WEBVTT - Miss New Jersey...with Teresa Giudice (Part 1)

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<v Speaker 1>Misspelling with Tory spelling and iHeartRadio podcast. My friend is

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<v Speaker 1>here and I'm super excited.

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<v Speaker 2>I'm excited too.

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<v Speaker 1>Teresa Judais. Oh my gosh, I love.

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<v Speaker 2>You, thank you. This is so surreal. I mean I

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<v Speaker 2>watched you, you know, I watched you growing up, and

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<v Speaker 2>it's like so crazy for us to be in the

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<v Speaker 2>same room doing a podcast together, Like I love that,

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<v Speaker 2>Oh my gosh.

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<v Speaker 1>And I've watched you my kids growing up. So there. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>but here you are on the West Coast, and I'm

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<v Speaker 1>very excited.

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<v Speaker 2>I mean, it's crazy. I think we're the same age, right.

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<v Speaker 1>I mean, are younger than me.

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<v Speaker 2>I'm how old are you?

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<v Speaker 1>Oh my mayor can google this shit, I'm.

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<v Speaker 2>Fifty I'm fifty one, what so? Yeah?

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<v Speaker 1>What so? Yeah.

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<v Speaker 2>So it's like I remember watching your birthday. My birthday's

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<v Speaker 2>May eighteen, so I'm going to be fifty two.

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<v Speaker 1>Wait, my birthday's May sixteen.

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<v Speaker 2>Is say that?

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, this friendship all makes sense?

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<v Speaker 2>Oh my god, see that that's wild.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah.

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<v Speaker 2>So I'm going to be fifty one and you started TV?

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<v Speaker 2>How old are you?

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<v Speaker 1>Oh my gosh, well, I mean since I was born,

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<v Speaker 1>like came out of you to row on TV. Fifteen.

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<v Speaker 1>I did the pilot.

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<v Speaker 2>See you started younger. I started later. It's so funny.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, so Real Housewives of New Jersey season fourteen, Yes

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<v Speaker 1>is insane. Okay, So they got like the good part

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<v Speaker 1>of you the world.

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<v Speaker 2>I mean, thank you. I started out that way and

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<v Speaker 2>then after, you know, then it's like everyone always comes

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<v Speaker 2>for Teresa.

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<v Speaker 1>They really do. Yeah, you're the og. Yes, we're both ogs.

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<v Speaker 2>I know.

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<v Speaker 1>Yes, I feel like I can't imagine the show without you.

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<v Speaker 2>Thank you.

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<v Speaker 1>I don't even know how you hold it together, to

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<v Speaker 1>be like the.

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<v Speaker 2>Glue, the glue that holds it all together. Maybe the goddess.

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<v Speaker 1>Queen queen.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah they like that.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, you are the Queen.

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<v Speaker 2>I never like to say that about myself, you know,

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<v Speaker 2>like I'm not that person. But yeah, I mean I

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<v Speaker 2>did start the show, So thank you. I did start

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<v Speaker 2>the show. And so yeah I am the OJ. So yeah,

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<v Speaker 2>it's been you know, I've been through rollercoaster, lots of

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<v Speaker 2>ups and downs. Yeah. So and I've shown it. I've

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<v Speaker 2>shown it all. Like what you see is what you get.

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<v Speaker 2>I'm real as they come.

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<v Speaker 1>You really are so because I know her aside from

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<v Speaker 1>watching her, and she really is like we so before

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<v Speaker 1>we started the podcast, we saw each other downstairs and

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<v Speaker 1>immediately we're like, what's going on? And you were on

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<v Speaker 1>the phone with your daughter and she was buying a bird.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, Milania called me and Malani's like, Matt, can I

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<v Speaker 2>get a bird? And I thought she just was asking me,

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<v Speaker 2>like I figured she was in school, She's just asking me.

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<v Speaker 2>And then she facetimes me and you saw she was

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<v Speaker 2>at the pet store. She was there, So she was

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<v Speaker 2>at the pet store and she's like, can I buy

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<v Speaker 2>a bird? And I'm like, we have four dogs. I mean,

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<v Speaker 2>we don't eat a bird. You know, I had birds

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<v Speaker 2>growing up. They're really messy.

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<v Speaker 1>So oh you did have birds?

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<v Speaker 2>Yes, I did have. I hadoots and they're really loud. Yes,

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<v Speaker 2>and they make a mess. Yeah, bird food all over

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<v Speaker 2>the floor. So I just told her, like, you know

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<v Speaker 2>what make a mess? Yeah, and make a mess. Yes, yeah, birds,

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<v Speaker 2>that's a hard thing. But I promptly told her she

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<v Speaker 2>should go ahead. And I know You're like, just tell

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<v Speaker 2>her to get the bird. I'm like, no, Tori, you

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<v Speaker 2>have four dogs, sollo oh no, no, I like what

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<v Speaker 2>you said. You said because you have four dogs, You're

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<v Speaker 2>like the birds could have heart attacks. From the dogs barking,

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<v Speaker 2>So I liked it. That's a good one.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, and then I winked at you. But that's actually

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<v Speaker 1>a true story.

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<v Speaker 2>That is.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah. I got a bird once at a pet store

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<v Speaker 1>and it was pink, so I of course was like, oh,

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<v Speaker 1>it's cute. I have to get this bird. And I

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<v Speaker 1>got it and took it home, and then my dog

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<v Speaker 1>barked and it was in It was called Rosie because

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<v Speaker 1>I was super.

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<v Speaker 2>One of my dogs is the real Rosy. It's so cute.

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<v Speaker 2>See that. We have another thing in comedy there.

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<v Speaker 1>Let's just keep satting up. But the dog barked and

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<v Speaker 1>Rosie literally went I just fell hit the bottom of

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<v Speaker 1>the cage, and we're like what, oh my god, oh

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<v Speaker 1>my god, oh sad.

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<v Speaker 2>And I thought about another thing. Both of her name

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<v Speaker 2>starts with tea.

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<v Speaker 1>Oh my gosh. Yeah, like, what's your nickname?

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<v Speaker 2>Got up Tea? Like in high school was sweet Tea? Yeah,

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<v Speaker 2>in high school was sweet Tea. Tray. A lot of

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<v Speaker 2>people call me tree. That's what my ex used to

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<v Speaker 2>call me, Tray. My fans are called tree huggers.

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<v Speaker 1>Interesting.

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<v Speaker 2>Yes, I saw Kay Hoover from Access Hollywood. She goes this,

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<v Speaker 2>what are your fans called my fans are called you

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<v Speaker 2>know tree. I'm like, what do you mean and she's like,

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<v Speaker 2>what are they? I'm like tree huggers. She's like yes,

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<v Speaker 2>She's like, you don't even know what they were calling

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<v Speaker 2>me on Instagram because one time I walked off her

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<v Speaker 2>show and like this was years ago and she's talked

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<v Speaker 2>about something I didn't want to talk about. So I

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<v Speaker 2>was like, you know, I'm not take and I just

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<v Speaker 2>walked off. She's like, you don't understand. She's like, your

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<v Speaker 2>fans came for me. She said she was called see

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<v Speaker 2>you next Tuesday. I was like, oh my god. I

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<v Speaker 2>was like, I'm so sorry. She's like, no, it's not

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<v Speaker 2>your fault. She's like, it was your fans, your tree

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<v Speaker 2>huggers that were coming after me. Saying that. So yesterday

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<v Speaker 2>I was on her show, her and Mario and she's like,

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<v Speaker 2>can we take can we take a video? I want

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<v Speaker 2>to tell your fans that we've made up. I'm like sure,

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<v Speaker 2>so everyone, I just want you guys to know me

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<v Speaker 2>Kit Hoover made up. So thank you, my tree huggers.

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<v Speaker 2>Love love, love you guys. You're amazing. Thanks for all

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<v Speaker 2>your love and support. It means the world to me.

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<v Speaker 1>Oh, my gosh, I love you tree hugger. Wait, I'm

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<v Speaker 1>sorry I bought tree huggers something else.

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<v Speaker 2>Oh what did you think they meant environmentally? Yeah, my

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<v Speaker 2>ants call themselves three huggers, which I love. It's that's

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<v Speaker 2>my nickname.

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<v Speaker 1>I love that.

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<v Speaker 2>Yes, I love that too.

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<v Speaker 1>What does Louie call you?

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<v Speaker 2>He called sometimes he calls me babe. Sometimes you know,

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<v Speaker 2>tea my love. Yeah, I have a.

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<v Speaker 1>Question for you. Yes, did you feel like, I mean,

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<v Speaker 1>obviously you've been through a divorce, you're remarried. Did you

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<v Speaker 1>feel like there was a nickname that you and Joe

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<v Speaker 1>had that when you got together with Louis, you were like,

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<v Speaker 1>we can't call each other that because that was our name.

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<v Speaker 2>Oh oh, I called everyone honey. I think I used

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<v Speaker 2>to say a lot, even to Joe, So trying not

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<v Speaker 2>to say it to Louis. I mean, I'm trying to

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<v Speaker 2>think what I call Louie Like, I just say him

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<v Speaker 2>my love. I always say, you know, sweetheart.

