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Speaker 1: I've ever been left waiting by the phone. It's the

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Speaker 2: Hey, Dark, good morning, Welcome to the program.

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Speaker 1: How are you all right? How are you not bad?

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Speaker 2: Thank you so much for calling and being part of

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Speaker 2: the show. Though I say that now, we'll see if

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Speaker 2: I still feel that way after we find out what's

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Speaker 2: going on.

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Speaker 1: But what's what's about this woman, Nicole?

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Speaker 2: Because the point here is is we're trying to figure

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Speaker 2: out why people got ghosted and hopefully, you know, make

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Speaker 2: it a good story, a happy story in the end.

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Speaker 2: So tell us how you met Nicole and about any

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Speaker 2: dates that you've been on and where things are now.

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Speaker 1: So I met.

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Speaker 3: Nicole really recently. We haven't gone on any dates. I mean,

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Speaker 3: that's kind of why I'm calling, is you know, she

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Speaker 3: just kind of went silent out of nowhere, despite the

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Speaker 3: fact I thought, you know, when we did talk.

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Speaker 1: That we had like a really good connection.

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Speaker 3: And I just I'm very confused, and I'm looking for

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Speaker 3: your guys' help.

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Speaker 1: I honestly don't know what could have you know, turned

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Speaker 1: her off? Remin or not want to you know, give

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Speaker 1: me a chance.

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Speaker 2: Okay, So you were planning a date and then in

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Speaker 2: the process of doing this like we are going back

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Speaker 2: and forth, like talking about where to go and win

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Speaker 2: and that kind of thing.

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Speaker 3: Uh yeah, I mean we were just kind of, you know,

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Speaker 3: conversing a little bit about what we would, you know,

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Speaker 3: potentially do. But after that, I just never any brummer.

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Speaker 2: Well that's frustrating, you know, because you meet somebody, you know,

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Speaker 2: especially if you're out here in the wild, you know,

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Speaker 2: and you and you're willing to approach people because a

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Speaker 2: lot of people won't do that. A lot of people

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Speaker 2: want to hide behind the keyboard. And I get that.

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Speaker 2: It's easy. It's an easy sort of trap to fall into.

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Speaker 2: And I hear all the time from people that they

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Speaker 2: wish that they could meet someone in the wild, you know,

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Speaker 2: because that way you see them in person and you

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Speaker 2: can judge the chemistry and all that. And so you

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Speaker 2: do this and then she just just disappears. The interest

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Speaker 2: is gone. So I can see why you would be frustrated.

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Speaker 2: But let's see if we can figure out what's up.

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Speaker 2: We'll call Nicole. You'll be on the phone. We'll ask

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Speaker 2: some questions, and obviously our hope is that we can

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Speaker 2: straighten things out and then set you guys up on

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Speaker 2: that date and pay for it.

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Speaker 3: Okay, sounds great, Thank you.

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Speaker 2: We'll find out what's up part to you of waiting

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Speaker 2: by the phone after Miguel back in two minutes. The

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Speaker 2: French Show's on one thousand bucks. She'll be Shelley winning

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Speaker 2: as well for the next half an hour. You don't

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Speaker 2: have to go anywhere. Hey, Darren, Hey, all right, welcome back.

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Speaker 2: Let's call Nicole. You guys, you met in person, you know.

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Speaker 2: I guess you walked up to her something, started talking

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Speaker 2: with her, and you were talking about going on a date.

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Speaker 2: Except she's ghosted you, Like the date never even happened, right,

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Speaker 2: I mean you were halfway in the process here and

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Speaker 2: then she disappeared.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, no exactly.

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Speaker 3: I honestly don't know what could have happened. I'm pre

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Speaker 3: bummed out, honestly.

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Speaker 1: Yeah.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, that's frustrating. So let's call her and we'll see

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Speaker 2: if we can get her on the phone and ask

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Speaker 2: these questions.

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Speaker 1: Good luck.

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Speaker 2: Hello, Hi is this Nicole? Yeah, Hi Nicole, good morning

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Speaker 2: nam misus. Fredam calling from the Fred Show, the Morning

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Speaker 2: Radio Show, and I have to tell you that we

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Speaker 2: are on the radio right now, and I would need

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Speaker 2: your permission to continue with the call.

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Speaker 1: Can which app for just a second? Okay, yeah, sure, Well,

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Speaker 1: thank you very much.

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Speaker 2: I don't want to waste too much of your time here.

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Speaker 2: We're calling on behalf of a dude named Derek who

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Speaker 2: reached out to us. He says that he he approached

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Speaker 2: you in public and asked you on a date, and

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Speaker 2: you disappeared.

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Speaker 1: Does this sound familiar? Not really, I don't get approached

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Speaker 1: much in public.

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Speaker 2: You don't remember, you don't remember a guy named Derek who?

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Speaker 1: Uh?

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Speaker 2: He says he called us and says that he, I

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Speaker 2: guess walked up to you or something, and then and

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Speaker 2: you guys were planning a date, and then he disappeared.

