Speaker 1: The second date of day. Should you actually listen to
Speaker 1: what people write for hobbies on their dating profiles? Good question,
Speaker 1: because they all say they love hiking. And next thing
Speaker 1: you know, you're out on a mountain trail, face to
Speaker 1: face with a grizzly and you realize you forgot your
Speaker 1: bear mace next to your six pack of pineapple truly,
Speaker 1: and in your head you're thinking, well, maybe they're not
Speaker 1: really into hiking.
Speaker 2: Did you really forget the truly?
Speaker 1: Well, both of them? What was I think you're drunk? Yeah,
Speaker 1: and one of our listeners, Corey, picked an activity for
Speaker 1: his date based on her dating profile. Corey, no matter
Speaker 1: what you ended up doing, I hope that you didn't
Speaker 1: forget to bring the bear mace.
Speaker 3: You know I did not. I should have trust me. Well,
Speaker 3: not for her, but the bears.
Speaker 1: Okay, there was some sort of danger apparently on your
Speaker 1: data someone you could have massed. First. Before we get
Speaker 1: to that, tell us about the girl. What's her name?
Speaker 4: Oh?
Speaker 3: Adrian?
Speaker 5: Okay, and Jeff had mentioned that you designed the date
Speaker 5: around one of her hobbies or interests on her profile?
Speaker 2: What did her profile say?
Speaker 3: Hold on for a see, let me let me, let
Speaker 3: me pull it up here. I didn't know you guys
Speaker 3: are going to ask me that. Yeah, like it says
Speaker 3: a good cologne and holding hands on my crypt tonight.
Speaker 3: Oh and then like she goes, I'll kick your butt
Speaker 3: on the dance floor.
Speaker 2: Okay, okay, it's aggressive.
Speaker 1: And does I mean she danced better than you were?
Speaker 1: Literally fight you?
Speaker 4: Yeah?
Speaker 2: Him, I think it sounds fun.
Speaker 3: So like I found a country bar that has dancing,
Speaker 3: not my specialty, but I'm like, I want to impress
Speaker 3: that's awesome ware to.
Speaker 6: Show interest in her hobbies.
Speaker 4: Yeah.
Speaker 3: Yeah. So like we get there, I got us some drinks.
Speaker 3: I sit at the table with my beer, and before
Speaker 3: I could even get one word in, some older dude
Speaker 3: comes and say, hey, will you dance with me?
Speaker 2: Oh that's quick?
Speaker 7: Yeah.
Speaker 5: Is it a situation you line dancing or they're just
Speaker 5: out there dancing?
Speaker 3: They have both, so they'll start out with line dancing,
Speaker 3: then they'll go to swing. So at this time it
Speaker 3: was swing.
Speaker 6: And that's when you can rotate partners and stuff, right.
Speaker 3: Yeah exactly.
Speaker 7: And I'm like, really, dude, I'm trying to start a
Speaker 7: date here.
Speaker 3: So she looks at me and she goes, oh, well
Speaker 3: you snooze, you lose.
Speaker 2: I'm like, dang, that hurts that fight?
Speaker 8: Did you take it as rude like it could be?
Speaker 3: It was like playful, But the point is why even
Speaker 3: said and then she has a dancing to get up
Speaker 3: and leave.
Speaker 1: See that's when you need the bear mace. Anytime a
Speaker 1: guy comes over, just holds him down.
Speaker 6: The whole bar has to evacuate.
Speaker 1: You're the hero.
Speaker 2: So did you ever?
Speaker 5: I mean, your next move you had to go cut in,
Speaker 5: Like that's what you do, right, I'm glad.
Speaker 3: You said that. So I go by myself. I'm dancing
Speaker 3: every time I go to cut.
Speaker 1: In where you're dancing by yourself, I'm dancing by myself.
Speaker 3: Yeah, I'm getting ready to cut in. But guess what.
Speaker 3: I turned my head. I go back. They're like four
Speaker 3: or five people away from you.
Speaker 4: I can't cut in over there.
Speaker 1: Do you feel like dancing away from you, like trying
Speaker 1: to avoid you.
Speaker 3: I don't know if it was her him, I don't know,
Speaker 3: if it was both of them, I don't know. But
Speaker 3: to me, I think it was obvious that I was
Speaker 3: trying to cut in like two three different occasions. So
Speaker 3: eventually the music just stopped. But I'm like, are you serious?
