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Speaker 1: Wine Down with Janet Kramer and I Heart Radio Podcast.

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Speaker 1: Happy New Year, Happy New Year. It's New Year's two

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Speaker 1: thousand nineteen. We're so excited. We're winding down again. This

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Speaker 1: is so much fun. We are on location. It's we're

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Speaker 1: a seaside on the pier in Santa Monica, California. Yes,

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Speaker 1: we are. And what are we celebrating? Then? Everything? Ever?

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Speaker 1: Can you be a little more specifically? Freedom? Oh my god. No,

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Speaker 1: we're celebrating the fact that we have an iHeart Podcast

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Speaker 1: Award that we're nominated for. Um, I think it's in

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Speaker 1: a couple of weeks, and we're gonna have a little

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Speaker 1: party after this. So we're we're on location with Floppy

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Speaker 1: Haired Eastern right now, and uh, we're gonna chat and

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Speaker 1: I'm excited. I'm very excited. See what the turnouts like

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Speaker 1: and to celebrate our I hope like two people come.

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Speaker 1: You did see the line outside all around? There's no line?

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Speaker 1: There was not one, Like all, hey, Tori, can you

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Speaker 1: open that bottle of wine for us? Bad? Yes? Because

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Speaker 1: we are winding down, literally literally winding down. What would

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Speaker 1: you say? I can't hear you gotta get on the mic. Um,

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Speaker 1: should we just have a glass of wine and start gossiping.

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Speaker 1: Girl chat. We have to girl chat? Can we just like,

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Speaker 1: should we talk about it now? The elephant in the room.

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Speaker 1: I didn't want to say anything, Sarah, We're gonna need

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Speaker 1: to bottle each So Michael just did a really deep

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Speaker 1: breath like kind of looked at me. You said you

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Speaker 1: didn't want to talk about it. He's like, I don't

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Speaker 1: think we should talk about it. That was, but Sarah

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Speaker 1: gave you the green light. She did. So bottom line,

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Speaker 1: if you know my my wind Down podcasters who have

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Speaker 1: been following us from the beginning, you know, I've had

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Speaker 1: my friend Sara Cruise on the show, and um, she

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Speaker 1: basically gave her boyfriend an ultimatum by the end of

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Speaker 1: last year that she you know, you know, they've been married,

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Speaker 1: they've been not even sorry, Sarah, they've been together. That

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Speaker 1: was That was That was a stab in the heart

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Speaker 1: and she just probably crashed her car. I'm sorry. She

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Speaker 1: has been dating you know, this boy for six years

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Speaker 1: and she basically was like, look like I'm ready, like

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Speaker 1: I'm ready to have a ring. And she talked to

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Speaker 1: him in September and basically gave an ultimatum by the

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Speaker 1: end of last year, like she needs a ring, and

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Speaker 1: so she had plenty of time to get a ring,

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Speaker 1: had plenty of time to plan, and it's two thousand

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Speaker 1: nineteen and she doesn't have a ring. She'll get it.

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Speaker 1: Amy's putting on her headphones right now. I think she

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Speaker 1: needs to stop wanting the ring. But here's the problem.

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Speaker 1: She asked what she needed and I told I told Sarah,

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Speaker 1: go look, if you don't want me to talk about it,

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Speaker 1: I totally understand. But unfortunately people have been I screenshot

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Speaker 1: at the message that you sent me and I said,

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Speaker 1: let me know what you want me to do, because

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Speaker 1: I respect you, like I love you. You're one of

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Speaker 1: my best friends. Like you know, we've I understand. But

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Speaker 1: for me, it's like it's embarras saying she's put this

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Speaker 1: out on a public platform and now all these people

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Speaker 1: are She had to turn off her Instagram comments on

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Speaker 1: her Instagram page because people are like, where's their ring?

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Speaker 1: And it's like, that's so Embarra flooded with emails not

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Speaker 1: where's the ring, but they are desperate for an update.

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Speaker 1: The update is there's no ring and like that, And honestly,

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Speaker 1: I'm pissed, like because because she asked for what she needed.

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Speaker 1: She asked for what she wanted and what she needed,

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Speaker 1: and ultimately she gave an ultimatum like hey, I'm out

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Speaker 1: still there. You know how I've told you I'm obsessed

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Speaker 1: with Abraham Hicks. Yes, I'm obsessed. Who's that. I'm going

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Speaker 1: to send you all the YouTube videos. It'll change your life.

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Speaker 1: So she would she it whatever, it's sort of an

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Speaker 1: whatever the dude's name is. I forgot to make her

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Speaker 1: is there a way where she can feel fully content

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Speaker 1: no like Michael, like, when we asked for what we

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Speaker 1: in her getting into late twenties, it's that time to

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Speaker 1: So it's like she's waited around. And she's from Texas,

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Speaker 1: so it's like, you know, people they're still get married

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Speaker 1: So is the issue just to refresh everyone's memory. She

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Speaker 1: doesn't want to have kids without being engaged or married

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Speaker 1: like she wants to. She you know, she's old school

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Speaker 1: But no, she wants the ring. She's been together for

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Speaker 1: six years. She wants the wedding. She wants to you know.

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Speaker 1: And here's the thing that bothers me is she would

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Speaker 1: I don't want to take away from the holidays. What

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Speaker 1: are you talking about your it's the best time to

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Speaker 1: not to like because I'm you know, obviously she's got

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Speaker 1: her family and all our friends and then the Instagram

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Speaker 1: and the podcasts, everyone like barking at her. But it's

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Speaker 1: like it's just frustrates me. And then I asked Michael

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Speaker 1: but listen, because I said, just like she said to him,

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Speaker 1: though I said, I'm out if you keep doing this.

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Speaker 1: But it's like you guys don't trust our ultimatums. It's

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Speaker 1: love Joanna's face because Janna's face is every girl. I'm like,

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Speaker 1: I don't understand Michaels every guy. And I think there's

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Speaker 1: in the she's like forty five, fifty and still not

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Speaker 1: married with kids, I think that's wrong with it. Amy.

