Speaker 1: Call from Nathan Hostable. Hello, Hey, how's it going.
Speaker 2: What's up, Nathan?
Speaker 3: Not much?
Speaker 1: How you doing, man?
Speaker 2: I'm hanging in there. What's going on with you?
Speaker 4: Uh?
Speaker 3: Not much?
Speaker 1: Hey? There was something I wanted to call and talk
Speaker 1: to you about.
Speaker 2: Yeah. Please.
Speaker 1: So I have this weird addiction and it only happens
Speaker 1: with my friends for a while, but then it happens
Speaker 1: in real life where I say mon a lot, like
Speaker 1: I'll say hey mon or thanks mon, and I can't
Speaker 1: really get rid of it.
Speaker 2: Like like you do, like a Jamaican mon.
Speaker 1: I must be mon. I just don't see I did
Speaker 1: it again.
Speaker 2: What do you think is causing you to do this?
Speaker 1: Probably just like repetition. I don't know. I've done it
Speaker 1: so much that it is like literally ingrained in my mind.
Speaker 2: Now, how how long have you been saying mon? For?
Speaker 1: Probably like two or three years at this point.
Speaker 2: Has anyone ever told you to stop?
Speaker 1: Surprisingly?
Speaker 5: No?
Speaker 1: Do you think I think where it really started to
Speaker 1: take its toll as we went. So we went to
Speaker 1: the seven eleven, right, and they have these candies that
Speaker 1: are now discontinued called mystery Monkeys, And we went into
Speaker 1: every seven eleven trying to find them. Referring to them
Speaker 1: as mystery monkeys, and the castiers got really confused. They
Speaker 1: were never mad about it, though, they were just confused.
Speaker 2: Has it ever come out in an an opportune moment,
Speaker 2: like a date or a job interview?
Speaker 4: Mhm.
Speaker 1: It has definitely in work a couple of times, and
Speaker 1: I kind of just play it off. I think we
Speaker 1: all just kind of play it off.
Speaker 2: But do you think it affects how people perceive you?
Speaker 1: It's it's starting to become my personality.
Speaker 6: I think.
Speaker 2: Does that scare you?
Speaker 3: It does a little bit.
Speaker 1: Yeah, I don't want to be known as the Mond guy.
Speaker 4: You know.
Speaker 2: What would you rather be known as?
Speaker 1: I want I want to I want to be known
Speaker 1: as a historian specific specifically, uh, like a music historian.
Speaker 1: That's what I'm studying in college right now.
Speaker 2: So maybe the next time you think you're gonna say man,
Speaker 2: you could bring up an interesting music history fact instead.
Speaker 1: That's a really good idea.
Speaker 2: Actually, do you have any for us right now to
Speaker 2: try that?
Speaker 1: Did you know that when the Right of Spring premiered
Speaker 1: in the early nineteen hundreds there were riots?
Speaker 2: That's pretty interesting man.
Speaker 1: Indeed, Well, hey, man, I appreciate the advice. I've got
Speaker 1: to get going to everyone else out there. Just don't
Speaker 1: even start saying mon it won't end.
Speaker 2: Thank you for calling.
Speaker 1: Thank you, gek.
Speaker 4: All from Hello, No fucking way.
Speaker 2: What's going on?
Speaker 1: Uh?
Speaker 3: Not much? What's going on with you?
Speaker 4: Uh?
Speaker 2: Your name is Tofer something like that. All right? What's
Speaker 2: going on with you?
Speaker 3: Just got off work and I've been trying to call
Speaker 3: you for a long time. I'm a little nervous smoking
Speaker 3: a lie.
Speaker 2: Oh shit, Well that's exciting. Being nervous is exciting, you know.
Speaker 2: It means there's your body is telling you that, uh,
Speaker 2: something important is happening. I mean, I don't know if
Speaker 2: this is important.
Speaker 3: But I'm just excited to talk to you.
Speaker 2: I'm excited to talk to you, Tafer. What's going on?
Speaker 3: I wonder if I smoke too much weed?
Speaker 2: I wonder that myself. Let's talk. What's how often you
Speaker 2: smoking weed?
Speaker 4: Mm hmmm?
Speaker 3: Like every couple hours?
Speaker 2: All right. You know what's funny is I always forget
Speaker 2: the weed is bad for you. I've talked about this
Speaker 2: a bunch of times, but I always forget what it is.
Speaker 4: That's the thing.
Speaker 2: It's shut up. It's shut up. Shut up is not
Speaker 2: it's not good, it's not. I don't care what Reddit says,
Speaker 2: and I listen. I listen. I smoke weed every single day.
Speaker 2: I will not say that it's good for.
Speaker 3: You, Okay, I don't. Maybe it's not good for like
Speaker 3: your organs, but I truly believe that it helps me mentally, okay,
Speaker 3: and help me. And it helps me. So I got
Speaker 3: really bad ADHD and I can't like think or like
Speaker 3: get a get like a solid thought out or like
Speaker 3: I'll stutter. But then I get high, and then I
Speaker 3: can think about one thing at a time and I
Speaker 3: can have like a solid conversation and it probably wouldn't het
Speaker 3: me to get high right now?
Speaker 1: Right?
Speaker 2: Are you not high? Right now? Already? You said you
Speaker 2: smoke every few hours.
Speaker 3: Well yeah, but it's been probably like an hour and
Speaker 3: a half or an hour, right.
Speaker 2: I don't know, man, I'm not I'm not a I'm
Speaker 2: not a doctor. I don't h I don't know what.
Speaker 3: Uh yeah, you know I know that you you know
Speaker 3: this is one I knew you were going to say this.
Speaker 2: What that I'm not a doctor?
Speaker 3: Yeah, I thought you might say this.
Speaker 2: Tell me tell me, yeah, yeah, do you Okay, So
Speaker 2: tell me? You thought I was going to say, what
Speaker 2: were you going to say in response to what you
Speaker 2: thought I was going to say?
Speaker 6: Oh?
Speaker 3: Fuck, I don't think that went that far. Yeah, no,
Speaker 3: I definitely didn't go that far.
Speaker 2: Mm hmmm mm hmm.
Speaker 3: Maybe I didn't. I didn't think I had that you
Speaker 3: were going to say that, But when you said it,
Speaker 3: I was like, oh, yeah, definitely something you would say.
Speaker 2: Well, what I mean? Do you do you feel as
Speaker 2: though weed is negatively impacting your life?
Speaker 3: It's negatively impacting my bank account?
Speaker 6: Yeah?
Speaker 2: How often much money is beating on weed?
Speaker 3: Like rent? Like eightsand bucks a month. That used to me,
Speaker 3: what stay do you in? What's stay in Washington State?
Speaker 2: All right? Is it legal there?
Speaker 3: Yeah? We got good stuff here. It's like the one
Speaker 3: of the first dates to become legal.
Speaker 2: How much we do smoking to day?
Speaker 3: Well? I smoked dabs because I've smoked like every day
Speaker 3: for like seven years, and so that we stopp affecting
Speaker 3: me after a few years or like, man, it affects me,
Speaker 3: but it doesn't get me like just high as I
Speaker 3: want to be. So I smoked dabs. I have a
Speaker 3: puff co Have you ever heard of a puff co peak?
Speaker 2: A puff coo peak?
Speaker 3: Dude, if you do you have a dab or do
Speaker 3: you only smoke reed?
Speaker 2: I mean I smoke like the pins. I haven't. I
Speaker 2: haven't done the whole dab with the nail and the
Speaker 2: torch thing in a long time.
Speaker 3: Yeah. But the puff Coo is like a portable vaporizer
Speaker 3: and it's got like a battery in there and you
Speaker 3: just go a little bull you put the dabs in
Speaker 3: there and then you it just stays in the cup
Speaker 3: holder of my car and it just gets used like obsessively.
Speaker 2: Well all right, I mean, so how old are you?
Speaker 3: I'm twenty two?
Speaker 2: Okay? Do you what do you do in life?
Speaker 3: Right now? I paint houses and it sucks. I hate
Speaker 3: my job.
