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Speaker 1: Tyler Perry with the media.

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Speaker 2: Absolutely still would.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, face, yeah, I still. I still think about that

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Speaker 4: That's kind of fire.

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Speaker 3: I like, I'm into a little role play, you know

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Speaker 3: what I'm saying. I can imagine'm gonna have him saying,

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Speaker 3: Lord have mercy and that little boy.

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Speaker 2: So you don't like real CD, but you like fake TV?

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Speaker 2: How do a little fact TV? I like yo titties?

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Speaker 2: Oh what say? I'm kidding. I'm with the suit on.

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Speaker 4: You, but with my dead it wouldn't be about the suit.

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Speaker 4: It's about what that skirt.

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Speaker 2: I know. That's what I'm saying. I think Tyler working

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Speaker 3: I always think about Tyler and what he does in

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Speaker 4: Mister Brown pop out. You'd be like, God, mister.

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Speaker 3: Brown pop out with him? As I'm quit, what's up, y'all,

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Speaker 3: it's your girl, lex P And it's Sugarl's tray and

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Speaker 3: a call, and you are tuned in to another episode

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Speaker 3: of Poor Mine.

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Speaker 2: Whereas drunk Mind speaks sober thoughts, we gotta guess Saday.

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Speaker 2: We gotta guess Saday.

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Speaker 1: Yes, we have a very special guest in the building today.

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Speaker 1: We have media icon, entrepreneur, author, radio personality Delicious goes

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Speaker 1: on and on and we affectionately call him Uncle Baddy.

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Speaker 1: We have Parlamagne the God is.

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Speaker 5: How y'all feeling happy to be here? I like doing

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Speaker 5: podcasts that I actually enjoy y, you know what I mean?

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Speaker 5: Podcasts that I watch when I'm just doing nothing.

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Speaker 2: Yeah.

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Speaker 3: Now, you know, like when you go and sit on

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Speaker 3: somebody's platform, that's like a solid like we have solidified

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Speaker 2: Come on, man, posts heavy out here.

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Speaker 3: You are lying out the cream of the crop of

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Speaker 5: We've been around a long time, Breakfast club, and it'll

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Speaker 5: be fifteen years.

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Speaker 2: It's fifteen years now. Actually that is a run fifteen years. Okay,

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Speaker 2: black of fact we're gonna get. I want to talk

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Speaker 5: Ask all a question first, Yes, why did y'all post

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Speaker 5: pill planning take twenty five days?

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Speaker 6: You know why only takes two weeks?

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Speaker 2: Yes?

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Speaker 5: Why did it take? I heard them talking beforehand. It

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Speaker 5: was sped on my mind, like why why does your

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Speaker 5: post pill plan take twenty five days?

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Speaker 1: So this is actually my third time getting this pill

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Speaker 1: and it m yes, you both got chemical pills like

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Speaker 2: So it's a very intense pill.

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Speaker 1: But they give you after care and then they give

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Speaker 4: Got you?

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Speaker 1: Why the Actually, I mean you don't really you're done

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Speaker 3: No, So I think the thing about it is when

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Speaker 2: But that's what I had. I had hyperpigmentation.

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Speaker 5: But I was just wondering twenty five days for a

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Speaker 2: Dance a long time. We'd be liking to be glam dug.

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Speaker 3: You know well again back to the black effect because

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Speaker 5: you know, the key to a successful podcast is literally

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Speaker 5: you know, there's just just just bag of cash that

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Speaker 2: Do you realize that there's data that.

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Speaker 2: That's crazy three you don't even try back exactly consistency.

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Speaker 3: You know what, podcasts surprised me that they've lasted this

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Speaker 4: Really why?

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Speaker 2: I just you know, when people do.

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Speaker 3: This is my friendship. But I'm going through it. I

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Speaker 5: If it's a teachable moment and people can learn from it,

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Speaker 1: Yeah, Like especially if like one of us is having

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Speaker 5: I could be watching this podcast, you know, Lex over

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Speaker 4: Not my business?

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Speaker 4: You keep it moving.

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Speaker 5: Yeah, me and shows definitely have a lot of conversations.

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Speaker 5: It's like, can't nobody tell Drea about Les.

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Speaker 5: It's like when I see people say stuff on social media,

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Speaker 4: He knows my family.

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Speaker 5: He was at my wedding like I was at his wedding,

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Speaker 5: Like It's just like Jesu, this is somebody I actually know,

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Speaker 3: Now I want to talk about breakfast club too, like

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Speaker 2: Because like Laura wanted to come here to day too.

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Speaker 4: She couldn't come, No, she could.

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Speaker 2: Was like everybody was in rage. Yes, like they were

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Speaker 4: I love LaToya and I love but as long as

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Speaker 2: Was? You were? My case? Swiss? Yes, I was nervous.

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Speaker 2: We were like, what's going on? That was God?

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Speaker 5: God likes Ryan d You see three DC four wouldn't

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Speaker 4: No, I wasn't.

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Speaker 5: And and and that's not a knock the you know,

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Speaker 2: You're a Beyonce. Yep, that's what he said. Oh daddy,

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Speaker 4: What your mom?

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Speaker 5: I knew it, and I knew it would be because

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Speaker 5: So we already had the whole vision, in the whole plan.

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Speaker 5: I'm like, it's gonna be dope. Angelie's gonna go do

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Speaker 4: Y'all came and y'all guest hosted for a while.

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Speaker 5: And I was just like, yo, let let things fall

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00:18:48,280 --> 00:18:50,080
Speaker 5: where they may. Like, you know, you won't even have

443
00:18:50,160 --> 00:18:53,040
Speaker 5: to decide who should be in the room. God will

444
00:18:53,080 --> 00:18:54,760
Speaker 5: decide that for you. You just got to make show

445
00:18:54,800 --> 00:18:56,800
Speaker 5: that you got all of these different people, you know

446
00:18:56,880 --> 00:18:59,360
Speaker 5: that that end up coming through, And we ended up

447
00:18:59,760 --> 00:19:02,520
Speaker 5: with two individuals, you know, And that was always the plan.

448
00:19:02,640 --> 00:19:05,640
Speaker 5: It was always the plan to where you know, when well,

449
00:19:05,720 --> 00:19:07,440
Speaker 5: let me step back. It wasn't always a plan for

450
00:19:07,520 --> 00:19:09,520
Speaker 5: us to be a four man. It was it was

451
00:19:09,600 --> 00:19:12,399
Speaker 5: for us to get another co host. But mal Lauren

452
00:19:12,520 --> 00:19:15,159
Speaker 5: was so dope, you know, and she has a senior

453
00:19:15,280 --> 00:19:17,840
Speaker 5: news producer background coming from TMZ.

454
00:19:18,160 --> 00:19:19,879
Speaker 2: That was just something we was already looking for.

455
00:19:19,960 --> 00:19:22,199
Speaker 5: We were looking for that position and it just so

456
00:19:22,280 --> 00:19:24,479
Speaker 5: happened that she came in and did you know, a

457
00:19:24,480 --> 00:19:27,760
Speaker 5: phenomenal job at both And it's kind of like she

458
00:19:28,000 --> 00:19:30,800
Speaker 5: just she's just there, That's what I'm saying.

459
00:19:31,600 --> 00:19:32,440
Speaker 4: But that's God.

460
00:19:32,440 --> 00:19:34,000
Speaker 5: That's why they always say, you know, you can have

461
00:19:34,000 --> 00:19:37,000
Speaker 5: a good plan, but your good plan isn't always God's

462
00:19:37,000 --> 00:19:37,880
Speaker 5: planning for you?

463
00:19:38,160 --> 00:19:41,840
Speaker 2: Right? Do you still consider yourself missy? Because you know

464
00:19:42,680 --> 00:19:43,400
Speaker 2: you missy?

465
00:19:43,560 --> 00:19:46,040
Speaker 4: I think a man we all messy love.

466
00:19:46,160 --> 00:19:47,240
Speaker 2: I think everybody missy.

467
00:19:47,320 --> 00:19:49,560
Speaker 1: We always say we hate people that try to be

468
00:19:49,680 --> 00:19:53,520
Speaker 1: like if it's not about God getting some money or

469
00:19:53,560 --> 00:19:57,639
Speaker 1: my key was wasting time. I don't participate in gossip.

470
00:19:57,760 --> 00:20:00,399
Speaker 1: I feel like people are everybody's gossips with it.

471
00:20:00,600 --> 00:20:03,040
Speaker 4: Can be all those things. Yes, we love gossip.

472
00:20:03,119 --> 00:20:05,080
Speaker 2: That's that's why everybody like having a microphone in front

473
00:20:05,119 --> 00:20:05,560
Speaker 2: of their face.

474
00:20:05,720 --> 00:20:07,679
Speaker 5: We love to talk. Okay, and it's been happened. It's

475
00:20:07,680 --> 00:20:09,240
Speaker 5: been going on since the beginning of time. You were

476
00:20:09,280 --> 00:20:12,080
Speaker 5: doing this since elementary school. Okay, this is what we do.

477
00:20:13,280 --> 00:20:14,320
Speaker 5: So messy.

478
00:20:14,520 --> 00:20:16,679
Speaker 2: I guess I'm no messier in the next person.

479
00:20:16,720 --> 00:20:18,160
Speaker 4: You know what I mean. I like some good tea,

480
00:20:18,280 --> 00:20:18,800
Speaker 4: you know what I mean.

481
00:20:19,040 --> 00:20:23,040
Speaker 2: But you got a good story, A nice little SI

482
00:20:23,240 --> 00:20:25,560
Speaker 2: who said what you know? I mean? I like a

483
00:20:25,640 --> 00:20:27,359
Speaker 2: key key, right.

484
00:20:27,640 --> 00:20:31,040
Speaker 3: I love A favorite thing is more like Drea or

485
00:20:31,560 --> 00:20:32,439
Speaker 3: like send me a headline.

486
00:20:32,480 --> 00:20:35,240
Speaker 2: I'll be like, oh, this is juicy.

487
00:20:35,160 --> 00:20:35,880
Speaker 4: My favorite thing.

488
00:20:35,880 --> 00:20:37,520
Speaker 5: Now, because I've been around for so long, I was

489
00:20:37,720 --> 00:20:40,879
Speaker 5: born in nineteen hundred and seventy eight, so you know,

490
00:20:41,000 --> 00:20:42,800
Speaker 5: and I used to work with Wendy Wims. I got

491
00:20:42,800 --> 00:20:46,120
Speaker 5: with Wendy Williams and O six. There's so much stuff

492
00:20:46,560 --> 00:20:48,679
Speaker 5: Wendy said over the years, so much stuff she.

493
00:20:48,720 --> 00:20:51,400
Speaker 2: Told me privately and publicly.

494
00:20:51,440 --> 00:20:53,439
Speaker 5: I can't say privately because there's nothing she said privately

495
00:20:53,440 --> 00:20:54,120
Speaker 5: that she didn't.

496
00:20:53,880 --> 00:20:55,920
Speaker 4: Say privately right that I've.

497
00:20:55,720 --> 00:20:58,240
Speaker 5: Seen coming to fruition in this entertainment BI. You know

498
00:20:58,320 --> 00:21:01,200
Speaker 5: what I'm saying. It's like stuff from Clive Davis, the Diddy,

499
00:21:01,320 --> 00:21:04,640
Speaker 5: all of this stuff she's been talking about. So that's

500
00:21:04,680 --> 00:21:06,960
Speaker 5: the wildest thing to me, because I'd be like, man,

501
00:21:07,000 --> 00:21:09,919
Speaker 5: I've heard a lot of stories about this business, so

502
00:21:10,080 --> 00:21:11,359
Speaker 5: what else is really true?

503
00:21:11,520 --> 00:21:13,159
Speaker 2: And you know what I think things.

504
00:21:13,240 --> 00:21:15,480
Speaker 3: I said this on I have another show called Love LEXP,

505
00:21:15,640 --> 00:21:18,320
Speaker 3: and I said this on lovelex P. I said, we

506
00:21:18,359 --> 00:21:20,840
Speaker 3: need Wendy back to fight the crime that has been

507
00:21:20,880 --> 00:21:22,399
Speaker 3: going on. Did he was running a UK?

508
00:21:22,520 --> 00:21:25,199
Speaker 2: Why? Because Wendy wasn't here to report about it.

509
00:21:25,960 --> 00:21:28,080
Speaker 3: People used to be in hiding about the shit that

510
00:21:28,119 --> 00:21:30,680
Speaker 3: they was doing because they knew Wendy was gonna get

511
00:21:30,720 --> 00:21:31,919
Speaker 3: on air and say it, Oh.

512
00:21:31,840 --> 00:21:32,520
Speaker 2: How are you doing?

513
00:21:32,960 --> 00:21:35,280
Speaker 5: And spell all your tea plus different. It was a

514
00:21:35,280 --> 00:21:37,000
Speaker 5: different era back then, though. You gotta think that that

515
00:21:37,119 --> 00:21:41,640
Speaker 5: wasn't the under surveillance era. Like every we're under surveillance now. Yeah,

516
00:21:41,680 --> 00:21:43,919
Speaker 5: everywhere you go, you might as well just think to yourself, Yo,

517
00:21:43,960 --> 00:21:46,560
Speaker 5: you're probably being recorded in some way, shape or form,

518
00:21:46,640 --> 00:21:49,639
Speaker 5: or somebody's watching you. Somebody's you know, paying attention to you.

519
00:21:49,640 --> 00:21:53,400
Speaker 5: Because always say everybody's got their own little reality show

520
00:21:53,440 --> 00:21:55,600
Speaker 5: going on, and we're all extras in.

521
00:21:55,560 --> 00:21:57,359
Speaker 2: It, you know what I'm saying.

522
00:21:57,560 --> 00:22:00,479
Speaker 5: So you guest starred in somebody's reality show. It all

523
00:22:00,520 --> 00:22:02,000
Speaker 5: you was trying to do is get through the airport.

524
00:22:02,119 --> 00:22:04,640
Speaker 1: I always feel like I'm on camera. You cannot convince

525
00:22:04,680 --> 00:22:06,040
Speaker 1: me that he's not hitting you know what I'm saying.

526
00:22:06,080 --> 00:22:07,679
Speaker 2: Everywhere, No, somebody watching you.

527
00:22:07,760 --> 00:22:08,760
Speaker 4: That's why you gotta be careful.

528
00:22:10,000 --> 00:22:11,960
Speaker 2: Yeah, you know what I'm saying.

529
00:22:15,080 --> 00:22:19,160
Speaker 1: So another thing about Breakfast Club, it's always some controversy,

530
00:22:19,359 --> 00:22:22,040
Speaker 1: some interesting moments on the show. We have to touch

531
00:22:22,040 --> 00:22:23,679
Speaker 1: on these because you just brought weedio, so we have

532
00:22:23,720 --> 00:22:26,000
Speaker 1: to talk about one of the most recent interesting moments

533
00:22:26,000 --> 00:22:27,639
Speaker 1: when you had Dame on the show.

534
00:22:29,080 --> 00:22:30,560
Speaker 2: Said Wendy Williams, is your og?

535
00:22:31,680 --> 00:22:33,960
Speaker 3: Take that as an insult, but we was over here too,

536
00:22:34,040 --> 00:22:37,520
Speaker 3: like how I am mad because I don't play about Wendy.

537
00:22:37,560 --> 00:22:39,560
Speaker 2: Oh this is a media icon, this is a legend.

538
00:22:39,560 --> 00:22:41,320
Speaker 1: If we're talking about people who was really doing a

539
00:22:41,440 --> 00:22:43,199
Speaker 1: thing when she was at the top and she was

540
00:22:43,240 --> 00:22:45,879
Speaker 1: in her prime, she was that girl, So how was

541
00:22:45,920 --> 00:22:47,840
Speaker 1: that a bad thing for her to be your og?

542
00:22:48,119 --> 00:22:50,040
Speaker 1: And then also I just want to touch on to

543
00:22:50,560 --> 00:22:53,600
Speaker 1: how you always just keep your composure in those type

544
00:22:53,600 --> 00:22:55,920
Speaker 1: of situations because I feel like that's what asks to

545
00:22:55,960 --> 00:23:00,560
Speaker 1: making people even and you just have a level of

546
00:23:00,640 --> 00:23:03,520
Speaker 1: composer that I aspire to have stoicism.

547
00:23:03,600 --> 00:23:05,960
Speaker 5: Plus I've been in worse situations, like I've had guns

548
00:23:05,960 --> 00:23:07,960
Speaker 5: pulled on me and been sitting there just like that,

549
00:23:08,240 --> 00:23:11,119
Speaker 5: you know, because the reality is somebody got you. If

550
00:23:11,119 --> 00:23:12,720
Speaker 5: you sitting in the backseat of car and somebody pull

551
00:23:12,760 --> 00:23:14,800
Speaker 5: a gun on you, which you nothing you can do.

552
00:23:14,800 --> 00:23:17,359
Speaker 2: At that moment, it's like, oh, I'm begging for my life.

553
00:23:17,440 --> 00:23:18,199
Speaker 4: No, I'm not doing that.

554
00:23:18,240 --> 00:23:23,240
Speaker 5: I'm gonna do I'm begging whatever happens happens in this moment.

555
00:23:23,280 --> 00:23:24,920
Speaker 5: But I've had. All I'm saying is I've had worse.

556
00:23:25,200 --> 00:23:27,200
Speaker 5: I've been in worse environments I've been.

557
00:23:27,240 --> 00:23:28,320
Speaker 4: I've been in worse situation.

558
00:23:28,920 --> 00:23:34,360
Speaker 3: Still, shoot you, that's right.

559
00:23:34,440 --> 00:23:36,400
Speaker 5: If that's what's supposed to happen, it's supposed to happen.

560
00:23:36,440 --> 00:23:40,080
Speaker 5: But I've been in worse situations. So somebody yelling, screaming,

561
00:23:40,200 --> 00:23:42,200
Speaker 5: calling me gay, saying they want to fight, it's like

562
00:23:42,359 --> 00:23:44,919
Speaker 5: a right, Okay, Yeah, I've been in worse situations than that.

563
00:23:44,960 --> 00:23:46,359
Speaker 4: What's the first part of that question you ask me.

564
00:23:46,920 --> 00:23:50,600
Speaker 3: I was talking about Wendy being your Wendy is my

565
00:23:50,640 --> 00:23:52,720
Speaker 3: o G and Wendy is a media icon.

566
00:23:52,760 --> 00:23:54,879
Speaker 5: It's not too many people in black media who have

567
00:23:54,960 --> 00:23:57,399
Speaker 5: had this success that Wendy has had, like you know,

568
00:23:57,520 --> 00:23:58,200
Speaker 5: and not even.

569
00:23:58,040 --> 00:23:58,680
Speaker 2: Just throwing radio.

570
00:23:58,720 --> 00:24:01,080
Speaker 5: I was just having this conversation when you think about

571
00:24:01,480 --> 00:24:05,399
Speaker 5: daytime television and correct me if I'm wrong. I can't

572
00:24:05,400 --> 00:24:09,200
Speaker 5: think of any black woman who's had the longest run,

573
00:24:09,240 --> 00:24:10,600
Speaker 5: a long of a run.

574
00:24:10,440 --> 00:24:13,439
Speaker 4: On TV is Wendy other than open Yeah, Windy was

575
00:24:13,440 --> 00:24:15,480
Speaker 4: off for like I think fourteen years or.

576
00:24:15,480 --> 00:24:16,360
Speaker 2: So, a long time.

577
00:24:16,440 --> 00:24:18,640
Speaker 1: My daddy used to love That's how I know men

578
00:24:18,760 --> 00:24:21,280
Speaker 1: be a little Missy because my daddy used to live

579
00:24:22,760 --> 00:24:25,280
Speaker 1: over laughing because she know my daddy used to love

580
00:24:25,400 --> 00:24:27,199
Speaker 1: to watch Weindy Williams, and she used to be the

581
00:24:27,200 --> 00:24:28,960
Speaker 1: one that used to be like he.

582
00:24:29,040 --> 00:24:31,560
Speaker 2: Just loved to watch that show. He loved watching all

583
00:24:31,600 --> 00:24:32,160
Speaker 2: that gossip.

584
00:24:32,880 --> 00:24:35,040
Speaker 4: No, nobody got gossip. I think men gossip just as

585
00:24:35,119 --> 00:24:39,400
Speaker 4: much as women. They just call it building. You know what, building.

586
00:24:39,560 --> 00:24:41,760
Speaker 2: They love you, they love your gossiping.

587
00:24:41,840 --> 00:24:45,080
Speaker 5: Hey, but Wendy is my olgi. Like she plucked me

588
00:24:45,080 --> 00:24:48,800
Speaker 5: from South Carolina. I was in Columbia, South Carolina doing radio.

589
00:24:49,240 --> 00:24:53,640
Speaker 3: You know, Columbia's small, very tiny. We got a show

590
00:24:53,680 --> 00:24:56,280
Speaker 3: there really on our first tour. Was it our first

591
00:24:56,359 --> 00:24:57,000
Speaker 3: or second one?

592
00:24:57,040 --> 00:24:59,080
Speaker 2: I think it was the second tour, Yeah, yeah, remember

593
00:24:59,119 --> 00:25:04,200
Speaker 2: what I don't know. I think it was a comedy club.

594
00:25:05,160 --> 00:25:06,320
Speaker 2: Was doing comedy club. Okay.

595
00:25:07,240 --> 00:25:09,560
Speaker 4: So I used to be posting content online and you know,

596
00:25:09,680 --> 00:25:13,600
Speaker 4: she was syndicated on the station that I was on,

597
00:25:14,080 --> 00:25:16,200
Speaker 4: and so how went on through nine Columbus, South Carolina

598
00:25:16,240 --> 00:25:18,280
Speaker 4: with Breakfast Club is on there now. And so I

599
00:25:18,359 --> 00:25:20,639
Speaker 4: was just posting my content online and she heard a

600
00:25:20,640 --> 00:25:24,040
Speaker 4: couple of my interviews and she actually reported on a

601
00:25:24,080 --> 00:25:27,560
Speaker 4: couple of my interviews, and so she knew who I was.

602
00:25:27,600 --> 00:25:29,639
Speaker 5: So when she came to the market, like we just

603
00:25:29,680 --> 00:25:31,840
Speaker 5: showed her that good Southern hospitality. You know, we was

604
00:25:31,880 --> 00:25:34,080
Speaker 5: picking her up this before uber. We was picking her up.

605
00:25:34,160 --> 00:25:37,080
Speaker 2: Taking her around, you know, getting her drinks, getting her weed,

606
00:25:37,119 --> 00:25:41,720
Speaker 2: whatever she needed. That's how we even formed formed a relationship.

607
00:25:42,160 --> 00:25:44,240
Speaker 3: So how is Wendy doing now? Like I know y'all

608
00:25:44,280 --> 00:25:45,200
Speaker 3: still keep in touch.

609
00:25:45,640 --> 00:25:47,679
Speaker 2: I haven't talked there since my birthday. My birthday was

610
00:25:47,760 --> 00:25:49,120
Speaker 2: June of last year.

611
00:25:49,920 --> 00:25:51,439
Speaker 5: I haven't talked that. She called me on my birthday.

612
00:25:51,440 --> 00:25:54,159
Speaker 5: I haven't spoken to her since then. But she was

613
00:25:54,200 --> 00:25:58,000
Speaker 5: doing She was in a better place, and she had

614
00:25:58,520 --> 00:26:01,200
Speaker 5: somebody who I really adore. Name is Gina Lisa Gena.

615
00:26:01,240 --> 00:26:05,960
Speaker 5: Lisa is like a caregiver basically, and she she helps

616
00:26:06,520 --> 00:26:09,240
Speaker 5: the elderly. Are are people who end up in like

617
00:26:09,320 --> 00:26:12,200
Speaker 5: those homes or those guardian ships, Like she helps them,

618
00:26:12,560 --> 00:26:15,199
Speaker 5: you know, maintain their dignity. Are like, you know, if

619
00:26:15,200 --> 00:26:17,479
Speaker 5: you don't want to put somebody that you love in

620
00:26:17,480 --> 00:26:20,040
Speaker 5: one of those situations, she can have it set up

621
00:26:20,040 --> 00:26:22,800
Speaker 5: to where you're basically a caregiver at home, Like she's

622
00:26:22,800 --> 00:26:25,520
Speaker 5: helped my She's helped my my family in a lot

623
00:26:25,560 --> 00:26:28,840
Speaker 5: of ways, right, And so she was the person that

624
00:26:28,880 --> 00:26:32,240
Speaker 5: I connected Wendy with to help her.

625
00:26:32,560 --> 00:26:33,760
Speaker 2: You know, get out of her situation.

626
00:26:33,840 --> 00:26:35,720
Speaker 5: So even the moving around you got to see Wendy

627
00:26:35,760 --> 00:26:38,800
Speaker 5: doing last year, that was because of Gena Lisa. And

628
00:26:38,800 --> 00:26:40,280
Speaker 5: then you know, I guess her and Gena Lisa part

629
00:26:40,320 --> 00:26:43,639
Speaker 5: of ways, and Wendy kind of went back into the

630
00:26:43,680 --> 00:26:46,199
Speaker 5: same situation. So I don't know where that's at right now.

631
00:26:46,240 --> 00:26:48,200
Speaker 5: Seems like she's starting back at square zero.

632
00:26:48,880 --> 00:26:51,120
Speaker 2: I was hoping we was gonna get a Wendy company.

633
00:26:51,000 --> 00:26:53,000
Speaker 1: So because when the all of the these stuff started

634
00:26:53,040 --> 00:26:56,159
Speaker 1: having was like, oh my god, this is when we

635
00:26:56,240 --> 00:26:57,000
Speaker 1: need Wendy.

636
00:26:57,040 --> 00:26:59,000
Speaker 2: We need her to fight the Dendler.

637
00:27:01,320 --> 00:27:02,359
Speaker 4: But you know what's so funny.

638
00:27:02,400 --> 00:27:05,800
Speaker 5: We had dinner last year and I remember Wendy saying

639
00:27:05,800 --> 00:27:07,720
Speaker 5: to us, and Laura La Rosa was there, she could

640
00:27:07,720 --> 00:27:10,560
Speaker 5: attested this. Wendy said, I think I'm in this situation

641
00:27:10,600 --> 00:27:12,000
Speaker 5: because of how I used to talk about people.

642
00:27:12,160 --> 00:27:13,800
Speaker 2: Oh my God.

643
00:27:14,280 --> 00:27:16,119
Speaker 5: And I was like, what you mean, like karma and

644
00:27:16,160 --> 00:27:18,119
Speaker 5: she was like no, like God.

645
00:27:18,840 --> 00:27:20,959
Speaker 4: And I was like, I never heard Wendy mentioned God.

646
00:27:21,119 --> 00:27:21,680
Speaker 2: Damn I life.

647
00:27:22,040 --> 00:27:23,560
Speaker 4: But she said, like, you know, like like God.

648
00:27:23,600 --> 00:27:25,040
Speaker 5: You know, I think I think God has been in

649
00:27:25,080 --> 00:27:26,800
Speaker 5: this situation because how I used to talk about people.

650
00:27:27,160 --> 00:27:31,679
Speaker 5: And that was just like, wow, you know exactly. So

651
00:27:31,720 --> 00:27:36,359
Speaker 5: it just made me feel like, you know what, yeah

652
00:27:36,760 --> 00:27:38,600
Speaker 5: for real, like you just you.

653
00:27:38,600 --> 00:27:39,159
Speaker 2: Just don't know.

654
00:27:39,520 --> 00:27:43,040
Speaker 5: I don't feel like I've ever been as messy as Wendy. Yeah,

655
00:27:43,080 --> 00:27:45,880
Speaker 5: because like I'm I'm just an opinionated person. So I'll

656
00:27:45,880 --> 00:27:48,240
Speaker 5: tell you how I feel about something.

657
00:27:48,280 --> 00:27:48,800
Speaker 2: I'm not trying.

658
00:27:48,800 --> 00:27:49,159
Speaker 4: I don't care.

659
00:27:49,200 --> 00:27:50,639
Speaker 5: I'm not trying to pull you out the closet. I

660
00:27:50,680 --> 00:27:54,200
Speaker 5: don't care who you fucking like, I'm sorry, Mam'.

661
00:27:54,880 --> 00:27:58,240
Speaker 3: Why talk about saying I'm sorry?

662
00:27:58,480 --> 00:27:59,360
Speaker 2: She doesn't it all?

663
00:28:00,119 --> 00:28:03,199
Speaker 5: So I'm not doing that. But I can't sit here

664
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Speaker 5: and act.

665
00:28:03,560 --> 00:28:06,040
Speaker 2: Like, you know, words don't hurt like this. Yeah, people are.

666
00:28:05,920 --> 00:28:07,640
Speaker 5: Still mad at me for jokes I said to them

667
00:28:07,680 --> 00:28:10,280
Speaker 5: fifteen years Yeah, so I get it.

668
00:28:10,359 --> 00:28:12,119
Speaker 3: I think there is a line though, because, like I

669
00:28:12,119 --> 00:28:14,160
Speaker 3: said on my show, I do, you know, the hot

670
00:28:14,280 --> 00:28:17,359
Speaker 3: topics and celebrity gossip, but I like to do in

671
00:28:17,359 --> 00:28:19,119
Speaker 3: a way where I like, talk about the headline, I

672
00:28:19,160 --> 00:28:20,920
Speaker 3: crack a few jokes, and I move on like I'm

673
00:28:20,920 --> 00:28:23,240
Speaker 3: not getting too too deep in it, because at the

674
00:28:23,320 --> 00:28:24,800
Speaker 3: end of the day, you have to remember, like these

675
00:28:24,840 --> 00:28:27,320
Speaker 3: are still people you know what I'm saying, and there's

676
00:28:27,320 --> 00:28:29,840
Speaker 3: a very thin line like that. A lot of times

677
00:28:29,880 --> 00:28:34,000
Speaker 3: people cross and it gets real, real, real, real ugly.

678
00:28:34,119 --> 00:28:35,600
Speaker 3: Like a lot of the people that I see that

679
00:28:35,640 --> 00:28:38,200
Speaker 3: do the same type of content with the gossip. It's like,

680
00:28:38,240 --> 00:28:41,760
Speaker 3: you don't have to be nasty and just tearing people

681
00:28:41,800 --> 00:28:42,760
Speaker 3: down constantly.

682
00:28:42,800 --> 00:28:44,560
Speaker 2: That's why Megan took their learning to.

683
00:28:44,640 --> 00:28:47,640
Speaker 1: Court absolutely, which is interesting and I think that it's

684
00:28:47,680 --> 00:28:50,680
Speaker 1: going to set a precedent for a lot of other

685
00:28:50,760 --> 00:28:52,479
Speaker 1: celebrities to see people in the future.

686
00:28:52,600 --> 00:28:54,760
Speaker 2: I mean, she actually got vindicated and she won.

687
00:28:54,880 --> 00:28:58,680
Speaker 4: Oh CARTI said that President Tasha Ca Yeah yeah, and

688
00:28:58,800 --> 00:29:01,800
Speaker 4: my homegirl born from South Africa, she did the same thing.

689
00:29:01,840 --> 00:29:05,200
Speaker 5: Bonagas like a superstar in South Africa. She did the

690
00:29:05,200 --> 00:29:07,320
Speaker 5: same thing. She sued a blogger I think it was

691
00:29:07,360 --> 00:29:09,560
Speaker 5: for defamation suit as well, and she won. I haven't

692
00:29:09,560 --> 00:29:11,680
Speaker 5: seen a blogger when yet. But you said something that's

693
00:29:11,760 --> 00:29:13,360
Speaker 5: very important, man. These people are human at the end

694
00:29:13,360 --> 00:29:15,920
Speaker 5: of the day. Ye, that's something you don't realize, right,

695
00:29:16,000 --> 00:29:19,280
Speaker 5: Like I remember being home in South Carolina looking at

696
00:29:19,280 --> 00:29:21,080
Speaker 5: all these different celebrities and used to see them on

697
00:29:21,160 --> 00:29:22,360
Speaker 5: World Star and stuff.

698
00:29:22,040 --> 00:29:23,920
Speaker 4: Like that, and they didn't seem human.

699
00:29:24,120 --> 00:29:26,280
Speaker 5: And you would see these rumors about them like, oh,

700
00:29:26,320 --> 00:29:28,960
Speaker 5: they're in the Illuminati, or they you know, sacrifice seven

701
00:29:29,000 --> 00:29:31,080
Speaker 5: hamsters to get the way they are, right, and you

702
00:29:31,120 --> 00:29:32,840
Speaker 5: would be thinking in your mind like, yeah, these people

703
00:29:32,920 --> 00:29:36,400
Speaker 5: must be doing something you know, evil to get to

704
00:29:36,440 --> 00:29:39,000
Speaker 5: where they are. But that's only because you don't like

705
00:29:39,040 --> 00:29:41,560
Speaker 5: the position you in. Nobody ever wants.

706
00:29:41,400 --> 00:29:41,920
Speaker 2: To admit that.

707
00:29:41,920 --> 00:29:44,120
Speaker 5: Nobody ever wants to admit that jealousy and envy is

708
00:29:44,160 --> 00:29:47,120
Speaker 5: a real thing. You don't even got to be a hating, jealous,

709
00:29:47,240 --> 00:29:51,000
Speaker 5: envious person. It's just a natural feeling that you get

710
00:29:51,000 --> 00:29:54,360
Speaker 5: when you see somebody in a position you dream of me.

711
00:29:55,000 --> 00:29:57,160
Speaker 5: And sometimes it can be so hard and so.

712
00:29:57,240 --> 00:29:58,280
Speaker 4: Difficult where you at.

713
00:29:58,400 --> 00:30:01,040
Speaker 5: You feel like, YO never get there, So you like,

714
00:30:01,320 --> 00:30:04,560
Speaker 5: there's no possible way that person got there by just

715
00:30:04,600 --> 00:30:07,400
Speaker 5: believing in God and you know, working hard.

716
00:30:07,320 --> 00:30:09,120
Speaker 1: Especially if they at one point they were in a

717
00:30:09,160 --> 00:30:12,160
Speaker 1: worse position than you, hurrent, how did they crawl they

718
00:30:12,440 --> 00:30:14,160
Speaker 1: out of it? And I can't get out of these situations.

719
00:30:14,200 --> 00:30:17,000
Speaker 1: I mean it's interesting exactly.

720
00:30:17,040 --> 00:30:19,400
Speaker 5: So you know when you two things are going to happen,

721
00:30:19,760 --> 00:30:23,000
Speaker 5: you're going to have your own success. And you didn't

722
00:30:23,000 --> 00:30:26,480
Speaker 5: do anything nefarious to get there, right, You just worked hard,

723
00:30:26,520 --> 00:30:28,760
Speaker 5: You believed in God, you believed in yourself, and you

724
00:30:28,880 --> 00:30:31,880
Speaker 5: got the way you supposed to be. And then now

725
00:30:31,960 --> 00:30:34,480
Speaker 5: people are talking about you the way you used to

726
00:30:34,520 --> 00:30:39,440
Speaker 5: look and talk about people. That will change your whole perspective.

727
00:30:39,480 --> 00:30:41,840
Speaker 5: It'll give you a level of empathy, you know, for

728
00:30:41,920 --> 00:30:42,880
Speaker 5: these individuals that you.

729
00:30:42,840 --> 00:30:45,760
Speaker 2: Didn't have before. And you'll start to meet these people.

730
00:30:46,000 --> 00:30:47,920
Speaker 5: And when you meet these people and you start actually

731
00:30:47,920 --> 00:30:50,320
Speaker 5: talking to them and having conversations and seeing their family

732
00:30:50,360 --> 00:30:53,320
Speaker 5: and seeing their parents and seeing their kids, and like,

733
00:30:54,040 --> 00:30:56,840
Speaker 5: it's just a brother or sister who came from like

734
00:30:56,880 --> 00:30:59,120
Speaker 5: the same type of circumstances that I came from, who

735
00:30:59,120 --> 00:31:01,800
Speaker 5: had a very unique talent or unique skill set. They

736
00:31:01,840 --> 00:31:03,520
Speaker 5: worked hard, they believed in God, and they got the

737
00:31:03,520 --> 00:31:04,480
Speaker 5: way they're supposed to be.

738
00:31:05,040 --> 00:31:06,680
Speaker 4: Sometimes it's really just that simple.

739
00:31:06,760 --> 00:31:09,240
Speaker 3: Yeah, I think there's a way to like report on

740
00:31:09,320 --> 00:31:10,640
Speaker 3: things and just like keep it cute.

741
00:31:11,040 --> 00:31:13,720
Speaker 1: But I mean, I feel like conversation is a very

742
00:31:13,720 --> 00:31:16,920
Speaker 1: good segue into our first topic, which is the state

743
00:31:16,960 --> 00:31:20,520
Speaker 1: of journalism. I wanted to ask y'all because you know,

744
00:31:20,560 --> 00:31:21,920
Speaker 1: I feel like it used to be a very clear

745
00:31:21,960 --> 00:31:25,440
Speaker 1: difference between celebrity gossip and journalism, but social media has

746
00:31:25,480 --> 00:31:28,080
Speaker 1: blurred those lying. So do y'all think that the state

747
00:31:28,080 --> 00:31:31,720
Speaker 1: of journalism is I guess altered? Missed up now, because

748
00:31:31,720 --> 00:31:34,440
Speaker 1: anybody would a phone can break news, I.

749
00:31:35,000 --> 00:31:38,240
Speaker 3: Think so I always say this, if you come to

750
00:31:38,320 --> 00:31:41,480
Speaker 3: Poor Minds or Love lex P for some serious, hard

751
00:31:41,520 --> 00:31:43,360
Speaker 3: down news bit, you already doing wrong.

752
00:31:44,080 --> 00:31:46,360
Speaker 2: Why are you looking at lex Pi? Oh let me

753
00:31:46,440 --> 00:31:48,800
Speaker 2: see what the is going on in the government.

754
00:31:49,000 --> 00:31:51,720
Speaker 3: Yeah, and you turn on love lex P you got

755
00:31:51,720 --> 00:31:52,640
Speaker 3: some serious issues?

756
00:31:52,720 --> 00:31:52,960
Speaker 8: Yeah.

757
00:31:53,160 --> 00:31:55,600
Speaker 2: So, yes, that line is blurred. I mean it be

758
00:31:55,640 --> 00:31:58,400
Speaker 2: people sometimes in my comments like lex did you watch

759
00:31:58,440 --> 00:32:01,320
Speaker 2: and this? No? I did it? Yeah? The fuck? No

760
00:32:01,440 --> 00:32:04,120
Speaker 2: idea it. I'm here to crack some jokes and be

761
00:32:04,240 --> 00:32:05,520
Speaker 2: on my way. Now.

762
00:32:05,800 --> 00:32:08,320
Speaker 3: Do I have serious conversations about that with my friends

763
00:32:08,320 --> 00:32:11,840
Speaker 3: and my family, Yes, absolutely I do. But this is

764
00:32:11,880 --> 00:32:13,720
Speaker 3: a place where we have a little drink and we

765
00:32:13,760 --> 00:32:14,480
Speaker 3: have a good time.

766
00:32:15,840 --> 00:32:17,880
Speaker 2: It's like Harder Banson. Now. I do understand that.

767
00:32:17,840 --> 00:32:20,000
Speaker 3: We have a large platform and we have the power

768
00:32:20,000 --> 00:32:22,880
Speaker 3: to sway people here, and yeah, but that's exactly.

769
00:32:22,520 --> 00:32:23,800
Speaker 2: What I don't want to do.

770
00:32:24,240 --> 00:32:28,000
Speaker 3: Like, I'm not here to make life altering decisions for you,

771
00:32:28,000 --> 00:32:30,040
Speaker 3: you know what I'm saying. So I definitely think that

772
00:32:30,080 --> 00:32:33,760
Speaker 3: line is blurred. People literally get on Twitter for their news.