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<v Speaker 1>I love that. And now he lives here, well he's

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<v Speaker 1>he's working here.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, right, So we were just talking. We're going I'm

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<v Speaker 2>going back and forth.

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<v Speaker 1>That you're becoming by coastal.

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<v Speaker 2>Yes, so I'm going to be spending a lot more

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<v Speaker 2>time out here, so yes, we can hang out more.

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<v Speaker 2>So I'm excited.

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<v Speaker 1>It makes me so happy because I feel like so

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<v Speaker 1>I'm terrified of flying, so I don't go to the

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<v Speaker 1>East coast a lot. Okay, but I actually I mean

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<v Speaker 1>I would come there for you.

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<v Speaker 2>I would love that. Yeah, I mean we got to

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<v Speaker 2>get you. You need to be a housewife of Beverly

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<v Speaker 2>Hills and then we could do watch What Happens Live

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<v Speaker 2>to Jersey. I would I mean you want to move

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<v Speaker 2>to Jersey? Yes, I would love you. You wouldn't meet

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<v Speaker 2>on the show together. We would be badasses. Yes, we

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<v Speaker 2>would so survive. No, you would survive.

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<v Speaker 1>Because you would have my back.

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<v Speaker 2>Yes, yes, I would have your bath. Oh way to

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<v Speaker 2>like this idea?

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<v Speaker 1>Ok? Yes? Yeah, I pretend to be like timided and

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<v Speaker 1>like shy, but like I feel like I'm a baller,

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<v Speaker 1>Like I feel like I could like go for it.

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<v Speaker 2>I thank so I've seen you in action, but I

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<v Speaker 2>can't say now, guys, we have a surprise coming up

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<v Speaker 2>Tori and I, but we can't really say. But I

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<v Speaker 2>did see you in action, and I was just like,

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<v Speaker 2>whoa you are hot and spicy.

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<v Speaker 1>I know. I was like, I can't remember she's subscribing

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<v Speaker 1>to my private early Family remember she did so she exactly.

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<v Speaker 2>Mm hmm. I was like, Wow, that's Tory sexy and hot. Wow,

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<v Speaker 2>really turning me on what? Yes, yeah, we can't talk

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<v Speaker 2>about it. We did, but this sounds really and it's

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<v Speaker 2>like not, you know what, But I'm gonna We're gonna

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<v Speaker 2>keep talking.

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<v Speaker 1>We're going to do many things.

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<v Speaker 2>Yes we are.

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<v Speaker 1>What's going on in the.

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<v Speaker 2>Podcast world, Well, I'm not doing no stay bitches anymore.

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<v Speaker 2>Melissa and I you know, we decided to go our

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<v Speaker 2>separate ways.

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<v Speaker 1>Understood.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, she's having another baby, so she's focusing on her family.

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<v Speaker 2>I'm focusing on mine and like now going back and

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<v Speaker 2>forth to La. But I have a big surprise coming up,

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<v Speaker 2>so I can't wait to tell everyone.

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<v Speaker 1>If I were to be your manager, I would just say,

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<v Speaker 1>like I you should have your your own.

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<v Speaker 2>Oh thank you. I like the sound of that from

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<v Speaker 2>your lips to God's ears. Okay, yeah, thank you? Are

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<v Speaker 2>you there?

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<v Speaker 1>God? It's me Tori.

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<v Speaker 2>She needs her own What would would what do you

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<v Speaker 2>think I should name it?

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<v Speaker 1>Mm hm, Oh my gosh. Now you're putting me on

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<v Speaker 1>the okay, never mind, no, no, no, I'll get back

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<v Speaker 1>to you on that one. Okay, drive me crazy. So

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<v Speaker 1>they gave a preview of the entire season, and it's

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<v Speaker 1>like it looks insane in a good way.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, no, I mean, listen, it looks insane. It does

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<v Speaker 2>look it's like it's it gets it's very toxic. It's toxic.

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<v Speaker 2>I mean, hello, yeah you watched it, watch like the ending, theally,

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<v Speaker 2>all of it.

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<v Speaker 1>Oh but like good and bad, like it just all works.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, that's yeah.

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<v Speaker 1>Well, like I'm talking about your life, like it's not

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<v Speaker 1>your life, but we're kind of in the same boat.

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<v Speaker 1>So it's okay, right, because people talk about our lives,

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<v Speaker 1>they know our lives, they think they know us, right,

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<v Speaker 1>and you have your tree huggers, But I'm sure you

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<v Speaker 1>also have people that are just like, why are you

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<v Speaker 1>putting it all out there? Yes, when you started putting

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<v Speaker 1>it all out there, did it feel free at all?

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<v Speaker 2>I mean, like, I guess I didn't even think of

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<v Speaker 2>it that way like when I did it. Like first

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<v Speaker 2>of all, when I first got on the show, I mean,

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<v Speaker 2>how this all came to me. It just came to me,

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<v Speaker 2>like I wouldn't go looking for it. Like these producers went,

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<v Speaker 2>wht me tell you a story. Yeah, yeah, these producers

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<v Speaker 2>went to the salon in Franklin Lakes and then so

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<v Speaker 2>they were asking, you know, for like beautiful women with

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<v Speaker 2>beautiful homes, like over the type lifestyles. So the owner

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<v Speaker 2>of the salon recommended Dina and Jacqueline. They were regulars

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<v Speaker 2>at that salai. So then Dina, you know, so they

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<v Speaker 2>spoke to the producers. You know, they spoke to Dina

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<v Speaker 2>and Jacqueline and they love them. And then they asked them,

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<v Speaker 2>can you recommend any other you know, women for the

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<v Speaker 2>you know, for the show that we're doing. And at

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<v Speaker 2>the time, I think they were going to call it

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<v Speaker 2>Jersey Mom, so it wasn't New Jersey Housewives. Yeah, So

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<v Speaker 2>then Dina recommended me. So then that's how I got on,

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<v Speaker 2>and and then I spoke to the producer everyone else,

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<v Speaker 2>and then Jacqueline recommended Caroline. And then Danielle was a

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<v Speaker 2>regular at that salon, and then Dina said to Jacqueline,

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<v Speaker 2>you know, maybe we should recommend Danielle, but let's get

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<v Speaker 2>to know her first. And then I think Danielle told

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<v Speaker 2>the producers about Danielle and they intributed her. They loved her,

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<v Speaker 2>you know, because she was you know, she made good TV.

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<v Speaker 2>And then with me, they all signed the contract right away.

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<v Speaker 2>They all signed the contract like that they were ready

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<v Speaker 2>to do the show. Guess how long it took me

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<v Speaker 2>to sign the contract along around almost a year, like

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<v Speaker 2>eleven months. Yeah, because I didn't know what I was

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<v Speaker 2>getting myself into, Tori. I was like, I kept asking Joe.

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<v Speaker 2>I was like should I do this? Should I not

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<v Speaker 2>do It's like, what is this? I just wasn't sure.

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<v Speaker 2>I'm like, what is this? I didn't understand it. And

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<v Speaker 2>then one day Jacqueline's like, come on, let's just do

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<v Speaker 2>this together. We'll have so much fun and let's just

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<v Speaker 2>and then I just signed a contract in front of Jacqueline,

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<v Speaker 2>not even with the lawyer, and gave it to Jackeline.

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<v Speaker 2>She put it in the fed xbox and that was it.

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<v Speaker 1>Wait, we just talked to your lawyer before this.

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<v Speaker 2>And yeah, this is my lawyer for the past ten years. Yeah.

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<v Speaker 2>I met him when I was going away because I

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<v Speaker 2>was going away and then I was trying to do

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<v Speaker 2>a twenty two fifty five.

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<v Speaker 1>That's like, I'm not that smart, right, it's.

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<v Speaker 2>Called the twenty two fifty five to try to to

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<v Speaker 2>try to keep you out of prison. Oh no, I

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<v Speaker 2>was already I think going to prison twenty fifty five maybe.

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<v Speaker 1>To get out earlier for my future.

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<v Speaker 2>Like I think it's okay because I was I met him,

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<v Speaker 2>I was already going to prison. And then not that

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<v Speaker 2>I didn't want to talk about this, but I will

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<v Speaker 2>tell you when I met Jim, and then I was

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<v Speaker 2>going to do a twenty two fifty five to try

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<v Speaker 2>to reduce my sentence, and it was like, yeah, it

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<v Speaker 2>was it's hard to do that. So then that's how

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<v Speaker 2>I met him, and that's how he came into my life.

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<v Speaker 2>And that was it.

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<v Speaker 1>So I can't believe. What if you hadn't signed that contract.

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<v Speaker 2>I know, if I didn't sign that contract, I would

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<v Speaker 2>still be a housewife. Just you know, I was just

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<v Speaker 2>home taking care of my kids. That's it. Like you

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<v Speaker 2>know I used to go to Naven Marcus for lunch

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<v Speaker 2>every day. Yeah, I used to do stuff like that,

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<v Speaker 2>like take the girls shopping like all that. I knew

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<v Speaker 2>everybody and even Marcus in the makeup area in Norse Stroums,

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<v Speaker 2>like I used to walk through. Everyone knew the girls. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 2>it was so cute.

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<v Speaker 1>That's so interesting to me, just because I think you're

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<v Speaker 1>so smart and so savvy and just the way you

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<v Speaker 1>handle things.

