:13:37,480 --> 00:13:40,160 Speaker 1: our fault. Granted we did get our financial information stolen. 240 00:13:40,679 --> 00:13:43,320 Speaker 1: Never get a loan unless you know with complete certainty 241 00:13:43,400 --> 00:13:45,640 Speaker 1: you can pay it back. Yeah, that's fox, dude. 242 00:13:45,840 --> 00:13:48,640 Speaker 3: Sounds like some bad money management to start this off. 243 00:13:48,920 --> 00:13:51,640 Speaker 3: If only there was a show that we could do 244 00:13:52,240 --> 00:13:54,920 Speaker 3: about crypto and money for shadowing. 245 00:13:55,760 --> 00:13:57,920 Speaker 1: A while back, my fiance did leave her job at 246 00:13:57,920 --> 00:14:01,200 Speaker 1: the post office because of unsafe working. Can anyone who 247 00:14:01,280 --> 00:14:03,800 Speaker 1: works there or has worked there can probably relate to 248 00:14:03,800 --> 00:14:06,240 Speaker 1: it in some way, joint some of you have done 249 00:14:06,240 --> 00:14:08,480 Speaker 1: some digging and seen the situation I was in. It's 250 00:14:08,480 --> 00:14:11,520 Speaker 1: slightly improved since then, as they gave me a two 251 00:14:11,600 --> 00:14:13,040 Speaker 1: dollars an hour raise at work. 252 00:14:14,000 --> 00:14:15,640 Speaker 2: Yikes, not too MUCHO. 253 00:14:16,360 --> 00:14:20,440 Speaker 3: Yeah, that's enough to probably pay off whatever alone you got. Yeah, 254 00:14:20,440 --> 00:14:24,040 Speaker 3: when your raises are in like dollars it's not solid now. 255 00:14:24,160 --> 00:14:26,840 Speaker 3: My fiance and my family have always been a bit 256 00:14:26,920 --> 00:14:29,720 Speaker 3: rocky when we first started dating because I come from 257 00:14:29,760 --> 00:14:33,400 Speaker 3: an upper class family and she did not. That doesn't 258 00:14:33,440 --> 00:14:35,720 Speaker 3: matter to me, of course, I'm engaged in over the 259 00:14:35,760 --> 00:14:36,560 Speaker 3: moon in love. 260 00:14:36,400 --> 00:14:37,960 Speaker 2: With this woman. AnyWho. 261 00:14:38,120 --> 00:14:40,560 Speaker 1: We are planning on having the wedding next year. Just 262 00:14:40,600 --> 00:14:43,240 Speaker 1: finished our first semnster in film school and got approved 263 00:14:43,240 --> 00:14:44,400 Speaker 1: for an internship this summer. 264 00:14:45,080 --> 00:14:45,360 Speaker 2: Nice. 265 00:14:45,440 --> 00:14:47,600 Speaker 4: Hey, things are looking up. Let's go if. 266 00:14:47,600 --> 00:14:49,480 Speaker 1: We moved out of state for school and have been 267 00:14:49,520 --> 00:14:52,320 Speaker 1: there for about two years. During that time, we have 268 00:14:52,440 --> 00:14:54,920 Speaker 1: had some money troubles trying to make it on our own. 269 00:14:55,320 --> 00:14:57,240 Speaker 1: So we were heading back down to see our family 270 00:14:57,240 --> 00:14:59,720 Speaker 1: for the holidays, and we had made it a point 271 00:14:59,800 --> 00:15:02,160 Speaker 1: to set up a dinner so our dads could meet 272 00:15:02,240 --> 00:15:04,160 Speaker 1: with us and talk about the wedding budget. 273 00:15:04,160 --> 00:15:07,040 Speaker 2: Seems straightforward. So we met at a restaurant for dinner. 274 00:15:07,040 --> 00:15:09,800 Speaker 1: Her dad and my fiance were expecting a conversation about 275 00:15:09,800 --> 00:15:12,120 Speaker 1: a wedding budget. First thing out of my parents' mouth 276 00:15:12,360 --> 00:15:14,880 Speaker 1: is that we should cancel the wedding all together. 