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Speaker 1: Up next, how Well the Gianno called Well. This week

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Speaker 1: we're celebrating the forty ninth episode of this podcast and

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Speaker 1: we have something very special plan for you, guys. Don't

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Speaker 1: go away. This is Outlied with Gianno Caldwell. Welcome back

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Speaker 1: to Outlied with Gianno Caldwell. I'm Gianno Caldwell and I'm

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Speaker 1: very excited for today's show. This is our forty ninth

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Speaker 1: episode with someone who's a very dear friend of mine.

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Speaker 1: Our guests today is rather an interesting guy. He's a

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Speaker 1: minister that you're like, oh man, we've had other ministers

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Speaker 1: has the last name that millions of people know around

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Speaker 1: the world, and it is Kardashian. Yes, that Kardashian. This Kardashian, though,

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Speaker 1: is someone who does something a little different than the

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Speaker 1: reality TV stars that you know from keeping up with

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Speaker 1: the Kardashians, kN Chris Chloe and all of those folks.

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Speaker 1: This guy is a life coach. He's a minister and

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Speaker 1: I'm telling you, folks, you're in for a true ride.

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Speaker 1: I'm talking about Ron Kardashian. He's here for indef and

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Speaker 1: inspiring conversation that I know you'll enjoy. Ron is a

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Speaker 1: whose lives he's touched for the better. He's also a

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Speaker 1: strength and conditioning coach, certified by the National Strength and

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Speaker 1: can find out more about Ron's integrated God's Center fitness

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Speaker 1: approach by picking up his book Getting in Shape God's Way.

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Speaker 1: He also has a book I'll called thirty Second Solution

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Speaker 1: trand Firm your body, business, relationship, and life in just

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Speaker 1: thirty seconds. This is a book that people like TD

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Speaker 1: Jake's has endorsed. So Ron Kardashian, thank you for joining

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Speaker 1: you Gianno for having me. No, it's my pleasure you're now.

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Speaker 1: It's a lot going on this week, and I want

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Speaker 1: people they are hurting. I know that there's been plans

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Speaker 1: But I want to play some audio from CNN of

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Speaker 1: It's the panic, the lack of clear information, The rumor

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Speaker 1: And it doesn't feel that way, Coach, It really doesn't

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Speaker 1: until not only that, Gianno, it's that if you can

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Speaker 1: now watching the success of your hard work with God's favor,

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Speaker 1: bring glory to his name. And that's really all I

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Speaker 1: want to do. And that's really excellent to hear those

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Speaker 1: comments from both pastors. Now, let's let's talk about your

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Speaker 1: book thirty second Solution. Let's let's give folks a rundown

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Speaker 1: of what you discuss. What encouraged Pastor TD Jakes to

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Speaker 1: we can, do you mind if I just up? He said.

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Speaker 1: Ron Kardashian's thirty second Solution introduces readers to new breakthrough

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Speaker 1: information for transforming old patterns into turnarounds. He used the

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Speaker 1: word dramatic turnarounds. What sometimes happened, they're not was dramatic.

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Speaker 1: Sometimes people just need a little turnaround. For those who

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Speaker 1: want to derive purpose and more satisfaction from life. Um,

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Speaker 1: I think the hub of the book was about poor

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Speaker 1: decisions I made. Again, you know, I think the greatest

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Speaker 1: form of leadership is you have to have a certain

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Speaker 1: sense of humility, and you have to be able to

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Speaker 1: be transparent, to tell your own dirt that if anybody

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Speaker 1: everybody thinks you're perfect, then you're unrelatable. And in the book,

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Speaker 1: I just talk talk about my transformation process and these

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Speaker 1: what I call cognitive decisions that I had to make,

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Speaker 1: or brain decisions. For one of the themes of my

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Speaker 1: podcast now you know, as you encourage me to start

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Speaker 1: the podcast, we named it higher, but it was derived

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Speaker 1: from a concept of can you think higher about yourself?

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Speaker 1: And I got it from an old neuroscience education that

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Speaker 1: I had about nerve cells that fire together, wire together.

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Speaker 1: So if you can rewire yourself, you can refire some

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Speaker 1: system or your your own perception of yourself. And this

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Speaker 1: giano is what constitutes for the greatest breakthrough in life.

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Speaker 1: The battle is six inches between the ears, make no

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Speaker 1: mistake about it. And when you've got materials and tools

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Speaker 1: like my book to help you fine tune that process,

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Speaker 1: you're on your way to a higher dimension. Wow, So

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Speaker 1: you're saying that your book allows people to kind of

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Speaker 1: rewire their brains to make different and better decisions. I'll

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Speaker 1: tell you one thing I sought out Dr Daniel Aman,

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Speaker 1: who was a New York Time bestseller of Change Your Brain,

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Speaker 1: Change Your Body. You know him, I think you. I

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Speaker 1: think you know of him. We've talked about him before.

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Speaker 1: But he said, Ron Kardashian's thirty second solution will literally

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Speaker 1: help you put the brakes on the brain to help

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Speaker 1: you think before you act, so you can make significantly

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Speaker 1: better decisions. Now. He went on to say that the

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Speaker 1: brain is involved in everything that you do. So this

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Speaker 1: tools that I developed, I had him authenticated, developed new

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Speaker 1: brain pathways that will enhance impulse control, focus and forethought.

