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Speaker 1: Hey, it's sauce on the side episode. I have no

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Speaker 1: Then it's in the thirties. Look, this is how I

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Speaker 2: Somewhere around there, mom.

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Speaker 1: But today we have on a guy named Walla who

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Speaker 1: you may not have heard of before. He has a

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Speaker 1: how would you describe him?

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Speaker 4: I think a lot of people would describe him as

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Speaker 4: doing speeches all the time, right, but he's on the

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Speaker 4: podcast and he's always trying to uplift people, okay through

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Speaker 4: his own experiences too, So like, I don't know, I.

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Speaker 1: Just really like him, Okay, I'm excited to get to

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Speaker 1: it because I mean, if you don't know his story,

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Speaker 1: it's a pretty fascinating story. And he has a book

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Speaker 1: out now all but long story short, when he was

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Speaker 1: because he was there for a good amount of time,

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Speaker 1: up doing a good amount of time. So I can

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Speaker 1: tell you his life story, or you could just listen

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Speaker 1: to him tell you his life story. I said, we

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Speaker 1: get right to it. Thank you Wallow for joining me today.

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Speaker 1: Thank you you go by Wallow Wallow two six seven.

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Speaker 5: Six seven, just two six seven Wallow.

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Speaker 1: Two six seven. Where did the two six seven come from?

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Speaker 1: Because I saw a couple different things.

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Speaker 5: It come from my prison number, so I could remember

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Speaker 5: where I come from where I'm never going back to.

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Speaker 5: My prison number was DG two sixty seven zero, so

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Speaker 5: I took that and added that to it. It really

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Speaker 5: started with I was in jail and I had a

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Speaker 5: I added two six seven because there's a prison thing,

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Speaker 5: but it was wind up and then it was also

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Speaker 1: Just from that, I have so many questions alone, So one,

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Speaker 1: let's start with why did you go to prison? For

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Speaker 1: the people who might not know a lot about you.

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Speaker 1: By the way, he's here because he just dropped a

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Speaker 2: But what got you there?

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Speaker 5: Young? Growing up in the city streets in Philadelphia, wanted

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Speaker 5: to be down. I went to jail for two on

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Speaker 5: robberies to fire, on violations, trying to steal the American dream.

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Speaker 1: You know, So you're seventeen years old when you end

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Speaker 1: up going to prison and you got out for a

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Speaker 5: Yeah, finally just got out of twenty seventeen. Been out

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Speaker 5: To thaw it. This Instagram page was set up in.

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Speaker 1: It was so you got all your followers. It says

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Speaker 5: Collecting them when I was in jail in twenty thirteen

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Speaker 1: So how'd you get the cell phone? I don't need names,

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Speaker 5: Like that, but you know one of them, you know,

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Speaker 5: And I've been in jail because I didn't even just

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Speaker 5: just like technolo. I was intrigued by technology ever since then.

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Speaker 1: How do you even start marketing yourself from a prison cell?

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Speaker 5: No, it wasn't really that too much. On air, people

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Speaker 1: So you didn't have this plan when you got out

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Speaker 5: I didn't have it planned. It's just that it was

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Speaker 5: And I realized that attention was a currency. So I said, okay,

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Speaker 1: Is this your fourth book?

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Speaker 5: Yeah, you could say that, But the other books was

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Speaker 1: Okay, First of all, if people want to get this book,

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Speaker 5: They go everywhere and get anywhere books or sold, Barns

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Speaker 1: So what's it like going out now and talking about

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Speaker 5: It's relaxing, really, Yeah, it's relaxing. And I ain't got

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Speaker 5: Well, I had to show first called Where's Wallow? And

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Speaker 5: Yeah, it was like a newsletter.

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Speaker 5: I think right now we live in a time whereas

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Speaker 5: though everything is possible, not anything everything. You could build it,

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Speaker 1: It's gonna sound weird saying good luck because obviously there

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Speaker 5: Definitely everything is a lesson. I got regrets of people

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Speaker 5: What I got to hate for I'm winning exactly. Ain't

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Speaker 1: Yes, So now your book again, we're talking about change,

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Speaker 5: You know what's crazy is in America we believe in

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Speaker 1: Do now when you're talking about all of the things

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Speaker 2: Shirt, you got the water.

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Speaker 5: Think about this, you know, you know who? Why would

442
00:17:16,200 --> 00:17:18,360
Speaker 5: somebody support your peninesses if you don't, that's fair.

443
00:17:18,600 --> 00:17:20,040
Speaker 1: It's really making me question a lot of the things

444
00:17:20,040 --> 00:17:21,000
Speaker 1: I'm doing with my life right now.

445
00:17:21,280 --> 00:17:22,320
Speaker 5: Ahad, start wearing your merch.

446
00:17:22,480 --> 00:17:25,160
Speaker 1: I don't have any mercher. Let's start there, Let's start giving.

447
00:17:25,240 --> 00:17:27,199
Speaker 5: See I might get do something for you. Start. I

448
00:17:27,240 --> 00:17:29,320
Speaker 5: mean you start start wearing your merch. Way, get ahead

449
00:17:29,320 --> 00:17:31,960
Speaker 5: and start giving, you know, start because what happened is

450
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Speaker 5: a lot of times I don't know what it is,

451
00:17:33,920 --> 00:17:36,159
Speaker 5: A lot of people that start businesses and start stuff,

452
00:17:36,520 --> 00:17:38,119
Speaker 5: they don't promote these stuff and I'd be like, what

453
00:17:38,160 --> 00:17:39,840
Speaker 5: is you doing? You got a clue line why you're

454
00:17:39,840 --> 00:17:41,600
Speaker 5: wearing aybod else stuff while you don't wear yours.

455
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Speaker 1: So when it comes to me specifically, I can't speak

456
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Speaker 1: for everybody else. There's a cultural aspect of that that

457
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Speaker 1: is really hard for me to kind of fight because

458
00:17:50,160 --> 00:17:52,640
Speaker 1: the Indian community, for the most part, you don't brag

459
00:17:52,640 --> 00:17:54,720
Speaker 1: about yourself. You don't talk about yourself. You hope other

460
00:17:54,760 --> 00:17:58,119
Speaker 1: people will, but you don't really promote yourself because it

461
00:17:58,160 --> 00:18:01,800
Speaker 1: comes off as egotistical and bombastic and all the words

462
00:18:01,800 --> 00:18:03,400
Speaker 1: that you don't want to be whis to your point,

463
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Speaker 1: I should probably hit the fucking button.

464
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Speaker 5: I can't, but could it be an amendment to that

465
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Speaker 5: When you're doing business, you ain't supposed to mark at

466
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Speaker 5: your business your livelihood.

467
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Speaker 1: That's what I'm I feel like if I had a

468
00:18:12,119 --> 00:18:14,720
Speaker 1: hotel or if I did something like that, it would

469
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Speaker 1: be one thing. But when your brand is you, my

470
00:18:16,680 --> 00:18:19,040
Speaker 1: brand is me, it does feel a little bit weird.

471
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Speaker 5: Well, what if other people do What if you got

472
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Speaker 5: a team of people that do it.

473
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Speaker 1: That's what I'm hoping over here she's doing something, but

474
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Speaker 1: I don't think she is so do that.

475
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Speaker 5: But but I just think about it, like I see

476
00:18:33,040 --> 00:18:37,520
Speaker 5: people right and they got podcasts and they promoting others. Oh,

477
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Speaker 5: I like this episode. Why you ain't talk about the

478
00:18:39,359 --> 00:18:42,600
Speaker 5: episode of yours and your story of posting? Like people

479
00:18:42,640 --> 00:18:45,399
Speaker 5: don't post their stuff enough. They don't believe, like and

480
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Speaker 5: it just be to me like you want me to buy,

481
00:18:49,000 --> 00:18:51,640
Speaker 5: you want me to believe, and something that you don't

482
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Speaker 5: you're not bought into or that you won't believe.

