WEBVTT - What's the F*ck It Button?

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<v Speaker 1>Hey, it's sauce on the side episode. I have no

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<v Speaker 1>idea anymore. We're at that point.

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<v Speaker 2>I know it's in the thirties.

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<v Speaker 1>Thirty two, No, oh.

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<v Speaker 3>Well thirty thirty three or thirty four.

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<v Speaker 1>Then it's in the thirties. Look, this is how I

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<v Speaker 1>count my age.

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<v Speaker 2>Somewhere around there, mom.

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<v Speaker 1>But today we have on a guy named Walla who

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<v Speaker 1>you may not have heard of before. He has a

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<v Speaker 1>podcast with his cousin Gilly the Kid, and he's I

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<v Speaker 1>how would you describe him?

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<v Speaker 4>I think a lot of people would describe him as

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<v Speaker 4>like a motivational speaker, maybe even though he's not necessarily

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<v Speaker 4>doing speeches all the time, right, but he's on the

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<v Speaker 4>podcast and he's always trying to uplift people, okay through

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<v Speaker 4>his own experiences too, So like, I don't know, I.

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<v Speaker 1>Just really like him, Okay, I'm excited to get to

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<v Speaker 1>it because I mean, if you don't know his story,

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<v Speaker 1>it's a pretty fascinating story. And he has a book

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<v Speaker 1>out now all but long story short, when he was

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<v Speaker 1>like seventeen years old, he went to prison, not even jail, right,

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<v Speaker 1>because he was there for a good amount of time,

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<v Speaker 1>got out, violated his probation went right back and ended

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<v Speaker 1>up doing a good amount of time. So I can

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<v Speaker 1>tell you his life story, or you could just listen

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<v Speaker 1>to him tell you his life story. I said, we

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<v Speaker 1>get right to it. Thank you Wallow for joining me today.

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<v Speaker 1>Thank you you go by Wallow Wallow two six seven.

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<v Speaker 5>Six seven, just two six seven Wallow.

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<v Speaker 1>Two six seven. Where did the two six seven come from?

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<v Speaker 1>Because I saw a couple different things.

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<v Speaker 5>It come from my prison number, so I could remember

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<v Speaker 5>where I come from where I'm never going back to.

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<v Speaker 5>My prison number was DG two sixty seven zero, so

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<v Speaker 5>I took that and added that to it. It really

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<v Speaker 5>started with I was in jail and I had a

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<v Speaker 5>legal cell phone, and when I went to go set

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<v Speaker 5>up an Instagram page, somebody had my name Wallow, so

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<v Speaker 5>I added two six seven because there's a prison thing,

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<v Speaker 5>but it was wind up and then it was also

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<v Speaker 5>like the Philadelphia area cool.

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<v Speaker 1>Just from that, I have so many questions alone, So one,

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<v Speaker 1>let's start with why did you go to prison? For

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<v Speaker 1>the people who might not know a lot about you.

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<v Speaker 1>By the way, he's here because he just dropped a

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<v Speaker 1>book armed with good intentions, all about a lot of

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<v Speaker 1>stuff that we're going to talk about.

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<v Speaker 2>But what got you there?

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<v Speaker 5>Young? Growing up in the city streets in Philadelphia, wanted

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<v Speaker 5>to be down. I went to jail for two on

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<v Speaker 5>robberies to fire, on violations, trying to steal the American dream.

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<v Speaker 1>You know, So you're seventeen years old when you end

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<v Speaker 1>up going to prison and you got out for a

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<v Speaker 1>quick second, violated parole. What happened? What was the actual

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<v Speaker 1>violation that got you back another Oh so it was

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<v Speaker 1>like a big violation, okay, It wasn't like it was okay.

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<v Speaker 1>So then you go back and you end up doing

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<v Speaker 1>twenty fifteen total.

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<v Speaker 5>Yeah, finally just got out of twenty seventeen. Been out

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<v Speaker 5>going on eight years.

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<v Speaker 1>So in that time a whole lot happened as far

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<v Speaker 1>as the world moving. I know you said you try

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<v Speaker 1>to set up an Instagram page when you're in jail.

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<v Speaker 1>I have a lot of questions about how you got.

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<v Speaker 5>To thaw it. This Instagram page was set up in.

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<v Speaker 1>It was so you got all your followers. It says

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<v Speaker 1>the day you got out, the day you got freedom,

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<v Speaker 1>you got all the followers. So you were actually.

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<v Speaker 5>Collecting them when I was in jail in twenty thirteen

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<v Speaker 5>and fourteen. Then when I got out, it started really

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<v Speaker 5>going up.

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<v Speaker 1>So how'd you get the cell phone? I don't need names,

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<v Speaker 1>I don't need anything.

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<v Speaker 5>Like that, but you know one of them, you know,

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<v Speaker 5>rest in peace. A friend of mine, he had brung

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<v Speaker 5>me a wireless high spot, a clear wireless hogt spot

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<v Speaker 5>in the eyepod touch. That's where it started from. Then

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<v Speaker 5>I graduated to a cell phone. I took that and

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<v Speaker 5>it was like off to the races. I was just

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<v Speaker 5>on social media, just just finding out stuff that I

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<v Speaker 5>was amazed by being in jail so long and understanding

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<v Speaker 5>that you had his phone because I didn't, you know,

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<v Speaker 5>it was years before. Then a young kid came to prison,

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<v Speaker 5>a younger dude than me, and he was telling me

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<v Speaker 5>about Google.

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<v Speaker 3>I thought he was lying about Google, yeah, because I'm like.

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<v Speaker 5>You know, I've been in jail. I don't know what

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<v Speaker 5>it is. So he told me, he said, man, I

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<v Speaker 5>could google you. I said, man, how can you google me?

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<v Speaker 5>And I've been in jail because I didn't even just

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<v Speaker 5>the whole idea of that you could type something in

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<v Speaker 5>something and all this information would come back was just like,

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<v Speaker 5>that can't be real. I wrote it down in my

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<v Speaker 5>book of life book of life was something that I

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<v Speaker 5>always used to write stuff down, and I said, when

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<v Speaker 5>I get out, imna figure this out. So when I

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<v Speaker 5>finally got the wireless hotspot in an I Pod Touch,

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<v Speaker 5>I went to Google and I typed my name and

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<v Speaker 5>stuff came up. I dropped the phone because I dropped

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<v Speaker 5>the I Pod because I thought it was like the

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<v Speaker 5>fees was watching and something was going crazy, because I'm like,

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<v Speaker 5>how do they got my information in here? And it's

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<v Speaker 5>just like technolo. I was intrigued by technology ever since then.

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<v Speaker 5>I was like, I'm on this.

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<v Speaker 1>Stuff and you figured it out pretty quickly because you

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<v Speaker 1>start a jour Instagram page.

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<v Speaker 5>Oh yeah, I figured it out.

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<v Speaker 1>How do you even start marketing yourself from a prison cell?

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<v Speaker 5>No, it wasn't really that too much. On air, people

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<v Speaker 5>would just follow me that knew me, and its people

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<v Speaker 5>that knew me, and Philly like like knew of me

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<v Speaker 5>from people whatever. I used to put positive quotes up.

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<v Speaker 5>But it was really when I got out of prison

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<v Speaker 5>that it really went crazy twenty seventeen because I just

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<v Speaker 5>started doing videos. I used to watch Anthony Bourdein in

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<v Speaker 5>prison religiously, and you know from Anthony Rodeen being on

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<v Speaker 5>drugs and getting his life together to going showing showing

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<v Speaker 5>the world of the world. I was like, yo, man,

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<v Speaker 5>I said, imagine if I spose, if I exposed the

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<v Speaker 5>hood to different walks of life, because sometimes the hood

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<v Speaker 5>lack exposure. So I said, if I could do this

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<v Speaker 5>is around. So when I came home, I used to

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<v Speaker 5>do these commercials and I used to go to small

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<v Speaker 5>businesses and do free commercials for them, and then it

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<v Speaker 5>turned into like a business marketing business.

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<v Speaker 1>So you didn't have this plan when you got out

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<v Speaker 1>of prison to say hey, I'm going to get into this.

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<v Speaker 1>It just happened.

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<v Speaker 5>I didn't have it planned. It's just that it was

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<v Speaker 5>just the energy and what I seen wasn't there. But

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<v Speaker 5>I always seen when I was on social media in

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<v Speaker 5>jail that it wasn't no regular people being amplified. It

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<v Speaker 5>was like you had to be an athlete, you had

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<v Speaker 5>to be an artist, you had to be a star,

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<v Speaker 5>you had to be something. You had to have a

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<v Speaker 5>woman with no clothes on to grab attention. So I

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<v Speaker 5>had to battle with the timeline. So I said, I'm

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<v Speaker 5>a battle with the timeline. And if you see my

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<v Speaker 5>early a lot of my early videos, I'll be running

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<v Speaker 5>across the expressway car laying on the ground with catch

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<v Speaker 5>up on the head like I shot. It was a

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<v Speaker 5>bunch of different ones to grab the attention because it's

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<v Speaker 5>a battle on the timeline. It's a battle for attention.

