1 00:00:00,920 --> 00:00:05,680 Speaker 1: Second date up date. We've done these second date calls 2 00:00:05,720 --> 00:00:07,320 Speaker 1: for a long long while. 3 00:00:07,640 --> 00:00:09,559 Speaker 2: My god, I think half my lifetime. 4 00:00:09,920 --> 00:00:15,000 Speaker 1: No joke. But most of the time we really focus 5 00:00:15,080 --> 00:00:18,320 Speaker 1: a lot on the date. I'm not sure why. 6 00:00:18,200 --> 00:00:24,799 Speaker 2: We do that. What do you mean, not very successful 7 00:00:25,120 --> 00:00:26,520 Speaker 2: their childhood? 8 00:00:26,600 --> 00:00:29,400 Speaker 1: Well, one of our listeners, Thomas, wants us to hone 9 00:00:29,400 --> 00:00:32,280 Speaker 1: in not on the date so much. He's more focused 10 00:00:32,320 --> 00:00:35,760 Speaker 1: on the text messages that were sent between them afterwards, 11 00:00:36,400 --> 00:00:42,040 Speaker 1: the juicy Stuff test. Okay, Thomas. First of all, welcome 12 00:00:42,080 --> 00:00:42,840 Speaker 1: to the show. 13 00:00:43,960 --> 00:00:45,960 Speaker 3: You guys, I appreciate your help. 14 00:00:46,080 --> 00:00:49,080 Speaker 1: Okay, well say that, don't thank us until we actually 15 00:00:49,120 --> 00:00:51,200 Speaker 1: follow through with that. But we're going to talk about 16 00:00:51,240 --> 00:00:54,880 Speaker 1: your date after we hear about these text messages first, 17 00:00:54,880 --> 00:00:58,160 Speaker 1: because your email definitely intrigued me. What's the name of 18 00:00:58,200 --> 00:00:58,720 Speaker 1: this girl? 19 00:00:58,800 --> 00:01:02,840 Speaker 3: First of all, this girl, her name is Ananda? 20 00:01:03,120 --> 00:01:06,400 Speaker 2: Okay, Amanda, And I mean it's always a positive if 21 00:01:06,440 --> 00:01:09,360 Speaker 2: you have text messages after a date. It means that 22 00:01:09,440 --> 00:01:11,000 Speaker 2: you're both still interested. 23 00:01:10,680 --> 00:01:13,560 Speaker 1: Right you would think if she's communicating with you, unless 24 00:01:13,560 --> 00:01:15,480 Speaker 1: they're like, don't text me anymore. 25 00:01:15,600 --> 00:01:20,040 Speaker 2: Stop, We'll just read stop over and over again. 26 00:01:20,760 --> 00:01:22,680 Speaker 1: What were you and Amanda saying to each other. 27 00:01:23,440 --> 00:01:26,319 Speaker 3: Yeah, she might as well have said on subscribed, But. 28 00:01:28,840 --> 00:01:29,720 Speaker 1: What did you say? 29 00:01:30,000 --> 00:01:33,080 Speaker 3: I reached out and I said, hey, how are you? 30 00:01:33,520 --> 00:01:34,240 Speaker 3: That's it okay? 31 00:01:34,400 --> 00:01:37,119 Speaker 4: Like the next day after the date or something, yeah, the. 32 00:01:37,080 --> 00:01:41,039 Speaker 3: Next day, And her response was a picture of her 33 00:01:41,120 --> 00:01:44,920 Speaker 3: with another guy, and she says, we are good. 34 00:01:45,040 --> 00:01:46,600 Speaker 2: Thanks, We're good? 35 00:01:48,320 --> 00:01:49,960 Speaker 1: How are you? We are good? 36 00:01:50,120 --> 00:01:53,440 Speaker 2: What's the photo? Does it look like a dad? But 37 00:01:53,560 --> 00:01:55,480 Speaker 2: even then, what would like would it be a joke 38 00:01:55,600 --> 00:01:57,960 Speaker 2: at that? Is it a picture? Did you ask? 39 00:01:58,760 --> 00:02:02,040 Speaker 3: No, it's just some dude. I didn't ask, because I 40 00:02:02,600 --> 00:02:06,080 Speaker 3: did maybe naively thought that must be a message for 41 00:02:06,160 --> 00:02:06,880 Speaker 3: somebody else. 42 00:02:07,040 --> 00:02:09,680 Speaker 1: Oh wow, forgiving You don't think. 43 00:02:09,600 --> 00:02:11,360 Speaker 2: That was a clear message to you that I'm in 44 00:02:11,400 --> 00:02:12,840 Speaker 2: a relationship. Leave me alone. 