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<v Speaker 2>Before, Like I had gya, I was. I was in

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<v Speaker 2>the buying industry. I was. I was a buyer at

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<v Speaker 2>a Macy's and then I went on the other side.

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<v Speaker 2>I was a sales rep and then I was selling

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<v Speaker 2>to the department stores.

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<v Speaker 1>Because you have great taste.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, Like as my backgrounds fashion, I went to school

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<v Speaker 2>for fashion, but I.

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<v Speaker 1>Mean The Housewives has been such a great platform to

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<v Speaker 1>be able to do. Yes, so many business operations I came,

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<v Speaker 1>you know. I wrote four cookbooks, two memoirs. I had

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<v Speaker 1>a lot of like brand deals.

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<v Speaker 2>I did commercials. Yeah, so it's a lot of different shows.

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<v Speaker 2>I did Dancing with the Stars. Yeah, oh wait, talk

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<v Speaker 2>to me about Dancing with the Stars. First, it was

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<v Speaker 2>so hard because I'm not a dancer, Like, I have

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<v Speaker 2>no dancing background at all. So it was like I

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<v Speaker 2>had a start from scratch, but I had fun doing it.

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<v Speaker 2>My instructor, his name was Pasha. He was Ariana Maddox's

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<v Speaker 2>partner as she just had so he would fly to

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<v Speaker 2>New Jersey. We would we would rehearse all week and

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<v Speaker 2>then we would fly back to you know, to compete.

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<v Speaker 1>How many hours a day did you train?

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<v Speaker 2>It was a lot, Yeah, it was a lot. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 2>it was a lot. So it's did you ever do it?

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<v Speaker 1>I haven't done it?

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<v Speaker 2>Oh you should do it. Oh okay, we got to

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<v Speaker 2>put that out there. Dancing with the stars. You gotta

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<v Speaker 2>have toy spelling on.

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<v Speaker 1>I've been asked before and I turned it down because

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<v Speaker 1>I was scared. It was just it was fear. I

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<v Speaker 1>love dancing too.

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<v Speaker 2>And if you love dancing, and you'll be good at it.

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<v Speaker 1>Here's my only reservation is I feel like I'm a

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<v Speaker 1>great dancer after like two plus glasses of one, and

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<v Speaker 1>I've got mad rhythm. But and I've done TV shows

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<v Speaker 1>and movies where I've had to do learn choreography. Oh

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<v Speaker 1>my god, I can't take direction. Like that's the thing

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<v Speaker 1>you want me to freestyle flying splits. I could do it,

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<v Speaker 1>like I'll show you later. But yeah, like you're like

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<v Speaker 1>and step one, two three, I'm like, huh, Yeah, it.

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<v Speaker 2>Was a lot to remember, Like yeah, and you had

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<v Speaker 2>to count in your head and all that, and like

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<v Speaker 2>I get distracted very easily. Same and yeah, and you know,

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<v Speaker 2>it was live, so it's like yes. And then they're

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<v Speaker 2>like telling me, well, don't look at the screen, and

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<v Speaker 2>I'm like what Like so it's like the littlest things.

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<v Speaker 2>I mean, like yeah, or if I would look at something,

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<v Speaker 2>I would get distracted. Yeah, so you write on it,

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<v Speaker 2>so thank you. Yeah, No, it was good, listen. It

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<v Speaker 2>was a great opportunity. I was happy I did it. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 2>so it was fun.

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<v Speaker 1>Oh my gosh, what's next?

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<v Speaker 2>Well, How the Villains?

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<v Speaker 1>Right?

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<v Speaker 2>How Villains?

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<v Speaker 1>But I meant like the world is your oyster?

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<v Speaker 2>Yes?

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<v Speaker 1>Wow? How the Villains? Season two?

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<v Speaker 2>Well? Now now season fourteen's playing now right, I'm not

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<v Speaker 2>sure when How Civillains is coming up, but they did

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<v Speaker 2>announce it that I'm going to be on the cast.

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<v Speaker 1>So so I was obsessed with season one of House

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<v Speaker 1>of Villains, and when they announced it, I was really

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<v Speaker 1>excited that you were going.

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<v Speaker 2>To do it. Well at first, toy, let me tell you.

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<v Speaker 2>When I I was like.

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<v Speaker 1>You didn't want to sign the contract, I didn't like

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<v Speaker 1>the name.

0:17:12.920 --> 0:17:15.080
<v Speaker 2>I was like yeah, I was like, I was like

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<v Speaker 2>when I heard it, I'm like House, I'm like a villain.

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<v Speaker 2>I'm not a villain, you know, That's how I took

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<v Speaker 2>it as I was like, I wasn't sure if I

0:17:21.880 --> 0:17:24.600
<v Speaker 2>wanted to do it because of the name. And then

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<v Speaker 2>I'm so grateful that I did it now because I

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<v Speaker 2>feel like everyone is going to really see the real Teresa.

0:17:30.680 --> 0:17:33.040
<v Speaker 2>So it's going to it's different than Housewives.

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<v Speaker 1>It's good to see you in a different yeah element, yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>different elements unscripted. I feel like now being fifty almost

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<v Speaker 1>fifty one and going through a divorce and like it's

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<v Speaker 1>the second chapter. Everyone keeps calling it the second chapter,

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<v Speaker 1>and it's like, oh my god, it's my halftime show, right,

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<v Speaker 1>second chapter. I feel like I'm starting to be like

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<v Speaker 1>everyone's so focused on the definition of certain words and

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<v Speaker 1>house of villains, and when they announced that you were

0:18:11.720 --> 0:18:14.040
<v Speaker 1>on it, I was like, and then I thought, but

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<v Speaker 1>you have to redefine things like villains, Like you can

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<v Speaker 1>be the villain in your own fairy tale, but you're

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<v Speaker 1>also the princess.

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<v Speaker 2>You're right, And I mean, listen, I do turn into

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<v Speaker 2>a villain when you come for me.

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<v Speaker 1>Okay, I'm gonna sit over here.

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<v Speaker 2>Then yeah no, but that's you know, and I guess

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<v Speaker 2>that's because I did flip the table on my show

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<v Speaker 2>and like, so you know, I do get to that level,

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<v Speaker 2>but only if you piss me off. You know, only

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<v Speaker 2>you know if you poke the bear, if you poke

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<v Speaker 2>the bear. Yeah, that's what it is.

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<v Speaker 1>You're the hottest bear I've ever seen that. We fans

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<v Speaker 1>ever do they drunk at restaurants were like Theresa Teresa,

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<v Speaker 1>and like flip tables for you.

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<v Speaker 2>Yes, sometimes they may literally, well they don't flip tables

0:18:56.680 --> 0:18:58.160
<v Speaker 2>for me, but they're like, can you flip the table?

0:18:58.160 --> 0:18:59.960
<v Speaker 2>I'm like, oh yeah, I want to just do a few. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 2>I came up.

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<v Speaker 1>Wait, I feel like that's a business all in itself.

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<v Speaker 1>You know how there's cameo. Are you on cameo?

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<v Speaker 2>Yes?

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<v Speaker 1>I you could flip a table and you can charge

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<v Speaker 1>like underground.

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<v Speaker 2>So barely keep flipping the table.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, I don't know. Oh my gosh, like imagine that.

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<v Speaker 2>Wait, I just got a cameo request that it's so funny.

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<v Speaker 2>All right, Well on the show, I said to see

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<v Speaker 2>word like a million times and they want me to

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<v Speaker 2>say it, and I'm like, oh my god, I don't

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<v Speaker 2>know if that's appropriate me saying it in the cameo.

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<v Speaker 2>Did you huh? Did you say it? I didn't say

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<v Speaker 2>yet I just got the request.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, I mean technically that's like a business, not a

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<v Speaker 1>personal one, so you get more money for that.

0:19:44.560 --> 0:19:45.840
<v Speaker 2>Now that's okay.

0:19:45.920 --> 0:19:48.760
<v Speaker 1>Yeah, that's how I look at it. But I feel

0:19:48.760 --> 0:19:51.640
<v Speaker 1>like under they have like listings, like you can have

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<v Speaker 1>someone like people always want me to say Dona Martin

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<v Speaker 1>graduates and I fine, but I feel like, yeah, like

0:19:58.840 --> 0:20:02.120
<v Speaker 1>table flipping that that would be pricey.

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<v Speaker 2>I mean everywhere I go they love that. They always

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<v Speaker 2>really they always want me to reenact it, like meaning

0:20:08.960 --> 0:20:11.960
<v Speaker 2>like on commercials like I did. I did. I did

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<v Speaker 2>two super Bowl commercials. I re enacted on there oh yeah,

0:20:16.720 --> 0:20:21.679
<v Speaker 2>Drew Barrymore show, Oh yeah, with her so many places. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 2>I did it at Bravocon. The first Bravocon I flipped

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<v Speaker 2>the table and the last one too, you know, the

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<v Speaker 2>first one I really flipped it. I think last year

0:20:33.119 --> 0:20:36.120
<v Speaker 2>it was like an oh no, I did flip it too. Yeah,

0:20:36.160 --> 0:20:38.600
<v Speaker 2>they told me to flip it. It's really messy, you know,

0:20:39.080 --> 0:20:40.000
<v Speaker 2>to flip the table.

