Speaker 1: Wine Down with Janet Kramer and I Heart Radio Podcast.
Speaker 1: Happy New Year, Happy New Year. It's New Year's two
Speaker 1: thousand nineteen. We're so excited. We're winding down again. This
Speaker 1: is so much fun. We are on location. It's we're
Speaker 1: a seaside on the pier in Santa Monica, California. Yes,
Speaker 1: we are. And what are we celebrating? Then? Everything? Ever?
Speaker 1: Can you be a little more specifically? Freedom? Oh my god. No,
Speaker 1: we're celebrating the fact that we have an iHeart Podcast
Speaker 1: Award that we're nominated for. Um, I think it's in
Speaker 1: a couple of weeks, and we're gonna have a little
Speaker 1: party after this. So we're we're on location with Floppy
Speaker 1: Haired Eastern right now, and uh, we're gonna chat and
Speaker 1: I'm excited. I'm very excited. See what the turnouts like
Speaker 1: and to celebrate our I hope like two people come.
Speaker 1: You did see the line outside all around? There's no line?
Speaker 1: There was not one, Like all, hey, Tori, can you
Speaker 1: open that bottle of wine for us? Bad? Yes? Because
Speaker 1: we are winding down, literally literally winding down. What would
Speaker 1: you say? I can't hear you gotta get on the mic. Um,
Speaker 1: should we just have a glass of wine and start gossiping.
Speaker 1: Girl chat. We have to girl chat? Can we just like,
Speaker 1: should we talk about it now? The elephant in the room.
Speaker 1: I didn't want to say anything, Sarah, We're gonna need
Speaker 1: to bottle each So Michael just did a really deep
Speaker 1: breath like kind of looked at me. You said you
Speaker 1: didn't want to talk about it. He's like, I don't
Speaker 1: think we should talk about it. That was, but Sarah
Speaker 1: gave you the green light. She did. So bottom line,
Speaker 1: if you know my my wind Down podcasters who have
Speaker 1: been following us from the beginning, you know, I've had
Speaker 1: my friend Sara Cruise on the show, and um, she
Speaker 1: basically gave her boyfriend an ultimatum by the end of
Speaker 1: last year that she you know, you know, they've been married,
Speaker 1: they've been not even sorry, Sarah, they've been together. That
Speaker 1: was That was That was a stab in the heart
Speaker 1: and she just probably crashed her car. I'm sorry. She
Speaker 1: has been dating you know, this boy for six years
Speaker 1: and she basically was like, look like I'm ready, like
Speaker 1: I'm ready to have a ring. And she talked to
Speaker 1: him in September and basically gave an ultimatum by the
Speaker 1: end of last year, like she needs a ring, and
Speaker 1: so she had plenty of time to get a ring,
Speaker 1: had plenty of time to plan, and it's two thousand
Speaker 1: nineteen and she doesn't have a ring. She'll get it.
Speaker 1: Amy's putting on her headphones right now. I think she
Speaker 1: needs to stop wanting the ring. But here's the problem.
Speaker 1: She asked what she needed and I told I told Sarah,
Speaker 1: go look, if you don't want me to talk about it,
Speaker 1: I totally understand. But unfortunately people have been I screenshot
Speaker 1: at the message that you sent me and I said,
Speaker 1: let me know what you want me to do, because
Speaker 1: I respect you, like I love you. You're one of
Speaker 1: my best friends. Like you know, we've I understand. But
Speaker 1: for me, it's like it's embarras saying she's put this
Speaker 1: out on a public platform and now all these people
Speaker 1: are She had to turn off her Instagram comments on
Speaker 1: her Instagram page because people are like, where's their ring?
Speaker 1: And it's like, that's so Embarra flooded with emails not
Speaker 1: where's the ring, but they are desperate for an update.
Speaker 1: The update is there's no ring and like that, And honestly,
Speaker 1: I'm pissed, like because because she asked for what she needed.
Speaker 1: She asked for what she wanted and what she needed,
Speaker 1: and ultimately she gave an ultimatum like hey, I'm out
Speaker 1: if But I don't think he believed that she'd be
Speaker 1: out because clearly he didn't set the ring and she's
Speaker 1: still there. You know how I've told you I'm obsessed
Speaker 1: with Abraham Hicks. Yes, I'm obsessed. Who's that. I'm going
Speaker 1: to send you all the YouTube videos. It'll change your life.
Speaker 1: So she would she it whatever, it's sort of an
Speaker 1: alien whatever. She would say that Sarah cannot rely on
Speaker 1: whatever the dude's name is. I forgot to make her
Speaker 1: happy and to like fulfill her in that way. She
Speaker 1: needs to be happy, be So that's why I'm saying,
Speaker 1: is there a way where she can feel fully content
Speaker 1: without the ring? Yes? But yes, and is a therapy
Speaker 1: therapy and but I'm sorry, there's a button this, there's
Speaker 1: no like Michael, like, when we asked for what we
Speaker 1: need to ask for what we want, like that's did
Speaker 1: he not think that she was going to follow through
Speaker 1: with the ultimatum because obviously she's not going to leave, right,
Speaker 1: I think, I mean, I get what Amy saying, but
Speaker 1: She probably feels that they've been dating this long. She's
Speaker 1: in her getting into late twenties, it's that time to
Speaker 1: start doing something for her to be happy. She wants
Speaker 1: to move on with her life, you know, so and
Speaker 1: to her that means getting married and started a family.
Speaker 1: So it's like she's waited around. And she's from Texas,
Speaker 1: so it's like, you know, people they're still get married
Speaker 1: young and have kids and like that's what they do.
Speaker 1: So is the issue just to refresh everyone's memory. She
Speaker 1: doesn't want to have kids without being engaged or married
Speaker 1: like she wants to. She you know, she's old school
Speaker 1: like that, and I respect her and I love her
Speaker 1: for that, Like she and he would have kids like yesterday.
Speaker 1: But no, she wants the ring. She's been together for
Speaker 1: six years. She wants the wedding. She wants to you know.
Speaker 1: And here's the thing that bothers me is she would
Speaker 1: have loved it to be with her friends and families, Like, well,
Speaker 1: I don't want to take away from the holidays. What
Speaker 1: are you talking about your it's the best time to
Speaker 1: do it, Like you're with your family and friends. That's
Speaker 1: what she wanted. Like if you actually like I'm sorry,
Speaker 1: I'm gonna get I've been really frustrated. I've been trying
Speaker 1: not to like because I'm you know, obviously she's got
Speaker 1: her family and all our friends and then the Instagram
Speaker 1: and the podcasts, everyone like barking at her. But it's
Speaker 1: like it's just frustrates me. And then I asked Michael
Speaker 1: this the other day. I said, you know, there's certain
Speaker 1: certain times where I've said to him, if you do
Speaker 1: this again, I'm out, and just like just like she
Speaker 1: said to him, and you don't know, I don't know,
Speaker 1: but listen, because I said, just like she said to him,
Speaker 1: if you don't give me the ring, I'm out. But
Speaker 1: it's like you guys don't because you've done it. He
Speaker 1: didn't do it, like you kept doing the things even
Speaker 1: though I said, I'm out if you keep doing this.
