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Speaker 1: Hi am Kate Hudson and my name is Oliver Hudson.

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Speaker 1: We wanted to do something that highlighted our relationship and

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Speaker 1: what it's like to be siblings. We are a sibling. Ravalry. No, no, sibling.

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Speaker 1: You don't do that with your mouth. Revelry. That's good.

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Speaker 1: Emails emas doin a mother boniss. Well you shut up,

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Speaker 1: don't you shut up? No? Shut shut up? No, your moron?

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Speaker 1: Shut up? On moron? What is that our stern? So

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Speaker 1: he imitates his dad? Oh how what what you a moron? Emails? Emails?

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Speaker 1: Let the fux up with those emails? Okay, can I

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Speaker 1: go first? Or do you want to go first? Go first?

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Speaker 1: Go first, Go first, ladies first. Hello husbands from a

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Speaker 1: little bliss sprinkler up in Canada Land. Oh, I already

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Speaker 1: love this person. I just wanted to let you know

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Speaker 1: how much of a positive impact you have had on

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Speaker 1: my life, especially this past year. I own a small

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Speaker 1: business that is frontline in nature. This past year has

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Speaker 1: been tiring and challenging to say the least, and just

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Speaker 1: getting up some days knowing my staff and I were

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Speaker 1: heading into the trenches was enough to make me want

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Speaker 1: to bury my head in the sand. I am a

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Speaker 1: natural seeker of joy, and so struggling in this way

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Speaker 1: was less than tolerable for me. I decided I needed

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Speaker 1: to find new inspirations in my workdays. Along came sibling revelry.

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Speaker 1: Every week I have looked forward to Oliver's anecdotes, many songs,

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Speaker 1: and then the sound of Kate's busting a gut when

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Speaker 1: he hams it up. Because of your lighthearted goofiness, I

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Speaker 1: found myself smiling, giggling, and once again able to grasp

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Speaker 1: onto my temporarily lost joy. I devoured your shows, binge listening,

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Speaker 1: repeating some shows. I became part of the family. PS.

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Speaker 1: I am up for adoption. I am low maintenance. I

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Speaker 1: own my own home and business. I love love. I'm

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Speaker 1: often too raud for my own family. I might suit

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Speaker 1: yours better. I rap too, so I can deff be

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Speaker 1: an asset. On the musical side, I may be tabling

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Speaker 1: other offers by the time you get this, so don't delay.

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Speaker 1: I'm highly I am a highly addictive substem. This is

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Speaker 1: so goude. My favorite episode was The Rooster was with

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Speaker 1: Rooster and Matthew, I Brey laughed out loud, Oh I

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Speaker 1: hear you. I hear you. Oh my god, what was

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Speaker 1: cut out of that episode? God, I'm still trying to

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Speaker 1: utilize some of Rooster's amazing one liners. Thank you for

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Speaker 1: being you and for joining me in my workdays and

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Speaker 1: enlightening my step a little. I appreciate you both for it. PS.

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Speaker 1: Many years ago, I was an ad on the film

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Speaker 1: Gossip in Toronto. Kate, you came to my twenty fifth

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Speaker 1: birthday party, Jesus bells. That's about all I can recall

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Speaker 1: from that night. Those green smokes got into the way

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Speaker 1: of my memory. Keep up the fabulous and important work

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Speaker 1: kind regards. Christa, Wow me for a loop. Hold on

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Speaker 1: a second, Krista, I think you would lead with that.

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Speaker 1: She ended with me, I know, I love I mean that,

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Speaker 1: I love that. I mean, first of all, let's start

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Speaker 1: Like that. It's just so great. It makes me feel

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Speaker 1: good that you that you feel good. But it sounds

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Speaker 1: way to feel good, which is such a wonderful to have. Christa. Seriously,

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Speaker 1: I am shocked, and I'm now I'm trying to think

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Speaker 1: of your twenty fifth birthday party. And how I could

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Speaker 1: have ended up there. It's gonna hit me, but for

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Speaker 1: sake of just saying one, thank you for inviting me

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Speaker 1: to your twenty fifth birthday party. And I love Canada

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Speaker 1: and I love Toronto and I miss it because we

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Speaker 1: you know, we grew up, which you probably know because

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Speaker 1: We grew up going to Muskoka every summer, and so

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Speaker 1: So thank you for that. Sah. My name is Patricia,

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Speaker 1: I'm four years old and I'm from Portugal. I've been

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Speaker 1: listening to podcast since the very beginning. Besides being really

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Speaker 1: entertaining and funny, it has also been a learning experience

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Speaker 1: knowing myself through the experiences you share with your guests,

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Speaker 1: laughing and crying, growing. The first thing I did after

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Speaker 1: tell him that I loved him. We grew up together,

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Speaker 1: I cannot say why. He's a very private person and

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Speaker 1: sharing my personal things with him in return. That makes

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Speaker 1: me as I am for him. I am truly jealous

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Speaker 1: of the relationship that you two have. My very favorite

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Speaker 1: moments of the podcast are when you laugh together. I

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Speaker 1: Maybe someday. I have two kids, a boy and a girl.

