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Speaker 1: My mother is a narcissist, so I'm planning to cut

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Speaker 1: her off for my pregnancy.

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Speaker 2: Ooh, snip, snip, little bit.

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Speaker 1: What so. So I've been really struggling with this one.

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Speaker 1: I thirty nine female, am an only child, and growing

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Speaker 1: up with my mother was very difficult. On one hand,

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Speaker 1: she always made sure I was well dressed, we had

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Speaker 1: a clean house, and she cooked meals every day. She

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Speaker 1: made sure I was well presented when she sent me

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Speaker 1: off to school. And by the way, this comes from

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Speaker 1: Kitty and Puppy Mama on the r slash Okay storytime subreddit.

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Speaker 1: So the other hand, she treated me like her little

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Speaker 1: punching bag.

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Speaker 3: Oh.

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Speaker 1: Never seemed to view me as a real person. All

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Speaker 1: my childhood memories are of her screaming at me, slamming doors,

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Speaker 1: throwing my nice toys in the trash when she was

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Speaker 1: mad at me, telling me to shut up and go away,

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Speaker 1: embarrassing me by screaming and I mean screaming at me

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Speaker 1: when I had friends over or when she wasn't doing this,

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Speaker 1: ignoring my existence entirely.

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Speaker 2: That doesn't sound very mom like.

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Speaker 1: He has found like a joyous household.

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Speaker 2: No, that sounds terrible. I would not like that. Yeah, No,

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Speaker 2: I wish, sorry, I wish I could have been your mom.

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Speaker 2: I'd be a better mom than that.

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Speaker 1: I think Gohda and I could both be your mom.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, we would like to would like to vote to

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Speaker 3: be we could get a time machine and go back.

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Speaker 2: We'd try to be your mom. Would for you. Well,

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Speaker 2: but I hope that I hope that you've left that

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Speaker 2: person in the past.

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Speaker 3: I hope that's where the story is going, and I

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Speaker 3: hope they are in a place where they can't get

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Speaker 3: to you like that.

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Speaker 2: Well, we're about to see.

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Speaker 1: So I never knew what I had done was wrong,

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Speaker 1: and I never knew what i'd do. I never know

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Speaker 1: what I'd do wrong, but I was always punished. It

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Speaker 1: was calm for me to come home from school, say hi, Mom,

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Speaker 1: I'll be back with a hold glare, and then to

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Speaker 1: be told I know what I did. No further explanation.

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Speaker 1: One example is that it was Christmas vacation. I was

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Speaker 1: home for a week. My dad had also taken time

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Speaker 1: off from work. My mom was decorating the house, and

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Speaker 1: she lost the container. The tree angel came in.

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Speaker 2: Oh not the tree angel container.

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Speaker 1: The container again. She immediately accused me and my dad

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Speaker 1: of conspiring to hide it from her as a prank.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, because she's too smart to have lost it.

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Speaker 3: Maybe because she's never misplaced anything. I can't misplace anything.

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Speaker 2: I'm perfect.

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Speaker 1: We were not pranksters. We definitely knew better. When we

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Speaker 1: both swore we didn't have it, she flew into a rage,

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Speaker 1: slamming cabinets, vacuum um when we were trying to watch TV,

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Speaker 1: making both of us afraid to cross her. I love

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Speaker 1: how she's like inspiring as much fear in child Opie

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Speaker 1: as adult husband. Yeah, it's forced to be reckoned with eugh.

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Speaker 1: Eventually she found the container, which had fallen behind some

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Speaker 1: other stuff in the closet. She did not apologize. She

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Speaker 2: Love that.

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Speaker 3: I'm so sorry you had to have a horrible narcissist

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Speaker 2: Growing up obits, it's hard.

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Speaker 1: So this is just an example of the kind of

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Speaker 1: stuff I grew up with. Then she go to church

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Speaker 1: or picnics or whatever, smile at everyone and tell them

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Speaker 1: all how proud she is of me and how happy

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Speaker 1: we all are. I hate the posturing. That sucks. And

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Speaker 1: And she was back to stonewalling and snapping at me.

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Speaker 1: So not that my mom has never done anything nice

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Speaker 1: or caring. Sometimes she has, but always makes me very

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Speaker 1: cautious because I've seen how she uses it later as

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Speaker 1: something she can take away. And as we've talked about,

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Speaker 1: an abusive relationship, hardly ever is all bad. It's usually

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Speaker 3: They keep that little nugget of like goodness and positivity

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Speaker 3: the negativity, and just when you're like, I'm done with this, oh,

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Speaker 3: that's why I'm here. Yeah, and then it begins a vicious,

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Speaker 3: passed away, she immediately, and I mean the same day,

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Speaker 1: I was screaming, crying, begging her to stop. She told

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Speaker 1: would get fat. So again, just an example of what

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Speaker 1: I've dealt with all my life. There's a lot more,

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Speaker 3: So just quickly, if anyone you know finds themselves in

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Speaker 3: a situation like this, get away from this person, especially

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Speaker 3: if you're if you're still like under the age of eighteen, like,

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Speaker 3: find a support, find a family member, find someone you

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Speaker 3: can confide in, because this intense negative.

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Speaker 2: Behavior is not acceptable. It's not okay, and you don't have.

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Speaker 3: To put up with it just because you were, just

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Speaker 3: because you fell into this situation.

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Speaker 1: And this is not normal behavior. I think something that's

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Speaker 1: It's hard to know that, like you know, being yelled

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Speaker 1: the only ever experience like what you know at home.

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Speaker 3: And that's why stories like this could be really powerful

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Speaker 3: because it allows people to go, wait a minute, oh

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Speaker 3: that sounds like that sounds like what I go through.

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Speaker 2: But they're saying that this is not norm hmmm, and

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Speaker 2: then it can start to turn the gate. It's very important.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, that's why I like sharing these stories can be

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Speaker 4: The mom sounds like she has a case of like

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Speaker 4: an extreme bipolar.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, it's extreme.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, there's there's some kind of disorder going.

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Speaker 3: Yes, she needs help in her own way. Yeah, like

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Speaker 3: it's it's this is just.

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Speaker 2: A very hard situation to be in.

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Speaker 1: But now we're gonna go onto the dad. So my

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Speaker 1: dad was super peaceful, a kind person who loved my mom,

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Speaker 1: her own parents were in hospice dying, and her reason

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Speaker 3: Oh yeah, this person is like way super hardcore narcissist, Like.

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Speaker 1: I don't know why. Her siblings don't know why, and

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Speaker 1: I'm one hundred percent sure they passed away not know why.

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Speaker 1: She has no remorse, no regrets about this. And even

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Speaker 1: He didn't gamble either. Because my dad has been gone

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Speaker 1: about how close we are we aren't, and how she

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Speaker 1: by myself, and also how bad her marriage was. She

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Speaker 1: doesn't tell these lives in front of me because she'd

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Speaker 1: get back to me through the grapevine, and she denies

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Speaker 1: it when I confront her. The hard truth is that

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Speaker 1: She'll take me to lunch in a movie by me

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Speaker 1: a cute gift now, and then say she loves me,

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Speaker 1: and really cling to these moments and try to believe them.

