1 00:00:00,080 --> 00:00:03,840 Speaker 1: It is time to ask the clo. This is from 2 00:00:03,840 --> 00:00:07,400 Speaker 1: Ayana and Philly. Ayana writes, my daughter is five years 3 00:00:07,440 --> 00:00:10,520 Speaker 1: old and I haven't had a job since she was born. 4 00:00:11,400 --> 00:00:14,680 Speaker 1: Her father told me that he wants to date other people. Now, 5 00:00:14,680 --> 00:00:17,200 Speaker 1: if we break up and he moves out, I will 6 00:00:17,239 --> 00:00:20,320 Speaker 1: have to get a job and make ends meet. Do 7 00:00:20,400 --> 00:00:23,200 Speaker 1: I try to hold my little family together by letting 8 00:00:23,280 --> 00:00:24,320 Speaker 1: him date other women? 9 00:00:24,680 --> 00:00:27,040 Speaker 2: Or should I get a job and leave him? 10 00:00:27,400 --> 00:00:28,560 Speaker 3: Yeah? You should get a job. 11 00:00:29,480 --> 00:00:32,160 Speaker 4: Yeah, you're gonna let a man do what he want 12 00:00:32,200 --> 00:00:33,680 Speaker 4: to do because he giving you a check. 13 00:00:35,680 --> 00:00:36,440 Speaker 2: Right? 14 00:00:36,800 --> 00:00:40,320 Speaker 4: Yeah, that don't make no sense. God could do anything. 15 00:00:40,760 --> 00:00:45,559 Speaker 4: You don't need him. You need God man. Come on, now, 16 00:00:45,640 --> 00:00:49,360 Speaker 4: let's get some priorities here. You can make it without him. 17 00:00:50,080 --> 00:00:53,199 Speaker 4: So many people have had to do that. Now you 18 00:00:53,240 --> 00:00:57,760 Speaker 4: can't make it without is God man? Walk by? You 19 00:00:57,880 --> 00:00:59,840 Speaker 4: gonna start dating other people? I ain't had no job. 20 00:01:00,400 --> 00:01:00,960 Speaker 3: Get a job? 21 00:01:02,440 --> 00:01:04,360 Speaker 4: Yeah, now go move here with your mama. You can 22 00:01:04,440 --> 00:01:08,000 Speaker 4: do anything, but what we ain't finn to do. Everybody 23 00:01:08,080 --> 00:01:09,039 Speaker 4: take care of a baby. 24 00:01:10,280 --> 00:01:12,759 Speaker 5: But the other thing is show your daughter. You're gonna 25 00:01:12,760 --> 00:01:16,000 Speaker 5: get by example with that too. She don't need a man. 26 00:01:15,920 --> 00:01:18,360 Speaker 3: To like that. 27 00:01:19,080 --> 00:01:21,600 Speaker 2: Yeah, yeah, all right. 28 00:01:22,360 --> 00:01:22,520 Speaker 4: Uh. 29 00:01:22,560 --> 00:01:24,120 Speaker 2: Moving on to Trent and Saginaw. 30 00:01:24,200 --> 00:01:28,240 Speaker 1: Trent says, I helped my female coworker get the air 31 00:01:28,319 --> 00:01:31,240 Speaker 1: fixed in her car. She told me it was expensive, 32 00:01:31,319 --> 00:01:34,240 Speaker 1: but she didn't ask for my help. She went to 33 00:01:34,360 --> 00:01:37,640 Speaker 1: my technician and I paid for half of it. Her 34 00:01:37,720 --> 00:01:40,640 Speaker 1: sorry boyfriend told me I was fouled for what I did. 35 00:01:40,959 --> 00:01:42,199 Speaker 1: Was I wrong to help? 36 00:01:42,880 --> 00:01:44,680 Speaker 3: Yeah? Yeah, she got a boyfriend. 37 00:01:44,680 --> 00:01:47,280 Speaker 2: What you in it for, coworker? 