Speaker 1: But it's like you guys don't trust our ultimatums. It's
Speaker 1: not that we don't trust him, it's just what is
Speaker 1: it like you think we're just like week and we
Speaker 1: wouldn't leave you. No, I don't think he has anything
Speaker 1: to do with that. I think it's I think it's
Speaker 1: literally just we're so simple sometimes we're so simple minded
Speaker 1: that we don't really think that fore ahead of okay,
Speaker 1: she's really gonna leave. I don't do this like I
Speaker 1: love Joanna's face because Janna's face is every girl. I'm like,
Speaker 1: I don't understand Michaels every guy. And I think there's
Speaker 1: something to what he's saying in that if she almost
Speaker 1: surrenders it to the universe. And you know, I'm big
Speaker 1: in the she's like forty five, fifty and still not
Speaker 1: married with kids, I think that's wrong with it. Amy.
Speaker 1: I'm just saying, like, you know what, I was like,
Speaker 1: let's say keep I was gonna say forty, but let's
Speaker 1: let's just keep going, like unless she's sixty and still
Speaker 1: ask you know, the question is if we were to
Speaker 1: ask her, she probably never talked to us again. But
Speaker 1: if she ever talks us again. Now, I asked, on
Speaker 1: the list of priorities, is it marriage then kids, because
Speaker 1: it's okay, but she wants kids. She wants kids, next
Speaker 1: to she wants to get married. Next she's like, is
Speaker 1: she willing to change her order? And no, no this time.
Speaker 1: And that's why I love her because she's like, this
Speaker 1: is what I freak, and that's what that's why I
Speaker 1: literally want to Just remember Dr said, she's supposed to
Speaker 1: move out. I know, but she's not going to when
Speaker 1: that's the thing? Is he and I told him, I
Speaker 1: go every time he's you know, made a mistake. I said,
Speaker 1: if you do this again, I'm gonna leave. And you
Speaker 1: do it again, I wouldn't leave, and then he and
Speaker 1: I'm like and then finally it's like, I'm leaving and
Speaker 1: then they go, oh wait, you know. Just remember Dr
Speaker 1: Wendy Welsh said she has to now leave and then
Speaker 1: she'll get the ring in a month. But but they're
Speaker 1: saying that it's going to come in the next couple
Speaker 1: of months, is what opposed? Apparently like he's saying to
Speaker 1: other people, then she should just chill out. No, because
Speaker 1: here's the thing, is it? This is what I said
Speaker 1: in two months? While are you conning January? So is
Speaker 1: it going to be March? Is it going to be February?
Speaker 1: That's what she needs, a surrender to the universe, be happy,
Speaker 1: trust that everything's gonna be okay in her mind, give
Speaker 1: herself another six months or no, because she wants to
Speaker 1: get married next like late next year. She can get
Speaker 1: and get married in three days later. That doesn't Amy,
Speaker 1: don't play the wedding like out like you don't unders know.
Speaker 1: Sarah would never allow like she wants like the Kim
Speaker 1: Kardashian wedding, like with like massive flowers, you know, like
Speaker 1: this is her moment. She's the it's like it's Princess
Speaker 1: Sarah getting married, you know what I mean? Yeah, I
Speaker 1: mean she is like it is the queen getting married.
Speaker 1: Michael has to answer because he's the dude. Yeah, on
Speaker 1: what is going on in Gretzky's head. He's not the
Speaker 1: great one. Let me tell you that right now. See,
Speaker 1: I'm not gonna get on her. I think they're to
Speaker 1: a level of degree there is maybe a little too
Speaker 1: much comfortability there where there they've been together so long,
Speaker 1: he's so comfortable with their relationship. He's so they're so
Speaker 1: setting their ways where he probably didn't take her serious.
Speaker 1: You know, he probably was like a yeah, I know
Speaker 1: you say this, but we're gonna get married, like I
Speaker 1: know we're gonna be together, like it's gonna come basically
Speaker 1: deal with it. Um. I just think, to to Janna's point,
Speaker 1: like women will say that and until are the men's
Speaker 1: feet is are really held to the fire. We might
Speaker 1: not act on it. So I think this whole scenario
Speaker 1: probably held his feet to the fire enough where maybe
Speaker 1: hopefully he's realizing kind of the backlash and how much
Speaker 1: attention there is around this, if he even pays attention
Speaker 1: to it. And because my thing is like I haven't
Speaker 1: talked to him or anything, but I would say, dude,
Speaker 1: she did ask for what she needed. She's I mean,
Speaker 1: she's like begging you, like she's telling you if you
Speaker 1: want to spend your life with her, just do it.
Speaker 1: In a guy's head, please be a guy, I need
Speaker 1: to know this. Is there any chance he's not doing
Speaker 1: it yet because of the weird ultimatum, So now he's
Speaker 1: going to do it when because it's not ultimate? Absolutely no,
Speaker 1: I totally disagree. I'm not the dude, I know you got.
Speaker 1: I'm not saying no, I'm not saying that he's purposely
Speaker 1: doing that, but that could absolutely because that's something I
Speaker 1: would do. Really, I was in I was in a
Speaker 1: similar situation to this. Really your wife ultimatum, do not
Speaker 1: not like I'm going to leave. But she said, uh,
Speaker 1: how we were We were friends for like a decade
Speaker 1: and then we had been dating for like a year
Speaker 1: and a half. Two years, and she said, do you
Speaker 1: think we will get married? And I I'm like, I
Speaker 1: don't know wherever the wind takes us. Classic I'm like,
Speaker 1: I want to wait till I'm making like five or
Speaker 1: six million dollars a year before I do this. I
Speaker 1: want you to have the perfect and she's like, I
Speaker 1: want to get married to have kids. If that's not
Speaker 1: going to happen, we should end this. And I'm like okay,
Speaker 1: and then we like I got a ring like a
Speaker 1: month later. Because that that really the fear of her.
Speaker 1: I was like, I need It was like fire to
Speaker 1: your exactly, which is what Janna did to me too.