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<v Speaker 1>Yes, yeah, well I always wanted to do it. Well,

0:20:45.320 --> 0:20:47.960
<v Speaker 1>I mean from watching it. It's so funny because you

0:20:48.040 --> 0:20:50.720
<v Speaker 1>always have that thing that people like define you by.

0:20:51.280 --> 0:20:56.760
<v Speaker 1>And I to be honest, with you. I was always

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<v Speaker 1>like a real Housewives of Beverly Hills because I think

0:20:59.240 --> 0:21:03.680
<v Speaker 1>that's how I grew up, right, So obviously obviously I

0:21:03.760 --> 0:21:06.160
<v Speaker 1>watched New Jersey, but it wasn't like my top one

0:21:06.240 --> 0:21:08.800
<v Speaker 1>because like I was always like, oh, West Coast, like

0:21:08.840 --> 0:21:11.160
<v Speaker 1>Beverly Hills, Like I just wanted to have a piece

0:21:11.520 --> 0:21:13.520
<v Speaker 1>you live, right, Yeah, that's where I grew up. And

0:21:13.560 --> 0:21:15.199
<v Speaker 1>I was just like, why, why the fuck am I

0:21:15.240 --> 0:21:15.560
<v Speaker 1>not on this?

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<v Speaker 2>So I hadn't.

0:21:17.800 --> 0:21:21.879
<v Speaker 1>It was research to be like Andy, I don't understand.

0:21:21.400 --> 0:21:23.840
<v Speaker 2>Now, Andy, we gotta get toy spelling to be a

0:21:23.920 --> 0:21:25.159
<v Speaker 2>Beverly Hills housewife.

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<v Speaker 1>But yeah, I feel like I got to know you

0:21:29.840 --> 0:21:31.840
<v Speaker 1>a different way. So that's not even how I think

0:21:31.840 --> 0:21:35.480
<v Speaker 1>of you, like, oh, she flips tables like I just

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<v Speaker 1>You've always been so lovely and approachable and kind and funny.

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<v Speaker 2>And I think I met you first time I Bravo

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<v Speaker 2>up front we did, I think, yeah, a long time ago. Yeah,

0:21:47.600 --> 0:21:50.600
<v Speaker 2>I remember in La. Remember it was in La. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 2>I remember, and I was just like, oh my god,

0:21:52.119 --> 0:21:53.120
<v Speaker 2>that's Tory. Yeah.

0:21:53.320 --> 0:21:56.439
<v Speaker 1>I was like, oh my god, it's it's so funny,

0:21:56.520 --> 0:21:59.639
<v Speaker 1>Like I don't I've met a lot of people. And

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<v Speaker 1>I don't fangirl out on any like actresses or actors

0:22:05.040 --> 0:22:10.360
<v Speaker 1>or I mean maybe Brad Pitt, but like but Ryan Gosling, God,

0:22:10.400 --> 0:22:15.200
<v Speaker 1>I love him. Which Ryan do you like? Ryan Reynolds

0:22:15.280 --> 0:22:20.840
<v Speaker 1>or Ryan Gosling? Ryan Gosling? He played Ken And that's

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<v Speaker 1>how the current people like the kids know. But for us,

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<v Speaker 1>it would be the notebook.

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<v Speaker 2>Oh that one.

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<v Speaker 1>I think Reynolds for me, huh, first, first thing we

0:22:32.400 --> 0:22:33.440
<v Speaker 1>don't have in common.

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<v Speaker 2>So then we could hang out because okay, right, so

0:22:37.359 --> 0:22:39.520
<v Speaker 2>then like, yeah, we wouldn't go for the same guy.

0:22:39.680 --> 0:22:41.760
<v Speaker 1>But so I've always had a thing for him. I

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<v Speaker 1>just like, I don't know, and I'm not even like.

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<v Speaker 2>That is single. No.

0:22:45.760 --> 0:22:49.080
<v Speaker 1>Eva Mendez is his wife, who was like a big

0:22:49.480 --> 0:22:50.240
<v Speaker 1>He's beautiful.

0:22:50.560 --> 0:22:53.320
<v Speaker 2>My sister in law looks like her Louis sister.

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<v Speaker 1>Oh my gosh. So did you have a party trick

0:22:56.400 --> 0:22:57.399
<v Speaker 1>when you were young and single?

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<v Speaker 2>A party trick?

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<v Speaker 1>You know?

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<v Speaker 2>No? You know, I Tori. I grew up with strict

0:23:03.400 --> 0:23:07.760
<v Speaker 2>Italian parents. I didn't go to parties growing up. I

0:23:07.800 --> 0:23:10.600
<v Speaker 2>didn't like my kids go to parties every weekend. I'm like,

0:23:11.000 --> 0:23:12.639
<v Speaker 2>I wish I got to do that when I was

0:23:12.640 --> 0:23:15.600
<v Speaker 2>your age. Yeah, I didn't. I didn't get to go.

0:23:16.760 --> 0:23:19.000
<v Speaker 2>I was always home, Like I would go to one

0:23:19.000 --> 0:23:21.560
<v Speaker 2>of my girlfriend's house, that's it, and come home or

0:23:21.560 --> 0:23:23.760
<v Speaker 2>they usually my mother always wanted them to come to

0:23:23.840 --> 0:23:26.879
<v Speaker 2>our house. She was that type of mother. Yeah, my

0:23:26.920 --> 0:23:30.479
<v Speaker 2>parents are off the boat on first generation. So I

0:23:30.480 --> 0:23:34.840
<v Speaker 2>had had had a curfet until I got married. What yeah,

0:23:34.960 --> 0:23:39.920
<v Speaker 2>wait you got married at what age twenty seven? What? Yeah? Yes,

0:23:40.160 --> 0:23:42.040
<v Speaker 2>I was not allowed to see by my boyfriend's house

0:23:42.280 --> 0:23:44.200
<v Speaker 2>or my fiance's house. Yeah.

0:23:44.240 --> 0:23:46.640
<v Speaker 1>I was like, each why am I chill?

0:23:47.880 --> 0:23:50.080
<v Speaker 2>Was not allowed to go on vacation with him? Like

0:23:50.280 --> 0:23:52.119
<v Speaker 2>I could go on vacation with my friends, but not

0:23:52.200 --> 0:23:55.640
<v Speaker 2>with my boyfriend or fiance because you know that means

0:23:55.680 --> 0:23:57.679
<v Speaker 2>we would have sex, you know. So yeah I was.

0:23:57.800 --> 0:23:59.880
<v Speaker 2>I was no, No, this is why.

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<v Speaker 1>And then you ended up with four.

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<v Speaker 2>Daughters after I got married.

0:24:07.200 --> 0:24:11.840
<v Speaker 1>Well, yeah, that's why you had so many. See what

0:24:11.920 --> 0:24:16.240
<v Speaker 1>they say, everything in moderation, and he keeps something from someone,

0:24:16.280 --> 0:24:20.159
<v Speaker 1>then you know they want it more. So before we

0:24:20.200 --> 0:24:22.919
<v Speaker 1>started the show, You're a lawyer and I were talking

0:24:23.040 --> 0:24:25.480
<v Speaker 1>and you and he was like, oh my god. She

0:24:25.600 --> 0:24:28.280
<v Speaker 1>was like the Donna Martin And I was like, oh

0:24:28.359 --> 0:24:30.880
<v Speaker 1>my gosh, so now it's all making sense. You were

0:24:30.880 --> 0:24:32.960
<v Speaker 1>the good girl, but because you had to be the

0:24:33.000 --> 0:24:34.760
<v Speaker 1>good girl, that's a lot of pressure.

0:24:35.480 --> 0:24:36.240
<v Speaker 2>Yeah. Oh yeah.

0:24:36.359 --> 0:24:38.560
<v Speaker 1>So Donna Martin was the virgin on the show, which

0:24:38.560 --> 0:24:41.639
<v Speaker 1>in hindsight, it was my dad's show he created. He

0:24:41.840 --> 0:24:44.840
<v Speaker 1>probably was like everyone was making out now and sex.

0:24:44.880 --> 0:24:47.399
<v Speaker 1>He was probably like, I don't want my daughter. I

0:24:47.400 --> 0:24:51.800
<v Speaker 1>don't know if that's the reason. I mean, I was

0:24:52.000 --> 0:24:54.159
<v Speaker 1>a virgin on that show that dressed like a whore.

0:24:54.480 --> 0:24:57.000
<v Speaker 1>Like it was like, how was that? Okay?