277 00:15:15,120 --> 00:15:16,160 Speaker 4: Let cancel the wedding. 278 00:15:16,200 --> 00:15:18,240 Speaker 1: Why so you're coming here, like, okay, let's you know, 279 00:15:18,440 --> 00:15:20,720 Speaker 1: set the budgets, make sure, you know, we stay in line, 280 00:15:21,080 --> 00:15:23,720 Speaker 1: and they're like, we're let's cancel this wedding. 281 00:15:23,880 --> 00:15:25,920 Speaker 4: Let's know, let's not do it all together. 282 00:15:26,000 --> 00:15:28,440 Speaker 1: But now keep in mind, this is a full year 283 00:15:28,480 --> 00:15:31,520 Speaker 1: from now, after we would be done with school and 284 00:15:31,840 --> 00:15:33,960 Speaker 1: in our new job. They want the wedding called off 285 00:15:34,040 --> 00:15:36,840 Speaker 1: to focus on us being more responsible with our money. 286 00:15:36,960 --> 00:15:38,960 Speaker 1: But at this point they haven't even looked at our 287 00:15:39,000 --> 00:15:41,880 Speaker 1: budget yet, so they don't even know what bills that 288 00:15:41,920 --> 00:15:44,680 Speaker 1: we have to pay. Her dad who already paid for 289 00:15:44,720 --> 00:15:47,920 Speaker 1: the venue, so her dad has already put money down. 290 00:15:48,120 --> 00:15:50,960 Speaker 3: Well, and the upper and like and like, the upper 291 00:15:51,000 --> 00:15:52,680 Speaker 3: class family isn't going to do it. 292 00:15:52,800 --> 00:15:55,960 Speaker 1: Yes, the upper class family is wow, so the lower 293 00:15:55,960 --> 00:15:59,440 Speaker 1: class dad has allready put his money down. My fiance's 294 00:15:59,480 --> 00:16:02,160 Speaker 1: dad was completely taken aback by all of this and 295 00:16:02,280 --> 00:16:04,360 Speaker 1: is hearing it from people he has never met before. 296 00:16:04,400 --> 00:16:06,560 Speaker 2: This is the first thing they. 297 00:16:06,440 --> 00:16:09,720 Speaker 3: Say when thelous, You're not a good impression. 298 00:16:09,760 --> 00:16:11,400 Speaker 4: You're not even a good impression at all. 299 00:16:11,480 --> 00:16:14,360 Speaker 1: Care of My fiance and I immediately got pissed because 300 00:16:14,360 --> 00:16:16,800 Speaker 1: we had planned to come down to see the venue, 301 00:16:16,960 --> 00:16:19,800 Speaker 1: thinking we could all go together and then get the 302 00:16:19,800 --> 00:16:22,640 Speaker 1: money thing sorted out. Then my dad said, in addition 303 00:16:22,760 --> 00:16:25,920 Speaker 1: to canceling the wedding, we should give up on school 304 00:16:26,240 --> 00:16:28,880 Speaker 1: he never approved on it from the get go and 305 00:16:29,040 --> 00:16:30,480 Speaker 1: move in with him. 306 00:16:30,640 --> 00:16:38,120 Speaker 3: Wait, this is this, This dinner has gone where they 307 00:16:38,160 --> 00:16:40,520 Speaker 3: thought it was going to be. Not only is he 308 00:16:40,600 --> 00:16:43,080 Speaker 3: gotta stop the marriage, but he's like, drop out of school, 309 00:16:43,240 --> 00:16:45,760 Speaker 3: just stay at ours, Like this seems like the worst 310 00:16:45,760 --> 00:16:47,080 Speaker 3: parental advice ever. 311 00:16:47,000 --> 00:16:49,880 Speaker 1: Literally, and and he just like he just disapproves of 312 00:16:49,960 --> 00:16:51,480 Speaker 1: literally every single life. 313 00:16:51,360 --> 00:16:53,720 Speaker 2: Choice that that his son is. My god, this is crazy. 