1 00:00:08,760 --> 00:00:15,720 Speaker 1: Misspelling with Tory spelling and iHeartRadio podcast. My friend is 2 00:00:15,720 --> 00:00:17,240 Speaker 1: here and I'm super excited. 3 00:00:17,800 --> 00:00:19,040 Speaker 2: I'm excited too. 4 00:00:20,600 --> 00:00:24,280 Speaker 1: Teresa Judais. Oh my gosh, I love. 5 00:00:24,079 --> 00:00:27,800 Speaker 2: You, thank you. This is so surreal. I mean I 6 00:00:27,840 --> 00:00:30,400 Speaker 2: watched you, you know, I watched you growing up, and 7 00:00:30,440 --> 00:00:32,920 Speaker 2: it's like so crazy for us to be in the 8 00:00:32,920 --> 00:00:35,080 Speaker 2: same room doing a podcast together, Like I love that, 9 00:00:35,800 --> 00:00:36,440 Speaker 2: Oh my gosh. 10 00:00:36,479 --> 00:00:42,560 Speaker 1: And I've watched you my kids growing up. So there. Yeah, 11 00:00:42,600 --> 00:00:45,760 Speaker 1: but here you are on the West Coast, and I'm 12 00:00:45,840 --> 00:00:46,240 Speaker 1: very excited. 13 00:00:46,240 --> 00:00:48,320 Speaker 2: I mean, it's crazy. I think we're the same age, right. 14 00:00:48,200 --> 00:00:49,519 Speaker 1: I mean, are younger than me. 15 00:00:50,720 --> 00:00:52,000 Speaker 2: I'm how old are you? 16 00:00:52,159 --> 00:00:54,200 Speaker 1: Oh my mayor can google this shit, I'm. 17 00:00:54,080 --> 00:00:57,400 Speaker 2: Fifty I'm fifty one, what so? Yeah? 18 00:00:58,080 --> 00:00:59,320 Speaker 1: What so? Yeah. 19 00:00:59,360 --> 00:01:04,240 Speaker 2: So it's like I remember watching your birthday. My birthday's 20 00:01:04,240 --> 00:01:05,880 Speaker 2: May eighteen, so I'm going to be fifty two. 21 00:01:06,360 --> 00:01:07,880 Speaker 1: Wait, my birthday's May sixteen. 22 00:01:09,240 --> 00:01:10,920 Speaker 2: Is say that? 23 00:01:11,319 --> 00:01:13,440 Speaker 1: Yeah, this friendship all makes sense? 24 00:01:13,560 --> 00:01:16,760 Speaker 2: Oh my god, see that that's wild. 25 00:01:16,840 --> 00:01:17,040 Speaker 1: Yeah. 26 00:01:17,080 --> 00:01:19,200 Speaker 2: So I'm going to be fifty one and you started TV? 27 00:01:19,400 --> 00:01:19,920 Speaker 2: How old are you? 28 00:01:20,800 --> 00:01:24,920 Speaker 1: Oh my gosh, well, I mean since I was born, 29 00:01:25,040 --> 00:01:27,640 Speaker 1: like came out of you to row on TV. Fifteen. 30 00:01:27,800 --> 00:01:28,600 Speaker 1: I did the pilot. 31 00:01:28,760 --> 00:01:31,959 Speaker 2: See you started younger. I started later. It's so funny. 32 00:01:32,040 --> 00:01:37,039 Speaker 1: Yeah, so Real Housewives of New Jersey season fourteen, Yes 33 00:01:37,240 --> 00:01:40,119 Speaker 1: is insane. Okay, So they got like the good part 34 00:01:40,160 --> 00:01:40,959 Speaker 1: of you the world. 35 00:01:41,200 --> 00:01:43,560 Speaker 2: I mean, thank you. I started out that way and 36 00:01:43,600 --> 00:01:46,720 Speaker 2: then after, you know, then it's like everyone always comes 37 00:01:46,760 --> 00:01:47,400 Speaker 2: for Teresa. 38 00:01:48,040 --> 00:01:52,720 Speaker 1: They really do. Yeah, you're the og. Yes, we're both ogs. 39 00:01:52,880 --> 00:01:53,240 Speaker 2: I know. 40 00:01:54,600 --> 00:01:59,440 Speaker 1: Yes, I feel like I can't imagine the show without you. 41 00:02:00,160 --> 00:02:00,560 Speaker 2: Thank you. 42 00:02:00,920 --> 00:02:03,000 Speaker 1: I don't even know how you hold it together, to 43 00:02:03,120 --> 00:02:03,840 Speaker 1: be like the. 44 00:02:03,800 --> 00:02:08,200 Speaker 2: Glue, the glue that holds it all together. Maybe the goddess. 45 00:02:09,480 --> 00:02:10,440 Speaker 1: Queen queen. 46 00:02:10,520 --> 00:02:11,240 Speaker 2: Yeah they like that. 47 00:02:11,360 --> 00:02:12,480 Speaker 1: Yeah, you are the Queen. 48 00:02:12,919 --> 00:02:15,320 Speaker 2: I never like to say that about myself, you know, 49 00:02:15,639 --> 00:02:18,040 Speaker 2: like I'm not that person. But yeah, I mean I 50 00:02:19,080 --> 00:02:21,200 Speaker 2: did start the show, So thank you. I did start 51 00:02:21,240 --> 00:02:25,200 Speaker 2: the show. And so yeah I am the OJ. So yeah, 52 00:02:25,200 --> 00:02:27,760 Speaker 2: it's been you know, I've been through rollercoaster, lots of 53 00:02:27,960 --> 00:02:31,720 Speaker 2: ups and downs. Yeah. So and I've shown it. I've 54 00:02:31,720 --> 00:02:33,799 Speaker 2: shown it all. Like what you see is what you get. 55 00:02:33,840 --> 00:02:36,040 Speaker 2: I'm real as they come. 56 00:02:36,800 --> 00:02:39,880 Speaker 1: You really are so because I know her aside from 57 00:02:39,919 --> 00:02:43,919 Speaker 1: watching her, and she really is like we so before 58 00:02:43,960 --> 00:02:46,800 Speaker 1: we started the podcast, we saw each other downstairs and 59 00:02:46,840 --> 00:02:50,080 Speaker 1: immediately we're like, what's going on? And you were on 60 00:02:50,120 --> 00:02:52,120 Speaker 1: the phone with your daughter and she was buying a bird. 61 00:02:52,600 --> 00:02:56,040 Speaker 2: Yeah, Milania called me and Malani's like, Matt, can I 62 00:02:56,040 --> 00:02:59,200 Speaker 2: get a bird? And I thought she just was asking me, 63 00:02:59,240 --> 00:03:01,280 Speaker 2: like I figured she was in school, She's just asking me. 64 00:03:01,880 --> 00:03:04,480 Speaker 2: And then she facetimes me and you saw she was 65 00:03:04,520 --> 00:03:06,320 Speaker 2: at the pet store. She was there, So she was 66 00:03:06,320 --> 00:03:07,959 Speaker 2: at the pet store and she's like, can I buy 67 00:03:07,960 --> 00:03:10,680 Speaker 2: a bird? And I'm like, we have four dogs. I mean, 68 00:03:10,720 --> 00:03:13,040 Speaker 2: we don't eat a bird. You know, I had birds 69 00:03:13,040 --> 00:03:14,360 Speaker 2: growing up. They're really messy. 70 00:03:15,200 --> 00:03:16,640 Speaker 1: So oh you did have birds? 71 00:03:16,720 --> 00:03:20,839 Speaker 2: Yes, I did have. I hadoots and they're really loud. Yes, 72 00:03:21,040 --> 00:03:23,799 Speaker 2: and they make a mess. Yeah, bird food all over 73 00:03:23,800 --> 00:03:25,320 Speaker 2: the floor. So I just told her, like, you know 74 00:03:25,360 --> 00:03:31,079 Speaker 2: what make a mess? Yeah, and make a mess. Yes, yeah, birds, 75 00:03:31,120 --> 00:03:33,080 Speaker 2: that's a hard thing. But I promptly told her she 76 00:03:33,080 --> 00:03:35,640 Speaker 2: should go ahead. And I know You're like, just tell 77 00:03:35,680 --> 00:03:37,240 Speaker 2: her to get the bird. I'm like, no, Tori, you 78 00:03:37,280 --> 00:03:40,440 Speaker 2: have four dogs, sollo oh no, no, I like what 79 00:03:40,480 --> 00:03:43,320 Speaker 2: you said. You said because you have four dogs, You're 80 00:03:43,360 --> 00:03:47,640 Speaker 2: like the birds could have heart attacks. From the dogs barking, 81 00:03:47,720 --> 00:03:49,120 Speaker 2: So I liked it. That's a good one. 82 00:03:49,280 --> 00:03:51,640 Speaker 1: Yeah, and then I winked at you. But that's actually 83 00:03:51,680 --> 00:03:52,440 Speaker 1: a true story. 84 00:03:52,680 --> 00:03:53,160 Speaker 2: That is. 85 00:03:53,560 --> 00:03:57,200 Speaker 1: Yeah. I got a bird once at a pet store 86 00:03:57,640 --> 00:04:00,480 Speaker 1: and it was pink, so I of course was like, oh, 87 00:04:00,520 --> 00:04:03,320 Speaker 1: it's cute. I have to get this bird. And I 88 00:04:03,360 --> 00:04:05,440 Speaker 1: got it and took it home, and then my dog 89 00:04:06,000 --> 00:04:08,800 Speaker 1: barked and it was in It was called Rosie because 90 00:04:08,840 --> 00:04:09,920 Speaker 1: I was super. 91 00:04:10,360 --> 00:04:13,320 Speaker 2: One of my dogs is the real Rosy. It's so cute. 92 00:04:13,360 --> 00:04:15,040 Speaker 2: See that. We have another thing in comedy there. 93 00:04:15,880 --> 00:04:18,240 Speaker 1: Let's just keep satting up. But the dog barked and 94 00:04:18,360 --> 00:04:22,560 Speaker 1: Rosie literally went I just fell hit the bottom of 95 00:04:22,560 --> 00:04:25,400 Speaker 1: the cage, and we're like what, oh my god, oh 96 00:04:25,440 --> 00:04:27,520 Speaker 1: my god, oh sad. 97 00:04:28,920 --> 00:04:30,960 Speaker 2: And I thought about another thing. Both of her name 98 00:04:31,040 --> 00:04:31,800 Speaker 2: starts with tea. 99 00:04:32,160 --> 00:04:34,080 Speaker 1: Oh my gosh. Yeah, like, what's your nickname? 100 00:04:35,600 --> 00:04:39,719 Speaker 2: Got up Tea? Like in high school was sweet Tea? Yeah, 101 00:04:39,720 --> 00:04:42,360 Speaker 2: in high school was sweet Tea. Tray. A lot of 102 00:04:42,400 --> 00:04:44,600 Speaker 2: people call me tree. That's what my ex used to 103 00:04:44,640 --> 00:04:47,640 Speaker 2: call me, Tray. My fans are called tree huggers. 104 00:04:48,279 --> 00:04:48,799 Speaker 1: Interesting. 