Speaker 1: First Date follow Up powered by the Advocates Injury Attorneys
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Speaker 2: Law dot com. Ryan is on the phone today for
Speaker 2: a first day follow up and he's getting ghosted by Chloe.
Speaker 2: So in a few minutes we'll call her and see
Speaker 2: if she'll tell us why she's ghosting him and maybe
Speaker 2: get him another date. But first, Ryan, how long has
Speaker 2: it been since you heard from Chloe?
Speaker 3: Oh?
Speaker 4: Man, it's been probably about a week, maybe a little
Speaker 4: bit longer.
Speaker 2: Okay, Okay, I don't know.
Speaker 4: We went on a date. Everything we were really really good.
Speaker 4: We ended up like taking her dog, this little Pomeranian
Speaker 4: named Noodle, to a dog friendly of.
Speaker 5: Yeah.
Speaker 4: I mean it was super chill, like I mean I
Speaker 4: thought everything went well, like I mean, we were sipping
Speaker 4: on craft beers. I mean, we played like one of
Speaker 4: those giant Jinga games, like we watched nud Go over
Speaker 4: and like charm everybody else that was hanging out of
Speaker 4: the brewery, Like, I mean, it was great.
Speaker 2: What do you think happened?
Speaker 5: I mean, I don't know.
Speaker 4: I mean I thought she was awesome, Like, I mean
Speaker 4: she's just super short, man, Like, whit do you in
Speaker 4: a way that like really just kind of keeps you
Speaker 4: on your toes, and like she loves dogs, like really
Speaker 4: loves her dog.
Speaker 5: But I mean that's cool, Like she's got a big heart.
Speaker 4: Like I mean we even like shared a pretzel, and
Speaker 4: I mean that's basically like a relationship milestone.
Speaker 2: Is it press sharing a pretzel and then comes marriage.
Speaker 4: I guess, well, you know, because I've been on dates
Speaker 4: where like it's all like small talk and just fake
Speaker 4: laughs and stuff like that. But like when I was
Speaker 4: hanging out with her, like it just felt different, like
Speaker 4: like we were actually connected with each.
Speaker 6: Other, Like you could tell that she was into you too.
Speaker 4: I mean like it just felt like we had a connection,
Speaker 4: like we were having like a really deep like conversation
Speaker 4: and like I don't know, it was just like the
Speaker 4: best way to describe it, with.
Speaker 5: The risk of sounding cliche, it's chemistry.
Speaker 6: Yeah, that's not cliche at all. Chemistry is big. You
Speaker 6: don't have that with everybody. So then what do you
Speaker 6: think could have gone wrong?
Speaker 2: Though?
Speaker 6: Like was there a moment where anything got awkward or
Speaker 6: did you do something?
Speaker 5: I mean, there was like a moment where like Noodles.
Speaker 4: Kind of like ran away, Like I mean I swore
Speaker 4: I had it, but like he kind of like whiggled
Speaker 4: out of my out of his harness and then just
Speaker 4: kind of bolted And it took like six of us
Speaker 4: and like one like really athletic bartender to like catch him.
Speaker 6: Wait, so like this is a big moment.
Speaker 4: She just kind of wiggled it out and like bolted,
Speaker 4: you know, Like I mean, Chloe thought it was my fault.
Speaker 4: She like mighta screened, like you have one job, Rian
Speaker 4: like in front of everybody.
Speaker 5: But like, what can we ask you?
Speaker 2: How the date was?
Speaker 6: This is a big thing to talk about.
Speaker 5: Everything else about the day was awesome.
Speaker 6: Okay, Well then how did a random bartender get involved
Speaker 6: to help you get the dog?
Speaker 4: Well, it's all the dog running and it was like
Speaker 4: a dog friendly brewery and so he ran over to help.
Speaker 6: Okay, that was nice. What did you do when the
Speaker 6: dog got away? Did you try to get it too?
Speaker 5: Yeah? No, absolutely I tried to get it.
Speaker 2: Okay.
Speaker 6: How did she react after Noodle came back? Was she fine?
Speaker 6: Did she go back to normal or was she irritated?