483
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Speaker 1: I got to work on that. That's the one thing

484
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Speaker 1: that I think I need to do a lot better.

485
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Speaker 5: Watch fucking button on YouTube.

486
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Speaker 1: So I totally cut off when you were talking about

487
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Speaker 1: all the things that you're doing. What are airplanes? What

488
00:19:02,440 --> 00:19:02,920
Speaker 1: is airplanes?

489
00:19:02,920 --> 00:19:04,760
Speaker 5: And hotel? The hotels is a clove line.

490
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Speaker 1: I got what's the water?

491
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Speaker 5: Uh high dreation drink Perrea few owner of It's official

492
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Speaker 5: hydration drink for the Philly of your seventy sixes official

493
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Speaker 5: hydration drink the Chicago Sky great unbelievable, takes different flavors

494
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Speaker 5: and we'll get intentions. That's something else, you know, that's

495
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Speaker 5: just that's special.

496
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Speaker 1: So how are you feeling about it.

497
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Speaker 5: I feel outstanding.

498
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Speaker 1: Did you reread it once it was done?

499
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Speaker 5: I did. I did the audiobook too. I got the

500
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Speaker 5: great uh Ayana van Zant, she did the forward thirteen

501
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Speaker 5: eight was the publisher Callery Slash Simon and Simon, and

502
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Speaker 5: the shoot is powered by them, you know what I mean.

503
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Speaker 5: But it's like I just had to you know, it's

504
00:19:42,359 --> 00:19:44,479
Speaker 5: just a great experience to be able to know that

505
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Speaker 5: it didn't feel good you feel it.

506
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Speaker 1: Yeah, it's a hardcover, by the way, but that's that

507
00:19:48,560 --> 00:19:49,120
Speaker 1: song you hear.

508
00:19:49,359 --> 00:19:52,000
Speaker 5: You feel it rugging itself. It's it's just a great

509
00:19:52,040 --> 00:19:54,320
Speaker 5: feeling that somebody could take this and it can help

510
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Speaker 5: somebody in life. I'm happy about it.

511
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Speaker 1: Start to finish. How long did it take you?

512
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Speaker 5: Less than the year? It didn't take that long. You know.

513
00:20:01,640 --> 00:20:04,560
Speaker 5: It was just a great experience, man, especially reading it

514
00:20:04,600 --> 00:20:05,760
Speaker 5: was a great experience. You know.

515
00:20:06,080 --> 00:20:09,440
Speaker 1: And now that you are obviously doing press, so you're

516
00:20:09,520 --> 00:20:11,840
Speaker 1: flying airplanes and hotels. How does that work with your

517
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Speaker 1: parole which I read was Yeah, I got.

518
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Speaker 5: An unbelievable paro agent that I just would let her

519
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Speaker 5: get my whole schedule. She always supported on me. Shout

520
00:20:22,160 --> 00:20:24,880
Speaker 5: out the Asian crews that just be hold me down.

521
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Speaker 5: She believe in everything I'm doing.

522
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Speaker 1: Do you ever sleep?

523
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Speaker 5: I slept the last time that I.

524
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Speaker 1: The last time that I slept.

525
00:20:31,160 --> 00:20:34,080
Speaker 5: The last time I slept was like seventy eight before

526
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Speaker 5: I was born, nineteen seventy eight. Having enough at it, okay.

527
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Speaker 1: I mean it kind of seems that way with all

528
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Speaker 1: the things that you have going on.

529
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Speaker 5: Like you know what's crazy about me? I actually really

530
00:20:44,440 --> 00:20:47,159
Speaker 5: enjoyed sleeping, But I like, I got this thing whereas

531
00:20:47,200 --> 00:20:49,679
Speaker 5: though I like to do what I got to do early,

532
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Speaker 5: and I like to go in the crib like three

533
00:20:51,520 --> 00:20:52,400
Speaker 5: or four and go to sleep.

534
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Speaker 1: Pitch am I am.

535
00:20:54,920 --> 00:20:57,160
Speaker 5: But I like to go to sleep because I don't

536
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Speaker 5: know what it is I like to I like to

537
00:20:58,560 --> 00:21:01,120
Speaker 5: wake up at nighttime and be doing research. I love night.

538
00:21:01,480 --> 00:21:03,960
Speaker 1: I recently read that people who sleep during the day

539
00:21:04,000 --> 00:21:06,560
Speaker 1: have bigger brains. I don't know if we're using all

540
00:21:06,600 --> 00:21:09,160
Speaker 1: of that, but if you're a day sleeper, yes, I'll

541
00:21:09,200 --> 00:21:10,920
Speaker 1: send you the article because I was like, oh good

542
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Speaker 1: and af during the day, my brain's huge. So a

543
00:21:13,000 --> 00:21:15,480
Speaker 1: day off, if you have even such a thing as

544
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Speaker 1: a day off, what do you do? What are you

545
00:21:16,880 --> 00:21:17,640
Speaker 1: doing for fun?

546
00:21:17,920 --> 00:21:20,760
Speaker 5: You'll believe it or that my fun is really Like,

547
00:21:21,560 --> 00:21:23,639
Speaker 5: it's this place I go to in Philly, Right, this

548
00:21:23,720 --> 00:21:26,720
Speaker 5: is the greatest place ever. Right, and they rub your legs. Right,

549
00:21:26,760 --> 00:21:29,760
Speaker 5: it's a spy. Okay, I go there, Man, my life change.

550
00:21:29,840 --> 00:21:31,320
Speaker 5: I feel like I'm fine.

551
00:21:31,480 --> 00:21:33,440
Speaker 1: Just getting your legs rubbed. Yeah, massage.

552
00:21:33,520 --> 00:21:35,760
Speaker 5: Yeah, it's a massage. I don't even like you know

553
00:21:35,800 --> 00:21:38,440
Speaker 5: what I used to like the regular massage. You're back,

554
00:21:38,480 --> 00:21:40,480
Speaker 5: which is cool, but I don't even care about them

555
00:21:40,480 --> 00:21:42,560
Speaker 5: no more. I like to go to display place in

556
00:21:42,600 --> 00:21:45,119
Speaker 5: Philly and they just rub your legs for ninety minutes

557
00:21:45,200 --> 00:21:47,240
Speaker 5: and then you lay down. You got the blanket. I'd

558
00:21:47,280 --> 00:21:50,800
Speaker 5: be sleeping this joint. Right, It's just unbelievable. It's crazy.

559
00:21:51,240 --> 00:21:54,639
Speaker 1: So my producer Diamond, she got a massage for the

560
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Speaker 1: first time in her life.

561
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Speaker 2: What what it was like.

562
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Speaker 1: Three years ago? You want to come over here.

563
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Speaker 4: Twenty twenty one, the best moment of my life. I

564
00:22:04,160 --> 00:22:05,800
Speaker 4: don't know what this woman did to me.

565
00:22:06,040 --> 00:22:07,120
Speaker 5: How many times you've been back?

566
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Speaker 4: Oh no, it was a one and done. She hasn't

567
00:22:09,160 --> 00:22:13,320
Speaker 4: been I'm gonna get a massage another time because it

568
00:22:13,359 --> 00:22:15,520
Speaker 4: was a part of a whole different experience that some

569
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Speaker 4: of it I don't want to relive. So it was

570
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Speaker 4: like we went on a camping trip. She took me

571
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Speaker 4: out in the middle of the woods. I don't do

572
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Speaker 4: that stuff, and she's fine. That was my reward for

573
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Speaker 4: the end of this, and it was great.