773
00:32:33,760 --> 00:32:35,680
Speaker 3: People ain't watching the news for real no more. And

774
00:32:35,720 --> 00:32:39,320
Speaker 3: people literally went to school for this and have degrees

775
00:32:39,400 --> 00:32:42,640
Speaker 3: and you know, political science degrees, and you know, can

776
00:32:42,720 --> 00:32:44,920
Speaker 3: really talk about these things. No, they're like, well, I

777
00:32:44,920 --> 00:32:46,200
Speaker 3: wonder what Drea think about this?

778
00:32:47,160 --> 00:32:47,880
Speaker 2: You know what I'm saying.

779
00:32:48,120 --> 00:32:50,400
Speaker 5: But you know the reason that, you know, people like

780
00:32:50,440 --> 00:32:54,840
Speaker 5: yourselves connect with everyday people more than journalists because I

781
00:32:54,840 --> 00:32:57,600
Speaker 5: think sometimes these journalists, as you said, they go to

782
00:32:57,640 --> 00:33:01,520
Speaker 5: school and they kind of just learn how to become robots.

783
00:33:02,080 --> 00:33:04,720
Speaker 5: They forget how to be human, and so they're not

784
00:33:04,920 --> 00:33:06,600
Speaker 5: like giving an opinion.

785
00:33:06,720 --> 00:33:07,760
Speaker 4: What you're not supposed to do.

786
00:33:07,800 --> 00:33:09,680
Speaker 5: I guess if you're an actual news commentator, you are

787
00:33:09,680 --> 00:33:12,400
Speaker 5: supposed to just deliver the facts. But if that's the case,

788
00:33:12,680 --> 00:33:15,920
Speaker 5: you can't get mad at the people that other folks

789
00:33:15,960 --> 00:33:20,520
Speaker 5: are genuinely connecting with because those people are human, like

790
00:33:20,560 --> 00:33:23,840
Speaker 5: you know, they're expressing real human emotions in real time,

791
00:33:23,960 --> 00:33:27,360
Speaker 5: especially in this social media era because of the exits

792
00:33:27,400 --> 00:33:29,520
Speaker 5: and the Instagrams and the facebooks, and everybody can go

793
00:33:29,560 --> 00:33:32,840
Speaker 5: live and everybody got a podcast, So people are expressing real,

794
00:33:33,000 --> 00:33:37,520
Speaker 5: genuine feelings in real time, and people are having connections

795
00:33:37,520 --> 00:33:39,360
Speaker 5: to that. I see the news reporters get mad all

796
00:33:39,400 --> 00:33:41,080
Speaker 5: the time. I see the journalist get mad all the time.

797
00:33:41,200 --> 00:33:43,440
Speaker 5: Get I see the political pundits get mad all the time.

798
00:33:43,600 --> 00:33:45,920
Speaker 5: It's not all fault you're not entertaining. It's not all

799
00:33:45,960 --> 00:33:47,920
Speaker 5: fault that you've been around for so long that you

800
00:33:48,320 --> 00:33:51,080
Speaker 5: decided to just be robotic about everything. And then I

801
00:33:51,160 --> 00:33:56,800
Speaker 5: watch the political pundits, they just be so like tied

802
00:33:57,360 --> 00:34:00,320
Speaker 5: to whatever party it is that they represent, that they

803
00:34:00,440 --> 00:34:03,120
Speaker 5: not speaking the way the people are speaking.

804
00:34:03,280 --> 00:34:03,840
Speaker 2: I agree.

805
00:34:03,960 --> 00:34:06,040
Speaker 4: I'm from Monks Corner, South Caroline. I was home all

806
00:34:06,120 --> 00:34:09,000
Speaker 4: last week in Charleston and Monk's Corner in Columbia.

807
00:34:09,120 --> 00:34:11,400
Speaker 2: I'm you know, we was for terrible.

808
00:34:12,480 --> 00:34:14,880
Speaker 5: I'm on my dirt road, like I'm minding my business.

809
00:34:14,920 --> 00:34:18,799
Speaker 5: I'm talking to real people. I don't ever lose that.

810
00:34:18,960 --> 00:34:21,680
Speaker 5: So the conversations I have are from the perspectives of

811
00:34:21,760 --> 00:34:24,359
Speaker 5: like what real people in the street are telling me,

812
00:34:24,480 --> 00:34:27,319
Speaker 5: what real people are feeling. I think sometimes you can

813
00:34:27,400 --> 00:34:30,040
Speaker 5: be so on your high horse as a journalists that

814
00:34:30,120 --> 00:34:32,040
Speaker 5: you ain't been down to touch the people in a while,

815
00:34:32,040 --> 00:34:33,880
Speaker 5: and you wonder why the people ain't connecting to you,

816
00:34:34,080 --> 00:34:37,279
Speaker 5: and why the people are gravitating towards you know, just

817
00:34:37,320 --> 00:34:40,360
Speaker 5: people that feel like human beings to them, but not journalists.

818
00:34:40,600 --> 00:34:41,160
Speaker 2: No facts.

819
00:34:41,160 --> 00:34:43,120
Speaker 1: I feel like people have to touch grass. I think

820
00:34:43,120 --> 00:34:45,359
Speaker 1: that's the good balance that Lacks and I have as well.

821
00:34:45,640 --> 00:34:48,200
Speaker 1: We went to school and we have mass communications degrees,

822
00:34:48,239 --> 00:34:51,200
Speaker 1: so we definitely know how to be journalist.

823
00:34:51,360 --> 00:34:53,680
Speaker 2: But then we just regulate everyday people and we.

824
00:34:53,680 --> 00:34:56,480
Speaker 1: Like to make it lighthearted and fun and speak about

825
00:34:56,480 --> 00:34:59,120
Speaker 1: things in a way that the normal person can understand.

826
00:34:59,239 --> 00:35:02,279
Speaker 4: I didn't go to college. I was selling crack.

827
00:35:03,040 --> 00:35:05,919
Speaker 2: You was my crack card, did not go I would

828
00:35:05,920 --> 00:35:06,239
Speaker 2: have never.

829
00:35:06,800 --> 00:35:08,360
Speaker 1: I feel like you don't say it that before, and

830
00:35:08,400 --> 00:35:09,920
Speaker 1: I always be thinking you capping.

831
00:35:11,600 --> 00:35:12,240
Speaker 4: I was never.

832
00:35:13,600 --> 00:35:15,440
Speaker 5: I was not no big time drug deal in no

833
00:35:15,440 --> 00:35:16,800
Speaker 5: way say before. But I used to sell what you

834
00:35:16,840 --> 00:35:18,719
Speaker 5: used to call quarter spoons, and it was seven grams.

835
00:35:18,719 --> 00:35:20,440
Speaker 5: You would pay two hundred and fifty dollars if you

836
00:35:20,440 --> 00:35:22,879
Speaker 5: would get seven grams of rock, and you would cut

837
00:35:22,920 --> 00:35:24,200
Speaker 5: it up and you would try to at least cut

838
00:35:24,200 --> 00:35:28,239
Speaker 5: it to where you're doubling your money one hundred and

839
00:35:27,320 --> 00:35:31,279
Speaker 5: sixty something. So I was never no big time drug

840
00:35:31,320 --> 00:35:32,399
Speaker 5: deal who was selling work.

841
00:35:32,480 --> 00:35:33,959
Speaker 2: You was in a kitchen cooking.

842
00:35:33,680 --> 00:35:38,239
Speaker 4: Absolutely No, I wasn't cooking. I could cook it on

843
00:35:38,280 --> 00:35:41,120
Speaker 4: a spoon. Cook it on the spoon. I couldn't.

844
00:35:41,120 --> 00:35:45,359
Speaker 2: Never like going broke, that's right, But you could take

845
00:35:45,400 --> 00:35:47,239
Speaker 2: the vaccino roots if you ever need to.

846
00:35:47,640 --> 00:35:51,080
Speaker 5: No, hell, no, something that has really gone wrong in life,

847
00:35:51,360 --> 00:35:53,239
Speaker 5: if I have to have to go back to selling crack.

848
00:35:53,480 --> 00:35:56,480
Speaker 5: But you know, I went from I went from the

849
00:35:56,520 --> 00:36:00,800
Speaker 5: streets of Monk's Corner to being in the radio station

850
00:36:01,040 --> 00:36:04,200
Speaker 5: because I was just looking to do something positive in

851
00:36:04,200 --> 00:36:06,200
Speaker 5: my life. And to the point that both of y'all

852
00:36:06,239 --> 00:36:09,920
Speaker 5: just made when my daddy used to always say to me,

853
00:36:10,000 --> 00:36:10,920
Speaker 5: if you don't change.

854
00:36:10,680 --> 00:36:13,520
Speaker 2: Your lifestyle, you're gonna end up in jail, dead or broke,

855
00:36:13,560 --> 00:36:14,439
Speaker 2: sitting under the tree.

856
00:36:15,080 --> 00:36:16,960
Speaker 5: And when you start to go to jail yourself, and

857
00:36:16,960 --> 00:36:19,080
Speaker 5: when you start to see people around you actually get killed.

858
00:36:19,080 --> 00:36:20,759
Speaker 5: And when you start to see people that you used

859
00:36:20,800 --> 00:36:23,879
Speaker 5: to grow up, you know, like idolizing in a sense,

860
00:36:23,960 --> 00:36:26,120
Speaker 5: actually just sitting under the tree, broke, not doing nothing

861
00:36:26,120 --> 00:36:26,720
Speaker 5: with their life.

862
00:36:26,840 --> 00:36:29,320
Speaker 2: You like, Oh, my daddy's telling the truth.

863
00:36:29,480 --> 00:36:30,960
Speaker 5: So I was just like, you know what, let me

864
00:36:30,960 --> 00:36:34,040
Speaker 5: start doing just positive things because I believe in this

865
00:36:34,120 --> 00:36:37,440
Speaker 5: acronym called peace and this positive energy activates constant elevation.

866
00:36:38,080 --> 00:36:39,880
Speaker 5: So I just wanted to do positive things. So I

867
00:36:39,960 --> 00:36:41,560
Speaker 5: was working in the mall. I was working at the

868
00:36:41,560 --> 00:36:43,680
Speaker 5: Clover store in the mall called Demo. I did tell

869
00:36:43,680 --> 00:36:46,080
Speaker 5: a marketing. I worked at a flower garden. I was

870
00:36:46,120 --> 00:36:47,560
Speaker 5: just doing all of these different hustles.

871
00:36:47,719 --> 00:36:50,239
Speaker 2: Me word up.

872
00:36:50,280 --> 00:36:51,920
Speaker 5: I was doing all these different hustles just because I

873
00:36:51,920 --> 00:36:54,200
Speaker 5: did not want to go back, you know, to the street.

874
00:36:54,280 --> 00:36:57,279
Speaker 5: And then I was you know, like most young black

875
00:36:57,280 --> 00:36:58,640
Speaker 5: men in the hood, I wanted to wrap right.

876
00:36:59,120 --> 00:36:59,760
Speaker 4: The people who.

877
00:36:59,600 --> 00:37:07,560
Speaker 2: I was them always want to hear me. Do you

878
00:37:07,640 --> 00:37:09,719
Speaker 2: remember a bar that you used to.

879
00:37:11,400 --> 00:37:11,560
Speaker 9: Man?

880
00:37:15,320 --> 00:37:17,759
Speaker 2: Remember? No, you know why? Because I sucked. And I'm

881
00:37:17,760 --> 00:37:19,000
Speaker 2: gonna tell you why I sucked.

882
00:37:19,040 --> 00:37:20,680
Speaker 4: I sucked because whenever I would go in the studio,

883
00:37:20,680 --> 00:37:21,799
Speaker 4: I couldn't never catch the beat.

884
00:37:22,400 --> 00:37:25,200
Speaker 2: And I had my mentor. His name is doctor Robert Evans.

885
00:37:25,719 --> 00:37:28,640
Speaker 2: You tried to rap too. If I did, I probably couldn't.

886
00:37:29,239 --> 00:37:32,560
Speaker 5: You know, you got a lot of real okay, my mentor,

887
00:37:32,640 --> 00:37:35,120
Speaker 5: doctor Robert Evans, he owned the label. And I remember

888
00:37:35,160 --> 00:37:38,280
Speaker 5: him just telling me one day, all right, listen, you suck, okay,

889
00:37:39,200 --> 00:37:41,440
Speaker 5: but you got a good ear for talent, and you

890
00:37:41,680 --> 00:37:43,680
Speaker 5: damn good at that radio. That's what you need to

891
00:37:43,680 --> 00:37:45,320
Speaker 5: focus on. So you're gonna be an a off for

892
00:37:45,400 --> 00:37:48,839
Speaker 5: the label, right y'all remember y'all know, Yeah, you're gonna

893
00:37:48,880 --> 00:37:51,040
Speaker 5: be an a off for the label and you're gonna

894
00:37:51,040 --> 00:37:51,920
Speaker 5: focus on radio.

895
00:37:52,280 --> 00:37:53,080
Speaker 4: And that's what I did.

896
00:37:53,440 --> 00:37:55,359
Speaker 3: So do you feel like in that moment you might

897
00:37:55,360 --> 00:37:58,000
Speaker 3: have projected on Safari when he was rapping and he

898
00:37:58,120 --> 00:37:58,880
Speaker 3: was like, no.

899
00:37:58,760 --> 00:38:01,160
Speaker 5: That ain't No, I'm just I just know what whack

900
00:38:01,160 --> 00:38:02,800
Speaker 5: wrap sounds like because.

901
00:38:02,600 --> 00:38:06,239
Speaker 2: I used to do it. Oh, for my point, I

902
00:38:06,360 --> 00:38:07,400
Speaker 2: used to get on the radio.

903
00:38:08,000 --> 00:38:10,480
Speaker 4: When when I first started getting on the radio, I

904
00:38:10,480 --> 00:38:11,520
Speaker 4: didn't know what I was doing.

905
00:38:12,000 --> 00:38:14,560
Speaker 5: Nobody taught me. I didn't do college radio or anything

906
00:38:14,600 --> 00:38:16,560
Speaker 5: like that. So I always say the best thing that

907
00:38:16,640 --> 00:38:19,399
Speaker 5: I had when I first started radio was not knowing

908
00:38:19,440 --> 00:38:19,920
Speaker 5: how to do it.

909
00:38:19,960 --> 00:38:21,560
Speaker 2: So the only thing I could do is be myself.

910
00:38:21,960 --> 00:38:24,600
Speaker 5: I would I would be coming from Monk's corners, sometimes drunk,

911
00:38:24,800 --> 00:38:28,279
Speaker 5: sometimes high, and just getting on their talking no not

912
00:38:28,320 --> 00:38:28,719
Speaker 5: off crack.

913
00:38:30,640 --> 00:38:32,080
Speaker 2: I feel like he would have at.

914
00:38:33,600 --> 00:38:35,960
Speaker 4: If he was doing the play, and so I would

915
00:38:36,000 --> 00:38:36,520
Speaker 4: answer phone.

916
00:38:36,520 --> 00:38:39,120
Speaker 5: I would just be answering the phones and talking to

917
00:38:39,200 --> 00:38:41,880
Speaker 5: people like it's regular, And so that was different than

918
00:38:41,920 --> 00:38:43,920
Speaker 5: what everybody else was doing. And that's always been my

919
00:38:44,000 --> 00:38:46,200
Speaker 5: mind stage. Just show up, show up and be yourself.

920
00:38:46,280 --> 00:38:48,520
Speaker 2: I know Charlemagne wasn't doing crack. He got his thoughts.

921
00:38:48,560 --> 00:38:49,200
Speaker 2: That don't matter.

922
00:38:49,920 --> 00:38:55,680
Speaker 3: You can see some functioning crackheads, now, eyeball of crackhead

923
00:38:55,960 --> 00:38:57,920
Speaker 3: is the people in the industry, Like they're all like.

924
00:38:58,680 --> 00:39:02,839
Speaker 1: Someone, Oh yeah, absolutely, a cocaine crack is different because

925
00:39:02,880 --> 00:39:03,560
Speaker 1: crack is whack.

926
00:39:03,680 --> 00:39:07,600
Speaker 2: Crack is fried cocaine. Yeah, crack is crack cocaine.

927
00:39:08,920 --> 00:39:09,560
Speaker 4: That's all you're doing.

928
00:39:09,600 --> 00:39:11,000
Speaker 5: All you're doing is taking the coke atting a little

929
00:39:11,000 --> 00:39:12,720
Speaker 5: bigger soda to it. You know what I'm saying, frying

930
00:39:12,719 --> 00:39:13,000
Speaker 5: it up.

931
00:39:13,239 --> 00:39:18,600
Speaker 2: Come on now, sir, so I got backing, So up, Charlotte.

932
00:39:19,000 --> 00:39:21,640
Speaker 4: I can definitely see it. I can man and going

933
00:39:21,680 --> 00:39:22,320
Speaker 4: to therapy.

934
00:39:22,440 --> 00:39:25,640
Speaker 5: I can see when somebody's dealing with real mental health

935
00:39:25,640 --> 00:39:28,160
Speaker 5: issues and having that episode. And ain't nobody in the

936
00:39:28,239 --> 00:39:31,880
Speaker 5: vena m like we've seen that quite a few times.

937
00:39:32,160 --> 00:39:34,000
Speaker 1: I do want to touch on that because I feel

938
00:39:34,000 --> 00:39:36,120
Speaker 1: like you're one of the very few black men in

939
00:39:36,160 --> 00:39:38,759
Speaker 1: the industry that is always advocating for mental health.

940
00:39:38,800 --> 00:39:40,200
Speaker 2: Why is this so important to you?

941
00:39:40,640 --> 00:39:41,600
Speaker 4: I mean, because it just helped me.

942
00:39:41,640 --> 00:39:43,920
Speaker 5: I'm the type of person like, if something has benefited

943
00:39:43,920 --> 00:39:45,440
Speaker 5: me in any way, shape or form, I just.

944
00:39:45,360 --> 00:39:46,279
Speaker 2: Want to share it with people.

945
00:39:46,320 --> 00:39:48,400
Speaker 5: And plus, when I started talking about it back in

946
00:39:48,440 --> 00:39:52,120
Speaker 5: twenty sixteen, like people thought I was joking at me,

947
00:39:52,440 --> 00:39:54,880
Speaker 5: like I'm going to therapy every day at three o'clock.

948
00:39:54,920 --> 00:39:56,919
Speaker 5: And it was like a joke. It be like people

949
00:39:56,920 --> 00:39:58,319
Speaker 5: would call him like, all right, Sean, I know you're

950
00:39:58,320 --> 00:40:00,359
Speaker 5: gonna be at you know, Friday at three. But then

951
00:40:00,360 --> 00:40:04,360
Speaker 5: after a while people are like, wait a minute, somethings different.

952
00:40:04,400 --> 00:40:07,120
Speaker 5: I see something, you know, changing a little bit, and

953
00:40:07,160 --> 00:40:08,880
Speaker 5: it was because of it was because of therapy.

954
00:40:08,920 --> 00:40:11,520
Speaker 2: So it was just for me when I started to.

955
00:40:11,480 --> 00:40:15,000
Speaker 5: Talk about it and express you know, dealing with anxiety

956
00:40:15,040 --> 00:40:17,439
Speaker 5: and dealing with a box of depression. Man, so many

957
00:40:17,480 --> 00:40:20,120
Speaker 5: other people started coming to me having conversations about it,

958
00:40:20,200 --> 00:40:22,880
Speaker 5: like you know, you know, women will come up to

959
00:40:22,920 --> 00:40:25,160
Speaker 5: be saying their husbands started going to therapy because of me,

960
00:40:25,560 --> 00:40:27,640
Speaker 5: or their brothers started going to therapy because of me.

961
00:40:27,840 --> 00:40:29,839
Speaker 5: And so I just realized it was just something that was,

962
00:40:30,239 --> 00:40:31,800
Speaker 5: you know, bigger than me.

963
00:40:32,080 --> 00:40:32,799
Speaker 2: Yeah, you know.

964
00:40:32,960 --> 00:40:35,160
Speaker 5: That's when I ended up starting my nonprofit, which is

965
00:40:35,160 --> 00:40:37,759
Speaker 5: called the Mental Health Alliance. Okay, and what we want

966
00:40:37,800 --> 00:40:40,479
Speaker 5: to do is we want to provide you know, free

967
00:40:40,560 --> 00:40:44,440
Speaker 5: therapy to like ten million people over the next five years.

968
00:40:44,560 --> 00:40:46,799
Speaker 3: That's amazing because I we do talk about mental health

969
00:40:46,840 --> 00:40:49,320
Speaker 3: moody because I think in our community, like we don't.

970
00:40:49,120 --> 00:40:50,160
Speaker 2: Take that stuff serious.

971
00:40:50,320 --> 00:40:53,880
Speaker 3: Like I didn't realize what anxiety really was until I

972
00:40:53,920 --> 00:40:55,600
Speaker 3: got older because I didn't know what was going on

973
00:40:55,640 --> 00:40:58,640
Speaker 3: with myself. I didn't know what you know, seesonal depression was.

974
00:40:58,719 --> 00:41:01,200
Speaker 3: Like I really didn't under staying it till I did

975
00:41:01,239 --> 00:41:04,080
Speaker 3: my own deep dive and I had to get into therapy,

976
00:41:04,160 --> 00:41:06,560
Speaker 3: like after my mom passed. So it's like I didn't

977
00:41:06,560 --> 00:41:11,280
Speaker 3: even understand the process of like grieving. You don't understand

978
00:41:11,320 --> 00:41:13,399
Speaker 3: a lot of stuff when you just never talk about it,

979
00:41:13,440 --> 00:41:15,800
Speaker 3: Like that was something I had a very close relationship

980
00:41:15,800 --> 00:41:19,600
Speaker 3: with my mom growing up, but like talking about depression

981
00:41:19,640 --> 00:41:21,759
Speaker 3: and stuff, like I didn't even know depression was a

982
00:41:21,800 --> 00:41:24,240
Speaker 3: thing because they make depression look like a certain thing,

983
00:41:24,840 --> 00:41:26,840
Speaker 3: like it's like, oh, that's only something like the emo

984
00:41:26,960 --> 00:41:30,319
Speaker 3: kids are doing, like and being sad and doing all that, and.

985
00:41:30,560 --> 00:41:33,520
Speaker 2: You're gonna watch stop Shaving, Yeah, and it's.

986
00:41:33,360 --> 00:41:37,640
Speaker 3: Like depression looks like so many different things. Depression can

987
00:41:37,680 --> 00:41:41,480
Speaker 3: be somebody being overly happy and showing up for everybody

988
00:41:41,560 --> 00:41:44,240
Speaker 3: and just trying to stay busy and doing so many

989
00:41:44,320 --> 00:41:46,600
Speaker 3: things and you don't even realize they are struggling on

990
00:41:46,640 --> 00:41:47,160
Speaker 3: the inside and.

991
00:41:47,280 --> 00:41:48,799
Speaker 2: Busy as a response to trauma and a lot.

992
00:41:48,760 --> 00:41:51,680
Speaker 3: Of kids, Yes, one thousand percent you would be trying

993
00:41:51,680 --> 00:41:52,400
Speaker 3: to run from themselfs.

994
00:41:52,680 --> 00:41:54,400
Speaker 2: But you can't run from yourself. That's the other thing too.

995
00:41:54,440 --> 00:41:56,319
Speaker 5: That's another reason I started to talk about it so much,

996
00:41:56,320 --> 00:41:59,800
Speaker 5: because it's just like I wanted to encourage other black men.

997
00:42:00,120 --> 00:42:02,359
Speaker 2: Stop running, you know, like you don't got to run

998
00:42:02,400 --> 00:42:02,960
Speaker 2: for yourself.

999
00:42:03,000 --> 00:42:04,680
Speaker 5: Like you know, we all got a bunch of unhealed

1000
00:42:04,719 --> 00:42:08,120
Speaker 5: trauma that we haven't dealt with. Stop take the time

1001
00:42:08,160 --> 00:42:11,520
Speaker 5: for yourself. And that's part of like right, like self care.

1002
00:42:11,560 --> 00:42:14,920
Speaker 5: Like I hate people who take better care of material

1003
00:42:14,960 --> 00:42:18,680
Speaker 5: items than they do their own bodies and brain. Yeah

1004
00:42:18,760 --> 00:42:21,240
Speaker 5: you know what I mean, your rooms cleaner than you

1005
00:42:21,239 --> 00:42:22,040
Speaker 5: You know what I'm saying.

1006
00:42:22,280 --> 00:42:24,560
Speaker 1: I think people like to think that a lot of

1007
00:42:24,560 --> 00:42:26,480
Speaker 1: people like to think that nothing is wrong with them,

1008
00:42:26,560 --> 00:42:28,400
Speaker 1: Like it's the acknowledged me and over realizing.

1009
00:42:28,680 --> 00:42:30,640
Speaker 2: Okay, maybe this is why I do this.

1010
00:42:30,920 --> 00:42:32,719
Speaker 1: I think sometimes people just want to think it's like

1011
00:42:32,760 --> 00:42:35,360
Speaker 1: a quirky thing about their personality, Like a lot of

1012
00:42:35,360 --> 00:42:38,960
Speaker 1: people have ADHD and being busy all the time is

1013
00:42:39,040 --> 00:42:42,319
Speaker 1: a response today, But you're walking around undiagnosed, so you

1014
00:42:42,320 --> 00:42:44,080
Speaker 1: don't even know that you have ADHD and you can

1015
00:42:44,160 --> 00:42:45,880
Speaker 1: have any of your whole life. Since she was a child,

1016
00:42:46,000 --> 00:42:48,120
Speaker 1: I found out for my therapiest that I have ADHD.

1017
00:42:48,680 --> 00:42:50,560
Speaker 2: But I found out like two years ago.

1018
00:42:50,760 --> 00:42:53,359
Speaker 4: Yeah I probably had ADHD too. But when I was young,

1019
00:42:53,400 --> 00:42:54,680
Speaker 4: they just wanted to put me on riddling.

1020
00:42:54,680 --> 00:43:00,560
Speaker 2: They just thought I was bad. Yes, little boy, that riddling.

1021
00:43:00,719 --> 00:43:04,319
Speaker 2: That's like say away from bags. Bags was riddling when

1022
00:43:04,320 --> 00:43:05,000
Speaker 2: we was kids.

1023
00:43:05,040 --> 00:43:07,440
Speaker 1: But yes, it's like it's even in small things like

1024
00:43:07,680 --> 00:43:10,120
Speaker 1: I get distracted easily, like I'll be about to send

1025
00:43:10,120 --> 00:43:12,279
Speaker 1: a text to somebody, then something to happen and then

1026
00:43:12,320 --> 00:43:14,840
Speaker 1: I'll forget to respond. And my therapist was like, I

1027
00:43:14,840 --> 00:43:17,120
Speaker 1: think you have ADHD, and she like did this test

1028
00:43:17,200 --> 00:43:18,759
Speaker 1: on me, and I found out that I did have.

1029
00:43:18,920 --> 00:43:20,960
Speaker 5: You got to take your brain back, Like even what

1030
00:43:21,040 --> 00:43:22,279
Speaker 5: you said just now, I think a lot of that

1031
00:43:22,320 --> 00:43:24,920
Speaker 5: just has to do with technology. Technology, just to scratch us. Now,

1032
00:43:25,560 --> 00:43:27,279
Speaker 5: you be thinking about one thing and you can go

1033
00:43:27,320 --> 00:43:28,719
Speaker 5: to your phone for something. Next thing you know, you're

1034
00:43:28,719 --> 00:43:30,279
Speaker 5: down a rabbit hole or something else. You forgot what

1035
00:43:30,280 --> 00:43:31,160
Speaker 5: you were supposed.

1036
00:43:30,800 --> 00:43:33,160
Speaker 2: To trying to figure out how to deep fried turkey

1037
00:43:34,960 --> 00:43:35,560
Speaker 2: all the time.

1038
00:43:35,680 --> 00:43:37,759
Speaker 4: You got to take your brain back. Ye, I wonder

1039
00:43:37,800 --> 00:43:38,560
Speaker 4: what's now?

1040
00:43:40,040 --> 00:43:43,920
Speaker 2: What that is? They popping it for recreational Isn't that?

1041
00:43:44,040 --> 00:43:47,239
Speaker 2: What's the one that the college kids always throw that

1042
00:43:47,280 --> 00:43:47,839
Speaker 2: the same thing?

1043
00:43:48,000 --> 00:43:48,160
Speaker 6: You know?

1044
00:43:49,080 --> 00:43:53,560
Speaker 2: Is it like rebranded? I think that, you know, we

1045
00:43:53,600 --> 00:43:56,960
Speaker 2: don't hear riddling anymore, but I.

1046
00:43:57,440 --> 00:44:00,680
Speaker 3: Do want to say though, I think that also when

1047
00:44:00,680 --> 00:44:03,560
Speaker 3: you see people on the Internet and they're talking, stop

1048
00:44:03,719 --> 00:44:06,520
Speaker 3: diagnosing people in the comments. I hate to see that

1049
00:44:06,520 --> 00:44:09,799
Speaker 3: they're like, oh, he's au testa. Oh girl, you got

1050
00:44:09,840 --> 00:44:10,239
Speaker 3: eighty eight?

1051
00:44:10,480 --> 00:44:11,520
Speaker 2: Shut up girl.

1052
00:44:12,760 --> 00:44:15,000
Speaker 3: In the comments doing that to me. This lady wrote

1053
00:44:15,040 --> 00:44:16,520
Speaker 3: a long do you remember that comment?

1054
00:44:17,120 --> 00:44:18,400
Speaker 2: This lady autistic?

1055
00:44:18,719 --> 00:44:22,680
Speaker 3: She said, I was autistic ADHD not harh function.

1056
00:44:24,400 --> 00:44:27,680
Speaker 2: She gave me all the alphabet charlomagne. I said, I'm

1057
00:44:27,760 --> 00:44:31,520
Speaker 2: just a bitch that I used to smoke a little cry.

1058
00:44:33,000 --> 00:44:36,200
Speaker 2: She's never smoked c a day, like LEXI is crazy.

1059
00:44:36,400 --> 00:44:42,640
Speaker 2: I smoked you did you smoke cry? No? It was

1060
00:44:42,760 --> 00:44:45,239
Speaker 2: cocaine in a blunt of weed, but I didn't know.

1061
00:44:45,239 --> 00:44:47,479
Speaker 3: That it was like a good time.

1062
00:44:50,560 --> 00:44:52,520
Speaker 5: It was, though, I'm not gonna lie. It was good

1063
00:44:52,800 --> 00:44:54,280
Speaker 5: and what I would do it again by accident.

1064
00:44:54,520 --> 00:45:00,319
Speaker 2: But I remember that high days sometime, did you have

1065
00:45:00,360 --> 00:45:03,239
Speaker 2: a hot that's so good? You'd be like, I understand it.

1066
00:45:03,440 --> 00:45:06,240
Speaker 1: But that's crazy, though, because at least you were able

1067
00:45:06,320 --> 00:45:07,440
Speaker 1: to be like, oh, this was.

1068
00:45:07,400 --> 00:45:09,239
Speaker 2: Too good, but I'm not going to do it bad.

1069
00:45:09,600 --> 00:45:11,319
Speaker 3: Most people would do it again, and that's how they

1070
00:45:11,400 --> 00:45:12,640
Speaker 3: end up falling down their hall.

1071
00:45:12,920 --> 00:45:14,680
Speaker 5: You know what it was. I thought it was weed.

1072
00:45:15,719 --> 00:45:18,400
Speaker 5: I was just looking for whatever that weed was. I

1073
00:45:18,440 --> 00:45:21,600
Speaker 5: didn't realize until much later in life, like, oh, that's

1074
00:45:21,640 --> 00:45:24,000
Speaker 5: what that was, because you can you know, you know

1075
00:45:24,080 --> 00:45:25,920
Speaker 5: the smell? Yeah, I mean so I was like, oh

1076
00:45:26,000 --> 00:45:27,640
Speaker 5: that was I used to call them woollas.

1077
00:45:28,480 --> 00:45:39,759
Speaker 2: Y'all got some names. Okay, I could be the name

1078
00:45:39,800 --> 00:45:45,880
Speaker 2: of the episode, but y'all got some names.

1079
00:45:46,440 --> 00:45:58,000
Speaker 10: Game a long ago, yes set up.

1080
00:45:59,080 --> 00:46:02,520
Speaker 3: So for our yes today, mister Charlemagne the God, we're

1081
00:46:02,520 --> 00:46:04,920
Speaker 3: gonna keep it. We're gonna spill the tea. That's what

1082
00:46:04,920 --> 00:46:06,880
Speaker 3: they've been doing. So we're gonna keep it warm for you.

1083
00:46:06,920 --> 00:46:08,880
Speaker 3: We have a tea I know he likes green tea,

1084
00:46:09,000 --> 00:46:11,080
Speaker 3: so I want to kind of play into that I made.

1085
00:46:11,160 --> 00:46:13,200
Speaker 3: Y'all know I love to playing syrups. I made a

1086
00:46:13,719 --> 00:46:16,359
Speaker 3: tea syrup, so I have like some cardamoms, some green tea,

1087
00:46:16,400 --> 00:46:19,319
Speaker 3: some vitamin C, a little bit of camerameal in there.

1088
00:46:19,600 --> 00:46:22,000
Speaker 3: I made that into a syrup and like a honey

1089
00:46:22,000 --> 00:46:25,840
Speaker 3: agave syrup. We added some tequila, some banana liqueur, and

1090
00:46:25,880 --> 00:46:27,759
Speaker 3: a little bit of lemon juice. And then this is

1091
00:46:27,800 --> 00:46:29,719
Speaker 3: served warm or if you want to shake it up

1092
00:46:29,719 --> 00:46:32,920
Speaker 3: over ice, really good, but since it's cold outside, we're gonna.

1093
00:46:32,719 --> 00:46:34,440
Speaker 2: Keep it warm like a little hot tidy.

1094
00:46:34,480 --> 00:46:41,560
Speaker 3: And then we garnished it with a dehydrated orange so and.

1095
00:46:41,480 --> 00:46:46,600
Speaker 2: I didn't even name it is the black effects we love.

1096
00:46:49,680 --> 00:46:52,399
Speaker 2: I will do it. Cut it out.

1097
00:46:54,880 --> 00:46:57,480
Speaker 1: I am from Chicago, but I would do anything once,

1098
00:46:57,520 --> 00:46:59,560
Speaker 1: and I'll do it on my on my death bed

1099
00:47:00,239 --> 00:47:00,839
Speaker 1: to go out.

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00:47:01,040 --> 00:47:04,520
Speaker 2: Just give me. Give me that why because a million

1101
00:47:04,520 --> 00:47:05,960
Speaker 2: things you should be thinking about when you're on your

1102
00:47:05,960 --> 00:47:07,160
Speaker 2: death bed, crack isn't one of them.

1103
00:47:07,239 --> 00:47:09,520
Speaker 3: Yeah, I don't know where Mama will go. I feel

1104
00:47:09,520 --> 00:47:10,359
Speaker 3: like it was just like.

1105
00:47:12,600 --> 00:47:16,120
Speaker 2: Flying up with exactly why people.

1106
00:47:15,880 --> 00:47:18,680
Speaker 5: Learn mistakes, why people learn from the mistakes of others.

1107
00:47:18,800 --> 00:47:20,160
Speaker 2: Yeaht taking people.

1108
00:47:20,160 --> 00:47:24,200
Speaker 1: That's why I never wanted to be I had crackheads

1109
00:47:24,200 --> 00:47:27,160
Speaker 1: in my family, not you telling it all. I ain't

1110
00:47:27,239 --> 00:47:28,000
Speaker 1: say who it was.

1111
00:47:28,640 --> 00:47:30,920
Speaker 5: The only plus I think there is about crack is

1112
00:47:30,960 --> 00:47:32,800
Speaker 5: that I ain't seen a crackhead die yet when I

1113
00:47:32,960 --> 00:47:33,719
Speaker 5: was a plus for me.

1114
00:47:34,160 --> 00:47:38,600
Speaker 3: Give me three up, Jacob now for real, even immmunity.

1115
00:47:38,960 --> 00:47:40,759
Speaker 2: I see y'all ain't right well.

1116
00:47:40,800 --> 00:47:44,200
Speaker 3: This episode is being brought to y'all by Taylor Report.

1117
00:47:44,600 --> 00:47:46,560
Speaker 3: Shout out to our people at Tailorport. That's why we

1118
00:47:46,600 --> 00:47:48,440
Speaker 3: go over here cutting up. Y'all know what I keep it?

1119
00:47:48,800 --> 00:47:51,759
Speaker 1: For New Year's Eve, we needed something light, sparky and

1120
00:47:51,840 --> 00:47:54,640
Speaker 1: perfect for a countdown tost so we brought out the

1121
00:47:54,719 --> 00:47:56,400
Speaker 1: Rose Resolution Sprits.

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00:47:56,880 --> 00:47:59,879
Speaker 3: This sprint starts with tailor Port for that sweet, rich base.

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00:48:00,160 --> 00:48:03,040
Speaker 3: Then we brighten it up with Rose prossecco, a little

1124
00:48:03,080 --> 00:48:05,320
Speaker 3: Lemons ask, and a cute strawberry garnish.

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00:48:05,680 --> 00:48:08,880
Speaker 1: It's refreshing, it's uplifting, and it feels like exactly what

1126
00:48:09,040 --> 00:48:12,360
Speaker 1: you're supposed to see while setting your resolutions or breaking

1127
00:48:12,400 --> 00:48:17,200
Speaker 1: a few. The Rose Resolution spreads for toasting, manifesting, and

1128
00:48:17,239 --> 00:48:20,040
Speaker 1: stepping into the New Year with the farcle and I

1129
00:48:20,040 --> 00:48:24,560
Speaker 1: shouldn't have drunk that champanel somebody immunity. If you're making.

1130
00:48:29,920 --> 00:48:32,680
Speaker 5: Now where you're from the South, you understand what a person? Yeah,

1131
00:48:32,880 --> 00:48:35,560
Speaker 5: I understand what you meant. Yeah we know that dope.

1132
00:48:35,560 --> 00:48:36,680
Speaker 5: Do I like that touch over there?

1133
00:48:36,719 --> 00:48:38,040
Speaker 2: Yeah? Okay, what are we going?

1134
00:48:38,239 --> 00:48:38,319
Speaker 3: So?

1135
00:48:38,719 --> 00:48:41,080
Speaker 1: As y'all know, this is a tailor port sponsor episode,

1136
00:48:41,080 --> 00:48:42,880
Speaker 1: So y'all know, we got to get into our poor

1137
00:48:43,120 --> 00:48:46,120
Speaker 1: decision of the week, which is basically where we just

1138
00:48:46,160 --> 00:48:48,359
Speaker 1: talk about something that we did this week that we

1139
00:48:48,400 --> 00:48:51,680
Speaker 1: was like that wasn't really the greatest idea. So Le,

1140
00:48:52,040 --> 00:48:53,439
Speaker 1: what was your poor decision this week?

1141
00:48:53,480 --> 00:48:56,520
Speaker 3: My poor decision this week was I had friends given.

1142
00:48:56,320 --> 00:48:56,840
Speaker 2: At my house.

1143
00:48:57,360 --> 00:49:01,920
Speaker 3: Now we had a ball, right, everything was good, Everything

1144
00:49:02,040 --> 00:49:03,200
Speaker 3: was fantastic.

1145
00:49:03,440 --> 00:49:03,840
Speaker 2: Okay.

1146
00:49:03,960 --> 00:49:08,400
Speaker 3: We had Brussels sprouts. Drea made the green beans busting.

1147
00:49:08,640 --> 00:49:11,000
Speaker 3: We had mac and cheese. We had jerk chicken, we

1148
00:49:11,120 --> 00:49:14,640
Speaker 3: had the whole not hotspree. We had appetizers all dirbs

1149
00:49:14,760 --> 00:49:18,319
Speaker 3: Deviled ad Yeah they was them devil Diggs too. But

1150
00:49:18,440 --> 00:49:21,520
Speaker 3: I decided to start drinking right before I started cooking

1151
00:49:21,520 --> 00:49:22,280
Speaker 3: the lamb chops.