45 00:02:13,240 --> 00:02:15,600 Speaker 3: You know, it looked like they could have been friends, 46 00:02:15,760 --> 00:02:19,480 Speaker 3: but they went well enough. I thought, there's no way 47 00:02:19,520 --> 00:02:21,720 Speaker 3: she wouldn't have told me that she's, you know. 48 00:02:21,880 --> 00:02:24,320 Speaker 2: As a boyfriend right right, because it's the next morning. 49 00:02:24,440 --> 00:02:26,280 Speaker 2: It's like not even enough time for her to go 50 00:02:26,360 --> 00:02:30,840 Speaker 2: out with somebody and establish a relationship, like she may 51 00:02:30,880 --> 00:02:31,480 Speaker 2: have been a cheater. 52 00:02:31,639 --> 00:02:33,600 Speaker 1: What else was said? Well? 53 00:02:33,680 --> 00:02:36,320 Speaker 3: Then I texted her back and I said, Hey, when 54 00:02:36,360 --> 00:02:37,560 Speaker 3: am I going to see you again? 55 00:02:37,760 --> 00:02:41,520 Speaker 2: You just ignore the okay that the boyfriend has her 56 00:02:41,520 --> 00:02:43,480 Speaker 2: phone and is the one being like we're good. 57 00:02:44,160 --> 00:02:45,240 Speaker 1: Well, what did she say to that? 58 00:02:45,840 --> 00:02:48,720 Speaker 3: She said, the next time I posted a picture on Instagram, 59 00:02:48,760 --> 00:02:49,320 Speaker 3: you'll see me. 60 00:02:49,639 --> 00:02:52,280 Speaker 2: Oh okay, so she wants you to follow her. 61 00:02:56,200 --> 00:02:58,720 Speaker 1: Clearly something happened that made her upset. 62 00:02:59,240 --> 00:03:01,920 Speaker 2: Why aren't we call her then? Like? Do you like her? 63 00:03:01,919 --> 00:03:04,120 Speaker 2: Because she doesn't sound she either sounds like she's in 64 00:03:04,120 --> 00:03:05,920 Speaker 2: a relationship or she's not nice. 65 00:03:06,320 --> 00:03:07,919 Speaker 4: I think she's mad at you, and it's like not 66 00:03:07,960 --> 00:03:09,560 Speaker 4: a boyfriend, Like she's just pretending. 67 00:03:09,840 --> 00:03:12,040 Speaker 5: Oh yeah, I don't get why. 68 00:03:12,240 --> 00:03:15,000 Speaker 3: That's it's killing me. It's not even it's almost not 69 00:03:15,040 --> 00:03:19,000 Speaker 3: even about. I just gotta know what happened because it 70 00:03:19,040 --> 00:03:20,360 Speaker 3: seemed like it went really well. 71 00:03:20,480 --> 00:03:22,960 Speaker 1: Okay, well take us to the date. Now, let's figure 72 00:03:22,960 --> 00:03:24,679 Speaker 1: out if something did happen. What did you get? How'd 73 00:03:24,680 --> 00:03:25,840 Speaker 1: you guys meet? What'd you guys do? 74 00:03:26,560 --> 00:03:26,800 Speaker 6: Yeah? 75 00:03:26,840 --> 00:03:30,040 Speaker 3: We met on the bus, started talking to her. I 76 00:03:30,120 --> 00:03:31,840 Speaker 3: ripped her up, I got her number. 77 00:03:32,080 --> 00:03:33,600 Speaker 1: Wow, bus, rid of it? 78 00:03:33,960 --> 00:03:36,400 Speaker 2: Okay, it's sad to be people do the same routes 79 00:03:36,440 --> 00:03:36,920 Speaker 2: every day. 80 00:03:37,040 --> 00:03:39,640 Speaker 1: Yeah yeah, and what did you do for your date? So? 81 00:03:39,880 --> 00:03:41,520 Speaker 3: I took it a red lobster. 82 00:03:42,000 --> 00:03:44,200 Speaker 6: And okay, you can. 83 00:03:44,320 --> 00:03:46,000 Speaker 3: You can do a lot for a little there. And 84 00:03:46,080 --> 00:03:49,240 Speaker 3: they have that shrimp your way thirty for twenty deal. 85 00:03:49,360 --> 00:03:51,040 Speaker 6: So we got some garlic shrimp. 86 00:03:51,080 --> 00:03:51,600 Speaker 3: We gotten them. 87 00:03:51,840 --> 00:03:55,320 Speaker 1: I know that was going on. We want to go 88 00:03:55,320 --> 00:03:55,720 Speaker 1: to lunch. 89 00:03:56,480 --> 00:03:58,000 Speaker 2: Honestly, those Cheddarbay biscuits. 