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Speaker 1: when I'm away at work. When they fight, I always say,

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Speaker 1: you are the very best friends you'll ever going to get.

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Speaker 1: Don't forget that they're still young seven and four, but

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Speaker 1: they laugh together like you do. They are happy in

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Speaker 1: the sharing. It's always a pleasure. Lots of love, Patricia, Oh, Patricia,

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Speaker 1: I love this so much. You know, it's like she's

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Speaker 1: different kind of connection, you know, hopefully. It's amazing through

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Speaker 1: the feeling. Yeah, me too. Well, thank you, Patricia, Thank you, Patricia.

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Speaker 1: Oh you get to read this one? Did you see

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Speaker 1: and much needed support for each other. I think siblings

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Speaker 1: together in life. I listen to your podcast and really

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Speaker 1: appreciate the relationship the two of you have. The episode

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Speaker 1: love the relationship you two have and the relationship you

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Speaker 1: It's it's been so crazy, and I guess there's comfort

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Speaker 1: Kate and Oliver, I'm a lifelong fan. No, not like

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Speaker 1: I just added that. You really do add well. You

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Speaker 1: do that a lot. Actually, I try to make it

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Speaker 1: my own. It's weird because it's not your own. Nothing

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Speaker 1: to do with you, Okay, Hi, Kate and Oliver. I'm

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Speaker 1: a longtime fan of you both. And Kate. I'm a

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Speaker 1: lifelong fan of you both. I'm a lifelong fan of

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Speaker 1: both you and and Kate. I'm a long time fan

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Speaker 1: of you both. I need a comma. There's a missing comma. Yeah, okay,

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Speaker 1: I'm a lifelong fan of you both and Kate. I

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Speaker 1: don't know how to say it. Let me say this sentence.

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Speaker 1: Just start king, Oliver, I'm a longtime fan of you both,

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Speaker 1: and Kate. It's safe to say I've been obsessed with

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Speaker 1: you my whole life. Boom, you are such an icon.

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Speaker 1: And Oliver, I'd love to smoke a joint with you.

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Speaker 1: Sometimes I don't know what's better. I mean, I kind

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Speaker 1: of feel like I got the shit end of that stick.

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Speaker 1: Who would you rather be an icon or somebody you

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Speaker 1: want to smoke a jointment? I mean, that's like, it's

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Speaker 1: a fair, fair point, sad point. Listen, I'm thinking that

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Speaker 1: is a big compliment. But there's a little part of

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Speaker 1: me that wishes that you would want to smoke a

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Speaker 1: joint with me too, right, I take that as a

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Speaker 1: compliment too. I'm almost twenty eight years old and I'm

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Speaker 1: an only child, and I feel like being an old

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Speaker 1: child isn't talked about enough. Yes. True, growing up an

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Speaker 1: only child, I was mostly by myself, and I was

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Speaker 1: always jealous of my friends or family members that have

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Speaker 1: had siblings, that have siblings. Listening to you both makes

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Speaker 1: me forget I'm an only child, and I feel a

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Speaker 1: part of your family. Please don't ever stop the podcast.

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Speaker 1: It's what I look forward to most. Love you both, Bianca. Oh, oh, yes,

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Speaker 1: you know what, Come, smoke a doobie. We join the family.

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Speaker 1: We have to interview an only child. We haven't done

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Speaker 1: this yet. We haven't even done that. Yeah, and you

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Speaker 1: know what, I don't know why we don't bring in

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Speaker 1: multiple people who are only children, Like why not? Yeah,

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Speaker 1: why don't we bring them all in at the same

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Speaker 1: time and then make them brothers and sisters and siblings,

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Speaker 1: Or they'll end up like them, liking each other and

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Speaker 1: maybe having a romantic relationship because they can relate to

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Speaker 1: each other. Maybe we turned sibling Revelry just into a

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Speaker 1: dating show for for people who've never had siblings, right,

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Speaker 1: the only child dating show every Wednesday or Thursday, sometimes Friday. Ia, No,

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Speaker 1: but Bianca, It's so true. I mean we we I

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Speaker 1: have a lot. I've talked about this before. I have

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Speaker 1: a lot of friends. As a matter of fact, I

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Speaker 1: mean a good like fifty percent of my friends are

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Speaker 1: only children. And it is different. It's different. It's a

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Speaker 1: different type of personality profile. I think. I think that

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Speaker 1: they they're usually really secure in themselves, almost to the

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Speaker 1: point where you're like, hey, babe, like there's other people here.

