1 00:00:00,240 --> 00:00:02,560 Speaker 1: Why did you send me this, Pauline this specifically? Are 2 00:00:02,640 --> 00:00:04,960 Speaker 1: you concerned about things that are in your house that 3 00:00:05,080 --> 00:00:06,800 Speaker 1: people might see when they come over for a party, 4 00:00:06,840 --> 00:00:09,520 Speaker 1: because you send me this this article. Yeah, about the 5 00:00:09,520 --> 00:00:11,879 Speaker 1: things that you're supposed to hide, oh, before guests come 6 00:00:11,920 --> 00:00:12,639 Speaker 1: over to your house? 7 00:00:13,320 --> 00:00:14,960 Speaker 2: Yeah, because I think about that sometimes if you know 8 00:00:15,000 --> 00:00:17,640 Speaker 2: somebody's coming over, like do you put certain things away? 9 00:00:17,760 --> 00:00:19,280 Speaker 3: Or like we're tidy up? 10 00:00:19,360 --> 00:00:20,759 Speaker 2: So that's kind of like what I was thinking, and 11 00:00:21,079 --> 00:00:22,799 Speaker 2: I do that well, Okay. 12 00:00:22,880 --> 00:00:24,800 Speaker 1: Eight five, five, five, nine, one one oh three five. 13 00:00:24,880 --> 00:00:26,000 Speaker 1: Is that you called the friend show? You can call 14 00:00:26,040 --> 00:00:28,200 Speaker 1: it text any time? Do you have any Is there 15 00:00:28,240 --> 00:00:30,400 Speaker 1: anything in your house that you have to make it 16 00:00:30,560 --> 00:00:32,480 Speaker 1: that you insist on leaving out, that you leave out 17 00:00:32,760 --> 00:00:36,280 Speaker 1: that you have to make sure you put away before 18 00:00:36,320 --> 00:00:41,159 Speaker 1: people come over. I have a friend who has an 19 00:00:41,200 --> 00:00:45,040 Speaker 1: accessory and an accessory for personal use that looks like 20 00:00:45,080 --> 00:00:48,080 Speaker 1: a rose. Oh yeah, and it sits on a little 21 00:00:48,200 --> 00:00:50,760 Speaker 1: charger base and it kind of looks like a little 22 00:00:50,800 --> 00:00:56,120 Speaker 1: like a little like silicone plastic little They advertise it 23 00:00:56,200 --> 00:00:58,400 Speaker 1: like you could leave it out and if you didn't know, 24 00:00:58,440 --> 00:01:02,160 Speaker 1: you wouldn't know she leaves it. No, But they advertise 25 00:01:02,240 --> 00:01:05,160 Speaker 1: it like that they advertise like it's a decorative item 26 00:01:05,240 --> 00:01:08,200 Speaker 1: that you can also use privately. But I would think 27 00:01:08,280 --> 00:01:10,000 Speaker 1: that's something that you know, you'd want to put away 28 00:01:10,080 --> 00:01:12,160 Speaker 1: because if it's like if there's anything that's plugged in 29 00:01:12,160 --> 00:01:14,319 Speaker 1: next to your bed that's plastic and kind of roundish, 30 00:01:14,400 --> 00:01:18,560 Speaker 1: I think you know every woman, yeah right, which I mean, hey, 31 00:01:18,640 --> 00:01:20,080 Speaker 1: what are we ashamed of? You know what? 32 00:01:20,120 --> 00:01:22,160 Speaker 4: I don't want to see what you use? Like I 33 00:01:22,160 --> 00:01:23,000 Speaker 4: don't need to see that. 34 00:01:23,880 --> 00:01:25,600 Speaker 1: Yeah, but it's pretty, you know, it's a pretty and 35 00:01:25,640 --> 00:01:27,200 Speaker 1: it comes in a variety of colors. 36 00:01:27,560 --> 00:01:28,800 Speaker 4: What do you do with it? I don't need to 37 00:01:29,000 --> 00:01:29,800 Speaker 4: be thinking about that. 38 00:01:30,120 --> 00:01:32,720 Speaker 1: You've left yoursalt before, though, haven't you accidentally like it? Maintenance? 39 00:01:32,720 --> 00:01:34,320 Speaker 1: People have come over what I am? Right? 40 00:01:34,400 --> 00:01:36,839 Speaker 4: Yeah, I know I didn't leave them. No, like that's 41 00:01:36,840 --> 00:01:37,280 Speaker 4: what I do. 42 00:01:38,000 --> 00:01:40,280 Speaker 1: You don't have like an arrow that points at it? 43 00:01:40,360 --> 00:01:43,119 Speaker 1: Like for everyone it comes over like here's the shaky thing. 44 00:01:43,520 --> 00:01:44,839 Speaker 3: Yeah, I learned my lesson. 45 00:01:45,440 --> 00:01:47,400 Speaker 2: So my mother in level sometimes if I'm working later 46 00:01:47,480 --> 00:01:49,360 Speaker 2: there's something to do, she'll come over and take the dog. 47 00:01:49,680 --> 00:01:52,040 Speaker 2: So I'll take Benzo, feed them whatever. Right, So Benzo 48 00:01:52,160 --> 00:01:54,160 Speaker 2: like runs to our room. It's like his thing. So 49 00:01:54,440 --> 00:01:55,960 Speaker 2: we got to go get a benzo, right, and it's 50 00:01:55,960 --> 00:02:01,320 Speaker 2: in our room and we have a b of like activities, 51 00:02:01,360 --> 00:02:02,520 Speaker 2: bag of toys if you will. 52 00:02:03,040 --> 00:02:04,640 Speaker 1: Well, it's a bag of them. 53 00:02:04,800 --> 00:02:06,400 Speaker 3: Like like a little bag I put them, and I 54 00:02:06,400 --> 00:02:07,000 Speaker 3: had to organize. 55 00:02:07,040 --> 00:02:11,440 Speaker 2: I mean, I'll put them somewhere like a little gift bag. 56 00:02:11,480 --> 00:02:14,560 Speaker 1: Then an entire collection of them. Okay, no, good for you. 57 00:02:14,639 --> 00:02:18,520 Speaker 2: Yeah, sitting out and I will never forget how I felt. 58 00:02:18,880 --> 00:02:20,400 Speaker 2: And like on top of that too, there was like 59 00:02:20,840 --> 00:02:22,600 Speaker 2: my husband said he wanted to do a card game, 60 00:02:22,720 --> 00:02:23,839 Speaker 2: so he bought me a card game. 61 00:02:24,320 --> 00:02:28,959 Speaker 1: You know, yes, the card Yeah, we're rolling. 62 00:02:29,400 --> 00:02:31,600 Speaker 3: Not rolling dice. He's just like it's like a card 63 00:02:31,600 --> 00:02:31,960 Speaker 3: game thing. 64 00:02:31,960 --> 00:02:32,239 Speaker 1: I don't know. 65 00:02:32,240 --> 00:02:33,760 Speaker 2: I guess like you you like you put a card 66 00:02:33,800 --> 00:02:35,680 Speaker 2: like this is what you get to do or you 67 00:02:35,720 --> 00:02:36,840 Speaker 2: get done? 68 00:02:36,639 --> 00:02:37,359 Speaker 4: You know what I'm saying. 69 00:02:37,440 --> 00:02:39,760 Speaker 3: Yes, yeah, I never did that before in my life either. 70 00:02:39,800 --> 00:02:41,360 Speaker 3: So I was like, what is that? But point is I. 71 00:02:41,400 --> 00:02:44,000 Speaker 2: Left it out like a dumbass, And she was there 72 00:02:44,120 --> 00:02:45,080 Speaker 2: and I don't. 73 00:02:44,880 --> 00:02:46,440 Speaker 3: Know if she saw it, but like, you can't tell. 74 00:02:46,240 --> 00:02:47,880 Speaker 2: Me she didn't, you know what I mean, It's right, 75 00:02:48,720 --> 00:02:51,120 Speaker 2: she has her own bag of toys. 76 00:02:50,160 --> 00:02:53,200 Speaker 3: I mean, I don't know. I just can't come for. 77 00:02:56,440 --> 00:02:59,280 Speaker 1: I'm going to go, I'm just gonna you know, she's 78 00:02:59,280 --> 00:03:01,359 Speaker 1: a lovely woman and I'm a happily married woman and 79 00:03:01,680 --> 00:03:04,160 Speaker 1: and I'm and I'm just going to bet that they 80 00:03:04,160 --> 00:03:06,440 Speaker 1: have their own That's what I'm saying. 81 00:03:06,720 --> 00:03:08,920 Speaker 4: Friends like say that their husbands would be mad, and 82 00:03:08,960 --> 00:03:09,320 Speaker 4: I'm like. 83 00:03:09,400 --> 00:03:11,960 Speaker 5: Girls, what the he happens if they knew about if 84 00:03:11,960 --> 00:03:15,200 Speaker 5: they had never had that was my reaction. 