1 00:00:03,320 --> 00:00:06,160 Speaker 1: Today, I want to talk about something that often comes 2 00:00:06,200 --> 00:00:10,960 Speaker 1: before success, and that's failure. Like, for instance, even kerl Gee, 3 00:00:11,000 --> 00:00:14,600 Speaker 1: She's broke so many records, She's amazing. Sometimes we often 4 00:00:14,640 --> 00:00:17,720 Speaker 1: forget what they had to go through in order to 5 00:00:17,840 --> 00:00:21,439 Speaker 1: get to this point in their life. But I'd rather 6 00:00:21,880 --> 00:00:25,280 Speaker 1: try something and fail at it and know that I tried, 7 00:00:25,400 --> 00:00:28,120 Speaker 1: instead of living with what if I would have done it? 8 00:00:32,159 --> 00:00:35,560 Speaker 1: Hello everyone, and welcome to another episode of Cheeky's and Chill. 9 00:00:35,880 --> 00:00:38,600 Speaker 1: Today's show is a special one because it's part of 10 00:00:38,680 --> 00:00:43,400 Speaker 1: Iheart's International Women's Day initiative. We're calling it Women Take 11 00:00:43,479 --> 00:00:47,560 Speaker 1: the Mic. And if you didn't know, this Friday marks 12 00:00:47,600 --> 00:00:50,680 Speaker 1: International Women's Day, so be sure to show the incredible 13 00:00:50,680 --> 00:00:53,680 Speaker 1: woman in your life a little extra love this Friday. Okay, 14 00:00:54,040 --> 00:00:56,320 Speaker 1: And speaking of incredible women, I'm not sure if you 15 00:00:56,320 --> 00:01:00,279 Speaker 1: guys knew, but Shakida broke records last year and check 16 00:01:00,320 --> 00:01:02,279 Speaker 1: ya by the way so much and now she has 17 00:01:02,320 --> 00:01:06,160 Speaker 1: twenty one Guinness World Records, which makes her the Latina 18 00:01:06,319 --> 00:01:09,880 Speaker 1: solo artists with most records, which is awesome, And of 19 00:01:09,880 --> 00:01:11,720 Speaker 1: course I applaud her for her success, and I think 20 00:01:11,720 --> 00:01:14,720 Speaker 1: it's a beautiful thing to admire someone for their accomplishments, 21 00:01:14,880 --> 00:01:17,640 Speaker 1: for sure, But today I want to talk about something 22 00:01:17,680 --> 00:01:21,760 Speaker 1: that often comes before success, and that's failure. The thing 23 00:01:21,800 --> 00:01:23,759 Speaker 1: here is that we can see, like, for instance, even 24 00:01:23,840 --> 00:01:27,000 Speaker 1: Carol G she's broke so many records, she's amazing in 25 00:01:27,040 --> 00:01:30,000 Speaker 1: the music industry, She's done so much, but we don't know, 26 00:01:30,040 --> 00:01:33,040 Speaker 1: and sometimes we often forget what they had to go 27 00:01:33,120 --> 00:01:35,920 Speaker 1: through in order to get to this point in their life. 28 00:01:36,160 --> 00:01:38,360 Speaker 1: And of course I don't know a lot of their 29 00:01:38,400 --> 00:01:40,800 Speaker 1: personal life. But again, they have both been and they 30 00:01:40,800 --> 00:01:43,120 Speaker 1: have both been very open about certain things that have 31 00:01:43,160 --> 00:01:45,479 Speaker 1: happened in their life, and they've expressed it through music, 32 00:01:45,680 --> 00:01:48,160 Speaker 1: which I think is awesome. As women, and I'm not 33 00:01:48,280 --> 00:01:51,559 Speaker 1: just trying to be a feminist here, but as women, 34 00:01:51,920 --> 00:01:54,160 Speaker 1: we go through a lot. I was just telling my 35 00:01:54,160 --> 00:01:55,960 Speaker 1: friend the other day, I was like, girl, it is 36 00:01:56,000 --> 00:01:59,080 Speaker 1: so hard to be a woman, especially a woman talking 37 00:01:59,080 --> 00:02:02,600 Speaker 1: now personally woman in the industry that I'm in, where 38 00:02:02,600 --> 00:02:06,880 Speaker 1: it's you know, mostly male dominated, which I mean, they're 39 00:02:06,920 --> 00:02:10,400 Speaker 1: doing their thing, but I do feel that we're criticized 40 00:02:10,440 --> 00:02:12,520 Speaker 1: for either the way that we look, if we're not 41 00:02:12,560 --> 00:02:14,360 Speaker 1: thin enough, if we're not wearing the right thing. And 42 00:02:14,400 --> 00:02:16,760 Speaker 1: a guy can be super big, and they don't say 43 00:02:16,800 --> 00:02:19,680 Speaker 1: anything like he's still successful, that he's still doing his thing. 44 00:02:19,760 --> 00:02:21,920 Speaker 1: And for women it's harder. And I'm not trying to 45 00:02:21,960 --> 00:02:23,639 Speaker 1: sit here and cry because it's not about that. I'm 46 00:02:23,680 --> 00:02:26,760 Speaker 1: just saying that even though we have it tough, we 47 00:02:26,800 --> 00:02:30,040 Speaker 1: still find a way to keep our head held high 48 00:02:30,120 --> 00:02:33,520 Speaker 1: and say we have no other choice, mamoserlo. We are 49 00:02:33,560 --> 00:02:37,320 Speaker 1: going to be successful one way or another. I mean, 50 00:02:37,680 --> 00:02:40,880 Speaker 1: now that we're talking about music. For me, you know, 51 00:02:41,000 --> 00:02:42,800 Speaker 1: it took me a long time to get the respect 52 00:02:42,880 --> 00:02:45,399 Speaker 1: that I feel like now I have in the music industry. 53 00:02:45,760 --> 00:02:48,280 Speaker 1: I now have two Latin Grammys. But even when I 54 00:02:48,360 --> 00:02:50,639 Speaker 1: won the first one, I mean, so many things were 55 00:02:50,680 --> 00:02:55,840 Speaker 1: said and it sucks because maybe they didn't take the 56 00:02:55,880 --> 00:02:57,800 Speaker 1: time to listen to my album and how good it 57 00:02:57,880 --> 00:02:59,800 Speaker 1: was and how well it was produced. And that's what 58 00:03:00,280 --> 00:03:03,120 Speaker 1: the Academy, the Latin Grammys or the Grammys, that's what 59 00:03:03,120 --> 00:03:06,840 Speaker 1: they look at is the production is how much you invest. 