1 00:00:03,360 --> 00:00:07,640 Speaker 1: Brooking jewels second dat day. I always love it when 2 00:00:07,680 --> 00:00:12,400 Speaker 1: I receive emails or even text messages in all caps. 3 00:00:12,440 --> 00:00:14,560 Speaker 1: The email that we got about today's second eight update 4 00:00:14,600 --> 00:00:19,000 Speaker 1: was primarily in all caps and exclamation points everywhere. Was 5 00:00:19,040 --> 00:00:21,439 Speaker 1: it not from Kanye West? No, it wasn't. It was 6 00:00:21,520 --> 00:00:25,240 Speaker 1: from Anthony. Anthony. What's up? Man? How are you? Hey? 7 00:00:25,320 --> 00:00:27,440 Speaker 1: How you guys doing good? I expected it was like, hey, 8 00:00:27,480 --> 00:00:30,280 Speaker 1: what's up? How are you? From the way that your 9 00:00:30,320 --> 00:00:34,160 Speaker 1: email was written, Oh my god, you're a very excitable guy, Anthony. 10 00:00:34,760 --> 00:00:37,600 Speaker 1: Oh yeah, I just think I blew it with this girl. 11 00:00:38,240 --> 00:00:40,440 Speaker 1: You sound like you're about to cry right now? Are 12 00:00:40,440 --> 00:00:44,480 Speaker 1: you all right? I'm sorry, I'm just I'm a little 13 00:00:44,479 --> 00:00:48,280 Speaker 1: bit upset. I'm sorry. Okay. Who is this girl, Anthony? 14 00:00:48,920 --> 00:00:52,120 Speaker 1: Her name is Tricia. She was a a friend of 15 00:00:52,200 --> 00:00:54,240 Speaker 1: a friend hooked um, you know, set us up on 16 00:00:54,280 --> 00:00:56,680 Speaker 1: a date. Happy. It's been a long time, so I've 17 00:00:56,720 --> 00:00:59,400 Speaker 1: gone out on a date because Anthony relationship. Anthony? Are 18 00:00:59,400 --> 00:01:02,840 Speaker 1: you crying? I'm trying to get it together. I'm sorry, 19 00:01:03,000 --> 00:01:05,160 Speaker 1: are you Are you really crying? And that's okay? If 20 00:01:05,160 --> 00:01:10,800 Speaker 1: he is jubile, Okay, I'm just saying I like men 21 00:01:10,840 --> 00:01:14,520 Speaker 1: who are comfortable crying. Yeah, but it's you went Okay, 22 00:01:14,560 --> 00:01:18,680 Speaker 1: tell us about the girl. She's just real sweet. She 23 00:01:18,800 --> 00:01:22,520 Speaker 1: got really beautiful hair and smells great, and she's got 24 00:01:22,520 --> 00:01:26,720 Speaker 1: a funny laugh, and she seemed like a really nice person. Okay, 25 00:01:27,040 --> 00:01:29,800 Speaker 1: what did you do on your date? Anthony? I'm afraid 26 00:01:29,800 --> 00:01:32,280 Speaker 1: of doing anything too romantic and too forward? So what 27 00:01:32,400 --> 00:01:36,440 Speaker 1: got ice cream and you know, look at the water 28 00:01:36,600 --> 00:01:39,600 Speaker 1: and had dinner. It was just a really nice fun time. 29 00:01:40,000 --> 00:01:42,440 Speaker 1: I'm sorry that I judge you. I'm I'm almost in 30 00:01:42,480 --> 00:01:45,960 Speaker 1: tears right now because that sounded like I think Anthony White. 31 00:01:46,000 --> 00:01:48,040 Speaker 1: What people are curious about is like, how can you 32 00:01:48,080 --> 00:01:50,080 Speaker 1: get so attached to a woman that it makes you 33 00:01:50,120 --> 00:01:53,640 Speaker 1: cry when you've only gone on one date with her? Well, 34 00:01:54,760 --> 00:01:57,320 Speaker 1: part of it's her because she seemed like she really 35 00:01:57,320 --> 00:02:00,080 Speaker 1: liked me. And then, like I said, I'm not on 36 00:02:00,160 --> 00:02:03,120 Speaker 1: this a lot. I dated my high school girlfriend since 37 