85 00:03:15,320 --> 00:03:18,280 Speaker 6: Thank you take a pressure off your boy over here. 86 00:03:19,360 --> 00:03:21,200 Speaker 6: Like my friend was like, I don't think you would 87 00:03:21,240 --> 00:03:23,200 Speaker 6: like that very much. I'm like, why don't you got 88 00:03:23,200 --> 00:03:24,200 Speaker 6: to return him? 89 00:03:24,760 --> 00:03:24,840 Speaker 5: No? 90 00:03:24,960 --> 00:03:26,680 Speaker 1: And I'm trying to be like a little bit cryptic 91 00:03:26,680 --> 00:03:28,160 Speaker 1: because it's early, but I guess the only thing it's 92 00:03:28,160 --> 00:03:30,079 Speaker 1: it wouldn't It doesn't bother me. But I guess it's 93 00:03:30,080 --> 00:03:32,640 Speaker 1: a little puzzling, like when and this is not uncommon, 94 00:03:33,080 --> 00:03:36,800 Speaker 1: but when people are able to, they're more successful on 95 00:03:36,840 --> 00:03:39,960 Speaker 1: their own than they are with other people. And maybe 96 00:03:39,960 --> 00:03:41,440 Speaker 1: this is just a me thing. I don't know that 97 00:03:41,480 --> 00:03:43,400 Speaker 1: if anyone listening can relate to this, but there are 98 00:03:43,400 --> 00:03:45,400 Speaker 1: a number of people that have dated who tended to 99 00:03:45,800 --> 00:03:48,920 Speaker 1: have no issue one on one or like zero on 100 00:03:48,920 --> 00:03:51,920 Speaker 1: one but then when they get other when with partners, 101 00:03:51,920 --> 00:03:54,520 Speaker 1: then it's it became be a little more challenging. And 102 00:03:54,560 --> 00:03:57,040 Speaker 1: I think that's like it's a psychological thing. But it's 103 00:03:57,080 --> 00:03:59,320 Speaker 1: like that I don't good for you, like have it, 104 00:03:59,480 --> 00:04:02,480 Speaker 1: let's use it like whatever to our advantage. But I'm 105 00:04:02,480 --> 00:04:04,400 Speaker 1: also like, how come that thing can do it? And 106 00:04:04,440 --> 00:04:07,960 Speaker 1: it takes me so much longer? Explain that to me, Ladies, 107 00:04:08,120 --> 00:04:11,800 Speaker 1: the labyrinth of your brains. Is it like pressure, Is 108 00:04:11,840 --> 00:04:13,440 Speaker 1: it like when you're on your own, or is it 109 00:04:13,520 --> 00:04:15,800 Speaker 1: you just know exactly what to do? Or like you 110 00:04:15,880 --> 00:04:18,480 Speaker 1: guys are much more complicated than we are. Like if 111 00:04:18,480 --> 00:04:20,479 Speaker 1: there's like a strong wind that comes by, we're good, 112 00:04:20,640 --> 00:04:24,720 Speaker 1: like very successful, very satisfying, you know what I mean. Yeah, 113 00:04:25,120 --> 00:04:27,240 Speaker 1: Like it's really hard to screw us up, like you 114 00:04:27,240 --> 00:04:29,800 Speaker 1: guys get yours every time, Like even the worst version 115 00:04:30,040 --> 00:04:33,960 Speaker 1: seems to work somehow, Like we can work. We're adaptable, 116 00:04:34,160 --> 00:04:36,320 Speaker 1: you know what I mean? Yeah, exactly, You guys can 117 00:04:36,360 --> 00:04:37,360 Speaker 1: be a little more complicated. 118 00:04:37,440 --> 00:04:38,880 Speaker 3: That's complicated orders. 119 00:04:39,160 --> 00:04:41,520 Speaker 1: But any guy who doesn't want your girlfriend or wife 120 00:04:41,560 --> 00:04:43,920 Speaker 1: to have that item simply because you're intimidated by the 121 00:04:43,960 --> 00:04:46,200 Speaker 1: fact that it works better than you, you're an idiot. 122 00:04:46,520 --> 00:04:48,400 Speaker 7: But I do feel like if you use it too much, 123 00:04:49,360 --> 00:04:52,760 Speaker 7: you can not desire your partner. 124 00:04:52,480 --> 00:04:53,279 Speaker 3: As much as you should. 125 00:04:53,320 --> 00:04:54,919 Speaker 1: The same is true for men, by the way. 126 00:04:54,880 --> 00:04:57,599 Speaker 3: Like you shouldn't be doing that so much all the time. 127 00:04:57,680 --> 00:04:59,520 Speaker 1: No, the same is true for men. You can I 128 00:04:59,520 --> 00:05:01,920 Speaker 1: don't know again, trying to be it's a little early, 129 00:05:01,960 --> 00:05:04,599 Speaker 1: but you can be so effective on your own that 130 00:05:04,640 --> 00:05:10,039 Speaker 1: it becomes unnecessary for other people. It can't happen. But here, 131 00:05:10,120 --> 00:05:12,520 Speaker 1: here's what they say that you should hide before people 132 00:05:12,600 --> 00:05:16,000 Speaker 1: come over. Personal medications. I'm one hundred percent certain people 133 00:05:16,000 --> 00:05:17,840 Speaker 1: have gone through my medicine cabinet and I don't. 134 00:05:17,600 --> 00:05:18,240 Speaker 4: Care through it. 135 00:05:18,320 --> 00:05:20,359 Speaker 1: Yeah, yeah, have fun. There's nothing in there that's going 136 00:05:20,400 --> 00:05:22,240 Speaker 1: to surprise any of you. In fact, you might be surprised. 137 00:05:22,240 --> 00:05:24,640 Speaker 1: There's not more in there, you know, to make this 138 00:05:24,720 --> 00:05:28,800 Speaker 1: crazy less crazy? Yeah, drugs and cigarettes. 139 00:05:31,720 --> 00:05:32,600 Speaker 3: We have company coming. 140 00:05:34,279 --> 00:05:37,040 Speaker 1: Hide all the drugs and cigarettes, plus the cocaine. 141 00:05:37,120 --> 00:05:38,160 Speaker 3: Right, where's my cokaine? 142 00:05:38,560 --> 00:05:40,880 Speaker 1: Well, Winge's coming over. He's gonna smoke everything again. Get 143 00:05:40,960 --> 00:05:45,720 Speaker 1: rid of it. Well yeah, real right, unnecessary clutter. You're 144 00:05:45,720 --> 00:05:50,440 Speaker 1: supposed to put that away. Yeah, you're supposed to put 145 00:05:50,480 --> 00:05:53,080 Speaker 1: away all your jackets and coats, so that there's room 146 00:05:53,520 --> 00:05:55,760 Speaker 1: like in closets for everyone else to put their jackets 147 00:05:55,760 --> 00:05:56,400 Speaker 1: and coats, or. 148 00:05:56,400 --> 00:05:58,080 Speaker 8: Do I put my jackets right, that's what I'm saying, 149 00:05:58,120 --> 00:05:59,760 Speaker 8: like in your in your clutter room, or like in 150 00:05:59,800 --> 00:06:03,479 Speaker 8: your edroom clutter I'm supody. 151 00:06:03,160 --> 00:06:04,960 Speaker 1: Should take all of my jackets and coats out of 152 00:06:04,960 --> 00:06:09,200 Speaker 1: the jacket and coat cabinet or you know, closet or whatever. 153 00:06:09,320 --> 00:06:11,279 Speaker 1: I don't know where I'm supposed to put them, so 154 00:06:11,320 --> 00:06:12,960 Speaker 1: there's room for your jackets and coats. 155 00:06:13,320 --> 00:06:15,560 Speaker 8: The same thing for shoes as well too, Like we 156 00:06:15,600 --> 00:06:17,200 Speaker 8: have a shoe rack, you know what I'm saying, But 157 00:06:17,200 --> 00:06:21,320 Speaker 8: we give all the shoes for the shoes in our 158 00:06:21,320 --> 00:06:21,920 Speaker 8: clutter room. 159 00:06:23,600 --> 00:06:24,400 Speaker 1: So I don't know. 160 00:06:24,760 --> 00:06:26,719 Speaker 8: The clutter room is not seen by anybody else. 161 00:06:26,480 --> 00:06:28,880 Speaker 3: Oh you're allowed to have a room, Yes, everything is, 162 00:06:30,440 --> 00:06:34,159 Speaker 3: and that's the room. They always wonder, this is my 163 00:06:34,240 --> 00:06:34,760 Speaker 3: clutter room. 164 00:06:35,800 --> 00:06:37,599 Speaker 1: Well that's like Rufio who he came over to my 165 00:06:37,640 --> 00:06:41,000 Speaker 1: house during the pandemic for we did like a like 166 00:06:41,080 --> 00:06:44,719 Speaker 1: a live and he starts going through my closets. I'm like, 167 00:06:44,800 --> 00:06:47,640 Speaker 1: what are you doing? He just opens the closet starts 168 00:06:47,640 --> 00:06:49,960 Speaker 1: looking around. I'm like, right, giving the people a tour. 169 00:06:50,120 --> 00:06:53,359 Speaker 1: I hate that it was unnecessary. You're supposed this is 170 00:06:53,360 --> 00:06:55,040 Speaker 1: the list