574
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Speaker 5: Damn how long did it? How long was this?

575
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Speaker 4: I don't even know because I closed my eyes and

576
00:22:30,720 --> 00:22:32,240
Speaker 4: it was it was too fast for me.

577
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Speaker 3: But it's great.

578
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Speaker 1: I've been trying to get her to go back because

579
00:22:35,600 --> 00:22:38,679
Speaker 1: she loved it so much. I know maybe after this

580
00:22:38,720 --> 00:22:40,280
Speaker 1: is over, we're gonna have to figure that out for you.

581
00:22:40,480 --> 00:22:42,560
Speaker 1: Because she was like, I don't understand how people don't

582
00:22:42,640 --> 00:22:45,480
Speaker 1: leave in relationships with their mascuse the way that woman

583
00:22:45,520 --> 00:22:47,200
Speaker 1: touched me, she loves me. I was like, she doesn't.

584
00:22:47,320 --> 00:22:49,680
Speaker 1: She does not love me to everybody.

585
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Speaker 3: That's crazy.

586
00:22:50,720 --> 00:22:51,840
Speaker 5: Oh you thought it was personal.

587
00:22:52,640 --> 00:22:55,280
Speaker 3: It was for me. I was like, wow, like I

588
00:22:55,320 --> 00:22:56,320
Speaker 3: felt it very well.

589
00:22:57,160 --> 00:23:00,000
Speaker 1: Do you find that there's one platform where you were

590
00:23:00,080 --> 00:23:02,840
Speaker 1: reaching more people than others? Like is your YouTube audience

591
00:23:02,960 --> 00:23:04,960
Speaker 1: more engaged in this stuff or is it the people

592
00:23:04,960 --> 00:23:07,520
Speaker 1: who are buying your book or watching your ted.

593
00:23:07,359 --> 00:23:11,200
Speaker 5: Talks is across the board, right, It's about the real

594
00:23:11,280 --> 00:23:13,280
Speaker 5: interaction that to you to another police.

595
00:23:14,080 --> 00:23:15,800
Speaker 1: So you actually encourage people to come talk to you.

596
00:23:16,080 --> 00:23:17,000
Speaker 5: Oh yeah, they always do.

597
00:23:17,320 --> 00:23:20,600
Speaker 1: There's no party that's like hello, okay.

598
00:23:21,040 --> 00:23:24,639
Speaker 5: You know, of all ages, all races, people give you

599
00:23:24,680 --> 00:23:26,480
Speaker 5: so much information because I look at this world like

600
00:23:26,520 --> 00:23:28,919
Speaker 5: this world is one big library and everybody's a book.

601
00:23:29,440 --> 00:23:31,800
Speaker 5: You know. I might stop and talk to you about podcasting,

602
00:23:32,119 --> 00:23:35,240
Speaker 5: stop and talk to Diamond about massages, and it's one

603
00:23:35,280 --> 00:23:37,959
Speaker 5: big ass library, and you'll be amazed what people will

604
00:23:38,000 --> 00:23:38,520
Speaker 5: tell you.

605
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Speaker 1: You know, you are sort of paraphrasing my favorite quote

606
00:23:42,119 --> 00:23:44,959
Speaker 1: by Bill and I I love him. He says, everyone

607
00:23:45,000 --> 00:23:47,159
Speaker 1: you will ever meet knows something that you do not.

608
00:23:47,640 --> 00:23:48,680
Speaker 1: You just have to sit and talk to them and

609
00:23:48,680 --> 00:23:49,480
Speaker 1: figure out that.

610
00:23:50,240 --> 00:23:53,040
Speaker 5: I had some crazy conversations with people.

611
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Speaker 1: Is there one that sticks out to you.

612
00:23:55,800 --> 00:23:58,560
Speaker 5: I was talking to this lady one time. She was

613
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Speaker 5: like a middle age enough fifties, white lady. She was

614
00:24:02,840 --> 00:24:05,880
Speaker 5: sitting next to me on a plane and I'm talking

615
00:24:05,920 --> 00:24:08,240
Speaker 5: to him, hearing her story of this story. She telling

616
00:24:08,280 --> 00:24:11,040
Speaker 5: me she was a professor all this type of stuff,

617
00:24:11,480 --> 00:24:13,040
Speaker 5: and she was just talking. I was like, how was

618
00:24:13,080 --> 00:24:16,399
Speaker 5: it being at She's like, it's just fucking born. And

619
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Speaker 5: I was shocked. I was like, damn, yeah. So she

620
00:24:19,119 --> 00:24:22,160
Speaker 5: talking and talking and then I start not just it

621
00:24:22,200 --> 00:24:26,000
Speaker 5: was born. She was like I never had conversations like this,

622
00:24:26,920 --> 00:24:28,920
Speaker 5: and she felt so safe talking because she like we're

623
00:24:28,920 --> 00:24:30,880
Speaker 5: from different worlds. You don't know me, I don't know you.

624
00:24:31,680 --> 00:24:33,560
Speaker 5: She was a person. She's like, sometimes I just don't

625
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Speaker 5: want to go to work. She was so when I

626
00:24:35,480 --> 00:24:37,479
Speaker 5: told her what my stuff was, she was just like

627
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Speaker 5: she didn't believe me.

628
00:24:39,920 --> 00:24:40,800
Speaker 1: She didn't clutch her purse.

629
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Speaker 5: Fuck, you were on the plane, were in first class, okay,

630
00:24:43,640 --> 00:24:47,960
Speaker 5: So she like, yeah, you look too soft. It was

631
00:24:47,960 --> 00:24:49,840
Speaker 5: so funny because you're like you could never you can't

632
00:24:49,880 --> 00:24:53,200
Speaker 5: handle hang in prison. You were funny. She's like, you're

633
00:24:53,200 --> 00:24:55,879
Speaker 5: a comedian, ain't she? I said, you know sometimes, And

634
00:24:55,960 --> 00:24:57,520
Speaker 5: we was talking but I told her and she just

635
00:24:57,520 --> 00:25:00,400
Speaker 5: didn't believe my journey. And she worked for a real

636
00:25:00,480 --> 00:25:03,680
Speaker 5: prestige university and she's like this shit ain't working.

637
00:25:04,560 --> 00:25:07,119
Speaker 1: And I'm like, damn, you keep in touch with her

638
00:25:07,160 --> 00:25:07,440
Speaker 1: at all.

639
00:25:07,560 --> 00:25:09,400
Speaker 5: No, it was just a conversation here. Once we left

640
00:25:09,400 --> 00:25:10,200
Speaker 5: the plane, it was over.

641
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Speaker 1: I feel like that's a book in itself, all the

642
00:25:11,920 --> 00:25:13,440
Speaker 1: crazy shit that I've heard by accident.

643
00:25:13,640 --> 00:25:17,000
Speaker 5: Damn, that's a nice title. Crazy No, no making it

644
00:25:17,080 --> 00:25:19,639
Speaker 5: crazy shit. I heard that'd be better. That'll be the

645
00:25:19,680 --> 00:25:21,240
Speaker 5: name of the book. And I just tell stories of

646
00:25:21,640 --> 00:25:23,439
Speaker 5: stuff I heard from people. It's like, it's.

647
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Speaker 1: Crazy first start with this one. Are a good intention and.

