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Speaker 1: First Date follow Up powered by the Advocates Injury Attorneys

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Speaker 1: online at Advocateslaw dot com.

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Speaker 2: Remy is on the phone today for a first date

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Speaker 2: follow up and he's getting ghosted by Tererka. So in

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Speaker 2: a minute, we're gonna call her and see tell us

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Speaker 2: why she's ghosting, and maybe get another date. But first, Remy,

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Speaker 2: how long has it been since you heard from Tarika.

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Speaker 3: It's been in about two weeks now, Okay.

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Speaker 4: Have you reached out to her?

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Speaker 3: I mean at first I was reaching out, but you

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Speaker 3: know I've kind of gotten the point and you know,

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Speaker 3: held back recently.

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Speaker 4: But why don't you tell us about your date?

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Speaker 3: Yeah? Sure, So we went out to stake place in

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Speaker 3: town I really like, and then after that we went

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Speaker 3: out for a froio and then we even went out

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Speaker 3: to a little dive bar I really like after that.

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Speaker 3: So I don't know, it was a great night, you know,

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Speaker 3: you know, we met up around seven, and you know,

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Speaker 3: by the time I dropped her off, it was you know,

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Speaker 3: almost starting night. So great night, a lot of fun.

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Speaker 5: This is always weird to me when you go to

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Speaker 5: three different locations and then you get ghosted, because at

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Speaker 5: that point you have a pretty good feeling that like,

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Speaker 5: this person wants to spend time with you, like you

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Speaker 5: had it out two different times.

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Speaker 4: Did you feel like she was super nice?

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Speaker 3: Yeah, she was super nice. I like, you know how

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Speaker 3: we talked a while before even our first date, and like,

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Speaker 3: I don't know, we're both vive been really good together.

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Speaker 3: And yeah, it was really weird that she didn't tell

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Speaker 3: me anything was wrong.

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Speaker 6: So could it be like work or family related that

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Speaker 6: she's not like something's going on in her personal life?

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Speaker 3: Yeah, I mean she she's some like she really had

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Speaker 3: her stuff together. But you know, it's definitely possible shed

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Speaker 3: get this guy busy. But you know, like I said,

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Speaker 3: it's been in a couple of weeks, so I forgot.

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Speaker 3: If she wanted to go out another date, maybe she

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Speaker 3: would have answered me, But I really at least, you know,

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Speaker 3: want to know why.

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Speaker 5: During the date, Remy, did she give you feelings that

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Speaker 5: she liked you? Did she say that or is there

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Speaker 5: something that could have possibly happened that would have made

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Speaker 5: the date kind of take a turn? Yeah?

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Speaker 6: I don't know.

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Speaker 3: Like so I guess the one thing is I was

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Speaker 3: making like kind of some suggestive comments, like you know,

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Speaker 3: because things were going so well, like, you know, how

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Speaker 3: much I liked her and stuff, and it seemed like

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Speaker 3: those feelings were kind of reciprocated. But I don't know,

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Speaker 3: maybe I pushed too hard, like that's the one thing

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Speaker 3: I could really.

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Speaker 5: Think of, But like what did you say? What direction

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Speaker 5: were you pushing? Like, oh I really liked you, I

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Speaker 5: can't realy get married or yeah.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, yeah, no, no, nothing like that, but just like, oh,

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Speaker 3: you know, next time, I'll have to do this, and

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Speaker 3: you know, things like that, like you know kind of

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Speaker 3: you know, you know, insinuating that you know, this wouldn't

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Speaker 3: be the only you know, date.

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Speaker 4: I think that's some good things.

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Speaker 6: Yeah.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, you can't think of anything awkward that happened or

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Speaker 2: any reason that you'd be getting ghosted.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, I don't know, Like, uh, I don't know. Maybe

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Speaker 3: I wasn't dressed right, like I was wearing like corduroy

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Speaker 3: pants or something. Maybe she was kidding me on that.

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Speaker 3: I don't know.

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Speaker 1: Corduroys are in now, so ish okay, so maybe you

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Speaker 1: were getting judged on that, Like I mean, I like them.

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Speaker 1: How tight were they?

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Speaker 3: They said? That's right? Man?

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Speaker 1: Okay, all right, well we'll see if that is the issue.

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Speaker 2: We'll play a song come Back, and then call her

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Speaker 2: and see if she'll tell us why she's ghosting you,

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Speaker 2: and then maybe get you another date if you still want.