90 00:03:58,080 --> 00:03:59,040 Speaker 7: Ye but good? 91 00:03:59,320 --> 00:04:02,360 Speaker 2: But well was her reaction about red lobster. What if 92 00:04:02,400 --> 00:04:04,600 Speaker 2: she's allergic to shellfish? You need to check with her 93 00:04:04,960 --> 00:04:08,000 Speaker 2: before you do something like this. That's a good point. 94 00:04:08,080 --> 00:04:10,440 Speaker 1: Yes, it's very sexy to exchange food. 95 00:04:10,240 --> 00:04:13,240 Speaker 4: Out or someone like me who will only eat the biscuits. 96 00:04:14,280 --> 00:04:16,000 Speaker 1: That's one of the first things you ask a girl 97 00:04:16,040 --> 00:04:17,719 Speaker 1: before you take her out. Or do you have any allergies? 98 00:04:17,760 --> 00:04:19,360 Speaker 1: Do you like or hate anything? Did you get her 99 00:04:19,360 --> 00:04:21,279 Speaker 1: medical rundown before you took her out on a date? 100 00:04:22,040 --> 00:04:25,359 Speaker 8: I did not check with her doctor, but she was 101 00:04:25,440 --> 00:04:28,920 Speaker 8: trying everything. 102 00:04:26,520 --> 00:04:30,440 Speaker 2: Okay, And the conversation sounds good. What'd you connect on? 103 00:04:31,240 --> 00:04:34,480 Speaker 6: We laughed a lot, We talked about places we've gone on. 104 00:04:34,480 --> 00:04:38,040 Speaker 8: Vacation, and I mean, I guess there was one awkward 105 00:04:38,080 --> 00:04:39,919 Speaker 8: moment where I had to take a phone call and 106 00:04:40,000 --> 00:04:42,200 Speaker 8: I did have to tell her to be quiet. 107 00:04:42,400 --> 00:04:42,679 Speaker 3: Yike. 108 00:04:42,800 --> 00:04:44,479 Speaker 4: Oh, I hate being told too. 109 00:04:46,120 --> 00:04:47,080 Speaker 1: How did you tell her? 110 00:04:47,720 --> 00:04:49,839 Speaker 3: It was almost half joking, but I was like, be quiet, 111 00:04:50,000 --> 00:04:52,000 Speaker 3: you know, no, you. 112 00:04:51,920 --> 00:04:55,400 Speaker 1: Need to cut your hand over her mouth and say, 113 00:04:55,560 --> 00:04:56,039 Speaker 1: oh my god. 114 00:04:56,040 --> 00:05:00,320 Speaker 4: That is yeah, that's like a l way. 115 00:05:00,440 --> 00:05:02,359 Speaker 2: Why would you take a phone call at the table? 116 00:05:02,520 --> 00:05:04,599 Speaker 2: That's yeah, you didn't step away. 117 00:05:05,120 --> 00:05:07,880 Speaker 3: It was important and I needed to handle some business. 118 00:05:08,120 --> 00:05:09,640 Speaker 1: I mean, okay, I. 119 00:05:09,560 --> 00:05:11,919 Speaker 2: Know that some people have a pretty hard line on 120 00:05:12,040 --> 00:05:14,359 Speaker 2: that type of you know, phone calls at the table. 121 00:05:14,400 --> 00:05:16,320 Speaker 2: Maybe that's her whole Yeah. 122 00:05:16,279 --> 00:05:19,159 Speaker 1: Saying that could be something that made you look bad. 123 00:05:19,240 --> 00:05:22,360 Speaker 1: That it would explain her angry reaction to your texts. 124 00:05:22,520 --> 00:05:24,560 Speaker 1: Have you thought of that maybe? 125 00:05:24,600 --> 00:05:28,360 Speaker 3: But I mean I paid for everything. She didn't seem put. 126 00:05:28,160 --> 00:05:31,120 Speaker 6: Off at the end, and I did everything else right. 127 00:05:31,240 --> 00:05:33,400 Speaker 1: Did you pay for it with money from your wallet 128 00:05:33,440 --> 00:05:35,640 Speaker 1: or did you take money out of her wallet and pay? 129 00:05:35,960 --> 00:05:37,280 Speaker 3: Ah? That was it? 130 00:05:37,400 --> 00:05:43,120 Speaker 1: No, okay? And after that, what happened after the dinner date? 131 00:05:43,800 --> 00:05:47,240 Speaker 3: Well after the date, then I walked into a car. 132 00:05:47,880 --> 00:05:50,840 Speaker 6: We hugged it out, you know, hugged it out. 133 00:05:50,880 --> 00:05:53,479 Speaker 2: Yeah, and then you sent the text and that's where 134 00:05:53,520 --> 00:05:54,640 Speaker 2: we are now, right. 