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Speaker 1: Hey, maybe it is Laala Cat. Welcome back to the

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Speaker 1: Give Them Laala Podcast. Just a regular old episode. You know,

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Speaker 1: typical Tuesday, typical.

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Speaker 2: Tuesday, and it's not Tuesday, you guys.

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Speaker 3: It literally is Monday and it's supposed.

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Speaker 2: To be hearing Wednesday.

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Speaker 3: I love this pra so right in the middle Tuesday.

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Speaker 1: I've had friends in town. Okay, so I don't really

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Speaker 1: care what week it is, as.

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Speaker 3: You should, not should or day or hour could literally be.

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Speaker 1: None of it. Shut up.

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Speaker 2: Easton's been dragging, you know, laugh long.

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Speaker 4: Gets a good laugh, and that's where she goes. That's

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Speaker 4: you know, it's a good day.

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Speaker 2: Like that. I love it.

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Speaker 1: And my face is getting kind of like swollen from pregnancy.

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Speaker 1: By the way, can I tell you something. Yes, so

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Speaker 1: Amber posted a picture of the two of us at

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Speaker 1: the Baby mon Soon. Yeah, she recently got her lips injected,

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Speaker 1: and we.

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Speaker 3: Look so much like wait I'm looking right now, I'm

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Speaker 3: not even talking about Amber Childers.

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Speaker 2: Yes, okay, let's see. Let's see.

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Speaker 3: She's so sweet, by the way, and she's so fashionable,

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Speaker 3: you guys.

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Speaker 2: Okay, let's see.

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Speaker 1: Tell me we don't look like sisters.

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Speaker 2: You look like sisters.

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Speaker 1: The lips it's the lips or something. Maybe the eyes too,

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Speaker 1: maybe the eyebrows. It's the whole face. Bitch stole my face.

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Speaker 1: I thought that was so wild, though, I like zoomed in.

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Speaker 1: I'm like, we we look very similar, very similar. I

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Speaker 1: texted her, I said, did you get your lips done?

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Speaker 1: She said, yes, I go we look like the same person.

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Speaker 3: Now, yeah, you killed I'm staring now at your you

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Speaker 3: killed this?

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Speaker 2: Like what brand dress is this?

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Speaker 1: Selky sulky?

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Speaker 2: Oh, you look like a freaking princess cupcake.

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Speaker 1: That was so nice of you to say. So let's

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Speaker 1: let's take it. Let's take it from the top. So

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Speaker 1: Ocean had her first day of school last week and

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Speaker 1: she killed it, right, Yeah, So I take her. They're

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Speaker 1: supposed to nap at school. I'm like, my kid doesn't nap,

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Speaker 1: I warned the teacher's Ocean beats to her own drum.

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Speaker 1: You cannot put her in a box. She's just a

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Speaker 1: little firecracker. And they're like, we can't wait, she's so cute. Whatever,

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Speaker 1: So I pick her up from school. She did nap.

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Speaker 1: She was sound asleep when you got there. Yes, when

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Speaker 1: I got there. So they play, play, play, play, and

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Speaker 1: then they nap or have rest time at school?

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Speaker 2: Okay, I pick her up.

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Speaker 1: The teacher was like, she's she was so cute. She

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Speaker 1: was so fun Apparently there was a little girl who

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Speaker 1: was crying because she missed her mom. Mmm, how dare she?

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Speaker 1: Because oh, she goes, sh be quiet, I'm trying to sleep.

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Speaker 1: I was like, girl, now you know how I feel

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Speaker 1: when I'm trying to sleep and your little jabber jaw

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Speaker 1: is over there. So she said that and like, apparently

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Speaker 1: like that, everyone was like it was you know, she's

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Speaker 1: so cute and funny, and she was really fixated. She

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Speaker 1: she was like, where are my socks and shoes and

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Speaker 1: my bows? And I'm like, my kid cared about where

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Speaker 1: stuff was? Oh interesting, that was interesting. And I always said,

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Speaker 1: I'm very interested to see how Ocean is at school

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Speaker 1: when she's not in her environment. So first day she

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Speaker 1: killed it. Second day I get there, she's snoozing. I'm like,

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Speaker 1: another day that they see how magical my child is.

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Speaker 2: Oh no.

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Speaker 1: So as I'm like packing up her stuff, the teacher

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Speaker 1: comes over and she's like, so we had an incident today,

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Speaker 1: and I was like, oh God, she said the F word.

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Speaker 4: No.

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Speaker 1: She said, we played with toys today and it was

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Speaker 1: to clean up, so I'm not going to classic And

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Speaker 1: the teacher said, Ocean, you played with the toys, so

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Speaker 1: you have to clean up. The teacher continues to say,

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Speaker 1: she got very upset, and I go, oh, no, and

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Speaker 3: I was like, oh, has she ever thrown toys across

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Speaker 1: She did huck a toy at Gigi's head one time.

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Speaker 1: of the doubt. Okay, okay, so do you g she did.

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Speaker 1: She did say I'm sorry, Gigi, I didn't mean to

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Speaker 4: I think she tried to throw it. Her accuracies at

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Speaker 1: Right, but clearly she didn't want And I said, let

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Speaker 1: me talk to the other house and just make sure

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Speaker 1: and I'll talk to Ocean. But like I cried about it,

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Speaker 1: what because it's like, girl, can't you butter them up

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Speaker 1: first before you start acting a fool? So that they're

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Speaker 1: more like, okay with it, like day two and we

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Speaker 1: got to like show our true colors.

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Speaker 2: No, no, but that happens.

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Speaker 3: But I want to I have a question because I

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Speaker 3: am curious, and I bet maybe other moms are too.

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Speaker 2: When a kid does something.

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Speaker 3: In school, I assume she either got put in time

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Speaker 2: So then does the parent also discipline?

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Speaker 3: I'm sure it's different in every household or is it

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Speaker 3: like you dealt with this at school, know that you

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Speaker 3: get in trouble for that, and then you move on?

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Speaker 2: Like how does that work?

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Speaker 1: So I called my other ex the other house, and

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Speaker 1: I said, you know, we really have to get on

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Speaker 1: the same page. She has got to clean clean up

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Speaker 1: people want to bring on help. But Ocean has to

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Speaker 1: know that when she makes a mess, she has to

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Speaker 1: clean up. And I think there will be a time

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Speaker 1: where she understands there are different rules for the places

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Speaker 1: that I go to. I know I have to clean

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Speaker 1: up at mom's house. I know I have to clean

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Speaker 1: up at school at the other house. Maybe I do

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Speaker 1: clean up after me, which, by the way, if she

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Speaker 1: can start understanding that, then I don't really care if

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Speaker 1: she cleans up at the other house. What I do

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Speaker 1: know is whatever's going on has trickled into school, and

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Speaker 1: I let her know when I picked her up, because

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Speaker 1: the other house said, well, what did you do? I said,

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Speaker 1: I freaking bossed up on that ass you did? Yes,

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Speaker 1: there you go. I said, Ocean, did you throw toys

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Speaker 1: She goes yes, she has that little poudy face. And

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Speaker 1: I said, let me tell you something, little girl, when

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Speaker 1: an adult tells you that you need to do something,

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Speaker 1: you are the child. You better clean up and listen. Ay,

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Speaker 1: I said, you understand me. Yeah, She goes yes, I understand.

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Speaker 1: I said that is never to happen again. So today, Cannison,

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Speaker 1: I dropped her off my best friend Hodo.

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Speaker 2: They're laughing already.

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Speaker 1: And she sits down. Ocean does at her little area,

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Speaker 1: and I'm like, Ocean, remember what Mama said today. If

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Speaker 1: ignore her. You will not tell her no, you will

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Speaker 1: listen and you will do it. And she goes, look

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Speaker 1: at this yellow play dough. So I whisper an, I

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Speaker 1: go listen to me. Whatever the teacher tells you to

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Speaker 1: do today, you need to do. If you play with toys,

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Speaker 1: you're gonna clean up. And you know what, if you

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Speaker 1: do it, Mommy's gonna buy you somethig so fat, I'm

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Speaker 1: going to buy you something. Okay, I will bye, mom.

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Speaker 2: So did she cry at all?

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Speaker 1: No, she doesn't cry.

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Speaker 2: No when you first stay nothing, she just ran right in.

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Speaker 2: Oh yeah, did you cry?

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Speaker 1: No, Eastern cried.

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Speaker 3: Let me tell you when I saw that freaking photo

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Speaker 3: on your Instagram of ocean with a giant smile, and imagine,

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Speaker 3: I literally got all the goosebumps out that I couldn't

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Speaker 3: do this, No way in hell.

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Speaker 4: You know what.

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Speaker 1: She was so excited to go to school that I

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Speaker 1: think I had I had moments of being being an

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Speaker 1: emotional wreck last week when I talked about her going

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Speaker 1: way I can cry because she's so excited for this

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Speaker 1: new adventure in her life. She learned what a weekend

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Speaker 1: goes mom, I think what late for school? I was like, no, baby,

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Speaker 1: we don't have school today. We do we do. It's morning,

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Speaker 1: it's light outside, and I said, it's the weekend. You

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Speaker 1: just get to relax. So she now knows what the

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Speaker 2: Oh, that is so cute. I didn't even think of that, Like,

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Speaker 2: of course she knows.

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Speaker 4: What wee weeks.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, and I know she's having the best time.

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Speaker 2: Do you guys remember your first day of school?

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Speaker 4: Not a shot now?

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Speaker 1: Yeah, I do remember my first day of nervous, excited.

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Speaker 1: I was nervous. Yeah, me too. At east Wood like

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Speaker 1: but not not pre because ocean it's technically not school.

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Speaker 1: It's like pree k. Yeah. Yeah, they go and play

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Speaker 1: with fucking kinetic sand. Yes, yes, but it's about like socializing.