Speaker 4: I mean she was a little irritated, but like not
Speaker 4: in like a like a big way, Like she wasn't
Speaker 4: mad mad m.
Speaker 6: Probably should got noodle back. Did you guys case or anything?
Speaker 5: No, we didn't.
Speaker 2: Okay, we'll see we can help you out. We'll play
Speaker 2: a song come back, and then call her and get
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Speaker 2: If you're just joining us for today's first Day follow up,
Speaker 2: Ryan is on the phone, and Ryan is getting ghosted
Speaker 2: by Chloe. So we're about to call her and see
Speaker 2: if she'll tell us why she's ghosting him and maybe
Speaker 2: get him another date. But before we do that, Ryan,
Speaker 2: why don't you kind of recap your situation for us.
Speaker 4: Yeah, so I went on a date with Chloe and
Speaker 4: her pomeranian Noodle, and we had a good time. I
Speaker 4: did lose Noodle for a brief moment, but we got
Speaker 4: back and yeah, I don't know everything else about. The
Speaker 4: date went really really well and we vibed and we
Speaker 4: had a really good time. And so like, I just
Speaker 4: want to see why she's not calling me to bed.
Speaker 2: And the reason you think you might be getting ghosted
Speaker 2: is because you did lose her pomeranian for a minute, The.
Speaker 4: Only possible reason I could think of, because everything else went, so, well, all.
Speaker 2: Right, cool, are you ready for us to call her?
Speaker 2: I am okay, here we go. Hello him, I speak
Speaker 2: to Chloe. Please. This is hurt Hey, Chloe, how are you.
Speaker 2: My name is Jewbel. I'm calling from a radio show.
Speaker 2: It's called The Jebel Show.
Speaker 6: Hi, Chloe. I'm Nina also on the show. Hi, and
Speaker 6: I'm Victoria.
Speaker 2: This is a radio show called The Jebel Show. Have
Speaker 2: you ever heard of it?
Speaker 5: I have.
Speaker 7: I just didn't know you guys actually called people.
Speaker 2: This is yes, everybody.
Speaker 3: Yeah, yeah, I mean, I'm doing some cliffs on TikTok,
Speaker 3: but I just didn't think.
Speaker 7: I was just not expecting to hear from the radio
Speaker 7: this morning.
Speaker 2: Well we weren't expecting to talk to you today, Chloe,
Speaker 2: but now we are. It's great. Look at that. It's
Speaker 2: in the world. Cool, Chloe. We're calling you because we
Speaker 2: do a segment on our show. It's called the First
Speaker 2: Day follow Up. It's where if you go out on
Speaker 2: a date with somebody and they end up ghosting you,
Speaker 2: that person can email us to get you on the
Speaker 2: phone and see why you're ghosting them. And we got
Speaker 2: an email about you from a dude named Ryan. Mmmm mm.
Speaker 5: Hmm.
Speaker 2: Yeah, and Ryan told us about your date. He thought
Speaker 2: that you guys hit it off. He said that everything
Speaker 2: was great, that you were amazing, Your dog Noodle was awesome.
Speaker 6: Are you ghosting him on purpose?
Speaker 7: Yes?
Speaker 2: You mind telling us why?
Speaker 3: Well, she's a nice guy, but I just can't date
Speaker 3: someone who is completely irresponsible with my child. Okay, you
Speaker 3: have a kid, my dog, My dog Noodle is my child.
Speaker 5: I didn't lose him on purpose.
Speaker 1: Like.
Speaker 4: He's a tiny dog with the speed of a greyhound.
Speaker 4: Like I didn't intentionally lose new Chloe.
Speaker 2: That's Ryan. He's actually on the phone and wants to
Speaker 2: talk to you.
Speaker 7: I think, yes, you did drop the leash, Ryan, He
Speaker 7: just dropped it.
Speaker 4: I mean technically he wiggled out of the harness, but yes,
Speaker 4: I mean my hands were ones involved.
Speaker 7: Yeah. Then they were laughing about it. You were just
Speaker 7: laughing while we were chasing him.
Speaker 4: I mean it was kind of funny, like the bartender
Speaker 4: dove at him, like he was like in the Olympics
Speaker 4: or something like that. Like, I mean, it was there
Speaker 4: was something out of a stick bomb.