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Speaker 1: And that's something that you've done with me. We've we've

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Speaker 1: enhanced your focus, and we've we've narrowed your lens and

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Speaker 1: had time to expand your lens. So what has made

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Speaker 1: you such a profound, empathetic um journalist is that you

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Speaker 1: have a worldview, but at time of precision, you know

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Speaker 1: how to hone in on the crossfire, which is an

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Speaker 1: element of vision and focus. And that's what it does.

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Speaker 1: I want to switch gears a little bit because we're

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Speaker 1: now not just in Afghanistan right now with the chaos

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Speaker 1: that's ensuing there, but we're also still in the time

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Speaker 1: of COVID, and there's been a lot of mixed messaging

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Speaker 1: around COVID people. For a lot of people, they lost

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Speaker 1: either eighteen months or their life which was the start

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Speaker 1: I mean, it's really that's the distinction. They either lost

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Speaker 1: a team onto their life or they lost their life.

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Speaker 1: And it's horrific that that's where we are, but that's

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Speaker 1: certainly where we are, and a lot of people have

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Speaker 1: they're losing their job, they're losing a family member. People

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Speaker 1: have been suffering for quite a while. Have you noticed

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Speaker 1: with your clientele specifically, have you noticed more depression that's

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Speaker 1: coming about with folks. How are you trying to guide

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Speaker 1: them through that process and for our listeners, help guide

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Speaker 1: them through through the processes, especially in a COVID era, Yes,

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Speaker 1: and answered your question the short answers, Yes, we have

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Speaker 1: seen an increased heightened awareness of anxiety, depression, fear, even

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Speaker 1: the paranormal. I mean my discussions with individuals has dramatically changed.

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Speaker 1: People are traumatized. Remember that word trauma, I think is

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Speaker 1: the main focus of this discussion we'll have because there

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Speaker 1: is healing for trauma, but trauma camouflages itself around other

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Speaker 1: ailments like insecurity, anger, rage, bitterness, UM. It goes down

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Speaker 1: into addictive behaviors UM trauma induced UM, psychosomatic disorders, the

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Speaker 1: in a very destructive pattern. I want to intercept that pattern.

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Speaker 1: And even for people who are listening now, can can

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Speaker 1: I just do some executive coaching right here? Live? Please, please,

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Speaker 1: and thank you? Whatent of you can change this moment

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Speaker 1: by what I call using a technique I call called

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Speaker 1: cognitive replacement. And cognitive replacement is a fancy word for

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Speaker 1: saying you have just had a thought that has tremendously

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Speaker 1: attacked you. You have the power over that thought by

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Speaker 1: not just rethinking another thought, but actually saying out loud,

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Speaker 1: in capturing the thought, by saying no, that is the

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Speaker 1: wrong thought. Wrong, You're not don't think that way about yourself.

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Speaker 1: Don't get bitter, get better, become more proactive in help

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Speaker 1: people instead of slandering them. Become better at being a

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Speaker 1: Change the way you think and it will change your behaviors.

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Speaker 1: And this is something that we hear a lot about

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Speaker 1: what we've done. My whole life work has culminated to

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Speaker 1: develop a tool and the algorithm that helps people capture

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Speaker 1: those belief systems from an internal angle, not just externally.

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Speaker 1: Tell me about your day, tell me about your life,

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Speaker 1: tell me about your strengths, tell me about your liabilities.

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Speaker 1: These are these job interviews cues that they think are

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Speaker 1: describing the full intel of human ability, potential, and talent.

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Speaker 1: You are way more than just a series of questions.

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Speaker 1: You are an intricate neural connection that has built a

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Speaker 1: web of life from your experiences, in your try aisles,

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Speaker 1: it has built this beautiful canvas called human life. When

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Speaker 1: done at the neurological level, and it is so powerful

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Speaker 1: Gianno that it instantly brings breakthrough focus and clarity overnight

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Speaker 1: because people are finally able to get a digital read

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Speaker 1: of their brain. And I make a joke out of

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Speaker 1: it when people are arguing that. Not many people do argue,

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Speaker 1: but I did have this one guy goes, what does

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Speaker 1: was an engineer, and I said, are you kidding me?

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Speaker 1: I go everything, you know what I'm saying. It's like

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Speaker 1: told him, you're probably a really intelligent guy, but from

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Speaker 1: an EQ perspective, not I Q and EQ, which is

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Speaker 1: where we assess this is the game changer for leadership,

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Speaker 1: that that ron card action actually became a better person

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Speaker 1: through EQ training, which is the hub of my whole

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Speaker 1: practice now and we're a will to digitize that and

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Speaker 1: show you your brain much like which I was joking

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Speaker 1: about earlier. You get your blood pressure checked, but have

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Speaker 1: you ever gotten your brain checked? And we can control

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Speaker 1: your blood pressure, and now we have the capability and

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Speaker 1: the power to control thoughts and behaviors through this assessment. Wow,

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Speaker 1: now is this now the the assessment that you're referring

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Speaker 1: to is as a part of your company elevate. Yeah,

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Speaker 1: higher technologies is of what we're doing. I have, I

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Speaker 1: have several companies, but higher, higher um. You can visit

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Speaker 1: the higher dot net, the higher dot Net. My coaching

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Speaker 1: company is Lee Confidante right French for the confidant, which

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Speaker 1: was influenced by my beautiful French clients. Be guys have

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Speaker 1: coach on three continents um and and it really the

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Speaker 1: They've had a confidant. Uh. And I've used that word

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Speaker 1: because people are looking for trust. And back to those

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Speaker 1: people can trust. And that is the fullness of our

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Speaker 1: a airtight nondisclosure right full en d A on all

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Speaker 1: give me the three sixty view on my leadership, help

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Speaker 1: me to take my game to the next level. Okay,

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Speaker 1: let's start with just my speculation. We eliminate all speculation.

