WEBVTT - Second Date Update PODCAST: Big Boys DO Cry

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<v Speaker 1>Brooking jewels second dat day. I always love it when

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<v Speaker 1>I receive emails or even text messages in all caps.

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<v Speaker 1>The email that we got about today's second eight update

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<v Speaker 1>was primarily in all caps and exclamation points everywhere. Was

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<v Speaker 1>it not from Kanye West? No, it wasn't. It was

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<v Speaker 1>from Anthony. Anthony. What's up? Man? How are you? Hey?

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<v Speaker 1>How you guys doing good? I expected it was like, hey,

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<v Speaker 1>what's up? How are you? From the way that your

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<v Speaker 1>email was written, Oh my god, you're a very excitable guy, Anthony.

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<v Speaker 1>Oh yeah, I just think I blew it with this girl.

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<v Speaker 1>You sound like you're about to cry right now? Are

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<v Speaker 1>you all right? I'm sorry, I'm just I'm a little

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<v Speaker 1>bit upset. I'm sorry. Okay. Who is this girl, Anthony?

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<v Speaker 1>Her name is Tricia. She was a a friend of

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<v Speaker 1>a friend hooked um, you know, set us up on

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<v Speaker 1>a date. Happy. It's been a long time, so I've

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<v Speaker 1>gone out on a date because Anthony relationship. Anthony? Are

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<v Speaker 1>you crying? I'm trying to get it together. I'm sorry,

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<v Speaker 1>are you Are you really crying? And that's okay? If

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<v Speaker 1>he is jubile, Okay, I'm just saying I like men

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<v Speaker 1>who are comfortable crying. Yeah, but it's you went Okay,

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<v Speaker 1>tell us about the girl. She's just real sweet. She

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<v Speaker 1>got really beautiful hair and smells great, and she's got

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<v Speaker 1>a funny laugh, and she seemed like a really nice person. Okay,

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<v Speaker 1>what did you do on your date? Anthony? I'm afraid

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<v Speaker 1>of doing anything too romantic and too forward? So what

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<v Speaker 1>got ice cream and you know, look at the water

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<v Speaker 1>and had dinner. It was just a really nice fun time.

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<v Speaker 1>I'm sorry that I judge you. I'm I'm almost in

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<v Speaker 1>tears right now because that sounded like I think Anthony White.

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<v Speaker 1>What people are curious about is like, how can you

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<v Speaker 1>get so attached to a woman that it makes you

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<v Speaker 1>cry when you've only gone on one date with her? Well,

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<v Speaker 1>part of it's her because she seemed like she really

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<v Speaker 1>liked me. And then, like I said, I'm not on

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<v Speaker 1>this a lot. I dated my high school girlfriend since

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<v Speaker 1>I was a freshman in high school and then we

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<v Speaker 1>were together until a year ago. Okay, so that's all

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<v Speaker 1>you've had. You've had one serious girlfriend ever years Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>and never dated right Okay, wow, yeah, explains a little bit. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>so how did the date end between you? Guys? Did

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<v Speaker 1>you weep into her neck while she held you. We

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<v Speaker 1>just hugged because you know, I don't. I don't like

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<v Speaker 1>to justis on the first date, because you know, I

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<v Speaker 1>want to have like a nice, memorable thing, but everything

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<v Speaker 1>else is built on now. Your email said you'd be

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<v Speaker 1>really devastated if you never found out why. Well, I mean,

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<v Speaker 1>if I'm doing something wrong, I'm going to be alone

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<v Speaker 1>for rest in my life, right, so it'd be nice

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<v Speaker 1>and I could figure it out. I know you're new

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<v Speaker 1>to this, but it's one date, dude. You you get

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<v Speaker 1>blown off a lot in the dating world. But she

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<v Speaker 1>seemed to really like me, and she was so sweet,

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<v Speaker 1>and she's got the best smelling hair ever. Okay, the

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<v Speaker 1>hair twice. So you didn't like freak out about her

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<v Speaker 1>hair the whole time on the date, right, because that

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<v Speaker 1>could freak a girl out. I didn't. I didn't mention it. Okay.

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<v Speaker 1>It sounds like you were really really into her hair.

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<v Speaker 1>It's really pretty, and I mean she feels like a

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<v Speaker 1>shampoo commercial girl. It's great. Wants to sound weird or anything.

