Speaker 1: Brooking jubil in the morning. Second date update. Every guy
Speaker 1: has been there before. You sit down at a restaurant
Speaker 1: and you're hanging out, and then the waitress walks up
Speaker 1: and says hello, and you instantly realize that she initiated
Speaker 1: a conversation with you, so she must think you're attractive.
Speaker 1: So you throw her some smooth lines like yeah, I'll
Speaker 1: take an electric lemonade, and you keep those coming, and
Speaker 1: there's a big tip in your future. Just let them
Speaker 1: know that you're a power player. Yeah. And then when
Speaker 1: you sign the bill, you leave like a twenty six
Speaker 1: percent tip to let her know you are making the
Speaker 1: big dough. Yeah, And you write your phone number on
Speaker 1: the receipt so she can call you later and you
Speaker 1: two can go out for a romantic evening. To that exactly,
Speaker 1: And that's exactly what happened to Mary Ellen, who's on
Speaker 1: the phone right now. She was serving a table and
Speaker 1: some dude hit her up, and now he's not calling
Speaker 1: her back, and she's wondering why you actually you actually
Speaker 1: fell for that. I usually don't, but it seems different.
Speaker 1: Was he as smooth as I described or was it
Speaker 1: even better? He was a little less smooth? Than that,
Speaker 1: a little less smooth. Yeah, he didn't drop the electric
Speaker 1: lemonade thing, did he? Definitely not. That gets the servers
Speaker 1: every single time, man, you stop your sugary drink. So
Speaker 1: your email said that this guy was actually somebody who
Speaker 1: you waited on. How did that go down? How do
Speaker 1: you get your number? So he was super cool and
Speaker 1: definitely different than all the other creepy dudes that hit
Speaker 1: on me at the bar. What's his name, by the way, Tommy, Tommy,
Speaker 1: And you're at a bar, Well, this is happening. Yes,
Speaker 1: I cocktail atris at a bar, and he was at
Speaker 1: one of my bar tables where I was serving food
Speaker 1: and drink. Awesome. So did he actually ask you for
Speaker 1: your phone number or did he try the thing of
Speaker 1: like leaving it on the receiver. No, he actually did
Speaker 1: ask me at the end, and he did it really respectfully,
Speaker 1: and this was the only time that I ever actually
Speaker 1: went for it. What did he say specifically? He said,
Speaker 1: I'm sure this happens to you all the time, but
Speaker 1: you seem like a really cool girl. You've done such
Speaker 1: a good job of taking care of me, and I
Speaker 1: would love to pick you out at a date if
Speaker 1: I could give you my number and you could you know,
Speaker 1: you can call me if you decide to do that,
Speaker 1: Nettle pressure. That all sounds nice except for that you've
Speaker 1: done a really good job taking care of me part.
Speaker 1: That kind of creeped me out a little bit. I
Speaker 1: gotta be honest, No, it wasn't. It wasn't like that.
Speaker 1: It wasn't creepy. Yeah, it was like, you know, it
Speaker 1: was his turn to take care of her for a night,
Speaker 1: is the way I read it. Plus he like dropped
Speaker 1: in that nice compliment in the beginning about how this
Speaker 1: must happen to you all the time because they're so sexy.
Speaker 1: Absolutely all right, And what did you guys do for
Speaker 1: your date? I love to go dancing, and one of
Speaker 1: my favorite DJ was in town, so we decided we'd
Speaker 1: go to his show. Oh yeah, which was I was
Speaker 1: really excited about. And on my way there to meet him,
Speaker 1: he texts me and says that he needs to reschedule.
Speaker 1: That sucks. While you were on your way to the club. Wow, yeah,
Speaker 1: he said it was for an emergency. Do you do
Speaker 1: you think because as soon as you said dancing, and
Speaker 1: I'm like, well, let's kind of risky with a guy
Speaker 1: like either guys are into it or they're very adamantly
Speaker 1: against dancing. I know that I really thought about guys.
Speaker 1: And when we were trying to decide what we were
Speaker 1: going to do, he let me choose, and they said,
Speaker 1: well I really liked to dance. Is about something you liked?
Speaker 1: He said, he loves to dance, so he said he
Speaker 1: actually liked it. But then he canceled on you right
Speaker 1: before you got there. Yeah, I'm surprised you even want
Speaker 1: to do a second date update with him. Well, I've
Speaker 1: even told you the worst part. You guys, we set
Speaker 1: out the second date and he canceled what he canceled
Speaker 1: on you twice? And you still want to call him?
Speaker 1: I just I don't know. There was something about him.
Speaker 1: There was something different the day that I served him,
Speaker 1: and then the next time we spoke over the phone.