Speaker 3: Right now.
Speaker 5: Oh man, So wait, so the music stopped and then
Speaker 5: you guys met back up or is she still hanging.
Speaker 3: Out with the Yeah, so we met back up. I
Speaker 3: didn't want to appear desperate, so I was like, no,
Speaker 3: I'm cool, you know, let's just take a break.
Speaker 6: So okay, okay, I don't know. You didn't get to
Speaker 6: dance at all.
Speaker 3: No, I mean we dance a little bit, but you know,
Speaker 3: it was the tail end because I had like a
Speaker 3: long day tomorrow, like the next day. I should say, oh.
Speaker 7: Yeah, But the date went well, it was cool.
Speaker 3: We had good dialogs, so it was all right.
Speaker 1: Well, I think the question is who was the better dancer,
Speaker 1: you or the older guy who got your date first?
Speaker 7: Sure?
Speaker 2: The older guy?
Speaker 4: Really?
Speaker 5: Yeah, it seems like a regular yeah at those bars,
Speaker 5: like these people come and they'll come every week and
Speaker 5: they dance with everybody and it's not a date thing.
Speaker 2: It's like just dancing.
Speaker 1: Whose cologne was better?
Speaker 6: In the cologne the older guy probably smells musty.
Speaker 1: Yeah, he's got the expensive stuff.
Speaker 3: I don't know. Mine was pretty good, though.
Speaker 6: I don't know I got.
Speaker 8: Close enough to the guy, you know.
Speaker 6: Her, maybe she did smell your cologne.
Speaker 8: I mean either, did you enjoy the night with her
Speaker 8: at all?
Speaker 3: Honestly?
Speaker 9: Yeah, it was.
Speaker 3: It was a good evening. I mean, it could have
Speaker 3: been a great evening, but being that I didn't have
Speaker 3: my bear mace and you know, and that it wasn't
Speaker 3: the best, so you know, it was okay.
Speaker 6: Okay, your whole night wasn't ruined.
Speaker 3: It wasn't ruined ruined. I should say we we hugged
Speaker 3: at the end, you know, a little little kiss on
Speaker 3: the cheek, nothing real serious, okay, but I mean, heck,
Speaker 3: it could have been a whole heck of a lot better.
Speaker 9: Yeah, because you know, chemistry on the dance floor that is,
Speaker 9: that's a different type of chemistry.
Speaker 6: It's awesome if you can really click.
Speaker 3: And that's my whole point exactly.
Speaker 1: Have you been trying to contact her since then, like
Speaker 1: with text or calls or anything.
Speaker 3: Yeah, I reached out with one call and a couple
Speaker 3: of checks. Has been like a about a week. I'm
Speaker 3: going on a week and a half now, But she's
Speaker 3: been doing the emoji stuff. You know, if I say
Speaker 3: something she'll like, oh I like it, But nothing like
Speaker 3: further than the dialogue. So we can talk and see,
Speaker 3: we can hang out again.
Speaker 2: Interesting, okay, just a pity reaction.
Speaker 6: You were ignoring her, but she was having too much fun.
Speaker 3: I don't know.
Speaker 1: We're gonna find out. We're gonna give you a chance
Speaker 1: to go put on some more minions cologned by Justin Bieber,
Speaker 1: and then when you come back, we're gonna call it.
Speaker 1: Should be we're gonna do here. A second date update
Speaker 1: right after this hold on man update, Corey's day night
Speaker 1: with Adrian had everything a first date should, cold beer,
Speaker 1: warm hugs, good dancing. The problem is not all that
Speaker 1: happened with Corey because some other older guy at the bar,
Speaker 1: possibly a regular there, asked to dance with his date,
Speaker 1: and Corey obliged, which is probably the worst mistake of
Speaker 1: his entire dating life.
Speaker 5: It didn't sound like he actually had a decision in it,
Speaker 5: nor should he have a choice, But it sounds like
Speaker 5: she just.
Speaker 1: Men shouldn't be allowed to choose anything good, point broke,
Speaker 1: I mean they.
Speaker 2: Shouldn't choose what women decided to do.
Speaker 8: Sure, yeah, that's.