of stuff're supposed to put away or hide 171 00:06:55,080 --> 00:06:59,320 Speaker 1: before people come over. Controversial posters and art, So all 172 00:06:59,320 --> 00:07:05,360 Speaker 1: your hitler stuff put that away. 173 00:07:05,680 --> 00:07:11,400 Speaker 5: Posters, black posters. Yeah, that Kim Jong un altar that 174 00:07:11,440 --> 00:07:15,320 Speaker 5: you have. People are think it's weird. Hosting goes. This 175 00:07:15,360 --> 00:07:18,360 Speaker 5: is a quote from an expert. Hosting goes Beyond serving 176 00:07:18,360 --> 00:07:21,200 Speaker 5: someone drinks and feeding them, good hospitality includes understanding how 177 00:07:21,200 --> 00:07:23,120 Speaker 5: home to core and things in your space will make 178 00:07:23,120 --> 00:07:26,119 Speaker 5: a guest feel. And that includes your that it includes 179 00:07:26,160 --> 00:07:29,440 Speaker 5: your controversial or uncanny art and posters. You can hang 180 00:07:29,480 --> 00:07:32,560 Speaker 5: them up with your guests. Go what the hell do 181 00:07:32,640 --> 00:07:36,600 Speaker 5: you have hanging up that you need to hide before 182 00:07:36,600 --> 00:07:40,120 Speaker 5: your friends come over? Pet toys and items you're supposed 183 00:07:40,120 --> 00:07:40,560 Speaker 5: to hide that. 184 00:07:41,560 --> 00:07:44,840 Speaker 9: Yeah, there's no more of their house than my house, 185 00:07:45,000 --> 00:07:46,200 Speaker 9: so their stuff is everywhere, and the. 186 00:07:46,240 --> 00:07:50,760 Speaker 1: Bills and personal mail. Okay, right, You're not supposed to 187 00:07:50,840 --> 00:07:53,000 Speaker 1: just leave you know, your bank statement. I actually leave 188 00:07:53,000 --> 00:07:54,200 Speaker 1: my bank statement that on purpose. 189 00:07:55,320 --> 00:07:57,000 Speaker 3: What's just doing here finding it? 190 00:07:57,080 --> 00:07:58,800 Speaker 1: Yeah? Yeah, there are a lot of there are not 191 00:07:58,880 --> 00:08:01,880 Speaker 1: a lot of zeros here. Notice this, just. 192 00:08:03,640 --> 00:08:06,800 Speaker 8: To see how negative I get yeah, exactly, yeah, exactly. 193 00:08:08,560 --> 00:08:10,600 Speaker 1: Yeah. I don't know you can have a credit score 194 00:08:10,600 --> 00:08:14,800 Speaker 1: that low either, but here it is. Yeah, but then 195 00:08:14,800 --> 00:08:16,520 Speaker 1: once people leave, I just put it right back out 196 00:08:16,560 --> 00:08:21,040 Speaker 1: so I can feel bad about myself. Yeah, you're supposed 197 00:08:21,040 --> 00:08:23,920 Speaker 1: to put away drugs and medicine. We put away our 198 00:08:24,400 --> 00:08:26,720 Speaker 1: bathroom towels. Is what like the ones we used, like 199 00:08:26,920 --> 00:08:29,440 Speaker 1: the fsh hours and stuff like that. Yeah, like they're 200 00:08:29,440 --> 00:08:33,320 Speaker 1: not hanging on the normal hook, you know, we just 201 00:08:33,360 --> 00:08:36,720 Speaker 1: have the towels for hand washing. Do you have because 202 00:08:36,720 --> 00:08:39,480 Speaker 1: I do have towels that are not intended to be 203 00:08:39,600 --> 00:08:42,040 Speaker 1: used in my home, that are there for display only. 204 00:08:42,720 --> 00:08:44,640 Speaker 1: And sometimes I'll go in my bathroom after I had 205 00:08:44,640 --> 00:08:46,760 Speaker 1: a guest, and I'll be not the guy the guest bathroom, 206 00:08:46,800 --> 00:08:48,760 Speaker 1: and anything that's in there you can use. But then 207 00:08:48,800 --> 00:08:51,240 Speaker 1: in my bathroom, I have towels that were not intended 208 00:08:51,240 --> 00:08:53,760 Speaker 1: to be used because they look nice the decoratively yeah 209 00:08:53,960 --> 00:08:58,360 Speaker 1: right right, and because they're mammogrammed, they're they're they're mammogrammed 210 00:08:58,480 --> 00:09:00,280 Speaker 1: to only, I would say, and they look very nice. 211 00:09:00,280 --> 00:09:02,160 Speaker 1: And then sometimes I'll go in there and one of 212 00:09:02,200 --> 00:09:03,960 Speaker 1: them is all like still kind of hanging there but 213 00:09:04,000 --> 00:09:07,280 Speaker 1: crumpled because I know, and I'm like, what sort of 214 00:09:07,360 --> 00:09:09,240 Speaker 1: animal are you? 215 00:09:09,240 --> 00:09:10,320 Speaker 3: You know how I feel about that? 216 00:09:10,679 --> 00:09:13,880 Speaker 1: But then again, maybe maybe I should put them away 217 00:09:13,920 --> 00:09:15,600 Speaker 1: then if I don't want people to use them because 218 00:09:15,640 --> 00:09:17,240 Speaker 1: it's a towel and a bathroom. 219 00:09:16,840 --> 00:09:18,840 Speaker 8: But what are they using your bathroom for? When you 220 00:09:18,880 --> 00:09:21,320 Speaker 8: have a hall? How do they get there from the bed? 221 00:09:21,360 --> 00:09:21,719 Speaker 1: Now? Why? 222 00:09:22,800 --> 00:09:22,959 Speaker 8: Now? 223 00:09:22,960 --> 00:09:26,640 Speaker 1: Why might they use the bathroom in the In my bad. 224 00:09:27,160 --> 00:09:28,320 Speaker 3: I've been out of the game for too long. 225 00:09:28,360 --> 00:09:28,720 Speaker 8: I don't know. 226 00:09:28,679 --> 00:09:36,560 Speaker 3: Oh I thought, okay, sorry, come to your house. You'll guess, right, okay. 227 00:09:36,840 --> 00:09:38,839 Speaker 1: Or like when a towel is necessary, be like no, 228 00:09:38,880 --> 00:09:42,800 Speaker 1: not the monograph, no, no. 229 00:09:42,360 --> 00:09:45,880 Speaker 3: Not that one, No no, I just got that No, no, 230 00:09:46,080 --> 00:09:48,439 Speaker 3: not that one. Three towels for the business. 231 00:09:50,840 --> 00:09:53,319 Speaker 1: I dated a girl once and you guys know who 232 00:09:53,360 --> 00:09:55,200 Speaker 1: it is. You don't know, maybe know this though, but 233 00:09:55,360 --> 00:09:57,800 Speaker 1: like basically next to her bed, like not far from 234 00:09:57,800 --> 00:10:01,200 Speaker 1: the bed was a little basket full of white like 235 00:10:01,360 --> 00:10:05,920 Speaker 1: uh yeah, like like like washcloths. 236 00:10:06,000 --> 00:10:07,600 Speaker 4: Yeah for that, That's the. 237 00:10:07,600 --> 00:10:12,440 Speaker 1: Only I can That's what I'm like, Why are there 238 00:10:12,600 --> 00:10:16,120 Speaker 1: so many? And why are they here? Got to hand 239 00:10:16,160 --> 00:10:19,880 Speaker 1: them out and there was no explanation. I'm like, like, 240 00:10:20,840 --> 00:10:23,679 Speaker 1: it's very convenient. But why do I hear like how 241 00:10:23,760 --> 00:10:28,839 Speaker 1: much activity is going on? You are so prepared? Yeah, exactly, exactly. 242 00:10:29,480 --> 00:10:33,720 Speaker 1: I was concerned. I'm going through these texts right here, 243 00:10:34,400 --> 00:10:37,679 Speaker 1: my craft stuff because it can get messy. I need 244 00:10:37,720 --> 00:10:41,200 Speaker 1: a she shed. I mean you do you put stuff away? Jason? 245 00:10:41,200 --> 00:10:43,680 Speaker 9: In your house is for some reason, I always feel 246 00:10:43,679 --> 00:10:45,600 Speaker 9: like i'd put my vacuum away. This is very less 247 00:10:45,600 --> 00:10:49,440 Speaker 9: delicious than rose. But my vacuum stays out all the 248 00:10:49,520 --> 00:10:51,640 Speaker 9: time because I'm using it all the time. But I 249 00:10:51,679 --> 00:10:53,439 Speaker 9: feel like you shouldn't see my vacuum. 250 00:10:53,640 --> 00:10:55,400 Speaker 1: Is that weird? I feel like my mom puts my 251 00:10:55,480 --> 00:11:01,760 Speaker 1: dad away when when comes you can now it's guess 252 00:11:01,760 --> 00:11:04,880 Speaker 1: they're coming over. Don't talk to them. I'll see blogs 253 00:11:04,880 --> 00:11:05,720 Speaker 1: next Freend shows up. 254 00:11:06,120 --> 00:11:09,400 Speaker 3: The Fred Show is on its Stay or go all right. 