0:24:57.160 --> 0:25:00.680
<v Speaker 2>Like that's and my you know, my father used to

0:25:00.760 --> 0:25:02.439
<v Speaker 2>tell me, like he used to tell me like that

0:25:02.480 --> 0:25:03.920
<v Speaker 2>he was going to take me to the doctors the

0:25:04.000 --> 0:25:05.680
<v Speaker 2>day before I got married to make sure I was

0:25:05.720 --> 0:25:10.560
<v Speaker 2>still a virgin. Oh my god, yes, no swear, I

0:25:10.800 --> 0:25:15.359
<v Speaker 2>swear to god, I swear. So yeah. Yeah, So I

0:25:15.440 --> 0:25:18.520
<v Speaker 2>was terrified of like my parents, like I grew like

0:25:18.640 --> 0:25:22.040
<v Speaker 2>I was that type of kid like my father, Like

0:25:22.160 --> 0:25:24.680
<v Speaker 2>I remember when I was growing up, like I was

0:25:24.760 --> 0:25:28.240
<v Speaker 2>not allowed to cry, Like, you know, if I started crying,

0:25:28.280 --> 0:25:30.120
<v Speaker 2>he'd be like, no cry, like if he was yelling

0:25:30.160 --> 0:25:34.120
<v Speaker 2>at me, and then I couldn't don't cry. I don't

0:25:34.119 --> 0:25:35.720
<v Speaker 2>know he just because you know what, when I cried,

0:25:35.720 --> 0:25:38.399
<v Speaker 2>it would make him upset, so he like, you know,

0:25:38.440 --> 0:25:40.040
<v Speaker 2>so if he yelled at me, if I did someth wrong,

0:25:40.080 --> 0:25:42.199
<v Speaker 2>like I was not allowed to cry, and he like,

0:25:42.359 --> 0:25:44.320
<v Speaker 2>sometimes he would yell at me, and he would scare

0:25:44.320 --> 0:25:46.040
<v Speaker 2>me so much I would pee in my parents. Like

0:25:46.359 --> 0:25:48.919
<v Speaker 2>that's how much I had fear in me because of

0:25:48.920 --> 0:25:50.679
<v Speaker 2>my dad. So that's why I was always a good

0:25:50.760 --> 0:25:53.640
<v Speaker 2>kid and never did drugs. Always was a good kid

0:25:53.680 --> 0:25:56.119
<v Speaker 2>because I never wanted to disappoint my parents and for

0:25:56.280 --> 0:25:59.719
<v Speaker 2>I was terrified of my parents. So yeah, and they

0:25:59.760 --> 0:26:02.760
<v Speaker 2>put fear in me, which I guess it was a

0:26:02.760 --> 0:26:04.679
<v Speaker 2>good thing because I never did anything bad, you know,

0:26:04.720 --> 0:26:05.720
<v Speaker 2>I did. I was a good kid.

0:26:07.200 --> 0:26:10.840
<v Speaker 1>And now you just flip tables. Yeah, I mean it

0:26:10.880 --> 0:26:12.040
<v Speaker 1>all comes out eventually.

0:26:12.520 --> 0:26:14.720
<v Speaker 2>This is the thing, you know. I You know, my

0:26:14.800 --> 0:26:19.280
<v Speaker 2>father did raise a strong, you know, tough you know

0:26:19.920 --> 0:26:22.880
<v Speaker 2>Italian girl that doesn't take any ship. Yeah.

0:26:23.640 --> 0:26:28.440
<v Speaker 1>Did you grow up because of that feeling like crying

0:26:28.520 --> 0:26:30.840
<v Speaker 1>and showing emotion was a sign of weakness?

0:26:31.119 --> 0:26:37.160
<v Speaker 2>Yes, Yes, So it takes a lot for me to cry. Yeah,

0:26:37.240 --> 0:26:39.600
<v Speaker 2>it does take a lot for me to cry. Yeah.

0:26:39.680 --> 0:26:40.760
<v Speaker 1>I don't like crying either.

0:26:41.160 --> 0:26:44.159
<v Speaker 2>Yeah, so I just yeah. I mean, but crying is okay,

0:26:44.280 --> 0:26:46.560
<v Speaker 2>you know, it's okay, but like, yeah, it takes a

0:26:46.560 --> 0:26:47.280
<v Speaker 2>lot for me to cry.

0:26:48.320 --> 0:26:51.040
<v Speaker 1>No, I mean, I don't drink water, so I'm really dehydrated.

0:26:51.080 --> 0:26:53.800
<v Speaker 1>So anytime I cry, like I'm losing more fluids and

0:26:53.840 --> 0:26:55.640
<v Speaker 1>I'm like, oh, there it goes.

0:26:57.000 --> 0:26:57.119
<v Speaker 2>Now.

0:26:57.440 --> 0:27:01.520
<v Speaker 1>It's it's odd. My parents were really strict. Like I

0:27:01.720 --> 0:27:04.640
<v Speaker 1>was the girl, like I was on like a hit show,

0:27:04.680 --> 0:27:06.840
<v Speaker 1>but I still had a curfew and like couldn't go

0:27:06.920 --> 0:27:09.159
<v Speaker 1>out and had to be home by eleven thirty. And

0:27:09.160 --> 0:27:12.080
<v Speaker 1>I would drop all my friends off at like what

0:27:12.080 --> 0:27:14.120
<v Speaker 1>do they call them now? It was raves back then,

0:27:14.240 --> 0:27:17.520
<v Speaker 1>but like after hours or whatever. I don't know. Nope,

0:27:18.080 --> 0:27:18.920
<v Speaker 1>I'm sure my age.

0:27:19.800 --> 0:27:21.919
<v Speaker 2>No. But see your dad, he was okay with you

0:27:22.080 --> 0:27:25.720
<v Speaker 2>dressing like that. Yeah, that's the odd part. See. I

0:27:25.720 --> 0:27:27.560
<v Speaker 2>would if I would wear a short skirt and I

0:27:27.600 --> 0:27:29.600
<v Speaker 2>was going to a club, like sometimes, he would go

0:27:29.720 --> 0:27:31.800
<v Speaker 2>make me change so I have to bring my clothes

0:27:31.800 --> 0:27:33.040
<v Speaker 2>in the car and change in the car.

0:27:34.320 --> 0:27:37.040
<v Speaker 1>Of course he was like yeah, he was like, I

0:27:37.080 --> 0:27:40.280
<v Speaker 1>would have like a skimpy outfit on underneath and wear

0:27:40.359 --> 0:27:45.320
<v Speaker 1>something else over it, and then yeah, yeah I remember,

0:27:45.359 --> 0:27:47.639
<v Speaker 1>And then I but my mom always waited up for me.

0:27:47.800 --> 0:27:49.960
<v Speaker 2>She was like in the kitchen, like I was the

0:27:50.000 --> 0:27:52.080
<v Speaker 2>type of like my you know, the club start pumping

0:27:52.119 --> 0:27:54.960
<v Speaker 2>at twelve o'clock at New York, so I would get

0:27:54.960 --> 0:27:57.160
<v Speaker 2>there at twelve. I would only be able to say

0:27:57.200 --> 0:27:59.119
<v Speaker 2>one hour because my curfew was I had to be

0:27:59.119 --> 0:28:02.360
<v Speaker 2>home at ch I think. And then my latest curfew

0:28:02.400 --> 0:28:03.040
<v Speaker 2>was two thirty.

0:28:03.680 --> 0:28:05.600
<v Speaker 1>And this is when you were like twenty six, when.

0:28:05.520 --> 0:28:07.800
<v Speaker 2>I was twenty seven. Yes, that was my latest because

0:28:07.800 --> 0:28:10.119
<v Speaker 2>like every year they would go up like a half hour.

0:28:10.359 --> 0:28:13.359
<v Speaker 1>Yeah, in your twenties. So you turn twenty one and

0:28:13.400 --> 0:28:14.480
<v Speaker 1>they were like you still.

0:28:14.320 --> 0:28:16.600
<v Speaker 2>Have I remember my curfey for the longest time was

0:28:16.640 --> 0:28:19.119
<v Speaker 2>one thirty. So I would get to the club at twelve,

0:28:19.160 --> 0:28:21.280
<v Speaker 2>stay one hour, and then I would try to get

0:28:21.280 --> 0:28:23.920
<v Speaker 2>home by like one thirty. And sometimes I'd get home

0:28:24.080 --> 0:28:25.720
<v Speaker 2>and then my father would be waiting up for me.

0:28:25.960 --> 0:28:28.840
<v Speaker 2>I would yeah, or sometimes I would make up story

0:28:28.880 --> 0:28:30.960
<v Speaker 2>I got a flat tire and You'll be like, yeah,

0:28:31.000 --> 0:28:33.560
<v Speaker 2>sure you like knowing that I'm like flying.

0:28:34.240 --> 0:28:36.000
<v Speaker 1>Yeah, of course when you're that girl.

0:28:36.160 --> 0:28:38.760
<v Speaker 2>Yeah, I mean one time he was waiting outside for me,

0:28:38.800 --> 0:28:40.800
<v Speaker 2>I was I would make my brother cover for me.

0:28:40.880 --> 0:28:44.440
<v Speaker 2>Sometimes so, but it was rough. And that's the thing.

