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Speaker 1: Call from Nathan Hostable. Hello, Hey, how's it going.

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Speaker 2: What's up, Nathan?

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Speaker 3: Not much?

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Speaker 1: How you doing, man?

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Speaker 2: I'm hanging in there. What's going on with you?

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Speaker 4: Uh?

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Speaker 3: Not much?

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Speaker 1: Hey? There was something I wanted to call and talk

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Speaker 1: to you about.

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Speaker 2: Yeah. Please.

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Speaker 1: So I have this weird addiction and it only happens

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Speaker 1: with my friends for a while, but then it happens

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Speaker 1: in real life where I say mon a lot, like

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Speaker 1: I'll say hey mon or thanks mon, and I can't

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Speaker 1: really get rid of it.

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Speaker 2: Like like you do, like a Jamaican mon.

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Speaker 1: I must be mon. I just don't see I did

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Speaker 1: it again.

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Speaker 2: What do you think is causing you to do this?

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Speaker 1: Probably just like repetition. I don't know. I've done it

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Speaker 1: so much that it is like literally ingrained in my mind.

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Speaker 2: Now, how how long have you been saying mon? For?

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Speaker 1: Probably like two or three years at this point.

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Speaker 2: Has anyone ever told you to stop?

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Speaker 1: Surprisingly?

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Speaker 5: No?

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Speaker 1: Do you think I think where it really started to

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Speaker 1: take its toll as we went. So we went to

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Speaker 1: the seven eleven, right, and they have these candies that

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Speaker 1: are now discontinued called mystery Monkeys, And we went into

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Speaker 1: every seven eleven trying to find them. Referring to them

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Speaker 1: as mystery monkeys, and the castiers got really confused. They

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Speaker 1: were never mad about it, though, they were just confused.

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Speaker 2: Has it ever come out in an an opportune moment,

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Speaker 2: like a date or a job interview?

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Speaker 4: Mhm.

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Speaker 1: It has definitely in work a couple of times, and

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Speaker 1: I kind of just play it off. I think we

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Speaker 1: all just kind of play it off.

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Speaker 2: But do you think it affects how people perceive you?

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Speaker 1: It's it's starting to become my personality.

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Speaker 6: I think.

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Speaker 2: Does that scare you?

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Speaker 3: It does a little bit.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, I don't want to be known as the Mond guy.

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Speaker 4: You know.

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Speaker 2: What would you rather be known as?

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Speaker 1: I want I want to I want to be known

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Speaker 1: as a historian specific specifically, uh, like a music historian.

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Speaker 1: That's what I'm studying in college right now.

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Speaker 2: So maybe the next time you think you're gonna say man,

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Speaker 2: you could bring up an interesting music history fact instead.

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Speaker 1: That's a really good idea.

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Speaker 2: Actually, do you have any for us right now to

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Speaker 2: try that?

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Speaker 1: Did you know that when the Right of Spring premiered

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Speaker 1: in the early nineteen hundreds there were riots?

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Speaker 2: That's pretty interesting man.

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Speaker 1: Indeed, Well, hey, man, I appreciate the advice. I've got

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Speaker 1: to get going to everyone else out there. Just don't

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Speaker 1: even start saying mon it won't end.

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Speaker 2: Thank you for calling.

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Speaker 1: Thank you, gek.

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Speaker 4: All from Hello, No fucking way.

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Speaker 2: What's going on?

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Speaker 1: Uh?

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Speaker 3: Not much? What's going on with you?

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Speaker 4: Uh?

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Speaker 2: Your name is Tofer something like that. All right? What's

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Speaker 2: going on with you?

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Speaker 3: Just got off work and I've been trying to call

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Speaker 3: you for a long time. I'm a little nervous smoking

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Speaker 3: a lie.

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Speaker 2: Oh shit, Well that's exciting. Being nervous is exciting, you know.

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Speaker 2: It means there's your body is telling you that, uh,

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Speaker 2: something important is happening. I mean, I don't know if

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Speaker 2: this is important.

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Speaker 3: But I'm just excited to talk to you.

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Speaker 2: I'm excited to talk to you, Tafer. What's going on?

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Speaker 3: I wonder if I smoke too much weed?

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Speaker 2: I wonder that myself. Let's talk. What's how often you

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Speaker 2: smoking weed?

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Speaker 4: Mm hmmm?

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Speaker 3: Like every couple hours?

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Speaker 2: All right. You know what's funny is I always forget

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Speaker 2: the weed is bad for you. I've talked about this

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Speaker 2: a bunch of times, but I always forget what it is.

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Speaker 4: That's the thing.

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Speaker 2: It's shut up. It's shut up. Shut up is not

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Speaker 2: it's not good, it's not. I don't care what Reddit says,

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Speaker 2: and I listen. I listen. I smoke weed every single day.

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Speaker 2: I will not say that it's good for.

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Speaker 3: You, Okay, I don't. Maybe it's not good for like

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Speaker 3: your organs, but I truly believe that it helps me mentally, okay,

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Speaker 3: and help me. And it helps me. So I got

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Speaker 3: really bad ADHD and I can't like think or like

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Speaker 3: get a get like a solid thought out or like

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Speaker 3: I'll stutter. But then I get high, and then I

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Speaker 3: can think about one thing at a time and I

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Speaker 3: can have like a solid conversation and it probably wouldn't het

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Speaker 3: me to get high right now?

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Speaker 1: Right?

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Speaker 2: Are you not high? Right now? Already? You said you

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Speaker 2: smoke every few hours.

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Speaker 3: Well yeah, but it's been probably like an hour and

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Speaker 3: a half or an hour, right.

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Speaker 2: I don't know, man, I'm not I'm not a I'm

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Speaker 2: not a doctor. I don't h I don't know what.

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Speaker 3: Uh yeah, you know I know that you you know

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Speaker 3: this is one I knew you were going to say this.

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Speaker 2: What that I'm not a doctor?

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Speaker 3: Yeah, I thought you might say this.

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Speaker 2: Tell me tell me, yeah, yeah, do you Okay, So

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Speaker 2: tell me? You thought I was going to say, what

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Speaker 2: were you going to say in response to what you

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Speaker 2: thought I was going to say?

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Speaker 6: Oh?

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Speaker 3: Fuck, I don't think that went that far. Yeah, no,

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Speaker 3: I definitely didn't go that far.

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Speaker 2: Mm hmmm mm hmm.

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Speaker 3: Maybe I didn't. I didn't think I had that you

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Speaker 3: were going to say that, But when you said it,

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Speaker 3: I was like, oh, yeah, definitely something you would say.

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Speaker 2: Well, what I mean? Do you do you feel as

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Speaker 2: though weed is negatively impacting your life?

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Speaker 3: It's negatively impacting my bank account?

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Speaker 6: Yeah?

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Speaker 2: How often much money is beating on weed?

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Speaker 3: Like rent? Like eightsand bucks a month. That used to me,

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Speaker 3: what stay do you in? What's stay in Washington State?

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Speaker 2: All right? Is it legal there?

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Speaker 3: Yeah? We got good stuff here. It's like the one

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Speaker 3: of the first dates to become legal.

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Speaker 2: How much we do smoking to day?

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Speaker 3: Well? I smoked dabs because I've smoked like every day

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Speaker 3: for like seven years, and so that we stopp affecting

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Speaker 3: me after a few years or like, man, it affects me,

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Speaker 3: but it doesn't get me like just high as I

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Speaker 3: want to be. So I smoked dabs. I have a

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Speaker 3: puff co Have you ever heard of a puff co peak?

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Speaker 2: A puff coo peak?

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Speaker 3: Dude, if you do you have a dab or do

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Speaker 3: you only smoke reed?

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Speaker 2: I mean I smoke like the pins. I haven't. I

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Speaker 2: haven't done the whole dab with the nail and the

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Speaker 2: torch thing in a long time.

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Speaker 3: Yeah. But the puff Coo is like a portable vaporizer

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Speaker 3: and it's got like a battery in there and you

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Speaker 3: just go a little bull you put the dabs in

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Speaker 3: there and then you it just stays in the cup

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Speaker 3: holder of my car and it just gets used like obsessively.

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Speaker 2: Well all right, I mean, so how old are you?

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Speaker 3: I'm twenty two?

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Speaker 2: Okay? Do you what do you do in life?

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Speaker 3: Right now? I paint houses and it sucks. I hate

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Speaker 3: my job.

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Speaker 2: What do you what would you rather be doing?

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Speaker 3: That's the thing. I don't really have, like too much

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Speaker 3: passions like I honestly, I'm pretty passionate about weed, but

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Speaker 3: it's hard to get into the profession. I also really

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Speaker 3: really travel without money, and I can't make money working

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Speaker 3: with weeds.

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Speaker 2: Where do you Where would you like to go?

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Speaker 6: Uh?

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Speaker 3: Next on my list is like Japan and Africa. I

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Speaker 3: want to go to those two places. I've been to

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Speaker 3: like almost twenty countries. Cool, but you've got to be careful.

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Speaker 3: Bringing weed to the countries, okay, gets you in trouble.

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Speaker 2: Oh yeah, like bring weed into Japan.

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Speaker 3: Mm hmmm.

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Speaker 2: I want to say I want to say Paul McCartney

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Speaker 2: did that. I want to say, Paul McCartney did that

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Speaker 2: and it didn't work out, didn't get in trouble. Paul McCartney. Yeah,

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Speaker 2: he got caught, I think so, But he's you know,

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Speaker 2: he's Paul McCartney's so nothing bad can ever happen to him.

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Speaker 3: Well, that's what they said about Brittany Griner.

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Speaker 2: I don't know who that is. Well, oh, that's the

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Speaker 2: fucking that way. That's the lady who got arrested in

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Speaker 2: Russia for the weed pen right.

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Speaker 3: Yeah.

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Speaker 2: I think about her all the time. I think about

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Speaker 2: her all the time, actually, because I'm always bringing a

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Speaker 2: weed pen places.

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Speaker 3: But I actually got arrested for international drug smuggling.

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Speaker 2: Where did you smuggle drugs?

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Speaker 3: So I didn't, I didn't. I got arrested for it,

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Speaker 3: but I didn't actually do it.

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Speaker 2: Why tell me that story?

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Speaker 3: Okay, So I was living in Norway at the time

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Speaker 3: and I made a bad decision. I was on like

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Speaker 3: some substances, and I couldn't afford to pay for them,

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Speaker 3: and so the guy who provided them said, Okay, you

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Speaker 3: don't got to pay if I can order like another

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Speaker 3: package to your name, you know, on the on the

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Speaker 3: dark side of the internet. I didn't tell anybody about

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Speaker 3: this for like four years, but I think I'm safe now.

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Speaker 3: I thought they tapped my phone for like a year.

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Speaker 3: I didn't talked about it, but okay, anyways, Uh where

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Speaker 3: was I was that idho's talking out? Oh yeah, But

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Speaker 3: then the package came and uh it was like three

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Speaker 3: weeks later and he was like and then the package came,

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Speaker 3: but it got complicated at the border because uh the

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Speaker 3: and they said, hey, man, you have a warrant to

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Speaker 3: search your phone and your room and like all of

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Speaker 3: your belongings that you have in the country. Well fuck

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Speaker 3: but and so they took me away in the handcuffs

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Speaker 3: and they interrogated me. They were like yelling at me

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Speaker 3: in Norwegient for like four hours, like we know you

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Speaker 3: did it, like like just tell us or like and

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Speaker 3: I was like, I didn't do I didn't do it. Okay,

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Speaker 3: well tell us who did it and then we'll like

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Speaker 3: take down your sentence. So I don't know, but then

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Speaker 3: there's no proof. So I didn't get arrested or so

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Speaker 3: I didn't go to jail. But it was like one

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Speaker 3: of the scariest, pretty scary.

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Speaker 2: What were you doing living in Norway?

