WEBVTT - Chaos with Aurora Culpo

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<v Speaker 1>Hi, guys, Welcome back to another episode of Casual Chaos.

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<v Speaker 1>This week, I have a very special guest for you, guys,

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<v Speaker 1>Aurora Copo. Welcome to Casual Chaos. Thank you.

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<v Speaker 2>I'm so happy to be here.

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<v Speaker 1>Thank you, Thank you for coming on. I feel like

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<v Speaker 1>in a lot of ways you and I can relate,

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<v Speaker 1>and I'm excited to kind of dive deep into all

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<v Speaker 1>of this. A lot of the times I feel like

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<v Speaker 1>I'm defined as to research your duce's daughter. But how

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<v Speaker 1>have you dealt with building your own brand while also

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<v Speaker 1>being known as Olivia Colpo's sister.

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<v Speaker 2>It's interesting because I'm three years older than Olivia, so like,

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<v Speaker 2>growing up, she was always my sister, you know, like

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<v Speaker 2>Olivia is Aurora's sister. And then when she won, it

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<v Speaker 2>was like she won Miss Universe. And that was when

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<v Speaker 2>I was I was out of college and she was

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<v Speaker 2>like still in college, which she ended up dropping out

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<v Speaker 2>to do this random pageant thing out of nowhere, and

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<v Speaker 2>it was really like from that time on that it

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<v Speaker 2>became like she she really did become like famous overnight.

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<v Speaker 2>So it wasn't like my whole identity was like in

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<v Speaker 2>her shadow my whole life. And then I think so

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<v Speaker 2>also I was a teacher at that time, so like

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<v Speaker 2>I was not in the limelight at all, and it

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<v Speaker 2>just kind of like were super close. So she kind

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<v Speaker 2>of she would bring me along to things and I

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<v Speaker 2>would get introduced to different people and kind of her

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<v Speaker 2>world a little bit. And yeah, I mean it's been

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<v Speaker 2>such there's been there's been times in my life when

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<v Speaker 2>I've been jealous. There's been times in my life when

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<v Speaker 2>I've been sad for her that you know, it's not

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<v Speaker 2>a lot of people end up as you know, like

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<v Speaker 2>when you're when you're in the limelight, you end up

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<v Speaker 2>kind of finding out that a lot of people don't

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<v Speaker 2>have your best interest in mind, and you end up

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<v Speaker 2>finding out that people were using you, or they weren't

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<v Speaker 2>being honest and they weren't your real friend. So like

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<v Speaker 2>I've seen that sort of thing happen to her, especially

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<v Speaker 2>in like love and relationships. I think it's extremely hard

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<v Speaker 2>to be famous and to find somebody who you can

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<v Speaker 2>be partners with that isn't doesn't have I don't know,

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<v Speaker 2>doesn't isn't clouded by success and money and fame and

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<v Speaker 2>all that. So I had to really carve out my

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<v Speaker 2>own figure out like what I wanted to do and

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<v Speaker 2>what made me happy, And our lives have been really

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<v Speaker 2>close together sometimes and also super like far apart, like

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<v Speaker 2>when she was at the height of her success, which

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<v Speaker 2>she'd be like mad at me for saying that, because

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<v Speaker 2>she's like, well, I'm still at the height of my success,

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<v Speaker 2>but like I was having babies, you know, I was

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<v Speaker 2>getting married and having I have two little kids. So

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<v Speaker 2>so yeah, I mean, I don't know. I guess it's

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<v Speaker 2>just been a little bit of a roller coaster ride

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<v Speaker 2>of figuring out who am I aside from being Olivia's

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<v Speaker 2>sister when it comes to being like in the influencer

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<v Speaker 2>world and in the modeling world and that sort of thing,

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<v Speaker 2>and and it's been a it's been a little bit

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<v Speaker 2>of a journey. I still I still people still say like, oh,

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<v Speaker 2>that's a that's Olivia's sister, and it is a little

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<v Speaker 2>bit annoying because I'm like, she's my sister.

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<v Speaker 1>I'm older. I feel like I can relate to you

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<v Speaker 1>in many ways because I'm the oldest out of all

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<v Speaker 1>of my sisters, and kind of coming into this world

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<v Speaker 1>of fame comes a lot of pressure and responsibility. But

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<v Speaker 1>then when your whole family is thrown into it, a

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<v Speaker 1>competitive aspect definitely arises, I feel mm hmm, and it's

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<v Speaker 1>hard to navigate that, especially as sisters because at the

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<v Speaker 1>end of the day, you all want the best for

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<v Speaker 1>each other, you know. I try to tell this to

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<v Speaker 1>all of my sisters. You know, everyone is going to

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<v Speaker 1>have their time. Everyone is going to find where they're

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<v Speaker 1>supposed to be and find what they're supposed to be doing.

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<v Speaker 1>But I definitely think with sisters it could get a

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<v Speaker 1>little it could get weird, because you never want fame

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<v Speaker 1>to also get in the way of your life relationship.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, no, for sure, there's definitely there's definitely been that,

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<v Speaker 2>like between so my younger sister Sophia, and then Olivia

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<v Speaker 2>and me, because sometimes we were packaged like as a threesome,

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<v Speaker 2>and then there's some things that like Olivia doesn't want

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<v Speaker 2>to do, but like me and Sophie might want to

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<v Speaker 2>do and and we can't do it because she doesn't

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<v Speaker 2>want to do it, or there's there's been some there's

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<v Speaker 2>been some arguments about things like that. There was most

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<v Speaker 2>recently one between Olivia and Sophie because Sophie, I think

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<v Speaker 2>it was a jewelry brand like that came to both

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<v Speaker 2>of them to do a collab, and in Olivia was like,

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<v Speaker 2>I don't want to do it because I have I'm

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<v Speaker 2>working with this other jewelry brand, and I wouldn't be

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<v Speaker 2>a good partner if I was. If I'm going to,

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<v Speaker 2>you know, work with both of them, And Sophie was like,

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<v Speaker 2>you know, this is a good opportunity for me, You're

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<v Speaker 2>being selfish.

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<v Speaker 1>There's always something.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, ultimately, I think you know, you do you root

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<v Speaker 2>for your sister. You you wouldn't want anybody else other

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<v Speaker 2>than them to succes seed. But there is kind of

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<v Speaker 2>that like competitiveness of when we were little even.

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<v Speaker 1>You know, that's so funny because my sister Milania and

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<v Speaker 1>I got offered this brand partnership, and you know, as

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<v Speaker 1>a young college student it's hard to juggle sorority life

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<v Speaker 1>and school and you know, also trying to like be

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<v Speaker 1>in the world of influencing. And we got a brand partnership.

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<v Speaker 1>But she would have to fly home for a day,

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<v Speaker 1>and you know, I don't think Milania has ever done

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<v Speaker 1>quick travel like that in her life, you know, flew

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<v Speaker 1>in and flew out. So she's like, no, no, no,

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<v Speaker 1>this is too much. I have I have so much

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<v Speaker 1>going on, I can't do this. I'm like Milania, it's

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<v Speaker 1>one day, you'll fly and you'll fly out. You'll be

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<v Speaker 1>back at Dappa in less than twenty four hours.

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<v Speaker 2>And I'm surprised she isn't like, Okay, I'll take the money.

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<v Speaker 2>I guess she's not. We're all motivated by different things

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<v Speaker 2>too well.

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<v Speaker 1>You know, and I said it, I go, dude, you

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<v Speaker 1>either want to get paid or you don't, like what

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<v Speaker 1>are we doing? Come on? But you know, I get it.

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<v Speaker 1>And at when you're you know, when you're young and

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<v Speaker 1>you're in college and you're having fun, you don't want

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<v Speaker 1>to leave your friends, you don't want to miss out.

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<v Speaker 1>And that's definitely Malania. She will have fomo like she

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<v Speaker 1>has to be everywhere, She's got to do everything. So

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<v Speaker 1>you know, again, it's all about growing up and maturing.

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<v Speaker 1>And it's kind of the same thing when Milani and

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<v Speaker 1>I would have to do this Brandy all together. So

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<v Speaker 1>I'm like, you can, we can do it. So it's

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<v Speaker 1>little things like that all the time. But I totally understand.

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<v Speaker 1>But you guys grew up in a very small town

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<v Speaker 1>in Rhode Island, So how haw's your life shifted? From that,

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<v Speaker 1>did you at any point did any of you really

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<v Speaker 1>not want to be in the public eye, did any

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<v Speaker 1>of you kind of feel forced to be in the

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<v Speaker 1>public eye? And then at what point were you like, Okay,

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<v Speaker 1>we're owning it and let's capitalize on this.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, I mean so, yeah. We grew up in Rhode Island,

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<v Speaker 2>which is a very small state really and just you know,

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<v Speaker 2>you can drive from like one end to the other

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<v Speaker 2>in an hour, so everybody, so yeah, so, so my

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<v Speaker 2>family is very well known in Rhode Island now mostly

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<v Speaker 2>because of Olivia, and we kind of got thrown into

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<v Speaker 2>her world, like the whole family did, whether we liked

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<v Speaker 2>it or not. Some of our personalities like took to

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<v Speaker 2>it a little easier than others, Like I am naturally

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<v Speaker 2>a pretty confident and expressive person, and I'm pretty confrontational,

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<v Speaker 2>and I don't really have a problem. I didn't have

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<v Speaker 2>a problem with it, to be honest. It wasn't like

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<v Speaker 2>what I was choosing for my life path at that time.

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<v Speaker 2>I was a teacher and I really didn't even start

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<v Speaker 2>I wasn't even public on Instagram until after I had

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<v Speaker 2>my kids, and then I was like a state home mom,

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<v Speaker 2>like just bored, and I was like, I'm in a

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<v Speaker 2>mommy blog and I was just like sharing everything about

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<v Speaker 2>my day as a mom and like I gained my

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<v Speaker 2>like a following that's totally different than Olivia's. Like my

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<v Speaker 2>followers are not her followers, which people just assume probably

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<v Speaker 2>that they are, but it's like our content is could

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<v Speaker 2>not be more different. And she and then like somebody

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<v Speaker 2>like Sophie or Sophia she recently has like her whole life,

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<v Speaker 2>she went by Sophie and then all of a sudden,

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<v Speaker 2>now she's Sophia, So that's a whole other thing. But

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<v Speaker 2>she's very she's very quiet, and she's very non confrontational,

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<v Speaker 2>and like I've watched her evolve in this world of

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<v Speaker 2>just videoing yourself talking to the camera, and like for

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<v Speaker 2>a while I had to like have her literally I

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<v Speaker 2>had to have her on mute. I've had my both

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<v Speaker 2>my sister's on me you at different times in my

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<v Speaker 2>life because like you don't just know somebody so well

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<v Speaker 2>and then they're doing something and you're like, why is

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<v Speaker 2>she doing that in her mouth, like like driving and

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<v Speaker 2>like why is she talking like that? Or I don't know, like.

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<v Speaker 1>The time.