00:02:03,200 --> 00:02:04,880 Speaker 1: I was a freshman in high school and then we 38 00:02:04,880 --> 00:02:07,800 Speaker 1: were together until a year ago. Okay, so that's all 39 00:02:07,840 --> 00:02:11,880 Speaker 1: you've had. You've had one serious girlfriend ever years Yeah, 40 00:02:11,919 --> 00:02:17,600 Speaker 1: and never dated right Okay, wow, yeah, explains a little bit. Yeah, 41 00:02:18,440 --> 00:02:20,959 Speaker 1: so how did the date end between you? Guys? Did 42 00:02:20,960 --> 00:02:24,080 Speaker 1: you weep into her neck while she held you. We 43 00:02:24,200 --> 00:02:26,560 Speaker 1: just hugged because you know, I don't. I don't like 44 00:02:26,560 --> 00:02:28,360 Speaker 1: to justis on the first date, because you know, I 45 00:02:28,360 --> 00:02:31,400 Speaker 1: want to have like a nice, memorable thing, but everything 46 00:02:31,440 --> 00:02:33,680 Speaker 1: else is built on now. Your email said you'd be 47 00:02:33,680 --> 00:02:36,840 Speaker 1: really devastated if you never found out why. Well, I mean, 48 00:02:37,000 --> 00:02:39,200 Speaker 1: if I'm doing something wrong, I'm going to be alone 49 00:02:39,200 --> 00:02:41,359 Speaker 1: for rest in my life, right, so it'd be nice 50 00:02:41,400 --> 00:02:43,919 Speaker 1: and I could figure it out. I know you're new 51 00:02:43,919 --> 00:02:46,040 Speaker 1: to this, but it's one date, dude. You you get 52 00:02:46,040 --> 00:02:49,760 Speaker 1: blown off a lot in the dating world. But she 53 00:02:49,840 --> 00:02:52,680 Speaker 1: seemed to really like me, and she was so sweet, 54 00:02:52,760 --> 00:02:57,959 Speaker 1: and she's got the best smelling hair ever. Okay, the 55 00:02:58,080 --> 00:03:02,320 Speaker 1: hair twice. So you didn't like freak out about her 56 00:03:02,320 --> 00:03:03,799 Speaker 1: hair the whole time on the date, right, because that 57 00:03:03,840 --> 00:03:07,919 Speaker 1: could freak a girl out. I didn't. I didn't mention it. Okay. 58 00:03:07,960 --> 00:03:10,079 Speaker 1: It sounds like you were really really into her hair. 59 00:03:12,400 --> 00:03:14,040 Speaker 1: It's really pretty, and I mean she feels like a 60 00:03:14,040 --> 00:03:21,440 Speaker 1: shampoo commercial girl. It's great. Wants to sound weird or anything. 61 00:03:21,480 --> 00:03:23,919 Speaker 1: I just really felt like a strong connection with her, 62 00:03:24,320 --> 00:03:27,400 Speaker 1: and I just don't want to lose that, Okay, I 63 00:03:27,400 --> 00:03:29,480 Speaker 1: don't think. I don't think that comes along every day. 64 00:03:29,600 --> 00:03:33,680 Speaker 1: So Anthony, UM a little concerned about your emotional state. 65 00:03:34,240 --> 00:03:36,760 Speaker 1: I just want to prepare you. Like a lot of times, 66 00:03:36,760 --> 00:03:38,400 Speaker 1: when we get the other person on the phone, they 67 00:03:38,400 --> 00:03:43,040 Speaker 1: can say some negative or maybe some unflattering things. Are 68 00:03:43,120 --> 00:03:50,800 Speaker 1: you prepared for that? I think I'll be okay, Oh God, 69 00:03:51,480 --> 00:03:53,360 Speaker 1: not to make you wait any longer. We're gonna play 70 00:03:53,360 --> 00:03:55,760 Speaker 1: a song. No, come back and get your second day 71 00:03:55,760 --> 00:04:02,520 Speaker 1: out date. All right, Okay, thanks guys, looking jubil in 72 00:04:02,560 --> 00:04:06,760 Speaker 1: the morning. Guys, think Anthony's been huddled in a ball 73 00:04:06,760 --> 00:04:10,360 Speaker 1: in the corner weeping. Yeah, during that whole song, listening 74 00:04:10,400 --> 00:04:13,400 Speaker 1: to a really sad song like True Colors or something, 75 00:04:14,000 --> 00:04:17,720 Speaker 1: Anthony is still with us. Yeah, I'm here all right. 