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Speaker 1: I'm just saying, like, you know what, I was like,

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Speaker 1: let's just keep going, like unless she's sixty and still

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Speaker 1: if she ever talks us again. Now, I asked, on

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Speaker 1: the list of priorities, is it marriage then kids, because

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Speaker 1: And that's why I love her because she's like, this

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Speaker 1: move out. I know, but she's not going to when

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Speaker 1: that's the thing? Is he and I told him, I

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Speaker 1: go every time he's you know, made a mistake. I said,

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Speaker 1: if you do this again, I'm gonna leave. And you

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Speaker 1: do it again, I wouldn't leave, and then he and

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Speaker 1: Wendy Welsh said she has to now leave and then

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Speaker 1: she'll get the ring in a month. But but they're

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Speaker 1: saying that it's going to come in the next couple

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Speaker 1: of months, is what opposed? Apparently like he's saying to

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Speaker 1: other people, then she should just chill out. No, because

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Speaker 1: here's the thing, is it? This is what I said

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Speaker 1: in two months? While are you conning January? So is

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Speaker 1: it going to be March? Is it going to be February?

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Speaker 1: That's what she needs, a surrender to the universe, be happy,

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Speaker 1: trust that everything's gonna be okay in her mind, give

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Speaker 1: and get married in three days later. That doesn't Amy,

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Speaker 1: don't play the wedding like out like you don't unders know.

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Speaker 1: Sarah would never allow like she wants like the Kim

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Speaker 1: mean she is like it is the queen getting married.

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Speaker 1: Michael has to answer because he's the dude. Yeah, on

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Speaker 1: what is going on in Gretzky's head. He's not the

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Speaker 1: I'm not gonna get on her. I think they're to

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Speaker 1: she did ask for what she needed. She's I mean,

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Speaker 1: she's like begging you, like she's telling you if you

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Speaker 1: want to spend your life with her, just do it.

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Speaker 1: In a guy's head, please be a guy, I need

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Speaker 1: to know this. Is there any chance he's not doing

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Speaker 1: it yet because of the weird ultimatum, So now he's

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Speaker 1: I totally disagree. I'm not the dude, I know you got.

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Speaker 1: I'm not saying no, I'm not saying that he's purposely

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Speaker 1: similar situation to this. Really your wife ultimatum, do not

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Speaker 1: not like I'm going to leave. But she said, uh,

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Speaker 1: don't know wherever the wind takes us. Classic I'm like,

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Speaker 1: in your hand. Obviously your brain is going to go too.

422
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Speaker 1: It's a rock in my hand. I have no idea

423
00:21:20,480 --> 00:21:23,040
Speaker 1: what you're talking about. And this chick is crazy, right,

424
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Speaker 1: So it's okay. Just tune into how you're feeling. Just

425
00:21:27,240 --> 00:21:29,679
Speaker 1: tune into what that rock actually makes you feel. Just

426
00:21:29,680 --> 00:21:31,680
Speaker 1: turned into what your subtle body is doing right now,

427
00:21:31,920 --> 00:21:36,440
Speaker 1: start to tune into how your energy is feeling. Maybe

428
00:21:36,440 --> 00:21:38,800
Speaker 1: your mind is racing, maybe there's some emotions coming up,

429
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Speaker 1: maybe there's googles coming up, whatever it is, just start

430
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Speaker 1: to tune into how you're feeling and just take one

431
00:21:44,600 --> 00:21:50,440
Speaker 1: more deep breath with that. Okay, cool, and then open

432
00:21:50,480 --> 00:21:54,320
Speaker 1: your eyes. Okay, can we look at it rock? Yeah,

433
00:21:54,760 --> 00:21:58,440
Speaker 1: it's one big black rock. How did you How did

434
00:21:58,440 --> 00:22:02,679
Speaker 1: you feel centered? It felt like all my focus was

435
00:22:02,720 --> 00:22:05,119
Speaker 1: on the rock is at the point, So this is

436
00:22:05,119 --> 00:22:08,679
Speaker 1: black germinin black Germlin is very grounding. So that's like

437
00:22:08,760 --> 00:22:11,359
Speaker 1: exactly how you would feel at that stone, right, So

438
00:22:11,400 --> 00:22:14,240
Speaker 1: it's very grounding and rooting. If you're working with the chakra,

439
00:22:14,400 --> 00:22:17,000
Speaker 1: the energy systems of the body, it's your root chakra,

440
00:22:17,040 --> 00:22:19,600
Speaker 1: it's your base chakra. It's very earthy and very grounding.

441
00:22:19,680 --> 00:22:23,560
Speaker 1: So it's if you're thinking about um musical tones is

442
00:22:23,600 --> 00:22:26,919
Speaker 1: like a low, very low tone. It literally grounds you

443
00:22:26,960 --> 00:22:30,560
Speaker 1: into the earth. So being focused or feeling calm or

444
00:22:30,640 --> 00:22:35,080
Speaker 1: centered is exactly what that stone does. So question, Yeah,

445
00:22:35,480 --> 00:22:37,520
Speaker 1: a lot of people just have crystals like around their house.

446
00:22:37,560 --> 00:22:39,400
Speaker 1: So if I'm not holding it, then how is it

447
00:22:39,600 --> 00:22:43,800
Speaker 1: connecting to me to feel grounded? Because it's radiating that vibration.

448
00:22:43,840 --> 00:22:48,080
Speaker 1: So crystal store. Okay, so we have crystals, we have

449
00:22:48,240 --> 00:22:50,600
Speaker 1: we have clear courts in our cell phones, we have

450
00:22:50,720 --> 00:22:53,200
Speaker 1: them in our TVs, we have them. The first radio

451
00:22:53,240 --> 00:22:57,440
Speaker 1: frequency was programmed by clear courts. It literally emits frequency

452
00:22:57,480 --> 00:23:00,920
Speaker 1: and information out. It's like you know all the sci

453
00:23:00,960 --> 00:23:03,719
Speaker 1: fi movies, any cartoons, like the Laser Man, It like

454
00:23:03,840 --> 00:23:07,040
Speaker 1: shoots out like that's real, Like that's actually like legit,

455
00:23:07,240 --> 00:23:10,640
Speaker 1: legit rail um. And that's how the first radio frequency

456
00:23:10,680 --> 00:23:13,040
Speaker 1: was program was by clear courts. So if you think

457
00:23:13,080 --> 00:23:18,320
Speaker 1: that there is a piece right that is emitting information out,

458
00:23:19,760 --> 00:23:22,560
Speaker 1: then it's holding onto a specific vibration and it's emitting

459
00:23:22,600 --> 00:23:25,280
Speaker 1: that out regardless if you're holding it or if it's

460
00:23:25,320 --> 00:23:29,200
Speaker 1: in the room. So that stone, it's emitting out the

461
00:23:29,240 --> 00:23:35,160
Speaker 1: information that is stored in that is is radiating out

462
00:23:35,160 --> 00:23:38,200
Speaker 1: in the room. So it's radiating out this this grounded

463
00:23:38,680 --> 00:23:43,760
Speaker 1: focused It's an actual, like tangible physical presence of it.