105 00:04:49,120 --> 00:04:53,120 Speaker 2: Yes, I saw Kay Hoover from Access Hollywood. She goes this, 106 00:04:53,240 --> 00:04:56,719 Speaker 2: what are your fans called my fans are called you 107 00:04:56,760 --> 00:04:58,960 Speaker 2: know tree. I'm like, what do you mean and she's like, 108 00:04:59,320 --> 00:05:01,680 Speaker 2: what are they? I'm like tree huggers. She's like yes, 109 00:05:02,200 --> 00:05:04,240 Speaker 2: She's like, you don't even know what they were calling 110 00:05:04,279 --> 00:05:06,840 Speaker 2: me on Instagram because one time I walked off her 111 00:05:06,880 --> 00:05:11,159 Speaker 2: show and like this was years ago and she's talked 112 00:05:11,200 --> 00:05:12,919 Speaker 2: about something I didn't want to talk about. So I 113 00:05:13,000 --> 00:05:14,320 Speaker 2: was like, you know, I'm not take and I just 114 00:05:14,360 --> 00:05:17,480 Speaker 2: walked off. She's like, you don't understand. She's like, your 115 00:05:17,520 --> 00:05:20,440 Speaker 2: fans came for me. She said she was called see 116 00:05:20,480 --> 00:05:24,520 Speaker 2: you next Tuesday. I was like, oh my god. I 117 00:05:24,560 --> 00:05:26,240 Speaker 2: was like, I'm so sorry. She's like, no, it's not 118 00:05:26,240 --> 00:05:28,200 Speaker 2: your fault. She's like, it was your fans, your tree 119 00:05:28,240 --> 00:05:31,200 Speaker 2: huggers that were coming after me. Saying that. So yesterday 120 00:05:31,240 --> 00:05:34,240 Speaker 2: I was on her show, her and Mario and she's like, 121 00:05:34,240 --> 00:05:35,960 Speaker 2: can we take can we take a video? I want 122 00:05:36,000 --> 00:05:38,760 Speaker 2: to tell your fans that we've made up. I'm like sure, 123 00:05:39,200 --> 00:05:41,520 Speaker 2: so everyone, I just want you guys to know me 124 00:05:41,800 --> 00:05:44,760 Speaker 2: Kit Hoover made up. So thank you, my tree huggers. 125 00:05:44,880 --> 00:05:47,720 Speaker 2: Love love, love you guys. You're amazing. Thanks for all 126 00:05:47,720 --> 00:05:49,760 Speaker 2: your love and support. It means the world to me. 127 00:05:50,800 --> 00:05:53,600 Speaker 1: Oh, my gosh, I love you tree hugger. Wait, I'm 128 00:05:53,600 --> 00:05:56,200 Speaker 1: sorry I bought tree huggers something else. 129 00:05:56,640 --> 00:05:59,800 Speaker 2: Oh what did you think they meant environmentally? Yeah, my 130 00:06:00,040 --> 00:06:02,800 Speaker 2: ants call themselves three huggers, which I love. It's that's 131 00:06:02,960 --> 00:06:03,560 Speaker 2: my nickname. 132 00:06:05,040 --> 00:06:05,680 Speaker 1: I love that. 133 00:06:05,839 --> 00:06:07,039 Speaker 2: Yes, I love that too. 134 00:06:07,880 --> 00:06:09,159 Speaker 1: What does Louie call you? 135 00:06:10,960 --> 00:06:14,359 Speaker 2: He called sometimes he calls me babe. Sometimes you know, 136 00:06:14,520 --> 00:06:18,080 Speaker 2: tea my love. Yeah, I have a. 137 00:06:18,120 --> 00:06:21,320 Speaker 1: Question for you. Yes, did you feel like, I mean, 138 00:06:21,360 --> 00:06:25,359 Speaker 1: obviously you've been through a divorce, you're remarried. Did you 139 00:06:25,480 --> 00:06:28,680 Speaker 1: feel like there was a nickname that you and Joe 140 00:06:28,720 --> 00:06:31,280 Speaker 1: had that when you got together with Louis, you were like, 141 00:06:32,120 --> 00:06:34,320 Speaker 1: we can't call each other that because that was our name. 142 00:06:35,080 --> 00:06:38,600 Speaker 2: Oh oh, I called everyone honey. I think I used 143 00:06:38,600 --> 00:06:41,600 Speaker 2: to say a lot, even to Joe, So trying not 144 00:06:41,640 --> 00:06:43,760 Speaker 2: to say it to Louis. I mean, I'm trying to 145 00:06:43,760 --> 00:06:45,839 Speaker 2: think what I call Louie Like, I just say him 146 00:06:46,600 --> 00:06:50,760 Speaker 2: my love. I always say, you know, sweetheart. 147 00:06:50,600 --> 00:06:54,040 Speaker 1: I love that. And now he lives here, well he's 148 00:06:54,440 --> 00:06:55,680 Speaker 1: he's working here. 149 00:06:55,800 --> 00:06:58,880 Speaker 2: Yeah, right, So we were just talking. We're going I'm 150 00:06:58,880 --> 00:07:00,040 Speaker 2: going back and forth. 151 00:07:00,400 --> 00:07:01,960 Speaker 1: That you're becoming by coastal. 152 00:07:02,440 --> 00:07:04,240 Speaker 2: Yes, so I'm going to be spending a lot more 153 00:07:04,240 --> 00:07:06,520 Speaker 2: time out here, so yes, we can hang out more. 154 00:07:06,640 --> 00:07:07,360 Speaker 2: So I'm excited. 155 00:07:07,480 --> 00:07:09,960 Speaker 1: It makes me so happy because I feel like so 156 00:07:10,000 --> 00:07:12,160 Speaker 1: I'm terrified of flying, so I don't go to the 157 00:07:12,160 --> 00:07:16,040 Speaker 1: East coast a lot. Okay, but I actually I mean 158 00:07:16,080 --> 00:07:17,000 Speaker 1: I would come there for you. 159 00:07:17,440 --> 00:07:19,320 Speaker 2: I would love that. Yeah, I mean we got to 160 00:07:19,320 --> 00:07:22,440 Speaker 2: get you. You need to be a housewife of Beverly 161 00:07:22,520 --> 00:07:25,000 Speaker 2: Hills and then we could do watch What Happens Live 162 00:07:25,040 --> 00:07:27,520 Speaker 2: to Jersey. I would I mean you want to move 163 00:07:27,520 --> 00:07:30,200 Speaker 2: to Jersey? Yes, I would love you. You wouldn't meet 164 00:07:30,240 --> 00:07:33,000 Speaker 2: on the show together. We would be badasses. Yes, we 165 00:07:33,040 --> 00:07:36,520 Speaker 2: would so survive. No, you would survive. 166 00:07:36,520 --> 00:07:37,480 Speaker 1: Because you would have my back. 167 00:07:37,640 --> 00:07:39,920 Speaker 2: Yes, yes, I would have your bath. Oh way to 168 00:07:40,040 --> 00:07:40,600 Speaker 2: like this idea? 169 00:07:40,680 --> 00:07:44,640 Speaker 1: Ok? Yes? Yeah, I pretend to be like timided and 170 00:07:44,680 --> 00:07:47,960 Speaker 1: like shy, but like I feel like I'm a baller, 171 00:07:48,160 --> 00:07:51,320 Speaker 1: Like I feel like I could like go for it. 172 00:07:51,560 --> 00:07:54,600 Speaker 2: I thank so I've seen you in action, but I 173 00:07:54,640 --> 00:07:57,720 Speaker 2: can't say now, guys, we have a surprise coming up 174 00:07:57,880 --> 00:08:00,720 Speaker 2: Tori and I, but we can't really say. But I 175 00:08:00,760 --> 00:08:02,800 Speaker 2: did see you in action, and I was just like, 176 00:08:02,960 --> 00:08:06,000 Speaker 2: whoa you are hot and spicy. 177 00:08:06,640 --> 00:08:09,440 Speaker 1: I know. I was like, I can't remember she's subscribing 178 00:08:09,480 --> 00:08:14,560 Speaker 1: to my private early Family remember she did so she exactly. 179 00:08:15,480 --> 00:08:21,720 Speaker 2: Mm hmm. I was like, Wow, that's Tory sexy and hot. Wow, 180 00:08:21,840 --> 00:08:25,960 Speaker 2: really turning me on what? Yes, yeah, we can't talk 181 00:08:25,960 --> 00:08:30,200 Speaker 2: about it. We did, but this sounds really and it's 182 00:08:30,240 --> 00:08:32,720 Speaker 2: like not, you know what, But I'm gonna We're gonna 183 00:08:32,960 --> 00:08:33,560 Speaker 2: keep talking. 184 00:08:34,320 --> 00:08:35,400 Speaker 1: We're going to do many things. 185 00:08:35,520 --> 00:08:42,280 Speaker 2: Yes we are. 186 00:08:44,720 --> 00:08:45,439 Speaker 1: What's going on in the. 187 00:08:45,360 --> 00:08:49,079 Speaker 2: Podcast world, Well, I'm not doing no stay bitches anymore. 188 00:08:50,600 --> 00:08:52,640 Speaker 2: Melissa and I you know, we decided to go our 189 00:08:52,640 --> 00:08:53,320 Speaker 2: separate ways. 190 00:08:53,480 --> 00:08:53,920 Speaker 1: Understood. 191 00:08:54,080 --> 00:08:57,840 Speaker 2: Yeah, she's having another baby, so she's focusing on her family. 192 00:08:57,840 --> 00:09:00,480 Speaker 2: I'm focusing on mine and like now going back and 193 00:09:00,520 --> 00:09:03,520 Speaker 2: forth to La. But I have a big surprise coming up, 194 00:09:03,559 --> 00:09:04,800 Speaker 2: so I can't wait to tell everyone. 195 00:09:05,800 --> 00:09:09,000 Speaker 1: If I were to be your manager, I would just say, 196 00:09:09,280 --> 00:09:11,680 Speaker 1: like I you should have your your own. 197 00:09:12,520 --> 00:09:15,840 Speaker 2: Oh thank you. I like the sound of that from 198 00:09:15,920 --> 00:09:19,280 Speaker 2: your lips to God's ears. Okay, yeah, thank you? Are 199 00:09:19,280 --> 00:09:19,559 Speaker 2: you there? 200 00:09:19,679 --> 00:09:21,680 Speaker 1: God? It's me Tori. 201 00:09:24,640 --> 00:09:27,240 Speaker 2: She needs her own What would would what do you 202 00:09:27,240 --> 00:09:28,120 Speaker 2: think I should name it? 203 00:09:28,840 --> 00:09:31,719 Speaker 1: Mm hm, Oh my gosh. Now you're putting me on 204 00:09:31,760 --> 00:09:35,760 Speaker 1: the okay, never mind, no, no, no, I'll get back 205 00:09:35,760 --> 00:09:38,320 Speaker 1: to you on that one. Okay, drive me crazy. So 206 00:09:39,160 --> 00:09:42,400 Speaker 1: they gave a preview of the entire season, and it's 207 00:09:42,480 --> 00:09:45,280 Speaker 1: like it looks insane in a good way. 208 00:09:45,480 --> 00:09:47,960 Speaker 2: Yeah, no, I mean, listen, it looks insane. It does 209 00:09:48,000 --> 00:09:51,240 Speaker 2: look it's like it's it gets it's very toxic. It's toxic. 210 00:09:51,720 --> 00:09:55,600 Speaker 2: I mean, hello, yeah you watched it, watch like the ending, theally, 211 00:09:55,960 --> 00:09:57,360 Speaker 2: all of it. 212 00:09:57,840 --> 00:10:01,640 Speaker 1: Oh but like good and bad, like it just all works. 