76 00:04:19,440 --> 00:04:21,400 Speaker 1: My heart was beaten so fast and that last song 77 00:04:21,480 --> 00:04:25,000 Speaker 1: I was If anybody's just tuning in for the second 78 00:04:25,040 --> 00:04:26,760 Speaker 1: day up date. Anthony called us about a girl named 79 00:04:26,800 --> 00:04:28,400 Speaker 1: Tricia that he went out on a date with, the 80 00:04:28,480 --> 00:04:33,000 Speaker 1: first person he's been out with in how long, Anthony, Well, 81 00:04:33,080 --> 00:04:36,440 Speaker 1: since my girlfriend I broke up a year ago in 82 00:04:36,520 --> 00:04:40,080 Speaker 1: his first real adult date period. You've never dated before. 83 00:04:40,200 --> 00:04:41,560 Speaker 1: He met her in high school. They did it for 84 00:04:41,600 --> 00:04:46,760 Speaker 1: a long time, Can I give you some advice? Anthony? Okay, okay, Anthony, 85 00:04:46,800 --> 00:04:50,360 Speaker 1: are you for real freaking out this much? I just 86 00:04:50,440 --> 00:04:53,039 Speaker 1: haven't dated a whole lot, and I knew she was special. 87 00:04:53,920 --> 00:04:57,920 Speaker 1: Everything about her was so right. Trying to pull yourself 88 00:04:57,920 --> 00:05:01,320 Speaker 1: together a little bit, pull yourself together? What the hell 89 00:05:01,480 --> 00:05:04,680 Speaker 1: is wrong with it? One day? This does not sound 90 00:05:06,520 --> 00:05:08,800 Speaker 1: It's a little tough love. Right now, Anthony, I want 91 00:05:08,839 --> 00:05:10,919 Speaker 1: you to stand up straight, pull your shoulders back, and 92 00:05:10,960 --> 00:05:14,560 Speaker 1: get ready to do this like a man. Okay, you 93 00:05:14,600 --> 00:05:16,320 Speaker 1: never know, Anthony, could him at the love of your 94 00:05:16,320 --> 00:05:20,240 Speaker 1: life that night. This is very important, Anthony. We just 95 00:05:20,279 --> 00:05:21,960 Speaker 1: went through a whole power him up there, I know, 96 00:05:21,960 --> 00:05:23,200 Speaker 1: but I just want to let him know how important 97 00:05:23,200 --> 00:05:29,400 Speaker 1: this thing is. And he should be very nervous. I know. 98 00:05:31,000 --> 00:05:33,479 Speaker 1: I know you're an emotional dude. I get it. But 99 00:05:34,240 --> 00:05:36,800 Speaker 1: put your phone on mute if you start to like 100 00:05:36,920 --> 00:05:42,200 Speaker 1: hyperventilate or cry. Okay, I can do that, all right, 101 00:05:44,800 --> 00:05:47,920 Speaker 1: Anthony's still there, I'm here. Just let make sure you 102 00:05:47,920 --> 00:05:58,920 Speaker 1: didn't pass out. Hello, Hi, I was looking for Tricia. 103 00:05:59,160 --> 00:06:01,760 Speaker 1: That's a shame. Hey, Tricia, how are you? This is 104 00:06:01,839 --> 00:06:03,520 Speaker 1: Jewel from brook and Jewel in the morning. I'm moving 105 00:06:03,560 --> 00:06:11,400 Speaker 1: ninety two point five. Hi, how's it going good? You 106 00:06:11,520 --> 00:06:15,120 Speaker 1: recently went out with a friend of mine? I did. Yeah, 107 00:06:15,160 --> 00:06:18,080 Speaker 1: his name is Anthony. You remember going out with a 108 00:06:18,080 --> 00:06:23,120 Speaker 1: guy named Anthony? I do? How is he? Wait? Okay, 109 00:06:23,320 --> 00:06:26,200 Speaker 1: you're on the radio and he's your friend. I'm on 110 00:06:26,240 --> 00:06:30,320 Speaker 1: the radio. So I have lots of friends. Yeah, and 111 00:06:30,400 --> 00:06:35,120 Speaker 1: Anthony happens to be one of them. Okay. And he 112 00:06:35,279 --> 00:06:37,760 Speaker 1: said that he really enjoyed the date with you and 113 00:06:37,880 --> 00:06:39,160 Speaker 1: thought that you guys were going to go out again. 