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Speaker 1: Call me a weirdo, but I just don't have that

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Speaker 1: feel good holiday thing that inspires everyone to spend time

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Speaker 1: with their families. I don't have a close relationship with

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Speaker 1: my family and have in the past just gone to

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Speaker 1: the gatherings out of obligation. Now I'm looking for advice.

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Speaker 1: Here's a question, Steve, Do I even owe them an

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Speaker 1: explanation if I decide not to show up. I'd rather

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Speaker 1: spend my holiday with people who make me feel good

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Speaker 1: and special. So that's her question.

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Speaker 2: Well, you know, if you don't enjoy holidays with your

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Speaker 2: families because you're in the wrong family, you could be

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Speaker 2: in the wrong family. You can't track, you can't pick that.

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Speaker 2: But you know, if you don't have a good time

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Speaker 2: with them, I mean what you want me to tell you?

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Speaker 2: She just wants you don't know that holidays you probably

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Speaker 2: never It could be you, though, it could be everybody

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Speaker 2: else seem to be having a good time. It could

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Speaker 2: be you. You know, maybe you think you above them.

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Speaker 2: To LUBI is a Golden corral or something. Get us, man,

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Speaker 2: the worst worst Thanksgiving me all I ever had was

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Speaker 2: in West Palm Beach, Florida. Man, it was my first

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Speaker 2: time never being home on Thanksgiving in my life. And man,

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Speaker 2: I had to call back to the house. All my

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Speaker 2: brothers was over at the house. Man, Damn boy, where

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Speaker 2: you at? I I'm in West Palm Beach. Where ass at? Florida?

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Speaker 2: Where ass at? Okay?

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Speaker 1: Man?

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Speaker 2: Hey, Man? Where you having dinner at? I said, ain't

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Speaker 2: no dinner. I'm gonna go to Dennis. I went to

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Speaker 2: Dennis Man that had the Denny's Thanksgiving Turkey dinner.

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Speaker 1: What I ain't no Dennis Turkey.

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Speaker 2: That was the first time in my life because I

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Speaker 2: was twenty seven. That first time in my life I

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Speaker 2: ever saw white gravy. I didn't even know.

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Speaker 1: They made it a little different than what you were.

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Speaker 2: Used to tell something. Boy, they put that punkin poe

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Speaker 2: on that plate and bought it to me, and I

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Speaker 2: thought it was sweet potato and bit into it. He

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Speaker 2: and the waitress fell out. Ain't bad day, man, That

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Speaker 2: was a sad day.

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Speaker 1: For me, especially on Thanksgiving.

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Speaker 2: That was a sad day.

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Speaker 1: The holidays can be heavy. Yeah, yeah, So she should

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Speaker 1: be with her family, Yeah, you gotta be. Well, does

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Speaker 1: she owe them an explanation if she decides not to go?

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Speaker 1: That's really her question?

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Speaker 2: Well, it ain't know if you all my explanation, but

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Speaker 2: you're gonna damn sure had to give one.

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Speaker 1: Okay, maybe sick of her hand too. Yeah, yeah. She

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Speaker 1: said she'd rather be with people who make her feel

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Speaker 1: good and special, so obviously she like she said, family,

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Speaker 1: come to our house with that thought process, Why why.

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Speaker 2: This might make you feel good?

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Speaker 1: It's special? The cussing that gold in that household thanksgiving badly,

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Speaker 1: you feel hurt the first fifteen minutes.

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Speaker 2: Walking that dough.

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Speaker 1: And we don't know you either.

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Speaker 2: What are y'all gonna say? I'll tell you right now.

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Speaker 2: You bring that being castle rolled back over here again,

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Speaker 2: It's gonna be a problem, gonna be the end of

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Speaker 2: your hand.

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Speaker 1: Wow, all right, we have time for another one, Steve.

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Speaker 1: This is from Serena on Facebook. She says, I share

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Speaker 1: an apartment with a good friend who has a bad

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Speaker 1: habit of borrowing my clothes and other things without asking.

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Speaker 1: It's mostly small stuff, but it's becoming annoying, especially when

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Speaker 1: I want to wear something only to find she's borrowed it.

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Speaker 1: I don't want to create tension between us, but I

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Speaker 1: also want her to respect my belongings. What's the best

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Speaker 1: way to handle this without making it a big deal.

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Speaker 2: Well, you got to get a lock on your dough.

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Speaker 2: Yeah yeah, dead boat, shut your bedroom dough, pull your

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Speaker 2: key out. Lock it. What if they say a small stuff?

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Speaker 1: So what is she wearing of this person? Like her

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Speaker 1: ear rings, you know, maybe her jewelry and maybe a

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Speaker 1: T shirt or something like that.

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Speaker 2: But if you put them panties on, you got to leave.

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Speaker 2: If you get it that underwear draw

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Speaker 1: I wasn't going to He was gonna see it, all right,