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Speaker 3: Let's go to school there?

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Speaker 2: Okay after high school.

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Speaker 3: I moved there for like a few months to because

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Speaker 3: I didn't just for fun.

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Speaker 2: All right, So you're a you're a traveling man.

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Speaker 3: I try to be. I haven't gone in like a year.

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Speaker 2: Okay, now you're just now. Now you live in Washington

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Speaker 3: Yeah, I guess I do have a girlfriend.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, she's cool. But that's stuck. Man, that's fucked up too.

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Speaker 3: Well, like, Okay, she's super cool and like she's actually dope.

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Speaker 2: How did you meet this person.

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Speaker 2: a fuck who she's had sex with? Before? Well?

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Speaker 3: Yeah, but that's like I don't know because that's like

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Speaker 2: Know, Okay, I feel like, look, this is I mean,

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Speaker 3: No, that's the thing I do. Like I don't think

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Speaker 3: This one stumped me too.

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Speaker 2: I don't know, you know, talking to you. You know,

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Speaker 3: Like is it a deal breaker?

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Speaker 3: Yeah, but it's like you took her virginity, which makes it.

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Speaker 2: Like why here's the why?

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Speaker 3: I just.

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Speaker 2: Whatever. Everyone's I get that guys have hang ups about things,

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Speaker 2: why are you over complicating this with the fact that

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Speaker 3: Like four or five years, like it was a while ago.

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Speaker 2: Okay, so then what's the I don't get while you're

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Speaker 3: I'm an overstiger man. My brain's always moving like a

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Speaker 2: Is it the weed? What is it the weed?

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Speaker 3: No, the weed calms it down. It's the eighth I

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Speaker 2: But you should see a real therapist at some point.

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Speaker 2: I have you ever thought about doing that?

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Speaker 3: No, people have, like my mom's always told me too,

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Speaker 3: like my like people have told me to before family.

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Speaker 3: I don't know about that one. I don't really like

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Speaker 2: Well, what are you going to do? Man?

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Speaker 3: Might take a little longer. What am I gonna do?

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Speaker 4: With the Yeah?

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Speaker 2: What are you gonna do?

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Speaker 3: Just?

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Speaker 2: What do you I do?

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Speaker 3: Just?

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Speaker 2: What are you gonna do? We've we've talked about a

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Speaker 2: lot of stuff. We've talked about your relationship, We've talked

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Speaker 3: I mean, I'm probably gonna go smoke weed?

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Speaker 2: Why? For some reason I thought that you would say that.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, I mean, I don't know what else to do.

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Speaker 2: Is there anything else you wanted to And I'm not

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Speaker 3: Damn? I mean probably, but I'm not gonna think of

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Speaker 3: the phone. I'm gonna be like, damn, what should happen this?

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Speaker 3: But no, it's okay, I guess my life.

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Speaker 2: Okay, try not to try it to hold yourself back

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Speaker 2: with like random bullshit. If something's between you and being

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Speaker 2: not just like a bullshit thing. Is that is that?

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Speaker 2: Is that makes sense? Is that a fair thing?

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Speaker 6: Yeah?

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Speaker 3: No, I mean yeah, that's fair. I overthink a lot

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Speaker 3: and like make up things that get in the way

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Speaker 2: The b too, man, And I'm sure a lot of

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Speaker 4: Well.

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Speaker 3: On that note, I hope you get You're gonna ask

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Speaker 3: me if I have anything else to say.

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Speaker 2: To the people the computer, Yeah, is there anything else

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Speaker 3: I hope that everybody doesn't overthink too much and gets

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Speaker 2: Have a good rest of your entire life, my friends.

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Speaker 3: Thank you, Go have a good night.

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Speaker 2: Hi. How are you?

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Speaker 6: Hi? I'm good.

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Speaker 3: How are you?

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Speaker 2: I'm doing okay? What's going on?

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Speaker 1: Well?

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Speaker 2: At this moment?

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Speaker 6: I am feeding my son of little apples that I

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00:22:05,119 --> 00:22:08,560
Speaker 6: baked them in the oven with butter and cinnamon and yeah,

450
00:22:08,600 --> 00:22:11,120
Speaker 6: and they're all soft and me like, some how are you?

451
00:22:11,960 --> 00:22:15,840
Speaker 2: That sounds very delicious? I'm okay. I'm actually I'm feeling

452
00:22:16,359 --> 00:22:19,240
Speaker 2: better today than I have been. So that's good.

453
00:22:19,840 --> 00:22:21,320
Speaker 6: That's good. What's different about today?

454
00:22:21,800 --> 00:22:28,200
Speaker 2: It is I you know, I am well. I left

455
00:22:28,280 --> 00:22:32,359
Speaker 2: my fucking room to go be in places that are

456
00:22:32,400 --> 00:22:38,080
Speaker 2: not my room. I did some pushups. I meditated for

457
00:22:38,160 --> 00:22:41,680
Speaker 2: like a second, feeling good, working on myself.

458
00:22:42,400 --> 00:22:42,840
Speaker 4: That's good.

459
00:22:43,040 --> 00:22:46,439
Speaker 6: Meditating is great once you really start to get into it,

460
00:22:46,520 --> 00:22:53,320
Speaker 6: for I think just relaxing and your mental kind of focus.

461
00:22:54,560 --> 00:22:58,360
Speaker 2: So, yeah, what is your name? My name is Sophia,

462
00:22:59,280 --> 00:23:03,000
Speaker 2: So Sophia U. What's up with you? Man? Is there

463
00:23:03,000 --> 00:23:05,200
Speaker 2: anything in particular you called in to want to talk?

464
00:23:05,200 --> 00:23:07,360
Speaker 2: About Yeah, so.

465
00:23:10,080 --> 00:23:12,679
Speaker 6: I hope no one I know watches a stream, but

466
00:23:14,160 --> 00:23:18,040
Speaker 6: my fiance and I we a while ago.

467
00:23:18,880 --> 00:23:19,480
Speaker 4: Uh we.

468
00:23:21,119 --> 00:23:28,120
Speaker 6: Gosh, this is weird to talk about. We made the

469
00:23:28,119 --> 00:23:32,840
Speaker 6: decision to obviously have a baby. But the thing about

470
00:23:32,840 --> 00:23:41,200
Speaker 6: that is we told my parents that that he was

471
00:23:41,240 --> 00:23:45,600
Speaker 6: an accident and I had at the time, I had

472
00:23:45,640 --> 00:23:48,119
Speaker 6: an iu D and everything. I don't know if you

473
00:23:48,160 --> 00:23:51,720
Speaker 6: know when that form of birth control what that really is?

474
00:23:51,760 --> 00:23:53,040
Speaker 6: Do you know what an idea? Yeah?

475
00:23:53,080 --> 00:23:55,520
Speaker 3: Sick and uh, the.

476
00:23:55,560 --> 00:23:58,600
Speaker 6: Copper IUD is like ninety nine percent effective. And we

477
00:23:58,680 --> 00:24:00,760
Speaker 6: had said that I was at once for sense that

478
00:24:01,080 --> 00:24:05,679
Speaker 6: actually did get pregnant off of the non hormonal ID

479
00:24:06,040 --> 00:24:09,680
Speaker 6: and my son is not six months and they think

480
00:24:09,760 --> 00:24:12,440
Speaker 6: that he is a miracle from God.

481
00:24:14,480 --> 00:24:14,920
Speaker 2: Uh.

482
00:24:15,000 --> 00:24:18,800
Speaker 6: Yeah, we don't know when or if we are ever

483
00:24:18,840 --> 00:24:20,879
Speaker 6: going to tell my parents or how we would go

484
00:24:20,960 --> 00:24:24,400
Speaker 6: about that. But yeah, so we've been just kind of

485
00:24:24,520 --> 00:24:28,240
Speaker 6: living off of this lie for a while. And like

486
00:24:28,240 --> 00:24:31,440
Speaker 6: the thing about that is, we told my parents in

487
00:24:31,480 --> 00:24:37,080
Speaker 6: like November that I was pregnant, and I didn't actually

488
00:24:37,160 --> 00:24:41,680
Speaker 6: get pregnant until January. And I don't know like if

489
00:24:41,720 --> 00:24:43,719
Speaker 6: they know they ever like did the math in their

490
00:24:43,760 --> 00:24:47,320
Speaker 6: head and like just didn't care, or if they just

491
00:24:47,840 --> 00:24:51,439
Speaker 6: never thought twice about it. And I had him in August.

492
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Speaker 2: So so you convinced your parents that you're like the

493
00:24:55,040 --> 00:24:58,800
Speaker 2: virgin Mary and that you're a child that like your

494
00:24:58,880 --> 00:25:00,880
Speaker 2: child is a gift from God or something.

495
00:25:01,480 --> 00:25:05,240
Speaker 6: Yeah, we just say that, but that's how they took it.

496
00:25:06,680 --> 00:25:07,720
Speaker 2: Here's what I don't understand.

497
00:25:07,720 --> 00:25:10,679
Speaker 6: So the funny thing is we do actually know people

498
00:25:10,760 --> 00:25:14,440
Speaker 6: that have gotten pregnant off of the IUD, so it's

499
00:25:14,440 --> 00:25:19,240
Speaker 6: not something that's like completely crazy, but because it has happened,

500
00:25:20,920 --> 00:25:24,240
Speaker 6: so we just kind of took that and used it

501
00:25:24,240 --> 00:25:24,720
Speaker 6: as your own.

502
00:25:25,720 --> 00:25:28,680
Speaker 2: Really is the IUD only Is it like hand sanitizer

503
00:25:28,680 --> 00:25:31,120
Speaker 2: where it's only ninety nine point nine percent effective?

504
00:25:31,880 --> 00:25:34,919
Speaker 6: Yeah, especially if it's non hormonal. If it moves it,

505
00:25:35,240 --> 00:25:39,040
Speaker 6: you're very likely to get pregnant, so yeah, versus a

506
00:25:39,080 --> 00:25:41,720
Speaker 6: hormonal one, which is even more effective. But I just

507
00:25:41,800 --> 00:25:45,119
Speaker 6: had long storce or I've had a bad reaction to

508
00:25:45,320 --> 00:25:49,080
Speaker 6: hormonal brick controls, and so I stopt with the non

509
00:25:49,080 --> 00:25:50,240
Speaker 6: hormonal IUD.

510
00:25:52,440 --> 00:25:55,920
Speaker 2: So okay, So I don't understand. Why did you tell

511
00:25:55,960 --> 00:25:58,400
Speaker 2: them that it was an accident. What was the point

512
00:25:58,440 --> 00:25:58,560
Speaker 2: of that?

513
00:26:00,000 --> 00:26:03,800
Speaker 6: Because so I am a twenty one years old. I'm

514
00:26:03,800 --> 00:26:07,680
Speaker 6: pretty young, and so was my fiance. And I found

515
00:26:07,720 --> 00:26:11,800
Speaker 6: my fiance is even younger than I am, and he

516
00:26:12,160 --> 00:26:14,520
Speaker 6: so I got pregnant when I was twenty he got

517
00:26:14,640 --> 00:26:20,040
Speaker 6: and he you know, became a going soon to be

518
00:26:20,080 --> 00:26:26,359
Speaker 6: father at nineteen. And my parents, so.

519
00:26:25,280 --> 00:26:29,120
Speaker 2: They are very like.

520
00:26:30,920 --> 00:26:32,880
Speaker 6: They wanted me to live my life the way they

521
00:26:32,960 --> 00:26:34,880
Speaker 6: wanted me to live my life, you know what I mean.

522
00:26:35,520 --> 00:26:38,960
Speaker 6: And when I was in college, I'm currently going to

523
00:26:39,000 --> 00:26:42,160
Speaker 6: a SEC, but I was going to a university originally

524
00:26:42,200 --> 00:26:45,240
Speaker 6: because they just really really wanted me to go to university.