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<v Speaker 5>And I realized that attention was a currency. So I said, okay,

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<v Speaker 5>let me get this attention and they just start following.

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<v Speaker 1>Is this your fourth book?

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<v Speaker 5>Yeah, you could say that, But the other books was

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<v Speaker 5>like self published. I just did them. A lot of them.

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<v Speaker 5>Books was created by taking posts from my Instagram and

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<v Speaker 5>turning them into stuff. But this is the first official

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<v Speaker 5>you know, so this is like.

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<v Speaker 1>We got a publisher. We're on tour the one. How's

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<v Speaker 1>it going?

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<v Speaker 5>It's going out standing?

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<v Speaker 1>Okay, First of all, if people want to get this book,

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<v Speaker 1>where are they going to go?

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<v Speaker 5>They go everywhere and get anywhere books or sold, Barns

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<v Speaker 5>and Noble, Amazon books and books books a million, wherever

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<v Speaker 5>you do anywhere books or sold.

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<v Speaker 1>So what's it like going out now and talking about

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<v Speaker 1>all these years of your experience and having to boil

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<v Speaker 1>it down to a half hour an hour and squeeze

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<v Speaker 1>it all in there. I mean, I know that your podcaster,

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<v Speaker 1>you also have your podcast million dollars a worth of

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<v Speaker 1>game what you do with your cousin and you're typically

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<v Speaker 1>the interviewer. Was it like being on the other side

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<v Speaker 1>now and getting interviewed by people about this?

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<v Speaker 5>It's relaxing, really, Yeah, it's relaxing. And I ain't got

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<v Speaker 5>to do that, I see, because a lot of times

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<v Speaker 5>I'm working for the audience. I'm trying to get the

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<v Speaker 5>information that they want. I don't work. It's not a

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<v Speaker 5>personal thing for me. I'm trying to pour as much

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<v Speaker 5>information as possible that the viewer could utilize, you know,

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<v Speaker 5>I mean, because they probably want to know, but bringing

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<v Speaker 5>it down. I love nanosecond messaging. So I liked the

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<v Speaker 5>fact that coming to half an hour and getting straight

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<v Speaker 5>to the point because people attention spans is short. They

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<v Speaker 5>want it straight, Yes, they do, because they're turn and

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<v Speaker 5>be somewhere else, So you gotta get them short, you know,

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<v Speaker 5>they gotta be short.

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<v Speaker 1>How did you start the podcasting?

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<v Speaker 5>Well, I had to show first called Where's Wallow? And

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<v Speaker 5>I used to run around interview people off my phone

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<v Speaker 5>in the tripod, interviewed some of the biggest rabbits, big athletes,

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<v Speaker 5>all that stuff, and then one day I was just

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<v Speaker 5>me and my cousin. I was it was up early

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<v Speaker 5>in the morning and I seen an article that says

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<v Speaker 5>Spotify allo k four and a million of podcasts in

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<v Speaker 5>the first quarter. It was like twenty nineteen. I woke

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<v Speaker 5>him up, I said, read this article. We already had

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<v Speaker 5>traction and we already had eyeballs. So I said, okay,

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<v Speaker 5>we got to put this together. That day, I got

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<v Speaker 5>the you know, the logo drawing up, called my attorney

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<v Speaker 5>sham Lost, I need the trade and processed lls it

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<v Speaker 5>and it was going from there. So we came out

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<v Speaker 5>with our first episode April seventeen, twenty nineteen. Within six months,

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<v Speaker 5>we had two deals on the table, one from Spotify,

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<v Speaker 5>one from Barstow, and it was on from there and

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<v Speaker 5>you want.

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<v Speaker 1>With Barstool, right, how's that going?

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<v Speaker 5>I was standing watching that.

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<v Speaker 1>So I used to live in Boston before I moved here,

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<v Speaker 1>so I was there when it sort of started as

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<v Speaker 1>like a little little pamphlet.

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<v Speaker 5>Yeah, it was like a newsletter.

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<v Speaker 1>It's insane how this stuff has grown.

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<v Speaker 5>I think right now we live in a time whereas

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<v Speaker 5>though everything is possible, not anything everything. You could build it,

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<v Speaker 5>but you got to be willing the build it to

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<v Speaker 5>put it, put it, you know, put the time in,

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<v Speaker 5>and if you do that, it's on.

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<v Speaker 2>It seems like you've had.

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<v Speaker 1>It's gonna sound weird saying good luck because obviously there

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<v Speaker 1>was a problem before. There was bad luck before. But

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<v Speaker 1>you get out of prison, you decided you're going to

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<v Speaker 1>start marketing. How do you get access to celebrities to

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<v Speaker 1>just start talking to them? What were you doing?

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<v Speaker 5>Everybody loved traffic, everybody love attention, and if you got it,

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<v Speaker 5>you got every key in the game. All you had

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<v Speaker 5>to do is put eyes on yourself. You could get

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<v Speaker 5>eyeballs on you ain't nobody gonna tell you no, and

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<v Speaker 5>then you know, God got me. I got guys who

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<v Speaker 5>God got me? So, you know, is a package deal.

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<v Speaker 1>Do you remember the first person that you actually got

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<v Speaker 1>to talk to you and thinking, oh shit, so and

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<v Speaker 1>so just spoke to me.

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<v Speaker 5>I remember when I first started where As Wallow, The

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<v Speaker 5>first interview I had was Meek Mills when I started

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<v Speaker 5>that show, and Meek always was a support of mine.

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<v Speaker 5>He always showed me love, you know what I mean.

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<v Speaker 5>But he was one of the first dudes outside of

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<v Speaker 5>my cousin that threw me up on social media. He'd

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<v Speaker 5>be posted one of my stuff and I probably got

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<v Speaker 5>like one hundred thousand followers on like a day.

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<v Speaker 1>You say that like it's nothing. You know how much

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<v Speaker 1>people would pay for that, And they do pay for

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<v Speaker 1>it now, which is trash.

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<v Speaker 5>But it ain't gonna work, like I don't.

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<v Speaker 1>Want it to. But I see things all the time

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<v Speaker 1>and I'm like, those numbers don't match up what is

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<v Speaker 1>going on over now?

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<v Speaker 5>It don't is like you know, like a real you

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<v Speaker 5>can have a lot of numbers, but sometimes the likes

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<v Speaker 5>and the followers don't match. Sometimes because you're not paying

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<v Speaker 5>for ads.

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<v Speaker 1>I know, because they slow you down.

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<v Speaker 5>It is.

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<v Speaker 1>It's the worst. Now. It used to really just be

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<v Speaker 1>about the content and what was there, and now it's

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<v Speaker 1>about what you're gonna pay for and how you're gonna

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<v Speaker 1>elevate it and all that kind of stuff. I digress.

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<v Speaker 1>It doesn't matter. You're doing a really good job with

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<v Speaker 1>all of this. So you've got your podcast, You've got

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<v Speaker 1>this book that's out now, and in the book you're

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<v Speaker 1>talking a lot about, well, how you want to evoke change,

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<v Speaker 1>you want things to be different for people who came

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<v Speaker 1>from the same place as you. How do you go

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<v Speaker 1>about starting that big.

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<v Speaker 5>Example, okay, proof of concepts, just showing people like look

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<v Speaker 5>at where I come from, Like I came from the bottom.

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<v Speaker 5>You know you ain't. I don't think too many people

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<v Speaker 5>what's able to reach the level of success coming from

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<v Speaker 5>where I came from. It's hard coming out of prison,

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<v Speaker 5>trying to figure out life. You're scared. You got to

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<v Speaker 5>be a person that you never was before in order

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<v Speaker 5>to maintain your freedom, and you're trying to figure all

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<v Speaker 5>this stuff out. In the process of figuring all that

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<v Speaker 5>stuff out, you need money. You got pressure of get

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<v Speaker 5>the job, you got pressure from family. You got to

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<v Speaker 5>battle with who you want to be. I mean, you

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<v Speaker 5>got a battle with who you used to because you're

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<v Speaker 5>like who used to be? Like yo, come on, like

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<v Speaker 5>what's up? You want to get busy? Then you're like, no,

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<v Speaker 5>I'm different. So it's like as as tall as a

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<v Speaker 5>conversation that's going on, you got to keep battling. And

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<v Speaker 5>it's not just about coming from prison. It's about coming

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<v Speaker 5>from a dark place in life wherever you might be.

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<v Speaker 5>And I just want to let you know that you

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<v Speaker 5>could get back up and you got another shot of

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<v Speaker 5>life long as you're breathing, because breathing is to win.

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<v Speaker 1>Do you have regrets or are you one of the

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<v Speaker 1>people who says everything is a lesson? And I'm where

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<v Speaker 1>I am because everything happened the way that did.

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<v Speaker 5>Definitely everything is a lesson. I got regrets of people

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<v Speaker 5>that might have been victims of my crime. But you know,

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<v Speaker 5>you know, from the first kid, I always want to

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<v Speaker 5>you know, you always got to be understanding of that

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<v Speaker 5>people that you might have victimized, you know. But like

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<v Speaker 5>most of my life and how I went, I'm happy

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<v Speaker 5>that it went that way because it made me who

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<v Speaker 5>I am today.