38 00:01:47,560 --> 00:01:49,720 Speaker 3: You all out of bounds because you know what you're 39 00:01:49,720 --> 00:01:52,520 Speaker 3: trying to do. You help? Tell why? 40 00:01:52,280 --> 00:01:52,320 Speaker 5: What? 41 00:01:52,600 --> 00:01:52,840 Speaker 2: What? 42 00:01:53,440 --> 00:01:56,760 Speaker 4: Tell me what it is men do without a reason. 43 00:01:57,680 --> 00:01:59,960 Speaker 4: He won't said you helped me. 44 00:02:01,920 --> 00:02:03,040 Speaker 3: Nice? For what? 45 00:02:04,120 --> 00:02:06,080 Speaker 2: Just because he's a nice guy. He wasn't. 46 00:02:06,280 --> 00:02:10,360 Speaker 4: She got a boyfriend. He ain't a nice guy. She 47 00:02:10,440 --> 00:02:12,880 Speaker 4: got a daddy somewhere. He ain't a nice guy. 48 00:02:13,080 --> 00:02:15,720 Speaker 2: Okay, all right, all right? 49 00:02:16,000 --> 00:02:19,160 Speaker 4: But then the boyfriend talking about you filed for what 50 00:02:19,240 --> 00:02:24,640 Speaker 4: you did? Now that week, man, that's week right there. 51 00:02:25,760 --> 00:02:27,840 Speaker 5: So wait, you're saying the boyfriend is weak for telling 52 00:02:27,880 --> 00:02:29,600 Speaker 5: the coworker he was foul. 53 00:02:29,880 --> 00:02:31,720 Speaker 3: You're saying that, yeah, he weaken. 54 00:02:31,480 --> 00:02:35,720 Speaker 1: Out and we're not stepping up and helping her himself. 55 00:02:35,800 --> 00:02:38,680 Speaker 4: Right, you knew what your girl's situation was you didn't 56 00:02:38,680 --> 00:02:41,440 Speaker 4: step up. He stepped up, did something. Now you're telling 57 00:02:41,520 --> 00:02:44,280 Speaker 4: him he filed. He filed for making you look bad. 58 00:02:46,040 --> 00:02:50,120 Speaker 1: Yeah, okay, that far all right for sure? Okay, all right, Trent, 59 00:02:51,200 --> 00:02:55,560 Speaker 1: all right. Moving on to Dorothy in Metterie. Dorothy says, 60 00:02:56,040 --> 00:02:58,920 Speaker 1: my best friend passed away in twenty twenty two and 61 00:02:59,080 --> 00:03:03,560 Speaker 1: her husband got remarried in January. It's unsettling to see 62 00:03:03,600 --> 00:03:06,800 Speaker 1: the new wife wearing my friend's old hats to church 63 00:03:07,120 --> 00:03:10,880 Speaker 1: and driving around in her old car. I don't like it. 64 00:03:11,120 --> 00:03:13,320 Speaker 1: Should I talk to the husband about this? 65 00:03:13,960 --> 00:03:19,800 Speaker 4: It ain't your business. Them ain't your hats. That ain't 66 00:03:19,840 --> 00:03:23,760 Speaker 4: your car. It wasn't your car or your hat when 67 00:03:23,800 --> 00:03:27,360 Speaker 4: your friend had. Now, I don't know who like wearing 68 00:03:27,440 --> 00:03:28,399 Speaker 4: dead people's hat. 69 00:03:28,480 --> 00:03:33,160 Speaker 3: I really, I'm telling you. I'm telling you, but I'm 70 00:03:33,200 --> 00:03:40,680 Speaker 3: not putting old sister Patterson's hat. Now here's the other thing. 71 00:03:40,840 --> 00:03:47,160 Speaker 3: How old are these people? Well? Who was wearing the 72 00:03:47,360 --> 00:03:48,640 Speaker 3: hat to church? 