525
00:26:45,240 --> 00:26:47,600
Speaker 6: I don't think they even really knew what that meant.

526
00:26:47,760 --> 00:26:49,960
Speaker 6: They just were like college, college, college, college, you need

527
00:26:49,960 --> 00:26:52,520
Speaker 6: to go to college here when they're not not going

528
00:26:52,520 --> 00:26:56,800
Speaker 6: to go to college. And they paid for it, which

529
00:26:56,840 --> 00:27:00,480
Speaker 6: is of course very kind of them and generous to

530
00:27:00,720 --> 00:27:04,040
Speaker 6: be wanting a good future for me. But I didn't

531
00:27:04,080 --> 00:27:06,800
Speaker 6: even know what I wanted to do at a university.

532
00:27:07,040 --> 00:27:11,679
Speaker 6: And I've been with my now fiance for going on

533
00:27:11,760 --> 00:27:18,280
Speaker 6: three years, and we wanted to move in like my

534
00:27:18,359 --> 00:27:22,560
Speaker 6: freshman year in college and or like at least the

535
00:27:22,600 --> 00:27:24,439
Speaker 6: next year. We were talking about it when I was

536
00:27:24,440 --> 00:27:26,919
Speaker 6: a freshman and I had told my mom and she

537
00:27:27,240 --> 00:27:30,879
Speaker 6: just slipped the fuck out and she was like, absolutely not,

538
00:27:30,960 --> 00:27:33,440
Speaker 6: You're not doing this. And I think I was twenty

539
00:27:33,600 --> 00:27:39,200
Speaker 6: nineteen twenty at the time, and yeah, so that's kind

540
00:27:39,240 --> 00:27:42,760
Speaker 6: of like a small thing that had that had happened.

541
00:27:42,920 --> 00:27:49,000
Speaker 6: And because I also knew that they would never they

542
00:27:49,040 --> 00:27:52,480
Speaker 6: would never approve of me wanting a child so young,

543
00:27:53,600 --> 00:27:56,080
Speaker 6: and so this is the only other way to go

544
00:27:56,119 --> 00:27:58,680
Speaker 6: about it. And it's kind of we're kind of glad

545
00:27:58,680 --> 00:28:03,080
Speaker 6: that we told them early on, even lying about it,

546
00:28:03,240 --> 00:28:07,679
Speaker 6: because they ended up having we had several fights with

547
00:28:07,680 --> 00:28:09,600
Speaker 6: them about the way I wanted to raise my child

548
00:28:09,920 --> 00:28:13,000
Speaker 6: and because they thought that the way I wanted to

549
00:28:13,080 --> 00:28:14,080
Speaker 6: raise them was incorrect.

550
00:28:14,760 --> 00:28:17,199
Speaker 2: So so so what I'm I guess what I'm kind

551
00:28:17,240 --> 00:28:19,879
Speaker 2: of curious about is, uh so you told them that

552
00:28:19,920 --> 00:28:24,880
Speaker 2: your child was an accident because you felt like that

553
00:28:25,080 --> 00:28:31,120
Speaker 2: would uh like take the blame off of you for

554
00:28:31,320 --> 00:28:34,760
Speaker 2: deciding to have a kid, Yeah, a little bit, and

555
00:28:35,240 --> 00:28:38,000
Speaker 2: that and that the idea so so so in your mind,

556
00:28:38,320 --> 00:28:42,000
Speaker 2: So in your mind, the idea for your parents that

557
00:28:42,080 --> 00:28:45,600
Speaker 2: you kind of just messed up and got pregnant and

558
00:28:45,680 --> 00:28:48,880
Speaker 2: are following through with it is is an easier pill

559
00:28:48,960 --> 00:28:54,640
Speaker 2: for them to swallow than me and my fiance decided

560
00:28:54,680 --> 00:28:55,920
Speaker 2: to have a kid so young.

561
00:28:56,760 --> 00:29:00,000
Speaker 6: Yeah and yeah, yeah, and we didn't even tell them

562
00:29:00,040 --> 00:29:02,480
Speaker 6: that we were, you know, even engaged at that time.

563
00:29:02,640 --> 00:29:06,840
Speaker 6: My mom and dad were like, uh, they were like, oh, like,

564
00:29:06,880 --> 00:29:08,320
Speaker 6: do you guys mean to get married because we were

565
00:29:08,320 --> 00:29:10,800
Speaker 6: talking about getting eloped and so they even tried to

566
00:29:10,800 --> 00:29:14,160
Speaker 6: throw a whole wedding for us, and we were going

567
00:29:14,160 --> 00:29:16,920
Speaker 6: to we were planning on getting married in Hawaii and

568
00:29:17,080 --> 00:29:19,200
Speaker 6: all this stuff when I was about five months pregnant.

569
00:29:19,760 --> 00:29:22,080
Speaker 6: But the thing about this anyways, that's kind of at.

570
00:29:21,960 --> 00:29:27,239
Speaker 2: The point, Okay, well let me ask you this. I mean,

571
00:29:27,280 --> 00:29:29,120
Speaker 2: how are you How are you doing with the kid?

572
00:29:29,160 --> 00:29:29,440
Speaker 4: Are you?

573
00:29:29,640 --> 00:29:30,440
Speaker 2: How old is the kid?

574
00:29:31,240 --> 00:29:34,040
Speaker 6: He's about he's going to be seven months. He's doing

575
00:29:34,080 --> 00:29:37,720
Speaker 6: phenomenal as well. We my fiance supports is really well,

576
00:29:37,800 --> 00:29:39,160
Speaker 6: we're all very happy and healthy.

577
00:29:40,640 --> 00:29:42,400
Speaker 2: So you're you're happy with your decision?

578
00:29:43,600 --> 00:29:44,400
Speaker 6: Yeah, we are.

579
00:29:45,040 --> 00:29:45,320
Speaker 2: Okay.

580
00:29:45,360 --> 00:29:48,280
Speaker 6: We kind of kind of like a think to ourselves

581
00:29:48,280 --> 00:29:49,960
Speaker 6: and every now and they'm like, damn, we maybe we

582
00:29:50,000 --> 00:29:51,920
Speaker 6: should have waited. But we always see the other side,

583
00:29:52,000 --> 00:29:55,080
Speaker 6: like we would rather be young parents that way when

584
00:29:55,680 --> 00:29:57,880
Speaker 6: our child is even like five.

585
00:29:57,720 --> 00:29:58,440
Speaker 3: Six years old.

586
00:29:58,600 --> 00:30:00,800
Speaker 6: My mom and dad were old, or when they had me,

587
00:30:01,360 --> 00:30:06,080
Speaker 6: they were my mom was over thirty, my dad was

588
00:30:06,920 --> 00:30:11,440
Speaker 6: forty uh so, And I just remember when I was young,

589
00:30:11,480 --> 00:30:13,280
Speaker 6: like my mom my dad had a bad back, and

590
00:30:13,400 --> 00:30:15,920
Speaker 6: you know what I mean, And you're going to go

591
00:30:15,920 --> 00:30:17,960
Speaker 6: on the roller coasters with me, You're like, my mom

592
00:30:18,520 --> 00:30:21,200
Speaker 6: was just you know, not wanting to do some of

593
00:30:21,200 --> 00:30:22,400
Speaker 6: the things that I wanted to do when I was

594
00:30:22,440 --> 00:30:25,480
Speaker 6: a kid, like running around with doing this or this

595
00:30:25,600 --> 00:30:28,960
Speaker 6: is and that kind of thing. So, okay, that decision

596
00:30:29,040 --> 00:30:33,520
Speaker 6: of doing raising a child early and then when we're

597
00:30:33,520 --> 00:30:37,200
Speaker 6: like forty, he's going to be twenty and we'll be

598
00:30:37,240 --> 00:30:39,400
Speaker 6: able to do our own thing as well, have the

599
00:30:39,440 --> 00:30:41,120
Speaker 6: rest of our lives to do things that we want

600
00:30:41,160 --> 00:30:45,440
Speaker 6: to do. And we felt secure up to have a child.

601
00:30:46,360 --> 00:30:52,080
Speaker 2: Okay, okay, well that's good that you're happy with your decision.

602
00:30:53,080 --> 00:30:56,920
Speaker 2: So I mean, look like, I mean, are you are

603
00:30:56,960 --> 00:31:00,640
Speaker 2: you having like stress over the fact that your mom

604
00:31:00,720 --> 00:31:03,920
Speaker 2: doesn't know that you you made the decision to have

605
00:31:03,920 --> 00:31:05,160
Speaker 2: the baby.

606
00:31:06,200 --> 00:31:09,120
Speaker 6: I guess I kind of have some guilts sometimes about

607
00:31:09,320 --> 00:31:14,360
Speaker 6: lying to her, But I don't know how she would

608
00:31:14,360 --> 00:31:17,640
Speaker 6: have taken it if I had purposely, if I had

609
00:31:17,640 --> 00:31:19,920
Speaker 6: told her I purposely had a had a child, rather

610
00:31:19,960 --> 00:31:22,320
Speaker 6: than oh yeah, I remember the thing I was gonna say.

611
00:31:22,480 --> 00:31:25,080
Speaker 6: She almost sees it as like a noble thing because like,

612
00:31:26,200 --> 00:31:30,480
Speaker 6: because he seems like an accident. I it's looks it

613
00:31:30,520 --> 00:31:34,560
Speaker 6: looks noble because like, Okay, I'm taking this and I'm

614
00:31:35,640 --> 00:31:38,160
Speaker 6: I'm having a child now and I'm taking the responsibility,

615
00:31:38,360 --> 00:31:38,920
Speaker 6: rather than.

616
00:31:40,520 --> 00:31:40,960
Speaker 5: I don't know.

617
00:31:41,240 --> 00:31:43,720
Speaker 6: I don't know, but she's after I told her that

618
00:31:43,840 --> 00:31:47,480
Speaker 6: I am deciding on keeping the child my son, now

619
00:31:48,600 --> 00:31:51,800
Speaker 6: that she would her and my father would always be like, oh, like,

620
00:31:51,840 --> 00:31:54,200
Speaker 6: we're so proud of you for taking this on and

621
00:31:54,240 --> 00:31:57,320
Speaker 6: making this decision, and uh yeah, yeah.

622
00:31:58,440 --> 00:32:05,040
Speaker 2: Mm hmmmm. Well the reason why I asked if it

623
00:32:05,040 --> 00:32:06,520
Speaker 2: makes you feel a stressed, it's like, I mean, do

624
00:32:06,520 --> 00:32:08,920
Speaker 2: you think it would make you feel better to just

625
00:32:08,960 --> 00:32:09,800
Speaker 2: tell them the truth?

626
00:32:13,240 --> 00:32:18,280
Speaker 6: I don't know. I think, sorry, my banging his feet

627
00:32:18,280 --> 00:32:24,680
Speaker 6: against his little share, but it's sorry.

628
00:32:24,720 --> 00:32:27,760
Speaker 2: I could you repeat the question, Do you would it

629
00:32:27,880 --> 00:32:29,520
Speaker 2: make you feel better to tell them the truth?

630
00:32:31,120 --> 00:32:35,160
Speaker 6: I don't know. I think, uh, it would take stress

631
00:32:35,200 --> 00:32:39,440
Speaker 6: off my mental in the long run, but right now,

632
00:32:40,760 --> 00:32:44,120
Speaker 6: it's nice having a decent relationship with my parents. I

633
00:32:44,120 --> 00:32:46,720
Speaker 6: feel like that would really put a it would fracture

634
00:32:46,720 --> 00:32:52,120
Speaker 6: our relationship really, because I've when I was younger, I

635
00:32:52,200 --> 00:32:54,760
Speaker 6: was like so complacent with my parents and it would

636
00:32:54,800 --> 00:32:58,080
Speaker 6: just do really whatever they told me. And when I

637
00:32:58,080 --> 00:33:00,880
Speaker 6: got a little bit older to you know, having a

638
00:33:00,920 --> 00:33:04,320
Speaker 6: mind of my own, and I think this would really

639
00:33:04,920 --> 00:33:06,240
Speaker 6: kind of set them over the edge.

