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Speaker 1: your closure call right after this. It's Brook and Jeffrey

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Speaker 1: in the morning. And if I've learned anything from watching

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Speaker 3: The sisters always have each other's back. Its love. It

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Speaker 1: But you know what, for the most part, zero drama.

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Speaker 3: Seriously, sometimes she can be in a mood and I'm

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Speaker 1: Oh, yeah, yeah, that's normal. Though strangely it's not the

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Speaker 1: case for one of our listeners named Amelia, who's reached

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Speaker 3: That's happens.

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Speaker 1: Let's talk to her. Name is again, Amelia, Amelia, welcome

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Speaker 3: Thank you, you're welcome. Do you have more than one

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Speaker 4: It's just the two of us?

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Speaker 3: Okay, okay, what's awesome?

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Speaker 1: What's going on with you and your sister? What made

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Speaker 5: Okay, this is a lot, but I'll give you the

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Speaker 4: So I am traditionally.

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Speaker 5: Super close with my family, Okay, close with my mom,

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Speaker 5: and we all kind of live near each other. And

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Speaker 5: like my little sister Carissa was like in the same boat.

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Speaker 1: I mean, like you lived on a boat together. That's

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Speaker 3: It's a tropical version of frozen.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, Okay, I know you're close with all of your family.

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Speaker 4: Yeah, But I mean sisters are how they are.

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Speaker 5: I mean, like, I'm not going to sit here and

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Speaker 2: But I was just talking about this with Alexus because

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Speaker 4: Right, And that's always been the case.

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Speaker 5: I mean, we had fights where like you would have

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Speaker 5: So it's volatile, but like it's not anything out of

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Speaker 1: I work, Okay, So there were a lot of little fights,

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Speaker 5: Yeah, so things have gone completely off the rails and

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Speaker 3: So why what happened?

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Speaker 5: Yeah, one night we were on our way out and

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Speaker 2: And you're always jockeying like, hey, mom, you should really

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Speaker 4: Yeah, like I'm the oldest I wanted on these things.

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Speaker 3: Oh my god. At my grandmother's house.

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Speaker 1: God. Well, at least that gives you a little bit

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Speaker 1: of perspective, Amelia, your situation could be worse. You could

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Speaker 5: So my mom does have quite a few pieces that

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Speaker 4: Maybe that led to her drinking a little.

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Speaker 1: Did something happen?

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Speaker 5: Yes, so the.

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Speaker 4: Ring is gone.

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Speaker 5: She took it off to like wash her hands or something,

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Speaker 5: I'll give you points for that, But like, why did

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Speaker 2: Okay, yeah, So how long ago was the ring lost?

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Speaker 5: So this was over a year ago?

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Speaker 3: Was like, I know, No, why are you waiting a

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Speaker 1: Yeah, what's happened since that night with you? Your sister?

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Speaker 5: Absolutely nothing except she moved out of state. That's all

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Speaker 1: Nothing, but she moved a thousand miles away so she

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Speaker 3: Wait, you guys aren't talking.

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Speaker 5: No, we got into a huge fight and like, granted

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Speaker 5: And then about a month goes by, she moves out

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Speaker 2: Oh wait, did your parents know what happened?

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Speaker 3: Do your parents know that she lost the ring? And

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Speaker 5: No, she won't talk to anybody, Like I know what happened.

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Speaker 5: It's between us and you guys now. But like she

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Speaker 3: I mean, okay, I get it.

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Speaker 2: It's a huge deal, but it's not a big enough

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Speaker 4: This.

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Speaker 2: There's a replaceable that makes me so sad for you,

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Speaker 2: and I bet it would break your mom's heart. Like,

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Speaker 1: Because of it. So that's why you reached out to

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Speaker 2: Right, she moved exactly, and you haven't had any chance

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Speaker 1: Come on?

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Speaker 1: She and her little sister have not spoken to each

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Speaker 1: so that led to an argument. Some things were said

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Speaker 3: I can't imagine what you said.

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Speaker 1: I mean, honestly, do you want to repeat some of

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Speaker 5: I mean, I will say I said a lot of

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Speaker 5: Like I'll say that.

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Speaker 1: Okay, that's fair.

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Speaker 3: We'll see if she says the same thing.

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Speaker 1: I know Brooke has said there's gotta be something else,

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Speaker 3: What do you mean?

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Speaker 1: What if she went and ponned it and lied and

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Speaker 3: They were drinking, she had it on when they left.

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Speaker 1: I mean, that's what I would have done. I would

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Speaker 3: This entire time.

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Speaker 5: If anything, this ring has more sentimental value than financial value.

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Speaker 2: Your family heir, like my family, are looms like we

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Speaker 3: They're very sentimental to us.

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Speaker 2: But then you go get it a praise and you're like, well,

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Speaker 1: Yeah right, yeah, Okay, we can all call our parents'

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Speaker 1: call question we said. First of all, I feel completely

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Speaker 1: I'm super sorry. Can you forgive me?

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Speaker 5: So?

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Speaker 3: It's been a year. Yeah, I'm sure she's been sober

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Speaker 1: Do you understand that's why she said she be mad.

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Speaker 1: She does keep going and says, I'm really really sorry

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Speaker 5: Oh yeah, that's way. That's way better, right, that's super better. Yeah.

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Speaker 2: I love how she says, I don't want to hurt you,

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Speaker 3: Like what do you think? Yeah, are you still in

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Speaker 1: So what we wrote to her was, I know we

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Speaker 1: Well answer hard?

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Speaker 5: So right, if that did not age, well, wait, you

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Speaker 4: I'm literally speechless, I have no I have no words.

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Speaker 4: Like? So, like my mom and dad have been lying

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Speaker 5: Too, Like that's perfect, that's great stuff.

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Speaker 3: Why, well, they could tell that you're I mean.

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Speaker 5: You know, no, there's no excuse, like like, you can't

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Speaker 3: Like that makes like I get way more deep breath,

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Speaker 3: I'm just saying yea.

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Speaker 4: I think after you sit with this, we'll communicate.

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Speaker 5: I'm gonna sit with it on Ryan's dad's lap as

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Speaker 1: That was your closure call.

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Speaker 2: I actually support that, Okay, yeah.

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Speaker 3: Only if Ryan's dad's rich.

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Speaker 1: It's Brooke and Jeffrey in the morning,