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Speaker 1: The tool does the work. It maps out the roadmap

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Speaker 1: for your next twelve months, and the the success rate

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Speaker 1: is almost because for everyone who goes through it right,

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Speaker 1: tells somebody else like you've done, and they're going through

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Speaker 1: it and having success. Now we need to take a

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Speaker 1: quid break. But when we come back, I'm gonna ask

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Speaker 1: Ron about his faith and are increasingly secular cultures. Stay

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Speaker 1: with us, all right, we're back outlined with Gianno carbo

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Speaker 1: I got Ron Kardashian, I'm talking to who's been giving

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Speaker 1: us a plethora of information and actually doing live coaching. Um,

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Speaker 1: I'm so thankful to have him on. He's a personal

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Speaker 1: friend of mine. He's someone that I talked to and

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Speaker 1: rely on for advice. He coaches me, and I'm glad

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Speaker 1: to have him join us. Now, Ron, I want to

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Speaker 1: ask you before we started talking about more about faith,

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Speaker 1: which we we've been talking about throughout this interview, are

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Speaker 1: there any basic principles about finding meaning and happiness in

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Speaker 1: life that can apply to everyone who you come in

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Speaker 1: contact with regardless of their specific set of circumstances. There

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Speaker 1: anything that you can tell us that we can just

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Speaker 1: take and we can apply to our lives right now, Yes,

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Speaker 1: I have. If you will email me Elite Level Coach

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Speaker 1: at gmail dot com Elite Level Coach, I will send

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Speaker 1: you these ten keys of excellence as a gift to

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Speaker 1: improve your life in business, and I'll just share with

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Speaker 1: you a few of them, my first one on the

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Speaker 1: top ten list for In answer to your question, and

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Speaker 1: to do some coaching here, exercise maturity. Think about that

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Speaker 1: statement for a minute, because oftentimes we bring old behaviors

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Speaker 1: into new rooms. I coach people on this when they

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Speaker 1: move to the c suite role. I said, you can't

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Speaker 1: act like a director if you're the CEO. Right, there's

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Speaker 1: a change of cadence in a rhythm. In fact, one

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Speaker 1: of my next books is going to be called Rhythm.

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Speaker 1: I've written three, I've got I've got three more, four

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Speaker 1: more to go. One of them is on developing the

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Speaker 1: there's so many immature business dealings, people and things. The

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Speaker 1: world is in need of leaders, and not just industry leaders,

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Speaker 1: but world leaders. They are in need of maturity. I

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Speaker 1: think we all understand that pretty well. Um Number two

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Speaker 1: isolate your business around a cause. Uh, this is what

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Speaker 1: I call organic motivation. It's naturally generated, Giano. I wake

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Speaker 1: up every day alive and well, without the use of

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Speaker 1: coffee and take now, why I'm driven by a cause?

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Speaker 1: The cause of something you would die for? Do you

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Speaker 1: have a cause? The Bible even says is there not

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Speaker 1: a cause? It whispers in the echo of the night.

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Speaker 1: Are you doing more with your life than just acquiring

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Speaker 1: wealth to heap up? Or eventually moths and dust will

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Speaker 1: call corrupt? This is this is what's going to happen.

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Speaker 1: This is the stark reality of our unlimited wealth and success.

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Speaker 1: Is that if we're not multi platforming and how we're

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Speaker 1: building a life, both here on the earth and in

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Speaker 1: the heavens, then we're missing the essence of life. And

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Speaker 1: which leads me to my third point. No matter how

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Speaker 1: or someone else will live your passion or somebody else will.

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Speaker 1: And how many times do we look at other people

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Speaker 1: and go I could do what they do. Why are

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Speaker 1: they so successful? I could have done that, I could

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Speaker 1: have invented that. Well, you still can see this goes

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Speaker 1: back to cognitive placement, is where you want to stop

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Speaker 1: the belief system and say no, no no, no, I'm not

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Speaker 1: going to think about what they've done. I'm going to

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Speaker 1: pursue what I'm passionate about. That's it's just a little quick,

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Speaker 1: thirty second fix that you do repetitively, because remember, the

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Speaker 1: brain is a muscle. You either condition it or it dies.

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Speaker 1: And so whenever you get stuck thinking I can't change,

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Speaker 1: just remember that's what the overweight person said before they

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Speaker 1: lost a hundred pounds by saying I'm finally going to

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Speaker 1: go to the gym every day. It's the same thing.

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Speaker 1: You've got to condition yourself and you've got to know that.

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Speaker 1: Thoughts are things, which leads me to my fourth key,

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Speaker 1: and I'll just I'll just give five of them. Focus

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Speaker 1: on things that add value to your life and increase

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Speaker 1: your health and make you a better human being. Focus

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Speaker 1: on things that add value to your life. That includes relationships.