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<v Speaker 1>I just really felt like a strong connection with her,

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<v Speaker 1>and I just don't want to lose that, Okay, I

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<v Speaker 1>don't think. I don't think that comes along every day.

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<v Speaker 1>So Anthony, UM a little concerned about your emotional state.

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<v Speaker 1>I just want to prepare you. Like a lot of times,

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<v Speaker 1>when we get the other person on the phone, they

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<v Speaker 1>can say some negative or maybe some unflattering things. Are

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<v Speaker 1>you prepared for that? I think I'll be okay, Oh God,

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<v Speaker 1>not to make you wait any longer. We're gonna play

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<v Speaker 1>a song. No, come back and get your second day

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<v Speaker 1>out date. All right, Okay, thanks guys, looking jubil in

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<v Speaker 1>the morning. Guys, think Anthony's been huddled in a ball

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<v Speaker 1>in the corner weeping. Yeah, during that whole song, listening

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<v Speaker 1>to a really sad song like True Colors or something,

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<v Speaker 1>Anthony is still with us. Yeah, I'm here all right.

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<v Speaker 1>My heart was beaten so fast and that last song

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<v Speaker 1>I was If anybody's just tuning in for the second

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<v Speaker 1>day up date. Anthony called us about a girl named

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<v Speaker 1>Tricia that he went out on a date with, the

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<v Speaker 1>first person he's been out with in how long, Anthony, Well,

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<v Speaker 1>since my girlfriend I broke up a year ago in

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<v Speaker 1>his first real adult date period. You've never dated before.

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<v Speaker 1>He met her in high school. They did it for

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<v Speaker 1>a long time, Can I give you some advice? Anthony? Okay, okay, Anthony,

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<v Speaker 1>are you for real freaking out this much? I just

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<v Speaker 1>haven't dated a whole lot, and I knew she was special.

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<v Speaker 1>Everything about her was so right. Trying to pull yourself

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<v Speaker 1>together a little bit, pull yourself together? What the hell

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<v Speaker 1>is wrong with it? One day? This does not sound

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<v Speaker 1>It's a little tough love. Right now, Anthony, I want

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<v Speaker 1>you to stand up straight, pull your shoulders back, and

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<v Speaker 1>get ready to do this like a man. Okay, you

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<v Speaker 1>never know, Anthony, could him at the love of your

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<v Speaker 1>life that night. This is very important, Anthony. We just

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<v Speaker 1>went through a whole power him up there, I know,

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<v Speaker 1>but I just want to let him know how important

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<v Speaker 1>this thing is. And he should be very nervous. I know.

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<v Speaker 1>I know you're an emotional dude. I get it. But

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<v Speaker 1>put your phone on mute if you start to like

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<v Speaker 1>hyperventilate or cry. Okay, I can do that, all right,

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<v Speaker 1>Anthony's still there, I'm here. Just let make sure you

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<v Speaker 1>didn't pass out. Hello, Hi, I was looking for Tricia.

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<v Speaker 1>That's a shame. Hey, Tricia, how are you? This is

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<v Speaker 1>Jewel from brook and Jewel in the morning. I'm moving

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<v Speaker 1>ninety two point five. Hi, how's it going good? You

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<v Speaker 1>recently went out with a friend of mine? I did. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>his name is Anthony. You remember going out with a

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<v Speaker 1>guy named Anthony? I do? How is he? Wait? Okay,

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<v Speaker 1>you're on the radio and he's your friend. I'm on

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<v Speaker 1>the radio. So I have lots of friends. Yeah, and

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<v Speaker 1>Anthony happens to be one of them. Okay. And he

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<v Speaker 1>said that he really enjoyed the date with you and

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<v Speaker 1>thought that you guys were going to go out again.

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<v Speaker 1>But you haven't called him back or responded to any

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<v Speaker 1>of his messages or voicemails or any of that. So

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<v Speaker 1>I wanted to call you and ask if he did

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<v Speaker 1>something wrong on the date. That's just weird that he's

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<v Speaker 1>having you call for him. But he did have a

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<v Speaker 1>really great time on the date, that's true. Did you

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<v Speaker 1>not have a good time? I mean I had a

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<v Speaker 1>good time, but I think that Anthony had a really

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<v Speaker 1>good time. Like, was he just too eager on the date? Well,

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<v Speaker 1>it wasn't really on the date, it was afterwards. What

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<v Speaker 1>do you mean he tweeted like five times about our

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<v Speaker 1>date within like two hours. Oh, so he went back

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<v Speaker 1>after your date and just started tweeting about it. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>he was, like, he tweeted, lonely no more, most amazing

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<v Speaker 1>date of my life. It is horrible. Wait it gets better.