648
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Speaker 5: Well good attention. Check it out right now everywhere books

649
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Speaker 5: are so thank you. Go get this, thank you. I

650
00:25:30,560 --> 00:25:31,159
Speaker 5: appreciate you.

651
00:25:31,160 --> 00:25:42,440
Speaker 1: No, I appreciate it, thank you so much, no problem,

652
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Speaker 1: and there you go.

653
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Speaker 2: Wallow wallow.

654
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Speaker 3: I love him?

655
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Speaker 1: Would you would you date him?

656
00:25:51,080 --> 00:25:54,159
Speaker 3: I don't think so. Why. I think that he gives

657
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Speaker 3: uncle vibes.

658
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Speaker 1: Okay, he's too old or he's just too corny, like

659
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Speaker 1: what it gives.

660
00:26:00,520 --> 00:26:01,560
Speaker 3: He gives uncle vibes.

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00:26:01,600 --> 00:26:04,560
Speaker 4: If I was like in my late thirties, I'd probably

662
00:26:04,560 --> 00:26:07,159
Speaker 4: find him more attractive. Okay, just I have an issue

663
00:26:07,160 --> 00:26:08,600
Speaker 4: with like age gaps.

664
00:26:08,720 --> 00:26:10,000
Speaker 1: Oh okay, I understand that.

665
00:26:10,000 --> 00:26:11,639
Speaker 4: Actually, if we have to to get high school at

666
00:26:11,680 --> 00:26:14,040
Speaker 4: the same time, whether I'm older than you or younger

667
00:26:14,080 --> 00:26:17,000
Speaker 4: than you, I'd like that eight that's like a span

668
00:26:17,080 --> 00:26:19,840
Speaker 4: of like four four years older than me, four years

669
00:26:19,880 --> 00:26:20,399
Speaker 4: younger than me.

670
00:26:20,520 --> 00:26:22,560
Speaker 3: I don't think that we have that much in common.

671
00:26:22,680 --> 00:26:23,720
Speaker 2: Okay, that's fair.

672
00:26:24,080 --> 00:26:25,960
Speaker 1: So the oldest you would date right now? Is thirty four?

673
00:26:30,280 --> 00:26:31,320
Speaker 2: Is that to old for you?

674
00:26:31,520 --> 00:26:32,920
Speaker 3: What is young?

675
00:26:33,000 --> 00:26:33,080
Speaker 1: Like?

676
00:26:33,119 --> 00:26:35,880
Speaker 3: Thirty thirty? I think the oldest that I goes thirty six.

677
00:26:36,080 --> 00:26:37,480
Speaker 1: Okay, that wouldn't have been in high school with you?

678
00:26:38,160 --> 00:26:39,640
Speaker 3: Yeah whatever, Okay.

679
00:26:39,359 --> 00:26:42,920
Speaker 1: Okay, thirty six is her cap. So thirty six year olds.

680
00:26:42,960 --> 00:26:45,800
Speaker 1: If you're out there listening, holler at diamond. Actually wait

681
00:26:46,000 --> 00:26:48,080
Speaker 1: thirty six two? You're gonna say twenty.

682
00:26:47,800 --> 00:26:50,240
Speaker 3: Six, twenty nine, twenty seven?

683
00:26:50,560 --> 00:26:50,879
Speaker 4: Do you know?

684
00:26:51,520 --> 00:26:51,720
Speaker 3: Off?

685
00:26:52,520 --> 00:26:53,080
Speaker 1: Give her take?

686
00:26:53,200 --> 00:26:54,959
Speaker 3: What do people say? Plus or minus a little bit?

687
00:26:55,520 --> 00:26:55,720
Speaker 4: You know?

688
00:26:56,960 --> 00:26:57,280
Speaker 3: Yeah?

689
00:26:57,480 --> 00:27:01,280
Speaker 4: Thirty six max? Okay, with a pension for a one

690
00:27:01,440 --> 00:27:02,360
Speaker 4: k something?

691
00:27:02,560 --> 00:27:05,720
Speaker 1: Okay, these are important things. Let's talk about that older now,

692
00:27:05,760 --> 00:27:08,360
Speaker 1: that's your thirty Oh my god, you're so old. I'm

693
00:27:08,359 --> 00:27:10,240
Speaker 1: just kidding. By the way, your thirties best time of

694
00:27:10,240 --> 00:27:13,200
Speaker 1: your life exactly. I say this personal experience thus far,

695
00:27:13,280 --> 00:27:14,120
Speaker 1: it's been amazing.

696
00:27:14,200 --> 00:27:15,119
Speaker 2: Well in your thirties.

697
00:27:15,160 --> 00:27:17,520
Speaker 1: Your twenties are ghetto as fuck they were. Your thirties

698
00:27:17,520 --> 00:27:19,439
Speaker 1: are amazing, especially if you're doing things like you're doing

699
00:27:19,520 --> 00:27:21,040
Speaker 1: right now. You're not married, you don't have kids, and

700
00:27:21,080 --> 00:27:23,840
Speaker 1: you're on a career path that you enjoy. Your thirties

701
00:27:23,880 --> 00:27:26,680
Speaker 1: are your twenties. But with money, come on, get it,

702
00:27:27,080 --> 00:27:29,520
Speaker 1: and you know yourself better. So when it comes to dating,

703
00:27:30,160 --> 00:27:34,040
Speaker 1: you're gonna be a lot more I hope, discerning, and

704
00:27:34,359 --> 00:27:35,720
Speaker 1: not deal with this shit that you don't want to

705
00:27:35,720 --> 00:27:36,680
Speaker 1: deal with and just cut it off.

706
00:27:36,720 --> 00:27:38,600
Speaker 2: Hopefully we'll see.

707
00:27:39,240 --> 00:27:39,800
Speaker 3: I hope so.

708
00:27:40,000 --> 00:27:41,639
Speaker 4: But I've been doing that for a while now, and

709
00:27:41,680 --> 00:27:43,439
Speaker 4: I'm like, Okay, maybe you need to learn how to

710
00:27:43,440 --> 00:27:45,760
Speaker 4: compromise and everything can't be a non negotiable.

711
00:27:45,840 --> 00:27:48,199
Speaker 1: Sure, No, I absolutely agree with that, especially for you.

712
00:27:48,440 --> 00:27:49,040
Speaker 3: I'm trying to.

713
00:27:51,000 --> 00:27:51,560
Speaker 2: Blocks people.

714
00:27:51,600 --> 00:27:54,560
Speaker 1: Diamond still has Scottie b blocked, by the way, for

715
00:27:54,640 --> 00:27:58,680
Speaker 1: like a tiff that they had over basically congestion pricing

716
00:27:59,119 --> 00:28:00,560
Speaker 1: in the year twenty twenty three.

717
00:28:01,520 --> 00:28:02,840
Speaker 3: It's been almost six months.

718
00:28:04,359 --> 00:28:07,640
Speaker 4: I love it, okay, but that in my birthday card,

719
00:28:07,720 --> 00:28:13,800
Speaker 4: by the way, No, he didn't wish I could follow you.

720
00:28:13,920 --> 00:28:16,560
Speaker 1: There's so funny. She won't block you. It doesn't matter

721
00:28:16,560 --> 00:28:17,960
Speaker 1: if she likes you and you guys are still working

722
00:28:17,960 --> 00:28:19,600
Speaker 1: together and she's talking to you. She will block you

723
00:28:19,960 --> 00:28:25,080
Speaker 1: on Instagram, which is hilarious. But let's talk about Diamond's

724
00:28:25,480 --> 00:28:27,840
Speaker 1: interest in a person. What's important to you right now?