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Speaker 1: If you've got toxic people in your life, if you're

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Speaker 1: constantly making deposits and you have no return. There needs

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Speaker 1: to be some quantification and clarification there not that you

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Speaker 1: need to say goodbye. Don't let the door hit you

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Speaker 1: with a good lord split you. You know, as we

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Speaker 1: used to say, You know you don't want to just

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Speaker 1: walk out on people's life, but you do want to

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Speaker 1: have some restructuring in order to establish healthy boundaries. And lastly,

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Speaker 1: I'll just give you one more which is one of

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Speaker 1: my favorite ones. I give to c e O s

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Speaker 1: all the time. And even entrepreneurs who are starting their businesses,

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Speaker 1: don't waste your time hiring people to fill spots or

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Speaker 1: basis of their degrees. If you want to make the

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Speaker 1: big money, you're gonna have to pay the big money.

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Speaker 1: In other words, honor people that are valuable. If you

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Speaker 1: feel right about it, hire them. There's one thing that

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Speaker 1: very wealthy people all have in common, Gianna. They all

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Speaker 1: prize personal development as a core value. If they don't

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Speaker 1: have what they want, they'll find a way to buy it.

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Speaker 1: And in a world filled with stellar advisors like yourself,

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Speaker 1: you can have a Giano Calldwell, you can have him

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Speaker 1: on your administration or your boy or or working for

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Speaker 1: Fox or what you know, as you do that's why

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Speaker 1: they have you, because you're valuable and honor people with

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Speaker 1: that value. I promise you it'll come back a hundredfold. Wow,

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Speaker 1: you've given us a number of keys. I'm sure people

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Speaker 1: are going to be emailing you. Those are really wonderful

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Speaker 1: and good practical applications. But I think also importantly staying

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Speaker 1: away from toxic people. I think that's so critically important.

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Speaker 1: You want to hear actually the medical scientific proof of

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Speaker 1: this now, I would love to. This is unbelievable, Johno.

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Speaker 1: This this validates my whole life work as a coach,

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Speaker 1: and a salute to other coaches and therapists and pastors

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Speaker 1: out there as well. There are wonderful people out there.

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Speaker 1: The There was a study done at the Heart Math

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Speaker 1: Institute that said, when an individual is speaking with deep intentionality,

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Speaker 1: the DNA helix follow this. Now, the DNA helix inside

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Speaker 1: the ear of the hearer begins to move up and down.

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Speaker 1: Now the key there is deep intentionality. So to your point,

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Speaker 1: that is, with deep intention the DNA helix is actually

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Speaker 1: transforming in the ear of the hearer, and you are

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Speaker 1: being actually rewired, follow this, rewire to re fire, to

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Speaker 1: go lower. With the antithesis of this, if you're hearing

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Speaker 1: someone with deep intentionality, like I'm on the phone with

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Speaker 1: you every week, right and we're talking about positive belief systems,

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Speaker 1: are outcomes to business or strategies and decisions you want

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Speaker 1: to make, and we're flavoring and seasoning things with salt,

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Speaker 1: and I am in speaking to you with intentionality, much

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Speaker 1: like I'm doing right now. The DNA helix inside you

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Speaker 1: is transforming to say, I can become better, I will

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Speaker 1: think smarter, I can think a different way about this situation,

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Speaker 1: and inevitably, Gianno, it produces a better outcome all the time.

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Speaker 1: And the name of that, that term again is the

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Speaker 1: DNA helix inside the ear of the hearer, so in

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Speaker 1: in other words, inside your actual DNA strand you are

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Speaker 1: being transformed, either for the better or for the worst.

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Speaker 1: You're either going higher or going lower. And if you're

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Speaker 1: staying the same, you're just coasting. And we know if

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Speaker 1: you're coasting, you're roasting. If you're coasting, now, let me

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Speaker 1: ask you, this coach, how important is it to look

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Speaker 1: at the problems in your life as possible gifts. Very good,

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Speaker 1: Very good. Well, you know, great question, right, very good question.

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Speaker 1: Very you my producer, he gave me that, so I

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Speaker 1: won't take credit for it. You gave it to me.

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Speaker 1: That was that was one of his questions. But how

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Speaker 1: do you how do you look at that? What are

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Speaker 1: your thoughts on that? Well, let's just parallel this into

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Speaker 1: a very humanistic example. Okay, if you want to build

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Speaker 1: your body, there's gonna require some weight training. I mean,

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Speaker 1: through the beautiful Olympics and we saw the performance of

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Speaker 1: the most decorated athletes in the world. How did they

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Speaker 1: get there? Pain? No pain, no gain. And I think

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Speaker 1: what happens in our life is that we are required

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Speaker 1: as human beings to constantly be pivoting in life. This

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Speaker 1: is what makes a great CEO is the power of

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Speaker 1: the pivot, and that while we deal with heinous or

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Speaker 1: detrimental or painful situations in our life, we must train

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Speaker 1: ourselves through the pressure, through the pain of life to

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Speaker 1: but when I'm going through it, I must not stop.