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<v Speaker 2>Her lips, but like I've watched Sophie kind of come

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<v Speaker 2>into her own, but I did there was a while

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<v Speaker 2>there when, especially after she got out of like this

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<v Speaker 2>pretty public bad breakup that I could see she really

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<v Speaker 2>did not she wasn't enjoying in the public eye, and

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<v Speaker 2>to this day, like I'm not really sure she likes

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<v Speaker 2>to be the center of attention. I don't think she's

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<v Speaker 2>really comfortable with it. So it's interesting to see how

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<v Speaker 2>different people deal with different things. Well, she she always

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<v Speaker 2>has fun when she's on my podcast, but a podcast

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<v Speaker 2>is different because like, you don't have a big audience

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<v Speaker 2>that's watching you. I guess you don't on social media either,

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<v Speaker 2>but I don't know to let she I think also,

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<v Speaker 2>you know what, she works well with one of us there.

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<v Speaker 2>I think like on her own, I don't think she

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<v Speaker 2>really likes that.

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<v Speaker 1>She feels the support more or even just like a

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<v Speaker 1>comfortability level at that point. Yeah, it's not as much

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<v Speaker 1>pressure probably in her eyes. Yeah, I have someone next

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<v Speaker 1>to you.

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<v Speaker 2>Totally, And like I don't like following trends.

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<v Speaker 1>Really.

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<v Speaker 2>I think that's something that I've had to kind of

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<v Speaker 2>just like acquiesce too, because I'm like, okay, if I'm

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<v Speaker 2>going to make my money this way, I need to

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<v Speaker 2>like start caring about like things that I naturally don't

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<v Speaker 2>care about, Like I don't care about what's trending. I

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<v Speaker 2>don't care about like what the cool kids are doing.

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<v Speaker 2>I never have, but but I'm like, like just recently,

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<v Speaker 2>I'm like, okay to start caring because it's part of

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<v Speaker 2>the business.

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<v Speaker 1>I know. You really do have to just adapt to it. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>but so you're the older sister, so am I Do

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<v Speaker 1>you ever feel the pressure or growing up? I mean

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<v Speaker 1>I felt it all the time, But do you ever

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<v Speaker 1>feel like you need to have it all together and

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<v Speaker 1>it's your role to always have your life together because

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<v Speaker 1>you're the oldest.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, I think there's a pressure to be mature and

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<v Speaker 2>like have it all figured out. I think the way

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<v Speaker 2>I kind of operate is that I swing like from

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<v Speaker 2>one pendulum to the other. Like I'll have I'll be like, oky,

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<v Speaker 2>I'm getting married and I'm having kids. I'm doing like

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<v Speaker 2>I'm doing the whole adult thing, and then I'll be

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<v Speaker 2>like blow everything up because I'm like I'm done with this,

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<v Speaker 2>Like I don't like any of this stuff. I'll keep

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<v Speaker 2>the kids better. I want the marriage anymore, and I

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<v Speaker 2>want anything, you know, it's like no, I feel like

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<v Speaker 2>I think yes, But I'm not very good at maintaining

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<v Speaker 2>a certain facade for other people. So that's why I'm

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<v Speaker 2>kind of always pivoting, I think in my life because

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<v Speaker 2>I'm like, you know, I think I try things out

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<v Speaker 2>and then I and then I'm not afraid of changing,

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<v Speaker 2>which I think is a pro and a con. Like

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<v Speaker 2>I probably could stick things. I probably could like stick

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<v Speaker 2>with things a little longer sometimes, like hobbies and things

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<v Speaker 2>that I'm really into, But I don't know, it's part

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<v Speaker 2>of my personality. I've started to appreciate it more.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, I feel like it also shows transparency in a

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<v Speaker 1>way as well, you know, and a lot of things

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<v Speaker 1>that people can probably relate to.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, I think so too. I'm not a perfectionist, and

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<v Speaker 2>I don't pretend to be one, because I would be.

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<v Speaker 2>It would be really hard for me to pretend that,

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<v Speaker 2>like I do not have I never have my together.

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<v Speaker 2>In some ways I do, but but in a lot

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<v Speaker 2>of ways I don't. And that's I think that's fine.

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<v Speaker 2>I think my siblings look up to me not so

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<v Speaker 2>much for like what is she what life path is

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<v Speaker 2>she doing? But I think more along the lines of,

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<v Speaker 2>like they look up to me because they know that

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<v Speaker 2>I'm always honest and I'm always authentic, and I you know,

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<v Speaker 2>and I have a pretty good like head on my

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<v Speaker 2>shoulders in terms of letting people get to me. I

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<v Speaker 2>think I probably have the like toughest like shell out

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<v Speaker 2>of everybody. I don't let I'm not swayed by likes,

0:12:19.559 --> 0:12:22.000
<v Speaker 2>and I don't care about trolls and things like that.

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<v Speaker 2>But I think I think some of I think I

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<v Speaker 2>think Sophie does, and I think Olivia does your Olivia

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<v Speaker 2>in one a minute, but she definitely does.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, I mean, and that's a great way to be

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<v Speaker 1>I mean, being especially in this industry, you have to

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<v Speaker 1>have tough skin. You guys actually had a reality TV

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<v Speaker 1>show in twenty twenty two. How was that? Did you

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<v Speaker 1>like being on reality TV?

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<v Speaker 2>I mean, I thought it was fun. We did well.

0:12:52.320 --> 0:12:53.960
<v Speaker 2>I was going through my divorce at that time, so

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<v Speaker 2>it was kind of like the worst possible time. We

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<v Speaker 2>shot our pilot in October and then I filed her

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<v Speaker 2>a divorce in November and we finished the season that

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<v Speaker 2>spring when I was going through like all the legalities

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<v Speaker 2>and logistics and I had like it's like a one

0:13:07.600 --> 0:13:10.600
<v Speaker 2>and a three year old at the time, and it

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<v Speaker 2>was just like, emotionally, I was a disaster at that time.

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<v Speaker 2>But I did really like working with my sisters, and

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<v Speaker 2>I loved like being on set, and I loved like,

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<v Speaker 2>I don't know, I just I felt like everybody who works,

0:13:23.280 --> 0:13:25.600
<v Speaker 2>like all the cameramen, all everybody who works, like on set,

0:13:25.600 --> 0:13:26.560
<v Speaker 2>they're such cool people.

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<v Speaker 1>You kind of become a little family in a way.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah. Yeah, I kind of felt like I used to

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<v Speaker 2>do plays when I was in high school. I was

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<v Speaker 2>like a completely theater nerd, and by the end of

0:13:36.200 --> 0:13:38.960
<v Speaker 2>like your show, everybody really is your family and you

0:13:38.960 --> 0:13:41.920
<v Speaker 2>get so close with everybody. So I loved it for that,

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<v Speaker 2>but we ended up just the way our lives went

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<v Speaker 2>and it was a really weird time in TV, and

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<v Speaker 2>it it actually did really well ratings wise, but we

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<v Speaker 2>kind of just let it go because Olivia also was

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<v Speaker 2>getting engaged to Christian, her now husband, and he didn't

0:14:00.280 --> 0:14:02.480
<v Speaker 2>want anything to do with reality TV, so it was

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<v Speaker 2>going to be kind of hard to like have her

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<v Speaker 2>on but not show her like what was a huge

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<v Speaker 2>part of her life at that time, which was getting married.

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<v Speaker 2>So yeah, we just kind of let it, we kind

0:14:12.760 --> 0:14:14.040
<v Speaker 2>of let it go. That was kind of one of

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<v Speaker 2>the situations too, where it was like Sophie and I

0:14:16.400 --> 0:14:19.640
<v Speaker 2>wanted another season and Olivia was not really pushing for it,

0:14:19.680 --> 0:14:23.720
<v Speaker 2>and we were like, come on, like stop being you know,

0:14:23.920 --> 0:14:26.480
<v Speaker 2>and she's and she didn't want to do I mean,

0:14:26.640 --> 0:14:28.600
<v Speaker 2>it was her life, you know, she wasn't Was she

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<v Speaker 2>going to be like, well, I'm going to dump Christian

0:14:31.160 --> 0:14:33.200
<v Speaker 2>so that I can have a reality show. No, like

0:14:33.320 --> 0:14:36.880
<v Speaker 2>she chose marriage and that makes sense. But yeah, that

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<v Speaker 2>was definitely one of the examples of like just when

0:14:39.240 --> 0:14:42.680
<v Speaker 2>you have your career so intertwined with your sisters that

0:14:43.040 --> 0:14:44.160
<v Speaker 2>things like that can happen.

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<v Speaker 1>No, definitely, And you mentioned your divorce. This is something

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<v Speaker 1>I was curious about and it's okay if you really

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<v Speaker 1>don't want to get too into it. But you said

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<v Speaker 1>that you would give your ex a hall pass once

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<v Speaker 1>a year. What made you feel okay with doing that?

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<v Speaker 1>Were you okay with it deep down.

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<v Speaker 2>At the time? I really was like when we when

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<v Speaker 2>I met him, I was twenty five and he was forty, so.

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<v Speaker 1>Like, oh he was older.

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<v Speaker 2>I've changed a lot, Like it's been over ten years

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<v Speaker 2>since I was okay with a hall Pass. Now it's

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<v Speaker 2>not something that I want for a relationship, but at

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<v Speaker 2>the time, I felt like I was capable of having

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<v Speaker 2>kind of like an unconventional relationship. I think what it

0:15:26.120 --> 0:15:29.640
<v Speaker 2>really was was he he never wanted monogamy, and like

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<v Speaker 2>even to this day, like he's it's not really for him.

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<v Speaker 2>And I really wanted to get married and have kids,

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<v Speaker 2>and I kind of like forced myself to be okayay,

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<v Speaker 2>Like I really loved him. I knew I knew he

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<v Speaker 2>really loved me, and I thought that he just, you know,

0:15:44.360 --> 0:15:47.240
<v Speaker 2>he needed the freedom to feel like he could have

0:15:47.280 --> 0:15:50.840
<v Speaker 2>a sexual experience with somebody else, you know. And there

0:15:50.840 --> 0:15:52.680
<v Speaker 2>were all these rules around it, like there had to

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<v Speaker 2>be protection, it had to be somebody that like he

0:15:55.000 --> 0:15:58.320
<v Speaker 2>doesn't keep in contact with it's one a year, and

0:15:58.360 --> 0:16:00.600
<v Speaker 2>like there's no rollovers, and if you don't use it

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<v Speaker 2>that year, you don't you don't get to bank that,

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<v Speaker 2>you know. It was it was like a whole thing,

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<v Speaker 2>and and the idea was that he was never going

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<v Speaker 2>to have to use it, Like he was like, I'm

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<v Speaker 2>never going to use it. It's just it's just knowing

0:16:10.720 --> 0:16:13.520
<v Speaker 2>that like I have the freedom of it, that that

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<v Speaker 2>makes me feel like not trapped basically in a relationship.