314 00:16:53,800 --> 00:16:56,280 Speaker 1: And then my mom chined in, saying that if we 315 00:16:56,280 --> 00:16:59,400 Speaker 1: were having money troubles and needed their help, we weren't 316 00:16:59,480 --> 00:17:02,120 Speaker 1: really living on our own at all and should cut 317 00:17:02,200 --> 00:17:04,160 Speaker 1: back and sell all of our pets. 318 00:17:04,160 --> 00:17:06,119 Speaker 4: How many pets do they have a good question. 319 00:17:06,520 --> 00:17:06,880 Speaker 2: I don't. 320 00:17:06,920 --> 00:17:10,880 Speaker 4: I think that's very expensive. It's very expensive. 321 00:17:10,920 --> 00:17:13,080 Speaker 2: We just got a very cute cat by the way. 322 00:17:13,160 --> 00:17:15,960 Speaker 1: Yeah yeah, my girlfriend's cat from New York is now 323 00:17:16,040 --> 00:17:18,520 Speaker 1: living with us. Although she's like, she's got a lot 324 00:17:18,520 --> 00:17:21,320 Speaker 1: of anxiety, so I kid you not. She's literally hiding 325 00:17:21,480 --> 00:17:25,840 Speaker 1: like eight feet up in our tallest tallest. 326 00:17:26,720 --> 00:17:28,240 Speaker 4: Now you're a cat dad. 327 00:17:28,119 --> 00:17:29,040 Speaker 2: Now I'm a cat dad. 328 00:17:29,080 --> 00:17:33,800 Speaker 1: Here we go, cat deadio. Now, the thing is, my 329 00:17:33,840 --> 00:17:36,639 Speaker 1: fiance has some issues when it comes to controlling her 330 00:17:36,680 --> 00:17:39,040 Speaker 1: field though I think you know what's about to happen. 331 00:17:39,600 --> 00:17:42,240 Speaker 4: Oh this is going to be World War three over here. 332 00:17:42,320 --> 00:17:42,960 Speaker 2: Oh yeah. 333 00:17:43,080 --> 00:17:46,760 Speaker 1: So she basically went off on my parents, saying how 334 00:17:46,800 --> 00:17:49,680 Speaker 1: it is not right for them to do this to us, 335 00:17:49,760 --> 00:17:51,680 Speaker 1: and how wrong it is for my dad to put 336 00:17:51,720 --> 00:17:54,400 Speaker 1: me down all the time in regards to my schooling, 337 00:17:55,119 --> 00:18:01,200 Speaker 1: which I completely agree with. My dad immediately how disrespectful 338 00:18:01,240 --> 00:18:03,720 Speaker 1: we are being, even though he started it all by 339 00:18:03,760 --> 00:18:07,480 Speaker 1: saying we should cancel the wedding. The most disrespectful thing 340 00:18:08,240 --> 00:18:10,040 Speaker 1: you can start with this. 341 00:18:10,040 --> 00:18:11,680 Speaker 4: This is going downhill, dude. 342 00:18:11,400 --> 00:18:14,280 Speaker 2: Just like you think, like, oh, I can't get any crazier, 343 00:18:15,400 --> 00:18:17,760 Speaker 2: even harder. Now here's the thing. 344 00:18:18,480 --> 00:18:21,280 Speaker 1: My dad had already agreed to pay for parts of 345 00:18:21,320 --> 00:18:24,399 Speaker 1: the wedding before all of this. So, prior to this conversation, 346 00:18:24,840 --> 00:18:27,560 Speaker 1: the dad had said, yes, I will pay for some 347 00:18:27,640 --> 00:18:29,440 Speaker 1: parts of the way, like. 348 00:18:30,080 --> 00:18:30,879 Speaker 2: Guy say that. 349 00:18:30,920 --> 00:18:33,040 Speaker 1: In the beginning, the only thing we asked him to 350 00:18:33,040 --> 00:18:35,800 Speaker 1: do was cover catering for about seventy people we invited 351 00:18:36,400 --> 00:18:39,240 Speaker 1: at dinner. He said he wasn't going to throw twenty 352 00:18:39,280 --> 00:18:40,679 Speaker 1: thousand dollars out the window? 