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Speaker 1: That there has to be a wherewithal inside you that

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Speaker 1: says this will end. And that's the beautiful part about

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Speaker 1: it is that life runs in cycles. And when you

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Speaker 1: have the knowledge that your life is cyclical, you know

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Speaker 1: that this is a season of your life, it is

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Speaker 1: not eternal, and that will keep you motivated and inspired

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Speaker 1: even in most dark as time, even if it's the

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Speaker 1: thought of one day this will end and I will

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Speaker 1: be better from it. That is something. You really can

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Speaker 1: turn these these issues of problems into your greatest benefits,

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Speaker 1: right because you deal with them and it no longer

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Speaker 1: is an obstacle. Right. And and sometimes you have to

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Speaker 1: deal with issues before your greatest moment hits. Sometimes it

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Speaker 1: may be a young lady, say you're dating, and you

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Speaker 1: realize like, oh, man, she's a good girl, but you

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Speaker 1: end up self sabotaging it. And from that you realize, like, man,

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Speaker 1: I need to deal with this issue, this problem that

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Speaker 1: I have, which can be trauma from previous relationships, abandonment

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Speaker 1: issues from dealing with your mom or father or whatever

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Speaker 1: the case may be. You have to deal with those

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Speaker 1: before their greatest opportunity come, which could be uh in

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Speaker 1: my case, a wife or uh, you know, someone else's case.

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Speaker 1: A husband. Uh, So dealing with those issues, those problems

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Speaker 1: um as we perceive them, can be uh the alignment

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Speaker 1: for the best opportunity to come directly to us. This

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Speaker 1: is it's pulling, pulling those opportunities to us. Would you

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Speaker 1: agree with that? You know? Gianno, let me tell it

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Speaker 1: to you as Bishop T. D. Jake said it to me.

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Speaker 1: I can't say it as eloquently as he did, but

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Speaker 1: I'll try. Pain becomes the silent fraternity that brings the

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Speaker 1: most peculiar people in the most inclement situations at the

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Speaker 1: You're sitting there, encircled in a private fraternity of strangers,

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Speaker 1: discussing issues that are the deepest in your heart, but

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Speaker 1: you know nothing about the other person that you're sitting with.

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Speaker 1: Pain begins to become the trajectory for life's next level

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Speaker 1: of development. This is what I mean about. You have

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Speaker 1: to have a proper perspective about pain, and most of

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Speaker 1: the time people don't have the tools, and that's what

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Speaker 1: we provide for them. This one tool for your listener,

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Speaker 1: for you, Drew is no matter what you go through

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Speaker 1: in life, what I want you to experience right here,

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Speaker 1: right now, live is the simple notion that whatever you

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Speaker 1: face in life has an expiration date, and your to

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Speaker 1: massage your mind with that message. Bathe your soul. The

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Speaker 1: let it get out of control, it will lead us

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Speaker 1: to say that every day, sometimes every minute, sometimes every

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Speaker 1: second begins to spark an internal hope. And I have

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Speaker 1: seen people turn their lives around and come through things.

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Speaker 1: Not that it's going to be easy. Whoever said it

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Speaker 1: was was lying. Life is difficult, success is difficult, but

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Speaker 1: your perspective at the end of the day is the

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Speaker 1: game change. We're talking to Ron Kardashian. Stick with us,

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Speaker 1: we'll be back after the break. I wanted to talk

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Speaker 1: to you very very specifically about the role that Christianity

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Speaker 1: and faith is taken in the country right now. Many

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Speaker 1: many folks are noticing how the church attendance isn't the same,

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Speaker 1: and this is pre COVID when we start seeing the

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Speaker 1: numbers go down, and we've seen a nation that's increasingly secular,

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Speaker 1: a president who actually just adopted language in his healthcare

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Speaker 1: budget saying that instead of calling women mom or mother,

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Speaker 1: who're gonna call him birth in person a birthing person.

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Speaker 1: So they're trying to they don't want people to be

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Speaker 1: called dad. They're saying it's sexist, and it's it's a

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Speaker 1: lot of things that are going on in our country

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Speaker 1: right now. Is that it is quite frankly alarming. And

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Speaker 1: I know that you have two kids, I know you

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Speaker 1: have a wife, and you gotta be concerned. As a minister,

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Speaker 1: someone who's preaching the gospel, I would imagine I should

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Speaker 1: say that you would be concerned about what's going on

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Speaker 1: in and for our listeners, I want to I want

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Speaker 1: to take people back to a moment. And I'm just

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Speaker 1: so glad that this thought hit me because i want

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Speaker 1: to ask this question. This man has been very accurate.

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Speaker 1: I'm talking about Ron Kardashian and I'm going back to

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Speaker 1: something that happened in It was a Saturday. This tape

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Speaker 1: came out about President Trump, he was running for president.

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Speaker 1: It was to grab him by the p tape and

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Speaker 1: the Republican Party was saying, you know, we're thinking about,

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Speaker 1: like trying to figure out if we can replace him,

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Speaker 1: if maybe Mike Pens could stop up, or is Mike

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Speaker 1: penns gonna continue to run with him. It looked like

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Speaker 1: political suicide for everyone around. It was no chance that

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Speaker 1: I said, you know what's going on with Trump. He's like,

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Speaker 1: see how can we get him out. So I talked

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Speaker 1: because it was all over the television, and I said

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Speaker 1: to Ron, I said, yeah, it looks like Trump has

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Speaker 1: done there's no way that he can win. And what

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Speaker 1: did you tell me? Ron? I had told you that

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Speaker 1: I heard. I heard very clearly in my own prayer

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Speaker 1: time that he was going to take the presidency the gravitas.