725
00:28:27,880 --> 00:28:30,159
Speaker 1: Let's find you a hubby. Oh, I'm just kidding her.

726
00:28:30,560 --> 00:28:33,480
Speaker 4: Maybe a boyfriend maybe, but it's somebody that I actually

727
00:28:33,520 --> 00:28:34,560
Speaker 4: like that would be great to start.

728
00:28:34,600 --> 00:28:36,320
Speaker 1: Okay, what do you like though, Like, what would make

729
00:28:36,359 --> 00:28:37,800
Speaker 1: you like someone I like?

730
00:28:39,160 --> 00:28:40,120
Speaker 3: It's very weird.

731
00:28:40,160 --> 00:28:42,240
Speaker 4: I'm trying to find the balance, right because I like

732
00:28:42,280 --> 00:28:45,680
Speaker 4: people who are sure of themselves. But then sometimes you

733
00:28:45,720 --> 00:28:49,040
Speaker 4: get like cocky and entitled from that. Like it's like

734
00:28:49,440 --> 00:28:53,880
Speaker 4: really hard to find that middle ground. Someone who's ambitious.

735
00:28:55,360 --> 00:28:57,680
Speaker 4: But I feel like at this point you should like

736
00:28:58,320 --> 00:29:00,920
Speaker 4: also find a balance in that as well. Like you're

737
00:29:00,960 --> 00:29:04,040
Speaker 4: getting into your thirties, you should have like been busting

738
00:29:04,040 --> 00:29:06,400
Speaker 4: your ass for the past few years too, the same

739
00:29:06,400 --> 00:29:06,760
Speaker 4: way that.

740
00:29:06,760 --> 00:29:09,000
Speaker 1: I was tall expectations.

741
00:29:10,320 --> 00:29:11,920
Speaker 3: The bar is so low.

742
00:29:13,280 --> 00:29:14,040
Speaker 2: Bars in hell.

743
00:29:14,160 --> 00:29:15,640
Speaker 1: It is horrible.

744
00:29:17,320 --> 00:29:20,800
Speaker 4: Someone who's family oriented, because like I love my family.

745
00:29:20,880 --> 00:29:22,200
Speaker 4: I spent a lot of time with my family. I

746
00:29:22,200 --> 00:29:24,320
Speaker 4: can't imagine someone being like, do we have to go

747
00:29:24,360 --> 00:29:25,200
Speaker 4: to your family? Like?

748
00:29:25,280 --> 00:29:27,600
Speaker 3: Do we have to hang out with your family again? Absolutely?

749
00:29:27,720 --> 00:29:29,200
Speaker 1: No, you know you need you know you need to

750
00:29:29,200 --> 00:29:32,360
Speaker 1: find orphan so it can just be all your family

751
00:29:32,400 --> 00:29:34,120
Speaker 1: all the time and not his family.

752
00:29:34,120 --> 00:29:35,840
Speaker 4: Because I want you to be family oriented, but I

753
00:29:35,880 --> 00:29:37,400
Speaker 4: don't want to split my like.

754
00:29:37,400 --> 00:29:41,680
Speaker 2: My, no.

755
00:29:42,800 --> 00:29:44,560
Speaker 1: What else, which is a very horrible thing to say,

756
00:29:44,560 --> 00:29:46,320
Speaker 1: So don't DM me about it. I already know anyway.

757
00:29:47,200 --> 00:29:53,280
Speaker 2: Okay, looks wise you like, I love a chupster. She likes, Yeah,

758
00:29:53,320 --> 00:29:55,600
Speaker 2: I love. I feel like you need to advertise that more.

759
00:29:56,080 --> 00:29:57,400
Speaker 3: Oh really yeah, teddy bear?

760
00:29:57,680 --> 00:30:00,840
Speaker 1: Yeah, because I think that like a chubby guy or

761
00:30:00,880 --> 00:30:02,840
Speaker 1: a teddy bear, whatever you want to call them, probably

762
00:30:03,000 --> 00:30:06,360
Speaker 1: doesn't feel super appreciated all the time and probably isn't

763
00:30:06,680 --> 00:30:09,960
Speaker 1: as sought after on like dating apps, or maybe they're

764
00:30:10,040 --> 00:30:13,000
Speaker 1: less sure of themselves for whatever reason. So you let

765
00:30:13,000 --> 00:30:15,600
Speaker 1: them know she wants a chubby guy.

766
00:30:15,720 --> 00:30:15,880
Speaker 3: Yeah.

767
00:30:15,880 --> 00:30:18,240
Speaker 4: All the chubby guys that I know, though, are very cocky,

768
00:30:18,280 --> 00:30:20,160
Speaker 4: and I'm like, honey, let's calm it down.

769
00:30:20,360 --> 00:30:23,880
Speaker 1: Okay, here's my question. There is a very thin line

770
00:30:24,040 --> 00:30:27,520
Speaker 1: between confident and cocky. I think a lot of times

771
00:30:27,520 --> 00:30:32,360
Speaker 1: that people who are cocky are actually very insecure, because

772
00:30:32,400 --> 00:30:34,040
Speaker 1: if you are secure in yourself, you don't have to

773
00:30:34,040 --> 00:30:36,360
Speaker 1: wander around telling everybody how great you are at everything.

774
00:30:36,560 --> 00:30:39,480
Speaker 4: Yeah. But that's why I always shut it down too early,

775
00:30:39,520 --> 00:30:44,280
Speaker 4: because like, once I realize that they're super insecure, and

776
00:30:44,320 --> 00:30:47,120
Speaker 4: this is just like a defense mechanism basically, I'm like,

777
00:30:47,280 --> 00:30:47,880
Speaker 4: I'll shut it down.

778
00:30:47,880 --> 00:30:49,400
Speaker 3: You need to go talk to somebody and it's not me.

779
00:30:49,680 --> 00:30:51,800
Speaker 1: I think that's a bad thing to shut down. I think.

780
00:30:52,440 --> 00:30:55,960
Speaker 1: I mean again, I I'm not the queen of dating.

781
00:30:56,000 --> 00:30:57,480
Speaker 1: I don't have all the best dating advice. Let me

782
00:30:57,520 --> 00:31:00,880
Speaker 1: just start there. But I do think insecurity has ruined

783
00:31:01,680 --> 00:31:05,840
Speaker 1: so many relationships for me because people are very insecure.

784
00:31:05,880 --> 00:31:08,080
Speaker 1: But then if you are a secure person, there's kind

785
00:31:08,120 --> 00:31:10,520
Speaker 1: of no worse combination. Oh, I feel like you can

786
00:31:10,520 --> 00:31:13,600
Speaker 1: have two secure people together, you have two insecure people together,

787
00:31:13,800 --> 00:31:16,040
Speaker 1: But you cannot have a secure person and an insecure

788
00:31:16,080 --> 00:31:18,720
Speaker 1: person because you're both going to drive each other further

789
00:31:18,760 --> 00:31:21,200
Speaker 1: in that direction. Yeah, because if you tell me, like

790
00:31:21,880 --> 00:31:24,360
Speaker 1: I'm insecure about X, y Z, but I'm very confident

791
00:31:24,400 --> 00:31:27,320
Speaker 1: about that area, there's a lot of compromise in there.

792
00:31:27,320 --> 00:31:30,080
Speaker 1: I think maybe is a horrible thing for me to say.