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Speaker 1: But our whole oh I and I really cling to

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Speaker 1: these moments and try to believe them, but our whole

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Speaker 1: accepting that she'll never take accountability.

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Speaker 2: I want to stop right here really quick.

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Speaker 1: Okay, right, and there's more of the story about halfway through,

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Speaker 1: But I want to ask a question. In this scenario

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Speaker 2: Well? I feel like the change is all built on.

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Speaker 3: The pretext that you have to never bring up the past, yeah,

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Speaker 2: You can't.

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Speaker 3: You can't press her on anything because as soon as

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Speaker 2: So if you do maintain.

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Speaker 3: This sort of above above board, I guess I don't

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Speaker 3: I know I can't say this, I know I can't

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Speaker 3: say that. I definitely can't press this. I don't think

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Speaker 1: But my my read on this like is uh is

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Speaker 2: That's my read.

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Speaker 1: It's like, all right, frick, Like I realized I need

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Speaker 1: that I want my life, So I'm gonna actually start

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Speaker 1: so she's kind of building this new relationship a little

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Speaker 1: bit on a lie or like unstable ground. I agree

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Speaker 1: with that, but I do think that she might actually

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Speaker 1: want to be changing for the better. I would love

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Speaker 1: to know what you guys think, yeah, because uh, yeah,

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Speaker 1: I would love to know what you guys think, but.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, what I still I don't.

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Speaker 3: I don't see that, mostly just because like if this

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Speaker 3: really is like deep deep deep narcissism, Like what really

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Speaker 3: made me think that that's the case is the way

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Speaker 3: that she treated her parents when they were literally like passing,

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Speaker 3: and she goes, they know what they did?

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Speaker 1: Yeah, and switch on op.

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Speaker 2: Well, it's it's there.

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Speaker 3: They have people with like narcissistic personality disorder can get

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Speaker 3: these like become hyper fixated on a sense of justice,

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Speaker 3: but their sense of justice is skewed because it's all

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Speaker 3: like she probably remembers something that her parents did twenty

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Speaker 1: Can you? Can you speak up? Law says it's called

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Speaker 3: Now, I'm neither going to confirm nor deny France and

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Speaker 3: Kitchen's more important baby. So I don't know if anyone

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Speaker 3: Mom is getting the number four to fourteen. The combo

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Speaker 4: It keeps, it keeps progressing more and more every time.

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Speaker 4: Honey, look the ducks, the duck ducks.

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Speaker 2: It's amazing. Yes, so number fourteen for the mom.

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Speaker 3: You know, there's no way you just dropped the ratitude

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Speaker 2: What do they say?

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Speaker 3: No, is this gonna be an every Thursday event?

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Speaker 2: shout that one out. Oh I can't shout it out.

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Speaker 1: I go there too frequently. So this all helped me

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Speaker 2: No, you gotta keep going.

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Speaker 1: Don't let Max distract us. I've never felt like your

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Speaker 1: Because it's not your fault. How could it be that

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Speaker 3: mental illness. She is you, and you were conditioned to

440
00:22:56,680 --> 00:23:01,600
Speaker 3: feel a certain way by you know, being brought up,

441
00:23:01,920 --> 00:23:05,000
Speaker 3: being told like the way I'm acting right now is

442
00:23:05,040 --> 00:23:05,760
Speaker 3: your fault.

443
00:23:05,880 --> 00:23:07,600
Speaker 2: So of course you're always gonna say, what is it

444
00:23:07,640 --> 00:23:08,640
Speaker 2: that I'm doing? Yeah?

445
00:23:08,760 --> 00:23:18,000
Speaker 4: But yo, Max, Max? You behave now? Max Max doing?

446
00:23:18,119 --> 00:23:19,159
Speaker 4: Why are you so bored?

447
00:23:19,359 --> 00:23:20,200
Speaker 2: What are you doing?

448
00:23:20,720 --> 00:23:25,280
Speaker 1: Don't you have apps to build or something? Max's Max's

449
00:23:25,520 --> 00:23:29,360
Speaker 1: Literally every week Max sends me another app that he's

450
00:23:29,440 --> 00:23:32,320
Speaker 1: launched to the App Store that he's built from scratch.

451
00:23:32,880 --> 00:23:34,679
Speaker 1: I don't know how you have time to go on

452
00:23:34,800 --> 00:23:38,400
Speaker 1: stream and build all your freaking app empires.

453
00:23:37,760 --> 00:23:39,760
Speaker 2: Building with one hand, and he's on the stream with

454
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Speaker 2: the ambidexters.

455
00:23:42,520 --> 00:23:44,280
Speaker 1: It doesn't add out. The other day, I was running

456
00:23:44,359 --> 00:23:46,880
Speaker 1: errands and talking to my unborn baby in the car

457
00:23:46,920 --> 00:23:49,399
Speaker 1: as one does little that's cute. I just kept thinking

458
00:23:49,440 --> 00:23:52,720
Speaker 1: how excited I am to meet her, how scared I

459
00:23:52,760 --> 00:23:55,600
Speaker 1: am about making sure she arrives safely in the delivery room,

460
00:23:55,800 --> 00:23:58,280
Speaker 1: and how there is no way I could ever hurt

461
00:23:58,320 --> 00:24:01,040
Speaker 1: her the way my mom hurts me, not just once,

462
00:24:01,440 --> 00:24:06,200
Speaker 1: but hundreds of times over almost forty years. I can't

463
00:24:06,240 --> 00:24:08,520
Speaker 1: imagine throwing her toys in the trash or not speaking

464
00:24:08,520 --> 00:24:10,919
Speaker 1: to her for weeks at the time. This is really

465
00:24:11,560 --> 00:24:14,640
Speaker 1: really not okay. If your child grows up feeling unloved

466
00:24:14,720 --> 00:24:17,600
Speaker 1: by you, then can you really say you love them?

467
00:24:17,840 --> 00:24:20,720
Speaker 1: To me, that seems like a failure. And you know,

468
00:24:20,800 --> 00:24:23,840
Speaker 1: we love all our children that come into our lives

469
00:24:24,119 --> 00:24:28,800
Speaker 1: every weekday at three pm PSD right here on YouTube

470
00:24:29,160 --> 00:24:30,800
Speaker 1: and Facebook, TikTok and.

471
00:24:31,040 --> 00:24:33,720
Speaker 2: Twitch beautiful all our beautiful baby just.

472
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Speaker 1: Have our profile come on in. There's a little bit

473
00:24:35,840 --> 00:24:37,879
Speaker 1: more to the story. But yeah, I mean, it's not

474
00:24:38,040 --> 00:24:40,840
Speaker 1: your fault, op ohay, But at least you know op

475
00:24:41,080 --> 00:24:43,840
Speaker 1: knows what to avoid when dealing with their child.

476
00:24:44,200 --> 00:24:46,440
Speaker 3: Well, yeah, it's now it's And I feel like that

477
00:24:46,520 --> 00:24:49,199
Speaker 3: might be what caused OPI to write all this in

478
00:24:49,200 --> 00:24:52,080
Speaker 3: the first place, is because after having her child, she

479
00:24:52,160 --> 00:24:54,960
Speaker 3: started to realize, like, Okay, there's no way my mom

480
00:24:55,080 --> 00:24:58,879
Speaker 3: was behaving appropriately, Yeah, based on how I feel with

481
00:24:58,960 --> 00:25:01,479
Speaker 3: my kid, something was going on.