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Speaker 1: And once you delivered the message, I was like, this

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Speaker 1: guy couldnt know what he's talking about. You said, no,

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Speaker 1: the prophecy has went for Donald Trump. Donald J. Trump

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Speaker 1: will be the president. And I'm like, run this type.

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Speaker 1: You said, it doesn't matter, he will be the president.

853
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Speaker 1: The prophecy went forth, that's it, Donald Trump is gonna

854
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Speaker 1: win the election. And for anyone during that time on

855
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Speaker 1: that day to hear what you say would just think

856
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Speaker 1: that you were either completely crazy or you were just

857
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Speaker 1: like uh not into politics and such an amateur that

858
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Speaker 1: you didn't know what you were talking about. But you

859
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Speaker 1: ended up being correct. And I just wanted to bring

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Speaker 1: that moment back for the listeners because that was one

861
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Speaker 1: of those very powerful moments and one of the things

862
00:48:46,320 --> 00:48:50,440
Speaker 1: that stuck with me to this day. But moving beyond that,

863
00:48:51,040 --> 00:48:55,000
Speaker 1: from a perspective of being a minister and being a

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Speaker 1: faith man, are you concerned with the direction of our

865
00:48:57,880 --> 00:49:03,840
Speaker 1: country around faith? No, not at all. We are serving

866
00:49:04,360 --> 00:49:09,400
Speaker 1: a supreme God who makes no mistakes. Predestination is not

867
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Speaker 1: a theological word. In this is the proper perspective to

868
00:49:13,360 --> 00:49:17,560
Speaker 1: stop you from induced trauma. The media is trying to

869
00:49:17,600 --> 00:49:21,399
Speaker 1: traumatize you. Trauma, trauma, trauma, trauma. We're gonna go through

870
00:49:21,440 --> 00:49:25,840
Speaker 1: the whole Greek alphabet in these pandemics trauma, trauma, trauma, vaccine,

871
00:49:25,840 --> 00:49:30,680
Speaker 1: no vaccine, trauma, trauma, trauma. We have to learn to

872
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Speaker 1: center ourselves and really see who we're serving here. Giano,

873
00:49:36,120 --> 00:49:40,040
Speaker 1: he makes no mistakes. He is the Alpha and the omega.

874
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Speaker 1: He is the beginning in the end, he is the

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00:49:43,120 --> 00:49:46,719
Speaker 1: first and the last. He preordained it and new through

876
00:49:46,880 --> 00:49:50,399
Speaker 1: every area we would walk through. And living with this

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Speaker 1: consciousness gives great consolation and peace of mind to a

878
00:49:55,239 --> 00:49:59,799
Speaker 1: believer who is abiding in the vine. The fake ministries

879
00:50:00,000 --> 00:50:04,640
Speaker 1: are done. It's over. You're either in or you're out.

880
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Speaker 1: And I say this with deep conviction because I'm hearing

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Speaker 1: from him, and I'm not the only one. There are

882
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Speaker 1: millions of people hearing from him, because my sheep hear

883
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Speaker 1: my voice. But I am seeking him, Giano. I'm on

884
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Speaker 1: my face every day. You know, Back in the day,

885
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Speaker 1: in the Old Testament, there were two very famous men,

886
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Speaker 1: Daniel and Joseph. These were political advisors. These were men

887
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Speaker 1: who consulted the king and in modern day translation, they

888
00:50:36,320 --> 00:50:39,840
Speaker 1: operated in what we call a Daniel or a Joseph annointing.

889
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Speaker 1: I operate in one. I used to be ashamed to

890
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Speaker 1: say it. I get and I get visitations from him,

891
00:50:46,480 --> 00:50:48,520
Speaker 1: and I'm very cautious what I speak. As you know,

892
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Speaker 1: I don't have a podcast that blast this. I don't

893
00:50:50,640 --> 00:50:53,360
Speaker 1: believe in it. I am cultivating what I'm hearing. But

894
00:50:53,440 --> 00:50:55,920
Speaker 1: I'm gonna give you one more if I can share

895
00:50:55,960 --> 00:50:58,960
Speaker 1: one live. I have not shared this publicly yet, and

896
00:50:59,000 --> 00:51:01,040
Speaker 1: I'm gonna make a day you and I'm going to

897
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Speaker 1: share something if you give me permission that the Lord

898
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Speaker 1: has told me. And this is why I don't want

899
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Speaker 1: you to be concerned, ladies and gentlemen. He is the

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00:51:08,719 --> 00:51:13,400
Speaker 1: Prince of peace. And we're in calamity. We're we're so

901
00:51:13,600 --> 00:51:16,840
Speaker 1: filled with anxiety and and over the counter drugs and

902
00:51:16,920 --> 00:51:20,960
Speaker 1: prescription and CBD oil and th HC and coming and

903
00:51:21,280 --> 00:51:25,960
Speaker 1: my God slowed down. Breathe, breathe in gold and ex

904
00:51:26,160 --> 00:51:30,040
Speaker 1: O green for your salvation draws near. He said. If

905
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Speaker 1: the man had known his house was gonna be robbed,

906
00:51:33,440 --> 00:51:37,719
Speaker 1: he would have never fallen asleep. But stay awake. On

907
00:51:37,800 --> 00:51:41,719
Speaker 1: March thirty one, I fell into a deep sleep. I

908
00:51:41,760 --> 00:51:45,239
Speaker 1: am nothing special. I don't know why he chose me.