135 00:05:54,920 --> 00:05:56,120 Speaker 6: Yeah, Yeah, that's it. 136 00:05:57,880 --> 00:06:01,720 Speaker 1: I'm still not picking up anything specifically, that would justify 137 00:06:01,839 --> 00:06:04,480 Speaker 1: those like really angry, straightforward rude tests. 138 00:06:05,080 --> 00:06:08,760 Speaker 2: To be quiet, Jeff, Oh, to cut my mouth when 139 00:06:08,800 --> 00:06:10,279 Speaker 2: you do that, Jeff, be quiet. 140 00:06:10,800 --> 00:06:12,400 Speaker 1: I mean, that's the one thing that we have to 141 00:06:12,440 --> 00:06:14,600 Speaker 1: go off of, is the telling her to be quiet 142 00:06:14,600 --> 00:06:16,680 Speaker 1: while taking a phone call. We're gonna find out when 143 00:06:16,720 --> 00:06:19,279 Speaker 1: we reach out to Amanda for you and get you 144 00:06:19,279 --> 00:06:21,200 Speaker 1: your second date update right after this. 145 00:06:21,600 --> 00:06:23,480 Speaker 6: Thank you, guys, Yes. 146 00:06:22,960 --> 00:06:28,320 Speaker 1: Manners, they're important. Okay, hold on second date update, you're 147 00:06:28,400 --> 00:06:31,440 Speaker 1: just joining us. Quick recap. Thomas met a girl named 148 00:06:31,480 --> 00:06:35,240 Speaker 1: Amanda on the bus riz dr and swung that into 149 00:06:35,320 --> 00:06:39,200 Speaker 1: a dinner date at a red lobster where they shared 150 00:06:39,279 --> 00:06:43,719 Speaker 1: thirty pieces of garlic butter shrimp, and he thinks his 151 00:06:44,000 --> 00:06:47,880 Speaker 1: one potential downfall may have been when he took a 152 00:06:47,880 --> 00:06:52,160 Speaker 1: phone call mid meal and Amanda kept talking, so he said, hey, 153 00:06:52,440 --> 00:06:56,760 Speaker 1: be quiet, which book tells jose to do that all 154 00:06:56,800 --> 00:06:58,520 Speaker 1: the time. So I don't think, really think it's that 155 00:06:58,640 --> 00:07:04,120 Speaker 1: disrespectful between broke and I still really but maybe she 156 00:07:04,320 --> 00:07:06,880 Speaker 1: took it in a disrespectful way. We really don't know. 157 00:07:06,920 --> 00:07:09,720 Speaker 2: But answering the phone at the table, you know, what 158 00:07:09,800 --> 00:07:13,360 Speaker 2: is your take? God? I don't know, man, that text 159 00:07:13,400 --> 00:07:15,640 Speaker 2: she sent you afterwards with a picture of her and 160 00:07:15,680 --> 00:07:18,440 Speaker 2: a random guy is just jarring. Yeah. 161 00:07:18,600 --> 00:07:19,920 Speaker 1: I don't know if anyone else caught it, but at 162 00:07:19,920 --> 00:07:22,080 Speaker 1: the beginning he mentioned like I was laying it on 163 00:07:22,200 --> 00:07:23,880 Speaker 1: pretty thick, So I don think. 164 00:07:23,880 --> 00:07:26,720 Speaker 2: Maybe he did one compliment that was too. 165 00:07:26,560 --> 00:07:27,840 Speaker 1: Far or didn't hit right. 166 00:07:29,520 --> 00:07:31,960 Speaker 2: Spent the whole night making shrimp puns, which would have 167 00:07:32,120 --> 00:07:32,800 Speaker 2: really turned. 168 00:07:34,240 --> 00:07:36,280 Speaker 4: That would have been a photo with five guys if 169 00:07:36,280 --> 00:07:37,200 Speaker 4: I needed to. 170 00:07:40,000 --> 00:07:40,520 Speaker 1: Thomas. 171 00:07:40,840 --> 00:07:43,720 Speaker 5: Is any of that possible, I guess, But it still 172 00:07:44,000 --> 00:07:46,360 Speaker 5: feels like bringing a gun to a knife fight. 173 00:07:46,560 --> 00:07:48,080 Speaker 3: I mean, it was so hard, But. 174 00:07:48,040 --> 00:07:52,000 Speaker 1: You weren't making shrimp puns, were you? 175 00:07:52,000 --> 00:07:52,320 Speaker 5: No? 176 00:07:52,480 --> 00:08:01,280 Speaker 3: I mean, okay, I made some Joe, but no bungeon. 177 00:08:01,720 --> 00:08:03,480 Speaker 2: You mean shellfish at the table. 178 00:08:07,080 --> 00:08:09,640 Speaker 1: Before Alexis leaves, we have to reach out to Amanda. 