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<v Speaker 1>No, I know you had a TED talk also, which,

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<v Speaker 1>by the way, congratulations. How does one even start to

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<v Speaker 1>get a TED talk? And then I have some questions

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<v Speaker 1>about the.

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<v Speaker 5>Time I had three TED talks?

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<v Speaker 2>You had three?

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<v Speaker 5>Okay, I forget all of them, but it was three

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<v Speaker 5>of them. I know that I had. I forgive my

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<v Speaker 5>brother's killing. The first one, yep. The second one was

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<v Speaker 5>I can't cuss on here, Yeah, you can't fuck it button,

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<v Speaker 5>and I was just educating people on how to activate

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<v Speaker 5>they fucking button where they stopped worrying about all the

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<v Speaker 5>stuff that don't matter. And the third one was like, Uh,

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<v Speaker 5>I think cell phone is the new parent. Oh, and

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<v Speaker 5>I was talking about how the technology is raising the

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<v Speaker 5>kids now. They reached out to me. People reach out

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<v Speaker 5>to you, and it just somebody reached out to me

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<v Speaker 5>and I got the first one. Then it kept rolling.

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<v Speaker 1>So your first ted talk, I forgive my brother's killer.

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<v Speaker 1>That's very heavy. Yes, it's got to make you feel

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<v Speaker 1>somewhat lighter to do that, does it.

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<v Speaker 5>Man? That was the greatest thing I ever did in

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<v Speaker 5>my life. I come from a place where revenge is king.

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<v Speaker 5>But to let that go and to see more life

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<v Speaker 5>and to be able to live for my brother, live

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<v Speaker 5>for his kids, be there for my family, that was paramid,

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<v Speaker 5>you know what I mean. So it was like that

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<v Speaker 5>was a great and then I had to worry about

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<v Speaker 5>looking for somebody else trying to be you know, trying

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<v Speaker 5>to do this and that it was just the greatest

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<v Speaker 5>feeling in my life. You know.

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<v Speaker 1>So on the flip side of that, when you say

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<v Speaker 1>you think about some of the people that were impacted

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<v Speaker 1>by the things that you did, have you reached out

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<v Speaker 1>to any of these people to perhaps seek forgive us.

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<v Speaker 5>On the other side, you can't just reach out like

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<v Speaker 5>that because it's laws and stuff.

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<v Speaker 1>Okay, that makes sense.

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<v Speaker 5>You know, But I always let it be known that

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<v Speaker 5>I'm deeply, you know, apologized for what I've done.

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<v Speaker 1>Has anyone reached out to you, No, they never reached out.

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<v Speaker 1>On the second, ted talk the fucking button.

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<v Speaker 4>What is that?

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<v Speaker 1>Let's talk about fucking button because it sounds entertaining and

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<v Speaker 1>interesting and important.

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<v Speaker 5>I'm one of the largest owners in the world fucking buttons. Okay,

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<v Speaker 5>I got so many different fucking buttons on so many

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<v Speaker 5>different levels. I think people care about too much. They

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<v Speaker 5>care too much about people opinions, do, don't know them,

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<v Speaker 5>don't like them, and probably they would never even meet.

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<v Speaker 5>And I think that's what's holding a lot of people back.

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<v Speaker 5>They really care. I don't give a fuck. You don't

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<v Speaker 5>have to like me. There's eight billion people on the planet.

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<v Speaker 5>You think I care that you don't like me?

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<v Speaker 1>Sell out?

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<v Speaker 5>You think I care that you one hundred thousand people

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<v Speaker 5>don't like me? So what fuck it? Y'all not gonna

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<v Speaker 5>stop me from operating and doing what I got to

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<v Speaker 5>do out here. I don't care, you know, And I

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<v Speaker 5>think I was just trying to tell people that a

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<v Speaker 5>lot of people out here is being really is being

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<v Speaker 5>you know, controlled by remote controls that other people have,

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<v Speaker 5>which is opinion.

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<v Speaker 1>And I think what people don't realize. Also, I don't

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<v Speaker 1>even know if I want to say it. The haters

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<v Speaker 1>get you paid to, it's amazing they do so much

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<v Speaker 1>more for.

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<v Speaker 5>It, or your marketing team let them work, because once again,

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<v Speaker 5>it's about traffic. It's about attention, even.

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<v Speaker 1>If you're just talking about social media. The more people

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<v Speaker 1>talk shit, the more engagement you can anyway, So it's

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<v Speaker 1>amazing you let them fight it out in the comment

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<v Speaker 1>section and you don't even have to do anything. And

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<v Speaker 1>I'm sure you probably don't do it to other people.

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<v Speaker 5>What I got to hate for I'm winning exactly. Ain't

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<v Speaker 5>nobody's winning hating.

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<v Speaker 1>You said all the time, happy bitches ain't hate and

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<v Speaker 1>hating bitches ain't happy.

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<v Speaker 5>Thank you?

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<v Speaker 1>Yes, So now your book again, we're talking about change,

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<v Speaker 1>evoking change, things being different. This is a big year

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<v Speaker 1>for change. Obviously, we have an election coming up. Are

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<v Speaker 1>you in any way politically active or endorsing anybody at

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<v Speaker 1>the moment?

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<v Speaker 5>No comments?

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<v Speaker 1>Oh so you are? You just don't want to talk

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<v Speaker 1>about it? Is that no comment means?

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<v Speaker 5>Yeah?

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<v Speaker 1>Okay? So if you could change one thing, because obviously

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<v Speaker 1>you've talked about this before. Coming out of prison is

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<v Speaker 1>a multi layered mission to get back into society, whether

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<v Speaker 1>it's people needing mental help, physical help, getting a job.

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<v Speaker 1>If you could change one thing right now, what would

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<v Speaker 1>be that thing to help people get back on their

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<v Speaker 1>fee when they're getting out of prison.

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<v Speaker 5>Right now, I got an organization. I just started my

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<v Speaker 5>foundation while two six seventh found OAH Warsdough my organization,

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<v Speaker 5>and we're going to be helping juvenile fenders come back,

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<v Speaker 5>get back into get all the resources that I didn't

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<v Speaker 5>have when I was coming up and I was in

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<v Speaker 5>the system. One of the main things that people need

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<v Speaker 5>coming out of prison is employment. Also, you know, like

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<v Speaker 5>therapy is multiple things, it's not just one, but employment

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<v Speaker 5>probably will be the first because.

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<v Speaker 1>You need a job, which is such a tough thing.

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<v Speaker 1>Right Because a lot of people who are coming out

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<v Speaker 1>of prison, you want to have faith in them. Maybe

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<v Speaker 1>you shouldn't, maybe you can't, maybe other people have proven

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<v Speaker 1>you wrong. I will say this, there is one guy

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<v Speaker 1>that I used to work with in Boston who was

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<v Speaker 1>the first experience that I ever had in somebody coming

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<v Speaker 1>out of prison and turning their life around. I would

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<v Speaker 1>not have believed it had I not seen it for

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<v Speaker 1>myself with him, I wouldn't have believed it rehab actually

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<v Speaker 1>worked until I start with him because I had seen

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<v Speaker 1>so much of the opposite the rest of my life.

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<v Speaker 1>So seeing him seeing you, it's incredible. But how do

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<v Speaker 1>you weed through the people who are not like that

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<v Speaker 1>to get to the justine or the u of the word.

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<v Speaker 4>You know.

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<v Speaker 5>You know what's crazy is in America we believe in

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<v Speaker 5>the system when people get found guilty, but we don't

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<v Speaker 5>believe into it, believe in in the whole process. The

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<v Speaker 5>whole process is I got found guilty, I'm going to

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<v Speaker 5>do my time. I do my time. And we believe

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<v Speaker 5>that prison will rehabilitate people if we didn't while we

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<v Speaker 5>sending them there. So once we send him there, then

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<v Speaker 5>they come home, then we say, oh, don't trust that person.

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<v Speaker 5>We want people to be punished and punished forever.

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<v Speaker 1>Do you think you deserve the sentence that you got?

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<v Speaker 5>Uh? Every Yeah, everything happened for a reason. You know,

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<v Speaker 5>what do you do when you can make crown? You know,

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<v Speaker 5>when you can make crime, whatever come wul it come

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<v Speaker 5>with it. Because crime could even go anyway, if you've

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<v Speaker 5>robbing somebody, you got to shoes, you can kill somebody.

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<v Speaker 5>Somebody could lose their life. Or the measurement of that

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<v Speaker 5>is like, what do you.

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<v Speaker 1>Do now when you're talking about all of the things

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<v Speaker 1>that you're talking about right now and your founding, do

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<v Speaker 1>you have other foundations too? I feel like I saw

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<v Speaker 1>that you were part of a lot of different part

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<v Speaker 1>of it.

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<v Speaker 5>I got a lot of businesses. I got a lot

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<v Speaker 5>of different businesses. Okay, got million. I was with a game,

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<v Speaker 5>got airplanes or hotels, I got per a few.

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<v Speaker 1>Oh my god, you're like NASCAR right now. You're branded

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<v Speaker 1>from the head, the.