Speaker 1: But it's tricky because to Amy's point, like initially with Janna,
Speaker 1: there was some I held some kind of resentment towards
Speaker 1: that because it wasn't I felt. Granted, they've been together,
Speaker 1: so he can't really feel rushed, but it doesn't feel
Speaker 1: like maybe it's on his time or at least he
Speaker 1: has no control, so he's just kind of giving in,
Speaker 1: like Okay, I'm giving you whatever you need here, and
Speaker 1: then there's no spark in it. There's no I think
Speaker 1: she's getting the ring within the next six months, and
Speaker 1: she needs to not speak of it for the next
Speaker 1: six months. I think there's so much on it because
Speaker 1: maybe he also wants it to be a surprise. I
Speaker 1: don't know. Yeah, he did say that to the want.
Speaker 1: He's like, well, you knew what was going to happen, Well, yeah,
Speaker 1: because I asked for it, though, But like, like, that's
Speaker 1: what she wants, Like that's what we always say, asked
Speaker 1: for what you want, asked for what you need it
Speaker 1: or whether it came when she asked for it, So
Speaker 1: I have feels disrespectful to me? Is that sorry? It
Speaker 1: does it? He didn't respect her enough to do what
Speaker 1: she wanted. And I'm going down the wormhole and I'd
Speaker 1: love to hear Jana versus Michael on this. Here we go,
Speaker 1: bring it. Okay, let's say he did it. Let's say
Speaker 1: he gave the ring on her timeline. Amazing, Her family
Speaker 1: and friends would have been there to be in this
Speaker 1: huge celebration. They had something to bring into the new year.
Speaker 1: Is she going to wonder? Because what I'm learning is
Speaker 1: we get what we want, we want something more. When
Speaker 1: we get what we want, we want something more. So
Speaker 1: would she have always wondered did he only do it
Speaker 1: because of the ultimatum? Is this a better way to
Speaker 1: start their marriage? Okay? Your question though? Do women even
Speaker 1: care that they do it based on an ultimatum? Janna,
Speaker 1: I'm sorry, repeat the question, Michael, do if if women okay,
Speaker 1: are you yourself? If you if your species okay, gives
Speaker 1: the male species an ultimatum and we act on that,
Speaker 1: then what was your what you say? An? You don't
Speaker 1: even know? So it's let's say he did the ring
Speaker 1: on Christmas right right before the deadline, which was amazing
Speaker 1: in March. Is she going to think to herself? Did
Speaker 1: he only propose because I gave him that ultimatum and
Speaker 1: he doesn't really want this? And then she goes down
Speaker 1: the spiral? Is it better if it comes in the
Speaker 1: next six months? Yeah? I don't think. I don't think
Speaker 1: she would. I think she would. If a woman asked
Speaker 1: gets what she needs, what she asked for, I think
Speaker 1: they're completely content no matter what. I think that would
Speaker 1: be unfair if if you ask her something, if you
Speaker 1: ask for something and then we do it, and then
Speaker 1: you hold it against us because like, wells, did you
Speaker 1: do you really love me? Do you really want to
Speaker 1: marry me? You asked for it? I'm giving it to you. Um,
Speaker 1: I never did that though, when I told you basically,
Speaker 1: I don't want to play house with you. Whether it
Speaker 1: was two months or six months, you know what I mean.
Speaker 1: You didn't do what I didn't say. I didn't I
Speaker 1: didn't say, well, did you just marry me? Because I
Speaker 1: gave an ultimatum, I got what I wanted and I
Speaker 1: was happy. That's my point. Yeah, but that's fine, that's wrong.
Speaker 1: I'm just wondering for poor poor Sarah if the universe
Speaker 1: is just giving her what I ultimately does want, which
Speaker 1: is she wants to feel that he did it because
Speaker 1: he wants to show that, so give it another I
Speaker 1: think he's just he's California bread. I think he's just
Speaker 1: you know, just kicking the sand with his feet, like
Speaker 1: you know what I mean, Like just he loves Sarah.
Speaker 1: I have no doubt in my mind. But I think,
Speaker 1: you know, he's just of like you know, she's not
Speaker 1: going to leave. Do you think there's any fear around it?
Speaker 1: Where like Amy saying the ring might not be enough.
Speaker 1: So maybe he gets to the ring right and then
Speaker 1: she's like, okay, we got a planner wedding. Okay, when
Speaker 1: we should we start having kids. Okay, we're already planning
Speaker 1: the wedding, so like he doesn't have to worry about anything.
Speaker 1: But I'm saying, but it's not about him having to
Speaker 1: do the planning. It's about like boom boom boom boom boom.
Speaker 1: It's like no, no, because he wants a kid. So anyways,
Speaker 1: moving on. Bottom line, I love you Sarah, and you
Speaker 1: know what, she's supposed to be going to San Antonio.
Speaker 1: That was her ultimatum. She's I don't think she is.
Speaker 1: But it's all good. Now what is she bummed? That's
Speaker 1: the thing that sucks the most if she's bummed, and
Speaker 1: it's not why it's not doing anything. Why we were
Speaker 1: talking on her behalf right now, which again I said,
Speaker 1: I I will, I don't have to talk, but I
Speaker 1: said with Sarah gave us the okay. So anyways, that's
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Speaker 1: Teeth brushing because you always get on me about brushing
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Speaker 1: and do not brush your teeth. I do brush my
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Speaker 1: so I'm super excited because on location with us at
Speaker 1: this at the Santa Monica here is Mariah k Lions. Okay,
Speaker 1: so oh yeah, there's your there's your headphones. Um, obviously
Speaker 1: you have a lot going on. I mean your resume
Speaker 1: here is like for for like days. All I saw
Speaker 1: is the crystals and I'm like the biggest Oh those
Speaker 1: are so cy weight. She's showing me her shoes. Can
Speaker 1: you pronounce how they're spelled? Astara? Oh those are really cool. Yes,
Speaker 1: those are beautiful. Can you tell our listeners about them? Yeah?
Speaker 1: It's also grounding and healing crystalline shoe line so each
Speaker 1: shoe has a different crystal on, it has a different intentionality,
Speaker 1: and then there's actually a grounding component in the soul
Speaker 1: of the shoe that resonates at the same frequency of
Speaker 1: the earth. So it's like walking bare fut Oh that
Speaker 1: sounds really cool. Okay, So I just have to say please,
Speaker 1: like I'm not trying to be like disrespectful at all
Speaker 1: at all. I just don't understand the crystal thing because
Speaker 1: my girlfriend Julie is like really big into crystals and
Speaker 1: she's like she brings me over and she's like doing
Speaker 1: these like tarot cards and having she's like this crystals
Speaker 1: for healing, this, crystals for like this, and I'm like,
Speaker 1: it's a rock. Don't know what I mean, Like, what
Speaker 1: is it? I get that all the time, Like I'm
Speaker 1: not trying to talk to because he's like, oh my god, Julius,
Speaker 1: so thing crazy. I think my husband thought that very
Speaker 1: early on in our relationship and now he's just like
Speaker 1: embracing it and there's stones and rocks everywhere. Um, I
Speaker 1: have a bunch that I will show you and you
Speaker 1: will feel and I'll walk you through the different frequency.