1152
00:49:22,400 --> 00:49:23,319
Speaker 2: I ain't never cooked no.

1153
00:49:23,320 --> 00:49:25,880
Speaker 3: Lamb chops before, so I put them in the and

1154
00:49:25,880 --> 00:49:28,960
Speaker 3: then I didn't cover them up and they got. They

1155
00:49:29,040 --> 00:49:31,839
Speaker 3: got tough as fucking the bottom of my feet got.

1156
00:49:31,920 --> 00:49:35,160
Speaker 2: Damn you throw it to a window. Now they were

1157
00:49:35,200 --> 00:49:36,960
Speaker 2: still eating them. They said they was good because they

1158
00:49:37,000 --> 00:49:42,439
Speaker 2: was seasoned. They was nice my friends women, other women.

1159
00:49:42,800 --> 00:49:44,719
Speaker 4: Okay, the guy just lying.

1160
00:49:44,880 --> 00:49:47,680
Speaker 3: It just wasn't given tender, you know what I'm saying.

1161
00:49:47,719 --> 00:49:49,760
Speaker 3: But now I know how to cook lamb chop because

1162
00:49:49,760 --> 00:49:52,239
Speaker 3: I learned, and I hope everybody at the house learned

1163
00:49:52,239 --> 00:49:53,000
Speaker 3: from my mistakes.

1164
00:49:53,040 --> 00:49:54,560
Speaker 2: Like you said, so imagine question.

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00:49:54,400 --> 00:49:57,120
Speaker 5: This the New Year's episode, right, They're not gonna think

1166
00:49:57,160 --> 00:49:58,680
Speaker 5: it's crazy that you said you had friends giving this week.

1167
00:49:58,719 --> 00:50:00,000
Speaker 5: They were like, damn, how long a y'all gonna have

1168
00:50:00,040 --> 00:50:00,520
Speaker 5: friends given?

1169
00:50:01,080 --> 00:50:04,960
Speaker 2: You know, like, god, damn, but we had friends getting

1170
00:50:05,120 --> 00:50:10,760
Speaker 2: last month. I'll ma, y'all told you you recording it and.

1171
00:50:18,160 --> 00:50:20,440
Speaker 3: Ain't gonna call it out to the probably wouldn't even

1172
00:50:20,520 --> 00:50:23,879
Speaker 3: know these.

1173
00:50:24,880 --> 00:50:28,680
Speaker 2: I mean, yeah, we do got a whole this so

1174
00:50:28,880 --> 00:50:33,560
Speaker 2: ball this right? Okay, party, what was your poor decision either?

1175
00:50:34,040 --> 00:50:36,440
Speaker 2: What's your Charlomagne poor decision?

1176
00:50:36,880 --> 00:50:38,600
Speaker 4: I don't think I made any poor choice. I mean

1177
00:50:38,640 --> 00:50:39,960
Speaker 4: my poor choice is probably boring.

1178
00:50:40,040 --> 00:50:42,200
Speaker 5: Like I probably ate something with some dairy in it,

1179
00:50:42,400 --> 00:50:44,200
Speaker 5: and I shouldn't have had no dairy in it.

1180
00:50:44,080 --> 00:50:46,080
Speaker 2: It gave me the runs, and they gave me the

1181
00:50:46,160 --> 00:50:48,800
Speaker 2: runs and a little pimple. I ain't doing that's a rebel.

1182
00:50:50,840 --> 00:50:52,200
Speaker 4: I ain't nothing crazy this week.

1183
00:50:54,280 --> 00:50:54,799
Speaker 2: What it was?

1184
00:50:57,200 --> 00:50:58,799
Speaker 4: I haven't done nothing crazy this week.

1185
00:50:59,000 --> 00:51:00,719
Speaker 2: Okay, there does far.

1186
00:51:02,920 --> 00:51:05,240
Speaker 4: I believe in choices.

1187
00:51:05,280 --> 00:51:07,400
Speaker 5: So if I made a choice, it's a choice I

1188
00:51:07,480 --> 00:51:09,720
Speaker 5: made that wasn't that wasn't a poor decision.

1189
00:51:09,920 --> 00:51:15,080
Speaker 2: Yeah? What about a poor business decision that you've made? Oh,

1190
00:51:15,160 --> 00:51:16,120
Speaker 2: I've made tons of those.

1191
00:51:16,560 --> 00:51:16,759
Speaker 4: Yeah.

1192
00:51:16,840 --> 00:51:20,319
Speaker 5: I mean that's that's that's that is the That is

1193
00:51:20,360 --> 00:51:23,840
Speaker 5: the beauty of entrepreneurship. The beauty of entrepreneurship is everything

1194
00:51:23,920 --> 00:51:24,640
Speaker 5: not gonna hit.

1195
00:51:24,520 --> 00:51:25,040
Speaker 2: Like I've thrown.

1196
00:51:25,200 --> 00:51:28,440
Speaker 5: I've thrown way more things against the wall than things

1197
00:51:28,480 --> 00:51:30,200
Speaker 5: that have that have actually stuck.

1198
00:51:30,600 --> 00:51:30,799
Speaker 2: You know.

1199
00:51:30,920 --> 00:51:33,000
Speaker 5: But I think people a people never want to tell

1200
00:51:33,040 --> 00:51:35,239
Speaker 5: you that part. They never want to tell you, like, you.

1201
00:51:35,200 --> 00:51:35,640
Speaker 2: Know, all of the.

1202
00:51:37,160 --> 00:51:40,200
Speaker 5: Decisions they made that didn't go right as far as business,

1203
00:51:40,239 --> 00:51:43,960
Speaker 5: like you know, I we had a dispensary in Newark,

1204
00:51:44,239 --> 00:51:47,399
Speaker 5: you know, last year. But you can't beat the open

1205
00:51:47,440 --> 00:51:50,080
Speaker 5: air market. In Newark, you know, so it had to

1206
00:51:50,120 --> 00:51:53,560
Speaker 5: close down, like that's that's the game, right, you know.

1207
00:51:53,800 --> 00:51:57,920
Speaker 5: But me and my wife owned Crystal franchises in South Carolina.

1208
00:51:58,360 --> 00:52:00,120
Speaker 2: Those are doing good, right.

1209
00:52:00,120 --> 00:52:01,880
Speaker 5: So it's just like, you know, it's just either or

1210
00:52:02,000 --> 00:52:03,520
Speaker 5: like when you when you got a bunch of different

1211
00:52:03,600 --> 00:52:05,440
Speaker 5: hustles and you got a bunch of different you know,

1212
00:52:05,520 --> 00:52:09,480
Speaker 5: revenue screams coming through. Some gonna work, some won't, and

1213
00:52:09,560 --> 00:52:11,160
Speaker 5: you gotta be able to take the good with the bad.

1214
00:52:11,320 --> 00:52:14,719
Speaker 5: You win, That's what they say. And that's that's a fact.

1215
00:52:15,040 --> 00:52:16,120
Speaker 5: What's your poor decision?

1216
00:52:19,480 --> 00:52:22,640
Speaker 1: No, it really ain't nothing that bad, to be honest.

1217
00:52:22,880 --> 00:52:25,080
Speaker 1: My poor decision is Okay. I found out about this

1218
00:52:25,160 --> 00:52:27,279
Speaker 1: market out here in Atlanta that you could go to

1219
00:52:27,640 --> 00:52:30,359
Speaker 1: and you can get like vegetables and stuff chopped up

1220
00:52:30,360 --> 00:52:33,080
Speaker 1: that's already like ready for you to cook when you

1221
00:52:33,120 --> 00:52:35,680
Speaker 1: get ready to cook your Christmas dishes, y'all, thanks you

1222
00:52:35,680 --> 00:52:38,560
Speaker 1: for theshes whatever. So I found this place and I

1223
00:52:38,600 --> 00:52:42,399
Speaker 1: decided to go there the day before the holiday, and

1224
00:52:43,040 --> 00:52:45,880
Speaker 1: I stood in line for forty five minutes for some

1225
00:52:45,960 --> 00:52:46,520
Speaker 1: turkey wins?

1226
00:52:48,280 --> 00:52:49,240
Speaker 4: Or was that a poor decision?

1227
00:52:49,280 --> 00:52:51,400
Speaker 2: Because I shouldn't have waited to go the day before.

1228
00:52:51,960 --> 00:52:53,920
Speaker 1: I should have went like a few days before, and

1229
00:52:53,960 --> 00:52:56,759
Speaker 1: it probably wouldn't have been as crazy because basically it's

1230
00:52:56,760 --> 00:52:59,920
Speaker 1: like multiple different meat markets in there, and it's multiple

1231
00:53:00,080 --> 00:53:03,600
Speaker 1: different vegetable marking and produce markets or whatever. So it

1232
00:53:03,719 --> 00:53:06,480
Speaker 1: was only one stand that still had turkey wings, and

1233
00:53:06,520 --> 00:53:08,440
Speaker 1: the line was outside the door. I had to wait

1234
00:53:08,440 --> 00:53:10,279
Speaker 1: and line forty five minutes for six turkey win.

1235
00:53:10,480 --> 00:53:12,160
Speaker 2: Was the food worth it? It was worse.

1236
00:53:12,200 --> 00:53:14,640
Speaker 1: I didn't have the turkey wings. My wings was they

1237
00:53:14,640 --> 00:53:16,960
Speaker 1: did look like in the town. They was real juicy.

1238
00:53:17,160 --> 00:53:20,160
Speaker 1: That shade had some that was juicy.

1239
00:53:20,200 --> 00:53:20,640
Speaker 2: That was good.

1240
00:53:20,640 --> 00:53:22,400
Speaker 1: And this is my first time making turkey wings to

1241
00:53:22,480 --> 00:53:23,719
Speaker 1: so I think it was you know, it was the

1242
00:53:23,719 --> 00:53:25,480
Speaker 1: greater good but terrible decision.

1243
00:53:25,719 --> 00:53:28,959
Speaker 5: This is a great segment, but I think y'all should

1244
00:53:28,960 --> 00:53:30,400
Speaker 5: do it when y'all really made a poor decision.

1245
00:53:30,560 --> 00:53:31,680
Speaker 2: You don't think that was about one.

1246
00:53:31,719 --> 00:53:34,000
Speaker 3: No, I don't think either one of your male You're

1247
00:53:34,200 --> 00:53:35,160
Speaker 3: supposed to be cooking.

1248
00:53:35,280 --> 00:53:40,680
Speaker 4: That's normal, That's what everybody does, wine, drink.

1249
00:53:40,920 --> 00:53:42,880
Speaker 5: You know what I'm saying. You just was absent minded.

1250
00:53:42,920 --> 00:53:44,759
Speaker 5: That wasn't that looking that made you forget that land

1251
00:53:44,800 --> 00:53:45,319
Speaker 5: was in that oven?

1252
00:53:45,600 --> 00:53:48,080
Speaker 4: It was something no, you started running your mouth when

1253
00:53:48,120 --> 00:53:48,479
Speaker 4: I smoke.

1254
00:53:49,040 --> 00:53:55,399
Speaker 2: Yes, realion, that is true. That is true. We move

1255
00:53:55,480 --> 00:53:56,080
Speaker 2: it on up.

1256
00:53:56,400 --> 00:53:59,320
Speaker 3: I'm doing a coke lace blunt next time, Charlamagne.

1257
00:53:59,400 --> 00:54:01,720
Speaker 1: Isn't that a good thing? That's a testament to our growth.

1258
00:54:01,800 --> 00:54:05,960
Speaker 1: We don't be making super ported decision eighteen when we

1259
00:54:06,000 --> 00:54:06,520
Speaker 1: first started.

1260
00:54:07,000 --> 00:54:08,640
Speaker 5: I'm telling you I had to think about it too,

1261
00:54:08,680 --> 00:54:10,600
Speaker 5: Like I'm like, I don't really, That's what I'm saying.

1262
00:54:11,239 --> 00:54:15,080
Speaker 2: More choices, not on purpose, right, We living on the

1263
00:54:15,520 --> 00:54:16,440
Speaker 2: righteous path.

1264
00:54:16,600 --> 00:54:20,040
Speaker 3: Now you're on the forest decision I made this week, honestly.

1265
00:54:20,200 --> 00:54:21,520
Speaker 2: Yeah, And we.

1266
00:54:21,440 --> 00:54:23,960
Speaker 3: Don't want to talk about the trials and tribulations of

1267
00:54:23,960 --> 00:54:24,879
Speaker 3: black people all the time.

1268
00:54:24,920 --> 00:54:26,279
Speaker 2: This is not a Caler Perry movie.

1269
00:54:29,920 --> 00:54:34,800
Speaker 3: Heyst Now I love a Tyler Perry movie.

1270
00:54:34,840 --> 00:54:39,120
Speaker 4: Now, y'all know people Tyler Perry like Tyler Perry.

1271
00:54:39,080 --> 00:54:43,160
Speaker 3: Cimoni hands down the drama.

1272
00:54:44,040 --> 00:54:44,719
Speaker 2: Remember when she.

1273
00:54:44,760 --> 00:54:49,200
Speaker 3: Held down that brokerass hens like he got Roger, Well,

1274
00:54:49,280 --> 00:54:51,520
Speaker 3: when she held down the brokeass nigga, and then all

1275
00:54:51,560 --> 00:54:54,279
Speaker 3: of a sudden she finally left him, and then he

1276
00:54:54,360 --> 00:54:57,640
Speaker 3: got money and remarried and then she was like on

1277
00:54:57,680 --> 00:54:59,440
Speaker 3: the boat and was like trying to kill him. But

1278
00:54:59,440 --> 00:55:01,480
Speaker 3: they ended up shooting her and she died.

1279
00:55:01,480 --> 00:55:04,080
Speaker 2: No acrimony was it was so good.

1280
00:55:04,080 --> 00:55:06,759
Speaker 1: I have a few actions the family, that priory of

1281
00:55:06,760 --> 00:55:07,640
Speaker 1: a mad black.

1282
00:55:07,440 --> 00:55:09,759
Speaker 4: One classic classic family, that.

1283
00:55:09,880 --> 00:55:12,239
Speaker 3: Price, and then that one with that man when he

1284
00:55:12,280 --> 00:55:13,719
Speaker 3: said ash tray, bitch.

1285
00:55:15,280 --> 00:55:17,080
Speaker 4: Bar Daddy's girl is classic.

1286
00:55:18,200 --> 00:55:23,600
Speaker 3: Yeah, all from all from grade on family that Price

1287
00:55:23,640 --> 00:55:26,239
Speaker 3: when she said my son is a cart right, I said,

1288
00:55:26,280 --> 00:55:27,600
Speaker 3: you thought you ate that bitch.

1289
00:55:27,960 --> 00:55:29,279
Speaker 2: Only for that white man to leave.

1290
00:55:31,440 --> 00:55:34,240
Speaker 5: Oh that one was a lady. Yeah, yeah, class classic,

1291
00:55:34,280 --> 00:55:38,680
Speaker 5: that's classic. That's class. Daddy girl with your elbow with

1292
00:55:39,480 --> 00:55:40,600
Speaker 5: Gabriel Union.

1293
00:55:40,320 --> 00:55:41,200
Speaker 2: He was taking.

1294
00:55:42,560 --> 00:55:47,480
Speaker 4: Oh god, man when his daughter, Oh my god, when

1295
00:55:47,920 --> 00:55:49,000
Speaker 4: when his daughters.

1296
00:55:50,920 --> 00:55:53,400
Speaker 5: Andrews killed that you can feel the pain. When his

1297
00:55:53,480 --> 00:55:55,239
Speaker 5: daughters come over and tell him what happened. He was like,

1298
00:55:56,239 --> 00:55:58,840
Speaker 5: I got to get back to jail because I got

1299
00:55:59,239 --> 00:56:02,759
Speaker 5: right now. You saw him thinking about it and contemplating.

1300
00:56:02,800 --> 00:56:04,200
Speaker 5: He was like, I got to do it. I got

1301
00:56:04,239 --> 00:56:05,520
Speaker 5: it at the prison right now.

1302
00:56:05,640 --> 00:56:06,239
Speaker 2: Oh my god.

1303
00:56:06,400 --> 00:56:08,879
Speaker 3: Why do you put that as the background music, because

1304
00:56:08,880 --> 00:56:09,160
Speaker 3: it's like.

1305
00:56:10,800 --> 00:56:12,280
Speaker 2: I was born by the real.

1306
00:56:15,320 --> 00:56:20,759
Speaker 4: Why did they play that song? Because gonna come Oh

1307
00:56:20,840 --> 00:56:24,759
Speaker 4: yes right max us right change, because the whole neighborhood

1308
00:56:24,800 --> 00:56:27,440
Speaker 4: changed after that you're absolutely right right.

1309
00:56:27,719 --> 00:56:30,359
Speaker 5: That was like brown got shot in New Jack City.

1310
00:56:29,920 --> 00:56:31,880
Speaker 5: They finally took out the riff.

1311
00:56:31,800 --> 00:56:35,080
Speaker 2: Rash right, and they asked, ain't you know?

1312
00:56:35,440 --> 00:56:38,040
Speaker 3: And I don't like the backlash that Tyler Perry gets

1313
00:56:38,040 --> 00:56:40,839
Speaker 3: because honestly, he does the same thing as what's his name,

1314
00:56:40,960 --> 00:56:44,040
Speaker 3: Ryan Murphy? That does they do the same thing. He said,

1315
00:56:44,120 --> 00:56:46,200
Speaker 3: Ryan Murphy, just have him and Jehan Paul got theer.

1316
00:56:46,320 --> 00:56:48,520
Speaker 5: That's the only difference, you know, this is this is

1317
00:56:48,520 --> 00:56:53,960
Speaker 5: how you know niggas ain't never satisfied because Tyler Perry

1318
00:56:54,000 --> 00:56:58,000
Speaker 5: literally does everything we say we want black people to do.

1319
00:56:58,719 --> 00:57:02,200
Speaker 5: He's independent, he an entrepreneur, He don't answer to nobody.

1320
00:57:02,280 --> 00:57:04,919
Speaker 5: He got his own studio. All he does is cast

1321
00:57:04,920 --> 00:57:07,600
Speaker 5: black people and keep black people working. All he does

1322
00:57:07,680 --> 00:57:09,960
Speaker 5: is tell black stories. Now you may or may not

1323
00:57:10,360 --> 00:57:12,759
Speaker 5: like the stories. That's you know, it's artist subjective, so

1324
00:57:12,800 --> 00:57:15,320
Speaker 5: you can have that conversation. But other than that, he

1325
00:57:15,480 --> 00:57:18,640
Speaker 5: is the blueprint to what we want black people to

1326
00:57:18,680 --> 00:57:19,640
Speaker 5: do and black people to be.

1327
00:57:19,840 --> 00:57:20,600
Speaker 2: Yeah, I agree.

1328
00:57:20,760 --> 00:57:24,440
Speaker 3: I'm unofficially on Tyler Perry street team. I'm always promote

1329
00:57:24,480 --> 00:57:24,760
Speaker 3: for him.

1330
00:57:24,880 --> 00:57:28,040
Speaker 1: Me too, because I always say this, it's unrealistic as

1331
00:57:28,080 --> 00:57:31,920
Speaker 1: people say his shows and his movies are it's but

1332
00:57:32,000 --> 00:57:34,320
Speaker 1: she was entertained, wasn't you why his movie?

1333
00:57:34,320 --> 00:57:36,880
Speaker 2: I always be on the edge of my seat every

1334
00:57:37,520 --> 00:57:40,320
Speaker 2: I don't be thinking they're unrealistic people.

1335
00:57:41,400 --> 00:57:42,800
Speaker 5: I know, I do hear people say that, but I've

1336
00:57:42,800 --> 00:57:44,320
Speaker 5: seen some wild stuff in my life.

1337
00:57:44,200 --> 00:57:46,400
Speaker 4: I think, you know, I don't. I don't think it's

1338
00:57:46,480 --> 00:57:47,320
Speaker 4: unrealistic at all.

1339
00:57:47,480 --> 00:57:50,400
Speaker 1: One of my favorite shows is Sisters. I always know

1340
00:57:50,720 --> 00:57:52,240
Speaker 1: I love It's.

1341
00:57:52,080 --> 00:57:56,960
Speaker 3: So it's so good because it's no way four bitches

1342
00:57:56,960 --> 00:57:58,800
Speaker 3: to be going through all of these every week.

1343
00:57:59,120 --> 00:58:00,920
Speaker 2: They always going through something.

1344
00:58:00,960 --> 00:58:02,600
Speaker 4: But you gotta look at Sisters like a comedy.

1345
00:58:02,920 --> 00:58:04,680
Speaker 2: It is like, don't approach it like you watched it

1346
00:58:05,080 --> 00:58:06,480
Speaker 2: like something. If you approach it like.

1347
00:58:06,400 --> 00:58:08,640
Speaker 4: You're about to laugh, you're gonna have a good God, damn.

1348
00:58:08,800 --> 00:58:12,120
Speaker 2: What was the movie with Lance Weeks? Some drama? What

1349
00:58:12,240 --> 00:58:15,920
Speaker 2: was the movie with Kim Kardashian in there? And Lance grows? Yes?

1350
00:58:16,120 --> 00:58:21,400
Speaker 3: She was Now that made me mad because it was like,

1351
00:58:21,480 --> 00:58:23,840
Speaker 3: finally she gonna leave her boring ass husband for a

1352
00:58:23,920 --> 00:58:25,240
Speaker 3: fine ass, rich ass man.

1353
00:58:25,560 --> 00:58:26,320
Speaker 2: We're gonna get him.

1354
00:58:26,320 --> 00:58:36,640
Speaker 6: Made you journey as Yeah, Jesse, I knew what she meant.

1355
00:58:36,680 --> 00:58:38,720
Speaker 2: I knew she was talking. I know what she meant,

1356
00:58:39,920 --> 00:58:41,760
Speaker 2: Justse's sister. Do you think Jesse did it?

1357
00:58:42,960 --> 00:58:43,720
Speaker 4: Did what?

1358
00:58:44,040 --> 00:58:50,080
Speaker 2: Okay? Do you think he lied after watching the documentary? Yeah?

1359
00:58:50,080 --> 00:58:51,600
Speaker 5: I thought, I mean I thought that when I first

1360
00:58:51,600 --> 00:58:54,280
Speaker 5: heard the story, none of that story, you know, the.

1361
00:58:54,160 --> 00:58:56,520
Speaker 3: Only thing that made me because I like to believe

1362
00:58:56,560 --> 00:58:59,160
Speaker 3: people who say they're victims. But when I was watching

1363
00:58:59,160 --> 00:59:01,200
Speaker 3: that documentary, he made it back to the house and

1364
00:59:01,200 --> 00:59:03,760
Speaker 3: that sandwich was intact and he was still able to

1365
00:59:03,760 --> 00:59:07,200
Speaker 3: eat his subway sandwich. My investigative journalism went off.

1366
00:59:07,280 --> 00:59:09,640
Speaker 4: I respect him, though, Yeah, you know why I respect him.

1367
00:59:09,640 --> 00:59:14,240
Speaker 2: I respect people who double triple down on you know. Yeah,

1368
00:59:14,280 --> 00:59:19,360
Speaker 2: I'm gonna give up after I get caught. I'm taking

1369
00:59:19,440 --> 00:59:19,919
Speaker 2: to the grave.

1370
00:59:19,960 --> 00:59:22,400
Speaker 3: I keep lying and if I'm a lied already, you

1371
00:59:22,480 --> 00:59:23,560
Speaker 3: might as well keep going.

1372
00:59:23,640 --> 00:59:24,400
Speaker 2: I respect it.

1373
00:59:24,440 --> 00:59:26,960
Speaker 4: And by the way, we know, yeah, you just don't care.

1374
00:59:27,320 --> 00:59:28,880
Speaker 4: And that'd be the crazy thing about it.

1375
00:59:28,760 --> 00:59:31,200
Speaker 5: Sometimes, like we think people care more than they do. Like, man,

1376
00:59:31,200 --> 00:59:33,439
Speaker 5: we don't care. Grab a drink, you know, we don't

1377
00:59:33,440 --> 00:59:33,919
Speaker 5: give a damn.

1378
00:59:33,960 --> 00:59:36,920
Speaker 2: And they made a whole big thing out of it.

1379
00:59:36,960 --> 00:59:40,400
Speaker 2: Was just because he made a whole big thing he did.

1380
00:59:40,520 --> 00:59:41,800
Speaker 2: It was so crazy.

1381
00:59:41,880 --> 00:59:44,040
Speaker 5: The documentaryge I didn't watch the documentary, no, and it.

1382
00:59:44,120 --> 00:59:45,880
Speaker 2: Made me change my mind. I was just kind of like,

1383
00:59:46,040 --> 00:59:46,560
Speaker 2: it kind of.

1384
00:59:46,520 --> 00:59:49,439
Speaker 3: Confirmed like the holes in the store that I were

1385
00:59:49,560 --> 00:59:51,600
Speaker 3: questioning and made me be like, this is why I

1386
00:59:51,640 --> 00:59:52,360
Speaker 3: was questioning it.

1387
00:59:52,400 --> 00:59:55,520
Speaker 2: And I feel like you're you're kind of lying. Yeah,

1388
00:59:55,720 --> 00:59:58,200
Speaker 2: you know what I'm saying. So Keeve been.

1389
00:59:58,080 --> 01:00:01,720
Speaker 1: Getting some acting gigs, like because I've seen him on

1390
01:00:01,760 --> 01:00:03,040
Speaker 1: Amazon from myself.

1391
01:00:03,160 --> 01:00:04,600
Speaker 2: Oh not Amazon.

1392
01:00:04,760 --> 01:00:06,400
Speaker 5: I mean, he didn't hurt nobody. I mean the only

1393
01:00:06,440 --> 01:00:09,320
Speaker 5: person you hurt in that situation was himself. Yeah, it

1394
01:00:09,400 --> 01:00:10,960
Speaker 5: was like, how you're gonna cancel him because he did

1395
01:00:11,080 --> 01:00:13,440
Speaker 5: with stupid shit did so Yeah, people.

1396
01:00:13,600 --> 01:00:15,960
Speaker 2: He just knew he was gonna be the next bread piss.

1397
01:00:15,800 --> 01:00:18,520
Speaker 3: Okay, I'm coming.

1398
01:00:19,360 --> 01:00:22,560
Speaker 2: I want the world to know. Okay, we're gonna move

1399
01:00:22,560 --> 01:00:25,720
Speaker 2: on alright.

1400
01:00:25,760 --> 01:00:28,120
Speaker 1: So for topic numbers two, because I feel like this

1401
01:00:28,160 --> 01:00:29,960
Speaker 1: is funny because we talked about it a little bit

1402
01:00:30,000 --> 01:00:31,400
Speaker 1: earlier in the episode, and.

1403
01:00:31,360 --> 01:00:33,000
Speaker 2: I feel like people do always try to say this

1404
01:00:33,120 --> 01:00:33,560
Speaker 2: about you.

1405
01:00:33,640 --> 01:00:36,320
Speaker 1: They always be trying to like insinuate that you're not

1406
01:00:36,760 --> 01:00:39,680
Speaker 1: masculine or that you are very feminine. So I wanted

1407
01:00:39,720 --> 01:00:45,160
Speaker 1: to talk about the crisis of fragile masculinity. Why these

1408
01:00:45,240 --> 01:00:49,080
Speaker 1: days are men so afraid of being called feminine or

1409
01:00:49,080 --> 01:00:51,479
Speaker 1: do they think I guess they think that certain things

1410
01:00:51,480 --> 01:00:53,360
Speaker 1: that they do will make them look like they're not

1411
01:00:53,400 --> 01:00:53,720
Speaker 1: a man.

1412
01:00:54,400 --> 01:00:55,240
Speaker 4: Yeah, that's it is.

1413
01:00:55,320 --> 01:00:57,320
Speaker 5: It is an interesting topic because even when I hear

1414
01:00:57,360 --> 01:00:58,120
Speaker 5: people try.

1415
01:00:57,960 --> 01:01:02,000
Speaker 2: To use woman as an insult, like are you acting

1416
01:01:02,080 --> 01:01:03,160
Speaker 2: like a girl? Yeah?

1417
01:01:03,200 --> 01:01:05,840
Speaker 5: You acting like a bitch y'all? Yeah, it's like, so

1418
01:01:06,080 --> 01:01:09,400
Speaker 5: you think women aren't strong? That was you're saying, Like,

1419
01:01:09,440 --> 01:01:11,760
Speaker 5: you know what I mean, because my whole life, I've

1420
01:01:11,800 --> 01:01:14,760
Speaker 5: seen the women hold it down a lot more than

1421
01:01:14,800 --> 01:01:17,520
Speaker 5: the men have, right, because you know, and and the

1422
01:01:17,520 --> 01:01:18,920
Speaker 5: way I was, I grew up like.

1423
01:01:19,040 --> 01:01:21,280
Speaker 2: My dad did this thing. My uncles did they things,

1424
01:01:21,520 --> 01:01:22,000
Speaker 2: but they.

1425
01:01:21,920 --> 01:01:24,640
Speaker 5: Also was out here wilding and cheating and all types

1426
01:01:24,640 --> 01:01:26,280
Speaker 5: of stuff, and you know, it was leaving you know,

1427
01:01:26,320 --> 01:01:27,360
Speaker 5: the wives that.

1428
01:01:27,440 --> 01:01:28,959
Speaker 4: Have to fit the bills in a lot of ways.

1429
01:01:29,040 --> 01:01:32,400
Speaker 5: So you know, I watched my mom hold down a

1430
01:01:32,440 --> 01:01:34,920
Speaker 5: house full of four or five kids while my dad

1431
01:01:35,040 --> 01:01:36,640
Speaker 5: was you know, in and out of rehab trying to

1432
01:01:36,680 --> 01:01:37,600
Speaker 5: get it together.

1433
01:01:37,720 --> 01:01:37,880
Speaker 2: Right.

1434
01:01:38,000 --> 01:01:40,640
Speaker 5: I watched my grandmother, you know, be the only person

1435
01:01:41,040 --> 01:01:43,760
Speaker 5: living in her house, you know, working as a lunch

1436
01:01:43,880 --> 01:01:45,800
Speaker 5: lady every day and holding it down.

1437
01:01:45,640 --> 01:01:47,280
Speaker 4: For all her grandkids and her kids.

1438
01:01:47,280 --> 01:01:49,440
Speaker 5: So it's just like, I don't know why people like

1439
01:01:49,480 --> 01:01:52,520
Speaker 5: to use women as an insult. Guys that do that

1440
01:01:52,560 --> 01:01:55,400
Speaker 5: make me feel like and I'm sorry, mom, they like

1441
01:01:55,440 --> 01:01:56,520
Speaker 5: pussy but don't like women.

1442
01:01:57,480 --> 01:02:01,200
Speaker 3: That's true. I've really noticed that, Like they just don't

1443
01:02:01,280 --> 01:02:03,440
Speaker 3: like women. That they don't look at us like people.

1444
01:02:03,800 --> 01:02:05,240
Speaker 3: They look at us as objects.

1445
01:02:05,280 --> 01:02:05,680
Speaker 4: Objects.

1446
01:02:05,920 --> 01:02:08,240
Speaker 3: So you're supposed to do this for me. You're supposed

1447
01:02:08,280 --> 01:02:10,720
Speaker 3: to turn me on, or you're supposed to cook for

1448
01:02:10,760 --> 01:02:12,680
Speaker 3: me and do things for me. But a lot of

1449
01:02:12,720 --> 01:02:16,360
Speaker 3: men do not view women as humans at all.

1450
01:02:16,760 --> 01:02:19,520
Speaker 1: It's a lot of misogyny. I mean, I lie always

1451
01:02:19,560 --> 01:02:21,919
Speaker 1: being but these days, especially with social media, I feel

1452
01:02:21,920 --> 01:02:24,040
Speaker 1: like it's definitely been highlighted even more.

1453
01:02:24,280 --> 01:02:27,160
Speaker 5: Yeah, and what makes a person act like a woman,

1454
01:02:27,320 --> 01:02:28,600
Speaker 5: like how do you act like a woman?

1455
01:02:28,760 --> 01:02:31,200
Speaker 1: Well, for me, it be the gay comments like oh

1456
01:02:31,240 --> 01:02:34,920
Speaker 1: that nigga gay. Nothing makes a man gay, in my opinion,

1457
01:02:36,200 --> 01:02:37,040
Speaker 1: sleeping with a man.

1458
01:02:37,200 --> 01:02:43,480
Speaker 5: Yeah, yeah, y'all said the same. YEA but said sleeping

1459
01:02:43,480 --> 01:02:44,200
Speaker 5: with a man I said.

1460
01:02:46,400 --> 01:02:46,800
Speaker 2: For fun.

1461
01:02:47,520 --> 01:02:51,880
Speaker 3: But unless you're going one of those things, that's the

1462
01:02:51,920 --> 01:02:53,000
Speaker 3: only way that you're gay.

1463
01:02:53,160 --> 01:02:59,200
Speaker 2: Yeah, they say that's tala. He gave us some one

1464
01:02:59,240 --> 01:03:01,800
Speaker 2: line another even with that, that's not That's not an

1465
01:03:01,800 --> 01:03:02,640
Speaker 2: insult to me either.

1466
01:03:02,680 --> 01:03:05,120
Speaker 5: It's like, okay, if you are gay, what's wrong with

1467
01:03:05,160 --> 01:03:06,400
Speaker 5: this person being gay?

1468
01:03:06,640 --> 01:03:06,880
Speaker 11: Yeah?

1469
01:03:07,040 --> 01:03:09,960
Speaker 4: And I know some gay guys that will beat your ass.

1470
01:03:10,080 --> 01:03:12,000
Speaker 1: Oh yeah, you know what I'm saying. I'll beat your

1471
01:03:12,160 --> 01:03:19,600
Speaker 1: ass s I leg press. Yeah, women's wrong food.

1472
01:03:19,920 --> 01:03:23,200
Speaker 3: I don't feel like using gay as an insult is

1473
01:03:23,280 --> 01:03:25,440
Speaker 3: so like what are we doing here? It is like

1474
01:03:25,480 --> 01:03:27,440
Speaker 3: that's like a nineteen ninety five insult.

1475
01:03:27,680 --> 01:03:30,360
Speaker 2: Like to me, it's just like it's very shallow. Yeah. Man,

1476
01:03:30,640 --> 01:03:32,200
Speaker 2: it's a low hanging fruit.

1477
01:03:32,200 --> 01:03:32,560
Speaker 4: I think.

1478
01:03:32,680 --> 01:03:35,360
Speaker 5: And I just came up with this theory recently. I

1479
01:03:35,360 --> 01:03:37,720
Speaker 5: think men that want to know if another man is

1480
01:03:37,800 --> 01:03:39,240
Speaker 5: gay are.

1481
01:03:39,160 --> 01:03:40,120
Speaker 2: Attracted to that. Man.

1482
01:03:40,360 --> 01:03:42,560
Speaker 5: I agree, because it's like when you see a bad girl,

1483
01:03:42,640 --> 01:03:45,240
Speaker 5: right and you like, damn yo, I wonder she's single,

1484
01:03:46,720 --> 01:03:48,680
Speaker 5: but you got to say something to her or trying

1485
01:03:48,760 --> 01:03:50,720
Speaker 5: in some way just to see if there's some rhythm

1486
01:03:50,760 --> 01:03:52,600
Speaker 5: that so you want to throw it out that y'all,

1487
01:03:52,560 --> 01:03:53,479
Speaker 5: I think he's gay.

1488
01:03:53,800 --> 01:03:54,840
Speaker 4: Is that what you're open for?

1489
01:03:54,960 --> 01:03:55,200
Speaker 2: Yeah?

1490
01:03:55,880 --> 01:04:00,520
Speaker 3: Honestly, when men are extremely extremely homophobic, like a point,

1491
01:04:00,520 --> 01:04:04,560
Speaker 3: it's like, why are you so affected by people being

1492
01:04:04,560 --> 01:04:06,960
Speaker 3: gay when they're extremely homophobic? That kind of brings up

1493
01:04:06,960 --> 01:04:09,720
Speaker 3: like a little like what's going on with you and

1494
01:04:09,760 --> 01:04:11,160
Speaker 3: your feelings on the inside.

1495
01:04:11,280 --> 01:04:13,200
Speaker 2: It always feels like projection to me.

1496
01:04:13,320 --> 01:04:14,720
Speaker 4: The uncle might have sucked them off.

1497
01:04:16,520 --> 01:04:21,880
Speaker 3: Now see, but he ain't wrong because it's so many men.

1498
01:04:22,000 --> 01:04:23,920
Speaker 2: It's actually frightening the.

1499
01:04:23,880 --> 01:04:26,400
Speaker 1: Amount of men that you can have conversations with now

1500
01:04:26,480 --> 01:04:30,320
Speaker 1: in adulthood that will say things so nonchalantly like, oh,

1501
01:04:30,400 --> 01:04:33,920
Speaker 1: I lost my virginity at twelve years old. I lost

1502
01:04:33,920 --> 01:04:37,480
Speaker 1: my virginity at years old to a to a twenty

1503
01:04:37,480 --> 01:04:38,400
Speaker 1: one year old woman?

1504
01:04:39,760 --> 01:04:44,120
Speaker 2: How is she? She was in her twenty eight you jam,

1505
01:04:45,480 --> 01:04:49,840
Speaker 2: you know we're gonna lost job. We need to be right,

1506
01:04:50,640 --> 01:04:53,560
Speaker 2: she needs to be because I know she's geriatric now.

1507
01:04:54,480 --> 01:04:58,439
Speaker 2: She holds probably in her fifties. Okay, we can still

1508
01:04:58,480 --> 01:05:01,880
Speaker 2: lock that bitch up as I was. Damn no, yeah,

1509
01:05:01,880 --> 01:05:04,280
Speaker 2: she whales. She probably like in her sixties. Yeah.

1510
01:05:05,040 --> 01:05:06,760
Speaker 3: That's terrifying though, because that.

1511
01:05:06,680 --> 01:05:09,600
Speaker 2: Shouldn't have happened. Well, she was, she should have been protected.

1512
01:05:09,840 --> 01:05:12,840
Speaker 5: She was a she was a member of my family.

1513
01:05:12,880 --> 01:05:14,360
Speaker 5: She's not a member of my family no more.

1514
01:05:14,520 --> 01:05:17,880
Speaker 2: What she was removed. I hope so it was divorced.

1515
01:05:17,920 --> 01:05:20,680
Speaker 2: Oh okay, yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah, yah, yeah, saying twice.

1516
01:05:21,040 --> 01:05:23,480
Speaker 2: I used to actually say exactly what she was. But

1517
01:05:23,520 --> 01:05:26,600
Speaker 2: nowadays lawsuits be so crazy. But she used to be

1518
01:05:26,720 --> 01:05:29,680
Speaker 2: married into my family, and then she got divorced and

1519
01:05:29,760 --> 01:05:31,880
Speaker 2: she used to let me suck her.

1520
01:05:31,760 --> 01:05:37,680
Speaker 3: Breasts and oh my god, that's horrid.

1521
01:05:36,880 --> 01:05:38,760
Speaker 2: At eight years old years old.

1522
01:05:38,800 --> 01:05:40,160
Speaker 4: And the crazy thing about it is when you were

1523
01:05:40,160 --> 01:05:40,800
Speaker 4: a young man, you.

1524
01:05:40,960 --> 01:05:41,920
Speaker 2: You enjoy it.

1525
01:05:42,080 --> 01:05:44,280
Speaker 5: Yeah, so it's kind of confusing, but then you like,

1526
01:05:44,640 --> 01:05:45,880
Speaker 5: I don't want her touching on me. So I used

1527
01:05:45,880 --> 01:05:48,080
Speaker 5: to have these little firecracks, remember the little firecracks, used.

