WEBVTT - 2nd Date Update PODCAST: Age Is Just A Bummer

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<v Speaker 1>Brooking jubil in the morning. Second date update. Every guy

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<v Speaker 1>has been there before. You sit down at a restaurant

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<v Speaker 1>and you're hanging out, and then the waitress walks up

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<v Speaker 1>and says hello, and you instantly realize that she initiated

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<v Speaker 1>a conversation with you, so she must think you're attractive.

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<v Speaker 1>So you throw her some smooth lines like yeah, I'll

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<v Speaker 1>take an electric lemonade, and you keep those coming, and

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<v Speaker 1>there's a big tip in your future. Just let them

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<v Speaker 1>know that you're a power player. Yeah. And then when

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<v Speaker 1>you sign the bill, you leave like a twenty six

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<v Speaker 1>percent tip to let her know you are making the

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<v Speaker 1>big dough. Yeah, And you write your phone number on

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<v Speaker 1>the receipt so she can call you later and you

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<v Speaker 1>two can go out for a romantic evening. To that exactly,

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<v Speaker 1>And that's exactly what happened to Mary Ellen, who's on

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<v Speaker 1>the phone right now. She was serving a table and

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<v Speaker 1>some dude hit her up, and now he's not calling

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<v Speaker 1>her back, and she's wondering why you actually you actually

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<v Speaker 1>fell for that. I usually don't, but it seems different.

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<v Speaker 1>Was he as smooth as I described or was it

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<v Speaker 1>even better? He was a little less smooth? Than that,

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<v Speaker 1>a little less smooth. Yeah, he didn't drop the electric

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<v Speaker 1>lemonade thing, did he? Definitely not. That gets the servers

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<v Speaker 1>every single time, man, you stop your sugary drink. So

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<v Speaker 1>your email said that this guy was actually somebody who

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<v Speaker 1>you waited on. How did that go down? How do

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<v Speaker 1>you get your number? So he was super cool and

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<v Speaker 1>definitely different than all the other creepy dudes that hit

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<v Speaker 1>on me at the bar. What's his name, by the way, Tommy, Tommy,

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<v Speaker 1>And you're at a bar, Well, this is happening. Yes,

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<v Speaker 1>I cocktail atris at a bar, and he was at

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<v Speaker 1>one of my bar tables where I was serving food

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<v Speaker 1>and drink. Awesome. So did he actually ask you for

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<v Speaker 1>your phone number or did he try the thing of

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<v Speaker 1>like leaving it on the receiver. No, he actually did

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<v Speaker 1>ask me at the end, and he did it really respectfully,

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<v Speaker 1>and this was the only time that I ever actually

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<v Speaker 1>went for it. What did he say specifically? He said,

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<v Speaker 1>I'm sure this happens to you all the time, but

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<v Speaker 1>you seem like a really cool girl. You've done such

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<v Speaker 1>a good job of taking care of me, and I

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<v Speaker 1>would love to pick you out at a date if

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<v Speaker 1>I could give you my number and you could you know,

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<v Speaker 1>you can call me if you decide to do that,

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<v Speaker 1>Nettle pressure. That all sounds nice except for that you've

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<v Speaker 1>done a really good job taking care of me part.

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<v Speaker 1>That kind of creeped me out a little bit. I

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<v Speaker 1>gotta be honest, No, it wasn't. It wasn't like that.

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<v Speaker 1>It wasn't creepy. Yeah, it was like, you know, it

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<v Speaker 1>was his turn to take care of her for a night,

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<v Speaker 1>is the way I read it. Plus he like dropped

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<v Speaker 1>in that nice compliment in the beginning about how this

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<v Speaker 1>must happen to you all the time because they're so sexy.

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<v Speaker 1>Absolutely all right, And what did you guys do for

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<v Speaker 1>your date? I love to go dancing, and one of

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<v Speaker 1>my favorite DJ was in town, so we decided we'd

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<v Speaker 1>go to his show. Oh yeah, which was I was

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<v Speaker 1>really excited about. And on my way there to meet him,

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<v Speaker 1>he texts me and says that he needs to reschedule.