Speaker 2: What do you what would you rather be doing?
Speaker 3: That's the thing. I don't really have, like too much
Speaker 3: passions like I honestly, I'm pretty passionate about weed, but
Speaker 3: it's hard to get into the profession. I also really
Speaker 3: like money because I have to travel and I can't
Speaker 3: really travel without money, and I can't make money working
Speaker 3: with weeds.
Speaker 2: Where do you Where would you like to go?
Speaker 6: Uh?
Speaker 3: Next on my list is like Japan and Africa. I
Speaker 3: want to go to those two places. I've been to
Speaker 3: like almost twenty countries. Cool, but you've got to be careful.
Speaker 3: Bringing weed to the countries, okay, gets you in trouble.
Speaker 2: Oh yeah, like bring weed into Japan.
Speaker 3: Mm hmmm.
Speaker 2: I want to say I want to say Paul McCartney
Speaker 2: did that. I want to say, Paul McCartney did that
Speaker 2: and it didn't work out, didn't get in trouble. Paul McCartney. Yeah,
Speaker 2: he got caught, I think so, But he's you know,
Speaker 2: he's Paul McCartney's so nothing bad can ever happen to him.
Speaker 3: Well, that's what they said about Brittany Griner.
Speaker 2: I don't know who that is. Well, oh, that's the
Speaker 2: fucking that way. That's the lady who got arrested in
Speaker 2: Russia for the weed pen right.
Speaker 3: Yeah.
Speaker 2: I think about her all the time. I think about
Speaker 2: her all the time, actually, because I'm always bringing a
Speaker 2: weed pen places.
Speaker 3: But I actually got arrested for international drug smuggling.
Speaker 2: Where did you smuggle drugs?
Speaker 3: So I didn't, I didn't. I got arrested for it,
Speaker 3: but I didn't actually do it.
Speaker 2: Why tell me that story?
Speaker 3: Okay, So I was living in Norway at the time
Speaker 3: and I made a bad decision. I was on like
Speaker 3: some substances, and I couldn't afford to pay for them,
Speaker 3: and so the guy who provided them said, Okay, you
Speaker 3: don't got to pay if I can order like another
Speaker 3: package to your name, you know, on the on the
Speaker 3: dark side of the internet. I didn't tell anybody about
Speaker 3: this for like four years, but I think I'm safe now.
Speaker 3: I thought they tapped my phone for like a year.
Speaker 3: I didn't talked about it, but okay, anyways, Uh where
Speaker 3: was I was that idho's talking out? Oh yeah, But
Speaker 3: then the package came and uh it was like three
Speaker 3: weeks later and he was like and then the package came,
Speaker 3: but it got complicated at the border because uh the
Speaker 3: dogs or something. And then I was just like chilling
Speaker 3: up the school and the police came and got me
Speaker 3: and they said, hey, man, you have a warrant to
Speaker 3: search your phone and your room and like all of
Speaker 3: your belongings that you have in the country. Well fuck
Speaker 3: but and so they took me away in the handcuffs
Speaker 3: and they interrogated me. They were like yelling at me
Speaker 3: in Norwegient for like four hours, like we know you
Speaker 3: did it, like like just tell us or like and
Speaker 3: I was like, I didn't do I didn't do it. Okay,
Speaker 3: well tell us who did it and then we'll like
Speaker 3: take down your sentence. So I don't know, but then
Speaker 3: there's no proof. So I didn't get arrested or so
Speaker 3: I didn't go to jail. But it was like one
Speaker 3: of the scariest, pretty scary.
Speaker 2: What were you doing living in Norway?
Speaker 3: Let's go to school there?
Speaker 2: Okay after high school.
Speaker 3: I moved there for like a few months to because
Speaker 3: I didn't just for fun.
Speaker 2: All right, So you're a you're a traveling man.
Speaker 3: I try to be. I haven't gone in like a year.
Speaker 2: Okay, now you're just now. Now you live in Washington
Speaker 2: and you're painting houses and you hate it.
Speaker 3: Yeah, I mean that's where I've always lived. This is
Speaker 3: like the home base. But I'll move.
Speaker 2: I like, I'll you have Do you have any money?
Speaker 4: Uh?
Speaker 3: Right now?
Speaker 1: Not a lot?
Speaker 3: But after I finished finishing this house, though, I'll get paid.
Speaker 3: I got like, I'll just check coming after I finished
Speaker 3: this house.
Speaker 2: Because you don't need, dude, you don't need like I
Speaker 2: don't know how much research you've done, but you don't
Speaker 2: need like a lot of money to travel you need
Speaker 2: I think the biggest your biggest expense is going to
Speaker 2: be like the plane to get there. But if you
Speaker 2: go to like you know, Asia or somewhere like uh,
Speaker 2: really cheap, you can get around for not that much money.
Speaker 2: And there's also all these like little programs and whatnot
Speaker 2: where you can like go work at a hospital or
Speaker 2: work on a teach people English or all these all
Speaker 2: these things like I don't know, I'm thinking because like
Speaker 2: if I if I were you and I just had
Speaker 2: like no, I mean, I guess I can also do
Speaker 2: whatever I want, But like what, I don't know that
Speaker 2: you could? Why why not? Why would you stay in
Speaker 2: Washington panting houses when you could feasibly cobble something together
Speaker 2: that gets you out on the on the road traveling.
Speaker 2: You know you have you tried to do anything like that?
Speaker 2: I do it. Yeah, tell me the honest truth.
Speaker 3: And this is why people think I smoke too much weed, okay,
Speaker 3: because I wouldn't go because there's like I would have
Speaker 3: to go to a country where's legal, Like I couldn't
Speaker 3: go without weed. In the last seven years, I didn't
Speaker 3: smoke for like forty hours, and for those whole forty hours,
Speaker 3: I couldn't eat or sleep or like I was feeling crazy,
Speaker 3: like I'm pretty dependent on that, on that stuff, you know, I'm.
Speaker 2: Pretty sure in like Thailand, I'm I'm so dumb, And
Speaker 2: that's true.
Speaker 3: I've been. I've been to Thailand and they have a pretty
Speaker 3: decent weed there.
Speaker 2: Actually go to Thailand.
Speaker 3: Yeah, But what am I gonna do there? How am
Speaker 3: I gonna make money?
Speaker 2: I don't know? If teach English? I don't know. What
Speaker 2: the fuck are you gonna do anywhere? What do you what?
Speaker 2: I'm what are what? What are we gonna do with
Speaker 2: our lives at all? Anyway? What are we gonna do?
Speaker 2: I have no What are you supposed to do? God
Speaker 2: damn it, I'm freaking out with you, my friend. What
Speaker 2: what are we supposed to do with our lives? I
Speaker 2: don't know. I have no idea.
Speaker 3: There's nothing to do. I think life is pretty pointless.
Speaker 3: But that's why I like traveling, because it's kind of fun.
Speaker 2: And it is kind of fun. Have you ever spoken
Speaker 2: to a real therapist about all this weed thing, all
Speaker 2: this weed stuff?
Speaker 4: No?
Speaker 3: But I don't think that's the real problem, because like,
Speaker 3: I smoked weed and I actually am pretty I'm like
Speaker 3: the most productive stoner you've ever met. Like high functioning,
Speaker 3: like I get my ship done. You know it's not
Speaker 3: I I don't smoke, but I don't get my ship done.
Speaker 3: Like I'll wake up at four am and take a
Speaker 3: dab and then go to work and like work the
Speaker 3: whole day.
Speaker 4: You know.
Speaker 2: Okay, are you? Are you? But you're unhappy with this,
Speaker 2: with this job and with this life that you're living.
Speaker 2: Is that accurate to all kind of sucks?
Speaker 3: Yeah, for sure. Like I don't enjoy the work, but
Speaker 3: it pays me good money.
Speaker 2: Okay. I mean I'm trying to think what you could change,
Speaker 2: you know, if you want to travel? Do you have
Speaker 2: a girlfriend? Do you have like something that's else that's
Speaker 2: weighing you to live in Washington?