482
00:25:01,560 --> 00:25:04,120
Speaker 2: So I feel like maybe that that could have prompted this.

483
00:25:04,080 --> 00:25:06,240
Speaker 1: And I imagine you know this, Like I feel like

484
00:25:06,320 --> 00:25:10,120
Speaker 1: there's a lot of exploration of this relationship and Opie's

485
00:25:10,160 --> 00:25:13,359
Speaker 1: self worth in this post, and you kind of feel

486
00:25:13,400 --> 00:25:17,520
Speaker 1: like as she's writing it towards the end, she's like

487
00:25:17,640 --> 00:25:22,840
Speaker 1: recontextualizing that view of herself. She's like like, like, how

488
00:25:22,880 --> 00:25:24,879
Speaker 1: could I be the problem? Like like she's like it's

489
00:25:24,880 --> 00:25:27,280
Speaker 1: almost like she's asking it in writing. It was like, right,

490
00:25:27,359 --> 00:25:29,080
Speaker 1: how could I be the problem when all my aunts

491
00:25:29,080 --> 00:25:31,720
Speaker 1: and uncles had a great relationship? Actually, And she's literally

492
00:25:31,760 --> 00:25:34,280
Speaker 1: discovering this in the moment, which again like if you

493
00:25:34,320 --> 00:25:37,359
Speaker 1: don't journal, if you're not writing, you don't even have to, uh,

494
00:25:37,400 --> 00:25:39,640
Speaker 1: you don't even have to like write and post online.

495
00:25:39,680 --> 00:25:42,920
Speaker 1: But like writing really allows you to like look at

496
00:25:43,040 --> 00:25:46,680
Speaker 1: your your your thoughts in your brain with a little

497
00:25:46,680 --> 00:25:49,800
Speaker 1: bit more accuracy, a little bit more of objectivity, and

498
00:25:49,840 --> 00:25:52,200
Speaker 1: it can be really really helpful.

499
00:25:52,320 --> 00:25:54,040
Speaker 2: It's you gotta, you gotta check in with your at

500
00:25:54,080 --> 00:25:56,600
Speaker 2: least I do. I gotta. There's different ways to check

501
00:25:56,640 --> 00:25:57,360
Speaker 2: in with yourself.

502
00:25:57,400 --> 00:26:00,080
Speaker 3: But if I don't like at least write like a

503
00:25:59,840 --> 00:26:02,600
Speaker 3: little bit about what I'm thinking or what I'm feeling,

504
00:26:03,320 --> 00:26:06,040
Speaker 3: like at least every other day. I try to do

505
00:26:06,080 --> 00:26:08,480
Speaker 3: it every day, but if like sometimes it'll slip for

506
00:26:08,560 --> 00:26:10,920
Speaker 3: like a week or two, and then I'll just realize

507
00:26:11,000 --> 00:26:13,160
Speaker 3: I don't even know what I'm thinking. I don't even

508
00:26:13,280 --> 00:26:15,040
Speaker 3: know what's going on, like because I just I don't

509
00:26:15,080 --> 00:26:18,680
Speaker 3: have that that because I'm not writing it down.

510
00:26:18,800 --> 00:26:21,919
Speaker 1: Yeah, no, it's I mean, it's really it's like clearing

511
00:26:21,920 --> 00:26:24,000
Speaker 1: a house. It's like organizing your room. Like you you

512
00:26:24,040 --> 00:26:27,159
Speaker 1: don't you have everything in your room right, like you.

513
00:26:27,640 --> 00:26:34,160
Speaker 3: Oh, it's just a quirk of the random phone call.

514
00:26:34,480 --> 00:26:35,680
Speaker 1: We really need to fix that.

515
00:26:35,880 --> 00:26:37,040
Speaker 2: We can't. We can't.

516
00:26:37,520 --> 00:26:40,399
Speaker 1: We can there is there, Everything can be fixed. But

517
00:26:40,480 --> 00:26:42,560
Speaker 1: it's like like I feel like, you know, you can

518
00:26:42,640 --> 00:26:44,320
Speaker 1: know where everything is in your room, but it's a

519
00:26:44,359 --> 00:26:46,359
Speaker 1: little unorganized. But as soon as you organize it, you

520
00:26:46,440 --> 00:26:50,360
Speaker 1: really can, like you can really with a quick overview

521
00:26:50,480 --> 00:26:54,239
Speaker 1: understand your mind. But we got a little bit more

522
00:26:54,280 --> 00:26:57,919
Speaker 1: to the story. So I'm thinking of going full no

523
00:26:58,119 --> 00:27:00,600
Speaker 1: contact with my mom. She is my only parent, and

524
00:27:00,720 --> 00:27:03,879
Speaker 1: it sucks because nobody wants to go through life without parents.

525
00:27:04,320 --> 00:27:06,560
Speaker 1: I don't care how old you are. But honestly, I

526
00:27:06,600 --> 00:27:08,760
Speaker 1: don't know what to do anymore. I go back and

527
00:27:08,760 --> 00:27:12,000
Speaker 1: forth feeling guilty, but remembering that she has never once

528
00:27:12,080 --> 00:27:14,959
Speaker 1: felt any guilt for how she treats me, and that

529
00:27:15,040 --> 00:27:18,959
Speaker 1: she never apologize no matter what she does. But somehow

530
00:27:18,960 --> 00:27:21,840
Speaker 1: I always end up apologizing to keep the peace. I

531
00:27:21,920 --> 00:27:23,719
Speaker 1: just feel like I'm losing my mind. You know, if

532
00:27:23,720 --> 00:27:26,520
Speaker 1: this relationship is hurting you more than it's helping you,

533
00:27:26,960 --> 00:27:28,520
Speaker 1: I don't know if it's a relationship that you need

534
00:27:28,560 --> 00:27:29,320
Speaker 1: to keep close.

535
00:27:29,480 --> 00:27:31,240
Speaker 2: And I don't think it's a relationship you would want

536
00:27:31,240 --> 00:27:33,600
Speaker 2: for your child either. No, I don't know. Your mom

537
00:27:33,640 --> 00:27:36,640
Speaker 2: has not earned a relationship. Dude, dude, no way.

538
00:27:36,680 --> 00:27:40,480
Speaker 1: That is such an important point for like with ope,

539
00:27:41,119 --> 00:27:45,320
Speaker 1: thinking about how she wants to how she wants to

540
00:27:45,400 --> 00:27:47,879
Speaker 1: like like raise her child. The people that you have

541
00:27:47,920 --> 00:27:50,119
Speaker 1: around your child will teach your child what kind of

542
00:27:50,119 --> 00:27:53,520
Speaker 1: self worth they should have. And introducing people like that

543
00:27:53,640 --> 00:27:58,760
Speaker 1: mother that could possibly damage your child's self worth. No no, no, no,

544
00:27:58,760 --> 00:27:59,440
Speaker 1: no no no.