Speaker 1: So everything. I'm sorry, I'm just like, no, I mean
Speaker 1: there are. Here's the thing, science and research has not
Speaker 1: been able to prove it. Right. Tesla worked with crystals
Speaker 1: for a very long time. He has quotes saying that
Speaker 1: we can't scientifically prove crystals are alive, but we also
Speaker 1: can't prove that they're not. Um. I liken it to
Speaker 1: plants and animals in that they each have their own
Speaker 1: frequency and they each have their own information. Right. Um,
Speaker 1: everything is frequency in vibration. Colors are frequency, Uh, musical tones,
Speaker 1: everything has a tonality. Everything has a frequency. Our bodies
Speaker 1: are frequency. Our bodies are vibration their energy that's condensed
Speaker 1: and to matter, rocks are the same way. So I
Speaker 1: know you you're looking at me and you're like lost. Um,
Speaker 1: So I liken it to colors or musical tones and
Speaker 1: that there's high pitch ones, there's low pitch ones. Um. Okay,
Speaker 1: we need to show us an example. Yeah, okay, let okay,
Speaker 1: what do I have hair that's a true lay saget
Speaker 1: that's falling on the floor. Okay, so like that's a
Speaker 1: like you know what I mean, Like it looks like
Speaker 1: something did this rock just choose me? Because it fell up?
Speaker 1: It's actually dead. So if you want to go on
Speaker 1: a christal reading with that means you just spend a
Speaker 1: little bit more time in nature, spend a little bit
Speaker 1: more time getting grounded. Um all right, can I do
Speaker 1: a little like experiment on you guys? Yes please, I'm
Speaker 1: so excited. Close your eyes, okay, put out your hand.
Speaker 1: Put out your hand. Are you giving me the skeptic rock?
Speaker 1: So basically what's happening right now is they're both of
Speaker 1: our eyes are closed. She's going through her bag of crystal.
Speaker 1: She just puts something in my hand, Baby, is something
Speaker 1: in yours? So close your hand. Okay, we're closing your
Speaker 1: hands and just weekend to like deep in your breath.
Speaker 1: So crystals work on frequency and energy that I'm drinking
Speaker 1: wine totally. I mean I wanted to alter my state
Speaker 1: and just start to feel what that stone feels like
Speaker 1: in your hand. Obviously your brain is going to go too.
Speaker 1: It's a rock in my hand. I have no idea
Speaker 1: what you're talking about. And this chick is crazy, right,
Speaker 1: So it's okay. Just tune into how you're feeling. Just
Speaker 1: tune into what that rock actually makes you feel. Just
Speaker 1: turned into what your subtle body is doing right now,
Speaker 1: start to tune into how your energy is feeling. Maybe
Speaker 1: your mind is racing, maybe there's some emotions coming up,
Speaker 1: maybe there's googles coming up, whatever it is, just start
Speaker 1: to tune into how you're feeling and just take one
Speaker 1: more deep breath with that. Okay, cool, and then open
Speaker 1: your eyes. Okay, can we look at it rock? Yeah,
Speaker 1: it's one big black rock. How did you How did
Speaker 1: you feel centered? It felt like all my focus was
Speaker 1: on the rock is at the point, So this is
Speaker 1: black germinin black Germlin is very grounding. So that's like
Speaker 1: exactly how you would feel at that stone, right, So
Speaker 1: it's very grounding and rooting. If you're working with the chakra,
Speaker 1: the energy systems of the body, it's your root chakra,
Speaker 1: it's your base chakra. It's very earthy and very grounding.
Speaker 1: So it's if you're thinking about um musical tones is
Speaker 1: like a low, very low tone. It literally grounds you
Speaker 1: into the earth. So being focused or feeling calm or
Speaker 1: centered is exactly what that stone does. So question, Yeah,
Speaker 1: a lot of people just have crystals like around their house.
Speaker 1: So if I'm not holding it, then how is it
Speaker 1: connecting to me to feel grounded? Because it's radiating that vibration.
Speaker 1: So crystal store. Okay, so we have crystals, we have
Speaker 1: we have clear courts in our cell phones, we have
Speaker 1: them in our TVs, we have them. The first radio
Speaker 1: frequency was programmed by clear courts. It literally emits frequency
Speaker 1: and information out. It's like you know all the sci
Speaker 1: fi movies, any cartoons, like the Laser Man, It like
Speaker 1: shoots out like that's real, Like that's actually like legit,
Speaker 1: legit rail um. And that's how the first radio frequency
Speaker 1: was program was by clear courts. So if you think
Speaker 1: that there is a piece right that is emitting information out,
Speaker 1: then it's holding onto a specific vibration and it's emitting
Speaker 1: that out regardless if you're holding it or if it's
Speaker 1: in the room. So that stone, it's emitting out the
Speaker 1: information that is stored in that is is radiating out
Speaker 1: in the room. So it's radiating out this this grounded
Speaker 1: focused It's an actual, like tangible physical presence of it.
Speaker 1: It's not just like a belief. That's what you're saying. Yes,
Speaker 1: that's how I work with it. Like I said, science
Speaker 1: can't prove that, um, but there has been science that
Speaker 1: has shown that clear courts particles can hold on to
Speaker 1: ormation for up to three hundred million years. So I
Speaker 1: always say it's like the O G thumb drive, Like
Speaker 1: it's literally like storing on information and frequency um, which
Speaker 1: is why people set intentions with crystals right there, like
Speaker 1: setting intention with the crystal because it literally stores it
Speaker 1: like a thumb drive or like a it stores it
Speaker 1: and then if you put it somewhere in your house,
Speaker 1: it's radiating that information, that intention that you set in
Speaker 1: the house. So it's a it's a yes, it's a
Speaker 1: visible it's a visible reminder of like this is the
Speaker 1: intention that I set, but it's also radiating that frequency out.
Speaker 1: So what crystal should we have in our house then?
Speaker 1: To be happy and positive? And you know, I don't
Speaker 1: know what kind of I don't know what kind of
Speaker 1: crystals move went around because ually has all these crystals
Speaker 1: in our house? And yeah, I mean there's so many
Speaker 1: different ones. I brought you an angelite and I brought
Speaker 1: you a rose quarts um And what do those do?
