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Speaker 1: Brooking jubil in the morning. Second date update. Every guy

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Speaker 1: has been there before. You sit down at a restaurant

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Speaker 1: a conversation with you, so she must think you're attractive.

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Speaker 1: So you throw her some smooth lines like yeah, I'll

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Speaker 1: take an electric lemonade, and you keep those coming, and

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Speaker 1: there's a big tip in your future. Just let them

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Speaker 1: know that you're a power player. Yeah. And then when

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Speaker 1: you sign the bill, you leave like a twenty six

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Speaker 1: the receipt so she can call you later and you

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Speaker 1: two can go out for a romantic evening. To that exactly,

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Speaker 1: And that's exactly what happened to Mary Ellen, who's on

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Speaker 1: the phone right now. She was serving a table and

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Speaker 1: some dude hit her up, and now he's not calling

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Speaker 1: her back, and she's wondering why you actually you actually

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Speaker 1: fell for that. I usually don't, but it seems different.

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Speaker 1: Was he as smooth as I described or was it

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Speaker 1: even better? He was a little less smooth? Than that,

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Speaker 1: a little less smooth. Yeah, he didn't drop the electric

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Speaker 1: lemonade thing, did he? Definitely not. That gets the servers

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Speaker 1: every single time, man, you stop your sugary drink. So

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Speaker 1: your email said that this guy was actually somebody who

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Speaker 1: you waited on. How did that go down? How do

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Speaker 1: you get your number? So he was super cool and

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Speaker 1: definitely different than all the other creepy dudes that hit

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Speaker 1: on me at the bar. What's his name, by the way, Tommy, Tommy,

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Speaker 1: And you're at a bar, Well, this is happening. Yes,

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Speaker 1: I cocktail atris at a bar, and he was at

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Speaker 1: and drink. Awesome. So did he actually ask you for

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Speaker 1: like leaving it on the receiver. No, he actually did

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Speaker 1: ask me at the end, and he did it really respectfully,

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Speaker 1: and this was the only time that I ever actually

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Speaker 1: went for it. What did he say specifically? He said,

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Speaker 1: I'm sure this happens to you all the time, but

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Speaker 1: you seem like a really cool girl. You've done such

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Speaker 1: a good job of taking care of me, and I

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Speaker 1: would love to pick you out at a date if

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Speaker 1: I could give you my number and you could you know,

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Speaker 1: you can call me if you decide to do that,

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Speaker 1: Nettle pressure. That all sounds nice except for that you've

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Speaker 1: done a really good job taking care of me part.

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Speaker 1: That kind of creeped me out a little bit. I

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Speaker 1: gotta be honest, No, it wasn't. It wasn't like that.

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Speaker 1: It wasn't creepy. Yeah, it was like, you know, it

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Speaker 1: is the way I read it. Plus he like dropped

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Speaker 1: in that nice compliment in the beginning about how this

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Speaker 1: Absolutely all right, And what did you guys do for

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Speaker 1: your date? I love to go dancing, and one of

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Speaker 1: my favorite DJ was in town, so we decided we'd

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Speaker 1: go to his show. Oh yeah, which was I was

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Speaker 1: really excited about. And on my way there to meet him,

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Speaker 1: That sucks. While you were on your way to the club. Wow, yeah,

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Speaker 1: he said it was for an emergency. Do you do

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Speaker 1: you think because as soon as you said dancing, and

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Speaker 1: I'm like, well, let's kind of risky with a guy

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Speaker 1: like either guys are into it or they're very adamantly

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Speaker 1: to do a second date update with him. Well, I've

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Speaker 1: even told you the worst part. You guys, we set

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Speaker 1: I just I don't know. There was something about him.

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Speaker 1: advanced notice, so oh that's nice. Yeah, you want to

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Speaker 1: We've texted back and forth a couple of times, just

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Speaker 1: that's what I'm going to cancel on you right before

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Speaker 1: we do it. Just hang on, okay. Brooking jubil in

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Speaker 1: the morning second date Update. I'm about to use some

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Speaker 1: stop it, yeah, no, be fuddled. Yeah, tell me to

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Speaker 1: Very confused about why the girl for the second day

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Speaker 1: is Mary Ellen. She's actually on the phone in Mary Ellen.

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Speaker 1: I'm sorry you Eddie that. Yeah, but I just don't

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Speaker 1: get it if you're just tuning in. Mary Helen works

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Speaker 1: at a bar. She gets hit on all the time

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Speaker 1: by dudes, which happens yeah, and normally she turns them down.

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Speaker 1: But she actually said yes to a guy named Tommy

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Speaker 1: and they've been texting back and forth to go out

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Speaker 1: they scheduled a make update and he canceled the day before.

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Speaker 1: So she's wondering why he would cancel on her, and

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Speaker 1: I'm wondering the same thing. How does a cute waitress,

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Speaker 1: That's what's confusing me so much, Mary Ellen. Yeah, me too,

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Speaker 1: saying maybe he's married. I mean, what if he actually

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Speaker 1: has a legit? Excuse? You do want to go out

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Speaker 1: a pard all right, well that is a good point.

