Speaker 1: Brooking jewels second dat day. I always love it when
Speaker 1: I receive emails or even text messages in all caps.
Speaker 1: The email that we got about today's second eight update
Speaker 1: was primarily in all caps and exclamation points everywhere. Was
Speaker 1: it not from Kanye West? No, it wasn't. It was
Speaker 1: from Anthony. Anthony. What's up? Man? How are you? Hey?
Speaker 1: How you guys doing good? I expected it was like, hey,
Speaker 1: what's up? How are you? From the way that your
Speaker 1: email was written, Oh my god, you're a very excitable guy, Anthony.
Speaker 1: Oh yeah, I just think I blew it with this girl.
Speaker 1: You sound like you're about to cry right now? Are
Speaker 1: you all right? I'm sorry, I'm just I'm a little
Speaker 1: bit upset. I'm sorry. Okay. Who is this girl, Anthony?
Speaker 1: Her name is Tricia. She was a a friend of
Speaker 1: a friend hooked um, you know, set us up on
Speaker 1: a date. Happy. It's been a long time, so I've
Speaker 1: gone out on a date because Anthony relationship. Anthony? Are
Speaker 1: you crying? I'm trying to get it together. I'm sorry,
Speaker 1: are you Are you really crying? And that's okay? If
Speaker 1: he is jubile, Okay, I'm just saying I like men
Speaker 1: who are comfortable crying. Yeah, but it's you went Okay,
Speaker 1: tell us about the girl. She's just real sweet. She
Speaker 1: got really beautiful hair and smells great, and she's got
Speaker 1: a funny laugh, and she seemed like a really nice person. Okay,
Speaker 1: what did you do on your date? Anthony? I'm afraid
Speaker 1: of doing anything too romantic and too forward? So what
Speaker 1: got ice cream and you know, look at the water
Speaker 1: and had dinner. It was just a really nice fun time.
Speaker 1: I'm sorry that I judge you. I'm I'm almost in
Speaker 1: tears right now because that sounded like I think Anthony White.
Speaker 1: What people are curious about is like, how can you
Speaker 1: get so attached to a woman that it makes you
Speaker 1: cry when you've only gone on one date with her? Well,
Speaker 1: part of it's her because she seemed like she really
Speaker 1: liked me. And then, like I said, I'm not on
Speaker 1: this a lot. I dated my high school girlfriend since
Speaker 1: I was a freshman in high school and then we
Speaker 1: were together until a year ago. Okay, so that's all
Speaker 1: you've had. You've had one serious girlfriend ever years Yeah,
Speaker 1: and never dated right Okay, wow, yeah, explains a little bit. Yeah,
Speaker 1: so how did the date end between you? Guys? Did
Speaker 1: you weep into her neck while she held you. We
Speaker 1: just hugged because you know, I don't. I don't like
Speaker 1: to justis on the first date, because you know, I
Speaker 1: want to have like a nice, memorable thing, but everything
Speaker 1: else is built on now. Your email said you'd be
Speaker 1: really devastated if you never found out why. Well, I mean,
Speaker 1: if I'm doing something wrong, I'm going to be alone
Speaker 1: for rest in my life, right, so it'd be nice
Speaker 1: and I could figure it out. I know you're new
Speaker 1: to this, but it's one date, dude. You you get
Speaker 1: blown off a lot in the dating world. But she
Speaker 1: seemed to really like me, and she was so sweet,
Speaker 1: and she's got the best smelling hair ever. Okay, the
Speaker 1: hair twice. So you didn't like freak out about her
Speaker 1: hair the whole time on the date, right, because that
Speaker 1: could freak a girl out. I didn't. I didn't mention it. Okay.
Speaker 1: It sounds like you were really really into her hair.
Speaker 1: It's really pretty, and I mean she feels like a
Speaker 1: shampoo commercial girl. It's great. Wants to sound weird or anything.