464
00:23:43,760 --> 00:23:46,920
Speaker 1: It's not just like a belief. That's what you're saying. Yes,

465
00:23:47,840 --> 00:23:50,120
Speaker 1: that's how I work with it. Like I said, science

466
00:23:50,160 --> 00:23:54,919
Speaker 1: can't prove that, um, but there has been science that

467
00:23:55,040 --> 00:23:59,680
Speaker 1: has shown that clear courts particles can hold on to

468
00:24:00,080 --> 00:24:04,600
Speaker 1: ormation for up to three hundred million years. So I

469
00:24:04,640 --> 00:24:06,480
Speaker 1: always say it's like the O G thumb drive, Like

470
00:24:06,480 --> 00:24:10,920
Speaker 1: it's literally like storing on information and frequency um, which

471
00:24:10,960 --> 00:24:13,679
Speaker 1: is why people set intentions with crystals right there, like

472
00:24:13,720 --> 00:24:16,760
Speaker 1: setting intention with the crystal because it literally stores it

473
00:24:16,880 --> 00:24:20,359
Speaker 1: like a thumb drive or like a it stores it

474
00:24:20,720 --> 00:24:23,120
Speaker 1: and then if you put it somewhere in your house,

475
00:24:23,680 --> 00:24:27,879
Speaker 1: it's radiating that information, that intention that you set in

476
00:24:27,960 --> 00:24:30,080
Speaker 1: the house. So it's a it's a yes, it's a

477
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Speaker 1: visible it's a visible reminder of like this is the

478
00:24:32,520 --> 00:24:36,480
Speaker 1: intention that I set, but it's also radiating that frequency out.

479
00:24:37,119 --> 00:24:39,680
Speaker 1: So what crystal should we have in our house then?

480
00:24:39,840 --> 00:24:43,920
Speaker 1: To be happy and positive? And you know, I don't

481
00:24:43,920 --> 00:24:45,399
Speaker 1: know what kind of I don't know what kind of

482
00:24:45,400 --> 00:24:48,080
Speaker 1: crystals move went around because ually has all these crystals

483
00:24:48,119 --> 00:24:49,639
Speaker 1: in our house? And yeah, I mean there's so many

484
00:24:49,640 --> 00:24:52,240
Speaker 1: different ones. I brought you an angelite and I brought

485
00:24:52,240 --> 00:24:55,199
Speaker 1: you a rose quarts um And what do those do?

486
00:24:55,760 --> 00:24:59,080
Speaker 1: That is like really good for a baby round um

487
00:24:59,119 --> 00:25:04,120
Speaker 1: because they're really fine light angelic celestial vibration, really great

488
00:25:04,119 --> 00:25:05,800
Speaker 1: for sleeping, and really great for just kind of like

489
00:25:05,840 --> 00:25:08,760
Speaker 1: cozy at um and then there's different things. You know,

490
00:25:08,800 --> 00:25:11,240
Speaker 1: in a family room, if you wanted a celestite or

491
00:25:11,280 --> 00:25:13,119
Speaker 1: something that's a little bit more communal, that's going to

492
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Speaker 1: UM have people having conversations together. I always have black

493
00:25:18,720 --> 00:25:22,640
Speaker 1: turmaline and smoky courts around our computers and our TVs

494
00:25:22,760 --> 00:25:27,679
Speaker 1: because they emit electromnetic gradation UM and the black turmale

495
00:25:27,680 --> 00:25:30,240
Speaker 1: in the smoky courts helps to protect against EMF. So

496
00:25:30,280 --> 00:25:34,560
Speaker 1: it helps almost like counterbalance those waves and those harmful

497
00:25:35,320 --> 00:25:38,679
Speaker 1: um frequencies that are that are electronics in met What

498
00:25:38,840 --> 00:25:41,760
Speaker 1: got you into being being such an advocate or a

499
00:25:41,760 --> 00:25:46,240
Speaker 1: believer in using crystals. I was like a secret crystal

500
00:25:46,280 --> 00:25:49,760
Speaker 1: nerd for such a long time. Yeah, totally. Um. I

501
00:25:49,800 --> 00:25:51,600
Speaker 1: grew up in Utah. I grew up like the mountains

502
00:25:51,600 --> 00:25:53,679
Speaker 1: in my backyard. I grew up running around my husband's

503
00:25:53,680 --> 00:25:58,080
Speaker 1: from midtown of Manhattan, so like we're very different. Um.

504
00:25:58,160 --> 00:26:00,560
Speaker 1: But yeah, I mean we used to go out in

505
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Speaker 1: the desert and cut geo's open and I've always just

506
00:26:02,720 --> 00:26:05,320
Speaker 1: been around it. Um. I noticed such a difference in

507
00:26:05,359 --> 00:26:08,639
Speaker 1: my life with working with them, um, Like in what

508
00:26:08,760 --> 00:26:12,960
Speaker 1: sense in a sense of you know, I would bring

509
00:26:13,000 --> 00:26:15,480
Speaker 1: them to work if I had an important meeting years

510
00:26:15,480 --> 00:26:17,080
Speaker 1: ago when I was in the corporate space of it

511
00:26:18,400 --> 00:26:21,560
Speaker 1: that was either courage building or that was super grounding

512
00:26:21,560 --> 00:26:25,159
Speaker 1: that would help me speak clearly. Um, and yes, like

513
00:26:25,280 --> 00:26:30,040
Speaker 1: maybe it was just the idea of it or almost

514
00:26:30,080 --> 00:26:33,120
Speaker 1: like a placebo effect, but truthfully, like I don't really

515
00:26:33,160 --> 00:26:35,560
Speaker 1: think it matters, Like if it works for you, even

516
00:26:35,680 --> 00:26:38,720
Speaker 1: the placebo effect, like that's great, you know, I think

517
00:26:38,720 --> 00:26:41,199
Speaker 1: it's really just kind of getting you to that that

518
00:26:41,320 --> 00:26:45,880
Speaker 1: next space that you're trying to move into and whatever form.