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<v Speaker 2>I mean, there are so many red flags there because

0:16:19.320 --> 0:16:21.120
<v Speaker 2>he really just didn't want to be married. He didn't

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<v Speaker 2>want to be in it.

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<v Speaker 1>Really didn't want to didn't want to down.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, he didn't want to be tied down. I was

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<v Speaker 2>like trying to strong arm him and everyone.

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<v Speaker 1>To make him feel okay yeah, And I.

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<v Speaker 2>Was like, Okay, I think I could be okay with this,

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<v Speaker 2>like because if he really feels like he needs that,

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<v Speaker 2>I don't really understand it, but you know, if that's

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<v Speaker 2>something he needs, like who am I to judge? And

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<v Speaker 2>I had been in relationships before and gotten cheated on,

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<v Speaker 2>and I'm like, okay, well, I'd rather him be honest

0:16:45.080 --> 0:16:47.640
<v Speaker 2>than go behind my back. So this is what he needs.

0:16:47.720 --> 0:16:49.680
<v Speaker 2>Maybe this is what all men need. Maybe that's just

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<v Speaker 2>how men are wired. And that was kind of my experience.

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<v Speaker 2>So I was a little delusional, and at the time

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<v Speaker 2>I felt like what we had was so special that

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<v Speaker 2>like I didn't feel threatened by this like empty sexual

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<v Speaker 2>experience that he felt he needed to have the freedom

0:17:04.119 --> 0:17:06.400
<v Speaker 2>to maybe have. So I was like, Okay, you can

0:17:06.440 --> 0:17:09.040
<v Speaker 2>have it, and then you know, life happens. We got married,

0:17:09.040 --> 0:17:11.920
<v Speaker 2>We had kids, and then it turns out like when

0:17:11.960 --> 0:17:14.400
<v Speaker 2>you have a lot more pressure in your on your

0:17:14.440 --> 0:17:18.040
<v Speaker 2>relationship than just like two people in love with no responsibilities,

0:17:19.480 --> 0:17:23.360
<v Speaker 2>you don't like having that. I ended up finding out

0:17:23.359 --> 0:17:25.679
<v Speaker 2>that he used his pass, and it was at a

0:17:25.680 --> 0:17:28.280
<v Speaker 2>time after like I just had my daughter and I

0:17:28.320 --> 0:17:30.920
<v Speaker 2>was like breastfeeding her and it was just I wasn't sleeping,

0:17:31.040 --> 0:17:34.040
<v Speaker 2>and I was just like, oh my god, like I'm

0:17:34.080 --> 0:17:37.639
<v Speaker 2>over here rooting my body, giving my all everything that

0:17:37.640 --> 0:17:41.080
<v Speaker 2>I have to like this family, and you're leaping around

0:17:41.400 --> 0:17:43.960
<v Speaker 2>and I couldn't. And then he's like, but you told

0:17:44.040 --> 0:17:45.880
<v Speaker 2>me I could. So I was in a weird situation

0:17:45.920 --> 0:17:47.560
<v Speaker 2>because it's true, like I did give him that pass,

0:17:47.600 --> 0:17:50.600
<v Speaker 2>but also like how dare you use it was.

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<v Speaker 1>Like the biggest like probably stab in the heart.

0:17:55.080 --> 0:17:57.600
<v Speaker 2>Yeah, it was a stab in the heart. But more

0:17:57.680 --> 0:18:02.040
<v Speaker 2>so I was disappointed, like that I thought that that

0:18:02.160 --> 0:18:04.520
<v Speaker 2>was something that that was like the best I could

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<v Speaker 2>do and that I could and then I just thought

0:18:09.000 --> 0:18:12.200
<v Speaker 2>that that I needed to grant him that freedom because

0:18:12.240 --> 0:18:14.639
<v Speaker 2>like I couldn't be enough for him, you know, And

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<v Speaker 2>it kind of made me feel sad for myself, like

0:18:16.760 --> 0:18:19.840
<v Speaker 2>looking back at it, being like the fact that I

0:18:19.880 --> 0:18:22.480
<v Speaker 2>was like, Okay, yeah, I can't be enough for somebody,

0:18:22.560 --> 0:18:27.280
<v Speaker 2>so I have to give them extra options. And that's

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<v Speaker 2>just I don't feel that.

0:18:28.480 --> 0:18:30.479
<v Speaker 1>Way now and that should never be the case. And

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<v Speaker 1>you are so beautiful. Do not ever give a guy

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<v Speaker 1>that freedom ever?

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<v Speaker 2>Again, No, that's off the table. I tried. It didn't work.

0:18:39.119 --> 0:18:41.400
<v Speaker 2>I thought maybe it would, and you know, it actually

0:18:41.400 --> 0:18:43.440
<v Speaker 2>works for people, like especially because I've been on the

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<v Speaker 2>dating apps, Like I have a boyfriend now, but I've

0:18:45.800 --> 0:18:47.320
<v Speaker 2>been on the dating apps for like the last year

0:18:47.320 --> 0:18:49.800
<v Speaker 2>and a half, and you would be so surprised, like

0:18:49.880 --> 0:18:53.159
<v Speaker 2>there's like nine boxes to check it other than like

0:18:53.160 --> 0:18:55.200
<v Speaker 2>like do you want monogamy? Do you want polygamy? Do

0:18:55.200 --> 0:18:57.480
<v Speaker 2>you want like ethical non monogamy? You want?

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<v Speaker 1>But there's so many weird Why can't it just be normal?

0:19:01.600 --> 0:19:04.000
<v Speaker 1>You're with someone, I can't cheat on them. If you

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<v Speaker 1>love them, stay with them, if you don't move on.

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<v Speaker 1>Please you know.

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<v Speaker 2>I have a friend who just went on a hinge

0:19:09.240 --> 0:19:12.080
<v Speaker 2>date with this guy who he has a girlfriend. The

0:19:12.119 --> 0:19:15.760
<v Speaker 2>girlfriends by they're looking for a third.

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<v Speaker 1>I have heard this so often.

0:19:18.400 --> 0:19:21.480
<v Speaker 2>I can't like but like to be part of their

0:19:21.480 --> 0:19:24.760
<v Speaker 2>relationship and like to like to hook up with both

0:19:24.840 --> 0:19:26.919
<v Speaker 2>of them. And then there was this other relation, this

0:19:26.960 --> 0:19:29.119
<v Speaker 2>other guy that DMed her on hine too, who was

0:19:29.160 --> 0:19:32.399
<v Speaker 2>like he he's like a dom and has a girl

0:19:32.400 --> 0:19:34.680
<v Speaker 2>who like does his dry cleaning and errands and runs

0:19:34.680 --> 0:19:38.119
<v Speaker 2>his and like, and she wants him to act like

0:19:38.119 --> 0:19:41.600
<v Speaker 2>a dad to her, so he like will like limit

0:19:41.760 --> 0:19:43.359
<v Speaker 2>her screen time and like put her to bed and

0:19:43.400 --> 0:19:45.640
<v Speaker 2>read her bedtime stories. But then they like also have sex.

0:19:45.880 --> 0:19:47.920
<v Speaker 2>I don't know, there's so many weird things out there.

0:19:48.440 --> 0:19:51.200
<v Speaker 2>Oh my god, I musn't have but it didn't work

0:19:51.240 --> 0:19:51.439
<v Speaker 2>for me.

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<v Speaker 1>Oh god. So I mean I would assume you know

0:19:55.880 --> 0:19:58.480
<v Speaker 1>that you go through so many relationships in life to

0:19:58.520 --> 0:20:01.280
<v Speaker 1>you know, to learn something to grow from it. You know,

0:20:01.320 --> 0:20:03.679
<v Speaker 1>they say like there's your three loves in life. I

0:20:03.720 --> 0:20:07.680
<v Speaker 1>think it's like a lesson, a reason and a purpose.

0:20:08.280 --> 0:20:09.760
<v Speaker 1>One of those things.

0:20:10.040 --> 0:20:13.439
<v Speaker 2>A lesson, a reason and a purpose. I kind of

0:20:13.520 --> 0:20:15.320
<v Speaker 2>like it, like I don't know who my third love

0:20:15.359 --> 0:20:18.920
<v Speaker 2>would have been though, uh oh yeah that oh yeah, okay,

0:20:18.960 --> 0:20:21.520
<v Speaker 2>I know three people. I know I three people. I

0:20:21.600 --> 0:20:22.240
<v Speaker 2>think that's it.

0:20:22.520 --> 0:20:24.199
<v Speaker 1>And then it's like your purpose is like you know

0:20:24.240 --> 0:20:27.679
<v Speaker 1>your person, but I feel you know, throughout life you

0:20:27.800 --> 0:20:30.600
<v Speaker 1>learned so many things, and you know, because you know

0:20:30.680 --> 0:20:32.639
<v Speaker 1>you were probably you said you were cheated on in

0:20:32.640 --> 0:20:35.040
<v Speaker 1>the past. That probably made you feel vulnerable to want

0:20:35.040 --> 0:20:38.240
<v Speaker 1>to give your partner that freedom. But then at the

0:20:38.320 --> 0:20:40.880
<v Speaker 1>end of the day, no, no one wants to feel

0:20:40.920 --> 0:20:43.240
<v Speaker 1>that way. You did not want to give that freedom

0:20:43.320 --> 0:20:46.520
<v Speaker 1>to him. You wanted to just feel enough. And I'm

0:20:46.600 --> 0:20:49.200
<v Speaker 1>sure you learned so much from that relationship.

0:20:49.840 --> 0:20:52.320
<v Speaker 2>Yeah, oh for sure. And honestly that everybody thinks that's

0:20:52.320 --> 0:20:54.640
<v Speaker 2>like why we got divorced, it it really wasn't. There's

0:20:54.800 --> 0:20:59.320
<v Speaker 2>like just so many there, you know, just fundamentally we

0:20:59.400 --> 0:21:02.040
<v Speaker 2>don't we don't want the same things in a partnership.

0:21:02.280 --> 0:21:04.879
<v Speaker 1>And how has it been co parenting My parents are

0:21:04.920 --> 0:21:05.680
<v Speaker 1>divorced as well.

0:21:06.200 --> 0:21:08.320
<v Speaker 2>For me, I mean, my ex lives a mile down

0:21:08.359 --> 0:21:12.920
<v Speaker 2>the road and we were fifty to fifty and we're

0:21:12.960 --> 0:21:17.240
<v Speaker 2>really we're really easy with each other, Like we still

0:21:17.240 --> 0:21:21.760
<v Speaker 2>do holidays together, so nice. He has never like neither

0:21:21.800 --> 0:21:25.480
<v Speaker 2>of us. I'm recently in a new relationships, so like

0:21:25.640 --> 0:21:28.639
<v Speaker 2>we haven't really had to deal with doing holidays with

0:21:29.040 --> 0:21:31.080
<v Speaker 2>extra people yet and that's going to be something we're

0:21:31.119 --> 0:21:33.159
<v Speaker 2>going to have to navigate. But but we do. We

0:21:33.200 --> 0:21:35.920
<v Speaker 2>get along well we co parent better than we did

0:21:35.920 --> 0:21:39.560
<v Speaker 2>when we were married, so that's great. And yeah, I

0:21:39.560 --> 0:21:43.560
<v Speaker 2>mean it's he sometimes I'll call myself like a single mom,

0:21:43.640 --> 0:21:46.119
<v Speaker 2>so I'm just like, not married mom, but and he's like,

0:21:46.160 --> 0:21:47.920
<v Speaker 2>you're not a single mom, like a single mom is

0:21:47.920 --> 0:21:50.439
<v Speaker 2>when the dad is not is like nowhere to be found.

