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Speaker 2: Law dot com. Ryan is on the phone today for

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Speaker 2: a first day follow up and he's getting ghosted by Chloe.

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Speaker 2: So in a few minutes we'll call her and see

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Speaker 2: if she'll tell us why she's ghosting him and maybe

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Speaker 2: get him another date. But first, Ryan, how long has

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Speaker 2: it been since you heard from Chloe?

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Speaker 3: Oh?

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Speaker 4: Man, it's been probably about a week, maybe a little

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Speaker 4: bit longer.

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Speaker 2: Okay, Okay, I don't know.

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Speaker 4: We went on a date. Everything we were really really good.

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Speaker 4: We ended up like taking her dog, this little Pomeranian

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Speaker 4: named Noodle, to a dog friendly of.

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Speaker 5: Yeah.

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Speaker 4: I mean it was super chill, like I mean I

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Speaker 4: thought everything went well, like I mean, we were sipping

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Speaker 4: on craft beers. I mean, we played like one of

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Speaker 4: those giant Jinga games, like we watched nud Go over

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Speaker 4: and like charm everybody else that was hanging out of

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Speaker 4: the brewery, Like, I mean, it was great.

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Speaker 2: What do you think happened?

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Speaker 5: I mean, I don't know.

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Speaker 4: I mean I thought she was awesome, Like, I mean

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Speaker 4: she's just super short, man, Like, whit do you in

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Speaker 4: a way that like really just kind of keeps you

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Speaker 4: on your toes, and like she loves dogs, like really

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Speaker 5: But I mean that's cool, Like she's got a big heart.

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Speaker 4: Like I mean we even like shared a pretzel, and

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Speaker 4: I mean that's basically like a relationship milestone.

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Speaker 2: Is it press sharing a pretzel and then comes marriage.

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Speaker 4: I guess, well, you know, because I've been on dates

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Speaker 4: where like it's all like small talk and just fake

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Speaker 4: hanging out with her, like it just felt different, like

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Speaker 4: like we were actually connected with each.

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Speaker 6: Other, Like you could tell that she was into you too.

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Speaker 4: I mean like it just felt like we had a connection,

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Speaker 4: like we were having like a really deep like conversation

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Speaker 4: and like I don't know, it was just like the

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Speaker 5: The risk of sounding cliche, it's chemistry.

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Speaker 6: Yeah, that's not cliche at all. Chemistry is big. You

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Speaker 6: don't have that with everybody. So then what do you

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Speaker 6: think could have gone wrong?

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Speaker 2: Though?

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Speaker 6: Like was there a moment where anything got awkward or

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Speaker 6: did you do something?

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Speaker 5: I mean, there was like a moment where like Noodles.

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Speaker 4: Kind of like ran away, Like I mean I swore

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Speaker 4: I had it, but like he kind of like whiggled

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Speaker 4: and like one like really athletic bartender to like catch him.

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Speaker 6: Wait, so like this is a big moment.

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Speaker 4: She just kind of wiggled it out and like bolted,

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Speaker 4: you know, Like I mean, Chloe thought it was my fault.

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Speaker 4: She like mighta screened, like you have one job, Rian

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Speaker 4: like in front of everybody.

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Speaker 5: But like, what can we ask you?

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Speaker 2: How the date was?

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Speaker 6: This is a big thing to talk about.

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Speaker 5: Everything else about the day was awesome.

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Speaker 6: Okay, Well then how did a random bartender get involved

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Speaker 4: Well, it's all the dog running and it was like

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Speaker 6: Okay, that was nice. What did you do when the

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Speaker 5: Yeah? No, absolutely I tried to get it.

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Speaker 6: How did she react after Noodle came back? Was she fine?

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Speaker 4: I mean she was a little irritated, but like not

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Speaker 6: Probably should got noodle back. Did you guys case or anything?

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Speaker 5: No, we didn't.

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Speaker 2: Okay, we'll see we can help you out. We'll play

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Speaker 2: a song come back, and then call her and get

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Speaker 2: your first day follow up, Next first.

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Speaker 2: If you're just joining us for today's first Day follow up,

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Speaker 2: Ryan is on the phone, and Ryan is getting ghosted

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Speaker 2: by Chloe. So we're about to call her and see

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Speaker 2: if she'll tell us why she's ghosting him and maybe

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Speaker 2: get him another date. But before we do that, Ryan,

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Speaker 2: why don't you kind of recap your situation for us.

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Speaker 4: Yeah, so I went on a date with Chloe and

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Speaker 4: her pomeranian Noodle, and we had a good time. I

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Speaker 4: did lose Noodle for a brief moment, but we got

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Speaker 4: back and yeah, I don't know everything else about. The

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Speaker 4: date went really really well and we vibed and we

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Speaker 4: want to see why she's not calling me to bed.

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Speaker 2: And the reason you think you might be getting ghosted

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Speaker 2: is because you did lose her pomeranian for a minute, The.

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Speaker 4: Only possible reason I could think of, because everything else went, so, well, all.

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Speaker 2: Right, cool, are you ready for us to call her?