519
00:26:46,119 --> 00:26:50,000
Speaker 1: Hopefully you know, it's like its own spiritual belief right,

520
00:26:50,040 --> 00:26:53,560
Speaker 1: like there's no evidence of a certain higher power being

521
00:26:53,640 --> 00:26:57,320
Speaker 1: more prominent or truthful than another, but you believe in it.

522
00:26:57,320 --> 00:27:00,720
Speaker 1: It just is so I can understand why someone could

523
00:27:01,160 --> 00:27:03,320
Speaker 1: be into something. And yeah, we don't see it that way.

524
00:27:03,320 --> 00:27:05,440
Speaker 1: But if you believe in it, and that's all that matters,

525
00:27:05,760 --> 00:27:09,160
Speaker 1: and then it helps you, then you know, like helps

526
00:27:09,200 --> 00:27:12,280
Speaker 1: your day and your dreams and encouragement and yeah, it's

527
00:27:12,280 --> 00:27:13,800
Speaker 1: like one tool in the toolbox, you know. I mean

528
00:27:13,800 --> 00:27:15,840
Speaker 1: it's not like, um, it's not like the crystal is

529
00:27:15,880 --> 00:27:18,600
Speaker 1: gonna make all your dreams come true. Absolutely not. And

530
00:27:18,600 --> 00:27:21,720
Speaker 1: I would never say that, you know what I mean? Um,

531
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Speaker 1: I think it's more of like it becomes almost a

532
00:27:23,880 --> 00:27:26,800
Speaker 1: question of mind of a matter, right, becomes a question

533
00:27:26,840 --> 00:27:28,760
Speaker 1: of of a tuning your mind and your focus and

534
00:27:28,760 --> 00:27:31,159
Speaker 1: your intention to what it is that you want. And

535
00:27:31,160 --> 00:27:34,359
Speaker 1: then obviously you have to take that actionable steps towards that.

536
00:27:34,640 --> 00:27:38,119
Speaker 1: You can't just sit in bed and rub a crystal

537
00:27:38,160 --> 00:27:42,639
Speaker 1: and think that like everything's Yeah, where where can our

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539
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540
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Speaker 1: working on the book this year. Yeah, I'm still working

541
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Speaker 1: Maria k lions dot com. Yeah I love it. Well,

546
00:28:07,640 --> 00:28:10,399
Speaker 1: thank you so much. I'm like, I think we should

547
00:28:10,400 --> 00:28:12,720
Speaker 1: try it. I want to give it a try. I

548
00:28:12,760 --> 00:28:15,240
Speaker 1: really do. Can we do? What can we do? One word?

549
00:28:20,480 --> 00:28:27,840
Speaker 1: Closing eyes? You try it to mm hmm, just giving

550
00:28:27,920 --> 00:28:36,280
Speaker 1: me the whole bag. I'll just it all over my body.

551
00:28:37,280 --> 00:28:39,880
Speaker 1: And yes, like there are certain prescriptions that you can

552
00:28:39,920 --> 00:28:42,239
Speaker 1: do for crystals, but it's so individual. Okay, close your end,

553
00:28:42,480 --> 00:28:45,960
Speaker 1: close your eyes, and then just begin to tune in again.

554
00:28:46,080 --> 00:28:53,440
Speaker 1: So let your breath deepen, Just begin to tune back in.

555
00:28:56,200 --> 00:28:59,560
Speaker 1: You start to notice, like the subtle sensations in your hands,

556
00:28:59,560 --> 00:29:06,200
Speaker 1: a subtle sensations in your body. Just notice how you're feeling,

557
00:29:06,240 --> 00:29:11,400
Speaker 1: if any emotions come up, any sensations, and then you

558
00:29:11,400 --> 00:29:14,320
Speaker 1: can open your eyes. Did you notice the difference between

559
00:29:14,360 --> 00:29:17,320
Speaker 1: these ones and all? This one felt like warm and active?

560
00:29:18,040 --> 00:29:21,040
Speaker 1: Does that make sense? What about you? Beb I felt

561
00:29:21,040 --> 00:29:23,880
Speaker 1: like energy, like going out apposed to like feeling like

562
00:29:23,920 --> 00:29:27,480
Speaker 1: towards my feet. I felt it like Amy. What did

563
00:29:27,520 --> 00:29:32,360
Speaker 1: you feel close to him right there? Peace? Calm and sex.

564
00:29:34,880 --> 00:29:36,280
Speaker 1: I mean, I think you need to take that one

565
00:29:36,360 --> 00:29:40,760
Speaker 1: home with That sounds like the best you have ever? Yeah?

566
00:29:43,200 --> 00:29:45,640
Speaker 1: Why did it do that? So it's holding that vibration

567
00:29:45,680 --> 00:29:47,920
Speaker 1: like we talked about, right, So it's holding that frequency.

568
00:29:48,160 --> 00:29:51,200
Speaker 1: I often liken it to like plants. How let's say

569
00:29:51,200 --> 00:29:55,640
Speaker 1: you're lavender. You wouldn't use lavender to wake up in

570
00:29:55,640 --> 00:29:58,120
Speaker 1: the morning. You're gonna use lavender to like calm down

571
00:29:58,200 --> 00:29:59,800
Speaker 1: or to take a bath and just like to really

572
00:30:00,160 --> 00:30:03,040
Speaker 1: get calm. You wouldn't eat chili peppers if you want

573
00:30:03,040 --> 00:30:05,440
Speaker 1: to go to sleep right away. It's a similar thing.

574
00:30:05,560 --> 00:30:08,000
Speaker 1: So minerals are the same thing. Like they each have

575
00:30:08,120 --> 00:30:11,200
Speaker 1: their own personality, their own vibe, their own thing going on.