179 00:08:09,640 --> 00:08:10,160 Speaker 3: Here we go. 180 00:08:12,240 --> 00:08:26,760 Speaker 1: Right now. Hello, Hey, is this Amanda speaking? 181 00:08:26,840 --> 00:08:27,040 Speaker 6: Hey? 182 00:08:27,160 --> 00:08:29,960 Speaker 1: I mean Jeff is the name of the person speaking, 183 00:08:30,080 --> 00:08:31,720 Speaker 1: And there's a whole room of people. 184 00:08:32,880 --> 00:08:36,520 Speaker 2: Hey, Amanda, welcome to the show, she asked, speaking, Yeah, Jeff, 185 00:08:36,520 --> 00:08:37,040 Speaker 2: don't be weird. 186 00:08:37,920 --> 00:08:41,200 Speaker 9: Okay, what's this regarding? 187 00:08:41,559 --> 00:08:44,760 Speaker 1: This is regarding a radio show segment that you're currently 188 00:08:44,800 --> 00:08:46,560 Speaker 1: on called The Second Date update. 189 00:08:46,920 --> 00:08:48,840 Speaker 2: You may have seen them on TikTok. They're going wildly 190 00:08:48,920 --> 00:08:49,600 Speaker 2: viral right now. 191 00:08:50,840 --> 00:08:54,240 Speaker 9: Really, I mean, like, wait, how. 192 00:08:55,200 --> 00:09:00,640 Speaker 2: I don't know. Some random people keep posting I've been 193 00:09:00,640 --> 00:09:01,400 Speaker 2: stealing our audience. 194 00:09:02,400 --> 00:09:04,160 Speaker 1: You don't think they're even very funny. We're just trying 195 00:09:04,160 --> 00:09:06,200 Speaker 1: to help people, and that's what we're doing. With a 196 00:09:06,240 --> 00:09:09,080 Speaker 1: guy named Thomas that you went on a date with recently. 197 00:09:10,120 --> 00:09:18,320 Speaker 3: Oh my gosh, yeah, or scared? Yeah wait a minute, 198 00:09:18,920 --> 00:09:21,760 Speaker 3: Oh no, I'm trying to avoid him. 199 00:09:21,920 --> 00:09:26,200 Speaker 2: Why he just like, is he pestering you or something? 200 00:09:26,679 --> 00:09:27,880 Speaker 9: Dude, he is not. 201 00:09:28,080 --> 00:09:28,720 Speaker 3: A good guy. 202 00:09:28,960 --> 00:09:33,319 Speaker 9: Like seriously, okay, he put on a front for us. 203 00:09:35,000 --> 00:09:38,560 Speaker 1: Here's the deal, Amanda. We we heard about your guys's date. 204 00:09:39,160 --> 00:09:41,960 Speaker 1: We also learned that there were some text messages exchanged 205 00:09:42,000 --> 00:09:44,520 Speaker 1: between the two of you. He was a little bit 206 00:09:44,640 --> 00:09:47,679 Speaker 1: uncertain if they were meant to be hostile towards. 207 00:09:47,480 --> 00:09:51,600 Speaker 9: Him or not, because oh yeah, they were definitely freaking 208 00:09:51,640 --> 00:09:52,560 Speaker 9: meant to be hostile. 209 00:09:54,120 --> 00:09:55,920 Speaker 1: We read them that way, the one with the pick 210 00:09:55,960 --> 00:09:59,240 Speaker 1: with another dude saying we're good and the next time 211 00:09:59,240 --> 00:10:02,640 Speaker 1: you'll see me. He's when I post on Insta flipping loosely. 212 00:10:02,760 --> 00:10:04,880 Speaker 9: He needs to know that he is not the only 213 00:10:04,920 --> 00:10:06,600 Speaker 9: one on my radar after that night. 214 00:10:06,760 --> 00:10:09,880 Speaker 2: What okay, So I'm going to tell you he is 215 00:10:10,120 --> 00:10:12,840 Speaker 2: totally in the dark. He has no idea what he 216 00:10:12,880 --> 00:10:15,440 Speaker 2: did wrong. Is he just that clueless? Is it that obvious? 217 00:10:15,720 --> 00:10:18,080 Speaker 9: There is no way he can be that freaking cluded. 218 00:10:18,640 --> 00:10:22,520 Speaker 1: Really, okay, us guys can be very clueless, that is true. 219 00:10:22,640 --> 00:10:23,760 Speaker 2: I am so curious. 