353 00:18:40,760 --> 00:18:41,840 Speaker 4: Is it really out the window? 354 00:18:41,880 --> 00:18:42,160 Speaker 5: Though? 355 00:18:42,200 --> 00:18:43,240 Speaker 4: Like, this is the wedding. 356 00:18:43,320 --> 00:18:45,399 Speaker 1: Here's the thing though, Op goes on to say, we 357 00:18:45,520 --> 00:18:48,879 Speaker 1: only asked my dad for three thousand dollars after he 358 00:18:48,880 --> 00:18:50,359 Speaker 1: said he wanted to contribute, so he's like, oh, I 359 00:18:50,400 --> 00:18:51,879 Speaker 1: don't want to throw twenty k. 360 00:18:52,200 --> 00:18:54,760 Speaker 2: Yeah, we only asked for three k for the catering. 361 00:18:54,840 --> 00:18:57,720 Speaker 1: Now, he's a successful surgeon, so three k is not 362 00:18:57,880 --> 00:18:58,440 Speaker 1: wil Away. 363 00:18:58,600 --> 00:18:59,560 Speaker 4: Dad's a surgeon. 364 00:18:59,600 --> 00:19:01,120 Speaker 2: Daddy is a surgeon. 365 00:19:01,240 --> 00:19:01,879 Speaker 4: You're not You're not. 366 00:19:01,960 --> 00:19:03,840 Speaker 3: You do bro, you gotta you gotta spend some of 367 00:19:03,840 --> 00:19:05,760 Speaker 3: those soldiery bucks on the wedding. 368 00:19:05,520 --> 00:19:10,920 Speaker 1: Okay, two, three, four, five hundred k year man like, yeah, 369 00:19:10,960 --> 00:19:15,520 Speaker 1: surgeons make him baby, make him bread baby like a bakery. 370 00:19:15,440 --> 00:19:16,240 Speaker 4: Like a bakery. 371 00:19:16,359 --> 00:19:19,320 Speaker 3: And side the body, do you know the muffin man 372 00:19:19,800 --> 00:19:22,880 Speaker 3: with the scalpeld I wonder, I wonder if he's eating 373 00:19:22,920 --> 00:19:23,680 Speaker 3: any human feet? 374 00:19:23,800 --> 00:19:24,240 Speaker 2: Oh god? 375 00:19:24,480 --> 00:19:28,840 Speaker 1: Reference reference to yeah, our last episode whenever that crazy 376 00:19:28,880 --> 00:19:29,440 Speaker 1: thing comes out. 377 00:19:29,480 --> 00:19:30,360 Speaker 2: And now here's the thing. 378 00:19:30,720 --> 00:19:33,720 Speaker 1: My fiance's dad was contributing five K, so we didn't 379 00:19:33,720 --> 00:19:35,600 Speaker 1: ask him to do any extra work. At this point, 380 00:19:35,600 --> 00:19:38,080 Speaker 1: the dinner was an absolute flop. Both of my parents 381 00:19:38,200 --> 00:19:41,399 Speaker 1: just straight up left. I thought things were cool, but 382 00:19:41,560 --> 00:19:42,280 Speaker 1: it got worse. 383 00:19:43,400 --> 00:19:45,800 Speaker 3: If you why, why do they always say but it 384 00:19:45,840 --> 00:19:47,679 Speaker 3: got worse, It's always getting worse. 385 00:19:47,960 --> 00:19:53,240 Speaker 1: It got worse, and I snapped, those are the The 386 00:19:53,280 --> 00:19:55,400 Speaker 1: next day, after a meeting with my mom and exchanging 387 00:19:55,680 --> 00:19:58,240 Speaker 1: and exchanging presence, remember this is Christmas. 388 00:19:58,840 --> 00:20:02,200 Speaker 3: That no, not only and the wedding's not going through, 389 00:20:02,280 --> 00:20:09,200 Speaker 3: but it's Christmas. Oh my gosh, terrible, it's his Birthdaystmas. 390 00:20:09,560 --> 00:20:15,080 Speaker 3: This is just the worst, worst possible combination effects. 