Speaker 1: Uh?
Speaker 3: Yeah, I guess I do have a girlfriend.
Speaker 2: Most most the answer to whether or not you have
Speaker 2: a girlfriend is usually yes or no and not Yeah,
Speaker 2: I guess I do.
Speaker 3: I mean she's pretty fresh, like a month, so it's
Speaker 3: like not too held down yet, you know, all.
Speaker 2: Right, are you happy with your relationship?
Speaker 3: Yeah, she's cool. But that's stuck. Man, that's fucked up too.
Speaker 3: I don't know how much time you have this A
Speaker 3: little that's sucked up too.
Speaker 2: Now what what do you mean it's fucked up?
Speaker 3: Well, like, Okay, she's super cool and like she's actually dope.
Speaker 3: But I didn't know, like my best friend, I didn't
Speaker 3: know before I started dating her. My best friend took
Speaker 3: her virginity, and that like fucks with my brain. Dude,
Speaker 3: I don't know if I can like stay with like.
Speaker 3: I don't know if I could, like like theoretically like
Speaker 3: you date to Mary, right, I don't know if I can.
Speaker 3: Like the sentence, my best friend took my wife's virginity,
Speaker 3: like that does not sit. That is not a very
Speaker 3: good sentence.
Speaker 2: How did you meet this person.
Speaker 3: Just like through mutual friends?
Speaker 2: Okay, do you like her?
Speaker 3: I do? She's actually super cool. It's that's why. That's
Speaker 3: why it's sucked with me. That's if I didn't actually
Speaker 3: like her, I would have just like dropped it already.
Speaker 2: I just look, I get that, like whatever, I get that.
Speaker 2: Dudes have hang ups about things like that. But on
Speaker 2: a look, on a personal level, it to me, like,
Speaker 2: if you like this girl a look on a person level,
Speaker 2: to me, if you like this girl, then who gives
Speaker 2: a fuck who she's had sex with? Before? Well?
Speaker 3: Yeah, but that's like I don't know because that's like
Speaker 3: my best friend too, and like I'm just I'll be uncomfortable.
Speaker 3: It's like because I want my girlfriend and my friend
Speaker 3: to be able to hang out and like I want
Speaker 3: to like and I trust them. Yeah, but like I
Speaker 3: definitely feel some type of way if they're hanging out
Speaker 3: on their own, you know, not on their own, but
Speaker 3: like I don't know, even if like they're just talking,
Speaker 3: like it makes me feel weird, but I need my
Speaker 3: girlfriend and my friend to be friends, you.
Speaker 2: Know, Okay, I feel like, look, this is I mean,
Speaker 2: this is a whole separate conversation and maybe that's why
Speaker 2: you didn't want to bring it up. But to me,
Speaker 2: it's like you you have to build up some sense
Speaker 2: of security of like I trust my girlfriend and I
Speaker 2: trust my friend to uh you know, I I love
Speaker 2: my girlfriend. I trust her not to cheat on me, right,
Speaker 2: And if you're just constantly insecure about whether I'm just
Speaker 2: gonna cheat on you, that's that's that's a problem.
Speaker 3: No, that's the thing I do. Like I don't think
Speaker 3: she would, but it don't makes me feel weird, like
Speaker 3: I do trust her though, mm hmmm. I think it's
Speaker 3: just like the male like a that like what it's
Speaker 3: it called like psychology just doesn't like it.
Speaker 5: Okay, yeah, this is this is dude.
Speaker 3: This one stumped me too.
Speaker 2: I don't know, you know, talking to you. You know,
Speaker 2: I've I've been I've been enjoying talking to you because
Speaker 2: you as I talk to you and I think about
Speaker 2: your life and your problems, I kind of get out
Speaker 2: of my own, you know. And I'm like I was saying,
Speaker 2: but I'm like, I don't know. I don't know, dude,
Speaker 2: I don't know what to tell you. I really don't
Speaker 2: mm hmm.
Speaker 3: Like is it a deal breaker?
Speaker 2: What the you're what? Your girlfriend had sex with your
Speaker 2: friend before you guys were dating.
Speaker 3: Yeah, but it's like you took her virginity, which makes it.
Speaker 2: Like why here's the why?
Speaker 3: I just.
Speaker 2: Whatever. Everyone's I get that guys have hang ups about things,
Speaker 2: but I and but to me, it's like, dude, if
Speaker 2: this shouldn't be more complicated than you two like each
Speaker 2: other and make each other happy, so you're together, you know, why,
Speaker 2: why are you over complicating this with the fact that
Speaker 2: she lost her virginity to your friend? How long ago
Speaker 2: even was that, I don't know.
Speaker 3: Like four or five years, like it was a while ago.
Speaker 2: Okay, so then what's the I don't get while you're
Speaker 2: hung up on it.
Speaker 3: I'm an overstiger man. My brain's always moving like a
Speaker 3: million miles an hour.
Speaker 2: Is it the weed? What is it the weed?
Speaker 3: No, the weed calms it down. It's the eighth I
Speaker 3: think my brain go crazy.
Speaker 2: But you should see a real therapist at some point.
Speaker 2: I have you ever thought about doing that?
Speaker 3: No, people have, like my mom's always told me too,
Speaker 3: like my like people have told me to before family.
Speaker 3: I don't know about that one. I don't really like
Speaker 3: the thought of paying somebody to talk to me. I
Speaker 3: also feel like I can probably figure it out on
Speaker 3: my own eventually.
Speaker 2: Well, what are you going to do? Man?
Speaker 3: Might take a little longer. What am I gonna do?
Speaker 4: With the Yeah?
Speaker 2: What are you gonna do?
Speaker 3: Just?
Speaker 2: What do you I do?
Speaker 3: Just?
Speaker 2: What are you gonna do? We've we've talked about a
Speaker 2: lot of stuff. We've talked about your relationship, We've talked
Speaker 2: about your desire to travel, We've talked about weed, We've
Speaker 2: talked about your job. What are you gonna do?
Speaker 3: I mean, I'm probably gonna go smoke weed?
Speaker 2: Why? For some reason I thought that you would say that.
Speaker 3: Yeah, I mean, I don't know what else to do.
Speaker 2: Is there anything else you wanted to And I'm not
Speaker 2: even saying this like to end this conversation, but is
Speaker 2: there any other aspect or anything at all that you
Speaker 2: wanted to talk about?
Speaker 3: Damn? I mean probably, but I'm not gonna think of
Speaker 3: it right now. My brain's like, I'm gonna get off
Speaker 3: the phone. I'm gonna be like, damn, what should happen this?
Speaker 3: But no, it's okay, I guess my life.
Speaker 2: Okay, try not to try it to hold yourself back
Speaker 2: with like random bullshit. If something's between you and being
Speaker 2: happy and calm, at least make sure it's like a
Speaker 2: worth worth being a barrier between you and that and
Speaker 2: not just like a bullshit thing. Is that is that?
Speaker 2: Is that makes sense? Is that a fair thing?
Speaker 6: Yeah?
Speaker 3: No, I mean yeah, that's fair. I overthink a lot
Speaker 3: and like make up things that get in the way
Speaker 3: that probably shouldn't even be there.
Speaker 2: The b too, man, And I'm sure a lot of
Speaker 2: people listening to this do as well.
Speaker 4: Well.
Speaker 3: On that note, I hope you get You're gonna ask
Speaker 3: me if I have anything else to say.
Speaker 2: To the people the computer, Yeah, is there anything else
Speaker 2: you want to say to the people of the computer.
Speaker 3: I hope that everybody doesn't overthink too much and gets
Speaker 3: a little extra high today.
Speaker 2: Have a good rest of your entire life, my friends.
Speaker 3: Thank you, Go have a good night.
Speaker 2: Hi. How are you?
Speaker 6: Hi? I'm good.
Speaker 3: How are you?
Speaker 2: I'm doing okay? What's going on?
Speaker 1: Well?
Speaker 2: At this moment?