576
00:30:11,320 --> 00:30:14,320
Speaker 1: So if you wanna, you know, have a fun night,

577
00:30:14,400 --> 00:30:18,480
Speaker 1: maybe started working with some rose Courts. You have a

578
00:30:18,560 --> 00:30:21,440
Speaker 1: Rose Courts as well, and then you have a pink

579
00:30:21,560 --> 00:30:26,120
Speaker 1: Opal and so Rose Courts like like you were feeling that, like, um,

580
00:30:26,160 --> 00:30:28,960
Speaker 1: the energy moving out Rose Courts is great for for

581
00:30:29,000 --> 00:30:34,480
Speaker 1: your heart. Um, it is a love stone predominantly, Yes, absolutely,

582
00:30:34,560 --> 00:30:39,400
Speaker 1: I mean that's literally piece harmony and one thousand percent

583
00:30:39,480 --> 00:30:41,480
Speaker 1: was at stone. And if you think about your heart,

584
00:30:41,480 --> 00:30:43,440
Speaker 1: you're like you're red eating out from your heart. So

585
00:30:43,440 --> 00:30:46,360
Speaker 1: it's this energy, this frequency, this vibration that is red

586
00:30:46,400 --> 00:30:48,080
Speaker 1: eating out from your heart. So we should keep that

587
00:30:48,160 --> 00:30:51,360
Speaker 1: like in our master bedroom. Rose Courts is great for

588
00:30:51,440 --> 00:30:53,680
Speaker 1: the Rose Courts, wreaking it down Rose Courts for the

589
00:30:53,720 --> 00:30:58,720
Speaker 1: master bedroom the new house. Okay, I got it. I

590
00:30:58,800 --> 00:31:00,960
Speaker 1: love it, Aust And well, thank you so much. I

591
00:31:01,000 --> 00:31:05,800
Speaker 1: really thank you so much. So I think Michael should

592
00:31:05,800 --> 00:31:08,280
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593
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595
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632
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Speaker 1: actually though not only have I used this for my

633
00:33:17,440 --> 00:33:20,080
Speaker 1: two nieces though, because what's amazing. You can pick a

634
00:33:20,160 --> 00:33:23,160
Speaker 1: story and it plays while they go to sleep, So

635
00:33:23,240 --> 00:33:25,360
Speaker 1: instead of having a sound machine, you can actually develop

636
00:33:25,400 --> 00:33:27,880
Speaker 1: their vocabulary and have them go to sleep to like

637
00:33:27,920 --> 00:33:31,200
Speaker 1: a really cool uh story that actually they create their

638
00:33:31,240 --> 00:33:34,240
Speaker 1: own stories. Very cool. So it's really nice because I

639
00:33:34,320 --> 00:33:36,080
Speaker 1: have my niece and she's always like, don't like I

640
00:33:36,120 --> 00:33:37,680
Speaker 1: want another book. I want another book, and I'm like,

641
00:33:37,680 --> 00:33:39,000
Speaker 1: I love you to death, but like we all need

642
00:33:39,040 --> 00:33:41,880
Speaker 1: our wine at one point. Yeah, and then I'm reading, um,

643
00:33:41,920 --> 00:33:47,760
Speaker 1: you know the Baron's Teams for the time, and um,

644
00:33:47,800 --> 00:33:49,360
Speaker 1: I mean I think we've all done the cheat to

645
00:33:49,480 --> 00:33:54,040
Speaker 1: where you like skip three pages and and okay exactly.

646
00:33:54,080 --> 00:33:55,760
Speaker 1: And so for this one. It's really nice though, because

647
00:33:56,000 --> 00:33:59,200
Speaker 1: you can have them still fantasize and dream and the

648
00:33:59,280 --> 00:34:01,120
Speaker 1: lights are out, so kind of their imagination gets to

649
00:34:01,640 --> 00:34:04,280
Speaker 1: kind of like explore a new level and you have

650
00:34:04,320 --> 00:34:06,680
Speaker 1: all these stories going and they write all their own stories.

651
00:34:06,880 --> 00:34:09,120
Speaker 1: You can also choose sound machine though, if you want

652
00:34:09,120 --> 00:34:12,839
Speaker 1: like Rain or the Whales or whatever, but it's really cool.

653
00:34:12,880 --> 00:34:14,960
Speaker 1: I think the best aspect is that your kids are

654
00:34:15,000 --> 00:34:17,680
Speaker 1: developing their vocabulary as they're going to sleep. So if

655
00:34:17,719 --> 00:34:19,680
Speaker 1: that interest, do you try for free tonight To redeem

656
00:34:19,719 --> 00:34:22,720
Speaker 1: your exclusive code, download the Moy Twilight app go to settings,

657
00:34:22,760 --> 00:34:26,640
Speaker 1: register your account and redeem the code. Janna sleep. Okay,

658
00:34:26,640 --> 00:34:30,080
Speaker 1: so we're talking about the Moy Twilight app. Okay, so

659
00:34:31,600 --> 00:34:33,359
Speaker 1: I kind of want to talk about Well, first of all,

660
00:34:33,760 --> 00:34:35,680
Speaker 1: can I just ask you, did you really feel anything

661
00:34:35,680 --> 00:34:39,600
Speaker 1: with the crystals? I mean, it's one of those things

662
00:34:39,640 --> 00:34:45,880
Speaker 1: where it's all believing, so maybe, but you don't even

663
00:34:45,920 --> 00:34:48,680
Speaker 1: know the right answer. I'll never become an advocate. I'll

664
00:34:48,719 --> 00:34:52,680
Speaker 1: never use them, but I mean still like, no disrespect

665
00:34:52,719 --> 00:34:55,560
Speaker 1: to because I think she's so sweet. But like, I'm

666
00:34:55,560 --> 00:34:57,719
Speaker 1: also like holding the crystal and I'm like, I think

667
00:34:57,719 --> 00:35:00,000
Speaker 1: it's I'm double guessing. Wait into what my feeling that's from?

668
00:35:00,000 --> 00:35:02,880
Speaker 1: I feel like that. Okay, I I don't even know

669
00:35:02,920 --> 00:35:04,400
Speaker 1: what the hell I'm feeling. Our minds aren't training to

670
00:35:04,680 --> 00:35:07,160
Speaker 1: do that. So for me, it's like it's almost like

671
00:35:07,200 --> 00:35:09,120
Speaker 1: if I would put a pen in my hand, close

672
00:35:09,200 --> 00:35:11,120
Speaker 1: my eyes, and I breathe deep, well, I'll feel the pen.