255 00:11:10,320 --> 00:11:15,280 Speaker 1: Trey is here. Talk to Trey. Hi, Good morning Trey, Hey, 256 00:11:15,280 --> 00:11:18,760 Speaker 1: good morning Trey. Welcome to the program. What's going on? 257 00:11:18,840 --> 00:11:20,440 Speaker 1: This is a little segment here where we try and 258 00:11:20,960 --> 00:11:23,360 Speaker 1: we hear you out whatever your relationship drama is. Every 259 00:11:23,360 --> 00:11:25,920 Speaker 1: Tuesday we do it and then we talk about you. 260 00:11:25,920 --> 00:11:28,040 Speaker 1: We hang up on you and we talk about you 261 00:11:28,040 --> 00:11:29,800 Speaker 1: behind your back, and people call and talk about you too, so, 262 00:11:30,080 --> 00:11:31,720 Speaker 1: but we're trying to help you, believe it or not. So, 263 00:11:31,760 --> 00:11:33,960 Speaker 1: what is your what's your situation? You hit us up 264 00:11:34,000 --> 00:11:37,520 Speaker 1: at Fresher Radio dot com. What's going on? Trey? 265 00:11:37,600 --> 00:11:40,120 Speaker 10: So, I've been in a relationship for a couple of 266 00:11:40,160 --> 00:11:45,280 Speaker 10: years my girlfriend. I think we're both still in luck. 267 00:11:45,440 --> 00:11:49,680 Speaker 10: I have a lot of luck for her. I should 268 00:11:49,760 --> 00:11:52,840 Speaker 10: keep her name minus No, we don't. 269 00:11:52,640 --> 00:11:54,040 Speaker 1: Need to say your name. We don't need to know 270 00:11:54,240 --> 00:11:56,199 Speaker 1: her name. We just need to know what's wrong with her. 271 00:11:58,720 --> 00:12:00,840 Speaker 1: What's wrong with you? Trey? I haven't decided, but I 272 00:12:00,840 --> 00:12:01,599 Speaker 1: don't know what's on. 273 00:12:02,480 --> 00:12:04,240 Speaker 10: You know, I don't know either. Maybe you guys can 274 00:12:04,240 --> 00:12:06,800 Speaker 10: tell me because I feel crazy. I feel like I've 275 00:12:06,840 --> 00:12:07,600 Speaker 10: been blaming her. 276 00:12:07,920 --> 00:12:09,400 Speaker 1: But now it's been a. 277 00:12:09,320 --> 00:12:13,120 Speaker 10: Couple of years a bit, so basically she look look traveling. 278 00:12:13,160 --> 00:12:16,040 Speaker 10: Traveling is like a big part of my life. I've 279 00:12:16,040 --> 00:12:20,280 Speaker 10: always loved traveling since college. It's been a big part 280 00:12:20,320 --> 00:12:22,880 Speaker 10: of uh what I do, what I do with buddies 281 00:12:23,720 --> 00:12:26,600 Speaker 10: and sharing it with people is really meaningful for me. 282 00:12:27,760 --> 00:12:28,280 Speaker 6: Uh. 283 00:12:28,480 --> 00:12:34,160 Speaker 11: Now, my girlfriend, she's got a major fear flyne so 284 00:12:34,200 --> 00:12:38,320 Speaker 11: she won't get on the plane like for anything. So 285 00:12:38,760 --> 00:12:40,920 Speaker 11: the trips we're able to take are kind of limited 286 00:12:41,000 --> 00:12:44,640 Speaker 11: because we can only drive and tired of driving to Wisconsin. 287 00:12:45,080 --> 00:12:49,120 Speaker 12: And obviously it's like a pretty big issue in our 288 00:12:49,200 --> 00:12:52,400 Speaker 12: relationship and it causes a lot of fights. 289 00:12:53,880 --> 00:12:55,880 Speaker 3: Okay, so so do well hold on? 290 00:12:56,000 --> 00:13:00,319 Speaker 1: So you like to travel internationally, I assume, or whatever 291 00:13:00,920 --> 00:13:03,640 Speaker 1: whatever it requires, you want to go further than you're 292 00:13:03,640 --> 00:13:05,679 Speaker 1: going to go on a car in a reasonable period 293 00:13:05,720 --> 00:13:07,480 Speaker 1: of time, and especially if you want to go to 294 00:13:07,480 --> 00:13:09,280 Speaker 1: like Europe or whatever else. I mean, you're getting on 295 00:13:09,320 --> 00:13:10,439 Speaker 1: a plane, and you're getting on a plane for a 296 00:13:10,480 --> 00:13:13,800 Speaker 1: long time, and this woman who you're dating is afraid 297 00:13:13,840 --> 00:13:16,599 Speaker 1: to fly. So it basically means either she's going to 298 00:13:16,679 --> 00:13:20,559 Speaker 1: have to somehow combat that fear or if you guys 299 00:13:20,679 --> 00:13:22,920 Speaker 1: are together forever or for an extended period of time, 300 00:13:23,080 --> 00:13:25,920 Speaker 1: then you're not going anywhere that's really too far away 301 00:13:25,960 --> 00:13:27,240 Speaker 1: because she's not getting on the plane. 302 00:13:27,760 --> 00:13:30,880 Speaker 10: That is what you're saying, Yes, exactly, exactly. 303 00:13:31,120 --> 00:13:35,200 Speaker 1: Now have you discussed with her that, hey, this is important, 304 00:13:35,520 --> 00:13:37,720 Speaker 1: this is something that I want to do, This is 305 00:13:37,720 --> 00:13:39,480 Speaker 1: something that would enrich you. To you, I think you'd 306 00:13:39,480 --> 00:13:44,040 Speaker 1: really enjoy it, you know, to sort of expand our horizons. 307 00:13:44,080 --> 00:13:45,760 Speaker 1: But you're gonna have to get on the plane. So like, 308 00:13:45,800 --> 00:13:49,840 Speaker 1: have you have you in a caring way, suggested methods 309 00:13:49,840 --> 00:13:52,760 Speaker 1: are ways to help her overcome this fear, or you 310 00:13:52,880 --> 00:13:57,240 Speaker 1: just like you're dumb. I'm I'm upset, I'm mad, I 311 00:13:57,280 --> 00:13:57,800 Speaker 1: want to go. 312 00:13:59,320 --> 00:13:59,440 Speaker 9: Now. 313 00:13:59,559 --> 00:14:04,440 Speaker 10: No, No, I have done a lot, Like we we've talked 314 00:14:04,480 --> 00:14:08,720 Speaker 10: about the hypnotist and she freaks out about that. I know, 315 00:14:08,800 --> 00:14:12,240 Speaker 10: there's like this light therapy thing where they like you 316 00:14:12,280 --> 00:14:15,880 Speaker 10: stare at something and she's uncomfortable with that. She's like, 317 00:14:15,920 --> 00:14:16,480 Speaker 10: I don't want. 318 00:14:16,320 --> 00:14:20,280 Speaker 12: To change my subconscious Like we even one time, like 319 00:14:20,440 --> 00:14:23,840 Speaker 12: I got her to commit to a trip and everything 320 00:14:23,960 --> 00:14:28,080 Speaker 12: was good until we were on our way and then 321 00:14:28,200 --> 00:14:30,960 Speaker 12: she starts freaking out, like literally on the way to 322 00:14:31,000 --> 00:14:31,560 Speaker 12: the airport. 323 00:14:32,720 --> 00:14:36,800 Speaker 10: And that was that was so annoying because it's like 324 00:14:37,440 --> 00:14:41,000 Speaker 10: I feel like she knew it was gonna come, and 325 00:14:41,760 --> 00:14:44,320 Speaker 10: kind of unfair to me because it happened. I was 326 00:14:44,360 --> 00:14:46,080 Speaker 10: looking forward to the trip. I'm going that did all 327 00:14:46,120 --> 00:14:48,760 Speaker 10: the planning. It kind of kind of sucks, you know. 328 00:14:49,240 --> 00:14:51,280 Speaker 1: Yeah, they could do like exposure therapy. There's a lot 329 00:14:51,280 --> 00:14:53,160 Speaker 1: of methods. I mean, the fear is the fear of 330 00:14:53,160 --> 00:14:55,320 Speaker 1: flying is is a legitimate fear for a lot of people. 