Speaker 6: I am feeding my son of little apples that I
Speaker 6: baked them in the oven with butter and cinnamon and yeah,
Speaker 6: and they're all soft and me like, some how are you?
Speaker 2: That sounds very delicious? I'm okay. I'm actually I'm feeling
Speaker 2: better today than I have been. So that's good.
Speaker 6: That's good. What's different about today?
Speaker 2: It is I you know, I am well. I left
Speaker 2: my fucking room to go be in places that are
Speaker 2: not my room. I did some pushups. I meditated for
Speaker 2: like a second, feeling good, working on myself.
Speaker 4: That's good.
Speaker 6: Meditating is great once you really start to get into it,
Speaker 6: for I think just relaxing and your mental kind of focus.
Speaker 2: So, yeah, what is your name? My name is Sophia,
Speaker 2: So Sophia U. What's up with you? Man? Is there
Speaker 2: anything in particular you called in to want to talk?
Speaker 2: About Yeah, so.
Speaker 6: I hope no one I know watches a stream, but
Speaker 6: my fiance and I we a while ago.
Speaker 4: Uh we.
Speaker 6: Gosh, this is weird to talk about. We made the
Speaker 6: decision to obviously have a baby. But the thing about
Speaker 6: that is we told my parents that that he was
Speaker 6: an accident and I had at the time, I had
Speaker 6: an iu D and everything. I don't know if you
Speaker 6: know when that form of birth control what that really is?
Speaker 6: Do you know what an idea? Yeah?
Speaker 3: Sick and uh, the.
Speaker 6: Copper IUD is like ninety nine percent effective. And we
Speaker 6: had said that I was at once for sense that
Speaker 6: actually did get pregnant off of the non hormonal ID
Speaker 6: and my son is not six months and they think
Speaker 6: that he is a miracle from God.
Speaker 2: Uh.
Speaker 6: Yeah, we don't know when or if we are ever
Speaker 6: going to tell my parents or how we would go
Speaker 6: about that. But yeah, so we've been just kind of
Speaker 6: living off of this lie for a while. And like
Speaker 6: the thing about that is, we told my parents in
Speaker 6: like November that I was pregnant, and I didn't actually
Speaker 6: get pregnant until January. And I don't know like if
Speaker 6: they know they ever like did the math in their
Speaker 6: head and like just didn't care, or if they just
Speaker 6: never thought twice about it. And I had him in August.
Speaker 2: So so you convinced your parents that you're like the
Speaker 2: virgin Mary and that you're a child that like your
Speaker 2: child is a gift from God or something.
Speaker 6: Yeah, we just say that, but that's how they took it.
Speaker 2: Here's what I don't understand.
Speaker 6: So the funny thing is we do actually know people
Speaker 6: that have gotten pregnant off of the IUD, so it's
Speaker 6: not something that's like completely crazy, but because it has happened,
Speaker 6: so we just kind of took that and used it
Speaker 6: as your own.
Speaker 2: Really is the IUD only Is it like hand sanitizer
Speaker 2: where it's only ninety nine point nine percent effective?
Speaker 6: Yeah, especially if it's non hormonal. If it moves it,
Speaker 6: you're very likely to get pregnant, so yeah, versus a
Speaker 6: hormonal one, which is even more effective. But I just
Speaker 6: had long storce or I've had a bad reaction to
Speaker 6: hormonal brick controls, and so I stopt with the non
Speaker 6: hormonal IUD.
Speaker 2: So okay, So I don't understand. Why did you tell
Speaker 2: them that it was an accident. What was the point
Speaker 2: of that?
Speaker 6: Because so I am a twenty one years old. I'm
Speaker 6: pretty young, and so was my fiance. And I found
Speaker 6: my fiance is even younger than I am, and he
Speaker 6: so I got pregnant when I was twenty he got
Speaker 6: and he you know, became a going soon to be
Speaker 6: father at nineteen. And my parents, so.
Speaker 2: They are very like.
Speaker 6: They wanted me to live my life the way they
Speaker 6: wanted me to live my life, you know what I mean.
Speaker 6: And when I was in college, I'm currently going to
Speaker 6: a SEC, but I was going to a university originally
Speaker 6: because they just really really wanted me to go to university.
Speaker 6: I don't think they even really knew what that meant.
Speaker 6: They just were like college, college, college, college, you need
Speaker 6: to go to college here when they're not not going
Speaker 6: to go to college. And they paid for it, which
Speaker 6: is of course very kind of them and generous to
Speaker 6: be wanting a good future for me. But I didn't
Speaker 6: even know what I wanted to do at a university.
Speaker 6: And I've been with my now fiance for going on
Speaker 6: three years, and we wanted to move in like my
Speaker 6: freshman year in college and or like at least the
Speaker 6: next year. We were talking about it when I was
Speaker 6: a freshman and I had told my mom and she
Speaker 6: just slipped the fuck out and she was like, absolutely not,
Speaker 6: You're not doing this. And I think I was twenty
Speaker 6: nineteen twenty at the time, and yeah, so that's kind
Speaker 6: of like a small thing that had that had happened.
Speaker 6: And because I also knew that they would never they
Speaker 6: would never approve of me wanting a child so young,
Speaker 6: and so this is the only other way to go
Speaker 6: about it. And it's kind of we're kind of glad
Speaker 6: that we told them early on, even lying about it,
Speaker 6: because they ended up having we had several fights with
Speaker 6: them about the way I wanted to raise my child
Speaker 6: and because they thought that the way I wanted to
Speaker 6: raise them was incorrect.
Speaker 2: So so so what I'm I guess what I'm kind
Speaker 2: of curious about is, uh so you told them that
Speaker 2: your child was an accident because you felt like that
Speaker 2: would uh like take the blame off of you for
Speaker 2: deciding to have a kid, Yeah, a little bit, and
Speaker 2: that and that the idea so so so in your mind,
Speaker 2: So in your mind, the idea for your parents that
Speaker 2: you kind of just messed up and got pregnant and
Speaker 2: are following through with it is is an easier pill
Speaker 2: for them to swallow than me and my fiance decided
Speaker 2: to have a kid so young.
Speaker 6: Yeah and yeah, yeah, and we didn't even tell them
Speaker 6: that we were, you know, even engaged at that time.
Speaker 6: My mom and dad were like, uh, they were like, oh, like,
Speaker 6: do you guys mean to get married because we were
Speaker 6: talking about getting eloped and so they even tried to
Speaker 6: throw a whole wedding for us, and we were going
Speaker 6: to we were planning on getting married in Hawaii and
Speaker 6: all this stuff when I was about five months pregnant.
Speaker 6: But the thing about this anyways, that's kind of at.
Speaker 2: The point, Okay, well let me ask you this. I mean,
Speaker 2: how are you How are you doing with the kid?
Speaker 4: Are you?
Speaker 2: How old is the kid?
Speaker 6: He's about he's going to be seven months. He's doing
Speaker 6: phenomenal as well. We my fiance supports is really well,
Speaker 6: we're all very happy and healthy.
Speaker 2: So you're you're happy with your decision?
Speaker 6: Yeah, we are.
Speaker 2: Okay.
Speaker 6: We kind of kind of like a think to ourselves
Speaker 6: and every now and they'm like, damn, we maybe we
Speaker 6: should have waited. But we always see the other side,
Speaker 6: like we would rather be young parents that way when
Speaker 6: our child is even like five.
Speaker 3: Six years old.
Speaker 6: My mom and dad were old, or when they had me,
Speaker 6: they were my mom was over thirty, my dad was
Speaker 6: forty uh so, And I just remember when I was young,
Speaker 6: like my mom my dad had a bad back, and
Speaker 6: you know what I mean, And you're going to go
Speaker 6: on the roller coasters with me, You're like, my mom
Speaker 6: was just you know, not wanting to do some of
Speaker 6: the things that I wanted to do when I was
Speaker 6: a kid, like running around with doing this or this
Speaker 6: is and that kind of thing. So, okay, that decision
Speaker 6: of doing raising a child early and then when we're
Speaker 6: like forty, he's going to be twenty and we'll be
Speaker 6: able to do our own thing as well, have the
Speaker 6: rest of our lives to do things that we want
Speaker 6: to do. And we felt secure up to have a child.