213 00:10:02,960 --> 00:10:04,440 Speaker 2: Yeah, that's yeah. 214 00:10:04,679 --> 00:10:06,480 Speaker 1: Well, like I'm talking about your life, like it's not 215 00:10:06,520 --> 00:10:08,880 Speaker 1: your life, but we're kind of in the same boat. 216 00:10:08,960 --> 00:10:11,440 Speaker 1: So it's okay, right, because people talk about our lives, 217 00:10:11,480 --> 00:10:14,080 Speaker 1: they know our lives, they think they know us, right, 218 00:10:14,400 --> 00:10:16,720 Speaker 1: and you have your tree huggers, But I'm sure you 219 00:10:16,760 --> 00:10:19,880 Speaker 1: also have people that are just like, why are you 220 00:10:20,000 --> 00:10:26,000 Speaker 1: putting it all out there? Yes, when you started putting 221 00:10:26,000 --> 00:10:28,840 Speaker 1: it all out there, did it feel free at all? 222 00:10:30,480 --> 00:10:33,160 Speaker 2: I mean, like, I guess I didn't even think of 223 00:10:33,200 --> 00:10:35,720 Speaker 2: it that way like when I did it. Like first 224 00:10:35,720 --> 00:10:38,320 Speaker 2: of all, when I first got on the show, I mean, 225 00:10:38,840 --> 00:10:40,920 Speaker 2: how this all came to me. It just came to me, 226 00:10:41,080 --> 00:10:44,360 Speaker 2: like I wouldn't go looking for it. Like these producers went, 227 00:10:44,480 --> 00:10:46,800 Speaker 2: wht me tell you a story. Yeah, yeah, these producers 228 00:10:46,840 --> 00:10:50,720 Speaker 2: went to the salon in Franklin Lakes and then so 229 00:10:50,760 --> 00:10:54,240 Speaker 2: they were asking, you know, for like beautiful women with 230 00:10:54,280 --> 00:10:58,440 Speaker 2: beautiful homes, like over the type lifestyles. So the owner 231 00:10:58,520 --> 00:11:02,880 Speaker 2: of the salon recommended Dina and Jacqueline. They were regulars 232 00:11:02,880 --> 00:11:07,400 Speaker 2: at that salai. So then Dina, you know, so they 233 00:11:07,400 --> 00:11:10,080 Speaker 2: spoke to the producers. You know, they spoke to Dina 234 00:11:10,120 --> 00:11:12,839 Speaker 2: and Jacqueline and they love them. And then they asked them, 235 00:11:12,880 --> 00:11:15,520 Speaker 2: can you recommend any other you know, women for the 236 00:11:15,600 --> 00:11:18,559 Speaker 2: you know, for the show that we're doing. And at 237 00:11:18,559 --> 00:11:19,679 Speaker 2: the time, I think they were going to call it 238 00:11:19,800 --> 00:11:24,280 Speaker 2: Jersey Mom, so it wasn't New Jersey Housewives. Yeah, So 239 00:11:24,400 --> 00:11:28,000 Speaker 2: then Dina recommended me. So then that's how I got on, 240 00:11:28,280 --> 00:11:33,160 Speaker 2: and and then I spoke to the producer everyone else, 241 00:11:33,800 --> 00:11:40,520 Speaker 2: and then Jacqueline recommended Caroline. And then Danielle was a 242 00:11:40,600 --> 00:11:43,640 Speaker 2: regular at that salon, and then Dina said to Jacqueline, 243 00:11:43,720 --> 00:11:46,760 Speaker 2: you know, maybe we should recommend Danielle, but let's get 244 00:11:46,760 --> 00:11:50,320 Speaker 2: to know her first. And then I think Danielle told 245 00:11:50,360 --> 00:11:53,839 Speaker 2: the producers about Danielle and they intributed her. They loved her, 246 00:11:54,280 --> 00:11:56,120 Speaker 2: you know, because she was you know, she made good TV. 247 00:11:56,840 --> 00:11:59,880 Speaker 2: And then with me, they all signed the contract right away. 248 00:12:00,160 --> 00:12:02,040 Speaker 2: They all signed the contract like that they were ready 249 00:12:02,080 --> 00:12:04,440 Speaker 2: to do the show. Guess how long it took me 250 00:12:04,480 --> 00:12:09,360 Speaker 2: to sign the contract along around almost a year, like 251 00:12:09,440 --> 00:12:12,199 Speaker 2: eleven months. Yeah, because I didn't know what I was 252 00:12:12,200 --> 00:12:15,680 Speaker 2: getting myself into, Tori. I was like, I kept asking Joe. 253 00:12:15,679 --> 00:12:17,880 Speaker 2: I was like should I do this? Should I not 254 00:12:18,000 --> 00:12:20,400 Speaker 2: do It's like, what is this? I just wasn't sure. 255 00:12:20,440 --> 00:12:23,000 Speaker 2: I'm like, what is this? I didn't understand it. And 256 00:12:23,040 --> 00:12:25,280 Speaker 2: then one day Jacqueline's like, come on, let's just do 257 00:12:25,320 --> 00:12:28,320 Speaker 2: this together. We'll have so much fun and let's just 258 00:12:28,480 --> 00:12:31,920 Speaker 2: and then I just signed a contract in front of Jacqueline, 259 00:12:32,080 --> 00:12:34,360 Speaker 2: not even with the lawyer, and gave it to Jackeline. 260 00:12:34,760 --> 00:12:36,880 Speaker 2: She put it in the fed xbox and that was it. 261 00:12:37,880 --> 00:12:40,320 Speaker 1: Wait, we just talked to your lawyer before this. 262 00:12:40,520 --> 00:12:43,720 Speaker 2: And yeah, this is my lawyer for the past ten years. Yeah. 263 00:12:44,120 --> 00:12:48,080 Speaker 2: I met him when I was going away because I 264 00:12:48,120 --> 00:12:51,280 Speaker 2: was going away and then I was trying to do 265 00:12:51,320 --> 00:12:52,640 Speaker 2: a twenty two fifty five. 266 00:12:53,520 --> 00:12:55,440 Speaker 1: That's like, I'm not that smart, right, it's. 267 00:12:55,559 --> 00:12:59,720 Speaker 2: Called the twenty two fifty five to try to to 268 00:12:59,760 --> 00:13:02,280 Speaker 2: try to keep you out of prison. Oh no, I 269 00:13:02,280 --> 00:13:05,720 Speaker 2: was already I think going to prison twenty fifty five maybe. 270 00:13:05,520 --> 00:13:07,720 Speaker 1: To get out earlier for my future. 271 00:13:09,360 --> 00:13:11,320 Speaker 2: Like I think it's okay because I was I met him, 272 00:13:11,480 --> 00:13:14,600 Speaker 2: I was already going to prison. And then not that 273 00:13:14,600 --> 00:13:16,439 Speaker 2: I didn't want to talk about this, but I will 274 00:13:16,520 --> 00:13:18,560 Speaker 2: tell you when I met Jim, and then I was 275 00:13:18,559 --> 00:13:20,320 Speaker 2: going to do a twenty two fifty five to try 276 00:13:20,360 --> 00:13:24,520 Speaker 2: to reduce my sentence, and it was like, yeah, it 277 00:13:24,559 --> 00:13:26,600 Speaker 2: was it's hard to do that. So then that's how 278 00:13:26,600 --> 00:13:28,600 Speaker 2: I met him, and that's how he came into my life. 279 00:13:28,840 --> 00:13:29,679 Speaker 2: And that was it. 280 00:13:29,960 --> 00:13:33,440 Speaker 1: So I can't believe. What if you hadn't signed that contract. 281 00:13:33,720 --> 00:13:35,680 Speaker 2: I know, if I didn't sign that contract, I would 282 00:13:35,679 --> 00:13:37,840 Speaker 2: still be a housewife. Just you know, I was just 283 00:13:37,920 --> 00:13:40,080 Speaker 2: home taking care of my kids. That's it. Like you 284 00:13:40,120 --> 00:13:42,240 Speaker 2: know I used to go to Naven Marcus for lunch 285 00:13:42,280 --> 00:13:44,559 Speaker 2: every day. Yeah, I used to do stuff like that, 286 00:13:44,720 --> 00:13:49,000 Speaker 2: like take the girls shopping like all that. I knew 287 00:13:49,080 --> 00:13:52,120 Speaker 2: everybody and even Marcus in the makeup area in Norse Stroums, 288 00:13:52,120 --> 00:13:55,120 Speaker 2: like I used to walk through. Everyone knew the girls. Yeah, 289 00:13:55,160 --> 00:13:55,880 Speaker 2: it was so cute. 290 00:13:56,040 --> 00:13:59,360 Speaker 1: That's so interesting to me, just because I think you're 291 00:13:59,600 --> 00:14:02,640 Speaker 1: so smart and so savvy and just the way you 292 00:14:02,720 --> 00:14:03,960 Speaker 1: handle things. 293 00:14:04,120 --> 00:14:07,000 Speaker 2: Before, Like I had gya, I was. I was in 294 00:14:07,000 --> 00:14:10,400 Speaker 2: the buying industry. I was. I was a buyer at 295 00:14:10,480 --> 00:14:12,800 Speaker 2: a Macy's and then I went on the other side. 296 00:14:12,840 --> 00:14:15,120 Speaker 2: I was a sales rep and then I was selling 297 00:14:15,280 --> 00:14:16,720 Speaker 2: to the department stores. 298 00:14:17,679 --> 00:14:18,920 Speaker 1: Because you have great taste. 299 00:14:19,080 --> 00:14:21,640 Speaker 2: Yeah, Like as my backgrounds fashion, I went to school 300 00:14:21,640 --> 00:14:25,280 Speaker 2: for fashion, but I. 301 00:14:25,240 --> 00:14:29,120 Speaker 1: Mean The Housewives has been such a great platform to 302 00:14:29,200 --> 00:14:33,400 Speaker 1: be able to do. Yes, so many business operations I came, 303 00:14:33,560 --> 00:14:38,040 Speaker 1: you know. I wrote four cookbooks, two memoirs. I had 304 00:14:38,040 --> 00:14:39,960 Speaker 1: a lot of like brand deals. 305 00:14:40,080 --> 00:14:44,480 Speaker 2: I did commercials. Yeah, so it's a lot of different shows. 306 00:14:44,880 --> 00:14:47,560 Speaker 2: I did Dancing with the Stars. Yeah, oh wait, talk 307 00:14:47,560 --> 00:14:50,120 Speaker 2: to me about Dancing with the Stars. First, it was 308 00:14:50,240 --> 00:14:52,640 Speaker 2: so hard because I'm not a dancer, Like, I have 309 00:14:52,760 --> 00:14:55,240 Speaker 2: no dancing background at all. So it was like I 310 00:14:55,240 --> 00:14:58,160 Speaker 2: had a start from scratch, but I had fun doing it. 311 00:14:58,280 --> 00:15:02,840 Speaker 2: My instructor, his name was Pasha. He was Ariana Maddox's 312 00:15:02,920 --> 00:15:05,840 Speaker 2: partner as she just had so he would fly to 313 00:15:05,880 --> 00:15:09,520 Speaker 2: New Jersey. We would we would rehearse all week and 314 00:15:09,560 --> 00:15:13,080 Speaker 2: then we would fly back to you know, to compete. 315 00:15:13,360 --> 00:15:15,440 Speaker 1: How many hours a day did you train? 316 00:15:15,680 --> 00:15:18,360 Speaker 2: It was a lot, Yeah, it was a lot. Yeah, 317 00:15:18,400 --> 00:15:21,080 Speaker 2: it was a lot. So it's did you ever do it? 318 00:15:21,160 --> 00:15:21,960 Speaker 1: I haven't done it? 319 00:15:22,040 --> 00:15:24,680 Speaker 2: Oh you should do it. Oh okay, we got to 320 00:15:24,720 --> 00:15:26,440 Speaker 2: put that out there. Dancing with the stars. You gotta 321 00:15:26,440 --> 00:15:27,360 Speaker 2: have toy spelling on. 322 00:15:28,000 --> 00:15:31,040 Speaker 1: I've been asked before and I turned it down because 323 00:15:31,040 --> 00:15:33,480 Speaker 1: I was scared. It was just it was fear. I 324 00:15:33,520 --> 00:15:34,720 Speaker 1: love dancing too. 325 00:15:34,720 --> 00:15:36,680 Speaker 2: And if you love dancing, and you'll be good at it. 326 00:15:37,120 --> 00:15:41,760 Speaker 1: Here's my only reservation is I feel like I'm a 327 00:15:41,800 --> 00:15:47,240 Speaker 1: great dancer after like two plus glasses of one, and 328 00:15:47,360 --> 00:15:51,640 Speaker 1: I've got mad rhythm. But and I've done TV shows 329 00:15:51,640 --> 00:15:55,240 Speaker 1: and movies where I've had to do learn choreography. Oh 330 00:15:55,320 --> 00:15:58,200 Speaker 1: my god, I can't take direction. Like that's the thing 331 00:15:58,520 --> 00:16:01,680 Speaker 1: you want me to freestyle flying splits. I could do it, 332 00:16:01,760 --> 00:16:05,440 Speaker 1: like I'll show you later. But yeah, like you're like 333 00:16:05,560 --> 00:16:08,560 Speaker 1: and step one, two three, I'm like, huh, Yeah, it. 334 00:16:08,480 --> 00:16:10,760 Speaker 2: Was a lot to remember, Like yeah, and you had 335 00:16:10,760 --> 00:16:13,560 Speaker 2: to count in your head and all that, and like 336 00:16:13,760 --> 00:16:18,480 Speaker 2: I get distracted very easily. Same and yeah, and you know, 337 00:16:18,520 --> 00:16:21,840 Speaker 2: it was live, so it's like yes. And then they're 338 00:16:21,880 --> 00:16:23,840 Speaker 2: like telling me, well, don't look at the screen, and 339 00:16:23,880 --> 00:16:26,600 Speaker 2: I'm like what Like so it's like the littlest things. 