793
00:31:30,080 --> 00:31:32,120
Speaker 4: I don't know, especially as you get older, because I

794
00:31:32,120 --> 00:31:36,120
Speaker 4: feel like you're setting your ways, Like people try to

795
00:31:36,200 --> 00:31:42,840
Speaker 4: pretend as if you need to change for people, and like,

796
00:31:42,960 --> 00:31:45,200
Speaker 4: I get it to a certain extent, it would be ideal,

797
00:31:45,240 --> 00:31:49,440
Speaker 4: But I think that like, if I've been this way my.

798
00:31:49,600 --> 00:31:52,120
Speaker 3: Entire life or let's just say the past ten years

799
00:31:52,200 --> 00:31:54,840
Speaker 3: of my life. Why do I feel like I have

800
00:31:54,880 --> 00:31:55,640
Speaker 3: to change for you?

801
00:31:57,400 --> 00:32:00,280
Speaker 1: This is where ask your married friends, because I ask

802
00:32:00,320 --> 00:32:02,040
Speaker 1: my married for insis all the time. We're just friends

803
00:32:02,040 --> 00:32:03,920
Speaker 1: who are in relationships. That's kind of stuff all the time.

804
00:32:04,400 --> 00:32:09,680
Speaker 1: Tell me the difference between compromising and settling, because everyone

805
00:32:09,680 --> 00:32:11,440
Speaker 1: will tell you never settle. You don't want to settle,

806
00:32:11,960 --> 00:32:14,160
Speaker 1: but everyone will also tell you you got to compromise.

807
00:32:14,600 --> 00:32:16,200
Speaker 1: What the wug is a difference? I don't know what

808
00:32:16,240 --> 00:32:19,600
Speaker 1: the difference is there. There has to be something, but

809
00:32:19,720 --> 00:32:21,600
Speaker 1: both of them seem like, well, we're both gonna be

810
00:32:21,640 --> 00:32:23,680
Speaker 1: kind of unhappy with Like what's going on here? I

811
00:32:23,720 --> 00:32:26,640
Speaker 1: don't know. And I also think you shouldn't change too

812
00:32:26,720 --> 00:32:29,800
Speaker 1: much about yourself. If you love yourself, you genuinely love yourself,

813
00:32:29,800 --> 00:32:33,640
Speaker 1: and I think you do. Why would you stop being

814
00:32:33,680 --> 00:32:36,640
Speaker 1: the person that you love for somebody else. I think

815
00:32:36,680 --> 00:32:38,320
Speaker 1: you have to love yourself a lot before you can

816
00:32:38,360 --> 00:32:41,080
Speaker 1: be in like a good relationship and have solid love

817
00:32:41,120 --> 00:32:42,400
Speaker 1: with another person. Maybe I'm wrong.

818
00:32:43,320 --> 00:32:45,200
Speaker 3: Then I feel like sometimes I'm a little too strict.

819
00:32:45,360 --> 00:32:47,560
Speaker 3: So it's like I'm gonna have to find a balance.

820
00:32:47,560 --> 00:32:49,160
Speaker 3: It's so hard. I'll think about it next year.

821
00:32:49,280 --> 00:32:50,480
Speaker 2: Can you do?

822
00:32:50,640 --> 00:32:54,480
Speaker 1: Drop the hammer? Pretty quickly? He had one shoulder strap

823
00:32:54,520 --> 00:32:56,760
Speaker 1: of his backpack just hanging off. Hate it, goodbye.

824
00:32:56,960 --> 00:32:59,680
Speaker 4: I'll never forget that. I can see you right now,

825
00:33:00,000 --> 00:33:01,760
Speaker 4: and I close my eyes. You said it, I can

826
00:33:01,840 --> 00:33:02,240
Speaker 4: see it.

827
00:33:02,440 --> 00:33:03,960
Speaker 3: I can see it. I listen.

828
00:33:04,080 --> 00:33:06,080
Speaker 1: We all have our things, right. Oh, I don't even

829
00:33:06,120 --> 00:33:08,960
Speaker 1: know what mine are anymore. I have no idea. I

830
00:33:10,240 --> 00:33:11,800
Speaker 1: try not to be super harsh about it, because I'm

831
00:33:11,840 --> 00:33:13,880
Speaker 1: sure that's other people. I'm like a carnival of red

832
00:33:13,880 --> 00:33:16,840
Speaker 1: flags myself. So I mean, obviously those people are wrong

833
00:33:16,880 --> 00:33:19,800
Speaker 1: and stupid, but I can see.

834
00:33:19,560 --> 00:33:21,000
Speaker 2: It at least a little.

835
00:33:21,360 --> 00:33:24,160
Speaker 1: Let's talk about your birthday trip. Oh, you were gone

836
00:33:24,240 --> 00:33:24,880
Speaker 1: on Friday.

837
00:33:25,280 --> 00:33:26,000
Speaker 2: I hated it.

838
00:33:26,640 --> 00:33:28,320
Speaker 1: You've gone all weekend and I hated it.

839
00:33:28,400 --> 00:33:28,640
Speaker 3: Good.

840
00:33:28,840 --> 00:33:30,960
Speaker 1: I wanted to talk to you about things. You're having

841
00:33:30,960 --> 00:33:33,480
Speaker 1: a good time and I couldn't be nowt your back.

842
00:33:33,880 --> 00:33:35,200
Speaker 1: I was sad. I told you I was sad, and

843
00:33:35,280 --> 00:33:39,240
Speaker 1: I meant it. You, Dick, How was your trip? Was amazing?

844
00:33:39,320 --> 00:33:40,040
Speaker 2: Where did you go?

845
00:33:40,120 --> 00:33:42,800
Speaker 3: Okay? So I went to care Free Arizona.

846
00:33:42,920 --> 00:33:45,160
Speaker 1: Literally because I have your location and I looked and

847
00:33:45,240 --> 00:33:46,560
Speaker 1: you were in care Free Reson.

848
00:33:46,480 --> 00:33:49,960
Speaker 3: Literally it's like maybe forty five minutes outside of Phoenix.

849
00:33:49,960 --> 00:33:50,480
Speaker 1: Okay, So.

850
00:33:52,240 --> 00:33:55,239
Speaker 4: It was far enough out for you to feel like

851
00:33:55,360 --> 00:33:58,680
Speaker 4: you were literally in the desert and away from the city.

852
00:33:58,760 --> 00:33:59,840
Speaker 1: Oh you were in the desert.

853
00:34:00,120 --> 00:34:02,520
Speaker 3: Well, yes, I mean very interesting.

854
00:34:03,880 --> 00:34:05,680
Speaker 4: But it was also close enough for me to be like,

855
00:34:05,920 --> 00:34:09,080
Speaker 4: we went to dinner in the city for like a

856
00:34:09,120 --> 00:34:10,440
Speaker 4: birthday dinner and stuff like that.

857
00:34:11,000 --> 00:34:12,239
Speaker 3: But it was hot as hell.

858
00:34:12,480 --> 00:34:15,000
Speaker 1: Yeah, man, no joke, how hot it is out there.

859
00:34:15,000 --> 00:34:18,280
Speaker 1: They're like breaking records this year for the most amount

860
00:34:18,320 --> 00:34:21,960
Speaker 1: of days spent over one hundred degrees sick. Oh my god,

861
00:34:22,040 --> 00:34:22,359
Speaker 1: I'm hot.

862
00:34:22,560 --> 00:34:25,200
Speaker 3: I'm top talking about it. I am tired, okay.

863
00:34:25,360 --> 00:34:27,480
Speaker 2: Like dehydrated.

864
00:34:27,600 --> 00:34:30,279
Speaker 4: Yes, in liquid that was in my body before I

865
00:34:30,360 --> 00:34:31,840
Speaker 4: got there is completely gone.

866
00:34:32,000 --> 00:34:33,280
Speaker 3: Okay, I am a cactus.