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Speaker 1: And what I love about this school is that they're

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Speaker 1: gonna see how my daughter learns and how she retains.

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Speaker 1: So when it does come time to figure out where

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Speaker 1: be able to say, like, this is the school that

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Speaker 1: I feel is going to suit your child best.

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Speaker 2: That is so important.

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Speaker 1: I think it's important. Wells was telling me that there's

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Speaker 1: homework doesn't really matter for someone like me. You're counting

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Speaker 2: I'm failing everything hundred percent.

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Speaker 1: So I need a school that's not going to just

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Speaker 3: Right, Yes, and same with actually you're counting my tests.

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Speaker 3: I'm doing fine, but I'm not. Actually you're counting my tests.

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Speaker 3: I'm passing. But I do not retain the information. I

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Speaker 3: memorize it. I take the test, and then I love

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Speaker 3: the new ways now that some schools are doing. They're

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Speaker 3: doing they're teaching in a way that like you can

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Speaker 3: truly retain the information. They're looking at what the kids

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Speaker 3: are interested in and being like, let's take the kid

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Speaker 3: in this direction because they're interesting said this.

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Speaker 2: I love it. I think it's amazing.

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Speaker 1: I do too. And so we'll see when I pick

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Speaker 1: her up today if she wants.

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Speaker 2: She whipped a toy across the yeah, yeah.

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Speaker 4: You know, orientation.

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Speaker 1: She didn't want to leave.

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Speaker 4: She was on the playground.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, she was having a lot of fun. And you know,

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Speaker 1: it's it's a weird because again it's two separate households,

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Speaker 1: Outer Banks on Netflix.

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Speaker 2: How is it?

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Speaker 1: Yo? Is it?

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Speaker 2: Wild?

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Speaker 1: paulm Royal id season one is amazing and it's over.

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Speaker 1: Like, huh no, no, no, you got it, don't you agree? Yeah?

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Speaker 1: Keep watching Pete Davidson gets around man.

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Speaker 2: Yes, Davidson polls no one pulls like Pete?

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Speaker 1: Yeah, but do you think he's just looking for a

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Speaker 3: I think this is what I think. I think Pete

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Speaker 1: I think he gets too clean to you guys.

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Speaker 1: He's got to be because I've met one hundred and

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Speaker 1: By the way, Sydney, I saw that in the notes,

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Speaker 1: But actually it's not slutty girl summer anymore. It's sober

444
00:22:17,800 --> 00:22:19,440
Speaker 1: boys summer. Have you heard about this?

445
00:22:19,840 --> 00:22:21,720
Speaker 2: No, but you guys really quick update.

446
00:22:21,960 --> 00:22:26,200
Speaker 3: She got engaged in March of twenty twenty two. Yeah,

447
00:22:26,359 --> 00:22:29,959
Speaker 3: so yeah, she's engaged anyway. So let's go to Sober

448
00:22:29,960 --> 00:22:30,560
Speaker 3: Boys summer.

449
00:22:31,080 --> 00:22:34,720
Speaker 1: Never mind what well Easton's upset about it?

450
00:22:35,280 --> 00:22:37,359
Speaker 2: Sydney or Sober Boy summer.

451
00:22:39,640 --> 00:22:42,040
Speaker 1: Easton doesn't even know where he is right now. He

452
00:22:42,200 --> 00:22:45,320
Speaker 1: was smoking joints at two p or two pm, two

453
00:22:45,320 --> 00:22:48,080
Speaker 1: am in the backyard. Stop hearing things?

454
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Speaker 4: They have bushes. I didn't hear anything, you told herd

455
00:22:53,440 --> 00:22:55,720
Speaker 4: I said something. The rustling stopped.

456
00:22:55,800 --> 00:22:56,879
Speaker 2: I think something.

457
00:22:57,000 --> 00:23:00,480
Speaker 3: I need to start smoking weed. It never works for me,

458
00:23:00,840 --> 00:23:02,120
Speaker 3: but maybe I'll try again.

459
00:23:02,600 --> 00:23:06,399
Speaker 2: I got the right people. Yeah, that's what I.

460
00:23:05,640 --> 00:23:08,359
Speaker 4: They were there, man, I'm telling we were there.

461
00:23:08,520 --> 00:23:12,280
Speaker 1: Man. Easton was smoking a joint in the backyard. He

462
00:23:12,280 --> 00:23:16,000
Speaker 1: heard rustling in the bushes. Somewhere. I heard somebody rustle

463
00:23:16,119 --> 00:23:18,919
Speaker 1: in the bushes. Stop my horse, whoa nelly?

464
00:23:19,400 --> 00:23:21,680
Speaker 2: Who in the bushes? You better speak out or.

465
00:23:21,640 --> 00:23:25,000
Speaker 1: I'm gonna let my shotgun song saying who is this?

466
00:23:25,320 --> 00:23:31,160
Speaker 1: I have to say? I love breaking into song. Yeah,

467
00:23:31,200 --> 00:23:35,520
Speaker 1: I felt.

468
00:23:34,200 --> 00:23:38,880
Speaker 2: But covering bone thugs in a Many ghetto Cowboy.

469
00:23:40,240 --> 00:23:43,680
Speaker 1: The greatest song on the planet, Hot Girl moving on,

470
00:23:43,800 --> 00:23:48,120
Speaker 1: you got stoned, heard things, paranoia and whatever. Hot Girl

471
00:23:48,160 --> 00:23:52,720
Speaker 1: Summer move aside. Women are going boy sober and have

472
00:23:52,880 --> 00:23:54,040
Speaker 1: never felt better.

473
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Speaker 2: Boy sober.

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Speaker 1: Oh what a buzzkill for all these men, because summer

475
00:23:58,960 --> 00:24:00,120
Speaker 1: is when you pull the pushy.

476
00:24:00,760 --> 00:24:03,760
Speaker 2: Summer is when I don't agree with boy sober. But

477
00:24:03,880 --> 00:24:05,040
Speaker 2: you know what, maybe.

478
00:24:04,800 --> 00:24:10,280
Speaker 1: Hels Jessica's in a reckless face in Taylor's swift terms

479
00:24:10,359 --> 00:24:11,640
Speaker 1: is called her reckless era.

480
00:24:12,840 --> 00:24:13,760
Speaker 2: More on that later.

481
00:24:14,640 --> 00:24:16,320
Speaker 1: That's a teaser era, am I in?

482
00:24:16,800 --> 00:24:18,720
Speaker 2: You're in your pregnant era, which we love.

483
00:24:19,240 --> 00:24:20,720
Speaker 4: Okay, we're nervous.

484
00:24:21,400 --> 00:24:25,160
Speaker 1: What seems a little one dimensional. I was thinking more

485
00:24:25,160 --> 00:24:28,960
Speaker 1: like a bad bitch independent woman era Independent.

486
00:24:28,960 --> 00:24:35,440
Speaker 3: You're in your growing era physically, you're growing emotionally, spiritually, sexually.

487
00:24:35,920 --> 00:24:39,320
Speaker 4: And that's the only thing we hear is then one.

488
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Speaker 1: Twenty nineteen was the start of hot Girls Summer, coined

489
00:24:42,760 --> 00:24:46,080
Speaker 1: by Megan the Stallion in her hit single the same name.

490
00:24:46,160 --> 00:24:49,879
Speaker 1: Five years later, we've entered the era of boy sober Summer.

491
00:24:50,280 --> 00:24:53,600
Speaker 1: Single women have hopped on a new trend of abstaining

492
00:24:53,640 --> 00:24:58,240
Speaker 1: from any romantic or sexual relationships with men, including dating

493
00:24:58,359 --> 00:25:02,840
Speaker 1: and casual hookups. Therapists say the emergence of the Boys

494
00:25:02,920 --> 00:25:06,440
Speaker 1: Silver movement is indicative of a greater trend of young

495
00:25:06,480 --> 00:25:09,320
Speaker 1: women taking a step back from sex and relationships and

496
00:25:10,240 --> 00:25:15,800
Speaker 1: puts a new spin on voluntary celibacy. We've talked about

497
00:25:15,800 --> 00:25:21,159
Speaker 1: this before. Okay, Okay, two things. Okay. I told you

498
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Speaker 1: about one of my dearest friends who's on the dating apps.

499
00:25:24,000 --> 00:25:28,080
Speaker 1: She probably goes on two, well, let's say, two to

500
00:25:28,119 --> 00:25:32,240
Speaker 1: four dates a week. None of them are sticking. I said,

501
00:25:32,400 --> 00:25:36,520
Speaker 1: we gotta give it up. Okay. I didn't tell her

502
00:25:36,560 --> 00:25:38,800
Speaker 1: to go, so I just said, go have reckless sex,

503
00:25:39,200 --> 00:25:41,040
Speaker 1: but like use protection. I was like, I want to

504
00:25:41,119 --> 00:25:44,800
Speaker 1: date these guys, okay, because it's hot girl summer. But

505
00:25:44,840 --> 00:25:47,520
Speaker 1: apparently it's not. So I was onto something with giving

506
00:25:47,600 --> 00:25:51,320
Speaker 1: up the dating. I love the giving up of sex

507
00:25:51,359 --> 00:25:54,840
Speaker 1: because I feel like men are kind of slacking because

508
00:25:54,840 --> 00:25:57,879
Speaker 1: it's kind of like a free for all. Yeah you

509
00:25:57,920 --> 00:25:59,280
Speaker 1: know what you.

510
00:25:59,240 --> 00:26:04,960
Speaker 3: Think, Yeah, giving up the sex if it's for you, right.

511
00:26:05,520 --> 00:26:08,560
Speaker 1: Jessica, you're giving away where you're at and life.

512
00:26:08,680 --> 00:26:12,600
Speaker 3: Very quickly, I'm saying, I love focus on your girls

513
00:26:12,600 --> 00:26:13,000
Speaker 3: this summer.