545
00:28:00,359 --> 00:28:03,760
Speaker 3: And if you know, cutting off cutting off a parent

546
00:28:03,960 --> 00:28:05,919
Speaker 3: like that could be really hard, even when you do

547
00:28:05,960 --> 00:28:07,560
Speaker 3: have a good reason. But I think if you go

548
00:28:07,600 --> 00:28:10,040
Speaker 3: to her and you say, hey, you tell her why

549
00:28:10,240 --> 00:28:12,800
Speaker 3: you're cutting her off, and then you say, this is

550
00:28:12,840 --> 00:28:14,720
Speaker 3: what you can do. Maybe you can if you want

551
00:28:14,720 --> 00:28:17,959
Speaker 3: to get help for it in some way, to do

552
00:28:18,080 --> 00:28:23,560
Speaker 3: work and address these issues. Then at some point we

553
00:28:23,640 --> 00:28:26,960
Speaker 3: can talk about not being no contact and then she

554
00:28:27,040 --> 00:28:30,159
Speaker 3: will probably explode at you for that, and just know

555
00:28:30,240 --> 00:28:32,119
Speaker 3: that that will happen and cut her off.

556
00:28:32,400 --> 00:28:33,360
Speaker 2: But you can be.

557
00:28:33,440 --> 00:28:35,800
Speaker 3: At least a little at peace knowing that you gave

558
00:28:35,880 --> 00:28:40,080
Speaker 3: her an avenue to go back to having you in

559
00:28:40,120 --> 00:28:42,280
Speaker 3: her life. And now it's up to her whether or

560
00:28:42,320 --> 00:28:44,560
Speaker 3: not she's going to choose to walk down that road.

561
00:28:44,720 --> 00:28:49,560
Speaker 1: Yeah, agreed, agreed. Yeah, it's like I think you can

562
00:28:49,680 --> 00:28:52,479
Speaker 1: establish it. You can establish just boundaries and parameters of

563
00:28:52,520 --> 00:28:53,840
Speaker 1: what it looks like to be in your life, and

564
00:28:53,880 --> 00:28:55,680
Speaker 1: people who don't respect that aren't going to be in

565
00:28:55,680 --> 00:28:58,200
Speaker 1: your life. But that's where that story ends. We got

566
00:28:58,240 --> 00:29:01,400
Speaker 1: some more stories for you. Could I just realize that

567
00:29:01,480 --> 00:29:02,480
Speaker 1: I have to read all of these?

568
00:29:03,560 --> 00:29:06,920
Speaker 2: Oh that's right, Yeah, forgot, I got one in there,

569
00:29:08,320 --> 00:29:08,720
Speaker 2: one in.

570
00:29:08,680 --> 00:29:12,440
Speaker 1: There, But we got some dough nos.

571
00:29:12,920 --> 00:29:15,320
Speaker 4: Okay, before we get to the donose, everyone's going crazy

572
00:29:15,360 --> 00:29:17,200
Speaker 4: about Max saying he wants to read a story.

573
00:29:17,280 --> 00:29:17,840
Speaker 2: If we can get you.

574
00:29:18,120 --> 00:29:20,080
Speaker 4: How about this hand we get to five hundred likes?

575
00:29:20,080 --> 00:29:21,240
Speaker 4: Should we get to five hundred likes?

576
00:29:21,280 --> 00:29:23,360
Speaker 1: No, no, no, that's too easy.

577
00:29:23,400 --> 00:29:26,160
Speaker 2: Oh I didn't. I mean we get to a thousand likes,

578
00:29:28,040 --> 00:29:30,880
Speaker 2: Max can think about if.

579
00:29:30,720 --> 00:29:33,120
Speaker 1: We get to it, here we go. If we get

580
00:29:33,120 --> 00:29:37,320
Speaker 1: to a If Max can rally a thousand likes on

581
00:29:37,360 --> 00:29:41,200
Speaker 1: this stream, we will think about having him read Max.

582
00:29:42,080 --> 00:29:46,000
Speaker 1: I know you're watching right now. This ain't easy. I

583
00:29:46,040 --> 00:29:48,400
Speaker 1: know what makes it look easy, but I don't know

584
00:29:48,440 --> 00:29:50,880
Speaker 1: if you're ready for that. The heat and the smoke.

585
00:29:51,320 --> 00:29:55,840
Speaker 3: You know, it's once you go into the out of

586
00:29:55,880 --> 00:29:59,840
Speaker 3: the frying pan, into the fire, there's no.

587
00:29:59,800 --> 00:30:03,040
Speaker 1: Go there's no going back. You don't know what's gonna happen. Yeah,

588
00:30:03,480 --> 00:30:04,320
Speaker 1: could freeze.

589
00:30:04,120 --> 00:30:05,800
Speaker 3: Up, you know he did earlier. He was like, he

590
00:30:05,880 --> 00:30:09,120
Speaker 3: was like, what app should I build next? I think

591
00:30:09,320 --> 00:30:11,840
Speaker 3: you should just build us some GPTs.

592
00:30:12,040 --> 00:30:14,640
Speaker 1: Oh yeah, build us some GPTs. Dude, If you build

593
00:30:14,680 --> 00:30:17,680
Speaker 1: us a GPT that can make story finding easier.

594
00:30:17,760 --> 00:30:22,160
Speaker 4: Everyone's like, boom, what do you mean?

595
00:30:22,200 --> 00:30:24,880
Speaker 3: And it's that that we said after a thousand likes,

596
00:30:24,920 --> 00:30:25,880
Speaker 3: we'll think about it.

597
00:30:25,920 --> 00:30:29,520
Speaker 1: A thousand likes, we'll think about Max coming in to

598
00:30:29,640 --> 00:30:34,400
Speaker 1: the stream. Uh, Mary Hale says, what, that's crazy.

599
00:30:34,680 --> 00:30:36,560
Speaker 4: We're already halfway there, guys, pretty there's not a.

600
00:30:36,600 --> 00:30:39,880
Speaker 1: Thousand people in stream. Well, maybe start telling some people

601
00:30:39,920 --> 00:30:41,080
Speaker 1: about the stream, and.

602
00:30:41,200 --> 00:30:43,160
Speaker 4: Guess what if you guys get to that, that's gonna

603
00:30:43,160 --> 00:30:44,080
Speaker 4: be two wheelspins.

604
00:30:44,080 --> 00:30:47,600
Speaker 2: Maybe two wheelspins. That's yeah, that's I think it's three.

605
00:30:47,760 --> 00:30:50,200
Speaker 1: There is three six hundred and seventy eight people on YouTube.

606
00:30:50,280 --> 00:30:52,680
Speaker 1: There's one hundred and forty seven people on Facebook. I

607
00:30:52,720 --> 00:30:56,680
Speaker 1: believe there's some people on TikTok. If you go, if

608
00:30:56,840 --> 00:31:00,000
Speaker 1: everyone how many people are in TikTok right now?

609
00:31:00,520 --> 00:31:02,800
Speaker 4: How are people before it starts notifying us again? We

610
00:31:02,880 --> 00:31:03,600
Speaker 4: got twenty five?

611
00:31:03,800 --> 00:31:09,360
Speaker 1: Okay, if everyone right now went and go and liked

612
00:31:09,440 --> 00:31:12,800
Speaker 1: on YouTube, there's almost there's there's baby.

613
00:31:12,720 --> 00:31:15,080
Speaker 3: That that's that's almost two wheels, but it is two wheels.