220 00:10:23,800 --> 00:10:26,440 Speaker 1: The one thing that he brought up that he mentions 221 00:10:26,559 --> 00:10:28,920 Speaker 1: may have been a bad move was when he took 222 00:10:28,960 --> 00:10:32,200 Speaker 1: a business call during the meal and told you to 223 00:10:32,200 --> 00:10:37,360 Speaker 1: be quiet. He thinks that's probably a turnoff, the turn off, 224 00:10:38,000 --> 00:10:39,079 Speaker 1: the turn off. 225 00:10:39,480 --> 00:10:44,800 Speaker 2: Yes, tell us that he had kids, kids, kids cut Well, yeah, 226 00:10:44,840 --> 00:10:46,800 Speaker 2: he's a dad, and he didn't tell you. He didn't 227 00:10:46,800 --> 00:10:49,679 Speaker 2: tell He didn't mention it does say. 228 00:10:49,600 --> 00:10:52,480 Speaker 9: No, honey, let me tell you. Okay, how do you 229 00:10:52,520 --> 00:10:55,720 Speaker 9: go out with a woman and not even mentioned that 230 00:10:55,880 --> 00:10:58,960 Speaker 9: you have kids? And on top of that, oh, they're 231 00:10:59,000 --> 00:11:01,079 Speaker 9: going to be there at the restaurant. 232 00:11:02,480 --> 00:11:04,679 Speaker 2: Well, did you say he brought his kids to dinner 233 00:11:04,720 --> 00:11:06,560 Speaker 2: with no way on a date? 234 00:11:06,920 --> 00:11:10,440 Speaker 9: No, he didn't bring them. There was four of them, like, 235 00:11:10,480 --> 00:11:13,839 Speaker 9: he has four kids. One was our blest boy, a teenager, 236 00:11:14,000 --> 00:11:15,880 Speaker 9: and one was. 237 00:11:15,920 --> 00:11:18,120 Speaker 1: Wait, his kids work at Red Lobster. 238 00:11:18,800 --> 00:11:21,960 Speaker 2: Oh my god, he's getting daddy discounts at Red Lobster 239 00:11:21,960 --> 00:11:23,160 Speaker 2: because his kids work there. 240 00:11:24,360 --> 00:11:26,960 Speaker 9: I don't know what was gone on, but seriously, like, 241 00:11:27,280 --> 00:11:29,560 Speaker 9: I am not trying to get with anyone who has 242 00:11:29,559 --> 00:11:30,800 Speaker 9: like a bunch of secret kids. 243 00:11:30,840 --> 00:11:35,120 Speaker 2: Okay, but they weren't secret if you knew who they were. 244 00:11:35,559 --> 00:11:40,040 Speaker 7: He never mentioned anything about having kids, and all of 245 00:11:40,080 --> 00:11:43,480 Speaker 7: a sudden we're at the restaurant and they're all around 246 00:11:43,559 --> 00:11:48,280 Speaker 7: us at dinner, like, all right now, hit kid. 247 00:11:52,440 --> 00:11:55,319 Speaker 1: We did not know about the kid aspect of this. 248 00:11:55,400 --> 00:11:56,880 Speaker 1: We just heard about the date part. 249 00:11:57,000 --> 00:11:57,320 Speaker 8: Wow. 250 00:11:57,559 --> 00:11:59,520 Speaker 1: Although on some level it is flattering that he wanted 251 00:11:59,559 --> 00:12:02,360 Speaker 1: you to meet the family, so I would keep that 252 00:12:02,400 --> 00:12:05,400 Speaker 1: in mind when I tell you that Thomas is on 253 00:12:05,440 --> 00:12:08,600 Speaker 1: the other line right now listening, possibly with all of 254 00:12:08,640 --> 00:12:15,080 Speaker 1: his children too. So what you said, No, seriously, Thomas, 255 00:12:15,080 --> 00:12:15,520 Speaker 1: are you there? 256 00:12:17,040 --> 00:12:19,880 Speaker 3: Do not have kids? Those aren't my kids? 257 00:12:20,920 --> 00:12:23,160 Speaker 2: What are you lying out? 258 00:12:23,160 --> 00:12:28,400 Speaker 9: You said, literally, those are my kids? Like you have 259 00:12:28,480 --> 00:12:29,199 Speaker 9: said that chicken. 260 00:12:30,320 --> 00:12:33,120 Speaker 5: I said they're my kids, but I didn't mean like 261 00:12:33,640 --> 00:12:34,400 Speaker 5: my kids. 262 00:12:34,480 --> 00:12:37,880 Speaker 3: They're my students. I gym at a high school. 263 00:12:42,880 --> 00:12:43,559 Speaker 7: I get it. 264 00:12:43,640 --> 00:12:47,280 Speaker 2: How does one family have four? We'll work at Red 265 00:12:47,280 --> 00:12:48,720 Speaker 2: Lobster together, and that's. 266 00:12:48,600 --> 00:12:55,200 Speaker 1: Such a perfect high school job to really. 267 00:12:53,240 --> 00:12:54,240 Speaker 7: I find that funny. 