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<v Speaker 1>It was like, is this what love really feel like?

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<v Speaker 1>Explanation points in question mark. Are you scared at this point? Tricia?

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<v Speaker 1>I mean yeah, especially okay, how about this one? At last?

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<v Speaker 1>My love has come? And he did in parentheses, but

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<v Speaker 1>at a jame no really plotting out James on his

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<v Speaker 1>twitter feed Tricia. Yeah, I should also let you know

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<v Speaker 1>that Anthony is currently on the other line right now

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<v Speaker 1>listening to this conversation. Are you serious? Hi? I'm sorry

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<v Speaker 1>it creeps you out a little bit. And I was

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<v Speaker 1>just trying to make a really nice evening for you,

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<v Speaker 1>and oh my god, I thought we were having fun. Okay, well,

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<v Speaker 1>the date was very nice. You took me out on

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<v Speaker 1>a very nice date, and it was fun. But seriously, Anthony,

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<v Speaker 1>you tweeted, oh my god, freaking out? I think I

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<v Speaker 1>hear church Bell. Isn't that a romantic thing to say?

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<v Speaker 1>I mean, isn't that what every getting together and living

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<v Speaker 1>happily ever after? Are you crying? No? Oh my god,

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<v Speaker 1>this is a joke, right, There's no way you're crying

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<v Speaker 1>right now. I think he has allergies. I think that's

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<v Speaker 1>what it is, Trisha. Anthony's an emotional guy. Anthony needs therapy. Amen.

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<v Speaker 1>I am sorry, Anthony. Let me help you a little bit, Tricia.

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<v Speaker 1>If you didn't know, Anthony just got out of a

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<v Speaker 1>long relationship with his high school sweetheart, you're the first

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<v Speaker 1>girl who's been on a date with since high school. Dude,

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<v Speaker 1>it be single for a while. Seriously, there are so

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<v Speaker 1>many great things about being single, like go experience life

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<v Speaker 1>a little bit before you tie yours. Yes, Anthony, it's

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<v Speaker 1>okay to be single and experienced things by yourself. It's

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<v Speaker 1>actually a very fun time. You can do it. Okay, Anthony,

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<v Speaker 1>you needs really like. Dating is hard and it's gonna hurt,

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<v Speaker 1>but you need to find some confidence. Dude, what do

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<v Speaker 1>you like about yourself? I think I'm charming and I'm

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<v Speaker 1>good looking. I mean, I don't know. Yeah, Trish thought

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<v Speaker 1>you were a good looking didn't you. Yes, he's very attractive.

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<v Speaker 1>See she thinks you're good looking. Okay, No, okay, now, Trish,

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<v Speaker 1>if you could give one piece of advice to Anthony,

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<v Speaker 1>what would it be? Yeah? Stop crying? Yeah, yeah, yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>I mean like the date. The date was really sweet,

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<v Speaker 1>and I think that maybe if he just the charming

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<v Speaker 1>part of it all was very nice, but the clingness

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<v Speaker 1>and the like just all of a sudden feeling like

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<v Speaker 1>you were owned about. I mean, like, I don't know,

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<v Speaker 1>he just needs he needs to baby step it. Anthony,

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<v Speaker 1>you'd like to go out with Trish again? Right? Yeah?

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<v Speaker 1>I would very much. I think you can hold it

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<v Speaker 1>together and not not be too clingy. Um, yes, yes,

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<v Speaker 1>I'm gonna. I'm gonna. I'll work on that. I'll be

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<v Speaker 1>really I'll be good at that. At this point, I

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<v Speaker 1>would like to ask you if you'd like to go

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<v Speaker 1>on a second date with Anthony. Hey, for sure? Do

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<v Speaker 1>you want to give him another shot? We will send

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<v Speaker 1>you guys out, We'll pay for it if you go

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<v Speaker 1>out with Anthony one more time. I think I'd rather

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<v Speaker 1>set him up with one of my friends, a friend

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<v Speaker 1>that you dislike. Or what if I go out with

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<v Speaker 1>him again and this happens, then it's going to cost

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<v Speaker 1>me something because now I'm going to be the mean girl,