Speaker 1: It was just a really good conversation and he just
Speaker 1: didn't seem like other guys. Is hot, isn't he He's
Speaker 1: really hot? Okay? But I mean, are you the only
Speaker 1: one in this conversation right now that believes that maybe
Speaker 1: he actually had two emergencies? You know, I thought about
Speaker 1: that that dawned on me. I don't know if maybe
Speaker 1: he's got a girlfriend or a wife, like I don't know.
Speaker 1: I'd like to get to the bottom of it. I'd
Speaker 1: like to know. And I don't understand why he wouldn't
Speaker 1: just say something or you know, not pursue me. You
Speaker 1: just want to find out why he's blowing you off twice? Yeah,
Speaker 1: okay and rude. How did you respond to him after
Speaker 1: he ditched you the second time? The second time he
Speaker 1: canceled on me, he did give me a day in
Speaker 1: advanced notice, so oh that's nice. Yeah, you want to
Speaker 1: call him. I was annoyed, but at least I wasn't
Speaker 1: on my way there and haven't wasted my time. And
Speaker 1: you haven't heard from him since he canceled that second time.
Speaker 1: We've texted back and forth a couple of times, just
Speaker 1: like really short words, and I just want to get
Speaker 1: to the bottom of this. I want to know if
Speaker 1: there's another woman in the picture or what his deal is. Okay, well,
Speaker 1: we'll play a song, come back, call him and get
Speaker 1: your second date update. All right, great, thank you. Okay,
Speaker 1: that's what I'm going to cancel on you right before
Speaker 1: we do it. Just hang on, okay. Brooking jubil in
Speaker 1: the morning second date Update. I'm about to use some
Speaker 1: very strong language, so be prepared. Okay, I am baffled,
Speaker 1: stop it, yeah, no, be fuddled. Yeah, tell me to
Speaker 1: close my ears. You'm sorry, I just had to say it.
Speaker 1: Very confused about why the girl for the second day
Speaker 1: update today is not getting a call back. Her name
Speaker 1: is Mary Ellen. She's actually on the phone in Mary Ellen.
Speaker 1: I'm sorry you Eddie that. Yeah, but I just don't
Speaker 1: get it if you're just tuning in. Mary Helen works
Speaker 1: at a bar. She gets hit on all the time
Speaker 1: by dudes, which happens yeah, and normally she turns them down.
Speaker 1: But she actually said yes to a guy named Tommy
Speaker 1: and they've been texting back and forth to go out
Speaker 1: on a date, but twice he's blown her off. One
Speaker 1: when she was on the way to the date she
Speaker 1: wanted to go dancing. Some DJ that she really likes
Speaker 1: was in town and he texted her right before saying
Speaker 1: I'm not gonna make it. And the other time was
Speaker 1: they scheduled a make update and he canceled the day before.
Speaker 1: So she's wondering why he would cancel on her, and
Speaker 1: I'm wondering the same thing. How does a cute waitress,
Speaker 1: get blown off twice, and then still want to do
Speaker 1: a second date. Update that probably makes her feel better, jubile.
Speaker 1: That's what's confusing me so much, Mary Ellen. Yeah, me too,
Speaker 1: I'm confused. I just want to get to the bottom
Speaker 1: of it. And you sound pretty pessimistic like you were
Speaker 1: saying maybe he's married. I mean, what if he actually
Speaker 1: has a legit? Excuse? You do want to go out
Speaker 1: with him, right, Yeah, I do want to go out
Speaker 1: with him, as long as he doesn't cancel on me
Speaker 1: a pard all right, well that is a good point.
Speaker 1: All right. Well, if you guys agreed to a second
Speaker 1: date after this whole thing, we'll make sure it happens
Speaker 1: right now. We won't let him off the phone until
Speaker 1: you two are taking in the same space. Okay, Yeah,
Speaker 1: that sounds like a good plan. Okay, Well, here I go.
Speaker 1: I'm gonna Dallas phone number right now. Okay, Hello, Hi,
Speaker 1: can I speak to Tommy? Yeah, speaking, Hey Tommy? How
Speaker 1: are you? This is Jewil from brook and Jewil in
Speaker 1: the Morning. I'm just say it one more times. Hello,
Speaker 1: Hey Tommy, this is Jewil from Brook and Jewil in
Speaker 1: the Morning. You're there, yea, what's going on, Tommy, can
Speaker 1: you hear me? Tommy, I can hear you, but I
Speaker 1: just don't know who you are. Oh okay, good. I
Speaker 1: was worried you couldn't hear me. Tommy. This is Jewil
Speaker 1: from Brook and Jewil in the Morning. Are you familiar?