340 00:16:26,680 --> 00:16:29,120 Speaker 2: I mean, like yeah, or if I would look at something, 341 00:16:29,120 --> 00:16:32,040 Speaker 2: I would get distracted. Yeah, so you write on it, 342 00:16:32,120 --> 00:16:34,080 Speaker 2: so thank you. Yeah, No, it was good, listen. It 343 00:16:34,200 --> 00:16:37,920 Speaker 2: was a great opportunity. I was happy I did it. Yeah, 344 00:16:38,080 --> 00:16:38,720 Speaker 2: so it was fun. 345 00:16:39,600 --> 00:16:41,040 Speaker 1: Oh my gosh, what's next? 346 00:16:42,000 --> 00:16:43,600 Speaker 2: Well, How the Villains? 347 00:16:44,600 --> 00:16:44,760 Speaker 1: Right? 348 00:16:45,000 --> 00:16:45,680 Speaker 2: How Villains? 349 00:16:45,760 --> 00:16:47,760 Speaker 1: But I meant like the world is your oyster? 350 00:16:48,600 --> 00:16:48,960 Speaker 2: Yes? 351 00:16:49,520 --> 00:16:51,480 Speaker 1: Wow? How the Villains? Season two? 352 00:16:51,880 --> 00:16:55,680 Speaker 2: Well? Now now season fourteen's playing now right, I'm not 353 00:16:55,720 --> 00:16:57,560 Speaker 2: sure when How Civillains is coming up, but they did 354 00:16:57,560 --> 00:16:59,080 Speaker 2: announce it that I'm going to be on the cast. 355 00:16:59,720 --> 00:17:02,520 Speaker 1: So so I was obsessed with season one of House 356 00:17:02,560 --> 00:17:05,600 Speaker 1: of Villains, and when they announced it, I was really 357 00:17:05,720 --> 00:17:06,800 Speaker 1: excited that you were going. 358 00:17:06,760 --> 00:17:09,080 Speaker 2: To do it. Well at first, toy, let me tell you. 359 00:17:09,119 --> 00:17:10,280 Speaker 2: When I I was like. 360 00:17:10,440 --> 00:17:12,159 Speaker 1: You didn't want to sign the contract, I didn't like 361 00:17:12,200 --> 00:17:12,560 Speaker 1: the name. 362 00:17:12,920 --> 00:17:15,080 Speaker 2: I was like yeah, I was like, I was like 363 00:17:15,119 --> 00:17:16,960 Speaker 2: when I heard it, I'm like House, I'm like a villain. 364 00:17:17,000 --> 00:17:19,840 Speaker 2: I'm not a villain, you know, That's how I took 365 00:17:19,880 --> 00:17:21,879 Speaker 2: it as I was like, I wasn't sure if I 366 00:17:21,880 --> 00:17:24,600 Speaker 2: wanted to do it because of the name. And then 367 00:17:24,880 --> 00:17:26,720 Speaker 2: I'm so grateful that I did it now because I 368 00:17:26,720 --> 00:17:29,760 Speaker 2: feel like everyone is going to really see the real Teresa. 369 00:17:30,680 --> 00:17:33,040 Speaker 2: So it's going to it's different than Housewives. 370 00:17:33,119 --> 00:17:36,200 Speaker 1: It's good to see you in a different yeah element, yeah, 371 00:17:36,320 --> 00:17:41,280 Speaker 1: different elements unscripted. I feel like now being fifty almost 372 00:17:41,280 --> 00:17:44,680 Speaker 1: fifty one and going through a divorce and like it's 373 00:17:44,680 --> 00:17:47,400 Speaker 1: the second chapter. Everyone keeps calling it the second chapter, 374 00:17:47,600 --> 00:17:51,359 Speaker 1: and it's like, oh my god, it's my halftime show, right, 375 00:18:00,200 --> 00:18:03,199 Speaker 1: second chapter. I feel like I'm starting to be like 376 00:18:04,160 --> 00:18:08,600 Speaker 1: everyone's so focused on the definition of certain words and 377 00:18:09,359 --> 00:18:11,719 Speaker 1: house of villains, and when they announced that you were 378 00:18:11,720 --> 00:18:14,040 Speaker 1: on it, I was like, and then I thought, but 379 00:18:14,119 --> 00:18:17,560 Speaker 1: you have to redefine things like villains, Like you can 380 00:18:17,600 --> 00:18:20,120 Speaker 1: be the villain in your own fairy tale, but you're 381 00:18:20,160 --> 00:18:21,000 Speaker 1: also the princess. 382 00:18:21,119 --> 00:18:23,800 Speaker 2: You're right, And I mean, listen, I do turn into 383 00:18:23,840 --> 00:18:25,159 Speaker 2: a villain when you come for me. 384 00:18:25,800 --> 00:18:26,800 Speaker 1: Okay, I'm gonna sit over here. 385 00:18:26,840 --> 00:18:30,000 Speaker 2: Then yeah no, but that's you know, and I guess 386 00:18:30,080 --> 00:18:32,520 Speaker 2: that's because I did flip the table on my show 387 00:18:32,760 --> 00:18:35,800 Speaker 2: and like, so you know, I do get to that level, 388 00:18:35,920 --> 00:18:38,160 Speaker 2: but only if you piss me off. You know, only 389 00:18:38,400 --> 00:18:41,560 Speaker 2: you know if you poke the bear, if you poke 390 00:18:41,680 --> 00:18:44,439 Speaker 2: the bear. Yeah, that's what it is. 391 00:18:44,440 --> 00:18:48,600 Speaker 1: You're the hottest bear I've ever seen that. We fans 392 00:18:48,760 --> 00:18:52,280 Speaker 1: ever do they drunk at restaurants were like Theresa Teresa, 393 00:18:52,320 --> 00:18:53,919 Speaker 1: and like flip tables for you. 394 00:18:54,040 --> 00:18:56,680 Speaker 2: Yes, sometimes they may literally, well they don't flip tables 395 00:18:56,680 --> 00:18:58,160 Speaker 2: for me, but they're like, can you flip the table? 396 00:18:58,160 --> 00:18:59,960 Speaker 2: I'm like, oh yeah, I want to just do a few. Yeah, 397 00:19:00,640 --> 00:19:01,239 Speaker 2: I came up. 398 00:19:01,560 --> 00:19:04,520 Speaker 1: Wait, I feel like that's a business all in itself. 399 00:19:05,840 --> 00:19:07,639 Speaker 1: You know how there's cameo. Are you on cameo? 400 00:19:07,800 --> 00:19:07,960 Speaker 2: Yes? 401 00:19:08,040 --> 00:19:11,240 Speaker 1: I you could flip a table and you can charge 402 00:19:11,400 --> 00:19:13,080 Speaker 1: like underground. 403 00:19:12,800 --> 00:19:14,959 Speaker 2: So barely keep flipping the table. 404 00:19:15,080 --> 00:19:18,439 Speaker 1: Yeah, I don't know. Oh my gosh, like imagine that. 405 00:19:18,920 --> 00:19:22,639 Speaker 2: Wait, I just got a cameo request that it's so funny. 406 00:19:22,880 --> 00:19:26,440 Speaker 2: All right, Well on the show, I said to see 407 00:19:26,640 --> 00:19:29,040 Speaker 2: word like a million times and they want me to 408 00:19:29,080 --> 00:19:30,520 Speaker 2: say it, and I'm like, oh my god, I don't 409 00:19:30,520 --> 00:19:32,640 Speaker 2: know if that's appropriate me saying it in the cameo. 410 00:19:33,680 --> 00:19:36,440 Speaker 2: Did you huh? Did you say it? I didn't say 411 00:19:36,520 --> 00:19:38,280 Speaker 2: yet I just got the request. 412 00:19:38,560 --> 00:19:42,679 Speaker 1: Yeah, I mean technically that's like a business, not a 413 00:19:42,720 --> 00:19:44,439 Speaker 1: personal one, so you get more money for that. 414 00:19:44,560 --> 00:19:45,840 Speaker 2: Now that's okay. 415 00:19:45,920 --> 00:19:48,760 Speaker 1: Yeah, that's how I look at it. But I feel 416 00:19:48,760 --> 00:19:51,640 Speaker 1: like under they have like listings, like you can have 417 00:19:51,720 --> 00:19:53,960 Speaker 1: someone like people always want me to say Dona Martin 418 00:19:54,000 --> 00:19:58,800 Speaker 1: graduates and I fine, but I feel like, yeah, like 419 00:19:58,840 --> 00:20:02,120 Speaker 1: table flipping that that would be pricey. 420 00:20:03,040 --> 00:20:05,960 Speaker 2: I mean everywhere I go they love that. They always 421 00:20:06,000 --> 00:20:08,920 Speaker 2: really they always want me to reenact it, like meaning 422 00:20:08,960 --> 00:20:11,960 Speaker 2: like on commercials like I did. I did. I did 423 00:20:11,960 --> 00:20:16,640 Speaker 2: two super Bowl commercials. I re enacted on there oh yeah, 424 00:20:16,720 --> 00:20:21,679 Speaker 2: Drew Barrymore show, Oh yeah, with her so many places. Yeah, 425 00:20:22,240 --> 00:20:25,439 Speaker 2: I did it at Bravocon. The first Bravocon I flipped 426 00:20:25,480 --> 00:20:30,480 Speaker 2: the table and the last one too, you know, the 427 00:20:30,520 --> 00:20:32,640 Speaker 2: first one I really flipped it. I think last year 428 00:20:33,119 --> 00:20:36,120 Speaker 2: it was like an oh no, I did flip it too. Yeah, 429 00:20:36,160 --> 00:20:38,600 Speaker 2: they told me to flip it. It's really messy, you know, 430 00:20:39,080 --> 00:20:40,000 Speaker 2: to flip the table. 431 00:20:40,760 --> 00:20:45,280 Speaker 1: Yes, yeah, well I always wanted to do it. Well, 432 00:20:45,320 --> 00:20:47,960 Speaker 1: I mean from watching it. It's so funny because you 433 00:20:48,040 --> 00:20:50,720 Speaker 1: always have that thing that people like define you by. 434 00:20:51,280 --> 00:20:56,760 Speaker 1: And I to be honest, with you. I was always 435 00:20:56,760 --> 00:20:59,240 Speaker 1: like a real Housewives of Beverly Hills because I think 436 00:20:59,240 --> 00:21:03,680 Speaker 1: that's how I grew up, right, So obviously obviously I 437 00:21:03,760 --> 00:21:06,160 Speaker 1: watched New Jersey, but it wasn't like my top one 438 00:21:06,240 --> 00:21:08,800 Speaker 1: because like I was always like, oh, West Coast, like 439 00:21:08,840 --> 00:21:11,160 Speaker 1: Beverly Hills, Like I just wanted to have a piece 440 00:21:11,520 --> 00:21:13,520 Speaker 1: you live, right, Yeah, that's where I grew up. And 441 00:21:13,560 --> 00:21:15,199 Speaker 1: I was just like, why, why the fuck am I 442 00:21:15,240 --> 00:21:15,560 Speaker 1: not on this? 443 00:21:15,640 --> 00:21:16,320 Speaker 2: So I hadn't. 444 00:21:17,800 --> 00:21:21,879 Speaker 1: It was research to be like Andy, I don't understand. 