514
00:26:13,000 --> 00:26:17,119
Speaker 2: Actually, I'm so down for that. Go to the beach, hang.

515
00:26:16,920 --> 00:26:21,840
Speaker 1: Out, right, I'm into it, especially because summer is no

516
00:26:22,040 --> 00:26:26,560
Speaker 1: time to try to get into a relationship because boys

517
00:26:27,280 --> 00:26:30,520
Speaker 1: are like dogs and they see all these women in

518
00:26:30,600 --> 00:26:34,480
Speaker 1: bikinis and they're on Instagram and they live in bumpfuck wherever,

519
00:26:34,560 --> 00:26:37,840
Speaker 1: and they see these hotties in centrope on a yacht

520
00:26:37,880 --> 00:26:44,199
Speaker 1: and it's Instagram. Everyone's accessible. So just hang out with

521
00:26:44,240 --> 00:26:51,640
Speaker 1: your girlfriends. I have great vibrators and a great dildo

522
00:26:52,960 --> 00:26:56,679
Speaker 1: that route. Okay, yes, if you're thinking like this is

523
00:26:56,800 --> 00:27:05,280
Speaker 1: not serving me anymore, like having intimate having sexy fucking men, Okay,

524
00:27:05,760 --> 00:27:09,880
Speaker 1: this is not working. I don't want I'd like to date,

525
00:27:10,119 --> 00:27:12,000
Speaker 1: but I'm giving it up too soon, so I'm cutting

526
00:27:12,040 --> 00:27:17,000
Speaker 1: it all out. I've got your back. Blissa has great dildos,

527
00:27:17,160 --> 00:27:22,160
Speaker 1: has fantastic vibrators. I highly recommend amazing.

528
00:27:22,200 --> 00:27:23,320
Speaker 2: This isn't even sponsored.

529
00:27:23,640 --> 00:27:26,200
Speaker 1: It's not sponsored, but I go heavy in the paint.

530
00:27:26,800 --> 00:27:28,840
Speaker 2: That's the one I had that your mom that your

531
00:27:28,880 --> 00:27:29,560
Speaker 2: mom gave me.

532
00:27:30,240 --> 00:27:34,919
Speaker 1: No, my friend Sena gave our friend one and she

533
00:27:35,200 --> 00:27:36,720
Speaker 1: she told me which one it was, and I was like,

534
00:27:37,440 --> 00:27:48,520
Speaker 1: you have the rookie vibrator. It's the red, the red one,

535
00:27:48,560 --> 00:27:51,360
Speaker 1: just the pink one. I was like, I don't even

536
00:27:51,359 --> 00:27:53,119
Speaker 1: know shecause again it's got a hole for the section.

537
00:27:53,200 --> 00:27:54,960
Speaker 1: I was like, oh, are you gonna have so fun

538
00:27:55,000 --> 00:28:02,120
Speaker 1: with it? Well for this detuction, But back to hot

539
00:28:02,160 --> 00:28:06,320
Speaker 1: girls sober summer. Whatever it can be board, it can

540
00:28:06,400 --> 00:28:08,360
Speaker 1: be hot girl summer. We don't have to call it

541
00:28:08,680 --> 00:28:11,760
Speaker 1: boy sober summer. What you turn into some homely bitch.

542
00:28:11,920 --> 00:28:15,680
Speaker 1: Now hot girls summer, and y'all aren't getting laid. Actually,

543
00:28:17,440 --> 00:28:20,159
Speaker 1: I'm driving on board. I love this blue ball summer

544
00:28:20,280 --> 00:28:21,000
Speaker 1: is what I love.

545
00:28:21,160 --> 00:28:21,520
Speaker 4: Summer.

546
00:28:22,320 --> 00:28:23,760
Speaker 2: Blue ball summer.

547
00:28:24,359 --> 00:28:27,160
Speaker 1: Gypsy Rose is pregnant.

548
00:28:26,920 --> 00:28:29,280
Speaker 2: So she is not having sober boys summer.

549
00:28:29,640 --> 00:28:32,520
Speaker 1: No, but she's engaged right, Oh.

550
00:28:32,480 --> 00:28:34,000
Speaker 2: Pregnant with this man's baby.

551
00:28:34,640 --> 00:28:40,520
Speaker 1: She Okay, so how weird is this Gypsy's babies birth

552
00:28:40,560 --> 00:28:45,960
Speaker 1: certificate could say x Ryan Anderson is the father. Here's why. Okay,

553
00:28:46,160 --> 00:28:48,040
Speaker 1: can you click the link and read for us?

554
00:28:48,160 --> 00:28:49,520
Speaker 2: Yes? Absolutely.

555
00:28:50,240 --> 00:28:53,440
Speaker 1: And Ryan Anderson, keep in mind, is the the boyfriend

556
00:28:53,520 --> 00:28:57,360
Speaker 1: she had when she was in prison. Okay, uh huh.

557
00:28:57,400 --> 00:29:00,880
Speaker 1: And then they broke up she after she got out

558
00:29:00,920 --> 00:29:03,400
Speaker 1: of prison, because remember we were like, she's a piece

559
00:29:03,440 --> 00:29:05,440
Speaker 1: of shit, Why did you do that to the man

560
00:29:05,480 --> 00:29:07,240
Speaker 1: who stuck with you? And then we found out he

561
00:29:07,320 --> 00:29:10,720
Speaker 1: was like hoarding food in his ikea bed or something.

562
00:29:10,960 --> 00:29:14,920
Speaker 1: Oh I can. We were like, okay, we see you.

563
00:29:15,000 --> 00:29:17,080
Speaker 1: She was like he would he would get upset when

564
00:29:17,080 --> 00:29:20,200
Speaker 1: I would throw away expired food. It's like, we totally

565
00:29:20,200 --> 00:29:22,240
Speaker 1: see you, gyp get out, get out.

566
00:29:22,160 --> 00:29:22,720
Speaker 2: Get out.

567
00:29:23,400 --> 00:29:26,560
Speaker 1: So there's he's not the he's not the father, but

568
00:29:26,640 --> 00:29:29,720
Speaker 1: the birth certificate could say that he is.

569
00:29:29,880 --> 00:29:34,360
Speaker 3: Why is he couldn't say that he is because in April,

570
00:29:34,760 --> 00:29:38,920
Speaker 3: Gypsy Rose filed for divorce from her husband, Ryan Anderson,

571
00:29:38,960 --> 00:29:41,440
Speaker 3: whom she married in twenty twenty two, and if the

572
00:29:41,520 --> 00:29:46,120
Speaker 3: divorce is not finalized by the time of the baby's birth,

573
00:29:46,320 --> 00:29:49,920
Speaker 3: then Anderson's name may be on the birth certificate. According

574
00:29:49,960 --> 00:29:53,000
Speaker 3: to Louisiana law, if the mother's married to someone other

575
00:29:53,040 --> 00:29:55,920
Speaker 3: than the biological father when the child was conceived or

576
00:29:55,960 --> 00:29:58,200
Speaker 3: has been divorced for less than three hundred days at

577
00:29:58,200 --> 00:30:01,280
Speaker 3: the time of the birth, the husband's ex husband shelby

578
00:30:01,840 --> 00:30:06,600
Speaker 3: the presumed father, unless paternity is established. Oh, unless paternity

579
00:30:06,680 --> 00:30:10,160
Speaker 3: is established for the biological father, which it will be.

580
00:30:10,160 --> 00:30:14,600
Speaker 3: Because I'm assuming fingers crossed for Gypsy Rose that this

581
00:30:14,760 --> 00:30:17,520
Speaker 3: baby is her new mance.

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Speaker 1: Did Gypsy Rose take on the guy's name?

583
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Speaker 2: I don't.

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Speaker 1: Know.

585
00:30:24,720 --> 00:30:27,760
Speaker 2: I don't think so it doesn't look like it if

586
00:30:27,800 --> 00:30:28,400
Speaker 2: he doesn't.

587
00:30:29,080 --> 00:30:32,640
Speaker 1: When ocean got wheeled out, her things said baby burning him?

588
00:30:33,440 --> 00:30:39,440
Speaker 1: Really Yeah, all right, Well a paternity test easy because yeah,

589
00:30:39,480 --> 00:30:43,120
Speaker 1: she's with her baby daddy. They're engaged, right.

590
00:30:43,000 --> 00:30:45,480
Speaker 2: Yeah, yeah, I'm reading this is weird.

591
00:30:45,480 --> 00:30:48,440
Speaker 3: There's a legal presumption in Louisiana that if you have

592
00:30:48,480 --> 00:30:50,840
Speaker 3: a child while you're married, it's presumed to be the

593
00:30:50,920 --> 00:30:54,680
Speaker 3: husband's child. But then it says, then it says, this

594
00:30:54,760 --> 00:30:59,360
Speaker 3: is weird. All the laws in Louisiana concerning paternity are

595
00:30:59,360 --> 00:31:01,640
Speaker 3: designed to tech the child and make sure the child

596
00:31:01,720 --> 00:31:04,960
Speaker 3: has a father and a mother to provide for them.

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00:31:05,400 --> 00:31:07,920
Speaker 2: What about two moms? Like this is so weird?

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00:31:08,400 --> 00:31:10,840
Speaker 1: But is that just what the article is saying or

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00:31:10,880 --> 00:31:13,560
Speaker 1: is it actually quoting Louisiana lot.

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00:31:13,680 --> 00:31:15,080
Speaker 2: No, that's what the article is saying.

601
00:31:15,080 --> 00:31:17,360
Speaker 3: But I just wonder if, like, is there yeah, is

602
00:31:17,400 --> 00:31:19,760
Speaker 3: it a problem if like the child has two moms?

603
00:31:19,760 --> 00:31:20,640
Speaker 2: That's just so weird.