1528
01:05:47,920 --> 01:05:48,760
Speaker 4: To throw it the top.

1529
01:05:49,200 --> 01:05:51,040
Speaker 5: So I started I remember sitting on my grandma coach

1530
01:05:51,360 --> 01:05:53,440
Speaker 5: and whenever an adult would leave, she'd come, and so

1531
01:05:53,480 --> 01:05:54,720
Speaker 5: I just started throwing it out. I get away from

1532
01:05:54,720 --> 01:05:55,640
Speaker 5: get away from, get away from me.

1533
01:05:55,960 --> 01:05:59,960
Speaker 3: And that's kind of sad that I works to protect her.

1534
01:06:03,360 --> 01:06:07,040
Speaker 3: I'm imagining him throwing up life.

1535
01:06:07,160 --> 01:06:07,440
Speaker 11: Yeah.

1536
01:06:07,600 --> 01:06:09,960
Speaker 5: I told myself that the reason I didn't want her

1537
01:06:09,960 --> 01:06:11,439
Speaker 5: to do it is because I didn't like to smell

1538
01:06:11,480 --> 01:06:12,120
Speaker 5: her Jerry crow.

1539
01:06:12,680 --> 01:06:14,400
Speaker 2: She had a Jerry curl. This was the.

1540
01:06:17,200 --> 01:06:21,960
Speaker 3: Eighty eight but honestly, all of her sidesfect you, like,

1541
01:06:22,280 --> 01:06:24,600
Speaker 3: once you became older, like, do you feel like it had?

1542
01:06:24,880 --> 01:06:26,520
Speaker 4: It made me a people pleaser.

1543
01:06:26,560 --> 01:06:28,480
Speaker 5: And the reason it made me a people pleaser is

1544
01:06:28,480 --> 01:06:30,960
Speaker 5: because when I when I made her stop, she started

1545
01:06:30,960 --> 01:06:33,640
Speaker 5: like calling me ugly. So she'd be like, oh, you ugly,

1546
01:06:33,680 --> 01:06:35,280
Speaker 5: you got a big nose, And she to the point

1547
01:06:35,280 --> 01:06:37,920
Speaker 5: where she would tell my grandma, his nose is swollen.

1548
01:06:38,000 --> 01:06:40,200
Speaker 4: Look at his nose, And so my grandma would put

1549
01:06:40,240 --> 01:06:41,480
Speaker 4: like this cream on my nose.

1550
01:06:42,040 --> 01:06:45,400
Speaker 2: Oh my god, shut the no.

1551
01:06:45,520 --> 01:06:50,720
Speaker 11: But thinking about them, I'm not trying to segue into

1552
01:06:50,760 --> 01:06:53,640
Speaker 11: another topic because that is a very serious topic that

1553
01:06:54,160 --> 01:06:56,080
Speaker 11: we don't never touch on, is a lot of the

1554
01:06:56,120 --> 01:06:58,360
Speaker 11: time black men in our community and how they were

1555
01:06:58,400 --> 01:06:59,120
Speaker 11: like molisted.

1556
01:06:59,480 --> 01:07:03,360
Speaker 1: Yeah, we didn't realize it was that, But also that too,

1557
01:07:04,080 --> 01:07:07,760
Speaker 1: like growing up in black families and like your older

1558
01:07:08,640 --> 01:07:10,360
Speaker 1: people in your family trying to make you think this

1559
01:07:10,440 --> 01:07:12,760
Speaker 1: stuff was like wrong with like your skin tone.

1560
01:07:12,880 --> 01:07:13,080
Speaker 2: Y'all.

1561
01:07:13,600 --> 01:07:15,760
Speaker 4: Absolutely, absolutely absolutely.

1562
01:07:15,240 --> 01:07:19,240
Speaker 1: Because I remember, and I've talked about this my best friend,

1563
01:07:19,280 --> 01:07:22,600
Speaker 1: her grandma, when we were growing up, like in high school,

1564
01:07:22,800 --> 01:07:24,800
Speaker 1: in the summertime, you know, you get a teen and stuff,

1565
01:07:25,480 --> 01:07:27,479
Speaker 1: so in the summer we would get a little darker,

1566
01:07:27,520 --> 01:07:28,880
Speaker 1: and she would be like, y'all need to go bathe

1567
01:07:28,920 --> 01:07:32,600
Speaker 1: in ips and salt and screw y'all stuff, and if

1568
01:07:32,640 --> 01:07:35,680
Speaker 1: that's gonna like scrub up the brown off. But mind you,

1569
01:07:35,760 --> 01:07:37,880
Speaker 1: her whole family was like light skin, and she was

1570
01:07:37,920 --> 01:07:40,120
Speaker 1: probably like the dark the darkest person in the family.

1571
01:07:40,160 --> 01:07:42,320
Speaker 1: And then of course I'm her friend. I'm dark skin too,

1572
01:07:42,760 --> 01:07:44,120
Speaker 1: So her grandma just.

1573
01:07:44,080 --> 01:07:45,360
Speaker 3: Seemed to be like, y'all need to go bathe in

1574
01:07:45,360 --> 01:07:47,640
Speaker 3: ips and salt because y'all already bought a lot.

1575
01:07:48,280 --> 01:07:51,160
Speaker 2: Like y'all need to go. I grew up.

1576
01:07:51,080 --> 01:07:55,600
Speaker 5: Loving Melany, yeah, and cheering when Nino Brown stabbed you know,

1577
01:07:55,640 --> 01:07:57,240
Speaker 5: the pretty motherfucker from the bank in the head.

1578
01:07:57,280 --> 01:07:58,440
Speaker 2: Yeah, that's jack City.

1579
01:07:58,560 --> 01:08:00,000
Speaker 4: Like that was always my experience.

1580
01:08:00,960 --> 01:08:03,040
Speaker 1: That's a lot of experiences like that, because even with

1581
01:08:03,120 --> 01:08:05,440
Speaker 1: my mom, she would always tell me like about her

1582
01:08:05,520 --> 01:08:09,840
Speaker 1: experiences growing up because like four of them were dark

1583
01:08:09,880 --> 01:08:13,680
Speaker 1: skinned white or three three were dark skinned and then

1584
01:08:13,720 --> 01:08:15,560
Speaker 1: three were light skinned. So she would always tell me,

1585
01:08:15,600 --> 01:08:18,400
Speaker 1: like the differences in the experiences that they experienced with

1586
01:08:18,479 --> 01:08:19,360
Speaker 1: they family members.

1587
01:08:19,400 --> 01:08:22,880
Speaker 3: You know what, I never experienced none of that, like

1588
01:08:23,120 --> 01:08:25,160
Speaker 3: even growing up with my friends because obviously all my

1589
01:08:25,160 --> 01:08:28,080
Speaker 3: friends were white. I really did not see all this

1590
01:08:28,640 --> 01:08:31,600
Speaker 3: red bone, yellow bone, brown skin. I'm like, why, And

1591
01:08:31,640 --> 01:08:35,439
Speaker 3: people still to this day, she's not her yellow, she's red.

1592
01:08:35,680 --> 01:08:39,639
Speaker 3: She's no just talking to people in general, like trying

1593
01:08:39,640 --> 01:08:41,599
Speaker 3: to categorize what we are by our skin.

1594
01:08:41,720 --> 01:08:43,919
Speaker 2: We're niggas, we're black. I agree.

1595
01:08:44,000 --> 01:08:46,160
Speaker 3: I never heard that till I got to college, and

1596
01:08:46,200 --> 01:08:49,400
Speaker 3: I thought it was the craziest and weirdest thing. Like

1597
01:08:49,439 --> 01:08:52,559
Speaker 3: I said, being around my family, like my aunts and

1598
01:08:52,600 --> 01:08:54,639
Speaker 3: my uncles are dark skinned, my mom.

1599
01:08:54,520 --> 01:08:56,280
Speaker 2: Was like she was a little lighter, you know what

1600
01:08:56,280 --> 01:08:56,719
Speaker 2: I'm saying.

1601
01:08:56,720 --> 01:08:59,720
Speaker 7: But I never like categorized people like that, you were

1602
01:08:59,760 --> 01:09:01,559
Speaker 7: just either black or you weren't.

1603
01:09:02,080 --> 01:09:02,840
Speaker 2: So I think that.

1604
01:09:02,680 --> 01:09:05,240
Speaker 3: That's crazy that still to this day, I saw TikTok

1605
01:09:05,280 --> 01:09:08,400
Speaker 3: literally yesterday of this man just like going off like

1606
01:09:08,680 --> 01:09:11,800
Speaker 3: y'all need to know the difference between redbone and yellow bone.

1607
01:09:11,520 --> 01:09:15,160
Speaker 2: Why white people see us.

1608
01:09:16,960 --> 01:09:22,640
Speaker 5: Fribbean conversations. It's like, man, if you Jamaican and you

1609
01:09:22,760 --> 01:09:24,840
Speaker 5: from Atlanta and y'all both walking down the street, all

1610
01:09:24,840 --> 01:09:26,479
Speaker 5: the white men see is two black people.

1611
01:09:26,600 --> 01:09:27,400
Speaker 2: Yeah, that's it.

1612
01:09:27,800 --> 01:09:28,280
Speaker 4: That's it.

1613
01:09:28,479 --> 01:09:31,240
Speaker 3: So I just think that's crazy that that conversation that

1614
01:09:31,360 --> 01:09:32,920
Speaker 3: dynamic is still going on.

1615
01:09:33,000 --> 01:09:37,280
Speaker 2: Like go ahead. My mom, God bless her.

1616
01:09:37,280 --> 01:09:39,800
Speaker 3: So used to make me wear bleaching cream really like

1617
01:09:39,880 --> 01:09:42,560
Speaker 3: I remember being like second third grade because I was

1618
01:09:42,600 --> 01:09:45,599
Speaker 3: always the darkest of my siblings. But I remember being

1619
01:09:45,720 --> 01:09:47,320
Speaker 3: and he used to burn so I used to hate

1620
01:09:47,360 --> 01:09:49,839
Speaker 3: putting it on. And it wasn't until I got older

1621
01:09:49,840 --> 01:09:51,439
Speaker 3: that I realized.

1622
01:09:50,840 --> 01:09:52,240
Speaker 2: Like what it actually was.

1623
01:09:52,280 --> 01:09:54,080
Speaker 3: But she was trying to lighten my skin was a

1624
01:09:54,840 --> 01:09:57,599
Speaker 3: natiola and needs to come in.

1625
01:09:59,000 --> 01:10:00,439
Speaker 2: It used to come in a little job. But he

1626
01:10:00,520 --> 01:10:03,439
Speaker 2: used to burn my b a little dark. Yeah, y'all know,

1627
01:10:03,840 --> 01:10:05,320
Speaker 2: because do you see it in the mirror? All you

1628
01:10:05,360 --> 01:10:06,880
Speaker 2: gotta do is bend him.

1629
01:10:07,040 --> 01:10:09,559
Speaker 4: You ain't never looked at your booty ca I mean,

1630
01:10:09,560 --> 01:10:12,200
Speaker 4: I've seen a booty hole, but I never looked at

1631
01:10:11,360 --> 01:10:15,479
Speaker 4: much however, was in the mirror, Like that's health stuff.

1632
01:10:15,520 --> 01:10:17,800
Speaker 2: You're supposed to check all down there? What the hell?

1633
01:10:17,920 --> 01:10:19,519
Speaker 5: I ain't never had a doctor say you should check

1634
01:10:19,520 --> 01:10:21,360
Speaker 5: your booty hole periodically?

1635
01:10:21,600 --> 01:10:22,320
Speaker 2: What wasn't.

1636
01:10:22,479 --> 01:10:24,799
Speaker 3: So it's more of an aesthetic thing, like you wanted

1637
01:10:24,840 --> 01:10:25,439
Speaker 3: to match the.

1638
01:10:25,479 --> 01:10:28,080
Speaker 2: Risk like after you get waxed and everything, well, you just.

1639
01:10:28,040 --> 01:10:30,560
Speaker 1: Wanted to match the rest of your skin tone. But realistically,

1640
01:10:30,600 --> 01:10:32,519
Speaker 1: like you know your private parts are darker than the

1641
01:10:32,560 --> 01:10:33,320
Speaker 1: rest of your body.

1642
01:10:33,320 --> 01:10:34,600
Speaker 5: No, I don't want the booty hold and master the

1643
01:10:34,600 --> 01:10:36,080
Speaker 5: rest of the skin tone because I want to know

1644
01:10:36,280 --> 01:10:37,120
Speaker 5: where the booty hole is.

1645
01:10:38,960 --> 01:10:40,600
Speaker 4: Yeah, because if you if you're in a room and

1646
01:10:40,640 --> 01:10:42,360
Speaker 4: the lights ain't really lit, you know what I mean,

1647
01:10:42,439 --> 01:10:44,920
Speaker 4: Like you got to be able to say the contrast,

1648
01:10:45,120 --> 01:10:47,360
Speaker 4: be sitting there licking the cheek thinking you eating ass.

1649
01:10:47,640 --> 01:10:49,599
Speaker 1: But I feel like if the lights ain'tly, it's gonna

1650
01:10:49,600 --> 01:10:50,800
Speaker 1: be hard on the fine and.

1651
01:10:50,760 --> 01:10:52,760
Speaker 5: Then if it because you know what, if you're going

1652
01:10:53,160 --> 01:10:55,040
Speaker 5: click the booty, click the booty, click the booty from

1653
01:10:55,040 --> 01:10:56,040
Speaker 5: the back, like you can't do.

1654
01:10:56,040 --> 01:10:56,679
Speaker 2: You know what I'm saying.

1655
01:10:57,920 --> 01:11:01,680
Speaker 3: He's over there crying. I'm gonna start throwing the fireworks

1656
01:11:01,680 --> 01:11:09,400
Speaker 3: on this conversation. We didn't even a Dressfultiz. That's crazy.

1657
01:11:09,439 --> 01:11:11,960
Speaker 1: But I feel like that that's traumatizing too, and that's

1658
01:11:11,960 --> 01:11:13,519
Speaker 1: something that happened to a lot of people.

1659
01:11:13,760 --> 01:11:15,720
Speaker 3: Yeah, yeah, I think that was the one thing I

1660
01:11:15,720 --> 01:11:18,880
Speaker 3: will say, Like my mom protected me a lot from

1661
01:11:18,920 --> 01:11:22,200
Speaker 3: growing up, like I didn't realize because I actually did

1662
01:11:22,240 --> 01:11:24,800
Speaker 3: go through a lot with like racism, and I grew

1663
01:11:24,840 --> 01:11:26,160
Speaker 3: up around a lot of white people because I grew

1664
01:11:26,200 --> 01:11:27,960
Speaker 3: up a around a lot of white people. But I

1665
01:11:27,960 --> 01:11:31,400
Speaker 3: give kudos to not only my mom, but my close

1666
01:11:31,479 --> 01:11:34,439
Speaker 3: friends their parents as well, because they didn't play about

1667
01:11:34,439 --> 01:11:35,519
Speaker 3: me and they didn't play that shit.

1668
01:11:35,600 --> 01:11:36,919
Speaker 2: Like I was very.

1669
01:11:36,720 --> 01:11:39,160
Speaker 3: Blessed to have a I don't want to say this,

1670
01:11:39,240 --> 01:11:41,320
Speaker 3: but like a certain type of white people that were

1671
01:11:41,360 --> 01:11:44,519
Speaker 3: around me that helped raise me. Like my best friend Lindsay.

1672
01:11:44,520 --> 01:11:47,360
Speaker 3: Shout out to Lindsay, her mom Renee. She always just

1673
01:11:47,400 --> 01:11:49,160
Speaker 3: made me feel like a part of them. So I

1674
01:11:49,240 --> 01:11:53,040
Speaker 3: never really got that feeling different or separate till I

1675
01:11:53,080 --> 01:11:55,400
Speaker 3: moved to a big city and things like that. So

1676
01:11:55,520 --> 01:11:57,680
Speaker 3: I really didn't experience much until I got older and

1677
01:11:57,760 --> 01:12:00,320
Speaker 3: I realized, Oh, this lady was mean to me and

1678
01:12:00,360 --> 01:12:02,720
Speaker 3: treating me like this because I was black, Like I

1679
01:12:02,880 --> 01:12:05,680
Speaker 3: was very unaware and oblivious, like very ignorant to all

1680
01:12:05,680 --> 01:12:06,280
Speaker 3: that stuff though.

1681
01:12:06,360 --> 01:12:08,360
Speaker 2: So you grew up like it was more about class

1682
01:12:08,400 --> 01:12:08,880
Speaker 2: than race.

1683
01:12:09,920 --> 01:12:12,479
Speaker 7: I think it was a little bit mixed up both,

1684
01:12:12,600 --> 01:12:16,599
Speaker 7: see cause I grew up very I won't say very wealthy,

1685
01:12:16,640 --> 01:12:17,519
Speaker 7: but I was blessed.

1686
01:12:17,520 --> 01:12:19,880
Speaker 3: I didn't have like an average house. I grew up

1687
01:12:19,880 --> 01:12:21,680
Speaker 3: in a very big house, pool in the backyard. That

1688
01:12:21,720 --> 01:12:24,599
Speaker 3: type of life car when I turned sixteen, all that stuff.

1689
01:12:24,960 --> 01:12:27,880
Speaker 3: So I got treated a certain way because my family

1690
01:12:27,920 --> 01:12:30,200
Speaker 3: had money, you know what I'm saying. But it was

1691
01:12:30,200 --> 01:12:33,200
Speaker 3: still like you still black though, And I didn't realize

1692
01:12:33,200 --> 01:12:35,400
Speaker 3: that until I got older, and I'm thinking of certain situations,

1693
01:12:35,439 --> 01:12:37,080
Speaker 3: I'm like, oh, she probably did this or she was

1694
01:12:37,120 --> 01:12:39,920
Speaker 3: treating me like this. And then not only was that

1695
01:12:40,280 --> 01:12:42,200
Speaker 3: I was the little black girl getting invited to all

1696
01:12:42,200 --> 01:12:43,960
Speaker 3: the slumber parties because me and my friends, we were

1697
01:12:43,960 --> 01:12:44,720
Speaker 3: the popular one.

1698
01:12:44,880 --> 01:12:47,160
Speaker 2: They couldn't understand why their daughter.

1699
01:12:47,040 --> 01:12:49,880
Speaker 3: Wasn't there, but the little black girls at the slumber

1700
01:12:49,880 --> 01:12:51,360
Speaker 3: parties and things like that. So it's a lot of

1701
01:12:51,360 --> 01:12:54,000
Speaker 3: situations I look back on I'm like, oh, this is

1702
01:12:54,040 --> 01:12:54,680
Speaker 3: what's going on.

1703
01:12:54,760 --> 01:12:56,160
Speaker 2: But like I said, all of.

1704
01:12:56,120 --> 01:12:59,439
Speaker 3: My parents, I mean all of my friends' parents, my

1705
01:12:59,479 --> 01:13:02,680
Speaker 3: homegirl as her mom, Susan, they were so protective of me,

1706
01:13:03,000 --> 01:13:05,640
Speaker 3: and I didn't realize that until I got older, you

1707
01:13:05,680 --> 01:13:06,200
Speaker 3: know what I'm saying.

1708
01:13:06,280 --> 01:13:08,519
Speaker 5: That's why I liked that conversation because you know, I

1709
01:13:08,560 --> 01:13:11,840
Speaker 5: feel like a lot of it is it's behavioral, right,

1710
01:13:11,920 --> 01:13:14,519
Speaker 5: Like like I grew up on the dirt road and

1711
01:13:15,240 --> 01:13:17,400
Speaker 5: we were like in the middle kind of all the

1712
01:13:17,439 --> 01:13:18,680
Speaker 5: way to the end. We were all the way to

1713
01:13:18,720 --> 01:13:21,599
Speaker 5: the the second to the last trailer and then eventually

1714
01:13:21,640 --> 01:13:24,160
Speaker 5: house on the dirt road. So all the white people

1715
01:13:24,160 --> 01:13:25,760
Speaker 5: lived on this side. So it was like, you know,

1716
01:13:25,840 --> 01:13:27,720
Speaker 5: my man Thomas was still my friends to this day,

1717
01:13:27,720 --> 01:13:29,559
Speaker 5: and his family lived over there, and it was another

1718
01:13:29,560 --> 01:13:31,320
Speaker 5: white family. We didn't really interact with them too much.

1719
01:13:31,360 --> 01:13:33,000
Speaker 5: But then all the black people lived on this side.

1720
01:13:33,280 --> 01:13:35,519
Speaker 5: But it was just all about class. Yeah, But like

1721
01:13:35,600 --> 01:13:41,280
Speaker 5: my dad and Thomas's stepdad, Jimbo, they literally would be

1722
01:13:41,320 --> 01:13:42,440
Speaker 5: the two guys.

1723
01:13:42,200 --> 01:13:43,719
Speaker 4: Drinking beer of mine in their business.

1724
01:13:44,040 --> 01:13:46,639
Speaker 5: See the white guy drive by with the Confederate flag

1725
01:13:46,680 --> 01:13:49,440
Speaker 5: with and both of them would be like, look at him, crackers.

1726
01:13:49,720 --> 01:13:50,599
Speaker 4: You understand what I'm saying.

1727
01:13:50,600 --> 01:13:53,360
Speaker 5: So it wasn't about you know, oh, just all white

1728
01:13:53,360 --> 01:13:58,040
Speaker 5: people are inherently racist, so all white people are inherently

1729
01:13:58,080 --> 01:14:00,840
Speaker 5: white supremacists. It was just like, no, we are these

1730
01:14:00,880 --> 01:14:02,880
Speaker 5: black and white people who live here and were poor,

1731
01:14:03,080 --> 01:14:05,880
Speaker 5: and then that's the whole other type of white person

1732
01:14:05,880 --> 01:14:07,679
Speaker 5: over here. And guess what it was the black people

1733
01:14:07,680 --> 01:14:10,559
Speaker 5: who were more middle class and had means, they were

1734
01:14:10,600 --> 01:14:12,679
Speaker 5: a whole other type of black person, you know, living

1735
01:14:12,720 --> 01:14:15,360
Speaker 5: over there. So to me, it's just all about behavior more.

1736
01:14:15,439 --> 01:14:18,040
Speaker 5: So you know what we what we are, what.

1737
01:14:18,080 --> 01:14:18,880
Speaker 4: Your parents used to do.

1738
01:14:19,640 --> 01:14:21,519
Speaker 3: My mom she worked for an oil and gas company.

1739
01:14:21,520 --> 01:14:24,639
Speaker 3: She worked for Conaco, so she was like higher up

1740
01:14:24,720 --> 01:14:27,400
Speaker 3: doing all that stuff. But also my dad passed when

1741
01:14:27,400 --> 01:14:29,920
Speaker 3: I was very young, so he left her like a

1742
01:14:29,960 --> 01:14:32,040
Speaker 3: whole bunch of money. So we were I was born

1743
01:14:32,040 --> 01:14:35,000
Speaker 3: in California, So after he passed and she got all

1744
01:14:35,040 --> 01:14:36,640
Speaker 3: that money, we moved back to Orange.

1745
01:14:36,360 --> 01:14:38,240
Speaker 2: Where she grew up. At what he used to do.

1746
01:14:39,000 --> 01:14:41,320
Speaker 2: He drove, he worked for a gas company.

1747
01:14:41,120 --> 01:14:43,400
Speaker 3: He used to work for Shell Okay, so he was

1748
01:14:43,439 --> 01:14:45,400
Speaker 3: like she moved back to Orange, like built us this

1749
01:14:45,520 --> 01:14:47,639
Speaker 3: big old house and like an acre land because when

1750
01:14:47,680 --> 01:14:49,720
Speaker 3: my neighborhood, when we first moved in there, there was like

1751
01:14:49,720 --> 01:14:52,479
Speaker 3: no neighborhood. There was like no neighborhood really, so when

1752
01:14:52,520 --> 01:14:54,759
Speaker 3: we built the house, it was like, oh my gosh,

1753
01:14:54,800 --> 01:14:56,639
Speaker 3: who was this black lady came back and like built

1754
01:14:56,680 --> 01:14:57,000
Speaker 3: this house.

1755
01:14:57,280 --> 01:14:59,880
Speaker 2: I thought you I was selling crack. They thought we was.

1756
01:15:04,160 --> 01:15:08,200
Speaker 7: But but yeah, like I said, I was really sheltered.

1757
01:15:08,240 --> 01:15:10,360
Speaker 2: And I didn't realize it until I moved to Houston. Yeah,

1758
01:15:10,360 --> 01:15:11,599
Speaker 2: you didn't realize what it was like.

1759
01:15:11,680 --> 01:15:14,400
Speaker 1: I feel like I always grew up around that growing up,

1760
01:15:14,400 --> 01:15:17,120
Speaker 1: because I mean, I went to private school my whole life.

1761
01:15:17,240 --> 01:15:21,040
Speaker 2: But I've seen the classism.

1762
01:15:21,320 --> 01:15:23,960
Speaker 1: I've seen like colorism, all of that stuff at a

1763
01:15:24,040 --> 01:15:25,960
Speaker 1: very young age, and then especially when I went to

1764
01:15:26,040 --> 01:15:28,040
Speaker 1: high school, because I went to high school in River

1765
01:15:28,080 --> 01:15:30,679
Speaker 1: Oaks in Houston, which is like the most the richest

1766
01:15:30,680 --> 01:15:35,320
Speaker 1: neighborhood in Houston, and that's where Kelly Rowling went. Okay,

1767
01:15:35,800 --> 01:15:38,320
Speaker 1: you did went to my high school. She went to Lamar.

1768
01:15:39,000 --> 01:15:41,000
Speaker 1: But yeah, so like even at my high school, I

1769
01:15:41,080 --> 01:15:42,960
Speaker 1: seen it and it was just, I don't know, it

1770
01:15:43,000 --> 01:15:45,559
Speaker 1: was a lot like just realizing from a younger age

1771
01:15:45,600 --> 01:15:48,799
Speaker 1: how they treat us. And especially because at my school

1772
01:15:49,200 --> 01:15:51,000
Speaker 1: most of the black people that went there, none of

1773
01:15:51,080 --> 01:15:52,120
Speaker 1: us lived in the neighborhood.

1774
01:15:52,160 --> 01:15:53,520
Speaker 2: We were all transfers.

1775
01:15:53,760 --> 01:15:55,600
Speaker 1: They already kind of looked at us like y'all not

1776
01:15:55,600 --> 01:15:56,400
Speaker 1: supposed to be here.

1777
01:15:56,520 --> 01:15:58,000
Speaker 4: Why was you in private school your whole Like this

1778
01:15:58,120 --> 01:15:58,799
Speaker 4: is so interesting.

1779
01:15:59,080 --> 01:15:59,479
Speaker 2: I don't know.

1780
01:15:59,520 --> 01:16:01,960
Speaker 3: My wife, I think because my mom and my dad

1781
01:16:02,080 --> 01:16:04,000
Speaker 3: just she wanted to go.

1782
01:16:04,040 --> 01:16:05,679
Speaker 2: To Catholic school, got you.

1783
01:16:06,240 --> 01:16:09,280
Speaker 1: So I went to Catholic school from pre K three

1784
01:16:10,160 --> 01:16:12,160
Speaker 1: all the way through eighth grade, and then my mom

1785
01:16:12,240 --> 01:16:14,559
Speaker 1: actually wanted me to go to an all girls Catholic

1786
01:16:14,640 --> 01:16:17,519
Speaker 1: school for high school, but I begged and pleaded. I

1787
01:16:17,560 --> 01:16:19,200
Speaker 1: was like, please, let me go to public school.

1788
01:16:19,240 --> 01:16:19,599
Speaker 2: Please.

1789
01:16:20,160 --> 01:16:22,559
Speaker 1: So she wanted me to go to a public school

1790
01:16:23,160 --> 01:16:25,479
Speaker 1: that was over by her job that she approved of

1791
01:16:25,520 --> 01:16:27,840
Speaker 1: because she worked in rivers. My mom was a nurse,

1792
01:16:28,760 --> 01:16:31,240
Speaker 1: so she used to work at Taxis Children Pediatric medical

1793
01:16:31,280 --> 01:16:32,439
Speaker 1: Group and.

1794
01:16:32,600 --> 01:16:33,960
Speaker 2: It was right over there by my school.

1795
01:16:34,000 --> 01:16:35,920
Speaker 1: And she was like, oh, yeah, you could go here

1796
01:16:36,400 --> 01:16:38,360
Speaker 1: because I'm not gonna be there far and I could

1797
01:16:38,400 --> 01:16:40,800
Speaker 1: drop you off every day. And it was hard to

1798
01:16:40,840 --> 01:16:43,640
Speaker 1: get and my school was hard to get into. Two

1799
01:16:43,680 --> 01:16:48,040
Speaker 1: of my hospital cath Oh, the Catholic funerals, the funerals

1800
01:16:48,120 --> 01:16:49,600
Speaker 1: be longer than that. And how we talk about a

1801
01:16:49,640 --> 01:16:51,280
Speaker 1: funeral when we were talk about school.

1802
01:16:51,080 --> 01:16:53,160
Speaker 2: Well, I just had to think about it. I'm like,

1803
01:16:53,240 --> 01:16:54,040
Speaker 2: damn funeral.

1804
01:16:55,120 --> 01:16:57,360
Speaker 3: Actually, Catholic funerals be short, but we do have to

1805
01:16:57,360 --> 01:16:57,960
Speaker 3: do the rosary.

1806
01:16:58,080 --> 01:17:00,000
Speaker 2: Oh that's the ship that be taking a long time

1807
01:17:00,479 --> 01:17:00,960
Speaker 2: forgive me.

1808
01:17:01,080 --> 01:17:05,080
Speaker 1: But yeah, yeah, talk like I've seen both sides, Like

1809
01:17:05,120 --> 01:17:08,240
Speaker 1: I definitely I grew up around black people the majority

1810
01:17:08,280 --> 01:17:10,280
Speaker 1: of my life, like pre K through eighth grade.

1811
01:17:10,320 --> 01:17:11,680
Speaker 2: But then when I went to high school. It was

1812
01:17:11,720 --> 01:17:16,599
Speaker 2: like sill shock culture shock. Yeah. Interesting. One thing about us,

1813
01:17:16,600 --> 01:17:18,559
Speaker 2: we don't get off topic. That's good.

1814
01:17:19,000 --> 01:17:20,920
Speaker 1: We were supposed to be talking. We were supposed to

1815
01:17:20,920 --> 01:17:24,720
Speaker 1: be something my fragile, masculine we did, didn't I love it?

1816
01:17:25,200 --> 01:17:26,840
Speaker 1: But we were also supposed to talk about why do me?

1817
01:17:26,840 --> 01:17:28,880
Speaker 1: And things, showing the fiction to other men his gay.

1818
01:17:29,080 --> 01:17:33,360
Speaker 2: But it's hold on. Now, tell me what fine affections.

1819
01:17:34,120 --> 01:17:36,960
Speaker 1: Like hugging your friends, telling your friend you love him,

1820
01:17:37,040 --> 01:17:39,840
Speaker 1: even with sons, like men think that they shouldn't like

1821
01:17:40,120 --> 01:17:43,599
Speaker 1: love on their son, hug them, kiss them, tell them.

1822
01:17:44,240 --> 01:17:45,479
Speaker 2: I don't agree with that. I believe I believe you

1823
01:17:45,520 --> 01:17:46,240
Speaker 2: should do that. I don't.

1824
01:17:46,240 --> 01:17:48,080
Speaker 4: I don't think I do have a problem with that.

1825
01:17:48,240 --> 01:17:48,920
Speaker 2: Yeah.

1826
01:17:49,120 --> 01:17:52,720
Speaker 7: Really somebody that was in the block, I think was

1827
01:17:52,720 --> 01:17:53,719
Speaker 7: it Tom Brady?

1828
01:17:53,760 --> 01:17:54,080
Speaker 2: I don't know.

1829
01:17:54,400 --> 01:17:56,400
Speaker 4: Oh, I think you're talking about This was back in

1830
01:17:56,400 --> 01:17:58,400
Speaker 4: the day. But it was forty two. Doug didn't know.

1831
01:17:58,560 --> 01:18:01,160
Speaker 3: It wasn't forty It was like a It was an athlete,

1832
01:18:01,160 --> 01:18:03,519
Speaker 3: like a high profile athlete, and he would like kiss

1833
01:18:03,520 --> 01:18:04,759
Speaker 3: his son or something.

1834
01:18:05,120 --> 01:18:07,360
Speaker 2: He kissed his son and they took a picture of it.

1835
01:18:07,360 --> 01:18:09,200
Speaker 3: And his son was like twelve or thirteen, they were like,

1836
01:18:09,400 --> 01:18:10,760
Speaker 3: why are you kissing your son?

1837
01:18:11,160 --> 01:18:15,320
Speaker 2: Wayanne kissed bird me? He god, damn, you got to

1838
01:18:15,360 --> 01:18:18,240
Speaker 2: put some respect on my Now.

1839
01:18:18,200 --> 01:18:21,280
Speaker 1: We hadn't wrong and then lol Wyane got on the

1840
01:18:21,280 --> 01:18:23,360
Speaker 1: song and said, damn right, I kissed my daddy.

1841
01:18:23,920 --> 01:18:25,920
Speaker 4: He said that on his fuck. I see. That's that's

1842
01:18:25,920 --> 01:18:28,400
Speaker 4: why I said defined affection because that that's when that's

1843
01:18:28,400 --> 01:18:29,880
Speaker 4: when I feel like it goes a little too far.

1844
01:18:30,320 --> 01:18:33,760
Speaker 4: Well so unless that but if that's but you know what,

1845
01:18:33,920 --> 01:18:36,720
Speaker 4: if that's how you feel about that person and that's

1846
01:18:36,760 --> 01:18:39,080
Speaker 4: what you choose to do. Who am I to judge?

1847
01:18:39,280 --> 01:18:41,600
Speaker 4: That's not how I kiss? You know, gods that I

1848
01:18:42,920 --> 01:18:46,240
Speaker 4: no like, No, I wouldn't, but they did.

1849
01:18:47,840 --> 01:18:50,519
Speaker 3: Well, I think there's a thin line too, Like for me,

1850
01:18:51,160 --> 01:18:53,000
Speaker 3: I guess this is this is like white boy humor.

1851
01:18:53,040 --> 01:18:55,120
Speaker 2: Like white boys think that like being gay.

1852
01:18:54,960 --> 01:18:56,960
Speaker 3: And kissing on each other and they think that shit

1853
01:18:57,080 --> 01:18:57,800
Speaker 3: is hilarious.

1854
01:18:57,840 --> 01:18:59,200
Speaker 4: They don't even call it gay when.

1855
01:18:59,040 --> 01:19:03,320
Speaker 2: They do it. But it's a very yeah, like it's

1856
01:19:03,439 --> 01:19:06,560
Speaker 2: very strengths. Like they be thinking it's so funny to

1857
01:19:06,680 --> 01:19:09,040
Speaker 2: be tea bagging each other when they sleep, Like yes,

1858
01:19:09,400 --> 01:19:10,040
Speaker 2: that's what I'm saying.

1859
01:19:10,080 --> 01:19:13,080
Speaker 3: And they think it's hilarious now that it's a little weird.

1860
01:19:14,120 --> 01:19:17,160
Speaker 2: If I wake up and at in my mouth, we're fighting, bitch.

1861
01:19:18,640 --> 01:19:20,880
Speaker 3: Because I'm a woman, I'm saying like, if it's I

1862
01:19:20,960 --> 01:19:24,440
Speaker 3: wake up and it's a titty in my mouth, were fighting, bitch.

1863
01:19:24,600 --> 01:19:27,559
Speaker 2: That ain't no how high crazy. Yeah, that's what I'm saying.

1864
01:19:27,600 --> 01:19:30,280
Speaker 3: So I think you can show affection to your friends,

1865
01:19:30,680 --> 01:19:34,320
Speaker 3: but me, I'm as a woman, I'm not kissing my friends.

1866
01:19:34,640 --> 01:19:38,040
Speaker 2: I hugged my Your mom's had enough. She was like,

1867
01:19:38,120 --> 01:19:41,360
Speaker 2: the titty waking up with the city in your mouth.

1868
01:19:41,280 --> 01:19:41,600
Speaker 4: Just did it.

1869
01:19:45,080 --> 01:19:46,320
Speaker 3: Let's kiss me one time.

1870
01:19:46,400 --> 01:19:50,719
Speaker 2: So she's lying that was a long time ago. We

1871
01:19:50,640 --> 01:19:53,519
Speaker 2: were both drunk. That was nothing up.

1872
01:19:53,880 --> 01:20:01,439
Speaker 3: Nothing happened after what means you we were just drunk.

1873
01:20:01,479 --> 01:20:03,200
Speaker 3: It was when we first started hanging out to.

1874
01:20:04,040 --> 01:20:06,600
Speaker 1: Not just drunk is man at the bar and he

1875
01:20:06,680 --> 01:20:10,080
Speaker 1: was trying to talk to me. Oh and we told

1876
01:20:10,160 --> 01:20:12,640
Speaker 1: him you and my girl, yeah called him, but we

1877
01:20:12,760 --> 01:20:13,360
Speaker 1: were drunk.

1878
01:20:13,760 --> 01:20:16,519
Speaker 5: That ain't gonna deter him. That's gonna turn him on more. Now,

1879
01:20:16,560 --> 01:20:18,320
Speaker 5: whatever he was going to spend, he ready to spend double.

1880
01:20:18,360 --> 01:20:19,519
Speaker 5: He was like, oh, both of y'all.

1881
01:20:19,600 --> 01:20:23,080
Speaker 2: But to be honest, he stops. He did, and you know,

1882
01:20:23,200 --> 01:20:23,760
Speaker 2: I'm kind of.

1883
01:20:25,520 --> 01:20:27,120
Speaker 4: What kind of kiss was it?

1884
01:20:27,120 --> 01:20:29,200
Speaker 2: It was just like I was.

1885
01:20:30,240 --> 01:20:31,439
Speaker 4: It a peck? Did you slip?

1886
01:20:32,320 --> 01:20:36,280
Speaker 2: And we were kissing. We were kissing a little le

1887
01:20:36,520 --> 01:20:39,160
Speaker 2: slick as lex knew what she was doing. Was like

1888
01:20:39,200 --> 01:20:45,600
Speaker 2: now my opportunity, I really was.

1889
01:20:45,680 --> 01:20:48,120
Speaker 3: It was just funny in the moment. But I'm saying

1890
01:20:48,240 --> 01:20:51,639
Speaker 3: like it was in that moment and it was funny,

1891
01:20:51,640 --> 01:20:54,360
Speaker 3: like we thought it was funny and then but now

1892
01:20:54,479 --> 01:20:56,160
Speaker 3: like I'm not kissing my friends like.

1893
01:20:56,120 --> 01:20:57,720
Speaker 2: That was like a one off situation.

1894
01:20:58,360 --> 01:21:02,320
Speaker 3: Drama is probably like my only friend that I've kissed

1895
01:21:02,600 --> 01:21:02,960
Speaker 3: like that.

1896
01:21:04,560 --> 01:21:06,840
Speaker 2: Oh like that? It was affectionate.

1897
01:21:06,880 --> 01:21:09,559
Speaker 5: It was like, no, you said like that, But I

1898
01:21:09,600 --> 01:21:11,559
Speaker 5: do think men should be affectionate with other men.

1899
01:21:11,600 --> 01:21:14,760
Speaker 3: You like that, Like you can hug your friends, you

1900
01:21:14,800 --> 01:21:16,200
Speaker 3: can compliment your friends.

1901
01:21:16,200 --> 01:21:17,080
Speaker 2: Oh you look handsome.

1902
01:21:17,120 --> 01:21:19,160
Speaker 3: I like that outfit. You look nice, my nigga, Like

1903
01:21:19,200 --> 01:21:20,720
Speaker 3: you can say things like that.