867
00:34:33,360 --> 00:34:35,680
Speaker 1: I need to see you stop drinking the coffee and

868
00:34:35,680 --> 00:34:36,720
Speaker 1: start drinking more water.

869
00:34:36,880 --> 00:34:41,040
Speaker 3: We had water. I've been drinking water because I felt

870
00:34:41,080 --> 00:34:41,960
Speaker 3: like I had no choice.

871
00:34:42,200 --> 00:34:43,320
Speaker 1: No, you got to drink water.

872
00:34:43,160 --> 00:34:46,080
Speaker 4: And liquid ivs and like things to hydrate.

873
00:34:46,320 --> 00:34:48,160
Speaker 3: Okay, it's just that heat.

874
00:34:49,040 --> 00:34:51,480
Speaker 1: It'll take it out of you. So you had some

875
00:34:51,520 --> 00:34:54,400
Speaker 1: birthday dinners by the way at Diamond Sincere on Instagram,

876
00:34:54,400 --> 00:34:56,040
Speaker 1: you look beautiful and you're green outfit.

877
00:34:58,320 --> 00:34:59,000
Speaker 2: What else did you do?

878
00:34:59,080 --> 00:35:02,719
Speaker 1: You did? I'm so proud of you because you did

879
00:35:02,719 --> 00:35:05,640
Speaker 1: a hike by yourself without your friends, yes, and a

880
00:35:05,680 --> 00:35:07,919
Speaker 1: group of other people. That is so not like you.

881
00:35:08,480 --> 00:35:09,560
Speaker 2: I'm so proud of you.

882
00:35:09,600 --> 00:35:11,960
Speaker 3: And I made a new bestia, Jillian.

883
00:35:14,760 --> 00:35:17,040
Speaker 1: What's the lady's name that you ran off with on

884
00:35:17,080 --> 00:35:17,840
Speaker 1: the trail? Jenna?

885
00:35:18,320 --> 00:35:19,600
Speaker 3: Jenna, Jenna and Jillian.

886
00:35:19,680 --> 00:35:22,760
Speaker 1: We got some j's going on, Okay, Jillian.

887
00:35:22,520 --> 00:35:24,520
Speaker 4: From she was born in Jamaica. You know I love

888
00:35:24,600 --> 00:35:29,960
Speaker 4: Jamaican people. Yeah, I'm fake Jamaican. Yes. She lives in

889
00:35:30,120 --> 00:35:32,919
Speaker 4: La and we're actually she's like, we both were talking

890
00:35:32,960 --> 00:35:35,040
Speaker 4: about coming back, like going back to the resort that

891
00:35:35,080 --> 00:35:36,799
Speaker 4: we stayed at, and she's like, well, let me know

892
00:35:36,840 --> 00:35:38,440
Speaker 4: when you come, Like I want to go, so like

893
00:35:38,560 --> 00:35:40,600
Speaker 4: maybe we'll end up coming on the same week or

894
00:35:40,640 --> 00:35:44,080
Speaker 4: weekend whatever. Hell yeah, she's so nice. I love when

895
00:35:44,080 --> 00:35:45,560
Speaker 4: you make friends outside of your friends.

896
00:35:45,560 --> 00:35:47,520
Speaker 1: It's so cute, right I listen, I told you I've

897
00:35:47,520 --> 00:35:50,400
Speaker 1: really been struggling. I need to make friends outside of work.

898
00:35:50,880 --> 00:35:53,279
Speaker 1: I have to. It's so hard, it really is, as

899
00:35:53,280 --> 00:35:55,919
Speaker 1: a grown up trying to make friends, Like to tell

900
00:35:55,920 --> 00:35:57,680
Speaker 1: you all this life stuff about me, And I have

901
00:35:57,680 --> 00:35:59,640
Speaker 1: to tell you why this weird thing about me isn't

902
00:35:59,640 --> 00:35:59,959
Speaker 1: that weird.

903
00:36:00,000 --> 00:36:01,360
Speaker 2: It's actually just lovable.

904
00:36:02,640 --> 00:36:03,640
Speaker 3: But lunatic.

905
00:36:04,440 --> 00:36:06,360
Speaker 2: What did you see on the trail, Diamond.

906
00:36:06,480 --> 00:36:07,400
Speaker 3: A rattle snake?

907
00:36:07,880 --> 00:36:09,080
Speaker 1: A rattlesnake.

908
00:36:09,160 --> 00:36:12,280
Speaker 2: In a month, you have seen bears.

909
00:36:12,600 --> 00:36:14,960
Speaker 1: And a rattlesnake that was insane, and bison and all

910
00:36:14,960 --> 00:36:16,799
Speaker 1: the other stuff that we saw in and elk and

911
00:36:17,640 --> 00:36:21,160
Speaker 1: chipmunks and rabbits and you know whatever. But I think

912
00:36:21,200 --> 00:36:22,880
Speaker 1: the scariest of all those is the rattlesnake.

913
00:36:22,960 --> 00:36:23,640
Speaker 3: No, the bears.

914
00:36:24,560 --> 00:36:28,919
Speaker 4: The rattlesnake, from what I was told, does not want

915
00:36:28,960 --> 00:36:29,760
Speaker 4: to be bothered.

916
00:36:30,200 --> 00:36:30,960
Speaker 3: Leave it alone.

917
00:36:31,040 --> 00:36:33,360
Speaker 4: But also the tour guide that I was with felt

918
00:36:33,360 --> 00:36:36,200
Speaker 4: like it was his fucking civic duty to get this

919
00:36:36,320 --> 00:36:39,440
Speaker 4: damn snake away from the trail, which was very nice.

920
00:36:39,520 --> 00:36:42,520
Speaker 4: But at the same time, we're all scared, like the hikers,

921
00:36:42,880 --> 00:36:46,400
Speaker 4: We're scared. Yeah, And he's like fucking poking it with

922
00:36:46,400 --> 00:36:48,360
Speaker 4: the stick, trying to get it off of the trail,

923
00:36:48,600 --> 00:36:50,160
Speaker 4: and he's like, I know what I'm doing, guys.

924
00:36:50,200 --> 00:36:53,520
Speaker 3: Whatever. I did trust him, and he's like a survival expert.

925
00:36:53,960 --> 00:36:56,120
Speaker 3: He's so cool. I think you would be fascinated.

926
00:36:55,719 --> 00:36:56,839
Speaker 2: Okay, but was cute.

927
00:36:57,200 --> 00:37:02,319
Speaker 3: Yes, okay, his name Adrian, very cute guy.

928
00:37:02,480 --> 00:37:05,400
Speaker 4: Okay, but yeah he was very nice and like he

929
00:37:05,480 --> 00:37:07,840
Speaker 4: got it out of the way and I lived to

930
00:37:07,880 --> 00:37:09,720
Speaker 4: talk about it, but did it was very scary.

931
00:37:09,800 --> 00:37:11,919
Speaker 1: I'm so proud of you. And now let's talk about

932
00:37:11,960 --> 00:37:14,960
Speaker 1: your rental car. Yeah, why did I see you putting

933
00:37:15,040 --> 00:37:16,359
Speaker 1: luggage into a U haul?

934
00:37:18,600 --> 00:37:23,040
Speaker 4: Well, first, I'd like to start by saying budget or Avis,

935
00:37:23,239 --> 00:37:25,440
Speaker 4: I don't know which one of you is responsible for this.