Speaker 1: Am I? What are you familiar? Do you have you
Speaker 1: heard of Brook and Jewel in the Morning before? No? Oh? Okay, good.
Speaker 1: It's a radio show. Great, awesome. Yeah. We're calling you
Speaker 1: today because one of our listeners emailed us about you. Okay, okay,
Speaker 1: are you curious to know who would email us? Uh? Huh.
Speaker 1: I still feel like Tommy has no idea what's going on.
Speaker 1: And so, Tommy, you recently met a girl named Mary Ellen? Right, yes, yes,
Speaker 1: well I know that because mary Ellen emailed us to
Speaker 1: see if we could get a hold of you because
Speaker 1: apparently you've scheduled a date with her twice now and
Speaker 1: blown her off each time. Okay, that is that what
Speaker 1: she said? That's what she said. Yeah, And so we're
Speaker 1: getting you on the phone to find out why you
Speaker 1: keep blowing her off. To be honest with you, I've
Speaker 1: just been really conflicted about it. And why is that?
Speaker 1: She thinks just so you know that you're probably either
Speaker 1: married or have a girlfriend. No, Is that a nervous
Speaker 1: laugh because you're lying to us? Is that laugh because
Speaker 1: you're surprised she thinks that. No, I swear to God,
Speaker 1: I definitely don't have a girlfriend or a wife. Okay, start,
Speaker 1: we got that out of the way. Why won't you
Speaker 1: go out on a date with her? Then? Why do
Speaker 1: you keep scheduling and then bailing? You know, it's it's
Speaker 1: my own insecurity to be honesty. Um, I just I
Speaker 1: just didn't feel comfortable with it when I thought about it.
Speaker 1: Male pattern baldness is that it is. Women are okay
Speaker 1: with that. No, I'm not balding. Okay, you said insecure,
Speaker 1: and that's instantly where I went. I was like, he's
Speaker 1: got to be balding. What No, No, that is not
Speaker 1: the case. How can you be insecure? You're the guy
Speaker 1: that walks into a bar asks a hot bartender out
Speaker 1: and she actually says yes to you out of the
Speaker 1: thousands of guys that hit on her all the time.
Speaker 1: To tell you the truth, I'm not usually that impulsive,
Speaker 1: and I only did that because I really was drawn
Speaker 1: to her. Marilyn is really interesting. She's really lovely, and
Speaker 1: you know, I thought she was great. Yeah, it sounds
Speaker 1: like the kind of girl that you want to blow
Speaker 1: off while she's on the way to a club to
Speaker 1: meet you. Usually when you describe somebody like that, you're like,
Speaker 1: I can't wait until they just get right to the
Speaker 1: door of where we supples have a date and then
Speaker 1: tell him I'm not showing up. You know, listen in
Speaker 1: all cincinarady. I know that in the end, she probably
Speaker 1: wouldn't be happy with this. Why what is wrong with you?
Speaker 1: All right? So you want you want to hear the
Speaker 1: whole truth? Then, yeah, that'd be great. I'm assuming she
Speaker 1: probably does too. Um. We talked on the phone for
Speaker 1: quite a while the night that we met, and it
Speaker 1: was great. It's a really wonderful conversation. And after I
Speaker 1: got off the phone with her, Um, I looked her
Speaker 1: up on social media and I thought she was a
Speaker 1: lot older than she actually is. Okay, Um, she's twenty three. Okay,
Speaker 1: what's wrong with that? It's kind of young. How old
Speaker 1: are you? I'm forty two and I'm divorced, you know
Speaker 1: a couple of years. Um, Oh, okay, so you're almost
Speaker 1: twenty years older than her. Yeah, and that bothers you. Yeah, Jackpot,
Speaker 1: it's not me, it's for her. I don't I don't
Speaker 1: want to do that to her, if that makes any sense.
Speaker 1: You don't want her to date a geriatric? Ye? Thank yet?
Speaker 1: But come on, I mean, shouldn't you leave that up
Speaker 1: to her? She's gonna have to explain this to, you know,
Speaker 1: her friends that we go out with, and her family,
Speaker 1: like meeting her parents. Like, I never for a million
Speaker 1: years thought that I would ever be that guy. You know, Yeah,
Speaker 1: I can see what you mean. They're a little bit
Speaker 1: It would be awkward to be twenty years older than
Speaker 1: the girl that you're dating and be like, Okay, I've
Speaker 1: officially become like midlife crisis man. But if you guys
Speaker 1: have a real connection and you think that she's sophisticated
Speaker 1: and intelligent, then why not. I think that's kind of
Speaker 1: a simple way of looking at it, and it is
Speaker 1: really a lot more complicated than Matt, especially on my end.