391 00:20:15,119 --> 00:20:17,080 Speaker 1: So we went on acting as if the didn'ner happened, 392 00:20:17,119 --> 00:20:19,919 Speaker 1: which was odd because then my dad called and he 393 00:20:20,040 --> 00:20:22,760 Speaker 1: canceled Christmas at his house and he said he just 394 00:20:22,800 --> 00:20:25,400 Speaker 1: wanted to grab coffee, just me and him. I thought 395 00:20:25,440 --> 00:20:28,160 Speaker 1: he just wanted to exchange presents and talk things out. 396 00:20:28,680 --> 00:20:30,960 Speaker 1: I thought to myself, all right, he was pissed, but 397 00:20:31,040 --> 00:20:32,880 Speaker 1: now he's had time to cool off and he wants 398 00:20:32,920 --> 00:20:35,760 Speaker 1: to go over the details. So I asked him if 399 00:20:35,800 --> 00:20:38,520 Speaker 1: I could bring my fiance's dad so they could have 400 00:20:38,640 --> 00:20:42,080 Speaker 1: a do over. My dad said no. I asked him 401 00:20:42,119 --> 00:20:44,760 Speaker 1: if I could bring a general budget of our finances 402 00:20:44,840 --> 00:20:46,720 Speaker 1: so we could go over it and I could get 403 00:20:46,720 --> 00:20:50,440 Speaker 1: some advice from him, man to man, he said no. 404 00:20:51,040 --> 00:20:53,240 Speaker 1: So he's reaching out. He's like, all right, you know, 405 00:20:54,200 --> 00:20:56,320 Speaker 1: let me get my life together, if you know so much. 406 00:20:56,440 --> 00:20:59,000 Speaker 1: And he's like nope. So he pulls up in his 407 00:20:59,119 --> 00:21:02,320 Speaker 1: Porsche Classy, Oh my God, to come pick me up 408 00:21:02,320 --> 00:21:04,960 Speaker 1: from my fiance's dad's house. Doesn't even get out to 409 00:21:05,000 --> 00:21:07,520 Speaker 1: say hello. I get in the car and instead of 410 00:21:07,560 --> 00:21:10,480 Speaker 1: driving off to get coffee, we drive to my mom's house. Okay, 411 00:21:10,560 --> 00:21:13,000 Speaker 1: so now it was both of my parents, No big deal. 412 00:21:13,480 --> 00:21:17,640 Speaker 2: I go in. It is literally my entire family. 413 00:21:17,840 --> 00:21:21,679 Speaker 1: They had set up an intervention to get me to 414 00:21:21,920 --> 00:21:25,120 Speaker 1: leave my fiance in another state, just ditch her completely. 415 00:21:25,400 --> 00:21:28,879 Speaker 4: What Yes, this gets so much worse. 416 00:21:28,920 --> 00:21:31,480 Speaker 3: And also the coordination that you need to set up 417 00:21:31,480 --> 00:21:35,280 Speaker 3: a whole intervention like that, and and a coordination need 418 00:21:35,359 --> 00:21:37,240 Speaker 3: without anyone knowing, that's impressive. 419 00:21:37,400 --> 00:21:39,639 Speaker 2: You know what? Could use that coordination a wedding? 420 00:21:40,240 --> 00:21:43,520 Speaker 3: Yeah, have you put in like a modicum of the 421 00:21:43,560 --> 00:21:46,119 Speaker 3: amount of effort that you put into this into this 422 00:21:46,240 --> 00:21:49,000 Speaker 3: freaking uh the circus. 423 00:21:49,080 --> 00:21:50,639 Speaker 4: You would have a great wedding on your hands. 424 00:21:50,720 --> 00:21:52,960 Speaker 1: They said that I could stay with them, They could 425 00:21:53,040 --> 00:21:55,399 Speaker 1: drain all the bank accounts I have with her, and 426 00:21:55,560 --> 00:21:59,000 Speaker 1: I could start over. They accused her of stealing cash 427 00:21:59,119 --> 00:22:02,680 Speaker 1: from their house. They said she was abusive, and they 428 00:22:02,720 --> 00:22:06,480 Speaker 1: said I could find someone better back home with them. 429 00:22:06,920 --> 00:22:09,760 Speaker 1: They wanted me to walk away from everything we were. 430 00:22:09,600 --> 00:22:10,520 Speaker 2: Trying to accomplish. 