60 00:03:06,840 --> 00:03:08,440 Speaker 1: And I'm not talking about money. I'm talking about in 61 00:03:08,480 --> 00:03:11,160 Speaker 1: every way. There's ways to tell and that's what they're 62 00:03:11,200 --> 00:03:14,280 Speaker 1: looking for, and just the things that were said is 63 00:03:14,360 --> 00:03:17,440 Speaker 1: just crazy. But then I won the second one and 64 00:03:17,680 --> 00:03:20,840 Speaker 1: still they were kind of like, okay, certain comments, But 65 00:03:20,880 --> 00:03:22,520 Speaker 1: now I'm starting to get the respect. But it took 66 00:03:22,520 --> 00:03:25,480 Speaker 1: a long time, you guys. And of course I've gotten 67 00:03:25,520 --> 00:03:27,239 Speaker 1: a lot of comparison and stuff like that for a 68 00:03:27,280 --> 00:03:29,680 Speaker 1: long time. I think that was my biggest mistake, is 69 00:03:29,800 --> 00:03:32,120 Speaker 1: listening to those people that were saying, Oh, you're not 70 00:03:32,200 --> 00:03:34,440 Speaker 1: like your mom, Oh you're not like your uncle, blah 71 00:03:34,480 --> 00:03:37,560 Speaker 1: blah blah. And and that was my biggest mistake. When I 72 00:03:37,680 --> 00:03:40,480 Speaker 1: finally just said, let me just block these voices and 73 00:03:40,600 --> 00:03:43,560 Speaker 1: just focus on myself and better myself and better my craft, 74 00:03:43,640 --> 00:03:47,640 Speaker 1: things changed. But let me remind you guys about Patama Blanca. 75 00:03:47,760 --> 00:03:50,920 Speaker 1: That's my very first song. And I always say my 76 00:03:51,000 --> 00:03:55,200 Speaker 1: career started ass backwards because it was a song that 77 00:03:55,360 --> 00:03:57,600 Speaker 1: wasn't ready to be launched. I wasn't ready to be 78 00:03:57,640 --> 00:04:00,000 Speaker 1: launched as an artist. But I'm not upset at anyone 79 00:04:00,480 --> 00:04:03,920 Speaker 1: or at that situation anymore because it taught me to 80 00:04:04,000 --> 00:04:06,680 Speaker 1: be a better artist. I heard what I didn't want 81 00:04:06,720 --> 00:04:09,200 Speaker 1: to hear, and I learned what I wanted to hear 82 00:04:09,840 --> 00:04:12,520 Speaker 1: in my music and how involved I wanted to be 83 00:04:13,360 --> 00:04:15,680 Speaker 1: that Now it's like I don't I'm like, okay, everything 84 00:04:15,680 --> 00:04:17,400 Speaker 1: happened the way it was supposed to happen. If I 85 00:04:17,440 --> 00:04:19,880 Speaker 1: sat there and just felt sorry for myself after hearing 86 00:04:20,400 --> 00:04:22,919 Speaker 1: everything people were saying, I would have never made it 87 00:04:22,960 --> 00:04:25,640 Speaker 1: to this point. I would have never gotten my Latin grammy, 88 00:04:25,960 --> 00:04:28,000 Speaker 1: my second one. I'm going for my third. Y'all, pray 89 00:04:28,040 --> 00:04:31,480 Speaker 1: for me, Pray for us. I was like, no, I 90 00:04:31,560 --> 00:04:33,360 Speaker 1: know that I meant to do this. I know that 91 00:04:33,400 --> 00:04:35,159 Speaker 1: God put me here for a reason. I know that 92 00:04:35,200 --> 00:04:38,159 Speaker 1: I want to do this. I've heard it in my 93 00:04:38,320 --> 00:04:41,120 Speaker 1: dreams for so long, and I know this is it. 94 00:04:41,440 --> 00:04:43,520 Speaker 1: But imagine you guys, if I would have just stopped, 95 00:04:44,320 --> 00:04:45,680 Speaker 1: you know what I mean. Or for instance, when my 96 00:04:45,720 --> 00:04:48,119 Speaker 1: first live performance, and I'm not talking about lip syncing, 97 00:04:48,160 --> 00:04:49,480 Speaker 1: because you know I did a lot of that in 98 00:04:49,520 --> 00:04:51,320 Speaker 1: the beginning of my career, but when I first went 99 00:04:51,360 --> 00:04:54,919 Speaker 1: on stage at an award show and I sang live, 100 00:04:55,440 --> 00:04:57,960 Speaker 1: which is so scary, and my management was like, don't 101 00:04:57,960 --> 00:05:00,640 Speaker 1: do it, don't do it because you know anything can 102 00:05:00,680 --> 00:05:03,120 Speaker 1: go wrong. And I was like, I want to do it. 103 00:05:03,160 --> 00:05:05,760 Speaker 1: I'm ready, I have to do it. And it wasn't 104 00:05:05,760 --> 00:05:08,960 Speaker 1: the best, but it taught me. Once I heard it, 105 00:05:09,000 --> 00:05:11,440 Speaker 1: and once I saw myself, I said Okay, I still 106 00:05:11,480 --> 00:05:12,800 Speaker 1: want to do it. I'm not going to shrink back 107 00:05:12,800 --> 00:05:15,000 Speaker 1: and say, Okay, let's go back to lip syncing. No, 108 00:05:15,200 --> 00:05:16,680 Speaker 1: because that's the easy way out, and we don't want 109 00:05:16,680 --> 00:05:19,160 Speaker 1: the easy way out. The way we grow is by 110 00:05:19,200 --> 00:05:22,880 Speaker 1: putting ourselves in circumstances that are going to make us uncomfortable. 