Speaker 1: True, Corey. How are you feeling right now after that intro?
Speaker 1: You want to hit me?
Speaker 7: No, I mean that's pretty much it. And I didn't
Speaker 7: have a face so it was like she said, I snooze,
Speaker 7: I'll lose.
Speaker 3: I tell you what, though, if it was in any
Speaker 3: other circumstances, I know it would have been different.
Speaker 6: Okay, it would have been a different out.
Speaker 2: Are you wishing that you didn't go dancing? Is that
Speaker 2: what you're saying?
Speaker 3: Yeah? I probably would have chose something different looking back now, Yeah, what.
Speaker 1: Hobby would you have chosen off of your dating profile
Speaker 1: to do?
Speaker 3: Totally would have went indoor put golfing?
Speaker 2: Okay, different too.
Speaker 5: Okay, you can't be can't have a man swoop in
Speaker 5: on your date during put putt.
Speaker 3: Don't you.
Speaker 1: Yeah, maybe a little boy would come swoop, but that's
Speaker 1: when you bust out the bears. I'm not dumb with
Speaker 1: whole seventeen yet.
Speaker 8: Kid.
Speaker 5: Hey, we're doing the clown move very right now, very
Speaker 5: aggressive to this Jeffrey.
Speaker 1: So maybe we'll offer that for your next date if
Speaker 1: we can get Adrian on the phone. Here, I'm gonna
Speaker 1: dial her number and see what she has to say.
Speaker 1: Ready to do this?
Speaker 3: Yeah, let's do it?
Speaker 1: All right, let's go right? Hello, Hey is this Adrian?
Speaker 4: This is she?
Speaker 1: Who is Hey Adrian? My name is Jeff from a
Speaker 1: morning radio show called Brooke and Jeffrey in the morning.
Speaker 4: I'm sorry.
Speaker 1: I'm sorry to.
Speaker 4: Yeah, I'm really I'm just kind of confused if you're
Speaker 4: on a radio wire calling me.
Speaker 1: Well, one of our listeners asked us to call you
Speaker 1: because you went on a date with him the other night.
Speaker 1: His name's Corey.
Speaker 4: Wait, Corey asked you to call me because he went
Speaker 4: on a date.
Speaker 2: His behalf because he really liked you.
Speaker 1: He's bummed because he's been trying to text you and
Speaker 1: you haven't really been responding back to him much.
Speaker 4: Iris wanted to him a little bit.
Speaker 2: Yeah, but it sounded like a courtesy response.
Speaker 6: You guys weren't like talking back and forth and having fun.
Speaker 1: I mean, what'd you think of Corey?
Speaker 4: I mean, I'm not going to get into it, but
Speaker 4: I just I mean, I don't think I'm really interested, Like,
Speaker 4: I don't think it's gonna work out. Wow.
Speaker 5: Well, when you guys first met up, was it like
Speaker 5: initially you knew that or did it take a minute
Speaker 5: for you to say no, I.
Speaker 4: Don't just don't think it's a good fit.
Speaker 10: But I mean, okay, Like why, well, so, like I
Speaker 10: feel like when we met on a dating app, and
Speaker 10: I feel like I make my dating app very clear.
Speaker 4: That like, I'm looking for a real.
Speaker 10: Man and I don't really think they exist anymore.
Speaker 2: What does that mean? What's your definition of a real man?
Speaker 4: I'm looking for somebody that like, we're as good covone
Speaker 4: and have his stuff together and we'll stand up for
Speaker 4: his woman like a real man.
Speaker 5: You want someone to fight for you, Well, I mean, like,
Speaker 5: did we stand up?
Speaker 4: You know, don't let anybody say anything to the person
Speaker 4: that you're with, Like, you got to stand up for
Speaker 4: your woman.
Speaker 2: That I did. Someone insult you that night and he didn't, Like,
Speaker 2: I don't get it.
Speaker 6: I'd be bad.
Speaker 4: All right. Well, I'm just gonna be honest, and we're
Speaker 4: putting this all out there. So I do this thing
Speaker 4: sometimes on dates and I have my uncle show up
Speaker 4: and he'll like come and ask to talk to me
Speaker 4: or something like that.
Speaker 6: Oh it was he the older guy that we heard about.