Speaker 1: That is like really good for a baby round um
Speaker 1: because they're really fine light angelic celestial vibration, really great
Speaker 1: for sleeping, and really great for just kind of like
Speaker 1: cozy at um and then there's different things. You know,
Speaker 1: in a family room, if you wanted a celestite or
Speaker 1: something that's a little bit more communal, that's going to
Speaker 1: UM have people having conversations together. I always have black
Speaker 1: turmaline and smoky courts around our computers and our TVs
Speaker 1: because they emit electromnetic gradation UM and the black turmale
Speaker 1: in the smoky courts helps to protect against EMF. So
Speaker 1: it helps almost like counterbalance those waves and those harmful
Speaker 1: um frequencies that are that are electronics in met What
Speaker 1: got you into being being such an advocate or a
Speaker 1: believer in using crystals. I was like a secret crystal
Speaker 1: nerd for such a long time. Yeah, totally. Um. I
Speaker 1: grew up in Utah. I grew up like the mountains
Speaker 1: in my backyard. I grew up running around my husband's
Speaker 1: from midtown of Manhattan, so like we're very different. Um.
Speaker 1: But yeah, I mean we used to go out in
Speaker 1: the desert and cut geo's open and I've always just
Speaker 1: been around it. Um. I noticed such a difference in
Speaker 1: my life with working with them, um, Like in what
Speaker 1: sense in a sense of you know, I would bring
Speaker 1: them to work if I had an important meeting years
Speaker 1: ago when I was in the corporate space of it
Speaker 1: that was either courage building or that was super grounding
Speaker 1: that would help me speak clearly. Um, and yes, like
Speaker 1: maybe it was just the idea of it or almost
Speaker 1: like a placebo effect, but truthfully, like I don't really
Speaker 1: think it matters, Like if it works for you, even
Speaker 1: the placebo effect, like that's great, you know, I think
Speaker 1: it's really just kind of getting you to that that
Speaker 1: next space that you're trying to move into and whatever form.
Speaker 1: Hopefully you know, it's like its own spiritual belief right,
Speaker 1: like there's no evidence of a certain higher power being
Speaker 1: more prominent or truthful than another, but you believe in it.
Speaker 1: It just is so I can understand why someone could
Speaker 1: be into something. And yeah, we don't see it that way.
Speaker 1: But if you believe in it, and that's all that matters,
Speaker 1: and then it helps you, then you know, like helps
Speaker 1: your day and your dreams and encouragement and yeah, it's
Speaker 1: like one tool in the toolbox, you know. I mean
Speaker 1: it's not like, um, it's not like the crystal is
Speaker 1: gonna make all your dreams come true. Absolutely not. And
Speaker 1: I would never say that, you know what I mean? Um,
Speaker 1: I think it's more of like it becomes almost a
Speaker 1: question of mind of a matter, right, becomes a question
Speaker 1: of of a tuning your mind and your focus and
Speaker 1: your intention to what it is that you want. And
Speaker 1: then obviously you have to take that actionable steps towards that.
Speaker 1: You can't just sit in bed and rub a crystal
Speaker 1: and think that like everything's Yeah, where where can our
Speaker 1: listeners find you? Like? Where? Like are you? What else
Speaker 1: are you doing? Um? What else am I doing? I'm
Speaker 1: working on the book this year. Yeah, I'm still working
Speaker 1: on the line. The line has been amazing. I'm working
Speaker 1: our listeners find the line stuff. The line is a
Speaker 1: star so online, it's a star a collective a T
Speaker 1: A R A UM and on social and then I'm
Speaker 1: Maria k lions dot com. Yeah I love it. Well,
Speaker 1: thank you so much. I'm like, I think we should
Speaker 1: try it. I want to give it a try. I
Speaker 1: really do. Can we do? What can we do? One word?
Speaker 1: Closing eyes? You try it to mm hmm, just giving
Speaker 1: me the whole bag. I'll just it all over my body.
Speaker 1: And yes, like there are certain prescriptions that you can
Speaker 1: do for crystals, but it's so individual. Okay, close your end,
Speaker 1: close your eyes, and then just begin to tune in again.
Speaker 1: So let your breath deepen, Just begin to tune back in.
Speaker 1: You start to notice, like the subtle sensations in your hands,
Speaker 1: a subtle sensations in your body. Just notice how you're feeling,
Speaker 1: if any emotions come up, any sensations, and then you
Speaker 1: can open your eyes. Did you notice the difference between
Speaker 1: these ones and all? This one felt like warm and active?
Speaker 1: Does that make sense? What about you? Beb I felt
Speaker 1: like energy, like going out apposed to like feeling like
Speaker 1: towards my feet. I felt it like Amy. What did
Speaker 1: you feel close to him right there? Peace? Calm and sex.
Speaker 1: I mean, I think you need to take that one
Speaker 1: home with That sounds like the best you have ever? Yeah?
Speaker 1: Why did it do that? So it's holding that vibration
Speaker 1: like we talked about, right, So it's holding that frequency.
Speaker 1: I often liken it to like plants. How let's say
Speaker 1: you're lavender. You wouldn't use lavender to wake up in
Speaker 1: the morning. You're gonna use lavender to like calm down
Speaker 1: or to take a bath and just like to really
Speaker 1: get calm. You wouldn't eat chili peppers if you want
Speaker 1: to go to sleep right away. It's a similar thing.
Speaker 1: So minerals are the same thing. Like they each have
Speaker 1: their own personality, their own vibe, their own thing going on.
Speaker 1: So if you wanna, you know, have a fun night,
Speaker 1: maybe started working with some rose Courts. You have a
Speaker 1: Rose Courts as well, and then you have a pink
Speaker 1: Opal and so Rose Courts like like you were feeling that, like, um,
Speaker 1: the energy moving out Rose Courts is great for for
Speaker 1: your heart. Um, it is a love stone predominantly, Yes, absolutely,
Speaker 1: I mean that's literally piece harmony and one thousand percent
Speaker 1: was at stone. And if you think about your heart,
Speaker 1: you're like you're red eating out from your heart. So
Speaker 1: it's this energy, this frequency, this vibration that is red
Speaker 1: eating out from your heart. So we should keep that
Speaker 1: like in our master bedroom. Rose Courts is great for
Speaker 1: the Rose Courts, wreaking it down Rose Courts for the
Speaker 1: master bedroom the new house. Okay, I got it. I
Speaker 1: love it, Aust And well, thank you so much. I
Speaker 1: really thank you so much. So I think Michael should
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Speaker 1: you really like, I mean, you have so much hair,
Speaker 1: I really think you should. I mean, you have such
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Speaker 1: so we're talking about the Moy Twilight app. Okay, so
Speaker 1: I kind of want to talk about Well, first of all,
Speaker 1: can I just ask you, did you really feel anything
Speaker 1: with the crystals? I mean, it's one of those things
Speaker 1: where it's all believing, so maybe, but you don't even
Speaker 1: know the right answer. I'll never become an advocate. I'll
Speaker 1: never use them, but I mean still like, no disrespect
Speaker 1: to because I think she's so sweet. But like, I'm
Speaker 1: also like holding the crystal and I'm like, I think
Speaker 1: it's I'm double guessing. Wait into what my feeling that's from?