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00:31:21,120 --> 00:31:24,440
Speaker 3: So that presumption can be overcome by DNA, and that's

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Speaker 3: what people have to do. Interesting, there's a lot of

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00:31:26,960 --> 00:31:29,160
Speaker 3: dated laws all over the US, so I'm sure this

607
00:31:29,240 --> 00:31:30,200
Speaker 3: is one of them.

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00:31:30,440 --> 00:31:31,960
Speaker 1: All I know is all you have to do is

609
00:31:31,960 --> 00:31:34,680
Speaker 1: get a paternity test. It's really freaking easy. And then

610
00:31:34,920 --> 00:31:37,200
Speaker 1: that's whose name goes on the birth certificate.

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00:31:37,320 --> 00:31:38,360
Speaker 2: Mm hmmm hm.

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00:31:38,800 --> 00:31:41,840
Speaker 1: And you know what, and if Gypsy goes into labor,

613
00:31:41,920 --> 00:31:47,400
Speaker 1: paternity hasn't been established, put Gypsy's last name on it. Yeah,

614
00:31:47,680 --> 00:31:50,640
Speaker 1: was her mom's name, Blanchard's what I was thinking. Maybe

615
00:31:50,840 --> 00:31:53,040
Speaker 1: not is not wanting to do that.

616
00:31:53,280 --> 00:31:54,560
Speaker 2: Gypsy Rose Bland.

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Speaker 1: But can I tell you could put anything on the

618
00:31:56,200 --> 00:31:59,720
Speaker 1: birth certificate. You literally could name your baby whatever you

619
00:31:59,760 --> 00:32:03,160
Speaker 1: want the first at least in Los Angeles, I.

620
00:32:03,080 --> 00:32:04,720
Speaker 3: Was gonna say, I don't think that's the case. That's

621
00:32:04,720 --> 00:32:06,000
Speaker 3: what they're saying in Louisiana.

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00:32:07,040 --> 00:32:10,120
Speaker 1: All right, Well, all the best she ends up with

623
00:32:10,160 --> 00:32:11,600
Speaker 1: a name that you like.

624
00:32:11,800 --> 00:32:12,840
Speaker 2: Yeah, thoughts in prayers?

625
00:32:16,320 --> 00:32:19,200
Speaker 1: What is this? Katy Perry response to criticism over new

626
00:32:19,280 --> 00:32:22,960
Speaker 1: video First off Woman's World, Rolling Stone mag.

627
00:32:23,080 --> 00:32:23,840
Speaker 2: Have you seen it?

628
00:32:24,200 --> 00:32:24,520
Speaker 4: No?

629
00:32:24,600 --> 00:32:26,120
Speaker 2: But she looks so good?

630
00:32:27,600 --> 00:32:29,320
Speaker 1: Oh is she holding the drill bit?

631
00:32:29,640 --> 00:32:31,120
Speaker 2: Yeah? She looks incredible.

632
00:32:31,360 --> 00:32:34,360
Speaker 1: She's been really killing it. I loved the look that

633
00:32:34,440 --> 00:32:37,240
Speaker 1: she wore. I don't know exactly where she was, but

634
00:32:37,320 --> 00:32:40,120
Speaker 1: she had no bra on. She had on like tights,

635
00:32:40,200 --> 00:32:43,680
Speaker 1: a blazer, and the blazer was just like kind of

636
00:32:43,720 --> 00:32:44,800
Speaker 1: sitting on her boobies.

637
00:32:45,280 --> 00:32:45,560
Speaker 2: Was this?

638
00:32:45,840 --> 00:32:47,760
Speaker 1: It didn't even, it didn't even I didn't even know

639
00:32:47,800 --> 00:32:53,560
Speaker 1: it was Katy Perry. Oh, because her style is so different, right,

640
00:32:54,400 --> 00:32:56,720
Speaker 1: I love her. Okay, what's the criticism about?

641
00:32:56,840 --> 00:32:59,840
Speaker 3: Okay, so the Woman's World video, this is a Q

642
00:33:00,200 --> 00:33:04,000
Speaker 3: from her. I'm sure the criticism is about, like, I mean,

643
00:33:04,040 --> 00:33:06,720
Speaker 3: she looks hot and sexy in the videos for quote

644
00:33:06,760 --> 00:33:09,520
Speaker 3: unquote Woman's World, but this is Katie's response is like,

645
00:33:10,080 --> 00:33:13,080
Speaker 3: it's like, ooh, we're not about the male gaze, but

646
00:33:13,200 --> 00:33:16,120
Speaker 3: we really are about the male gaze and we're really

647
00:33:16,240 --> 00:33:18,320
Speaker 3: overplaying it and on the nose.

648
00:33:19,080 --> 00:33:20,720
Speaker 1: So she's saying it's satire.

649
00:33:20,960 --> 00:33:24,160
Speaker 3: Yes, that is what she's saying. Oh, it's such a

650
00:33:24,200 --> 00:33:27,720
Speaker 3: good video though. So she looks so hot in this video.

651
00:33:27,720 --> 00:33:30,280
Speaker 3: If you haven't seen it, you must, you must look

652
00:33:30,320 --> 00:33:33,320
Speaker 3: it up. Okay, but kat Perry is saying like, yeah,

653
00:33:33,360 --> 00:33:35,920
Speaker 3: it's on the nose. It's satire, you idiots, and I

654
00:33:35,960 --> 00:33:36,320
Speaker 3: love it.

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00:33:37,160 --> 00:33:40,800
Speaker 1: I mean if you have not under if you don't

656
00:33:40,840 --> 00:33:43,600
Speaker 1: understand that, tit's our power. At this point, I cannot

657
00:33:43,600 --> 00:33:43,920
Speaker 1: help you.

658
00:33:44,200 --> 00:33:45,600
Speaker 2: Yeah, Okay.

659
00:33:45,680 --> 00:33:49,480
Speaker 3: The comments on YouTube even are like this feels like, uh,

660
00:33:49,520 --> 00:33:52,920
Speaker 3: this looks like something that would be satire for feminism,

661
00:33:53,800 --> 00:33:54,680
Speaker 3: Like maybe it is.

662
00:33:54,760 --> 00:33:56,840
Speaker 2: Whatever it is, she rocked it. I like it.

663
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Speaker 1: Can I say something that I'm having a hard time

664
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Speaker 1: right now? Okay with this whole women supporting women, you

665
00:34:07,240 --> 00:34:11,359
Speaker 1: don't believe in women, you don't support women, you don't

666
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Speaker 1: do this. Let me tell you something. We've spoken about

667
00:34:15,440 --> 00:34:19,799
Speaker 1: this before. I'm having a hard time. And for a

668
00:34:19,960 --> 00:34:23,280
Speaker 1: very long time I said I only feel comfortable around women.

669
00:34:24,000 --> 00:34:30,319
Speaker 1: That is still very true. Women that I know that

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00:34:30,360 --> 00:34:34,120
Speaker 1: I've known for a long time. Because I have found

671
00:34:34,120 --> 00:34:38,920
Speaker 1: from my experience that the people who try to break

672
00:34:39,000 --> 00:34:43,320
Speaker 1: us down the most us meaning chicks, especially in the

673
00:34:43,360 --> 00:34:48,320
Speaker 1: public eye, are other women. I have never had any

674
00:34:48,440 --> 00:34:53,040
Speaker 1: man say the things to me that women have said

675
00:34:53,040 --> 00:34:56,840
Speaker 1: to me online, women who do not know me. And

676
00:34:56,880 --> 00:34:59,440
Speaker 1: I have to assume that most people that are commenting

677
00:34:59,480 --> 00:35:01,720
Speaker 1: on the Katie Perry video are women.

678
00:35:02,040 --> 00:35:03,640
Speaker 2: There's a lot of women commenting on.

679
00:35:03,600 --> 00:35:07,200
Speaker 1: It, okay, the majority majority.

680
00:35:07,360 --> 00:35:10,799
Speaker 3: By looking at like like at this is Ashley. I'm

681
00:35:10,840 --> 00:35:12,480
Speaker 3: not going to say the last name, but yeah, looking

682
00:35:12,560 --> 00:35:15,359
Speaker 3: at looking at the pictures and like the handles, it's

683
00:35:15,360 --> 00:35:18,880
Speaker 3: all like traditional female first names, right.

684
00:35:19,440 --> 00:35:23,480
Speaker 1: I am not saying that women cannot have disagreements and

685
00:35:24,239 --> 00:35:29,359
Speaker 1: have arguments and healthy debates and healthy competition. I love

686
00:35:29,600 --> 00:35:33,000
Speaker 1: all of those things. Okay. What I have a really

687
00:35:33,040 --> 00:35:37,480
Speaker 1: hard time with is women going into the comments section

688
00:35:38,040 --> 00:35:42,479
Speaker 1: and being so horrific and talking about how you don't

689
00:35:42,520 --> 00:35:46,640
Speaker 1: represent females, you don't represent And I've been a part

690
00:35:46,640 --> 00:35:50,080
Speaker 1: of the problem. Okay, I think every female has been

691
00:35:50,120 --> 00:35:53,160
Speaker 1: a part of the problem. But it's hard to subscribe

692
00:35:53,239 --> 00:35:57,960
Speaker 1: or buy into something when you start slapping these labels

693
00:35:58,239 --> 00:36:02,960
Speaker 1: of women supporting women, and when you look at females

694
00:36:03,040 --> 00:36:07,200
Speaker 1: even now in twenty twenty four, going, you guys rip

695
00:36:07,280 --> 00:36:11,000
Speaker 1: each other to shreds and nothing is ever good enough. Yeah,

696
00:36:11,200 --> 00:36:15,040
Speaker 1: no one can ever win. And you know, it's so

697
00:36:15,360 --> 00:36:16,280
Speaker 1: a great point.