Speaker 1: We heard we heard a guy came up to the
Speaker 1: table and asked you to dance.
Speaker 2: Yeah, so much less sexy.
Speaker 4: Is Yeah, that was actually my uncle doing it right
Speaker 4: at the country bar.
Speaker 1: He brooks, all too familiar with that movie.
Speaker 8: Yeah, what is he supposed to do? Like a guy
Speaker 8: comes up and asks you to dance.
Speaker 2: You say yes.
Speaker 8: You wanted Corey to step in and be like, dus
Speaker 8: my woman, Like I don't.
Speaker 1: Get it like a real man, right.
Speaker 4: I want someone that can like defend me and speak
Speaker 4: up and like not be a great a commentation, like.
Speaker 5: What did you need defending from? Though it sounds like
Speaker 5: the guy just want your uncle wanted to dance.
Speaker 6: You told him something right, like he snooze you lose
Speaker 6: or something.
Speaker 8: What's the defense?
Speaker 4: Well, I waited a second to see what he was
Speaker 4: going to do, and he didn't do anything. He just
Speaker 4: like looked at me, and so I was like, okay,
Speaker 4: well and then I like joking he said, well, I
Speaker 4: wouldn't dance with him because he literally didn't do anything.
Speaker 4: He didn't say anything.
Speaker 5: He like looked at me, like you should have gone
Speaker 5: to a club with this test, not like a country's defense.
Speaker 1: He didn't do nothing. He went and danced by himself
Speaker 1: in your vicinity. That's something, Oh.
Speaker 4: Man, Look, if you were there, then I think you
Speaker 4: would get it. Like he had the opportunity to step
Speaker 4: up and say I'm here with her, Jesus me, we're
Speaker 4: together like anything.
Speaker 1: Okay, Okay, it's not.
Speaker 8: Something you could have said.
Speaker 2: You couldn't have said him on a date, Adrian.
Speaker 1: I get you didn't think he was very manly then,
Speaker 1: but how's this for a man? Because he Corey reached
Speaker 1: out to a radio show to call you on his
Speaker 1: behalf and ask for him why you're not going out
Speaker 1: on another and mister masculine is on the other line
Speaker 1: wants to talk to you.
Speaker 3: Really, I mean, I had no idea if that man.
Speaker 7: Now that I know what your uncle knew, that Willie Nelson,
Speaker 7: Rascal Flats and Brooks and duns in the back, I've
Speaker 7: never been there before. I don't know what's going on.
Speaker 7: Boot Scoop Fuggy.
Speaker 1: I was ring.
Speaker 3: That's so wrong.
Speaker 7: Shippy's not dead with me, but come on, I'm respecting
Speaker 7: your boundary.
Speaker 3: I just met you.
Speaker 7: I'm not going to be a jerk and be like, hey,
Speaker 7: that's my cave man style.
Speaker 4: Yea, it's not even you know. I'm not asking to
Speaker 4: be a cave and I'm just looking for somebody that
Speaker 4: can step up and say to somebody knows she's with me,
Speaker 4: like I don't need to.
Speaker 1: Corey, you gotta be more assertive when.
Speaker 7: Hey, I tell you what under different circumstances.
Speaker 3: I have no problem with that.
Speaker 7: I was just totally respecting you from top to bottom.
Speaker 1: Yeah yeah, she doesn't want that. She doesn't want respect.
Speaker 8: Like unhealthy jealousy. It sounds like to me.
Speaker 7: Right, let me tell you this is miscommunication, That's all
Speaker 7: it is. I was not want to be a creeper,
Speaker 7: come to your job, come to your house. I got
Speaker 7: too much respect for you. I think under different circumstances.
Speaker 3: You and I can jail.
Speaker 7: I'm willing to put forth that effort.
Speaker 9: You have two completely different opinions on this. She wants
Speaker 9: you to step in, But if you, if you were
Speaker 9: a date with a girl like brook, Brook would think
Speaker 9: that's obnoxious. Like, dude, let me make my own descision.
Speaker 8: I think i'd step in.
Speaker 5: I think what happened, Adrian is if you want someone
Speaker 5: to not let you, like if you don't want to
Speaker 5: dance with other men, you needed to have told Corey
Speaker 5: as you're walking into the place, like, Hey, if someone
Speaker 5: approaches me, will you just tell him that we're on
Speaker 5: a date, Like why why couldn't you communicate that to him?