Speaker 1: I feel like that. Okay, I I don't even know
Speaker 1: what the hell I'm feeling. Our minds aren't training to
Speaker 1: do that. So for me, it's like it's almost like
Speaker 1: if I would put a pen in my hand, close
Speaker 1: my eyes, and I breathe deep, well, I'll feel the pen.
Speaker 1: That would distracted me. So maybe I'm feeling something now.
Speaker 1: I'm feeling centered because we're taking a deep breath and
Speaker 1: we're holding something. Amy. I think it's all hullabaloo, except
Speaker 1: that who cares, you know what I mean? Like who cares?
Speaker 1: Like what, Like it's all kind of I don't want
Speaker 1: to swear um b s except maybe it's not, do
Speaker 1: you know what I mean? Like I've always like that's
Speaker 1: how I am about all that kind of stuff. Again,
Speaker 1: it's all your belief system. I'm always like, maybe this
Speaker 1: is cuckoo crazy, but like it kind of makes me
Speaker 1: feel good, so why not like if like if someone
Speaker 1: I always wish I really had a crystal ball, like
Speaker 1: does that work? Does this work? But we don't know
Speaker 1: it's every time, which, by the way, we're getting a
Speaker 1: magic eight ball for our house. So basically what Michael
Speaker 1: and I've decided. So there's been a few times the
Speaker 1: past couple of weeks where Michael is a little more
Speaker 1: leading with TV. I'm more of a strickler, and so
Speaker 1: Jolie will be like Mommy like CFI and I'm like, no, sweetheart,
Speaker 1: like go play with some of your games at Santa
Speaker 1: just got you, like no, And then she was daddy Mini,
Speaker 1: and I was like, oh my god, because she knows
Speaker 1: that like Michael is going to put like a Mini
Speaker 1: and Mickey like the club Mickey's Clubhouse on or whatever.
Speaker 1: It's not necessarily true at all. Every morning I come
Speaker 1: out and like, Nicky's on when how dare you? How
Speaker 1: dare you know? It's just because Janna anytime she wants
Speaker 1: to someone's about to watch Jolie or I have Jolie.
Speaker 1: She's the way she delivers it is so mean and aggressive.
Speaker 1: Oh my god, time out makes your no TV? Like
Speaker 1: what she can't she has all she can watch TV.
Speaker 1: She can't watch TV. I'm just saying people that are
Speaker 1: that aren't us should be playing with our child. I'm like,
Speaker 1: worre fantastic parents and if decide, okay, we'll get to that. Okay.
Speaker 1: But anyways, Jolie said, you know, Daddy's e V and
Speaker 1: I'm like, oh my god, and he's like, well, I
Speaker 1: don't know, Like okay, I mean, Janna, you're being a
Speaker 1: little hard, and I'm like, so, I think if it's
Speaker 1: something that we agree, like we're not that strong on,
Speaker 1: we should get a magic eight ball, like asked the
Speaker 1: magic eight ball. Yeah, so Julie, if you if you want, yeah, exactly, Mom,
Speaker 1: do you really care? And I don't really care that much,
Speaker 1: but like we could talk each other into the other side,
Speaker 1: but you say, let's let the magic ball be for
Speaker 1: Jolie to be not on you. Yeah, and it's kind
Speaker 1: of if you sort of stalls where you're like absolutely
Speaker 1: not exactly. And we said what we said would be
Speaker 1: great is if we had someone may make us a
Speaker 1: magic a ball, and it was all like no, it
Speaker 1: was all like the negative responses. So anytime the kids
Speaker 1: go and use it, it's always no. But they don't
Speaker 1: know that not a chance. Didn't know. Do you guys
Speaker 1: believe in signs? Like what kind like signs from the
Speaker 1: universe like everything. Let's say I'm like, I don't know.
Speaker 1: You get in the car and certain songs on and
Speaker 1: you're like, oh my god, it's a sign the queen
Speaker 1: of that sign. Yeah, I like the queen of signs.
Speaker 1: Can we just go back to the fact that you
Speaker 1: just called me mean the other day because it wasn't
Speaker 1: about being mean. Can I just like rewind this really
Speaker 1: fast for the past months. No, I'm sorry for the
Speaker 1: past six weeks because Jason six weeks old, we've had
Speaker 1: someone in town in our house, so Amy like, that's
Speaker 1: you know, we have a very small house. It's family,
Speaker 1: but it's still it's family and friends, but it's still
Speaker 1: hard and so at the end of it, like nothing
Speaker 1: against I love your brother more than anything. He's awesome.
Speaker 1: But unfortunately, like I was getting kind of it's not
Speaker 1: the brunt of it, but it was just like we
Speaker 1: were you know, I just didn't want the TV on
Speaker 1: because it's just it wasn't even about the TV. It
Speaker 1: was just the fact that I just wanted to I
Speaker 1: just wanted our house to ourselves. And it was just
Speaker 1: I guess I said, and you know, Jolie shouldn't be
Speaker 1: watching any TV. And He's like, you said that very passive,
Speaker 1: and I was like, no, I didn't, And all of
Speaker 1: a sudden, I was like, I just want our house
Speaker 1: to ourselves. And I knew there was so much more
Speaker 1: behind it, but it's like after a baby, I'm like,
Speaker 1: I just like I need, like I just I'm so
Speaker 1: happy that we now have our like our home to ourselves,
Speaker 1: and like every visit from everybody where, those friends and fame,
Speaker 1: they were fantastic, but it's just the fact that we've
Speaker 1: had six weeks of someone in our house. Well I
Speaker 1: get it because sometimes I don't even know how you
Speaker 1: have it with each other because sometimes I need a
Speaker 1: loan time, Like actually I don't I don't understand that
Speaker 1: you and Mike are the same. Because I could be
Speaker 1: with him seven and it could be with me every second,
Speaker 1: every day until the day we die and become fine.
Speaker 1: I think it's great. And He's like, like Mike, Mike's
Speaker 1: dream days to spend the entire day without me. In
Speaker 1: my dream days, that spend the entire day with him.
Speaker 1: So I'm like, that's hurtful, hurtful. It's what I personally enjoyed.