1904
01:21:20,880 --> 01:21:24,000
Speaker 2: So there's an interview. There's an old Breakfast Club interview

1905
01:21:24,040 --> 01:21:25,880
Speaker 2: we did with Juice World. I mean, I don't know.

1906
01:21:25,960 --> 01:21:28,040
Speaker 5: Juice World came to the show once or twice, might

1907
01:21:28,120 --> 01:21:31,960
Speaker 5: have just been once. For whatever reason. I was trying

1908
01:21:32,000 --> 01:21:34,920
Speaker 5: to make his homeboys hug him in the room. I

1909
01:21:35,040 --> 01:21:36,840
Speaker 5: was like, man, you hug your homeboy, And I don't

1910
01:21:36,840 --> 01:21:38,880
Speaker 5: know if I said something, because you just never know. Yes,

1911
01:21:39,400 --> 01:21:41,920
Speaker 5: that's crazy, you know, but that's that's what I mean. Like,

1912
01:21:41,960 --> 01:21:44,000
Speaker 5: that's why you should, you know, tell your people that

1913
01:21:44,080 --> 01:21:45,360
Speaker 5: you loved them, tell you them, tell them that you

1914
01:21:45,479 --> 01:21:46,760
Speaker 5: value them, that you appreciate them.

1915
01:21:46,800 --> 01:21:48,360
Speaker 4: You know, give your brother a hug. You know, I

1916
01:21:48,360 --> 01:21:49,519
Speaker 4: don't think it's anything wrong with that.

1917
01:21:50,000 --> 01:21:51,599
Speaker 2: You were gonna tell your friends you look good?

1918
01:21:52,680 --> 01:21:55,679
Speaker 5: Yeah, I ain't got no problem doing that, especially especially

1919
01:21:55,720 --> 01:21:57,280
Speaker 5: when I meet thank you, especially when.

1920
01:21:57,160 --> 01:21:57,559
Speaker 2: I meet.

1921
01:22:00,680 --> 01:22:00,880
Speaker 3: Was like.

1922
01:22:03,040 --> 01:22:10,679
Speaker 2: She said, I don't like friends.

1923
01:22:11,120 --> 01:22:13,920
Speaker 5: Yeah, especially when I meet like older men. Now, when

1924
01:22:13,960 --> 01:22:15,880
Speaker 5: you meet men that's in like they you know.

1925
01:22:16,000 --> 01:22:20,840
Speaker 2: Late fifties, sixties seven, they still look good. Motherfucking right.

1926
01:22:20,880 --> 01:22:23,200
Speaker 5: I'll be like, god, damn, you look good, brother, because

1927
01:22:23,320 --> 01:22:26,120
Speaker 5: I hope to maintain and be looking like that too

1928
01:22:26,160 --> 01:22:26,719
Speaker 5: when you get.

1929
01:22:26,640 --> 01:22:29,920
Speaker 2: To that age. Because because you were Morris twinsies, they

1930
01:22:30,000 --> 01:22:31,400
Speaker 2: said you was Morris Peanuts.

1931
01:22:31,640 --> 01:22:34,080
Speaker 4: I mean that's what they say, you know.

1932
01:22:34,360 --> 01:22:36,600
Speaker 5: I think the only reason I might stop doing that

1933
01:22:37,920 --> 01:22:40,200
Speaker 5: is because I hate when people be.

1934
01:22:40,280 --> 01:22:44,040
Speaker 2: Like, what's up, twin and they ugly? You feel like

1935
01:22:45,560 --> 01:22:49,760
Speaker 2: you know, you know what I mean.

1936
01:22:50,439 --> 01:22:52,439
Speaker 4: It's like, damn man, like I hate like you know,

1937
01:22:52,560 --> 01:22:54,840
Speaker 4: like all that was twin like on me calling me twins.

1938
01:22:54,920 --> 01:22:55,360
Speaker 2: We you don't.

1939
01:22:55,360 --> 01:22:59,120
Speaker 4: We don't look nothing like ugly. I don't want to do.

1940
01:23:00,720 --> 01:23:01,120
Speaker 6: Everything.

1941
01:23:02,360 --> 01:23:04,120
Speaker 2: I don't think you think that either, because you're not

1942
01:23:04,320 --> 01:23:07,960
Speaker 2: ugly where I do think if you went one.

1943
01:23:10,760 --> 01:23:13,040
Speaker 4: Like he did say he got mistaken from me once.

1944
01:23:13,920 --> 01:23:14,280
Speaker 2: He said that.

1945
01:23:14,360 --> 01:23:16,519
Speaker 4: He said that on a Think with Jennifer Hudson show.

1946
01:23:17,000 --> 01:23:19,920
Speaker 2: It's the bald head. It's the ball had the nice skin.

1947
01:23:20,640 --> 01:23:23,160
Speaker 2: I feel like bald heads just give the matures.

1948
01:23:23,280 --> 01:23:27,439
Speaker 5: It does well everybody doesn't. God bless certain people with

1949
01:23:27,600 --> 01:23:28,880
Speaker 5: the type of skull that happen.

1950
01:23:30,120 --> 01:23:32,120
Speaker 4: I'm staying some of these brothers, they gotta go get

1951
01:23:32,160 --> 01:23:32,800
Speaker 4: the man unit.

1952
01:23:32,840 --> 01:23:35,480
Speaker 5: They gotta go get the Yeah, they don't got transplant,

1953
01:23:35,560 --> 01:23:37,639
Speaker 5: That's what I'm saying. When they start losing their hairline,

1954
01:23:37,640 --> 01:23:39,439
Speaker 5: they can't get a ball head like Lebron James will

1955
01:23:39,479 --> 01:23:42,439
Speaker 5: look crazy ball Remember Miguel, when Miguel first came out,

1956
01:23:42,479 --> 01:23:44,760
Speaker 5: Go back and look at yes he.

1957
01:23:44,880 --> 01:23:49,479
Speaker 2: Will yes, yes. Whenever he kicked that man in the head,

1958
01:23:49,640 --> 01:23:50,439
Speaker 2: everything changed.

1959
01:23:50,479 --> 01:23:51,400
Speaker 7: For what.

1960
01:23:52,920 --> 01:23:56,680
Speaker 3: Did Kevin Gate do that? So calligate on purpose, I think.

1961
01:23:58,760 --> 01:24:01,280
Speaker 3: But Miguel tried to over that sea of people. He

1962
01:24:01,360 --> 01:24:03,000
Speaker 3: took that cowboy car or boot.

1963
01:24:03,479 --> 01:24:06,639
Speaker 4: It was a leg drop. Oh my god, you didn't

1964
01:24:06,640 --> 01:24:09,040
Speaker 4: know he was Mexican before you knew it then, because.

1965
01:24:08,760 --> 01:24:15,559
Speaker 2: That was a great in Mexico City, you.

1966
01:24:17,240 --> 01:24:18,599
Speaker 4: Don't play Oh my god.

1967
01:24:19,120 --> 01:24:21,479
Speaker 3: But I feel like everybody got a swing because everybody

1968
01:24:21,600 --> 01:24:23,000
Speaker 3: say everybody.

1969
01:24:22,600 --> 01:24:24,599
Speaker 2: Look like people. People say legs look like people.

1970
01:24:25,560 --> 01:24:31,200
Speaker 3: They always say you though, guess I don't he I

1971
01:24:31,240 --> 01:24:34,280
Speaker 3: don't think he gonna gets it. It's like it's two

1972
01:24:34,360 --> 01:24:35,800
Speaker 3: people that you get a line.

1973
01:24:36,320 --> 01:24:36,800
Speaker 4: Two people?

1974
01:24:37,040 --> 01:24:39,720
Speaker 2: Can I tell them? They always say Jada Wade is

1975
01:24:39,840 --> 01:24:40,920
Speaker 2: Summer Walker for her.

1976
01:24:42,800 --> 01:24:44,960
Speaker 5: Hit a Wait in Summer Walker. I know what Summer

1977
01:24:44,960 --> 01:24:46,479
Speaker 5: looks like. I can't think it was Jada looked.

1978
01:24:46,320 --> 01:24:48,240
Speaker 2: Like Yeah, I think she. I think her and Jada

1979
01:24:48,280 --> 01:24:50,360
Speaker 2: do favor. I think they look like they could be

1980
01:24:50,439 --> 01:24:52,840
Speaker 2: like both of y'all have very unique looks.

1981
01:24:53,520 --> 01:24:54,960
Speaker 5: Yes, And it's hard for me to say that y'all

1982
01:24:55,000 --> 01:24:59,400
Speaker 5: look like anybody because I always hear guys mention y'all

1983
01:24:59,720 --> 01:25:00,439
Speaker 5: as bars.

1984
01:25:00,640 --> 01:25:02,360
Speaker 2: Oh wow, like like like.

1985
01:25:04,280 --> 01:25:04,800
Speaker 4: As bars.

1986
01:25:04,800 --> 01:25:10,080
Speaker 5: There's certain women, Oh okay, I hear like y'all pop

1987
01:25:10,200 --> 01:25:11,240
Speaker 5: up in a lot of group chats.

1988
01:25:13,160 --> 01:25:17,519
Speaker 3: You know that, really, you know, I think it's because

1989
01:25:17,560 --> 01:25:19,120
Speaker 3: we're talking about this, that's who they say.

1990
01:25:19,200 --> 01:25:19,720
Speaker 2: Lex look like.

1991
01:25:21,040 --> 01:25:22,920
Speaker 3: He ain't gonna gets it, especially now because I don't

1992
01:25:22,920 --> 01:25:23,559
Speaker 3: have a makeup phone.

1993
01:25:30,439 --> 01:25:33,640
Speaker 2: When I navigates pop up twin, he's gonna say what

1994
01:25:33,760 --> 01:25:37,240
Speaker 2: you say that for blowing up calling them?

1995
01:25:38,640 --> 01:25:39,360
Speaker 4: They say you look like.

1996
01:25:39,880 --> 01:25:43,680
Speaker 3: They Tony Braxton. That's that's the only one I ever

1997
01:25:43,800 --> 01:25:46,719
Speaker 3: get Braxton. Yes, they always got look like a Braxton's sister.

1998
01:25:47,160 --> 01:25:50,320
Speaker 3: Oh sister, That's the only one I've ever gotten.

1999
01:25:50,439 --> 01:25:51,800
Speaker 2: They never say anybody else.

2000
01:25:52,360 --> 01:25:55,320
Speaker 1: But to be fair, when Lex first moves to Atlanta

2001
01:25:55,400 --> 01:25:58,559
Speaker 1: back in twenty seventeen, she had a very short hair cut,

2002
01:25:58,680 --> 01:26:01,280
Speaker 1: like she had like a fade and then she had

2003
01:26:01,320 --> 01:26:02,960
Speaker 1: like curls at the top. And I feel like when

2004
01:26:03,000 --> 01:26:04,880
Speaker 1: she had the short haircut, I could really see you.

2005
01:26:05,000 --> 01:26:06,920
Speaker 4: People should just say y'all pretty and keep it moving.

2006
01:26:07,080 --> 01:26:08,799
Speaker 2: Yeah, but you know what's crazy.

2007
01:26:08,880 --> 01:26:10,880
Speaker 3: I think the reason I'm surprised that people say the

2008
01:26:10,960 --> 01:26:14,080
Speaker 3: bar I mean, probably Drea is probably like, oh, well, yeah,

2009
01:26:14,280 --> 01:26:16,559
Speaker 3: but you too. No, no, Well, the reason I say

2010
01:26:16,600 --> 01:26:19,000
Speaker 3: that is because growing up though, since we were talking

2011
01:26:19,040 --> 01:26:21,320
Speaker 3: about that earlier, I was never like a girl who like,

2012
01:26:21,400 --> 01:26:23,840
Speaker 3: I didn't consider Now, that's what I'll say. I didn't

2013
01:26:23,840 --> 01:26:25,720
Speaker 3: consider myself fine or attractive.

2014
01:26:25,840 --> 01:26:26,519
Speaker 4: When'd you get there?

2015
01:26:26,800 --> 01:26:30,000
Speaker 3: When I moved to Houston and I was around niggas,

2016
01:26:30,800 --> 01:26:32,640
Speaker 3: you know what I'm saying, because like, growing up, it

2017
01:26:32,760 --> 01:26:35,559
Speaker 3: was always like that's interesting. Yeah, because growing up there

2018
01:26:35,600 --> 01:26:37,679
Speaker 3: was always like, oh, you're pretty for a black girl.

2019
01:26:37,800 --> 01:26:40,160
Speaker 2: Now that's something I did experience. Oh you're this for

2020
01:26:40,320 --> 01:26:42,920
Speaker 2: a black girl, you're this for a black girl. And

2021
01:26:43,000 --> 01:26:44,960
Speaker 2: I'm like, what the hell does that mean? But you

2022
01:26:45,040 --> 01:26:46,759
Speaker 2: know what, though, that just means you're pretty.

2023
01:26:46,920 --> 01:26:51,439
Speaker 5: And those white individuals, especially probably the men, just didn't

2024
01:26:51,479 --> 01:26:54,599
Speaker 5: know how to acknowledge a black woman being beautiful, right right,

2025
01:26:54,640 --> 01:26:56,439
Speaker 5: I gotta say four a black like what you mean?

2026
01:26:56,520 --> 01:26:56,720
Speaker 2: Four?

2027
01:26:56,880 --> 01:26:56,920
Speaker 6: Like?

2028
01:26:57,120 --> 01:26:59,799
Speaker 2: Right? So people look beautiful exactly.

2029
01:27:00,080 --> 01:27:03,320
Speaker 3: So I always felt like, oh, all the white girls

2030
01:27:03,360 --> 01:27:05,280
Speaker 3: were like up here, and then it was like they

2031
01:27:05,320 --> 01:27:07,519
Speaker 3: made me feel like oh, but when the black girls start,

2032
01:27:07,600 --> 01:27:08,160
Speaker 3: I guess.

2033
01:27:07,960 --> 01:27:12,120
Speaker 2: I'm like right here. But then you got Houston, yeah,

2034
01:27:12,680 --> 01:27:13,320
Speaker 2: and I feel right.

2035
01:27:15,560 --> 01:27:21,080
Speaker 3: I wasn't the cream and I floated, okay, But I

2036
01:27:21,160 --> 01:27:23,519
Speaker 3: think that's where my when I started getting confidence about

2037
01:27:23,520 --> 01:27:26,559
Speaker 3: myself too. But I'm so glad that I grew up

2038
01:27:26,600 --> 01:27:29,080
Speaker 3: that way because I think that's what helped my personality developed.

2039
01:27:29,640 --> 01:27:32,160
Speaker 3: You know, like a lot of outside of Drea, I

2040
01:27:32,200 --> 01:27:36,000
Speaker 3: ain't gonna lie to you. Them bad bitches on a walk.

2041
01:27:36,200 --> 01:27:39,280
Speaker 2: They'll be having no persons. But the regular bad bitches

2042
01:27:39,479 --> 01:27:44,599
Speaker 2: may be a little boring. Oh my brother, shut up, girl.

2043
01:27:45,000 --> 01:27:48,160
Speaker 1: But you know what's interesting for real, I got that

2044
01:27:48,360 --> 01:27:51,479
Speaker 1: too growing up, even in the black community though, Like

2045
01:27:51,840 --> 01:27:56,720
Speaker 1: people would always tell me, oh, you pretty fore and

2046
01:27:56,840 --> 01:27:58,880
Speaker 1: like even guys I dated would say that stuff to

2047
01:27:58,960 --> 01:28:00,519
Speaker 1: me when I was younger, and I so much now,

2048
01:28:00,600 --> 01:28:02,040
Speaker 1: but when I was younger that would be like, man,

2049
01:28:02,080 --> 01:28:04,720
Speaker 1: you're the only You're the only brown skin girl. You're

2050
01:28:04,760 --> 01:28:07,479
Speaker 1: the only dark skin girl liked because you're just so fine,

2051
01:28:07,640 --> 01:28:09,439
Speaker 1: Like as if that was a compliment.

2052
01:28:10,000 --> 01:28:12,719
Speaker 4: Y'all I liked was Melogan Melon Melani.

2053
01:28:13,120 --> 01:28:15,320
Speaker 5: You know what I'm saying, Like, like, you know, dive

2054
01:28:15,400 --> 01:28:19,160
Speaker 5: with Chocolate Goddesses. Was that song we had ice cream

2055
01:28:19,160 --> 01:28:22,639
Speaker 5: when they say Prince French vanilla butter, he can't chocolate deluxe.

2056
01:28:23,240 --> 01:28:24,080
Speaker 4: I wanted the chocolate.

2057
01:28:24,360 --> 01:28:26,080
Speaker 2: Getting a lot of her a little bit out of

2058
01:28:26,120 --> 01:28:26,559
Speaker 2: our age.

2059
01:28:26,720 --> 01:28:29,559
Speaker 5: No, it's true, I know, but I'm just like, I've

2060
01:28:29,600 --> 01:28:31,880
Speaker 5: always liked the darkskin girls, like, no disrespect to the

2061
01:28:31,960 --> 01:28:32,920
Speaker 5: light skinned girls, but they.

2062
01:28:33,720 --> 01:28:38,600
Speaker 2: They got a little pit bull to them. Okay, you know,

2063
01:28:38,640 --> 01:28:40,160
Speaker 2: you know I see them pretty pit bulls with the

2064
01:28:40,280 --> 01:28:52,120
Speaker 2: like the little just a little bit. Our resident makes

2065
01:28:52,280 --> 01:28:57,599
Speaker 2: me just a little bit. Was Mexican when she first

2066
01:28:57,800 --> 01:29:04,960
Speaker 2: know why that's funny.

2067
01:29:05,520 --> 01:29:07,439
Speaker 3: But yeah, that's why I say, it's just interesting to

2068
01:29:07,560 --> 01:29:09,320
Speaker 3: me now because of course I know I'm beautiful.

2069
01:29:09,320 --> 01:29:09,960
Speaker 2: I know I'm gonna track.

2070
01:29:10,120 --> 01:29:12,040
Speaker 3: Yeah, but I've always been the kind of person, like

2071
01:29:12,200 --> 01:29:15,400
Speaker 3: I broke, I approach people and I'm like, we gonna

2072
01:29:15,520 --> 01:29:17,920
Speaker 3: have a conversation, We're gonna joke around. That's always been

2073
01:29:17,960 --> 01:29:20,400
Speaker 3: my first thing that I acknowledge about myself. So now

2074
01:29:20,439 --> 01:29:23,200
Speaker 3: when people are having these conversations like, oh we rate

2075
01:29:23,320 --> 01:29:25,280
Speaker 3: lex this and that, I'm never supposed to be in

2076
01:29:25,320 --> 01:29:29,240
Speaker 3: these baddies conversations at all. I never understand that. But

2077
01:29:29,360 --> 01:29:31,680
Speaker 3: I never wanted to be in the conversations, is what

2078
01:29:31,800 --> 01:29:32,080
Speaker 3: I mean.

2079
01:29:32,520 --> 01:29:34,600
Speaker 1: And so what I was saying is I feel like

2080
01:29:34,960 --> 01:29:36,560
Speaker 1: when you have us, once you have a start in

2081
01:29:36,640 --> 01:29:39,840
Speaker 1: body type, they're automatic fa Yeah, They're automatically gonna put

2082
01:29:39,880 --> 01:29:41,880
Speaker 1: you in that category. And I feel like we also

2083
01:29:42,000 --> 01:29:43,920
Speaker 1: have to be honest with ourselves about the type of

2084
01:29:44,000 --> 01:29:45,360
Speaker 1: pictures that were supposed to make in.

2085
01:29:45,400 --> 01:29:48,880
Speaker 2: The day we have I was thirst trapping, we was,

2086
01:29:50,600 --> 01:29:50,720
Speaker 2: you know.

2087
01:29:50,840 --> 01:29:52,880
Speaker 4: I think about the bump on the log thing too.

2088
01:29:52,960 --> 01:29:54,840
Speaker 5: I think a lot of the reason a lot of

2089
01:29:55,240 --> 01:29:58,519
Speaker 5: pretty women don't have personality because they don't have to

2090
01:29:58,640 --> 01:30:01,240
Speaker 5: have them, because there is a such thing is pretty privileged,

2091
01:30:01,600 --> 01:30:03,840
Speaker 5: Like there's a sense of entitlement that comes with you know,

2092
01:30:04,439 --> 01:30:07,679
Speaker 5: women that are pretty, like they just walk in the room.

2093
01:30:07,560 --> 01:30:10,120
Speaker 4: And people like kind of naturally gravitated.

2094
01:30:09,640 --> 01:30:11,680
Speaker 2: Towards them and start catering to them, you know.

2095
01:30:11,880 --> 01:30:14,240
Speaker 4: And I think that that makes them not have to

2096
01:30:14,400 --> 01:30:16,760
Speaker 4: like ever really have a person I mean that's.

2097
01:30:16,680 --> 01:30:19,960
Speaker 3: For men too, Like fine man are like, oh my gosh,

2098
01:30:20,040 --> 01:30:23,320
Speaker 3: like they'd be the ones making tiktoks and I can't.

2099
01:30:24,080 --> 01:30:25,320
Speaker 2: I just can't. I think you need to be a

2100
01:30:25,360 --> 01:30:28,080
Speaker 2: little medium ugly as a man. That's when my girl,

2101
01:30:28,200 --> 01:30:28,680
Speaker 2: my girl A J.

2102
01:30:28,840 --> 01:30:31,559
Speaker 5: Always says that, you know from we talk back podcasts,

2103
01:30:31,560 --> 01:30:33,920
Speaker 5: always said you got I feel I really do, She says,

2104
01:30:33,920 --> 01:30:35,040
Speaker 5: she like her men medium ugly.

2105
01:30:35,080 --> 01:30:36,599
Speaker 4: I feel like you got to be a little medium

2106
01:30:36,720 --> 01:30:37,400
Speaker 4: ugly as a man.

2107
01:30:37,760 --> 01:30:39,640
Speaker 2: Or just not care about your looks like that.

2108
01:30:40,000 --> 01:30:41,719
Speaker 5: No, No, I think you can care about your looks,

2109
01:30:42,000 --> 01:30:43,160
Speaker 5: but I just think you need to have like a

2110
01:30:43,200 --> 01:30:44,760
Speaker 5: little bit of medium ugly like or.

2111
01:30:44,800 --> 01:30:48,040
Speaker 1: A medium ugly personality, because I huge niggas with a

2112
01:30:48,080 --> 01:30:48,880
Speaker 1: medium ugly part.

2113
01:30:48,960 --> 01:30:51,160
Speaker 2: That's what I'm like, Like, you actually do this? Fuck

2114
01:30:51,240 --> 01:30:55,000
Speaker 2: but you think you ugly? Yeah, I care.

2115
01:30:54,840 --> 01:30:58,040
Speaker 3: About your looks, like, I mean, you keep yourself up,

2116
01:30:58,200 --> 01:31:01,240
Speaker 3: but face you like you being fine?

2117
01:31:01,240 --> 01:31:02,960
Speaker 2: You're like, okay whatever, who cares?

2118
01:31:03,120 --> 01:31:04,519
Speaker 5: No, I see I look at it the other way. See,

2119
01:31:04,520 --> 01:31:06,800
Speaker 5: I'm medium ugly, so I like to keep myself up. Yeah,

2120
01:31:07,680 --> 01:31:08,880
Speaker 5: but that's what you're supposed to say.

2121
01:31:08,880 --> 01:31:14,880
Speaker 4: You're not ugly. For me myself, I.

2122
01:31:14,880 --> 01:31:17,639
Speaker 2: Don't think the medium ugly like I think you're handsome.

2123
01:31:19,000 --> 01:31:24,040
Speaker 2: You are handsome. That's why Morris Morris Walnut compareson is funny.

2124
01:31:24,200 --> 01:31:26,240
Speaker 4: Thank you, I need this. I got a long day.

2125
01:31:28,000 --> 01:31:28,760
Speaker 2: I'm not gonna lie.

2126
01:31:29,000 --> 01:31:31,720
Speaker 3: That's why when we were getting our chemical pills, were like,

2127
01:31:31,760 --> 01:31:34,000
Speaker 3: we're gonna talk to him about that, because I think

2128
01:31:34,040 --> 01:31:35,920
Speaker 3: that is that's one of the things that I think

2129
01:31:36,000 --> 01:31:38,479
Speaker 3: is attractive about you, that you keep yourself up. You

2130
01:31:38,479 --> 01:31:39,720
Speaker 3: don't how many men we don't have to sit on

2131
01:31:39,800 --> 01:31:42,480
Speaker 3: this couch. The blemishes, the dirty nails.

2132
01:31:42,280 --> 01:31:47,360
Speaker 2: The nails. Yeah, like you saying, it's very.

2133
01:31:47,400 --> 01:31:50,080
Speaker 1: Very important that you keep yourself up as fall feeding.

2134
01:31:50,160 --> 01:31:51,960
Speaker 1: I know you're be getting your clothes tailor.

2135
01:31:51,760 --> 01:31:56,519
Speaker 2: Yes already not I get waxed. Where where resilience? Whoa

2136
01:31:58,360 --> 01:32:00,479
Speaker 2: not should be having them legs to the moon. You

2137
01:32:00,880 --> 01:32:13,519
Speaker 2: know I don't have to. Let's know that's talked.

2138
01:32:15,479 --> 01:32:17,240
Speaker 5: Oh it's good because you know why because the older

2139
01:32:17,400 --> 01:32:21,519
Speaker 5: I get the hair down there just was getting rougher,

2140
01:32:22,040 --> 01:32:22,880
Speaker 5: you know what I'm saying.

2141
01:32:23,040 --> 01:32:25,320
Speaker 2: And it just felt it just didn't look right, and

2142
01:32:25,400 --> 01:32:27,560
Speaker 2: it just didn't feel right. And I'm like, Yo, this

2143
01:32:27,680 --> 01:32:28,040
Speaker 2: gotta go.

2144
01:32:28,520 --> 01:32:31,840
Speaker 1: I talked about this on the show. I found a

2145
01:32:31,960 --> 01:32:36,120
Speaker 1: gray coochie here I got. I found one one time

2146
01:32:36,160 --> 01:32:39,759
Speaker 1: and I said, it's gray down there, that it's gonna

2147
01:32:39,760 --> 01:32:40,280
Speaker 1: stay wig.

2148
01:32:41,240 --> 01:32:50,400
Speaker 2: It's wise, it is why learn a lot wisdom. Now

2149
01:32:50,680 --> 01:32:57,559
Speaker 2: it's time to get into the big bow. The bow bow.

2150
01:32:59,400 --> 01:33:03,559
Speaker 3: Okay and her usual y'all know this bit segment. It's

2151
01:33:03,600 --> 01:33:05,360
Speaker 3: brought to y'all by Salt X Sole.

2152
01:33:05,479 --> 01:33:07,960
Speaker 1: Y'all know we love from sawt X, so I always

2153
01:33:07,960 --> 01:33:09,720
Speaker 1: say I have been using salt XO for it at

2154
01:33:09,760 --> 01:33:11,479
Speaker 1: this point, probably about four years now.

2155
01:33:13,479 --> 01:33:15,560
Speaker 2: It's it's gonna get you where you need to be.

2156
01:33:15,800 --> 01:33:20,360
Speaker 2: It's feminine wash. But you know so it's just smell good.

2157
01:33:20,840 --> 01:33:23,920
Speaker 2: You wax that booty hole and you cleanna, it's.

2158
01:33:23,800 --> 01:33:26,960
Speaker 3: Gonna smell like your booty hole just took him in

2159
01:33:27,720 --> 01:33:29,040
Speaker 3: and it's gonna make it tingles.

2160
01:33:29,120 --> 01:33:32,120
Speaker 2: Yeah, okay, you like it. Yeah that t work Win's

2161
01:33:32,160 --> 01:33:36,240
Speaker 2: gonna smell good. So what because it does be funky,

2162
01:33:36,320 --> 01:33:39,639
Speaker 2: a little bit crazy, it's twork winding.

2163
01:33:39,680 --> 01:33:42,040
Speaker 5: Then it's the legging wind like y'all wear. When y'all

2164
01:33:42,040 --> 01:33:45,120
Speaker 5: wear leggings all day long, you go home and take

2165
01:33:45,160 --> 01:33:45,479
Speaker 5: them off.

2166
01:33:46,080 --> 01:33:47,880
Speaker 2: You used to call them a woof woof pants? Who

2167
01:33:49,439 --> 01:33:52,800
Speaker 2: like wo But see what sal x so, you ain't

2168
01:33:52,800 --> 01:33:53,679
Speaker 2: gonna have no wolf.

2169
01:33:54,320 --> 01:33:56,240
Speaker 1: And what I love about salt x so is that

2170
01:33:56,320 --> 01:33:58,600
Speaker 1: they have so many different kinds of aaginal washes. So

2171
01:33:58,680 --> 01:34:01,400
Speaker 1: they have the sensitive wite, they have the seedless one,

2172
01:34:01,640 --> 01:34:04,240
Speaker 1: and then they have the non seatless one as well. Personally,

2173
01:34:04,400 --> 01:34:06,840
Speaker 1: I love the seed less one, and I mean I

2174
01:34:06,960 --> 01:34:08,960
Speaker 1: like both of them. I like to interchange them. But

2175
01:34:09,240 --> 01:34:12,000
Speaker 1: they're really really good for your vagina. They're gonna keep

2176
01:34:12,040 --> 01:34:15,400
Speaker 1: everything pH balance. You know, you need to be balanced

2177
01:34:15,439 --> 01:34:17,559
Speaker 1: after you get off your period, after you have six

2178
01:34:17,680 --> 01:34:18,200
Speaker 1: and salt X.

2179
01:34:18,280 --> 01:34:19,280
Speaker 2: So it's gonna do that.

2180
01:34:19,360 --> 01:34:21,960
Speaker 3: Yeah, that gets it done. I like, I love salt X,

2181
01:34:22,000 --> 01:34:23,479
Speaker 3: so I keep it in my shower. And they got

2182
01:34:23,520 --> 01:34:24,280
Speaker 3: the travel size too.

2183
01:34:24,360 --> 01:34:25,880
Speaker 2: They have the trouble size too. So you know, we

2184
01:34:25,960 --> 01:34:27,679
Speaker 2: don't leave home without ear.

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Speaker 3: See how you like it? You know what I'm saying.

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01:34:31,880 --> 01:34:33,960
Speaker 3: So you can give a testament for the boys. Yes,

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01:34:34,400 --> 01:34:37,280
Speaker 3: all right, So the bad topic today. You've interviewed a

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01:34:37,360 --> 01:34:39,120
Speaker 3: lot of people, you know, and I know a lot

2189
01:34:39,160 --> 01:34:41,640
Speaker 3: of times people will pull up their spouse or you know,

2190
01:34:41,680 --> 01:34:43,920
Speaker 3: their partner will be with them. Have you ever seen

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01:34:43,960 --> 01:34:46,840
Speaker 3: a couple and just like wondered what their dynamic was

2192
01:34:46,920 --> 01:34:49,320
Speaker 3: in the bedroom or like, have you ever looked at

2193
01:34:49,320 --> 01:34:51,519
Speaker 3: a couple and be like, do y'all really be having six?

2194
01:34:51,640 --> 01:34:53,720
Speaker 3: Like there's no way that y'all be You know what

2195
01:34:53,760 --> 01:34:58,439
Speaker 3: I'm saying, Just be curious about it. So today loves

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01:34:58,479 --> 01:35:01,160
Speaker 3: to be a fly on the wall, on the wall anything.

2197
01:35:01,920 --> 01:35:05,600
Speaker 3: So we're gonna name some couples and you're gonna say, like,

2198
01:35:05,880 --> 01:35:07,760
Speaker 3: you know, if you were ever like what you think

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01:35:07,800 --> 01:35:08,280
Speaker 3: about them?

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01:35:09,200 --> 01:35:12,439
Speaker 2: If they were intimate or not. This is a new segment.

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01:35:12,479 --> 01:35:16,880
Speaker 2: I never heard this one bad. This is our sex topic,

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01:35:18,120 --> 01:35:28,320
Speaker 2: gay Charlot see this is the bad topic. Okay twenty eighteen. Okay, yes, so.

2203
01:35:28,640 --> 01:35:31,719
Speaker 4: Okay, but this particular segment is looking at topic.

2204
01:35:34,439 --> 01:35:35,080
Speaker 2: You know what I'm saying.

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01:35:35,760 --> 01:35:38,400
Speaker 3: So, uh, first, I'm gonna skip through some of these

2206
01:35:38,479 --> 01:35:41,840
Speaker 3: couples because we're not gonna I'm gonna name a couple,

2207
01:35:42,439 --> 01:35:43,520
Speaker 3: Oprah and Steadman.

2208
01:35:43,880 --> 01:35:47,000
Speaker 2: What I thought about ot the day in my life.

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01:35:48,720 --> 01:35:49,559
Speaker 2: You know what I think.

2210
01:35:49,920 --> 01:35:52,280
Speaker 3: I think people always think that Stedman be laying it

2211
01:35:52,360 --> 01:35:54,559
Speaker 3: down because Oprah just you know, But I think it's

2212
01:35:54,560 --> 01:35:55,400
Speaker 3: the other way around.

2213
01:35:55,439 --> 01:35:57,920
Speaker 2: You think related down. And that's why he's like, you

2214
01:35:57,960 --> 01:35:59,599
Speaker 2: know what, we don't have to get married. I won't

2215
01:35:59,600 --> 01:36:01,920
Speaker 2: even I won't even do nothing.

2216
01:36:02,040 --> 01:36:04,160
Speaker 5: To me, they seem like a couple that just enjoys

2217
01:36:04,200 --> 01:36:07,000
Speaker 5: each other's conversation, you know what I'm saying.

2218
01:36:07,120 --> 01:36:08,640
Speaker 2: Like they like being around.

2219
01:36:08,360 --> 01:36:12,040
Speaker 5: Each other, like you know, traveling together things, but they

2220
01:36:12,040 --> 01:36:15,880
Speaker 5: they ain't necessarily like you know, getting drunk, getting high

2221
01:36:15,960 --> 01:36:16,800
Speaker 5: and like going at it.

2222
01:36:17,120 --> 01:36:20,360
Speaker 2: I don't think that even for you least suspects. Really,

2223
01:36:20,720 --> 01:36:21,439
Speaker 2: that's what I think.

2224
01:36:21,880 --> 01:36:23,560
Speaker 3: I don't even think that it's like crazy like that.

2225
01:36:23,680 --> 01:36:26,360
Speaker 3: But I think Oprah probably is a little more dominant,

2226
01:36:26,400 --> 01:36:26,880
Speaker 3: that's all.

2227
01:36:26,760 --> 01:36:29,479
Speaker 2: I mean, you think she'd be saying Yeah, that.

2228
01:36:29,560 --> 01:36:31,519
Speaker 3: Though nothing because I've been taking niggas through there.

2229
01:36:32,320 --> 01:36:35,240
Speaker 4: That's actually what men want exactly, like men want women

2230
01:36:35,320 --> 01:36:39,320
Speaker 4: to take charge. Yeah, that that thing that always will

2231
01:36:39,360 --> 01:36:40,760
Speaker 4: viral what you're talking about parking the car.

2232
01:36:42,240 --> 01:36:45,080
Speaker 2: I want you, That's what I'm saying. I need you

2233
01:36:45,160 --> 01:36:46,479
Speaker 2: to be the leader in the bedroom.

2234
01:36:46,680 --> 01:36:49,400
Speaker 5: Go be the leader, you know, let me like I

2235
01:36:49,439 --> 01:36:51,519
Speaker 5: can probably start it off, but at some point take

2236
01:36:51,560 --> 01:36:52,360
Speaker 5: the goddamn will.

2237
01:36:52,520 --> 01:36:53,719
Speaker 2: Yeah you got to sometimes.

2238
01:36:53,880 --> 01:36:56,880
Speaker 5: Yeah, I don't mind that because men aren't mind readers,

2239
01:36:57,320 --> 01:37:00,519
Speaker 5: and men really want to please women, and women know

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01:37:00,760 --> 01:37:02,479
Speaker 5: what it is they need to be pleased.

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01:37:02,560 --> 01:37:05,400
Speaker 2: So guide me, bro. I'm not mad at that. I'm not.

2242
01:37:07,200 --> 01:37:10,160
Speaker 1: Who else we got Whitney and Bobby Now back when

2243
01:37:10,200 --> 01:37:12,320
Speaker 1: they had that reality show I did used to be like.

2244
01:37:14,400 --> 01:37:20,599
Speaker 2: They had that Wild Crack six. Probably it's Kidney Studio

2245
01:37:20,720 --> 01:37:27,320
Speaker 2: fifty four nineteen. Yeah, I I never.

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01:37:27,280 --> 01:37:29,880
Speaker 4: Thought about it, but that probably was. Yeah, that's probably.

2247
01:37:30,400 --> 01:37:34,599
Speaker 3: That's the crazy, you know, swinging across the bedroom, stopping

2248
01:37:34,680 --> 01:37:37,720
Speaker 3: for an intermission to have some rocks and continuing on.

2249
01:37:38,080 --> 01:37:39,200
Speaker 2: You know what I'm saying, we don't.

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Speaker 5: Give Bobby and Whitney enough credit for tearing down the

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01:37:42,320 --> 01:37:45,640
Speaker 5: veil that used to be up for celebrity. Yeah, you

2252
01:37:45,720 --> 01:37:48,720
Speaker 5: know what I'm saying, Because I don't this generation may

2253
01:37:48,800 --> 01:37:50,960
Speaker 5: not realize that there was a period. Well, Bobby Brown

2254
01:37:51,439 --> 01:37:54,360
Speaker 5: was the biggest R and B star in the world,

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01:37:54,400 --> 01:37:56,200
Speaker 5: one of the biggest acts in the world.

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01:37:56,560 --> 01:37:56,880
Speaker 2: Period.

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01:37:56,960 --> 01:37:58,559
Speaker 4: This's got so five million records off.

2258
01:37:58,600 --> 01:38:01,240
Speaker 5: Don't be cruel Like he was on Ghostbuster two soundtrack.

2259
01:38:01,280 --> 01:38:04,000
Speaker 5: He was in Ghostbusters playing the Custodius. Whitney Houston was

2260
01:38:04,080 --> 01:38:08,360
Speaker 5: the biggest star in the world. So, I mean, the

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01:38:08,400 --> 01:38:09,800
Speaker 5: only thing I could probably compare it to is like

2262
01:38:10,200 --> 01:38:13,080
Speaker 5: Chris Brown and Rihanna when they was initially together. Right,

2263
01:38:13,320 --> 01:38:16,599
Speaker 5: But but imagine Chris Brown and Rihanna having the success

2264
01:38:16,760 --> 01:38:19,160
Speaker 5: that they both went on to have and being together.

2265
01:38:19,680 --> 01:38:22,120
Speaker 4: That's what Bobby and Whitney was. And like when they

2266
01:38:22,200 --> 01:38:23,200
Speaker 4: did the reality.

2267
01:38:22,880 --> 01:38:25,040
Speaker 5: Showing stuff, it was like, oh my god, people don't

2268
01:38:25,040 --> 01:38:27,160
Speaker 5: got to be perfect no more. Like you can be flawed,

2269
01:38:27,320 --> 01:38:29,240
Speaker 5: you know, you can just show up as yourself. When

2270
01:38:29,280 --> 01:38:31,400
Speaker 5: Whitney called Windy and cursed her out on the radio,

2271
01:38:31,479 --> 01:38:34,760
Speaker 5: it's like, damn, Whitney Houston curses fucking right, she's from

2272
01:38:34,840 --> 01:38:36,920
Speaker 5: Jersey niggas like so, yes, they don't get.

2273
01:38:36,880 --> 01:38:39,120
Speaker 2: Enough credit for, like, you know, being pioneer.