431 00:22:10,560 --> 00:22:13,159 Speaker 1: I could quit school and I could go into a 432 00:22:13,200 --> 00:22:15,080 Speaker 1: more successful occupation. 433 00:22:15,760 --> 00:22:16,080 Speaker 2: Uh. 434 00:22:16,160 --> 00:22:18,600 Speaker 4: They see there. They have a problem with the film major. 435 00:22:18,720 --> 00:22:21,440 Speaker 4: They want. I want him to be a rocket surgeon 436 00:22:21,520 --> 00:22:22,000 Speaker 4: or something. 437 00:22:22,240 --> 00:22:23,040 Speaker 2: Rocket surgeon. 438 00:22:23,440 --> 00:22:23,960 Speaker 4: I love it. 439 00:22:24,080 --> 00:22:27,840 Speaker 1: You took surgeon and a rocket scientist one mega mega 440 00:22:27,920 --> 00:22:32,960 Speaker 1: careers the best. No, oh, here, here's what they do. 441 00:22:33,280 --> 00:22:36,120 Speaker 1: They repair rockets while performing surgery. 442 00:22:36,280 --> 00:22:37,800 Speaker 2: That's the rocket surgeon. 443 00:22:37,880 --> 00:22:40,000 Speaker 3: That's the best. That's the you know, I think that 444 00:22:40,320 --> 00:22:42,719 Speaker 3: is the ideal job to anyone. 445 00:22:42,800 --> 00:22:43,639 Speaker 2: Double salad, that's what. 446 00:22:43,800 --> 00:22:44,920 Speaker 4: Yeah, double the salary. 447 00:22:44,960 --> 00:22:47,480 Speaker 3: It's it's like, it's if you're if you're ambidextrous, that 448 00:22:47,600 --> 00:22:50,359 Speaker 3: you could do surgery with one hand and rocket science 449 00:22:50,400 --> 00:22:52,800 Speaker 3: at the other. Creating careers over here and okay, yeah, 450 00:22:52,840 --> 00:22:56,840 Speaker 3: you're welcome. 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But say we've got a much better place, 521 00:26:02,600 --> 00:26:04,000 Speaker 1: and that is better Help. 522 00:26:04,080 --> 00:26:07,160 Speaker 3: Oh yeah, it's affordable therapy and it's entirely on line. 523 00:26:07,400 --> 00:26:07,600 Speaker 4: Oh. 524 00:26:07,640 --> 00:26:10,000 Speaker 2: I love things that are affordable and online. 525 00:26:10,280 --> 00:26:12,320 Speaker 3: And they can match you with a therapist who fits 526 00:26:12,359 --> 00:26:14,479 Speaker 3: your needs, and if you don't like them, you can switch, 527 00:26:14,560 --> 00:26:15,679 Speaker 3: no questions ask. 528 00:26:15,720 --> 00:26:18,280 Speaker 1: Oh yes, So, if you want to live a more 529 00:26:18,320 --> 00:26:22,120 Speaker 1: empowered life, therapy can help you get there. 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Her dad offered 535 00:26:40,760 --> 00:26:43,639 Speaker 1: to help us with the whole wedding and our money struggles. 536 00:26:43,640 --> 00:26:46,159 Speaker 3: In the end, this is a this is a crappy 537 00:26:46,200 --> 00:26:51,960 Speaker 3: situation right here, I would say, I would say like 538 00:26:52,080 --> 00:26:55,679 Speaker 3: top ten crap situations that you could have, not only 539 00:26:55,760 --> 00:26:58,520 Speaker 3: as all of this like happening, but it's happening on 540 00:26:58,560 --> 00:27:04,400 Speaker 3: your birthday Christmas. They like, that's that's hard, dude, that's tough, man. 541 00:27:04,880 --> 00:27:08,480 Speaker 2: Yeah, these parents are freaking