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<v Speaker 2>Shirt, you got the water.

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<v Speaker 5>Think about this, you know, you know who? Why would

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<v Speaker 5>somebody support your peninesses if you don't, that's fair.

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<v Speaker 1>It's really making me question a lot of the things

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<v Speaker 1>I'm doing with my life right now.

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<v Speaker 5>Ahad, start wearing your merch.

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<v Speaker 1>I don't have any mercher. Let's start there, Let's start giving.

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<v Speaker 5>See I might get do something for you. Start. I

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<v Speaker 5>mean you start start wearing your merch. Way, get ahead

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<v Speaker 5>and start giving, you know, start because what happened is

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<v Speaker 5>a lot of times I don't know what it is,

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<v Speaker 5>A lot of people that start businesses and start stuff,

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<v Speaker 5>they don't promote these stuff and I'd be like, what

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<v Speaker 5>is you doing? You got a clue line why you're

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<v Speaker 5>wearing aybod else stuff while you don't wear yours.

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<v Speaker 1>So when it comes to me specifically, I can't speak

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<v Speaker 1>for everybody else. There's a cultural aspect of that that

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<v Speaker 1>is really hard for me to kind of fight because

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<v Speaker 1>the Indian community, for the most part, you don't brag

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<v Speaker 1>about yourself. You don't talk about yourself. You hope other

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<v Speaker 1>people will, but you don't really promote yourself because it

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<v Speaker 1>comes off as egotistical and bombastic and all the words

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<v Speaker 1>that you don't want to be whis to your point,

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<v Speaker 1>I should probably hit the fucking button.

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<v Speaker 5>I can't, but could it be an amendment to that

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<v Speaker 5>When you're doing business, you ain't supposed to mark at

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<v Speaker 5>your business your livelihood.

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<v Speaker 1>That's what I'm I feel like if I had a

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<v Speaker 1>hotel or if I did something like that, it would

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<v Speaker 1>be one thing. But when your brand is you, my

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<v Speaker 1>brand is me, it does feel a little bit weird.

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<v Speaker 5>Well, what if other people do What if you got

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<v Speaker 5>a team of people that do it.

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<v Speaker 1>That's what I'm hoping over here she's doing something, but

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<v Speaker 1>I don't think she is so do that.

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<v Speaker 5>But but I just think about it, like I see

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<v Speaker 5>people right and they got podcasts and they promoting others. Oh,

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<v Speaker 5>I like this episode. Why you ain't talk about the

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<v Speaker 5>episode of yours and your story of posting? Like people

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<v Speaker 5>don't post their stuff enough. They don't believe, like and

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<v Speaker 5>it just be to me like you want me to buy,

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<v Speaker 5>you want me to believe, and something that you don't

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<v Speaker 5>you're not bought into or that you won't believe.

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<v Speaker 1>I got to work on that. That's the one thing

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<v Speaker 1>that I think I need to do a lot better.

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<v Speaker 5>Watch fucking button on YouTube.

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<v Speaker 1>So I totally cut off when you were talking about

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<v Speaker 1>all the things that you're doing. What are airplanes? What

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<v Speaker 1>is airplanes?

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<v Speaker 5>And hotel? The hotels is a clove line.

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<v Speaker 1>I got what's the water?

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<v Speaker 5>Uh high dreation drink Perrea few owner of It's official

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<v Speaker 5>hydration drink for the Philly of your seventy sixes official

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<v Speaker 5>hydration drink the Chicago Sky great unbelievable, takes different flavors

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<v Speaker 5>and we'll get intentions. That's something else, you know, that's

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<v Speaker 5>just that's special.

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<v Speaker 1>So how are you feeling about it.

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<v Speaker 5>I feel outstanding.

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<v Speaker 1>Did you reread it once it was done?

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<v Speaker 5>I did. I did the audiobook too. I got the

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<v Speaker 5>great uh Ayana van Zant, she did the forward thirteen

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<v Speaker 5>eight was the publisher Callery Slash Simon and Simon, and

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<v Speaker 5>the shoot is powered by them, you know what I mean.

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<v Speaker 5>But it's like I just had to you know, it's

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<v Speaker 5>just a great experience to be able to know that

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<v Speaker 5>it didn't feel good you feel it.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, it's a hardcover, by the way, but that's that

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<v Speaker 1>song you hear.

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<v Speaker 5>You feel it rugging itself. It's it's just a great

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<v Speaker 5>feeling that somebody could take this and it can help

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<v Speaker 5>somebody in life. I'm happy about it.

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<v Speaker 1>Start to finish. How long did it take you?

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<v Speaker 5>Less than the year? It didn't take that long. You know.

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<v Speaker 5>It was just a great experience, man, especially reading it

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<v Speaker 5>was a great experience. You know.

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<v Speaker 1>And now that you are obviously doing press, so you're

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<v Speaker 1>flying airplanes and hotels. How does that work with your

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<v Speaker 1>parole which I read was Yeah, I got.

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<v Speaker 5>An unbelievable paro agent that I just would let her

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<v Speaker 5>get my whole schedule. She always supported on me. Shout

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<v Speaker 5>out the Asian crews that just be hold me down.

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<v Speaker 5>She believe in everything I'm doing.

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<v Speaker 1>Do you ever sleep?

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<v Speaker 5>I slept the last time that I.

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<v Speaker 1>The last time that I slept.

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<v Speaker 5>The last time I slept was like seventy eight before

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<v Speaker 5>I was born, nineteen seventy eight. Having enough at it, okay.

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<v Speaker 1>I mean it kind of seems that way with all

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<v Speaker 1>the things that you have going on.

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<v Speaker 5>Like you know what's crazy about me? I actually really

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<v Speaker 5>enjoyed sleeping, But I like, I got this thing whereas

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<v Speaker 5>though I like to do what I got to do early,

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<v Speaker 5>and I like to go in the crib like three

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<v Speaker 5>or four and go to sleep.

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<v Speaker 1>Pitch am I am.

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<v Speaker 5>But I like to go to sleep because I don't

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<v Speaker 5>know what it is I like to I like to

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<v Speaker 5>wake up at nighttime and be doing research. I love night.

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<v Speaker 1>I recently read that people who sleep during the day

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<v Speaker 1>have bigger brains. I don't know if we're using all

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<v Speaker 1>of that, but if you're a day sleeper, yes, I'll

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<v Speaker 1>send you the article because I was like, oh good

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<v Speaker 1>and af during the day, my brain's huge. So a

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<v Speaker 1>day off, if you have even such a thing as

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<v Speaker 1>a day off, what do you do? What are you

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<v Speaker 1>doing for fun?

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<v Speaker 5>You'll believe it or that my fun is really Like,

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<v Speaker 5>it's this place I go to in Philly, Right, this

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<v Speaker 5>is the greatest place ever. Right, and they rub your legs. Right,

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<v Speaker 5>it's a spy. Okay, I go there, Man, my life change.

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<v Speaker 5>I feel like I'm fine.

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<v Speaker 1>Just getting your legs rubbed. Yeah, massage.

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<v Speaker 5>Yeah, it's a massage. I don't even like you know

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<v Speaker 5>what I used to like the regular massage. You're back,

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<v Speaker 5>which is cool, but I don't even care about them

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<v Speaker 5>no more. I like to go to display place in

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<v Speaker 5>Philly and they just rub your legs for ninety minutes

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<v Speaker 5>and then you lay down. You got the blanket. I'd

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<v Speaker 5>be sleeping this joint. Right, It's just unbelievable. It's crazy.

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<v Speaker 1>So my producer Diamond, she got a massage for the

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<v Speaker 1>first time in her life.

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<v Speaker 2>What what it was like.

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<v Speaker 1>Three years ago? You want to come over here.

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<v Speaker 4>Twenty twenty one, the best moment of my life. I

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<v Speaker 4>don't know what this woman did to me.

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<v Speaker 5>How many times you've been back?

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<v Speaker 4>Oh no, it was a one and done. She hasn't

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<v Speaker 4>been I'm gonna get a massage another time because it

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<v Speaker 4>was a part of a whole different experience that some

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<v Speaker 4>of it I don't want to relive. So it was

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<v Speaker 4>like we went on a camping trip. She took me

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<v Speaker 4>out in the middle of the woods. I don't do

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<v Speaker 4>that stuff, and she's fine. That was my reward for

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<v Speaker 4>the end of this, and it was great.

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<v Speaker 5>Damn how long did it? How long was this?

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<v Speaker 4>I don't even know because I closed my eyes and

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<v Speaker 4>it was it was too fast for me.

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<v Speaker 3>But it's great.

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<v Speaker 1>I've been trying to get her to go back because

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<v Speaker 1>she loved it so much. I know maybe after this

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<v Speaker 1>is over, we're gonna have to figure that out for you.

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<v Speaker 1>Because she was like, I don't understand how people don't

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<v Speaker 1>leave in relationships with their mascuse the way that woman

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<v Speaker 1>touched me, she loves me. I was like, she doesn't.

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<v Speaker 1>She does not love me to everybody.

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<v Speaker 3>That's crazy.

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<v Speaker 5>Oh you thought it was personal.