0:28:44.480 --> 0:28:46.520
<v Speaker 2>I didn't want to be like that with my kids

0:28:46.560 --> 0:28:50.080
<v Speaker 2>because I wasn't doing anything wrong, you know. I was like,

0:28:50.360 --> 0:28:52.320
<v Speaker 2>I feel like, you know what you have that that

0:28:52.440 --> 0:28:55.400
<v Speaker 2>your childhood. You should have fun, You should go to clubs,

0:28:55.480 --> 0:28:57.880
<v Speaker 2>experience like I never I never went to a diner

0:28:57.920 --> 0:28:59.760
<v Speaker 2>after a club. You know, you go to a diner

0:29:00.160 --> 0:29:02.120
<v Speaker 2>a club like I never did that. But I wasn't

0:29:02.120 --> 0:29:05.840
<v Speaker 2>allowed to have sleepovers because my father they didn't want

0:29:05.840 --> 0:29:08.400
<v Speaker 2>he's like they would they would put fear in me,

0:29:08.520 --> 0:29:11.360
<v Speaker 2>like no the father or the brother could touch you,

0:29:11.520 --> 0:29:14.280
<v Speaker 2>God forbid, Like it was that kind of yeah. So

0:29:14.440 --> 0:29:18.040
<v Speaker 2>and then I didn't gee Am my first oldest, she

0:29:18.200 --> 0:29:20.520
<v Speaker 2>was not allowed to have sleepovers. And then when all

0:29:20.560 --> 0:29:25.680
<v Speaker 2>the legal stuff happened, that's when when I came home,

0:29:26.440 --> 0:29:29.640
<v Speaker 2>I was I let my kids have sleepovers because I

0:29:29.800 --> 0:29:32.160
<v Speaker 2>was just like, you know, I wanted I felt bad,

0:29:32.200 --> 0:29:34.800
<v Speaker 2>like you know, because of everything that they've gone through,

0:29:34.880 --> 0:29:37.440
<v Speaker 2>so I wanted to give them. I just wanted to

0:29:37.440 --> 0:29:40.080
<v Speaker 2>make them happy in every which way. So then they

0:29:40.120 --> 0:29:42.240
<v Speaker 2>started to have sleepovers. But I used to always put

0:29:42.320 --> 0:29:45.040
<v Speaker 2>the fear in them, like if they have a brother,

0:29:45.200 --> 0:29:48.560
<v Speaker 2>like be careful, like you know, if the father comes near,

0:29:48.600 --> 0:29:51.480
<v Speaker 2>you make sure you push you you tell mommy right away.

0:29:51.520 --> 0:29:54.440
<v Speaker 2>Because whatever my parents told me, I, you know, passed

0:29:54.480 --> 0:29:55.480
<v Speaker 2>down to my kids.

0:29:56.160 --> 0:29:59.800
<v Speaker 1>This is crazy, like I I mean, we grew up

0:30:00.040 --> 0:30:04.560
<v Speaker 1>drastically different obviously, but I same thing, like the same.

0:30:04.640 --> 0:30:08.520
<v Speaker 1>I wasn't ever allowed to sleep out my entire childhood.

0:30:09.400 --> 0:30:12.600
<v Speaker 1>I get a friend sleepover, I wasn't allowed to same, Yeah,

0:30:12.720 --> 0:30:14.880
<v Speaker 1>it had to be my house. I wasn't allowed to

0:30:14.880 --> 0:30:15.480
<v Speaker 1>go to camp.

0:30:16.280 --> 0:30:19.440
<v Speaker 2>Oh camp, Yeah know what. My Italians don't believe in camp.

0:30:19.600 --> 0:30:24.520
<v Speaker 1>Really, I know you do end up like you said.

0:30:24.720 --> 0:30:27.200
<v Speaker 2>So, my parents didn't believe in camp, you.

0:30:27.160 --> 0:30:30.640
<v Speaker 1>Know, no, and my dad I'd be like why well,

0:30:30.720 --> 0:30:32.720
<v Speaker 1>I was like they did. Let me see. Here's the

0:30:32.760 --> 0:30:35.719
<v Speaker 1>odd part is they were so strict and like everything

0:30:35.720 --> 0:30:37.959
<v Speaker 1>is started. You couldn't have a sleepover, you couldn't do this.

0:30:38.440 --> 0:30:40.800
<v Speaker 1>But I was allowed to watch horror films starting at

0:30:40.840 --> 0:30:43.880
<v Speaker 1>like age four, and like the most gruesome things. So

0:30:44.800 --> 0:30:47.120
<v Speaker 1>I was like obsessed with do you like horror? You

0:30:47.160 --> 0:30:47.960
<v Speaker 1>don't like horror films?

0:30:48.840 --> 0:30:50.600
<v Speaker 2>Yeah, I'm just scared.

0:30:52.680 --> 0:30:58.160
<v Speaker 1>It was my only form of like something exhilarating. But yeah,

0:30:58.200 --> 0:31:01.400
<v Speaker 1>I'd be like, oh, my god, pay the thirteen everyone dies,

0:31:01.440 --> 0:31:04.680
<v Speaker 1>it's sleep by camp. I want to go. Not that

0:31:04.720 --> 0:31:06.480
<v Speaker 1>I want to die. I wanted to be like the

0:31:06.480 --> 0:31:09.360
<v Speaker 1>one that survived. But I said to my dad one

0:31:09.440 --> 0:31:11.200
<v Speaker 1>year and I was like, my friends are making fun

0:31:11.280 --> 0:31:13.120
<v Speaker 1>of me, Like why am I not allowed to go

0:31:13.160 --> 0:31:15.920
<v Speaker 1>to camp? And he said, because I'd miss you too

0:31:16.040 --> 0:31:18.400
<v Speaker 1>much if you were away. And I believe that. I

0:31:18.480 --> 0:31:20.760
<v Speaker 1>was like, Okay, that makes perfect sense.

0:31:20.920 --> 0:31:25.360
<v Speaker 2>Like what but that's cute. I was cute. Yeah, it

0:31:25.480 --> 0:31:27.880
<v Speaker 2>was very ry to protect you, you know. But my

0:31:28.000 --> 0:31:30.240
<v Speaker 2>thing is is I feel like you should experience stuff

0:31:30.280 --> 0:31:33.480
<v Speaker 2>like that, you know, and and like listen, you know,

0:31:33.680 --> 0:31:36.600
<v Speaker 2>I talk to my daughters all the time and tell them,

0:31:36.680 --> 0:31:39.120
<v Speaker 2>you know, you know, you know. Of course, you know,

0:31:39.560 --> 0:31:41.920
<v Speaker 2>we preach to them like just how you should be,

0:31:42.000 --> 0:31:43.560
<v Speaker 2>this is what you should do, this is what you

0:31:43.560 --> 0:31:46.160
<v Speaker 2>shouldn't do. So I mean, you just hope for the best.

0:31:46.520 --> 0:31:48.200
<v Speaker 2>But I feel like, you know, you know, I don't

0:31:48.200 --> 0:31:50.440
<v Speaker 2>want to keep my kids in a cage. No, I

0:31:50.480 --> 0:31:53.360
<v Speaker 2>want them to experience life because you know, you're you're

0:31:53.400 --> 0:31:57.320
<v Speaker 2>that young age you know, once in your life and

0:31:57.400 --> 0:31:59.520
<v Speaker 2>so it's like I want, you know, I love that there,

0:31:59.720 --> 0:32:02.480
<v Speaker 2>you know, experiencing that for sure. Of course, I know.

0:32:02.520 --> 0:32:05.400
<v Speaker 2>I make them aware, like someone comes near you, make

0:32:05.440 --> 0:32:08.080
<v Speaker 2>sure you call mommy right away, kick and wear hurts,

0:32:08.160 --> 0:32:11.520
<v Speaker 2>you know all that, you know, just say, yeah, be careful,

0:32:11.520 --> 0:32:15.200
<v Speaker 2>like don't do drugs or poise, you know, yeah, absolutely don't.

0:32:15.240 --> 0:32:17.240
<v Speaker 2>You know, don't put your drink down because they're in

0:32:17.280 --> 0:32:20.800
<v Speaker 2>college now they could get roof feed and like always

0:32:20.840 --> 0:32:23.240
<v Speaker 2>keep your drink in your hand, don't put it down,

0:32:23.600 --> 0:32:26.520
<v Speaker 2>you know, So we try to give them all that's.

0:32:26.320 --> 0:32:29.320
<v Speaker 1>No really good advice, Like, you know, I feel like

0:32:29.600 --> 0:32:34.760
<v Speaker 1>because everything was so strict and controlled with the best intentions,

0:32:34.880 --> 0:32:38.760
<v Speaker 1>obviously I acted out. Didn't do drugs like I wasn't

0:32:38.840 --> 0:32:41.920
<v Speaker 1>that right, or or didn't sleep with anyone, like it

0:32:41.960 --> 0:32:44.760
<v Speaker 1>wasn't that type of acting out. But I would be

0:32:44.840 --> 0:32:47.360
<v Speaker 1>the girl that had you know. I felt like, and

0:32:47.360 --> 0:32:49.080
<v Speaker 1>this is not like my parents told me, like I

0:32:49.080 --> 0:32:51.040
<v Speaker 1>had to be so prim and proper and you know,

0:32:51.600 --> 0:32:56.120
<v Speaker 1>such a big life, and that I would go to parties.

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<v Speaker 1>And I'm not talking like go to parties like it

0:32:58.640 --> 0:33:00.760
<v Speaker 1>was like a twelve year old party. During the day.

