WEBVTT - Ryan & Chloe - Doggone Disaster

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<v Speaker 1>First Date follow Up powered by the Advocates Injury Attorneys

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<v Speaker 1>online at Advocates.

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<v Speaker 2>Law dot com. Ryan is on the phone today for

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<v Speaker 2>a first day follow up and he's getting ghosted by Chloe.

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<v Speaker 2>So in a few minutes we'll call her and see

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<v Speaker 2>if she'll tell us why she's ghosting him and maybe

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<v Speaker 2>get him another date. But first, Ryan, how long has

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<v Speaker 2>it been since you heard from Chloe?

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<v Speaker 3>Oh?

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<v Speaker 4>Man, it's been probably about a week, maybe a little

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<v Speaker 4>bit longer.

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<v Speaker 2>Okay, Okay, I don't know.

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<v Speaker 4>We went on a date. Everything we were really really good.

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<v Speaker 4>We ended up like taking her dog, this little Pomeranian

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<v Speaker 4>named Noodle, to a dog friendly of.

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<v Speaker 5>Yeah.

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<v Speaker 4>I mean it was super chill, like I mean I

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<v Speaker 4>thought everything went well, like I mean, we were sipping

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<v Speaker 4>on craft beers. I mean, we played like one of

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<v Speaker 4>those giant Jinga games, like we watched nud Go over

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<v Speaker 4>and like charm everybody else that was hanging out of

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<v Speaker 4>the brewery, Like, I mean, it was great.

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<v Speaker 2>What do you think happened?

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<v Speaker 5>I mean, I don't know.

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<v Speaker 4>I mean I thought she was awesome, Like, I mean

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<v Speaker 4>she's just super short, man, Like, whit do you in

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<v Speaker 4>a way that like really just kind of keeps you

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<v Speaker 4>on your toes, and like she loves dogs, like really

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<v Speaker 4>loves her dog.

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<v Speaker 5>But I mean that's cool, Like she's got a big heart.

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<v Speaker 4>Like I mean we even like shared a pretzel, and

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<v Speaker 4>I mean that's basically like a relationship milestone.

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<v Speaker 2>Is it press sharing a pretzel and then comes marriage.

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<v Speaker 4>I guess, well, you know, because I've been on dates

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<v Speaker 4>where like it's all like small talk and just fake

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<v Speaker 4>laughs and stuff like that. But like when I was

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<v Speaker 4>hanging out with her, like it just felt different, like

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<v Speaker 4>like we were actually connected with each.

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<v Speaker 6>Other, Like you could tell that she was into you too.

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<v Speaker 4>I mean like it just felt like we had a connection,

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<v Speaker 4>like we were having like a really deep like conversation

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<v Speaker 4>and like I don't know, it was just like the

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<v Speaker 4>best way to describe it, with.

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<v Speaker 5>The risk of sounding cliche, it's chemistry.

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<v Speaker 6>Yeah, that's not cliche at all. Chemistry is big. You

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<v Speaker 6>don't have that with everybody. So then what do you

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<v Speaker 6>think could have gone wrong?

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<v Speaker 2>Though?

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<v Speaker 6>Like was there a moment where anything got awkward or

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<v Speaker 6>did you do something?

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<v Speaker 5>I mean, there was like a moment where like Noodles.

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<v Speaker 4>Kind of like ran away, Like I mean I swore

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<v Speaker 4>I had it, but like he kind of like whiggled

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<v Speaker 4>out of my out of his harness and then just

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<v Speaker 4>kind of bolted And it took like six of us

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<v Speaker 4>and like one like really athletic bartender to like catch him.

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<v Speaker 6>Wait, so like this is a big moment.

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<v Speaker 4>She just kind of wiggled it out and like bolted,

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<v Speaker 4>you know, Like I mean, Chloe thought it was my fault.

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<v Speaker 4>She like mighta screened, like you have one job, Rian

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<v Speaker 4>like in front of everybody.

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<v Speaker 5>But like, what can we ask you?

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<v Speaker 2>How the date was?

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<v Speaker 6>This is a big thing to talk about.

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<v Speaker 5>Everything else about the day was awesome.

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<v Speaker 6>Okay, Well then how did a random bartender get involved

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<v Speaker 6>to help you get the dog?

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<v Speaker 4>Well, it's all the dog running and it was like

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<v Speaker 4>a dog friendly brewery and so he ran over to help.

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<v Speaker 6>Okay, that was nice. What did you do when the

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<v Speaker 6>dog got away? Did you try to get it too?

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<v Speaker 5>Yeah? No, absolutely I tried to get it.

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<v Speaker 2>Okay.

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<v Speaker 6>How did she react after Noodle came back? Was she fine?

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<v Speaker 6>Did she go back to normal or was she irritated?