Speaker 1: That sucks. Really, I know, like that you enjoy spending
Speaker 1: the day without me, like that hurts me days I
Speaker 1: spend with you, So if I get, but your dream
Speaker 1: day is not spent like my dream day is to
Speaker 1: sit at the beach, have a glass of wine, toes
Speaker 1: in the sand. And you hate sand, you hate like
Speaker 1: being with me. I think my dream day would be
Speaker 1: to be toes in the sand beach with like the guy.
Speaker 1: I like, that would be awesome. But then right like
Speaker 1: twenty days later of that, I kind of need like
Speaker 1: a little time with my own laptop and the TV
Speaker 1: shows I want and just no one in my no
Speaker 1: one chirping at me, no one doing anything. See, I
Speaker 1: need that from the kids. Like today, I'm like I
Speaker 1: need a minute, I need twenty minutes on the treadmill. Like,
Speaker 1: but I would have loved for youth to gone out
Speaker 1: there with me and like work out with me. I'd
Speaker 1: have been fine with that, but you couldn't because I
Speaker 1: had had to take care of Jase. But still, like,
Speaker 1: you know what I mean, I offered to take care
Speaker 1: of so you can go do that because well, thank you.
Speaker 1: And then he spent two hours at the barbershop, which
Speaker 1: then he like shaved off. I was like, how are
Speaker 1: you still at the barbershop? Like you're bald? Like what
Speaker 1: are they doing? Anyways, So there's an email going around
Speaker 1: that we need to read because apparently it's pretty juicy.
Speaker 1: Here you go East, Okay, sorry forgot It's okay, you
Speaker 1: can you can leave those on. Uh. I'm really proud
Speaker 1: to be the one to deliver this to you. Do
Speaker 1: I have it? No? A habit says I want a habit.
Speaker 1: You do not have it. So this will be theater
Speaker 1: of the mind. You just have to close your eyes
Speaker 1: and visual Crystal, my boyfriend of six months and I
Speaker 1: are very happy and I've been on cloud nine six months.
Speaker 1: Boyfriend found I need to write now six months six months, boyfriend, Okay,
Speaker 1: we're never gonna get through them. I'm sorry, Okay, I
Speaker 1: just have to get all my facts. Here's your next
Speaker 1: bullet point. I found something on his phone that worried me.
Speaker 1: Phone worried Okay. We used his phone to take pictures
Speaker 1: on New Year's Eve, and the next day I grabbed
Speaker 1: his phone and told him I was going to send
Speaker 1: myself the pictures, while doing so with his full knowledge,
Speaker 1: I might add, not snooping. I saw a naked picture
Speaker 1: he had taken in the mirror that morning, immediately taken
Speaker 1: a bad I kind of kept it to myself, not
Speaker 1: wanting to embarrass him, but my mind kept racing, why
Speaker 1: did he take that? Did he send it to someone?
Speaker 1: So eventually just asked in. His response was that he
Speaker 1: basically was trying to get back his self confidence f
Speaker 1: F fire after the season of eating and drinking like crap.
Speaker 1: He's also a personal trainer and has said he's been
Speaker 1: considering training for physique competitions this new year, so he
Speaker 1: wanted the picture as a starting point. I don't know
Speaker 1: why below the waist would have to be included, but whatever,
Speaker 1: I don't have it sounds like it, okay, I don't
Speaker 1: have any reason not to believe him, but I don't
Speaker 1: want to be naive. He's such a great boyfriend and
Speaker 1: I have completely trusted him up until now. Am I
Speaker 1: just being paranoid? Or would you be worried too? I'm
Speaker 1: worried and he's lying. I'm sorry, that's just the six
Speaker 1: months and even if it wasn't your husband for five years,
Speaker 1: so that even so, come on, right there, you just said,
Speaker 1: all right, six months, let me just defend him. You know,
Speaker 1: I sudn't tell proven guilty. Okay, give the guy a chance.
Speaker 1: Because he is a physical trainer. Okay, he is in
Speaker 1: that world that you're laughing while you're saying this. Right now,
Speaker 1: I'm smiling because it's KNT ridiculous what I'm saying, but
Speaker 1: at the same time could be factual. But because his
Speaker 1: body is his business and he is considering he's the trainer,
Speaker 1: then she should already be proud of his body, considering
Speaker 1: entering physique competitions, like they study their bodies like crazy. Yeah, okay,
Speaker 1: but they don't take naked pictures themselves. Maybe he's studying
Speaker 1: his pain too, No, that's no, sorry, no, But maybe
Speaker 1: he's getting his legs maybe it's just all in one.
Speaker 1: He could have put underwear on. But I would just say,
Speaker 1: go through his text messages and then if not, go
Speaker 1: to his phone bill. Crazy crazy alert. I went with,
Speaker 1: here's my thought on it. Don't worry about it until
Speaker 1: there's more to worry about. Like, don't you think she'd
Speaker 1: have a gut feeling if there was something to worry about?
Speaker 1: So feeling she's emailing us, that's a gut feeling. I'm
Speaker 1: hoping for the best. Like I'm not worried about it
Speaker 1: or like whatever, it's fine. Maybe he was going to
Speaker 1: send it to her at some point you would have
Speaker 1: said that though true. Good point, Michael, I'm still not
Speaker 1: worried about it. Shoot, yeah, yeah he probably, but still ye, Hey,
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Speaker 1: this episode and literally we want to get out. It's lunchtime. Yes,
Speaker 1: it's home sweating right now? Can we turn on the
Speaker 1: air most all right on three one two three? You
Speaker 1: won't regret it. I do want to say something though,
Speaker 1: speaking of guys, why is it that you can't do
Speaker 1: two things at once? I really really want to know that,
Speaker 1: for example, because it's better to do one thing great
Speaker 1: than multiple things. Okay, like when you want to pick
Speaker 1: up your brother, one of the reasons where you going
Speaker 1: there was to talk to the baggage claim person. You
Speaker 1: didn't even talk to the baggage claim person, like the
Speaker 1: reason that you were going to pick up your brother,
Speaker 1: and I'm like, Michael, He's like, oh, I forgot. I'm
Speaker 1: like that was the whole damn reason why you It
Speaker 1: wouldn't even matter because they couldn't have done it. But
Speaker 1: I'm just saying, like why, Like it's the principle and
Speaker 1: the pull up the other day, why couldn't you? I
Speaker 1: literally texted you know, and I don't remember every single thing,
Speaker 1: texted you it and I forgot Jesus. I just feel
Speaker 1: like guys, like I could be acting the dishwasher, responding
Speaker 1: to a text, doing a social media thing like putting
Speaker 1: on makeup, holding Jay's giving him a bottle, and still
Speaker 1: like you're like ironing and cooking, Yeah, ironing and cooking,
Speaker 1: and he doesn't okay, But I'm just I just don't
Speaker 1: understand why you can't, Like why guys physically can't do
Speaker 1: more than one thing at once. Our listeners email in
Speaker 1: an example of this, I have like millions in general.