673
00:35:11,200 --> 00:35:13,239
Speaker 1: That would distracted me. So maybe I'm feeling something now.

674
00:35:13,239 --> 00:35:15,080
Speaker 1: I'm feeling centered because we're taking a deep breath and

675
00:35:15,120 --> 00:35:19,719
Speaker 1: we're holding something. Amy. I think it's all hullabaloo, except

676
00:35:20,000 --> 00:35:23,839
Speaker 1: that who cares, you know what I mean? Like who cares?

677
00:35:23,880 --> 00:35:27,160
Speaker 1: Like what, Like it's all kind of I don't want

678
00:35:27,160 --> 00:35:31,680
Speaker 1: to swear um b s except maybe it's not, do

679
00:35:31,680 --> 00:35:33,759
Speaker 1: you know what I mean? Like I've always like that's

680
00:35:33,760 --> 00:35:35,359
Speaker 1: how I am about all that kind of stuff. Again,

681
00:35:35,400 --> 00:35:38,080
Speaker 1: it's all your belief system. I'm always like, maybe this

682
00:35:38,160 --> 00:35:41,319
Speaker 1: is cuckoo crazy, but like it kind of makes me

683
00:35:41,400 --> 00:35:43,680
Speaker 1: feel good, so why not like if like if someone

684
00:35:44,120 --> 00:35:46,239
Speaker 1: I always wish I really had a crystal ball, like

685
00:35:46,360 --> 00:35:48,360
Speaker 1: does that work? Does this work? But we don't know

686
00:35:48,440 --> 00:35:51,759
Speaker 1: it's every time, which, by the way, we're getting a

687
00:35:51,760 --> 00:35:54,600
Speaker 1: magic eight ball for our house. So basically what Michael

688
00:35:54,600 --> 00:35:57,840
Speaker 1: and I've decided. So there's been a few times the

689
00:35:57,880 --> 00:36:01,279
Speaker 1: past couple of weeks where Michael is a little more

690
00:36:01,320 --> 00:36:03,880
Speaker 1: leading with TV. I'm more of a strickler, and so

691
00:36:04,280 --> 00:36:08,600
Speaker 1: Jolie will be like Mommy like CFI and I'm like, no, sweetheart,

692
00:36:08,680 --> 00:36:10,440
Speaker 1: like go play with some of your games at Santa

693
00:36:10,520 --> 00:36:14,400
Speaker 1: just got you, like no, And then she was daddy Mini,

694
00:36:14,560 --> 00:36:16,160
Speaker 1: and I was like, oh my god, because she knows

695
00:36:16,200 --> 00:36:17,640
Speaker 1: that like Michael is going to put like a Mini

696
00:36:17,680 --> 00:36:19,680
Speaker 1: and Mickey like the club Mickey's Clubhouse on or whatever.

697
00:36:19,680 --> 00:36:23,000
Speaker 1: It's not necessarily true at all. Every morning I come

698
00:36:23,000 --> 00:36:28,960
Speaker 1: out and like, Nicky's on when how dare you? How

699
00:36:29,040 --> 00:36:33,239
Speaker 1: dare you know? It's just because Janna anytime she wants

700
00:36:33,280 --> 00:36:36,760
Speaker 1: to someone's about to watch Jolie or I have Jolie.

701
00:36:36,760 --> 00:36:40,239
Speaker 1: She's the way she delivers it is so mean and aggressive.

702
00:36:40,360 --> 00:36:43,239
Speaker 1: Oh my god, time out makes your no TV? Like

703
00:36:43,400 --> 00:36:45,120
Speaker 1: what she can't she has all she can watch TV.

704
00:36:45,200 --> 00:36:47,279
Speaker 1: She can't watch TV. I'm just saying people that are

705
00:36:47,800 --> 00:36:50,520
Speaker 1: that aren't us should be playing with our child. I'm like,

706
00:36:50,520 --> 00:36:56,160
Speaker 1: worre fantastic parents and if decide, okay, we'll get to that. Okay.

707
00:36:56,280 --> 00:37:00,560
Speaker 1: But anyways, Jolie said, you know, Daddy's e V and

708
00:37:00,600 --> 00:37:03,120
Speaker 1: I'm like, oh my god, and he's like, well, I

709
00:37:03,160 --> 00:37:06,000
Speaker 1: don't know, Like okay, I mean, Janna, you're being a

710
00:37:06,040 --> 00:37:08,279
Speaker 1: little hard, and I'm like, so, I think if it's

711
00:37:08,320 --> 00:37:11,239
Speaker 1: something that we agree, like we're not that strong on,

712
00:37:11,280 --> 00:37:12,920
Speaker 1: we should get a magic eight ball, like asked the

713
00:37:12,920 --> 00:37:20,120
Speaker 1: magic eight ball. Yeah, so Julie, if you if you want, yeah, exactly, Mom,

714
00:37:20,160 --> 00:37:21,879
Speaker 1: do you really care? And I don't really care that much,

715
00:37:21,880 --> 00:37:24,120
Speaker 1: but like we could talk each other into the other side,

716
00:37:24,360 --> 00:37:26,360
Speaker 1: but you say, let's let the magic ball be for

717
00:37:26,440 --> 00:37:29,120
Speaker 1: Jolie to be not on you. Yeah, and it's kind

718
00:37:29,160 --> 00:37:33,200
Speaker 1: of if you sort of stalls where you're like absolutely

719
00:37:33,239 --> 00:37:35,840
Speaker 1: not exactly. And we said what we said would be

720
00:37:35,840 --> 00:37:39,000
Speaker 1: great is if we had someone may make us a

721
00:37:39,040 --> 00:37:41,000
Speaker 1: magic a ball, and it was all like no, it

722
00:37:41,160 --> 00:37:43,759
Speaker 1: was all like the negative responses. So anytime the kids

723
00:37:43,800 --> 00:37:46,200
Speaker 1: go and use it, it's always no. But they don't

724
00:37:46,239 --> 00:37:49,320
Speaker 1: know that not a chance. Didn't know. Do you guys

725
00:37:49,360 --> 00:37:52,799
Speaker 1: believe in signs? Like what kind like signs from the

726
00:37:52,880 --> 00:37:57,239
Speaker 1: universe like everything. Let's say I'm like, I don't know.