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Speaker 1: All right. Well, if you guys agreed to a second

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Speaker 1: date after this whole thing, we'll make sure it happens

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Speaker 1: right now. We won't let him off the phone until

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Speaker 1: that sounds like a good plan. Okay, Well, here I go.

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Speaker 1: I'm gonna Dallas phone number right now. Okay, Hello, Hi,

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Speaker 1: can I speak to Tommy? Yeah, speaking, Hey Tommy? How

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Speaker 1: are you? This is Jewil from brook and Jewil in

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Speaker 1: the Morning. I'm just say it one more times. Hello,

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Speaker 1: Hey Tommy, this is Jewil from Brook and Jewil in

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Speaker 1: the Morning. You're there, yea, what's going on, Tommy, can

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Speaker 1: you hear me? Tommy, I can hear you, but I

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Speaker 1: just don't know who you are. Oh okay, good. I

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Speaker 1: was worried you couldn't hear me. Tommy. This is Jewil

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Speaker 1: from Brook and Jewil in the Morning. Are you familiar?

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Speaker 1: Am I? What are you familiar? Do you have you

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Speaker 1: heard of Brook and Jewel in the Morning before? No? Oh? Okay, good.

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Speaker 1: It's a radio show. Great, awesome. Yeah. We're calling you

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Speaker 1: today because one of our listeners emailed us about you. Okay, okay,

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Speaker 1: are you curious to know who would email us? Uh? Huh.

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Speaker 1: I still feel like Tommy has no idea what's going on.

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Speaker 1: And so, Tommy, you recently met a girl named Mary Ellen? Right, yes, yes,

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Speaker 1: well I know that because mary Ellen emailed us to

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Speaker 1: blown her off each time. Okay, that is that what

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Speaker 1: She thinks just so you know that you're probably either

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Speaker 1: you're surprised she thinks that. No, I swear to God,

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Speaker 1: we got that out of the way. Why won't you

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Speaker 1: go out on a date with her? Then? Why do

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Speaker 1: to her. Marilyn is really interesting. She's really lovely, and

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Speaker 1: you know, I thought she was great. Yeah, it sounds

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Speaker 1: meet you. Usually when you describe somebody like that, you're like,

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Speaker 1: I can't wait until they just get right to the

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Speaker 1: tell him I'm not showing up. You know, listen in

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Speaker 1: all cincinarady. I know that in the end, she probably

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Speaker 1: wouldn't be happy with this. Why what is wrong with you?

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Speaker 1: All right? So you want you want to hear the

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Speaker 1: what's wrong with that? It's kind of young. How old

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Speaker 1: are you? I'm forty two and I'm divorced, you know

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Speaker 1: a couple of years. Um, Oh, okay, so you're almost

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Speaker 1: twenty years older than her. Yeah, and that bothers you. Yeah, Jackpot,

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Speaker 1: it's not me, it's for her. I don't I don't

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Speaker 1: You don't want her to date a geriatric? Ye? Thank yet?

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Speaker 1: But come on, I mean, shouldn't you leave that up

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Speaker 1: and intelligent, then why not. I think that's kind of

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Speaker 1: You know, Okay, wouldn't wouldn't you be curious to find

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Speaker 1: just guys, just tell her. Okay, well, how about I

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Speaker 1: Did you hear everything? Yeah? You don't look for you too?

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Speaker 1: Wait a minute, I don't know how to take that.

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Speaker 1: I mean you said I look a lot older older. No,

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Speaker 1: I didn't mean like you look old. I just I

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Speaker 1: Oh whoa, you look like you've been experienced. Okay, I

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Speaker 1: just mean you look more mature, you know not, and

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Speaker 1: you what, Mary Ellen, if I were twenty years younger,

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Speaker 1: I didn't think I had to, Like, I had no idea.

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Speaker 1: I'm sorry, I just I've never been in this situation,

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Speaker 1: and I honestly was really desperate to avoid having this conversation.

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Speaker 1: But wasn't it kind of a clue when she said

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Speaker 1: now you know why I wanted to cancel, all right?

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Speaker 1: So You're like, who's this tiesto guy? I knew if

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Speaker 1: sound like Jimmy Buffett at all. This is terrible. I'm

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Speaker 1: not battled, Tommy. You're not a parent head, grateful, dead guy.

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Speaker 1: I just wish that you would have given me the

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Speaker 1: your age. Well, tell me how about this. Would you

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Speaker 1: like to go out on a second date with Mary Ellen?

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Speaker 1: We will pay for it. What could it hurt? You

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Speaker 1: know what? She can't really make this decision and don't

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Speaker 1: And I don't mean this to say in any contest anyway,

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Speaker 1: but you don't know what I know, Like, I know

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Speaker 1: what you're going to discover. You can discover that I

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Speaker 1: like you can't make the decision for me and you

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Speaker 1: Kind of sounds like we're listening to a daughter and

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Speaker 1: her dad. Are you you don't know how I feel?

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Speaker 1: I know everything? Do you think you know everything? Oh?

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Speaker 1: My dad is in his forties, so that's one. Oh

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Speaker 1: my god, this just keeps getting better. Broken Juwil in

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Speaker 1: the morning,