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Speaker 1: What up this slip service. I'm Angela Yee, I'm Jji Maguire, I'm.

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Speaker 2: Laura Mora, I'm Roy Woods, and I'm Ahavia.

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Speaker 1: Okay, yeah, I DIY great And look, this is the

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Speaker 1: first time we started the show off like this. But

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Speaker 1: we all have a cup, right, and what I want

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Speaker 1: to do is and we'll end with you, Gigi. We're

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Speaker 1: all going to go around the room to toast to

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Speaker 1: something that we're grateful for. Okay, So Laura will start

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Speaker 1: on the side. I'm grateful for life. I'm grateful for

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Speaker 1: great friends, family and a job.

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Speaker 3: You'll be Mihelia.

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Speaker 2: I think today I am grateful for my mom and dad. Okay,

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Speaker 2: I arrived in New York last night. I always get

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Speaker 2: a bit homesick on the first day, and my parents

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Speaker 2: always just are there at all times, so I think

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Speaker 1: Well, I would say that I'm really grateful for my

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Speaker 1: show way up with Angela Yee. You know, we started

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Speaker 1: in February and is doing extremely well. So I was

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Speaker 1: have definitely and way up. Yes, it got a lot

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Speaker 3: I'm just grateful to even be here doing what I

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Speaker 3: do because it's been a little while, right, So now

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Speaker 3: I'm glad that I'm here being able to still do

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Speaker 3: what I do. That's I'm officially for my family, for Father,

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Speaker 3: God guided me. I know, all the little things that

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Speaker 3: I never really got to appreciated, you know, when I

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Speaker 4: Now I'm seeing things different, so very appreciate it.

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Speaker 5: No, we're gonna talk about it, Okay, Well, you know, yeah,

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Speaker 5: little things, you know, Yeah, and g and last but

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Speaker 5: not least, of course, I am grateful for my man,

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Speaker 5: my man, my man, because it's a fiancee man and married.

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Speaker 1: So we get to announce all of that here. So

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Speaker 1: we're glad that you guys are here to celebrate with us.

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Speaker 1: So everybody gotta do the shot or she's gonna have. Now, wait,

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Speaker 1: a badac. We have to explain the socio situation because

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Speaker 1: everybody knows that I haven't been drinking, right. I was

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Speaker 1: in Costa Rica this past week and I celebrated two

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Speaker 1: years of no liquor, and just because I just wanted to,

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Speaker 1: I just needed a lifestyle change, little cleans. I wasn't

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Speaker 1: ALCOHOLICQ or nothing bad happened. I just needed a break, right,

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Speaker 1: So this celebratory shot of nineteen forty two is the

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Speaker 1: first real liquor that I'm going to be having. Okay,

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Speaker 1: and well besides the half a shot we did a

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Speaker 1: long time ago, but that don't that's the only person

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Speaker 1: a real shot. It's a red cup and cheers to

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Speaker 1: that we do and appreciation, Yeah that part. Pray from

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Speaker 1: y'all because her Man, her Man, I'm mad, not bad, right,

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Speaker 1: you know you're the only one that's reacting this.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, it's the first time. I just woke up even

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Speaker 3: shaking with everybody did it.

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Speaker 1: I don't have good memories my arms like that much.

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Speaker 1: The best of the best of the best. I'm so

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Speaker 1: glad that we're all here to talk about this because

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Speaker 1: this is a fun time. And has anybody in here

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Speaker 1: I ever been engaged? I was. He was engaged to

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Speaker 1: me and somebody else to the same damn time. Yeah

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Speaker 1: that's spicy. He had like five other lives outside of me. Wow. Yeah,

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Speaker 1: he was a busy man, very busy, different area code. Well,

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Speaker 1: there you go. My situation is very unique. Yeah, that's

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Speaker 1: what we got to get into, because you guys got

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Speaker 1: to hear this. So, so, he is a entrepreneur. I

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Speaker 1: live in Atlanta. He owns clubs and a franchise of

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Speaker 1: soul food restaurants in Atlanta. I was love soul food

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Speaker 1: and I was it's called the Peach compla cafe actually,

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Speaker 1: clubs on July fifth, the day after fourth of July,

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Speaker 1: be clear, today's July twenty fourth. This happened July fifth, right,

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Speaker 1: three weeks ago. Yes, so ten days later, ten days later,

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Speaker 1: we went on our first date. Very soon within the

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Speaker 1: first you know, part of the conversation, he said that

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Speaker 1: And I'm like already, and he's like, yeah, I'm a

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Speaker 1: So I'm like, okay, He's like, I am not a

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Speaker 1: grown ass. He's so he's like, what's today's date, and

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Speaker 1: I'm like July fifteen, and he's like, so if you

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Speaker 1: say yes, and today's O anniversary and I'm like, well,

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Speaker 1: I guess today's our anniversary because I say yes. So

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Speaker 1: we went to both of his clubs and we're like

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Speaker 1: front of everybody so much PDA, like all night. By

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Speaker 1: the end of the night, we were exchanging I love

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Speaker 1: yous And three days later there's an engagement. He'll believe

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Speaker 1: I went, And so of course it all hapn't really fast,

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Speaker 1: so I know everybody's looking for the ring. There's no

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Speaker 1: r you got a tattoo, did get attack? But I

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Speaker 1: did get a tattoo across here and it says his

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Speaker 1: name missus bleep read it.

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Speaker 3: I'll tell y'all.

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Speaker 1: I'll tell y'all later. But yeah, so there will be

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Speaker 1: a wedding. I don't want to give too much of

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Speaker 1: like I'm in a dream, like it's like a fairy tale.

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Speaker 1: Because we my friends know that I'm not this girl,

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Speaker 1: like I'm not the Oh my god, I don't want

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Speaker 1: to get married. I'm okay like this, Yeah, but me

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Speaker 1: being a grown ass woman and that and one of

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Speaker 1: the things that he loves about me. I know that

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Speaker 1: I trust my gut instincts and in my heart and

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Speaker 1: my soul, and I just feel like he is my person.

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Speaker 1: Like I've spent the last nine days with him, and

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Speaker 1: we wake up every day six am and just talk

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Speaker 1: We've gotten to know each other on such a spiritual

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Speaker 1: my man, you love it. Let me ask you, does

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Speaker 1: this how do you feel about this story like this?

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Speaker 1: Because does it scare you?

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Speaker 2: of like it scares me.

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Speaker 1: Love is scary.

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Speaker 2: It scares me only because I mean, does it like,

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Speaker 2: I don't know if I just scare me me personally,

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Speaker 2: because I think that I just I don't. I am

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Speaker 2: very much a lover girl, and everybody who knows me

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Speaker 2: I've been with my mom for three years and sometimes

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Speaker 2: I look at him like, are you gonna already?

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Speaker 1: When here you'll be like so I was going to

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Speaker 1: say we're happy today. I did an interview in What.

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Speaker 2: I Will say though my so, my mom and dad

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Speaker 2: they met in Leicester, where I'm from, and after like

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Speaker 2: not sure, and she was like, well, I'm going to

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Speaker 2: And I think he might have gone away for a

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Speaker 2: my parents have been together for all that time, still

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Speaker 2: together for five years.

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Speaker 1: The person love and sometimes people be a little nervous,

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Speaker 2: You know, I love it for you.

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Speaker 1: And they say, you know, when you meet your person,

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Speaker 1: as the only male over here, I would love to

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Speaker 1: Do you feel like this is something that you could

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Speaker 3: Well, I would say from young I've been a hard lover, right,

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Speaker 3: It's just that when I was younger, I never really

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Speaker 4: But it didn't work.

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Speaker 3: Okay, But it was okay, right because she just wasn't

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Speaker 3: I feel like if we just met at a different time,

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Speaker 3: I take care of minds. I've always been. I stand

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Speaker 4: My mom couldn't walk me to school. Yeah, like that's

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Speaker 3: So and I got my little sister too, So I

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Speaker 3: know responsibility and when I see it, you know, so

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Speaker 3: I hold certain people accountable, especially my father.

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Speaker 4: You know what I'm saying.

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Speaker 3: We're good, Everything good. But I know the kind of

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Speaker 1: I see what you had to do.

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Speaker 3: Basically, and I still do hands down till this day, right,

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Speaker 3: Like I take care of every trust me.

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Speaker 4: I'm that guy.

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Speaker 3: I want to come down to that and I don't

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Speaker 1: Did something happen?

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Speaker 1: So have you spoken to him since? Once? Once?

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Speaker 1: It'll be different? Okay? Yeah, maybe if you eat out

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Speaker 2: So we would go out and there was this one

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Speaker 1: Creative. Yeah, he's like I like him for it.

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Speaker 2: Hundred percent, and I think I I it made me

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Speaker 2: realize that I've never dated a guy who reads reading.

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Speaker 2: He reads nonfiction like he reads into it, like books

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Speaker 2: that I would never read. Uh, Like, he'll read books

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Speaker 2: The first year was difficult. I think I was like,

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Speaker 1: That's one thing too. You cannot let your ex affect

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Speaker 1: Y and Z, I'm never getting married. But yeah, used

436
00:21:50,680 --> 00:21:53,359
Speaker 1: to say that, why am I going to let my

437
00:21:53,400 --> 00:21:56,560
Speaker 1: ex dictate what I have you know amazing going on

438
00:21:56,640 --> 00:21:57,160
Speaker 1: in my life.

439
00:21:57,280 --> 00:22:03,280
Speaker 3: I felt victim to that you want me to, Well,

440
00:22:03,280 --> 00:22:05,040
Speaker 3: that's how I have my daughter. You know, I was

441
00:22:05,040 --> 00:22:07,480
Speaker 3: on my this was actually doing COVID too. I was

442
00:22:08,760 --> 00:22:12,479
Speaker 3: lonely and I was in I was actually in something too.

443
00:22:12,800 --> 00:22:14,080
Speaker 3: So the fact that I was lonely, I was like,

444
00:22:14,080 --> 00:22:16,080
Speaker 3: why am I even feeling like this? So I acted out,

445
00:22:16,160 --> 00:22:18,400
Speaker 3: saying when I knew I shouldn't write, signed some slam

446
00:22:18,440 --> 00:22:19,760
Speaker 3: bag ship to my girl that I was in a

447
00:22:19,800 --> 00:22:23,399
Speaker 3: relationship with at the time, right, so boom. Now a

448
00:22:23,400 --> 00:22:28,119
Speaker 3: couple of nine months later, baby to break on. I

449
00:22:28,119 --> 00:22:29,800
Speaker 3: have to break it down every time.

450
00:22:29,880 --> 00:22:32,080
Speaker 1: I was too.

451
00:22:32,160 --> 00:22:35,640
Speaker 3: Right, my master because d drake me to the Bahamas.

452
00:22:36,119 --> 00:22:37,439
Speaker 3: So I have to tell her on the phone and

453
00:22:37,400 --> 00:22:39,879
Speaker 3: the Bahamas like yeah, I got.

454
00:22:39,760 --> 00:22:45,399
Speaker 1: My You told her why she was gonna tell.

455
00:22:45,280 --> 00:22:48,320
Speaker 3: Her No, no, no, just the conversation just came to

456
00:22:48,320 --> 00:22:49,520
Speaker 3: that point.

457
00:22:49,520 --> 00:22:50,400
Speaker 4: There was no aboording.

458
00:22:50,400 --> 00:22:52,280
Speaker 3: It's like, I'm just gonna lie to talk about it

459
00:22:52,280 --> 00:22:53,480
Speaker 3: in person, or we just deal with it.

460
00:22:53,560 --> 00:22:55,200
Speaker 4: I'm as I just do with it now.

461
00:22:55,240 --> 00:22:56,520
Speaker 3: I rather not later.

462
00:22:57,600 --> 00:22:59,640
Speaker 1: Exactly, Like how does she respond?

463
00:22:59,680 --> 00:22:59,960
Speaker 4: Like? How?

464
00:23:00,040 --> 00:23:02,399
Speaker 3: Because I was honest about it? Obviously she was upset

465
00:23:02,800 --> 00:23:04,320
Speaker 3: but she was like, Okay, well just try to work

466
00:23:04,320 --> 00:23:06,080
Speaker 3: through this. And we did try to work through it,

467
00:23:06,200 --> 00:23:09,479
Speaker 3: but she couldn't. She had too many things in her

468
00:23:09,520 --> 00:23:12,119
Speaker 3: life that now I started learning about her that she

469
00:23:12,560 --> 00:23:15,159
Speaker 3: kept behind doors that I was like, okay, yeah, we

470
00:23:15,200 --> 00:23:15,639
Speaker 3: can't do this.

471
00:23:15,760 --> 00:23:17,240
Speaker 4: You don't even have the strength for this.

472
00:23:17,600 --> 00:23:19,960
Speaker 1: I mean, that's a lot of strength though, of course

473
00:23:19,960 --> 00:23:21,919
Speaker 1: you're telling me.

474
00:23:23,600 --> 00:23:25,800
Speaker 3: I know, right, That's why I gave her kudos, like

475
00:23:25,840 --> 00:23:29,640
Speaker 3: you tried. She tried, right, But even then she wasn't

476
00:23:29,640 --> 00:23:31,480
Speaker 3: for me either. She's had so many other things she

477
00:23:31,520 --> 00:23:34,080
Speaker 3: was doing. So now I saw you. I felt super

478
00:23:34,119 --> 00:23:36,200
Speaker 3: victim to that until my new girl, you.

479
00:23:36,160 --> 00:23:38,560
Speaker 1: Know right, Yeah, how did you guys meet?

480
00:23:38,960 --> 00:23:41,280
Speaker 4: Well, we already we already knew ech other form hig school.

481
00:23:41,280 --> 00:23:43,080
Speaker 3: I actually new my baby high school too, but we

482
00:23:43,080 --> 00:23:45,679
Speaker 3: didn't go to the same school, me and my girl.

483
00:23:45,680 --> 00:23:49,720
Speaker 3: So I had a party in like Mississauga is like

484
00:23:49,760 --> 00:23:52,680
Speaker 3: the city beside my son, Mississauga.

485
00:23:52,400 --> 00:23:54,520
Speaker 1: All the West Indies and everything.

486
00:23:54,680 --> 00:23:55,960
Speaker 4: You don't know.

487
00:23:57,400 --> 00:24:00,320
Speaker 1: Laura lived in Toronto for oh yeah, hello, random fucked

488
00:24:00,359 --> 00:24:05,240
Speaker 1: up engagement Toronto across the street. Well he was in

489
00:24:05,280 --> 00:24:06,360
Speaker 1: from Toronto but for.

490
00:24:06,400 --> 00:24:10,639
Speaker 3: Work, for work, Yeah, it was across the.

491
00:24:10,640 --> 00:24:14,479
Speaker 1: Street from the when when what's his name going? Briskly Rosky,

492
00:24:14,600 --> 00:24:15,879
Speaker 1: the hollekey player.

493
00:24:18,920 --> 00:24:19,880
Speaker 3: Yes, that was the Crush.

494
00:24:20,000 --> 00:24:23,000
Speaker 1: We lived at the Metropolitan right Town.

495
00:24:22,800 --> 00:24:25,639
Speaker 4: Okay, see yeah, okay, in downtown.