111 00:05:23,800 --> 00:05:26,120 Speaker 1: And that's what I did. And now I'm like, I 112 00:05:26,120 --> 00:05:28,680 Speaker 1: don't want to do anything other than sing live. And 113 00:05:28,720 --> 00:05:31,279 Speaker 1: I'm talking about award shows because that's where it's a 114 00:05:31,279 --> 00:05:33,960 Speaker 1: little tricky. You don't have a lot of control. And 115 00:05:33,960 --> 00:05:35,800 Speaker 1: when I heard that first performance, I was like, damn. 116 00:05:35,839 --> 00:05:37,680 Speaker 1: I was like, I should have listened to them, and 117 00:05:37,760 --> 00:05:41,360 Speaker 1: I should have. But also it taught me. I'm like, Okay, 118 00:05:41,360 --> 00:05:42,960 Speaker 1: then I need to go back to vocal lessons and 119 00:05:43,000 --> 00:05:44,960 Speaker 1: I need to do these things. And it wasn't as 120 00:05:45,000 --> 00:05:47,760 Speaker 1: horrible as it could have been, but it wasn't as 121 00:05:47,760 --> 00:05:49,560 Speaker 1: good as I know I could do it, you know, 122 00:05:49,800 --> 00:05:51,920 Speaker 1: as good as I know it could be. All those 123 00:05:51,960 --> 00:05:54,120 Speaker 1: things like have not stopped me. And basically, what it 124 00:05:54,160 --> 00:05:55,880 Speaker 1: is that I want to tell you guys, more than anything, 125 00:05:55,920 --> 00:06:00,800 Speaker 1: like don't let what other people say, what other people 126 00:06:01,800 --> 00:06:05,520 Speaker 1: tell you should do. It's what you're meant to do, 127 00:06:06,080 --> 00:06:08,240 Speaker 1: like focus on what you're meant to do in this world. 128 00:06:09,200 --> 00:06:11,000 Speaker 1: And I think that's what's gotten me to this point 129 00:06:11,000 --> 00:06:13,560 Speaker 1: in my life. Then now I look back and I'm like, damn, 130 00:06:13,960 --> 00:06:18,280 Speaker 1: I'm proud of myself. I've made it this far despite 131 00:06:18,279 --> 00:06:23,000 Speaker 1: the adversities, despite all the people that talk shit. I 132 00:06:23,240 --> 00:06:25,159 Speaker 1: was like, well, whatever, I know who I am, I 133 00:06:25,240 --> 00:06:26,839 Speaker 1: know what I want to do, and I use that 134 00:06:26,920 --> 00:06:31,120 Speaker 1: criticism as a way to grow and better myself and 135 00:06:31,200 --> 00:06:33,960 Speaker 1: I haven't stopped. What I'm trying to get at is 136 00:06:34,240 --> 00:06:37,440 Speaker 1: that it's not always peaches and cream. It's not always 137 00:06:37,800 --> 00:06:40,320 Speaker 1: glitz and glam and the pretty. Like there's a lot 138 00:06:40,440 --> 00:06:44,120 Speaker 1: that goes into what it is that I do. And 139 00:06:44,160 --> 00:06:46,160 Speaker 1: I think a lot of women can relate to this 140 00:06:46,920 --> 00:06:48,600 Speaker 1: and take away let's take away the music, let's put 141 00:06:48,640 --> 00:06:51,359 Speaker 1: that on the back burner for now. I started off 142 00:06:51,560 --> 00:06:54,560 Speaker 1: with my and I've talked about this again before on 143 00:06:54,600 --> 00:06:58,280 Speaker 1: the podcast where I mentioned my first business, my first love, 144 00:06:58,320 --> 00:07:00,919 Speaker 1: which was Blow Me Dry, and why I opened it 145 00:07:00,960 --> 00:07:03,000 Speaker 1: and how I opened it, and it was through Chige's 146 00:07:03,000 --> 00:07:04,680 Speaker 1: and Roxy and then I Love Jenny and then I 147 00:07:04,720 --> 00:07:07,320 Speaker 1: had my spinoff. She is in control and I saved 148 00:07:07,360 --> 00:07:08,839 Speaker 1: my money, and I was like, I want to build 149 00:07:08,839 --> 00:07:12,200 Speaker 1: something for myself. I had built so much for my 150 00:07:12,280 --> 00:07:14,800 Speaker 1: mom and I don't regret it. But I was like, Okay, 151 00:07:14,800 --> 00:07:16,840 Speaker 1: it's time to build something for myself. And which is 152 00:07:16,840 --> 00:07:19,640 Speaker 1: why I always loved anything beauty. The beauty industry has 153 00:07:19,640 --> 00:07:21,400 Speaker 1: always caught my eye. And I said, okay, I was 154 00:07:21,440 --> 00:07:23,040 Speaker 1: so in love with the blow dry bars and all 155 00:07:23,040 --> 00:07:25,280 Speaker 1: that stuff. So I said, I want to like start 156 00:07:25,320 --> 00:07:28,120 Speaker 1: my own business. And let me tell you, guys, I 157 00:07:28,160 --> 00:07:30,239 Speaker 1: invested so much money. Now that I know about business, 158 00:07:30,240 --> 00:07:31,840 Speaker 1: I'm like, okay, this is where I went wrong. First 159 00:07:31,880 --> 00:07:35,200 Speaker 1: of all, I shouldn't have spent so much on building. 160 00:07:35,440 --> 00:07:37,760 Speaker 1: I wanted the best floor and the best chairs, and 161 00:07:37,800 --> 00:07:40,440 Speaker 1: I investaged so much money that I didn't think about, Okay, 162 00:07:40,520 --> 00:07:42,640 Speaker 1: what if it doesn't do well the first three months 163 00:07:42,760 --> 00:07:44,480 Speaker 1: and I have to put money out of my pocket. 