268 00:12:54,320 --> 00:12:56,160 Speaker 9: They look just like you? 269 00:12:56,400 --> 00:12:57,720 Speaker 6: How you. 270 00:12:59,800 --> 00:13:02,040 Speaker 5: No, they're in my class? But what do you mean 271 00:13:02,040 --> 00:13:02,920 Speaker 5: they look like me? 272 00:13:04,320 --> 00:13:07,960 Speaker 9: The freaking bus boy looked like you twenty five years ago. 273 00:13:09,200 --> 00:13:11,679 Speaker 5: I don't know what to tell you, that's the answer. 274 00:13:11,760 --> 00:13:15,839 Speaker 5: I'm a teacher. Sorry, I wouldn't just casually introduce. 275 00:13:15,679 --> 00:13:17,439 Speaker 3: My son the bus boy, and. 276 00:13:17,440 --> 00:13:25,440 Speaker 9: That really what teacher goes around just claiming kids like, seriously. 277 00:13:25,720 --> 00:13:28,240 Speaker 2: I think that's so weird. That makes total sense. 278 00:13:28,280 --> 00:13:29,679 Speaker 4: I mean, he should have chose a restaurant. They don't 279 00:13:29,679 --> 00:13:35,880 Speaker 4: want to work out, you think, But true, they did discount. 280 00:13:35,480 --> 00:13:37,960 Speaker 2: Someone you met the man on a bus he's taken 281 00:13:38,000 --> 00:13:41,479 Speaker 2: you to Red Lobstery obviously has a teacher's salary. 282 00:13:41,600 --> 00:13:43,840 Speaker 3: I don't care. I was telling the truth. 283 00:13:44,120 --> 00:13:47,160 Speaker 5: And honestly, now that you know the fact that you 284 00:13:47,280 --> 00:13:50,080 Speaker 5: still don't believe me and you're accusing me of something 285 00:13:50,120 --> 00:13:53,600 Speaker 5: that isn't true, I mean it's bonkers. 286 00:13:53,800 --> 00:13:56,760 Speaker 2: Yeah, I like on this one. 287 00:13:56,760 --> 00:13:59,880 Speaker 5: I wasn't telling the truth because that wasn't a business call. 288 00:14:00,080 --> 00:14:02,160 Speaker 5: I was on the phone list, and that was somebody 289 00:14:02,200 --> 00:14:04,720 Speaker 5: else that I'm setting up a date with for tomorrow. 290 00:14:04,840 --> 00:14:05,720 Speaker 6: So I wait. 291 00:14:07,120 --> 00:14:10,120 Speaker 1: The business call, Why would you say that? So wait, Thomas, 292 00:14:10,160 --> 00:14:12,240 Speaker 1: you were telling the truth about the kids at the 293 00:14:12,240 --> 00:14:14,880 Speaker 1: restaurant just being your students, but you weren't telling the 294 00:14:14,920 --> 00:14:18,240 Speaker 1: truth about the phone call from your quote business partner 295 00:14:19,280 --> 00:14:19,720 Speaker 1: makes sense. 296 00:14:19,720 --> 00:14:22,440 Speaker 2: There's not all gym teachers that are taken after hours. 297 00:14:24,480 --> 00:14:26,240 Speaker 1: Maybe there. We got a new tailor ball in, I 298 00:14:26,240 --> 00:14:29,720 Speaker 1: got a rope climbing accidents. 299 00:14:29,920 --> 00:14:32,480 Speaker 5: You know what, she can send pics of other guys 300 00:14:32,520 --> 00:14:33,840 Speaker 5: to whoever she wants. 301 00:14:33,960 --> 00:14:34,560 Speaker 9: That's fun. 302 00:14:34,880 --> 00:14:38,320 Speaker 5: I'm just saying I've got options. You know, there's a 303 00:14:38,480 --> 00:14:40,000 Speaker 5: lot of other girls on the bus. 304 00:14:40,160 --> 00:14:43,960 Speaker 2: You tell a lot of That's right. 305 00:14:44,080 --> 00:14:46,400 Speaker 1: Does that make you want him more? Because if it does, 306 00:14:46,520 --> 00:14:48,360 Speaker 1: we will offer to send you guys out on another 307 00:14:48,440 --> 00:14:49,600 Speaker 1: date that we would pay for. 308 00:14:50,080 --> 00:14:56,440 Speaker 9: Well, then no, I don't want to be in within faces. 309 00:14:56,680 --> 00:14:57,000 Speaker 5: Guys. 310 00:14:57,080 --> 00:14:58,640 Speaker 2: That is such a dramatic response. 