2274
01:38:39,280 --> 01:38:41,519
Speaker 5: Being pineer isn't just tearing down that veil and just

2275
01:38:41,600 --> 01:38:43,120
Speaker 5: showing you that you can just be yourself.

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01:38:43,439 --> 01:38:45,920
Speaker 2: Whitney kind of read down in a nice, nasty way,

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01:38:46,000 --> 01:38:48,600
Speaker 2: was it, Diane Sawyer Whitney Houston, Oh no, it was.

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01:38:49,880 --> 01:38:50,479
Speaker 2: That's what she said.

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01:38:50,479 --> 01:38:56,400
Speaker 4: Crackers, Yeah, she said, I don't do no crack crackers.

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01:38:57,000 --> 01:38:59,280
Speaker 2: Crack is cheap, is cheap cheek.

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01:38:59,439 --> 01:39:01,720
Speaker 3: That's what it was, is what it was, speaking of

2282
01:39:01,840 --> 01:39:04,479
Speaker 3: crackheads and crack Sean and Blue Face.

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01:39:05,000 --> 01:39:10,840
Speaker 7: Yep, I ain't anybody had I never thought about bluetooth,

2284
01:39:12,000 --> 01:39:13,840
Speaker 7: what you call the bluetooth.

2285
01:39:14,800 --> 01:39:17,000
Speaker 2: Because it's blue and tooth.

2286
01:39:18,120 --> 01:39:31,240
Speaker 4: Look at his t can fight.

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01:39:32,200 --> 01:39:36,640
Speaker 2: She canabble now, she can squabble. I'm not gonna lie.

2288
01:39:36,640 --> 01:39:37,519
Speaker 2: I've never thought about that.

2289
01:39:37,800 --> 01:39:41,719
Speaker 3: I was honestly shocked when she, you know, became pregnant

2290
01:39:41,760 --> 01:39:43,680
Speaker 3: and all that stuff going on, because I thought it

2291
01:39:43,800 --> 01:39:46,599
Speaker 3: was just like a thing for his show to promote,

2292
01:39:46,600 --> 01:39:49,000
Speaker 3: because you know, blue Face quiet as his kept, he

2293
01:39:49,160 --> 01:39:51,200
Speaker 3: was the one that really brought the bad girl stuff.

2294
01:39:51,320 --> 01:39:54,760
Speaker 3: Back before they had batties and stuff, Blue Face had

2295
01:39:54,800 --> 01:39:56,400
Speaker 3: like set up cameras in his house and had a

2296
01:39:56,439 --> 01:39:58,880
Speaker 3: whole bunch of girls moving to this mansion. And that's

2297
01:39:58,920 --> 01:40:01,599
Speaker 3: what started all the reb food of the baddies. Yeah,

2298
01:40:01,720 --> 01:40:04,080
Speaker 3: and that's when the world was introduced to Kashawn. So

2299
01:40:04,280 --> 01:40:06,200
Speaker 3: when they first got together, I just thought it was

2300
01:40:06,400 --> 01:40:09,559
Speaker 3: for to promote his ship. So no, I'm not gonna lie.

2301
01:40:09,560 --> 01:40:12,680
Speaker 3: I've never thought about their dynamic in the bedroom. And

2302
01:40:12,800 --> 01:40:14,479
Speaker 3: he's a little thick now, I just want.

2303
01:40:14,400 --> 01:40:15,840
Speaker 2: To direct show. I've never thought about none of these

2304
01:40:15,840 --> 01:40:20,160
Speaker 2: people's dynamics in the bedroom. Okay, it's interesting. You know.

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01:40:20,280 --> 01:40:23,679
Speaker 1: I have one for Legs Okay, Tyler Perry and anyone,

2306
01:40:24,479 --> 01:40:27,640
Speaker 1: because Leg said I think about that a lot with

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01:40:27,760 --> 01:40:29,040
Speaker 1: Tyler Perry with the medias.

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01:40:29,160 --> 01:40:34,840
Speaker 3: Absolutely still would yeah, Face, Yeah, I still I.

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01:40:36,560 --> 01:40:38,920
Speaker 2: Still think about that a lot. Mm hmm.

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01:40:39,040 --> 01:40:39,759
Speaker 4: That's kind of fire.

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01:40:39,920 --> 01:40:42,519
Speaker 3: I like, I'm into a little role play, you know

2312
01:40:42,560 --> 01:40:44,920
Speaker 3: what I'm saying. I can imagine I'm gonna have him saying,

2313
01:40:45,040 --> 01:40:46,800
Speaker 3: Lord have mercy and little boys.

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01:40:46,920 --> 01:40:49,120
Speaker 2: So you don't like real CD, but you like fake TV,

2315
01:40:49,439 --> 01:40:53,519
Speaker 2: ill do a little fact TV. I like yo titties Oh,

2316
01:41:01,000 --> 01:41:02,519
Speaker 2: I'm kidding. I'm with.

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01:41:05,600 --> 01:41:08,880
Speaker 4: You, don't but with my dead it wouldn't be about

2318
01:41:08,880 --> 01:41:10,360
Speaker 4: to suit. It's about what that skirt.

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01:41:10,640 --> 01:41:10,920
Speaker 7: I know.

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01:41:11,120 --> 01:41:13,000
Speaker 3: That's what I'm saying. I think Tyler working with a

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01:41:13,040 --> 01:41:16,240
Speaker 3: little something. That's what I'm saying. I always think about

2322
01:41:16,280 --> 01:41:17,919
Speaker 3: Tyler and what he does in his bedroom.

2323
01:41:18,000 --> 01:41:25,360
Speaker 4: I do, mister Brown, pop out, you be like, gods.

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01:41:26,240 --> 01:41:30,160
Speaker 2: That's when I quit. But honestly, I would.

2325
01:41:30,360 --> 01:41:32,880
Speaker 3: I'm so interested to see what a lot of like

2326
01:41:33,520 --> 01:41:37,000
Speaker 3: extremely extremely wealthy like once you're getting that billionaire like,

2327
01:41:37,360 --> 01:41:39,000
Speaker 3: I'm not gonna lie he's not on the list, but

2328
01:41:39,160 --> 01:41:41,800
Speaker 3: like Jeff Bezos because you know his wife is a

2329
01:41:41,880 --> 01:41:44,760
Speaker 3: baddie and you know she has a track record, like

2330
01:41:45,240 --> 01:41:48,479
Speaker 3: she's always dated men, men like a lot of money.

2331
01:41:48,720 --> 01:41:50,240
Speaker 2: So what are you saying? Under what you're saying, I'm

2332
01:41:50,280 --> 01:41:52,519
Speaker 2: just interested in what they do in the bed.

2333
01:41:54,240 --> 01:41:55,880
Speaker 4: In the bedroom, okay, you want to see what they

2334
01:41:55,880 --> 01:41:56,280
Speaker 4: did look like?

2335
01:41:56,400 --> 01:41:59,680
Speaker 2: I think, yeah, just hitting fun and we're want to

2336
01:41:59,720 --> 01:42:02,400
Speaker 2: coat you. She got some time Jeff Bezos down.

2337
01:42:03,080 --> 01:42:05,599
Speaker 1: Sometimes billionaires scare me because I feel like it's given

2338
01:42:05,720 --> 01:42:06,400
Speaker 1: squeet gang.

2339
01:42:06,920 --> 01:42:08,519
Speaker 2: Yeah, it's too freaky over there.

2340
01:42:08,720 --> 01:42:11,400
Speaker 5: What y'all do realize what y'all have is priceless, right, Like,

2341
01:42:11,680 --> 01:42:14,440
Speaker 5: you know, it don't matter what your your your financial

2342
01:42:14,479 --> 01:42:18,640
Speaker 5: status is. Men want a bad woman, men want the

2343
01:42:18,680 --> 01:42:21,960
Speaker 5: boompoom like it don't matter like you, women don't even

2344
01:42:22,040 --> 01:42:23,040
Speaker 5: have to be in any.

2345
01:42:22,960 --> 01:42:25,760
Speaker 2: Financial status to bag a billionaire. That is true.

2346
01:42:25,920 --> 01:42:28,519
Speaker 4: Women just got to show up and be fine.

2347
01:42:29,080 --> 01:42:32,639
Speaker 2: She got like what she got too and still pulled

2348
01:42:32,680 --> 01:42:36,360
Speaker 2: Jeff Bezos. It don't matter because yeah, and it's probably good.

2349
01:42:36,640 --> 01:42:39,120
Speaker 2: You know, it's good the bag a billionaire.

2350
01:42:41,760 --> 01:42:43,080
Speaker 4: Or are you just want company?

2351
01:42:43,200 --> 01:42:43,360
Speaker 8: You know?

2352
01:42:43,920 --> 01:42:46,400
Speaker 5: Like og Kevin Low always talk about. Just Kevin Law

2353
01:42:46,560 --> 01:42:48,120
Speaker 5: said to me a long time ago, he said, look,

2354
01:42:48,160 --> 01:42:50,960
Speaker 5: I can't tell you to get married. We'll find somebody

2355
01:42:51,080 --> 01:42:54,519
Speaker 5: to share your life experiences. He told me this fourteen

2356
01:42:54,600 --> 01:42:56,320
Speaker 5: years ago. He said, I know where your life is going.

2357
01:42:57,120 --> 01:42:59,160
Speaker 5: We all know what you're about to do, he said,

2358
01:42:59,280 --> 01:43:00,639
Speaker 5: find somebody to share your.

2359
01:43:00,640 --> 01:43:01,560
Speaker 2: Life experiences with.

2360
01:43:02,000 --> 01:43:03,920
Speaker 5: I think I think that's what these billionaires are really

2361
01:43:04,000 --> 01:43:06,160
Speaker 5: looking for, that companionship.

2362
01:43:07,280 --> 01:43:08,679
Speaker 2: I think that's success in general.

2363
01:43:08,800 --> 01:43:11,759
Speaker 1: I think that's all success is about, especially like obviously

2364
01:43:11,840 --> 01:43:15,720
Speaker 1: we're nowhere near being billionaires, but just becoming more successful

2365
01:43:15,760 --> 01:43:17,840
Speaker 1: over the years. I think one of the main things

2366
01:43:17,880 --> 01:43:20,000
Speaker 1: that I just want in life is to find somebody

2367
01:43:20,120 --> 01:43:23,479
Speaker 1: that you can enjoy it with and experiencing and that

2368
01:43:23,640 --> 01:43:24,679
Speaker 1: y'all are equally old.

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01:43:24,920 --> 01:43:27,360
Speaker 5: Yeah, and it's gonna be tough for y'all because Eddie

2370
01:43:27,520 --> 01:43:31,040
Speaker 5: as y'all continue to have success as y'all stars continue

2371
01:43:31,120 --> 01:43:34,240
Speaker 5: to grow. Guys are groupies too, So you're not gonna

2372
01:43:34,280 --> 01:43:36,719
Speaker 5: know who want to be with you because they actually

2373
01:43:36,960 --> 01:43:38,320
Speaker 5: like you, or who want to be with you just

2374
01:43:38,400 --> 01:43:40,599
Speaker 5: because they like the look that they get from being

2375
01:43:40,720 --> 01:43:43,280
Speaker 5: with you know, dread and leux or.

2376
01:43:43,640 --> 01:43:47,640
Speaker 3: To they be intimidated that too. You come across a

2377
01:43:47,680 --> 01:43:49,200
Speaker 3: lot of guys like that too, who is like.

2378
01:43:49,240 --> 01:43:51,519
Speaker 1: Initially they like dating you or they want to date

2379
01:43:51,560 --> 01:43:54,120
Speaker 1: you because they're drawing to the light and once they

2380
01:43:54,160 --> 01:43:56,800
Speaker 1: get around, they're like, this comes to a live show.

2381
01:43:56,920 --> 01:43:58,320
Speaker 4: Yeah, they come to a live show and see all

2382
01:43:58,360 --> 01:43:59,200
Speaker 4: the attention y'all get.

2383
01:43:59,360 --> 01:44:03,960
Speaker 2: Yeah, I see y'all all of the guys. No, you

2384
01:44:04,000 --> 01:44:05,640
Speaker 2: don't got no rich friends you want to hook me up?

2385
01:44:05,840 --> 01:44:06,599
Speaker 4: I don't play that game.

2386
01:44:06,640 --> 01:44:08,240
Speaker 5: The reason I don't play that game because I don't

2387
01:44:08,240 --> 01:44:09,599
Speaker 5: want to be responsible for nothing.

2388
01:44:09,800 --> 01:44:11,719
Speaker 2: I'm not gonna say nothing, no, no, no, I'm.

2389
01:44:11,600 --> 01:44:13,720
Speaker 5: Just saying in general, because if things go good, I

2390
01:44:14,360 --> 01:44:16,280
Speaker 5: won't talk to you about it. If things go bad,

2391
01:44:16,479 --> 01:44:18,599
Speaker 5: then now you look at me crazy, because it's one

2392
01:44:18,640 --> 01:44:20,720
Speaker 5: thing to have a homie, that's cool, right, but it's

2393
01:44:20,720 --> 01:44:23,400
Speaker 5: another to be like y'all. I think y'all should connect.

2394
01:44:24,000 --> 01:44:26,559
Speaker 5: I don't know what this man beyond in relationships. Man

2395
01:44:26,640 --> 01:44:27,879
Speaker 5: might be a terrible boyfriend.

2396
01:44:27,920 --> 01:44:31,360
Speaker 2: And that's okay. We're gonna try again, so I leave

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Speaker 2: that a little more. Okay, that's understandable. That's understandable.

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Speaker 7: All right, y'all let us know how y'all feel about

2399
01:44:36,600 --> 01:44:40,040
Speaker 7: those couples and their dynamics in the bedroom. Okay, now

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01:44:40,080 --> 01:44:43,880
Speaker 7: we're moving on. Now it's time to get into the

2401
01:44:44,040 --> 01:44:49,800
Speaker 7: bop the bay all the bob bow bow bow bow bow.

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01:44:50,320 --> 01:44:52,040
Speaker 2: Y'all got a real show. You know what I'm saying?

2403
01:44:52,479 --> 01:44:55,200
Speaker 2: How far you're trying to get down? Undred million? For real?

2404
01:44:55,920 --> 01:44:57,640
Speaker 4: That I saw y'all talking about that.

2405
01:44:57,960 --> 01:45:00,479
Speaker 3: Yeah, we're trying to giddy, we're trying to you know

2406
01:45:00,520 --> 01:45:02,880
Speaker 3: what I'm saying, What I feel about the right people?

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01:45:04,160 --> 01:45:06,639
Speaker 2: Yeah? No, no, for real.

2408
01:45:06,880 --> 01:45:07,839
Speaker 4: You know what's so interesting?

2409
01:45:08,000 --> 01:45:13,080
Speaker 5: I saw that conversation, and I think the reason it

2410
01:45:13,200 --> 01:45:16,760
Speaker 5: hasn't happened for black people yet it's just it's just

2411
01:45:16,800 --> 01:45:19,000
Speaker 5: a numbers game, you know what I'm saying. Like, you know,

2412
01:45:19,040 --> 01:45:21,040
Speaker 5: a lot of these podcasts that have gotten these big

2413
01:45:21,120 --> 01:45:24,640
Speaker 5: deals just simply look at their numbers, like like like

2414
01:45:25,040 --> 01:45:27,080
Speaker 5: you I hate when people compare themselves to Joe Rogan.

2415
01:45:27,120 --> 01:45:30,800
Speaker 5: Joe Rogan is like an anomaly, like as far as

2416
01:45:30,880 --> 01:45:34,439
Speaker 5: audio downloads and you know, his video views. Like you know,

2417
01:45:34,479 --> 01:45:36,400
Speaker 5: when you looked at the numbers he was doing prior

2418
01:45:36,520 --> 01:45:39,320
Speaker 5: to his deal with Spotify, it made all the sense

2419
01:45:39,320 --> 01:45:41,400
Speaker 5: in the world. Whise Spotify, you know, cut him that

2420
01:45:41,479 --> 01:45:44,479
Speaker 5: kind of check. Same thing with the call out Daddy, right,

2421
01:45:44,640 --> 01:45:47,240
Speaker 5: like you know. But also the other thing that people

2422
01:45:47,560 --> 01:45:50,160
Speaker 5: don't think about is a lot of these shows are

2423
01:45:50,240 --> 01:45:52,160
Speaker 5: connected to networks.

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01:45:52,240 --> 01:45:55,439
Speaker 2: Like Bill Simmons, you know, did his deal with The Ringer, I.

2425
01:45:55,439 --> 01:45:56,679
Speaker 4: Mean, did his deal with Spotify.

2426
01:45:56,960 --> 01:45:58,800
Speaker 2: He had a network, you know, the Ringer.

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01:45:58,840 --> 01:46:01,320
Speaker 5: When you look at like SmartLess, right, SmartLess is another

2428
01:46:01,320 --> 01:46:02,920
Speaker 5: one who's done a couple of those deals. They have

2429
01:46:03,120 --> 01:46:06,280
Speaker 5: SmartLess Media, right, So like a lot of these shows

2430
01:46:06,479 --> 01:46:09,280
Speaker 5: are you know, also have networks. Even to call her

2431
01:46:09,360 --> 01:46:11,400
Speaker 5: Daddy called her Daddy has like three or four shows

2432
01:46:12,800 --> 01:46:13,240
Speaker 5: to her as well.

2433
01:46:13,240 --> 01:46:15,920
Speaker 4: And one of the mother shows is is popping right now.

2434
01:46:16,040 --> 01:46:18,000
Speaker 5: So I just think that it's it's just the number

2435
01:46:18,080 --> 01:46:19,920
Speaker 5: of the numbers game, and I think it's really just

2436
01:46:20,400 --> 01:46:22,679
Speaker 5: a matter of time. Yeah, you know, And you gotta

2437
01:46:22,720 --> 01:46:28,240
Speaker 5: be careful with those kind of deals, you know, because

2438
01:46:28,280 --> 01:46:29,400
Speaker 5: because when you it's fun.

2439
01:46:29,520 --> 01:46:30,720
Speaker 4: When you said that, I was sitting back.

2440
01:46:30,840 --> 01:46:32,160
Speaker 5: I saw you say it on Joe Budden Show, and

2441
01:46:32,200 --> 01:46:33,519
Speaker 5: I was watching it and I was just like, Okay,

2442
01:46:33,880 --> 01:46:35,639
Speaker 5: she's she's I see what they're saying.

2443
01:46:35,920 --> 01:46:38,400
Speaker 4: And then I thought to myself, like, you know, I've.

2444
01:46:38,920 --> 01:46:41,760
Speaker 5: I've turned down a deal like five years ago, you know,

2445
01:46:41,840 --> 01:46:43,240
Speaker 5: I mean, and the reason I turned down the deal

2446
01:46:43,360 --> 01:46:47,160
Speaker 5: is because I wasn't willing to do what it is

2447
01:46:47,320 --> 01:46:50,200
Speaker 5: they wanted me to do and for what I wanted

2448
01:46:50,240 --> 01:46:52,479
Speaker 5: the vision I had for myself, especially with you know,

2449
01:46:52,880 --> 01:46:57,920
Speaker 5: the Black Effect podcast network, it didn't fit that vision

2450
01:46:58,160 --> 01:47:00,400
Speaker 5: like they want. They were willing to part with me

2451
01:47:00,520 --> 01:47:02,800
Speaker 5: on a network, but it wasn't like no real ownership

2452
01:47:03,200 --> 01:47:05,080
Speaker 5: or no real equity, so it was more of a

2453
01:47:05,680 --> 01:47:08,280
Speaker 5: vanity place. So yeah, you might have got this really

2454
01:47:08,439 --> 01:47:11,719
Speaker 5: big bag, But then over the last five years, would

2455
01:47:11,720 --> 01:47:15,360
Speaker 5: I have been able to, you know, assist so many

2456
01:47:15,479 --> 01:47:18,599
Speaker 5: other people, like how we've done with black Effects.

2457
01:47:18,720 --> 01:47:21,360
Speaker 1: What we talk about that, well, I was just gonna say,

2458
01:47:21,400 --> 01:47:23,120
Speaker 1: we talk about that all the time because that's like

2459
01:47:23,200 --> 01:47:25,800
Speaker 1: a big thing to me as well. Just if we

2460
01:47:25,960 --> 01:47:27,760
Speaker 1: do end up getting a major deal, or let me

2461
01:47:27,840 --> 01:47:30,320
Speaker 1: not say if when we do. When when we do,

2462
01:47:31,240 --> 01:47:34,040
Speaker 1: I want to still be able to keep the integrity

2463
01:47:34,200 --> 01:47:37,879
Speaker 1: of the podcast, Like I wanted to still be Poor Minds.

2464
01:47:38,000 --> 01:47:40,280
Speaker 1: I wanted to still be the vision that Lex and

2465
01:47:40,360 --> 01:47:42,000
Speaker 1: I have And I think a lot of the time

2466
01:47:42,080 --> 01:47:45,439
Speaker 1: when you do sign with these major platforms, they wanted

2467
01:47:45,520 --> 01:47:47,880
Speaker 1: to look how they wanted to look, and then you

2468
01:47:48,040 --> 01:47:50,280
Speaker 1: no longer really control the narrative. And then I was

2469
01:47:50,360 --> 01:47:54,080
Speaker 1: also having a conversation with one of our old agents from.

2470
01:47:54,080 --> 01:47:56,600
Speaker 2: UTA and she was just basically.

2471
01:47:56,400 --> 01:47:58,360
Speaker 1: Like will because I told her we want to keep

2472
01:47:58,439 --> 01:48:00,880
Speaker 1: majority of the IP and she was like, well, that's

2473
01:48:00,920 --> 01:48:03,960
Speaker 1: going to be hard to do realistically. Well, she was

2474
01:48:04,040 --> 01:48:06,840
Speaker 1: like with those with the type of platforms that we

2475
01:48:06,960 --> 01:48:08,519
Speaker 1: want to get a deal from, she was like, I

2476
01:48:08,640 --> 01:48:10,439
Speaker 1: just feel like that's going to be hard to do,

2477
01:48:11,000 --> 01:48:12,800
Speaker 1: but you can always create more IP.

2478
01:48:13,080 --> 01:48:14,920
Speaker 2: She was like, so you really want IP to be

2479
01:48:15,000 --> 01:48:18,479
Speaker 2: the reason why you don't sign a little.

2480
01:48:18,280 --> 01:48:20,559
Speaker 5: Bit because you think yeah, because most of these people

2481
01:48:20,560 --> 01:48:23,240
Speaker 5: are doing they're doing licensing deals. You know what I'm saying,

2482
01:48:23,360 --> 01:48:25,080
Speaker 5: Like most of the people are doing licensing deals, and

2483
01:48:25,080 --> 01:48:27,920
Speaker 5: when they're with their term is up, they everything comes

2484
01:48:27,960 --> 01:48:29,920
Speaker 5: back to them. Like you know, you while you might

2485
01:48:30,080 --> 01:48:33,360
Speaker 5: while you're with that company, you know they'll have some

2486
01:48:33,520 --> 01:48:35,599
Speaker 5: rights to the IP, but you know when you out

2487
01:48:35,680 --> 01:48:38,720
Speaker 5: of that deal, the IP comes right back to you.

2488
01:48:39,200 --> 01:48:42,120
Speaker 2: I wasn't going yeah, because I thought you're selling it

2489
01:48:42,200 --> 01:48:42,439
Speaker 2: to them.

2490
01:48:42,520 --> 01:48:45,479
Speaker 1: Like if somebody is giving you seventy million dollars one

2491
01:48:45,600 --> 01:48:48,400
Speaker 1: hundred million dollars, I thought you're giving them your IP,

2492
01:48:48,600 --> 01:48:50,439
Speaker 1: and then you no longer have any ownership.

2493
01:48:50,520 --> 01:48:52,080
Speaker 5: I mean, if you if you if that's the type

2494
01:48:52,120 --> 01:48:53,720
Speaker 5: of deal you do, you know what I mean? But

2495
01:48:53,760 --> 01:48:55,640
Speaker 5: if you're and that's the beauty of the space that

2496
01:48:55,760 --> 01:48:59,120
Speaker 5: we're in, right, Like poor minds can get to a

2497
01:48:59,240 --> 01:49:03,040
Speaker 5: point where you call your own shots. Like if I'm

2498
01:49:03,080 --> 01:49:05,240
Speaker 5: coming to you as a company, why would I try

2499
01:49:05,280 --> 01:49:07,800
Speaker 5: to change the integrity of what it is that y'all do.

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01:49:08,320 --> 01:49:10,439
Speaker 5: I want to partner with y'all because of what it

2501
01:49:10,600 --> 01:49:12,639
Speaker 5: is that y'all do. Like, you know, the company didn't

2502
01:49:12,880 --> 01:49:14,479
Speaker 5: it definitely didn't want me to change who I am.

2503
01:49:14,520 --> 01:49:16,000
Speaker 5: They wanted me to be who I am. But it

2504
01:49:16,120 --> 01:49:18,800
Speaker 5: was the integrity of the business that I was more

2505
01:49:18,840 --> 01:49:20,200
Speaker 5: concerned about because I had a vision.

2506
01:49:20,200 --> 01:49:20,760
Speaker 4: I had a vision.

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01:49:20,960 --> 01:49:23,320
Speaker 5: I want to create this Black Effect podcast network to

2508
01:49:23,360 --> 01:49:26,559
Speaker 5: where we are empowering all of these you know, different

2509
01:49:26,600 --> 01:49:28,920
Speaker 5: black creatives and being able to assist all these different

2510
01:49:29,040 --> 01:49:31,160
Speaker 5: you know, black creatives. That's what I wanted to do.

2511
01:49:31,520 --> 01:49:35,000
Speaker 5: They wanted like first right or refusal, and like, you know,

2512
01:49:35,120 --> 01:49:37,400
Speaker 5: we want to partner with a poor mind, Like, oh,

2513
01:49:37,479 --> 01:49:39,560
Speaker 5: we don't really like the content and poor mind, I

2514
01:49:39,600 --> 01:49:40,320
Speaker 5: don't want to go through that.

2515
01:49:40,439 --> 01:49:42,599
Speaker 4: I want to we want to partner with poor minds.

2516
01:49:43,040 --> 01:49:45,080
Speaker 2: Let's get that makes sense.

2517
01:49:45,400 --> 01:49:47,120
Speaker 3: What do you think about Netflix getting in on the

2518
01:49:47,160 --> 01:49:49,200
Speaker 3: podcast and stuff now with Spotify?

2519
01:49:50,200 --> 01:49:55,320
Speaker 5: It's interesting because I don't look at what they're doing

2520
01:49:55,520 --> 01:50:00,760
Speaker 5: is necessarily podcasting, Like podcasting is an audio medium that

2521
01:50:00,920 --> 01:50:04,200
Speaker 5: can also be consumed in a video format, but the

2522
01:50:04,320 --> 01:50:07,000
Speaker 5: video format is that's it's really something different, Like what

2523
01:50:07,080 --> 01:50:09,920
Speaker 5: they're watching right now is something different as opposed to

2524
01:50:09,960 --> 01:50:12,240
Speaker 5: the experience you get when you're listening. And if you

2525
01:50:12,320 --> 01:50:14,639
Speaker 5: look at a lot of people's you know, audio video ratio,

2526
01:50:14,760 --> 01:50:18,040
Speaker 5: the audio numbers still you know, dominate. For the most part,

2527
01:50:18,120 --> 01:50:20,040
Speaker 5: I think it's dope that Netflix is doing it because

2528
01:50:20,080 --> 01:50:24,599
Speaker 5: I think that it just continues the what's the word

2529
01:50:24,600 --> 01:50:29,679
Speaker 5: I'm looking for, valid I'm validate, contin use to validate,

2530
01:50:31,720 --> 01:50:33,040
Speaker 5: continue to validate the podcast.

2531
01:50:33,200 --> 01:50:33,720
Speaker 2: You know what I'm saying.

2532
01:50:33,720 --> 01:50:36,240
Speaker 4: It brings it gets v validity to the podcast.

2533
01:50:36,840 --> 01:50:38,240
Speaker 2: Face. I like it.

2534
01:50:38,600 --> 01:50:41,479
Speaker 4: I don't know if everybody should be taking this.

2535
01:50:41,479 --> 01:50:44,240
Speaker 5: Stuff off YouTube, though, because I think if Netflix wants

2536
01:50:44,320 --> 01:50:48,280
Speaker 5: to compete with YouTube, then they should understand why people

2537
01:50:48,439 --> 01:50:49,760
Speaker 5: go to YouTube to begin with.

2538
01:50:49,880 --> 01:50:51,760
Speaker 2: The reason people go to YouTube.

2539
01:50:51,720 --> 01:50:53,720
Speaker 5: Is because of all the virality, right, Like I might

2540
01:50:53,760 --> 01:50:56,960
Speaker 5: be on Instagram, our X, our Facebook and see a

2541
01:50:57,000 --> 01:50:58,959
Speaker 5: clip of Poor Minds, and then it'll.

2542
01:50:58,720 --> 01:50:59,800
Speaker 4: Make me be like, oh, let me go watch the

2543
01:50:59,840 --> 01:51:00,519
Speaker 4: whole episode.

2544
01:51:00,640 --> 01:51:03,040
Speaker 5: Yeah, you know what I'm saying, Like, if your Netflix,

2545
01:51:03,160 --> 01:51:06,479
Speaker 5: you should also want that. You should want these you know,

2546
01:51:06,840 --> 01:51:10,240
Speaker 5: shows that you're partnering with to still have presence on

2547
01:51:10,560 --> 01:51:13,600
Speaker 5: all these different platforms and then just you know, just

2548
01:51:13,680 --> 01:51:16,200
Speaker 5: like we do on weekends or at least me, if

2549
01:51:16,240 --> 01:51:18,080
Speaker 5: I'm home, I might turn on YouTube to watch the

2550
01:51:18,120 --> 01:51:18,559
Speaker 5: whole thing.

2551
01:51:18,640 --> 01:51:21,640
Speaker 4: If it could be the same thing with Netflix.

2552
01:51:21,360 --> 01:51:24,080
Speaker 3: Hm, I never thought of it that way because I

2553
01:51:24,120 --> 01:51:26,720
Speaker 3: always looked at it like, you know, if we did

2554
01:51:26,920 --> 01:51:29,639
Speaker 3: like just hypothetically speaking like if we did someone Netflix,

2555
01:51:29,640 --> 01:51:31,880
Speaker 3: I'm like, okay, this is visibility, you know what I'm saying.

2556
01:51:32,000 --> 01:51:34,960
Speaker 3: But thinking about it too when people like are cutting

2557
01:51:35,000 --> 01:51:37,400
Speaker 3: clips real quick and they're like posting it and that

2558
01:51:37,520 --> 01:51:38,519
Speaker 3: stuff goes viral.

2559
01:51:38,960 --> 01:51:40,960
Speaker 2: Like you say, even that parking Lot clip or whatever.

2560
01:51:41,720 --> 01:51:43,479
Speaker 3: They can clip that real quick because they're just watching

2561
01:51:43,479 --> 01:51:45,040
Speaker 3: it on YouTube and it ends up being shared a

2562
01:51:45,080 --> 01:51:46,439
Speaker 3: lot of different places a lot of times.

2563
01:51:46,520 --> 01:51:48,960
Speaker 2: Netflix doesn't really have like moments like that. Yeah, it's

2564
01:51:49,000 --> 01:51:49,439
Speaker 2: that's what I say.

2565
01:51:49,479 --> 01:51:52,719
Speaker 5: It just it just Netflix should just allow these shows

2566
01:51:53,160 --> 01:51:56,120
Speaker 5: to continue to have the virality that they're having. Like

2567
01:51:56,240 --> 01:51:58,720
Speaker 5: so if you are putting out, you know, portions of

2568
01:51:58,800 --> 01:52:01,760
Speaker 5: your show and clips to your show, let that go,

2569
01:52:02,000 --> 01:52:04,040
Speaker 5: you know, if anything, just letting you know, a Netflix

2570
01:52:04,080 --> 01:52:05,920
Speaker 5: put the put the branding on it, you know, so

2571
01:52:06,000 --> 01:52:07,880
Speaker 5: when people are watching the clip after the park a

2572
01:52:07,920 --> 01:52:10,599
Speaker 5: Lot clip is over it, it says, watch poor Mind's

2573
01:52:10,640 --> 01:52:13,920
Speaker 5: episodes on Netflix, Yeah, like they had. You can't fight

2574
01:52:14,040 --> 01:52:17,240
Speaker 5: the Internet, yeah, you know, and you can't fight it.

2575
01:52:17,479 --> 01:52:20,720
Speaker 5: You can only you know, hope to contain it. I

2576
01:52:20,800 --> 01:52:23,360
Speaker 5: guess with me, I would just say continue to let

2577
01:52:23,400 --> 01:52:25,679
Speaker 5: it do what it do, and you're just another space

2578
01:52:25,760 --> 01:52:28,280
Speaker 5: that people come to the way people go to YouTube. Yeah,

2579
01:52:28,479 --> 01:52:29,360
Speaker 5: the whole content.

2580
01:52:29,400 --> 01:52:31,600
Speaker 2: I think it's gonna either be like really good or

2581
01:52:31,720 --> 01:52:33,559
Speaker 2: really bad. The Netflix.

2582
01:52:33,800 --> 01:52:36,120
Speaker 3: Yeah, like, I think it's gonna be either like really good.

2583
01:52:36,240 --> 01:52:38,920
Speaker 3: Like there's not gonna be any great area because sometimes

2584
01:52:38,960 --> 01:52:42,439
Speaker 3: when things get introduced, it ruins it. Like I always

2585
01:52:42,439 --> 01:52:44,760
Speaker 3: think of like how they say video killed the radio star,

2586
01:52:44,960 --> 01:52:47,360
Speaker 3: Like when new forms of things start coming along and

2587
01:52:47,479 --> 01:52:50,840
Speaker 3: everybody starts to do it, something dies out, or.

2588
01:52:50,960 --> 01:52:53,679
Speaker 1: Like even with like m P three's and stuff like yeah,

2589
01:52:53,800 --> 01:52:55,599
Speaker 1: ipis and nobody was behind CDs.

2590
01:52:55,840 --> 01:52:57,600
Speaker 2: That's what I'm saying. So I'm like, I hope it

2591
01:52:57,640 --> 01:52:59,800
Speaker 2: doesn't make it to where like something like you.

2592
01:52:59,840 --> 01:53:02,519
Speaker 5: Know, yeah, but I mean podcasting is still so new

2593
01:53:02,720 --> 01:53:05,720
Speaker 5: that you can take those risks. Really, podcasting is like

2594
01:53:05,760 --> 01:53:09,679
Speaker 5: what fourteen years old, fifteen years old. So if Netflix

2595
01:53:10,040 --> 01:53:11,720
Speaker 5: decides to jump in the game, and you you know,

2596
01:53:11,840 --> 01:53:13,920
Speaker 5: you do a deal with Netflix for a couple of years,

2597
01:53:14,600 --> 01:53:17,040
Speaker 5: you still got your audio listen, right, You're still going

2598
01:53:17,080 --> 01:53:19,200
Speaker 5: to have some type of audience that's you know, check

2599
01:53:19,240 --> 01:53:20,640
Speaker 5: it for. If it doesn't work, then you just go

2600
01:53:20,720 --> 01:53:22,599
Speaker 5: back to doing what you're doing. Joe Rogan just showed

2601
01:53:22,680 --> 01:53:25,160
Speaker 5: us that, really right, Because Joe Rogan was on Spotify,

2602
01:53:25,640 --> 01:53:27,080
Speaker 5: his stuff was behind the paywall.

2603
01:53:27,600 --> 01:53:29,519
Speaker 2: He did that for a few years. I forgot how

2604
01:53:29,560 --> 01:53:30,479
Speaker 2: long the terms of the deal was.

2605
01:53:30,520 --> 01:53:33,879
Speaker 5: But when that turn was up, Spotify thought that Spotify

2606
01:53:33,960 --> 01:53:36,720
Speaker 5: thought it was best for their model to be back

2607
01:53:36,800 --> 01:53:38,400
Speaker 5: on YouTube. It was better for them to have their

2608
01:53:38,439 --> 01:53:40,960
Speaker 5: podcast why as opposed to being behind the paywall.

2609
01:53:41,200 --> 01:53:43,920
Speaker 4: That's that's always iHeart model, that's black effects model.

2610
01:53:43,920 --> 01:53:45,160
Speaker 2: I like for things to be wide.

2611
01:53:45,200 --> 01:53:47,400
Speaker 5: I want us to I want us to meet as

2612
01:53:47,520 --> 01:53:50,000
Speaker 5: many people where they are as possible.

2613
01:53:50,240 --> 01:53:54,120
Speaker 2: Yeah, right now, we got off topic again. Oh yeah,

2614
01:53:54,200 --> 01:53:57,240
Speaker 2: we've been given a lot of games, a lot of shit.

2615
01:53:57,360 --> 01:53:57,640
Speaker 8: Me too.

2616
01:53:57,800 --> 01:54:00,479
Speaker 2: But back to the bop big What about?

2617
01:54:01,800 --> 01:54:01,840
Speaker 8: So?

2618
01:54:02,000 --> 01:54:03,920
Speaker 2: My bop this week is actually an artist that I

2619
01:54:04,200 --> 01:54:05,880
Speaker 2: just discovered. I had no idea.

2620
01:54:06,000 --> 01:54:07,960
Speaker 3: That's why I love my algorithm. I just be scrolling.

2621
01:54:08,080 --> 01:54:10,679
Speaker 3: He's actually extremely popular. I don't know if I'm saying

2622
01:54:10,680 --> 01:54:14,280
Speaker 3: his name right, but it says that he pronounces it

2623
01:54:14,840 --> 01:54:17,360
Speaker 3: law ye saw law ye saw like ye saw.

2624
01:54:17,479 --> 01:54:19,800
Speaker 2: I don't know, but it's l l O y I

2625
01:54:20,200 --> 01:54:21,920
Speaker 2: s O. How you say it.

2626
01:54:22,600 --> 01:54:24,479
Speaker 3: I thought y'all was laughing, because y'all but that's how

2627
01:54:24,520 --> 01:54:28,200
Speaker 3: he hasn't pronounce in his uh bio whatever. But he

2628
01:54:28,320 --> 01:54:30,479
Speaker 3: has this song that just dropped. It is called Scary,

2629
01:54:30,920 --> 01:54:33,800
Speaker 3: and his music reminds me of kind of like R.

2630
01:54:34,040 --> 01:54:36,920
Speaker 3: It's R and B for sure, but it's like it

2631
01:54:37,000 --> 01:54:39,000
Speaker 3: has like a little ed M bop to it a

2632
01:54:39,040 --> 01:54:40,160
Speaker 3: little bit, you know what I'm saying.

2633
01:54:40,240 --> 01:54:42,720
Speaker 2: It's very very different. I like it.

2634
01:54:43,240 --> 01:54:44,960
Speaker 3: So that's my bop of the week. He's not a

2635
01:54:45,000 --> 01:54:47,600
Speaker 3: new artist. He's extremely popular. I just he's never came

2636
01:54:47,640 --> 01:54:50,800
Speaker 3: across my music. So yeah, I'm enjoying him. The My

2637
01:54:50,880 --> 01:54:51,880
Speaker 3: bop of the week is Scary.

2638
01:54:51,960 --> 01:54:53,520
Speaker 4: This song is gonna be so old by the time,

2639
01:54:53,600 --> 01:54:54,040
Speaker 4: y'all hear it.

2640
01:54:55,200 --> 01:54:57,240
Speaker 2: No, it's not, it's not.

2641
01:55:00,320 --> 01:55:03,720
Speaker 3: I asked how he was about to say his song

2642
01:55:03,880 --> 01:55:05,480
Speaker 3: was about to be I think he's talking about what

2643
01:55:05,560 --> 01:55:05,840
Speaker 3: he about.

2644
01:55:06,240 --> 01:55:08,440
Speaker 2: My song is gonna be old to what Billy Jean

2645
01:55:08,920 --> 01:55:11,840
Speaker 2: is not. I don't know why.