0:21:50.960 --> 0:21:51.400
<v Speaker 1>It's true.

0:21:51.880 --> 0:21:55.119
<v Speaker 2>They have a dad who's very present and I can,

0:21:55.320 --> 0:21:59.520
<v Speaker 2>you know, pall on him whenever I need for the kids.

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<v Speaker 2>So that's really invaluable.

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<v Speaker 1>That's so amazing. I'm so happy that you have a

0:22:03.760 --> 0:22:04.640
<v Speaker 1>good relationship.

0:22:04.880 --> 0:22:05.200
<v Speaker 2>Yeah.

0:22:05.440 --> 0:22:07.359
<v Speaker 1>I knew he would be a good dad, just not

0:22:07.720 --> 0:22:13.000
<v Speaker 1>sometimes you know, you're better apart, and that's totally okay. Yeah,

0:22:13.400 --> 0:22:17.640
<v Speaker 1>your sister Olivia is pregnant. That is so exciting. How

0:22:17.680 --> 0:22:20.800
<v Speaker 1>did she tell you guys that she was pregnant?

0:22:21.359 --> 0:22:22.879
<v Speaker 2>Oh my god, that was funny. Well, I was the

0:22:22.960 --> 0:22:25.399
<v Speaker 2>last person to find out because she thinks I have

0:22:25.440 --> 0:22:30.080
<v Speaker 2>a big mouth, just so annoying and rude, and she

0:22:31.600 --> 0:22:35.399
<v Speaker 2>my kids and I went over to her house in

0:22:35.440 --> 0:22:37.800
<v Speaker 2>the Bay Area because her husband plays for the forty

0:22:37.880 --> 0:22:41.160
<v Speaker 2>nine ers, So we went up there after the fires

0:22:41.640 --> 0:22:44.359
<v Speaker 2>to just kind of get out of this air. And

0:22:46.080 --> 0:22:48.479
<v Speaker 2>he put Christian put something on the TV that was

0:22:48.560 --> 0:22:54.960
<v Speaker 2>like a hangman and the hangman was spelt out the

0:22:55.000 --> 0:22:57.520
<v Speaker 2>word cousin, and I thought that they were talking about

0:22:57.520 --> 0:23:00.600
<v Speaker 2>their dog and my son. But then she like showed

0:23:00.600 --> 0:23:04.680
<v Speaker 2>me her ultrasound picture and.

0:23:03.520 --> 0:23:05.960
<v Speaker 1>I was so cute.

0:23:06.040 --> 0:23:07.000
<v Speaker 2>It was really cute.

0:23:07.200 --> 0:23:10.480
<v Speaker 1>Have you given her any, you know, advice on being

0:23:10.480 --> 0:23:12.920
<v Speaker 1>a mother or anything like that.

0:23:14.040 --> 0:23:17.080
<v Speaker 2>I mean, she's watched me, She's watched me for the

0:23:17.200 --> 0:23:21.840
<v Speaker 2>last seven years, so she sees. I mean, I don't

0:23:21.880 --> 0:23:23.400
<v Speaker 2>want to scare her, and I don't want to give

0:23:23.440 --> 0:23:27.200
<v Speaker 2>her like unsolicited advice. I think she's very overwhelmed right now,

0:23:27.280 --> 0:23:32.520
<v Speaker 2>like she's she's pregnant and she's dealing with like all

0:23:32.520 --> 0:23:35.720
<v Speaker 2>the hormones that pregnancy is, and you know, she she

0:23:35.760 --> 0:23:38.119
<v Speaker 2>did mention something to me about like feeling guilty that

0:23:38.200 --> 0:23:41.040
<v Speaker 2>she's not enjoying every second of being pregnant, and I

0:23:41.080 --> 0:23:44.160
<v Speaker 2>remember that totally. But I also know how that that

0:23:44.200 --> 0:23:46.920
<v Speaker 2>doesn't end, Like you feel guilty for the rest of

0:23:46.960 --> 0:23:49.280
<v Speaker 2>your life as a mom. At least that's been my experience.

0:23:49.359 --> 0:23:51.880
<v Speaker 2>You're you're always kind of like feeling guilty that you're

0:23:51.920 --> 0:23:55.800
<v Speaker 2>not being more present or like enjoying every single little

0:23:55.840 --> 0:23:58.920
<v Speaker 2>phase because sometimes when you're in it, like it feels

0:23:58.960 --> 0:24:02.239
<v Speaker 2>overwhelming and really hard. So I think, I don't want

0:24:02.280 --> 0:24:05.240
<v Speaker 2>to scare her. But she's been she's wanted us for

0:24:05.280 --> 0:24:07.600
<v Speaker 2>a very long time, and I know she's very excited.

0:24:08.440 --> 0:24:11.520
<v Speaker 1>Oh that's great. And what was your favorite moment at

0:24:11.520 --> 0:24:14.479
<v Speaker 1>her wedding. The wedding looked gorgeous, by the way, it

0:24:14.600 --> 0:24:17.040
<v Speaker 1>looked so beautiful. You all looked stunning.

0:24:17.760 --> 0:24:21.960
<v Speaker 2>Thank you. A favorite moment at her wedding? Oh oh man,

0:24:22.800 --> 0:24:29.320
<v Speaker 2>Her wedding was like such a whirlwind. Probably probably the church.

0:24:29.400 --> 0:24:32.120
<v Speaker 2>Like they got married to this very small church across

0:24:32.200 --> 0:24:37.600
<v Speaker 2>the street from this like epic, like monumental place in

0:24:37.680 --> 0:24:40.960
<v Speaker 2>Rhode Island called Ocean House, and it was just really

0:24:40.960 --> 0:24:45.040
<v Speaker 2>beautiful and it felt really intimate and small, and her

0:24:45.119 --> 0:24:47.679
<v Speaker 2>dress was just like massive, and the whole thing was

0:24:47.720 --> 0:24:49.879
<v Speaker 2>just it was really beautiful.

0:24:50.320 --> 0:24:52.240
<v Speaker 1>I know. I felt so bad that she got so

0:24:52.359 --> 0:24:54.119
<v Speaker 1>much criticism about her wedding dress.

0:24:54.320 --> 0:24:56.719
<v Speaker 2>I thought it was hysterical. Like I literally was just

0:24:56.760 --> 0:25:01.919
<v Speaker 2>like and like, how could anybody think that she owes

0:25:01.960 --> 0:25:04.240
<v Speaker 2>them any kind of explanation on what she chose for

0:25:04.280 --> 0:25:07.240
<v Speaker 2>her wedding day. And her dress was like very classic

0:25:07.320 --> 0:25:10.200
<v Speaker 2>and simple, you know, but it had a massive train,

0:25:10.640 --> 0:25:13.800
<v Speaker 2>but it wasn't like it was almost like people people

0:25:13.840 --> 0:25:16.560
<v Speaker 2>were mad at her because they said it wasn't on

0:25:16.720 --> 0:25:20.480
<v Speaker 2>brand with how she usually dresses, which is like show almost.

0:25:20.720 --> 0:25:23.080
<v Speaker 1>Yeah, they were it's like not sexy enough, but it's

0:25:23.080 --> 0:25:23.920
<v Speaker 1>her wedding day.

0:25:24.440 --> 0:25:26.880
<v Speaker 2>It's like she was in a way, she was kind

0:25:26.880 --> 0:25:28.919
<v Speaker 2>of playing a part on her wedding of like this

0:25:29.000 --> 0:25:32.000
<v Speaker 2>old school it was. It was meant to look very

0:25:32.040 --> 0:25:33.240
<v Speaker 2>classic in old school.

0:25:33.440 --> 0:25:35.600
<v Speaker 1>Well even in the photos you could tell she wanted

0:25:35.600 --> 0:25:37.200
<v Speaker 1>that vintage vibe in a way.

0:25:37.400 --> 0:25:41.360
<v Speaker 2>Yeah, it was so weird that people sometimes the Internet

0:25:41.440 --> 0:25:44.119
<v Speaker 2>just surprises you. It's like everybody's on one and on

0:25:44.200 --> 0:25:46.719
<v Speaker 2>like the same day, and they're just like where somebody

0:25:46.800 --> 0:25:48.440
<v Speaker 2>starts it and then it ends up in some weird

0:25:48.440 --> 0:25:52.240
<v Speaker 2>corner of the internet. And I remember I made like

0:25:52.320 --> 0:25:54.480
<v Speaker 2>a can you like a TikTok or something after that

0:25:54.600 --> 0:25:56.320
<v Speaker 2>ended up going kind of viral. That was just like

0:25:56.680 --> 0:25:59.920
<v Speaker 2>I was like Olivia Owes everybody in apology for wearing

0:26:00.080 --> 0:26:03.200
<v Speaker 2>long sleeve because she should have read for its sleeves

0:26:03.240 --> 0:26:05.399
<v Speaker 2>and like, you know, she should never have worn a

0:26:05.440 --> 0:26:08.800
<v Speaker 2>crew neck. That was so disrespectful of her to the

0:26:09.520 --> 0:26:13.920
<v Speaker 2>v neck community, Like it was just it was bizarre.

0:26:13.800 --> 0:26:16.400
<v Speaker 1>Being in the public eye and dealing with different types

0:26:16.440 --> 0:26:18.480
<v Speaker 1>of relationships. I know, you were in a pretty public

0:26:18.560 --> 0:26:23.600
<v Speaker 1>relationship with Bethony Frankels ex Paul. How did that lead

0:26:23.640 --> 0:26:26.280
<v Speaker 1>to any sort of a breakup because of how public

0:26:26.320 --> 0:26:27.520
<v Speaker 1>that relationship was.

0:26:28.960 --> 0:26:31.440
<v Speaker 2>Yeah, I mean we definitely, well we were not we

0:26:31.440 --> 0:26:32.920
<v Speaker 2>were not meant for each other. That was kind of

0:26:32.960 --> 0:26:37.639
<v Speaker 2>That was something interesting that I think he's a nice

0:26:37.720 --> 0:26:42.399
<v Speaker 2>guy and I you know, and he's very like responsible,

0:26:42.760 --> 0:26:46.639
<v Speaker 2>caring type person, and at the time I thought maybe

0:26:46.720 --> 0:26:50.520
<v Speaker 2>that was something that I wanted, and but there really

0:26:50.600 --> 0:26:53.480
<v Speaker 2>was never a huge spark. I think I was kind

0:26:53.480 --> 0:26:56.800
<v Speaker 2>of waiting for it to happen. Like I wasn't totally

0:26:57.119 --> 0:26:59.679
<v Speaker 2>like I didn't have that head over heels feeling, but

0:26:59.760 --> 0:27:01.719
<v Speaker 2>I was like, oh, this is a nice prospect. Well

0:27:01.760 --> 0:27:03.480
<v Speaker 2>I'll give it a shot for like a couple of months.