331 00:14:56,440 --> 00:14:58,320 Speaker 1: I mean, have you considered the idea that if you 332 00:14:58,440 --> 00:15:00,840 Speaker 1: if you love every other part of her And I'm 333 00:15:00,840 --> 00:15:03,600 Speaker 1: just sort of thinking out loud here, but that there's 334 00:15:03,680 --> 00:15:06,080 Speaker 1: just this is that's something you would have to do 335 00:15:06,360 --> 00:15:09,240 Speaker 1: on your own or is that just inexcusable? Like I'm 336 00:15:09,680 --> 00:15:11,840 Speaker 1: you're your vision of a partner is somebody who's going 337 00:15:11,920 --> 00:15:13,560 Speaker 1: to experience these things with you, because I think that's 338 00:15:13,560 --> 00:15:15,280 Speaker 1: what a lot of people, a lot of people would 339 00:15:15,280 --> 00:15:17,080 Speaker 1: see it is. I don't want to go do cool 340 00:15:17,080 --> 00:15:18,480 Speaker 1: stuff without the person I love. 341 00:15:20,200 --> 00:15:24,000 Speaker 10: Yeah, exactly, I don't like I see myself being with 342 00:15:24,040 --> 00:15:28,520 Speaker 10: her like I'm down. I want to commit to her 343 00:15:28,680 --> 00:15:29,080 Speaker 10: for lunch. 344 00:15:30,560 --> 00:15:33,000 Speaker 1: So you're have a nice wedding at the Wisconsin Dell's 345 00:15:33,040 --> 00:15:35,000 Speaker 1: and then whatever's driving distance, and then you go the 346 00:15:35,000 --> 00:15:38,640 Speaker 1: other way. You get a nice Saint Louis visit. Maybe yeah, yeah, 347 00:15:38,680 --> 00:15:41,640 Speaker 1: honeymoon in Indianapolis. I mean it's beautiful this time of year. 348 00:15:42,560 --> 00:15:44,920 Speaker 1: You know, maybe we got some friends in the Carolinas. 349 00:15:44,920 --> 00:15:46,400 Speaker 1: You know, maybe if you're really looking to spend a 350 00:15:46,440 --> 00:15:49,120 Speaker 1: few days driving you can do that. Wow, Yeah, this 351 00:15:49,200 --> 00:15:50,760 Speaker 1: is real. I mean, look, if that's your passion and 352 00:15:50,800 --> 00:15:53,120 Speaker 1: that's your thing, and you you got a whole life 353 00:15:53,120 --> 00:15:55,440 Speaker 1: ahead of you to do this stuff, and she just 354 00:15:55,480 --> 00:15:58,560 Speaker 1: won't do it. And and if you're really going about 355 00:15:58,600 --> 00:16:01,680 Speaker 1: it like a in a caring, respectful way that hey, 356 00:16:01,680 --> 00:16:03,680 Speaker 1: look this is important. I need you to get over this. 357 00:16:03,760 --> 00:16:06,440 Speaker 1: I need and I'll help you do it, and she says, no, 358 00:16:08,000 --> 00:16:10,480 Speaker 1: I know it sounds crazy, but my in my opinion, 359 00:16:10,600 --> 00:16:16,200 Speaker 1: I think it's fundamentally broken in some ways unless you're 360 00:16:16,200 --> 00:16:17,480 Speaker 1: willing to do these things separate. 361 00:16:20,200 --> 00:16:22,200 Speaker 10: Wait, are you telling me that we should break up? 362 00:16:23,480 --> 00:16:26,360 Speaker 8: Sort of yeah, but basically I mean kind of this 363 00:16:26,400 --> 00:16:28,359 Speaker 8: happened with Travis and Courtney. 364 00:16:28,000 --> 00:16:30,760 Speaker 1: Right, and someone just texted about the Travis overcame his 365 00:16:30,840 --> 00:16:32,200 Speaker 1: fear of flying for Courtney. 366 00:16:31,920 --> 00:16:34,240 Speaker 8: Well, the man almost died on it, right, right, he 367 00:16:34,360 --> 00:16:35,280 Speaker 8: was willing to do so. 368 00:16:35,720 --> 00:16:41,000 Speaker 1: And that's like, yeah, she's got to be eight three 369 00:16:41,080 --> 00:16:42,360 Speaker 1: five is the number you can call in texta the 370 00:16:42,400 --> 00:16:43,800 Speaker 1: same number. I love to know what people have to say, 371 00:16:43,840 --> 00:16:46,840 Speaker 1: because if it doesn't have to necessarily be this, but 372 00:16:46,920 --> 00:16:49,560 Speaker 1: is there something fundamental in a relationship that you're either 373 00:16:49,600 --> 00:16:52,160 Speaker 1: in now or we're in I mean, at what point 374 00:16:52,160 --> 00:16:54,680 Speaker 1: do you say, like it's this is trivial or this 375 00:16:54,800 --> 00:16:58,600 Speaker 1: is truly important and you know it, and it's a 376 00:16:58,680 --> 00:17:00,920 Speaker 1: riff that can't be overcome. And and so we can't 377 00:17:00,920 --> 00:17:04,119 Speaker 1: be together. I wonder. I mean, sounds crazy that you 378 00:17:04,160 --> 00:17:06,600 Speaker 1: wouldn't stay with someone but you think you're gonna be 379 00:17:06,680 --> 00:17:08,919 Speaker 1: with forever because they won't get on a plane. But 380 00:17:09,000 --> 00:17:11,199 Speaker 1: I mean, at the same time, that's extremely limiting in 381 00:17:11,240 --> 00:17:14,040 Speaker 1: a lot of ways. It is, especially for somebody who's 382 00:17:14,040 --> 00:17:17,479 Speaker 1: got that wander lust. Oh god, you know, Trey, let 383 00:17:17,520 --> 00:17:18,840 Speaker 1: me take some phone calls on this man. Have the 384 00:17:18,920 --> 00:17:21,200 Speaker 1: radio one and uh and good luck, thanks for calling. 385 00:17:22,600 --> 00:17:23,120 Speaker 11: Thanks guys. 386 00:17:23,240 --> 00:17:24,320 Speaker 1: Yeah, I don't know. 387 00:17:25,480 --> 00:17:26,760 Speaker 4: Because you have a travel blog. 388 00:17:27,000 --> 00:17:29,600 Speaker 1: Well, you know, I am a I am a travel blogger. 389 00:17:30,119 --> 00:17:31,400 Speaker 1: It's true. 390 00:17:31,440 --> 00:17:33,480 Speaker 8: He should just travel travel by himself. And if she 391 00:17:33,520 --> 00:17:36,920 Speaker 8: don't want to go, that's that's not here. But that's 392 00:17:36,920 --> 00:17:38,800 Speaker 8: what I mean, Like, I'm gonna go this cool stuff. 393 00:17:38,800 --> 00:17:39,760 Speaker 8: I'm gonna go see the Bernie. 394 00:17:40,520 --> 00:17:42,880 Speaker 1: I'm gonna go see the Bernie statue in Egypt, and 395 00:17:42,880 --> 00:17:44,840 Speaker 1: and and she's not kind of with me, but he's. 396 00:17:44,720 --> 00:17:47,040 Speaker 8: Been doing it before they were together with his friends 397 00:17:47,080 --> 00:17:48,960 Speaker 8: and stuff like that. So if she doesn't want to, 398 00:17:49,000 --> 00:17:50,880 Speaker 8: I mean, she can't go over get over her fear 399 00:17:50,880 --> 00:17:53,560 Speaker 8: of flying. Then I wouldn't. I wouldn't stop doing it 400 00:17:53,560 --> 00:17:55,760 Speaker 8: because she can't fly. You know what I'm saying, that's 401 00:17:55,760 --> 00:17:58,840 Speaker 8: not that's not fair to him. If he should just 402 00:17:58,880 --> 00:18:01,040 Speaker 8: solo travel, he should just go and continue to do 403 00:18:01,080 --> 00:18:02,760 Speaker 8: what he does. And if she can't go, she can't go. 404 00:18:03,040 --> 00:18:04,680 Speaker 1: But go ahead. 405 00:18:04,760 --> 00:18:06,240 Speaker 7: No, I was just saying he should get him a 406 00:18:06,280 --> 00:18:09,120 Speaker 7: little flight, buddy. You know, I take her out of town. 407 00:18:09,600 --> 00:18:14,480 Speaker 7: What a wild I take her out of town and 408 00:18:14,520 --> 00:18:16,680 Speaker 7: anyone not come back with you? Yeah, bring you back 409 00:18:16,680 --> 00:18:17,280 Speaker 7: a souvenirs. 410 00:18:17,920 --> 00:18:20,960 Speaker 4: Yeah, just cheat on her, That is what I think. 