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<v Speaker 1>That sucks. While you were on your way to the club. Wow, yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>he said it was for an emergency. Do you do

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<v Speaker 1>you think because as soon as you said dancing, and

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<v Speaker 1>I'm like, well, let's kind of risky with a guy

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<v Speaker 1>like either guys are into it or they're very adamantly

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<v Speaker 1>against dancing. I know that I really thought about guys.

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<v Speaker 1>And when we were trying to decide what we were

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<v Speaker 1>going to do, he let me choose, and they said,

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<v Speaker 1>well I really liked to dance. Is about something you liked?

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<v Speaker 1>He said, he loves to dance, so he said he

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<v Speaker 1>actually liked it. But then he canceled on you right

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<v Speaker 1>before you got there. Yeah, I'm surprised you even want

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<v Speaker 1>to do a second date update with him. Well, I've

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<v Speaker 1>even told you the worst part. You guys, we set

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<v Speaker 1>out the second date and he canceled what he canceled

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<v Speaker 1>on you twice? And you still want to call him?

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<v Speaker 1>I just I don't know. There was something about him.

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<v Speaker 1>There was something different the day that I served him,

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<v Speaker 1>and then the next time we spoke over the phone.

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<v Speaker 1>It was just a really good conversation and he just

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<v Speaker 1>didn't seem like other guys. Is hot, isn't he He's

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<v Speaker 1>really hot? Okay? But I mean, are you the only

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<v Speaker 1>one in this conversation right now that believes that maybe

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<v Speaker 1>he actually had two emergencies? You know, I thought about

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<v Speaker 1>that that dawned on me. I don't know if maybe

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<v Speaker 1>he's got a girlfriend or a wife, like I don't know.

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<v Speaker 1>I'd like to get to the bottom of it. I'd

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<v Speaker 1>like to know. And I don't understand why he wouldn't

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<v Speaker 1>just say something or you know, not pursue me. You

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<v Speaker 1>just want to find out why he's blowing you off twice? Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>okay and rude. How did you respond to him after

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<v Speaker 1>he ditched you the second time? The second time he

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<v Speaker 1>canceled on me, he did give me a day in

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<v Speaker 1>advanced notice, so oh that's nice. Yeah, you want to

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<v Speaker 1>call him. I was annoyed, but at least I wasn't

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<v Speaker 1>on my way there and haven't wasted my time. And

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<v Speaker 1>you haven't heard from him since he canceled that second time.

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<v Speaker 1>We've texted back and forth a couple of times, just

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<v Speaker 1>like really short words, and I just want to get

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<v Speaker 1>to the bottom of this. I want to know if

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<v Speaker 1>there's another woman in the picture or what his deal is. Okay, well,

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<v Speaker 1>we'll play a song, come back, call him and get

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<v Speaker 1>your second date update. All right, great, thank you. Okay,

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<v Speaker 1>that's what I'm going to cancel on you right before

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<v Speaker 1>we do it. Just hang on, okay. Brooking jubil in

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<v Speaker 1>the morning second date Update. I'm about to use some

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<v Speaker 1>very strong language, so be prepared. Okay, I am baffled,

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<v Speaker 1>stop it, yeah, no, be fuddled. Yeah, tell me to

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<v Speaker 1>close my ears. You'm sorry, I just had to say it.

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<v Speaker 1>Very confused about why the girl for the second day

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<v Speaker 1>update today is not getting a call back. Her name

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<v Speaker 1>is Mary Ellen. She's actually on the phone in Mary Ellen.

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<v Speaker 1>I'm sorry you Eddie that. Yeah, but I just don't

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<v Speaker 1>get it if you're just tuning in. Mary Helen works

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<v Speaker 1>at a bar. She gets hit on all the time

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<v Speaker 1>by dudes, which happens yeah, and normally she turns them down.

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<v Speaker 1>But she actually said yes to a guy named Tommy

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<v Speaker 1>and they've been texting back and forth to go out

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<v Speaker 1>on a date, but twice he's blown her off. One

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<v Speaker 1>when she was on the way to the date she

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<v Speaker 1>wanted to go dancing. Some DJ that she really likes

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<v Speaker 1>was in town and he texted her right before saying

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<v Speaker 1>I'm not gonna make it. And the other time was

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<v Speaker 1>they scheduled a make update and he canceled the day before.