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<v Speaker 3>It was for me. I was like, wow, like I

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<v Speaker 3>felt it very well.

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<v Speaker 1>Do you find that there's one platform where you were

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<v Speaker 1>reaching more people than others? Like is your YouTube audience

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<v Speaker 1>more engaged in this stuff or is it the people

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<v Speaker 1>who are buying your book or watching your ted.

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<v Speaker 5>Talks is across the board, right, It's about the real

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<v Speaker 5>interaction that to you to another police.

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<v Speaker 1>So you actually encourage people to come talk to you.

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<v Speaker 5>Oh yeah, they always do.

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<v Speaker 1>There's no party that's like hello, okay.

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<v Speaker 5>You know, of all ages, all races, people give you

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<v Speaker 5>so much information because I look at this world like

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<v Speaker 5>this world is one big library and everybody's a book.

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<v Speaker 5>You know. I might stop and talk to you about podcasting,

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<v Speaker 5>stop and talk to Diamond about massages, and it's one

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<v Speaker 5>big ass library, and you'll be amazed what people will

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<v Speaker 5>tell you.

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<v Speaker 1>You know, you are sort of paraphrasing my favorite quote

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<v Speaker 1>by Bill and I I love him. He says, everyone

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<v Speaker 1>you will ever meet knows something that you do not.

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<v Speaker 1>You just have to sit and talk to them and

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<v Speaker 1>figure out that.

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<v Speaker 5>I had some crazy conversations with people.

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<v Speaker 1>Is there one that sticks out to you.

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<v Speaker 5>I was talking to this lady one time. She was

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<v Speaker 5>like a middle age enough fifties, white lady. She was

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<v Speaker 5>sitting next to me on a plane and I'm talking

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<v Speaker 5>to him, hearing her story of this story. She telling

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<v Speaker 5>me she was a professor all this type of stuff,

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<v Speaker 5>and she was just talking. I was like, how was

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<v Speaker 5>it being at She's like, it's just fucking born. And

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<v Speaker 5>I was shocked. I was like, damn, yeah. So she

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<v Speaker 5>talking and talking and then I start not just it

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<v Speaker 5>was born. She was like I never had conversations like this,

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<v Speaker 5>and she felt so safe talking because she like we're

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<v Speaker 5>from different worlds. You don't know me, I don't know you.

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<v Speaker 5>She was a person. She's like, sometimes I just don't

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<v Speaker 5>want to go to work. She was so when I

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<v Speaker 5>told her what my stuff was, she was just like

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<v Speaker 5>she didn't believe me.

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<v Speaker 1>She didn't clutch her purse.

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<v Speaker 5>Fuck, you were on the plane, were in first class, okay,

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<v Speaker 5>So she like, yeah, you look too soft. It was

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<v Speaker 5>so funny because you're like you could never you can't

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<v Speaker 5>handle hang in prison. You were funny. She's like, you're

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<v Speaker 5>a comedian, ain't she? I said, you know sometimes, And

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<v Speaker 5>we was talking but I told her and she just

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<v Speaker 5>didn't believe my journey. And she worked for a real

0:25:00.480 --> 0:25:03.680
<v Speaker 5>prestige university and she's like this shit ain't working.

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<v Speaker 1>And I'm like, damn, you keep in touch with her

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<v Speaker 1>at all.

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<v Speaker 5>No, it was just a conversation here. Once we left

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<v Speaker 5>the plane, it was over.

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<v Speaker 1>I feel like that's a book in itself, all the

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<v Speaker 1>crazy shit that I've heard by accident.

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<v Speaker 5>Damn, that's a nice title. Crazy No, no making it

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<v Speaker 5>crazy shit. I heard that'd be better. That'll be the

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<v Speaker 5>name of the book. And I just tell stories of

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<v Speaker 5>stuff I heard from people. It's like, it's.

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<v Speaker 1>Crazy first start with this one. Are a good intention and.

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<v Speaker 5>Well good attention. Check it out right now everywhere books

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<v Speaker 5>are so thank you. Go get this, thank you. I

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<v Speaker 5>appreciate you.

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<v Speaker 1>No, I appreciate it, thank you so much, no problem,

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<v Speaker 1>and there you go.

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<v Speaker 2>Wallow wallow.

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<v Speaker 3>I love him?

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<v Speaker 1>Would you would you date him?

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<v Speaker 3>I don't think so. Why. I think that he gives

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<v Speaker 3>uncle vibes.

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<v Speaker 1>Okay, he's too old or he's just too corny, like

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<v Speaker 1>what it gives.

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<v Speaker 3>He gives uncle vibes.

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<v Speaker 4>If I was like in my late thirties, I'd probably

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<v Speaker 4>find him more attractive. Okay, just I have an issue

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<v Speaker 4>with like age gaps.

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<v Speaker 1>Oh okay, I understand that.

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<v Speaker 4>Actually, if we have to to get high school at

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<v Speaker 4>the same time, whether I'm older than you or younger

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<v Speaker 4>than you, I'd like that eight that's like a span

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<v Speaker 4>of like four four years older than me, four years

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<v Speaker 4>younger than me.

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<v Speaker 3>I don't think that we have that much in common.

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<v Speaker 2>Okay, that's fair.

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<v Speaker 1>So the oldest you would date right now? Is thirty four?

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<v Speaker 2>Is that to old for you?

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<v Speaker 3>What is young?

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<v Speaker 1>Like?

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<v Speaker 3>Thirty thirty? I think the oldest that I goes thirty six.

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<v Speaker 1>Okay, that wouldn't have been in high school with you?

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah whatever, Okay.

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<v Speaker 1>Okay, thirty six is her cap. So thirty six year olds.

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<v Speaker 1>If you're out there listening, holler at diamond. Actually wait

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<v Speaker 1>thirty six two? You're gonna say twenty.

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<v Speaker 3>Six, twenty nine, twenty seven?

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<v Speaker 4>Do you know?

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<v Speaker 3>Off?

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<v Speaker 1>Give her take?

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<v Speaker 3>What do people say? Plus or minus a little bit?

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<v Speaker 4>You know?

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah?

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<v Speaker 4>Thirty six max? Okay, with a pension for a one

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<v Speaker 4>k something?

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<v Speaker 1>Okay, these are important things. Let's talk about that older now,

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<v Speaker 1>that's your thirty Oh my god, you're so old. I'm

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<v Speaker 1>just kidding. By the way, your thirties best time of

0:27:10.240 --> 0:27:13.200
<v Speaker 1>your life exactly. I say this personal experience thus far,

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<v Speaker 1>it's been amazing.

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<v Speaker 2>Well in your thirties.

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<v Speaker 1>Your twenties are ghetto as fuck they were. Your thirties

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<v Speaker 1>are amazing, especially if you're doing things like you're doing

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<v Speaker 1>right now. You're not married, you don't have kids, and

0:27:21.080 --> 0:27:23.840
<v Speaker 1>you're on a career path that you enjoy. Your thirties

0:27:23.880 --> 0:27:26.680
<v Speaker 1>are your twenties. But with money, come on, get it,

0:27:27.080 --> 0:27:29.520
<v Speaker 1>and you know yourself better. So when it comes to dating,

0:27:30.160 --> 0:27:34.040
<v Speaker 1>you're gonna be a lot more I hope, discerning, and

0:27:34.359 --> 0:27:35.720
<v Speaker 1>not deal with this shit that you don't want to

0:27:35.720 --> 0:27:36.680
<v Speaker 1>deal with and just cut it off.

0:27:36.720 --> 0:27:38.600
<v Speaker 2>Hopefully we'll see.

0:27:39.240 --> 0:27:39.800
<v Speaker 3>I hope so.

0:27:40.000 --> 0:27:41.639
<v Speaker 4>But I've been doing that for a while now, and

0:27:41.680 --> 0:27:43.439
<v Speaker 4>I'm like, Okay, maybe you need to learn how to

0:27:43.440 --> 0:27:45.760
<v Speaker 4>compromise and everything can't be a non negotiable.

0:27:45.840 --> 0:27:48.199
<v Speaker 1>Sure, No, I absolutely agree with that, especially for you.

0:27:48.440 --> 0:27:49.040
<v Speaker 3>I'm trying to.

0:27:51.000 --> 0:27:51.560
<v Speaker 2>Blocks people.

0:27:51.600 --> 0:27:54.560
<v Speaker 1>Diamond still has Scottie b blocked, by the way, for

0:27:54.640 --> 0:27:58.680
<v Speaker 1>like a tiff that they had over basically congestion pricing

0:27:59.119 --> 0:28:00.560
<v Speaker 1>in the year twenty twenty three.

0:28:01.520 --> 0:28:02.840
<v Speaker 3>It's been almost six months.

0:28:04.359 --> 0:28:07.640
<v Speaker 4>I love it, okay, but that in my birthday card,

0:28:07.720 --> 0:28:13.800
<v Speaker 4>by the way, No, he didn't wish I could follow you.