640
00:33:06,480 --> 00:33:12,400
Speaker 2: And sorry, what is he so pissed off about. I

641
00:33:12,440 --> 00:33:15,400
Speaker 2: don't understand why babies are. They got a great life.

642
00:33:15,440 --> 00:33:17,880
Speaker 2: I don't know what they're upset about. Yeah, you made

643
00:33:17,920 --> 00:33:20,800
Speaker 2: him apples.

644
00:33:21,200 --> 00:33:24,240
Speaker 6: He's actually so happy about the apples that he's saying

645
00:33:24,240 --> 00:33:25,120
Speaker 6: the feet against the chair.

646
00:33:27,320 --> 00:33:34,720
Speaker 2: But I'm sorry, okay, so okay, So so you the

647
00:33:35,320 --> 00:33:37,000
Speaker 2: question of whether or not to tell them the truth.

648
00:33:37,920 --> 00:33:40,440
Speaker 6: Yeah, yeah, I don't know.

649
00:33:40,880 --> 00:33:41,320
Speaker 3: I don't know.

650
00:33:41,680 --> 00:33:44,959
Speaker 6: Uh now, I don't think so, because they are just

651
00:33:44,960 --> 00:33:49,320
Speaker 6: so happy that he's here that yeah, they take every

652
00:33:49,360 --> 00:33:53,400
Speaker 6: opportunity to see him and there's no really stress on

653
00:33:53,880 --> 00:33:55,400
Speaker 6: any of us. But I don't know if that's like

654
00:33:55,600 --> 00:34:00,760
Speaker 6: just if it's a moral thing to really live out

655
00:34:00,800 --> 00:34:05,640
Speaker 6: the rest of their lives with this lie that their

656
00:34:05,640 --> 00:34:09,000
Speaker 6: grandson with a miracle, that he made it.

657
00:34:08,880 --> 00:34:09,239
Speaker 3: Through the I.

658
00:34:11,200 --> 00:34:13,920
Speaker 2: Mean, I guess in my look, I guess in my head,

659
00:34:15,040 --> 00:34:22,560
Speaker 2: like to declare yourself mature enough at twenty one to

660
00:34:22,640 --> 00:34:25,359
Speaker 2: have a kid, it's like a big thing to do.

661
00:34:25,800 --> 00:34:29,560
Speaker 2: It's a confident thing to do. I'm glad. I look,

662
00:34:31,040 --> 00:34:34,440
Speaker 2: I'm glad it worked out for you. From how it sounds,

663
00:34:34,640 --> 00:34:38,360
Speaker 2: I'm happy about that. And so if you have the

664
00:34:38,480 --> 00:34:45,120
Speaker 2: confidence at that age to decide you want to have

665
00:34:45,160 --> 00:34:51,120
Speaker 2: a kid, you know, I look, I'm not I don't

666
00:34:51,120 --> 00:34:53,680
Speaker 2: want to tell you what to do, but I would

667
00:34:53,760 --> 00:35:00,160
Speaker 2: think you would have a similar confidence to just to

668
00:35:00,160 --> 00:35:02,120
Speaker 2: live your life how you want to live it with,

669
00:35:02,280 --> 00:35:07,520
Speaker 2: you know, truthfully and not be so you know, scared

670
00:35:07,520 --> 00:35:09,320
Speaker 2: of what your parents might think.

671
00:35:10,360 --> 00:35:14,040
Speaker 6: Yeah, yeah, yeah, that's true.

672
00:35:14,840 --> 00:35:21,600
Speaker 2: But again, you know, it doesn't sound like you're being

673
00:35:21,680 --> 00:35:24,480
Speaker 2: eaten alive every night by the fact that your parents

674
00:35:24,520 --> 00:35:29,120
Speaker 2: think your kid was an accident. But so then you know, again,

675
00:35:29,200 --> 00:35:30,759
Speaker 2: the decisions up to you doesn't sound like a very

676
00:35:30,760 --> 00:35:32,640
Speaker 2: dire thing, right.

677
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Speaker 6: I guess it's just a story I kind of want

678
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Speaker 6: to talk about too.

679
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Speaker 2: It's very well, it's very interesting because it's just a

680
00:35:38,600 --> 00:35:42,799
Speaker 2: subtle like I even through talking about it, I still

681
00:35:42,800 --> 00:35:44,919
Speaker 2: don't fully understand.

682
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Speaker 6: Well, you have questions all answer or I can still

683
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Speaker 6: in any blanks I that I missed that you feel

684
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Speaker 6: like I missed?

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Speaker 2: What is your name again, Sophia, Sophia, Well, Sophilis. I'm

686
00:36:01,239 --> 00:36:03,240
Speaker 2: glad that. I'm glad that your decision sounds like it

687
00:36:03,239 --> 00:36:07,480
Speaker 2: it worked out for you, and I hope you continue

688
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Speaker 2: to live live happy life.

689
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Speaker 6: Thanks gex Is there.

690
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Speaker 2: Anything else you want to say to the people of

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Speaker 2: the computer before we go?

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Speaker 6: I guess if I don't know if you're gonna end

693
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Speaker 6: up playing this on the podcast or not, but if

694
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Speaker 6: you do, Hello, Jason, that's nice to be honest and

695
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Speaker 6: well for every Hey, Thanks Ben, take care of YouTube.

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Speaker 5: Bye.

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Speaker 4: All from Markeith.

711
00:37:20,960 --> 00:37:23,040
Speaker 2: Hello, Hello, what's up?

712
00:37:23,320 --> 00:37:28,800
Speaker 4: I have a story for you of past life. I

713
00:37:28,840 --> 00:37:32,360
Speaker 4: am living a whole different life now and I have

714
00:37:32,480 --> 00:37:33,920
Speaker 4: kind of repressed this whole thing.

715
00:37:34,719 --> 00:37:35,920
Speaker 6: But are you ready?

716
00:37:36,520 --> 00:37:36,840
Speaker 2: Yeah?

717
00:37:37,560 --> 00:37:40,319
Speaker 4: Okay. So me and my girlfriend I was nineteen and

718
00:37:40,400 --> 00:37:45,319
Speaker 4: she was eighteen, we became escorts. Well I was an

719
00:37:45,480 --> 00:37:47,200
Speaker 4: escort and she was one two.

720
00:37:48,280 --> 00:37:48,919
Speaker 3: And what we.

721
00:37:48,880 --> 00:37:52,680
Speaker 4: Did was we just used we use like these websites

722
00:37:52,719 --> 00:37:57,640
Speaker 4: that I shouldn't name because of dangerous condemnation. I suppose

723
00:37:57,719 --> 00:38:00,279
Speaker 4: I don't want to condone my actions because I had

724
00:38:00,320 --> 00:38:02,879
Speaker 4: a friend try to do what I did and they

725
00:38:02,920 --> 00:38:07,520
Speaker 4: got robbed at gunpoint. But basically what I used to

726
00:38:07,600 --> 00:38:10,279
Speaker 4: do when I was eighteen and nineteen was I used

727
00:38:10,280 --> 00:38:13,560
Speaker 4: to just use these websites where you go on sugar

728
00:38:13,640 --> 00:38:16,160
Speaker 4: day dates and stuff things of that nature. And I

729
00:38:16,200 --> 00:38:20,239
Speaker 4: would like go out with guys because like it's it's

730
00:38:20,239 --> 00:38:22,319
Speaker 4: mostly mentain for this kind of shit, it's not really women.

731
00:38:23,840 --> 00:38:27,560
Speaker 4: And so I was doing that and when I had

732
00:38:27,600 --> 00:38:31,480
Speaker 4: met my girlfriend, she was doing it as well, and

733
00:38:31,760 --> 00:38:34,440
Speaker 4: that was kind of what our initial conversations were about

734
00:38:34,440 --> 00:38:36,799
Speaker 4: actually was just like, oh wow, we used the same

735
00:38:36,840 --> 00:38:39,680
Speaker 4: websites who do the same things, you know, all these things,

736
00:38:39,719 --> 00:38:42,320
Speaker 4: and so we like we bonded through that in a way,

737
00:38:42,360 --> 00:38:44,680
Speaker 4: because you know, I when I met her, it was

738
00:38:44,719 --> 00:38:47,520
Speaker 4: mostly just about you know, forming a friendship and forming

739
00:38:47,520 --> 00:38:50,120
Speaker 4: someone like forming a relationship eventually as well in the future.

740
00:38:50,560 --> 00:38:52,359
Speaker 4: But then it was like, oh shit, like we did

741
00:38:52,400 --> 00:38:54,799
Speaker 4: the same thing. This is crazy, and so we bought

742
00:38:54,800 --> 00:38:59,319
Speaker 4: the bond through that, and we just went out into

743
00:38:59,360 --> 00:39:05,839
Speaker 4: the world going on going on dates and I don't

744
00:39:05,880 --> 00:39:08,759
Speaker 4: even know where to start, but we basically, I mean,

745
00:39:08,760 --> 00:39:11,279
Speaker 4: we've seen it all, both of us, and it was

746
00:39:11,760 --> 00:39:16,400
Speaker 4: quite weird. And because it's a really weird world. And

747
00:39:17,239 --> 00:39:18,080
Speaker 4: did you have any questions?

748
00:39:18,160 --> 00:39:18,920
Speaker 6: I could answer for you.

749
00:39:22,120 --> 00:39:24,520
Speaker 2: M So, how old are you now?

750
00:39:25,400 --> 00:39:29,880
Speaker 4: I'm twenty six. I just turned twenty six in hockey.

751
00:39:29,960 --> 00:39:31,080
Speaker 2: How long were you doing this for?

752
00:39:31,360 --> 00:39:37,200
Speaker 4: I was doing this from eighteen to about twenty, partially

753
00:39:37,440 --> 00:39:40,520
Speaker 4: when I was twenty one, but I stopped. I took

754
00:39:40,520 --> 00:39:44,160
Speaker 4: a break. The reason why I stopped doing it in general,

755
00:39:44,360 --> 00:39:46,960
Speaker 4: and this is the crazy part too, is like when

756
00:39:47,000 --> 00:39:49,319
Speaker 4: I was young, I didn't really have much prospect of

757
00:39:49,360 --> 00:39:51,279
Speaker 4: like an idea of what I could do, and it

758
00:39:51,400 --> 00:39:53,520
Speaker 4: was like, well, I'm cute, so like let me go

759
00:39:53,600 --> 00:39:55,120
Speaker 4: out there and like go on dates with men and

760
00:39:55,120 --> 00:39:57,200
Speaker 4: stuff and things of that nature. Because I'm also like

761
00:39:57,320 --> 00:40:00,319
Speaker 4: and I was tan sexual and so like it was yeah,

762
00:40:00,360 --> 00:40:02,279
Speaker 4: fuck it, let's go do this ship And it was

763
00:40:02,320 --> 00:40:08,160
Speaker 4: never anything you can use like explicit language on here still.

764
00:40:07,960 --> 00:40:11,440
Speaker 2: Right, yeah, yeah, okay.