Speaker 2: Okay, okay, well that's good that you're happy with your decision.
Speaker 2: So I mean, look like, I mean, are you are
Speaker 2: you having like stress over the fact that your mom
Speaker 2: doesn't know that you you made the decision to have
Speaker 2: the baby.
Speaker 6: I guess I kind of have some guilts sometimes about
Speaker 6: lying to her, But I don't know how she would
Speaker 6: have taken it if I had purposely, if I had
Speaker 6: told her I purposely had a had a child, rather
Speaker 6: than oh yeah, I remember the thing I was gonna say.
Speaker 6: She almost sees it as like a noble thing because like,
Speaker 6: because he seems like an accident. I it's looks it
Speaker 6: looks noble because like, Okay, I'm taking this and I'm
Speaker 6: I'm having a child now and I'm taking the responsibility,
Speaker 6: rather than.
Speaker 5: I don't know.
Speaker 6: I don't know, but she's after I told her that
Speaker 6: I am deciding on keeping the child my son, now
Speaker 6: that she would her and my father would always be like, oh, like,
Speaker 6: we're so proud of you for taking this on and
Speaker 6: making this decision, and uh yeah, yeah.
Speaker 2: Mm hmmmm. Well the reason why I asked if it
Speaker 2: makes you feel a stressed, it's like, I mean, do
Speaker 2: you think it would make you feel better to just
Speaker 2: tell them the truth?
Speaker 6: I don't know. I think, sorry, my banging his feet
Speaker 6: against his little share, but it's sorry.
Speaker 2: I could you repeat the question, Do you would it
Speaker 2: make you feel better to tell them the truth?
Speaker 6: I don't know. I think, uh, it would take stress
Speaker 6: off my mental in the long run, but right now,
Speaker 6: it's nice having a decent relationship with my parents. I
Speaker 6: feel like that would really put a it would fracture
Speaker 6: our relationship really, because I've when I was younger, I
Speaker 6: was like so complacent with my parents and it would
Speaker 6: just do really whatever they told me. And when I
Speaker 6: got a little bit older to you know, having a
Speaker 6: mind of my own, and I think this would really
Speaker 6: kind of set them over the edge.
Speaker 2: And sorry, what is he so pissed off about. I
Speaker 2: don't understand why babies are. They got a great life.
Speaker 2: I don't know what they're upset about. Yeah, you made
Speaker 2: him apples.
Speaker 6: He's actually so happy about the apples that he's saying
Speaker 6: the feet against the chair.
Speaker 2: But I'm sorry, okay, so okay, So so you the
Speaker 2: question of whether or not to tell them the truth.
Speaker 6: Yeah, yeah, I don't know.
Speaker 3: I don't know.
Speaker 6: Uh now, I don't think so, because they are just
Speaker 6: so happy that he's here that yeah, they take every
Speaker 6: opportunity to see him and there's no really stress on
Speaker 6: any of us. But I don't know if that's like
Speaker 6: just if it's a moral thing to really live out
Speaker 6: the rest of their lives with this lie that their
Speaker 6: grandson with a miracle, that he made it.
Speaker 3: Through the I.
Speaker 2: Mean, I guess in my look, I guess in my head,
Speaker 2: like to declare yourself mature enough at twenty one to
Speaker 2: have a kid, it's like a big thing to do.
Speaker 2: It's a confident thing to do. I'm glad. I look,
Speaker 2: I'm glad it worked out for you. From how it sounds,
Speaker 2: I'm happy about that. And so if you have the
Speaker 2: confidence at that age to decide you want to have
Speaker 2: a kid, you know, I look, I'm not I don't
Speaker 2: want to tell you what to do, but I would
Speaker 2: think you would have a similar confidence to just to
Speaker 2: live your life how you want to live it with,
Speaker 2: you know, truthfully and not be so you know, scared
Speaker 2: of what your parents might think.
Speaker 6: Yeah, yeah, yeah, that's true.
Speaker 2: But again, you know, it doesn't sound like you're being
Speaker 2: eaten alive every night by the fact that your parents
Speaker 2: think your kid was an accident. But so then you know, again,
Speaker 2: the decisions up to you doesn't sound like a very
Speaker 2: dire thing, right.
Speaker 6: I guess it's just a story I kind of want
Speaker 6: to talk about too.
Speaker 2: It's very well, it's very interesting because it's just a
Speaker 2: subtle like I even through talking about it, I still
Speaker 2: don't fully understand.
Speaker 6: Well, you have questions all answer or I can still
Speaker 6: in any blanks I that I missed that you feel
Speaker 6: like I missed?
Speaker 2: What is your name again, Sophia, Sophia, Well, Sophilis. I'm
Speaker 2: glad that. I'm glad that your decision sounds like it
Speaker 2: it worked out for you, and I hope you continue
Speaker 2: to live live happy life.
Speaker 6: Thanks gex Is there.
Speaker 2: Anything else you want to say to the people of
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Speaker 6: I guess if I don't know if you're gonna end
Speaker 6: up playing this on the podcast or not, but if
Speaker 6: you do, Hello, Jason, that's nice to be honest and
Speaker 6: well for every Hey, Thanks Ben, take care of YouTube.
Speaker 5: Bye.
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Speaker 4: All from Markeith.
Speaker 2: Hello, Hello, what's up?
Speaker 4: I have a story for you of past life. I
Speaker 4: am living a whole different life now and I have
Speaker 4: kind of repressed this whole thing.
Speaker 6: But are you ready?
Speaker 2: Yeah?
Speaker 4: Okay. So me and my girlfriend I was nineteen and
Speaker 4: she was eighteen, we became escorts. Well I was an
Speaker 4: escort and she was one two.
Speaker 3: And what we.
Speaker 4: Did was we just used we use like these websites
Speaker 4: that I shouldn't name because of dangerous condemnation. I suppose
Speaker 4: I don't want to condone my actions because I had
Speaker 4: a friend try to do what I did and they
Speaker 4: got robbed at gunpoint. But basically what I used to
Speaker 4: do when I was eighteen and nineteen was I used
Speaker 4: to just use these websites where you go on sugar
Speaker 4: day dates and stuff things of that nature. And I
Speaker 4: would like go out with guys because like it's it's
Speaker 4: mostly mentain for this kind of shit, it's not really women.
Speaker 4: And so I was doing that and when I had
Speaker 4: met my girlfriend, she was doing it as well, and
Speaker 4: that was kind of what our initial conversations were about
Speaker 4: actually was just like, oh wow, we used the same
Speaker 4: websites who do the same things, you know, all these things,
Speaker 4: and so we like we bonded through that in a way,
Speaker 4: because you know, I when I met her, it was
Speaker 4: mostly just about you know, forming a friendship and forming
Speaker 4: someone like forming a relationship eventually as well in the future.
Speaker 4: But then it was like, oh shit, like we did
Speaker 4: the same thing. This is crazy, and so we bought
Speaker 4: the bond through that, and we just went out into
Speaker 4: the world going on going on dates and I don't
Speaker 4: even know where to start, but we basically, I mean,
Speaker 4: we've seen it all, both of us, and it was
Speaker 4: quite weird. And because it's a really weird world. And
Speaker 4: did you have any questions?
Speaker 6: I could answer for you.
Speaker 2: M So, how old are you now?
Speaker 4: I'm twenty six. I just turned twenty six in hockey.
Speaker 2: How long were you doing this for?
Speaker 4: I was doing this from eighteen to about twenty, partially
Speaker 4: when I was twenty one, but I stopped. I took
Speaker 4: a break. The reason why I stopped doing it in general,
Speaker 4: and this is the crazy part too, is like when
Speaker 4: I was young, I didn't really have much prospect of
Speaker 4: like an idea of what I could do, and it
Speaker 4: was like, well, I'm cute, so like let me go
Speaker 4: out there and like go on dates with men and
Speaker 4: stuff and things of that nature. Because I'm also like
Speaker 4: and I was tan sexual and so like it was yeah,
Speaker 4: fuck it, let's go do this ship And it was
Speaker 4: never anything you can use like explicit language on here still.