614
00:31:15,200 --> 00:31:18,040
Speaker 1: That's a that is a thousand likes. So I'm just

615
00:31:18,120 --> 00:31:22,000
Speaker 1: saying it is possible. But maybe you gotta Maybe you

616
00:31:22,000 --> 00:31:25,160
Speaker 1: gotta get your friends, your family, everyone in here.

617
00:31:25,520 --> 00:31:28,720
Speaker 2: All right, We're already we're almost at like five hundred.

618
00:31:28,720 --> 00:31:31,760
Speaker 1: You better get everyone in here and then and then

619
00:31:31,800 --> 00:31:35,000
Speaker 1: we can let Max can let Max read a story

620
00:31:35,000 --> 00:31:38,680
Speaker 1: you crazy koops. Before we read this next story, let's

621
00:31:38,720 --> 00:31:43,280
Speaker 1: hit some donations. So Estana, thanks for the forty bucks.

622
00:31:46,720 --> 00:31:48,760
Speaker 2: You guys are so much better at mogging than me.

623
00:31:49,600 --> 00:31:52,080
Speaker 2: We can't get it. I got it like once and I.

624
00:31:52,000 --> 00:31:55,560
Speaker 1: Got recar here you got put your your bottom teeth?

625
00:31:55,640 --> 00:32:00,800
Speaker 2: Yeah? Hello, how you doing it? Sam?

626
00:32:00,880 --> 00:32:08,120
Speaker 1: Yeah, we can also do that. A Hannah thanks for

627
00:32:08,120 --> 00:32:11,800
Speaker 1: the seven bucks. Anonymous, thanks for the twenty bucks. Whitney

628
00:32:11,960 --> 00:32:14,960
Speaker 1: thanks for the seventy five dollars. Love the mix of

629
00:32:15,000 --> 00:32:18,840
Speaker 1: stories things the first live I've caught. Oh, this is

630
00:32:18,840 --> 00:32:23,360
Speaker 1: the first live I've caught. Been watching video after video

631
00:32:23,640 --> 00:32:24,840
Speaker 1: for a while now.

632
00:32:25,160 --> 00:32:28,480
Speaker 3: Shout out to all the people see it, find us

633
00:32:28,520 --> 00:32:32,440
Speaker 3: and go through the rolodex, go through, go through the

634
00:32:32,520 --> 00:32:35,480
Speaker 3: whole roster of videos that we got. There's a couple

635
00:32:35,480 --> 00:32:38,160
Speaker 3: of people out there who claim to have seen it all,

636
00:32:38,640 --> 00:32:39,720
Speaker 3: which is a monument.

637
00:32:39,960 --> 00:32:44,120
Speaker 1: Which is crazy monumental task. Vix Mix thanks for the

638
00:32:44,280 --> 00:32:49,200
Speaker 1: five Okay Storytime memberships. We appreciate you. Vix Mix ivy

639
00:32:49,440 --> 00:32:53,040
Speaker 1: Bean member for ten months. Okay, Gang, I have a

640
00:32:53,160 --> 00:32:56,680
Speaker 1: great toxic parent story that is still ongoing. Gotta find

641
00:32:56,680 --> 00:32:58,400
Speaker 1: time to sit down and write it out as always,

642
00:32:58,600 --> 00:33:01,280
Speaker 1: Love you most ah.

643
00:33:01,000 --> 00:33:02,760
Speaker 2: Hey, thanks ivy Bean. What the heck?

644
00:33:02,840 --> 00:33:05,320
Speaker 1: Go submit it our slash Okay Storytime sub Reddit.

645
00:33:05,360 --> 00:33:08,920
Speaker 3: Put your story in our slash Okay story Time on Reddit,

646
00:33:09,520 --> 00:33:11,960
Speaker 3: and that is how it will find its way.

647
00:33:11,840 --> 00:33:12,280
Speaker 2: To the show.

648
00:33:13,000 --> 00:33:14,760
Speaker 1: Vix Mix. Thanks for the two bucks. I will gift

649
00:33:15,040 --> 00:33:19,520
Speaker 1: more memberships if Max will take one, well.

650
00:33:19,360 --> 00:33:21,320
Speaker 3: He has to get more active in the chat like

651
00:33:21,440 --> 00:33:24,560
Speaker 3: everybody else who wants a gifted membership, get active in

652
00:33:24,600 --> 00:33:27,680
Speaker 3: the chat. And again, if you've gotten one since the

653
00:33:27,760 --> 00:33:30,240
Speaker 3: last time I said something, let us know.

654
00:33:30,760 --> 00:33:32,280
Speaker 2: Let us know in the chat.

655
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Speaker 4: Before we before again, we noticed that you guys have

656
00:33:35,640 --> 00:33:36,600
Speaker 4: hit over five hundred likes.

657
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Speaker 2: We're gonna keep reading the donuts and then we'll.

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Speaker 1: And then we'll spin that frickin' wheel in that we

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Speaker 1: double with that wheel emoji. But Max Gomez with the

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Speaker 1: fifty dollar donation, You crazy son of a bitch. Wow,

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Speaker 1: you crazy kooky cats.

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Speaker 4: Watch your language, watching your family.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, that's two more minutes.

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Speaker 1: Leah Prince says, who is Max? It's like you haven't

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Speaker 1: watched every street Come on.

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Speaker 2: Who is Max? Form? Well, to be fable informed them,

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Speaker 2: to be.

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Speaker 3: Fair that the segment Max was it may have been

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Speaker 3: scrubbed from existence was scrubbed.

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Speaker 2: Well, that was when we did that hard mode that

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Speaker 2: was like too hard.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, we did not release that to the people.

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Speaker 2: That was Yeah, that.

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Speaker 1: Was a little a little rough.

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Speaker 2: My heart Mode's not on the wheel anymore.

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Speaker 1: Max Gomez thanks for the ten bucks. Max Comaz, thanks

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Speaker 1: for the buck. You crazy crazy cat la f thanks

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Speaker 1: for the two dollars. Austrailian with the little lie emoji.

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Speaker 5: Fith thanks Uh Carl Beth name Be thanks for that too,

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Speaker 5: bucks bet that thing, Carl vix Max, thanks for the

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Speaker 5: five bucks.

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Speaker 1: My mother was a don't ask a question you don't

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Speaker 1: want a honest answer to. But she was never mean

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Speaker 1: and I missed her very much.

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Speaker 3: Shadow shut out Mother vix mix which is you know,

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Speaker 3: that's a good vibe too.

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00:34:56,719 --> 00:34:58,399
Speaker 2: I will be honest. If you asked me a question,

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Speaker 2: I will tell you the truth.

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Speaker 1: He's a boy. Trish twenty one thanks for the five. Okay,

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00:35:05,320 --> 00:35:09,360
Speaker 1: story time memberships grow in this community. We love to

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00:35:09,400 --> 00:35:12,520
Speaker 1: see it. And y'all Cookie Cats are already five hundred

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00:35:12,520 --> 00:35:15,080
Speaker 1: and forty three likes. We got seven hundred and twenty

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Speaker 1: people on YouTube. That means we've got eight hundred and forty.