496
00:24:25,200 --> 00:24:30,399
Speaker 1: His whole ass. Wow, damn, I love it. There's a

497
00:24:30,400 --> 00:24:32,959
Speaker 1: lot of women in surroundo though. That's yes. Toronto is

498
00:24:33,000 --> 00:24:36,159
Speaker 1: definitely known for like the bad Yeah. Yeah, and it

499
00:24:36,280 --> 00:24:38,040
Speaker 1: was only gonna be caravan if your man go to

500
00:24:38,119 --> 00:24:40,120
Speaker 1: caravan exactly and listen, they.

501
00:24:40,000 --> 00:24:44,760
Speaker 3: Don't care anybody, anybody women and not even if you're

502
00:24:44,800 --> 00:24:45,679
Speaker 3: not singing like women.

503
00:24:45,840 --> 00:24:47,560
Speaker 1: I felt like women, well back then, I don't know

504
00:24:47,560 --> 00:24:50,480
Speaker 1: about now, but my experience like I would be standing

505
00:24:50,520 --> 00:24:53,600
Speaker 1: next and with my ring on and they didn't care,

506
00:24:53,680 --> 00:24:56,719
Speaker 1: like they'll walk up to him, and then when I snapped,

507
00:24:56,760 --> 00:25:00,320
Speaker 1: I'm crazy what you mean? And they didn't care.

508
00:25:01,119 --> 00:25:01,600
Speaker 3: They didn't care.

509
00:25:01,640 --> 00:25:04,240
Speaker 1: And it's great, and there was back then there was

510
00:25:04,280 --> 00:25:07,439
Speaker 1: a crew. There was like a crew of women that

511
00:25:07,520 --> 00:25:09,520
Speaker 1: would flock to them. And there's like this one ring

512
00:25:09,640 --> 00:25:12,679
Speaker 1: leader who would you know, do parties and invite all

513
00:25:12,680 --> 00:25:14,560
Speaker 1: her girls and have the I crash a couple of

514
00:25:14,560 --> 00:25:19,639
Speaker 1: them ships me and my friends because they weren't you know,

515
00:25:20,400 --> 00:25:27,400
Speaker 1: his coworkers, So it was like, how do you deal

516
00:25:27,440 --> 00:25:31,040
Speaker 1: with in your line of work jealousy and security, because

517
00:25:31,080 --> 00:25:33,639
Speaker 1: that's also you're it's not easy to deal with an artist,

518
00:25:34,240 --> 00:25:36,359
Speaker 1: you know, somebody that women like you. You're going to

519
00:25:36,400 --> 00:25:39,000
Speaker 1: be on the road, you're hanging out, you're probably at

520
00:25:39,080 --> 00:25:43,240
Speaker 1: drake parties too, and we all, but how do you

521
00:25:43,280 --> 00:25:46,280
Speaker 1: handle that because sometimes you also have to be very

522
00:25:46,320 --> 00:25:49,399
Speaker 1: sensitive to a woman you're dating, just making sure that

523
00:25:49,480 --> 00:25:51,080
Speaker 1: she feels comfortable and reassured.

524
00:25:51,119 --> 00:25:54,760
Speaker 3: Of course, it's honesty, you know, That's all I've always been.

525
00:25:54,800 --> 00:25:56,320
Speaker 3: That's why I don't love me a song, because I'm

526
00:25:56,320 --> 00:25:58,080
Speaker 3: just straight up honest with it. This is how I am,

527
00:25:58,119 --> 00:26:00,800
Speaker 3: is what it is right now, Rock with it.

528
00:26:00,480 --> 00:26:01,080
Speaker 1: Or don't love me?

529
00:26:01,560 --> 00:26:04,320
Speaker 3: Pretty much, rock to leave or stay here and don't

530
00:26:04,320 --> 00:26:07,280
Speaker 3: love them. Yeah, that's it right because you know you

531
00:26:07,320 --> 00:26:08,960
Speaker 3: want what you want. I know, the kind of nigga

532
00:26:09,040 --> 00:26:09,240
Speaker 3: I am.

533
00:26:09,280 --> 00:26:10,320
Speaker 4: That's why you're so hooked.

534
00:26:10,560 --> 00:26:13,080
Speaker 3: But at the end of the day, I'm I have

535
00:26:13,200 --> 00:26:15,520
Speaker 3: goals and things that I'm trying to go after and

536
00:26:15,560 --> 00:26:17,320
Speaker 3: I'm still young, I'm living my life. So if you're

537
00:26:17,320 --> 00:26:20,680
Speaker 3: going to slow me down, how can a woman slow

538
00:26:20,720 --> 00:26:23,600
Speaker 3: you down? Because look, well, First of all, I already it.

539
00:26:24,119 --> 00:26:28,120
Speaker 3: Women when they're not, they're not like how even y'all are.

540
00:26:28,680 --> 00:26:29,440
Speaker 4: In my era.

541
00:26:29,920 --> 00:26:32,439
Speaker 3: Women are so lost just like the men, right, so

542
00:26:32,480 --> 00:26:34,960
Speaker 3: no one has guidance and direction because everybody's just worried

543
00:26:34,960 --> 00:26:38,640
Speaker 3: about the expectations let upon them, right, So then they're

544
00:26:38,920 --> 00:26:41,040
Speaker 3: the good doors to rebellion. It goes to listen, I'm

545
00:26:41,040 --> 00:26:43,040
Speaker 3: not even nobody's in hearing me and listening to my problems,

546
00:26:43,080 --> 00:26:45,040
Speaker 3: all right, So I'm acting out now, I'm gonna do

547
00:26:45,040 --> 00:26:46,600
Speaker 3: what I want to do, and I'm living young. They

548
00:26:46,600 --> 00:26:49,719
Speaker 3: live while living fast, right, That's all my generation is.

549
00:26:49,840 --> 00:26:51,320
Speaker 4: So it's easy to stay away.

550
00:26:51,400 --> 00:26:52,920
Speaker 3: Because you see what's going on, but it's easier to

551
00:26:52,920 --> 00:26:55,600
Speaker 3: also to see what's going on. It's so right in

552
00:26:55,600 --> 00:26:58,159
Speaker 3: your face, right. So for me, yeah, it was just

553
00:26:58,400 --> 00:27:00,480
Speaker 3: I just I just stay honest. I'm not trying to

554
00:27:00,520 --> 00:27:02,080
Speaker 3: have nobody slow down what I got going on. I'm

555
00:27:02,119 --> 00:27:04,119
Speaker 3: not trying to slow down anything else somebody else got.

556
00:27:03,960 --> 00:27:06,200
Speaker 4: Going on, right there. I'm not in that.

557
00:27:06,320 --> 00:27:06,840
Speaker 6: Yeah, I'm not.

558
00:27:06,920 --> 00:27:09,080
Speaker 4: I'm not trying to do that. If we're gonna go forward,

559
00:27:09,320 --> 00:27:12,560
Speaker 4: that's not put no feeling, no feelings attached. Let's go

560
00:27:12,640 --> 00:27:14,600
Speaker 4: with that. But because honestly, that's what it is.

561
00:27:14,600 --> 00:27:17,640
Speaker 1: That's what it's really hard to have no feelings. Yeah,

562
00:27:18,160 --> 00:27:21,359
Speaker 1: even when you're eating someone, because that's hard.

563
00:27:21,480 --> 00:27:24,439
Speaker 3: It didn't work because because I caught so much feelings,

564
00:27:24,440 --> 00:27:27,120
Speaker 3: I'm like, I'm treating her, let my girl, even though I'm.

565
00:27:27,000 --> 00:27:29,000
Speaker 1: Telling you don't love me right right, So it's like,

566
00:27:29,040 --> 00:27:31,119
Speaker 1: because I just can't help, you're misleading you know what?

567
00:27:31,160 --> 00:27:34,720
Speaker 1: I feel like You guys always nead with this whole like, look,

568
00:27:35,080 --> 00:27:37,080
Speaker 1: I'm not trying to do this, I'm not trying to

569
00:27:37,119 --> 00:27:38,800
Speaker 1: do that, and then they treat you like they are

570
00:27:38,840 --> 00:27:42,960
Speaker 1: trying to ye, yeah, and they can't get canfusing and

571
00:27:43,000 --> 00:27:46,320
Speaker 1: then they don't really mean it. You try to put

572
00:27:46,320 --> 00:27:48,800
Speaker 1: that up as a safety guard. It's yes, I don't

573
00:27:48,840 --> 00:27:51,320
Speaker 1: want to I'm gonna tell you I don't want this, Yes,

574
00:27:51,480 --> 00:27:53,760
Speaker 1: but it gets to no way where the actions and

575
00:27:53,840 --> 00:27:56,399
Speaker 1: the words aren't matching. Yeah, it was like what are

576
00:27:56,400 --> 00:27:58,840
Speaker 1: we doing here? Then try to make you feel like

577
00:27:58,920 --> 00:28:02,119
Speaker 1: you're crazy because what you with you because the word

578
00:28:03,119 --> 00:28:05,520
Speaker 1: but the actions are something else. And I'm going with

579
00:28:05,560 --> 00:28:07,840
Speaker 1: these actions and you're going with these words. I think

580
00:28:08,440 --> 00:28:17,040
Speaker 1: he I think it's it's like spirit when you let

581
00:28:17,080 --> 00:28:19,919
Speaker 1: it like it's like, but you know, but I was

582
00:28:20,040 --> 00:28:22,480
Speaker 1: honest with you from the beginning. Your words were but

583
00:28:22,560 --> 00:28:23,360
Speaker 1: not your actions.

584
00:28:23,359 --> 00:28:26,160
Speaker 3: And that's what that's why I became that too, right,

585
00:28:26,200 --> 00:28:28,840
Speaker 3: whereas it led into lies because it's like, Yo, we're

586
00:28:28,840 --> 00:28:30,800
Speaker 3: supposed to be on this level, and then you say

587
00:28:30,840 --> 00:28:33,360
Speaker 3: you understand that, but now you doing stuff that's trying

588
00:28:33,400 --> 00:28:35,720
Speaker 3: to be like you're not keeping up to the same

589
00:28:35,800 --> 00:28:38,200
Speaker 3: levels that I'm at. You want more now, right, and

590
00:28:38,240 --> 00:28:41,160
Speaker 3: then I also may want more now, but you got

591
00:28:41,160 --> 00:28:43,720
Speaker 3: to stay here because I appreciate you so much for

592
00:28:43,760 --> 00:28:46,560
Speaker 3: even being that at that level. That's why I want

593
00:28:46,560 --> 00:28:48,120
Speaker 3: to give you more. That's why I want to do

594
00:28:48,160 --> 00:28:50,120
Speaker 3: so much more. I'm cheating on my girl because you're

595
00:28:50,120 --> 00:28:52,640
Speaker 3: actually respecting exactly what's going on in my life right now.

596
00:28:52,960 --> 00:28:54,880
Speaker 3: So when you want some more now and then you

597
00:28:54,520 --> 00:28:57,400
Speaker 3: say that was causing friction, that's when it starts lying.

598
00:28:57,440 --> 00:29:00,600
Speaker 4: That's when it becomes toxic, you know what I'm saying, Really, how.

599
00:29:00,480 --> 00:29:02,320
Speaker 1: Do you feel about bringing her around? Like when you

600
00:29:02,360 --> 00:29:04,479
Speaker 1: have events and when you're like, say you're in the studio,

601
00:29:04,520 --> 00:29:06,520
Speaker 1: when you know you're around at the artists and things

602
00:29:06,560 --> 00:29:07,560
Speaker 1: like that, how is that?

603
00:29:08,400 --> 00:29:10,480
Speaker 3: I mean, I got to know shorty heart. And first

604
00:29:10,480 --> 00:29:12,120
Speaker 3: of all, I don't even bring people around like that.

605
00:29:12,520 --> 00:29:15,480
Speaker 4: Yeah, because I have before and it says I've been through.

606
00:29:15,400 --> 00:29:17,280
Speaker 1: The I was like, no, you got to tell me

607
00:29:17,320 --> 00:29:22,680
Speaker 1: what happened before, like you know, but tell me one

608
00:29:22,680 --> 00:29:26,280
Speaker 1: thing that has happened that. Yeah, one for one or

609
00:29:26,320 --> 00:29:27,000
Speaker 1: maybe two.

610
00:29:27,320 --> 00:29:29,160
Speaker 6: Okay, maybe too.

611
00:29:29,720 --> 00:29:33,800
Speaker 3: Listen, I've had girls on all the Homies what wait,

612
00:29:35,800 --> 00:29:37,040
Speaker 3: all the home Way.

613
00:29:37,120 --> 00:29:38,520
Speaker 1: So you brought in and she ended up.

614
00:29:40,120 --> 00:29:43,400
Speaker 4: Spieful. Yeah, right on spie Homies.

615
00:29:43,440 --> 00:29:46,880
Speaker 1: Is like I'll do it. Yeah, them they could They

616
00:29:46,880 --> 00:29:47,760
Speaker 1: couldn't be your homies.

617
00:29:47,760 --> 00:29:50,360
Speaker 3: They had to be doing no, no, no, I mean, well, well,

618
00:29:50,400 --> 00:29:52,960
Speaker 3: the first of all, people, I show my heart. But

619
00:29:53,040 --> 00:29:55,680
Speaker 3: as I said, like, listen, you I showed you what

620
00:29:55,720 --> 00:29:57,600
Speaker 3: I want and what I'm working for. If you can

621
00:29:57,640 --> 00:29:59,800
Speaker 3: stay here, keep up to that. If not, then keep

622
00:30:00,280 --> 00:30:04,920
Speaker 3: pretty much. And because I'm actually I improved people's life,

623
00:30:05,000 --> 00:30:06,720
Speaker 3: quality of life when you come into my life, that's

624
00:30:06,720 --> 00:30:07,720
Speaker 3: the only thing that's gonna happen.

625
00:30:07,800 --> 00:30:09,880
Speaker 1: And it should be mutual. She should be improving yours.

626
00:30:10,080 --> 00:30:13,360
Speaker 3: Yeah, right, But then people get spiteful when they don't

627
00:30:13,360 --> 00:30:15,880
Speaker 3: get their end of the deal based on what they feel, right,

628
00:30:15,920 --> 00:30:17,360
Speaker 3: which is like, what where are you looking at the

629
00:30:17,360 --> 00:30:19,440
Speaker 3: bigger picture right now? Pretty much even if it was

630
00:30:19,480 --> 00:30:22,120
Speaker 3: not even like a relationships more situationship.

631
00:30:21,480 --> 00:30:22,800
Speaker 1: Right, it's not there yet.

632
00:30:22,840 --> 00:30:25,120
Speaker 3: It's not not even there yet. We're just feeling these

633
00:30:25,160 --> 00:30:27,640
Speaker 3: things we're doing help you. I'm building you, you're building me.

634
00:30:28,000 --> 00:30:31,120
Speaker 3: But now you're getting spiteful because I'm still doing You

635
00:30:31,200 --> 00:30:31,840
Speaker 3: want more now?

636
00:30:32,320 --> 00:30:34,880
Speaker 2: And it turns into the guys that she's working on

637
00:30:34,960 --> 00:30:35,960
Speaker 2: are your guys?

638
00:30:36,480 --> 00:30:39,800
Speaker 3: I mean, I guess they're not friends, but they're not.

639
00:30:39,880 --> 00:30:42,800
Speaker 3: Like I went through it, I went veteran that no,

640
00:30:42,960 --> 00:30:44,560
Speaker 3: not like you're not going to see them every day?