164 00:07:44,560 --> 00:07:45,960 Speaker 1: And let me tell you, I had it for four 165 00:07:46,040 --> 00:07:49,800 Speaker 1: years and I never made a penny off of it. 166 00:07:49,800 --> 00:07:52,120 Speaker 1: It was always my numbers were always red and it 167 00:07:52,160 --> 00:07:54,360 Speaker 1: was my pride that kept it open. Because at first 168 00:07:54,400 --> 00:07:55,720 Speaker 1: I wanted to tell my mom, look, I can do it. 169 00:07:55,720 --> 00:07:57,840 Speaker 1: She was very proud. I'll never forget the words that 170 00:07:57,880 --> 00:08:00,840 Speaker 1: she told me. But then my mom passed away and 171 00:08:00,880 --> 00:08:02,880 Speaker 1: I felt like, well, now what am I like? I 172 00:08:02,920 --> 00:08:04,400 Speaker 1: just felt like, oh, I have to keep it open 173 00:08:04,440 --> 00:08:07,200 Speaker 1: because she was proud of me. And I just left 174 00:08:07,240 --> 00:08:09,440 Speaker 1: it and kept it open for the wrong reasons. And 175 00:08:09,480 --> 00:08:12,920 Speaker 1: I was afraid of failing. I was afraid of people 176 00:08:12,960 --> 00:08:15,960 Speaker 1: saying I told you so, because they told me, don't 177 00:08:15,960 --> 00:08:18,440 Speaker 1: do it in that city and Nsino because there aren't 178 00:08:18,480 --> 00:08:20,920 Speaker 1: enough Latinos. And what I wanted was to build something 179 00:08:20,960 --> 00:08:24,400 Speaker 1: on my own. I wanted to just show the world 180 00:08:24,440 --> 00:08:27,400 Speaker 1: that yes, I had a famous mother, and I could 181 00:08:27,440 --> 00:08:29,280 Speaker 1: have done it in a Latin where there was a 182 00:08:29,320 --> 00:08:31,680 Speaker 1: lot of Latinos, but I wanted to do it where 183 00:08:31,720 --> 00:08:34,240 Speaker 1: maybe they didn't know who Shiki's was or Jenny Rivera were. 184 00:08:34,480 --> 00:08:37,400 Speaker 1: That's what I wanted to do, so I just kept 185 00:08:37,400 --> 00:08:40,160 Speaker 1: it open. Finally I closed it, and I learned so 186 00:08:40,320 --> 00:08:42,720 Speaker 1: much from that experience, you guys, because of course I cried. 187 00:08:42,760 --> 00:08:45,240 Speaker 1: It wasn't easy to close the doors, but I had 188 00:08:45,240 --> 00:08:48,000 Speaker 1: to stop the bleeding and say okay, janoo, and it 189 00:08:48,080 --> 00:08:50,480 Speaker 1: was very difficult, and I think it like hurt my ego, 190 00:08:51,040 --> 00:08:55,959 Speaker 1: but I learned the importance of failure, which is the 191 00:08:56,000 --> 00:08:58,240 Speaker 1: whole reason after I said all of that, the whole 192 00:08:58,240 --> 00:09:00,720 Speaker 1: reason I wanted to talk about this was because so 193 00:09:00,800 --> 00:09:02,960 Speaker 1: many people, and I was one of them, were afraid 194 00:09:02,960 --> 00:09:06,200 Speaker 1: to fail, and now I embrace it. Of course, I 195 00:09:06,200 --> 00:09:09,520 Speaker 1: want everything that I do to be successful, but now 196 00:09:10,520 --> 00:09:14,719 Speaker 1: I think what failure is is not doing something out 197 00:09:14,720 --> 00:09:17,520 Speaker 1: of fear, not doing it because you're afraid of what 198 00:09:17,520 --> 00:09:19,240 Speaker 1: people are going to say, or because you're it's not 199 00:09:19,280 --> 00:09:22,720 Speaker 1: going to be as successful as you had anticipated. But 200 00:09:22,800 --> 00:09:26,560 Speaker 1: I'd rather try something and fail at it and know 201 00:09:26,640 --> 00:09:29,320 Speaker 1: that I tried, instead of living with what if I 202 00:09:29,320 --> 00:09:30,800 Speaker 1: would have done it. And again, this is stuff that 203 00:09:30,840 --> 00:09:32,600 Speaker 1: I talk about all the time, but now that we're 204 00:09:32,640 --> 00:09:35,880 Speaker 1: celebrating women and I'm sitting back and watching all these 205 00:09:35,920 --> 00:09:39,960 Speaker 1: women breaking records, selling out these stadiums, it inspires me 206 00:09:40,120 --> 00:09:43,480 Speaker 1: and it empowers me. And that's why I kind of 207 00:09:43,480 --> 00:09:44,920 Speaker 1: want to talk about that to all the women that 208 00:09:44,960 --> 00:09:47,760 Speaker 1: are listening to me that want to start their own businesses, 209 00:09:47,840 --> 00:09:51,840 Speaker 1: that want to I don't know, sing that want to 210 00:09:51,920 --> 00:09:54,360 Speaker 1: be influencers, like you just have to try it. You 211 00:09:54,480 --> 00:09:57,400 Speaker 1: have to just take that risk and try it and 212 00:09:57,440 --> 00:09:59,920 Speaker 1: not be afraid or stop yourself from doing it. Because 213 00:10:00,320 --> 00:10:02,400 Speaker 1: you're afraid of failing. There is so much to learn 214 00:10:02,400 --> 00:10:04,760 Speaker 1: from failing from saying you know what, I'm going to 215 00:10:04,840 --> 00:10:07,960 Speaker 1: pick myself up. I'm gonna learn my lesson because now 216 00:10:08,160 --> 00:10:09,800 Speaker 1: you better believe, if I were to open up another 217 00:10:09,800 --> 00:10:12,160 Speaker 1: blow dry bar, it'd be very, very different. I learned 218 00:10:12,160 --> 00:10:14,480 Speaker 1: from it, and I know that it was going to 219 00:10:14,520 --> 00:10:16,080 Speaker 1: take a lot of my time and time that I 220 00:10:16,120 --> 00:10:18,160 Speaker 1: didn't have. But now I know if I want to 221 00:10:18,200 --> 00:10:21,200 Speaker 1: open up a business, I have to be very present. 