765
00:40:11,360 --> 00:40:14,960
Speaker 4: So it was never anything sexual, like I like, there

766
00:40:14,960 --> 00:40:16,920
Speaker 4: were times like I would see guys and like it

767
00:40:16,960 --> 00:40:19,359
Speaker 4: would lead to a sexual encounter, but for the most part,

768
00:40:19,400 --> 00:40:22,440
Speaker 4: it was just like dinner with guys in La La,

769
00:40:22,640 --> 00:40:29,040
Speaker 4: and like I was in mostly La Towns, La Region areas,

770
00:40:30,400 --> 00:40:31,919
Speaker 4: and then sometimes I would go to like the Bay

771
00:40:31,960 --> 00:40:33,680
Speaker 4: Area and such. And there was a time when me

772
00:40:33,680 --> 00:40:35,200
Speaker 4: and my girlfriend were living in New York and she

773
00:40:35,280 --> 00:40:38,960
Speaker 4: was seeing guys and like Lower Manhattan and I would

774
00:40:39,600 --> 00:40:42,120
Speaker 4: I would literally because at that point it was like

775
00:40:42,680 --> 00:40:44,960
Speaker 4: she was making way more than I was doing it,

776
00:40:45,000 --> 00:40:46,600
Speaker 4: and I was like, well, why don't you do it?

777
00:40:47,160 --> 00:40:49,560
Speaker 4: And then I can watch you? And so I would

778
00:40:49,560 --> 00:40:53,399
Speaker 4: literally dress as homeless as possible and just like sit

779
00:40:53,440 --> 00:40:56,839
Speaker 4: outside restaurants and just like watch her. And it was

780
00:40:56,920 --> 00:40:59,720
Speaker 4: it was really interesting because I'm not really a jealous

781
00:40:59,719 --> 00:41:04,279
Speaker 4: pipe and I'm not really like a person who like

782
00:41:04,440 --> 00:41:07,400
Speaker 4: and I trust her in general too, And it was

783
00:41:07,440 --> 00:41:09,840
Speaker 4: just so interesting because when you go on these dates,

784
00:41:09,920 --> 00:41:13,000
Speaker 4: you're conforming to an audience. You know, you're not the

785
00:41:13,000 --> 00:41:15,319
Speaker 4: person that you portray yourself as. You know, you're a

786
00:41:15,360 --> 00:41:17,840
Speaker 4: whole different person. You're just whatever they want you to be,

787
00:41:18,280 --> 00:41:19,680
Speaker 4: you know, because they just want someone to talk to

788
00:41:19,760 --> 00:41:22,120
Speaker 4: and someone to tell about their life story, and someone

789
00:41:22,160 --> 00:41:25,440
Speaker 4: to go places with who like looks cute and dresses

790
00:41:25,480 --> 00:41:27,600
Speaker 4: the part so that they can feel elevated because most

791
00:41:27,640 --> 00:41:29,840
Speaker 4: of the people are really lonely, and it's about the

792
00:41:29,880 --> 00:41:34,200
Speaker 4: fact that like they're trying to purchase companionships. That was

793
00:41:34,200 --> 00:41:36,399
Speaker 4: mostly it for both of us. I mean, like there

794
00:41:36,400 --> 00:41:38,719
Speaker 4: were times when like I did like some guys, and

795
00:41:38,760 --> 00:41:40,960
Speaker 4: I think she liked some guys she saw too. In

796
00:41:41,000 --> 00:41:43,359
Speaker 4: the past. We both stopped doing it because it just

797
00:41:43,400 --> 00:41:46,680
Speaker 4: became a and I want to stress this to anyone

798
00:41:46,680 --> 00:41:49,480
Speaker 4: who's doing that in general, like there is a way out.

799
00:41:49,640 --> 00:41:52,319
Speaker 4: We stopped doing it because it became the situation where

800
00:41:52,360 --> 00:41:55,360
Speaker 4: we just felt like it was really affecting our sense

801
00:41:55,400 --> 00:41:58,600
Speaker 4: of pride and sense of self worth because that's the thing,

802
00:41:58,760 --> 00:42:01,520
Speaker 4: like you're just whatever they want you to be. And

803
00:42:01,520 --> 00:42:03,800
Speaker 4: that same thing went for like our adult contents and

804
00:42:03,840 --> 00:42:05,719
Speaker 4: stuff too. We had an only fans and we had

805
00:42:05,840 --> 00:42:06,760
Speaker 4: a foreignub accounts.

806
00:42:06,760 --> 00:42:08,920
Speaker 2: Are you Are you and this girl still together? Oh?

807
00:42:09,000 --> 00:42:12,600
Speaker 4: Yeah, it's been six years now and it's been amazing.

808
00:42:12,880 --> 00:42:16,839
Speaker 4: And I love her and I love her family, and

809
00:42:17,960 --> 00:42:20,560
Speaker 4: I am so happy. We have a house together, and

810
00:42:20,600 --> 00:42:25,240
Speaker 4: we have two cats, and we also have two geese

811
00:42:25,320 --> 00:42:28,560
Speaker 4: and two turkeys and it's really great. And she's going

812
00:42:28,600 --> 00:42:32,359
Speaker 4: to school for uh, she's in the tech field. She's

813
00:42:32,360 --> 00:42:34,360
Speaker 4: going to school for tech stuff. And I have a

814
00:42:34,400 --> 00:42:39,959
Speaker 4: really cushy, boring job. And we honestly we talked about

815
00:42:39,960 --> 00:42:42,960
Speaker 4: it sometimes, but we kept it very secret from our family.

816
00:42:43,040 --> 00:42:45,640
Speaker 4: So I always get scared when I talk about it

817
00:42:45,719 --> 00:42:48,000
Speaker 4: with people because it was something that like I kind

818
00:42:48,000 --> 00:42:51,160
Speaker 4: of repressed, mostly because it just like it wouldn't really

819
00:42:51,200 --> 00:42:52,720
Speaker 4: resonate with my family or her family.

820
00:42:54,360 --> 00:42:55,960
Speaker 2: Do you do you ever miss doing it?

821
00:42:59,120 --> 00:43:01,440
Speaker 4: You know what the issue is with that actually is

822
00:43:01,440 --> 00:43:04,200
Speaker 4: that I do. I think I missed doing both of those.

823
00:43:05,080 --> 00:43:07,880
Speaker 4: The money was really easy and it was really convenient,

824
00:43:08,000 --> 00:43:10,839
Speaker 4: and the money was like really great. It was very

825
00:43:10,880 --> 00:43:14,200
Speaker 4: seasonal you know your best times to do it. The

826
00:43:14,200 --> 00:43:16,600
Speaker 4: best times, in my opinion, were like the winter time.

827
00:43:16,640 --> 00:43:20,600
Speaker 2: In the winter, right, that's whenever one yeah, everyone cuffing

828
00:43:20,719 --> 00:43:22,680
Speaker 2: season yes.

829
00:43:22,400 --> 00:43:24,840
Speaker 4: And then everyone there's like no one with anybody. So

830
00:43:25,960 --> 00:43:30,240
Speaker 4: I do miss it because it was like honestly, and

831
00:43:30,239 --> 00:43:31,799
Speaker 4: and it kind of burnt me out in the way too,

832
00:43:31,920 --> 00:43:34,120
Speaker 4: Like it was the only time when like I was

833
00:43:34,200 --> 00:43:37,440
Speaker 4: around exuberant consumerism, you know, like we got gifts. My

834
00:43:37,480 --> 00:43:39,400
Speaker 4: girlfriend used to get like really sense of perfumes and

835
00:43:39,400 --> 00:43:42,959
Speaker 4: stuff and like bags, and like guys would take both

836
00:43:42,960 --> 00:43:45,640
Speaker 4: of us like individually on our own dates, like we

837
00:43:45,680 --> 00:43:48,120
Speaker 4: do it to like really fancy restaurants, and like we

838
00:43:48,160 --> 00:43:50,960
Speaker 4: as a couple, we'd never really gone to fancy restaurants.

839
00:43:50,960 --> 00:43:52,840
Speaker 4: But also like none of that really mattered to me,

840
00:43:52,920 --> 00:43:55,040
Speaker 4: Like I didn't care about the bags or the restaurants

841
00:43:55,040 --> 00:43:57,880
Speaker 4: and things of that nature because it wasn't really It

842
00:43:57,960 --> 00:44:00,080
Speaker 4: was nice, but it wasn't really real, and I I

843
00:44:00,080 --> 00:44:01,960
Speaker 4: feel like it part of it kind of killed my

844
00:44:02,000 --> 00:44:05,759
Speaker 4: whole desire to like do bougie things. Like now I

845
00:44:05,800 --> 00:44:08,399
Speaker 4: live in like a really basic house and I live

846
00:44:08,440 --> 00:44:12,719
Speaker 4: a really like guy financially conservative lifestyle because I just

847
00:44:12,880 --> 00:44:15,840
Speaker 4: kind of realized from all those things that it's just

848
00:44:15,880 --> 00:44:17,239
Speaker 4: not really worth it. You know.

849
00:44:17,520 --> 00:44:20,040
Speaker 2: Did anyone ever take both you and your girlfriend out

850
00:44:20,080 --> 00:44:21,239
Speaker 2: on dates at the same time.

851
00:44:21,640 --> 00:44:24,359
Speaker 4: No, no, but my girlfriend did go on a date

852
00:44:24,400 --> 00:44:26,360
Speaker 4: with her friend one time because her friend was like,

853
00:44:26,400 --> 00:44:27,920
Speaker 4: I want to do this, but she was like, I

854
00:44:27,920 --> 00:44:29,799
Speaker 4: don't want to do salon. So my girlfriend was like, well,

855
00:44:29,840 --> 00:44:31,160
Speaker 4: we can go in a double date with some guy.

856
00:44:31,200 --> 00:44:34,040
Speaker 4: And it was absolutely horrible. And I've heard of your

857
00:44:34,239 --> 00:44:36,520
Speaker 4: doing that kind of thing well, because like the more

858
00:44:36,560 --> 00:44:39,120
Speaker 4: people it is because like no one wants to Okay,

859
00:44:39,800 --> 00:44:43,480
Speaker 4: typically speaking, mostly people are paying about like four to

860
00:44:43,560 --> 00:44:46,759
Speaker 4: five hundred dollars per person, like for the dates for

861
00:44:46,840 --> 00:44:48,560
Speaker 4: like an hour a date. Now you're trying to sell

862
00:44:48,600 --> 00:44:51,719
Speaker 4: somebody on paying that for two people on a date,

863
00:44:51,920 --> 00:44:54,600
Speaker 4: and the only people who are going to want that

864
00:44:54,719 --> 00:44:56,759
Speaker 4: are going to want something afterwards, you know. So like

865
00:44:56,840 --> 00:44:58,520
Speaker 4: the guy they want in the date with was just

866
00:44:58,600 --> 00:45:04,200
Speaker 4: like egregious, like you know, over sexualizing them and like

867
00:45:04,440 --> 00:45:07,040
Speaker 4: you know, just like creeping the fuck out, And so

868
00:45:08,200 --> 00:45:09,960
Speaker 4: once they got the money, they ran off because it

869
00:45:10,000 --> 00:45:10,319
Speaker 4: was just.

870
00:45:10,280 --> 00:45:12,080
Speaker 2: Like a I don't you know, I guess that's one

871
00:45:12,120 --> 00:45:14,360
Speaker 2: of the things I don't I don't really understand about

872
00:45:14,400 --> 00:45:19,600
Speaker 2: like the the seeking arrangement thing is like these people,

873
00:45:19,800 --> 00:45:25,799
Speaker 2: these people are mainly paying for like Protonic, Like it's

874
00:45:25,920 --> 00:45:32,680
Speaker 2: they're playing for, like they're paying for like Platonic uh companionship, right,

875
00:45:33,280 --> 00:45:33,760
Speaker 2: mm hmmm.

876
00:45:34,040 --> 00:45:36,640
Speaker 4: And in some ways it's kind of like written off

877
00:45:36,640 --> 00:45:38,520
Speaker 4: with that as that in some ways, but what they

878
00:45:38,520 --> 00:45:41,839
Speaker 4: really wanted to prostitute. Like that's why I never really

879
00:45:41,920 --> 00:45:45,719
Speaker 4: used Seeking Arrangements because it's one of those websites that

880
00:45:45,880 --> 00:45:48,120
Speaker 4: I feel like is you know, like it's like this

881
00:45:48,200 --> 00:45:50,480
Speaker 4: conversational game of like finding people who just want to

882
00:45:50,480 --> 00:45:52,799
Speaker 4: hang out, you know, because a lot of them, like

883
00:45:53,160 --> 00:45:56,160
Speaker 4: a lot of people want Seeking arrangements just want to prostitute.