641
00:30:44,720 --> 00:30:50,440
Speaker 1: You know you now exactly? I was there. They aren't

642
00:30:50,440 --> 00:30:51,080
Speaker 1: even industry.

643
00:30:52,480 --> 00:30:57,160
Speaker 3: Yeah right, well somebody first it was like at first

644
00:30:57,160 --> 00:30:57,880
Speaker 3: it was my niggas.

645
00:30:57,920 --> 00:30:58,240
Speaker 4: Niggas.

646
00:30:58,240 --> 00:30:59,880
Speaker 3: So I went through it like this is like it

647
00:30:59,920 --> 00:31:04,520
Speaker 3: was crazy. You cry? Yeah, of course of course I cried, Yeah,

648
00:31:04,520 --> 00:31:05,760
Speaker 3: because I need you through it before.

649
00:31:05,840 --> 00:31:08,760
Speaker 1: Did you get your friends? Did you get a friend

650
00:31:08,760 --> 00:31:09,840
Speaker 1: with your friends?

651
00:31:09,600 --> 00:31:12,360
Speaker 3: Years later when with my friend friend group, Yeah, we

652
00:31:12,440 --> 00:31:14,520
Speaker 3: cleared it and we got over that because we're all

653
00:31:14,520 --> 00:31:18,120
Speaker 3: you like nineteen.

654
00:31:20,400 --> 00:31:21,560
Speaker 4: So I said it. That's all, y'all.

655
00:31:23,080 --> 00:31:25,640
Speaker 1: What explanation does a guy have for doing that? Is

656
00:31:25,680 --> 00:31:27,360
Speaker 1: it that I didn't know you al was that serious?

657
00:31:27,760 --> 00:31:29,960
Speaker 3: I wasn't even that he was, like he was hurt too,

658
00:31:30,320 --> 00:31:36,160
Speaker 3: because I was, oh, man, you talk about it like

659
00:31:36,160 --> 00:31:38,800
Speaker 3: I was taking something from him in the central. I

660
00:31:38,840 --> 00:31:40,960
Speaker 3: was actually trying to protect him because he's so he

661
00:31:41,040 --> 00:31:44,120
Speaker 3: was very at the time self destructive. So I'm playing

662
00:31:44,120 --> 00:31:45,520
Speaker 3: that role in the central like y'all got.

663
00:31:45,520 --> 00:31:47,000
Speaker 4: To just move the piece, bro, because you're not.

664
00:31:47,120 --> 00:31:49,200
Speaker 3: You're going to just destroy it, right, And I can't

665
00:31:49,200 --> 00:31:50,680
Speaker 3: have that around here. Now you're going to bring some

666
00:31:50,720 --> 00:31:52,760
Speaker 3: ship that can that cauld hurt all of us. I

667
00:31:52,760 --> 00:31:55,120
Speaker 3: don't need that around here, right. And it's my dog dog,

668
00:31:55,400 --> 00:31:57,440
Speaker 3: Like we grew up like clothes on his back type shit.

669
00:31:57,520 --> 00:31:59,480
Speaker 3: You know we're good now though, we're rolling now. But

670
00:32:00,120 --> 00:32:02,280
Speaker 3: he didn't understand the kind of person even he was

671
00:32:02,440 --> 00:32:03,720
Speaker 3: until she really hit the fact, and I had to

672
00:32:03,760 --> 00:32:05,920
Speaker 3: separate from him for her to really learn the kind

673
00:32:05,960 --> 00:32:08,040
Speaker 3: of person he was. Right, So when we were kindled,

674
00:32:08,080 --> 00:32:09,280
Speaker 3: he was like, yo, bro, like this is where I

675
00:32:09,360 --> 00:32:11,200
Speaker 3: came from. He can never give me that conversation when.

676
00:32:11,080 --> 00:32:11,560
Speaker 4: We were younger.

677
00:32:11,760 --> 00:32:13,200
Speaker 1: You know, she probably didn't know himself.

678
00:32:13,240 --> 00:32:15,480
Speaker 4: No, he didn't two thousand percent. He did not know

679
00:32:15,960 --> 00:32:18,560
Speaker 4: none of us, did I mean it?

680
00:32:18,640 --> 00:32:20,120
Speaker 3: Yeah, I ran away from home.

681
00:32:20,160 --> 00:32:21,280
Speaker 4: He ran away from home, like.

682
00:32:22,800 --> 00:32:23,840
Speaker 1: And figured it out exactly.

683
00:32:23,880 --> 00:32:27,920
Speaker 3: We're just young, dumb, stupid, just trying to figure That's

684
00:32:28,040 --> 00:32:30,400
Speaker 3: the reason I knew, right. So it was just like, okay, like,

685
00:32:30,440 --> 00:32:32,600
Speaker 3: I respect you for that. Everybody lied to me, but

686
00:32:32,760 --> 00:32:34,880
Speaker 3: I respect you for coming to me and being honest

687
00:32:34,920 --> 00:32:35,120
Speaker 3: with me.

688
00:32:36,240 --> 00:32:36,920
Speaker 4: She told me.

689
00:32:38,840 --> 00:32:44,280
Speaker 3: Her friend to confronted so exactly, and I confronted everybody.

690
00:32:44,640 --> 00:32:45,880
Speaker 1: My friends told you.

691
00:32:46,200 --> 00:32:48,960
Speaker 3: Her friend told me what friends When I found out

692
00:32:49,480 --> 00:32:51,040
Speaker 3: her friend was trying to because.

693
00:32:52,920 --> 00:32:58,760
Speaker 1: I'm not like that, I wanted telling y'all man that

694
00:32:58,800 --> 00:33:04,600
Speaker 1: you fucked him rightly, hairy especially.

695
00:33:04,680 --> 00:33:07,080
Speaker 3: I let them deal with that with that on their

696
00:33:07,120 --> 00:33:08,480
Speaker 3: heart because I know the kind of person.

697
00:33:08,560 --> 00:33:09,800
Speaker 4: I ain't trying to roll with that on my heart.

698
00:33:10,360 --> 00:33:12,800
Speaker 1: How forgiving are you, Mahelia when it comes to your friends,

699
00:33:12,840 --> 00:33:14,800
Speaker 1: because we've all had situations with friends.

700
00:33:14,800 --> 00:33:15,800
Speaker 2: Friend can never do that to me?

701
00:33:15,880 --> 00:33:19,000
Speaker 1: Well, okay, friend, So that's what I thought that first.

702
00:33:19,480 --> 00:33:20,840
Speaker 2: Yeah, none asked, but.

703
00:33:23,320 --> 00:33:24,120
Speaker 4: Now that can happen.

704
00:33:24,160 --> 00:33:26,600
Speaker 2: But yeah, my my friend can never do that to me.

705
00:33:27,560 --> 00:33:29,920
Speaker 2: Ninety but blah blah blah, I will say that I

706
00:33:29,960 --> 00:33:34,400
Speaker 2: think behaviors and reasonings with women and men. Not to generalize,

707
00:33:34,400 --> 00:33:36,120
Speaker 2: but I do think they are different. If my girl

708
00:33:36,160 --> 00:33:40,520
Speaker 2: did that to me, do you know what it is?

709
00:33:40,520 --> 00:33:44,160
Speaker 2: Is that with when I think about my girlfriends, I

710
00:33:44,200 --> 00:33:47,400
Speaker 2: think that that decision would be like, that decision would

711
00:33:47,400 --> 00:33:49,960
Speaker 2: be thought through, whereas I think a man is much

712
00:33:50,000 --> 00:33:51,640
Speaker 2: more likely to maybe act.

713
00:33:51,480 --> 00:33:52,240
Speaker 4: On him it.

714
00:33:52,480 --> 00:33:55,000
Speaker 1: Yeah, my girls.

715
00:33:54,680 --> 00:33:58,800
Speaker 2: I'm like yeah, because because I can imagine that. Like,

716
00:33:58,960 --> 00:34:01,080
Speaker 2: just as a woman, I think there are we have

717
00:34:01,200 --> 00:34:05,120
Speaker 2: like markers where we question it. You know, from from

718
00:34:05,160 --> 00:34:08,000
Speaker 2: the moment we are you know, kissing, to when things

719
00:34:08,000 --> 00:34:10,280
Speaker 2: are coming off to when it goes. There are a few.

720
00:34:13,600 --> 00:34:15,960
Speaker 1: But you know what I will say, people the way

721
00:34:15,960 --> 00:34:18,400
Speaker 1: that they're raised and trauma they have in their life.

722
00:34:18,600 --> 00:34:22,920
Speaker 1: Sometimes people do things and there's like they don't even

723
00:34:22,960 --> 00:34:24,440
Speaker 1: know why they do it, Like you were saying, they

724
00:34:24,520 --> 00:34:29,040
Speaker 1: may not even realize why they're doing something. You know. So,

725
00:34:29,160 --> 00:34:30,960
Speaker 1: have you ever fallen out with any of your really

726
00:34:31,000 --> 00:34:32,840
Speaker 1: good friends? Because I feel like the better friends you

727
00:34:32,880 --> 00:34:35,399
Speaker 1: are with somebody, there's you know, we've seen a lot

728
00:34:35,440 --> 00:34:38,200
Speaker 1: of things happening as of late with people exposing people

729
00:34:38,320 --> 00:34:40,759
Speaker 1: we were friends and now this person. Because that's one

730
00:34:40,800 --> 00:34:42,120
Speaker 1: rule if I fall out with you, I'm still not

731
00:34:42,160 --> 00:34:43,120
Speaker 1: going to put your business out there.

732
00:34:46,920 --> 00:34:48,640
Speaker 3: The new generation they don't believe in that for some

733
00:34:49,320 --> 00:34:49,960
Speaker 3: for some reason.

734
00:34:50,120 --> 00:34:54,160
Speaker 1: But I do feel like in certain situations, because no

735
00:34:54,239 --> 00:34:58,239
Speaker 1: friendships are always perfect, you know, and especially in a

736
00:34:58,280 --> 00:35:03,000
Speaker 1: business like this where so many things can potentially moving parts.

737
00:35:03,280 --> 00:35:05,200
Speaker 1: Have you ever had to like forgive a friend for

738
00:35:05,280 --> 00:35:07,880
Speaker 1: something that they've done to you and move on or

739
00:35:08,000 --> 00:35:10,399
Speaker 1: has everything been pretty smooth? So I don't.

740
00:35:11,160 --> 00:35:17,640
Speaker 2: In truth, I don't have many friends. I think I had.

741
00:35:18,360 --> 00:35:20,480
Speaker 2: I had a particularly tough time in school, so I

742
00:35:20,520 --> 00:35:23,560
Speaker 2: think as an adult, I don't. I find it hard

743
00:35:23,600 --> 00:35:26,320
Speaker 2: to keep friends or just I find it hard to

744
00:35:26,400 --> 00:35:29,640
Speaker 2: let people in. Yeah, waiting, I find it very hard

745
00:35:29,960 --> 00:35:33,359
Speaker 2: my close friends. Nah, I don't think I've ever if

746
00:35:33,400 --> 00:35:34,880
Speaker 2: anything's ever happened, I haven't forgiven.

747
00:35:35,560 --> 00:35:40,320
Speaker 1: Wow, So what that are you?

748
00:35:41,400 --> 00:35:47,600
Speaker 2: Yeah, I'm trying to forgive anybody, because I've definitely had

749
00:35:47,600 --> 00:35:49,200
Speaker 2: friends do some crazy ship to me.

750
00:35:49,360 --> 00:35:53,360
Speaker 1: I know you have dyes, yeah, yeah, but I'm so

751
00:35:53,520 --> 00:35:55,160
Speaker 1: forgiven to the point of my friends and I like, no,

752
00:35:55,239 --> 00:35:58,880
Speaker 1: you're stupid. I'm not thinking. I'm very like, I know,

753
00:36:00,040 --> 00:36:01,920
Speaker 1: feeling to you and I'm chopping and watching it roll

754
00:36:02,400 --> 00:36:05,600
Speaker 1: like you did it see yourself. Because there's certain people

755
00:36:05,600 --> 00:36:08,440
Speaker 1: you're like, why is this by definition? My friends, like

756
00:36:08,480 --> 00:36:13,160
Speaker 1: if you can't trust them around? Yeah, if you know that,

757
00:36:13,280 --> 00:36:17,279
Speaker 1: like they're talking about you behind, holding you down right,

758
00:36:17,480 --> 00:36:19,560
Speaker 1: you know, and things like that, and you're like, why

759
00:36:19,560 --> 00:36:22,120
Speaker 1: am I even wasting my I had to realize sometimes that,

760
00:36:22,239 --> 00:36:24,360
Speaker 1: like I have to just be like I can't do

761
00:36:24,440 --> 00:36:27,480
Speaker 1: that in separation myself, because if I can't trust you,

762
00:36:27,520 --> 00:36:28,799
Speaker 1: then I can't be friends with you.

763
00:36:29,239 --> 00:36:30,719
Speaker 4: I have to look at myself and be like, did

764
00:36:30,760 --> 00:36:32,480
Speaker 4: I give you a reason.

765
00:36:32,120 --> 00:36:35,800
Speaker 3: To It's never your fault, No, but you never things.

766
00:36:35,800 --> 00:36:38,800
Speaker 4: You never know until you really analyze everything.

767
00:36:38,920 --> 00:36:41,960
Speaker 3: Yeah, you're only looking at one perspective, at one side

768
00:36:42,080 --> 00:36:44,640
Speaker 3: and your size, and it's like you're only gonna worry

769
00:36:44,640 --> 00:36:47,520
Speaker 3: about and deal with them treated like that looking at

770
00:36:47,560 --> 00:36:49,280
Speaker 3: I always have. That's why I can forgive my boys

771
00:36:49,320 --> 00:36:52,080
Speaker 3: and in that situation, I'm all good now, because if.

772
00:36:52,040 --> 00:36:54,520
Speaker 1: Something keeps them happening to you, at some point you're like, okay, yeah,

773
00:36:57,400 --> 00:36:59,839
Speaker 1: definitely have to look at and say who at least

774
00:37:00,120 --> 00:37:03,960
Speaker 1: that I'm choosing to be always take accountability. I always

775
00:37:03,960 --> 00:37:05,960
Speaker 1: look within and then I look at perspectives, and I

776
00:37:06,040 --> 00:37:09,879
Speaker 1: look at situations, I'm like, okay, but I always look

777
00:37:09,960 --> 00:37:13,480
Speaker 1: within first to make sure it's so easy for me

778
00:37:13,520 --> 00:37:15,680
Speaker 1: to do like okay, well maybe you could have set

779
00:37:15,680 --> 00:37:18,200
Speaker 1: this different, or maybe you can done this different, or

780
00:37:18,239 --> 00:37:21,719
Speaker 1: maybe you were acting on emotions and not rationality, like

781
00:37:22,239 --> 00:37:27,000
Speaker 1: you know, like I I fight myself. But that's just

782
00:37:27,320 --> 00:37:30,400
Speaker 1: everything like with me, that's in friendships, that's in relationships.

783
00:37:30,400 --> 00:37:34,000
Speaker 1: That that's when it comes to my family, my coworkers.

784
00:37:34,120 --> 00:37:36,360
Speaker 1: You know, an TONI always tell me, he's like you,

785
00:37:36,440 --> 00:37:40,080
Speaker 1: you're different, like you're able to that someone can do

786
00:37:40,160 --> 00:37:42,680
Speaker 1: something and you look at something that I would never

787
00:37:42,760 --> 00:37:44,719
Speaker 1: think like, oh maybe it was because of this that

788
00:37:45,200 --> 00:37:49,200
Speaker 1: like to understand and over uspathy, Yeah, I'm very empathetic

789
00:37:49,360 --> 00:37:49,959
Speaker 1: and I.