936
00:37:25,520 --> 00:37:28,640
Speaker 4: We'll go exped Expedia in there as well. Count your

937
00:37:28,640 --> 00:37:31,760
Speaker 4: fucking days. Okay, because why would you let me rent

938
00:37:31,800 --> 00:37:35,680
Speaker 4: a car and then close without calling and saying, hey,

939
00:37:36,400 --> 00:37:38,879
Speaker 4: we see that you haven't picked up your car yet.

940
00:37:38,880 --> 00:37:39,880
Speaker 3: We're about to close.

941
00:37:40,320 --> 00:37:44,160
Speaker 4: R Thirty five minutes maybe an hour tops was between

942
00:37:44,200 --> 00:37:45,759
Speaker 4: the pickup time and.

943
00:37:45,840 --> 00:37:48,360
Speaker 3: The time that they closed. Why didn't you say anything?

944
00:37:48,600 --> 00:37:50,200
Speaker 1: Had they said something, would you have been able to

945
00:37:50,200 --> 00:37:51,000
Speaker 1: get there in time?

946
00:37:51,239 --> 00:37:51,439
Speaker 5: No?

947
00:37:51,719 --> 00:37:53,719
Speaker 2: I would have can so you would have had a.

948
00:37:53,640 --> 00:37:59,000
Speaker 1: Better plan, yes, versus renting, which I think is actually genius.

949
00:37:59,000 --> 00:37:59,960
Speaker 1: I don't think I would have thought about.

950
00:38:00,080 --> 00:38:01,880
Speaker 4: Hey listen, and it was cheaper than the car, so

951
00:38:01,920 --> 00:38:03,680
Speaker 4: let's hope I get my money back because it would

952
00:38:03,680 --> 00:38:06,799
Speaker 4: be great, but like, are you kidding me? And then

953
00:38:07,920 --> 00:38:10,439
Speaker 4: first of all, like I said, one hundred and three

954
00:38:10,440 --> 00:38:15,320
Speaker 4: degrees in the middle of nowhere, in the middle of nowhere,

955
00:38:15,360 --> 00:38:17,880
Speaker 4: absolutely not, it's a budget. And then there's a U

956
00:38:17,960 --> 00:38:19,640
Speaker 4: haul place right next door.

957
00:38:19,960 --> 00:38:20,880
Speaker 3: So I had to walk over.

958
00:38:20,760 --> 00:38:23,719
Speaker 4: To the U haul, Like what were my options? Get

959
00:38:23,719 --> 00:38:25,840
Speaker 4: a hotel room, put my stuff in the whole We

960
00:38:25,880 --> 00:38:28,120
Speaker 4: were on our way to a football game. I was

961
00:38:28,120 --> 00:38:29,359
Speaker 4: not missing that game, by the way.

962
00:38:29,480 --> 00:38:31,280
Speaker 1: So you parked a U haul full of your luggage

963
00:38:31,280 --> 00:38:33,200
Speaker 1: at the game, absolutely I should have taken it.

964
00:38:33,400 --> 00:38:36,680
Speaker 4: I don't think anybody has a picture of the actual U.

965
00:38:36,600 --> 00:38:37,919
Speaker 3: Haul in the parking lot.

966
00:38:39,120 --> 00:38:42,120
Speaker 4: But a guy, you know how like people direct you

967
00:38:42,160 --> 00:38:44,640
Speaker 4: to where you need to park and stuff. We pull

968
00:38:44,800 --> 00:38:47,640
Speaker 4: up and he's just looking at me like you idiot.

969
00:38:47,400 --> 00:38:48,640
Speaker 3: Like you could just see it on his face.

970
00:38:48,760 --> 00:38:50,799
Speaker 4: So I rolled down the window. I'm like, sir, is

971
00:38:50,800 --> 00:38:52,960
Speaker 4: there anywhere that I could park this? I just need

972
00:38:52,960 --> 00:38:56,280
Speaker 4: to go to the game, like whatever, And before before

973
00:38:56,320 --> 00:38:58,080
Speaker 4: the words came out of his mouth, I had to

974
00:38:58,080 --> 00:39:01,600
Speaker 4: stop him and I was like, be nice to me, please,

975
00:39:02,719 --> 00:39:03,440
Speaker 4: I would never.

976
00:39:04,960 --> 00:39:05,520
Speaker 3: Be nice to me.

977
00:39:05,600 --> 00:39:09,520
Speaker 4: I'm like, no one wants to drive a U haul

978
00:39:09,640 --> 00:39:10,399
Speaker 4: to a football game.

979
00:39:10,400 --> 00:39:11,759
Speaker 3: I want you to understand that you.

980
00:39:11,760 --> 00:39:12,720
Speaker 1: Have to know things happening.

981
00:39:12,760 --> 00:39:15,480
Speaker 3: Please. I am desperate. I have had a horrible day

982
00:39:15,880 --> 00:39:18,440
Speaker 3: and at that point was only one o'clock. I was like,

983
00:39:18,520 --> 00:39:21,400
Speaker 3: please be nice to me. He was hysterical. Everybody in

984
00:39:21,480 --> 00:39:23,319
Speaker 3: Arizona was really nice, by the way, So you.

985
00:39:23,280 --> 00:39:25,520
Speaker 1: Parked your U haul, you had a good time. I'm

986
00:39:25,520 --> 00:39:28,040
Speaker 1: so proud of you for so many reasons. Our baby

987
00:39:28,040 --> 00:39:30,839
Speaker 1: girl is growing up. She is she is. This makes

988
00:39:30,880 --> 00:39:33,400
Speaker 1: me so But I did really miss you, and I'm

989
00:39:33,400 --> 00:39:35,479
Speaker 1: happy that you're back. And next time I'll.

990
00:39:35,360 --> 00:39:36,040
Speaker 2: Probably go with you.

991
00:39:36,040 --> 00:39:36,440
Speaker 3: You need to.

992
00:39:36,520 --> 00:39:38,720
Speaker 1: I should have I should have done it this time. Okay,

993
00:39:38,840 --> 00:39:40,400
Speaker 1: if people want to find you on Instagram, where they

994
00:39:40,400 --> 00:39:41,000
Speaker 1: gonna find.

995
00:39:40,800 --> 00:39:42,239
Speaker 3: You at Diamonds sincere?

996
00:39:42,640 --> 00:39:45,879
Speaker 1: Yes, I am at Baby Hot Sauce. Diamond is still

997
00:39:45,960 --> 00:39:47,359
Speaker 1: rocking Twitter too, right, I'm sorry?

998
00:39:47,600 --> 00:39:50,400
Speaker 4: X Yeah, but I have no followers on there, so

999
00:39:50,640 --> 00:39:53,480
Speaker 4: I mean you just go, yeah, I just yeah, follow

1000
00:39:53,520 --> 00:39:54,160
Speaker 4: me if you want to.

1001
00:39:54,360 --> 00:39:54,720
Speaker 3: Whatever.

1002
00:39:54,880 --> 00:39:56,440
Speaker 1: Do they still call it black Twitter or is it

1003
00:39:56,480 --> 00:39:57,160
Speaker 1: now black X?

1004
00:39:58,239 --> 00:39:58,840
Speaker 3: What Twitter?

1005
00:39:59,160 --> 00:39:59,319
Speaker 5: Right?

1006
00:39:59,360 --> 00:40:00,799
Speaker 3: We're never gonna stop calling it twitter.

1007
00:40:00,840 --> 00:40:03,759
Speaker 4: I don't understand why the Twitter Forever's time trying to rebrand.

1008
00:40:03,840 --> 00:40:04,560
Speaker 2: Please stupid do.

1009
00:40:04,520 --> 00:40:10,920
Speaker 1: You want stupid? Okay, until next I say bye bye.