884
00:45:56,160 --> 00:45:58,359
Speaker 4: They just want someone to pay whatever amount of.

885
00:45:58,280 --> 00:46:00,840
Speaker 2: Money yeah, and have, which is bizarre because it's like,

886
00:46:00,880 --> 00:46:03,240
Speaker 2: if that's what you want, why don't you just hire

887
00:46:03,320 --> 00:46:06,320
Speaker 2: a prostitute exactly exactly.

888
00:46:06,360 --> 00:46:09,000
Speaker 4: But they want someone more innocent, they want someone, you know,

889
00:46:09,000 --> 00:46:09,480
Speaker 4: because like.

890
00:46:09,440 --> 00:46:11,280
Speaker 3: Prostitutes these prosecution websites.

891
00:46:11,520 --> 00:46:13,840
Speaker 4: And then people who you thinking arrangements are like college

892
00:46:13,920 --> 00:46:15,880
Speaker 4: kids and things of that nature, younger people who like

893
00:46:15,920 --> 00:46:18,480
Speaker 4: don't really know about that world, that scary world of

894
00:46:18,520 --> 00:46:21,239
Speaker 4: prosecution and things of that nature, so it attracts a

895
00:46:21,280 --> 00:46:25,560
Speaker 4: different audience of like providers, you know, and they know

896
00:46:25,640 --> 00:46:28,160
Speaker 4: where to go to find what they want, which is

897
00:46:28,239 --> 00:46:29,919
Speaker 4: kind of the cur your part too, because like once

898
00:46:29,960 --> 00:46:33,160
Speaker 4: I got older, it became you know, a bit different

899
00:46:33,160 --> 00:46:35,239
Speaker 4: because it's like, you know, like they don't want they

900
00:46:35,239 --> 00:46:36,839
Speaker 4: don't want someone who has their shit together. They don't

901
00:46:36,840 --> 00:46:38,279
Speaker 4: want they don't want someone who knows what they want

902
00:46:38,280 --> 00:46:40,839
Speaker 4: in life. They want a lot of these guys, which

903
00:46:40,840 --> 00:46:42,960
Speaker 4: it's I mean, like you know, it's mostly guys. They

904
00:46:43,040 --> 00:46:46,520
Speaker 4: just want someone who they can use, who they can manipulate,

905
00:46:46,719 --> 00:46:51,480
Speaker 4: and you know, all those things, and it's just really yeah,

906
00:46:51,520 --> 00:46:52,399
Speaker 4: it's really quite sad.

907
00:46:53,200 --> 00:46:56,759
Speaker 2: Do did you ever go on any any dates with

908
00:46:56,840 --> 00:46:59,160
Speaker 2: any sugar mamas? No?

909
00:46:59,640 --> 00:47:01,799
Speaker 4: And I remember there was this one time that there

910
00:47:01,840 --> 00:47:03,759
Speaker 4: was this one girl who did want to do that.

911
00:47:04,360 --> 00:47:07,120
Speaker 4: But you know, like the people, the sugar mamas who

912
00:47:07,160 --> 00:47:10,160
Speaker 4: were on there, they want sex because they know that

913
00:47:10,200 --> 00:47:12,719
Speaker 4: they have a specific niche that they feel, which is

914
00:47:12,719 --> 00:47:14,400
Speaker 4: the fact that like men who would typically do this

915
00:47:14,440 --> 00:47:18,840
Speaker 4: with women are typically women to has sex with them.

916
00:47:18,840 --> 00:47:23,240
Speaker 4: Maybe I don't know, maybe I'm making a rash analysis,

917
00:47:23,280 --> 00:47:26,360
Speaker 4: but I've seen a few of them. But they want sex.

918
00:47:26,440 --> 00:47:28,920
Speaker 4: They know what they want, and like they usually like

919
00:47:28,920 --> 00:47:32,080
Speaker 4: from what I remember getting the most like grimy, just

920
00:47:32,560 --> 00:47:35,200
Speaker 4: scary messages. And then also it's just like whenever I

921
00:47:35,440 --> 00:47:38,040
Speaker 4: would see them, it just came off as like this

922
00:47:38,200 --> 00:47:40,680
Speaker 4: like cover for sex trafficking, you know, like some like

923
00:47:40,760 --> 00:47:43,000
Speaker 4: some Glad Maxwell type shit. It just kind of scared

924
00:47:43,040 --> 00:47:45,680
Speaker 4: me a little bit. Or they want to like has

925
00:47:45,680 --> 00:47:47,640
Speaker 4: sex with you in front of their husband or just

926
00:47:47,719 --> 00:47:51,040
Speaker 4: weird shit like that. It's just it, it's too dangerous

927
00:47:51,080 --> 00:47:52,799
Speaker 4: in my opinion, whenever I see a woman on.

928
00:47:52,760 --> 00:47:57,840
Speaker 2: There, fascinating hmm. And now you're you're working at a

929
00:47:57,920 --> 00:48:00,000
Speaker 2: desk job, what do you have any of the money

930
00:48:00,400 --> 00:48:02,920
Speaker 2: saved up? Still are you? Are you doing any.

931
00:48:04,080 --> 00:48:08,200
Speaker 4: We were so horribly irresponsible with that money. I mean

932
00:48:08,239 --> 00:48:10,440
Speaker 4: we still have some of the items we bought for sure.

933
00:48:11,400 --> 00:48:14,640
Speaker 2: What's the most expensive thing that you that you kept?

934
00:48:16,360 --> 00:48:22,880
Speaker 4: Okay? Fuck, well that's okay. So I there was this

935
00:48:22,920 --> 00:48:26,439
Speaker 4: one guy my girlfriend saw and we got well, you're

936
00:48:26,840 --> 00:48:29,680
Speaker 4: you're an LA person. You know led Labo, right, I

937
00:48:29,760 --> 00:48:32,960
Speaker 4: know what the perfumery And okay, so the Labo is

938
00:48:33,000 --> 00:48:35,160
Speaker 4: this perfumery and they're based out of New York they

939
00:48:35,160 --> 00:48:38,040
Speaker 4: have some places in La It's like a really like

940
00:48:38,200 --> 00:48:39,400
Speaker 4: really bliegy perfumery.

941
00:48:39,760 --> 00:48:41,960
Speaker 2: Like I don't know a whole lot about the local

942
00:48:42,360 --> 00:48:43,879
Speaker 2: perfumeries around here.

943
00:48:44,480 --> 00:48:48,200
Speaker 4: I see, Well, the big bottles are like three hundred dollars,

944
00:48:48,239 --> 00:48:52,200
Speaker 4: I think. I think the guy, one of the guys,

945
00:48:52,200 --> 00:48:56,080
Speaker 4: had connections and got it's five bottles, and I gave

946
00:48:56,120 --> 00:48:58,399
Speaker 4: him to various friends, and I told my friends because

947
00:48:58,400 --> 00:49:00,279
Speaker 4: they didn't know what was going on. I was like, yeah,

948
00:49:00,280 --> 00:49:03,200
Speaker 4: I have this friend who works for let Lavo and

949
00:49:03,520 --> 00:49:05,640
Speaker 4: he got in perfumes. So each one of those was

950
00:49:05,680 --> 00:49:07,760
Speaker 4: like three seventy five, I think, like the big bottle,

951
00:49:08,160 --> 00:49:10,640
Speaker 4: and I just gave those to various friends. And I

952
00:49:10,680 --> 00:49:12,239
Speaker 4: still have one of the bottles because it's like a

953
00:49:12,239 --> 00:49:16,200
Speaker 4: really big perfume. And then design her handbags and such too,

954
00:49:16,280 --> 00:49:19,480
Speaker 4: like I got this, I got this Chanel bag and

955
00:49:19,520 --> 00:49:23,000
Speaker 4: a few other things, and then things of that nature,

956
00:49:23,040 --> 00:49:27,880
Speaker 4: just miscellaneous designer items or like sunglasses too, designer sunglasses,

957
00:49:28,160 --> 00:49:31,440
Speaker 4: mostly things of that nature. Why my girlfriend got me

958
00:49:31,480 --> 00:49:35,120
Speaker 4: a pair of Gucci sunglasses, but she framed it as

959
00:49:35,120 --> 00:49:37,120
Speaker 4: like she wanted them, so she asked, because like the

960
00:49:37,120 --> 00:49:39,080
Speaker 4: guy was like, send me your Amazon wishless and then

961
00:49:39,120 --> 00:49:41,880
Speaker 4: she sent him some like a wishless item for like

962
00:49:41,880 --> 00:49:44,960
Speaker 4: a bunch of the designer sunglasses, and then she was

963
00:49:45,000 --> 00:49:47,000
Speaker 4: able to get me that. And that's kind of the

964
00:49:47,040 --> 00:49:49,120
Speaker 4: game we used to play. Sometimes we'd be like, oh, oh,

965
00:49:49,160 --> 00:49:50,160
Speaker 4: this guy gets kind of switchless.

966
00:49:50,200 --> 00:49:50,920
Speaker 1: What do you want? What do you want?

967
00:49:50,920 --> 00:49:52,920
Speaker 4: You know type situation, and then we talk about it

968
00:49:52,920 --> 00:49:54,680
Speaker 4: together and see, okay, well we should you get this

969
00:49:54,760 --> 00:49:57,160
Speaker 4: and this, and that was really fun.

970
00:49:58,239 --> 00:50:00,760
Speaker 2: But when you when you become an old old man,

971
00:50:02,200 --> 00:50:03,880
Speaker 2: you know, huh do you do?

972
00:50:03,880 --> 00:50:03,920
Speaker 5: You?

973
00:50:04,120 --> 00:50:07,919
Speaker 2: If you and if you're lonely and maybe you maybe

974
00:50:08,000 --> 00:50:11,359
Speaker 2: your girlfriend's not around anymore, what would you do? Would

975
00:50:11,360 --> 00:50:14,319
Speaker 2: you ever pay somebody to go on a date with you?

976
00:50:14,440 --> 00:50:18,040
Speaker 2: Or would you join like an elderly tennis club.

977
00:50:18,320 --> 00:50:19,120
Speaker 3: I think I would.

978
00:50:19,239 --> 00:50:23,080
Speaker 4: I've and i've because I know internally I have a

979
00:50:23,200 --> 00:50:27,919
Speaker 4: kink like I love older people, and so I think

980
00:50:27,960 --> 00:50:29,799
Speaker 4: that it'd be like, well, I'm old, so now I

981
00:50:29,840 --> 00:50:30,680
Speaker 4: can really get.

982
00:50:30,560 --> 00:50:31,200
Speaker 3: The older people.

983
00:50:31,719 --> 00:50:33,400
Speaker 4: But I don't know, you know, I think about that

984
00:50:33,440 --> 00:50:36,160
Speaker 4: and it's just like it's different when you're I was

985
00:50:36,160 --> 00:50:38,280
Speaker 4: talking to my grandma about this because we're talking about,

986
00:50:38,800 --> 00:50:41,200
Speaker 4: you know, like what it's like like like like like

987
00:50:41,200 --> 00:50:43,520
Speaker 4: like what sex and things that nature.

988
00:50:43,360 --> 00:50:44,760
Speaker 3: Is like as you get older and older.

989
00:50:45,239 --> 00:50:46,759
Speaker 4: And she was just like, well, once you get past

990
00:50:46,760 --> 00:50:49,560
Speaker 4: your sixties, last seventies, it's just it's not the same,

991
00:50:49,600 --> 00:50:51,920
Speaker 4: you know, and it's like you appreciate like slower things

992
00:50:51,960 --> 00:50:54,080
Speaker 4: and things of that nature. Who were you talking about

993
00:50:54,280 --> 00:50:55,880
Speaker 4: with my grandmother?