73 00:03:50,320 --> 00:03:52,800 Speaker 4: Now a husband might be saying, you know, I should 74 00:03:53,480 --> 00:03:55,040 Speaker 4: want to see you where that had. 75 00:03:55,120 --> 00:03:58,680 Speaker 2: That would head right there with my favorite HATI. 76 00:04:00,160 --> 00:04:02,960 Speaker 4: You go to church Sunday, If you would wed it 77 00:04:03,000 --> 00:04:04,680 Speaker 4: would help me out. 78 00:04:05,280 --> 00:04:05,400 Speaker 6: Uh. 79 00:04:06,320 --> 00:04:08,560 Speaker 3: Now, when Pauline, see is it. 80 00:04:10,040 --> 00:04:14,680 Speaker 4: I'm wonna do something to you, gonna do something to you. 81 00:04:14,720 --> 00:04:17,960 Speaker 2: What about the car? What about the old car she's driving, 82 00:04:18,400 --> 00:04:20,120 Speaker 2: of his, of his late wife. 83 00:04:20,720 --> 00:04:24,520 Speaker 4: Yeah, that that said, uh what kind of that? That's 84 00:04:24,600 --> 00:04:31,760 Speaker 4: crown Victoria crowds crowned victoria floor. Yeah, he ain't spent 85 00:04:31,920 --> 00:04:35,479 Speaker 4: no extra money at all. No, no, no, no, I'm 86 00:04:35,480 --> 00:04:39,960 Speaker 4: buying you no car. You her car? Did what you inherited? 87 00:04:40,160 --> 00:04:44,760 Speaker 4: You inherited is here and inherited you in hearded this 88 00:04:44,839 --> 00:04:50,240 Speaker 4: here here Jesus crushed for. 89 00:04:50,360 --> 00:04:54,720 Speaker 2: Little suit seats in hire, so paid for. 90 00:04:55,440 --> 00:04:58,600 Speaker 4: St paid for you know, he ain't got no Cali 91 00:04:58,720 --> 00:05:00,960 Speaker 4: convert on it and it can't payd noid mission. 92 00:05:01,040 --> 00:05:03,120 Speaker 3: Can you drive to church? 93 00:05:03,880 --> 00:05:07,280 Speaker 2: And it burns a lot of gas to the house? 94 00:05:09,040 --> 00:05:09,520 Speaker 2: All right? 95 00:05:09,600 --> 00:05:12,320 Speaker 1: All right, So no, she should not Dorothy should not 96 00:05:12,400 --> 00:05:13,839 Speaker 1: talk to the husband, all right. 97 00:05:13,920 --> 00:05:14,400 Speaker 6: I think. 98 00:05:19,040 --> 00:05:26,239 Speaker 2: What is his name? The husband's name, clement husband's name, what's. 99 00:05:26,080 --> 00:05:37,039 Speaker 6: The what was his late wester name? Dorothy Clementine? All right, 100 00:05:37,760 --> 00:05:39,960 Speaker 6: Moving on to the last one, Steve, this is the 101 00:05:40,040 --> 00:05:43,440 Speaker 6: last one. This is Chester and New Rochelle Chester writes. 102 00:05:43,720 --> 00:05:47,640 Speaker 6: My neighbors served swerve to avoid a trash can and 103 00:05:47,760 --> 00:05:51,160 Speaker 6: he ended up hitting my fence. He said, he's not 104 00:05:51,200 --> 00:05:54,360 Speaker 6: paying to fix my fence because my trash can should 105 00:05:54,360 --> 00:05:56,919 Speaker 6: not have been in the street. Is it best to 106 00:05:56,960 --> 00:06:01,920 Speaker 6: take him to small claims court or beat his blankety blank? 