Speaker 1: I don't want to be generalizer, but guys cannot do
Speaker 1: more than one thing at the same time, and girls
Speaker 1: can do that's right, single minded focused, which I think
Speaker 1: is a better way to say it. They're focused on
Speaker 1: the one thing they're gonna do it. They're gonna do
Speaker 1: it right, they're going to finish it onto the next
Speaker 1: whereas we do not do that. We're doing four and
Speaker 1: twelve things at the same time, maybe not all perfectly,
Speaker 1: but we're getting it done. Maybe not all perfectly. Yeah. See,
Speaker 1: when we get something done, it's through and through, it's
Speaker 1: efficient and there's no mistakes. Okay, next email, alrighty soon,
Speaker 1: give your take. I mean, my wife asked me to
Speaker 1: do something, and I'll be doing it, and then she
Speaker 1: asked me to do uh, the next thing, and she's
Speaker 1: thinking about a million things at the same time, and
Speaker 1: so she's just you know, expecting me to do that too,
Speaker 1: And I'm like, well, do you want me to stop
Speaker 1: right now? And why can't she like, why can't you
Speaker 1: just like bookmark it in your head, Like, Okay, I'm
Speaker 1: gonna do that after this. But you guys get so
Speaker 1: like like squirrel dog bone exactly why I don't understand
Speaker 1: to biologically things in my brain afterwards. It makes me
Speaker 1: very so, but it makes me very anxious too, because
Speaker 1: I hate that. I told her, told her I hate
Speaker 1: when I get overloaded. They asked me to do one
Speaker 1: thing and don't be like, hey, can you do this
Speaker 1: and then do this and then do that and do this.
Speaker 1: I'm like, whoa hold the phone? But how do you
Speaker 1: think about me? I have like fifty things in my brain.
Speaker 1: That's your fault. No it's not. I'm a woman and
Speaker 1: I ruled the world, so it's like, you know what
Speaker 1: I mean, like I'd like to unload some of this
Speaker 1: baggage in my brain. I will say, it's actually, uh
Speaker 1: not even borderline impressive. It's extremely impressive. How if I
Speaker 1: just get out of her way, how much she can accomplish,
Speaker 1: It's astronomical. I left with my brother. My brother and
Speaker 1: I went and my brother and I went and saw
Speaker 1: Aquaman last weekend when he was in town. Good flick
Speaker 1: and uh Eastern. We can rap about that later. We
Speaker 1: come and we had talked about taking down the Christmas
Speaker 1: decorations that last this past weekend. I come home. You
Speaker 1: would have thought that Christmas was last year, that was
Speaker 1: six months ago, because there wasn't a single thing except
Speaker 1: for the exterior lights because that was my job. Nothing
Speaker 1: in the house ever resembled like not even like a
Speaker 1: speck of glitter. Everything gone, The entire Christmas tree, all
Speaker 1: the ornaments down, the tree was packed, putting the box
Speaker 1: and put in the garage, and she had both kids
Speaker 1: and Andy. And let me tell you, I did it
Speaker 1: before Joey's nap, so it took me forty six minutes
Speaker 1: to She didn't even do it when Jolie was nappy,
Speaker 1: and which I figured she would do. She did all
Speaker 1: before that, and I walked I walked in, and I
Speaker 1: was like, you know what, even you still impress me.
Speaker 1: So maybe I've seen to leave more often and just
Speaker 1: get out of your way. YEP, sounds about right. I
Speaker 1: live like Jane everybody, that's what w w J d uh.
Speaker 1: This is from Caitlin. I'm a single mom of a
Speaker 1: two and a half year old girl and her father
Speaker 1: has never met her from lack on his part. When
Speaker 1: I was four months pregnant, I found out he was
Speaker 1: married and has been since before we met. I tried
Speaker 1: to keep him involved, but he wants nothing to do
Speaker 1: with her. So my question for you is how do
Speaker 1: I get back into dating. I'd like to find out
Speaker 1: who I am again and find her a father figure
Speaker 1: in the process. She's calling every male she sees daddy
Speaker 1: because she thinks that that's what males are called. It
Speaker 1: breaks my heart and she doesn't even know what a
Speaker 1: daddy is. Advice Please, that breaks my heart? Oh that hurts?
Speaker 1: Where to end on a downer? Do you want to start? Oh?
Speaker 1: I will say this, I think the first of all,
Speaker 1: I'm really sorry, but I don't like the that you're
Speaker 1: trying to find someone to be her father figure. Why. Well,
Speaker 1: because I think she just needs to focus on like
Speaker 1: herself and like being a mom and like not not
Speaker 1: because when I actively search for a relationship, that's when
Speaker 1: it's like I'm messing I had a child, Like I
Speaker 1: would be like, okay, like this guy is gonna be
Speaker 1: her father, like, but if it's not the right one,
Speaker 1: then you're going to have like all these multiple men
Speaker 1: that aren't going to be the right person. And then
Speaker 1: she's calling everybody like her dad. Right. But I understand
Speaker 1: the assumption behind that. But maybe she is, Maybe she
Speaker 1: is like just focused on herself. But I think she
Speaker 1: probably wants to do enough for her but for her daughter,
Speaker 1: so her daughter can have a male presence. Her daughter
Speaker 1: deserves the father. It's got to be the right person. Though,
Speaker 1: I just focus on like you, right, But I I
Speaker 1: get her her drive to to find she can still
Speaker 1: actively find somebody and try to find the right person.
Speaker 1: She wouldn't just have to find the next guy she sees,
Speaker 1: but find the right person, do the work to find
Speaker 1: that that that mail that can be your father figure
Speaker 1: for her daughter. I can see why she would really
Speaker 1: want that. But this is I'm really sad. Yeah, that
Speaker 1: makes me sad. Oh we have a birthday shout out? Okay, um,
Speaker 1: this is from Kelly. I was hoping that I could
Speaker 1: get a birthday shout out on our on your podcast.
Speaker 1: I'm training twenty four on January three. Happy birthday. Um,
Speaker 1: it was yesterday. I'm an avid listener to the podcast
Speaker 1: each week. I also would love to know how has
Speaker 1: life been different for you too now that you have
Speaker 1: two kids? How do you divide and conquer all of
Speaker 1: your responsibilities that you have? I just do everything all right? Well,
Speaker 1: thank you and um, this was a great winding down.
Speaker 1: First of all, happy birthday, Kelly, Happy birthday. Second of all,
Speaker 1: we communicate everything all right, that's great. Everybody have a
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