411 00:18:21,000 --> 00:18:24,840 Speaker 1: That's all right. Anyway, let's put chamber reports next. Yeah, thanks, 412 00:18:25,240 --> 00:18:32,439 Speaker 1: that's great. I don't know this man, Trey. But like 413 00:18:32,640 --> 00:18:35,600 Speaker 1: for people that love to travel like it's a lifestyle, 414 00:18:35,720 --> 00:18:38,919 Speaker 1: like it's a it's truly a passion. And I like 415 00:18:39,000 --> 00:18:41,640 Speaker 1: to travel, and I've gone to ten countries by myself, 416 00:18:41,680 --> 00:18:44,240 Speaker 1: and I every time I'm there, I think this is cool. 417 00:18:44,240 --> 00:18:46,359 Speaker 1: I'm glad I did it. I'm glad I stopped putting 418 00:18:46,400 --> 00:18:48,960 Speaker 1: off these trips because I would waiting my whole life 419 00:18:48,960 --> 00:18:50,840 Speaker 1: to have the person to go with, to do the 420 00:18:50,840 --> 00:18:52,600 Speaker 1: cool stuff with. And then you get to a certain 421 00:18:52,640 --> 00:18:54,560 Speaker 1: point where you don't have that, and it's like, well, 422 00:18:54,560 --> 00:18:56,520 Speaker 1: I'm running. I'm not running out of time, but I'm 423 00:18:56,560 --> 00:18:59,359 Speaker 1: gonna stop wasting time, you know. And and best cases, 424 00:18:59,400 --> 00:19:01,159 Speaker 1: I go somewhere by myself. I can go back with 425 00:19:01,200 --> 00:19:03,920 Speaker 1: this person. But the truth is I don't. Every time 426 00:19:03,960 --> 00:19:05,639 Speaker 1: I'm on these trips, I see something and I'm like, 427 00:19:05,800 --> 00:19:08,239 Speaker 1: this would be cool to share with someone else. And 428 00:19:08,280 --> 00:19:12,040 Speaker 1: if I were with somebody who just refused to branch 429 00:19:12,119 --> 00:19:14,359 Speaker 1: out and work on the issue so we could do 430 00:19:14,440 --> 00:19:17,000 Speaker 1: it, it would never work. It wouldn't work. It's fundamental. 431 00:19:17,119 --> 00:19:19,560 Speaker 6: Everyone has their thing, right, Like that's like telling someone 432 00:19:19,560 --> 00:19:21,720 Speaker 6: who loves football, you can never watch football again, you 433 00:19:21,760 --> 00:19:23,720 Speaker 6: know what I mean? Like, I feel like everyone has 434 00:19:23,720 --> 00:19:25,560 Speaker 6: something that like fuels their little soul. 435 00:19:25,840 --> 00:19:27,720 Speaker 1: And I get that it's a fear, and I get 436 00:19:27,800 --> 00:19:30,520 Speaker 1: that it's real. Did you just burb? No? 437 00:19:30,560 --> 00:19:33,399 Speaker 3: I hit the mic on my nail. Jesus Spiky, actually 438 00:19:33,960 --> 00:19:34,840 Speaker 3: fight with the mic. 439 00:19:34,920 --> 00:19:36,920 Speaker 1: I know we're a little comfortable now, my god. 440 00:19:40,000 --> 00:19:41,959 Speaker 3: Yes, sorry. I was with Jelly Roll last night. 441 00:19:43,280 --> 00:19:44,919 Speaker 4: She wanted us to rate it. It was weird. 442 00:19:46,480 --> 00:19:47,120 Speaker 1: How does it smell? 443 00:19:47,600 --> 00:19:47,959 Speaker 5: Gros? 444 00:19:48,119 --> 00:19:52,600 Speaker 1: Before? That wasn't even a good one. Calin's Entertainment Report 445 00:19:52,840 --> 00:19:53,880 Speaker 1: is on the Bread Show. 446 00:19:54,240 --> 00:19:57,720 Speaker 6: Philly Eilish is not super thrilled with Variety magazine for 447 00:19:57,800 --> 00:20:00,560 Speaker 6: asking about her sexuality in a red carpet interview over 448 00:20:00,600 --> 00:20:02,760 Speaker 6: the weekend. Now, this is really interesting because I played 449 00:20:02,800 --> 00:20:05,600 Speaker 6: you guys that clip and you couldn't really tell she 450 00:20:05,680 --> 00:20:07,280 Speaker 6: was upset, right Like she. 451 00:20:07,280 --> 00:20:09,000 Speaker 4: Was like, oh this is weird. I'm excited, and the 452 00:20:09,000 --> 00:20:13,399 Speaker 4: girls like, you're sife, I'm gay. But like, it's interesting because. 453 00:20:13,160 --> 00:20:15,280 Speaker 6: Now she's saying that she's very upset about that. She 454 00:20:15,320 --> 00:20:18,000 Speaker 6: wrote on Instagram, thanks Variety for my award and also 455 00:20:18,040 --> 00:20:20,000 Speaker 6: for outing me on a red carpet at eleven am 456 00:20:20,040 --> 00:20:22,920 Speaker 6: instead of talking about anything else that matters, like boys 457 00:20:22,920 --> 00:20:25,560 Speaker 6: and girls. Leave me alone about it. Please, Literally no 458 00:20:25,600 --> 00:20:28,439 Speaker 6: one cares. I do think people care. But it was 459 00:20:28,720 --> 00:20:30,320 Speaker 6: I mean, I guess she what was she going to do? 460 00:20:30,359 --> 00:20:32,880 Speaker 4: Be rude? But she was upset that they asked. 461 00:20:32,880 --> 00:20:36,240 Speaker 6: And this all stemmed from the original article where she 462 00:20:36,280 --> 00:20:38,639 Speaker 6: talked for the first time publicly about being attracted to 463 00:20:38,680 --> 00:20:41,560 Speaker 6: women as well. So I don't know, you kind of 464 00:20:41,560 --> 00:20:43,879 Speaker 6: said it first and she was following up a question. 465 00:20:43,960 --> 00:20:49,560 Speaker 8: It's kind of like, oh, you were messy. She's like 466 00:20:49,600 --> 00:20:53,040 Speaker 8: following the person was following up a question, right something 467 00:20:53,080 --> 00:20:53,840 Speaker 8: she said. 468 00:20:53,600 --> 00:20:56,520 Speaker 3: You already said it, right, Why is it now? 469 00:20:56,840 --> 00:20:59,240 Speaker 4: Yeah, it's it's interesting. It's an interesting reaction. 470 00:21:00,240 --> 00:21:03,240 Speaker 6: Julia Roberts has broken her silence on the heartbreaking loss 471 00:21:03,280 --> 00:21:04,040 Speaker 6: of Matthew Perry. 472 00:21:04,080 --> 00:21:04,800 Speaker 4: If you didn't know. 473 00:21:05,320 --> 00:21:07,879 Speaker 6: First of all, she guest starred on Friends as Chandler's 474 00:21:07,960 --> 00:21:10,880 Speaker 6: childhood classmate in the nineteen ninety six episode, the one 475 00:21:10,880 --> 00:21:13,120 Speaker 6: after the super Bowl, And here's what she had to say. 476 00:21:13,480 --> 00:21:16,240 Speaker 13: Yeah, all good thoughts and feelings. They were all so 477 00:21:16,480 --> 00:21:20,720 Speaker 13: welcoming to me as just a kind of one off character, 478 00:21:20,960 --> 00:21:24,000 Speaker 13: and it was a really fun time. And you know, 479 00:21:24,200 --> 00:21:28,119 Speaker 13: a sudden passing of anybody so young is heartbreaking, and 480 00:21:28,160 --> 00:21:31,119 Speaker 13: I think that it just helps all of us just 481 00:21:31,640 --> 00:21:34,840 Speaker 13: appreciate what we have and to keep going in a 482 00:21:34,920 --> 00:21:36,560 Speaker 13: positive way as best we can. 483 00:21:36,800 --> 00:21:39,800 Speaker 6: If you didn't know, Matthew later wrote in his memoir 484 00:21:39,840 --> 00:21:43,520 Speaker 6: that they actually dated, yes, for three months, and I 485 00:21:43,560 --> 00:21:45,040 Speaker 6: don't know if that stemmed from the show or not, 486 00:21:45,080 --> 00:21:48,080 Speaker 6: but his hit list, oh my god, he dated everyone beautiful. 487 00:21:48,960 --> 00:21:51,440 Speaker 6: But yeah, so that was nice to hear from her. 488 00:21:51,480 --> 00:21:55,040 Speaker 6: The US economy is headed for a sharp slowdown next year, 489 00:21:55,320 --> 00:21:58,560 Speaker 6: and some of that thanks to Taylor Swift this year. Obviously, 490 00:21:58,560 --> 00:22:02,160 Speaker 6: people spent on experiences, you know, concerts and the Eras Tour, 491 00:22:02,320 --> 00:22:04,959 Speaker 6: which ranked number one by raking in nearly eight hundred 492 00:22:05,000 --> 00:22:07,800 Speaker 6: million nationally. And we saw all those cities saying she 493 00:22:07,880 --> 00:22:11,040 Speaker 6: helped our economy. But these patterns didn't continue in the 494 00:22:11,080 --> 00:22:12,800 Speaker 6: fourth quarter at the same level. 495 00:22:12,960 --> 00:22:14,879 Speaker 4: And that's been my economy report. 