0:27:04.520 --> 0:27:04.760
<v Speaker 1>I know.

0:27:07.080 --> 0:27:09.840
<v Speaker 2>Yeah. Well, I mean, her her talking about it, that

0:27:09.960 --> 0:27:14.840
<v Speaker 2>was just interesting because like she's was not in our

0:27:15.040 --> 0:27:17.720
<v Speaker 2>she knew nothing about our relationship except what I had

0:27:17.760 --> 0:27:21.119
<v Speaker 2>said on my podcast, which was completely anonymous. By the way,

0:27:21.160 --> 0:27:23.760
<v Speaker 2>I never even mentioned his name, and all I said

0:27:23.760 --> 0:27:25.200
<v Speaker 2>about him at that time was like that I'm in

0:27:25.240 --> 0:27:28.080
<v Speaker 2>a relationship with a new guy. It feels really good.

0:27:28.119 --> 0:27:29.920
<v Speaker 2>I think I said that he sent me this painting

0:27:29.960 --> 0:27:32.159
<v Speaker 2>that I that I had, I like put a painting

0:27:32.200 --> 0:27:33.840
<v Speaker 2>up on one of my Instagram stories and I was like,

0:27:33.840 --> 0:27:35.280
<v Speaker 2>oh my god, I love this. It's so beautiful. And

0:27:35.320 --> 0:27:36.760
<v Speaker 2>then it like arrived at my house the next day

0:27:36.760 --> 0:27:38.639
<v Speaker 2>and I was like, this is so sweet. It was

0:27:38.640 --> 0:27:40.840
<v Speaker 2>even I was like, this is like the nicest thing.

0:27:40.840 --> 0:27:42.800
<v Speaker 2>I don't know, you know, I was like I was

0:27:42.840 --> 0:27:44.520
<v Speaker 2>being a little love bomb, and I was kind of

0:27:44.560 --> 0:27:47.879
<v Speaker 2>like it, and yeah, and I think she was just like,

0:27:47.920 --> 0:27:50.119
<v Speaker 2>but hurt to hear that, which, like anybody would be.

0:27:50.119 --> 0:27:52.320
<v Speaker 2>I would not listen to the podcast of my ex

0:27:52.400 --> 0:27:55.240
<v Speaker 2>boyfriend's new girlfriend. Do I want to hurt my own feelings?

0:27:55.240 --> 0:27:57.920
<v Speaker 1>Why would I do that?

0:27:59.400 --> 0:28:02.959
<v Speaker 2>Yeah? And then and then things when you know, like

0:28:03.480 --> 0:28:09.560
<v Speaker 2>the tabloids were following him around a lot, because because

0:28:09.600 --> 0:28:13.639
<v Speaker 2>at the time, like people really cared what Bethany's X doing,

0:28:14.480 --> 0:28:16.919
<v Speaker 2>and he I think had a lot of stress about that.

0:28:16.960 --> 0:28:20.760
<v Speaker 2>He really didn't like being in the public eye in

0:28:20.760 --> 0:28:23.560
<v Speaker 2>a negative way. I think he kind of liked being

0:28:23.560 --> 0:28:25.480
<v Speaker 2>in the public eye and if they were saying nice

0:28:25.480 --> 0:28:27.320
<v Speaker 2>things but like that's what I mean, Like, not everybody

0:28:27.400 --> 0:28:30.639
<v Speaker 2>has the grit to be like shown in a light

0:28:30.720 --> 0:28:34.960
<v Speaker 2>that they don't have full control over. Because he originally

0:28:35.000 --> 0:28:37.480
<v Speaker 2>approached me to do a podcast, that's why how I

0:28:37.520 --> 0:28:39.960
<v Speaker 2>even met him. He reached out to my management about

0:28:39.960 --> 0:28:43.760
<v Speaker 2>doing a podcast about dating where he and I would

0:28:43.760 --> 0:28:46.400
<v Speaker 2>be co hosts. So we were like shooting or recording

0:28:46.400 --> 0:28:49.280
<v Speaker 2>a pilot together, and that's how we got to know

0:28:49.360 --> 0:28:53.000
<v Speaker 2>each other. And so it's just interesting that like everything

0:28:53.080 --> 0:28:56.760
<v Speaker 2>kind of blew up because he didn't like that I

0:28:56.800 --> 0:29:00.320
<v Speaker 2>had mentioned He didn't like the Bethany didn't like that

0:29:00.360 --> 0:29:02.239
<v Speaker 2>I mentioned him on my podcast. I think that's what

0:29:02.280 --> 0:29:02.480
<v Speaker 2>it was.

0:29:02.520 --> 0:29:04.040
<v Speaker 1>I think he kind of in my videos.

0:29:04.240 --> 0:29:06.600
<v Speaker 2>I think I still don't really get it. I don't

0:29:06.640 --> 0:29:08.120
<v Speaker 2>really get it. But he he was the one who

0:29:08.120 --> 0:29:09.360
<v Speaker 2>called me and he was like, I don't think this

0:29:09.400 --> 0:29:11.440
<v Speaker 2>is working, And honestly, I was kind of like thank god,

0:29:11.480 --> 0:29:13.440
<v Speaker 2>because like I didn't I didn't want to be the

0:29:13.440 --> 0:29:15.680
<v Speaker 2>one to have to break up with him, but I

0:29:15.840 --> 0:29:19.120
<v Speaker 2>was not feeling it either and he didn't and maybe

0:29:19.120 --> 0:29:22.440
<v Speaker 2>he wasn't either, but he ended up using that I

0:29:22.560 --> 0:29:24.640
<v Speaker 2>he didn't like that I talked about him on my podcast,

0:29:24.640 --> 0:29:27.000
<v Speaker 2>But it was really because Beth and he called him

0:29:27.160 --> 0:29:31.959
<v Speaker 2>and was like just telling him that she thought it

0:29:32.000 --> 0:29:34.320
<v Speaker 2>was petty that I would talk about him on my podcast.

0:29:34.400 --> 0:29:36.080
<v Speaker 2>And then she went on her podcast and was like,

0:29:36.520 --> 0:29:40.560
<v Speaker 2>Paul broke up with Aurora because of her misdeeds of

0:29:40.720 --> 0:29:46.880
<v Speaker 2>talking about him on her podcast. She then she literally

0:29:46.880 --> 0:29:52.160
<v Speaker 2>went on to say that girls, let this be a lesson.

0:29:53.160 --> 0:29:56.680
<v Speaker 2>Don't talk about who you're dating in a public way

0:29:56.720 --> 0:30:00.080
<v Speaker 2>because you know the ex girlfriend could be listening. And

0:30:00.160 --> 0:30:01.800
<v Speaker 2>then she's on her so she.

0:30:02.080 --> 0:30:05.200
<v Speaker 1>Literally tries to make everything. Oh, but I'm just teaching

0:30:05.320 --> 0:30:08.840
<v Speaker 1>everybody a lesson. I'm just teaching everybody a lesson. This

0:30:08.960 --> 0:30:13.520
<v Speaker 1>is my advice. Like, girl, you it's condescending too. You're

0:30:13.600 --> 0:30:15.960
<v Speaker 1>really trying to dig at everybody that you're trying to

0:30:16.000 --> 0:30:16.840
<v Speaker 1>teach a lesson.

0:30:17.760 --> 0:30:20.280
<v Speaker 2>Well, first of all, I'm not taking any lessons from you.

0:30:20.360 --> 0:30:23.320
<v Speaker 2>And second of all, you show the people that you're dating,

0:30:23.920 --> 0:30:26.239
<v Speaker 2>and am I supposed to just like everybody has an

0:30:26.240 --> 0:30:29.200
<v Speaker 2>ex girlfriend, I'm sorry, that's not who I'm thinking of.

0:30:29.560 --> 0:30:31.520
<v Speaker 2>It didn't make a whole lot of logic to me,

0:30:32.000 --> 0:30:34.880
<v Speaker 2>but I was not that butt hurt about the whole situation.

0:30:35.160 --> 0:30:38.200
<v Speaker 1>Yeah, and then now you know you're in a new relationship.

0:30:38.240 --> 0:30:41.560
<v Speaker 1>You're very happy. How did you guys meet?

0:30:42.080 --> 0:30:44.840
<v Speaker 2>We met on a dating app, actually, which is just

0:30:45.040 --> 0:30:48.160
<v Speaker 2>so cliche and I feel like I need to come

0:30:48.240 --> 0:30:50.640
<v Speaker 2>up with a new story to tell. But yeah, we

0:30:50.720 --> 0:30:53.400
<v Speaker 2>met on Hinge, which is I've been on Riah for

0:30:53.680 --> 0:30:54.680
<v Speaker 2>a year and a half.

0:30:54.760 --> 0:30:57.520
<v Speaker 1>I heard that Ryan isn't that great.

0:30:58.520 --> 0:31:00.680
<v Speaker 2>I don't know what it is. I mean, Ryan will

0:31:00.720 --> 0:31:02.320
<v Speaker 2>also be like here do you want to talk to

0:31:02.440 --> 0:31:05.880
<v Speaker 2>like Sebastian who lives in Timbuctoo and is visiting Denmark

0:31:05.960 --> 0:31:08.400
<v Speaker 2>next week? And I'm like, it doesn't make any sense.

0:31:08.640 --> 0:31:11.080
<v Speaker 2>But but so I was like, I want to go

0:31:11.120 --> 0:31:14.440
<v Speaker 2>find like a normal I do find that like on

0:31:14.600 --> 0:31:17.200
<v Speaker 2>other dating apps that are not Riya. I think people

0:31:17.240 --> 0:31:21.960
<v Speaker 2>are a little bit more serious about looking for a relationship.

0:31:22.600 --> 0:31:25.400
<v Speaker 2>That's what I've found. But the people I was talking

0:31:25.400 --> 0:31:27.360
<v Speaker 2>about before, the ones who are like looking for that

0:31:27.560 --> 0:31:30.760
<v Speaker 2>polyamorous relationship, they're also on Hane too, So you just

0:31:30.840 --> 0:31:31.880
<v Speaker 2>got to be selective. I don't know.

0:31:31.920 --> 0:31:33.760
<v Speaker 1>I think I can check the right boxes.

0:31:34.400 --> 0:31:36.960
<v Speaker 2>Yeah you do, because one slip up and it could

0:31:37.400 --> 0:31:38.520
<v Speaker 2>really mess things up.