114 00:06:39,240 --> 00:06:40,920 Speaker 1: But you haven't called him back or responded to any 115 00:06:40,960 --> 00:06:44,080 Speaker 1: of his messages or voicemails or any of that. So 116 00:06:44,920 --> 00:06:47,520 Speaker 1: I wanted to call you and ask if he did 117 00:06:47,560 --> 00:06:51,360 Speaker 1: something wrong on the date. That's just weird that he's 118 00:06:51,520 --> 00:06:54,520 Speaker 1: having you call for him. But he did have a 119 00:06:54,560 --> 00:06:58,599 Speaker 1: really great time on the date, that's true. Did you 120 00:06:58,680 --> 00:07:02,240 Speaker 1: not have a good time? I mean I had a 121 00:07:02,240 --> 00:07:05,279 Speaker 1: good time, but I think that Anthony had a really 122 00:07:05,360 --> 00:07:09,480 Speaker 1: good time. Like, was he just too eager on the date? Well, 123 00:07:09,520 --> 00:07:13,120 Speaker 1: it wasn't really on the date, it was afterwards. What 124 00:07:13,160 --> 00:07:17,120 Speaker 1: do you mean he tweeted like five times about our 125 00:07:17,240 --> 00:07:24,280 Speaker 1: date within like two hours. Oh, so he went back 126 00:07:24,280 --> 00:07:27,280 Speaker 1: after your date and just started tweeting about it. Yeah, 127 00:07:27,280 --> 00:07:31,080 Speaker 1: he was, like, he tweeted, lonely no more, most amazing 128 00:07:31,200 --> 00:07:39,000 Speaker 1: date of my life. It is horrible. Wait it gets better. 129 00:07:39,120 --> 00:07:41,800 Speaker 1: It was like, is this what love really feel like? 130 00:07:42,320 --> 00:07:47,360 Speaker 1: Explanation points in question mark. Are you scared at this point? Tricia? 131 00:07:48,000 --> 00:07:52,280 Speaker 1: I mean yeah, especially okay, how about this one? At last? 132 00:07:52,520 --> 00:07:55,400 Speaker 1: My love has come? And he did in parentheses, but 133 00:07:56,080 --> 00:08:01,360 Speaker 1: at a jame no really plotting out James on his 134 00:08:01,440 --> 00:08:09,160 Speaker 1: twitter feed Tricia. Yeah, I should also let you know 135 00:08:09,200 --> 00:08:11,560 Speaker 1: that Anthony is currently on the other line right now 136 00:08:11,840 --> 00:08:19,520 Speaker 1: listening to this conversation. Are you serious? Hi? I'm sorry 137 00:08:19,640 --> 00:08:21,120 Speaker 1: it creeps you out a little bit. And I was 138 00:08:21,160 --> 00:08:23,560 Speaker 1: just trying to make a really nice evening for you, 139 00:08:23,600 --> 00:08:30,640 Speaker 1: and oh my god, I thought we were having fun. Okay, well, 140 00:08:30,640 --> 00:08:32,680 Speaker 1: the date was very nice. You took me out on 141 00:08:32,720 --> 00:08:36,560 Speaker 1: a very nice date, and it was fun. But seriously, Anthony, 142 00:08:36,600 --> 00:08:39,600 Speaker 1: you tweeted, oh my god, freaking out? I think I 143 00:08:39,720 --> 00:08:44,400 Speaker 1: hear church Bell. Isn't that a romantic thing to say? 144 00:08:44,440 --> 00:08:52,480 Speaker 1: I mean, isn't that what