496 00:22:15,560 --> 00:22:17,440 Speaker 1: That was excellent. That was I thought. I was watching 497 00:22:17,480 --> 00:22:19,639 Speaker 1: CNBC there for really just a second. You know, I 498 00:22:19,640 --> 00:22:21,800 Speaker 1: talked stocks and you're gonna do well. It's gonna be 499 00:22:22,400 --> 00:22:24,120 Speaker 1: a bad year for the economy, but a good year 500 00:22:24,119 --> 00:22:26,919 Speaker 1: for you because there won't be anything just well, Oh, 501 00:22:27,359 --> 00:22:28,959 Speaker 1: I'm gonna say, what are you gonna spend money on 502 00:22:29,320 --> 00:22:30,359 Speaker 1: trying to see Taylor again? 503 00:22:31,440 --> 00:22:34,320 Speaker 6: Yeah, Jason and I agree that we won't, although I 504 00:22:34,359 --> 00:22:35,840 Speaker 6: don't know if I believe us. 505 00:22:36,119 --> 00:22:37,480 Speaker 1: I'm sure she'll come out with a new line of 506 00:22:37,520 --> 00:22:40,040 Speaker 1: card against or something that you'll just have to have. 507 00:22:40,240 --> 00:22:41,960 Speaker 8: Well, you gotta spend money. You're gonna buy that thing 508 00:22:41,960 --> 00:22:42,520 Speaker 8: on our birthday? 509 00:22:42,600 --> 00:22:42,760 Speaker 1: Right? 510 00:22:42,800 --> 00:22:44,480 Speaker 8: The on demand? 511 00:22:44,880 --> 00:22:46,000 Speaker 3: Yeah, you know you are. 512 00:22:46,640 --> 00:22:52,000 Speaker 1: Yeah, it's like another version of the Eras Tour, except 513 00:22:52,080 --> 00:22:53,359 Speaker 1: like now I. 514 00:22:53,320 --> 00:22:55,200 Speaker 6: Saw she just added back a couple of songs because 515 00:22:55,200 --> 00:22:56,960 Speaker 6: in theater she had to cut it to two forty 516 00:22:56,960 --> 00:22:58,960 Speaker 6: five because that was too long the movie. So she's 517 00:22:59,000 --> 00:23:00,640 Speaker 6: added the three songs back and that she cut. 518 00:23:00,680 --> 00:23:02,480 Speaker 1: And how much will that cost to view? 519 00:23:02,600 --> 00:23:04,200 Speaker 4: That's a good question. I don't know how much it's 520 00:23:04,200 --> 00:23:06,280 Speaker 4: going to be. But money is no object when it 521 00:23:06,280 --> 00:23:08,000 Speaker 4: comes to year. 522 00:23:08,800 --> 00:23:10,760 Speaker 1: I thought that he would be a better financial outlook 523 00:23:10,760 --> 00:23:14,240 Speaker 1: for you, but no, Probably one of your French is 524 00:23:14,240 --> 00:23:16,280 Speaker 1: getting married in Brazil too, so that that'll cost a 525 00:23:16,320 --> 00:23:16,760 Speaker 1: little bit of. 526 00:23:16,760 --> 00:23:18,720 Speaker 4: Money mine, don't remind me. 527 00:23:19,720 --> 00:23:23,560 Speaker 6: Problematic rapper Little Boozy went on Instagram Live to tell 528 00:23:23,600 --> 00:23:25,479 Speaker 6: his followers that one of his daughters has a new 529 00:23:25,480 --> 00:23:27,879 Speaker 6: boyfriend and she asked him to be nice. 530 00:23:27,960 --> 00:23:29,320 Speaker 4: He did the literal opposite. 531 00:23:29,359 --> 00:23:31,879 Speaker 6: He proceeded to then tell the boyfriend quote, you can 532 00:23:31,960 --> 00:23:35,880 Speaker 6: cheat on her, but don't beat her. He literally told 533 00:23:35,880 --> 00:23:38,080 Speaker 6: her daughter's boyfriend that he could cheat on her. Oh 534 00:23:38,119 --> 00:23:40,520 Speaker 6: my god, he'd be quiet, right, he needs to always 535 00:23:40,520 --> 00:23:43,119 Speaker 6: be quiet. He obviously got a ton of backlash, so 536 00:23:43,119 --> 00:23:45,080 Speaker 6: we have to back on Instagram Live with a follow 537 00:23:45,160 --> 00:23:47,560 Speaker 6: up video. He clarified that what goes on in his 538 00:23:47,640 --> 00:23:50,040 Speaker 6: daughter's relationship is none of his business, but added that 539 00:23:50,040 --> 00:23:51,159 Speaker 6: if the boyfriend is abusive. 540 00:23:51,240 --> 00:23:54,160 Speaker 4: That would be a completely different problem. I guess that's 541 00:23:54,200 --> 00:23:55,399 Speaker 4: maybe a way to word it. 542 00:23:55,440 --> 00:23:58,199 Speaker 6: I mean you don't usually want either, but you know 543 00:23:58,560 --> 00:24:01,240 Speaker 6: you'd be quiet, you know, talking Lucy more to check 544 00:24:01,280 --> 00:24:03,600 Speaker 6: out online today. We got something for the gamers. There's 545 00:24:03,600 --> 00:24:06,200 Speaker 6: a new game coming out and it's really cool. 546 00:24:06,640 --> 00:24:07,480 Speaker 4: It's really cool. 547 00:24:07,640 --> 00:24:09,560 Speaker 8: Or when I go fetch your radio games, I'm there. 548 00:24:10,280 --> 00:24:14,719 Speaker 1: Have you ever been before? Yeah, Frendshi radio dot com. Yeah, 549 00:24:14,720 --> 00:24:16,600 Speaker 1: you can listen on the iHeart app as well, anytime. 550 00:24:17,240 --> 00:24:19,440 Speaker 8: Is it fred Old Radio? 551 00:24:19,600 --> 00:24:21,600 Speaker 1: Yeah? Oh yeah, I've been there for you've been there? 552 00:24:21,680 --> 00:24:21,920 Speaker 5: Yes? 553 00:24:22,400 --> 00:24:24,040 Speaker 1: Yeah, cool? 554 00:24:24,400 --> 00:24:27,680 Speaker 7: Probably trying to enter our contest problem. No, we can't 555 00:24:27,680 --> 00:24:32,359 Speaker 7: rent your wish, my holiday wish. Yeah, you wanted PS 556 00:24:32,440 --> 00:24:33,120 Speaker 7: five games. 557 00:24:33,160 --> 00:24:36,280 Speaker 1: Now you already gave you the PS five dude, But 558 00:24:36,400 --> 00:24:40,840 Speaker 1: any games you need to you need to go work it. 559 00:24:41,320 --> 00:24:43,080 Speaker 4: You need to play the. 560 00:24:42,480 --> 00:24:49,480 Speaker 1: Cardinalship or hey, hey, it's rufio for you know, uh, preparation, 561 00:24:49,760 --> 00:24:51,800 Speaker 1: h I mean whatever. 562 00:24:51,480 --> 00:24:52,440 Speaker 8: Whatever they're gonna give me out. 563 00:24:52,960 --> 00:24:56,160 Speaker 1: Hey it's rufio for Boner pills, like whatever it takes. Man, 564 00:24:56,480 --> 00:24:57,280 Speaker 1: you want games. 565 00:24:57,160 --> 00:25:00,240 Speaker 8: If you're here for rhino pills, Yeah, let's go for 566 00:25:00,240 --> 00:25:01,080 Speaker 8: a hair restoration. 567 00:25:02,520 --> 00:25:12,239 Speaker 1: The games are just poor Fredshell. Next, it's like we're 568 00:25:12,240 --> 00:25:14,040 Speaker 1: writing in our diaries, except we say them aloud. We 569 00:25:14,040 --> 00:25:17,320 Speaker 1: call him blogs. Rufio's got one go. Thank you, dear blog. 570 00:25:17,560 --> 00:25:19,959 Speaker 8: I just want to say a huge thing to all 571 00:25:20,040 --> 00:25:24,520 Speaker 8: you guys for my birthday present, the PlayStation five. I 572 00:25:24,560 --> 00:25:27,280 Speaker 8: had a chance to actually play it this weekend, and 573 00:25:27,359 --> 00:25:30,320 Speaker 8: I also got to say thank you because it has 574 00:25:30,359 --> 00:25:32,680 Speaker 8: created some bonding time for me and Ashland. 575 00:25:33,240 --> 00:25:35,600 Speaker 3: He absolutely loves this machine. 576 00:25:36,440 --> 00:25:40,480 Speaker 8: He thinks he's playing, so. 577 00:25:40,440 --> 00:25:41,840 Speaker 1: It's not how it goes. You play and then you 578 00:25:41,880 --> 00:25:43,960 Speaker 1: give him a controller. So you guys got me the 579 00:25:43,960 --> 00:25:46,159 Speaker 1: extra controller. So he gets one controller, I get the 580 00:25:46,160 --> 00:25:48,440 Speaker 1: other one and we're playing. It came with Spider Man two, 581 00:25:48,880 --> 00:25:51,120 Speaker 1: and if you're not familiar in the game, there's two 582 00:25:51,119 --> 00:25:54,600 Speaker 1: Spider Man, Peter Parker and Mas Morales. And he plays one, 583 00:25:54,640 --> 00:25:57,200 Speaker 1: I play the other. But I'm playing both, you know 584 00:25:57,200 --> 00:25:59,160 Speaker 1: what I'm sink because you get to play both characters 585 00:25:59,200 --> 00:26:00,960 Speaker 1: like solo. And then there's parts of the game where 586 00:26:00,960 --> 00:26:01,959 Speaker 1: they're together. 