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<v Speaker 1>So she's wondering why he would cancel on her, and

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<v Speaker 1>I'm wondering the same thing. How does a cute waitress,

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<v Speaker 1>get blown off twice, and then still want to do

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<v Speaker 1>a second date. Update that probably makes her feel better, jubile.

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<v Speaker 1>That's what's confusing me so much, Mary Ellen. Yeah, me too,

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<v Speaker 1>I'm confused. I just want to get to the bottom

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<v Speaker 1>of it. And you sound pretty pessimistic like you were

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<v Speaker 1>saying maybe he's married. I mean, what if he actually

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<v Speaker 1>has a legit? Excuse? You do want to go out

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<v Speaker 1>with him, right, Yeah, I do want to go out

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<v Speaker 1>with him, as long as he doesn't cancel on me

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<v Speaker 1>a pard all right, well that is a good point.

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<v Speaker 1>All right. Well, if you guys agreed to a second

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<v Speaker 1>date after this whole thing, we'll make sure it happens

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<v Speaker 1>right now. We won't let him off the phone until

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<v Speaker 1>you two are taking in the same space. Okay, Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>that sounds like a good plan. Okay, Well, here I go.

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<v Speaker 1>I'm gonna Dallas phone number right now. Okay, Hello, Hi,

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<v Speaker 1>can I speak to Tommy? Yeah, speaking, Hey Tommy? How

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<v Speaker 1>are you? This is Jewil from brook and Jewil in

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<v Speaker 1>the Morning. I'm just say it one more times. Hello,

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<v Speaker 1>Hey Tommy, this is Jewil from Brook and Jewil in

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<v Speaker 1>the Morning. You're there, yea, what's going on, Tommy, can

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<v Speaker 1>you hear me? Tommy, I can hear you, but I

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<v Speaker 1>just don't know who you are. Oh okay, good. I

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<v Speaker 1>was worried you couldn't hear me. Tommy. This is Jewil

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<v Speaker 1>from Brook and Jewil in the Morning. Are you familiar?

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<v Speaker 1>Am I? What are you familiar? Do you have you

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<v Speaker 1>heard of Brook and Jewel in the Morning before? No? Oh? Okay, good.

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<v Speaker 1>It's a radio show. Great, awesome. Yeah. We're calling you

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<v Speaker 1>today because one of our listeners emailed us about you. Okay, okay,

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<v Speaker 1>are you curious to know who would email us? Uh? Huh.

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<v Speaker 1>I still feel like Tommy has no idea what's going on.

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<v Speaker 1>And so, Tommy, you recently met a girl named Mary Ellen? Right, yes, yes,

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<v Speaker 1>well I know that because mary Ellen emailed us to

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<v Speaker 1>see if we could get a hold of you because

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<v Speaker 1>apparently you've scheduled a date with her twice now and

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<v Speaker 1>blown her off each time. Okay, that is that what

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<v Speaker 1>she said? That's what she said. Yeah, And so we're

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<v Speaker 1>getting you on the phone to find out why you

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<v Speaker 1>keep blowing her off. To be honest with you, I've

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<v Speaker 1>just been really conflicted about it. And why is that?

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<v Speaker 1>She thinks just so you know that you're probably either

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<v Speaker 1>married or have a girlfriend. No, Is that a nervous

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<v Speaker 1>laugh because you're lying to us? Is that laugh because

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<v Speaker 1>you're surprised she thinks that. No, I swear to God,

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<v Speaker 1>I definitely don't have a girlfriend or a wife. Okay, start,

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<v Speaker 1>we got that out of the way. Why won't you

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<v Speaker 1>go out on a date with her? Then? Why do

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<v Speaker 1>you keep scheduling and then bailing? You know, it's it's

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<v Speaker 1>my own insecurity to be honesty. Um, I just I

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<v Speaker 1>just didn't feel comfortable with it when I thought about it.