2646
01:55:11,920 --> 01:55:14,000
Speaker 4: I'm the song probably old now, to be honest with you.

2647
01:55:15,000 --> 01:55:15,560
Speaker 4: What's homie?

2648
01:55:15,880 --> 01:55:22,920
Speaker 5: His name is a Belly Gange Cushington. Yeah, is that

2649
01:55:23,040 --> 01:55:30,240
Speaker 5: the one would be like I'm geeked up like I'm

2650
01:55:30,320 --> 01:55:31,960
Speaker 5: peaked up looking for eat up.

2651
01:55:34,680 --> 01:55:40,200
Speaker 2: I was. I wasn't, I don't know what, not expecting

2652
01:55:40,240 --> 01:55:45,960
Speaker 2: that to be your shut get off that teleports.

2653
01:55:47,320 --> 01:55:48,560
Speaker 4: I'm telling you, I was sitting.

2654
01:55:48,600 --> 01:55:50,360
Speaker 5: I was in a wine bar and I was we

2655
01:55:50,560 --> 01:55:52,680
Speaker 5: was drinking, and I just that ship just popped in

2656
01:55:52,760 --> 01:55:54,680
Speaker 5: my head and I just screamed and everybody.

2657
01:55:54,400 --> 01:55:55,360
Speaker 4: Just looked at me, like what the.

2658
01:55:58,720 --> 01:56:02,520
Speaker 2: Looking up? And then this morning I kept singing, I

2659
01:56:02,680 --> 01:56:03,800
Speaker 2: was like, geeked up.

2660
01:56:03,880 --> 01:56:07,600
Speaker 4: I'm geeked up looking for it goes and you're in Atlanta.

2661
01:56:07,680 --> 01:56:08,400
Speaker 4: That's crazy.

2662
01:56:11,000 --> 01:56:13,400
Speaker 2: And they say he bounced that ass like your friend dude.

2663
01:56:13,480 --> 01:56:17,560
Speaker 3: But sidebar sharlot any so unintentionally funny because when you

2664
01:56:17,680 --> 01:56:20,720
Speaker 3: posted that sheet for Halloween, I was cracking up because

2665
01:56:20,720 --> 01:56:21,640
Speaker 3: I thought that video was.

2666
01:56:21,680 --> 01:56:24,560
Speaker 2: A everybody say that what video? When he was walking

2667
01:56:24,600 --> 01:56:27,200
Speaker 2: in the everybody.

2668
01:56:27,240 --> 01:56:33,560
Speaker 3: Thought it was Ai AI character and you saw Jesse

2669
01:56:33,600 --> 01:56:34,080
Speaker 3: and you was like.

2670
01:56:34,280 --> 01:56:37,160
Speaker 2: This is a real time. Everybody said that. I was huge.

2671
01:56:37,520 --> 01:56:38,880
Speaker 2: I was like, why did they think this is Ai?

2672
01:56:39,160 --> 01:56:40,720
Speaker 3: It looks like an a I parton.

2673
01:56:40,800 --> 01:56:46,400
Speaker 2: Really, I guess your flawless honey better. No, we don't

2674
01:56:46,440 --> 01:56:50,520
Speaker 2: call him uncle beatty belly gang couldn't okay, shout out

2675
01:56:50,520 --> 01:56:51,080
Speaker 2: to Belly Gang.

2676
01:56:51,200 --> 01:56:52,960
Speaker 4: Don't you look like Drewski When Ki was playing that

2677
01:56:53,000 --> 01:56:58,480
Speaker 4: skis Oh my god. Yeah, hated a white boy, the

2678
01:56:58,560 --> 01:57:00,360
Speaker 4: bid and everything the way he was it was a

2679
01:57:00,440 --> 01:57:01,640
Speaker 4: job like this is a real rapper.

2680
01:57:01,960 --> 01:57:04,840
Speaker 2: Yeah, I saw a video recently he showed his dad.

2681
01:57:05,120 --> 01:57:07,320
Speaker 1: His dad is black, but he interviewed him at the

2682
01:57:07,720 --> 01:57:10,640
Speaker 1: BC Awards year that record is fire.

2683
01:57:10,840 --> 01:57:13,240
Speaker 7: Yeah, okay, And why k nieces dope to I Love

2684
01:57:13,320 --> 01:57:14,200
Speaker 7: We Love Can.

2685
01:57:14,880 --> 01:57:16,600
Speaker 2: She don't know what she's doing this, it's just giving

2686
01:57:16,640 --> 01:57:20,000
Speaker 2: it out. What the hell that was about me? That

2687
01:57:20,080 --> 01:57:21,840
Speaker 2: was a ball and she said, yeah, I thought y'all

2688
01:57:21,880 --> 01:57:24,120
Speaker 2: shipping on her. I was like, damn what. Then was like,

2689
01:57:24,160 --> 01:57:26,000
Speaker 2: why can't ain't getting paid? You're like, it's been doing

2690
01:57:26,120 --> 01:57:33,680
Speaker 2: what she's doing. She just gets out, God like, dam

2691
01:57:33,800 --> 01:57:38,360
Speaker 2: I didn't know what I don't know. I know y'all

2692
01:57:38,400 --> 01:57:40,960
Speaker 2: played take Me Through there on the radio. Yes, we do.

2693
01:57:41,200 --> 01:57:42,720
Speaker 2: She says, they don't take me through that. She's like,

2694
01:57:42,920 --> 01:57:45,120
Speaker 2: she don't know what she doing. The only thing hand

2695
01:57:45,280 --> 01:57:47,960
Speaker 2: take me through this, take me through that. Put yams

2696
01:57:48,000 --> 01:57:50,280
Speaker 2: in the circle girl, put yours in it. Put your.

2697
01:57:52,240 --> 01:57:57,680
Speaker 1: Something girl girl that Yeah, that's the same song, right right,

2698
01:57:57,720 --> 01:57:59,640
Speaker 1: after that, but she said she don't know what she doing.

2699
01:57:59,720 --> 01:58:03,800
Speaker 2: It's just given it. That's what bird. And then right

2700
01:58:03,920 --> 01:58:05,840
Speaker 2: before literally right before, I.

2701
01:58:07,360 --> 01:58:12,800
Speaker 4: Just know that one party looking in the circle.

2702
01:58:14,600 --> 01:58:19,120
Speaker 2: Too busy, Yeah, looking for.

2703
01:58:23,320 --> 01:58:25,600
Speaker 3: Been hearing Nothingtheless, it's something they gotta do with throwing

2704
01:58:25,640 --> 01:58:26,720
Speaker 3: it in the circle or.

2705
01:58:26,880 --> 01:58:34,800
Speaker 2: Either when y'all start calling me that what I mean,

2706
01:58:35,120 --> 01:58:38,120
Speaker 2: y'all have been theomen have had names for the longest

2707
01:58:38,120 --> 01:58:39,880
Speaker 2: a lot of times. What women do. We're just catching

2708
01:58:39,960 --> 01:58:41,560
Speaker 2: up to what y'all been doing. I ain't never calling

2709
01:58:41,560 --> 01:58:45,160
Speaker 2: a girl a sucker superhead. They be calling girls superhead

2710
01:58:45,520 --> 01:58:50,240
Speaker 2: d s L. Y'all got to think of a better

2711
01:58:50,320 --> 01:58:52,360
Speaker 2: name that used to say we had d s L.

2712
01:58:52,680 --> 01:58:57,560
Speaker 2: They say we had like that his compliments there is

2713
01:58:57,600 --> 01:59:03,000
Speaker 2: a compliment behad. Yeah, either that means he is the

2714
01:59:03,080 --> 01:59:06,840
Speaker 2: best in his category. But I guess based the show

2715
01:59:07,280 --> 01:59:09,920
Speaker 2: the Michael Phelps that ship, you know what I'm saying,

2716
01:59:10,880 --> 01:59:13,880
Speaker 2: will say that you need another as Michael fils.

2717
01:59:14,280 --> 01:59:15,600
Speaker 4: Yeah, don't just call me an eat.

2718
01:59:15,600 --> 01:59:17,800
Speaker 5: It sounds like a gold medalist eater or something, you know,

2719
01:59:18,440 --> 01:59:21,080
Speaker 5: to put something before before like the eater.

2720
01:59:21,200 --> 01:59:22,320
Speaker 2: What that means? I mean?

2721
01:59:22,520 --> 01:59:28,520
Speaker 4: I w W anybody e w W eam a champion.

2722
01:59:28,560 --> 01:59:32,000
Speaker 2: You know what I'm saying, w w cha, because anybody.

2723
01:59:31,680 --> 01:59:33,640
Speaker 4: Could be an eater. You beat out there just spitting

2724
01:59:33,680 --> 01:59:34,040
Speaker 4: on it, you.

2725
01:59:34,040 --> 01:59:35,480
Speaker 2: Know what I mean? Like looking on it like that,

2726
01:59:35,560 --> 01:59:39,000
Speaker 2: don't mean that I got a few worldwide. I like

2727
01:59:39,120 --> 01:59:39,720
Speaker 2: that world wide.

2728
01:59:39,800 --> 01:59:41,520
Speaker 4: That's a that's the worldwide eater, right.

2729
01:59:42,480 --> 01:59:44,080
Speaker 2: I like with him on that.

2730
01:59:44,160 --> 01:59:45,800
Speaker 4: When I like that, that's what I call me that.

2731
01:59:46,000 --> 01:59:46,480
Speaker 4: I like that.

2732
01:59:46,720 --> 01:59:49,520
Speaker 2: I like not bad? What's your about? Okay?

2733
01:59:49,760 --> 01:59:54,840
Speaker 1: So Summer Walker finally Yeah, it's finally Ovary. She just

2734
01:59:54,920 --> 01:59:57,320
Speaker 1: came out with a new album, y'all. Well, I don't

2735
01:59:57,320 --> 01:59:58,720
Speaker 1: even think we talked about these on the show.

2736
01:59:58,800 --> 02:00:04,360
Speaker 2: Yeah, we were in the row out do yes, and we.

2737
02:00:04,440 --> 02:00:07,560
Speaker 1: Improv the hall thing really Yeah, we didn't have no

2738
02:00:07,680 --> 02:00:08,800
Speaker 1: linear she's a fan.

2739
02:00:08,760 --> 02:00:12,640
Speaker 2: Of the show. Yes. I think she listens to the show.

2740
02:00:12,800 --> 02:00:12,960
Speaker 12: I do.

2741
02:00:13,320 --> 02:00:14,840
Speaker 4: Yeah, she reached out to y'all to come be part

2742
02:00:14,840 --> 02:00:15,400
Speaker 4: of her rollout.

2743
02:00:15,600 --> 02:00:16,600
Speaker 2: I think you know what it is.

2744
02:00:16,680 --> 02:00:18,240
Speaker 3: I think a lot of times when girls go get

2745
02:00:18,280 --> 02:00:20,640
Speaker 3: their hair done, they get they lash is done. Now,

2746
02:00:20,720 --> 02:00:23,200
Speaker 3: I will say a lot of our audience's hairstyleus and

2747
02:00:23,280 --> 02:00:24,600
Speaker 3: lash text nail texts.

2748
02:00:24,880 --> 02:00:26,480
Speaker 2: So a lot of times people probably.

2749
02:00:26,200 --> 02:00:27,879
Speaker 3: Have heard of us because it's playing in the background

2750
02:00:27,880 --> 02:00:30,760
Speaker 3: while they're getting something done. So they may not necessarily

2751
02:00:30,840 --> 02:00:32,560
Speaker 3: listen to it all the time, but they be catching

2752
02:00:32,560 --> 02:00:33,760
Speaker 3: it when they're getting stuff done.

2753
02:00:34,240 --> 02:00:36,400
Speaker 2: They might tune in see a clip something like that,

2754
02:00:36,520 --> 02:00:38,320
Speaker 2: you know what I mean. So I'm not saying she

2755
02:00:38,440 --> 02:00:40,200
Speaker 2: listened to it every week, but she know what's up.

2756
02:00:40,440 --> 02:00:41,120
Speaker 2: She know what's up.

2757
02:00:41,240 --> 02:00:42,880
Speaker 1: But no, Yeah, it was really dope because we got

2758
02:00:42,920 --> 02:00:44,880
Speaker 1: to be a part of the rollout. And I'm also

2759
02:00:45,120 --> 02:00:48,720
Speaker 1: just a big Summer Walker fan. I love Ovary still.

2760
02:00:48,840 --> 02:00:51,280
Speaker 1: Overy Finally, Overy is such a good.

2761
02:00:51,160 --> 02:00:54,320
Speaker 3: Album that's been in my rotation for a MENI now

2762
02:00:55,040 --> 02:00:55,840
Speaker 3: I respect someone.

2763
02:00:56,440 --> 02:00:58,480
Speaker 5: Yes, that shit she did the other day when she

2764
02:00:58,720 --> 02:01:02,400
Speaker 5: was just like, look, man cheating. He ain't gonna stop cheating.

2765
02:01:02,800 --> 02:01:04,440
Speaker 5: I just want to sleep with him every now and then.

2766
02:01:07,120 --> 02:01:10,040
Speaker 5: It was but I just didn't like it public. But

2767
02:01:10,200 --> 02:01:13,200
Speaker 5: that's an honest conversation to have. And you know, I

2768
02:01:13,360 --> 02:01:15,320
Speaker 5: was watching seeing that the other day and they was

2769
02:01:15,360 --> 02:01:21,960
Speaker 5: talking about how Polynesian sauce. What's the thing, there's something

2770
02:01:21,960 --> 02:01:25,640
Speaker 5: else polyamory. Polyamory is on the rise, right.

2771
02:01:26,400 --> 02:01:28,840
Speaker 2: I just love because we be missing our words.

2772
02:01:30,400 --> 02:01:31,560
Speaker 4: But they say it's on the rise.

2773
02:01:31,960 --> 02:01:34,680
Speaker 5: And so when when I think in the future, a

2774
02:01:34,760 --> 02:01:37,320
Speaker 5: lot more of those conversations are gonna be had and

2775
02:01:37,400 --> 02:01:38,880
Speaker 5: there's gonna be a lot of people who are gonna

2776
02:01:38,880 --> 02:01:40,560
Speaker 5: be forced to make some decisions.

2777
02:01:41,200 --> 02:01:44,080
Speaker 3: Yeah, I agree, but I do think that we have

2778
02:01:44,400 --> 02:01:47,040
Speaker 3: normalized cheating a little bit too much though, But.

2779
02:01:47,080 --> 02:01:48,640
Speaker 4: It's not cheating if you're being honest about it.

2780
02:01:48,800 --> 02:01:52,280
Speaker 3: I mean, if all parties know what's exactly you know

2781
02:01:52,320 --> 02:01:54,000
Speaker 3: what I'm saying, I would have been okay with it.

2782
02:01:54,160 --> 02:01:56,360
Speaker 3: If it was like, you know, the girlfriend knew and

2783
02:01:56,440 --> 02:01:59,560
Speaker 3: everybody knewhen they were in agreeance, so stuff like that,

2784
02:01:59,720 --> 02:02:01,320
Speaker 3: you know, Oh cool, do what y'all do?

2785
02:02:01,360 --> 02:02:03,160
Speaker 2: A lot of people have open marriages. It's a lot of.

2786
02:02:04,960 --> 02:02:07,720
Speaker 3: Yeah, the nonconsensual part that I don't agree. I said,

2787
02:02:08,400 --> 02:02:10,440
Speaker 3: a lot of I don't agree with. So I will

2788
02:02:10,520 --> 02:02:13,640
Speaker 3: say I don't like the way that we have normalized

2789
02:02:13,840 --> 02:02:16,000
Speaker 3: like having side Nigga's side, bitches and things.

2790
02:02:16,040 --> 02:02:18,160
Speaker 2: I agree. I don't like. It's not normal.

2791
02:02:18,400 --> 02:02:21,400
Speaker 5: That's why I respected her, not wanting to still wanting

2792
02:02:21,440 --> 02:02:22,480
Speaker 5: to play that position, I will.

2793
02:02:22,600 --> 02:02:23,839
Speaker 4: I wanted to be honest about.

2794
02:02:23,600 --> 02:02:25,520
Speaker 3: It, right, And she didn't come out with all this

2795
02:02:25,640 --> 02:02:28,360
Speaker 3: stuff like people just started talking about her, and you

2796
02:02:28,440 --> 02:02:30,200
Speaker 3: know she got her name is miss Pizza Hut.

2797
02:02:30,640 --> 02:02:34,120
Speaker 2: The tea got hot and I enjoyed it. It was

2798
02:02:34,200 --> 02:02:36,520
Speaker 2: real missy, it was. It was real mess because it

2799
02:02:36,520 --> 02:02:37,280
Speaker 2: shouldn't been public.

2800
02:02:37,760 --> 02:02:40,680
Speaker 5: Agreed, that was a woman the woman conversation facts and

2801
02:02:41,120 --> 02:02:42,880
Speaker 5: then y'all go tell the man what's gonna happen.

2802
02:02:43,080 --> 02:02:46,200
Speaker 2: But I agree with you. I respect her for standing

2803
02:02:46,280 --> 02:02:47,880
Speaker 2: in it and not be like, oh, it's not true,

2804
02:02:47,960 --> 02:02:48,440
Speaker 2: you're lying.

2805
02:02:48,440 --> 02:02:50,080
Speaker 3: You're like, she was like, yeah, this is what happened.

2806
02:02:50,320 --> 02:02:51,880
Speaker 3: I mean, what we're gonna do about it now? So

2807
02:02:52,000 --> 02:02:53,720
Speaker 3: I can respect her for that at least not lying.

2808
02:02:54,120 --> 02:02:54,400
Speaker 2: I mean.

2809
02:02:54,520 --> 02:02:57,200
Speaker 1: And my thing with Summer is keep doing what you

2810
02:02:57,320 --> 02:02:59,640
Speaker 1: do because one thing about it, you're gonna give us

2811
02:02:59,640 --> 02:02:59,840
Speaker 1: some good.

2812
02:03:00,320 --> 02:03:02,760
Speaker 2: That's all we need based off of real life experience.

2813
02:03:02,760 --> 02:03:04,040
Speaker 2: I don't know what she's doing as long as you

2814
02:03:04,080 --> 02:03:04,880
Speaker 2: don't sleep with my man.

2815
02:03:05,040 --> 02:03:07,640
Speaker 1: Yeah, And I feel like she has so many good songs,

2816
02:03:07,760 --> 02:03:11,440
Speaker 1: like go girl, everybody mean, that's me going viral kicking out?

2817
02:03:11,480 --> 02:03:13,560
Speaker 2: What is chicken afraid of music? I don't really understand,

2818
02:03:13,600 --> 02:03:15,360
Speaker 2: but that's what they've been saying about this song. But

2819
02:03:15,480 --> 02:03:16,000
Speaker 2: I like it.

2820
02:03:16,200 --> 02:03:21,440
Speaker 1: They said, giving why I can't get it out red Fish, bluefish.

2821
02:03:21,800 --> 02:03:25,880
Speaker 7: Oh that's two fish new fish. Got to do this

2822
02:03:26,080 --> 02:03:28,040
Speaker 7: because they're saying, that's how she sounds.

2823
02:03:27,760 --> 02:03:30,800
Speaker 2: My song, Sam, But I like it. Yes, I am

2824
02:03:31,000 --> 02:03:34,520
Speaker 2: what Mode says you on make it rain bu the Thunderside.

2825
02:03:35,880 --> 02:03:37,920
Speaker 2: She didn't say it like that. She didn't know she did.

2826
02:03:38,120 --> 02:03:42,720
Speaker 2: That's how you you sound like Elvi's sing. Yeah, she

2827
02:03:42,880 --> 02:03:43,320
Speaker 2: sure did.

2828
02:03:43,760 --> 02:03:46,480
Speaker 3: She did say do your cat verse was fire. Yeah,

2829
02:03:46,680 --> 02:03:50,160
Speaker 3: she did her things. I think really epitomize what that

2830
02:03:50,320 --> 02:03:52,320
Speaker 3: song was about. Yes, you know what I'm saying, Like

2831
02:03:52,440 --> 02:03:54,560
Speaker 3: she was really like this. The song is about me

2832
02:03:54,680 --> 02:03:55,600
Speaker 3: and how I'm go.

2833
02:03:55,760 --> 02:03:56,000
Speaker 6: Girl.

2834
02:03:56,200 --> 02:03:57,760
Speaker 2: She used to have a chip tooth, but now she

2835
02:03:57,840 --> 02:04:01,440
Speaker 2: got a swimming pool. I know that's right, steel Chip,

2836
02:04:01,720 --> 02:04:06,160
Speaker 2: it's coming. You got money for up there? I don't

2837
02:04:06,160 --> 02:04:12,160
Speaker 2: wan't know, I said, not even know. I said that.

2838
02:04:12,400 --> 02:04:14,160
Speaker 2: I just lie for the game. See if I still

2839
02:04:14,200 --> 02:04:17,360
Speaker 2: got it too. Sometimes all the time, I say all

2840
02:04:17,400 --> 02:04:19,120
Speaker 2: the time, I love a lot a little? Are you

2841
02:04:19,160 --> 02:04:21,120
Speaker 2: getting an uber just making up ship? I love it?

2842
02:04:21,200 --> 02:04:26,880
Speaker 2: I like your name Ashley, and believe me when I'm lying. Yeah, yeah,

2843
02:04:27,000 --> 02:04:27,400
Speaker 2: you know, I.

2844
02:04:27,440 --> 02:04:29,720
Speaker 3: Think we practiced when what was that song by the

2845
02:04:29,760 --> 02:04:31,600
Speaker 3: Osley Brothers, What's Your Nut?

2846
02:04:31,840 --> 02:04:35,720
Speaker 7: Sammon, where does she live? That's nice, and that's not

2847
02:04:35,840 --> 02:04:37,040
Speaker 7: what I'm the name of that song.

2848
02:04:37,200 --> 02:04:38,360
Speaker 2: That's not laundry man.

2849
02:04:38,280 --> 02:04:46,240
Speaker 3: No, that's not laundry matha with the busted busted them

2850
02:04:46,320 --> 02:04:47,000
Speaker 3: clock in the morning.

2851
02:04:47,040 --> 02:04:48,600
Speaker 2: That's how I learned a lot. She was kind of

2852
02:04:48,640 --> 02:04:51,400
Speaker 2: quick on her toes until she started saying, it's.

2853
02:04:51,360 --> 02:04:55,000
Speaker 4: No need to lie or you don't have to know.

2854
02:04:55,120 --> 02:04:56,760
Speaker 2: I mean back in the day when I'm growing, I'm

2855
02:04:56,760 --> 02:04:58,360
Speaker 2: an adult, like what I need to lie about now?

2856
02:04:58,480 --> 02:05:00,560
Speaker 5: And I think that, you know, if I want to

2857
02:05:00,720 --> 02:05:05,720
Speaker 5: actually be in real positive relationships with people, just tell

2858
02:05:05,760 --> 02:05:06,120
Speaker 5: the truth.

2859
02:05:06,360 --> 02:05:10,960
Speaker 2: Yeah, I lie. I don't lie to my circle. Yeah yeah,

2860
02:05:11,200 --> 02:05:13,200
Speaker 2: but sometimes I might say a little loud.

2861
02:05:13,080 --> 02:05:14,760
Speaker 4: Here, but it's because you pardon.

2862
02:05:14,960 --> 02:05:17,080
Speaker 2: That's what's entertainment purpose. I love a lot.

2863
02:05:17,120 --> 02:05:18,520
Speaker 5: That's why I got to make sure I still got

2864
02:05:18,520 --> 02:05:21,320
Speaker 5: it's entertaining purposes. But in real life, it's okay to

2865
02:05:21,400 --> 02:05:24,040
Speaker 5: be honest with whoever. I'm talking about friendship's relationship. Everything

2866
02:05:24,400 --> 02:05:26,040
Speaker 5: that I do agree because I want to be in

2867
02:05:26,160 --> 02:05:28,000
Speaker 5: connection with the real person. You know how they say

2868
02:05:28,200 --> 02:05:29,160
Speaker 5: God can't bless what you.

2869
02:05:29,240 --> 02:05:29,680
Speaker 4: Pretend to be.

2870
02:05:29,960 --> 02:05:32,120
Speaker 2: Oh, yeah, for sure, I can't be friends with who

2871
02:05:32,120 --> 02:05:34,040
Speaker 2: you pretend to be in real life. I think I'm

2872
02:05:34,080 --> 02:05:35,760
Speaker 2: too honest. I'll be hurting people feeling.

2873
02:05:35,880 --> 02:05:36,800
Speaker 4: No, there's no such thing.

2874
02:05:37,000 --> 02:05:37,240
Speaker 3: It is.

2875
02:05:37,320 --> 02:05:38,520
Speaker 4: It's like a shot. It's like when you go to

2876
02:05:38,560 --> 02:05:39,520
Speaker 4: the doctor. You get that shot.

2877
02:05:39,600 --> 02:05:41,560
Speaker 2: It sticks, you know, when it goes right in, but

2878
02:05:41,640 --> 02:05:42,520
Speaker 2: then that medicine.

2879
02:05:42,840 --> 02:05:45,320
Speaker 1: He I think I'm trying to find a balance between

2880
02:05:45,440 --> 02:05:48,560
Speaker 1: being like too honest and then still being like considerate

2881
02:05:48,600 --> 02:05:50,960
Speaker 1: of people feelings because I feel like I'm just too honest,

2882
02:05:51,000 --> 02:05:52,440
Speaker 1: Like I be hurting people feeling.

2883
02:05:52,240 --> 02:05:54,080
Speaker 2: Because it's not about what you say, it's how you

2884
02:05:54,200 --> 02:05:55,600
Speaker 2: say it. My mom ha been telling me that my

2885
02:05:55,680 --> 02:05:57,200
Speaker 2: whole life. Yeah, but I feel like I say it

2886
02:05:57,280 --> 02:05:59,440
Speaker 2: in a nice way. It's still hurting people feelings, though,

2887
02:05:59,680 --> 02:06:02,640
Speaker 2: because the truth will always hurt. It's hosting.

2888
02:06:02,880 --> 02:06:04,040
Speaker 4: The truth is going to always hurt.

2889
02:06:04,920 --> 02:06:08,000
Speaker 1: What we got next, y'all, So now it's time to

2890
02:06:08,080 --> 02:06:09,800
Speaker 1: get into our favorite segment of the show, which is

2891
02:06:09,880 --> 02:06:10,640
Speaker 1: pour your heart out.

2892
02:06:10,920 --> 02:06:11,080
Speaker 2: You know.

2893
02:06:11,160 --> 02:06:13,640
Speaker 1: If you have any questions, send them to ask Poor

2894
02:06:13,720 --> 02:06:17,640
Speaker 1: Minds at gmail dot com. That's askpo. You are in

2895
02:06:17,720 --> 02:06:20,720
Speaker 1: my nds at gmail dot com. Send the show questions,

2896
02:06:21,080 --> 02:06:24,960
Speaker 1: send us your testimonials. Charlamagne, I don't need to ask you,

2897
02:06:25,080 --> 02:06:26,960
Speaker 1: do you give good advice? Because we know you give

2898
02:06:27,000 --> 02:06:31,560
Speaker 1: good advice, so we have a listener question. Okay, Hi ladies,

2899
02:06:31,680 --> 02:06:33,960
Speaker 1: First and foremost, I love you guys as a fellow

2900
02:06:34,040 --> 02:06:37,000
Speaker 1: Houston girl. I love to see people from the city succeed.

2901
02:06:37,280 --> 02:06:39,560
Speaker 1: Peace and blessings to you both. I can't wait to

2902
02:06:39,600 --> 02:06:42,280
Speaker 1: see what else you all have in store for us. Now,

2903
02:06:42,800 --> 02:06:44,720
Speaker 1: what can you tell me about a how ueld savings

2904
02:06:44,760 --> 02:06:47,640
Speaker 1: account or anything related to money longevity.

2905
02:06:47,920 --> 02:06:50,640
Speaker 2: I'm twenty one in college and graduating soon.

2906
02:06:51,080 --> 02:06:53,760
Speaker 1: My plan is to have a career simply because that's

2907
02:06:53,800 --> 02:06:56,520
Speaker 1: what will support the lifestyle I dream about. But the

2908
02:06:56,680 --> 02:06:59,240
Speaker 1: ultimate dream is to eventually work for no one and

2909
02:06:59,320 --> 02:07:02,680
Speaker 1: be my own. Boys us any tips or advice, I

2910
02:07:02,760 --> 02:07:03,720
Speaker 1: am not earning your leisure.

2911
02:07:06,120 --> 02:07:09,160
Speaker 2: I am not shoying hope. You know what I'm saying.

2912
02:07:14,360 --> 02:07:16,240
Speaker 1: One of the topics that we was gonna talk to

2913
02:07:16,320 --> 02:07:19,360
Speaker 1: you about today was about the black dollar in the.

2914
02:07:19,400 --> 02:07:23,000
Speaker 2: De I effect, and I was like, I don't.

2915
02:07:22,800 --> 02:07:25,280
Speaker 1: Think I feel I like Charlotte, I feel like he's funny.

2916
02:07:25,280 --> 02:07:27,680
Speaker 1: We just talked to him about some world party. So

2917
02:07:29,280 --> 02:07:30,880
Speaker 1: I said, this is not earned your leisure.

2918
02:07:31,160 --> 02:07:32,400
Speaker 2: I got, I mean, I got thoughts on that, But

2919
02:07:32,480 --> 02:07:33,600
Speaker 2: now I don't even know what she said.

2920
02:07:34,280 --> 02:07:38,000
Speaker 1: She said she wanted advice about what should you do

2921
02:07:38,880 --> 02:07:44,520
Speaker 1: to create money longevity, and she wanted advice about, you know, getting.

2922
02:07:44,400 --> 02:07:44,920
Speaker 2: A high use.

2923
02:07:44,960 --> 02:07:47,160
Speaker 4: All I tell people is pay your taxes and save

2924
02:07:47,200 --> 02:07:47,560
Speaker 4: your money.

2925
02:07:47,960 --> 02:07:51,360
Speaker 5: I'm saying I've been I was broke much longer than

2926
02:07:51,360 --> 02:07:54,120
Speaker 5: I had paper. And you know, I've been on the

2927
02:07:54,240 --> 02:07:57,120
Speaker 5: unemployment line, you know, quite a few times in my life.

2928
02:07:57,160 --> 02:07:59,840
Speaker 5: So my motto is make sure your taxes are paid

2929
02:08:00,280 --> 02:08:02,680
Speaker 5: and save your money, and you know, and hire good

2930
02:08:02,760 --> 02:08:05,080
Speaker 5: financial people, you know, like, but you got to have

2931
02:08:05,200 --> 02:08:06,960
Speaker 5: real trust for every financial people. Like it took me

2932
02:08:07,040 --> 02:08:11,120
Speaker 5: a long time for me to trust somebody with my money.

2933
02:08:11,200 --> 02:08:11,360
Speaker 8: You know.

2934
02:08:11,440 --> 02:08:14,520
Speaker 5: I agree, my guy Humble in a lifeline financial but

2935
02:08:14,600 --> 02:08:17,520
Speaker 5: that that but that even started as just a friendship

2936
02:08:17,560 --> 02:08:21,200
Speaker 5: because he was my my homegirl, Debbie Brown's financial person,

2937
02:08:21,400 --> 02:08:23,280
Speaker 5: you know. And you know there's a other like a

2938
02:08:23,320 --> 02:08:27,360
Speaker 5: couple other people vouch just Easter raised business managing like

2939
02:08:27,640 --> 02:08:30,200
Speaker 5: but he's also just a good dude. And so it's

2940
02:08:30,280 --> 02:08:31,880
Speaker 5: just one of those things that God brings the right

2941
02:08:31,920 --> 02:08:34,120
Speaker 5: people in your life at the right time. And you know,

2942
02:08:34,240 --> 02:08:37,240
Speaker 5: he came into my life maybe like five years ago, yeah,

2943
02:08:37,600 --> 02:08:40,280
Speaker 5: thank god. No longer than that now, maybe six years ago,

2944
02:08:40,960 --> 02:08:42,520
Speaker 5: but thank God for him.

2945
02:08:43,080 --> 02:08:47,520
Speaker 4: But yes you should. You got a market Monday, And.

2946
02:08:49,200 --> 02:08:51,200
Speaker 1: That's how I be feeling about it too, because I mean,

2947
02:08:51,280 --> 02:08:53,840
Speaker 1: lex and I do try to drop gems here and there,

2948
02:08:54,200 --> 02:08:56,000
Speaker 1: but I am not a financial advisor.

2949
02:08:56,160 --> 02:08:57,240
Speaker 2: I do what works for me.

2950
02:08:57,760 --> 02:09:00,560
Speaker 1: I do believe in putting your money, your money into

2951
02:09:00,680 --> 02:09:04,400
Speaker 1: the stock market conservatively. I'm never going to tell y'all

2952
02:09:04,600 --> 02:09:07,960
Speaker 1: what stocks to invest in specifically, but I do think

2953
02:09:08,000 --> 02:09:10,120
Speaker 1: that you should be putting money into the stock market.

2954
02:09:10,400 --> 02:09:11,920
Speaker 1: I do think that you should have a high a

2955
02:09:12,000 --> 02:09:14,120
Speaker 1: savings account. I do think that you should have a

2956
02:09:14,240 --> 02:09:17,280
Speaker 1: ross IRA. But those are all things that I think

2957
02:09:17,320 --> 02:09:20,600
Speaker 1: that y'all can look into on your own, your own research.

2958
02:09:20,680 --> 02:09:23,520
Speaker 1: But your money should not just be sitting in your

2959
02:09:23,600 --> 02:09:25,400
Speaker 1: bank account because it's not building any.

2960
02:09:25,400 --> 02:09:27,240
Speaker 2: Entries and just to piggyback.

2961
02:09:27,440 --> 02:09:29,960
Speaker 3: I think the easiest way to start, like when you're

2962
02:09:30,000 --> 02:09:33,600
Speaker 3: so young, it's a high savings account. It's super easy,

2963
02:09:34,120 --> 02:09:36,960
Speaker 3: like it's literally like opening a bank account or just

2964
02:09:37,040 --> 02:09:39,720
Speaker 3: opening a regular savings account. But your money is making

2965
02:09:39,800 --> 02:09:42,600
Speaker 3: interest and you can access it very quickly. But it's

2966
02:09:42,640 --> 02:09:45,919
Speaker 3: also making interest every month. So I always tell everybody

2967
02:09:46,080 --> 02:09:47,840
Speaker 3: if you're not sure about the stock market and you

2968
02:09:47,880 --> 02:09:49,919
Speaker 3: want to take some time to learn, but in the meantime,

2969
02:09:50,440 --> 02:09:52,240
Speaker 3: you want to put your money somewhere, that's good. Just

2970
02:09:52,280 --> 02:09:54,600
Speaker 3: to google a Higo savings account. Yeah, see who has

2971
02:09:54,760 --> 02:09:57,320
Speaker 3: the highest you know, percentage and start from there.

2972
02:09:57,360 --> 02:09:59,920
Speaker 2: That's that's the easiest way. I agree. That's all.

2973
02:10:00,440 --> 02:10:02,520
Speaker 4: And y'all talk about y'all can't answer a question.

2974
02:10:02,640 --> 02:10:05,120
Speaker 2: Y'all do lighthearted banding. Y'all just gave some great practical

2975
02:10:05,200 --> 02:10:07,520
Speaker 2: I mean, do I think we like to talk about

2976
02:10:07,960 --> 02:10:10,400
Speaker 2: what we talk about? What we like to talk about. Yeah,

2977
02:10:10,560 --> 02:10:12,879
Speaker 2: it works me to talk about ship and we've.

2978
02:10:12,800 --> 02:10:16,120
Speaker 1: Talked about financial literacy a few times over the last

2979
02:10:16,440 --> 02:10:17,720
Speaker 1: I would say two months.

2980
02:10:18,080 --> 02:10:20,480
Speaker 2: So I think that's why people keep asking us. But

2981
02:10:20,640 --> 02:10:25,240
Speaker 2: it's like, also, this ain't aren't your leisure. We will

2982
02:10:25,240 --> 02:10:26,120
Speaker 2: put the link in the bio.

2983
02:10:26,320 --> 02:10:29,720
Speaker 4: That's our John O'Brien. He's another John Hope Money and

2984
02:10:29,760 --> 02:10:30,280
Speaker 4: Wealth podcast.

2985
02:10:30,320 --> 02:10:31,120
Speaker 2: You can learn a lot from that.

2986
02:10:31,320 --> 02:10:34,640
Speaker 1: Yes, this ain't that. We just be trying to give

2987
02:10:34,720 --> 02:10:36,840
Speaker 1: y'all little niggas what we learned.

2988
02:10:36,560 --> 02:10:41,800
Speaker 2: On the way technic figure out what's going on. We

2989
02:10:41,920 --> 02:10:44,960
Speaker 2: do be sex and we gotta put in the caption

2990
02:10:45,120 --> 02:10:48,360
Speaker 2: this is not financial. That's what I mean time for.

2991
02:10:48,440 --> 02:10:50,680
Speaker 5: Because John O'Brien does this thing called Operation Hope and

2992
02:10:50,720 --> 02:10:54,320
Speaker 5: it's like the largest financial literacy conference in America.

2993
02:10:55,320 --> 02:10:58,600
Speaker 2: We got to learn that he's the billionaires who no,

2994
02:10:58,920 --> 02:11:01,080
Speaker 2: but he's up there, he's hundreds of millions.

2995
02:11:01,320 --> 02:11:04,040
Speaker 3: Okay, yeah, but that's what I'm saying. I think for us,

2996
02:11:04,120 --> 02:11:06,280
Speaker 3: we just have to take the time out to do

2997
02:11:06,480 --> 02:11:09,320
Speaker 3: some research and learn. Somebody like send me a message

2998
02:11:09,480 --> 02:11:10,920
Speaker 3: like lex I don't want to do it. I'm like, well,

2999
02:11:10,920 --> 02:11:12,400
Speaker 3: did you do some research? She was like, no, I

3000
02:11:12,520 --> 02:11:13,240
Speaker 3: just watched the clip.

3001
02:11:13,920 --> 02:11:17,600
Speaker 2: Shut up, girl, go read something. People don't like to read.

3002
02:11:17,640 --> 02:11:20,040
Speaker 2: They don't like to read. And that's what I'm realizing, Like,

3003
02:11:20,080 --> 02:11:22,000
Speaker 2: you have to do some research. And I love a

3004
02:11:22,080 --> 02:11:27,680
Speaker 2: reader almost as much as I love reading. Now looking

3005
02:11:27,760 --> 02:11:30,160
Speaker 2: for a reader, looking for a reader.

3006
02:11:32,880 --> 02:11:36,280
Speaker 3: Read people, and he concerns me.

3007
02:11:36,440 --> 02:11:38,240
Speaker 2: I say that be a kid's bot verse.

3008
02:11:38,320 --> 02:11:40,480
Speaker 4: I like how she said that would enthusiastic stay where

3009
02:11:40,520 --> 02:11:42,280
Speaker 4: she'd be like, niggas don't eat pussy no more.

3010
02:11:42,800 --> 02:11:43,760
Speaker 2: Because I'm a reader.

3011
02:11:44,760 --> 02:11:47,200
Speaker 1: Read I am I read all the time, and I

3012
02:11:47,360 --> 02:11:50,520
Speaker 1: just I think it's so interesting that people do not

3013
02:11:50,720 --> 02:11:52,960
Speaker 1: feel the need to read books anymore. They feel like

3014
02:11:53,000 --> 02:11:54,880
Speaker 1: they could just find out all of the information that

3015
02:11:54,960 --> 02:11:58,280
Speaker 1: they want to find out on Instagram, on Google, right

3016
02:11:58,480 --> 02:11:59,640
Speaker 1: right on Yahoo.