790
00:37:49,920 --> 00:37:51,399
Speaker 3: Am very too.

791
00:37:54,120 --> 00:37:55,240
Speaker 1: It is definitely hard.

792
00:37:55,480 --> 00:37:55,640
Speaker 6: Now.

793
00:37:55,680 --> 00:37:58,800
Speaker 1: I know y'all have been watching this story about Carlie

794
00:37:58,840 --> 00:38:05,640
Speaker 1: Russell Jesus Hustle let this woman and Alabama. She pretended,

795
00:38:06,160 --> 00:38:09,400
Speaker 1: she pretended basically that to get abducted. Yeah right, she

796
00:38:09,400 --> 00:38:12,640
Speaker 1: said she to a baby, was gonna signs And she

797
00:38:12,719 --> 00:38:15,080
Speaker 1: went missing for a forty eight hour for two days,

798
00:38:15,239 --> 00:38:17,279
Speaker 1: and we were she showed back up and it was

799
00:38:17,280 --> 00:38:19,759
Speaker 1: this whole story about how she got abducted, and now

800
00:38:19,800 --> 00:38:23,360
Speaker 1: she's admitted that she made about the thing. It was

801
00:38:23,480 --> 00:38:26,800
Speaker 1: national news like every well not everybody, like was really

802
00:38:26,840 --> 00:38:30,399
Speaker 1: supporting prayers, everybody. She got on the black Man got

803
00:38:30,440 --> 00:38:33,520
Speaker 1: updated where is young woman? Where she made the FBI

804
00:38:33,600 --> 00:38:37,960
Speaker 1: get involved, search party, everything, everything, and then showed up

805
00:38:38,000 --> 00:38:41,200
Speaker 1: held up at home like Okay, I'm bad, and she

806
00:38:41,239 --> 00:38:44,560
Speaker 1: had this elaborate story about getting kidnapped and pictures taken

807
00:38:44,680 --> 00:38:48,680
Speaker 1: and escaping. We didn't hear her say, well, we didn't that,

808
00:38:49,160 --> 00:38:51,719
Speaker 1: but it's what was you know, her family, they were

809
00:38:52,719 --> 00:38:54,800
Speaker 1: She said she saw a baby walking on the highway

810
00:38:55,280 --> 00:38:57,320
Speaker 1: and she got up and she could have the baby

811
00:38:57,320 --> 00:39:00,160
Speaker 1: and somebody who else was me When they put the

812
00:39:00,239 --> 00:39:05,200
Speaker 1: video out making for the baby and baby nobody saw

813
00:39:05,239 --> 00:39:10,400
Speaker 1: a baby. I'm like that, but yeah, you see it

814
00:39:10,480 --> 00:39:11,160
Speaker 1: is her car with the.

815
00:39:12,200 --> 00:39:14,360
Speaker 2: Like every video released of her on the side of

816
00:39:14,400 --> 00:39:14,840
Speaker 2: the run.

817
00:39:14,960 --> 00:39:18,200
Speaker 1: Of her car, Yes, of her car on the side

818
00:39:18,200 --> 00:39:20,280
Speaker 1: of the I was like minute finally had to admit

819
00:39:20,320 --> 00:39:23,000
Speaker 1: that the whole thing was a hope we never had

820
00:39:23,000 --> 00:39:25,760
Speaker 1: gotten There was no baby on behind, and some people

821
00:39:25,760 --> 00:39:27,920
Speaker 1: feel like and we don't know the motivation, but I

822
00:39:27,960 --> 00:39:29,680
Speaker 1: guess it had something to do with her with her

823
00:39:29,719 --> 00:39:32,960
Speaker 1: boyfriend or to get back together with him. And maybe

824
00:39:33,760 --> 00:39:37,440
Speaker 1: because then she unblocked him while she was while she

825
00:39:37,480 --> 00:39:40,000
Speaker 1: was abduct this. We don't know for sure she unblocked

826
00:39:40,040 --> 00:39:45,400
Speaker 1: him during that time. This right was I was praying

827
00:39:45,440 --> 00:39:47,759
Speaker 1: that it wasn't. I was like, please don't let this.

828
00:39:48,440 --> 00:39:50,880
Speaker 1: It was specially to me from day one, Like initially

829
00:39:50,880 --> 00:39:53,920
Speaker 1: he didn't want to say it. Initially I was like, okay, this,

830
00:39:54,280 --> 00:39:56,840
Speaker 1: you know, they're they're they're snatching us up and putting

831
00:39:56,880 --> 00:39:59,719
Speaker 1: us into the sex trade and for our melody. Right,

832
00:40:00,040 --> 00:40:02,080
Speaker 1: I'm like, okay, I understood that part of it. But

833
00:40:02,120 --> 00:40:04,239
Speaker 1: then the story about the baby, It's like, how come

834
00:40:04,520 --> 00:40:06,680
Speaker 1: if this baby is on a on a highway or

835
00:40:06,719 --> 00:40:10,040
Speaker 1: on a big road right a main road, how come

836
00:40:10,080 --> 00:40:13,280
Speaker 1: you're the only person driving downybody? Nobody else sees this baby,

837
00:40:13,280 --> 00:40:16,040
Speaker 1: Nobody else pulls over to try to help the baby.

838
00:40:16,040 --> 00:40:17,000
Speaker 1: That where I was.

839
00:40:16,960 --> 00:40:20,640
Speaker 2: Like, laying right, is she talking about like a baby baby.

840
00:40:20,360 --> 00:40:23,719
Speaker 1: Toddler tither on the side of the road and a

841
00:40:23,719 --> 00:40:26,239
Speaker 1: white baby at that it was a little white baby

842
00:40:26,280 --> 00:40:32,080
Speaker 1: on the side of the road. Crazy stir I gotta ask,

843
00:40:32,960 --> 00:40:37,120
Speaker 1: has anybody ever lied to you? Like in a crazy situation,

844
00:40:37,280 --> 00:40:40,760
Speaker 1: maybe to try to get some type of sympathy from you.

845
00:40:41,200 --> 00:40:43,400
Speaker 1: I mean, you look like you have a situation.

846
00:40:44,280 --> 00:40:48,480
Speaker 3: I mean niggas always come with situations, always like a woman.

847
00:40:48,560 --> 00:40:51,239
Speaker 1: Has she ever tried to woman done something crazy to

848
00:40:51,239 --> 00:40:52,040
Speaker 1: get your attention?

849
00:40:56,920 --> 00:40:57,479
Speaker 4: Is that bad?

850
00:40:57,840 --> 00:40:58,480
Speaker 1: Yeah?

851
00:40:58,680 --> 00:40:59,319
Speaker 2: It's pretty bad.

852
00:40:59,480 --> 00:41:04,680
Speaker 1: I can tell you. I stought definitely, my god, I

853
00:41:04,760 --> 00:41:06,640
Speaker 1: want to know later.

854
00:41:07,400 --> 00:41:11,560
Speaker 2: You know, anxiety, all the access trust, you know, to

855
00:41:11,560 --> 00:41:12,280
Speaker 2: get my attention.

856
00:41:12,560 --> 00:41:14,959
Speaker 1: Yeah, but it was something that wasn't even true.

857
00:41:16,160 --> 00:41:19,920
Speaker 2: No, I can't tell you on here, but because oh

858
00:41:20,000 --> 00:41:21,920
Speaker 2: my gosh, it was crazy.

859
00:41:22,280 --> 00:41:28,400
Speaker 1: Let me see you need a joint brown night another

860
00:41:28,440 --> 00:41:32,880
Speaker 1: shotow So round two it's going to come with another announcement.

861
00:41:33,080 --> 00:41:34,920
Speaker 1: I can I share the other Are you pregnant?

862
00:41:35,160 --> 00:41:35,239
Speaker 4: No?

863
00:41:35,400 --> 00:41:44,080
Speaker 1: Girl, you know we ain't having no kids. Have you

864
00:41:44,120 --> 00:41:46,720
Speaker 1: ever had anybody tell you they were pregnant and they weren't.

865
00:41:46,960 --> 00:41:51,600
Speaker 3: I've heard people. I heard other people like, oh, you

866
00:41:52,120 --> 00:41:55,960
Speaker 3: got to care, I said, And I said, I don't

867
00:41:56,000 --> 00:41:57,480
Speaker 3: even because I know my circle.

868
00:41:57,640 --> 00:41:59,479
Speaker 4: Most of the times I'm like, yeah, that's that's.

869
00:42:00,880 --> 00:42:04,000
Speaker 3: I ain't got no other kids here story you just

870
00:42:04,040 --> 00:42:04,399
Speaker 3: have one?

871
00:42:04,760 --> 00:42:05,520
Speaker 4: Got my baby girl?

872
00:42:06,800 --> 00:42:08,279
Speaker 1: How is co parenting for you?

873
00:42:08,480 --> 00:42:08,879
Speaker 4: It's great?

874
00:42:08,920 --> 00:42:10,760
Speaker 3: That it's your it's great, it's great.

875
00:42:10,600 --> 00:42:13,120
Speaker 1: In the beginning. Was it a process or was it

876
00:42:13,160 --> 00:42:14,560
Speaker 1: automatically automatic?

877
00:42:14,680 --> 00:42:17,640
Speaker 3: That's good based on because I was like, at first,

878
00:42:17,680 --> 00:42:20,040
Speaker 3: it was like I was talking about abortion and I

879
00:42:20,080 --> 00:42:23,760
Speaker 3: pulled up she called me in the studio, I'm pregnant.

880
00:42:24,320 --> 00:42:25,319
Speaker 1: At the studio.

881
00:42:26,480 --> 00:42:27,680
Speaker 3: Right there, Like, what are you talking about?

882
00:42:27,680 --> 00:42:28,160
Speaker 4: Your pregnant?

883
00:42:29,280 --> 00:42:32,080
Speaker 1: You having my baby?

884
00:42:34,080 --> 00:42:34,360
Speaker 4: Okay?

885
00:42:34,840 --> 00:42:37,719
Speaker 1: Yeah, it had been like your COVID right now you

886
00:42:37,719 --> 00:42:38,680
Speaker 1: have a baby, girl.

887
00:42:38,800 --> 00:42:41,440
Speaker 4: Yeah, one is going my sister, one of my sisters

888
00:42:41,600 --> 00:42:43,280
Speaker 4: I was born. It's okay.

889
00:42:43,680 --> 00:42:43,879
Speaker 6: Yeah.

890
00:42:43,920 --> 00:42:46,600
Speaker 3: And I got two half sisters, one here and one

891
00:42:46,880 --> 00:42:48,360
Speaker 3: in Saint Lucia.

892
00:42:48,440 --> 00:42:49,800
Speaker 4: And then I got my younger sister.

893
00:42:50,239 --> 00:42:51,880
Speaker 1: So you're surrounded by women.

894
00:42:52,160 --> 00:42:52,319
Speaker 3: Yeah.

895
00:42:53,480 --> 00:42:55,680
Speaker 4: Then now don't stop.

896
00:42:55,680 --> 00:42:58,160
Speaker 1: Said here's his daughter too, right.

897
00:42:57,719 --> 00:43:01,200
Speaker 4: Hey already. But she much ham bro she might.

898
00:43:01,400 --> 00:43:03,400
Speaker 3: She picked up I'm a football like I love a

899
00:43:03,440 --> 00:43:05,480
Speaker 3: medical football. I was at a barbecue with like the

900
00:43:05,480 --> 00:43:07,200
Speaker 3: family and ship. She picked up the football.

901
00:43:07,239 --> 00:43:26,680
Speaker 6: She said, yes, trust amazing that. You know.

902
00:43:26,719 --> 00:43:30,680
Speaker 1: What's something I realized for Mahelia Infra was that y'all

903
00:43:30,680 --> 00:43:33,319
Speaker 1: have in common, well, a couple of different things. First

904
00:43:33,360 --> 00:43:35,440
Speaker 1: of all, right, I want to talk about the difference

905
00:43:35,440 --> 00:43:40,239
Speaker 1: between EPs and like a full length project, right, because

906
00:43:40,280 --> 00:43:44,080
Speaker 1: you guys both put out amazing EPs, So how do

907
00:43:44,120 --> 00:43:46,080
Speaker 1: you know what makes it onto the EP? What's the

908
00:43:46,120 --> 00:43:48,640
Speaker 1: purpose of that? And then what's the difference between what

909
00:43:48,640 --> 00:43:50,120
Speaker 1: you would put on there and what you would put

910
00:43:50,160 --> 00:43:51,320
Speaker 1: on a full length project.

911
00:43:52,840 --> 00:43:56,080
Speaker 2: It might be different for you, well for me. So

912
00:43:56,280 --> 00:43:59,440
Speaker 2: usually whenever I go into it, I'm probably in my

913
00:43:59,520 --> 00:44:03,720
Speaker 2: mind writing for my album, but then something will happen

914
00:44:03,920 --> 00:44:07,080
Speaker 2: where I kind of I might find a song or

915
00:44:07,120 --> 00:44:09,040
Speaker 2: like a couple of songs that feel like they're in

916
00:44:09,040 --> 00:44:12,600
Speaker 2: the same world, and I'll build something separate. So like

917
00:44:12,600 --> 00:44:15,120
Speaker 2: when I was making this album that's just come out,

918
00:44:15,400 --> 00:44:17,319
Speaker 2: all the songs from my last EP, which came out

919
00:44:17,400 --> 00:44:19,759
Speaker 2: last year, were all for the album. But then when

920
00:44:19,800 --> 00:44:21,680
Speaker 2: I made those songs, they all felt like they sat

921
00:44:21,719 --> 00:44:24,640
Speaker 2: perfectly together and maybe not with the album music, so

922
00:44:24,719 --> 00:44:29,440
Speaker 2: I separated them. That's how I've always done, okay, But

923
00:44:29,480 --> 00:44:32,280
Speaker 2: I don't know. Choosing is always difficult. I think sometimes

924
00:44:32,320 --> 00:44:35,120
Speaker 2: it's just about like for me, it's just about the

925
00:44:35,120 --> 00:44:39,280
Speaker 2: world that I want to create on either project, and

926
00:44:38,600 --> 00:44:42,719
Speaker 2: like and like maybe this world sits better in a

927
00:44:42,760 --> 00:44:44,280
Speaker 2: long form sense, and this world.

928
00:44:45,719 --> 00:44:48,759
Speaker 1: As a consumer and a lover of music. I am

929
00:44:48,800 --> 00:44:51,239
Speaker 1: their girl who likes to listen to all albums, Like,

930
00:44:51,280 --> 00:44:53,240
Speaker 1: I want to hear your project the way you intend

931
00:44:53,280 --> 00:44:56,280
Speaker 1: it to see it. I'm not like a skip around

932
00:44:56,400 --> 00:45:00,560
Speaker 1: or a mixed you know, mixed playlist. Yeah, I want

933
00:45:00,600 --> 00:45:01,520
Speaker 1: to hear your.

934
00:45:03,440 --> 00:45:03,640
Speaker 6: Yeah.