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<v Speaker 1>Male pattern baldness is that it is. Women are okay

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<v Speaker 1>with that. No, I'm not balding. Okay, you said insecure,

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<v Speaker 1>and that's instantly where I went. I was like, he's

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<v Speaker 1>got to be balding. What No, No, that is not

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<v Speaker 1>the case. How can you be insecure? You're the guy

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<v Speaker 1>that walks into a bar asks a hot bartender out

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<v Speaker 1>and she actually says yes to you out of the

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<v Speaker 1>thousands of guys that hit on her all the time.

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<v Speaker 1>To tell you the truth, I'm not usually that impulsive,

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<v Speaker 1>and I only did that because I really was drawn

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<v Speaker 1>to her. Marilyn is really interesting. She's really lovely, and

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<v Speaker 1>you know, I thought she was great. Yeah, it sounds

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<v Speaker 1>like the kind of girl that you want to blow

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<v Speaker 1>off while she's on the way to a club to

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<v Speaker 1>meet you. Usually when you describe somebody like that, you're like,

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<v Speaker 1>I can't wait until they just get right to the

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<v Speaker 1>door of where we supples have a date and then

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<v Speaker 1>tell him I'm not showing up. You know, listen in

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<v Speaker 1>all cincinarady. I know that in the end, she probably

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<v Speaker 1>wouldn't be happy with this. Why what is wrong with you?

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<v Speaker 1>All right? So you want you want to hear the

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<v Speaker 1>whole truth? Then, yeah, that'd be great. I'm assuming she

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<v Speaker 1>probably does too. Um. We talked on the phone for

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<v Speaker 1>quite a while the night that we met, and it

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<v Speaker 1>was great. It's a really wonderful conversation. And after I

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<v Speaker 1>got off the phone with her, Um, I looked her

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<v Speaker 1>up on social media and I thought she was a

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<v Speaker 1>lot older than she actually is. Okay, Um, she's twenty three. Okay,

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<v Speaker 1>what's wrong with that? It's kind of young. How old

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<v Speaker 1>are you? I'm forty two and I'm divorced, you know

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<v Speaker 1>a couple of years. Um, Oh, okay, so you're almost

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<v Speaker 1>twenty years older than her. Yeah, and that bothers you. Yeah, Jackpot,

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<v Speaker 1>it's not me, it's for her. I don't I don't

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<v Speaker 1>want to do that to her, if that makes any sense.

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<v Speaker 1>You don't want her to date a geriatric? Ye? Thank yet?

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<v Speaker 1>But come on, I mean, shouldn't you leave that up

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<v Speaker 1>to her? She's gonna have to explain this to, you know,

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<v Speaker 1>her friends that we go out with, and her family,

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<v Speaker 1>like meeting her parents. Like, I never for a million

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<v Speaker 1>years thought that I would ever be that guy. You know, Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>I can see what you mean. They're a little bit

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<v Speaker 1>It would be awkward to be twenty years older than

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<v Speaker 1>the girl that you're dating and be like, Okay, I've

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<v Speaker 1>officially become like midlife crisis man. But if you guys

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<v Speaker 1>have a real connection and you think that she's sophisticated

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<v Speaker 1>and intelligent, then why not. I think that's kind of

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<v Speaker 1>a simple way of looking at it, and it is

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<v Speaker 1>really a lot more complicated than Matt, especially on my end.

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<v Speaker 1>You know, Okay, wouldn't wouldn't you be curious to find

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<v Speaker 1>out what she thinks? Not? Really, I'm not exactly proud

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<v Speaker 1>to be in this situation. I think she's just kind

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<v Speaker 1>of going to mock and ridicule me. Can you guys,

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<v Speaker 1>just guys, just tell her. Okay, well, how about I

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<v Speaker 1>just tell you that you actually kind of told her

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<v Speaker 1>because she's on the other line listening and wants to

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<v Speaker 1>talk to you. What. Yeah, Mary ellen him. I thought

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<v Speaker 1>this was I thought she said an email. I didn't

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<v Speaker 1>know that this was a phone thing. I thought this

0:12:31.679 --> 0:12:34.080
<v Speaker 1>she wrote a letter. She did, and then we got

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<v Speaker 1>her on the phone and told her to hang on

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<v Speaker 1>while we talk to you to see if we get

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<v Speaker 1>the answer. And now it's time for her to talk

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<v Speaker 1>to you. Yeah, one way to sum it up. I'm

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<v Speaker 1>not really sure how to take this. Oh man, um,

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<v Speaker 1>you know, I uh, did you hear the whole thing?