3017
02:11:59,800 --> 02:12:02,520
Speaker 5: That's why people don't have no comprehension skills anymore. People

3018
02:12:02,600 --> 02:12:05,520
Speaker 5: have a lack of understanding nowadays, like you have to read.

3019
02:12:05,560 --> 02:12:07,520
Speaker 5: My mother was an English teacher, so since I was

3020
02:12:07,560 --> 02:12:10,360
Speaker 5: a little kid, she had me, you know, not just

3021
02:12:10,480 --> 02:12:12,160
Speaker 5: reading books. And she was a Jehovah witness, so I

3022
02:12:12,240 --> 02:12:14,080
Speaker 5: had to read all the Jehovah witness material, y'all.

3023
02:12:14,120 --> 02:12:14,920
Speaker 2: Was knocking off people.

3024
02:12:14,960 --> 02:12:15,120
Speaker 8: Dog.

3025
02:12:15,280 --> 02:12:17,040
Speaker 4: Yes, I was doing field service every Saturday.

3026
02:12:17,200 --> 02:12:26,040
Speaker 2: So not only that, a lot going on what you're

3027
02:12:26,040 --> 02:12:28,280
Speaker 2: supposed to be doing. If you really believe in God's word,

3028
02:12:28,360 --> 02:12:29,560
Speaker 2: you have a lot of systemony.

3029
02:12:30,080 --> 02:12:31,320
Speaker 4: I do have a lot of testimonies.

3030
02:12:31,440 --> 02:12:32,840
Speaker 5: So I used to have to read all the Johoa

3031
02:12:32,840 --> 02:12:35,800
Speaker 5: witness material. And then we had the booket program, y'all

3032
02:12:35,800 --> 02:12:37,680
Speaker 5: probably too young for the book program, y'all remember.

3033
02:12:37,440 --> 02:12:38,000
Speaker 2: The book program.

3034
02:12:38,160 --> 02:12:39,680
Speaker 4: We read full books and you get a free peach.

3035
02:12:39,960 --> 02:12:43,560
Speaker 2: Yeah, I remember that. I had that, Yes, yeah, personal

3036
02:12:43,640 --> 02:12:44,160
Speaker 2: paying man.

3037
02:12:44,400 --> 02:12:45,800
Speaker 5: So I used to read and my mama used to

3038
02:12:45,840 --> 02:12:48,560
Speaker 5: say to me read things that don't pertain to you.

3039
02:12:49,160 --> 02:12:51,280
Speaker 5: So I would be reading things that had nothing to

3040
02:12:51,360 --> 02:12:54,520
Speaker 5: do with anything black, right, So of course, but as

3041
02:12:54,560 --> 02:12:56,160
Speaker 5: I got older, my dad gave me an autobiography and

3042
02:12:56,200 --> 02:12:57,080
Speaker 5: Malcolm X and stuff like that.

3043
02:12:57,160 --> 02:12:58,680
Speaker 2: But I was reading Judy Bloom books.

3044
02:12:59,080 --> 02:12:59,600
Speaker 4: Are you dead?

3045
02:12:59,640 --> 02:13:03,560
Speaker 2: Gods me? Margaret? You know super Fudged, you know Tales

3046
02:13:03,600 --> 02:13:04,160
Speaker 2: of the fourth Grade.

3047
02:13:04,200 --> 02:13:06,760
Speaker 5: No, I was reading all of that type of stuff. Well, so, yes,

3048
02:13:07,000 --> 02:13:10,200
Speaker 5: you have to read. Like I am big on reading.

3049
02:13:10,240 --> 02:13:11,280
Speaker 5: I read for recreation.

3050
02:13:11,720 --> 02:13:12,360
Speaker 2: I think I do.

3051
02:13:12,920 --> 02:13:15,280
Speaker 1: I think I read for a recreation. But I also

3052
02:13:15,360 --> 02:13:17,560
Speaker 1: read a lot of self help books. But I think

3053
02:13:17,640 --> 02:13:20,680
Speaker 1: that in twenty twenty six, everybody should challenge themselves to

3054
02:13:21,000 --> 02:13:23,400
Speaker 1: at least read six books each year.

3055
02:13:23,560 --> 02:13:29,240
Speaker 2: Yeah, like my sister, she reads like a book or

3056
02:13:29,240 --> 02:13:32,320
Speaker 2: two a month. I do that. I'm back a book

3057
02:13:32,760 --> 02:13:33,680
Speaker 2: some real readers.

3058
02:13:33,720 --> 02:13:34,840
Speaker 5: I do that, But I mean I do that because

3059
02:13:34,840 --> 02:13:36,680
Speaker 5: I enjoy reading number one. But also I got a

3060
02:13:36,680 --> 02:13:39,440
Speaker 5: book publishing company. I got a book publishing company with

3061
02:13:39,480 --> 02:13:41,160
Speaker 5: Simon and she used to call Black Privilege publishing.

3062
02:13:41,200 --> 02:13:44,360
Speaker 4: So I read a lot of manuscripts on top of the.

3063
02:13:44,360 --> 02:13:46,680
Speaker 2: Stuff that I just like to read. How many businesses

3064
02:13:46,720 --> 02:13:47,080
Speaker 2: do you have.

3065
02:13:48,640 --> 02:13:54,160
Speaker 5: In entertainment or just in general. Let me think Black

3066
02:13:54,200 --> 02:13:57,000
Speaker 5: Effect Podcast Network. Me and Kevin Hart got an audio

3067
02:13:57,040 --> 02:14:00,280
Speaker 5: scripted company called SBAH Productions. We do like audio crypt

3068
02:14:00,320 --> 02:14:06,240
Speaker 5: of content, the book in print, Black Privilege Publishing, film company,

3069
02:14:06,320 --> 02:14:09,680
Speaker 5: south Land Films, the Crystal franchises.

3070
02:14:13,680 --> 02:14:15,560
Speaker 2: I feel like I'm missing a couple like seven.

3071
02:14:16,160 --> 02:14:19,760
Speaker 5: It was like, you know, breakfast club, not even breakfast club,

3072
02:14:20,240 --> 02:14:21,760
Speaker 5: breakfast club, brilliant idiots.

3073
02:14:22,360 --> 02:14:29,160
Speaker 1: That's a lot that is like, yeah, here, you need

3074
02:14:29,200 --> 02:14:31,400
Speaker 1: to start franchising. Whataburger?

3075
02:14:32,880 --> 02:14:32,920
Speaker 2: What?

3076
02:14:33,760 --> 02:14:39,040
Speaker 1: Yeah we have Whataburger's here in Atlanta now and they

3077
02:14:39,120 --> 02:14:40,360
Speaker 1: only used to be in Texas.

3078
02:14:40,440 --> 02:14:50,840
Speaker 2: In Alabama, you said, Walgreens, What a burger? Burger? That's

3079
02:14:50,920 --> 02:14:55,080
Speaker 2: not he has one, but it's not here. Burger is different.

3080
02:14:55,120 --> 02:14:57,360
Speaker 2: It's like a real, real Southern thing. But they're starting

3081
02:14:57,400 --> 02:14:59,680
Speaker 2: to kind of like I never heard of it's the

3082
02:14:59,720 --> 02:15:02,160
Speaker 2: burger restaurant. Kind I like Crystal, it's fast food. It's

3083
02:15:02,200 --> 02:15:02,680
Speaker 2: fast food.

3084
02:15:02,720 --> 02:15:02,880
Speaker 7: Yeah.

3085
02:15:02,920 --> 02:15:04,480
Speaker 5: That's why I did Christal because Christy used to be

3086
02:15:04,560 --> 02:15:06,120
Speaker 5: in the South. That was a stable in the South.

3087
02:15:06,920 --> 02:15:07,920
Speaker 5: That was our white castle.

3088
02:15:08,440 --> 02:15:11,480
Speaker 1: Look into water Bragger or sheep LEAs donates because if

3089
02:15:11,480 --> 02:15:12,280
Speaker 1: we got a sheep.

3090
02:15:12,120 --> 02:15:18,720
Speaker 3: Leaves in Georgia or in the Carolinas, it would go crazy. Yeah,

3091
02:15:19,760 --> 02:15:21,560
Speaker 3: before we get out of here, y'all know, this episode

3092
02:15:21,640 --> 02:15:23,600
Speaker 3: was brought to you by Taylor Port, and y'all know

3093
02:15:23,720 --> 02:15:25,920
Speaker 3: every time we step on that tailor Port somebody got

3094
02:15:26,040 --> 02:15:27,200
Speaker 3: to get something off a chest.

3095
02:15:27,760 --> 02:15:30,360
Speaker 2: So this week we have another bottled up for y'all.

3096
02:15:30,440 --> 02:15:33,560
Speaker 2: So take a listen. Hey, y'all. I love y'all.

3097
02:15:33,600 --> 02:15:37,280
Speaker 7: By the way, y'all are so plenty. Anyway, So me

3098
02:15:37,320 --> 02:15:39,360
Speaker 7: and just Do have been dealing with each other since February.

3099
02:15:40,440 --> 02:15:44,760
Speaker 7: I've met his daughter, he's met my grandmother. We used

3100
02:15:44,760 --> 02:15:46,760
Speaker 7: to go on dates all of the year above, but

3101
02:15:46,920 --> 02:15:49,000
Speaker 7: you know, sometimes lifely life is so we haven't been

3102
02:15:49,040 --> 02:15:49,720
Speaker 7: doing these things that.

3103
02:15:49,800 --> 02:15:53,240
Speaker 2: We were doing in the beginning of you know, our situationship.

3104
02:15:53,720 --> 02:15:56,320
Speaker 7: So he said he doesn't want a relationship and all

3105
02:15:56,360 --> 02:15:58,360
Speaker 7: of your aboves and the third I said, okay, cool,

3106
02:15:58,360 --> 02:16:00,680
Speaker 7: we're just going with the float down a few months

3107
02:16:00,720 --> 02:16:05,560
Speaker 7: down the road. Since July, I believe we had the

3108
02:16:05,640 --> 02:16:09,480
Speaker 7: key to each other's house and yeah, so to me,

3109
02:16:09,600 --> 02:16:13,840
Speaker 7: that's kind of serious. But he just doesn't want a

3110
02:16:13,880 --> 02:16:14,920
Speaker 7: relationship and all the best.

3111
02:16:14,960 --> 02:16:17,080
Speaker 2: So I don't know what to do if he's just

3112
02:16:17,120 --> 02:16:18,000
Speaker 2: stringing me along.

3113
02:16:18,240 --> 02:16:20,720
Speaker 7: If I should just stick and see what's gonna have,

3114
02:16:20,840 --> 02:16:22,280
Speaker 7: stick around and see what's gonna happen.

3115
02:16:22,920 --> 02:16:24,960
Speaker 2: I don't know. Can y'all tell me what to do? Police? Thanks?

3116
02:16:26,640 --> 02:16:26,760
Speaker 7: Uh?

3117
02:16:26,920 --> 02:16:28,920
Speaker 2: You Let that nigga be free like he want to be.

3118
02:16:29,960 --> 02:16:33,760
Speaker 3: I think one thing about women is we will lie

3119
02:16:33,840 --> 02:16:36,520
Speaker 3: to ourselves. A man will tell you I don't want

3120
02:16:36,560 --> 02:16:37,680
Speaker 3: a relationship, and they're like.

3121
02:16:37,760 --> 02:16:40,360
Speaker 2: But I met his daughter, but I met his mom,

3122
02:16:40,800 --> 02:16:42,040
Speaker 2: but we have the key. They don't.

3123
02:16:42,160 --> 02:16:44,960
Speaker 3: None of that matters. None of that matters. When a

3124
02:16:45,040 --> 02:16:47,520
Speaker 3: man wants to be exclusive, he's going.

3125
02:16:47,440 --> 02:16:48,280
Speaker 2: To be exclusive.

3126
02:16:48,600 --> 02:16:50,720
Speaker 3: And I know that's hard to hear because you feel

3127
02:16:50,840 --> 02:16:52,800
Speaker 3: like one thing about me and too. They will do

3128
02:16:53,040 --> 02:16:56,120
Speaker 3: things that make you feel like y'all are exclusive, but

3129
02:16:56,240 --> 02:16:59,080
Speaker 3: y'all aren't, and they will allow that because you're probably

3130
02:16:59,120 --> 02:16:59,640
Speaker 3: doing everything.

3131
02:17:00,879 --> 02:17:01,279
Speaker 2: Ladies.

3132
02:17:01,560 --> 02:17:04,440
Speaker 3: They love to watch somebody kids. Yeah, y'all love the baby.

3133
02:17:04,600 --> 02:17:10,200
Speaker 3: They're like, yeah, live don love me like girl, And

3134
02:17:10,280 --> 02:17:13,440
Speaker 3: I don't like the absolutely not. I'm not watching no

3135
02:17:13,560 --> 02:17:14,680
Speaker 3: nigga kids Like.

3136
02:17:14,720 --> 02:17:17,480
Speaker 2: If we're not to get what are you not my home? Right?

3137
02:17:17,680 --> 02:17:20,440
Speaker 3: I think I think that's a little You're it's a lot,

3138
02:17:21,120 --> 02:17:23,520
Speaker 3: it's a lot. So I think sometimes men will do

3139
02:17:23,640 --> 02:17:25,960
Speaker 3: things and make you feel like you'll relationship and you're like,

3140
02:17:26,000 --> 02:17:28,920
Speaker 3: not understanding. He still want to be outside, but you

3141
02:17:29,040 --> 02:17:31,720
Speaker 3: are giving him the benefits of not being a relationship.

3142
02:17:31,840 --> 02:17:34,480
Speaker 2: So why should he eatne one?

3143
02:17:34,959 --> 02:17:36,840
Speaker 5: Yeah, whatever you are to a man, a man is

3144
02:17:36,879 --> 02:17:38,840
Speaker 5: gonna let you know. You know what I'm saying, because

3145
02:17:38,879 --> 02:17:40,320
Speaker 5: he wants that, Like he either wants you to be

3146
02:17:40,400 --> 02:17:42,440
Speaker 5: his girlfriend or he wants you to.

3147
02:17:42,480 --> 02:17:46,000
Speaker 2: Be his wife side chick either like whatever. Like for

3148
02:17:46,200 --> 02:17:47,039
Speaker 2: he's gonna let you know.

3149
02:17:47,120 --> 02:17:49,840
Speaker 1: What it is trying to shy away from the truth

3150
02:17:49,879 --> 02:17:52,800
Speaker 1: he's somebody. He wants you to be his wife, whatever.

3151
02:17:54,680 --> 02:17:56,440
Speaker 4: But you're not gonna have to guess is much? Is

3152
02:17:56,480 --> 02:17:58,720
Speaker 4: what I'm saying. Like, when a man wants you to

3153
02:17:58,800 --> 02:18:01,040
Speaker 4: be something, he's going to let that you know what

3154
02:18:01,280 --> 02:18:01,640
Speaker 4: you are.

3155
02:18:01,879 --> 02:18:04,440
Speaker 5: The reason she's asking that question is because she's looking

3156
02:18:04,480 --> 02:18:06,120
Speaker 5: for a position, you know what I'm saying.

3157
02:18:06,120 --> 02:18:07,440
Speaker 4: It's like walking into a job and.

3158
02:18:07,440 --> 02:18:09,120
Speaker 2: There's a bunch of applications, you fill it out and

3159
02:18:09,200 --> 02:18:09,480
Speaker 2: he's like.

3160
02:18:09,640 --> 02:18:11,880
Speaker 4: You got the job, and you're like, what do I do?

3161
02:18:12,440 --> 02:18:15,160
Speaker 2: You know what I'm saying, She's looking for a job description.

3162
02:18:15,720 --> 02:18:16,800
Speaker 4: He hasn't given her one yet.

3163
02:18:17,480 --> 02:18:19,879
Speaker 3: Yeah, girls, time to just do your thing. Y'all can

3164
02:18:20,000 --> 02:18:22,000
Speaker 3: enjoy each other's company. But I don't think he wants

3165
02:18:22,000 --> 02:18:22,680
Speaker 3: a relationship.

3166
02:18:23,120 --> 02:18:25,240
Speaker 2: And I'm not saying that you have to stop dating him,

3167
02:18:25,320 --> 02:18:27,960
Speaker 2: but just to day other people. Yeah, but then you

3168
02:18:28,000 --> 02:18:28,720
Speaker 2: get a use infection.

3169
02:18:29,600 --> 02:18:33,640
Speaker 1: Well, I think, and this is the problem with men.

3170
02:18:33,800 --> 02:18:36,920
Speaker 1: Let be let this be a learning listing right now.

3171
02:18:37,879 --> 02:18:40,560
Speaker 1: Dating does not mean fucking.

3172
02:18:41,280 --> 02:18:45,520
Speaker 2: That does not mean if you have to have sex

3173
02:18:45,600 --> 02:18:45,879
Speaker 2: for all.

3174
02:18:46,000 --> 02:18:47,200
Speaker 5: I mean, you know what you're right, because I be

3175
02:18:47,240 --> 02:18:48,800
Speaker 5: thinking about it from the man's perspective.

3176
02:18:49,040 --> 02:18:50,760
Speaker 4: Yeah, men ain't just out here.

3177
02:18:50,720 --> 02:18:54,280
Speaker 2: Date y'all, not y'all everybody, well, not me, not you,

3178
02:18:54,560 --> 02:18:55,600
Speaker 2: because black men don't cheat.

3179
02:18:55,720 --> 02:18:59,879
Speaker 5: But married, yes, Sam, happily men have a rotation, right,

3180
02:19:00,120 --> 02:19:02,480
Speaker 5: and in that rotation they sleeping with all of these

3181
02:19:02,520 --> 02:19:03,040
Speaker 5: different women.

3182
02:19:03,760 --> 02:19:06,120
Speaker 2: They just ain't dating. They just taking you to, you know,

3183
02:19:06,200 --> 02:19:08,840
Speaker 2: a restaurant on Monday, taking you to the movies on Tuesday.

3184
02:19:09,480 --> 02:19:10,200
Speaker 4: Being happy with that.

3185
02:19:10,480 --> 02:19:14,119
Speaker 2: No, I agree, out there smashing, I agree.

3186
02:19:14,480 --> 02:19:17,959
Speaker 5: So women understand that when your page balance all messed up,

3187
02:19:18,640 --> 02:19:20,080
Speaker 5: you know that's.

3188
02:19:19,920 --> 02:19:23,640
Speaker 2: What she say, do say? That's right.

3189
02:19:23,800 --> 02:19:25,520
Speaker 4: That's sex nowadays is a prayer.

3190
02:19:25,600 --> 02:19:25,840
Speaker 2: Mama.

3191
02:19:26,879 --> 02:19:32,040
Speaker 5: These boys is wild. Yes, yes, here doing it and

3192
02:19:32,640 --> 02:19:37,360
Speaker 5: doing it with each other. They out here doing it

3193
02:19:37,400 --> 02:19:39,039
Speaker 5: with each other and bringing it back to the women.

3194
02:19:42,120 --> 02:19:44,760
Speaker 4: You gotta be really out here.

3195
02:19:46,560 --> 02:19:49,000
Speaker 1: I feel like that's the problem. Black women have not

3196
02:19:49,160 --> 02:19:53,360
Speaker 1: been taught house to date properly. We have always thought

3197
02:19:53,400 --> 02:19:55,040
Speaker 1: that you have to put your eggs in one basket.

3198
02:19:55,080 --> 02:19:56,879
Speaker 1: You shurely be that in one man at a time.

3199
02:19:57,200 --> 02:20:00,760
Speaker 1: You absolutely shouldn't until a man put a on your finger.

3200
02:20:00,800 --> 02:20:04,200
Speaker 1: I feel like it's okay today multiple men. But dating

3201
02:20:04,400 --> 02:20:06,520
Speaker 1: is dating, Dating is going on dates.

3202
02:20:07,200 --> 02:20:09,560
Speaker 2: Just giving it out. Yes, you can't be just giving

3203
02:20:09,600 --> 02:20:11,040
Speaker 2: it out not knowing what you're doing.

3204
02:20:11,320 --> 02:20:13,360
Speaker 5: And it's one of you'll think it was like one

3205
02:20:13,360 --> 02:20:17,320
Speaker 5: of y'all said something about what guys do for girls. Yeah, right,

3206
02:20:18,040 --> 02:20:21,280
Speaker 5: all men are going to love bomb or woman in

3207
02:20:21,360 --> 02:20:24,760
Speaker 5: some way, shape or form, because when you used to

3208
02:20:25,720 --> 02:20:27,439
Speaker 5: doing things at attend.

3209
02:20:27,640 --> 02:20:30,000
Speaker 4: That's just the way you know how to do things.

3210
02:20:30,080 --> 02:20:32,840
Speaker 5: So if you the type to send women flowers, you're

3211
02:20:32,840 --> 02:20:35,400
Speaker 5: gonna always send you know, women flowers. If you the

3212
02:20:35,480 --> 02:20:38,440
Speaker 5: type to you know, buy women bags and all of that,

3213
02:20:38,640 --> 02:20:40,200
Speaker 5: that's what you're going to always do.

3214
02:20:40,360 --> 02:20:42,480
Speaker 2: If you eat Bookie, you're gonna eat bunky. So like,

3215
02:20:42,640 --> 02:20:47,920
Speaker 2: don't think you special, Like that's what is Bunkie Bonky.

3216
02:20:55,800 --> 02:21:02,080
Speaker 3: Laugh like fun with Bookie because I talked about this

3217
02:21:02,200 --> 02:21:06,199
Speaker 3: to my friends and she had she had a situation

3218
02:21:06,320 --> 02:21:08,360
Speaker 3: where she was dating this guy and she was like,

3219
02:21:08,440 --> 02:21:10,520
Speaker 3: oh my god, she's doing this. He's doing that, He's

3220
02:21:10,520 --> 02:21:13,120
Speaker 3: so wonderful. And then they like stopped talking and she

3221
02:21:13,280 --> 02:21:14,880
Speaker 3: was like, what the hell he was doing all these things.

3222
02:21:14,920 --> 02:21:16,680
Speaker 3: I'm like, well, that's normal for him because he dates.

3223
02:21:17,640 --> 02:21:19,480
Speaker 2: That's what. So I think sometimes we have to just

3224
02:21:19,560 --> 02:21:21,040
Speaker 2: take that he's courting you.

3225
02:21:21,280 --> 02:21:23,480
Speaker 3: That's what they're supposed to do, and stop thinking that

3226
02:21:23,920 --> 02:21:25,960
Speaker 3: this man is in love with you just because that's

3227
02:21:26,000 --> 02:21:26,720
Speaker 3: how he dates.

3228
02:21:27,240 --> 02:21:30,360
Speaker 2: That didn't mean anything more than that. You mean, that's

3229
02:21:30,440 --> 02:21:32,480
Speaker 2: just what he's used to. He is being himself.

3230
02:21:33,000 --> 02:21:34,440
Speaker 5: And when you are, like I said, when you are

3231
02:21:34,520 --> 02:21:36,800
Speaker 5: used to taking it to a ten, you're gonna always

3232
02:21:36,840 --> 02:21:38,680
Speaker 5: take it to attend. So don't think you special. You're

3233
02:21:38,720 --> 02:21:41,400
Speaker 5: not special until he shows you that you spec.

3234
02:21:42,840 --> 02:21:47,560
Speaker 2: That's a word. All Right. I'm gonna wrap up this episode.

3235
02:21:47,520 --> 02:21:50,280
Speaker 1: But before we do, I feel like everybody should say

3236
02:21:50,360 --> 02:21:51,960
Speaker 1: what their New Year's resolution is.

3237
02:21:54,280 --> 02:21:57,960
Speaker 2: We're gonna pop. We don't pop our things Okay, we're

3238
02:21:57,959 --> 02:22:00,120
Speaker 2: gonna go first. I don't want to go first, you

3239
02:22:00,160 --> 02:22:04,520
Speaker 2: go first. On what my new Year's resolution is?

3240
02:22:05,280 --> 02:22:08,640
Speaker 1: Ooh okay, So my New Year's resolution for this year

3241
02:22:09,600 --> 02:22:14,760
Speaker 1: is to live more in the moment and stop always

3242
02:22:15,560 --> 02:22:20,640
Speaker 1: focusing on what's necks. I feel like I rarely ever

3243
02:22:20,920 --> 02:22:23,360
Speaker 1: just live in the moment, Like I'm always like, Okay,

3244
02:22:23,440 --> 02:22:25,680
Speaker 1: what's next, Like even to the point that everybody around

3245
02:22:25,760 --> 02:22:27,760
Speaker 1: me is always like, you just did this amazing thing.

3246
02:22:27,840 --> 02:22:30,640
Speaker 1: You just had this amazing accomplishment, and you're not even

3247
02:22:30,680 --> 02:22:32,879
Speaker 1: basking in it because you're always looking forward what you're

3248
02:22:32,920 --> 02:22:35,520
Speaker 1: about to do next. That's something that I suffer from

3249
02:22:35,640 --> 02:22:38,480
Speaker 1: so bad. So next year, I just want to live

3250
02:22:38,520 --> 02:22:42,039
Speaker 1: in a moment more, have more self care days, more

3251
02:22:42,120 --> 02:22:45,800
Speaker 1: self care time for myself because I think that I'm

3252
02:22:45,959 --> 02:22:49,160
Speaker 1: always trying to focus on how to get to where

3253
02:22:49,240 --> 02:22:51,480
Speaker 1: I want to be, and sometimes you just have to

3254
02:22:52,200 --> 02:22:56,520
Speaker 1: be present and appreciate how far God has brought you already.

3255
02:22:57,080 --> 02:22:59,439
Speaker 2: And man, oh yeah, that's my New Year's resolution.

3256
02:23:00,400 --> 02:23:00,480
Speaker 7: Uh.

3257
02:23:00,720 --> 02:23:03,200
Speaker 3: I think for me, I really want to as much

3258
02:23:03,240 --> 02:23:05,280
Speaker 3: as like I pour into poor minds, I want to

3259
02:23:05,280 --> 02:23:07,520
Speaker 3: also do that for my other endeavors that I want

3260
02:23:07,560 --> 02:23:09,000
Speaker 3: to do you know. I want to be able to

3261
02:23:09,680 --> 02:23:12,600
Speaker 3: expand myself, you know, into the acting and doing more

3262
02:23:12,600 --> 02:23:15,760
Speaker 3: stuff for love lexp, doing more things for poor minds,

3263
02:23:15,879 --> 02:23:18,960
Speaker 3: and you know, just expanding my palette of businesses.

3264
02:23:19,320 --> 02:23:21,720
Speaker 2: I want to be naming them like that, you know

3265
02:23:21,760 --> 02:23:23,480
Speaker 2: what I'm saying. So that's my goal is just to

3266
02:23:23,959 --> 02:23:24,840
Speaker 2: be more.

3267
02:23:27,080 --> 02:23:29,960
Speaker 3: Spread, not spreading myself too thin, but just learning how

3268
02:23:30,000 --> 02:23:32,160
Speaker 3: to balance and do it all, you know what I'm saying, Like,

3269
02:23:32,280 --> 02:23:34,560
Speaker 3: don't be like a one trick pony, you know.

3270
02:23:34,959 --> 02:23:38,320
Speaker 2: So yeah, those are great mind. You know what.

3271
02:23:38,879 --> 02:23:43,840
Speaker 5: A few months ago, I was meditating and I said

3272
02:23:43,879 --> 02:23:48,440
Speaker 5: to God. I said, God, I am ready for every

3273
02:23:48,640 --> 02:23:54,360
Speaker 5: single blessing you want to bestow upon me, like like

3274
02:23:54,680 --> 02:24:00,400
Speaker 5: like every single opportunity, you know, just just real in

3275
02:24:00,480 --> 02:24:04,119
Speaker 5: my full potential as a spiritual being living a human

3276
02:24:04,160 --> 02:24:08,520
Speaker 5: existence on this planet. Every single thing you want to

3277
02:24:08,680 --> 02:24:12,200
Speaker 5: pour into me, I am ready for because I think

3278
02:24:12,200 --> 02:24:13,720
Speaker 5: a lot of times, you know, you might deal with

3279
02:24:13,760 --> 02:24:17,520
Speaker 5: imposter syndrome in some ways you might be like, yeah,

3280
02:24:17,560 --> 02:24:19,600
Speaker 5: I want that, but I don't think I'm ready for it.

3281
02:24:19,800 --> 02:24:19,920
Speaker 8: Now.

3282
02:24:20,040 --> 02:24:23,240
Speaker 5: It's just like anah, I'm I'm ready. I've been through

3283
02:24:23,280 --> 02:24:24,760
Speaker 5: the fire, you know what. I mean like like like

3284
02:24:25,080 --> 02:24:27,800
Speaker 5: I've been through the fire. You know, God has put

3285
02:24:27,840 --> 02:24:30,200
Speaker 5: me in a position to where I am able to

3286
02:24:30,480 --> 02:24:36,240
Speaker 5: handle every single thing that I have and every single

3287
02:24:36,320 --> 02:24:38,320
Speaker 5: thing that is coming.

3288
02:24:38,600 --> 02:24:42,120
Speaker 4: So yeah, I just want to be open to.

3289
02:24:42,280 --> 02:24:46,200
Speaker 5: Receiving that on all levels and not even just you know,

3290
02:24:46,280 --> 02:24:49,360
Speaker 5: the soul called good that comes with it everything, because

3291
02:24:49,360 --> 02:24:51,120
Speaker 5: you know, my therapist always tells me some ill shit

3292
02:24:51,240 --> 02:24:54,080
Speaker 5: he goes. You know, there's always two sides to a coin.

3293
02:24:54,480 --> 02:24:57,840
Speaker 5: So you can't have any of your success without the

3294
02:24:57,959 --> 02:25:00,400
Speaker 5: problems that come with it. And sometimes we think that

3295
02:25:00,480 --> 02:25:03,000
Speaker 5: those problems are are bad, but it's just like no,

3296
02:25:03,120 --> 02:25:05,200
Speaker 5: it's just it's life. Like I'm at the point in

3297
02:25:05,240 --> 02:25:07,360
Speaker 5: my life where I don't believe in anything. Everything is

3298
02:25:07,440 --> 02:25:09,360
Speaker 5: so called good, everything is so called bad.

3299
02:25:09,720 --> 02:25:11,000
Speaker 4: All of this is just the process.

3300
02:25:11,520 --> 02:25:16,880
Speaker 5: So I'm ready to embrace the process on every single level.

3301
02:25:17,200 --> 02:25:23,520
Speaker 2: That's good, that's good, that's a good y'all. That movie

3302
02:25:23,760 --> 02:25:25,119
Speaker 2: it's not another team movie.

3303
02:25:27,400 --> 02:25:27,680
Speaker 6: That was.

3304
02:25:30,959 --> 02:25:34,680
Speaker 3: My resolution is to step into my soft woman power.

3305
02:25:36,160 --> 02:25:38,200
Speaker 3: I am a hustler. I think we all are in

3306
02:25:38,280 --> 02:25:42,280
Speaker 3: the zoom and I'm tired. I want to relax. I

3307
02:25:42,320 --> 02:25:44,840
Speaker 3: want to enjoy the fruits of my labor. This was

3308
02:25:44,879 --> 02:25:47,000
Speaker 3: the first year that I was able to actually take

3309
02:25:47,160 --> 02:25:49,880
Speaker 3: vacations and rest and have my team running things for

3310
02:25:50,000 --> 02:25:52,680
Speaker 3: me for my business. So Mixyt and I really want

3311
02:25:52,720 --> 02:25:54,840
Speaker 3: to just step into that a lot more and step

3312
02:25:54,959 --> 02:25:57,879
Speaker 3: back and allow them to kind of step into their

3313
02:25:57,959 --> 02:26:01,440
Speaker 3: power mentor them coach them up. Other women who look

3314
02:26:01,520 --> 02:26:03,600
Speaker 3: like me behind the bar. I just want to step

3315
02:26:03,680 --> 02:26:05,760
Speaker 3: into that a lot more, right.

3316
02:26:05,720 --> 02:26:06,640
Speaker 2: Man, I love that.

3317
02:26:07,480 --> 02:26:09,200
Speaker 3: And then you know, of course, Charlamagne, I want to

3318
02:26:09,200 --> 02:26:11,440
Speaker 3: give you your flowers. You know, thank you for always

3319
02:26:12,400 --> 02:26:16,160
Speaker 3: accepting poor minds for who we are. Believe y of

3320
02:26:16,280 --> 02:26:17,840
Speaker 3: us even when we're not around.

3321
02:26:17,800 --> 02:26:20,280
Speaker 1: Especially when we first started with I feel like not

3322
02:26:20,440 --> 02:26:22,520
Speaker 1: that many other people saw what we were trying to do.

3323
02:26:23,000 --> 02:26:25,760
Speaker 2: You always saw the Vigiennie. You always believe in Mason.

3324
02:26:25,959 --> 02:26:28,480
Speaker 3: Yeah with y'all and just everything you've done you do

3325
02:26:28,640 --> 02:26:31,400
Speaker 3: for like the black community and community in general. And

3326
02:26:31,560 --> 02:26:33,040
Speaker 3: like I said, we meet a lot of men in

3327
02:26:33,120 --> 02:26:36,200
Speaker 3: this industry. It's a very male driven industry. But you

3328
02:26:36,400 --> 02:26:39,240
Speaker 3: and most importantly you're not a weird though. You know,

3329
02:26:39,520 --> 02:26:41,880
Speaker 3: niggas be weird, the energy, be weird, to be off

3330
02:26:41,959 --> 02:26:44,760
Speaker 3: and all type. We have met some characters, but I

3331
02:26:44,840 --> 02:26:47,720
Speaker 3: will always say, your energy is always positive.

3332
02:26:47,920 --> 02:26:48,360
Speaker 2: It's good.

3333
02:26:48,520 --> 02:26:51,040
Speaker 3: It makes us feel welcome and loved, and we really

3334
02:26:51,080 --> 02:26:51,920
Speaker 3: appreciate you for this.

3335
02:26:52,080 --> 02:26:52,520
Speaker 2: Thank you we do.

3336
02:26:52,760 --> 02:26:55,160
Speaker 5: And by the way, that is the greatest compliment a

3337
02:26:55,280 --> 02:26:58,160
Speaker 5: woman can give a man. I didn't realize that until

3338
02:26:58,160 --> 02:27:00,240
Speaker 5: a couple of years ago when I got you know,

3339
02:27:00,240 --> 02:27:01,960
Speaker 5: I got a bunch of you know, homegirls that I

3340
02:27:02,040 --> 02:27:04,760
Speaker 5: call my nieces and this and everything, and they always

3341
02:27:04,800 --> 02:27:08,119
Speaker 5: say I feel safe around Yes, I didn't realize.

3342
02:27:07,720 --> 02:27:09,600
Speaker 4: How unsafe y'all be feeling around men.

3343
02:27:10,200 --> 02:27:12,359
Speaker 2: So y'all find men beard.

3344
02:27:12,240 --> 02:27:15,440
Speaker 3: Energy and just like not good and the energy, the

3345
02:27:15,680 --> 02:27:17,560
Speaker 3: energy just be off a lot of times, and it's

3346
02:27:17,600 --> 02:27:20,200
Speaker 3: like we gotta be like, you know, y'all, you know

3347
02:27:20,200 --> 02:27:22,360
Speaker 3: what I'm saying. But when we are around you, when

3348
02:27:22,400 --> 02:27:24,480
Speaker 3: we had breakfast club even today, like it's been so

3349
02:27:24,720 --> 02:27:28,200
Speaker 3: relaxed and we had a good time today, did I

3350
02:27:28,640 --> 02:27:32,000
Speaker 3: all Right, y'all, y'all, make sure y'all tune in next.

3351
02:27:31,920 --> 02:27:34,960
Speaker 4: Week and it'll be it'll be Valentine's next week on

3352
02:27:35,040 --> 02:27:35,440
Speaker 4: the show.

3353
02:27:41,480 --> 02:27:41,720
Speaker 2: Ship.

3354
02:27:48,280 --> 02:27:49,080
Speaker 4: I think that was God.

3355
02:27:49,640 --> 02:27:52,280
Speaker 2: Loosen it up, give me.

3356
02:27:52,320 --> 02:27:53,959
Speaker 4: Some of that called the.

3357
02:27:56,879 --> 02:28:07,760
Speaker 2: Bookie Jude. Oh there, I'm waiting.

3358
02:28:08,640 --> 02:28:16,439
Speaker 8: I cannot love somebody else, if I can love myself

3359
02:28:16,600 --> 02:28:19,440
Speaker 8: or not to know when it's.

3360
02:28:19,440 --> 02:28:28,680
Speaker 2: Time time to let go for my thing. All I

3361
02:28:28,920 --> 02:28:30,080
Speaker 2: really want.

3362
02:28:30,480 --> 02:28:35,000
Speaker 8: It's to be happy and it's fine love that's mine.

3363
02:28:35,560 --> 02:28:37,440
Speaker 2: It would be so sweet.

3364
02:28:38,480 --> 02:28:43,360
Speaker 8: All I really want it's to be happy and to

3365
02:28:43,520 --> 02:28:45,120
Speaker 8: find a love that's mine.

3366
02:28:45,720 --> 02:28:47,600
Speaker 2: It would be so sweet.

3367
02:28:48,320 --> 02:28:53,720
Speaker 12: Yeah for a sign from my sweet lord. Yeah, I

3368
02:28:54,040 --> 02:28:59,560
Speaker 12: know the service in front of me. Buy you think

3369
02:28:59,640 --> 02:29:02,760
Speaker 12: you're in love, see what you want to see?

3370
02:29:03,520 --> 02:29:06,200
Speaker 2: And all I see is me for you when you

3371
02:29:06,959 --> 02:29:07,400
Speaker 2: for me?

3372
02:29:08,000 --> 02:29:15,240
Speaker 9: Oh, I cannot have the feel inside. I don't know why,

3373
02:29:15,400 --> 02:29:19,120
Speaker 9: but every day you'll want to cry. If I give

3374
02:29:19,240 --> 02:29:21,720
Speaker 9: you one more try to these rules?

3375
02:29:21,760 --> 02:29:22,920
Speaker 2: Will you are back?

3376
02:29:23,320 --> 02:29:29,080
Speaker 9: And if I mean anything to you would make everything alright.

3377
02:29:29,879 --> 02:29:35,840
Speaker 2: Really, it's to be happy. It's if final love that's mind.

3378
02:29:36,480 --> 02:29:41,720
Speaker 2: It would be so sweet. All I really want it's

3379
02:29:41,760 --> 02:29:46,080
Speaker 2: to be happy. And if I final love that's mine,

3380
02:29:46,680 --> 02:29:51,840
Speaker 2: it would be so sweet. All I really want it's

3381
02:29:51,920 --> 02:30:00,680
Speaker 2: to be helper. It would be so sweet. I really

3382
02:30:00,959 --> 02:30:06,400
Speaker 2: want it's a be happy. It's about love that's mine.

3383
02:30:06,959 --> 02:30:08,840
Speaker 2: It would be so sweet.

3384
02:30:11,040 --> 02:30:18,200
Speaker 4: I just want to be so happy. But the yeaser

3385
02:30:18,480 --> 02:30:19,720
Speaker 4: live in me.

3386
02:30:21,360 --> 02:30:23,280
Speaker 2: Yeah, do be leave.

3387
02:30:24,480 --> 02:30:27,880
Speaker 4: We could be happy that we could be happy.

3388
02:30:29,040 --> 02:30:43,520
Speaker 2: I let it breathe. Yeah, yeah, Hey, hey yea. Y'all

3389
02:30:43,640 --> 02:30:51,440
Speaker 2: remember that you don't want the crowd sing than shut

3390
02:30:51,480 --> 02:30:56,360
Speaker 2: out to the w W easy, Happy New Yea. I

3391
02:30:56,480 --> 02:31:18,320
Speaker 2: will see y'all next week. Nicky, thank you a thing.