935
00:45:03,719 --> 00:45:06,879
Speaker 1: Yeah, yeah, So I can as a lover of music

936
00:45:06,920 --> 00:45:09,120
Speaker 1: and consumer, I can appreciate that process that you give

937
00:45:09,239 --> 00:45:11,719
Speaker 1: because I'm here for that. Yeah for sure. Yeah, Like yeah,

938
00:45:11,760 --> 00:45:13,680
Speaker 1: I'm a I'm a full album girl for you, but

939
00:45:13,760 --> 00:45:15,680
Speaker 1: you it was for you with your EP because I

940
00:45:15,680 --> 00:45:17,520
Speaker 1: know you put something, you put yours out and it

941
00:45:17,560 --> 00:45:20,759
Speaker 1: was pandemic time, So I understand the purpose of that.

942
00:45:20,960 --> 00:45:21,480
Speaker 4: Yeah for sure.

943
00:45:21,560 --> 00:45:21,919
Speaker 1: For sure.

944
00:45:22,239 --> 00:45:24,560
Speaker 3: For me, it wass I mean EPs, I feel like

945
00:45:24,600 --> 00:45:26,759
Speaker 3: you just give me something out. At first, for me,

946
00:45:26,840 --> 00:45:29,480
Speaker 3: I didn't really know even what EPs was until I signed.

947
00:45:29,480 --> 00:45:37,399
Speaker 3: I'm like, like, even for my first few EPs, it

948
00:45:37,440 --> 00:45:41,000
Speaker 3: was all the songs I said, I like, I just

949
00:45:41,200 --> 00:45:43,880
Speaker 3: like these. The label like these, they even more put

950
00:45:43,920 --> 00:45:46,759
Speaker 3: it together, like this album I've put together myself more

951
00:45:47,320 --> 00:45:50,000
Speaker 3: right where I feel like every song I like, I

952
00:45:50,040 --> 00:45:51,719
Speaker 3: didn't just like it, there's messages behind that.

953
00:45:51,800 --> 00:45:52,439
Speaker 4: I love these songs.

954
00:45:52,440 --> 00:45:55,120
Speaker 3: I don't even stop listening to them every other EP

955
00:45:55,440 --> 00:45:56,920
Speaker 3: and stuff like that. I don't even go back and

956
00:45:56,960 --> 00:45:59,319
Speaker 3: listen to those. I don't really I liked them, but

957
00:45:59,320 --> 00:46:01,920
Speaker 3: those are just friends moment for me. You know, where

958
00:46:01,920 --> 00:46:04,000
Speaker 3: I go about it, I'm just making what I feel.

959
00:46:04,080 --> 00:46:05,560
Speaker 3: I don't even go about it thinking about it. This

960
00:46:05,640 --> 00:46:06,680
Speaker 3: is an album or EP.

961
00:46:06,840 --> 00:46:08,560
Speaker 4: I kind of get there after I make the song

962
00:46:08,880 --> 00:46:09,280
Speaker 4: and I'm.

963
00:46:09,160 --> 00:46:10,719
Speaker 3: Like, okay, this is for this is for that. I

964
00:46:10,760 --> 00:46:13,080
Speaker 3: know where to put it, right, Like I okay, this

965
00:46:13,120 --> 00:46:14,000
Speaker 3: is EP music.

966
00:46:13,760 --> 00:46:16,160
Speaker 1: Perfect placement, right, and this is album music.

967
00:46:16,239 --> 00:46:18,040
Speaker 4: You know, that's kind of how differentiate it.

968
00:46:18,120 --> 00:46:20,799
Speaker 1: Yea, all right. I was just curious, both of you

969
00:46:21,040 --> 00:46:24,040
Speaker 1: and everybody, like your album's out now. Yours is going

970
00:46:24,080 --> 00:46:27,520
Speaker 1: to be out every Friday on Friday, and actually we

971
00:46:27,640 --> 00:46:31,319
Speaker 1: actually were privileged to have a preview. Thank you very much.

972
00:46:31,480 --> 00:46:33,360
Speaker 1: And I have to say that we were listening to

973
00:46:33,400 --> 00:46:36,239
Speaker 1: it earlier today and I really enjoyed everything. I can't

974
00:46:36,239 --> 00:46:38,720
Speaker 1: wait to listen to some more and then listen again.

975
00:46:38,920 --> 00:46:41,800
Speaker 4: I'm excited that, like, thank you so much, bless.

976
00:46:42,120 --> 00:46:43,799
Speaker 1: Just like we were talking about young boy, That's why

977
00:46:43,760 --> 00:46:47,200
Speaker 1: I brought that up, a young boy problem. I was like,

978
00:46:47,400 --> 00:46:52,719
Speaker 1: let's now I know I didn't see that video.

979
00:46:52,760 --> 00:46:53,320
Speaker 3: That a video.

980
00:46:53,440 --> 00:46:55,719
Speaker 4: Yeah, I got to go back and check that out

981
00:46:56,000 --> 00:46:56,759
Speaker 4: most definitely.

982
00:46:56,840 --> 00:46:59,600
Speaker 1: Yeah, crazy young boy problems. I'm so glad we ain't

983
00:46:59,600 --> 00:47:01,160
Speaker 1: got to do it those. Yes, So we had a

984
00:47:01,160 --> 00:47:08,439
Speaker 1: conversation about that. What are what are some young boy

985
00:47:08,480 --> 00:47:12,280
Speaker 1: problems that you guys have experienced or have you dated

986
00:47:12,360 --> 00:47:14,719
Speaker 1: young and what is the youngest you would date when

987
00:47:14,719 --> 00:47:17,440
Speaker 1: we were younger, when we were younger.

988
00:47:18,040 --> 00:47:20,840
Speaker 2: Yeah, some young boy problem.

989
00:47:21,040 --> 00:47:24,160
Speaker 1: Yeah, lack of commitment would be one.

990
00:47:24,200 --> 00:47:28,879
Speaker 2: And you say distractions definitely. I think I think need

991
00:47:29,000 --> 00:47:33,160
Speaker 2: a mother maybe, yes, yeah, but just needing me to

992
00:47:33,200 --> 00:47:36,120
Speaker 2: be that mom, right, I think that's the biggest thing.

993
00:47:36,560 --> 00:47:39,640
Speaker 1: And being irresponsible sometimes, like younger guys can be so

994
00:47:39,680 --> 00:47:44,040
Speaker 1: irresponsible when it comes to like pretty attractive like why

995
00:47:44,040 --> 00:47:47,440
Speaker 1: don't you know how to do that? Ye? Figure it out?

996
00:47:48,160 --> 00:47:53,200
Speaker 1: Procrastinating that's the older people problem to Yeah, I find out, Yeah,

997
00:47:53,200 --> 00:47:55,239
Speaker 1: with younger people a lot of times, like if you

998
00:47:55,239 --> 00:47:57,719
Speaker 1: don't have that ambition and driving, you procrastinate, that can

999
00:47:57,760 --> 00:48:00,640
Speaker 1: be time will pass you by, Yes it will. And

1000
00:48:00,680 --> 00:48:03,040
Speaker 1: young boys could you'll never be you won't be young

1001
00:48:03,080 --> 00:48:05,719
Speaker 1: having those problems anymore. Now you have those problems could

1002
00:48:05,760 --> 00:48:10,160
Speaker 1: be real jealous too, jealousy about that, very immature and jealous.

1003
00:48:11,880 --> 00:48:12,279
Speaker 6: So much.

1004
00:48:13,080 --> 00:48:16,640
Speaker 3: I'm the older brother compared to commit to commit to men.

1005
00:48:17,520 --> 00:48:18,160
Speaker 4: So insecure.

1006
00:48:18,640 --> 00:48:23,440
Speaker 1: Very but then I think I think, also, do you

1007
00:48:23,480 --> 00:48:26,840
Speaker 1: think that like some guys when you're younger and we

1008
00:48:26,880 --> 00:48:29,480
Speaker 1: don't have it like that, it can make guys insecure,

1009
00:48:29,560 --> 00:48:33,600
Speaker 1: like financially, you know, even though we can say money

1010
00:48:33,640 --> 00:48:36,320
Speaker 1: doesn't matter so much to us, I feel like guys

1011
00:48:36,320 --> 00:48:39,319
Speaker 1: when they don't have it like that, they themselves. Yeah,

1012
00:48:40,239 --> 00:48:48,719
Speaker 1: because broken. Yeah, I was definitely b b B. I

1013
00:48:48,800 --> 00:48:51,279
Speaker 1: was definitely in a situation with a guy who I

1014
00:48:51,320 --> 00:48:56,520
Speaker 1: think he was more he was more into impressing me,

1015
00:48:56,520 --> 00:48:58,920
Speaker 1: and I'm like, yo, like I'm not like, I'm okay,

1016
00:48:59,040 --> 00:49:00,440
Speaker 1: as long as you're doing with you got to do

1017
00:49:00,480 --> 00:49:02,600
Speaker 1: to make your money and to get where you're going,

1018
00:49:02,800 --> 00:49:06,520
Speaker 1: and you're hustling and you're out here really trying, Like

1019
00:49:06,640 --> 00:49:09,799
Speaker 1: I'm okay, you don't have to have a whole like

1020
00:49:09,840 --> 00:49:11,720
Speaker 1: we're going to put that. We're going to do that together.

1021
00:49:11,800 --> 00:49:14,240
Speaker 1: Like that's where I men now, like, let's build together.

1022
00:49:14,480 --> 00:49:17,759
Speaker 1: I think more women are accepting that if they can

1023
00:49:17,800 --> 00:49:18,880
Speaker 1: see that you're ambitious.

1024
00:49:19,080 --> 00:49:23,960
Speaker 2: Yeah, no, no, no, I think it's a newer thing because

1025
00:49:24,160 --> 00:49:26,560
Speaker 2: there was a long period of time. Well, I think

1026
00:49:26,560 --> 00:49:27,000
Speaker 2: it's more of.

1027
00:49:27,000 --> 00:49:27,839
Speaker 1: A maturity thing.

1028
00:49:27,920 --> 00:49:31,359
Speaker 2: Yeah, yeah, that is because like that, I mean, I

1029
00:49:31,400 --> 00:49:34,120
Speaker 2: was never brought up like that. So whenever I would

1030
00:49:34,120 --> 00:49:37,040
Speaker 2: see the conversation about or like even just chatting to

1031
00:49:37,040 --> 00:49:39,440
Speaker 2: my girlfriends, yeah, and all my girlfriends being like he

1032
00:49:39,440 --> 00:49:42,359
Speaker 2: needs to have this, this, this, Yeah, I've never had that.

1033
00:49:42,640 --> 00:49:45,759
Speaker 2: So but but also you think, I think if you're

1034
00:49:45,760 --> 00:49:49,719
Speaker 2: an I think if you're an ambitious woman, you you

1035
00:49:49,840 --> 00:49:53,200
Speaker 2: maybe expect you don't. I don't know how to explain it.

1036
00:49:53,239 --> 00:49:56,960
Speaker 2: I feel like when you're okay, Like for me, I've

1037
00:49:57,440 --> 00:50:00,440
Speaker 2: for for quite a long time now, always had ambition,

1038
00:50:01,040 --> 00:50:05,080
Speaker 2: always been financially okay, not not financially fantastic, but like

1039
00:50:05,120 --> 00:50:08,160
Speaker 2: I can look after myself. So I've never I've never

1040
00:50:08,239 --> 00:50:10,920
Speaker 2: expected a man to look after me. I think, you know.

1041
00:50:10,920 --> 00:50:13,000
Speaker 1: It's crazy. One of my friends always says, I can't

1042
00:50:13,000 --> 00:50:14,480
Speaker 1: wait till I get some money so I can date

1043
00:50:14,520 --> 00:50:16,960
Speaker 1: who I want to want to day, That's what she says.

1044
00:50:17,200 --> 00:50:19,440
Speaker 1: I want it, yeah, and.

1045
00:50:19,480 --> 00:50:22,120
Speaker 3: So yeah that might be scared.

1046
00:50:22,719 --> 00:50:24,799
Speaker 1: What is true too. It's like it's like how we

1047
00:50:24,800 --> 00:50:27,840
Speaker 1: were speaking like a guy treats you how like, so

1048
00:50:28,000 --> 00:50:30,000
Speaker 1: this girl had the Steve Madden bag and I loved

1049
00:50:30,000 --> 00:50:32,200
Speaker 1: my Steve Mannen bag, and she's like, we're gonna have

1050
00:50:32,239 --> 00:50:33,680
Speaker 1: to work on getting you your name or a bag

1051
00:50:33,680 --> 00:50:35,960
Speaker 1: because when you meet him in if he sees you

1052
00:50:36,000 --> 00:50:38,160
Speaker 1: with a Steve mannenbag, that's the level he's going to

1053
00:50:38,239 --> 00:50:40,839
Speaker 1: treat you. And I was like, to me, it's kind

1054
00:50:40,840 --> 00:50:43,080
Speaker 1: of like if a man got it and he sees

1055
00:50:43,120 --> 00:50:47,239
Speaker 1: me and he likes me, and he's really want he's

1056
00:50:47,239 --> 00:50:49,399
Speaker 1: gonna he's gonna level me up, Like I don't want

1057
00:50:49,400 --> 00:50:51,080
Speaker 1: to be with no one, Like I can't be with you.

1058
00:50:51,120 --> 00:50:52,839
Speaker 1: And you got a whole lot of money and you

1059
00:50:52,840 --> 00:50:55,600
Speaker 1: see me out here working hard, you know, you see

1060
00:50:55,640 --> 00:50:57,600
Speaker 1: me out here being ambitious all of this, and you're

1061
00:50:57,600 --> 00:51:00,080
Speaker 1: not helping me out. I would do it for you

1062
00:51:00,239 --> 00:51:02,920
Speaker 1: with money. Also, I find that come from money, they

1063
00:51:02,920 --> 00:51:04,799
Speaker 1: don't really care about name brand things like.

1064
00:51:04,760 --> 00:51:07,720
Speaker 3: That because it's a raise of money.

1065
00:51:07,800 --> 00:51:10,840
Speaker 1: Yeah yeah, because they and they also like I just

1066
00:51:10,920 --> 00:51:13,400
Speaker 1: could buy something because they like it, you know what

1067
00:51:13,480 --> 00:51:15,400
Speaker 1: I'm saying, and they're not thinking like I got to

1068
00:51:15,400 --> 00:51:19,560
Speaker 1: get to prove that right, yeah, you know, So it's

1069
00:51:19,560 --> 00:51:21,920
Speaker 1: with the money that really be So I grew up

1070
00:51:21,920 --> 00:51:25,919
Speaker 1: without money, so I like me too. But I find

1071
00:51:26,040 --> 00:51:28,279
Speaker 1: to myself, I do like what I understand. If I

1072
00:51:28,320 --> 00:51:31,760
Speaker 1: can't afford, I'm gonna get it. But even still, sometimes

1073
00:51:31,800 --> 00:51:34,279
Speaker 1: I'm like sometimes when we go with Loves to shop,

1074
00:51:34,840 --> 00:51:37,640
Speaker 1: I'm like, and you're really gonna pay five thousand dollars

1075
00:51:37,680 --> 00:51:38,280
Speaker 1: for that bag?

1076
00:51:39,200 --> 00:51:39,800
Speaker 3: Are you sure?

1077
00:51:40,120 --> 00:51:42,439
Speaker 1: Are you sure? I can't do it no more now?