every getting together and living 145 00:08:52,480 --> 00:09:01,760 Speaker 1: happily ever after? Are you crying? No? Oh my god, 146 00:09:01,840 --> 00:09:04,200 Speaker 1: this is a joke, right, There's no way you're crying 147 00:09:04,320 --> 00:09:09,240 Speaker 1: right now. I think he has allergies. I think that's 148 00:09:09,280 --> 00:09:16,000 Speaker 1: what it is, Trisha. Anthony's an emotional guy. Anthony needs therapy. Amen. 149 00:09:16,640 --> 00:09:20,120 Speaker 1: I am sorry, Anthony. Let me help you a little bit, Tricia. 150 00:09:20,160 --> 00:09:21,760 Speaker 1: If you didn't know, Anthony just got out of a 151 00:09:21,800 --> 00:09:24,120 Speaker 1: long relationship with his high school sweetheart, you're the first 152 00:09:24,120 --> 00:09:27,520 Speaker 1: girl who's been on a date with since high school. Dude, 153 00:09:27,520 --> 00:09:30,160 Speaker 1: it be single for a while. Seriously, there are so 154 00:09:30,240 --> 00:09:34,559 Speaker 1: many great things about being single, like go experience life 155 00:09:34,640 --> 00:09:40,079 Speaker 1: a little bit before you tie yours. Yes, Anthony, it's 156 00:09:40,120 --> 00:09:43,000 Speaker 1: okay to be single and experienced things by yourself. It's 157 00:09:43,040 --> 00:09:48,800 Speaker 1: actually a very fun time. You can do it. Okay, Anthony, 158 00:09:49,800 --> 00:09:53,800 Speaker 1: you needs really like. Dating is hard and it's gonna hurt, 159 00:09:54,160 --> 00:09:57,120 Speaker 1: but you need to find some confidence. Dude, what do 160 00:09:57,160 --> 00:10:01,199 Speaker 1: you like about yourself? I think I'm charming and I'm 161 00:10:01,240 --> 00:10:03,320 Speaker 1: good looking. I mean, I don't know. Yeah, Trish thought 162 00:10:03,320 --> 00:10:06,640 Speaker 1: you were a good looking didn't you. Yes, he's very attractive. 163 00:10:07,160 --> 00:10:13,480 Speaker 1: See she thinks you're good looking. Okay, No, okay, now, Trish, 164 00:10:13,559 --> 00:10:15,720 Speaker 1: if you could give one piece of advice to Anthony, 165 00:10:16,000 --> 00:10:21,520 Speaker 1: what would it be? Yeah? Stop crying? Yeah, yeah, yeah, 166 00:10:21,559 --> 00:10:23,800 Speaker 1: I mean like the date. The date was really sweet, 167 00:10:23,840 --> 00:10:26,319 Speaker 1: and I think that maybe if he just the charming 168 00:10:26,360 --> 00:10:28,920 Speaker 1: part of it all was very nice, but the clingness 169 00:10:29,160 --> 00:10:32,360 Speaker 1: and the like just all of a sudden feeling like 170 00:10:32,520 --> 00:10:34,960 Speaker 1: you were owned about. I mean, like, I don't know, 171 00:10:35,040 --> 00:10:40,240 Speaker 1: he just needs he needs to baby step it. Anthony, 172 00:10:40,280 --> 00:10:42,680 Speaker 1: you'd like to go out with Trish again? Right? Yeah? 173 00:10:42,679 --> 00:10:45,040 Speaker 1: I would very much. I think you can hold it 174 00:10:45,080 --> 00:10:49,240 Speaker 1: together and not not be too clingy. Um, yes, yes, 175 00:10:49,320 --> 00:10:51,560 Speaker 1: I'm gonna. I'm gonna. I'll work on that. I'll be 176 00:10:51,559 --> 00:10:53,959 Speaker 1: really I'll be good at that. At this point, I 177 00:10:54,000 --> 00:10:55,280 Speaker 1: would like to ask you if you'd like to go 178 00:10:55,280 --> 00:10:58,319 Speaker 1: on a second date with Anthony. Hey, for sure? Do 179 00:10:58,320 --> 00:11:00,200 Speaker 1: you want to give him another shot? We will