Speaker 5: There was a busy road right there.
Speaker 7: I mean, he's a little dog. Drivers can't see him.
Speaker 7: I mean he knows much to go on the street,
Speaker 7: but if people are chasing him, he scared. I mean
Speaker 7: it's a serious thing. The point is that you were careless,
Speaker 7: and I mean I don't I can't trust you with Noodle,
Speaker 7: So how can I trust you?
Speaker 4: But he's fine and we got him back and he's
Speaker 4: not hurt, and like he even got like free treats
Speaker 4: from the staff and stuff like that, Like Noodles seemed
Speaker 4: like he was a good time.
Speaker 7: I mean, it doesn't matter if Noodle's having a good
Speaker 7: time before I gets hit by a car. I just
Speaker 7: I can't. I see, that dog has been with me
Speaker 7: for the last ten years. I can't have someone who
Speaker 7: just just dropped his leash and thinks it's okay in
Speaker 7: a busy I mean, yeah, it's just so.
Speaker 6: I get how terrifying that moment is, especially Chloe, Like
Speaker 6: you know, you're terrified for for Noodle in the moment,
Speaker 6: But stuff like that happens and it sucks, it's not awesome,
Speaker 6: but Noodle is okay. And I mean it sounds like
Speaker 6: there's a little bit of remorse there, like you feel
Speaker 6: bad that you drop the.
Speaker 2: Leash, right, Yeah, absolutely, see.
Speaker 6: Ryan does feel bad, So it's like that's probably something
Speaker 6: he's not going to do again. Is this something that
Speaker 6: you're really going to hold against him, Chloe?
Speaker 7: Yeah, I am going to hold him accountable for this.
Speaker 7: I had to take middle to therapy because of this instead.
Speaker 5: Oh wait, wait wait you took your dog to therapy?
Speaker 7: Yes, yes, he goes to medium and he goes Well,
Speaker 7: she's never had to go to a therapist before, but
Speaker 7: now he is because of you, Ryan, Because of you.
Speaker 5: Okay, And pet.
Speaker 7: Insurance does not cover therapy, so I should really be
Speaker 7: sending you the bill.
Speaker 4: Actually, yeah, because pet insurance probably doesn't see it as
Speaker 4: a necessary treatment for a dog.
Speaker 5: Oh how can dare you?
Speaker 6: How scare you?
Speaker 7: Ryan?
Speaker 4: I'm sorry, guys when when I had you, guys call
Speaker 4: her like, I had no idea that that it was it.
Speaker 2: Was like this that you scarred a dog for life.
Speaker 5: Sure that that's that's what we'll go with.
Speaker 2: Okay, uh Dian.
Speaker 7: At this point, I think the only appropriate thing would
Speaker 7: be for you to apologize to Noodle. That would go
Speaker 7: a long way to repair kind of my betrayed trust.
Speaker 4: Okay, So, because I just want to clarify, So because
Speaker 4: I dropped oish you want me to apologize to your
Speaker 4: dog that you put into therapy because I traumatized him
Speaker 4: by dropping his.
Speaker 7: Way, dropped the leash and laughed while chasing him like
Speaker 7: laught during it.
Speaker 4: Yeah, does does Noodles have any like group therapy sessions?
Speaker 5: I could maybe like come in.
Speaker 2: Like, would you would you like to go on another
Speaker 2: date with Ryan? Will pay for it?
Speaker 5: Yeah?
Speaker 7: You'll pay for it?
Speaker 5: Wow?
Speaker 7: No, there there will not be a second date with Ryan.
Speaker 7: Would you guys be willing to take that same money
Speaker 7: and give it to me for Noodle's therapy? Because Ryan
Speaker 7: seems like a dead beat.
Speaker 2: You know what. It was reserved for people who go
Speaker 2: out on a date. So I really can't do that.
Speaker 2: But maybe Ryan can find it in his heart to
Speaker 2: send you some cash.
Speaker 5: Yeah, sure, checks in the mail.
Speaker 4: Tell Noodle I apologize and make sure that you put
Speaker 4: some of side for his trust fund.
Speaker 6: Okay, you will first date, follow up