727
00:37:57,280 --> 00:38:00,080
Speaker 1: You get in the car and certain songs on and

728
00:38:00,080 --> 00:38:02,239
Speaker 1: you're like, oh my god, it's a sign the queen

729
00:38:02,280 --> 00:38:06,560
Speaker 1: of that sign. Yeah, I like the queen of signs.

730
00:38:06,840 --> 00:38:08,360
Speaker 1: Can we just go back to the fact that you

731
00:38:08,400 --> 00:38:11,160
Speaker 1: just called me mean the other day because it wasn't

732
00:38:11,200 --> 00:38:13,520
Speaker 1: about being mean. Can I just like rewind this really

733
00:38:13,560 --> 00:38:16,600
Speaker 1: fast for the past months. No, I'm sorry for the

734
00:38:16,600 --> 00:38:19,960
Speaker 1: past six weeks because Jason six weeks old, we've had

735
00:38:20,000 --> 00:38:23,920
Speaker 1: someone in town in our house, so Amy like, that's

736
00:38:24,360 --> 00:38:29,360
Speaker 1: you know, we have a very small house. It's family,

737
00:38:29,440 --> 00:38:31,560
Speaker 1: but it's still it's family and friends, but it's still

738
00:38:31,640 --> 00:38:33,640
Speaker 1: hard and so at the end of it, like nothing

739
00:38:33,680 --> 00:38:36,600
Speaker 1: against I love your brother more than anything. He's awesome.

740
00:38:36,600 --> 00:38:41,319
Speaker 1: But unfortunately, like I was getting kind of it's not

741
00:38:41,400 --> 00:38:42,719
Speaker 1: the brunt of it, but it was just like we

742
00:38:42,719 --> 00:38:45,520
Speaker 1: were you know, I just didn't want the TV on

743
00:38:45,600 --> 00:38:47,759
Speaker 1: because it's just it wasn't even about the TV. It

744
00:38:47,840 --> 00:38:49,880
Speaker 1: was just the fact that I just wanted to I

745
00:38:49,920 --> 00:38:52,520
Speaker 1: just wanted our house to ourselves. And it was just

746
00:38:52,680 --> 00:38:55,520
Speaker 1: I guess I said, and you know, Jolie shouldn't be

747
00:38:55,520 --> 00:38:57,880
Speaker 1: watching any TV. And He's like, you said that very passive,

748
00:38:57,960 --> 00:38:59,480
Speaker 1: and I was like, no, I didn't, And all of

749
00:38:59,480 --> 00:39:01,120
Speaker 1: a sudden, I was like, I just want our house

750
00:39:01,160 --> 00:39:03,719
Speaker 1: to ourselves. And I knew there was so much more

751
00:39:03,760 --> 00:39:07,360
Speaker 1: behind it, but it's like after a baby, I'm like,

752
00:39:07,400 --> 00:39:09,960
Speaker 1: I just like I need, like I just I'm so

753
00:39:10,000 --> 00:39:12,719
Speaker 1: happy that we now have our like our home to ourselves,

754
00:39:12,760 --> 00:39:15,759
Speaker 1: and like every visit from everybody where, those friends and fame,

755
00:39:15,800 --> 00:39:18,040
Speaker 1: they were fantastic, but it's just the fact that we've

756
00:39:18,080 --> 00:39:20,719
Speaker 1: had six weeks of someone in our house. Well I

757
00:39:20,800 --> 00:39:22,920
Speaker 1: get it because sometimes I don't even know how you

758
00:39:22,960 --> 00:39:25,080
Speaker 1: have it with each other because sometimes I need a

759
00:39:25,320 --> 00:39:29,000
Speaker 1: loan time, Like actually I don't I don't understand that

760
00:39:29,000 --> 00:39:30,279
Speaker 1: you and Mike are the same. Because I could be

761
00:39:30,360 --> 00:39:32,680
Speaker 1: with him seven and it could be with me every second,

762
00:39:32,719 --> 00:39:35,400
Speaker 1: every day until the day we die and become fine.

763
00:39:35,680 --> 00:39:38,680
Speaker 1: I think it's great. And He's like, like Mike, Mike's

764
00:39:38,760 --> 00:39:40,640
Speaker 1: dream days to spend the entire day without me. In

765
00:39:40,680 --> 00:39:43,160
Speaker 1: my dream days, that spend the entire day with him.

766
00:39:43,280 --> 00:39:47,560
Speaker 1: So I'm like, that's hurtful, hurtful. It's what I personally enjoyed.

767
00:39:47,760 --> 00:39:53,480
Speaker 1: That sucks. Really, I know, like that you enjoy spending

768
00:39:53,480 --> 00:39:56,759
Speaker 1: the day without me, like that hurts me days I

769
00:39:56,840 --> 00:39:59,120
Speaker 1: spend with you, So if I get, but your dream

770
00:39:59,320 --> 00:40:01,400
Speaker 1: day is not spent like my dream day is to

771
00:40:01,440 --> 00:40:03,439
Speaker 1: sit at the beach, have a glass of wine, toes

772
00:40:03,480 --> 00:40:05,799
Speaker 1: in the sand. And you hate sand, you hate like

773
00:40:06,760 --> 00:40:12,279
Speaker 1: being with me. I think my dream day would be

774
00:40:12,320 --> 00:40:15,080
Speaker 1: to be toes in the sand beach with like the guy.