0:33:00.800 --> 0:33:03.440
<v Speaker 1>We were watching like you know, a movie and had

0:33:03.480 --> 0:33:05.800
<v Speaker 1>like chips and dip and like a punch bowl. But

0:33:05.960 --> 0:33:09.080
<v Speaker 1>I was the girl that like when they, like the

0:33:09.160 --> 0:33:11.560
<v Speaker 1>parents would walk out, I'd get like all the other

0:33:11.640 --> 0:33:14.640
<v Speaker 1>kids like riled up, and I'd be acting funny and stuff,

0:33:14.680 --> 0:33:18.040
<v Speaker 1>and like this happened. The mom had to call my

0:33:18.120 --> 0:33:20.760
<v Speaker 1>mother because they came in and I was standing on

0:33:20.800 --> 0:33:24.720
<v Speaker 1>the table pissing in the punch bowl, and all the

0:33:24.800 --> 0:33:28.160
<v Speaker 1>kids were like they thought it was so funny, and

0:33:28.200 --> 0:33:33.800
<v Speaker 1>the parents were like, what the yeah, and I was

0:33:33.880 --> 0:33:38.200
<v Speaker 1>just so repressed that I was like, oh again, my

0:33:38.320 --> 0:33:41.440
<v Speaker 1>parents didn't mean to do that. I had this good

0:33:41.480 --> 0:33:46.080
<v Speaker 1>girl's side, and where's the bad girl's side? So anyway, Yeah,

0:33:46.360 --> 0:33:49.120
<v Speaker 1>so I have this question for you. This is what

0:33:49.160 --> 0:33:52.240
<v Speaker 1>I've been meaning to really ask you. So my kids

0:33:52.520 --> 0:33:56.400
<v Speaker 1>are like, oh, Mom, stop putting us out there and

0:33:56.520 --> 0:34:00.320
<v Speaker 1>talking about us and like, and I'm like, it's kind

0:34:00.360 --> 0:34:02.360
<v Speaker 1>of our day job. Like I don't know what to

0:34:02.400 --> 0:34:05.120
<v Speaker 1>tell you, Like, my kids grew up on TV. Your

0:34:05.160 --> 0:34:08.480
<v Speaker 1>kids grew up on TV, and it's hard when they

0:34:08.560 --> 0:34:11.759
<v Speaker 1>don't want to be a part of it. Do you

0:34:12.160 --> 0:34:14.480
<v Speaker 1>have ones that don't want I mean, they're all so

0:34:14.560 --> 0:34:17.680
<v Speaker 1>damn gorgeous, but not a part of it.

0:34:17.719 --> 0:34:23.960
<v Speaker 2>I do. My second daughter, Gabriella she's really private. She

0:34:24.000 --> 0:34:26.440
<v Speaker 2>doesn't really like the whole you know, all the cameras

0:34:26.440 --> 0:34:31.239
<v Speaker 2>and everything. But like I always ask my daughters if

0:34:31.280 --> 0:34:33.040
<v Speaker 2>they want to film with me, like if they want

0:34:33.040 --> 0:34:36.200
<v Speaker 2>to do a scene with me, so I don't force them, right, yeah,

0:34:36.239 --> 0:34:38.560
<v Speaker 2>so if they want to, like Gia and Milania are

0:34:38.600 --> 0:34:41.239
<v Speaker 2>more you know, they they're fine with the cameras. And

0:34:41.239 --> 0:34:44.319
<v Speaker 2>Adriana she's my youngest, she's fourteen, and same thing. If

0:34:44.360 --> 0:34:45.759
<v Speaker 2>I ask her, like, you know, you do you want

0:34:45.800 --> 0:34:47.680
<v Speaker 2>to do this scene with me? And then she'll say yes,

0:34:47.800 --> 0:34:50.120
<v Speaker 2>you know, but I don't force them, Like if they

0:34:50.120 --> 0:34:53.120
<v Speaker 2>say no, I'm totally fine with it, right. But Gabrielle

0:34:53.160 --> 0:34:55.560
<v Speaker 2>is my one that's a little bit more reserved. She's

0:34:55.640 --> 0:34:59.600
<v Speaker 2>private on Instagram. She's that child, and I totally respect it.

0:34:59.680 --> 0:35:02.399
<v Speaker 2>Like in order she doesn't like, I have to get

0:35:02.400 --> 0:35:05.080
<v Speaker 2>her approval before posting a photo. I have to really

0:35:05.080 --> 0:35:08.120
<v Speaker 2>get there all their approvals before. Ga Is really is

0:35:08.120 --> 0:35:10.279
<v Speaker 2>fine with it, but the other girls, like I have

0:35:10.320 --> 0:35:13.520
<v Speaker 2>to get their approval, but people posting a phone. Yeah,

0:35:13.600 --> 0:35:14.279
<v Speaker 2>so I.

0:35:14.239 --> 0:35:16.960
<v Speaker 1>Know when they were younger, you could just like so

0:35:17.120 --> 0:35:19.359
<v Speaker 1>cute and they're like wait, what, no, take that down?

0:35:20.280 --> 0:35:22.200
<v Speaker 1>What's that quote. Now you can't say that, No, you

0:35:22.200 --> 0:35:23.799
<v Speaker 1>can't put that music to it. You can't.

0:35:23.840 --> 0:35:26.759
<v Speaker 2>It's like, but gabriellis that's the one that went to

0:35:26.800 --> 0:35:30.239
<v Speaker 2>the University of Michigan that you just watched that episode

0:35:30.320 --> 0:35:36.120
<v Speaker 2>and you know she listen because of what happened to me,

0:35:36.200 --> 0:35:38.680
<v Speaker 2>all the legal stuff, and you know, I was grateful

0:35:38.719 --> 0:35:42.680
<v Speaker 2>for my job, and so you know, to them second

0:35:42.760 --> 0:35:46.200
<v Speaker 2>nature because they you know, they did start really young

0:35:46.239 --> 0:35:49.239
<v Speaker 2>on TV, like I think Gia was seven and then

0:35:49.360 --> 0:35:52.719
<v Speaker 2>Millennia was three, Gabriella was four, and then I had

0:35:52.760 --> 0:35:55.799
<v Speaker 2>Adriana on the show, right, so really they know that's

0:35:55.800 --> 0:35:58.520
<v Speaker 2>what they know. You know, they know I'm being on

0:35:58.560 --> 0:36:02.399
<v Speaker 2>TV and in Gia before getting on Housewives, I used

0:36:02.400 --> 0:36:06.920
<v Speaker 2>to take our auditions, like for commercial auditions. She used

0:36:06.920 --> 0:36:09.000
<v Speaker 2>to be a dancer, she did gymnastics. So I was

0:36:09.040 --> 0:36:12.279
<v Speaker 2>trying to get her into this world, like just for her,

0:36:12.520 --> 0:36:14.960
<v Speaker 2>and then I look and then what ended up happening

0:36:15.000 --> 0:36:16.720
<v Speaker 2>that we ended up going on as a family.

0:36:17.239 --> 0:36:20.279
<v Speaker 1>For my kids, they're more not okay some of them

0:36:20.800 --> 0:36:21.920
<v Speaker 1>with the things.

0:36:21.640 --> 0:36:24.239
<v Speaker 2>I say, oh yeah, oh yeah, I mean listen, I'm

0:36:24.239 --> 0:36:26.640
<v Speaker 2>sure if I say something that my kids don't like,

0:36:26.760 --> 0:36:28.760
<v Speaker 2>get I'll get the eye roll or whatever.

0:36:29.800 --> 0:36:33.239
<v Speaker 1>And my fifteen year old she's now like, mom, I'm

0:36:33.280 --> 0:36:36.160
<v Speaker 1>in high school, and like it's not okay, like people

0:36:36.200 --> 0:36:39.160
<v Speaker 1>you can't say things because it affects me and I

0:36:39.200 --> 0:36:44.640
<v Speaker 1>didn't choose this right, And I'm like, I understand that.

0:36:44.960 --> 0:36:46.600
<v Speaker 2>Yeah, because you know what happened with my kids, which

0:36:46.640 --> 0:36:50.200
<v Speaker 2>is really sad that people would say things to them

0:36:50.280 --> 0:36:53.600
<v Speaker 2>because of the legal situation that you know, me and

0:36:53.640 --> 0:36:55.799
<v Speaker 2>my ex went through. And that's so mean, you know,

0:36:55.880 --> 0:36:59.200
<v Speaker 2>it's just like, you know, nobody should be bullying or

0:36:59.239 --> 0:37:02.640
<v Speaker 2>saying anything to to children like they you know, but

0:37:02.800 --> 0:37:06.000
<v Speaker 2>kids are really mean. They It's so crazy how it is.

0:37:06.080 --> 0:37:08.680
<v Speaker 2>And of course they hear it at home from their parents,

0:37:09.400 --> 0:37:12.160
<v Speaker 2>so because you know, from watching the show, because it's

0:37:12.200 --> 0:37:14.640
<v Speaker 2>not like the kids are watching Housewives, you know, right,

0:37:14.880 --> 0:37:17.920
<v Speaker 2>So but like I know, my kids, like my kids

0:37:17.960 --> 0:37:21.040
<v Speaker 2>would never be mean to any other children, like other

0:37:21.160 --> 0:37:23.359
<v Speaker 2>kids out there, like my kids are not like that.