222 00:10:21,720 --> 00:10:23,559 Speaker 1: And I learned everything I had to learn from that. 223 00:10:23,920 --> 00:10:26,720 Speaker 1: And now with my businesses. You know, I have my music, 224 00:10:26,800 --> 00:10:30,199 Speaker 1: I have shapewear, I have nutrition, I have my skincare, 225 00:10:30,679 --> 00:10:35,840 Speaker 1: so many things in the works. Also understanding that you 226 00:10:35,840 --> 00:10:37,480 Speaker 1: can't do it all on your own. You need to 227 00:10:37,480 --> 00:10:39,280 Speaker 1: have a team. You need to learn to delegate. You 228 00:10:39,320 --> 00:10:41,440 Speaker 1: need to be able to say, hey, I can't handle 229 00:10:41,480 --> 00:10:43,680 Speaker 1: this all by myself. Let me get myself some help. 230 00:10:43,760 --> 00:10:46,560 Speaker 1: Let me be okay with giving a percentage of my 231 00:10:46,640 --> 00:10:49,360 Speaker 1: business to someone that you trust, because again that's another thing, 232 00:10:49,400 --> 00:10:52,200 Speaker 1: partnering up with just anybody who isn't good. You have 233 00:10:52,280 --> 00:10:55,040 Speaker 1: to make sure who you're going into business with. But 234 00:10:55,240 --> 00:10:57,880 Speaker 1: being okay with that because that's what I learned. I'm like, 235 00:10:57,920 --> 00:10:59,520 Speaker 1: you know, I can't handle it all myself, even if 236 00:10:59,520 --> 00:11:02,800 Speaker 1: I wanted to. But going back to this whole thing 237 00:11:02,920 --> 00:11:05,719 Speaker 1: with not being afraid of failing, I think that's when 238 00:11:05,720 --> 00:11:07,440 Speaker 1: you learn the most, that's when you grow the most, 239 00:11:08,360 --> 00:11:12,840 Speaker 1: and not letting that change your ambition of wanting to 240 00:11:12,840 --> 00:11:14,920 Speaker 1: still be successful. If one business didn't work, if this 241 00:11:14,960 --> 00:11:17,120 Speaker 1: thing didn't work for you, you got to keep going. 242 00:11:17,160 --> 00:11:19,360 Speaker 1: You got to learn from it and learn what you're 243 00:11:19,360 --> 00:11:22,760 Speaker 1: supposed to learn for the next season of your life. 244 00:11:27,559 --> 00:11:29,240 Speaker 1: That's what I see when I see Shakira and I 245 00:11:29,240 --> 00:11:31,920 Speaker 1: see Caro, and I see all these women that are 246 00:11:32,000 --> 00:11:34,360 Speaker 1: just doing their thing, and even in acting. I was 247 00:11:34,400 --> 00:11:37,160 Speaker 1: watching Grisela, you guys, I was watching Grisela on Netflix. 248 00:11:37,160 --> 00:11:39,520 Speaker 1: I don't know if you guys have watched it six episodes, 249 00:11:40,080 --> 00:11:42,040 Speaker 1: and mind you, there's a lot of things that I 250 00:11:42,080 --> 00:11:43,120 Speaker 1: was like, Oh, I don't know if I would have 251 00:11:43,120 --> 00:11:45,959 Speaker 1: done that. But the gist of it is she would 252 00:11:45,960 --> 00:11:47,800 Speaker 1: not take no for an answer. It's like she wanted 253 00:11:47,840 --> 00:11:49,560 Speaker 1: something and she's like, I'm going to do what I 254 00:11:49,559 --> 00:11:51,560 Speaker 1: gotta do, which, again, there are a lot of things 255 00:11:51,559 --> 00:11:52,560 Speaker 1: that I was like, I don't know if I would 256 00:11:52,600 --> 00:11:55,400 Speaker 1: have done that, that's kind of harsh, but it was 257 00:11:55,559 --> 00:11:57,640 Speaker 1: no man can get in her way. I mean, this 258 00:11:57,679 --> 00:11:59,920 Speaker 1: has been happening for so long. I was watching Viking. 259 00:12:00,080 --> 00:12:01,680 Speaker 1: It happened in Viking, like, oh, how is a woman 260 00:12:01,720 --> 00:12:03,280 Speaker 1: gonna I don't know if you guys know what Vikings is. 261 00:12:03,320 --> 00:12:04,840 Speaker 1: It's kind of like Game of Thrones. It's like this 262 00:12:04,880 --> 00:12:06,600 Speaker 1: whole thing. Anyways, I'm so stuck on it right now. 263 00:12:06,960 --> 00:12:09,400 Speaker 1: Even then in the eighteen hundreds, it was how is 264 00:12:09,440 --> 00:12:11,760 Speaker 1: a woman? How is she gonna rule? How can she 265 00:12:12,800 --> 00:12:15,320 Speaker 1: be the queen? Like? And it's just so many things 266 00:12:15,320 --> 00:12:16,680 Speaker 1: like that that it's like, wait a second, we can 267 00:12:16,840 --> 00:12:20,360 Speaker 1: do it. F what anyone says. And if if any 268 00:12:20,400 --> 00:12:22,560 Speaker 1: man ever says, you guys that we couldn't we shouldn't 269 00:12:22,559 --> 00:12:24,360 Speaker 1: do I'm sorry. But if we can make a baby 270 00:12:24,360 --> 00:12:26,320 Speaker 1: in our body and hold the baby for nine months 271 00:12:26,360 --> 00:12:28,280 Speaker 1: and push it out of her hour of vagina, I 272 00:12:28,320 --> 00:12:30,880 Speaker 1: think we could do a whole lot of shit. Ask 273 00:12:30,920 --> 00:12:32,240 Speaker 1: me if a man can do that. I think there 274 00:12:32,240 --> 00:12:35,520 Speaker 1: are wonderful men that celebrate women, but there are a handful. 275 00:12:35,600 --> 00:12:37,400 Speaker 1: And I'm telling you because I'm in an industry where 276 00:12:37,400 --> 00:12:39,560 Speaker 1: it's kind of like, no you shouldn't do this, You 277 00:12:39,559 --> 00:12:41,520 Speaker 1: shouldn't do that, You shouldn't sing this type of music. Oh, 278 00:12:41,559 --> 00:12:44,840 Speaker 1: women shouldn't sing corridos. I'm sorry, Like why not? Why 279 00:12:44,880 --> 00:12:47,599 Speaker 1: can't we sing corridos umbos. There's this girl and I 280 00:12:47,640 --> 00:12:49,800 Speaker 1: forgot her name right now, but she was on TikTok 281 00:12:49,840 --> 00:12:53,200 Speaker 1: and she was singing Corrido belico and in the comments, 282 00:12:54,200 --> 00:12:57,120 Speaker 1: men even some women were talking crap to her, and 283 00:12:57,160 --> 00:13:01,400 Speaker 1: I'm like, wait, why why can't she sing on carrillo bellico? 