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Speaker 1: You know, they have a lot of times have a

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Speaker 1: really good sense of themselves, to the point where you

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Speaker 1: almost think like they never had the adversity of having

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Speaker 1: a sibling who kind of gave them a push or pull.

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Speaker 1: I feel like you're looking at me like I'm fucking crazy,

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Speaker 1: like say something, I'm letting you finish. I'm letting you finish.

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Speaker 1: The feedback we get sometimes is Oliver, you cut Katie

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Speaker 1: off too much, so I'm like, okay, let me let

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Speaker 1: her finish her sentence. No, that's not what just happened.

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Speaker 1: Do you want to know what just happened? Because I look,

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Speaker 1: I know what I was looking. You were looking at

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Speaker 1: the thing, and it then all in your eyes kind

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Speaker 1: of shifted like left and up, okay, which means you

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Speaker 1: were thinking about something totally different. No, I had a

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Speaker 1: thought I was waiting to I was waiting to say.

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Speaker 1: My thought was, okay that only children probably had. They're

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Speaker 1: so used to being the center of attention growing up

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Speaker 1: that that must affect the way that they operate in

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Speaker 1: the world. That's what I was gonna say, right, I mean,

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Speaker 1: if they had a healthy if they have a healthy

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Speaker 1: you know childhood where the parents are kind of focused

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Speaker 1: and great, and you know that if they didn't, then

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Speaker 1: that's probably different because they probably had just sort of

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Speaker 1: seek out other connections and things. But I don't know's

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Speaker 1: it's an interesting I'm sure it's really different. Well, we

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Speaker 1: need to have a couple only children on the show.

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Speaker 1: You're right, well, I don't think we've done that. We'll

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Speaker 1: get on it. Who's the most famous only child, Alison?

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Speaker 1: Get on it? Thank you, Bianca. We will do this

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Speaker 1: podcast for as long as I can stand working with

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Speaker 1: my brother, and which will be a long time, I hope.

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Speaker 1: And again you guys all, everybody, thank you for writing in.

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Speaker 1: We do love these email episodes. You can always email

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Speaker 1: us at Oliver Oliver dot com, our email address sibling

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Speaker 1: submissions at gmail dot com. It's like this, the hardest thing.

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Speaker 1: Oliver's like little lisp you like that, Like, couldn't have

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Speaker 1: given him a harder Oh, I know, I do. I

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Speaker 1: have a lisp like you really don't. You know you

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Speaker 1: don't have. I only know it because I know you

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Speaker 1: so well, you know, but it's something, it's it's there,

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Speaker 1: and I try to sort of combat it at times

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Speaker 1: and enunci eight. You need to do the practices. You

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Speaker 1: know what I do sometimes when I'm I'm on my

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Speaker 1: way to work, when I'm shooting is I'll do my

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Speaker 1: voice uh coach practices. And the first thing is you

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Speaker 1: warm up your mouth by like m and you realize,

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Speaker 1: like oh wow your face in the morning, and then

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Speaker 1: you do your like really and then you go wow ah.

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Speaker 1: Sometimes you think, like I wonder what so much any people?

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Speaker 1: There are people out there who for sure have looked

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Speaker 1: in my car and have saw me do this. Oh

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Speaker 1: oh yeah, like Kate Hudson's fucking crazy. It's like I

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Speaker 1: saw Kate Hudson driving. I mean, you know. And then

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Speaker 1: and then I do my vocal exercises and another good one.

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Speaker 1: There you go. So you wake up every muscle of

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Speaker 1: your mouth, and then you know it can help with

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Speaker 1: your I don't know waking up your I'm gonna try

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Speaker 1: that sounds help with my lip, with my lisp. Sibling

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Speaker 1: Submissions Sibling Submissions at gmail dot calm all right, I

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Speaker 1: love you, I love you Town. I'll see you soon.

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Speaker 1: I'll see you next time, see you next time on

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Speaker 1: Sibling Revelry. Sibling Revelry is executive produced by Kate Hudson

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Speaker 1: and Oliver Hudson. Producer is Alison, President, editor is Josh Wendish.

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Speaker 1: Music by Mark Hudson aka Uncle Mark. If you want

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