994
00:50:55,960 --> 00:50:56,799
Speaker 5: And she was talking to.

995
00:50:56,920 --> 00:50:57,960
Speaker 2: Grandma about sex?

996
00:50:58,719 --> 00:51:01,080
Speaker 4: Well, yes, we're talking about how as you get older

997
00:51:01,200 --> 00:51:03,560
Speaker 4: you lose that ability. She was kind of drunk, so

998
00:51:03,760 --> 00:51:06,080
Speaker 4: she was just having this really open conversation, but she

999
00:51:06,160 --> 00:51:07,840
Speaker 4: was talking about like how like when you get older,

1000
00:51:07,880 --> 00:51:10,800
Speaker 4: your your your ability to do such things is different,

1001
00:51:10,880 --> 00:51:14,040
Speaker 4: so like you know, you just hang out with people

1002
00:51:14,160 --> 00:51:16,920
Speaker 4: or like you just sit around and stuff. And and

1003
00:51:17,000 --> 00:51:20,719
Speaker 4: I I really can't tell what my future holds, but

1004
00:51:21,239 --> 00:51:24,319
Speaker 4: I know that a lot of the older guys just

1005
00:51:24,440 --> 00:51:28,080
Speaker 4: wanted to like breathe in youth. You know, it's something

1006
00:51:28,120 --> 00:51:29,879
Speaker 4: that they're not used to being around anymore because they're

1007
00:51:29,880 --> 00:51:31,320
Speaker 4: older and most people around them are older.

1008
00:51:31,400 --> 00:51:35,120
Speaker 2: So is that what they can't have is your is

1009
00:51:35,160 --> 00:51:37,080
Speaker 2: your grandfather a lot around?

1010
00:51:38,040 --> 00:51:42,279
Speaker 4: No, My both of my grandfathers on my both of

1011
00:51:42,280 --> 00:51:43,719
Speaker 4: my parents' side are like deadbeats.

1012
00:51:44,000 --> 00:51:47,040
Speaker 2: Is your grandma having a lot of sex.

1013
00:51:48,120 --> 00:51:53,600
Speaker 4: I don't know. She's she's always been. She she has

1014
00:51:53,680 --> 00:51:55,960
Speaker 4: like eight husbands I think, and like each husband has

1015
00:51:56,000 --> 00:51:57,600
Speaker 4: like a different kid with her, So she has like

1016
00:51:57,600 --> 00:52:00,359
Speaker 4: eight kids, each one or different husband. So so she's

1017
00:52:00,400 --> 00:52:01,480
Speaker 4: a pretty wild character.

1018
00:52:02,640 --> 00:52:05,319
Speaker 2: Well its look, it sounds, it sounds. It sounds like

1019
00:52:05,400 --> 00:52:07,400
Speaker 2: she was just bluffing when she's talking about how you

1020
00:52:07,440 --> 00:52:09,200
Speaker 2: can't do that much at that age. If she has

1021
00:52:09,560 --> 00:52:12,960
Speaker 2: eight different kids with eight different husbands.

1022
00:52:12,680 --> 00:52:13,440
Speaker 4: It's possible.

1023
00:52:13,520 --> 00:52:13,960
Speaker 2: I don't know.

1024
00:52:14,040 --> 00:52:16,400
Speaker 4: She's a very secretive person, and I think it's just

1025
00:52:16,480 --> 00:52:18,279
Speaker 4: you know, different era. She's like from the forties. Yeah,

1026
00:52:18,280 --> 00:52:20,400
Speaker 4: she's worn like nineteen thirty eight, so like, you know,

1027
00:52:20,520 --> 00:52:23,960
Speaker 4: she's from a whole different level of like conservatism.

1028
00:52:23,200 --> 00:52:25,239
Speaker 2: And like she's not fool things.

1029
00:52:25,800 --> 00:52:26,680
Speaker 4: She's cool as fuck.

1030
00:52:27,080 --> 00:52:27,799
Speaker 2: Yeah, she's cool.

1031
00:52:27,800 --> 00:52:30,120
Speaker 4: She loves talking shit about people. I come up her

1032
00:52:30,120 --> 00:52:32,719
Speaker 4: house sometimes and she'll just talk shit about anybody in

1033
00:52:32,760 --> 00:52:35,239
Speaker 4: my life, and it's just like, Wow, do you just

1034
00:52:35,280 --> 00:52:37,279
Speaker 4: whenever I'm gone, do you just talk about me too?

1035
00:52:37,719 --> 00:52:37,919
Speaker 2: Yeah?

1036
00:52:38,120 --> 00:52:41,040
Speaker 4: Probably, Like yeah, that's what your mothers do. They talk

1037
00:52:41,040 --> 00:52:43,120
Speaker 4: shit about their kids and their grandkids and stuff.

1038
00:52:43,480 --> 00:52:46,840
Speaker 2: But that's okay though. I don't think it matters, not

1039
00:52:46,920 --> 00:52:50,120
Speaker 2: like ill will. What's your name again?

1040
00:52:51,400 --> 00:52:52,280
Speaker 4: My name is Dante.

1041
00:52:53,000 --> 00:52:58,000
Speaker 2: Dante. Hmmm. Yeah, Well it's weird, like if you have

1042
00:52:58,120 --> 00:53:02,000
Speaker 2: if you like older people, if that's kind of your thing,

1043
00:53:02,040 --> 00:53:05,040
Speaker 2: it's like, what are you going to do when you

1044
00:53:05,080 --> 00:53:09,160
Speaker 2: get old, man then, because like if you're eighty, the

1045
00:53:09,200 --> 00:53:12,400
Speaker 2: best you can do is like, you know, a ninety

1046
00:53:12,480 --> 00:53:16,400
Speaker 2: year old maybe maybe I don't know, I mean fairly

1047
00:53:16,400 --> 00:53:17,960
Speaker 2: limited as men, it's a.

1048
00:53:17,880 --> 00:53:20,359
Speaker 4: Bit different the privileges that like, because like the thing

1049
00:53:20,440 --> 00:53:22,319
Speaker 4: is is like I mean, it's it's commonly talked about,

1050
00:53:22,320 --> 00:53:25,040
Speaker 4: like the dating pool for men kind of gets larger

1051
00:53:25,080 --> 00:53:26,840
Speaker 4: and larger as you get older, whereas dating fool for

1052
00:53:26,920 --> 00:53:28,680
Speaker 4: women get small and smaller as they get older, just

1053
00:53:28,760 --> 00:53:32,279
Speaker 4: due to like gender issues and like the dichotomy of

1054
00:53:32,360 --> 00:53:37,879
Speaker 4: sexualization of different genders and things of that nature. But yeah,

1055
00:53:37,880 --> 00:53:40,200
Speaker 4: because I've seen like a fair share of older people

1056
00:53:40,239 --> 00:53:43,239
Speaker 4: who are fucking drippy as hell. Like it's funny, like

1057
00:53:43,280 --> 00:53:44,879
Speaker 4: old men who are out there on the world who

1058
00:53:44,920 --> 00:53:47,200
Speaker 4: are just like cool as hell, and people are just like, wow,

1059
00:53:47,719 --> 00:53:49,319
Speaker 4: I want to be like him when I get old,

1060
00:53:49,560 --> 00:53:51,120
Speaker 4: you know, And.

1061
00:53:51,160 --> 00:53:57,440
Speaker 2: Well, Dantel, is there any other like aspect of this

1062
00:53:57,560 --> 00:53:59,319
Speaker 2: or anything that you want to share before we go.

1063
00:54:00,560 --> 00:54:02,520
Speaker 2: Let me ask the chat if they have any questions,

1064
00:54:02,640 --> 00:54:06,120
Speaker 2: chat anything you want to ask to Dante before we go.

1065
00:54:06,760 --> 00:54:11,480
Speaker 2: Nervous Squirrel says that your grandma sounds like a baddie.

1066
00:54:12,400 --> 00:54:15,840
Speaker 4: She is, She's pretty cool. I don't know if I

1067
00:54:15,840 --> 00:54:18,240
Speaker 4: can talk about my grandma's looks. That sounds pretty scary.

1068
00:54:18,800 --> 00:54:22,680
Speaker 2: Jamin Baker wants to know if you like doctor Pepper.

1069
00:54:24,440 --> 00:54:27,040
Speaker 4: I don't really like soda. Actually I drink a lot

1070
00:54:27,040 --> 00:54:30,399
Speaker 4: of wine though. But there was something I did want

1071
00:54:30,400 --> 00:54:33,359
Speaker 4: to say, and that is that if you get into

1072
00:54:33,360 --> 00:54:36,239
Speaker 4: this lifestyle, I see so many people who just get

1073
00:54:36,239 --> 00:54:39,240
Speaker 4: shipped on for doing only fans and things of that nature,

1074
00:54:39,400 --> 00:54:42,719
Speaker 4: or doing adult content, and it seems as though a

1075
00:54:42,800 --> 00:54:44,720
Speaker 4: lot of people feel like if you do that, there's

1076
00:54:44,719 --> 00:54:47,680
Speaker 4: no way out. And I truly think that there is

1077
00:54:47,719 --> 00:54:51,200
Speaker 4: a way out, because as time goes on, there's so

1078
00:54:51,440 --> 00:54:55,239
Speaker 4: much saturation of adult content creators, and I guess it

1079
00:54:55,440 --> 00:54:58,920
Speaker 4: varies on, like, you know, how popularly you become. We

1080
00:54:59,000 --> 00:55:01,680
Speaker 4: had a you know, relatively sizable fan base with our

1081
00:55:01,960 --> 00:55:05,600
Speaker 4: content creation, but you know, once we were done with it,

1082
00:55:05,640 --> 00:55:07,879
Speaker 4: we deleted everything, and you know, there was a little

1083
00:55:07,920 --> 00:55:09,600
Speaker 4: like period of time when like people would like the

1084
00:55:09,719 --> 00:55:11,520
Speaker 4: me and my personal Instagram everything it's that nature and

1085
00:55:11,560 --> 00:55:13,080
Speaker 4: be like, oh what happened. What happened and that kind

1086
00:55:13,080 --> 00:55:14,920
Speaker 4: of scared me. Feels like, oh shit, they know what's

1087
00:55:14,960 --> 00:55:18,680
Speaker 4: going on. But there is a future outside of that

1088
00:55:18,760 --> 00:55:21,040
Speaker 4: if that's what you want in life, and do not

1089
00:55:21,120 --> 00:55:23,120
Speaker 4: put yourself in a box and feel like you can't

1090
00:55:23,120 --> 00:55:25,399
Speaker 4: do other things in your life because you did, you.

1091
00:55:25,400 --> 00:55:29,600
Speaker 2: Know, having thing. Emily Bayze wants to know how was

1092
00:55:29,680 --> 00:55:31,200
Speaker 2: the sex with rich men.

1093
00:55:33,760 --> 00:55:43,959
Speaker 4: Hmm, okay, pretty good, not as vigorous. It's like trying

1094
00:55:44,000 --> 00:55:46,600
Speaker 4: to think of it in a non weird way. It's

1095
00:55:46,719 --> 00:55:49,160
Speaker 4: like whenever you like shake an old man's hand and

1096
00:55:49,160 --> 00:55:51,600
Speaker 4: it's like strong as thuff, but like not moving fast.