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<v Speaker 1>Did you hear everything? Yeah? You don't look for you too?

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<v Speaker 1>Ye kind of you know you don't look twenty three.

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<v Speaker 1>Wait a minute, I don't know how to take that.

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<v Speaker 1>I mean you said I look a lot older older. No,

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<v Speaker 1>I didn't mean like you look old. I just I

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<v Speaker 1>mean you you look like a like a like a woman.

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<v Speaker 1>Oh whoa, you look like you've been experienced. Okay, I

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<v Speaker 1>just mean you look more mature, you know not, and

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<v Speaker 1>you sound more matured. I didn't mean to think that you,

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<v Speaker 1>you know, look like some old broad that's not saying

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<v Speaker 1>at all. No, you're amazing and you're beautiful actually, and

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<v Speaker 1>you're When I was twenty three, you you, you were,

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<v Speaker 1>would be the one I would jumped about. I tell

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<v Speaker 1>you what, Mary Ellen, if I were twenty years younger,

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<v Speaker 1>the things we do. But does it bother you that

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<v Speaker 1>he's forty two. I mean, I'm just surprised that he

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<v Speaker 1>wouldn't have told me that ahead of time it all said,

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<v Speaker 1>I didn't think I had to, Like, I had no idea.

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<v Speaker 1>I mean, like when you looked me up on social

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<v Speaker 1>media and you found that out, you could have texted

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<v Speaker 1>me or said something like, given me the the respect

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<v Speaker 1>at least to say something so that I'm not sitting

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<v Speaker 1>here wondering and trying to figure out what's going on.

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<v Speaker 1>I'm sorry, I just I've never been in this situation,

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<v Speaker 1>and I honestly was really desperate to avoid having this conversation.

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<v Speaker 1>But wasn't it kind of a clue when she said

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<v Speaker 1>her favorite DJ was in town and she wanted to

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<v Speaker 1>go dancing, that she wasn't thirty five, all right, So

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<v Speaker 1>now you know why I wanted to cancel, all right?

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<v Speaker 1>So You're like, who's this tiesto guy? I knew if

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<v Speaker 1>I was going to go there that night that I

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<v Speaker 1>was just going to embarrass myself. Hey, I just doesn't

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<v Speaker 1>sound like Jimmy Buffett at all. This is terrible. I'm

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<v Speaker 1>not battled, Tommy. You're not a parent head, grateful, dead guy.

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<v Speaker 1>I just wish that you would have given me the

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<v Speaker 1>offic in the choice of whether or not I wanted

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<v Speaker 1>to go out on a date with you because of

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<v Speaker 1>your age. Well, tell me how about this. Would you

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<v Speaker 1>like to go out on a second date with Mary Ellen?

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<v Speaker 1>We will pay for it. What could it hurt? You

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<v Speaker 1>know what? She can't really make this decision and don't

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<v Speaker 1>And I don't mean this to say in any contest anyway,

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<v Speaker 1>but you don't know what I know, Like, I know

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<v Speaker 1>what you're going to discover. You can discover that I

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<v Speaker 1>go to bed really early. You're kind of discover the

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<v Speaker 1>highlight going to bed at nine o'clock at night for

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<v Speaker 1>a second d Sorry to interrupt you, Um, I honestly,

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<v Speaker 1>I don't know if I want to go on a

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<v Speaker 1>second date anymore. Really, Yeah, after listening to all this,

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<v Speaker 1>like you can't make the decision for me and you

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<v Speaker 1>you think you've got it all figured out, And if

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<v Speaker 1>that's the case, I don't want to deal with that anyways.

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<v Speaker 1>Kind of sounds like we're listening to a daughter and

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<v Speaker 1>her dad. Are you you don't know how I feel?

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<v Speaker 1>I know everything? Do you think you know everything? Oh?

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<v Speaker 1>My dad is in his forties, so that's one. Oh

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<v Speaker 1>my god, this just keeps getting better. Broken Juwil in

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<v Speaker 1>the morning,