0:28:13.920 --> 0:28:16.560
<v Speaker 1>There's so funny. She won't block you. It doesn't matter

0:28:16.560 --> 0:28:17.960
<v Speaker 1>if she likes you and you guys are still working

0:28:17.960 --> 0:28:19.600
<v Speaker 1>together and she's talking to you. She will block you

0:28:19.960 --> 0:28:25.080
<v Speaker 1>on Instagram, which is hilarious. But let's talk about Diamond's

0:28:25.480 --> 0:28:27.840
<v Speaker 1>interest in a person. What's important to you right now?

0:28:27.880 --> 0:28:30.159
<v Speaker 1>Let's find you a hubby. Oh, I'm just kidding her.

0:28:30.560 --> 0:28:33.480
<v Speaker 4>Maybe a boyfriend maybe, but it's somebody that I actually

0:28:33.520 --> 0:28:34.560
<v Speaker 4>like that would be great to start.

0:28:34.600 --> 0:28:36.320
<v Speaker 1>Okay, what do you like though, Like, what would make

0:28:36.359 --> 0:28:37.800
<v Speaker 1>you like someone I like?

0:28:39.160 --> 0:28:40.120
<v Speaker 3>It's very weird.

0:28:40.160 --> 0:28:42.240
<v Speaker 4>I'm trying to find the balance, right because I like

0:28:42.280 --> 0:28:45.680
<v Speaker 4>people who are sure of themselves. But then sometimes you

0:28:45.720 --> 0:28:49.040
<v Speaker 4>get like cocky and entitled from that. Like it's like

0:28:49.440 --> 0:28:53.880
<v Speaker 4>really hard to find that middle ground. Someone who's ambitious.

0:28:55.360 --> 0:28:57.680
<v Speaker 4>But I feel like at this point you should like

0:28:58.320 --> 0:29:00.920
<v Speaker 4>also find a balance in that as well. Like you're

0:29:00.960 --> 0:29:04.040
<v Speaker 4>getting into your thirties, you should have like been busting

0:29:04.040 --> 0:29:06.400
<v Speaker 4>your ass for the past few years too, the same

0:29:06.400 --> 0:29:06.760
<v Speaker 4>way that.

0:29:06.760 --> 0:29:09.000
<v Speaker 1>I was tall expectations.

0:29:10.320 --> 0:29:11.920
<v Speaker 3>The bar is so low.

0:29:13.280 --> 0:29:14.040
<v Speaker 2>Bars in hell.

0:29:14.160 --> 0:29:15.640
<v Speaker 1>It is horrible.

0:29:17.320 --> 0:29:20.800
<v Speaker 4>Someone who's family oriented, because like I love my family.

0:29:20.880 --> 0:29:22.200
<v Speaker 4>I spent a lot of time with my family. I

0:29:22.200 --> 0:29:24.320
<v Speaker 4>can't imagine someone being like, do we have to go

0:29:24.360 --> 0:29:25.200
<v Speaker 4>to your family? Like?

0:29:25.280 --> 0:29:27.600
<v Speaker 3>Do we have to hang out with your family again? Absolutely?

0:29:27.720 --> 0:29:29.200
<v Speaker 1>No, you know you need you know you need to

0:29:29.200 --> 0:29:32.360
<v Speaker 1>find orphan so it can just be all your family

0:29:32.400 --> 0:29:34.120
<v Speaker 1>all the time and not his family.

0:29:34.120 --> 0:29:35.840
<v Speaker 4>Because I want you to be family oriented, but I

0:29:35.880 --> 0:29:37.400
<v Speaker 4>don't want to split my like.

0:29:37.400 --> 0:29:41.680
<v Speaker 2>My, no.

0:29:42.800 --> 0:29:44.560
<v Speaker 1>What else, which is a very horrible thing to say,

0:29:44.560 --> 0:29:46.320
<v Speaker 1>So don't DM me about it. I already know anyway.

0:29:47.200 --> 0:29:53.280
<v Speaker 2>Okay, looks wise you like, I love a chupster. She likes, Yeah,

0:29:53.320 --> 0:29:55.600
<v Speaker 2>I love. I feel like you need to advertise that more.

0:29:56.080 --> 0:29:57.400
<v Speaker 3>Oh really yeah, teddy bear?

0:29:57.680 --> 0:30:00.840
<v Speaker 1>Yeah, because I think that like a chubby guy or

0:30:00.880 --> 0:30:02.840
<v Speaker 1>a teddy bear, whatever you want to call them, probably

0:30:03.000 --> 0:30:06.360
<v Speaker 1>doesn't feel super appreciated all the time and probably isn't

0:30:06.680 --> 0:30:09.960
<v Speaker 1>as sought after on like dating apps, or maybe they're

0:30:10.040 --> 0:30:13.000
<v Speaker 1>less sure of themselves for whatever reason. So you let

0:30:13.000 --> 0:30:15.600
<v Speaker 1>them know she wants a chubby guy.

0:30:15.720 --> 0:30:15.880
<v Speaker 3>Yeah.

0:30:15.880 --> 0:30:18.240
<v Speaker 4>All the chubby guys that I know, though, are very cocky,

0:30:18.280 --> 0:30:20.160
<v Speaker 4>and I'm like, honey, let's calm it down.

0:30:20.360 --> 0:30:23.880
<v Speaker 1>Okay, here's my question. There is a very thin line

0:30:24.040 --> 0:30:27.520
<v Speaker 1>between confident and cocky. I think a lot of times

0:30:27.520 --> 0:30:32.360
<v Speaker 1>that people who are cocky are actually very insecure, because

0:30:32.400 --> 0:30:34.040
<v Speaker 1>if you are secure in yourself, you don't have to

0:30:34.040 --> 0:30:36.360
<v Speaker 1>wander around telling everybody how great you are at everything.

0:30:36.560 --> 0:30:39.480
<v Speaker 4>Yeah. But that's why I always shut it down too early,

0:30:39.520 --> 0:30:44.280
<v Speaker 4>because like, once I realize that they're super insecure, and

0:30:44.320 --> 0:30:47.120
<v Speaker 4>this is just like a defense mechanism basically, I'm like,

0:30:47.280 --> 0:30:47.880
<v Speaker 4>I'll shut it down.

0:30:47.880 --> 0:30:49.400
<v Speaker 3>You need to go talk to somebody and it's not me.

0:30:49.680 --> 0:30:51.800
<v Speaker 1>I think that's a bad thing to shut down. I think.

0:30:52.440 --> 0:30:55.960
<v Speaker 1>I mean again, I I'm not the queen of dating.

0:30:56.000 --> 0:30:57.480
<v Speaker 1>I don't have all the best dating advice. Let me

0:30:57.520 --> 0:31:00.880
<v Speaker 1>just start there. But I do think insecurity has ruined

0:31:01.680 --> 0:31:05.840
<v Speaker 1>so many relationships for me because people are very insecure.

0:31:05.880 --> 0:31:08.080
<v Speaker 1>But then if you are a secure person, there's kind

0:31:08.120 --> 0:31:10.520
<v Speaker 1>of no worse combination. Oh, I feel like you can

0:31:10.520 --> 0:31:13.600
<v Speaker 1>have two secure people together, you have two insecure people together,

0:31:13.800 --> 0:31:16.040
<v Speaker 1>But you cannot have a secure person and an insecure

0:31:16.080 --> 0:31:18.720
<v Speaker 1>person because you're both going to drive each other further

0:31:18.760 --> 0:31:21.200
<v Speaker 1>in that direction. Yeah, because if you tell me, like

0:31:21.880 --> 0:31:24.360
<v Speaker 1>I'm insecure about X, y Z, but I'm very confident

0:31:24.400 --> 0:31:27.320
<v Speaker 1>about that area, there's a lot of compromise in there.

0:31:27.320 --> 0:31:30.080
<v Speaker 1>I think maybe is a horrible thing for me to say.

0:31:30.080 --> 0:31:32.120
<v Speaker 4>I don't know, especially as you get older, because I

0:31:32.120 --> 0:31:36.120
<v Speaker 4>feel like you're setting your ways, Like people try to

0:31:36.200 --> 0:31:42.840
<v Speaker 4>pretend as if you need to change for people, and like,

0:31:42.960 --> 0:31:45.200
<v Speaker 4>I get it to a certain extent, it would be ideal,

0:31:45.240 --> 0:31:49.440
<v Speaker 4>But I think that like, if I've been this way my.

0:31:49.600 --> 0:31:52.120
<v Speaker 3>Entire life or let's just say the past ten years

0:31:52.200 --> 0:31:54.840
<v Speaker 3>of my life. Why do I feel like I have

0:31:54.880 --> 0:31:55.640
<v Speaker 3>to change for you?

0:31:57.400 --> 0:32:00.280
<v Speaker 1>This is where ask your married friends, because I ask

0:32:00.320 --> 0:32:02.040
<v Speaker 1>my married for insis all the time. We're just friends

0:32:02.040 --> 0:32:03.920
<v Speaker 1>who are in relationships. That's kind of stuff all the time.

0:32:04.400 --> 0:32:09.680
<v Speaker 1>Tell me the difference between compromising and settling, because everyone

0:32:09.680 --> 0:32:11.440
<v Speaker 1>will tell you never settle. You don't want to settle,

0:32:11.960 --> 0:32:14.160
<v Speaker 1>but everyone will also tell you you got to compromise.