Speaker 4: Show me who he is, like I'm not trying to
Speaker 4: change him, And honestly, Corey, if you want me to
Speaker 4: think differently, if you want me to think okay, it
Speaker 4: was just a circumstance, like you're gonna step up somewhere
Speaker 4: else and you need to prove it right now. You
Speaker 4: need to show me like how much of the man
Speaker 4: you are, because that's what I want.
Speaker 1: I want to Okay, this is your chance.
Speaker 2: I'm gonna what are we gonna do?
Speaker 1: Throw your man card down right now?
Speaker 3: Three discussing on the radio. We'll talk about this between
Speaker 3: you and I.
Speaker 1: I'm good he's gonna find you because he already looked
Speaker 1: up your home address and your work address, but respected
Speaker 1: you enough not to go there. Now he's actually gonna
Speaker 1: show up, so we don't.
Speaker 2: Get to hear it. Is that what she wants? Is
Speaker 2: that what you want?
Speaker 4: I just asked him to like prove to me just now,
Speaker 4: and he's like, oh yeah, another time, another place, Like
Speaker 4: I just feel like he's all talk.
Speaker 8: What do you want him to do?
Speaker 1: You want him to do it right now? Corey? You
Speaker 1: got to prove yourself.
Speaker 6: Now.
Speaker 1: What's something you.
Speaker 3: Want me to sing? You?
Speaker 5: A song?
Speaker 3: You want me to rap?
Speaker 7: You?
Speaker 6: Got?
Speaker 3: Her name was a Oh she left me on her dance.
Speaker 1: Floor at me, and it sounds like kind of a
Speaker 1: whiny song. Come on, look, Adrian, he's trying. He is
Speaker 1: trying as hard as he can here to get another
Speaker 1: date with you. Why don't you just give him one
Speaker 1: more shot and we would pay for it.
Speaker 4: I don't know, I just really I think what Corey,
Speaker 4: I think that you're a really nice guy.
Speaker 1: You don't want to see a masa kid at a
Speaker 1: golf He would do that for you?
Speaker 4: Said, Oh man, I think I'm just gonna have to
Speaker 4: pass on.
Speaker 6: To step up as tell her what she wants.
Speaker 2: There's so much masculinity in this room.
Speaker 8: Okay, she brings her uncle on dates.
Speaker 2: I don't think you really want another date, Corey?
Speaker 6: Yeah?
Speaker 7: Not now? I mean too bad she had to pass
Speaker 7: because Corey was trying to chap Ben.
Speaker 1: Trying to be the man that she wanted to be.
Speaker 2: Looking Jeffrey in the morning.
Speaker 1: We kind of got locked up in the minutia of
Speaker 1: manliness as one does.
Speaker 11: As she is is so locked up in it's so
Speaker 11: focused on that that we didn't really get to the
Speaker 11: point that Alexis brought up, which was a good point
Speaker 11: that she has her uncle go out on dates with
Speaker 11: her to test out how manly her guys are.
Speaker 5: Yeah, a odd, and he still wanted to go out
Speaker 5: with her.
Speaker 6: I know, yeah, I concern it all.
Speaker 8: Did you dance with her uncle?
Speaker 2: All right?
Speaker 6: Probably very hot?
Speaker 1: Well, and as soon as somebody questions your manliness, that's
Speaker 1: all that matters. You have to prove that you are.
Speaker 6: A man masculinity.
Speaker 2: Yeah, well, when your uncle is the manliest man, you.
Speaker 1: Know, it might be a good strategy. Alexis, in the
Speaker 1: same spirit, would you be willing to have Jose tag
Speaker 1: along on your next romantic encounter just to prove how
Speaker 1: manly he really is?
Speaker 6: I will show up with a lot.
Speaker 1: More manly than Yes, out manly Jose. Can they do it?
Speaker 6: I don't think I.
Speaker 2: Think I can do it.
Speaker 11: I'm just saying we'll keep you updated on Alexis's dating life.
Speaker 1: But test into seven eighty five nine too. If you
Speaker 1: ever have a person you want us to call, we'll
Speaker 1: call that person who wasn't calling you back Brook
Speaker 2: And Jeffrey in the morning,