698
00:36:16,440 --> 00:36:20,279
Speaker 3: What's so unfortunate about that, too, is that you're right,

699
00:36:21,040 --> 00:36:23,920
Speaker 3: so many of these negative comments and negativity and this

700
00:36:24,040 --> 00:36:27,719
Speaker 3: like gross ripping people to shreds is women, and I

701
00:36:27,760 --> 00:36:31,600
Speaker 3: see it in the comments you everyone. But then on

702
00:36:31,640 --> 00:36:34,719
Speaker 3: the other side of it, the ones that come to

703
00:36:34,800 --> 00:36:37,120
Speaker 3: your defense or come to others defense, or come out

704
00:36:37,120 --> 00:36:41,160
Speaker 3: with like amazing points or cheer people on are also women.

705
00:36:41,520 --> 00:36:44,400
Speaker 1: So that's why. But that's why I have such a

706
00:36:44,440 --> 00:36:47,440
Speaker 1: hard time with it in the sense of I don't

707
00:36:47,480 --> 00:36:50,640
Speaker 1: know which way we're going. I know because I've never

708
00:36:50,719 --> 00:36:54,640
Speaker 1: been more uplifted by women. Men are just kind of

709
00:36:54,719 --> 00:36:57,200
Speaker 1: like they're there? Are there? Though?

710
00:36:57,360 --> 00:36:58,600
Speaker 2: Do they know that they're there?

711
00:36:58,840 --> 00:37:02,759
Speaker 4: And I promise you if they're watching Kerr and if

712
00:37:02,800 --> 00:37:05,360
Speaker 4: they're watching that Katie Perry, they're all like this. The

713
00:37:05,400 --> 00:37:08,759
Speaker 4: last thing we're going to do is comment. We're just

714
00:37:08,800 --> 00:37:11,880
Speaker 4: in awe. We're gazing at the yeah, male gaze.

715
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Speaker 1: But you were saying, you were like, you've never felt

716
00:37:15,760 --> 00:37:18,960
Speaker 1: sore up uplifted by women. But I've never been dragged

717
00:37:19,000 --> 00:37:23,759
Speaker 1: so hard by by women give criticism. And by the way,

718
00:37:23,760 --> 00:37:29,560
Speaker 1: though I've also never I also have uplifted women to

719
00:37:29,640 --> 00:37:31,960
Speaker 1: the highest degree, and then I know how to freaking

720
00:37:32,000 --> 00:37:33,839
Speaker 1: chop them at the knees. I'm not saying that I'm

721
00:37:33,840 --> 00:37:39,440
Speaker 1: like some fabulous women supporting women poster child. I'm saying like,

722
00:37:40,719 --> 00:37:42,880
Speaker 1: it's hard to find a freaking balance, Like, how do

723
00:37:42,920 --> 00:37:46,799
Speaker 1: you have an opinion while also uplifting someone. I've seen

724
00:37:46,880 --> 00:37:51,759
Speaker 1: comments where only from my experience what people have said

725
00:37:51,800 --> 00:37:55,439
Speaker 1: to me, there have been chicks where like I don't

726
00:37:55,440 --> 00:38:00,120
Speaker 1: agree with you for the most part, but I can

727
00:38:00,200 --> 00:38:05,880
Speaker 1: understand like productive female conversation. It's very intense.

728
00:38:06,160 --> 00:38:08,560
Speaker 3: Yeah, yeah, no it is, and it is like it

729
00:38:08,680 --> 00:38:11,759
Speaker 3: sucks because there's so many amazing women out there who

730
00:38:11,760 --> 00:38:14,480
Speaker 3: get shit done and it's these losers.

731
00:38:15,800 --> 00:38:19,120
Speaker 2: Ugh, just because like I said, like even.

732
00:38:18,920 --> 00:38:21,359
Speaker 1: Like the weird, but I would still trust a woman

733
00:38:21,400 --> 00:38:24,680
Speaker 1: over a man. Does what does el Wood say she has?

734
00:38:24,800 --> 00:38:27,440
Speaker 1: If you would have come to a sorority dinner, I

735
00:38:27,480 --> 00:38:30,640
Speaker 1: would have at least been nice to you. Yes, let's

736
00:38:30,640 --> 00:38:31,800
Speaker 1: all be like el Woods.

737
00:38:31,880 --> 00:38:36,120
Speaker 3: Yes, Prue, I object, I love her.

738
00:38:36,800 --> 00:38:42,240
Speaker 1: Let's just all be ell Woods. Okay, let's just very quickly.

739
00:38:43,040 --> 00:38:49,280
Speaker 1: Shannon Doherty has passed away after battling cancer for quite

740
00:38:49,320 --> 00:38:52,640
Speaker 1: some time. She was fifty three, and then fitness guru

741
00:38:52,760 --> 00:38:59,799
Speaker 1: Richard Simmons, who's remember he wrote that Instagram post and

742
00:38:59,840 --> 00:39:05,080
Speaker 1: it was kind of we didn't really know about battling something. Yes,

743
00:39:06,120 --> 00:39:07,520
Speaker 1: do we know if he was battling something.

744
00:39:07,560 --> 00:39:09,399
Speaker 4: I was just about to go in here and see if.

745
00:39:10,640 --> 00:39:13,680
Speaker 1: He passed away of natural causes that I do know.

746
00:39:14,560 --> 00:39:17,160
Speaker 1: But they were showing on k t LA like all

747
00:39:17,200 --> 00:39:19,160
Speaker 1: of these videos of him and he just had like

748
00:39:20,400 --> 00:39:23,360
Speaker 1: he was like pretty captivating. He was so cool, you know,

749
00:39:23,400 --> 00:39:25,399
Speaker 1: and he, like all the women behind him that were

750
00:39:25,400 --> 00:39:28,680
Speaker 1: working out with him, looked so freaking happy. I know

751
00:39:28,880 --> 00:39:30,040
Speaker 1: he brought people joy.

752
00:39:31,719 --> 00:39:35,440
Speaker 3: Yeah, and I don't see anything about I wonder if

753
00:39:35,480 --> 00:39:36,280
Speaker 3: it's just being.

754
00:39:36,160 --> 00:39:41,960
Speaker 4: Kept on post. It looks like but they just said, hello, gorgeous,

755
00:39:42,000 --> 00:39:43,680
Speaker 4: Please don't rain on my parade.

756
00:39:44,840 --> 00:39:50,520
Speaker 1: What's the photo being fabulous? Obviously, was he.

757
00:39:53,080 --> 00:39:54,120
Speaker 2: Publicly gay?

758
00:39:54,840 --> 00:39:58,360
Speaker 1: I don't know that. Okay, I do not know that.

759
00:39:58,920 --> 00:40:01,799
Speaker 1: I know he was a publicly fabulous and all the

760
00:40:01,840 --> 00:40:03,719
Speaker 1: exercise I was like, Oh, I could get down with that.

761
00:40:03,960 --> 00:40:05,239
Speaker 2: Oh my god, are you kidding me?

762
00:40:05,840 --> 00:40:10,480
Speaker 3: He never publicly discussed his sexuality. After his death, Actress

763
00:40:10,560 --> 00:40:13,400
Speaker 3: Jane Fonda said that the last time she saw Simmons

764
00:40:13,440 --> 00:40:15,440
Speaker 3: was when she had lunch with him and his boyfriend

765
00:40:15,440 --> 00:40:19,400
Speaker 3: at the Polo Lounge. She said that the relationship was

766
00:40:19,480 --> 00:40:23,000
Speaker 3: new and he was proud. So hopefully he did everything

767
00:40:23,040 --> 00:40:25,399
Speaker 3: he wanted to do in life and passed away as

768
00:40:25,400 --> 00:40:26,520
Speaker 3: a happy, happy man.

769
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Speaker 1: I hope he did too. And I also don't want

770
00:40:30,200 --> 00:40:34,000
Speaker 1: Shannon Doherty's passing to get lost because there was breaking

771
00:40:34,080 --> 00:40:36,520
Speaker 1: news in the political world right the day that she

772
00:40:36,719 --> 00:40:40,560
Speaker 1: passed away. We are not a political podcast. We will

773
00:40:40,560 --> 00:40:43,120
Speaker 1: not be venturing into that topic. But we are well

774
00:40:43,160 --> 00:40:47,360
Speaker 1: aware of what's going through this. We are an educated bunch.

775
00:40:48,040 --> 00:40:52,080
Speaker 1: I'm also thrilled to see that Alec Baldwin his case

776
00:40:52,200 --> 00:40:52,880
Speaker 1: was dismissed.

777
00:40:53,040 --> 00:40:54,160
Speaker 2: Yeah. I saw that.

778
00:40:55,480 --> 00:40:57,279
Speaker 1: Yeah, he aged like one hundred years.

779
00:40:57,560 --> 00:40:59,480
Speaker 2: I'm sure the stress.

780
00:41:00,040 --> 00:41:02,040
Speaker 4: Stress and it's like I feel like, it's not like

781
00:41:02,239 --> 00:41:05,040
Speaker 4: you wasn't all he didn't do anything right.

782
00:41:05,080 --> 00:41:07,120
Speaker 1: For those of you who have been living under a rock,

783
00:41:07,200 --> 00:41:10,240
Speaker 1: there was a movie called Rust. There was a one.

784
00:41:10,280 --> 00:41:13,840
Speaker 1: There was someone who passed away on set because the

785
00:41:13,840 --> 00:41:17,520
Speaker 1: the prop weapons that were being used were not properly. Yes,

786
00:41:17,600 --> 00:41:23,200
Speaker 1: producer John cinematographer Sinneth, a cinematographer, lost her life on

787
00:41:23,320 --> 00:41:28,840
Speaker 1: the set of Rust because whoever was handling the prop guns,

788
00:41:29,000 --> 00:41:33,200
Speaker 1: which a lot of times they're not rubber, they do

789
00:41:33,320 --> 00:41:37,960
Speaker 1: shoot something. I have not been on very many movie sets.