284 00:13:01,520 --> 00:13:03,240 Speaker 1: Why because she's a woman. And that's what it was. 285 00:13:03,280 --> 00:13:05,000 Speaker 1: It was because she was a woman that she didn't 286 00:13:05,040 --> 00:13:06,480 Speaker 1: let that stop. She came out with another one on 287 00:13:06,520 --> 00:13:08,880 Speaker 1: TikTok and I said, girl, yes, yes, let's celebrate that. 288 00:13:09,559 --> 00:13:15,040 Speaker 1: And it's just not caring and not letting statistics stop 289 00:13:15,120 --> 00:13:18,560 Speaker 1: us from doing what we're meant to do. And for 290 00:13:18,640 --> 00:13:21,200 Speaker 1: those of you listening, and again it is we're all 291 00:13:21,200 --> 00:13:23,040 Speaker 1: talking about women here, but I'm sure there are some 292 00:13:23,120 --> 00:13:26,120 Speaker 1: men that are listening. So this is for anyone. If 293 00:13:26,160 --> 00:13:29,480 Speaker 1: someone has told you no, you can't, you shouldn't do it, 294 00:13:29,559 --> 00:13:33,080 Speaker 1: if someone has closed a door on your face, and 295 00:13:33,120 --> 00:13:36,080 Speaker 1: I've had that plenty of times, even from people that 296 00:13:36,120 --> 00:13:39,160 Speaker 1: I absolutely love. Maybe and I don't love them the 297 00:13:39,200 --> 00:13:41,920 Speaker 1: same anymore, but that I love and that they're my blood. 298 00:13:42,040 --> 00:13:44,640 Speaker 1: Have told me that I couldn't. You know what. It's 299 00:13:44,679 --> 00:13:47,000 Speaker 1: not like my pride. It's never been that. And I 300 00:13:47,000 --> 00:13:49,000 Speaker 1: want to tell you guys this because I think when 301 00:13:49,040 --> 00:13:52,480 Speaker 1: we do things with the wrong intentions, things don't turn 302 00:13:52,520 --> 00:13:55,240 Speaker 1: out the right way. So for me, it hasn't been like, 303 00:13:55,480 --> 00:13:57,200 Speaker 1: let me show you what I can do. I'm going 304 00:13:57,240 --> 00:13:59,880 Speaker 1: to prove it to you. It's been a feeling within 305 00:13:59,920 --> 00:14:01,920 Speaker 1: me that it's like, even when I've wanted to stop, 306 00:14:01,960 --> 00:14:04,000 Speaker 1: it's like, Okay, no, I'm meant to do this. This 307 00:14:04,080 --> 00:14:06,439 Speaker 1: is what I am meant to do, and I want 308 00:14:06,480 --> 00:14:08,880 Speaker 1: to prove it to myself more than anyone else. I 309 00:14:08,880 --> 00:14:11,400 Speaker 1: don't want to look back at life and say, damn, 310 00:14:11,760 --> 00:14:14,240 Speaker 1: I stopped it because they said I couldn't or I shouldn't, 311 00:14:14,360 --> 00:14:17,000 Speaker 1: or that I'm not capable, I'm not good enough. You know. 312 00:14:17,040 --> 00:14:19,120 Speaker 1: I've heard that, like someone that I like is my 313 00:14:19,200 --> 00:14:22,040 Speaker 1: family that's supposed to support you, said you're never going 314 00:14:22,080 --> 00:14:25,240 Speaker 1: to be your mom, and it hurt me because I'm like, okay, damn, 315 00:14:25,280 --> 00:14:27,120 Speaker 1: I want to be as successful as my mom. But 316 00:14:27,160 --> 00:14:29,080 Speaker 1: then I'm like, wait, I'm meant to do what I'm 317 00:14:29,120 --> 00:14:31,360 Speaker 1: meant to do even if I'm not gonna fill up 318 00:14:31,360 --> 00:14:33,480 Speaker 1: a stable center. Who's to say I can't, first of all, 319 00:14:34,000 --> 00:14:36,120 Speaker 1: But what if I'm meant to do other things? Like 320 00:14:36,160 --> 00:14:38,120 Speaker 1: what if even through my podcast, I'm meant to touch 321 00:14:38,120 --> 00:14:40,480 Speaker 1: people's hearts, Like I'm not gonna stop because this person 322 00:14:40,520 --> 00:14:42,040 Speaker 1: said I'm never going to be my mom. I don't 323 00:14:42,040 --> 00:14:43,760 Speaker 1: want to be my mom. I want to be myself. 324 00:14:44,240 --> 00:14:47,960 Speaker 1: That's the biggest thing is wanting and embracing yourself and 325 00:14:48,040 --> 00:14:49,920 Speaker 1: what you're meant to do, and not compare yourself. I 326 00:14:49,960 --> 00:14:52,040 Speaker 1: always say this because it's so important. It's something that 327 00:14:52,080 --> 00:14:55,480 Speaker 1: I learned the hard way. Is comparing ourselves to anyone. 328 00:14:55,560 --> 00:14:58,720 Speaker 1: Anyone else's progress or their success or whatever the case 329 00:14:58,760 --> 00:15:00,760 Speaker 1: may be, is the word thing that we can do 330 00:15:00,800 --> 00:15:03,920 Speaker 1: for our self confidence and for our growth. So that's 331 00:15:03,920 --> 00:15:06,800 Speaker 1: for everyone out there. Don't worry those nose and those 332 00:15:06,840 --> 00:15:11,480 Speaker 1: closed doors is God's protection. And I always say this too, 333 00:15:11,600 --> 00:15:13,920 Speaker 1: but rejection is God's protection, you guys. And if that 334 00:15:14,080 --> 00:15:15,960 Speaker 1: is something is not happening for you, it's because it's 335 00:15:15,960 --> 00:15:18,240 Speaker 1: not meant to happen for you. And don't force your 336 00:15:18,280 --> 00:15:20,440 Speaker 1: foot in a shoe that doesn't fit you, like, you 337 00:15:20,480 --> 00:15:22,160 Speaker 1: can try it and if you keep trying. Okay, I'm 338 00:15:22,160 --> 00:15:23,560 Speaker 1: not saying not to try, not to try, but I'm 339 00:15:23,560 --> 00:15:24,800 Speaker 1: just saying, like, you also have to get to a 340 00:15:24,800 --> 00:15:26,840 Speaker 1: point where you're like, wait a second, is this causing 341 00:15:26,840 --> 00:15:29,600 Speaker 1: me more pain? Or is this going to be something 342 00:15:29,640 --> 00:15:31,040 Speaker 1: that's going to be good for me? Not only for 343 00:15:31,120 --> 00:15:33,280 Speaker 1: me but for others. You always have to have some 344 00:15:33,400 --> 00:15:37,400 Speaker 1: type of reason and a good reason behind it. And 345 00:15:37,440 --> 00:15:39,240 Speaker 1: that's what's helped me as well. With my music and 346 00:15:39,280 --> 00:15:40,920 Speaker 1: the times that I've wanted to give up and where 347 00:15:40,960 --> 00:15:43,360 Speaker 1: I'm like I'm tired or it's just too much, I'm like, 348 00:15:43,400 --> 00:15:46,880 Speaker 1: you know what, No, I'm touching people's hearts. My mission 349 00:15:46,920 --> 00:15:50,479 Speaker 1: in this world is so much bigger than even streams. 