0:31:39.280 --> 0:31:41.960
<v Speaker 1>Are you looking for marriage? Like, do you want to

0:31:42.000 --> 0:31:43.920
<v Speaker 1>get married? Again at some point.

0:31:44.560 --> 0:31:48.600
<v Speaker 2>Yeah, I definitely want to get married again, probably have

0:31:48.680 --> 0:31:52.200
<v Speaker 2>another baby at some point. A little a little scared

0:31:52.200 --> 0:31:56.680
<v Speaker 2>about doing that whole thing again, but but I do,

0:31:57.480 --> 0:31:59.400
<v Speaker 2>I mean, I do think that that's something that that

0:31:59.480 --> 0:32:01.000
<v Speaker 2>will happen. And I just kind of know.

0:32:01.400 --> 0:32:03.040
<v Speaker 1>You have a feeling. Oh I love that.

0:32:03.640 --> 0:32:03.880
<v Speaker 2>Yeah.

0:32:03.960 --> 0:32:06.560
<v Speaker 1>How did you go about introducing your kids to your

0:32:06.640 --> 0:32:11.160
<v Speaker 1>new partner? Was that like an easy transition?

0:32:12.520 --> 0:32:14.280
<v Speaker 2>Yeah, I mean my kids are still so young. They

0:32:14.360 --> 0:32:17.640
<v Speaker 2>I've never introduced that. One time I introduced them to someone.

0:32:17.720 --> 0:32:19.920
<v Speaker 2>I actually introduced them to Paul, but I introduced them

0:32:20.240 --> 0:32:22.960
<v Speaker 2>I introduced Paul as my friend because they're so little,

0:32:23.000 --> 0:32:24.920
<v Speaker 2>and they were just like, we don't care. Like, yeah,

0:32:24.960 --> 0:32:30.560
<v Speaker 2>cool that you have a built boring friend. But but

0:32:30.560 --> 0:32:33.360
<v Speaker 2>but my son does know I have a crush I was.

0:32:33.440 --> 0:32:36.240
<v Speaker 2>I told him because I FaceTime with him with the kids,

0:32:36.240 --> 0:32:38.320
<v Speaker 2>and so I would I kind of like sprinkle it in.

0:32:38.320 --> 0:32:41.320
<v Speaker 2>I'd tell Rammy like I have because Rammy is my son,

0:32:41.360 --> 0:32:42.800
<v Speaker 2>and he has a crush on a girl at school.

0:32:42.840 --> 0:32:43.840
<v Speaker 2>So I was like, you know how you have a

0:32:43.840 --> 0:32:45.560
<v Speaker 2>crush on her. I have a crush on somebody too.

0:32:46.040 --> 0:32:46.959
<v Speaker 1>I love that.

0:32:47.840 --> 0:32:50.880
<v Speaker 2>Yeah, So then he's kind of like, actually with my

0:32:51.040 --> 0:32:54.200
<v Speaker 2>parents this, My parents were over this weekend and and

0:32:54.280 --> 0:32:58.120
<v Speaker 2>Rammy's like Grandma, no cap, mom has a crush on

0:32:58.240 --> 0:33:01.160
<v Speaker 2>Zach And and mind you, he's six.

0:33:01.760 --> 0:33:04.120
<v Speaker 1>So I was like, that's so funny.

0:33:04.360 --> 0:33:09.200
<v Speaker 2>He's yeah, they're they're they're fine. Was it hard for

0:33:09.280 --> 0:33:11.400
<v Speaker 2>you guys when your mom started redating?

0:33:11.960 --> 0:33:16.000
<v Speaker 1>She was very She only brought Louis around us and

0:33:16.200 --> 0:33:20.760
<v Speaker 1>this one other guy, but that was that was very quick.

0:33:21.280 --> 0:33:24.120
<v Speaker 1>It was just out the door, never seen never saw

0:33:24.200 --> 0:33:29.320
<v Speaker 1>him again. But it was a little yeah, no quick

0:33:29.360 --> 0:33:36.440
<v Speaker 1>intro outdro never never came back. But Louis. He scared

0:33:36.480 --> 0:33:39.400
<v Speaker 1>him away so quick. I was like, what are you doing?

0:33:39.880 --> 0:33:47.000
<v Speaker 1>Not happening. But then she brought Louis around very slowly,

0:33:47.240 --> 0:33:49.960
<v Speaker 1>you know, kind of he would pick her up for dates.

0:33:50.120 --> 0:33:52.440
<v Speaker 1>If any of us were home, he would come in

0:33:52.480 --> 0:33:56.160
<v Speaker 1>and say hello. And then it was very it was

0:33:56.240 --> 0:33:58.360
<v Speaker 1>very slow. She was very nervous, but you know, she

0:33:58.520 --> 0:34:03.640
<v Speaker 1>felt really good about Louis and knew that she wouldn't

0:34:03.680 --> 0:34:06.560
<v Speaker 1>just bring somebody around us, especially because we were all older,

0:34:06.720 --> 0:34:09.920
<v Speaker 1>that we wouldn't that she knew wouldn't be like the

0:34:10.000 --> 0:34:13.760
<v Speaker 1>right fit for us. And he was always super sweet

0:34:13.800 --> 0:34:16.839
<v Speaker 1>and He's still now such an amazing stepdad, so thank

0:34:16.880 --> 0:34:19.600
<v Speaker 1>god it was a really smooth transition. I now have

0:34:19.719 --> 0:34:32.120
<v Speaker 1>two stepbrothers, so our family grew a little bit. I

0:34:32.160 --> 0:34:34.720
<v Speaker 1>know you're really into health and wellness, and I really

0:34:34.760 --> 0:34:38.959
<v Speaker 1>want to hear about that because I'm into fitness. I love,

0:34:39.239 --> 0:34:42.600
<v Speaker 1>you know, doing what's good for my body. What would

0:34:42.600 --> 0:34:45.560
<v Speaker 1>you give advice to for your biggest tips on health

0:34:45.600 --> 0:34:46.239
<v Speaker 1>and wellness?

0:34:46.520 --> 0:34:50.759
<v Speaker 2>It kind of seems cliche, but drinking enough water balance,

0:34:51.040 --> 0:34:55.400
<v Speaker 2>I don't think. I don't think restricting yourself hardcore on

0:34:55.520 --> 0:34:58.799
<v Speaker 2>anything is a good idea unless you have like a

0:34:58.840 --> 0:35:03.520
<v Speaker 2>serious addiction. I think it's nice to cut things out

0:35:03.680 --> 0:35:06.040
<v Speaker 2>for a month of time here and there, like maybe

0:35:06.120 --> 0:35:09.000
<v Speaker 2>alcohol or whatever you think maybe your body needs a

0:35:09.000 --> 0:35:12.239
<v Speaker 2>break on. But for me, I feel like trying to

0:35:12.320 --> 0:35:16.120
<v Speaker 2>keep healthy balance is better than cutting things out because

0:35:16.160 --> 0:35:18.440
<v Speaker 2>what I find is if I cut something out totally,

0:35:18.920 --> 0:35:22.480
<v Speaker 2>then it just makes something else pop in that I

0:35:22.719 --> 0:35:25.160
<v Speaker 2>do in excess. You know, like, if I'm like I'm

0:35:25.160 --> 0:35:27.200
<v Speaker 2>never drinking again, then I'm like, okay, well I'm gonna

0:35:27.360 --> 0:35:29.680
<v Speaker 2>then I'm just like I find myself addicted to something else.

0:35:29.719 --> 0:35:31.040
<v Speaker 2>So and I kind of have a little bit of

0:35:31.080 --> 0:35:34.680
<v Speaker 2>an addictive personality, so I try to maintain balance. And

0:35:34.719 --> 0:35:38.359
<v Speaker 2>then most recently, one of my favorite health hacks that

0:35:38.400 --> 0:35:40.880
<v Speaker 2>I've been paying a lot of attention to is my

0:35:41.440 --> 0:35:44.960
<v Speaker 2>blood sugar like my gluecose. So I wear a continuous

0:35:44.960 --> 0:35:48.279
<v Speaker 2>glucose monitor and it shows me like after I eat

0:35:48.280 --> 0:35:51.640
<v Speaker 2>food if it is spiking my glucose. And basically, when

0:35:51.640 --> 0:35:57.120
<v Speaker 2>your glucose spikes, it creates oxidative stress in your body,

0:35:57.200 --> 0:36:00.400
<v Speaker 2>It creates inflammation, and it just it really ages. It

0:36:00.480 --> 0:36:02.839
<v Speaker 2>glcates the inside of your body, which is basically like

0:36:02.880 --> 0:36:07.120
<v Speaker 2>cooking you slowly. So if you avoid glucose spikes, you

0:36:08.000 --> 0:36:11.040
<v Speaker 2>will age slower. And for me, I found like my

0:36:11.120 --> 0:36:14.280
<v Speaker 2>mental health is better too because I'm not having inflammation

0:36:14.320 --> 0:36:16.920
<v Speaker 2>in my brain, which basically is will show up like

0:36:17.000 --> 0:36:21.200
<v Speaker 2>depression or anxiety or a host of other things. So

0:36:21.480 --> 0:36:24.640
<v Speaker 2>ways to avoid spiking your glucose is just not eating

0:36:25.120 --> 0:36:29.239
<v Speaker 2>sugar or simple carbs without having a protein with it,

0:36:29.360 --> 0:36:32.080
<v Speaker 2>or a fat usually like a protein of fat and fiber,

0:36:32.320 --> 0:36:34.879
<v Speaker 2>having all those things together, or there's like some other

0:36:34.960 --> 0:36:36.719
<v Speaker 2>hacks that you can see on my Instagram that I

0:36:36.760 --> 0:36:40.120
<v Speaker 2>talk about too. That or the glucose Goddess is a great,

0:36:40.440 --> 0:36:43.360
<v Speaker 2>way better than me at explaining all this. But on Instagram,

0:36:43.440 --> 0:36:46.120
<v Speaker 2>her name is the Gluecose Goddess or just glucose Goddess,

0:36:46.239 --> 0:36:48.799
<v Speaker 2>and she talks about different ways that you can still

0:36:48.800 --> 0:36:52.600
<v Speaker 2>eat the things that you love but avoid spiking your glucose.

0:36:52.680 --> 0:36:53.840
<v Speaker 2>That's like my beauty.

0:36:53.920 --> 0:36:58.120
<v Speaker 1>Yeah, very interesting. And then what is your take on

0:36:58.560 --> 0:37:02.840
<v Speaker 1>filler's botox. I feel like over the years it's lessened now.

0:37:03.080 --> 0:37:05.440
<v Speaker 1>I feel like the big lips used to be really in.

0:37:05.640 --> 0:37:09.359
<v Speaker 2>Yeah, we're seeing how it's aged. Was what happened. We're

0:37:09.360 --> 0:37:12.560
<v Speaker 2>seeing that it didn't, you know, stand the test of time.