Speaker 2: Right, yeah, yeah, okay.
Speaker 4: So it was never anything sexual, like I like, there
Speaker 4: were times like I would see guys and like it
Speaker 4: would lead to a sexual encounter, but for the most part,
Speaker 4: it was just like dinner with guys in La La,
Speaker 4: and like I was in mostly La Towns, La Region areas,
Speaker 4: and then sometimes I would go to like the Bay
Speaker 4: Area and such. And there was a time when me
Speaker 4: and my girlfriend were living in New York and she
Speaker 4: was seeing guys and like Lower Manhattan and I would
Speaker 4: I would literally because at that point it was like
Speaker 4: she was making way more than I was doing it,
Speaker 4: and I was like, well, why don't you do it?
Speaker 4: And then I can watch you? And so I would
Speaker 4: literally dress as homeless as possible and just like sit
Speaker 4: outside restaurants and just like watch her. And it was
Speaker 4: it was really interesting because I'm not really a jealous
Speaker 4: pipe and I'm not really like a person who like
Speaker 4: and I trust her in general too, And it was
Speaker 4: just so interesting because when you go on these dates,
Speaker 4: you're conforming to an audience. You know, you're not the
Speaker 4: person that you portray yourself as. You know, you're a
Speaker 4: whole different person. You're just whatever they want you to be,
Speaker 4: you know, because they just want someone to talk to
Speaker 4: and someone to tell about their life story, and someone
Speaker 4: to go places with who like looks cute and dresses
Speaker 4: the part so that they can feel elevated because most
Speaker 4: of the people are really lonely, and it's about the
Speaker 4: fact that like they're trying to purchase companionships. That was
Speaker 4: mostly it for both of us. I mean, like there
Speaker 4: were times when like I did like some guys, and
Speaker 4: I think she liked some guys she saw too. In
Speaker 4: the past. We both stopped doing it because it just
Speaker 4: became a and I want to stress this to anyone
Speaker 4: who's doing that in general, like there is a way out.
Speaker 4: We stopped doing it because it became the situation where
Speaker 4: we just felt like it was really affecting our sense
Speaker 4: of pride and sense of self worth because that's the thing,
Speaker 4: like you're just whatever they want you to be. And
Speaker 4: that same thing went for like our adult contents and
Speaker 4: stuff too. We had an only fans and we had
Speaker 4: a foreignub accounts.
Speaker 2: Are you Are you and this girl still together? Oh?
Speaker 4: Yeah, it's been six years now and it's been amazing.
Speaker 4: And I love her and I love her family, and
Speaker 4: I am so happy. We have a house together, and
Speaker 4: we have two cats, and we also have two geese
Speaker 4: and two turkeys and it's really great. And she's going
Speaker 4: to school for uh, she's in the tech field. She's
Speaker 4: going to school for tech stuff. And I have a
Speaker 4: really cushy, boring job. And we honestly we talked about
Speaker 4: it sometimes, but we kept it very secret from our family.
Speaker 4: So I always get scared when I talk about it
Speaker 4: with people because it was something that like I kind
Speaker 4: of repressed, mostly because it just like it wouldn't really
Speaker 4: resonate with my family or her family.
Speaker 2: Do you do you ever miss doing it?
Speaker 4: You know what the issue is with that actually is
Speaker 4: that I do. I think I missed doing both of those.
Speaker 4: The money was really easy and it was really convenient,
Speaker 4: and the money was like really great. It was very
Speaker 4: seasonal you know your best times to do it. The
Speaker 4: best times, in my opinion, were like the winter time.
Speaker 2: In the winter, right, that's whenever one yeah, everyone cuffing
Speaker 2: season yes.
Speaker 4: And then everyone there's like no one with anybody. So
Speaker 4: I do miss it because it was like honestly, and
Speaker 4: and it kind of burnt me out in the way too,
Speaker 4: Like it was the only time when like I was
Speaker 4: around exuberant consumerism, you know, like we got gifts. My
Speaker 4: girlfriend used to get like really sense of perfumes and
Speaker 4: stuff and like bags, and like guys would take both
Speaker 4: of us like individually on our own dates, like we
Speaker 4: do it to like really fancy restaurants, and like we
Speaker 4: as a couple, we'd never really gone to fancy restaurants.
Speaker 4: But also like none of that really mattered to me,
Speaker 4: Like I didn't care about the bags or the restaurants
Speaker 4: and things of that nature because it wasn't really It
Speaker 4: was nice, but it wasn't really real, and I I
Speaker 4: feel like it part of it kind of killed my
Speaker 4: whole desire to like do bougie things. Like now I
Speaker 4: live in like a really basic house and I live
Speaker 4: a really like guy financially conservative lifestyle because I just
Speaker 4: kind of realized from all those things that it's just
Speaker 4: not really worth it. You know.
Speaker 2: Did anyone ever take both you and your girlfriend out
Speaker 2: on dates at the same time.
Speaker 4: No, no, but my girlfriend did go on a date
Speaker 4: with her friend one time because her friend was like,
Speaker 4: I want to do this, but she was like, I
Speaker 4: don't want to do salon. So my girlfriend was like, well,
Speaker 4: we can go in a double date with some guy.
Speaker 4: And it was absolutely horrible. And I've heard of your
Speaker 4: doing that kind of thing well, because like the more
Speaker 4: people it is because like no one wants to Okay,
Speaker 4: typically speaking, mostly people are paying about like four to
Speaker 4: five hundred dollars per person, like for the dates for
Speaker 4: like an hour a date. Now you're trying to sell
Speaker 4: somebody on paying that for two people on a date,
Speaker 4: and the only people who are going to want that
Speaker 4: are going to want something afterwards, you know. So like
Speaker 4: the guy they want in the date with was just
Speaker 4: like egregious, like you know, over sexualizing them and like
Speaker 4: you know, just like creeping the fuck out, And so
Speaker 4: once they got the money, they ran off because it
Speaker 4: was just.
Speaker 2: Like a I don't you know, I guess that's one
Speaker 2: of the things I don't I don't really understand about
Speaker 2: like the the seeking arrangement thing is like these people,
Speaker 2: these people are mainly paying for like Protonic, Like it's
Speaker 2: they're playing for, like they're paying for like Platonic uh companionship, right,
Speaker 2: mm hmmm.
Speaker 4: And in some ways it's kind of like written off
Speaker 4: with that as that in some ways, but what they
Speaker 4: really wanted to prostitute. Like that's why I never really
Speaker 4: used Seeking Arrangements because it's one of those websites that
Speaker 4: I feel like is you know, like it's like this
Speaker 4: conversational game of like finding people who just want to
Speaker 4: hang out, you know, because a lot of them, like
Speaker 4: a lot of people want Seeking arrangements just want to prostitute.
Speaker 4: They just want someone to pay whatever amount of.
Speaker 2: Money yeah, and have, which is bizarre because it's like,
Speaker 2: if that's what you want, why don't you just hire
Speaker 2: a prostitute exactly exactly.
Speaker 4: But they want someone more innocent, they want someone, you know,
Speaker 4: because like.
Speaker 3: Prostitutes these prosecution websites.
Speaker 4: And then people who you thinking arrangements are like college
Speaker 4: kids and things of that nature, younger people who like
Speaker 4: don't really know about that world, that scary world of
Speaker 4: prosecution and things of that nature, so it attracts a
Speaker 4: different audience of like providers, you know, and they know
Speaker 4: where to go to find what they want, which is
Speaker 4: kind of the cur your part too, because like once
Speaker 4: I got older, it became you know, a bit different
Speaker 4: because it's like, you know, like they don't want they
Speaker 4: don't want someone who has their shit together. They don't
Speaker 4: want they don't want someone who knows what they want
Speaker 4: in life. They want a lot of these guys, which
Speaker 4: it's I mean, like you know, it's mostly guys. They
Speaker 4: just want someone who they can use, who they can manipulate,
Speaker 4: and you know, all those things, and it's just really yeah,
Speaker 4: it's really quite sad.