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<v Speaker 1>and I don't want to be the mean girl. And

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<v Speaker 1>I feel like I just feel like he needs a

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<v Speaker 1>little bit more time to be single. Okay, all right,

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<v Speaker 1>that's fine. Sorry, Anthony, but you got your answer and

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<v Speaker 1>now you know, Okay, maybe take some time to yourself,

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<v Speaker 1>especially if you haven't dated in a while. The first

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<v Speaker 1>girl that you go out with, you will like fall

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<v Speaker 1>for it because you'll think that she's awesome because she's

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<v Speaker 1>something different than what you've been used to. But but

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<v Speaker 1>you need to kind of like check your emotions a

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<v Speaker 1>little bit. I mean, I should not share like all

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<v Speaker 1>of myself right away. No, definitely don't wait to like

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<v Speaker 1>the third date for the crying guy to say the

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<v Speaker 1>third year. Okay, guys, thanks for trying. Do you like

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<v Speaker 1>everybody else? And save the tears for the bedroom in

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<v Speaker 1>the morning. Seriously, Anthony, you tweeted, oh my god, freaking out?

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<v Speaker 1>I think I hear church Bell. Isn't that a romantic

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<v Speaker 1>thing to say? I mean, isn't that what every getting

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<v Speaker 1>together and living happily ever after? Are you crying? No? Second?

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<v Speaker 1>At seven eight five nine, who says, poor guy, he

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<v Speaker 1>sounds like a sweetheart, but definitely not ready for dating yet. Yea.

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<v Speaker 1>That was a clip from today's second eight update. If

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<v Speaker 1>you missed it, Anthony and Tricia went on a date.

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<v Speaker 1>She wasn't calling him back. Why because when she got

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<v Speaker 1>done with the dates, she went home and saw that

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<v Speaker 1>he was tweeting a bunch of things about how amazing

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<v Speaker 1>it was and now you were basically what happened right there,

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<v Speaker 1>and then he started to kind of cry and was

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<v Speaker 1>very emotional. So the guy hasn't dated anyone since high

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<v Speaker 1>school man, and I just have this feeling that his

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<v Speaker 1>ex isn't sitting around crying. I bet she's maybe celebrating, yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>her freedom. She's probably doing okay, Yeah, and he's not. Okay.

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<v Speaker 1>I'm all for a guy crying. I'm gonna I cry

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<v Speaker 1>all the time. But that was like something's a little

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<v Speaker 1>off with him. He is like literally blowing. Yeah, sometimes

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<v Speaker 1>when you got to keep it together a little bit. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>you know, like that's like that's time to cry in

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<v Speaker 1>private after a first date. And that's for both genders. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>Like nobody should be running on a first date. It

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<v Speaker 1>doesn't matter if you're man, you're woman, who you're dating.

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<v Speaker 1>That's gonna scare scare anybody away. Yeah, I mean, unless

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<v Speaker 1>someone dies. I think that's the only time it's okay

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<v Speaker 1>to cry in the first date. Yeah, no matter what

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<v Speaker 1>if you go out with someone and then after that

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<v Speaker 1>they're tweeting about how it was the most amazing date

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<v Speaker 1>experience in their heart is ready to love again, and

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<v Speaker 1>they're in tears and they can't do anything but think

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<v Speaker 1>about you after a first date. That's problem going to

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<v Speaker 1>scare you off. But it doesn't scare everybody off because

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<v Speaker 1>we just got a text in that says I'll go

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<v Speaker 1>out with Anthony. Yeah, they're into it. See, some people

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<v Speaker 1>might like that. They might both be this. They both

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<v Speaker 1>be with tweeting the same thing and both crying and

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<v Speaker 1>calling each other and talking about how they've met the

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<v Speaker 1>love of their life after one dinner dated. Yeah, I'm

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<v Speaker 1>just going I mean, if they're crying after one day,

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<v Speaker 1>can you imagine the tears after the breakups? Really tough.

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<v Speaker 1>So they decided not to go out again, Well, she

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<v Speaker 1>decided not to go out with him again. But he'll

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<v Speaker 1>be all right eventually, maybe with some therapy and yeah

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<v Speaker 1>and something, he'll be okay. He'll get through this tough

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<v Speaker 1>time in his life. Remember, if you want to do

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<v Speaker 1>a second day update, all you have to do is

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<v Speaker 1>email the show and we will call the person who

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<v Speaker 1>didn't call you back.