445 00:21:21,400 --> 00:21:23,840 Speaker 2: Now, Andy, we gotta get toy spelling to be a 446 00:21:23,920 --> 00:21:25,159 Speaker 2: Beverly Hills housewife. 447 00:21:25,840 --> 00:21:29,800 Speaker 1: But yeah, I feel like I got to know you 448 00:21:29,840 --> 00:21:31,840 Speaker 1: a different way. So that's not even how I think 449 00:21:31,840 --> 00:21:35,480 Speaker 1: of you, like, oh, she flips tables like I just 450 00:21:36,400 --> 00:21:41,119 Speaker 1: You've always been so lovely and approachable and kind and funny. 451 00:21:41,240 --> 00:21:43,840 Speaker 2: And I think I met you first time I Bravo 452 00:21:43,920 --> 00:21:47,560 Speaker 2: up front we did, I think, yeah, a long time ago. Yeah, 453 00:21:47,600 --> 00:21:50,600 Speaker 2: I remember in La. Remember it was in La. Yeah, 454 00:21:50,760 --> 00:21:52,120 Speaker 2: I remember, and I was just like, oh my god, 455 00:21:52,119 --> 00:21:53,120 Speaker 2: that's Tory. Yeah. 456 00:21:53,320 --> 00:21:56,439 Speaker 1: I was like, oh my god, it's it's so funny, 457 00:21:56,520 --> 00:21:59,639 Speaker 1: Like I don't I've met a lot of people. And 458 00:21:59,720 --> 00:22:04,240 Speaker 1: I don't fangirl out on any like actresses or actors 459 00:22:05,040 --> 00:22:10,360 Speaker 1: or I mean maybe Brad Pitt, but like but Ryan Gosling, God, 460 00:22:10,400 --> 00:22:15,200 Speaker 1: I love him. Which Ryan do you like? Ryan Reynolds 461 00:22:15,280 --> 00:22:20,840 Speaker 1: or Ryan Gosling? Ryan Gosling? He played Ken And that's 462 00:22:20,840 --> 00:22:24,480 Speaker 1: how the current people like the kids know. But for us, 463 00:22:24,560 --> 00:22:26,560 Speaker 1: it would be the notebook. 464 00:22:27,560 --> 00:22:28,760 Speaker 2: Oh that one. 465 00:22:29,040 --> 00:22:32,359 Speaker 1: I think Reynolds for me, huh, first, first thing we 466 00:22:32,400 --> 00:22:33,440 Speaker 1: don't have in common. 467 00:22:35,240 --> 00:22:37,320 Speaker 2: So then we could hang out because okay, right, so 468 00:22:37,359 --> 00:22:39,520 Speaker 2: then like, yeah, we wouldn't go for the same guy. 469 00:22:39,680 --> 00:22:41,760 Speaker 1: But so I've always had a thing for him. I 470 00:22:41,840 --> 00:22:43,680 Speaker 1: just like, I don't know, and I'm not even like. 471 00:22:43,640 --> 00:22:45,520 Speaker 2: That is single. No. 472 00:22:45,760 --> 00:22:49,080 Speaker 1: Eva Mendez is his wife, who was like a big 473 00:22:49,480 --> 00:22:50,240 Speaker 1: He's beautiful. 474 00:22:50,560 --> 00:22:53,320 Speaker 2: My sister in law looks like her Louis sister. 475 00:22:53,720 --> 00:22:56,360 Speaker 1: Oh my gosh. So did you have a party trick 476 00:22:56,400 --> 00:22:57,399 Speaker 1: when you were young and single? 477 00:22:57,880 --> 00:22:58,720 Speaker 2: A party trick? 478 00:22:59,359 --> 00:22:59,560 Speaker 1: You know? 479 00:23:00,680 --> 00:23:03,399 Speaker 2: No? You know, I Tori. I grew up with strict 480 00:23:03,400 --> 00:23:07,760 Speaker 2: Italian parents. I didn't go to parties growing up. I 481 00:23:07,800 --> 00:23:10,600 Speaker 2: didn't like my kids go to parties every weekend. I'm like, 482 00:23:11,000 --> 00:23:12,639 Speaker 2: I wish I got to do that when I was 483 00:23:12,640 --> 00:23:15,600 Speaker 2: your age. Yeah, I didn't. I didn't get to go. 484 00:23:16,760 --> 00:23:19,000 Speaker 2: I was always home, Like I would go to one 485 00:23:19,000 --> 00:23:21,560 Speaker 2: of my girlfriend's house, that's it, and come home or 486 00:23:21,560 --> 00:23:23,760 Speaker 2: they usually my mother always wanted them to come to 487 00:23:23,840 --> 00:23:26,879 Speaker 2: our house. She was that type of mother. Yeah, my 488 00:23:26,920 --> 00:23:30,479 Speaker 2: parents are off the boat on first generation. So I 489 00:23:30,480 --> 00:23:34,840 Speaker 2: had had had a curfet until I got married. What yeah, 490 00:23:34,960 --> 00:23:39,920 Speaker 2: wait you got married at what age twenty seven? What? Yeah? Yes, 491 00:23:40,160 --> 00:23:42,040 Speaker 2: I was not allowed to see by my boyfriend's house 492 00:23:42,280 --> 00:23:44,200 Speaker 2: or my fiance's house. Yeah. 493 00:23:44,240 --> 00:23:46,640 Speaker 1: I was like, each why am I chill? 494 00:23:47,880 --> 00:23:50,080 Speaker 2: Was not allowed to go on vacation with him? Like 495 00:23:50,280 --> 00:23:52,119 Speaker 2: I could go on vacation with my friends, but not 496 00:23:52,200 --> 00:23:55,640 Speaker 2: with my boyfriend or fiance because you know that means 497 00:23:55,680 --> 00:23:57,679 Speaker 2: we would have sex, you know. So yeah I was. 498 00:23:57,800 --> 00:23:59,880 Speaker 2: I was no, No, this is why. 499 00:24:00,400 --> 00:24:02,720 Speaker 1: And then you ended up with four. 500 00:24:02,560 --> 00:24:06,160 Speaker 2: Daughters after I got married. 501 00:24:07,200 --> 00:24:11,840 Speaker 1: Well, yeah, that's why you had so many. See what 502 00:24:11,920 --> 00:24:16,240 Speaker 1: they say, everything in moderation, and he keeps something from someone, 503 00:24:16,280 --> 00:24:20,159 Speaker 1: then you know they want it more. So before we 504 00:24:20,200 --> 00:24:22,919 Speaker 1: started the show, You're a lawyer and I were talking 505 00:24:23,040 --> 00:24:25,480 Speaker 1: and you and he was like, oh my god. She 506 00:24:25,600 --> 00:24:28,280 Speaker 1: was like the Donna Martin And I was like, oh 507 00:24:28,359 --> 00:24:30,880 Speaker 1: my gosh, so now it's all making sense. You were 508 00:24:30,880 --> 00:24:32,960 Speaker 1: the good girl, but because you had to be the 509 00:24:33,000 --> 00:24:34,760 Speaker 1: good girl, that's a lot of pressure. 510 00:24:35,480 --> 00:24:36,240 Speaker 2: Yeah. Oh yeah. 511 00:24:36,359 --> 00:24:38,560 Speaker 1: So Donna Martin was the virgin on the show, which 512 00:24:38,560 --> 00:24:41,639 Speaker 1: in hindsight, it was my dad's show he created. He 513 00:24:41,840 --> 00:24:44,840 Speaker 1: probably was like everyone was making out now and sex. 514 00:24:44,880 --> 00:24:47,399 Speaker 1: He was probably like, I don't want my daughter. I 515 00:24:47,400 --> 00:24:51,800 Speaker 1: don't know if that's the reason. I mean, I was 516 00:24:52,000 --> 00:24:54,159 Speaker 1: a virgin on that show that dressed like a whore. 517 00:24:54,480 --> 00:24:57,000 Speaker 1: Like it was like, how was that? Okay? 518 00:24:57,160 --> 00:25:00,680 Speaker 2: Like that's and my you know, my father used to 519 00:25:00,760 --> 00:25:02,439 Speaker 2: tell me, like he used to tell me like that 520 00:25:02,480 --> 00:25:03,920 Speaker 2: he was going to take me to the doctors the 521 00:25:04,000 --> 00:25:05,680 Speaker 2: day before I got married to make sure I was 522 00:25:05,720 --> 00:25:10,560 Speaker 2: still a virgin. Oh my god, yes, no swear, I 523 00:25:10,800 --> 00:25:15,359 Speaker 2: swear to god, I swear. So yeah. Yeah, So I 524 00:25:15,440 --> 00:25:18,520 Speaker 2: was terrified of like my parents, like I grew like 525 00:25:18,640 --> 00:25:22,040 Speaker 2: I was that type of kid like my father, Like 526 00:25:22,160 --> 00:25:24,680 Speaker 2: I remember when I was growing up, like I was 527 00:25:24,760 --> 00:25:28,240 Speaker 2: not allowed to cry, Like, you know, if I started crying, 528 00:25:28,280 --> 00:25:30,120 Speaker 2: he'd be like, no cry, like if he was yelling 529 00:25:30,160 --> 00:25:34,120 Speaker 2: at me, and then I couldn't don't cry. I don't 530 00:25:34,119 --> 00:25:35,720 Speaker 2: know he just because you know what, when I cried, 531 00:25:35,720 --> 00:25:38,399 Speaker 2: it would make him upset, so he like, you know, 532 00:25:38,440 --> 00:25:40,040 Speaker 2: so if he yelled at me, if I did someth wrong, 533 00:25:40,080 --> 00:25:42,199 Speaker 2: like I was not allowed to cry, and he like, 534 00:25:42,359 --> 00:25:44,320 Speaker 2: sometimes he would yell at me, and he would scare 535 00:25:44,320 --> 00:25:46,040 Speaker 2: me so much I would pee in my parents. Like 536 00:25:46,359 --> 00:25:48,919 Speaker 2: that's how much I had fear in me because of 537 00:25:48,920 --> 00:25:50,679 Speaker 2: my dad. So that's why I was always a good 538 00:25:50,760 --> 00:25:53,640 Speaker 2: kid and never did drugs. Always was a good kid 539 00:25:53,680 --> 00:25:56,119 Speaker 2: because I never wanted to disappoint my parents and for 540 00:25:56,280 --> 00:25:59,719 Speaker 2: I was terrified of my parents. So yeah, and they 541 00:25:59,760 --> 00:26:02,760 Speaker 2: put fear in me, which I guess it was a 542 00:26:02,760 --> 00:26:04,679 Speaker 2: good thing because I never did anything bad, you know, 543 00:26:04,720 --> 00:26:05,720 Speaker 2: I did. I was a good kid. 544 00:26:07,200 --> 00:26:10,840 Speaker 1: And now you just flip tables. Yeah, I mean it 545 00:26:10,880 --> 00:26:12,040 Speaker 1: all comes out eventually. 