no, thank you. 542 00:27:08,640 --> 00:27:12,560 Speaker 3: Yeah, and like like to to disown your son because 543 00:27:12,600 --> 00:27:12,960 Speaker 3: of this. 544 00:27:13,320 --> 00:27:16,600 Speaker 1: That's that's so much insecurity and ego and like stuff 545 00:27:16,600 --> 00:27:19,960 Speaker 1: from the parents, like they're not comfortable with their son 546 00:27:20,080 --> 00:27:23,080 Speaker 1: not being you know, a doctor or a rocket surgeon, 547 00:27:23,200 --> 00:27:25,840 Speaker 1: a rocket surgeon exactly, Like they're like, oh, you can't 548 00:27:25,880 --> 00:27:29,639 Speaker 1: be in film school, like god, just so so sad. 549 00:27:30,440 --> 00:27:32,840 Speaker 3: Also, like you know, there there's the there's like the 550 00:27:32,880 --> 00:27:37,560 Speaker 3: trope where strict parents want you to be a lawyer, doctor, 551 00:27:37,600 --> 00:27:40,920 Speaker 3: engineer and want you to study that in college. Right, 552 00:27:40,960 --> 00:27:46,400 Speaker 3: but like I studied engineering u c l A. And like, dude, 553 00:27:46,400 --> 00:27:50,840 Speaker 3: those classes taught me nothing, Like like I learned everything 554 00:27:50,920 --> 00:27:55,439 Speaker 3: I needed from freaking con academy and YouTube. That was 555 00:27:55,480 --> 00:27:59,959 Speaker 3: the only education I got. Uh the like like college 556 00:28:00,840 --> 00:28:04,199 Speaker 3: in a university degree is nothing but a piece of paper. 557 00:28:04,600 --> 00:28:07,920 Speaker 3: Everything I think worth doing you can learn on the Internet. 558 00:28:08,480 --> 00:28:11,000 Speaker 3: And there's way more money to be made, like by 559 00:28:11,000 --> 00:28:13,440 Speaker 3: being a creator than by being a doctor. 560 00:28:13,640 --> 00:28:15,879 Speaker 1: So many I mean think like like real estate or 561 00:28:16,000 --> 00:28:18,439 Speaker 1: like you know, there's just a million paths that like 562 00:28:18,680 --> 00:28:24,439 Speaker 1: just by researching doing it, you know, so much more money. 563 00:28:24,880 --> 00:28:28,360 Speaker 4: Yeah. So that's all to say, follow your dreams, Follow. 564 00:28:28,200 --> 00:28:32,240 Speaker 1: Your dreams, and you know what else your path your 565 00:28:32,280 --> 00:28:33,360 Speaker 1: finger should. 566 00:28:33,160 --> 00:28:36,560 Speaker 4: Follow, follow the subscribe But. 567 00:28:37,480 --> 00:28:40,080 Speaker 1: I realized now I could have pathed to the follow button. 568 00:28:40,120 --> 00:28:42,400 Speaker 1: But you know it's OK, you got it. You gotta try. 569 00:28:42,520 --> 00:28:42,920 Speaker 2: We try. 570 00:28:43,080 --> 00:28:47,280 Speaker 3: Yeah, follow us on Spotify, subscribe on YouTube, and if 571 00:28:47,320 --> 00:28:51,320 Speaker 3: you really want to help us out, join our main 572 00:28:51,440 --> 00:28:56,920 Speaker 3: lady Kathy quickly Kathy as our first supporter on Patriot Kathy. 573 00:28:56,960 --> 00:28:59,200 Speaker 4: We love it. We're gonna shout you out in all 574 00:28:59,240 --> 00:28:59,640 Speaker 4: of these. 575 00:28:59,560 --> 00:29:01,720 Speaker 1: Lot gonna get so many shout outs, Kathy, You're gonna 576 00:29:01,720 --> 00:29:03,239 Speaker 1: get so many. 577 00:29:02,680 --> 00:29:07,440 Speaker 3: Yeah, it's gonna be John Sam and Kathy third. 578 00:29:07,440 --> 00:29:09,760 Speaker 4: Okay with that, see soon.