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Speaker 1: We almost have nine hundred people total right now. And

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Speaker 1: can I tell you guys a little secret. Yes, the

696
00:35:25,160 --> 00:35:27,240
Speaker 1: way to get more people to come in the stream

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00:35:27,440 --> 00:35:30,759
Speaker 1: is to spam the chat. So the more activity that

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Speaker 1: this chat has, the more people that can come into

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00:35:34,320 --> 00:35:36,799
Speaker 1: the stream and like it. Just so you know that

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Speaker 1: is true. That is true.

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Speaker 3: The more people are in the chat, the more people

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00:35:40,920 --> 00:35:43,439
Speaker 3: there are too, like YouTube's like, oh this is pop

703
00:35:43,440 --> 00:35:44,680
Speaker 3: and we should get more people in here.

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00:35:44,760 --> 00:35:46,000
Speaker 2: So if you want.

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Speaker 1: Max to Coumbery story, we get to a thousand legs.

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00:35:52,719 --> 00:35:55,360
Speaker 1: That's how you do it. And Sophia Callen, thanks for

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Speaker 1: the eight months of membership. Sam, you can't say we

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Speaker 1: will think about it. It is you will ring him

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Speaker 1: in if we hit one CA OKAYX has no choice anymore,

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00:36:04,360 --> 00:36:07,279
Speaker 1: so yes, yes, we will bring him in if we

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00:36:07,400 --> 00:36:10,879
Speaker 1: hit a thousand likes. Okay, you happy? If I mean

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Speaker 1: I'm gonna, I will.

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Speaker 2: We can't force him, We can't force him to come in,

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00:36:15,719 --> 00:36:19,520
Speaker 2: but now we can. Why would you do this? You

715
00:36:19,600 --> 00:36:22,920
Speaker 2: opened the floodgate? Why would you do that?

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Speaker 3: You know your rules, that's they're doing exactly what we.

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Speaker 2: Ask that's the rules.

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Speaker 3: That's how I need some but don't Yeah, somebody don't

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Speaker 3: want to do something more than just spam. We're not

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Speaker 3: going to flag the chat now, don't don't don't do.

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Speaker 2: That actually right right? Really write some cute stuff? Yeah,

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Speaker 2: come on, don't just say spam. I don't like that.

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Speaker 2: Get his banned. I don't know.

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Speaker 3: I feel like I feel like a lot of this

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Speaker 3: stuff is ran by robots. So if the robot sees

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Speaker 3: one hundred comments that we get that fix mixed.

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Speaker 2: I think might send the.

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Speaker 1: Five Okay story to have memberships. Appreciate you. One from

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Speaker 1: Bella Bella Bucks, Hey, guys, glad to see you're all

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Speaker 1: doing well in our in such high spirit show. I've

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Speaker 1: got a lump today and got told I have to

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Speaker 1: go to a mammogram.

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Speaker 2: Not sure if that's what it is.

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Speaker 1: So glad I could join you tonight. You really do

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Speaker 1: raise my spirits. Bella, don't worry before you have to.

736
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Speaker 1: But good you're taking care of things when you need to. Also,

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Speaker 1: you know I got lumps, lumps and bumps and they're

738
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Speaker 1: just lip hoomas exactly.

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Speaker 2: You never know. That was if anyone.

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Speaker 3: I think Keon put a close up on my head

741
00:37:30,880 --> 00:37:33,000
Speaker 3: when I was doing that, and that was me sending

742
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Speaker 3: my thoughts into the universe that it's like just a

743
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Speaker 3: totally like benign little thing.

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Speaker 2: To me, my x man, just a weird thing.

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Speaker 1: But we got su wheelspins. Let me do that wheel

746
00:37:46,239 --> 00:37:47,480
Speaker 1: you do look at that wheel.

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Speaker 3: We're five hundred and sixty. Now that was that was

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00:37:49,840 --> 00:37:52,160
Speaker 3: like immediately that was a hundred likes. We just got

749
00:37:52,160 --> 00:37:54,320
Speaker 3: a hundred likes. All you need is like four hundred

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00:37:54,360 --> 00:37:58,680
Speaker 3: more likes and Max. We will go lasso Max wherever

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Speaker 3: he is and we will drag came kidnap him into

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Speaker 3: our hole.

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Speaker 2: The wheels right.

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Speaker 1: Here, spin it dance, got all right there we go

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00:38:10,280 --> 00:38:13,959
Speaker 1: slowly spin it to alterpreative dance. All right, ready ready

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Speaker 1: to spin that.

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00:38:18,760 --> 00:38:22,000
Speaker 2: Coming out of call? Let's do that? Should we do

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00:38:22,040 --> 00:38:22,279
Speaker 2: the call?

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Speaker 3: Now?

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00:38:23,480 --> 00:38:27,560
Speaker 1: Let's do a call after this next story. If you

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00:38:27,880 --> 00:38:31,279
Speaker 1: have a story, let's just say, uh, it has to

762
00:38:31,320 --> 00:38:36,960
Speaker 1: be not super depressing or super dramatic. I want a story.

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Speaker 1: Oh about a time, Oh maybe how you found out

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00:38:43,200 --> 00:38:45,560
Speaker 1: Santa Claus was real or not real?

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Speaker 2: What? No? What what did you? I don't even remember that.

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00:38:51,200 --> 00:38:52,960
Speaker 2: I don't remember the exact moment.

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Speaker 3: Uh that came smart enough to know that a man

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Speaker 3: can't come down the chimney to every house on earth.

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Speaker 1: And maybe a really smart man would figure it out. Okay,

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00:39:05,480 --> 00:39:07,840
Speaker 1: so all right, you could do that one.

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00:39:08,000 --> 00:39:11,799
Speaker 2: Or like Santa is just an engineer and you could

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Speaker 2: figure anything out. Or maybe say call Max.

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Speaker 1: Maybe the time that you first fell in love, your

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00:39:20,960 --> 00:39:23,759
Speaker 1: first love, Oh that's your first What I want?

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00:39:23,800 --> 00:39:25,560
Speaker 2: I want fun little cute little story.

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Speaker 3: First, my brain went to, like, tell us the most

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Speaker 3: annoying thing that happened to you at work.

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00:39:30,640 --> 00:39:31,279
Speaker 2: Okay, let's make it.

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Speaker 4: Okay, since the holidays are here, let's make it like

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Speaker 4: a Christmas story.

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00:39:33,920 --> 00:39:34,400
Speaker 2: Let's come on.

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00:39:34,480 --> 00:39:37,200
Speaker 1: Let's it could be when you found out Santa was

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00:39:37,320 --> 00:39:39,680
Speaker 1: or wasn't real. Oh, come on, your most.

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Speaker 3: Annoying thing at work, or your sting to ever happen

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Speaker 3: at the company, Christmas first kiss a company, let's do it.

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Speaker 2: No, no one wants to hear a first kiss.

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Speaker 3: I want to hear a first Sam, I will.

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Speaker 2: I will tell you my first first cases are really weird.

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Speaker 1: The first kiss is I didn't know anything about I

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Speaker 1: didn't know anything about love, anything about smooching, and this

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00:40:03,320 --> 00:40:07,160
Speaker 1: girl invited me to watch a movie in theaters. It

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Speaker 1: was a unpopular movie at the time or at least

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Speaker 1: like the theater was empty. It was the Johnny DApp

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Speaker 1: Rendition of Alice in Wonderland and it was in three D.