790
00:41:38,840 --> 00:41:41,600
Speaker 1: We've talked about this before. I prefer a rubber gun.

791
00:41:41,800 --> 00:41:47,040
Speaker 1: I don't like even if this is not shooting real bullets,

792
00:41:47,120 --> 00:41:49,200
Speaker 1: I just don't like the feel of it. I don't

793
00:41:49,239 --> 00:41:52,319
Speaker 1: like the kickback. Give me a rubber gun. Spend the

794
00:41:52,320 --> 00:41:55,000
Speaker 1: money in post to add the little sound effects, all right,

795
00:41:55,920 --> 00:41:58,200
Speaker 1: and if it doesn't look like I'm really shooting a gun.

796
00:41:58,320 --> 00:42:01,399
Speaker 1: We're not making oscar A worthy movies here, all right,

797
00:42:01,560 --> 00:42:05,120
Speaker 1: I'm not really that concerned about it. Okay, I don't

798
00:42:05,120 --> 00:42:12,560
Speaker 1: really give a shit anyway. I personally didn't feel like

799
00:42:12,840 --> 00:42:16,640
Speaker 1: Alec Baldwin was at fault in any way. He goes

800
00:42:16,680 --> 00:42:19,560
Speaker 1: on set, he has one job, right, create a character

801
00:42:20,280 --> 00:42:24,399
Speaker 1: and make this movie great. Someone hands him a gun,

802
00:42:24,480 --> 00:42:29,839
Speaker 1: he shoots it, and it's not properly looked at and

803
00:42:29,960 --> 00:42:33,920
Speaker 1: taken care of. That's the prop masters, right.

804
00:42:34,480 --> 00:42:36,480
Speaker 2: Horrifying that that could even happen.

805
00:42:36,880 --> 00:42:41,280
Speaker 1: It is horrifying, horrifying, Like why are we still using

806
00:42:41,280 --> 00:42:42,400
Speaker 1: these types of props.

807
00:42:42,719 --> 00:42:46,520
Speaker 3: It's it's actually wild because like we can make robots,

808
00:42:46,800 --> 00:42:49,439
Speaker 3: but we can't make fake guns that look real enough

809
00:42:49,480 --> 00:42:50,799
Speaker 3: to use on a movie.

810
00:42:51,040 --> 00:42:55,600
Speaker 1: I'm watching Elon Musk shoot freaking spaceships into the air

811
00:42:55,760 --> 00:43:01,200
Speaker 1: every two weeks in La back down into the middle

812
00:43:01,200 --> 00:43:03,480
Speaker 1: of the Pacific and like find their way back to

813
00:43:03,600 --> 00:43:06,239
Speaker 1: Elon Musk. Yes, you're telling me you can't have a

814
00:43:06,239 --> 00:43:09,359
Speaker 1: freaking fake gun that it gives you some Elk back

815
00:43:09,400 --> 00:43:10,879
Speaker 1: without anything coming out of it.

816
00:43:11,280 --> 00:43:12,480
Speaker 2: You're tripping, tripping.

817
00:43:12,840 --> 00:43:15,360
Speaker 1: You make cars that park themselves.

818
00:43:14,920 --> 00:43:16,239
Speaker 2: You make way mos.

819
00:43:16,560 --> 00:43:17,040
Speaker 1: What's that?

820
00:43:17,239 --> 00:43:19,799
Speaker 3: It's a car that literally drives itself. It picks you

821
00:43:19,880 --> 00:43:21,839
Speaker 3: up like an uber and no one's in there.

822
00:43:21,920 --> 00:43:23,800
Speaker 1: I've seen those terrifying.

823
00:43:23,560 --> 00:43:26,640
Speaker 2: Wild Can we touch on this, David arcad or do

824
00:43:26,680 --> 00:43:26,840
Speaker 2: you not?

825
00:43:26,920 --> 00:43:29,560
Speaker 1: Are you always? Let's touch on David Arcade. I'm so

826
00:43:29,840 --> 00:43:32,560
Speaker 1: for you, because that's what we're gonna That's what we're

827
00:43:32,600 --> 00:43:36,720
Speaker 1: gonna end with. I just want to say that, you guys,

828
00:43:36,760 --> 00:43:41,520
Speaker 1: I have not watched I haven't watched any Beverly or

829
00:43:41,560 --> 00:43:43,640
Speaker 1: Beverly Hills. I haven't watched any Housewives.

830
00:43:43,920 --> 00:43:47,960
Speaker 3: That stinks because I have really no, I haven't, but

831
00:43:48,120 --> 00:43:51,600
Speaker 3: I said that because I I really wanted to, but

832
00:43:51,600 --> 00:43:53,040
Speaker 3: then I didn't see it in your notes since so

833
00:43:53,120 --> 00:43:55,160
Speaker 3: I thought I'm not gonna watch it.

834
00:43:56,480 --> 00:43:58,319
Speaker 1: I need to watch it. Keep in mind, it was

835
00:43:58,400 --> 00:44:01,680
Speaker 1: my baby Monson. I will be back at it wat

836
00:44:02,360 --> 00:44:06,279
Speaker 1: Catching up on Jersey and OC has started, you guys know,

837
00:44:06,360 --> 00:44:09,359
Speaker 1: I've been so excited to see OC because I've heard

838
00:44:09,400 --> 00:44:13,279
Speaker 1: it is the best season that they've ever made in

839
00:44:13,360 --> 00:44:14,680
Speaker 1: all the years of the franchise.

840
00:44:14,840 --> 00:44:16,560
Speaker 2: So we need to be on Jersey and OC.

841
00:44:17,040 --> 00:44:21,520
Speaker 1: Jersey and OC. I want to quickly touch on Brandy

842
00:44:21,560 --> 00:44:26,000
Speaker 1: Glanville addresses the Jack's Taylor hookup rumor after fans claim

843
00:44:26,840 --> 00:44:30,439
Speaker 1: he made a bedroom confession. Brandy Glanville denies that they've

844
00:44:30,440 --> 00:44:35,440
Speaker 1: ever hooked up. There was a tidbit about Jack's and

845
00:44:35,560 --> 00:44:36,560
Speaker 1: Ramona singer.

846
00:44:37,960 --> 00:44:38,920
Speaker 2: Stop are you spelling?

847
00:44:38,960 --> 00:44:40,160
Speaker 4: Tea?

848
00:44:41,840 --> 00:44:46,799
Speaker 1: Listen to my eyes exclusive Wait, there's truth to it.

849
00:44:46,920 --> 00:44:51,600
Speaker 1: Raise your eyebrows almost hitting your hairline? Wait?

850
00:44:51,680 --> 00:44:52,640
Speaker 2: Who told you this?

851
00:44:52,960 --> 00:44:59,040
Speaker 1: I'm not telling Ramona and Jack's and just so I

852
00:44:59,200 --> 00:45:07,040
Speaker 1: don't catch a case with a lawsuit allegedly. Remember what

853
00:45:07,120 --> 00:45:12,080
Speaker 1: I said, guys, all of them touch your hairline allegedly.

854
00:45:12,560 --> 00:45:16,200
Speaker 3: I am shook to my core. I'm shut and so

855
00:45:16,360 --> 00:45:17,560
Speaker 3: excited about this tea.

856
00:45:18,360 --> 00:45:22,520
Speaker 1: So there's that. Let's talk about David Arquette in a

857
00:45:22,560 --> 00:45:24,919
Speaker 1: clown before we bust into ache and Relief of the week.

858
00:45:25,080 --> 00:45:27,960
Speaker 3: He's been really, really on this for like the past

859
00:45:27,960 --> 00:45:28,560
Speaker 3: few years.

860
00:45:28,600 --> 00:45:31,280
Speaker 2: A few years, I mean maybe even more by.

861
00:45:32,640 --> 00:45:36,000
Speaker 1: Huh. I know, I've heard he first tell you how

862
00:45:36,040 --> 00:45:41,760
Speaker 1: I'm doing. Not well, bitch, not well, bitch. That'strenda always

863
00:45:42,760 --> 00:45:45,960
Speaker 1: the best housewife in all the lands, the best housewife.

864
00:45:46,320 --> 00:45:48,719
Speaker 3: I heard an interview with David Arquette like a year

865
00:45:48,760 --> 00:45:51,440
Speaker 3: ago and He's like he got the rights to Boso

866
00:45:51,520 --> 00:45:54,360
Speaker 3: the Clown or something, but he's just seems like, I

867
00:45:54,360 --> 00:45:58,040
Speaker 3: don't know this guy personally. The sweetest heart in the world,

868
00:45:58,200 --> 00:46:00,640
Speaker 3: Arquette or Boso Arquette.

869
00:46:00,640 --> 00:46:01,800
Speaker 2: I'm not sure about Boso.

870
00:46:01,960 --> 00:46:03,240
Speaker 4: Hold On, isn't he Boo?

871
00:46:03,360 --> 00:46:10,880
Speaker 1: No? Hold On, Boso is out. Boso's finished. People don't

872
00:46:10,960 --> 00:46:14,440
Speaker 1: care about Bozo. What is Seinfeld?

873
00:46:14,480 --> 00:46:18,600
Speaker 2: I felt? SEINFELDT, Yes, I'm I'm a fraud.

874
00:46:18,760 --> 00:46:19,560
Speaker 4: You know you are.

875
00:46:19,920 --> 00:46:22,920
Speaker 1: George. George is dating a woman with a child and

876
00:46:23,000 --> 00:46:27,040
Speaker 1: he wants a clown. You just gotta get both. He's finished.

877
00:46:28,120 --> 00:46:29,040
Speaker 2: That's hilarious.

878
00:46:29,120 --> 00:46:34,480
Speaker 3: Actually, oh well, David Arqat is just trying to He's

879
00:46:34,520 --> 00:46:36,680
Speaker 3: on a mission to make people like clowns again. There

880
00:46:36,680 --> 00:46:39,719
Speaker 3: are good clowns out there, that's true. Clowns get a

881
00:46:39,760 --> 00:46:40,480
Speaker 3: bad rap.