909
00:51:46,080 --> 00:51:49,000
Speaker 1: I am nothing great. I'm just a servant. I just

910
00:51:49,080 --> 00:51:51,960
Speaker 1: want to honor my wife and my kids, man and

911
00:51:52,000 --> 00:51:54,640
Speaker 1: help some people before I go. That's it. That's the

912
00:51:54,680 --> 00:51:58,040
Speaker 1: simplicity of my life. But he chose me, He's chosen

913
00:51:58,120 --> 00:52:00,760
Speaker 1: some of you and he visited me in a dream

914
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Speaker 1: where I saw Christ. I was standing before him, and

915
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Speaker 1: I looked to my left, Giano, and I see these

916
00:52:07,000 --> 00:52:11,000
Speaker 1: two lines. And now, if you read Matthew, which I

917
00:52:11,080 --> 00:52:13,360
Speaker 1: encourage all your readers to do, this is the parable

918
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Speaker 1: called the Ten Virgins. Jesus in this vision hands me

919
00:52:17,440 --> 00:52:19,400
Speaker 1: this piece of oil. It was a block of oil.

920
00:52:19,440 --> 00:52:21,600
Speaker 1: It was a piece of chrism. I've studied this out

921
00:52:22,120 --> 00:52:25,239
Speaker 1: and it was a thick oil. And he said, place

922
00:52:25,360 --> 00:52:28,440
Speaker 1: this upon your wound and you will be healed. And

923
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Speaker 1: what I got from that was is God is sending

924
00:52:30,640 --> 00:52:33,799
Speaker 1: an oil to the nation. You can't white knuckle this,

925
00:52:34,520 --> 00:52:37,279
Speaker 1: you can't fight it. He has got a plan, and

926
00:52:37,320 --> 00:52:40,560
Speaker 1: he has an anointing, which in the Hebrew Lexington is

927
00:52:40,600 --> 00:52:43,600
Speaker 1: an empowerment to prosper. You've got to get it. These

928
00:52:43,640 --> 00:52:46,120
Speaker 1: ten virgins that open up at the time of his

929
00:52:46,239 --> 00:52:49,879
Speaker 1: coming didn't have enough oil. So hold that there. Five

930
00:52:49,960 --> 00:52:52,840
Speaker 1: virgins had oil, five didn't. We didn't have enough oil.

931
00:52:53,320 --> 00:52:55,160
Speaker 1: We gotta get more oil in the tank, Coach, how

932
00:52:55,160 --> 00:52:58,560
Speaker 1: do you get more oil? Prayer, listening to the word

933
00:52:58,560 --> 00:53:01,719
Speaker 1: of God, committing yourself to him. But here's what scared me.

934
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Speaker 1: That's not what scared me. I looked to my left

935
00:53:04,880 --> 00:53:07,120
Speaker 1: and I see these two lines, and I immediately knew

936
00:53:07,200 --> 00:53:09,000
Speaker 1: that they were the righteous on the right and the

937
00:53:09,080 --> 00:53:12,360
Speaker 1: unrighteous on the left. And if you end Matthew, it

938
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Speaker 1: is called the Great and Terrible Day. There were two lines, Giano,

939
00:53:16,480 --> 00:53:18,680
Speaker 1: and I was standing right in the middle of them both,

940
00:53:19,040 --> 00:53:22,400
Speaker 1: and I actually felt for a split second, I didn't

941
00:53:22,440 --> 00:53:25,440
Speaker 1: make it. In about a hundreds of a second. I

942
00:53:25,560 --> 00:53:29,560
Speaker 1: felt the emptiness in my soul, thinking to myself, I've

943
00:53:29,600 --> 00:53:32,520
Speaker 1: spent all these years making all this money. I've spent

944
00:53:32,600 --> 00:53:35,000
Speaker 1: all these years trying to do the best I could

945
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Speaker 1: and to live my whole life, which is, by the way,

946
00:53:38,480 --> 00:53:41,839
Speaker 1: an eighty year lifespan is only thirty thousand days. That's

947
00:53:41,840 --> 00:53:45,560
Speaker 1: only seven two hours. I lived my whole life for

948
00:53:45,600 --> 00:53:48,600
Speaker 1: this moment, and here I was about to lose everything.

949
00:53:48,920 --> 00:53:50,799
Speaker 1: And in the blink of an eye, he looked at

950
00:53:50,800 --> 00:53:52,319
Speaker 1: me and he said, I've got to attend to some

951
00:53:52,360 --> 00:53:56,520
Speaker 1: other things. And I was awakened, and I had knew

952
00:53:56,600 --> 00:54:01,759
Speaker 1: at that moment that there is coming a distinction, a

953
00:54:01,920 --> 00:54:05,359
Speaker 1: choice that we all have to make, and we're gonna

954
00:54:05,480 --> 00:54:08,480
Speaker 1: end up in either of these lines. My call to

955
00:54:08,600 --> 00:54:13,600
Speaker 1: action today is not buying my programs. It's not another

956
00:54:13,640 --> 00:54:18,160
Speaker 1: self help book. It's a simple prayer to say, God,

957
00:54:18,880 --> 00:54:22,440
Speaker 1: show me what you showed Kardashian. You help him, you

958
00:54:22,440 --> 00:54:25,480
Speaker 1: can help me, because ladies and gentlemen, you do not

959
00:54:25,600 --> 00:54:28,480
Speaker 1: want to be in that line, the end righteous line.