Speaker 2: Do did you ever go on any any dates with
Speaker 2: any sugar mamas? No?
Speaker 4: And I remember there was this one time that there
Speaker 4: was this one girl who did want to do that.
Speaker 4: But you know, like the people, the sugar mamas who
Speaker 4: were on there, they want sex because they know that
Speaker 4: they have a specific niche that they feel, which is
Speaker 4: the fact that like men who would typically do this
Speaker 4: with women are typically women to has sex with them.
Speaker 4: Maybe I don't know, maybe I'm making a rash analysis,
Speaker 4: but I've seen a few of them. But they want sex.
Speaker 4: They know what they want, and like they usually like
Speaker 4: from what I remember getting the most like grimy, just
Speaker 4: scary messages. And then also it's just like whenever I
Speaker 4: would see them, it just came off as like this
Speaker 4: like cover for sex trafficking, you know, like some like
Speaker 4: some Glad Maxwell type shit. It just kind of scared
Speaker 4: me a little bit. Or they want to like has
Speaker 4: sex with you in front of their husband or just
Speaker 4: weird shit like that. It's just it, it's too dangerous
Speaker 4: in my opinion, whenever I see a woman on.
Speaker 2: There, fascinating hmm. And now you're you're working at a
Speaker 2: desk job, what do you have any of the money
Speaker 2: saved up? Still are you? Are you doing any.
Speaker 4: We were so horribly irresponsible with that money. I mean
Speaker 4: we still have some of the items we bought for sure.
Speaker 2: What's the most expensive thing that you that you kept?
Speaker 4: Okay? Fuck, well that's okay. So I there was this
Speaker 4: one guy my girlfriend saw and we got well, you're
Speaker 4: you're an LA person. You know led Labo, right, I
Speaker 4: know what the perfumery And okay, so the Labo is
Speaker 4: this perfumery and they're based out of New York they
Speaker 4: have some places in La It's like a really like
Speaker 4: really bliegy perfumery.
Speaker 2: Like I don't know a whole lot about the local
Speaker 2: perfumeries around here.
Speaker 4: I see, Well, the big bottles are like three hundred dollars,
Speaker 4: I think. I think the guy, one of the guys,
Speaker 4: had connections and got it's five bottles, and I gave
Speaker 4: him to various friends, and I told my friends because
Speaker 4: they didn't know what was going on. I was like, yeah,
Speaker 4: I have this friend who works for let Lavo and
Speaker 4: he got in perfumes. So each one of those was
Speaker 4: like three seventy five, I think, like the big bottle,
Speaker 4: and I just gave those to various friends. And I
Speaker 4: still have one of the bottles because it's like a
Speaker 4: really big perfume. And then design her handbags and such too,
Speaker 4: like I got this, I got this Chanel bag and
Speaker 4: a few other things, and then things of that nature,
Speaker 4: just miscellaneous designer items or like sunglasses too, designer sunglasses,
Speaker 4: mostly things of that nature. Why my girlfriend got me
Speaker 4: a pair of Gucci sunglasses, but she framed it as
Speaker 4: like she wanted them, so she asked, because like the
Speaker 4: guy was like, send me your Amazon wishless and then
Speaker 4: she sent him some like a wishless item for like
Speaker 4: a bunch of the designer sunglasses, and then she was
Speaker 4: able to get me that. And that's kind of the
Speaker 4: game we used to play. Sometimes we'd be like, oh, oh,
Speaker 4: this guy gets kind of switchless.
Speaker 1: What do you want? What do you want?
Speaker 4: You know type situation, and then we talk about it
Speaker 4: together and see, okay, well we should you get this
Speaker 4: and this, and that was really fun.
Speaker 2: But when you when you become an old old man,
Speaker 2: you know, huh do you do?
Speaker 5: You?
Speaker 2: If you and if you're lonely and maybe you maybe
Speaker 2: your girlfriend's not around anymore, what would you do? Would
Speaker 2: you ever pay somebody to go on a date with you?
Speaker 2: Or would you join like an elderly tennis club.
Speaker 3: I think I would.
Speaker 4: I've and i've because I know internally I have a
Speaker 4: kink like I love older people, and so I think
Speaker 4: that it'd be like, well, I'm old, so now I
Speaker 4: can really get.
Speaker 3: The older people.
Speaker 4: But I don't know, you know, I think about that
Speaker 4: and it's just like it's different when you're I was
Speaker 4: talking to my grandma about this because we're talking about,
Speaker 4: you know, like what it's like like like like like
Speaker 4: like what sex and things that nature.
Speaker 3: Is like as you get older and older.
Speaker 4: And she was just like, well, once you get past
Speaker 4: your sixties, last seventies, it's just it's not the same,
Speaker 4: you know, and it's like you appreciate like slower things
Speaker 4: and things of that nature. Who were you talking about
Speaker 4: with my grandmother?
Speaker 5: And she was talking to.
Speaker 2: Grandma about sex?
Speaker 4: Well, yes, we're talking about how as you get older
Speaker 4: you lose that ability. She was kind of drunk, so
Speaker 4: she was just having this really open conversation, but she
Speaker 4: was talking about like how like when you get older,
Speaker 4: your your your ability to do such things is different,
Speaker 4: so like you know, you just hang out with people
Speaker 4: or like you just sit around and stuff. And and
Speaker 4: I I really can't tell what my future holds, but
Speaker 4: I know that a lot of the older guys just
Speaker 4: wanted to like breathe in youth. You know, it's something
Speaker 4: that they're not used to being around anymore because they're
Speaker 4: older and most people around them are older.
Speaker 2: So is that what they can't have is your is
Speaker 2: your grandfather a lot around?
Speaker 4: No, My both of my grandfathers on my both of
Speaker 4: my parents' side are like deadbeats.
Speaker 2: Is your grandma having a lot of sex.
Speaker 4: I don't know. She's she's always been. She she has
Speaker 4: like eight husbands I think, and like each husband has
Speaker 4: like a different kid with her, So she has like
Speaker 4: eight kids, each one or different husband. So so she's
Speaker 4: a pretty wild character.
Speaker 2: Well its look, it sounds, it sounds. It sounds like
Speaker 2: she was just bluffing when she's talking about how you
Speaker 2: can't do that much at that age. If she has
Speaker 2: eight different kids with eight different husbands.
Speaker 4: It's possible.
Speaker 2: I don't know.
Speaker 4: She's a very secretive person, and I think it's just
Speaker 4: you know, different era. She's like from the forties. Yeah,
Speaker 4: she's worn like nineteen thirty eight, so like, you know,
Speaker 4: she's from a whole different level of like conservatism.
Speaker 2: And like she's not fool things.
Speaker 4: She's cool as fuck.
Speaker 2: Yeah, she's cool.
Speaker 4: She loves talking shit about people. I come up her
Speaker 4: house sometimes and she'll just talk shit about anybody in
Speaker 4: my life, and it's just like, Wow, do you just
Speaker 4: whenever I'm gone, do you just talk about me too?
Speaker 2: Yeah?
Speaker 4: Probably, Like yeah, that's what your mothers do. They talk
Speaker 4: shit about their kids and their grandkids and stuff.
Speaker 2: But that's okay though. I don't think it matters, not
Speaker 2: like ill will. What's your name again?
Speaker 4: My name is Dante.
Speaker 2: Dante. Hmmm. Yeah, Well it's weird, like if you have
Speaker 2: if you like older people, if that's kind of your thing,
Speaker 2: it's like, what are you going to do when you
Speaker 2: get old, man then, because like if you're eighty, the
Speaker 2: best you can do is like, you know, a ninety
Speaker 2: year old maybe maybe I don't know, I mean fairly
Speaker 2: limited as men, it's a.