882
00:46:40,680 --> 00:46:42,880
Speaker 1: Is he playing a clown in a new movie that

883
00:46:42,960 --> 00:46:43,560
Speaker 1: he's trying to.

884
00:46:44,200 --> 00:46:48,479
Speaker 3: It's so cute and sweet, and he loves clowns. Knows

885
00:46:48,560 --> 00:46:52,439
Speaker 3: clowns have gotten a bad rap with penny Wise from

886
00:46:52,480 --> 00:46:54,480
Speaker 3: It and Twisty from American Horror Story.

887
00:46:54,520 --> 00:46:55,480
Speaker 2: But he wants to change that.

888
00:46:55,880 --> 00:46:57,919
Speaker 1: Let me tell you something, David Arqatt. Let me tell

889
00:46:57,960 --> 00:47:01,040
Speaker 1: you something. My child has never been exposed to it

890
00:47:01,280 --> 00:47:03,200
Speaker 1: ever in her life. She saw a clown the other

891
00:47:03,239 --> 00:47:06,480
Speaker 1: day at the park freaked out. I mean that is

892
00:47:06,560 --> 00:47:11,480
Speaker 1: called instinct. Yeah, No one made these clowns scary. They've

893
00:47:11,520 --> 00:47:15,160
Speaker 1: always been scary. When my three year old knows that

894
00:47:15,200 --> 00:47:18,400
Speaker 1: a clown is scary and I've never shown her it before,

895
00:47:18,800 --> 00:47:21,920
Speaker 1: I'm telling you, the thing's freaking scary. So as much

896
00:47:21,920 --> 00:47:27,160
Speaker 1: as I appreciate David Arquette trying to like make us

897
00:47:27,200 --> 00:47:31,400
Speaker 1: think that clowns are exciting and happy, they're freaking scary.

898
00:47:31,560 --> 00:47:34,920
Speaker 1: They are so great And David Arquette, David Arquette has

899
00:47:34,920 --> 00:47:36,800
Speaker 1: a message for you, and if you find clowns creepy,

900
00:47:36,840 --> 00:47:38,320
Speaker 1: you should give them a second shot.

901
00:47:38,840 --> 00:47:41,840
Speaker 3: He said, if you find okay, give them a second shot.

902
00:47:42,200 --> 00:47:44,719
Speaker 3: This is cute, he said. We're on a mission to

903
00:47:44,960 --> 00:47:47,919
Speaker 3: sort of bring joy back to the world and sort

904
00:47:47,920 --> 00:47:49,600
Speaker 3: of shine a light on happy clowns.

905
00:47:49,640 --> 00:47:52,839
Speaker 2: And Bozo is one of the happiest, he explains. I

906
00:47:52,840 --> 00:47:53,799
Speaker 2: think it's so cute.

907
00:47:53,920 --> 00:47:56,920
Speaker 3: If you want to listen to a really good episode

908
00:47:56,920 --> 00:48:02,320
Speaker 3: of David Arquette talking about this armchair Ecs with Dak Shepherd,

909
00:48:02,400 --> 00:48:05,520
Speaker 3: Monica Padman, and they interviewed David Arquette, and it's that

910
00:48:05,960 --> 00:48:08,480
Speaker 3: he really goes into this and it's really cute and sweet.

911
00:48:08,560 --> 00:48:14,239
Speaker 1: This is terrifying. Okay, well are you joking? Me tell

912
00:48:14,320 --> 00:48:17,400
Speaker 1: you how to make people that's bozo?

913
00:48:17,840 --> 00:48:20,440
Speaker 3: Okay, well, boso doesn't look like that anymore. If David

914
00:48:20,520 --> 00:48:21,840
Speaker 3: Arquet has anything to do with it.

915
00:48:22,040 --> 00:48:23,640
Speaker 1: Let me tell you something. This is the way you

916
00:48:23,719 --> 00:48:27,160
Speaker 1: make people not afraid of clowns anymore. You change what

917
00:48:27,239 --> 00:48:28,000
Speaker 1: a clown is.

918
00:48:28,680 --> 00:48:29,720
Speaker 2: Clowns look freaky.

919
00:48:30,160 --> 00:48:35,520
Speaker 1: You've got these guys in bald caps, white as ghosts,

920
00:48:36,040 --> 00:48:38,120
Speaker 1: eyebrows up to their hairlines.

921
00:48:38,280 --> 00:48:41,640
Speaker 4: Like Ronald McDonald is a scary bastard.

922
00:48:42,120 --> 00:48:42,840
Speaker 2: I'm gonna google.

923
00:48:43,360 --> 00:48:47,800
Speaker 1: Let's not make them have red smiles up to their eyeballs.

924
00:48:48,320 --> 00:48:51,759
Speaker 2: It's the smiles that are really scary. Okay. This is

925
00:48:52,160 --> 00:48:55,360
Speaker 2: when you think of clown You should think of like big.

926
00:48:55,160 --> 00:48:56,520
Speaker 4: Feet, red nose.

927
00:48:56,600 --> 00:49:00,239
Speaker 3: Like like, I mean, a lot of them are I

928
00:49:00,239 --> 00:49:04,920
Speaker 3: guess this slutty clown, sloody clown.

929
00:49:05,920 --> 00:49:07,719
Speaker 2: I don't know, you, guys, I just like this.

930
00:49:07,880 --> 00:49:11,960
Speaker 1: They're just so cute, Jessica, it's so cute.

931
00:49:12,000 --> 00:49:13,600
Speaker 3: You guys got to listen to the interview and then

932
00:49:13,600 --> 00:49:15,920
Speaker 3: get back to me because he's just so passionate.

933
00:49:16,120 --> 00:49:18,839
Speaker 2: I love when people have passions to bring joy.

934
00:49:20,040 --> 00:49:22,560
Speaker 1: Producer John is shaking his head. Yeah, you're in a

935
00:49:22,600 --> 00:49:23,759
Speaker 1: weird stage of life.

936
00:49:23,840 --> 00:49:27,400
Speaker 3: I know, I'm really I'm I'm uh yeah.

937
00:49:27,600 --> 00:49:29,399
Speaker 1: I'm okay, I'm okay signing off.

938
00:49:31,040 --> 00:49:32,799
Speaker 2: Oh I thought you meant like me.

939
00:49:33,320 --> 00:49:36,400
Speaker 1: No, No, I'm not going to give him a second chance.

940
00:49:36,640 --> 00:49:39,359
Speaker 1: My three year old is terrified of them. Yeah, I

941
00:49:39,520 --> 00:49:44,600
Speaker 1: call that's a natural instinct. I'm sorry, not happening. You're weird,

942
00:49:45,600 --> 00:49:50,080
Speaker 1: You're it, you are it with the balloon ache of

943
00:49:50,120 --> 00:49:52,120
Speaker 1: the week in relief, Jessica, would you.

944
00:49:52,080 --> 00:49:56,319
Speaker 3: Like to go, oh boy, oh boy, my ache of

945
00:49:56,360 --> 00:49:56,800
Speaker 3: the week.

946
00:49:57,800 --> 00:50:01,120
Speaker 2: I don't know. I'm just in a little oh you

947
00:50:01,160 --> 00:50:01,440
Speaker 2: know what.

948
00:50:01,680 --> 00:50:03,920
Speaker 3: No, I will say a lot of I've gotten a

949
00:50:03,920 --> 00:50:07,279
Speaker 3: lot of dms, and there's some YouTube comments be like

950
00:50:07,680 --> 00:50:10,200
Speaker 3: asking about my personal life.

951
00:50:10,360 --> 00:50:13,000
Speaker 2: And I'll update you guys on that one day. So's

952
00:50:13,080 --> 00:50:15,200
Speaker 2: I'm in a bit of a transition period.

953
00:50:15,680 --> 00:50:18,000
Speaker 3: So I feel like it's an ache, but it's also

954
00:50:18,040 --> 00:50:19,720
Speaker 3: a relief because there's growth.

955
00:50:20,280 --> 00:50:22,040
Speaker 2: There's growth when you're uncomfortable.

956
00:50:22,080 --> 00:50:25,560
Speaker 3: I think, yes, and then my actual relief is, you know,

957
00:50:25,600 --> 00:50:28,000
Speaker 3: I'm just I feel like we.

958
00:50:28,000 --> 00:50:30,040
Speaker 2: Haven't had a jiu jitsu relief in a while.

959
00:50:30,480 --> 00:50:34,719
Speaker 3: Here I am back at it again, focusing on jiu jitsu.

960
00:50:35,200 --> 00:50:38,080
Speaker 1: That's a good outlet when you have trans when you're

961
00:50:38,080 --> 00:50:41,080
Speaker 1: in a time of transition, you have to have something

962
00:50:41,080 --> 00:50:45,080
Speaker 1: that can like reground you get your mind off of things. Yeah,

963
00:50:45,160 --> 00:50:46,439
Speaker 1: up those endorphins.

964
00:50:46,640 --> 00:50:49,200
Speaker 3: Yes, And I'm competing August fourth and my dad's coming,

965
00:50:49,480 --> 00:50:52,080
Speaker 3: which is so exciting, and I've already talked about that,

966
00:50:53,040 --> 00:50:57,880
Speaker 3: and so we're doing either or. August fourth is points,

967
00:50:58,080 --> 00:50:59,839
Speaker 3: August eleventh is submission only.

968
00:51:00,280 --> 00:51:02,439
Speaker 2: So the way you win is like choking them out.

969
00:51:02,560 --> 00:51:03,680
Speaker 2: So I'm gonna like that.

970
00:51:03,960 --> 00:51:06,120
Speaker 1: Choke them out, girls, choke him out.