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Speaker 1: It was in three D, and we sat down next

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Speaker 1: to each other. The theater was completely empty, yes, and

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Speaker 1: we're both wearing our three D glasses and I was

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Speaker 1: wearing my glasses, she was wearing hers. And then like

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Speaker 1: the movie starts, and it's like, you know, I'm assuming

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Speaker 1: it's in three DD, but then three D. She takes

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Speaker 1: off her glasses and I'm like, oh, maybe this part

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Speaker 1: of the movie isn't in three D, and so I

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Speaker 1: take off my glasses and I'm like, this, dumb lady,

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Speaker 1: this is still so boring. Why didn't she take off

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Speaker 1: her glasses? And then she looks at me and I'm

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Speaker 1: about to tell her, yo, I'm pretty sure this part

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Speaker 1: of the movie is in three D. You should put

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Speaker 1: your glasses back on, and she jumps me, pins me

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Speaker 1: on the freakin' on the theater seats.

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Speaker 2: There's no one in the theater.

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Speaker 1: And that was my first makeout session and kiss and

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Speaker 1: it was awesome. Yeah.

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Speaker 4: Yeah, don't you want that from a stranger right now?

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00:41:09,680 --> 00:41:10,040
Speaker 1: Why not?

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Speaker 4: Because I think you gave me enough of that today.

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Speaker 2: That's that's enough. Yeah, that's enough of the kiss. That's

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00:41:17,400 --> 00:41:17,919
Speaker 2: enough of that.

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Speaker 4: Do like a Christmas one. It's a holidays all right.

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00:41:21,280 --> 00:41:21,640
Speaker 2: You know what?

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00:41:21,800 --> 00:41:25,800
Speaker 1: Just just submit your one sentence descriptors of your story

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Speaker 1: to Riley on Discord right now, and I'll pick and

822
00:41:29,600 --> 00:41:31,080
Speaker 1: we'll pick the best one, all right, the best.

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Speaker 2: Those are all little.

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Speaker 1: Things that you could bump bump off of.

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Speaker 2: I can't believe that you would miss out on the

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Speaker 2: tim Burton Ouse in Wonderland like that.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, I really, I really did not bang it iconic.

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Speaker 2: It was the iconic timber Everyone that would have been like,

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Speaker 2: oh everyone the wrong way, the movies that way, yo,

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Speaker 2: fix Mekes and x me.

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Speaker 3: With fifty I Haley Bell would be back.

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Speaker 1: Oh my god, vix Mix, thanks for the fifty bucks

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Speaker 1: my last don't know the year, but I want to

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Speaker 1: thank you all for the love and support over the

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Speaker 1: past five months. I want you to have a happy

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Speaker 1: holiday and an amazing new year. Your favorite Auntie vix

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Speaker 1: Mix loves you all. Fix Mix, thank you so much

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Speaker 1: spreading the Christmas cheer.

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Speaker 4: Love you to vix Mix, your favorite holidays.

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Speaker 3: Haley Bell, Yeah, get the no bells in the chat.

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Speaker 3: Get the no bells in the chat.

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Speaker 1: D bucks donate there's nothing.

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Speaker 3: Just just sent us straight over into the next bell

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Speaker 3: thirty minutes.

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Speaker 2: Wow wow wow wow wow wow wow.

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Speaker 3: I will not be out wowd sir, wow wow wow wow.

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Speaker 1: All right, we got some more down now was in

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Speaker 1: the super chat.

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Speaker 4: Oh just in case, I we just got.

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Speaker 1: All right, and simply Rain three.

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Speaker 2: You want to be that, Yeah, simply Rain three. Thanks

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Speaker 2: for being a member for one month.

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Speaker 3: I got told at my Christmas party that they were

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00:43:21,480 --> 00:43:24,319
Speaker 3: selling my property, so I don't have a job. Oh

855
00:43:24,640 --> 00:43:29,080
Speaker 3: also call Max, Well that sucks. That is not that

856
00:43:29,760 --> 00:43:31,840
Speaker 3: you'll get another one. Hey, I have full faith that

857
00:43:31,920 --> 00:43:34,680
Speaker 3: you will find gainful employment sooner than you think, and

858
00:43:34,719 --> 00:43:37,680
Speaker 3: it'll probably be better than the job that you just had.

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Speaker 3: So and uh oh Sassy sent LPC thanks for the

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00:43:41,920 --> 00:43:46,799
Speaker 3: seven Canadian dollars. My parents told me I was adopted

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Speaker 3: and then told me Santa wasn't real. It backfired and

862
00:43:50,239 --> 00:43:52,239
Speaker 3: I believed I was adopted and I'm not.

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00:43:53,280 --> 00:43:57,680
Speaker 2: Well, yeah, it seems like a bad bad timing.

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00:43:57,719 --> 00:43:59,719
Speaker 3: So they're like, we're gonna tell you one truth and

865
00:43:59,800 --> 00:44:02,400
Speaker 3: one you're adopted in Santa's not real.

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00:44:04,040 --> 00:44:09,040
Speaker 2: And You're like, I'm adopted, Like, no, no, no, no, Santa's

867
00:44:09,080 --> 00:44:12,360
Speaker 2: not real? Are you sure? Just for the rest of

868
00:44:12,360 --> 00:44:13,920
Speaker 2: your life? You're like, am I am I?

869
00:44:14,040 --> 00:44:14,200
Speaker 1: Though?

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00:44:14,920 --> 00:44:19,840
Speaker 2: Am I adopted? And is Santa real? It's all right, Sacre, we.

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00:44:19,840 --> 00:44:22,799
Speaker 1: Got one a little bit above them. I think, yeah,

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00:44:22,800 --> 00:44:23,000
Speaker 1: we do.

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00:44:23,080 --> 00:44:25,440
Speaker 4: I'm just I'm reading the discord. I'm getting some direct messages.

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00:44:25,480 --> 00:44:29,480
Speaker 4: I think I might have someone, but again, I'll message you. D.

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Speaker 3: Thanks for the fifteen bucks, yes, D thank you for

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Speaker 3: the fifteen and for your flying pair.

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Speaker 2: Ye. We appreciate it. Max.

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Speaker 1: If you want to submit a story, we could call you.

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Speaker 3: Uh Dakota earth Lean Shyleen. Thank you for the five

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Speaker 3: pounds and for your first dono on the superchat Dakota

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Speaker 3: be so what does that?

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Speaker 2: Is that an acronym?

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Speaker 1: And to be clear, Santa is real?

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Speaker 2: To be clear? Oh yeah, to be clear, Santa Israel.

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Speaker 2: Santa Israel?

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Speaker 3: All right, everyone watching, people For all the people watching

887
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Speaker 3: and the kids are hearing this, Just know the kids,

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Speaker 3: We're we're doing a grown up joke.

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Speaker 2: Grown ups like to joke about Santa not being real.

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Speaker 4: All right, mister I wanted the movie theaters to watch

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Speaker 4: Alison Wonderland and three D.

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Speaker 2: It was great. It was this movie experience I've ever had.