1078
00:51:42,640 --> 00:51:46,600
Speaker 1: And I think I have responsibilities now. I think financially

1079
00:51:46,680 --> 00:51:49,200
Speaker 1: I am responsible. Like when things are going really well

1080
00:51:49,239 --> 00:51:52,880
Speaker 1: for me, I will like treat myself and buy something

1081
00:51:53,120 --> 00:51:55,520
Speaker 1: really nice. But when I know, like when I have

1082
00:51:55,640 --> 00:51:58,480
Speaker 1: a lot of investments out, I gotta stop doing that.

1083
00:51:58,520 --> 00:52:00,400
Speaker 1: And I can you know what I mean, Like I

1084
00:52:00,440 --> 00:52:02,480
Speaker 1: know when I have to stab and I know when

1085
00:52:02,520 --> 00:52:05,239
Speaker 1: I have a goal of something financy that I need

1086
00:52:05,239 --> 00:52:07,480
Speaker 1: to reach, I know, Okay, I can't. I'm not I

1087
00:52:07,560 --> 00:52:09,560
Speaker 1: can't do this right now. And if I have a goal,

1088
00:52:09,640 --> 00:52:11,360
Speaker 1: it's great. Like I like to set a goal for

1089
00:52:11,440 --> 00:52:14,760
Speaker 1: myself and save up money and really make sacrifices until

1090
00:52:14,800 --> 00:52:15,360
Speaker 1: I get to that.

1091
00:52:15,640 --> 00:52:16,520
Speaker 4: Yeah.

1092
00:52:16,600 --> 00:52:19,120
Speaker 2: I think I just like a man that's aware and

1093
00:52:19,280 --> 00:52:21,600
Speaker 2: like aware of himself and aware of what he wants

1094
00:52:21,760 --> 00:52:23,400
Speaker 2: if and aware of what he wants to do. Like

1095
00:52:23,480 --> 00:52:26,560
Speaker 2: even I remember when I when I first met my guy.

1096
00:52:26,640 --> 00:52:29,719
Speaker 2: Obviously he was like fresh out of college. He was

1097
00:52:30,080 --> 00:52:32,719
Speaker 2: studying to be a lawyer, but also doing music. That

1098
00:52:32,880 --> 00:52:36,960
Speaker 2: in itself just like like I like him, right, Yeah,

1099
00:52:38,040 --> 00:52:41,440
Speaker 2: he reads books, but he wasn't adding any money. And

1100
00:52:41,440 --> 00:52:44,080
Speaker 2: it's really funny because when we finally came to the

1101
00:52:44,400 --> 00:52:47,480
Speaker 2: discussion about moving in together, I remember saying to him, like,

1102
00:52:47,520 --> 00:52:49,080
Speaker 2: you know, like you can come live with me. I

1103
00:52:49,120 --> 00:52:50,920
Speaker 2: love this man. So this is the first man that

1104
00:52:50,960 --> 00:52:52,880
Speaker 2: I said, you can come and be with me, and

1105
00:52:52,920 --> 00:52:54,239
Speaker 2: he was like, I don't want to do that, not

1106
00:52:54,400 --> 00:52:57,440
Speaker 2: until I can do that. I remember thinking, God, I've

1107
00:52:57,480 --> 00:53:01,520
Speaker 2: never dated a man that's actually aware that like you know,

1108
00:53:01,640 --> 00:53:05,000
Speaker 2: like being in my space and not being able to

1109
00:53:05,800 --> 00:53:09,239
Speaker 2: afford to be there. So for me, it's not that

1110
00:53:09,280 --> 00:53:11,840
Speaker 2: it's even about money. It's just about it's just about

1111
00:53:11,840 --> 00:53:14,080
Speaker 2: having a man that's aware, because I definitely have had

1112
00:53:14,160 --> 00:53:17,200
Speaker 2: men who have had money. I'm going to buy me

1113
00:53:17,280 --> 00:53:19,319
Speaker 2: things and then it's just emotionally not been there.

1114
00:53:19,480 --> 00:53:22,919
Speaker 1: Yeah you know, yeah, time is the most important thing.

1115
00:53:23,440 --> 00:53:26,920
Speaker 7: Yeah, a lot of men just don't know a lot

1116
00:53:26,920 --> 00:53:29,480
Speaker 7: of men just don't know real talk because like you

1117
00:53:29,760 --> 00:53:32,680
Speaker 7: said something earlier, like most young men want their their

1118
00:53:32,680 --> 00:53:33,560
Speaker 7: girls to be their moms.

1119
00:53:34,000 --> 00:53:36,640
Speaker 4: And it's a fact. It's all these we put. I

1120
00:53:36,640 --> 00:53:39,480
Speaker 4: feel like all of our traumas on our partners very young,

1121
00:53:39,719 --> 00:53:40,719
Speaker 4: very young, you know what I'm saying.

1122
00:53:41,000 --> 00:53:44,239
Speaker 3: And they're not the same thing for the girls though

1123
00:53:44,840 --> 00:53:48,000
Speaker 3: they do it too, Like it's it's both parties realistically,

1124
00:53:48,040 --> 00:53:50,120
Speaker 3: Like it doesn't matter what home you come from. If

1125
00:53:50,160 --> 00:53:52,600
Speaker 3: you home is disrupted at a young age, you're going

1126
00:53:52,640 --> 00:53:54,680
Speaker 3: to have problem. That's what I've seen, you know what

1127
00:53:54,719 --> 00:53:58,040
Speaker 3: I'm saying. So it's it's just a mutting because we

1128
00:53:58,080 --> 00:54:00,359
Speaker 3: don't know until you get older and then you go thing.

1129
00:54:00,400 --> 00:54:03,839
Speaker 3: You look yourself like you're okay, Uh do I want

1130
00:54:03,840 --> 00:54:04,480
Speaker 3: to keep living like this?

1131
00:54:04,520 --> 00:54:06,480
Speaker 4: You know? I won't change and tell them things happen.

1132
00:54:07,600 --> 00:54:10,759
Speaker 1: Let me ask you this. Can you have amazing sex

1133
00:54:10,800 --> 00:54:12,160
Speaker 1: with somebody you don't love?

1134
00:54:13,080 --> 00:54:20,760
Speaker 3: Yeah, okay, I've done that, yes good, Yeah, but amazing

1135
00:54:21,280 --> 00:54:21,719
Speaker 3: I've done that.

1136
00:54:22,960 --> 00:54:24,200
Speaker 4: Yeah, I'm way too passionate.

1137
00:54:24,760 --> 00:54:27,160
Speaker 1: So interesting. The one guy in the room says no,

1138
00:54:28,080 --> 00:54:31,320
Speaker 1: So I wasn't in love with them, but after the sex,

1139
00:54:31,520 --> 00:54:34,800
Speaker 1: I fell in love. You know, I know it was amazing,

1140
00:54:36,480 --> 00:54:38,759
Speaker 1: you know, and that was amazing. I was like, I

1141
00:54:38,800 --> 00:54:42,400
Speaker 1: think I'm in love with the dick that I've been

1142
00:54:42,400 --> 00:54:46,759
Speaker 1: in love with the cool all right, so you said, yes,

1143
00:54:46,840 --> 00:54:50,040
Speaker 1: you can have amazing sex with somebody that okay, or

1144
00:54:50,080 --> 00:54:51,279
Speaker 1: you know so you have.

1145
00:54:52,040 --> 00:54:53,280
Speaker 2: Oh no, I know so okay.

1146
00:54:53,360 --> 00:54:57,560
Speaker 1: See see definitely I agree. I've done that.

1147
00:54:57,680 --> 00:55:01,799
Speaker 2: I think it was. It just depends what kind of

1148
00:55:01,840 --> 00:55:06,160
Speaker 2: sexual partner you are. I think I am probably someone

1149
00:55:06,200 --> 00:55:11,279
Speaker 2: who enjoys sex and like I can release all of

1150
00:55:11,320 --> 00:55:14,040
Speaker 2: those emotions whilst having sex with something that I don't love.

1151
00:55:15,480 --> 00:55:15,839
Speaker 1: That is.

1152
00:55:16,200 --> 00:55:17,799
Speaker 4: I feel that because I used to be like that.

1153
00:55:18,000 --> 00:55:20,640
Speaker 1: So I feel that you said you said no, So

1154
00:55:20,680 --> 00:55:21,960
Speaker 1: that's interesting.

1155
00:55:21,719 --> 00:55:24,800
Speaker 3: Because I'm too passionate now, like I can't have someone

1156
00:55:24,880 --> 00:55:25,719
Speaker 3: you used to be able to.

1157
00:55:25,880 --> 00:55:29,239
Speaker 4: Well yeah, but I just love sex, right, I love love.

1158
00:55:29,320 --> 00:55:31,439
Speaker 3: I want to make love to you with and fuck

1159
00:55:31,480 --> 00:55:34,279
Speaker 3: you crazy. You know what I'm saying, because but I

1160
00:55:34,320 --> 00:55:34,600
Speaker 3: love you.

1161
00:55:34,760 --> 00:55:37,080
Speaker 4: That's what I want. I'm a while.

1162
00:55:40,360 --> 00:55:42,520
Speaker 1: I've had some make love and fuck me crazy. This

1163
00:55:42,600 --> 00:55:47,640
Speaker 1: past week with my new fiance. Day two, I woke

1164
00:55:47,719 --> 00:55:51,120
Speaker 1: up with two biggs and I walked around like that

1165
00:55:51,239 --> 00:55:55,040
Speaker 1: for like four days. They were huge. Yes, I was

1166
00:55:55,080 --> 00:55:59,160
Speaker 1: so proud that you can see them. We went to

1167
00:55:59,239 --> 00:56:02,560
Speaker 1: dinner and I was just like, what what makes you

1168
00:56:02,640 --> 00:56:03,600
Speaker 1: amazing and wild?

1169
00:56:05,840 --> 00:56:06,520
Speaker 3: You want to go here?

1170
00:56:07,320 --> 00:56:08,280
Speaker 1: Your one lip service?

1171
00:56:08,640 --> 00:56:08,680
Speaker 4: You?

1172
00:56:09,480 --> 00:56:11,759
Speaker 3: Well listen, I know how I know, just know, I

1173
00:56:11,800 --> 00:56:18,160
Speaker 3: know exactly what I need to do with my partner initiative. Listen,

1174
00:56:18,440 --> 00:56:21,040
Speaker 3: we ain't going there you you don't eat out even

1175
00:56:21,040 --> 00:56:22,160
Speaker 3: talking about that, you don't eat.

1176
00:56:22,160 --> 00:56:23,759
Speaker 4: I'm just talking about what I know what to do,

1177
00:56:23,760 --> 00:56:26,080
Speaker 4: and I know what to do, but you don't even

1178
00:56:26,160 --> 00:56:26,719
Speaker 4: I ain't.

1179
00:56:26,480 --> 00:56:27,960
Speaker 1: Talking about it's not that.

1180
00:56:27,920 --> 00:56:30,279
Speaker 3: Initiative close saying yes to know.

1181
00:56:30,760 --> 00:56:34,279
Speaker 4: I'm just saying I know what to do, so you

1182
00:56:34,280 --> 00:56:35,400
Speaker 4: need to listen.

1183
00:56:35,480 --> 00:56:39,359
Speaker 3: I'm saying I know what's to tell.

1184
00:56:40,640 --> 00:56:40,960
Speaker 2: I know it.

1185
00:56:41,040 --> 00:56:51,600
Speaker 3: All this is from one of the girl killing you.

1186
00:56:51,680 --> 00:56:56,680
Speaker 4: Wow nothing.

1187
00:56:59,560 --> 00:56:59,719
Speaker 6: You know?

1188
00:56:59,840 --> 00:57:01,640
Speaker 1: What have you don't have to answer to answer? You

1189
00:57:01,760 --> 00:57:06,000
Speaker 1: already answered. But what's wild? Though? Like what's wild?

1190
00:57:06,200 --> 00:57:06,719
Speaker 3: I'm trying to.

1191
00:57:07,560 --> 00:57:08,279
Speaker 4: I'll pick you up.

1192
00:57:08,320 --> 00:57:15,000
Speaker 3: Come on, I'm doing that, like and what slapping like

1193
00:57:15,120 --> 00:57:17,560
Speaker 3: all that, and then I'm just all this love and.

1194
00:57:20,480 --> 00:57:23,440
Speaker 4: Yes, okay, yes I do. It's all that advice.

1195
00:57:23,600 --> 00:57:24,880
Speaker 1: Have you ever had marks afterwards?

1196
00:57:25,040 --> 00:57:25,240
Speaker 6: Yes?

1197
00:57:25,720 --> 00:57:27,960
Speaker 1: Are like yes, like.

1198
00:57:29,400 --> 00:57:30,680
Speaker 3: Listen, pull off the toys.

1199
00:57:30,800 --> 00:57:31,200
Speaker 1: We're doing.

1200
00:57:31,400 --> 00:57:34,800
Speaker 3: We're doing tour the time. Yeah, toys at a time,

1201
00:57:35,600 --> 00:57:41,520
Speaker 3: my toy and her to a wild boy like I'm

1202
00:57:41,520 --> 00:57:46,960
Speaker 3: not I love different like positions like I'll go crazy,

1203
00:57:47,000 --> 00:57:47,440
Speaker 3: like I just.

1204
00:57:47,440 --> 00:57:50,360
Speaker 1: What's the longest you've gone? Like all day?

1205
00:57:50,520 --> 00:57:50,720
Speaker 2: Yo?

1206
00:57:51,440 --> 00:57:57,120
Speaker 4: No days? Okay, it was like two whole three whole days.

1207
00:57:57,120 --> 00:58:00,200
Speaker 4: This was my girl. It was like just days. Were

1208
00:58:00,240 --> 00:58:02,600
Speaker 4: just going out and I said, oh, my.

1209
00:58:04,920 --> 00:58:11,000
Speaker 1: Things, what is the wildest place you ever had sex?

1210
00:58:11,160 --> 00:58:12,440
Speaker 1: The wildest place?

1211
00:58:12,680 --> 00:58:16,000
Speaker 4: Oh, an economy.

1212
00:58:15,480 --> 00:58:21,040
Speaker 1: Flag on the economy flight, my spirit, Yeah, right in

1213
00:58:21,080 --> 00:58:22,800
Speaker 1: the toilet in the seas.

1214
00:58:23,400 --> 00:58:27,640
Speaker 4: No, she was up, she was standing up on a flight. Yeah. Well, yeah,

1215
00:58:27,680 --> 00:58:29,680
Speaker 4: we're in the bathroom. She stood up with the bathroom.

1216
00:58:29,760 --> 00:58:32,360
Speaker 1: How did y'all go in the bathroom together without people?

1217
00:58:32,840 --> 00:58:34,240
Speaker 4: Everybody's sleep is a long flight.

1218
00:58:34,360 --> 00:58:38,320
Speaker 1: Okay, that's smart. That's what I told my friends the bathroom.

1219
00:58:38,440 --> 00:58:41,720
Speaker 1: The flat attendant just let them be yea, we know

1220
00:58:41,760 --> 00:58:45,959
Speaker 1: how to fun quiet? How long did it last?

1221
00:58:46,200 --> 00:58:47,560
Speaker 4: That had to be a quick I can't remember.

1222
00:58:48,480 --> 00:58:50,960
Speaker 1: You are you're normally loud? If it if it's not?

