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Speaker 1: Brook and Jewels. Second date date, Marana is angry and

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Speaker 1: want some answers. Oh, yep, it's Britain jewel. In the morning,

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Speaker 1: I'm moved a ninety two point five time for your

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Speaker 1: second date. Up date, Marana is on the phone with us.

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Speaker 1: She emailed us about some dude named Eric that she met. Now,

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Speaker 1: first of all, Marna, you're not originally from Seattle, right,

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Speaker 1: you just kind of moved here. Yeah, I'm from Phoenix.

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Speaker 1: From Phoenix, Okay, that's why she's fired. Yeah, she's not

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Speaker 1: passive aggressive like the rest of our city. Tell us

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Speaker 1: how you met Eric. Well, I was at a holiday party.

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Speaker 1: A friend of mine invited me, and I don't actually

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Speaker 1: A mutual friend called me like the next day and

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Speaker 1: we went on a date. Is this your first date

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Speaker 1: since you moved to Seattle? No, not my first, but

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Speaker 1: date went. When you were out with Eric, it was

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Speaker 1: really really fun. Basically, he picked me up from work

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Speaker 1: really well. The only weird thing I guess was we

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Speaker 1: at what time, Like five is just like a three

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Speaker 1: picked me up at five. Oh yeah, that's quick, so

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Speaker 1: it's like two hours of speed bowling. Oh man, do

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Speaker 1: you think it's possible that he double booked his dates? Oh?

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Speaker 1: I did not actually think about that. Yeah, She's like, yeah,

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Speaker 1: now do you say that? Yeah, you might have just

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Speaker 1: answered all my questions. Well, since your date ended so quickly,

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Speaker 1: how did it end? Did it end on a positive note?

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Speaker 1: I thought it as it on a positive note? He

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Speaker 1: next week, I sing in like a choir church, and

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Speaker 1: he was totally into it. He said he was going

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Speaker 1: having like a friend there. And yeah, he just never

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Speaker 1: peeking over whoever's in front of your shoulder to see

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Speaker 1: if he's in his seat. And he wasn't there. No, No,

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Speaker 1: I mean I was in it. I was in it,

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Speaker 1: but it was just like it was just disappointing. You know,

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Speaker 1: but did not happen. You should have included the fact

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Speaker 1: What do you think, I mean, is this something that

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Speaker 1: this totally new to you being blown off? I've never

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Speaker 1: well I wouldn't expect that to continue, but this was different.

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Speaker 1: You know, it was really fun. So so the first

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Speaker 1: all right, well we're gonna play a song, come back,

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Speaker 1: call him and get your second date up date. Okay, okay,

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Speaker 1: all right, hang on brooking jubil in the morning. You know,

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Speaker 1: the more that I think about it, the more angry

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Speaker 1: never showed. So, Marana, is are you sitting in your

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Speaker 1: email that you're kind of angry about it? Yeah? I

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Speaker 1: Do you think you expected too much? After only two hours?

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Speaker 1: He didn't have to say that he would come to

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Speaker 1: All right, ready, okay, hang on, helloh can I speak

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Speaker 1: to Eric? Please? This is Eric, Eric. How are you?

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Speaker 1: This is Jewel calling from brook and Jewil in the morning.

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Speaker 1: I'm moving ninety two point five. The radio station that

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Speaker 1: went something, yeah, you kind of did. Okay, all right,

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Speaker 1: well it's it's a woman women ye here at ninety

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Speaker 1: date with a girl named Marana. Do you remember her? Yeah,

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Speaker 1: don't laugh, usually not a good time. Don't trust me,

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Speaker 1: you you have no idea. Okay, Well, Marana emailed us

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Speaker 1: because she's wondering why you've been blowing her off. She

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Speaker 1: in oh God, yeah, and you are a no show, Eric, Yeah,

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Speaker 1: Well she's a little crazy. Um, she's crazy, And I'm

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Speaker 1: She didn't sound crazy to me at all. No, and

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Speaker 1: I've been doing is thinking about picturing you sitting there

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Speaker 1: it look collectively about two hours of my life, you

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Speaker 1: Props to you. You You had a big impact. Yeah, but

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Speaker 1: It was the day after the concert. She basically was like,

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Speaker 1: but Eric, you know, why weren't you got my pastures

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Speaker 1: you know, we were definitely going to have to, you know,

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Speaker 1: reevaluate this relationship, like reevaluate your relationship. She actually used

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Speaker 1: Yes you can, Marana. Eric. Morana's on the phone and

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Speaker 1: just heard everything that you just said. Oh say it

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Speaker 1: I would love to come. That's what he said. Like

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Speaker 1: in my diary the second I am home. I wrote it,

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Speaker 1: I said, I could actually read it, like I haven't it.

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Speaker 1: I have my journal right here. I don't. I don't

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Speaker 1: just the mention of your diary thing. I have written proof.

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Speaker 1: chart whether he came or he didn't come, Marana, were

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Speaker 1: He really showed me up, like like so you happened.

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Speaker 1: okay fine. Eric came like and it wasn't ar who

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Speaker 1: blown off very much. No, because usually, like if you've

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Speaker 1: them out. Yeah, Eric, you know rules, Like honestly, you

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Speaker 1: who's standards? Standards? She's crazy, that's definitely At this point,

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Speaker 1: a second date. We will pay for it. Do you

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Speaker 1: I think I'm good. I've had enough crazy for one week. Sure, Yeah, yeah, yeah,

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