1097
00:55:51,920 --> 00:55:53,960
Speaker 4: That's what sex with old men is. Like it's like

1098
00:55:54,080 --> 00:55:58,400
Speaker 4: strong and like but like it's not embracing, you know,

1099
00:55:58,440 --> 00:56:00,560
Speaker 4: like it's not like scary, like how like younger men

1100
00:56:00,600 --> 00:56:03,720
Speaker 4: have seg where like all vicious and crazy like older

1101
00:56:03,760 --> 00:56:06,640
Speaker 4: men are, like they're firm, but they're and then it's

1102
00:56:06,960 --> 00:56:08,799
Speaker 4: it's also very conservative.

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Speaker 3: You know, like they don't want to do any like

1104
00:56:09,440 --> 00:56:10,960
Speaker 3: weird shit. They just want to like you know.

1105
00:56:10,920 --> 00:56:13,439
Speaker 4: Have normal sex and not. They didn't last very long

1106
00:56:13,480 --> 00:56:18,600
Speaker 4: and they just they're it's very simplistic, and oftentimes for

1107
00:56:18,680 --> 00:56:20,920
Speaker 4: me it was in like foreign cars and such like

1108
00:56:20,920 --> 00:56:21,760
Speaker 4: in the back seats.

1109
00:56:21,560 --> 00:56:22,600
Speaker 3: Where their drivers are driving.

1110
00:56:22,680 --> 00:56:26,640
Speaker 4: It was kind of weird. I remember one time I was, oh, yes,

1111
00:56:26,760 --> 00:56:27,120
Speaker 4: that's it.

1112
00:56:27,280 --> 00:56:29,720
Speaker 2: Oh sure, if you if you have a story about

1113
00:56:29,760 --> 00:56:32,160
Speaker 2: having sex with an old man, you can you can

1114
00:56:32,200 --> 00:56:34,120
Speaker 2: tell it real quick, Okay.

1115
00:56:34,239 --> 00:56:36,400
Speaker 4: I mean I was just in the backseat of this

1116
00:56:36,480 --> 00:56:38,719
Speaker 4: guy's Rolls Royce. It was the Phantom, I think the

1117
00:56:38,760 --> 00:56:42,799
Speaker 4: four door one, and his driver was driving, and we're

1118
00:56:42,840 --> 00:56:45,480
Speaker 4: having sex in the back seat, and it was just

1119
00:56:45,920 --> 00:56:49,800
Speaker 4: really weird because there's a fucking person in the front

1120
00:56:49,800 --> 00:56:52,320
Speaker 4: seat and it just like that never really felt normalized

1121
00:56:52,360 --> 00:56:56,840
Speaker 4: to me. But it was pretty fire, honestly, and I

1122
00:56:56,880 --> 00:56:57,520
Speaker 4: saw him a lot.

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00:56:57,520 --> 00:57:00,279
Speaker 3: He was pretty cool. He was pretty respectful too, But yeah,

1124
00:57:00,320 --> 00:57:00,960
Speaker 3: that was that.

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00:57:01,600 --> 00:57:05,799
Speaker 2: Was a live Well thanks for calling Dante did this?

1126
00:57:06,840 --> 00:57:08,200
Speaker 2: How did it feel to talk about all this?

1127
00:57:09,360 --> 00:57:12,200
Speaker 4: H scary? I've never talked to I mean, this is

1128
00:57:12,200 --> 00:57:14,040
Speaker 4: a pretty big audience that you have, and I've never

1129
00:57:14,239 --> 00:57:15,879
Speaker 4: talked to anyone in my life about this, So it's

1130
00:57:15,960 --> 00:57:18,120
Speaker 4: nice to be It's nice to have anonymity and talk

1131
00:57:18,120 --> 00:57:21,000
Speaker 4: about this with somebody and so, like, you know, honestly,

1132
00:57:21,040 --> 00:57:22,320
Speaker 4: I just wanted to get this off my chest and

1133
00:57:22,320 --> 00:57:25,000
Speaker 4: talk about people and let people know about this kind

1134
00:57:25,000 --> 00:57:26,520
Speaker 4: of thing. And I really appreciate the platform that you

1135
00:57:26,640 --> 00:57:28,880
Speaker 4: provided me to do this. I really appreciate your work

1136
00:57:28,880 --> 00:57:29,600
Speaker 4: that you do as well.

1137
00:57:30,160 --> 00:57:34,320
Speaker 2: Oh thanks man, your thanks man. I haven't seen your work,

1138
00:57:34,360 --> 00:57:36,200
Speaker 2: but I'm sure it's it's pretty rad too.

1139
00:57:38,600 --> 00:57:40,720
Speaker 4: I try my best. Well, thank you very much for

1140
00:57:40,760 --> 00:57:41,120
Speaker 4: your time.

1141
00:57:41,120 --> 00:57:45,320
Speaker 2: I really appreciate this, of course, take care of Dante.

1142
00:57:45,040 --> 00:57:49,520
Speaker 2: By A Roll's voice. I always thought a Rolls Royce

1143
00:57:49,680 --> 00:57:53,720
Speaker 2: was a watch. I didn't realize it was a car.

1144
00:57:56,200 --> 00:58:00,240
Speaker 2: That's that's that's my only comment on that store. Sorry,

1145
00:58:02,360 --> 00:58:05,880
Speaker 2: thanks for calling Dante. Hello, folks, it is Lyle. We

1146
00:58:06,040 --> 00:58:09,480
Speaker 2: are at the end of this episode. But get this,

1147
00:58:10,160 --> 00:58:14,440
Speaker 2: I'm about to play a clip before we go from

1148
00:58:14,560 --> 00:58:19,080
Speaker 2: this week's bonus episode, which is a live show that

1149
00:58:19,200 --> 00:58:22,880
Speaker 2: I recorded in front of five hundred people all the

1150
00:58:22,920 --> 00:58:27,840
Speaker 2: way over in Sydney, Australia. Bonus episodes are available to

1151
00:58:27,960 --> 00:58:33,760
Speaker 2: Premium super cast subscribers of Therapy Gecko. Subscribers also get

1152
00:58:33,800 --> 00:58:38,920
Speaker 2: access to all episodes ad free all currently existing bonus episodes,

1153
00:58:39,280 --> 00:58:43,680
Speaker 2: multiple new bonus episodes a month, and other fun stuff.

1154
00:58:44,000 --> 00:58:46,400
Speaker 2: If you want to sign up to become a Premium member,

1155
00:58:46,440 --> 00:58:49,960
Speaker 2: you can go to Therapy Gecko dot supercast dot com

1156
00:58:50,440 --> 00:58:54,600
Speaker 2: or find the link in the episode description. Anyway, here's

1157
00:58:54,760 --> 00:58:58,720
Speaker 2: a little bit of this week's bonus app. All right,

1158
00:59:00,880 --> 00:59:04,960
Speaker 2: you texted in because you wanted to talk about You said,

1159
00:59:05,520 --> 00:59:15,480
Speaker 2: my mom gave my girlfriend permission to peg me? Yemp,

1160
00:59:18,880 --> 00:59:25,440
Speaker 2: Now did your did your girlfriend give your mom permission

1161
00:59:25,440 --> 00:59:25,960
Speaker 2: to watch?

1162
00:59:26,320 --> 00:59:26,400
Speaker 3: No?

1163
00:59:28,800 --> 00:59:29,680
Speaker 2: I fucking hope not.

1164
00:59:29,760 --> 00:59:29,800
Speaker 4: No.

1165
00:59:31,160 --> 00:59:35,120
Speaker 2: Uh, tell me tell me about this, this relationship your

1166
00:59:35,120 --> 00:59:38,600
Speaker 2: mom has with your girlfriend where she's gay keeping your asshole.

1167
00:59:41,960 --> 00:59:43,840
Speaker 1: I guess. I guess I'll preface this by saying.

1168
00:59:43,680 --> 00:59:46,880
Speaker 7: My my, my, my mother is a is a sex

1169
00:59:46,920 --> 00:59:48,200
Speaker 7: love and relationship coach.

1170
00:59:48,520 --> 00:59:51,280
Speaker 2: Oh okay, that's got to be weird for you.

1171
00:59:51,400 --> 00:59:52,520
Speaker 7: Yeah, you wouldn't believe it.

1172
00:59:54,600 --> 00:59:56,840
Speaker 4: Everyone's like, hey, you know that kid from sex education?

1173
00:59:57,600 --> 00:59:59,080
Speaker 7: Oh you know it?

1174
00:59:59,120 --> 01:00:01,920
Speaker 2: Wait, dude, your mom heart sex education at your school?

1175
01:00:02,040 --> 01:00:02,080
Speaker 1: No?

1176
01:00:02,440 --> 01:00:05,520
Speaker 2: Fuck, okay, I'm so thankful for No. It's if she's

1177
01:00:05,520 --> 01:00:06,840
Speaker 2: taught with you in the class.

1178
01:00:07,000 --> 01:00:10,800
Speaker 7: Yeah, this was a later thing that came on, but yeah,

1179
01:00:11,040 --> 01:00:14,120
Speaker 7: so it started off, me and my partner and a

1180
01:00:14,120 --> 01:00:16,440
Speaker 7: few friends do a thing called Wish miss, which I

1181
01:00:16,520 --> 01:00:19,720
Speaker 7: highly suggest everyone do. It's like a secret sounds like

1182
01:00:19,760 --> 01:00:22,560
Speaker 7: it hasn't worked out for you.

1183
01:00:22,560 --> 01:00:24,200
Speaker 2: No, it's it's it's very funny.

1184
01:00:24,200 --> 01:00:27,080
Speaker 7: So you do a secret Santa, but you're only allowed

1185
01:00:27,080 --> 01:00:29,160
Speaker 7: to buy things from the site called wish.

1186
01:00:29,720 --> 01:00:30,120
Speaker 2: I don't know.

1187
01:00:31,080 --> 01:00:33,640
Speaker 7: Yeah, sure, you know, crack pipes, you know, five dollars,

1188
01:00:33,640 --> 01:00:37,560
Speaker 7: PlayStation five still those all that sort of ship all

1189
01:00:37,560 --> 01:00:40,160
Speaker 7: in the one place. It's fantastic wish Edward Collin there

1190
01:00:40,160 --> 01:00:46,000
Speaker 7: it is there they go. Yeah, So for my for

1191
01:00:46,640 --> 01:00:48,600
Speaker 7: my person, they give to me a present. They gifted

1192
01:00:48,640 --> 01:00:51,680
Speaker 7: me a you know obviously Sully from Monster Zinc.

1193
01:00:53,560 --> 01:00:54,360
Speaker 2: It was a it was a.

1194
01:00:54,240 --> 01:01:00,200
Speaker 7: Butt plug, but it was with the Sully Tale.

1195
01:01:01,080 --> 01:01:04,200
Speaker 2: If you want to see this full Australia show, you

1196
01:01:04,240 --> 01:01:08,760
Speaker 2: can go to Therapy Gecko dot supercast dot com to

1197
01:01:08,880 --> 01:01:12,720
Speaker 2: sign up now and become a Premium member, or find

1198
01:01:12,760 --> 01:01:16,200
Speaker 2: the link in the episode description. All right, that's it.

1199
01:01:16,280 --> 01:01:21,600
Speaker 2: I have nothing else to say. I hate recording things.

1200
01:01:22,840 --> 01:01:27,840
Speaker 2: I think I probably fucked this recording up and restarted

1201
01:01:27,840 --> 01:01:30,200
Speaker 2: it at least five times, and it was really stressful.

1202
01:01:30,280 --> 01:01:33,920
Speaker 2: So I'm gonna go play Red Dead Redemption for six hours.

1203
01:01:34,800 --> 01:01:39,680
Speaker 2: Thanks again. Goes on the line making your phone calls

1204
01:01:39,760 --> 01:01:40,560
Speaker 2: every nine.

1205
01:01:40,680 --> 01:01:44,280
Speaker 7: Derek goes to a staging your cloud in the MIDI

1206
01:01:44,360 --> 01:01:44,800
Speaker 7: Your life.

1207
01:01:45,200 --> 01:01:48,200
Speaker 1: Money's not really an expert