311 00:14:58,640 --> 00:14:59,880 Speaker 4: You gonna have to get a new bus to it. 312 00:15:00,320 --> 00:15:02,680 Speaker 1: Teach you and Jeff not allowed within ten feet of 313 00:15:02,680 --> 00:15:06,160 Speaker 1: a school. Yeah, my god, you honestly sound more alike 314 00:15:06,320 --> 00:15:09,120 Speaker 1: than not alike. You guys are literally responding and clapping 315 00:15:09,160 --> 00:15:10,400 Speaker 1: back the same way at each other. 316 00:15:10,760 --> 00:15:13,400 Speaker 9: I am nothing like him. I am not a liar. 317 00:15:13,360 --> 00:15:15,760 Speaker 1: And yeah, yez. 318 00:15:16,160 --> 00:15:17,080 Speaker 3: No big loss to me. 319 00:15:17,240 --> 00:15:19,200 Speaker 5: I ain't gonna go back to Red Lobster with my 320 00:15:19,320 --> 00:15:20,440 Speaker 5: twenty eight kids. 321 00:15:22,040 --> 00:15:26,480 Speaker 1: Wait wait now they are your kids, no, jeffs Oh yeah, 322 00:15:27,760 --> 00:15:29,480 Speaker 1: I don't forget one of those teenagers has to have 323 00:15:29,480 --> 00:15:30,120 Speaker 1: a single mom. 324 00:15:30,440 --> 00:15:31,480 Speaker 2: You know what I'm saying. 325 00:15:32,040 --> 00:15:34,640 Speaker 1: And you think I'm not working that angle of course, 326 00:15:36,400 --> 00:15:37,880 Speaker 1: Red Lobster Daddy back in the. 327 00:15:37,880 --> 00:15:40,920 Speaker 2: House, freaking Jeffrey in the morning. 328 00:15:41,280 --> 00:15:44,440 Speaker 1: Oh you know, I'm really disappointed that those two didn't go. 329 00:15:44,440 --> 00:15:47,200 Speaker 2: Out, really, are you, Jeff Yeah, not for. 330 00:15:47,080 --> 00:15:50,080 Speaker 1: Like any romantic reasons, but if they loved Red Lobster, 331 00:15:50,280 --> 00:15:53,160 Speaker 1: they would have been all about our restaurant gift card options. 332 00:15:53,200 --> 00:15:55,320 Speaker 2: Oh that's a good point. Yeah, that's a good point 333 00:15:56,040 --> 00:15:56,720 Speaker 2: for these people. 334 00:15:56,840 --> 00:15:59,680 Speaker 1: We got all the best chain restaurants from mall parking lots. 335 00:15:59,720 --> 00:16:02,760 Speaker 1: We got Chili's, we got Olive Garden, and I've even 336 00:16:02,760 --> 00:16:06,200 Speaker 1: got one to an abandoned outback steakhouse. But it's just 337 00:16:06,440 --> 00:16:08,920 Speaker 1: running any There are guys still in there and they 338 00:16:08,920 --> 00:16:12,200 Speaker 1: are making steak. It's just not technically for the company. 339 00:16:13,600 --> 00:16:18,600 Speaker 1: Bring steak first. Again, I'm disappointed if. 340 00:16:17,960 --> 00:16:21,480 Speaker 2: She didn't believe that those were his actual children. That 341 00:16:21,640 --> 00:16:24,320 Speaker 2: was so weird, Like, are we that jaded in life 342 00:16:24,400 --> 00:16:25,760 Speaker 2: that we can't even get over. 343 00:16:25,600 --> 00:16:28,600 Speaker 1: That she saw them like they must have looked exactly alike. 344 00:16:28,440 --> 00:16:30,960 Speaker 2: That at there's no lay. 345 00:16:31,200 --> 00:16:33,800 Speaker 1: I don't know. I just wasn't meant to be today, 346 00:16:33,880 --> 00:16:35,840 Speaker 1: But I guess we'll find out tomorrow. Who gets the 347 00:16:35,880 --> 00:16:38,520 Speaker 1: next chance at a Chili's to Go gift card with 348 00:16:38,640 --> 00:16:41,720 Speaker 1: their second date update. And if you want to get 349 00:16:41,720 --> 00:16:44,000 Speaker 1: a second date update for yourself and your own love life, 350 00:16:44,040 --> 00:16:45,880 Speaker 1: email the show. We can call that person who's not 351 00:16:45,960 --> 00:16:47,880 Speaker 1: calling you back. Make sure you go check out all 352 00:16:47,960 --> 00:16:50,320 Speaker 1: of our Second Day podcasts wherever you get yours at 353 00:16:50,360 --> 00:16:51,160 Speaker 1: Brook and Jeffrey 354 00:16:51,600 --> 00:16:53,160 Speaker 2: Brook and Jeffrey in the Morning