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Speaker 4: All Right, I've ever heard come out of your mouth.

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Speaker 4: I've heard some crazy things, but that is the craziest

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Speaker 4: statement you've ever said. That's the greatest cinema you've seen.

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Speaker 2: I'm going to get back into this.

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Speaker 3: Dono earth Lean Shyleen, says Dakota, be so twitter Woo.

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Speaker 3: I am on team Dakota ever in Northern Ireland, I'll

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Speaker 3: be your tour guide. Love you all though could get

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Speaker 3: couldn't couldn't get through without every one of you. Hey you,

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Speaker 3: thank you earth Lean Shyleen. And if I ever am

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Speaker 3: at Northern Ireland, I'll hit you up.

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Speaker 2: Uh Bob, just keep donating. Thank you for two dollars,

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Speaker 2: bugs says Sam. The children and again it's like we're

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Speaker 2: now we've.

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Speaker 3: We've we yeah, we've made it clear that Santa is real.

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Speaker 2: We were just joking, yes.

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Speaker 3: And also sometimes it's hard for kids to understand how

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Speaker 3: good grown ups joke around. Yea, so so you know,

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Speaker 3: just let him know. It's it's when you get older,

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Speaker 3: you're own, you'll understand the joke. Angie thinks for being

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Speaker 3: a member for nine months, I was just watching on

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Speaker 3: my TV while wrapping my gifts and had to get

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Speaker 3: on my phone to type a message and to like

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Speaker 3: the stream team Max. Max is like, everyone, should we

916
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Speaker 3: just call Max? If he has you better have a story,

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Speaker 3: all right?

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Speaker 2: Do you want to just call? Is that is that

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00:46:47,239 --> 00:46:49,680
Speaker 2: okay with you? Everyone? Instead of just taking guarantee you

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Speaker 2: everyone in chat's gonna say.

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Speaker 4: And then if you have two thousand times, Max will

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Speaker 4: somehow instantly appear here.

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Speaker 1: You will, we will, we will all right, use the people.

924
00:46:57,440 --> 00:47:00,000
Speaker 1: We're gonna call Max and he's gonna give us a story.

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Speaker 2: Something is that is that our technical is.

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Speaker 1: Gonna give a one minute story to appease the chat.

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Speaker 2: The chat if that's okay that Max will give us

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Speaker 2: a story.

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Speaker 3: And then with the thousand like is off the table,

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Speaker 3: although we should want to try to get to a

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Speaker 3: thousand like drink are extra wheels, Max is still on

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Speaker 3: the board.

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Speaker 4: Max will be here in person to read a story

934
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Speaker 4: for a thousand we get a thousand likes, But right

935
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Speaker 4: now Max is our call because Max.

936
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Speaker 2: Max is making it all about Max.

937
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Speaker 3: Right now They're gonna have to prove it to me

938
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Speaker 3: because I feel like after they get this, Max call

939
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Speaker 3: a lot of the fire is going to die down,

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Speaker 3: so they have to prove it to me that they

941
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Speaker 3: can get that thousand likes.

942
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Speaker 2: You still have to Let's let's let's think. Yeah, let's

943
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Speaker 2: throw up. I think we do we not have more.

944
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Speaker 1: Story?

945
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Speaker 2: Then we're going to and then uh, okay, yeah we

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Speaker 2: have more, we have more, We have more.

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Speaker 1: Janny's thanks for the ten bucks. Found you guys a

948
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Speaker 1: few days ago. You really found You've really found you, guys.

949
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Speaker 1: I really enjoy it. I've been having a tough time

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Speaker 1: lately and you guys have really helped pick we Yeah, well, Gene, Dennis, Jen,

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Speaker 1: We're thankful that we could pick you up. And even

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Speaker 1: thanks for the nine months so membership. When does part

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Speaker 1: two of wife Cheeting may ruin My Life come out? Hi?

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Speaker 2: Love you? Not sure? Say just say it for that?

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Speaker 2: Love you too? Yeah, And then we got it.

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Speaker 1: We got more aware Kimberly Hollyggs with the two bucks

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Speaker 1: snowstorm in Midland, Michigan, pray for us so that we

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Speaker 1: will LORII thanks to the one forty nine and a

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Speaker 1: little mustache emoji.

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Speaker 2: What else we got?

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Speaker 3: What else we got up? And now we will go

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Speaker 3: certifiably Thank you for the five dollars. My nineteen year

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Speaker 3: old has special needs and only says a few words.

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Speaker 3: But when y'all started joking about Santa, he looked at

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Speaker 3: at y'all and.

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Speaker 2: Said, lie, I love you. He caught us. He knew

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Speaker 2: the joke. He knew the joke.

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Speaker 1: DJ toad are thanks to the five bucks. Glad to

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Speaker 1: catch the live stream. Happy holidays to the Okay Storytime gang.

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Speaker 1: Thank you for sharing the stories with us. P has

971
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Speaker 1: hope Max will participate. Oh, with the stream again. We're

972
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Speaker 1: gonna call them in a little bit, don't you worry,

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Speaker 1: and pretty call me seven nine twenty five. Thanks for

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Speaker 1: the forty bucks. Listening to the stream while cleaning my

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Speaker 1: chinchilla cages.

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Speaker 3: That's cool.

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Speaker 2: Love you guys.

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Speaker 1: And Haley Bell that's I mean, we were at it,

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Speaker 1: but hundred box, we appreciate you.

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Speaker 2: Alright, did we finally do it? All right?

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Speaker 1: Now we're gonna read a story because some people want

982
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Speaker 1: us to read stories, and then we will call Bax.

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Speaker 2: It's not like that's the whole president the show, the show.

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Speaker 4: All right, hold on, I gotta start a new Mega

985
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Speaker 4: because you guys are wild.

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Speaker 2: We are wow, No, we're wild and crazy guys. He's

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Speaker 2: all wild crazy guys.

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Speaker 1: Hum am I am I connected to the.

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Speaker 2: Let's check to let's I don't think you are anymore.

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Speaker 3: Here we go.

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Speaker 2: I'm gonna do it, okay, mmmm yeah everywhere.

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Speaker 3: Yes, a lot of people are still talking, Max, and

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Speaker 3: some people are saying that you're an echo from me.

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Speaker 2: It comes and goes. I've checked because just like I've

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Speaker 2: tried to mix here me now you're doing it. You're

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Speaker 2: doing it. Do you hear me?

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Speaker 3: Now?

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Speaker 2: Ma me the cape? Yes, yes, there we go.

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Speaker 1: All right, we're gonna do another story, and then we're

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Speaker 1: gonna call Max.

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Speaker 2: Max. Max isn't interesting? Don't Max?

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Speaker 1: Hear that?

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Speaker 4: Max?

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Speaker 1: Max? All right, I want you to prepare your one

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Speaker 1: minute story. All right, you have a one minute story.

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Speaker 1: Your most interesting one minute story.

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Speaker 2: Proved La Lah wrong.

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Speaker 1: Max is interesting, by the way, Yeah, is very is

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Speaker 1: a very interesting man.

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Speaker 2: He seemed like a favorite or an interesting character.

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Speaker 1: He is an interesting character. Max, one minute story. Think

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Speaker 1: about it right now while we read this next story.