971
00:51:06,480 --> 00:51:10,360
Speaker 4: Like that front row both comps.

972
00:51:10,040 --> 00:51:16,000
Speaker 1: There there, we will be there. It's you and relief.

973
00:51:16,280 --> 00:51:18,719
Speaker 4: Don't have one. That's great.

974
00:51:19,440 --> 00:51:22,440
Speaker 1: Ak and relief are so boring. He never has one

975
00:51:22,480 --> 00:51:22,880
Speaker 1: of either.

976
00:51:23,480 --> 00:51:25,080
Speaker 2: Is that you couldn't come to the monsoon.

977
00:51:25,840 --> 00:51:26,560
Speaker 1: I couldn't.

978
00:51:26,760 --> 00:51:29,760
Speaker 4: Oh no, that's not an ache.

979
00:51:30,400 --> 00:51:31,759
Speaker 1: What's not an inche.

980
00:51:31,760 --> 00:51:33,440
Speaker 4: Not being able to go to your monsoon? That was

981
00:51:33,480 --> 00:51:35,359
Speaker 4: for you. I really don't have an ache. I really

982
00:51:35,440 --> 00:51:38,280
Speaker 4: don't like it's everything's been good. We had family around,

983
00:51:38,400 --> 00:51:41,280
Speaker 4: we had everything, So my everything's been pretty good the

984
00:51:41,320 --> 00:51:45,319
Speaker 4: past week and no ache. My relief is I got

985
00:51:45,320 --> 00:51:46,400
Speaker 4: my hairy twisted.

986
00:51:47,320 --> 00:51:49,560
Speaker 1: I know it looks really good.

987
00:51:49,760 --> 00:51:52,040
Speaker 2: Is this from the person that we talked about the

988
00:51:52,040 --> 00:51:53,120
Speaker 2: other day, the girl?

989
00:51:53,200 --> 00:51:58,120
Speaker 4: Yeah, so I want to shout out Jalen and yeah,

990
00:51:58,160 --> 00:52:00,560
Speaker 4: so she retwisted and I'll drop all of her like

991
00:52:01,200 --> 00:52:02,840
Speaker 4: and stuff like that. But yeah, she took care of

992
00:52:02,840 --> 00:52:04,640
Speaker 4: me and will continue. But yeah, a big shout out

993
00:52:04,680 --> 00:52:04,920
Speaker 4: to her.

994
00:52:05,000 --> 00:52:05,560
Speaker 1: She was great.

995
00:52:05,880 --> 00:52:06,760
Speaker 4: That is my relief.

996
00:52:06,880 --> 00:52:08,000
Speaker 2: Okay, we love it.

997
00:52:09,200 --> 00:52:14,000
Speaker 1: My ache is yet again physical. I like to think that.

998
00:52:14,520 --> 00:52:19,680
Speaker 1: So my baby baby s is right now still breach.

999
00:52:20,440 --> 00:52:24,759
Speaker 1: I'm thirty a little over thirty three weeks now. My

1000
00:52:25,160 --> 00:52:29,359
Speaker 1: obie said, stop stressing. There's plenty of time for her

1001
00:52:29,360 --> 00:52:33,480
Speaker 1: to drop. I've been feeling a little funky, like my

1002
00:52:33,600 --> 00:52:37,440
Speaker 1: ribcage is kind of it feels like she's gripped onto

1003
00:52:37,480 --> 00:52:40,520
Speaker 1: it and she's like yank down on it. So I

1004
00:52:40,520 --> 00:52:43,680
Speaker 1: don't know if she's trying to work her way down

1005
00:52:43,760 --> 00:52:45,720
Speaker 1: to what they call the birthing canal.

1006
00:52:46,400 --> 00:52:52,120
Speaker 2: Canal, Wow, low are you doing? Can you do things?

1007
00:52:52,120 --> 00:52:53,800
Speaker 2: This is real to like move them?

1008
00:52:54,239 --> 00:52:59,160
Speaker 1: Yes. So there's people who have spoken about massages that

1009
00:52:59,280 --> 00:53:04,640
Speaker 1: you can get for breached babies, babies who are overdue

1010
00:53:04,680 --> 00:53:07,680
Speaker 1: and you are trying to go into labor. There's also

1011
00:53:07,920 --> 00:53:11,160
Speaker 1: my friend Danny showed me a YouTube video of a

1012
00:53:11,200 --> 00:53:13,640
Speaker 1: bunch of exercises that you can do to kind of

1013
00:53:13,960 --> 00:53:18,160
Speaker 1: let the belly hang and they have some room to move.

1014
00:53:18,400 --> 00:53:22,359
Speaker 1: Oh interesting, because I was comparing this pregnancy and how

1015
00:53:22,440 --> 00:53:26,680
Speaker 1: I physically look to my last pregnancy with Ocean, and

1016
00:53:26,760 --> 00:53:29,319
Speaker 1: I do look like I'm carrying the same and I

1017
00:53:29,400 --> 00:53:32,680
Speaker 1: do look like I've maybe gained the same amount of weight.

1018
00:53:32,719 --> 00:53:36,040
Speaker 1: I was a little bit more swollen through the face

1019
00:53:36,200 --> 00:53:41,239
Speaker 1: with Ocean, but I got cankles with baby S and

1020
00:53:41,320 --> 00:53:45,560
Speaker 1: this baby's gonna be bigger. So I'm wondering if maybe

1021
00:53:45,560 --> 00:53:47,360
Speaker 1: I just got to like let the belly hang to

1022
00:53:47,440 --> 00:53:50,600
Speaker 1: like offer her some room to move.

1023
00:53:50,800 --> 00:53:53,440
Speaker 2: Have you ever have you seen those massage tables? I

1024
00:53:53,480 --> 00:53:54,600
Speaker 2: bet that's a way.

1025
00:53:54,440 --> 00:53:57,319
Speaker 1: With the whole Yes, that sounds so good, saying then

1026
00:53:57,320 --> 00:54:01,040
Speaker 1: you could just nap, That just sounds good. Yeah. Right

1027
00:54:01,040 --> 00:54:04,080
Speaker 1: now I'm sleeping in L shape because between the rib

1028
00:54:04,120 --> 00:54:11,560
Speaker 1: cage hurting, the back breaking, and the esophageal herd acid,

1029
00:54:12,360 --> 00:54:14,200
Speaker 1: I have a really hard time sleeping.

1030
00:54:14,320 --> 00:54:18,120
Speaker 2: What do you mean L shape? Feet? Yeah, show us.

1031
00:54:18,160 --> 00:54:20,960
Speaker 1: Like my body's up like this and then my legs

1032
00:54:20,960 --> 00:54:21,759
Speaker 1: are straight out.

1033
00:54:22,000 --> 00:54:24,120
Speaker 2: Oh that doesn't sound comfortable at all.

1034
00:54:24,480 --> 00:54:26,320
Speaker 1: It's not, Jessica.

1035
00:54:26,560 --> 00:54:27,760
Speaker 4: It's just the only thing.

1036
00:54:27,640 --> 00:54:30,360
Speaker 2: That is comfortable, the only thing that fits me right now.

1037
00:54:30,719 --> 00:54:33,279
Speaker 1: Sweats are the only thing that's what is it, sweatpants,

1038
00:54:33,280 --> 00:54:36,600
Speaker 1: sweatpant that fits me right now. So that's my ache.

1039
00:54:36,640 --> 00:54:41,000
Speaker 1: But again, feeling very blessed and grateful that I'm creating

1040
00:54:41,239 --> 00:54:44,799
Speaker 1: human life. It is not lost on me that it

1041
00:54:44,920 --> 00:54:50,200
Speaker 1: is not. People don't just get pregnant like that. So

1042
00:54:50,560 --> 00:54:55,840
Speaker 1: I am not complaining. I'm feeling very grateful for everything

1043
00:54:55,880 --> 00:54:58,960
Speaker 1: that's going on. And you know, any movement, whether my

1044
00:54:59,000 --> 00:55:01,000
Speaker 1: back is breaking or my cage is hurting, I'm like,

1045
00:55:01,040 --> 00:55:05,239
Speaker 1: you know what, all good girl, A good girl. You

1046
00:55:05,320 --> 00:55:05,960
Speaker 1: just make yourself.

1047
00:55:09,480 --> 00:55:12,000
Speaker 2: You're literally making a human It's wild.

1048
00:55:12,480 --> 00:55:15,200
Speaker 1: And then I would say my relief was the baby monsoon.

1049
00:55:15,719 --> 00:55:20,160
Speaker 1: It was just I have an overwhelming amount of gratitude

1050
00:55:20,200 --> 00:55:24,000
Speaker 1: for the people that are in my life, and I

1051
00:55:24,200 --> 00:55:29,040
Speaker 1: feel just very very happy love it. So there we go.

1052
00:55:29,560 --> 00:55:31,960
Speaker 1: You guys, I hope that you enjoyed this episode of

1053
00:55:32,000 --> 00:55:34,439
Speaker 1: the Give Them La La podcast. I love you so much.

1054
00:55:34,480 --> 00:55:38,200
Speaker 1: I want to Thank you for tuning in, supporting, writing comments,

1055
00:55:38,840 --> 00:55:41,319
Speaker 1: writing into the bonus episode so that we have something

1056
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Speaker 1: to bump gums about. Reminder, bonus episodes drop every Monday,

1057
00:55:45,800 --> 00:55:49,759
Speaker 1: video drop same day. Regular old episodes are every Wednesday,

1058
00:55:49,880 --> 00:55:52,920
Speaker 1: and you can watch the videos on YouTube Fridays at

1059
00:55:52,960 --> 00:55:56,680
Speaker 1: nine am Pacific time. Have the best week ever and.

1060
00:55:57,320 --> 00:55:58,480
Speaker 2: I have your birthday.

1061
00:55:59,160 --> 00:56:01,799
Speaker 1: Happy birthday to you. See you later.