1223
00:58:51,080 --> 00:58:53,800
Speaker 4: Like, yeah, because I know how to funk quiet like

1224
00:58:54,000 --> 00:58:54,440
Speaker 4: the past?

1225
00:58:54,880 --> 00:58:57,040
Speaker 1: Are you like when you're able to let loose? Are

1226
00:58:57,040 --> 00:59:01,000
Speaker 1: you loud when you're in the house. Yes, he's loud.

1227
00:59:01,320 --> 00:59:05,040
Speaker 3: Let me say, give us an exacle, whisper loud.

1228
00:59:06,280 --> 00:59:07,680
Speaker 1: I can whisper very loudly.

1229
00:59:08,480 --> 00:59:10,120
Speaker 4: Yeah, I know, I know how to whisper loud.

1230
00:59:10,160 --> 00:59:12,920
Speaker 3: But if somebody up and they hear, they will probably hear,

1231
00:59:13,040 --> 00:59:14,920
Speaker 3: or if they like right there and they passed them

1232
00:59:14,920 --> 00:59:19,000
Speaker 3: out the room. If you I like when guys are loud,

1233
00:59:19,040 --> 00:59:19,480
Speaker 3: what do you think?

1234
00:59:19,640 --> 00:59:22,760
Speaker 1: Hell, when guys make a lot of noise, not too much,

1235
00:59:22,840 --> 00:59:24,040
Speaker 1: but like no, but just.

1236
00:59:23,960 --> 00:59:26,320
Speaker 2: A little grunt, just something to make me know. Yeah,

1237
00:59:26,360 --> 00:59:29,680
Speaker 2: it's good. When when when a man, I mean, listen,

1238
00:59:29,800 --> 00:59:31,560
Speaker 2: let me just say now, sorry dad, but when a

1239
00:59:31,640 --> 00:59:35,680
Speaker 2: man listen, my father will kill me. But when a

1240
00:59:35,760 --> 00:59:38,240
Speaker 2: man is silent, it really doesn't do anything for me,

1241
00:59:38,400 --> 00:59:39,440
Speaker 2: Like I need you to to.

1242
00:59:39,480 --> 00:59:42,320
Speaker 1: Let me know. Yeah, assurance. Yeah.

1243
00:59:42,480 --> 00:59:44,480
Speaker 2: And also because that's the only time that you really

1244
00:59:44,720 --> 00:59:46,280
Speaker 2: hear a man make a noise like that.

1245
00:59:47,080 --> 00:59:52,240
Speaker 1: They're vulnerable. It's like a vulnerable time. It's making how

1246
00:59:52,680 --> 00:59:57,720
Speaker 1: I feel like where you're into it and like they're

1247
00:59:57,720 --> 00:59:59,960
Speaker 1: saying you're so into and they whisper and something you're like,

1248
01:00:00,840 --> 01:00:04,760
Speaker 1: wait what you say? Oh my god, I hear you

1249
01:00:05,360 --> 01:00:07,760
Speaker 1: like you guys, speak up. Doesn't that kill the mood

1250
01:00:07,800 --> 01:00:09,400
Speaker 1: a little? Because I'm just like, I didn't hear you.

1251
01:00:09,400 --> 01:00:09,880
Speaker 1: I'm sorry.

1252
01:00:11,160 --> 01:00:14,880
Speaker 3: There was a girl doing laughing they giggling during section ship.

1253
01:00:16,440 --> 01:00:19,560
Speaker 4: That like, I'm.

1254
01:00:19,400 --> 01:00:21,800
Speaker 1: Not gonna lie. I did laugh when I'm not doing sex.

1255
01:00:21,800 --> 01:00:23,439
Speaker 1: When I was on shrooms before.

1256
01:00:23,600 --> 01:00:26,680
Speaker 4: What I laughed, It's not like a regular thing.

1257
01:00:27,000 --> 01:00:33,440
Speaker 1: I laughed when my pussy farted. Queen hilarious, you have

1258
01:00:33,640 --> 01:00:37,080
Speaker 1: acknowledge it. I was like a moment's.

1259
01:00:41,280 --> 01:00:43,840
Speaker 3: Casual laugh, like you actually okay, like you know, let's

1260
01:00:43,840 --> 01:00:47,040
Speaker 3: go okay.

1261
01:00:46,480 --> 01:00:51,959
Speaker 1: I don't know, Yeah, I don't know what are you doing.

1262
01:00:52,520 --> 01:00:55,000
Speaker 2: I had a girl say that that's an eck when

1263
01:00:55,040 --> 01:00:57,720
Speaker 2: you're like if you're there and he whispers and then

1264
01:00:57,760 --> 01:00:59,560
Speaker 2: you have to say yeah.

1265
01:01:00,720 --> 01:01:04,560
Speaker 1: Yeah, it's so annoying to me, and then I just yeah, louder.

1266
01:01:04,680 --> 01:01:07,520
Speaker 1: It's like I said, I'm like, oh my god, let

1267
01:01:07,520 --> 01:01:10,120
Speaker 1: it go nothing. Oh baby, this was good, Like you

1268
01:01:10,160 --> 01:01:12,480
Speaker 1: could have just what about my guys dirty talk? But

1269
01:01:12,520 --> 01:01:17,360
Speaker 1: then they say some ship and you're like, yeah, I

1270
01:01:17,360 --> 01:01:19,200
Speaker 1: don't think it's doing what it's supposed to be doing,

1271
01:01:19,520 --> 01:01:26,760
Speaker 1: giving but it's supposed to get me dry. So there

1272
01:01:26,880 --> 01:01:28,640
Speaker 1: was a I don't know, was it like a meme

1273
01:01:28,760 --> 01:01:31,120
Speaker 1: or something where there was like women when you're when

1274
01:01:31,120 --> 01:01:32,760
Speaker 1: you re riding them from the top and like you're

1275
01:01:32,800 --> 01:01:35,520
Speaker 1: laying on them and you grind in your click like

1276
01:01:35,560 --> 01:01:37,360
Speaker 1: that that doesn't do nothing for the man, Like you

1277
01:01:37,400 --> 01:01:40,920
Speaker 1: don't like that's not a good it's painful.

1278
01:01:41,480 --> 01:01:45,920
Speaker 4: Really yeah, waitful.

1279
01:01:46,120 --> 01:01:49,720
Speaker 1: I was like when I heard that, I was like, grinding.

1280
01:01:49,880 --> 01:01:57,280
Speaker 3: I love it.

1281
01:01:57,880 --> 01:01:59,959
Speaker 1: So that's why she lets me lift them up and grind,

1282
01:02:00,160 --> 01:02:04,000
Speaker 1: You're like, and then just put the sitting up. That's

1283
01:02:04,040 --> 01:02:04,440
Speaker 1: what I do.

1284
01:02:04,720 --> 01:02:06,360
Speaker 3: I mean, that's the niggas gotta be comfortable.

1285
01:02:06,440 --> 01:02:08,760
Speaker 1: You just grow. Yeah, Like I just lift him up,

1286
01:02:09,040 --> 01:02:12,040
Speaker 1: lift his legs up. No, no, I'm on top, but

1287
01:02:12,120 --> 01:02:14,600
Speaker 1: I make him come up, set up. Like we're saying,

1288
01:02:15,000 --> 01:02:19,560
Speaker 1: oh yeah riding, I just set him up and fels

1289
01:02:19,560 --> 01:02:27,280
Speaker 1: because like now I'm going up and down. But my clitters, yeah,

1290
01:02:27,320 --> 01:02:30,000
Speaker 1: no they can. But they say that from us grinding

1291
01:02:30,080 --> 01:02:31,200
Speaker 1: on the clip, that.

1292
01:02:30,960 --> 01:02:31,840
Speaker 4: That doesn't do nothing.

1293
01:02:31,880 --> 01:02:34,720
Speaker 3: But when you do not grinding, yeah, it's like doing nothing.

1294
01:02:34,720 --> 01:02:36,760
Speaker 3: It's more like she said you have to do.

1295
01:02:36,880 --> 01:02:41,160
Speaker 1: But when you're right, isn't that getting the like you're

1296
01:02:41,160 --> 01:02:43,400
Speaker 1: getting it all inside you? Don't They like that? Like

1297
01:02:44,320 --> 01:02:46,640
Speaker 1: all the way. Yeah. Well no, it's like you're on

1298
01:02:46,720 --> 01:02:48,640
Speaker 1: top of them, but you're laying and you you know

1299
01:02:48,680 --> 01:02:51,520
Speaker 1: how you grind and you like to rub your glitters

1300
01:02:51,880 --> 01:02:56,480
Speaker 1: like there's visuals. Yeah, I'm not doing it's just like

1301
01:02:56,760 --> 01:02:59,200
Speaker 1: you're just betting it, like yeah.

1302
01:03:00,200 --> 01:03:02,320
Speaker 3: And I was like, so they don't like that.

1303
01:03:02,400 --> 01:03:08,880
Speaker 1: It feels so good to me, But I learned now.

1304
01:03:09,000 --> 01:03:10,840
Speaker 1: I was like, I just make them come up and

1305
01:03:10,880 --> 01:03:15,040
Speaker 1: I grind because I'm still going up and down. Listen.

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01:03:15,160 --> 01:03:16,000
Speaker 3: I don't know.

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01:03:16,160 --> 01:03:16,720
Speaker 6: It was great.

1308
01:03:17,200 --> 01:03:19,120
Speaker 3: I love that somebody is so sensual.

1309
01:03:19,560 --> 01:03:25,000
Speaker 1: Yeah, always a tutor. I said, you still believe that

1310
01:03:25,600 --> 01:03:29,000
Speaker 1: I do. You don't think that people could cheat, make

1311
01:03:29,040 --> 01:03:30,440
Speaker 1: mistakes and in that cheat anymore?

1312
01:03:31,520 --> 01:03:34,160
Speaker 2: Yes, okay, so I do think that, but I don't

1313
01:03:34,160 --> 01:03:36,680
Speaker 2: think that. I didn't think that the statement is saying

1314
01:03:36,800 --> 01:03:38,240
Speaker 2: if you cheat on me, you're going to cheat on

1315
01:03:38,280 --> 01:03:41,000
Speaker 2: me again. I think the statement is saying you're a cheat,

1316
01:03:41,080 --> 01:03:43,880
Speaker 2: so you'll always be a cheat. And I think that's

1317
01:03:44,080 --> 01:03:47,200
Speaker 2: how I feel when I like, for me, if you

1318
01:03:47,280 --> 01:03:50,760
Speaker 2: cheat it on me. The reason why I I personally

1319
01:03:50,760 --> 01:03:55,240
Speaker 2: can't go any further is because that's that that deceiving,

1320
01:03:55,440 --> 01:03:56,760
Speaker 2: lying nature.

1321
01:03:57,400 --> 01:04:00,400
Speaker 3: You'll always be to me yeahreat in your head.

1322
01:04:00,440 --> 01:04:03,000
Speaker 2: That's what I mean when I say I definitely think

1323
01:04:03,000 --> 01:04:05,360
Speaker 2: that people can change. And I imagine that you know,

1324
01:04:05,400 --> 01:04:06,800
Speaker 2: he could cheat on me and then they a new

1325
01:04:06,800 --> 01:04:08,600
Speaker 2: girl and not cheat on her. Of course, that don't

1326
01:04:08,640 --> 01:04:09,600
Speaker 2: mean that he didn't cheat on me.

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01:04:09,800 --> 01:04:12,840
Speaker 1: Okay, you're with the cheater, so you don't be spinning

1328
01:04:12,880 --> 01:04:16,439
Speaker 1: the black and you don't give those second chances even

1329
01:04:16,440 --> 01:04:20,960
Speaker 1: if the So that's a non negotiable, non negotiable deal breaker. Yeah,

1330
01:04:21,280 --> 01:04:23,360
Speaker 1: you're probably they can keep it moving.

1331
01:04:24,680 --> 01:04:27,360
Speaker 3: I mean, I would like I also funk with you,

1332
01:04:27,360 --> 01:04:29,720
Speaker 3: but I'm not fucking with you on that love because

1333
01:04:29,760 --> 01:04:31,760
Speaker 3: I know that Okay, that's how you are. But what's

1334
01:04:31,760 --> 01:04:34,560
Speaker 3: the point then, Well, in a sense, because I nobody perfect,

1335
01:04:34,600 --> 01:04:36,560
Speaker 3: so how can how do I know I'm not going

1336
01:04:36,640 --> 01:04:38,440
Speaker 3: to make a mistake and not want somebody to do.

1337
01:04:38,640 --> 01:04:41,280
Speaker 1: If you're never gonna message my dad level, then it

1338
01:04:41,400 --> 01:04:42,720
Speaker 1: is kind of over because then you're.

1339
01:04:42,560 --> 01:04:47,959
Speaker 3: Still That's because I talk my men through it like okay,

1340
01:04:48,000 --> 01:04:50,880
Speaker 3: for instance, like Surety who the gang and ship like okay,

1341
01:04:50,960 --> 01:04:53,720
Speaker 3: yeah you you did that, and I keep, I keep

1342
01:04:53,960 --> 01:04:56,800
Speaker 3: I'm not gonna this you and be like okay, fuck you,

1343
01:04:56,840 --> 01:04:58,160
Speaker 3: but I'm not gonna let you be my girl.

1344
01:04:58,200 --> 01:04:59,200
Speaker 4: You're never getting that title.

1345
01:04:59,680 --> 01:05:03,919
Speaker 1: Just sex with her again? And do you think about that? Like, okay,

1346
01:05:03,920 --> 01:05:06,400
Speaker 1: I always wanted this. When when a guy gets cheated

1347
01:05:06,400 --> 01:05:08,600
Speaker 1: on and the girl comes back and you still do it,

1348
01:05:08,720 --> 01:05:10,520
Speaker 1: do you think about it ever? Because I know if

1349
01:05:10,520 --> 01:05:12,040
Speaker 1: you have sex with a guy who cheated on you, you

1350
01:05:12,040 --> 01:05:12,600
Speaker 1: think about it.

1351
01:05:12,680 --> 01:05:16,000
Speaker 4: Yeah, yeah, you think about it. And that's why I

1352
01:05:16,000 --> 01:05:17,440
Speaker 4: don't go back, because.

1353
01:05:17,160 --> 01:05:20,600
Speaker 3: It's like it depends on for me, Like I know,

1354
01:05:20,640 --> 01:05:23,280
Speaker 3: everybody in perfect especially if you're young, everybody goes through ship.

1355
01:05:23,360 --> 01:05:25,800
Speaker 3: So we're gonna make a mistake, You're gonna feel something.

1356
01:05:25,840 --> 01:05:27,360
Speaker 3: I don't even know how I even played a part

1357
01:05:27,400 --> 01:05:29,640
Speaker 3: into you feeling like that. I just can't be that

1358
01:05:29,720 --> 01:05:31,600
Speaker 3: credle person for me, right, I just got to look

1359
01:05:31,640 --> 01:05:33,720
Speaker 3: at every angle before I be like, okay, yeah, that's

1360
01:05:33,760 --> 01:05:36,400
Speaker 3: you right. I don't know what I played, what position

1361
01:05:36,480 --> 01:05:38,840
Speaker 3: I played, role I played, but it was I maybe

1362
01:05:39,000 --> 01:05:41,560
Speaker 3: not giving you enough. Maybe you needed more and I couldn't,

1363
01:05:41,720 --> 01:05:43,320
Speaker 3: and you didn't know how to communicate me that with me,

1364
01:05:43,520 --> 01:05:45,360
Speaker 3: it's shipped like that that I have to just keep

1365
01:05:45,400 --> 01:05:48,280
Speaker 3: the possibility open just to analyze and see what the

1366
01:05:48,280 --> 01:05:50,400
Speaker 3: hell is going on and then okay, boom, I'm gonna

1367
01:05:50,400 --> 01:05:51,440
Speaker 3: move on and keep you here.