Speaker 1: You know, Okay, wouldn't wouldn't you be curious to find
Speaker 1: out what she thinks? Not? Really, I'm not exactly proud
Speaker 1: to be in this situation. I think she's just kind
Speaker 1: of going to mock and ridicule me. Can you guys,
Speaker 1: just guys, just tell her. Okay, well, how about I
Speaker 1: just tell you that you actually kind of told her
Speaker 1: because she's on the other line listening and wants to
Speaker 1: talk to you. What. Yeah, Mary ellen him. I thought
Speaker 1: this was I thought she said an email. I didn't
Speaker 1: know that this was a phone thing. I thought this
Speaker 1: she wrote a letter. She did, and then we got
Speaker 1: her on the phone and told her to hang on
Speaker 1: while we talk to you to see if we get
Speaker 1: the answer. And now it's time for her to talk
Speaker 1: to you. Yeah, one way to sum it up. I'm
Speaker 1: not really sure how to take this. Oh man, um,
Speaker 1: you know, I uh, did you hear the whole thing?
Speaker 1: Did you hear everything? Yeah? You don't look for you too?
Speaker 1: Ye kind of you know you don't look twenty three.
Speaker 1: Wait a minute, I don't know how to take that.
Speaker 1: I mean you said I look a lot older older. No,
Speaker 1: I didn't mean like you look old. I just I
Speaker 1: mean you you look like a like a like a woman.
Speaker 1: Oh whoa, you look like you've been experienced. Okay, I
Speaker 1: just mean you look more mature, you know not, and
Speaker 1: you sound more matured. I didn't mean to think that you,
Speaker 1: you know, look like some old broad that's not saying
Speaker 1: at all. No, you're amazing and you're beautiful actually, and
Speaker 1: you're When I was twenty three, you you, you were,
Speaker 1: would be the one I would jumped about. I tell
Speaker 1: you what, Mary Ellen, if I were twenty years younger,
Speaker 1: the things we do. But does it bother you that
Speaker 1: he's forty two. I mean, I'm just surprised that he
Speaker 1: wouldn't have told me that ahead of time it all said,
Speaker 1: I didn't think I had to, Like, I had no idea.
Speaker 1: I mean, like when you looked me up on social
Speaker 1: media and you found that out, you could have texted
Speaker 1: me or said something like, given me the the respect
Speaker 1: at least to say something so that I'm not sitting
Speaker 1: here wondering and trying to figure out what's going on.
Speaker 1: I'm sorry, I just I've never been in this situation,
Speaker 1: and I honestly was really desperate to avoid having this conversation.
Speaker 1: But wasn't it kind of a clue when she said
Speaker 1: her favorite DJ was in town and she wanted to
Speaker 1: go dancing, that she wasn't thirty five, all right, So
Speaker 1: now you know why I wanted to cancel, all right?
Speaker 1: So You're like, who's this tiesto guy? I knew if
Speaker 1: I was going to go there that night that I
Speaker 1: was just going to embarrass myself. Hey, I just doesn't
Speaker 1: sound like Jimmy Buffett at all. This is terrible. I'm
Speaker 1: not battled, Tommy. You're not a parent head, grateful, dead guy.
Speaker 1: I just wish that you would have given me the
Speaker 1: offic in the choice of whether or not I wanted
Speaker 1: to go out on a date with you because of
Speaker 1: your age. Well, tell me how about this. Would you
Speaker 1: like to go out on a second date with Mary Ellen?
Speaker 1: We will pay for it. What could it hurt? You
Speaker 1: know what? She can't really make this decision and don't
Speaker 1: And I don't mean this to say in any contest anyway,
Speaker 1: but you don't know what I know, Like, I know
Speaker 1: what you're going to discover. You can discover that I
Speaker 1: go to bed really early. You're kind of discover the
Speaker 1: highlight going to bed at nine o'clock at night for
Speaker 1: a second d Sorry to interrupt you, Um, I honestly,
Speaker 1: I don't know if I want to go on a
Speaker 1: second date anymore. Really, Yeah, after listening to all this,
Speaker 1: like you can't make the decision for me and you
Speaker 1: you think you've got it all figured out, And if
Speaker 1: that's the case, I don't want to deal with that anyways.
Speaker 1: Kind of sounds like we're listening to a daughter and
Speaker 1: her dad. Are you you don't know how I feel?
Speaker 1: I know everything? Do you think you know everything? Oh?
Speaker 1: My dad is in his forties, so that's one. Oh
Speaker 1: my god, this just keeps getting better. Broken Juwil in
Speaker 1: the morning,