0:32:14.600 --> 0:32:16.200
<v Speaker 1>What the wug is a difference? I don't know what

0:32:16.240 --> 0:32:19.600
<v Speaker 1>the difference is there. There has to be something, but

0:32:19.720 --> 0:32:21.600
<v Speaker 1>both of them seem like, well, we're both gonna be

0:32:21.640 --> 0:32:23.680
<v Speaker 1>kind of unhappy with Like what's going on here? I

0:32:23.720 --> 0:32:26.640
<v Speaker 1>don't know. And I also think you shouldn't change too

0:32:26.720 --> 0:32:29.800
<v Speaker 1>much about yourself. If you love yourself, you genuinely love yourself,

0:32:29.800 --> 0:32:33.640
<v Speaker 1>and I think you do. Why would you stop being

0:32:33.680 --> 0:32:36.640
<v Speaker 1>the person that you love for somebody else. I think

0:32:36.680 --> 0:32:38.320
<v Speaker 1>you have to love yourself a lot before you can

0:32:38.360 --> 0:32:41.080
<v Speaker 1>be in like a good relationship and have solid love

0:32:41.120 --> 0:32:42.400
<v Speaker 1>with another person. Maybe I'm wrong.

0:32:43.320 --> 0:32:45.200
<v Speaker 3>Then I feel like sometimes I'm a little too strict.

0:32:45.360 --> 0:32:47.560
<v Speaker 3>So it's like I'm gonna have to find a balance.

0:32:47.560 --> 0:32:49.160
<v Speaker 3>It's so hard. I'll think about it next year.

0:32:49.280 --> 0:32:50.480
<v Speaker 2>Can you do?

0:32:50.640 --> 0:32:54.480
<v Speaker 1>Drop the hammer? Pretty quickly? He had one shoulder strap

0:32:54.520 --> 0:32:56.760
<v Speaker 1>of his backpack just hanging off. Hate it, goodbye.

0:32:56.960 --> 0:32:59.680
<v Speaker 4>I'll never forget that. I can see you right now,

0:33:00.000 --> 0:33:01.760
<v Speaker 4>and I close my eyes. You said it, I can

0:33:01.840 --> 0:33:02.240
<v Speaker 4>see it.

0:33:02.440 --> 0:33:03.960
<v Speaker 3>I can see it. I listen.

0:33:04.080 --> 0:33:06.080
<v Speaker 1>We all have our things, right. Oh, I don't even

0:33:06.120 --> 0:33:08.960
<v Speaker 1>know what mine are anymore. I have no idea. I

0:33:10.240 --> 0:33:11.800
<v Speaker 1>try not to be super harsh about it, because I'm

0:33:11.840 --> 0:33:13.880
<v Speaker 1>sure that's other people. I'm like a carnival of red

0:33:13.880 --> 0:33:16.840
<v Speaker 1>flags myself. So I mean, obviously those people are wrong

0:33:16.880 --> 0:33:19.800
<v Speaker 1>and stupid, but I can see.

0:33:19.560 --> 0:33:21.000
<v Speaker 2>It at least a little.

0:33:21.360 --> 0:33:24.160
<v Speaker 1>Let's talk about your birthday trip. Oh, you were gone

0:33:24.240 --> 0:33:24.880
<v Speaker 1>on Friday.

0:33:25.280 --> 0:33:26.000
<v Speaker 2>I hated it.

0:33:26.640 --> 0:33:28.320
<v Speaker 1>You've gone all weekend and I hated it.

0:33:28.400 --> 0:33:28.640
<v Speaker 3>Good.

0:33:28.840 --> 0:33:30.960
<v Speaker 1>I wanted to talk to you about things. You're having

0:33:30.960 --> 0:33:33.480
<v Speaker 1>a good time and I couldn't be nowt your back.

0:33:33.880 --> 0:33:35.200
<v Speaker 1>I was sad. I told you I was sad, and

0:33:35.280 --> 0:33:39.240
<v Speaker 1>I meant it. You, Dick, How was your trip? Was amazing?

0:33:39.320 --> 0:33:40.040
<v Speaker 2>Where did you go?

0:33:40.120 --> 0:33:42.800
<v Speaker 3>Okay? So I went to care Free Arizona.

0:33:42.920 --> 0:33:45.160
<v Speaker 1>Literally because I have your location and I looked and

0:33:45.240 --> 0:33:46.560
<v Speaker 1>you were in care Free Reson.

0:33:46.480 --> 0:33:49.960
<v Speaker 3>Literally it's like maybe forty five minutes outside of Phoenix.

0:33:49.960 --> 0:33:50.480
<v Speaker 1>Okay, So.

0:33:52.240 --> 0:33:55.239
<v Speaker 4>It was far enough out for you to feel like

0:33:55.360 --> 0:33:58.680
<v Speaker 4>you were literally in the desert and away from the city.

0:33:58.760 --> 0:33:59.840
<v Speaker 1>Oh you were in the desert.

0:34:00.120 --> 0:34:02.520
<v Speaker 3>Well, yes, I mean very interesting.

0:34:03.880 --> 0:34:05.680
<v Speaker 4>But it was also close enough for me to be like,

0:34:05.920 --> 0:34:09.080
<v Speaker 4>we went to dinner in the city for like a

0:34:09.120 --> 0:34:10.440
<v Speaker 4>birthday dinner and stuff like that.

0:34:11.000 --> 0:34:12.239
<v Speaker 3>But it was hot as hell.

0:34:12.480 --> 0:34:15.000
<v Speaker 1>Yeah, man, no joke, how hot it is out there.

0:34:15.000 --> 0:34:18.280
<v Speaker 1>They're like breaking records this year for the most amount

0:34:18.320 --> 0:34:21.960
<v Speaker 1>of days spent over one hundred degrees sick. Oh my god,

0:34:22.040 --> 0:34:22.359
<v Speaker 1>I'm hot.

0:34:22.560 --> 0:34:25.200
<v Speaker 3>I'm top talking about it. I am tired, okay.

0:34:25.360 --> 0:34:27.480
<v Speaker 2>Like dehydrated.

0:34:27.600 --> 0:34:30.279
<v Speaker 4>Yes, in liquid that was in my body before I

0:34:30.360 --> 0:34:31.840
<v Speaker 4>got there is completely gone.

0:34:32.000 --> 0:34:33.280
<v Speaker 3>Okay, I am a cactus.

0:34:33.360 --> 0:34:35.680
<v Speaker 1>I need to see you stop drinking the coffee and

0:34:35.680 --> 0:34:36.720
<v Speaker 1>start drinking more water.

0:34:36.880 --> 0:34:41.040
<v Speaker 3>We had water. I've been drinking water because I felt

0:34:41.080 --> 0:34:41.960
<v Speaker 3>like I had no choice.

0:34:42.200 --> 0:34:43.320
<v Speaker 1>No, you got to drink water.

0:34:43.160 --> 0:34:46.080
<v Speaker 4>And liquid ivs and like things to hydrate.

0:34:46.320 --> 0:34:48.160
<v Speaker 3>Okay, it's just that heat.

0:34:49.040 --> 0:34:51.480
<v Speaker 1>It'll take it out of you. So you had some

0:34:51.520 --> 0:34:54.400
<v Speaker 1>birthday dinners by the way at Diamond Sincere on Instagram,

0:34:54.400 --> 0:34:56.040
<v Speaker 1>you look beautiful and you're green outfit.

0:34:58.320 --> 0:34:59.000
<v Speaker 2>What else did you do?

0:34:59.080 --> 0:35:02.719
<v Speaker 1>You did? I'm so proud of you because you did

0:35:02.719 --> 0:35:05.640
<v Speaker 1>a hike by yourself without your friends, yes, and a

0:35:05.680 --> 0:35:07.919
<v Speaker 1>group of other people. That is so not like you.

0:35:08.480 --> 0:35:09.560
<v Speaker 2>I'm so proud of you.

0:35:09.600 --> 0:35:11.960
<v Speaker 3>And I made a new bestia, Jillian.

0:35:14.760 --> 0:35:17.040
<v Speaker 1>What's the lady's name that you ran off with on

0:35:17.080 --> 0:35:17.840
<v Speaker 1>the trail? Jenna?

0:35:18.320 --> 0:35:19.600
<v Speaker 3>Jenna, Jenna and Jillian.

0:35:19.680 --> 0:35:22.760
<v Speaker 1>We got some j's going on, Okay, Jillian.

0:35:22.520 --> 0:35:24.520
<v Speaker 4>From she was born in Jamaica. You know I love

0:35:24.600 --> 0:35:29.960
<v Speaker 4>Jamaican people. Yeah, I'm fake Jamaican. Yes. She lives in

0:35:30.120 --> 0:35:32.919
<v Speaker 4>La and we're actually she's like, we both were talking

0:35:32.960 --> 0:35:35.040
<v Speaker 4>about coming back, like going back to the resort that

0:35:35.080 --> 0:35:36.799
<v Speaker 4>we stayed at, and she's like, well, let me know

0:35:36.840 --> 0:35:38.440
<v Speaker 4>when you come, Like I want to go, so like

0:35:38.560 --> 0:35:40.600
<v Speaker 4>maybe we'll end up coming on the same week or

0:35:40.640 --> 0:35:44.080
<v Speaker 4>weekend whatever. Hell yeah, she's so nice. I love when

0:35:44.080 --> 0:35:45.560
<v Speaker 4>you make friends outside of your friends.