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Speaker 1: I genuinely don't. I don't know if you have the

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Speaker 1: great person. I don't remember. Let me look at my text.

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Speaker 1: Maybe you don't know he's never met a guy named

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Speaker 1: Derek who?

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Speaker 2: Because this guy he's saying that he, I guess saw

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Speaker 2: you and walked up to you and was like, hey,

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Speaker 2: what's up, let's go on a date. And you talked

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Speaker 2: about a little bit, and I guess maybe exchange numbers

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Speaker 2: or something, and then and you've disappeared, so he's making

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Speaker 2: it up.

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Speaker 1: Oh my god, you guys. Derek was my delivery person.

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Speaker 2: I ordered, Okay, sign right now, solviy right now.

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Speaker 1: I was like, I wouldn't remember that if someone came

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Speaker 1: up to me and wanted to plan a date. But

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Speaker 1: he had to do some taco bell like what what?

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Speaker 3: Yeah, and now he won't leave me alone.

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Speaker 1: I kind of wrote him off.

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Speaker 2: But Derek, I forgot to mention that Derek is here. Dude,

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Speaker 2: you were her like dor I don't want to say

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Speaker 2: any kind of brand. I don't know what brand you

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Speaker 2: were delivering for, but you were a delivery driver.

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Speaker 3: Well I mean yeah, but you.

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Speaker 1: Went to her house to do something you were paid

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Speaker 1: to do.

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Speaker 2: You made it seem like you walked up to her

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Speaker 2: like at the mall or something outside of Johnny Rockets

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Speaker 2: and asked her if she wanted to want a date.

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Speaker 1: Dude, you were you had to be there.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, I mean I had to be there, But we

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Speaker 3: didn't like have to talk. You know, we had like

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Speaker 3: a little bit of I thought we had a good connection.

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Speaker 3: She asked me like a solid tip. I thought that

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Speaker 2: Of a yeah, what are you then, person, Jarrek.

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Speaker 1: I didn't mean anything, Derek.

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Speaker 2: You you were doing your job. She was receiving her order.

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Speaker 2: There was no implied interest there. She was interested in eating.

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Speaker 3: I mean, yeah, we get technical about it, but I

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Speaker 3: mean people meet at work all the time.

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Speaker 1: She was at home. This is why it's tring on

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Speaker 1: the do not knock, just leave it at the door.

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Speaker 1: I don't turn something for Fred this morning, and we're

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Speaker 1: not flirting with each other. Yeah, no, she did.

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Speaker 2: And for some reason she's not responding to me about

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Speaker 2: the date that were or actually, I guess in this case,

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Speaker 2: I wouldn't be responding to her.

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Speaker 1: Yeah.

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Speaker 2: I ghosted Caitlin for the date because she handed me

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Speaker 2: a piece of paper like.

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Speaker 1: What are you Derek.

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Speaker 2: You made it seem to us like this was some

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Speaker 2: sort of romantic gesture and that you saw and you know,

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Speaker 2: and and approached her and we're pursuing her. I mean,

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Speaker 2: this is kind of creepy. And by the way, did

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Speaker 2: he get your number, Nicole? Like did he get your

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Speaker 2: number because he asked for it or did he get

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Speaker 2: it from the app?

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Speaker 1: I'm pretty sure he got it from Oh my god.

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Speaker 2: Okay, all right, Derek, You've got to understand that there

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Speaker 2: was no implied interest there aside from what you were

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Speaker 1: I mean, I don't know.

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Speaker 3: Maybe I'm crazy.

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Speaker 1: I call I thought we had yes on me.

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Speaker 3: Are you saying there's no chance of a date or

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Speaker 3: anything like nothing?

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Speaker 1: Nicole? Do you want to go out with this guy?

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Speaker 1: We know the answer. Fo Yeah, it's hard, but it's

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Speaker 1: not that hard. It's a no for me. Okay, that's

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Speaker 1: a note for her. Dogh.

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Speaker 2: Derek, you gotta I would be careful if I were you,

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Speaker 2: If you value that job, I probably wouldn't use it,

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Speaker 2: uh in this way because you're gonna get fired. We're

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Speaker 2: probably gonna get a call it from all the different

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Speaker 2: people asking which one you work for us. You don't

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Speaker 2: tell us. I don't want to know. But you can't.

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Speaker 2: I don't think you can do that. I mean, I

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Speaker 2: guess you could. I guess if you're handed the bag

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Speaker 2: and she's like hey, and there's any kind of like

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Speaker 2: actual flirtation, you can have a conversation I guess and

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Speaker 2: say can I have your number?

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Speaker 1: Can I call you? Or whatever?

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Speaker 2: But I don't know if that's ever gonna work. Because

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Speaker 2: I'd be so creeped out. Now you know where I live, right.

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Speaker 1: You're right, I mean I do know where she lives.

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Speaker 2: Okay Holm coops this Derek, though she's not interested, and

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Speaker 2: I think I know why. I actually i'm sure I know.

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Speaker 2: But Nicole, thank you so much for your time. Derek,

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Speaker 2: never do that again.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, I won't swear he will pup me out right,