Speaker 4: Bit different the privileges that like, because like the thing
Speaker 4: is is like I mean, it's it's commonly talked about,
Speaker 4: like the dating pool for men kind of gets larger
Speaker 4: and larger as you get older, whereas dating fool for
Speaker 4: women get small and smaller as they get older, just
Speaker 4: due to like gender issues and like the dichotomy of
Speaker 4: sexualization of different genders and things of that nature. But yeah,
Speaker 4: because I've seen like a fair share of older people
Speaker 4: who are fucking drippy as hell. Like it's funny, like
Speaker 4: old men who are out there on the world who
Speaker 4: are just like cool as hell, and people are just like, wow,
Speaker 4: I want to be like him when I get old,
Speaker 4: you know, And.
Speaker 2: Well, Dantel, is there any other like aspect of this
Speaker 2: or anything that you want to share before we go.
Speaker 2: Let me ask the chat if they have any questions,
Speaker 2: chat anything you want to ask to Dante before we go.
Speaker 2: Nervous Squirrel says that your grandma sounds like a baddie.
Speaker 4: She is, She's pretty cool. I don't know if I
Speaker 4: can talk about my grandma's looks. That sounds pretty scary.
Speaker 2: Jamin Baker wants to know if you like doctor Pepper.
Speaker 4: I don't really like soda. Actually I drink a lot
Speaker 4: of wine though. But there was something I did want
Speaker 4: to say, and that is that if you get into
Speaker 4: this lifestyle, I see so many people who just get
Speaker 4: shipped on for doing only fans and things of that nature,
Speaker 4: or doing adult content, and it seems as though a
Speaker 4: lot of people feel like if you do that, there's
Speaker 4: no way out. And I truly think that there is
Speaker 4: a way out, because as time goes on, there's so
Speaker 4: much saturation of adult content creators, and I guess it
Speaker 4: varies on, like, you know, how popularly you become. We
Speaker 4: had a you know, relatively sizable fan base with our
Speaker 4: content creation, but you know, once we were done with it,
Speaker 4: we deleted everything, and you know, there was a little
Speaker 4: like period of time when like people would like the
Speaker 4: me and my personal Instagram everything it's that nature and
Speaker 4: be like, oh what happened. What happened and that kind
Speaker 4: of scared me. Feels like, oh shit, they know what's
Speaker 4: going on. But there is a future outside of that
Speaker 4: if that's what you want in life, and do not
Speaker 4: put yourself in a box and feel like you can't
Speaker 4: do other things in your life because you did, you.
Speaker 2: Know, having thing. Emily Bayze wants to know how was
Speaker 2: the sex with rich men.
Speaker 4: Hmm, okay, pretty good, not as vigorous. It's like trying
Speaker 4: to think of it in a non weird way. It's
Speaker 4: like whenever you like shake an old man's hand and
Speaker 4: it's like strong as thuff, but like not moving fast.
Speaker 4: That's what sex with old men is. Like it's like
Speaker 4: strong and like but like it's not embracing, you know,
Speaker 4: like it's not like scary, like how like younger men
Speaker 4: have seg where like all vicious and crazy like older
Speaker 4: men are, like they're firm, but they're and then it's
Speaker 4: it's also very conservative.
Speaker 3: You know, like they don't want to do any like
Speaker 3: weird shit. They just want to like you know.
Speaker 4: Have normal sex and not. They didn't last very long
Speaker 4: and they just they're it's very simplistic, and oftentimes for
Speaker 4: me it was in like foreign cars and such like
Speaker 4: in the back seats.
Speaker 3: Where their drivers are driving.
Speaker 4: It was kind of weird. I remember one time I was, oh, yes,
Speaker 4: that's it.
Speaker 2: Oh sure, if you if you have a story about
Speaker 2: having sex with an old man, you can you can
Speaker 2: tell it real quick, Okay.
Speaker 4: I mean I was just in the backseat of this
Speaker 4: guy's Rolls Royce. It was the Phantom, I think the
Speaker 4: four door one, and his driver was driving, and we're
Speaker 4: having sex in the back seat, and it was just
Speaker 4: really weird because there's a fucking person in the front
Speaker 4: seat and it just like that never really felt normalized
Speaker 4: to me. But it was pretty fire, honestly, and I
Speaker 4: saw him a lot.
Speaker 3: He was pretty cool. He was pretty respectful too, But yeah,
Speaker 3: that was that.
Speaker 2: Was a live Well thanks for calling Dante did this?
Speaker 2: How did it feel to talk about all this?
Speaker 4: H scary? I've never talked to I mean, this is
Speaker 4: a pretty big audience that you have, and I've never
Speaker 4: talked to anyone in my life about this, So it's
Speaker 4: nice to be It's nice to have anonymity and talk
Speaker 4: about this with somebody and so, like, you know, honestly,
Speaker 4: I just wanted to get this off my chest and
Speaker 4: talk about people and let people know about this kind
Speaker 4: of thing. And I really appreciate the platform that you
Speaker 4: provided me to do this. I really appreciate your work
Speaker 4: that you do as well.
Speaker 2: Oh thanks man, your thanks man. I haven't seen your work,
Speaker 2: but I'm sure it's it's pretty rad too.
Speaker 4: I try my best. Well, thank you very much for
Speaker 4: your time.
Speaker 2: I really appreciate this, of course, take care of Dante.
Speaker 2: By A Roll's voice. I always thought a Rolls Royce
Speaker 2: was a watch. I didn't realize it was a car.
Speaker 2: That's that's that's my only comment on that store. Sorry,
Speaker 2: thanks for calling Dante. Hello, folks, it is Lyle. We
Speaker 2: are at the end of this episode. But get this,
Speaker 2: I'm about to play a clip before we go from
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Speaker 2: you texted in because you wanted to talk about You said,
Speaker 2: my mom gave my girlfriend permission to peg me? Yemp,
Speaker 2: Now did your did your girlfriend give your mom permission
Speaker 2: to watch?
Speaker 3: No?
Speaker 2: I fucking hope not.
Speaker 4: No.
Speaker 2: Uh, tell me tell me about this, this relationship your
Speaker 2: mom has with your girlfriend where she's gay keeping your asshole.
Speaker 1: I guess. I guess I'll preface this by saying.
Speaker 7: My my, my, my mother is a is a sex
Speaker 7: love and relationship coach.
Speaker 2: Oh okay, that's got to be weird for you.
Speaker 7: Yeah, you wouldn't believe it.
Speaker 4: Everyone's like, hey, you know that kid from sex education?
Speaker 7: Oh you know it?
Speaker 2: Wait, dude, your mom heart sex education at your school?
Speaker 1: No?
Speaker 2: Fuck, okay, I'm so thankful for No. It's if she's
Speaker 2: taught with you in the class.
Speaker 7: Yeah, this was a later thing that came on, but yeah,
Speaker 7: so it started off, me and my partner and a
Speaker 7: few friends do a thing called Wish miss, which I
Speaker 7: highly suggest everyone do. It's like a secret sounds like
Speaker 7: it hasn't worked out for you.
Speaker 2: No, it's it's it's very funny.
Speaker 7: So you do a secret Santa, but you're only allowed
Speaker 7: to buy things from the site called wish.
Speaker 2: I don't know.
Speaker 7: Yeah, sure, you know, crack pipes, you know, five dollars,
Speaker 7: PlayStation five still those all that sort of ship all
Speaker 7: in the one place. It's fantastic wish Edward Collin there
Speaker 7: it is there they go. Yeah, So for my for
Speaker 7: my person, they give to me a present. They gifted
Speaker 7: me a you know obviously Sully from Monster Zinc.
Speaker 2: It was a it was a.
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Speaker 2: I have nothing else to say. I hate recording things.
Speaker 2: I think I probably fucked this recording up and restarted
Speaker 2: it at least five times, and it was really stressful.
Speaker 2: So I'm gonna go play Red Dead Redemption for six hours.
Speaker 2: Thanks again. Goes on the line making your phone calls
Speaker 2: every nine.
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