546 00:26:12,520 --> 00:26:14,720 Speaker 2: This is the thing, you know. I You know, my 547 00:26:14,800 --> 00:26:19,280 Speaker 2: father did raise a strong, you know, tough you know 548 00:26:19,920 --> 00:26:22,880 Speaker 2: Italian girl that doesn't take any ship. Yeah. 549 00:26:23,640 --> 00:26:28,440 Speaker 1: Did you grow up because of that feeling like crying 550 00:26:28,520 --> 00:26:30,840 Speaker 1: and showing emotion was a sign of weakness? 551 00:26:31,119 --> 00:26:37,160 Speaker 2: Yes, Yes, So it takes a lot for me to cry. Yeah, 552 00:26:37,240 --> 00:26:39,600 Speaker 2: it does take a lot for me to cry. Yeah. 553 00:26:39,680 --> 00:26:40,760 Speaker 1: I don't like crying either. 554 00:26:41,160 --> 00:26:44,159 Speaker 2: Yeah, so I just yeah. I mean, but crying is okay, 555 00:26:44,280 --> 00:26:46,560 Speaker 2: you know, it's okay, but like, yeah, it takes a 556 00:26:46,560 --> 00:26:47,280 Speaker 2: lot for me to cry. 557 00:26:48,320 --> 00:26:51,040 Speaker 1: No, I mean, I don't drink water, so I'm really dehydrated. 558 00:26:51,080 --> 00:26:53,800 Speaker 1: So anytime I cry, like I'm losing more fluids and 559 00:26:53,840 --> 00:26:55,640 Speaker 1: I'm like, oh, there it goes. 560 00:26:57,000 --> 00:26:57,119 Speaker 2: Now. 561 00:26:57,440 --> 00:27:01,520 Speaker 1: It's it's odd. My parents were really strict. Like I 562 00:27:01,720 --> 00:27:04,640 Speaker 1: was the girl, like I was on like a hit show, 563 00:27:04,680 --> 00:27:06,840 Speaker 1: but I still had a curfew and like couldn't go 564 00:27:06,920 --> 00:27:09,159 Speaker 1: out and had to be home by eleven thirty. And 565 00:27:09,160 --> 00:27:12,080 Speaker 1: I would drop all my friends off at like what 566 00:27:12,080 --> 00:27:14,120 Speaker 1: do they call them now? It was raves back then, 567 00:27:14,240 --> 00:27:17,520 Speaker 1: but like after hours or whatever. I don't know. Nope, 568 00:27:18,080 --> 00:27:18,920 Speaker 1: I'm sure my age. 569 00:27:19,800 --> 00:27:21,919 Speaker 2: No. But see your dad, he was okay with you 570 00:27:22,080 --> 00:27:25,720 Speaker 2: dressing like that. Yeah, that's the odd part. See. I 571 00:27:25,720 --> 00:27:27,560 Speaker 2: would if I would wear a short skirt and I 572 00:27:27,600 --> 00:27:29,600 Speaker 2: was going to a club, like sometimes, he would go 573 00:27:29,720 --> 00:27:31,800 Speaker 2: make me change so I have to bring my clothes 574 00:27:31,800 --> 00:27:33,040 Speaker 2: in the car and change in the car. 575 00:27:34,320 --> 00:27:37,040 Speaker 1: Of course he was like yeah, he was like, I 576 00:27:37,080 --> 00:27:40,280 Speaker 1: would have like a skimpy outfit on underneath and wear 577 00:27:40,359 --> 00:27:45,320 Speaker 1: something else over it, and then yeah, yeah I remember, 578 00:27:45,359 --> 00:27:47,639 Speaker 1: And then I but my mom always waited up for me. 579 00:27:47,800 --> 00:27:49,960 Speaker 2: She was like in the kitchen, like I was the 580 00:27:50,000 --> 00:27:52,080 Speaker 2: type of like my you know, the club start pumping 581 00:27:52,119 --> 00:27:54,960 Speaker 2: at twelve o'clock at New York, so I would get 582 00:27:54,960 --> 00:27:57,160 Speaker 2: there at twelve. I would only be able to say 583 00:27:57,200 --> 00:27:59,119 Speaker 2: one hour because my curfew was I had to be 584 00:27:59,119 --> 00:28:02,360 Speaker 2: home at ch I think. And then my latest curfew 585 00:28:02,400 --> 00:28:03,040 Speaker 2: was two thirty. 586 00:28:03,680 --> 00:28:05,600 Speaker 1: And this is when you were like twenty six, when. 587 00:28:05,520 --> 00:28:07,800 Speaker 2: I was twenty seven. Yes, that was my latest because 588 00:28:07,800 --> 00:28:10,119 Speaker 2: like every year they would go up like a half hour. 589 00:28:10,359 --> 00:28:13,359 Speaker 1: Yeah, in your twenties. So you turn twenty one and 590 00:28:13,400 --> 00:28:14,480 Speaker 1: they were like you still. 591 00:28:14,320 --> 00:28:16,600 Speaker 2: Have I remember my curfey for the longest time was 592 00:28:16,640 --> 00:28:19,119 Speaker 2: one thirty. So I would get to the club at twelve, 593 00:28:19,160 --> 00:28:21,280 Speaker 2: stay one hour, and then I would try to get 594 00:28:21,280 --> 00:28:23,920 Speaker 2: home by like one thirty. And sometimes I'd get home 595 00:28:24,080 --> 00:28:25,720 Speaker 2: and then my father would be waiting up for me. 596 00:28:25,960 --> 00:28:28,840 Speaker 2: I would yeah, or sometimes I would make up story 597 00:28:28,880 --> 00:28:30,960 Speaker 2: I got a flat tire and You'll be like, yeah, 598 00:28:31,000 --> 00:28:33,560 Speaker 2: sure you like knowing that I'm like flying. 599 00:28:34,240 --> 00:28:36,000 Speaker 1: Yeah, of course when you're that girl. 600 00:28:36,160 --> 00:28:38,760 Speaker 2: Yeah, I mean one time he was waiting outside for me, 601 00:28:38,800 --> 00:28:40,800 Speaker 2: I was I would make my brother cover for me. 602 00:28:40,880 --> 00:28:44,440 Speaker 2: Sometimes so, but it was rough. And that's the thing. 603 00:28:44,480 --> 00:28:46,520 Speaker 2: I didn't want to be like that with my kids 604 00:28:46,560 --> 00:28:50,080 Speaker 2: because I wasn't doing anything wrong, you know. I was like, 605 00:28:50,360 --> 00:28:52,320 Speaker 2: I feel like, you know what you have that that 606 00:28:52,440 --> 00:28:55,400 Speaker 2: your childhood. You should have fun, You should go to clubs, 607 00:28:55,480 --> 00:28:57,880 Speaker 2: experience like I never I never went to a diner 608 00:28:57,920 --> 00:28:59,760 Speaker 2: after a club. You know, you go to a diner 609 00:29:00,160 --> 00:29:02,120 Speaker 2: a club like I never did that. But I wasn't 610 00:29:02,120 --> 00:29:05,840 Speaker 2: allowed to have sleepovers because my father they didn't want 611 00:29:05,840 --> 00:29:08,400 Speaker 2: he's like they would they would put fear in me, 612 00:29:08,520 --> 00:29:11,360 Speaker 2: like no the father or the brother could touch you, 613 00:29:11,520 --> 00:29:14,280 Speaker 2: God forbid, Like it was that kind of yeah. So 614 00:29:14,440 --> 00:29:18,040 Speaker 2: and then I didn't gee Am my first oldest, she 615 00:29:18,200 --> 00:29:20,520 Speaker 2: was not allowed to have sleepovers. And then when all 616 00:29:20,560 --> 00:29:25,680 Speaker 2: the legal stuff happened, that's when when I came home, 617 00:29:26,440 --> 00:29:29,640 Speaker 2: I was I let my kids have sleepovers because I 618 00:29:29,800 --> 00:29:32,160 Speaker 2: was just like, you know, I wanted I felt bad, 619 00:29:32,200 --> 00:29:34,800 Speaker 2: like you know, because of everything that they've gone through, 620 00:29:34,880 --> 00:29:37,440 Speaker 2: so I wanted to give them. I just wanted to 621 00:29:37,440 --> 00:29:40,080 Speaker 2: make them happy in every which way. So then they 622 00:29:40,120 --> 00:29:42,240 Speaker 2: started to have sleepovers. But I used to always put 623 00:29:42,320 --> 00:29:45,040 Speaker 2: the fear in them, like if they have a brother, 624 00:29:45,200 --> 00:29:48,560 Speaker 2: like be careful, like you know, if the father comes near, 625 00:29:48,600 --> 00:29:51,480 Speaker 2: you make sure you push you you tell mommy right away. 626 00:29:51,520 --> 00:29:54,440 Speaker 2: Because whatever my parents told me, I, you know, passed 627 00:29:54,480 --> 00:29:55,480 Speaker 2: down to my kids. 628 00:29:56,160 --> 00:29:59,800 Speaker 1: This is crazy, like I I mean, we grew up 629 00:30:00,040 --> 00:30:04,560 Speaker 1: drastically different obviously, but I same thing, like the same. 630 00:30:04,640 --> 00:30:08,520 Speaker 1: I wasn't ever allowed to sleep out my entire childhood. 631 00:30:09,400 --> 00:30:12,600 Speaker 1: I get a friend sleepover, I wasn't allowed to same, Yeah, 632 00:30:12,720 --> 00:30:14,880 Speaker 1: it had to be my house. I wasn't allowed to 633 00:30:14,880 --> 00:30:15,480 Speaker 1: go to camp. 634 00:30:16,280 --> 00:30:19,440 Speaker 2: Oh camp, Yeah know what. My Italians don't believe in camp. 635 00:30:19,600 --> 00:30:24,520 Speaker 1: Really, I know you do end up like you said. 636 00:30:24,720 --> 00:30:27,200 Speaker 2: So, my parents didn't believe in camp, you. 637 00:30:27,160 --> 00:30:30,640 Speaker 1: Know, no, and my dad I'd be like why well, 638 00:30:30,720 --> 00:30:32,720 Speaker 1: I was like they did. Let me see. Here's the 639 00:30:32,760 --> 00:30:35,719 Speaker 1: odd part is they were so strict and like everything 640 00:30:35,720 --> 00:30:37,959 Speaker 1: is started. You couldn't have a sleepover, you couldn't do this. 641 00:30:38,440 --> 00:30:40,800 Speaker 1: But I was allowed to watch horror films starting at 642 00:30:40,840 --> 00:30:43,880 Speaker 1: like age four, and like the most gruesome things. So 643 00:30:44,800 --> 00:30:47,120 Speaker 1: I was like obsessed with do you like horror? You 644 00:30:47,160 --> 00:30:47,960 Speaker 1: don't like horror films? 645 00:30:48,840 --> 00:30:50,600 Speaker 2: Yeah, I'm just scared. 646 00:30:52,680 --> 00:30:58,160 Speaker 1: It was my only form of like something exhilarating. But yeah, 647 00:30:58,200 --> 00:31:01,400 Speaker 1: I'd be like, oh, my god, pay the thirteen everyone dies, 648 00:31:01,440 --> 00:31:04,680 Speaker 1: it's sleep by camp. I want to go. Not that 649 00:31:04,720 --> 00:31:06,480 Speaker 1: I want to die. I wanted to be like the 650 00:31:06,480 --> 00:31:09,360 Speaker 1: one that survived. But I said to my dad one 651 00:31:09,440 --> 00:31:11,200 Speaker 1: year and I was like, my friends are making fun 652 00:31:11,280 --> 00:31:13,120 Speaker 1: of me, Like why am I not allowed to go 653 00:31:13,160 --> 00:31:15,920 Speaker 1: to camp? And he said, because I'd miss you too 654 00:31:16,040 --> 00:31:18,400 Speaker 1: much if you were away. And I believe that. I 655 00:31:18,480 --> 00:31:20,760 Speaker 1: was like, Okay, that makes perfect sense. 