350 00:15:50,520 --> 00:15:52,400 Speaker 1: You know, Yes, I wish I had more streams on 351 00:15:52,480 --> 00:15:55,080 Speaker 1: Spotify and Apple Music and all this stuff, like with 352 00:15:55,120 --> 00:15:57,040 Speaker 1: my music, but I'm like, wait, the people that listen 353 00:15:57,080 --> 00:15:59,440 Speaker 1: to my music. I need to focus, even if it's 354 00:15:59,480 --> 00:16:02,600 Speaker 1: whatever the number may be. Like, I can't compare myself. 355 00:16:02,640 --> 00:16:04,360 Speaker 1: I don't want to compare myself to people that are 356 00:16:04,360 --> 00:16:06,200 Speaker 1: streaming millions and millions, and I say I'm like, what 357 00:16:06,200 --> 00:16:07,800 Speaker 1: the heck they just started and they're streaming all this. 358 00:16:07,960 --> 00:16:10,360 Speaker 1: Like if I continue to do that, imagine like I'm 359 00:16:10,360 --> 00:16:12,120 Speaker 1: never gonna focus on trying to like bring out a 360 00:16:12,120 --> 00:16:13,680 Speaker 1: better album that's gonna come out this year and it's 361 00:16:13,680 --> 00:16:18,040 Speaker 1: gonna be amazing. So it's like it's not comparing our 362 00:16:18,080 --> 00:16:22,200 Speaker 1: progress to anyone else's. So trust me. Now, I did 363 00:16:22,200 --> 00:16:24,080 Speaker 1: have a lot of doors shut in my face, a 364 00:16:24,120 --> 00:16:26,560 Speaker 1: lot of people that didn't believe in me, And now 365 00:16:27,080 --> 00:16:29,640 Speaker 1: I see it and people send me messages all the time, 366 00:16:30,040 --> 00:16:31,560 Speaker 1: which because I didn't believe in you, I didn't like 367 00:16:31,600 --> 00:16:34,120 Speaker 1: your music before, like blah blah blah. I was one 368 00:16:34,160 --> 00:16:36,080 Speaker 1: of the people that taught crap about you on the internet. 369 00:16:36,720 --> 00:16:38,960 Speaker 1: And now they're like I love you and thank you, 370 00:16:39,360 --> 00:16:43,000 Speaker 1: Wow you, I admire you, You inspire me and all that. 371 00:16:43,080 --> 00:16:44,880 Speaker 1: Just I'm like, okay, good, I'm glad I didn't give up. 372 00:16:45,080 --> 00:16:47,640 Speaker 1: I'm glad I didn't throw the towel all those times 373 00:16:47,640 --> 00:16:50,680 Speaker 1: that I wanted to, because this is what my mission is. 374 00:16:50,840 --> 00:16:53,280 Speaker 1: God wanted, this is part of what I'm supposed to do. 375 00:16:53,320 --> 00:16:56,000 Speaker 1: This is part of my testimony. So hopefully that really 376 00:16:56,040 --> 00:16:58,680 Speaker 1: does seep into your heart and help you in some 377 00:16:58,800 --> 00:17:00,760 Speaker 1: way that could be anything. It is have to be music. 378 00:17:00,760 --> 00:17:02,280 Speaker 1: It doesn't have to be what I'm doing. It could 379 00:17:02,280 --> 00:17:06,080 Speaker 1: be anything. And in those moments when I have felt down, 380 00:17:06,200 --> 00:17:10,040 Speaker 1: or even now, when I felt like just disappointed and 381 00:17:10,160 --> 00:17:12,080 Speaker 1: let down by people, or even let down by the 382 00:17:12,080 --> 00:17:15,280 Speaker 1: industry or whatever the case may be, for a long time, 383 00:17:15,280 --> 00:17:17,040 Speaker 1: I went to food, you guys, I was like, I'm 384 00:17:17,080 --> 00:17:19,120 Speaker 1: gonna have a fat ass pizza and some ice cream 385 00:17:19,119 --> 00:17:20,280 Speaker 1: and I don't care, and I'm just gonna lay in 386 00:17:20,359 --> 00:17:22,760 Speaker 1: bed and I would just sit there and cry. And 387 00:17:22,880 --> 00:17:26,440 Speaker 1: I did that a lot. Twenty thirteen, twenty fourteen, twenty fifteen, sixteen, 388 00:17:26,960 --> 00:17:28,760 Speaker 1: it was a lot of that. And that's when I 389 00:17:28,760 --> 00:17:30,800 Speaker 1: think I gained my most weight because I've always had 390 00:17:30,800 --> 00:17:33,840 Speaker 1: an issue with food, you know, until I started learning 391 00:17:33,880 --> 00:17:35,679 Speaker 1: to just say, Okay, wait a second, I'm gonna use 392 00:17:35,720 --> 00:17:37,800 Speaker 1: I'm gonna still eat, but I'm gonna have some grapes better, 393 00:17:37,920 --> 00:17:40,080 Speaker 1: you know, try not to have the whole tub of 394 00:17:40,080 --> 00:17:42,879 Speaker 1: ice cream. Because I love food, you guys, I love food, 395 00:17:43,200 --> 00:17:46,639 Speaker 1: But now more than anything, I don't know what happened. 