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<v Speaker 4>I mean she was a little irritated, but like not

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<v Speaker 4>in like a like a big way, Like she wasn't

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<v Speaker 4>mad mad m.

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<v Speaker 6>Probably should got noodle back. Did you guys case or anything?

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<v Speaker 5>No, we didn't.

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<v Speaker 2>Okay, we'll see we can help you out. We'll play

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<v Speaker 2>a song come back, and then call her and get

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<v Speaker 2>your first day follow up, Next first.

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<v Speaker 1>at Advocates law dot com.

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<v Speaker 2>If you're just joining us for today's first Day follow up,

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<v Speaker 2>Ryan is on the phone, and Ryan is getting ghosted

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<v Speaker 2>by Chloe. So we're about to call her and see

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<v Speaker 2>if she'll tell us why she's ghosting him and maybe

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<v Speaker 2>get him another date. But before we do that, Ryan,

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<v Speaker 2>why don't you kind of recap your situation for us.

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<v Speaker 4>Yeah, so I went on a date with Chloe and

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<v Speaker 4>her pomeranian Noodle, and we had a good time. I

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<v Speaker 4>did lose Noodle for a brief moment, but we got

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<v Speaker 4>back and yeah, I don't know everything else about. The

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<v Speaker 4>date went really really well and we vibed and we

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<v Speaker 4>had a really good time. And so like, I just

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<v Speaker 4>want to see why she's not calling me to bed.

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<v Speaker 2>And the reason you think you might be getting ghosted

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<v Speaker 2>is because you did lose her pomeranian for a minute, The.

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<v Speaker 4>Only possible reason I could think of, because everything else went, so, well, all.

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<v Speaker 2>Right, cool, are you ready for us to call her?

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<v Speaker 2>I am okay, here we go. Hello him, I speak

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<v Speaker 2>to Chloe. Please. This is hurt Hey, Chloe, how are you.

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<v Speaker 2>My name is Jewbel. I'm calling from a radio show.

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<v Speaker 2>It's called The Jebel Show.

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<v Speaker 6>Hi, Chloe. I'm Nina also on the show. Hi, and

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<v Speaker 6>I'm Victoria.

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<v Speaker 2>This is a radio show called The Jebel Show. Have

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<v Speaker 2>you ever heard of it?

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<v Speaker 5>I have.

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<v Speaker 7>I just didn't know you guys actually called people.

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<v Speaker 2>This is yes, everybody.

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah, yeah, I mean, I'm doing some cliffs on TikTok,

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<v Speaker 3>but I just didn't think.

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<v Speaker 7>I was just not expecting to hear from the radio

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<v Speaker 7>this morning.

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<v Speaker 2>Well we weren't expecting to talk to you today, Chloe,

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<v Speaker 2>but now we are. It's great. Look at that. It's

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<v Speaker 2>in the world. Cool, Chloe. We're calling you because we

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<v Speaker 2>do a segment on our show. It's called the First

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<v Speaker 2>Day follow Up. It's where if you go out on

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<v Speaker 2>a date with somebody and they end up ghosting you,

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<v Speaker 2>that person can email us to get you on the

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<v Speaker 2>phone and see why you're ghosting them. And we got

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<v Speaker 2>an email about you from a dude named Ryan. Mmmm mm.

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<v Speaker 5>Hmm.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, and Ryan told us about your date. He thought

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<v Speaker 2>that you guys hit it off. He said that everything

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<v Speaker 2>was great, that you were amazing, Your dog Noodle was awesome.

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<v Speaker 6>Are you ghosting him on purpose?

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<v Speaker 7>Yes?

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<v Speaker 2>You mind telling us why?

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<v Speaker 3>Well, she's a nice guy, but I just can't date

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<v Speaker 3>someone who is completely irresponsible with my child. Okay, you

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<v Speaker 3>have a kid, my dog, My dog Noodle is my child.

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<v Speaker 5>I didn't lose him on purpose.

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<v Speaker 1>Like.

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<v Speaker 4>He's a tiny dog with the speed of a greyhound.

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<v Speaker 4>Like I didn't intentionally lose new Chloe.

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<v Speaker 2>That's Ryan. He's actually on the phone and wants to

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<v Speaker 2>talk to you.

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<v Speaker 7>I think, yes, you did drop the leash, Ryan, He

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<v Speaker 7>just dropped it.

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<v Speaker 4>I mean technically he wiggled out of the harness, but yes,

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<v Speaker 4>I mean my hands were ones involved.

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<v Speaker 7>Yeah. Then they were laughing about it. You were just

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<v Speaker 7>laughing while we were chasing him.

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<v Speaker 4>I mean it was kind of funny, like the bartender

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<v Speaker 4>dove at him, like he was like in the Olympics

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<v Speaker 4>or something like that. Like, I mean, it was there

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<v Speaker 4>was something out of a stick bomb.