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Speaker 3: Okay, all right, also appreciate it.

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Speaker 1: So we'll play a song come back, and get your

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Speaker 1: first day follow up next.

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Speaker 2: Right in the middle of your first day follow up

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Speaker 2: if you're just joining us, Remy is on the phone

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Speaker 2: and he's getting ghosted by Tarika. So in a second,

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Speaker 2: we're going to call her and see if she tell

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Speaker 2: us why she's ghosting him and maybe get him another date.

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Speaker 2: But first, Remy, why don't you catch everybody up on

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Speaker 2: your date with Tarica.

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Speaker 3: So, yeah, we went out to stage place, we had

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Speaker 3: frozen yogurt, you know, we went to a dive bar,

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Speaker 3: you know, all together. We were together probably for about

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Speaker 3: five hours. It's a great day, you know it. Text

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Speaker 3: her a few times after the date, but now it's

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Speaker 3: been about two weeks, haven't heard from her. Don't know

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Speaker 3: if she was judging me on my quarter right chain

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Speaker 3: some of the talent that is making you know, you know,

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Speaker 3: hoping that we would you know, it wouldn't be our

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Speaker 3: only date or anything like that. And yeah, I'm just

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Speaker 3: really like to hear from her again, or at least

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Speaker 3: find out like why I haven't heard from her?

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Speaker 1: Okay, cool, you're ready for us to call her?

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Speaker 3: Bill?

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Speaker 1: Okay, here we go, Hi, I speak to Erica. Please.

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Speaker 1: This is hey Tarica. How are you?

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Speaker 2: My name is Jewbell and I'm calling from a radio show.

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Speaker 2: It's called the Jebel Show.

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Speaker 4: Hi, Sarah, I'm Nina. I'm also on the show.

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Speaker 1: Hi, and I'm Victoria.

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Speaker 3: Please serious, that's cool?

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Speaker 1: You listen to the show.

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Speaker 2: Ever, Yeah, we do a segment on the show called

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Speaker 2: the First Date follow Up, where if you go on

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Speaker 2: a day with somebody and ghost them, that person emails

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Speaker 2: us to call you up and ask why you're ghosting them.

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Speaker 4: Okay, so.

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Speaker 1: We got an email about.

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Speaker 6: You, Okay, all right.

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Speaker 2: It's from a dude named Remy. Oh no, oh yeah, yep?

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Speaker 4: Are you ghosting Remy?

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Speaker 6: Can I say yes or no?

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Speaker 4: Okay?

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Speaker 1: Yeah? Would you mind explaining to us what that means? Though?

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Speaker 6: I get like, I definitely put off messaging him back.

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Speaker 6: I'll put it that way. I've put off messaging him.

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Speaker 1: Back, So he's ghost yet it's just delayed. It just

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Speaker 1: mailed him a letter.

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Speaker 4: At this point sounds funny.

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Speaker 6: It wasn't anything like I literally just got thrown off.

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Speaker 6: That was that was it. Like, it wasn't like anything.

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Speaker 6: I was just thrown off. Okay, So I couldn't stop

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Speaker 6: thinking about what happened where we went to get frozen ugurt,

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Speaker 6: like like I don't know what happened, but like he

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Speaker 6: like became like a monster in that Prolio shop, Like

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Speaker 6: he added everything that they had available for toppings and stuff,

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Speaker 6: and then he went bonkers, like he added everything like

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Speaker 6: cookies and gummy bears and sprinkles and the JoBlo syrup

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Speaker 6: and the strawberry.

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Speaker 5: Yeah, it sounds like he was having a good Yeah,

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Speaker 5: it sounds like something I do too. I know he's

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Speaker 5: ended up sending forty bucks those like.

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Speaker 4: Some things are so good. I don't understand what you

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Speaker 4: was just one right, Well, I was.

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Speaker 6: My thought process. But I was like I was like weird.

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Speaker 6: I was like, okay, this thing is going to weigh

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Speaker 6: forty pounds, and I just like, has you never been

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Speaker 6: to one of these places? Like is this first time

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Speaker 6: out of the house, Like no, I just I guess

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Speaker 6: I thought about it like way too much. And then

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Speaker 6: I was like, well, I'll get back to him. You know,

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Speaker 6: I was still in my head and then I completely

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Speaker 4: Okay, just for that sounds like something, Victoria.

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Speaker 5: Yeah, obviously you're judging him on having so many toppings?

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Speaker 1: Does that?