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Speaker 2: I am okay, here we go. Hello him, I speak

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Speaker 2: to Chloe. Please. This is hurt Hey, Chloe, how are you.

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Speaker 2: My name is Jewbel. I'm calling from a radio show.

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Speaker 2: It's called The Jebel Show.

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Speaker 6: Hi, Chloe. I'm Nina also on the show. Hi, and

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Speaker 6: I'm Victoria.

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Speaker 2: This is a radio show called The Jebel Show. Have

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Speaker 2: you ever heard of it?

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Speaker 5: I have.

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Speaker 7: I just didn't know you guys actually called people.

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Speaker 2: This is yes, everybody.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, yeah, I mean, I'm doing some cliffs on TikTok,

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Speaker 3: but I just didn't think.

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Speaker 7: I was just not expecting to hear from the radio

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Speaker 7: this morning.

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Speaker 2: Well we weren't expecting to talk to you today, Chloe,

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Speaker 2: but now we are. It's great. Look at that. It's

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Speaker 2: in the world. Cool, Chloe. We're calling you because we

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Speaker 2: do a segment on our show. It's called the First

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Speaker 2: Day follow Up. It's where if you go out on

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Speaker 2: a date with somebody and they end up ghosting you,

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Speaker 2: that person can email us to get you on the

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Speaker 2: phone and see why you're ghosting them. And we got

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Speaker 2: an email about you from a dude named Ryan. Mmmm mm.

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Speaker 5: Hmm.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, and Ryan told us about your date. He thought

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Speaker 2: was great, that you were amazing, Your dog Noodle was awesome.

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Speaker 6: Are you ghosting him on purpose?

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Speaker 7: Yes?

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Speaker 2: You mind telling us why?

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Speaker 3: Well, she's a nice guy, but I just can't date

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Speaker 3: someone who is completely irresponsible with my child. Okay, you

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Speaker 3: have a kid, my dog, My dog Noodle is my child.

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Speaker 5: I didn't lose him on purpose.

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Speaker 1: Like.

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Speaker 4: He's a tiny dog with the speed of a greyhound.

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Speaker 4: Like I didn't intentionally lose new Chloe.

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Speaker 2: That's Ryan. He's actually on the phone and wants to

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Speaker 7: I think, yes, you did drop the leash, Ryan, He

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Speaker 4: I mean technically he wiggled out of the harness, but yes,

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Speaker 4: I mean my hands were ones involved.

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Speaker 7: Yeah. Then they were laughing about it. You were just

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Speaker 4: I mean it was kind of funny, like the bartender

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Speaker 5: There was a busy road right there.

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Speaker 7: I mean, he's a little dog. Drivers can't see him.

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Speaker 7: I mean he knows much to go on the street,

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Speaker 7: but if people are chasing him, he scared. I mean

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Speaker 7: it's a serious thing. The point is that you were careless,

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Speaker 7: and I mean I don't I can't trust you with Noodle,

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Speaker 4: But he's fine and we got him back and he's

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Speaker 6: I get how terrifying that moment is, especially Chloe, Like

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Speaker 6: But stuff like that happens and it sucks, it's not awesome,

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Speaker 6: Ryan does feel bad, So it's like that's probably something

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Speaker 6: he's not going to do again. Is this something that

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Speaker 7: Yeah, I am going to hold him accountable for this.

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Speaker 7: I had to take middle to therapy because of this instead.

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Speaker 5: Oh wait, wait wait you took your dog to therapy?

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Speaker 7: Yes, yes, he goes to medium and he goes Well,

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Speaker 7: Insurance does not cover therapy, so I should really be

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Speaker 5: Oh how can dare you?

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Speaker 6: How scare you?

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Speaker 7: Ryan?

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Speaker 4: I'm sorry, guys when when I had you, guys call

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Speaker 2: Was like this that you scarred a dog for life.

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Speaker 5: Sure that that's that's what we'll go with.

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Speaker 2: Okay, uh Dian.

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Speaker 7: At this point, I think the only appropriate thing would

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Speaker 7: be for you to apologize to Noodle. That would go

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Speaker 4: Okay, So, because I just want to clarify, So because

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Speaker 4: I dropped oish you want me to apologize to your

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Speaker 7: Way, dropped the leash and laughed while chasing him like

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Speaker 4: Yeah, does does Noodles have any like group therapy sessions?

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Speaker 5: I could maybe like come in.

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Speaker 2: Like, would you would you like to go on another

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Speaker 2: date with Ryan? Will pay for it?

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Speaker 5: Yeah?

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Speaker 7: You'll pay for it?

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Speaker 5: Wow?

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Speaker 7: No, there there will not be a second date with Ryan.

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Speaker 7: Would you guys be willing to take that same money

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Speaker 7: and give it to me for Noodle's therapy? Because Ryan

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Speaker 2: You know what. It was reserved for people who go

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Speaker 2: But maybe Ryan can find it in his heart to

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Speaker 2: send you some cash.

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Speaker 5: Yeah, sure, checks in the mail.

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Speaker 4: Tell Noodle I apologize and make sure that you put

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Speaker 4: some of side for his trust fund.

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Speaker 6: Okay, you will first date, follow up