1368
01:05:51,440 --> 01:05:54,000
Speaker 1: I'm gonna keep you here for whatever. Right, So now

1369
01:05:54,040 --> 01:06:00,320
Speaker 1: I understand this mixed emotions, all right, because this Friday.

1370
01:06:00,080 --> 01:06:02,480
Speaker 2: They say like that. I think I used to be

1371
01:06:02,520 --> 01:06:04,520
Speaker 2: more like that. I think I used to maybe try

1372
01:06:04,560 --> 01:06:06,520
Speaker 2: and figure out the part I played.

1373
01:06:06,760 --> 01:06:09,640
Speaker 1: Yeah, you don't have time, but that ship I feel

1374
01:06:09,680 --> 01:06:12,680
Speaker 1: you know, what do you consider cheating?

1375
01:06:13,560 --> 01:06:19,160
Speaker 3: Ah? And I mean it's are you entertaining somebody else's

1376
01:06:19,200 --> 01:06:20,120
Speaker 3: feelings pleasures?

1377
01:06:20,440 --> 01:06:23,640
Speaker 1: I feel like anything in front of your partner.

1378
01:06:23,440 --> 01:06:25,840
Speaker 4: Is she didn't Yeah, like.

1379
01:06:25,880 --> 01:06:28,400
Speaker 1: On an emotional level, on a physical level, if you

1380
01:06:28,400 --> 01:06:30,720
Speaker 1: feel like you can't say these things or do these

1381
01:06:30,760 --> 01:06:33,680
Speaker 1: actions and it's okay to do and with your partner

1382
01:06:33,720 --> 01:06:35,920
Speaker 1: besides you were in the room, then I feel like

1383
01:06:36,000 --> 01:06:39,200
Speaker 1: then that's a violation to your relationship. Okay, Let's say

1384
01:06:39,240 --> 01:06:40,640
Speaker 1: your ex text you I miss you and you just

1385
01:06:40,680 --> 01:06:43,400
Speaker 1: say I miss you too. Is that cheating you miss

1386
01:06:43,440 --> 01:06:47,280
Speaker 1: that's emotional emotional cheating just like they just sent me.

1387
01:06:48,720 --> 01:06:50,920
Speaker 3: Deal, but we might think something.

1388
01:06:51,920 --> 01:06:55,400
Speaker 1: We know it's not a big deal to you, But

1389
01:06:57,120 --> 01:06:59,000
Speaker 1: casting that fishing rod to see if he if he

1390
01:06:59,080 --> 01:07:01,840
Speaker 1: still got that miss you just be like even especially

1391
01:07:01,880 --> 01:07:05,120
Speaker 1: when they know that you're gonna relations sure, but you

1392
01:07:05,120 --> 01:07:07,400
Speaker 1: can't tell how that you can't tell. But if they

1393
01:07:07,480 --> 01:07:07,880
Speaker 1: know that.

1394
01:07:07,760 --> 01:07:10,240
Speaker 3: Your friend, I do miss you, but you know or whatever.

1395
01:07:10,080 --> 01:07:12,600
Speaker 1: Like in front of me. Oh I got it. I

1396
01:07:12,680 --> 01:07:14,280
Speaker 1: text somebody I miss you when they said back to

1397
01:07:14,320 --> 01:07:18,520
Speaker 1: me as a friend, I do miss you as a friend. Someone.

1398
01:07:19,400 --> 01:07:21,560
Speaker 1: If you are if you know that your your ex

1399
01:07:21,720 --> 01:07:23,880
Speaker 1: is with in a new relationship, why are you telling

1400
01:07:23,920 --> 01:07:25,960
Speaker 1: them you miss you? Be a messy? So if that's

1401
01:07:26,000 --> 01:07:28,480
Speaker 1: the case, then that's not Yeah.

1402
01:07:28,520 --> 01:07:31,240
Speaker 4: You need to go back. That's that's what you need

1403
01:07:31,280 --> 01:07:32,440
Speaker 4: to go ready for here.

1404
01:07:32,880 --> 01:07:35,280
Speaker 1: Well, listen you guys in a real life I r

1405
01:07:35,440 --> 01:07:38,600
Speaker 1: L is available now. So are you going on tour?

1406
01:07:38,680 --> 01:07:39,640
Speaker 1: What's what's happening?

1407
01:07:39,720 --> 01:07:42,160
Speaker 2: So I'm going on I'm going on a UK europe

1408
01:07:42,160 --> 01:07:46,200
Speaker 2: touray in October November, and then I'm there's a US

1409
01:07:46,240 --> 01:07:48,480
Speaker 2: tour currently being planned for the start of next year.

1410
01:07:50,080 --> 01:07:50,440
Speaker 4: Toda.

1411
01:07:51,680 --> 01:07:53,640
Speaker 3: Of course I got to put if you put them

1412
01:07:53,640 --> 01:07:55,680
Speaker 3: in Toronto.

1413
01:07:54,920 --> 01:07:58,919
Speaker 1: Listen, y'all two together. I'm just saying that I gotta

1414
01:07:58,960 --> 01:08:02,360
Speaker 1: take you for real because she's really really amazing. You

1415
01:08:02,520 --> 01:08:05,640
Speaker 1: can just even and look, I know that you can

1416
01:08:05,680 --> 01:08:07,560
Speaker 1: stand alone on your own. But the co signs that

1417
01:08:07,600 --> 01:08:09,920
Speaker 1: both of you have gotten are some of the biggest

1418
01:08:10,320 --> 01:08:12,480
Speaker 1: in the business, and I know it means a lot.

1419
01:08:12,760 --> 01:08:16,519
Speaker 1: I mean, you've gotten some huge, huge co signs, and

1420
01:08:16,520 --> 01:08:19,120
Speaker 1: so I know that's always a special thing. And clearly

1421
01:08:19,200 --> 01:08:22,040
Speaker 1: you have as well, you know, being our ovo getting

1422
01:08:22,040 --> 01:08:24,760
Speaker 1: those co signs, and it sucks that, like people pay

1423
01:08:24,800 --> 01:08:26,600
Speaker 1: attention to stuff like that, but it's also nice that

1424
01:08:26,640 --> 01:08:30,479
Speaker 1: you both have at the same time. Yeah, it's kind

1425
01:08:30,479 --> 01:08:33,439
Speaker 1: of like bang, and I know it must feel good. Yeah,

1426
01:08:33,520 --> 01:08:36,200
Speaker 1: when you get certain you know, phone calls and when

1427
01:08:36,200 --> 01:08:38,479
Speaker 1: certain people are reaching out like yo, what's good, like

1428
01:08:39,360 --> 01:08:39,960
Speaker 1: let's get.

1429
01:08:39,760 --> 01:08:44,040
Speaker 2: On it, it definitely does. I think, Yeah, it's the first

1430
01:08:44,080 --> 01:08:47,080
Speaker 2: one is always the like craziest or just I think

1431
01:08:47,360 --> 01:08:49,479
Speaker 2: just the idea of the kind of coast sign thing.

1432
01:08:49,400 --> 01:08:50,880
Speaker 1: Is, what was your first coast sign?

1433
01:08:51,320 --> 01:08:52,440
Speaker 2: It was that cheering.

1434
01:08:53,720 --> 01:08:56,480
Speaker 3: Wow, a huge.

1435
01:08:59,160 --> 01:09:00,080
Speaker 7: No no for real.

1436
01:09:04,120 --> 01:09:06,479
Speaker 2: And it was crazy because I was I was thirteen,

1437
01:09:06,680 --> 01:09:09,680
Speaker 2: So it was like sharing is the reason why I

1438
01:09:09,680 --> 01:09:13,240
Speaker 2: got signed, That's the reason why everything started. And then

1439
01:09:14,080 --> 01:09:16,000
Speaker 2: I don't know, but back then I was it was

1440
01:09:16,040 --> 01:09:17,840
Speaker 2: just me and a guitar. So I think he like,

1441
01:09:18,640 --> 01:09:21,000
Speaker 2: I think he's cool. Yeah, that's very cool.

1442
01:09:21,200 --> 01:09:21,960
Speaker 3: Yeah, I love it.

1443
01:09:23,000 --> 01:09:23,959
Speaker 1: Your first cloth.

1444
01:09:23,800 --> 01:09:25,479
Speaker 4: Sign, well, Drake.

1445
01:09:31,960 --> 01:09:34,280
Speaker 3: Taking me on tour, just you know, with the feature

1446
01:09:34,320 --> 01:09:37,000
Speaker 3: and everything and just like just being a cool dude

1447
01:09:37,000 --> 01:09:40,400
Speaker 3: like everybody. You know, he's so busy and I know

1448
01:09:40,479 --> 01:09:42,280
Speaker 3: that just you know, from being around for so long,

1449
01:09:42,360 --> 01:09:44,599
Speaker 3: even younger like you know, but there has been so

1450
01:09:44,600 --> 01:09:46,320
Speaker 3: many there's been times where he just give me that

1451
01:09:46,439 --> 01:09:49,680
Speaker 3: time to just talk, just understand what's going on. I

1452
01:09:49,720 --> 01:09:51,960
Speaker 3: was lost, young and confused, and the time he gave

1453
01:09:52,000 --> 01:09:55,920
Speaker 3: me that nice forever forever appreciated for that because it

1454
01:09:56,000 --> 01:09:58,240
Speaker 3: helped me just feel a little bit better and going

1455
01:09:58,280 --> 01:09:59,920
Speaker 3: forward and knowing, Okay, this is rare.

1456
01:10:01,439 --> 01:10:05,360
Speaker 1: We got lovable taking the Drake one last thing, one

1457
01:10:05,439 --> 01:10:07,160
Speaker 1: last thing as he met your girlfriend.

1458
01:10:07,600 --> 01:10:09,639
Speaker 3: No, I mean no, no, nobody really has.

1459
01:10:09,640 --> 01:10:10,719
Speaker 4: Why don't I don't keep.

1460
01:10:15,680 --> 01:10:16,040
Speaker 1: Stupid.

1461
01:10:16,360 --> 01:10:26,120
Speaker 3: I love it, but I haven't even brought it out.

1462
01:10:26,240 --> 01:10:30,960
Speaker 3: So you know, we're taking steps, baby, baby, Yeah, and you.

1463
01:10:30,880 --> 01:10:32,479
Speaker 1: Throw that back. You gotta know something in your cup

1464
01:10:32,520 --> 01:10:37,040
Speaker 1: still because I was supposed to be taking announced. Okay, So,

1465
01:10:37,640 --> 01:10:42,680
Speaker 1: speaking of Drake, I am a part of a docuseries

1466
01:10:42,720 --> 01:10:47,639
Speaker 1: that his entertainment company is producing along with Jermaine Dupree

1467
01:10:48,240 --> 01:10:52,360
Speaker 1: and some other investors, and that docuseries is about Magic City,

1468
01:10:52,439 --> 01:10:55,320
Speaker 1: which is the famed, infamous strip club in Atlanda where

1469
01:10:55,360 --> 01:10:58,560
Speaker 1: I actually got my rise to fame and the entertainment

1470
01:10:59,080 --> 01:11:02,800
Speaker 1: industry right the snack pack. Yes, so I'm a part

1471
01:11:02,920 --> 01:11:06,360
Speaker 1: of the Of course I'm a part of the docuseries.

1472
01:11:07,160 --> 01:11:09,160
Speaker 1: I did an interview because of the status that I

1473
01:11:09,200 --> 01:11:12,320
Speaker 1: had at the club. However, I was asked to narrate,

1474
01:11:12,360 --> 01:11:16,280
Speaker 1: so I actually narrated and production has wrapped. Drake just

1475
01:11:16,520 --> 01:11:19,599
Speaker 1: finished his part of his interview right with production. So

1476
01:11:19,600 --> 01:11:24,640
Speaker 1: production has rapped and we are now shopping the docuseries

1477
01:11:24,680 --> 01:11:27,280
Speaker 1: to all of the major networks. And the big news

1478
01:11:27,320 --> 01:11:29,600
Speaker 1: without giving the biggest news is that part of the

1479
01:11:29,640 --> 01:11:33,719
Speaker 1: pitch team. Yes, I am a part of the pitch team.

1480
01:11:33,880 --> 01:11:38,519
Speaker 1: So we have huge networks like Netflix, Hulu, BT and

1481
01:11:38,960 --> 01:11:42,040
Speaker 1: so forth for someone that are interested, and I will

1482
01:11:42,080 --> 01:11:45,400
Speaker 1: be sitting in on these meetings. This come back to

1483
01:11:45,439 --> 01:11:47,960
Speaker 1: pitch this amazing body of work that I'm so proud

1484
01:11:48,000 --> 01:11:54,160
Speaker 1: to be a part of. Shout out to shout out

1485
01:11:54,200 --> 01:11:56,559
Speaker 1: to Drake for being a part of this project, because

1486
01:11:56,640 --> 01:11:58,280
Speaker 1: him being a part of this project really took it

1487
01:11:58,320 --> 01:12:05,120
Speaker 1: to another level. We all know he loves all right,

1488
01:12:05,200 --> 01:12:08,160
Speaker 1: and more announcements to come. All right, Well, thank you

1489
01:12:08,160 --> 01:12:11,400
Speaker 1: guys so much for joining us. Honestly, it's been a pleasure. Mahalia,

1490
01:12:11,720 --> 01:12:15,600
Speaker 1: I r L in real life. Okay, Roy Woods or

1491
01:12:15,640 --> 01:12:22,880
Speaker 1: as we called you earlier, mixed emotions, and now we

1492
01:12:22,920 --> 01:12:25,640
Speaker 1: see why I like that.

1493
01:12:25,800 --> 01:12:27,839
Speaker 3: I'm gonna use that.

1494
01:12:29,120 --> 01:12:32,600
Speaker 1: Now you see what? All right, and congratulations again to

1495
01:12:35,040 --> 01:12:39,160
Speaker 1: her name your last name? I am and when I

1496
01:12:39,240 --> 01:12:42,360
Speaker 1: and when I do. Of course, you know, Maguire is

1497
01:12:42,680 --> 01:12:45,680
Speaker 1: my entertainment name. A lot of people don't notice, even

1498
01:12:45,720 --> 01:12:47,679
Speaker 1: though I weard around my neck and diamonds. My real

1499
01:12:47,760 --> 01:12:51,840
Speaker 1: name is Kaffee. So without telling my fiance his full name,

1500
01:12:52,200 --> 01:12:55,240
Speaker 1: I will be changing my name to Coffee Austin so

1501
01:12:55,680 --> 01:12:56,320
Speaker 1: that sounds like.

1502
01:12:58,360 --> 01:12:58,759
Speaker 3: Austin.

1503
01:12:59,400 --> 01:13:02,080
Speaker 1: Yeah, yeah, I'm here today. Well, we love to see

1504
01:13:02,120 --> 01:13:04,320
Speaker 1: it will be at that wedding, yes, ya will, Okay,

1505
01:13:04,680 --> 01:13:04,920
Speaker 1: it is