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<v Speaker 5>There was a busy road right there.

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<v Speaker 7>I mean, he's a little dog. Drivers can't see him.

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<v Speaker 7>I mean he knows much to go on the street,

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<v Speaker 7>but if people are chasing him, he scared. I mean

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<v Speaker 7>it's a serious thing. The point is that you were careless,

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<v Speaker 7>and I mean I don't I can't trust you with Noodle,

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<v Speaker 7>So how can I trust you?

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<v Speaker 4>But he's fine and we got him back and he's

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<v Speaker 4>not hurt, and like he even got like free treats

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<v Speaker 4>from the staff and stuff like that, Like Noodles seemed

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<v Speaker 4>like he was a good time.

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<v Speaker 7>I mean, it doesn't matter if Noodle's having a good

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<v Speaker 7>time before I gets hit by a car. I just

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<v Speaker 7>I can't. I see, that dog has been with me

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<v Speaker 7>for the last ten years. I can't have someone who

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<v Speaker 7>just just dropped his leash and thinks it's okay in

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<v Speaker 7>a busy I mean, yeah, it's just so.

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<v Speaker 6>I get how terrifying that moment is, especially Chloe, Like

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<v Speaker 6>you know, you're terrified for for Noodle in the moment,

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<v Speaker 6>But stuff like that happens and it sucks, it's not awesome,

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<v Speaker 6>but Noodle is okay. And I mean it sounds like

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<v Speaker 6>there's a little bit of remorse there, like you feel

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<v Speaker 6>bad that you drop the.

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<v Speaker 2>Leash, right, Yeah, absolutely, see.

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<v Speaker 6>Ryan does feel bad, So it's like that's probably something

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<v Speaker 6>he's not going to do again. Is this something that

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<v Speaker 6>you're really going to hold against him, Chloe?

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<v Speaker 7>Yeah, I am going to hold him accountable for this.

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<v Speaker 7>I had to take middle to therapy because of this instead.

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<v Speaker 5>Oh wait, wait wait you took your dog to therapy?

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<v Speaker 7>Yes, yes, he goes to medium and he goes Well,

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<v Speaker 7>she's never had to go to a therapist before, but

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<v Speaker 7>now he is because of you, Ryan, Because of you.

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<v Speaker 5>Okay, And pet.

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<v Speaker 7>Insurance does not cover therapy, so I should really be

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<v Speaker 7>sending you the bill.

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<v Speaker 4>Actually, yeah, because pet insurance probably doesn't see it as

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<v Speaker 4>a necessary treatment for a dog.

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<v Speaker 5>Oh how can dare you?

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<v Speaker 6>How scare you?

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<v Speaker 7>Ryan?

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<v Speaker 4>I'm sorry, guys when when I had you, guys call

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<v Speaker 4>her like, I had no idea that that it was it.

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<v Speaker 2>Was like this that you scarred a dog for life.

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<v Speaker 5>Sure that that's that's what we'll go with.

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<v Speaker 2>Okay, uh Dian.

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<v Speaker 7>At this point, I think the only appropriate thing would

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<v Speaker 7>be for you to apologize to Noodle. That would go

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<v Speaker 7>a long way to repair kind of my betrayed trust.

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<v Speaker 4>Okay, So, because I just want to clarify, So because

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<v Speaker 4>I dropped oish you want me to apologize to your

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<v Speaker 4>dog that you put into therapy because I traumatized him

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<v Speaker 4>by dropping his.

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<v Speaker 7>Way, dropped the leash and laughed while chasing him like

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<v Speaker 7>laught during it.

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<v Speaker 4>Yeah, does does Noodles have any like group therapy sessions?

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<v Speaker 5>I could maybe like come in.

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<v Speaker 2>Like, would you would you like to go on another

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<v Speaker 2>date with Ryan? Will pay for it?

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<v Speaker 5>Yeah?

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<v Speaker 7>You'll pay for it?

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<v Speaker 5>Wow?

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<v Speaker 7>No, there there will not be a second date with Ryan.

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<v Speaker 7>Would you guys be willing to take that same money

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<v Speaker 7>and give it to me for Noodle's therapy? Because Ryan

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<v Speaker 7>seems like a dead beat.

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<v Speaker 2>You know what. It was reserved for people who go

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<v Speaker 2>out on a date. So I really can't do that.

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<v Speaker 2>But maybe Ryan can find it in his heart to

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<v Speaker 2>send you some cash.

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<v Speaker 5>Yeah, sure, checks in the mail.

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<v Speaker 4>Tell Noodle I apologize and make sure that you put

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<v Speaker 4>some of side for his trust fund.

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<v Speaker 6>Okay, you will first date, follow up