396 00:17:46,680 --> 00:17:50,000 Speaker 1: It happened last year where I just I'm like, you know, 397 00:17:50,119 --> 00:17:52,560 Speaker 1: I know who I am I know that I meant 398 00:17:52,560 --> 00:17:54,720 Speaker 1: to do this. This is part of it, and I 399 00:17:54,760 --> 00:17:57,080 Speaker 1: have to understand that not everyone's gonna love me and 400 00:17:57,119 --> 00:18:00,320 Speaker 1: accept me. And once I did that, it just gave 401 00:18:00,320 --> 00:18:02,160 Speaker 1: me this confidence to say, well, I'm gonna have sad 402 00:18:02,240 --> 00:18:04,239 Speaker 1: days because I still have them. And I still have 403 00:18:04,320 --> 00:18:06,200 Speaker 1: days not as often, but I still have days where 404 00:18:06,200 --> 00:18:08,640 Speaker 1: I'm just like, F this, F the world, F the industry. 405 00:18:08,840 --> 00:18:10,520 Speaker 1: I'm just gonna go and live on a mountain. You know. 406 00:18:10,600 --> 00:18:13,199 Speaker 1: I've thought about that. But when I'm feeling that, I 407 00:18:13,280 --> 00:18:15,240 Speaker 1: just sit there and I'm like, Okay, I'm feeling this. 408 00:18:15,240 --> 00:18:17,680 Speaker 1: This is part of it. This is supposed to teach 409 00:18:17,680 --> 00:18:19,800 Speaker 1: me something. What is this meant to teach me? And 410 00:18:19,840 --> 00:18:22,520 Speaker 1: I pray and I'll have yogurt instead of ice cream, 411 00:18:23,119 --> 00:18:25,440 Speaker 1: you know, cause I'm like, I gotta like I feel 412 00:18:25,440 --> 00:18:27,439 Speaker 1: better when I take care of myself and my body. 413 00:18:27,800 --> 00:18:29,440 Speaker 1: That's not to say that I don't have my chips 414 00:18:29,440 --> 00:18:30,840 Speaker 1: and stuff like, because I love chips, you know, but 415 00:18:31,119 --> 00:18:33,160 Speaker 1: I'm just saying, like, I make better choices. And I'm like, Okay, 416 00:18:33,200 --> 00:18:34,760 Speaker 1: I'm just gonna pray. I'm gonna get all my knees 417 00:18:34,760 --> 00:18:36,800 Speaker 1: and when I get on my knees. There's something powerful 418 00:18:36,800 --> 00:18:38,239 Speaker 1: about getting on your knees. When you pray. You can 419 00:18:38,240 --> 00:18:40,159 Speaker 1: pray literally sitting on the toilet doesn't matter. God is 420 00:18:40,160 --> 00:18:42,080 Speaker 1: gonna listen to you anywhere and everywhere. I believe that 421 00:18:42,280 --> 00:18:43,680 Speaker 1: you can go to church or not go to church 422 00:18:43,800 --> 00:18:45,919 Speaker 1: or whatever. But when I get on my knees, it's 423 00:18:45,960 --> 00:18:49,080 Speaker 1: like I'm surrendering to God. And I'm like bowing myself 424 00:18:49,119 --> 00:18:51,560 Speaker 1: to God, to the higher power, to the universe, and 425 00:18:51,600 --> 00:18:53,960 Speaker 1: I'm just like, I surrender to you. I'm here and 426 00:18:54,000 --> 00:18:55,840 Speaker 1: I don't know what to do, and sometimes I just say, 427 00:18:55,840 --> 00:18:58,160 Speaker 1: help me, help me, I just need to feel better. 428 00:18:58,480 --> 00:19:01,119 Speaker 1: Just help me. Sometimes there are and enough words. But 429 00:19:01,160 --> 00:19:03,360 Speaker 1: once I just get on my knees, I'm just like, oh, 430 00:19:03,520 --> 00:19:06,359 Speaker 1: I surrender and it just helps me. And I feel 431 00:19:06,359 --> 00:19:08,560 Speaker 1: like since I've been doing that, I have less bad 432 00:19:08,640 --> 00:19:11,280 Speaker 1: days because for the rest of our life, you guys, 433 00:19:11,359 --> 00:19:14,920 Speaker 1: we have to understand that part of living is having 434 00:19:15,000 --> 00:19:18,719 Speaker 1: those bad days. It's an emotional rollercoaster, this thing called life. 435 00:19:18,800 --> 00:19:21,199 Speaker 1: But it's still a beautiful life. It's all how you 436 00:19:21,240 --> 00:19:23,840 Speaker 1: perceive it. It's all how your outlook on life. And 437 00:19:24,560 --> 00:19:26,080 Speaker 1: if you want to have less of those, you just 438 00:19:26,080 --> 00:19:29,320 Speaker 1: have to feel like surrender, surrender to your higher power, 439 00:19:29,440 --> 00:19:32,399 Speaker 1: surrender to who you are meant to be. And I 440 00:19:32,440 --> 00:19:35,200 Speaker 1: say who you are meant to be, because it takes 441 00:19:35,200 --> 00:19:37,199 Speaker 1: a while to get there, you know, to understand that. 442 00:19:37,400 --> 00:19:39,920 Speaker 1: But that's what's helped me, you guys big time where 443 00:19:39,920 --> 00:19:43,359 Speaker 1: I'm just like, ugh, well, it's part of life. It's okay, 444 00:19:43,400 --> 00:19:45,320 Speaker 1: Tomorrow will be different. I'm gonna shake it off. I'm 445 00:19:45,320 --> 00:19:47,000 Speaker 1: gonna feel my feelings, but I'm not gonna let it 446 00:19:48,000 --> 00:19:50,880 Speaker 1: consume me for the rest of my life. And I'm 447 00:19:50,880 --> 00:19:52,920 Speaker 1: not gonna let this bad moment turn into a bad day. 448 00:19:53,280 --> 00:19:55,920 Speaker 1: Well you guys, thank you for listening. I love these 449 00:19:55,960 --> 00:19:57,960 Speaker 1: episodes where I get to talk to you and not 450 00:19:58,040 --> 00:20:00,159 Speaker 1: even like I have no script. I don't sometime know 451 00:20:00,200 --> 00:20:02,879 Speaker 1: what I'm gonna say. I just let the spirit speak 452 00:20:02,920 --> 00:20:05,399 Speaker 1: through me. I don't know, but thank you, and I 453 00:20:05,440 --> 00:20:09,320 Speaker 1: hope that this episode is helping or going to help 454 00:20:09,359 --> 00:20:11,480 Speaker 1: you in any way possible. Thank you for listening. I 455 00:20:11,520 --> 00:20:14,640 Speaker 1: love you guys so much. 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