send 180 00:11:00,200 --> 00:11:01,440 Speaker 1: you guys out, We'll pay for it if you go 181 00:11:01,440 --> 00:11:04,960 Speaker 1: out with Anthony one more time. I think I'd rather 182 00:11:05,080 --> 00:11:07,800 Speaker 1: set him up with one of my friends, a friend 183 00:11:07,840 --> 00:11:11,400 Speaker 1: that you dislike. Or what if I go out with 184 00:11:11,480 --> 00:11:14,840 Speaker 1: him again and this happens, then it's going to cost 185 00:11:14,920 --> 00:11:16,760 Speaker 1: me something because now I'm going to be the mean girl, 186 00:11:16,960 --> 00:11:18,640 Speaker 1: and I don't want to be the mean girl. And 187 00:11:18,679 --> 00:11:20,760 Speaker 1: I feel like I just feel like he needs a 188 00:11:20,760 --> 00:11:23,640 Speaker 1: little bit more time to be single. Okay, all right, 189 00:11:23,760 --> 00:11:26,360 Speaker 1: that's fine. Sorry, Anthony, but you got your answer and 190 00:11:26,400 --> 00:11:29,880 Speaker 1: now you know, Okay, maybe take some time to yourself, 191 00:11:30,000 --> 00:11:31,720 Speaker 1: especially if you haven't dated in a while. The first 192 00:11:31,720 --> 00:11:33,680 Speaker 1: girl that you go out with, you will like fall 193 00:11:33,720 --> 00:11:35,520 Speaker 1: for it because you'll think that she's awesome because she's 194 00:11:35,640 --> 00:11:39,800 Speaker 1: something different than what you've been used to. But but 195 00:11:39,880 --> 00:11:41,679 Speaker 1: you need to kind of like check your emotions a 196 00:11:41,679 --> 00:11:46,120 Speaker 1: little bit. I mean, I should not share like all 197 00:11:46,120 --> 00:11:50,600 Speaker 1: of myself right away. No, definitely don't wait to like 198 00:11:50,679 --> 00:11:53,000 Speaker 1: the third date for the crying guy to say the 199 00:11:53,000 --> 00:11:57,080 Speaker 1: third year. Okay, guys, thanks for trying. Do you like 200 00:11:57,160 --> 00:12:04,040 Speaker 1: everybody else? And save the tears for the bedroom in 201 00:12:04,080 --> 00:12:10,800 Speaker 1: the morning. Seriously, Anthony, you tweeted, oh my god, freaking out? 202 00:12:10,880 --> 00:12:15,600 Speaker 1: I think I hear church Bell. Isn't that a romantic 203 00:12:15,640 --> 00:12:22,160 Speaker 1: thing to say? I mean, isn't that what every getting 204 00:12:22,200 --> 00:12:32,400 Speaker 1: together and living happily ever after? Are you crying? No? Second? 205 00:12:32,480 --> 00:12:34,319 Speaker 1: At seven eight five nine, who says, poor guy, he 206 00:12:34,400 --> 00:12:39,120 Speaker 1: sounds like a sweetheart, but definitely not ready for dating yet. Yea. 207 00:12:40,080 --> 00:12:42,200 Speaker 1: That was a clip from today's second eight update. If 208 00:12:42,200 --> 00:12:44,480 Speaker 1: you missed it, Anthony and Tricia went on a date. 209 00:12:44,920 --> 00:12:47,240 Speaker 1: She wasn't calling him back. Why because when she got 210 00:12:47,240 --> 00:12:48,960 Speaker 1: done with the dates, she went home and saw that 211 00:12:49,000 --> 00:12:51,520 Speaker 1: he was tweeting a bunch of things about how amazing 212 00:12:51,559 --> 00:12:54,520 Speaker 1: it was and now you were basically what happened right there, 213 00:12:54,559 --> 00:12:56,160 Speaker 1: and then he started to kind of cry and was 214 00:12:56,280 --> 00:13:00,439 Speaker 1: very emotional. So the guy hasn't dated anyone since high 215 00:13:00,440 --> 00:13:03,400 Speaker 1: school man, and I just have this feeling that his 216 00:13:03,559 --> 00:13:08,680 Speaker 1: ex isn't sitting around crying. I bet she's maybe celebrating, yeah, 217 00:13:08,679 --> 00:13:14,480 Speaker 1: her freedom. She's probably doing okay, Yeah, and he's not. Okay. 218 00:13:14,679 --> 00:13:18,079 Speaker 1: I'm all for a guy crying. I'm gonna I cry 219 00:13:18,120 --> 00:13:21,280 Speaker 1: all the time. But that was like something's a little 220 00:13:21,360 --> 00:13:25,920 Speaker 1: off with him. He is like literally blowing. Yeah, sometimes 221 00:13:25,960 --> 00:13:27,720 Speaker 1: when you got to keep it together a little bit. Yeah, 222 00:13:27,760 --> 00:13:30,200 Speaker 1: you know, like that's like that's time to cry in 223 00:13:30,240 --> 00:13:33,840 Speaker 1: private after a first date. And that's for both genders. Yeah, 224 00:13:33,920 --> 00:13:36,480 Speaker 1: Like nobody should be running on a first date. It 225 00:13:36,520 --> 00:13:39,440 Speaker 1: doesn't matter if you're man, you're woman, who you're dating. 226 00:13:39,760 --> 00:13:44,160 Speaker 1: That's gonna scare scare anybody away. Yeah, I mean, unless 227 00:13:44,160 --> 00:13:47,319 Speaker 1: someone dies. I think that's the only time it's okay 228 00:13:47,360 --> 00:13:49,120 Speaker 1: to cry in the first date. Yeah, no matter what 229 00:13:49,160 --> 00:13:50,680 Speaker 1: if you go out with someone and then after that 230 00:13:50,720 --> 00:13:52,880 Speaker 1: they're tweeting about how it was the most amazing date 231 00:13:52,920 --> 00:13:55,360 Speaker 1: experience in their heart is ready to love again, and 232 00:13:55,400 --> 00:13:57,719 Speaker 1: they're in tears and they can't do anything but think 233 00:13:57,760 --> 00:14:00,319 Speaker 1: about you after a first date. That's problem going to 234 00:14:00,400 --> 00:14:03,360 Speaker 1: scare you off. But it doesn't scare everybody off because 235 00:14:03,360 --> 00:14:05,160 Speaker 1: we just got a text in that says I'll go 236 00:14:05,240 --> 00:14:08,400 Speaker 1: out with Anthony. Yeah, they're into it. See, some people 237 00:14:08,480 --> 00:14:10,400 Speaker 1: might like that. They might both be this. They both 238 00:14:10,400 --> 00:14:12,320 Speaker 1: be with tweeting the same thing and both crying and 239 00:14:12,360 --> 00:14:15,520 Speaker 1: calling each other and talking about how they've met the 240 00:14:15,600 --> 00:14:20,560 Speaker 1: love of their life after one dinner dated. Yeah, I'm 241 00:14:20,560 --> 00:14:23,280 Speaker 1: just going I mean, if they're crying after one day, 242 00:14:23,320 --> 00:14:26,920 Speaker 1: can you imagine the tears after the breakups? Really tough. 243 00:14:28,040 --> 00:14:30,680 Speaker 1: So they decided not to go out again, Well, she 244 00:14:30,760 --> 00:14:34,440 Speaker 1: decided not to go out with him again. But he'll 245 00:14:34,480 --> 00:14:39,440 Speaker 1: be all right eventually, maybe with some therapy and yeah 246 00:14:39,200 --> 00:14:41,680 Speaker 1: and something, he'll be okay. He'll get through this tough 247 00:14:41,720 --> 00:14:43,800 Speaker 1: time in his life. Remember, if you want to do 248 00:14:43,800 --> 00:14:45,360 Speaker 1: a second day update, all you have to do is 249 00:14:45,440 --> 00:14:48,400 Speaker 1: email the show and we will call the person who 250 00:14:48,440 --> 00:14:49,280 Speaker 1: didn't call you back.