Speaker 1: I just really felt like a strong connection with her,
Speaker 1: and I just don't want to lose that, Okay, I
Speaker 1: don't think. I don't think that comes along every day.
Speaker 1: So Anthony, UM a little concerned about your emotional state.
Speaker 1: I just want to prepare you. Like a lot of times,
Speaker 1: when we get the other person on the phone, they
Speaker 1: can say some negative or maybe some unflattering things. Are
Speaker 1: you prepared for that? I think I'll be okay, Oh God,
Speaker 1: not to make you wait any longer. We're gonna play
Speaker 1: a song. No, come back and get your second day
Speaker 1: out date. All right, Okay, thanks guys, looking jubil in
Speaker 1: the morning. Guys, think Anthony's been huddled in a ball
Speaker 1: in the corner weeping. Yeah, during that whole song, listening
Speaker 1: to a really sad song like True Colors or something,
Speaker 1: Anthony is still with us. Yeah, I'm here all right.
Speaker 1: My heart was beaten so fast and that last song
Speaker 1: I was If anybody's just tuning in for the second
Speaker 1: day up date. Anthony called us about a girl named
Speaker 1: Tricia that he went out on a date with, the
Speaker 1: first person he's been out with in how long, Anthony, Well,
Speaker 1: since my girlfriend I broke up a year ago in
Speaker 1: his first real adult date period. You've never dated before.
Speaker 1: He met her in high school. They did it for
Speaker 1: a long time, Can I give you some advice? Anthony? Okay, okay, Anthony,
Speaker 1: are you for real freaking out this much? I just
Speaker 1: haven't dated a whole lot, and I knew she was special.
Speaker 1: Everything about her was so right. Trying to pull yourself
Speaker 1: together a little bit, pull yourself together? What the hell
Speaker 1: is wrong with it? One day? This does not sound
Speaker 1: It's a little tough love. Right now, Anthony, I want
Speaker 1: you to stand up straight, pull your shoulders back, and
Speaker 1: get ready to do this like a man. Okay, you
Speaker 1: never know, Anthony, could him at the love of your
Speaker 1: life that night. This is very important, Anthony. We just
Speaker 1: went through a whole power him up there, I know,
Speaker 1: but I just want to let him know how important
Speaker 1: this thing is. And he should be very nervous. I know.
Speaker 1: I know you're an emotional dude. I get it. But
Speaker 1: put your phone on mute if you start to like
Speaker 1: hyperventilate or cry. Okay, I can do that, all right,
Speaker 1: Anthony's still there, I'm here. Just let make sure you
Speaker 1: didn't pass out. Hello, Hi, I was looking for Tricia.
Speaker 1: That's a shame. Hey, Tricia, how are you? This is
Speaker 1: Jewel from brook and Jewel in the morning. I'm moving
Speaker 1: ninety two point five. Hi, how's it going good? You
Speaker 1: recently went out with a friend of mine? I did. Yeah,
Speaker 1: his name is Anthony. You remember going out with a
Speaker 1: guy named Anthony? I do? How is he? Wait? Okay,
Speaker 1: you're on the radio and he's your friend. I'm on
Speaker 1: the radio. So I have lots of friends. Yeah, and
Speaker 1: Anthony happens to be one of them. Okay. And he
Speaker 1: said that he really enjoyed the date with you and
Speaker 1: thought that you guys were going to go out again.
Speaker 1: But you haven't called him back or responded to any
Speaker 1: of his messages or voicemails or any of that. So
Speaker 1: I wanted to call you and ask if he did
Speaker 1: something wrong on the date. That's just weird that he's
Speaker 1: having you call for him. But he did have a
Speaker 1: really great time on the date, that's true. Did you
Speaker 1: not have a good time? I mean I had a
Speaker 1: good time, but I think that Anthony had a really
Speaker 1: good time. Like, was he just too eager on the date? Well,
Speaker 1: it wasn't really on the date, it was afterwards. What
Speaker 1: do you mean he tweeted like five times about our
Speaker 1: date within like two hours. Oh, so he went back
Speaker 1: after your date and just started tweeting about it. Yeah,
Speaker 1: he was, like, he tweeted, lonely no more, most amazing
Speaker 1: date of my life. It is horrible. Wait it gets better.