656 00:31:20,920 --> 00:31:25,360 Speaker 2: Like what but that's cute. I was cute. Yeah, it 657 00:31:25,480 --> 00:31:27,880 Speaker 2: was very ry to protect you, you know. But my 658 00:31:28,000 --> 00:31:30,240 Speaker 2: thing is is I feel like you should experience stuff 659 00:31:30,280 --> 00:31:33,480 Speaker 2: like that, you know, and and like listen, you know, 660 00:31:33,680 --> 00:31:36,600 Speaker 2: I talk to my daughters all the time and tell them, 661 00:31:36,680 --> 00:31:39,120 Speaker 2: you know, you know, you know. Of course, you know, 662 00:31:39,560 --> 00:31:41,920 Speaker 2: we preach to them like just how you should be, 663 00:31:42,000 --> 00:31:43,560 Speaker 2: this is what you should do, this is what you 664 00:31:43,560 --> 00:31:46,160 Speaker 2: shouldn't do. So I mean, you just hope for the best. 665 00:31:46,520 --> 00:31:48,200 Speaker 2: But I feel like, you know, you know, I don't 666 00:31:48,200 --> 00:31:50,440 Speaker 2: want to keep my kids in a cage. No, I 667 00:31:50,480 --> 00:31:53,360 Speaker 2: want them to experience life because you know, you're you're 668 00:31:53,400 --> 00:31:57,320 Speaker 2: that young age you know, once in your life and 669 00:31:57,400 --> 00:31:59,520 Speaker 2: so it's like I want, you know, I love that there, 670 00:31:59,720 --> 00:32:02,480 Speaker 2: you know, experiencing that for sure. Of course, I know. 671 00:32:02,520 --> 00:32:05,400 Speaker 2: I make them aware, like someone comes near you, make 672 00:32:05,440 --> 00:32:08,080 Speaker 2: sure you call mommy right away, kick and wear hurts, 673 00:32:08,160 --> 00:32:11,520 Speaker 2: you know all that, you know, just say, yeah, be careful, 674 00:32:11,520 --> 00:32:15,200 Speaker 2: like don't do drugs or poise, you know, yeah, absolutely don't. 675 00:32:15,240 --> 00:32:17,240 Speaker 2: You know, don't put your drink down because they're in 676 00:32:17,280 --> 00:32:20,800 Speaker 2: college now they could get roof feed and like always 677 00:32:20,840 --> 00:32:23,240 Speaker 2: keep your drink in your hand, don't put it down, 678 00:32:23,600 --> 00:32:26,520 Speaker 2: you know, So we try to give them all that's. 679 00:32:26,320 --> 00:32:29,320 Speaker 1: No really good advice, Like, you know, I feel like 680 00:32:29,600 --> 00:32:34,760 Speaker 1: because everything was so strict and controlled with the best intentions, 681 00:32:34,880 --> 00:32:38,760 Speaker 1: obviously I acted out. Didn't do drugs like I wasn't 682 00:32:38,840 --> 00:32:41,920 Speaker 1: that right, or or didn't sleep with anyone, like it 683 00:32:41,960 --> 00:32:44,760 Speaker 1: wasn't that type of acting out. But I would be 684 00:32:44,840 --> 00:32:47,360 Speaker 1: the girl that had you know. I felt like, and 685 00:32:47,360 --> 00:32:49,080 Speaker 1: this is not like my parents told me, like I 686 00:32:49,080 --> 00:32:51,040 Speaker 1: had to be so prim and proper and you know, 687 00:32:51,600 --> 00:32:56,120 Speaker 1: such a big life, and that I would go to parties. 688 00:32:56,120 --> 00:32:58,600 Speaker 1: And I'm not talking like go to parties like it 689 00:32:58,640 --> 00:33:00,760 Speaker 1: was like a twelve year old party. During the day. 690 00:33:00,800 --> 00:33:03,440 Speaker 1: We were watching like you know, a movie and had 691 00:33:03,480 --> 00:33:05,800 Speaker 1: like chips and dip and like a punch bowl. But 692 00:33:05,960 --> 00:33:09,080 Speaker 1: I was the girl that like when they, like the 693 00:33:09,160 --> 00:33:11,560 Speaker 1: parents would walk out, I'd get like all the other 694 00:33:11,640 --> 00:33:14,640 Speaker 1: kids like riled up, and I'd be acting funny and stuff, 695 00:33:14,680 --> 00:33:18,040 Speaker 1: and like this happened. The mom had to call my 696 00:33:18,120 --> 00:33:20,760 Speaker 1: mother because they came in and I was standing on 697 00:33:20,800 --> 00:33:24,720 Speaker 1: the table pissing in the punch bowl, and all the 698 00:33:24,800 --> 00:33:28,160 Speaker 1: kids were like they thought it was so funny, and 699 00:33:28,200 --> 00:33:33,800 Speaker 1: the parents were like, what the yeah, and I was 700 00:33:33,880 --> 00:33:38,200 Speaker 1: just so repressed that I was like, oh again, my 701 00:33:38,320 --> 00:33:41,440 Speaker 1: parents didn't mean to do that. I had this good 702 00:33:41,480 --> 00:33:46,080 Speaker 1: girl's side, and where's the bad girl's side? So anyway, Yeah, 703 00:33:46,360 --> 00:33:49,120 Speaker 1: so I have this question for you. This is what 704 00:33:49,160 --> 00:33:52,240 Speaker 1: I've been meaning to really ask you. So my kids 705 00:33:52,520 --> 00:33:56,400 Speaker 1: are like, oh, Mom, stop putting us out there and 706 00:33:56,520 --> 00:34:00,320 Speaker 1: talking about us and like, and I'm like, it's kind 707 00:34:00,360 --> 00:34:02,360 Speaker 1: of our day job. Like I don't know what to 708 00:34:02,400 --> 00:34:05,120 Speaker 1: tell you, Like, my kids grew up on TV. Your 709 00:34:05,160 --> 00:34:08,480 Speaker 1: kids grew up on TV, and it's hard when they 710 00:34:08,560 --> 00:34:11,759 Speaker 1: don't want to be a part of it. Do you 711 00:34:12,160 --> 00:34:14,480 Speaker 1: have ones that don't want I mean, they're all so 712 00:34:14,560 --> 00:34:17,680 Speaker 1: damn gorgeous, but not a part of it. 713 00:34:17,719 --> 00:34:23,960 Speaker 2: I do. My second daughter, Gabriella she's really private. She 714 00:34:24,000 --> 00:34:26,440 Speaker 2: doesn't really like the whole you know, all the cameras 715 00:34:26,440 --> 00:34:31,239 Speaker 2: and everything. But like I always ask my daughters if 716 00:34:31,280 --> 00:34:33,040 Speaker 2: they want to film with me, like if they want 717 00:34:33,040 --> 00:34:36,200 Speaker 2: to do a scene with me, so I don't force them, right, yeah, 718 00:34:36,239 --> 00:34:38,560 Speaker 2: so if they want to, like Gia and Milania are 719 00:34:38,600 --> 00:34:41,239 Speaker 2: more you know, they they're fine with the cameras. And 720 00:34:41,239 --> 00:34:44,319 Speaker 2: Adriana she's my youngest, she's fourteen, and same thing. If 721 00:34:44,360 --> 00:34:45,759 Speaker 2: I ask her, like, you know, you do you want 722 00:34:45,800 --> 00:34:47,680 Speaker 2: to do this scene with me? And then she'll say yes, 723 00:34:47,800 --> 00:34:50,120 Speaker 2: you know, but I don't force them, Like if they 724 00:34:50,120 --> 00:34:53,120 Speaker 2: say no, I'm totally fine with it, right. But Gabrielle 725 00:34:53,160 --> 00:34:55,560 Speaker 2: is my one that's a little bit more reserved. She's 726 00:34:55,640 --> 00:34:59,600 Speaker 2: private on Instagram. She's that child, and I totally respect it. 727 00:34:59,680 --> 00:35:02,399 Speaker 2: Like in order she doesn't like, I have to get 728 00:35:02,400 --> 00:35:05,080 Speaker 2: her approval before posting a photo. I have to really 729 00:35:05,080 --> 00:35:08,120 Speaker 2: get there all their approvals before. Ga Is really is 730 00:35:08,120 --> 00:35:10,279 Speaker 2: fine with it, but the other girls, like I have 731 00:35:10,320 --> 00:35:13,520 Speaker 2: to get their approval, but people posting a phone. Yeah, 732 00:35:13,600 --> 00:35:14,279 Speaker 2: so I. 733 00:35:14,239 --> 00:35:16,960 Speaker 1: Know when they were younger, you could just like so 734 00:35:17,120 --> 00:35:19,359 Speaker 1: cute and they're like wait, what, no, take that down? 735 00:35:20,280 --> 00:35:22,200 Speaker 1: What's that quote. Now you can't say that, No, you 736 00:35:22,200 --> 00:35:23,799 Speaker 1: can't put that music to it. You can't. 737 00:35:23,840 --> 00:35:26,759 Speaker 2: It's like, but gabriellis that's the one that went to 738 00:35:26,800 --> 00:35:30,239 Speaker 2: the University of Michigan that you just watched that episode 739 00:35:30,320 --> 00:35:36,120 Speaker 2: and you know she listen because of what happened to me, 740 00:35:36,200 --> 00:35:38,680 Speaker 2: all the legal stuff, and you know, I was grateful 741 00:35:38,719 --> 00:35:42,680 Speaker 2: for my job, and so you know, to them second 742 00:35:42,760 --> 00:35:46,200 Speaker 2: nature because they you know, they did start really young 743 00:35:46,239 --> 00:35:49,239 Speaker 2: on TV, like I think Gia was seven and then 744 00:35:49,360 --> 00:35:52,719 Speaker 2: Millennia was three, Gabriella was four, and then I had 745 00:35:52,760 --> 00:35:55,799 Speaker 2: Adriana on the show, right, so really they know that's 746 00:35:55,800 --> 00:35:58,520 Speaker 2: what they know. You know, they know I'm being on 747 00:35:58,560 --> 00:36:02,399 Speaker 2: TV and in Gia before getting on Housewives, I used 748 00:36:02,400 --> 00:36:06,920 Speaker 2: to take our auditions, like for commercial auditions. She used 749 00:36:06,920 --> 00:36:09,000 Speaker 2: to be a dancer, she did gymnastics. So I was 750 00:36:09,040 --> 00:36:12,279 Speaker 2: trying to get her into this world, like just for her, 751 00:36:12,520 --> 00:36:14,960 Speaker 2: and then I look and then what ended up happening 752 00:36:15,000 --> 00:36:16,720 Speaker 2: that we ended up going on as a family. 753 00:36:17,239 --> 00:36:20,279 Speaker 1: For my kids, they're more not okay some of them 754 00:36:20,800 --> 00:36:21,920 Speaker 1: with the things. 755 00:36:21,640 --> 00:36:24,239 Speaker 2: I say, oh yeah, oh yeah, I mean listen, I'm 756 00:36:24,239 --> 00:36:26,640 Speaker 2: sure if I say something that my kids don't like, 757 00:36:26,760 --> 00:36:28,760 Speaker 2: get I'll get the eye roll or whatever. 