0:35:45.560 --> 0:35:47.520
<v Speaker 1>It's so cute, right I listen, I told you I've

0:35:47.520 --> 0:35:50.400
<v Speaker 1>really been struggling. I need to make friends outside of work.

0:35:50.880 --> 0:35:53.279
<v Speaker 1>I have to. It's so hard, it really is, as

0:35:53.280 --> 0:35:55.919
<v Speaker 1>a grown up trying to make friends, Like to tell

0:35:55.920 --> 0:35:57.680
<v Speaker 1>you all this life stuff about me, And I have

0:35:57.680 --> 0:35:59.640
<v Speaker 1>to tell you why this weird thing about me isn't

0:35:59.640 --> 0:35:59.959
<v Speaker 1>that weird.

0:36:00.000 --> 0:36:01.360
<v Speaker 2>It's actually just lovable.

0:36:02.640 --> 0:36:03.640
<v Speaker 3>But lunatic.

0:36:04.440 --> 0:36:06.360
<v Speaker 2>What did you see on the trail, Diamond.

0:36:06.480 --> 0:36:07.400
<v Speaker 3>A rattle snake?

0:36:07.880 --> 0:36:09.080
<v Speaker 1>A rattlesnake.

0:36:09.160 --> 0:36:12.280
<v Speaker 2>In a month, you have seen bears.

0:36:12.600 --> 0:36:14.960
<v Speaker 1>And a rattlesnake that was insane, and bison and all

0:36:14.960 --> 0:36:16.799
<v Speaker 1>the other stuff that we saw in and elk and

0:36:17.640 --> 0:36:21.160
<v Speaker 1>chipmunks and rabbits and you know whatever. But I think

0:36:21.200 --> 0:36:22.880
<v Speaker 1>the scariest of all those is the rattlesnake.

0:36:22.960 --> 0:36:23.640
<v Speaker 3>No, the bears.

0:36:24.560 --> 0:36:28.919
<v Speaker 4>The rattlesnake, from what I was told, does not want

0:36:28.960 --> 0:36:29.760
<v Speaker 4>to be bothered.

0:36:30.200 --> 0:36:30.960
<v Speaker 3>Leave it alone.

0:36:31.040 --> 0:36:33.360
<v Speaker 4>But also the tour guide that I was with felt

0:36:33.360 --> 0:36:36.200
<v Speaker 4>like it was his fucking civic duty to get this

0:36:36.320 --> 0:36:39.440
<v Speaker 4>damn snake away from the trail, which was very nice.

0:36:39.520 --> 0:36:42.520
<v Speaker 4>But at the same time, we're all scared, like the hikers,

0:36:42.880 --> 0:36:46.400
<v Speaker 4>We're scared. Yeah, And he's like fucking poking it with

0:36:46.400 --> 0:36:48.360
<v Speaker 4>the stick, trying to get it off of the trail,

0:36:48.600 --> 0:36:50.160
<v Speaker 4>and he's like, I know what I'm doing, guys.

0:36:50.200 --> 0:36:53.520
<v Speaker 3>Whatever. I did trust him, and he's like a survival expert.

0:36:53.960 --> 0:36:56.120
<v Speaker 3>He's so cool. I think you would be fascinated.

0:36:55.719 --> 0:36:56.839
<v Speaker 2>Okay, but was cute.

0:36:57.200 --> 0:37:02.319
<v Speaker 3>Yes, okay, his name Adrian, very cute guy.

0:37:02.480 --> 0:37:05.400
<v Speaker 4>Okay, but yeah he was very nice and like he

0:37:05.480 --> 0:37:07.840
<v Speaker 4>got it out of the way and I lived to

0:37:07.880 --> 0:37:09.720
<v Speaker 4>talk about it, but did it was very scary.

0:37:09.800 --> 0:37:11.919
<v Speaker 1>I'm so proud of you. And now let's talk about

0:37:11.960 --> 0:37:14.960
<v Speaker 1>your rental car. Yeah, why did I see you putting

0:37:15.040 --> 0:37:16.359
<v Speaker 1>luggage into a U haul?

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<v Speaker 4>Well, first, I'd like to start by saying budget or Avis,

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<v Speaker 4>I don't know which one of you is responsible for this.

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<v Speaker 4>We'll go exped Expedia in there as well. Count your

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<v Speaker 4>fucking days. Okay, because why would you let me rent

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<v Speaker 4>a car and then close without calling and saying, hey,

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<v Speaker 4>we see that you haven't picked up your car yet.

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<v Speaker 3>We're about to close.

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<v Speaker 4>R Thirty five minutes maybe an hour tops was between

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<v Speaker 4>the pickup time and.

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<v Speaker 3>The time that they closed. Why didn't you say anything?

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<v Speaker 1>Had they said something, would you have been able to

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<v Speaker 1>get there in time?

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<v Speaker 5>No?

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<v Speaker 2>I would have can so you would have had a.

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<v Speaker 1>Better plan, yes, versus renting, which I think is actually genius.

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<v Speaker 1>I don't think I would have thought about.

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<v Speaker 4>Hey listen, and it was cheaper than the car, so

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<v Speaker 4>let's hope I get my money back because it would

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<v Speaker 4>be great, but like, are you kidding me? And then

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<v Speaker 4>first of all, like I said, one hundred and three

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<v Speaker 4>degrees in the middle of nowhere, in the middle of nowhere,

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<v Speaker 4>absolutely not, it's a budget. And then there's a U

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<v Speaker 4>haul place right next door.

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<v Speaker 3>So I had to walk over.

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<v Speaker 4>To the U haul, Like what were my options? Get

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<v Speaker 4>a hotel room, put my stuff in the whole We

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<v Speaker 4>were on our way to a football game. I was

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<v Speaker 4>not missing that game, by the way.

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<v Speaker 1>So you parked a U haul full of your luggage

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<v Speaker 1>at the game, absolutely I should have taken it.

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<v Speaker 4>I don't think anybody has a picture of the actual U.

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<v Speaker 3>Haul in the parking lot.

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<v Speaker 4>But a guy, you know how like people direct you

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<v Speaker 4>to where you need to park and stuff. We pull

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<v Speaker 4>up and he's just looking at me like you idiot.

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<v Speaker 3>Like you could just see it on his face.

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<v Speaker 4>So I rolled down the window. I'm like, sir, is

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<v Speaker 4>there anywhere that I could park this? I just need

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<v Speaker 4>to go to the game, like whatever, And before before

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<v Speaker 4>the words came out of his mouth, I had to

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<v Speaker 4>stop him and I was like, be nice to me, please,

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<v Speaker 4>I would never.

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<v Speaker 3>Be nice to me.

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<v Speaker 4>I'm like, no one wants to drive a U haul

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<v Speaker 4>to a football game.

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<v Speaker 3>I want you to understand that you.

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<v Speaker 1>Have to know things happening.

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<v Speaker 3>Please. I am desperate. I have had a horrible day

0:39:15.880 --> 0:39:18.440
<v Speaker 3>and at that point was only one o'clock. I was like,

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<v Speaker 3>please be nice to me. He was hysterical. Everybody in

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<v Speaker 3>Arizona was really nice, by the way, So you.

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<v Speaker 1>Parked your U haul, you had a good time. I'm

0:39:25.520 --> 0:39:28.040
<v Speaker 1>so proud of you for so many reasons. Our baby

0:39:28.040 --> 0:39:30.839
<v Speaker 1>girl is growing up. She is she is. This makes

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<v Speaker 1>me so But I did really miss you, and I'm

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<v Speaker 1>happy that you're back. And next time I'll.

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<v Speaker 2>Probably go with you.

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<v Speaker 3>You need to.

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<v Speaker 1>I should have I should have done it this time. Okay,

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<v Speaker 1>if people want to find you on Instagram, where they

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<v Speaker 1>gonna find.

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<v Speaker 3>You at Diamonds sincere?

0:39:42.640 --> 0:39:45.879
<v Speaker 1>Yes, I am at Baby Hot Sauce. Diamond is still

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<v Speaker 1>rocking Twitter too, right, I'm sorry?

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<v Speaker 4>X Yeah, but I have no followers on there, so

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<v Speaker 4>I mean you just go, yeah, I just yeah, follow

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<v Speaker 4>me if you want to.

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<v Speaker 3>Whatever.

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<v Speaker 1>Do they still call it black Twitter or is it

0:39:56.480 --> 0:39:57.160
<v Speaker 1>now black X?

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<v Speaker 3>What Twitter?

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<v Speaker 5>Right?

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<v Speaker 3>We're never gonna stop calling it twitter.

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<v Speaker 4>I don't understand why the Twitter Forever's time trying to rebrand.

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<v Speaker 2>Please stupid do.

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<v Speaker 1>You want stupid? Okay, until next I say bye bye.