960
00:54:28,480 --> 00:54:31,200
Speaker 1: He will have to say no to the creation he loved.

961
00:54:31,360 --> 00:54:34,160
Speaker 1: There is no more grace, there is no more forgiveness,

962
00:54:34,320 --> 00:54:37,440
Speaker 1: there is no more turning back. It's it. It's over,

963
00:54:37,719 --> 00:54:40,760
Speaker 1: it's done, and everything we've ever done in our life

964
00:54:41,000 --> 00:54:44,840
Speaker 1: is coming down to a thirty second decision. Will you

965
00:54:44,920 --> 00:54:47,960
Speaker 1: accept him as Lord and say, help me, give me

966
00:54:48,040 --> 00:54:52,359
Speaker 1: the anointing, give me the oil to help me make

967
00:54:52,360 --> 00:54:55,359
Speaker 1: it through this life so you can save yourself in

968
00:54:55,440 --> 00:55:00,400
Speaker 1: that one day of judgment and it's coming. Man. Uh,

969
00:55:00,440 --> 00:55:03,040
Speaker 1: that was quite the note to leave us on. I

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00:55:03,080 --> 00:55:07,240
Speaker 1: want to thank you Ron for delivering such powerful words

971
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Speaker 1: throughout honestly, and I gotta tell you, even in your

972
00:55:11,000 --> 00:55:14,040
Speaker 1: your last response, that that's what we need to use

973
00:55:14,120 --> 00:55:16,919
Speaker 1: part of that last response to promote this episode because

974
00:55:16,960 --> 00:55:21,520
Speaker 1: it was, I mean, just very very powerful message there.

975
00:55:21,560 --> 00:55:25,640
Speaker 1: Because we have become traumatized by the media on a

976
00:55:25,719 --> 00:55:28,960
Speaker 1: daily consistent basis. That's how they make their money. Click

977
00:55:29,000 --> 00:55:32,480
Speaker 1: click click click click, and and and and the time

978
00:55:32,600 --> 00:55:34,960
Speaker 1: does seem near. We it does feel like we're in

979
00:55:35,000 --> 00:55:37,279
Speaker 1: the last days. The Bible and the Scripture is clear

980
00:55:37,320 --> 00:55:40,040
Speaker 1: on that. But the good news is it's not too

981
00:55:40,120 --> 00:55:43,960
Speaker 1: late for people to repent and ask God for forgiveness.

982
00:55:43,960 --> 00:55:47,160
Speaker 1: No matter what they've done. They can continue to repent

983
00:55:47,239 --> 00:55:49,880
Speaker 1: and get on their face. Remember that, and remember, just

984
00:55:49,960 --> 00:55:52,600
Speaker 1: to intercheck for our listeners, the word repent is not

985
00:55:52,719 --> 00:55:57,239
Speaker 1: that old school word. It's just a change of thinking. Giano,

986
00:55:58,600 --> 00:56:02,160
Speaker 1: a new neurological can action, nerves sells it, fire together,

987
00:56:02,320 --> 00:56:05,799
Speaker 1: wire together so we can go higher. Thank you so much,

988
00:56:05,920 --> 00:56:08,160
Speaker 1: coach Ron for your words today. Thank you again for

989
00:56:08,239 --> 00:56:12,000
Speaker 1: joining out loud with Gianno calledwell coach Ron Kardashian, and

990
00:56:12,040 --> 00:56:15,080
Speaker 1: please tell everyone your websites, your social media handles. I

991
00:56:15,120 --> 00:56:18,400
Speaker 1: can be in touch Ron Kardashian dot com. Ron Kardashian

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00:56:18,440 --> 00:56:20,520
Speaker 1: dot com. Don't list the end for the b It's

993
00:56:20,560 --> 00:56:24,880
Speaker 1: not Rob, It's Ron Ron Ron Ron Ron Kardashi. No,

994
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Speaker 1: my cousin, God bless you, Rob. You listening to my brother.

995
00:56:27,680 --> 00:56:29,920
Speaker 1: But and then of course I'm on Twitter, but the

996
00:56:29,960 --> 00:56:32,080
Speaker 1: main one that we're hanging out on is LinkedIn. That's

997
00:56:32,120 --> 00:56:34,759
Speaker 1: where all the professionals are for at least now. Thank

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00:56:34,760 --> 00:56:37,239
Speaker 1: you so so much for joining me on out loud

999
00:56:37,280 --> 00:56:39,839
Speaker 1: with Gianno calledwell. That has been a fantastic ride. Yes, sir,

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Speaker 1: my honor, thanks, my friend. I want to thank Ron

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Speaker 1: Kardashian again for a great interview. If you're enjoying the show,

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Speaker 1: and parlor at Gianno Calldlow. And if you're interested in

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Speaker 1: learning more about my story, please pick up my best

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Speaker 1: Back to the Americans and Liberalism Failed. Special thanks to

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Speaker 1: our producer Drew Steele, researcher Aaron Klingman, and executive producers

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