Speaker 1: It was like, is this what love really feel like?
Speaker 1: Explanation points in question mark. Are you scared at this point? Tricia?
Speaker 1: I mean yeah, especially okay, how about this one? At last?
Speaker 1: My love has come? And he did in parentheses, but
Speaker 1: at a jame no really plotting out James on his
Speaker 1: twitter feed Tricia. Yeah, I should also let you know
Speaker 1: that Anthony is currently on the other line right now
Speaker 1: listening to this conversation. Are you serious? Hi? I'm sorry
Speaker 1: it creeps you out a little bit. And I was
Speaker 1: just trying to make a really nice evening for you,
Speaker 1: and oh my god, I thought we were having fun. Okay, well,
Speaker 1: the date was very nice. You took me out on
Speaker 1: a very nice date, and it was fun. But seriously, Anthony,
Speaker 1: you tweeted, oh my god, freaking out? I think I
Speaker 1: hear church Bell. Isn't that a romantic thing to say?
Speaker 1: I mean, isn't that what every getting together and living
Speaker 1: happily ever after? Are you crying? No? Oh my god,
Speaker 1: this is a joke, right, There's no way you're crying
Speaker 1: right now. I think he has allergies. I think that's
Speaker 1: what it is, Trisha. Anthony's an emotional guy. Anthony needs therapy. Amen.
Speaker 1: I am sorry, Anthony. Let me help you a little bit, Tricia.
Speaker 1: If you didn't know, Anthony just got out of a
Speaker 1: long relationship with his high school sweetheart, you're the first
Speaker 1: girl who's been on a date with since high school. Dude,
Speaker 1: it be single for a while. Seriously, there are so
Speaker 1: many great things about being single, like go experience life
Speaker 1: a little bit before you tie yours. Yes, Anthony, it's
Speaker 1: okay to be single and experienced things by yourself. It's
Speaker 1: actually a very fun time. You can do it. Okay, Anthony,
Speaker 1: you needs really like. Dating is hard and it's gonna hurt,
Speaker 1: but you need to find some confidence. Dude, what do
Speaker 1: you like about yourself? I think I'm charming and I'm
Speaker 1: good looking. I mean, I don't know. Yeah, Trish thought
Speaker 1: you were a good looking didn't you. Yes, he's very attractive.
Speaker 1: See she thinks you're good looking. Okay, No, okay, now, Trish,
Speaker 1: if you could give one piece of advice to Anthony,
Speaker 1: what would it be? Yeah? Stop crying? Yeah, yeah, yeah,
Speaker 1: I mean like the date. The date was really sweet,
Speaker 1: and I think that maybe if he just the charming
Speaker 1: part of it all was very nice, but the clingness
Speaker 1: and the like just all of a sudden feeling like
Speaker 1: you were owned about. I mean, like, I don't know,
Speaker 1: he just needs he needs to baby step it. Anthony,
Speaker 1: you'd like to go out with Trish again? Right? Yeah?