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Speaker 5: Does that tell you something about his character? You're just

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Speaker 5: really not show how somebody can mix cookies and gummy

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Speaker 6: It was just like a lot like I think I

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Speaker 6: was just stunned. It was kind of like a train

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Speaker 6: just can't I can't stop thinking about it.

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Speaker 4: I don't know.

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Speaker 5: Okay, let me ask you this, Tarika. This will help

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Speaker 5: me understand. What do you put on your frozen yogurt?

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Speaker 6: Oh? Well, like the flavors coordinate, like I'll do like,

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Speaker 4: Sense together, but no toppings.

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Speaker 6: I'll do some toppings, but I'll do like, oh, like,

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Speaker 6: let's do like a strawberry and a chocolate with like

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Speaker 6: some fresh strawberries on it or something like that that

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Speaker 6: makes sense, Like I do a couple of things.

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Speaker 5: Yeah, no, no, I get it now. Her closet is

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Speaker 5: like it's color coordinating it is. Actually yeah, see okay,

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Speaker 5: I just needed to understand, okay, why the chaos.

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Speaker 1: Was third.

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Speaker 6: Chaos is a good word for it.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, that's the reason that you're ghosting. It was because

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Speaker 2: of the toppings on his froyo.

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Speaker 6: I was just kind of picturing, you know how, like

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Speaker 6: there's those people at the like soda fountains that they

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Speaker 6: get like a splash of every single flavor in the

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Speaker 5: Okay, so I do that too. What Yeah, it's a

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Speaker 5: very incoction. It's called Anina. I understand your name, like

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Speaker 5: Nina aid, you know, like lemonade.

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Speaker 2: Was like anyways, Erica, thank you for telling us. I

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Speaker 2: should also you know that Remy is on the phone

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Speaker 3: So yeah, I guess I kind of like you could

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Speaker 3: say a fruit punch of frozen yogurt, like you've heard

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Speaker 3: of the kid in the candy store, while I'm like

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Speaker 3: the man in the frog place, Like I just can't

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Speaker 3: to hold on the date, so kind of deciding I

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Speaker 3: just added a little bit of everything. Sorry about that.

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Speaker 5: If I don't think you need to apologize.

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Speaker 3: I found pretty offended, So.

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Speaker 6: I was okay, So I clarifica said, I'm so sorry.

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Speaker 6: I was not offended. I was just blown away flesh.

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Speaker 4: My mind is just blown.

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Speaker 6: Like I don't think I had the power to think

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Speaker 3: You know, maybe sometime I could go out for pizza

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Speaker 3: or something, but you know, I like to order a

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Speaker 3: lot of topics.

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Speaker 6: Those, so I was gonna say, like, how many topics

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Speaker 6: go on your pizza? Like are you one of those

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Speaker 6: people that put party contina butter or something, but.

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Speaker 3: Maybe some sausage and pine applehole and green pepper and

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Speaker 3: onion and Canadian bacon and taco and you know, pepperoni

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Speaker 3: and black olives, green olives, So not too many mushrooms,

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Speaker 3: but not too many toppings.

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Speaker 5: But I.

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Speaker 6: Don't know that well, at least like with pizzas, you

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Speaker 6: can usually order like a half and half.

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Speaker 3: So but yeah, so it was just a proio huh.

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Speaker 3: Like it was really kind of just going around an

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Speaker 3: ear from you.

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Speaker 6: Oh, Like I wasn't really like ghosting me because of it.

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Speaker 6: I just got in my head about it and then

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Speaker 6: I honestly I meant to get back to you, and

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Speaker 6: then I just I didn't like that. That's it, like

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Speaker 6: I wish I had a better use, I wish I

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Speaker 6: had a clever and I have nothing.

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Speaker 2: It was just would you like to go out with

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Speaker 2: Remy again? We'll pay for it. I mean, we'll pay

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Speaker 2: for most of it. I don't know how much is

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Speaker 2: FROO cost if you guys get FROO, but we'll pay

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Speaker 2: for it.

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Speaker 6: I mean, I guess the big your question is like,

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Speaker 6: is he willing to go out with me again?

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Speaker 1: That's fair?

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Speaker 3: Yeah, you know that, uh pizza with the twenty topping

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Speaker 3: just sounded pretty good now, so that'd be awesome.

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Speaker 6: Well, I mean, if you want a third date, just

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Speaker 6: don't get the twenty topping pizza.

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Speaker 4: I'm like, you get

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Speaker 1: First follow up