587 00:26:02,080 --> 00:26:04,600 Speaker 8: The Spider Man are fighting the bad guys together, so 588 00:26:04,640 --> 00:26:07,639 Speaker 8: he thinks he's fighting along and I'm teaching them, you know, 589 00:26:07,720 --> 00:26:11,520 Speaker 8: because the PlayStation controller also has shapes like there's an X, 590 00:26:11,560 --> 00:26:13,280 Speaker 8: but in the triangle, the circle, the square. 591 00:26:13,320 --> 00:26:15,560 Speaker 3: I'm like, push the X, push the circle, push the square. 592 00:26:15,680 --> 00:26:17,399 Speaker 3: So he thinks he's punching bad guys. 593 00:26:17,720 --> 00:26:20,399 Speaker 1: And this is how he's justified to Jess. His wife 594 00:26:20,480 --> 00:26:22,160 Speaker 1: is somehow educational too. 595 00:26:23,480 --> 00:26:26,960 Speaker 8: There's more like he's web slinging, he's fighting, and then 596 00:26:27,320 --> 00:26:28,880 Speaker 8: he'll he'll be like is any kid. 597 00:26:28,920 --> 00:26:30,600 Speaker 3: He gets tired and he's like, let's take a break. 598 00:26:30,640 --> 00:26:30,840 Speaker 1: Dad. 599 00:26:30,840 --> 00:26:33,240 Speaker 8: I was like, okay, fine, we go eat lunch whatever, 600 00:26:33,359 --> 00:26:35,560 Speaker 8: and then what do you want to do? You gonna 601 00:26:35,560 --> 00:26:36,800 Speaker 8: watch TV? What do you want to do after we're 602 00:26:36,800 --> 00:26:38,320 Speaker 8: done eating lunch. He's like, no, I want to go 603 00:26:38,320 --> 00:26:40,160 Speaker 8: back to playing Spider Man. I was like, okay, let's 604 00:26:40,160 --> 00:26:42,359 Speaker 8: go head back down to the basement or whatever. But 605 00:26:42,720 --> 00:26:46,320 Speaker 8: for Jess, she was she very adamant about me not 606 00:26:46,359 --> 00:26:48,639 Speaker 8: getting another gaming system because she's like, you don't got time. 607 00:26:48,920 --> 00:26:51,920 Speaker 8: But now Ashley and I are downstairs the whole day 608 00:26:52,119 --> 00:26:56,359 Speaker 8: and she's got freedom to do whatever she's doing, resting, relaxing, 609 00:26:56,640 --> 00:26:58,159 Speaker 8: putting up Christmas decoration. 610 00:26:58,320 --> 00:27:02,880 Speaker 7: He's like, this is the best had some peace. 611 00:27:03,920 --> 00:27:05,680 Speaker 8: So like every day after gets out of school, he's 612 00:27:05,680 --> 00:27:06,879 Speaker 8: like dad, Let's go Spider Man. 613 00:27:06,960 --> 00:27:08,720 Speaker 3: I'm like, let's go spider Man. 614 00:27:09,440 --> 00:27:11,359 Speaker 6: She sent me a video of him and he was 615 00:27:11,400 --> 00:27:14,480 Speaker 6: deciding between eating a plate full of shredded cheese or 616 00:27:14,520 --> 00:27:17,800 Speaker 6: playing video games all which is often something I'm. 617 00:27:17,280 --> 00:27:18,720 Speaker 1: Gonna be honest with you probably would have gone with 618 00:27:18,720 --> 00:27:21,720 Speaker 1: the shread of cheese both. 619 00:27:21,760 --> 00:27:24,080 Speaker 8: He brought the cheese down stairs. He's like, I got 620 00:27:24,160 --> 00:27:26,359 Speaker 8: to play the cheese, and I'm like, let's go Spider Man. 621 00:27:26,400 --> 00:27:30,480 Speaker 1: Made it man to be a kid again and just 622 00:27:30,520 --> 00:27:32,560 Speaker 1: eat treaded cheese and play video games. And that's that's 623 00:27:32,560 --> 00:27:33,600 Speaker 1: what my whole day consists of. 624 00:27:34,000 --> 00:27:34,080 Speaker 5: Do. 625 00:27:34,440 --> 00:27:36,280 Speaker 1: Yeah, it is the right so to be Lufio. 626 00:27:36,520 --> 00:27:39,000 Speaker 7: Yeah, I can't wait till he figures figures out that 627 00:27:39,040 --> 00:27:39,920 Speaker 7: he's not actually playing. 628 00:27:39,920 --> 00:27:41,560 Speaker 8: Oh he knows, he's you know what I'm saying. 629 00:27:41,720 --> 00:27:44,960 Speaker 3: Yeah, no, I can't. I wait. 630 00:27:45,720 --> 00:27:48,320 Speaker 1: When I was I was pretty young, maybe like I 631 00:27:48,320 --> 00:27:52,840 Speaker 1: don't know, ten eleven, twelve, some my that my grandfather 632 00:27:53,200 --> 00:27:55,560 Speaker 1: found this hobby store in you your house, and on 633 00:27:56,040 --> 00:28:00,359 Speaker 1: Wednesdays and Saturdays they would do like RC, like an 634 00:28:00,480 --> 00:28:04,000 Speaker 1: organized RC car race, and the guy in the parking 635 00:28:04,000 --> 00:28:05,920 Speaker 1: lot of the of like the strip mall would set 636 00:28:05,960 --> 00:28:08,280 Speaker 1: up like a track, and it was the whole thing, 637 00:28:08,359 --> 00:28:10,280 Speaker 1: and it was like adults and kids, and it was 638 00:28:10,640 --> 00:28:12,680 Speaker 1: brilliant because people would have to buy all the crap 639 00:28:12,720 --> 00:28:14,560 Speaker 1: in history and then come out and race the cars 640 00:28:14,560 --> 00:28:16,600 Speaker 1: and it was all. There were prizes and the whole thing. 641 00:28:16,880 --> 00:28:18,720 Speaker 1: And we did this for years, and my grandfather was like, 642 00:28:18,720 --> 00:28:20,920 Speaker 1: he and I would bond doing this. Well, my sisters 643 00:28:21,119 --> 00:28:23,000 Speaker 1: like four or five, and she decides she wants to 644 00:28:23,000 --> 00:28:25,560 Speaker 1: do it, but she can't drive the car. So she'd 645 00:28:25,600 --> 00:28:27,840 Speaker 1: come out and drive a car with it. She'd have 646 00:28:27,920 --> 00:28:29,399 Speaker 1: the cold. She stand on a little ladder and have 647 00:28:29,480 --> 00:28:32,200 Speaker 1: the controller. But then I'd be over behind my grandfather's 648 00:28:32,240 --> 00:28:35,439 Speaker 1: car actually steering the car, like actually doing it, and 649 00:28:35,480 --> 00:28:37,600 Speaker 1: then she would win. And then she would like beat 650 00:28:37,760 --> 00:28:40,120 Speaker 1: grown ups and be like I won, you know, but 651 00:28:40,200 --> 00:28:42,960 Speaker 1: like the controller wasn't doing anything. We did that for 652 00:28:43,040 --> 00:28:44,360 Speaker 1: I don't to this day, I don't know if she 653 00:28:44,440 --> 00:28:44,960 Speaker 1: knows that she. 654 00:28:45,400 --> 00:28:49,080 Speaker 8: What stuff that's actually now he's like, yeah, I beat 655 00:28:49,160 --> 00:28:50,719 Speaker 8: up that guy. I was like, you did beat up 656 00:28:50,760 --> 00:28:52,160 Speaker 8: that guy, Good job. 657 00:28:52,320 --> 00:28:54,160 Speaker 1: Look at this. So who knew the gift that we 658 00:28:54,240 --> 00:28:56,360 Speaker 1: gave you that we thought Jess would hate us for that. 659 00:28:56,440 --> 00:28:58,160 Speaker 1: We did ask for permission for first, she was never 660 00:28:58,200 --> 00:29:00,320 Speaker 1: gonna tell us now. Yeah, but the gift that we 661 00:29:00,360 --> 00:29:02,040 Speaker 1: gave you that we thought she would hate us for, 662 00:29:02,200 --> 00:29:02,960 Speaker 1: she loves. 663 00:29:02,760 --> 00:29:06,040 Speaker 8: Us for yes, because she's got peace and quiet. 664 00:29:06,120 --> 00:29:08,760 Speaker 1: Now, my god, I see we get a lock for 665 00:29:08,840 --> 00:29:13,760 Speaker 1: the other side of the door, and then it's just slide, 666 00:29:14,040 --> 00:29:16,600 Speaker 1: all right, just slide some cheese under the you know, 667 00:29:16,680 --> 00:29:21,000 Speaker 1: everything will be fine. She can live a whole separate 668 00:29:21,040 --> 00:29:24,120 Speaker 1: life if she wanted to. The Entertainment Report is next 669 00:29:24,160 --> 00:29:24,600 Speaker 1: Fred Show.