0:37:12.600 --> 0:37:15.120
<v Speaker 2>And a lot of these women because I remember like

0:37:15.200 --> 0:37:18.040
<v Speaker 2>what when I started. I started, I had my lip

0:37:18.680 --> 0:37:20.960
<v Speaker 2>filler done when I was in like, oh my god,

0:37:20.960 --> 0:37:22.560
<v Speaker 2>I was like way too young. I remember my sisters

0:37:22.560 --> 0:37:25.000
<v Speaker 2>were like we looked up to you.

0:37:25.000 --> 0:37:26.120
<v Speaker 1>You're gross.

0:37:26.600 --> 0:37:28.600
<v Speaker 2>And I went to some like weird. I was on

0:37:28.640 --> 0:37:30.799
<v Speaker 2>like spring break in Miami and went to like some

0:37:30.880 --> 0:37:32.440
<v Speaker 2>like walk in doctor and I was like, yeah, in

0:37:32.520 --> 0:37:34.400
<v Speaker 2>jacked my lips and he like took the needle. It

0:37:34.440 --> 0:37:35.759
<v Speaker 2>was just like it was just like he had no

0:37:35.800 --> 0:37:37.600
<v Speaker 2>idea what he was doing. I looked like a duck.

0:37:37.640 --> 0:37:41.040
<v Speaker 2>It was all that was bad. But I just remember

0:37:41.239 --> 0:37:44.760
<v Speaker 2>them being like, oh, it only lasts a certain amount

0:37:44.800 --> 0:37:45.799
<v Speaker 2>of time and then it.

0:37:45.840 --> 0:37:47.280
<v Speaker 1>Does a like six months.

0:37:47.440 --> 0:37:51.520
<v Speaker 2>Piller does not dissolve. Filler is in your body forever.

0:37:51.880 --> 0:37:53.400
<v Speaker 2>Oh my god. I actually just saw a meme today

0:37:53.400 --> 0:37:55.839
<v Speaker 2>that was like, what what bodies are going to look

0:37:55.920 --> 0:37:58.759
<v Speaker 2>like when archaeologists uncover them, like a thousand years from now,

0:37:58.840 --> 0:38:01.319
<v Speaker 2>bodies today, it's going to be like the implants are

0:38:01.400 --> 0:38:06.280
<v Speaker 2>left the skeleton and then like the it's so true.

0:38:06.520 --> 0:38:10.160
<v Speaker 1>No. My boyfriend literally sent me a TikTok the other

0:38:10.239 --> 0:38:13.160
<v Speaker 1>day and it was, you know, same thing, like a

0:38:13.280 --> 0:38:17.520
<v Speaker 1>scan of what your face looks like when the with

0:38:17.560 --> 0:38:22.879
<v Speaker 1>the filler and everything is like lit up green, and

0:38:23.840 --> 0:38:26.759
<v Speaker 1>I was, I was, it's not no filling. I don't,

0:38:26.840 --> 0:38:27.839
<v Speaker 1>Thank god, I have no filling.

0:38:27.920 --> 0:38:29.640
<v Speaker 2>No, I don't. I've never I don't do filler in

0:38:29.640 --> 0:38:33.080
<v Speaker 2>my face. I have a little filler in my lips,

0:38:33.080 --> 0:38:35.759
<v Speaker 2>but even that, like I have to be very I

0:38:35.920 --> 0:38:38.759
<v Speaker 2>like it, but I have to be careful because you

0:38:38.760 --> 0:38:42.200
<v Speaker 2>can get that you have. Look, I mean, I have

0:38:42.280 --> 0:38:46.120
<v Speaker 2>like weird lipstick on right now, but but yeah, like

0:38:46.320 --> 0:38:47.920
<v Speaker 2>I do like a little bit of lip filler, but

0:38:48.239 --> 0:38:50.600
<v Speaker 2>nowhere else and I do not think lip filler works

0:38:50.640 --> 0:38:55.759
<v Speaker 2>for everybody's mouth, and yeah, I mean, I just don't.

0:38:55.840 --> 0:38:58.200
<v Speaker 2>I don't think filler is the is the answer. And also,

0:38:58.320 --> 0:38:59.960
<v Speaker 2>like if you I follow a lot of plastics search

0:39:00.080 --> 0:39:01.640
<v Speaker 2>because I kind of got obsessed with like the before

0:39:01.640 --> 0:39:03.920
<v Speaker 2>and after is what people are doing, and the plastic

0:39:03.920 --> 0:39:07.239
<v Speaker 2>surgs will tell you like, don't get filler. Don't even

0:39:07.280 --> 0:39:09.400
<v Speaker 2>they don't even. They say like, don't even do sculpture,

0:39:09.480 --> 0:39:12.280
<v Speaker 2>which is like a hyaluronic acid. Is it hyaluronic acid?

0:39:12.280 --> 0:39:15.239
<v Speaker 2>I think sculpture is it's like that people inject that,

0:39:16.320 --> 0:39:18.040
<v Speaker 2>so it's not a filler, but it helps your body

0:39:18.080 --> 0:39:22.319
<v Speaker 2>to create its own collagen. They say, like, don't even

0:39:22.320 --> 0:39:25.080
<v Speaker 2>do any needles to your face because the scar tissue

0:39:25.320 --> 0:39:28.080
<v Speaker 2>makes it really difficult to do a facelift when you

0:39:28.120 --> 0:39:31.399
<v Speaker 2>really need one when you're like I don't know, when

0:39:31.400 --> 0:39:34.440
<v Speaker 2>you're like in your sixties or fifties or whatever. So basically,

0:39:34.480 --> 0:39:37.640
<v Speaker 2>long story short, I think that if you want to,

0:39:38.239 --> 0:39:41.600
<v Speaker 2>if you want to get a facelift when you're sixty

0:39:41.760 --> 0:39:43.799
<v Speaker 2>or whatever, maybe even just like a little neck tuck

0:39:44.120 --> 0:39:44.920
<v Speaker 2>in your.

0:39:45.440 --> 0:39:46.840
<v Speaker 1>Yeah, like the mini facelifts.

0:39:46.960 --> 0:39:50.520
<v Speaker 2>Yeah, then I'm all about that. I think that's probably

0:39:50.680 --> 0:39:54.000
<v Speaker 2>the more natural, better way to do it than trying

0:39:54.040 --> 0:39:56.720
<v Speaker 2>to fill your face, because I mean, all logic tells

0:39:56.760 --> 0:40:00.120
<v Speaker 2>you that, like the filler is going to move, it's gonna.

0:40:00.200 --> 0:40:02.600
<v Speaker 1>It's gonna dizzy, it's gonna migrate, Yeah for sure.

0:40:02.640 --> 0:40:05.400
<v Speaker 2>So not really about filler, but I'm I'll.

0:40:05.200 --> 0:40:07.680
<v Speaker 1>Do a little botox though I do love the botox

0:40:07.760 --> 0:40:08.239
<v Speaker 1>at my farm.

0:40:08.440 --> 0:40:10.560
<v Speaker 2>You do, yeah, I don't know. Every time I do botox,

0:40:10.640 --> 0:40:12.120
<v Speaker 2>I'm like, I feel like I look weird. I feel

0:40:12.120 --> 0:40:15.160
<v Speaker 2>like things pule weird. I'm very minimal with the botox.

0:40:15.200 --> 0:40:15.920
<v Speaker 2>I don't know.

0:40:16.400 --> 0:40:19.279
<v Speaker 1>I only I only get it in my eleven and

0:40:19.320 --> 0:40:22.319
<v Speaker 1>then they do it like maybe a little bit here.

0:40:22.360 --> 0:40:25.120
<v Speaker 1>I don't know, because then if you do it too

0:40:25.200 --> 0:40:27.840
<v Speaker 1>high or too low, your brows change.

0:40:27.960 --> 0:40:30.600
<v Speaker 2>Oh my god. One time, one time I literally was

0:40:30.640 --> 0:40:33.040
<v Speaker 2>like this. It was just it was so funny, like

0:40:33.440 --> 0:40:35.759
<v Speaker 2>I was like and I had to go and have

0:40:35.840 --> 0:40:37.399
<v Speaker 2>to put like a little more on the other side,

0:40:37.400 --> 0:40:38.560
<v Speaker 2>and I was just like dump.

0:40:38.440 --> 0:40:41.680
<v Speaker 1>To even it out. No, I haven't gotten it's done

0:40:41.719 --> 0:40:43.799
<v Speaker 1>in over a year, and like obvious like I have.

0:40:43.920 --> 0:40:46.600
<v Speaker 1>It's like I'm like I have my cousin's wedding coming up.

0:40:46.800 --> 0:40:48.920
<v Speaker 2>Yeah, do I get it some I'm done. I'm like,

0:40:49.200 --> 0:40:51.359
<v Speaker 2>you know what I think if actually you talked about

0:40:51.400 --> 0:40:53.640
<v Speaker 2>our reality show that was during a time when I

0:40:53.719 --> 0:40:56.879
<v Speaker 2>was like obsessed with getting a little botox here, because

0:40:56.880 --> 0:41:00.440
<v Speaker 2>it's like the lip flip if you watch that season,

0:41:00.480 --> 0:41:04.680
<v Speaker 2>I mean like like my lip doesn't move. This is

0:41:04.840 --> 0:41:07.640
<v Speaker 2>this is like I'm gonna live forever on TV of

0:41:07.719 --> 0:41:12.359
<v Speaker 2>me having like a paralyzed upper lip. I that's enough

0:41:12.360 --> 0:41:14.480
<v Speaker 2>for me to be like, don't do anything to your

0:41:14.520 --> 0:41:17.200
<v Speaker 2>face before a big event, their wedding or like they're

0:41:17.200 --> 0:41:20.600
<v Speaker 2>gonna be on TV or something, just like don't don't

0:41:20.600 --> 0:41:21.680
<v Speaker 2>do any of botox.

0:41:22.560 --> 0:41:24.879
<v Speaker 1>Yeah. Now I'm like, okay, I could hold off.

0:41:25.000 --> 0:41:26.120
<v Speaker 2>Yeah for sure.

0:41:27.520 --> 0:41:30.560
<v Speaker 1>All right, Well, to end this pod, I want to

0:41:30.600 --> 0:41:36.040
<v Speaker 1>do some rapid fire questions. Okay, what's the biggest red

0:41:36.080 --> 0:41:38.360
<v Speaker 1>flag you've ignored in a relationship?

0:41:38.960 --> 0:41:42.439
<v Speaker 2>Probably somebody telling me right away that they're not ready

0:41:42.480 --> 0:41:45.839
<v Speaker 2>for a relationship in one way or another and then

0:41:45.920 --> 0:41:50.759
<v Speaker 2>just being like not listening, only for them to eventually

0:41:51.280 --> 0:41:53.760
<v Speaker 2>show me that they're really not ready for a relationships.

0:41:53.800 --> 0:41:55.320
<v Speaker 1>Not ready? Yeah?

0:41:55.040 --> 0:41:55.160
<v Speaker 2>Uh?