758 00:36:29,800 --> 00:36:33,239 Speaker 1: And my fifteen year old she's now like, mom, I'm 759 00:36:33,280 --> 00:36:36,160 Speaker 1: in high school, and like it's not okay, like people 760 00:36:36,200 --> 00:36:39,160 Speaker 1: you can't say things because it affects me and I 761 00:36:39,200 --> 00:36:44,640 Speaker 1: didn't choose this right, And I'm like, I understand that. 762 00:36:44,960 --> 00:36:46,600 Speaker 2: Yeah, because you know what happened with my kids, which 763 00:36:46,640 --> 00:36:50,200 Speaker 2: is really sad that people would say things to them 764 00:36:50,280 --> 00:36:53,600 Speaker 2: because of the legal situation that you know, me and 765 00:36:53,640 --> 00:36:55,799 Speaker 2: my ex went through. And that's so mean, you know, 766 00:36:55,880 --> 00:36:59,200 Speaker 2: it's just like, you know, nobody should be bullying or 767 00:36:59,239 --> 00:37:02,640 Speaker 2: saying anything to to children like they you know, but 768 00:37:02,800 --> 00:37:06,000 Speaker 2: kids are really mean. They It's so crazy how it is. 769 00:37:06,080 --> 00:37:08,680 Speaker 2: And of course they hear it at home from their parents, 770 00:37:09,400 --> 00:37:12,160 Speaker 2: so because you know, from watching the show, because it's 771 00:37:12,200 --> 00:37:14,640 Speaker 2: not like the kids are watching Housewives, you know, right, 772 00:37:14,880 --> 00:37:17,920 Speaker 2: So but like I know, my kids, like my kids 773 00:37:17,960 --> 00:37:21,040 Speaker 2: would never be mean to any other children, like other 774 00:37:21,160 --> 00:37:23,359 Speaker 2: kids out there, like my kids are not like that. 775 00:37:23,680 --> 00:37:26,000 Speaker 2: I wish other parents would teach their kids like that, 776 00:37:26,239 --> 00:37:29,200 Speaker 2: so kids wouldn't be bullied in school or wouldn't be 777 00:37:29,600 --> 00:37:32,040 Speaker 2: you know, made fun of or you know, that should 778 00:37:32,040 --> 00:37:32,520 Speaker 2: not happen. 779 00:37:33,440 --> 00:37:37,800 Speaker 1: I agree, And yeah, and they're reading stuff on social media. 780 00:37:37,840 --> 00:37:39,800 Speaker 1: They don't even know what's true. You know, all the 781 00:37:39,960 --> 00:37:42,319 Speaker 1: press like you and I know, like. 782 00:37:42,520 --> 00:37:44,400 Speaker 2: Right, you can't believe everything you read. 783 00:37:44,360 --> 00:37:47,959 Speaker 1: Right, and some of it is true, but you know. 784 00:37:47,920 --> 00:37:51,840 Speaker 2: It's like a lot of it is not. There's so 785 00:37:51,880 --> 00:37:54,960 Speaker 2: many lives that are put out on my show, for instance, 786 00:37:55,239 --> 00:38:01,640 Speaker 2: season fourteen, and like you sort into trailer, Yes, Margaret 787 00:38:01,640 --> 00:38:04,760 Speaker 2: says that my husband spends all my money, Like, bitch, 788 00:38:04,880 --> 00:38:06,520 Speaker 2: you don't even know what you're talking about. She does, 789 00:38:06,600 --> 00:38:09,399 Speaker 2: She's not even in my house. It's like like she's 790 00:38:09,440 --> 00:38:13,160 Speaker 2: putting out this false narrative out there, and it's like like, 791 00:38:13,719 --> 00:38:16,000 Speaker 2: you know, she's trying to make me her storyline and 792 00:38:16,080 --> 00:38:18,200 Speaker 2: that's all she does is talk about me. She's obsessed 793 00:38:18,239 --> 00:38:23,440 Speaker 2: with me and my husband. It's like, yeah, oh my gosh. 794 00:38:23,480 --> 00:38:26,040 Speaker 2: And at the reunion last year, the Foods came out 795 00:38:26,160 --> 00:38:29,239 Speaker 2: with this Cockamanian shit like that my husband reached out 796 00:38:29,280 --> 00:38:32,200 Speaker 2: to his ex in prison, like why would my husband 797 00:38:32,200 --> 00:38:35,320 Speaker 2: reach out to your ex in prison? And then Tori, 798 00:38:35,440 --> 00:38:37,600 Speaker 2: he fucking shot himself in the foot, Like he must 799 00:38:37,640 --> 00:38:39,640 Speaker 2: be kicking himself right now because did you see all 800 00:38:39,640 --> 00:38:44,280 Speaker 2: the stuff that's out there on social media about him? Yes, Okay, So. 801 00:38:44,120 --> 00:38:48,720 Speaker 1: I heard John Fuda is a fan of double sided dildos, 802 00:38:48,760 --> 00:38:51,600 Speaker 1: purple ones. Why purple? No, I'm just kidding. I imagine 803 00:38:51,600 --> 00:38:53,200 Speaker 1: that that's the problem I have with it. 804 00:38:53,960 --> 00:38:57,600 Speaker 2: So his Yeah, so, like someone contacted his ex in 805 00:38:57,680 --> 00:39:02,680 Speaker 2: prison and started asking her questions, and so she told her, 806 00:39:02,960 --> 00:39:05,400 Speaker 2: you know, her life story while she was with John 807 00:39:06,080 --> 00:39:08,560 Speaker 2: and put this soul out there. But see, this is 808 00:39:08,600 --> 00:39:12,040 Speaker 2: the thing where John totally fucked up because someone told 809 00:39:12,160 --> 00:39:17,399 Speaker 2: him that Louis contacted his ex girlfriend in prison. So 810 00:39:17,480 --> 00:39:20,560 Speaker 2: he opened up this can of worms and now they're 811 00:39:20,600 --> 00:39:23,239 Speaker 2: all over him, eating him all up because it's like 812 00:39:23,840 --> 00:39:26,680 Speaker 2: then now people started wondering, oh, he has an ex 813 00:39:26,760 --> 00:39:30,480 Speaker 2: girlfriend now in prison, Like so he like, you get 814 00:39:30,520 --> 00:39:32,719 Speaker 2: what I'm trying to say. So, so now people are 815 00:39:32,800 --> 00:39:37,919 Speaker 2: contacting her, and the Sun reporter contacted her and wrote 816 00:39:37,920 --> 00:39:39,879 Speaker 2: her an email because she wanted She's like, did Louis 817 00:39:39,960 --> 00:39:43,080 Speaker 2: Ruellis is my husband's name. Did Louis Bruellis contact you? 818 00:39:44,280 --> 00:39:46,359 Speaker 2: And she and then she came forward and said, no, 819 00:39:46,800 --> 00:39:49,600 Speaker 2: I never spoke to him before. So thank you Diana 820 00:39:49,800 --> 00:39:52,520 Speaker 2: from the Sun, because she she did, you know, because 821 00:39:52,520 --> 00:39:55,359 Speaker 2: she toy just like they like to write about you 822 00:39:55,480 --> 00:39:58,120 Speaker 2: they like to write about me. I you know, I 823 00:39:58,239 --> 00:40:00,840 Speaker 2: give them. You know, people like to click on whatever 824 00:40:00,960 --> 00:40:02,960 Speaker 2: story's out there about me because. 825 00:40:02,719 --> 00:40:04,280 Speaker 1: You're a fucking relevant queen. 826 00:40:04,480 --> 00:40:07,520 Speaker 2: That's why I know how well magazines no matter what 827 00:40:07,719 --> 00:40:12,160 Speaker 2: it's like, star in touch. I've been on so many covers, 828 00:40:12,560 --> 00:40:15,239 Speaker 2: like they'd love to write about me. I saw magazines. Yeah, 829 00:40:15,400 --> 00:40:18,360 Speaker 2: so trust me. So if my husband reached out to 830 00:40:19,239 --> 00:40:21,680 Speaker 2: John food Is X, like he said, my husband did, 831 00:40:22,000 --> 00:40:24,640 Speaker 2: trust me, this reporter would have loved to put that 832 00:40:24,719 --> 00:40:27,560 Speaker 2: out there. And I'm glad she did that because she 833 00:40:27,719 --> 00:40:30,080 Speaker 2: spoke to her. And I'm glad because you know what 834 00:40:30,120 --> 00:40:32,600 Speaker 2: people do lie Unfortunately, it happens on my show all 835 00:40:32,640 --> 00:40:35,080 Speaker 2: the time, and I'm glad John fuda Is X said 836 00:40:35,120 --> 00:40:38,080 Speaker 2: the truth that like I have never spoken to that person, 837 00:40:38,239 --> 00:40:43,360 Speaker 2: you know. And then afterwards then another person contacted food 838 00:40:43,480 --> 00:40:45,640 Speaker 2: is X and that's when all that stuff came out 839 00:40:45,719 --> 00:40:48,440 Speaker 2: and she smelt the beans on how you know, how 840 00:40:48,800 --> 00:40:50,240 Speaker 2: life was being with him? 841 00:40:50,640 --> 00:40:52,560 Speaker 1: Yeah, I mean it's on the show. It's like it's 842 00:40:52,600 --> 00:40:54,120 Speaker 1: out there. People know about it. 843 00:40:54,440 --> 00:40:57,080 Speaker 2: And the thing is, it's like, I know I had 844 00:40:57,400 --> 00:40:59,719 Speaker 2: I had nothing against him and his wife at all, 845 00:41:00,239 --> 00:41:02,839 Speaker 2: and like why would I want to contact your ex 846 00:41:02,920 --> 00:41:05,960 Speaker 2: girlfriend in prison for for what? Sorry, No, I don't 847 00:41:06,000 --> 00:41:08,640 Speaker 2: need you as a storyline. I do well just on 848 00:41:08,680 --> 00:41:10,640 Speaker 2: my own. I've been doing this for fourteen, Like look 849 00:41:10,680 --> 00:41:13,520 Speaker 2: season fourteen, and I'm still on top. Like, I don't 850 00:41:13,520 --> 00:41:16,400 Speaker 2: need you as my storyline, And that would make me 851 00:41:16,480 --> 00:41:18,640 Speaker 2: look so bad if I did that, Like why would 852 00:41:18,640 --> 00:41:21,000 Speaker 2: I contact you. I didn't even know he had an 853 00:41:21,120 --> 00:41:23,920 Speaker 2: ex girlfriend that was in prison. I didn't even know, Like, 854 00:41:23,960 --> 00:41:24,879 Speaker 2: I didn't even know that. 855 00:41:25,000 --> 00:41:28,280 Speaker 1: Because it's you. You drive everything, so they're always gonna 856 00:41:28,600 --> 00:41:30,040 Speaker 1: use you as the reference. 857 00:41:30,200 --> 00:41:32,920 Speaker 2: Yeah, I mean he opened up Prindor's box and I'm 858 00:41:32,960 --> 00:41:34,320 Speaker 2: sure now he's kicking himself.