Speaker 1: I would very much. I think you can hold it
Speaker 1: together and not not be too clingy. Um, yes, yes,
Speaker 1: I'm gonna. I'm gonna. I'll work on that. I'll be
Speaker 1: really I'll be good at that. At this point, I
Speaker 1: would like to ask you if you'd like to go
Speaker 1: on a second date with Anthony. Hey, for sure? Do
Speaker 1: you want to give him another shot? We will send
Speaker 1: you guys out, We'll pay for it if you go
Speaker 1: out with Anthony one more time. I think I'd rather
Speaker 1: set him up with one of my friends, a friend
Speaker 1: that you dislike. Or what if I go out with
Speaker 1: him again and this happens, then it's going to cost
Speaker 1: me something because now I'm going to be the mean girl,
Speaker 1: and I don't want to be the mean girl. And
Speaker 1: I feel like I just feel like he needs a
Speaker 1: little bit more time to be single. Okay, all right,
Speaker 1: that's fine. Sorry, Anthony, but you got your answer and
Speaker 1: now you know, Okay, maybe take some time to yourself,
Speaker 1: especially if you haven't dated in a while. The first
Speaker 1: girl that you go out with, you will like fall
Speaker 1: for it because you'll think that she's awesome because she's
Speaker 1: something different than what you've been used to. But but
Speaker 1: you need to kind of like check your emotions a
Speaker 1: little bit. I mean, I should not share like all
Speaker 1: of myself right away. No, definitely don't wait to like
Speaker 1: the third date for the crying guy to say the
Speaker 1: third year. Okay, guys, thanks for trying. Do you like
Speaker 1: everybody else? And save the tears for the bedroom in
Speaker 1: the morning. Seriously, Anthony, you tweeted, oh my god, freaking out?
Speaker 1: I think I hear church Bell. Isn't that a romantic
Speaker 1: thing to say? I mean, isn't that what every getting
Speaker 1: together and living happily ever after? Are you crying? No? Second?
Speaker 1: At seven eight five nine, who says, poor guy, he
Speaker 1: sounds like a sweetheart, but definitely not ready for dating yet. Yea.
Speaker 1: That was a clip from today's second eight update. If
Speaker 1: you missed it, Anthony and Tricia went on a date.
Speaker 1: She wasn't calling him back. Why because when she got
Speaker 1: done with the dates, she went home and saw that
Speaker 1: he was tweeting a bunch of things about how amazing
Speaker 1: it was and now you were basically what happened right there,
Speaker 1: and then he started to kind of cry and was
Speaker 1: very emotional. So the guy hasn't dated anyone since high
Speaker 1: school man, and I just have this feeling that his
Speaker 1: ex isn't sitting around crying. I bet she's maybe celebrating, yeah,
Speaker 1: her freedom. She's probably doing okay, Yeah, and he's not. Okay.
Speaker 1: I'm all for a guy crying. I'm gonna I cry
Speaker 1: all the time. But that was like something's a little
Speaker 1: off with him. He is like literally blowing. Yeah, sometimes
Speaker 1: when you got to keep it together a little bit. Yeah,
Speaker 1: you know, like that's like that's time to cry in
Speaker 1: private after a first date. And that's for both genders. Yeah,
Speaker 1: Like nobody should be running on a first date. It
Speaker 1: doesn't matter if you're man, you're woman, who you're dating.
Speaker 1: That's gonna scare scare anybody away. Yeah, I mean, unless
Speaker 1: someone dies. I think that's the only time it's okay
Speaker 1: to cry in the first date. Yeah, no matter what
Speaker 1: if you go out with someone and then after that
Speaker 1: they're tweeting about how it was the most amazing date
Speaker 1: experience in their heart is ready to love again, and
Speaker 1: they're in tears and they can't do anything but think
Speaker 1: about you after a first date. That's problem going to
Speaker 1: scare you off. But it doesn't scare everybody off because
Speaker 1: we just got a text in that says I'll go
Speaker 1: out with Anthony. Yeah, they're into it. See, some people
Speaker 1: might like that. They might both be this. They both
Speaker 1: be with tweeting the same thing and both crying and
Speaker 1: calling each other and talking about how they've met the
Speaker 1: love of their life after one dinner dated. Yeah, I'm
Speaker 1: just going I mean, if they're crying after one day,
Speaker 1: can you imagine the tears after the breakups? Really tough.
Speaker 1: So they decided not to go out again, Well, she
Speaker 1: decided not to go out with him again. But he'll
Speaker 1: be all right eventually, maybe with some therapy and yeah
Speaker 1: and something, he'll be okay. He'll get through this tough
Speaker 1: time in his life. Remember, if you want to do
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