0:37:23.680 --> 0:37:26.000
<v Speaker 2>I wish other parents would teach their kids like that,

0:37:26.239 --> 0:37:29.200
<v Speaker 2>so kids wouldn't be bullied in school or wouldn't be

0:37:29.600 --> 0:37:32.040
<v Speaker 2>you know, made fun of or you know, that should

0:37:32.040 --> 0:37:32.520
<v Speaker 2>not happen.

0:37:33.440 --> 0:37:37.800
<v Speaker 1>I agree, And yeah, and they're reading stuff on social media.

0:37:37.840 --> 0:37:39.800
<v Speaker 1>They don't even know what's true. You know, all the

0:37:39.960 --> 0:37:42.319
<v Speaker 1>press like you and I know, like.

0:37:42.520 --> 0:37:44.400
<v Speaker 2>Right, you can't believe everything you read.

0:37:44.360 --> 0:37:47.959
<v Speaker 1>Right, and some of it is true, but you know.

0:37:47.920 --> 0:37:51.840
<v Speaker 2>It's like a lot of it is not. There's so

0:37:51.880 --> 0:37:54.960
<v Speaker 2>many lives that are put out on my show, for instance,

0:37:55.239 --> 0:38:01.640
<v Speaker 2>season fourteen, and like you sort into trailer, Yes, Margaret

0:38:01.640 --> 0:38:04.760
<v Speaker 2>says that my husband spends all my money, Like, bitch,

0:38:04.880 --> 0:38:06.520
<v Speaker 2>you don't even know what you're talking about. She does,

0:38:06.600 --> 0:38:09.399
<v Speaker 2>She's not even in my house. It's like like she's

0:38:09.440 --> 0:38:13.160
<v Speaker 2>putting out this false narrative out there, and it's like like,

0:38:13.719 --> 0:38:16.000
<v Speaker 2>you know, she's trying to make me her storyline and

0:38:16.080 --> 0:38:18.200
<v Speaker 2>that's all she does is talk about me. She's obsessed

0:38:18.239 --> 0:38:23.440
<v Speaker 2>with me and my husband. It's like, yeah, oh my gosh.

0:38:23.480 --> 0:38:26.040
<v Speaker 2>And at the reunion last year, the Foods came out

0:38:26.160 --> 0:38:29.239
<v Speaker 2>with this Cockamanian shit like that my husband reached out

0:38:29.280 --> 0:38:32.200
<v Speaker 2>to his ex in prison, like why would my husband

0:38:32.200 --> 0:38:35.320
<v Speaker 2>reach out to your ex in prison? And then Tori,

0:38:35.440 --> 0:38:37.600
<v Speaker 2>he fucking shot himself in the foot, Like he must

0:38:37.640 --> 0:38:39.640
<v Speaker 2>be kicking himself right now because did you see all

0:38:39.640 --> 0:38:44.280
<v Speaker 2>the stuff that's out there on social media about him? Yes, Okay, So.

0:38:44.120 --> 0:38:48.720
<v Speaker 1>I heard John Fuda is a fan of double sided dildos,

0:38:48.760 --> 0:38:51.600
<v Speaker 1>purple ones. Why purple? No, I'm just kidding. I imagine

0:38:51.600 --> 0:38:53.200
<v Speaker 1>that that's the problem I have with it.

0:38:53.960 --> 0:38:57.600
<v Speaker 2>So his Yeah, so, like someone contacted his ex in

0:38:57.680 --> 0:39:02.680
<v Speaker 2>prison and started asking her questions, and so she told her,

0:39:02.960 --> 0:39:05.400
<v Speaker 2>you know, her life story while she was with John

0:39:06.080 --> 0:39:08.560
<v Speaker 2>and put this soul out there. But see, this is

0:39:08.600 --> 0:39:12.040
<v Speaker 2>the thing where John totally fucked up because someone told

0:39:12.160 --> 0:39:17.399
<v Speaker 2>him that Louis contacted his ex girlfriend in prison. So

0:39:17.480 --> 0:39:20.560
<v Speaker 2>he opened up this can of worms and now they're

0:39:20.600 --> 0:39:23.239
<v Speaker 2>all over him, eating him all up because it's like

0:39:23.840 --> 0:39:26.680
<v Speaker 2>then now people started wondering, oh, he has an ex

0:39:26.760 --> 0:39:30.480
<v Speaker 2>girlfriend now in prison, Like so he like, you get

0:39:30.520 --> 0:39:32.719
<v Speaker 2>what I'm trying to say. So, so now people are

0:39:32.800 --> 0:39:37.919
<v Speaker 2>contacting her, and the Sun reporter contacted her and wrote

0:39:37.920 --> 0:39:39.879
<v Speaker 2>her an email because she wanted She's like, did Louis

0:39:39.960 --> 0:39:43.080
<v Speaker 2>Ruellis is my husband's name. Did Louis Bruellis contact you?

0:39:44.280 --> 0:39:46.359
<v Speaker 2>And she and then she came forward and said, no,

0:39:46.800 --> 0:39:49.600
<v Speaker 2>I never spoke to him before. So thank you Diana

0:39:49.800 --> 0:39:52.520
<v Speaker 2>from the Sun, because she she did, you know, because

0:39:52.520 --> 0:39:55.359
<v Speaker 2>she toy just like they like to write about you

0:39:55.480 --> 0:39:58.120
<v Speaker 2>they like to write about me. I you know, I

0:39:58.239 --> 0:40:00.840
<v Speaker 2>give them. You know, people like to click on whatever

0:40:00.960 --> 0:40:02.960
<v Speaker 2>story's out there about me because.

0:40:02.719 --> 0:40:04.280
<v Speaker 1>You're a fucking relevant queen.

0:40:04.480 --> 0:40:07.520
<v Speaker 2>That's why I know how well magazines no matter what

0:40:07.719 --> 0:40:12.160
<v Speaker 2>it's like, star in touch. I've been on so many covers,

0:40:12.560 --> 0:40:15.239
<v Speaker 2>like they'd love to write about me. I saw magazines. Yeah,

0:40:15.400 --> 0:40:18.360
<v Speaker 2>so trust me. So if my husband reached out to

0:40:19.239 --> 0:40:21.680
<v Speaker 2>John food Is X, like he said, my husband did,

0:40:22.000 --> 0:40:24.640
<v Speaker 2>trust me, this reporter would have loved to put that

0:40:24.719 --> 0:40:27.560
<v Speaker 2>out there. And I'm glad she did that because she

0:40:27.719 --> 0:40:30.080
<v Speaker 2>spoke to her. And I'm glad because you know what

0:40:30.120 --> 0:40:32.600
<v Speaker 2>people do lie Unfortunately, it happens on my show all

0:40:32.640 --> 0:40:35.080
<v Speaker 2>the time, and I'm glad John fuda Is X said

0:40:35.120 --> 0:40:38.080
<v Speaker 2>the truth that like I have never spoken to that person,

0:40:38.239 --> 0:40:43.360
<v Speaker 2>you know. And then afterwards then another person contacted food

0:40:43.480 --> 0:40:45.640
<v Speaker 2>is X and that's when all that stuff came out

0:40:45.719 --> 0:40:48.440
<v Speaker 2>and she smelt the beans on how you know, how

0:40:48.800 --> 0:40:50.240
<v Speaker 2>life was being with him?

0:40:50.640 --> 0:40:52.560
<v Speaker 1>Yeah, I mean it's on the show. It's like it's

0:40:52.600 --> 0:40:54.120
<v Speaker 1>out there. People know about it.

0:40:54.440 --> 0:40:57.080
<v Speaker 2>And the thing is, it's like, I know I had

0:40:57.400 --> 0:40:59.719
<v Speaker 2>I had nothing against him and his wife at all,

0:41:00.239 --> 0:41:02.839
<v Speaker 2>and like why would I want to contact your ex

0:41:02.920 --> 0:41:05.960
<v Speaker 2>girlfriend in prison for for what? Sorry, No, I don't

0:41:06.000 --> 0:41:08.640
<v Speaker 2>need you as a storyline. I do well just on

0:41:08.680 --> 0:41:10.640
<v Speaker 2>my own. I've been doing this for fourteen, Like look

0:41:10.680 --> 0:41:13.520
<v Speaker 2>season fourteen, and I'm still on top. Like, I don't

0:41:13.520 --> 0:41:16.400
<v Speaker 2>need you as my storyline, And that would make me

0:41:16.480 --> 0:41:18.640
<v Speaker 2>look so bad if I did that, Like why would

0:41:18.640 --> 0:41:21.000
<v Speaker 2>I contact you. I didn't even know he had an

0:41:21.120 --> 0:41:23.920
<v Speaker 2>ex girlfriend that was in prison. I didn't even know, Like,

0:41:23.960 --> 0:41:24.879
<v Speaker 2>I didn't even know that.

0:41:25.000 --> 0:41:28.280
<v Speaker 1>Because it's you. You drive everything, so they're always gonna

0:41:28.600 --> 0:41:30.040
<v Speaker 1>use you as the reference.

0:41:30.200 --> 0:41:32.920
<v Speaker 2>Yeah, I mean he opened up Prindor's box and I'm

0:41:32.960 --> 0:41:34.320
<v Speaker 2>sure now he's kicking himself.