107 00:06:02,600 --> 00:06:05,719 Speaker 4: Well, now that beating his blankety blank might not always 108 00:06:05,760 --> 00:06:06,240 Speaker 4: work out. 109 00:06:09,880 --> 00:06:11,840 Speaker 3: You run down that street if you want to. Don't 110 00:06:11,880 --> 00:06:13,000 Speaker 3: sound like you're real. 111 00:06:12,800 --> 00:06:18,480 Speaker 4: Fighting, because already your first your first mind. 112 00:06:18,560 --> 00:06:19,919 Speaker 3: Was small claims court. 113 00:06:20,279 --> 00:06:21,720 Speaker 2: Yeah, that's probably. 114 00:06:21,360 --> 00:06:25,279 Speaker 4: Where you need to go. Real fighters don't go to court. 115 00:06:26,279 --> 00:06:30,760 Speaker 4: Oh already it would have happened. Yeah, it's not what 116 00:06:30,800 --> 00:06:32,839 Speaker 4: you do. You took time to write the letter, so 117 00:06:33,440 --> 00:06:35,679 Speaker 4: I was just going to go to small claims court. 118 00:06:36,279 --> 00:06:42,600 Speaker 4: How much your trash can shouldn't have been in the street. Yeah, 119 00:06:42,760 --> 00:06:46,800 Speaker 4: I'd hit that trash can though, hold it up, but. 120 00:06:46,800 --> 00:06:48,760 Speaker 5: It would mess up your car, So then you would 121 00:06:48,760 --> 00:06:49,400 Speaker 5: assue him? 122 00:06:49,880 --> 00:06:54,239 Speaker 2: Yeah, h why won't he pay for But he hit. 123 00:06:54,080 --> 00:06:56,520 Speaker 3: The trash can, it was the guy's trash can. Then 124 00:06:56,640 --> 00:06:57,160 Speaker 3: he hit the. 125 00:06:58,800 --> 00:07:01,560 Speaker 2: No, he to avoid the trash can. He ended up 126 00:07:01,640 --> 00:07:02,360 Speaker 2: hitting the fence. 127 00:07:02,480 --> 00:07:05,680 Speaker 5: Yeah, but let me this is the fence owner and 128 00:07:05,720 --> 00:07:07,520 Speaker 5: the trash can owner the same person. 129 00:07:08,200 --> 00:07:08,400 Speaker 6: Yeah. 130 00:07:08,640 --> 00:07:11,760 Speaker 4: Uh, that's why he told him if your trash can 131 00:07:11,880 --> 00:07:12,600 Speaker 4: wasn't in the street. 132 00:07:12,840 --> 00:07:14,920 Speaker 3: I wanted to hit your right. 133 00:07:15,440 --> 00:07:18,920 Speaker 2: Sorry, Junior. I know it's about a fence. I'm sorry, all. 134 00:07:18,880 --> 00:07:22,440 Speaker 3: Right, got you got one. You out of this conversation. 135 00:07:24,440 --> 00:07:26,440 Speaker 3: I'm good now, Junior. 136 00:07:26,520 --> 00:07:26,840 Speaker 2: Fence. 137 00:07:26,920 --> 00:07:32,000 Speaker 4: It's the thing that you put in your yard. Some 138 00:07:32,040 --> 00:07:34,080 Speaker 4: of them made out of why, some of them made 139 00:07:34,160 --> 00:07:39,600 Speaker 4: out of made out of a hard plastic. But you 140 00:07:39,680 --> 00:07:40,239 Speaker 4: get wanting. 141 00:07:40,320 --> 00:07:43,320 Speaker 3: You put it in your yard and people can't hit it'stic. 142 00:07:43,480 --> 00:07:44,200 Speaker 3: You all been fine. 143 00:07:44,280 --> 00:07:50,040 Speaker 2: Just hit grass, all right? Thank you. Steelo coming up 144 00:07:50,040 --> 00:07:51,720 Speaker 2: at the top of the hour, we'll have some mess. 145 00:07:51,840 --> 00:07:53,840 Speaker 3: Why your dog you're out the house. 146 00:07:55,000 --> 00:07:59,200 Speaker 2: Right after this. You're listening Steve Harvey Morning Show. 147 00:08:00,040 --> 00:08:00,200 Speaker 4: Well,