0:41:55.520 --> 0:41:59.160
<v Speaker 1>Post divorce, did any celebs slide into your d MS.

0:42:00.480 --> 0:42:05.600
<v Speaker 2>Couple? Couple? That like they're way too old. Uh, nobody,

0:42:06.120 --> 0:42:10.160
<v Speaker 2>nobody of any kind of real prospect. Some people that

0:42:10.200 --> 0:42:14.000
<v Speaker 2>are old, like old comedians. I'm not gonna name them

0:42:14.040 --> 0:42:18.400
<v Speaker 2>because I don't want to embarrass the old comedians. Some athletes,

0:42:18.400 --> 0:42:20.960
<v Speaker 2>oh my god, some athletes and basketball player that I

0:42:21.040 --> 0:42:24.160
<v Speaker 2>ended up finding out is like twenty one. I'm like,

0:42:24.200 --> 0:42:26.959
<v Speaker 2>do you know how old I am? And he's like, Dan,

0:42:27.160 --> 0:42:28.520
<v Speaker 2>I'm like, I don't know why, I'm always going for

0:42:28.520 --> 0:42:32.000
<v Speaker 2>the MILFs, Like evidently like this was a pattern. I

0:42:32.000 --> 0:42:37.920
<v Speaker 2>don't know. Well, yeah, I mean that's really that's really it.

0:42:38.040 --> 0:42:40.520
<v Speaker 2>Not a whole lot of of like celabs.

0:42:40.600 --> 0:42:45.960
<v Speaker 1>Now, Okay, which Kardashian sister is each corporal sister the

0:42:46.000 --> 0:42:48.080
<v Speaker 1>most similar to Olivia is Kim.

0:42:48.400 --> 0:42:51.480
<v Speaker 2>I'm probably Courtney, and Sophia is Chloe.

0:42:53.840 --> 0:43:02.800
<v Speaker 1>I think I'm Kim. Gabriella is Courtney, Milania is Chloe,

0:43:02.840 --> 0:43:09.560
<v Speaker 1>and Audriana No, Milania is Kylie, Gabriella is Courtney, and

0:43:09.600 --> 0:43:10.920
<v Speaker 1>Audriana is Kendall.

0:43:12.000 --> 0:43:16.920
<v Speaker 2>Okay, Actually, yeah, Sophia is not Chloe, she's Kylie because

0:43:16.960 --> 0:43:20.160
<v Speaker 2>she's like the most baby. Kendall one of the younger

0:43:20.160 --> 0:43:20.600
<v Speaker 2>ones there.

0:43:21.160 --> 0:43:22.800
<v Speaker 1>Kendall's the most quiet.

0:43:23.320 --> 0:43:24.839
<v Speaker 2>Yeah, probably Kendall.

0:43:24.880 --> 0:43:26.600
<v Speaker 1>Who's the most high maintenance sister.

0:43:27.239 --> 0:43:31.200
<v Speaker 2>Olivia, especially now that she's the pregnancy has not helped.

0:43:32.000 --> 0:43:35.200
<v Speaker 1>What's the biggest fite you've ever gotten into with your sisters?

0:43:37.000 --> 0:43:39.919
<v Speaker 2>Probably one just that just happened. A couple weeks ago.

0:43:40.840 --> 0:43:44.720
<v Speaker 2>Olivia was having a she's having a huge baby shower

0:43:44.800 --> 0:43:47.960
<v Speaker 2>in Rhode Island. She was having a baby sprinkle in

0:43:48.040 --> 0:43:51.480
<v Speaker 2>Denver the weekend of my birthday, and she was like,

0:43:51.520 --> 0:43:54.040
<v Speaker 2>don't worry about coming. She literally text me on Wednesday

0:43:54.040 --> 0:43:55.680
<v Speaker 2>being like, don'torry about coming. I know, it's like really

0:43:55.760 --> 0:43:57.439
<v Speaker 2>out of the way. It's like a flight, don't It's

0:43:57.440 --> 0:44:00.200
<v Speaker 2>just gonna be super small, like you're going to my

0:44:00.239 --> 0:44:02.200
<v Speaker 2>other shower. Don't worry about coming to this little thing.

0:44:02.239 --> 0:44:04.719
<v Speaker 2>It was like her husband's mom was throwing it for

0:44:04.800 --> 0:44:06.759
<v Speaker 2>her with like a bunch of her friends because they

0:44:06.760 --> 0:44:08.920
<v Speaker 2>were gonna be in Denver for something that her husband

0:44:08.960 --> 0:44:10.920
<v Speaker 2>had to do. Anyway, really small told me I didn't

0:44:10.960 --> 0:44:14.279
<v Speaker 2>have to come. I So I texted her the day

0:44:14.360 --> 0:44:16.319
<v Speaker 2>after she wrote me that, and I was like, I'm

0:44:16.320 --> 0:44:18.600
<v Speaker 2>not gonna come to the sprinkle, like it's just a lot.

0:44:18.640 --> 0:44:22.439
<v Speaker 2>I'm like so dead this week. And then I guess

0:44:22.480 --> 0:44:24.960
<v Speaker 2>Sophie ended up canceling that too because she had a

0:44:25.000 --> 0:44:29.120
<v Speaker 2>wedding and she lost it on us, Like where the

0:44:29.120 --> 0:44:32.280
<v Speaker 2>worst sisters? The bar is this low? I do everything

0:44:32.320 --> 0:44:33.800
<v Speaker 2>for you guys, you do nothing for me, which is,

0:44:33.840 --> 0:44:35.120
<v Speaker 2>by the way, it's not true at all, and like

0:44:35.200 --> 0:44:37.439
<v Speaker 2>what do you She just like has a complex about

0:44:37.440 --> 0:44:40.480
<v Speaker 2>thinking she does everything for everybody and anyway, I just

0:44:40.560 --> 0:44:42.680
<v Speaker 2>kept sending her the screenshot where she was like, you

0:44:42.680 --> 0:44:45.799
<v Speaker 2>don't have to come, but she's still like she still

0:44:45.840 --> 0:44:47.319
<v Speaker 2>hasn't talked to us. Well, she's talked to me. She

0:44:47.280 --> 0:44:49.400
<v Speaker 2>still don't talk to Sophie. It's been like three weeks.

0:44:50.400 --> 0:44:53.480
<v Speaker 2>She's very, very pregnant, emotional. I think she's gonna get

0:44:53.480 --> 0:44:56.239
<v Speaker 2>over it, like she really needs to because she's gonna

0:44:56.239 --> 0:44:58.520
<v Speaker 2>have babies soon and then she's gonna want somehow.

0:45:00.000 --> 0:45:03.160
<v Speaker 1>It's the most ridiculous rumor you've heard about yourself or

0:45:03.200 --> 0:45:06.400
<v Speaker 1>one of your sisters that you've always wanted to debunk.

0:45:07.480 --> 0:45:09.680
<v Speaker 2>I mean, people will say things about Olivia that she

0:45:09.840 --> 0:45:14.560
<v Speaker 2>has like fake that Olivia's had surgery, like plastic surch

0:45:14.600 --> 0:45:17.800
<v Speaker 2>Olivia's never had any plastic surgery, and her eyelashes are real,

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<v Speaker 2>and her eyebrows are real. She doesn't do anything to

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<v Speaker 2>her body. She's never had like boob job or anything.

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<v Speaker 2>Sophie either neither the only I'm the only one out

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<v Speaker 2>of the sisters that have had plastic surgery. I've had

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<v Speaker 2>my boobs done twice. They it was a fail both times,

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<v Speaker 2>and I have to get them fixed for a third time.

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<v Speaker 1>So oh my god.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah. But yeah, so it's probably that people being especially

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<v Speaker 2>after her wedding, they were like, oh, she got her

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<v Speaker 2>nose done, and they were saying she was wearing makeup

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<v Speaker 2>on her wedding. She was not wearing makeup. She's just

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<v Speaker 2>one of those people who like looks like they have

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<v Speaker 2>makeup on because she has such dark like hair on her,

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<v Speaker 2>like brows and lashes.

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<v Speaker 1>You know, she didn't wear makeup on her wedding.

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<v Speaker 2>No, she really didn't.

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<v Speaker 1>God yeah, I mean I didn't even read any of

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<v Speaker 1>those articles, but just to hear that, that's crazy.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah.

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<v Speaker 1>Have you ever dropped the colpol name to skip a

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<v Speaker 1>line or land a hard reservation?

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<v Speaker 2>Oh, a restaurant reservation, for sure. Not to skip a line,

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<v Speaker 2>that's so rude. Trying the same thing to do that.

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<v Speaker 2>You get a restaurant, but.

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<v Speaker 1>I know, but a restaurant. At least no one knows

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<v Speaker 1>you're doing it. It's a phone call. Yeah, what is

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<v Speaker 1>the colpo sister group chat called.

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<v Speaker 2>On Instagram it's sisters and then on like text, it's sisters.

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<v Speaker 2>Oh with like a bunch of ours.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah we're mine. That's mine too. It's very rich.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah. Yeah.

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<v Speaker 1>Who is your least a favorite of Olivia's famous ex boyfriends?

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<v Speaker 2>Oh, definitely Danny. I liked Nick. We all like Nick,

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<v Speaker 2>who's a nice guy. Yeah, we don't like Danny. He

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<v Speaker 2>was not nice.

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<v Speaker 1>What's the most unhinged thing you've ever doneter? You're a

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<v Speaker 1>breakup to get back in X?

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<v Speaker 2>Oh, to get back in X? I don't know that.

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<v Speaker 2>I I don't. I haven't done anything unhinged to get

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<v Speaker 2>back in X. But when I found out that my

0:47:13.480 --> 0:47:17.239
<v Speaker 2>ex husband cheated on was sleeping around, instead of being

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<v Speaker 2>like I'm done with you and walking away, I went

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<v Speaker 2>out and bought like all this sexy lingerie to be

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<v Speaker 2>like I'm hotter than whoever you slept with, which is

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<v Speaker 2>like so sad.

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<v Speaker 1>So you got back at it?

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<v Speaker 2>I sort of, Well, that was not one of my

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<v Speaker 2>proudest moments. That was pretty pretty sad.

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<v Speaker 1>Well, if you guys enjoyed this podcast, you can also

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<v Speaker 1>find Aurora on her podcast Barely Filtered. Where can they

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<v Speaker 1>find this podcast?

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<v Speaker 2>You can find it anywhere you listen to your podcast,

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<v Speaker 2>so Spotify, Apple, you know, wherever else o YouTube and

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<v Speaker 2>then you can find me at Aurora Culpo on Instagram

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<v Speaker 2>or Barely Filtered pod on Instagram as well and TikTok.

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<v Speaker 1>Well, good luck, good luck with the pod and everything else.

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<v Speaker 1>Thank you so much for being on this podcast. This

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<v Speaker 1>was so much fun.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, thanks so much. Have a good fun.

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<v Speaker 1>Thank you you too,