775
00:40:15,160 --> 00:40:19,040
Speaker 1: I like, that would be awesome. But then right like

776
00:40:19,440 --> 00:40:21,759
Speaker 1: twenty days later of that, I kind of need like

777
00:40:21,800 --> 00:40:25,960
Speaker 1: a little time with my own laptop and the TV

778
00:40:26,080 --> 00:40:28,960
Speaker 1: shows I want and just no one in my no

779
00:40:29,000 --> 00:40:31,919
Speaker 1: one chirping at me, no one doing anything. See, I

780
00:40:31,960 --> 00:40:34,560
Speaker 1: need that from the kids. Like today, I'm like I

781
00:40:34,600 --> 00:40:37,719
Speaker 1: need a minute, I need twenty minutes on the treadmill. Like,

782
00:40:38,080 --> 00:40:39,839
Speaker 1: but I would have loved for youth to gone out

783
00:40:39,840 --> 00:40:41,399
Speaker 1: there with me and like work out with me. I'd

784
00:40:41,400 --> 00:40:43,080
Speaker 1: have been fine with that, but you couldn't because I

785
00:40:43,080 --> 00:40:45,000
Speaker 1: had had to take care of Jase. But still, like,

786
00:40:45,040 --> 00:40:46,359
Speaker 1: you know what I mean, I offered to take care

787
00:40:46,400 --> 00:40:48,880
Speaker 1: of so you can go do that because well, thank you.

788
00:40:49,400 --> 00:40:51,560
Speaker 1: And then he spent two hours at the barbershop, which

789
00:40:51,719 --> 00:40:53,640
Speaker 1: then he like shaved off. I was like, how are

790
00:40:53,640 --> 00:40:56,640
Speaker 1: you still at the barbershop? Like you're bald? Like what

791
00:40:56,719 --> 00:41:00,440
Speaker 1: are they doing? Anyways, So there's an email going around

792
00:41:00,520 --> 00:41:04,080
Speaker 1: that we need to read because apparently it's pretty juicy.

793
00:41:04,320 --> 00:41:08,360
Speaker 1: Here you go East, Okay, sorry forgot It's okay, you

794
00:41:08,400 --> 00:41:11,640
Speaker 1: can you can leave those on. Uh. I'm really proud

795
00:41:11,680 --> 00:41:14,440
Speaker 1: to be the one to deliver this to you. Do

796
00:41:14,480 --> 00:41:20,279
Speaker 1: I have it? No? A habit says I want a habit.

797
00:41:21,239 --> 00:41:22,680
Speaker 1: You do not have it. So this will be theater

798
00:41:22,680 --> 00:41:24,040
Speaker 1: of the mind. You just have to close your eyes

799
00:41:24,040 --> 00:41:27,360
Speaker 1: and visual Crystal, my boyfriend of six months and I

800
00:41:27,400 --> 00:41:30,280
Speaker 1: are very happy and I've been on cloud nine six months.

801
00:41:30,280 --> 00:41:37,279
Speaker 1: Boyfriend found I need to write now six months six months, boyfriend, Okay,

802
00:41:37,280 --> 00:41:39,239
Speaker 1: we're never gonna get through them. I'm sorry, Okay, I

803
00:41:39,280 --> 00:41:41,080
Speaker 1: just have to get all my facts. Here's your next

804
00:41:41,080 --> 00:41:43,560
Speaker 1: bullet point. I found something on his phone that worried me.

805
00:41:43,840 --> 00:41:47,320
Speaker 1: Phone worried Okay. We used his phone to take pictures

806
00:41:47,320 --> 00:41:49,320
Speaker 1: on New Year's Eve, and the next day I grabbed

807
00:41:49,320 --> 00:41:50,719
Speaker 1: his phone and told him I was going to send

808
00:41:50,800 --> 00:41:54,200
Speaker 1: myself the pictures, while doing so with his full knowledge,

809
00:41:54,200 --> 00:41:56,920
Speaker 1: I might add, not snooping. I saw a naked picture

810
00:41:56,960 --> 00:41:59,719
Speaker 1: he had taken in the mirror that morning, immediately taken

811
00:41:59,719 --> 00:42:01,560
Speaker 1: a bad I kind of kept it to myself, not

812
00:42:01,600 --> 00:42:04,359
Speaker 1: wanting to embarrass him, but my mind kept racing, why

813
00:42:04,360 --> 00:42:06,320
Speaker 1: did he take that? Did he send it to someone?

814
00:42:06,800 --> 00:42:09,080
Speaker 1: So eventually just asked in. His response was that he

815
00:42:09,320 --> 00:42:13,840
Speaker 1: basically was trying to get back his self confidence f

816
00:42:13,280 --> 00:42:20,240
Speaker 1: F fire after the season of eating and drinking like crap.

817
00:42:20,280 --> 00:42:22,520
Speaker 1: He's also a personal trainer and has said he's been

818
00:42:22,520 --> 00:42:25,640
Speaker 1: considering training for physique competitions this new year, so he

819
00:42:25,680 --> 00:42:27,880
Speaker 1: wanted the picture as a starting point. I don't know

820
00:42:27,920 --> 00:42:30,280
Speaker 1: why below the waist would have to be included, but whatever,

821
00:42:30,680 --> 00:42:34,520
Speaker 1: I don't have it sounds like it, okay, I don't

822
00:42:34,560 --> 00:42:36,160
Speaker 1: have any reason not to believe him, but I don't

823
00:42:36,160 --> 00:42:37,960
Speaker 1: want to be naive. He's such a great boyfriend and

824
00:42:38,000 --> 00:42:40,319
Speaker 1: I have completely trusted him up until now. Am I

825
00:42:40,400 --> 00:42:42,640
Speaker 1: just being paranoid? Or would you be worried too? I'm

826
00:42:42,680 --> 00:42:47,080
Speaker 1: worried and he's lying. I'm sorry, that's just the six

827
00:42:47,120 --> 00:42:51,760
Speaker 1: months and even if it wasn't your husband for five years,

828
00:42:52,719 --> 00:42:55,600
Speaker 1: so that even so, come on, right there, you just said,

829
00:42:55,600 --> 00:42:59,799
Speaker 1: all right, six months, let me just defend him. You know,

830
00:43:00,000 --> 00:43:02,600
Speaker 1: I sudn't tell proven guilty. Okay, give the guy a chance.

831
00:43:03,080 --> 00:43:07,600
Speaker 1: Because he is a physical trainer. Okay, he is in

832
00:43:08,080 --> 00:43:11,520
Speaker 1: that world that you're laughing while you're saying this. Right now,

833
00:43:11,640 --> 00:43:14,640
Speaker 1: I'm smiling because it's KNT ridiculous what I'm saying, but

834
00:43:14,719 --> 00:43:17,560
Speaker 1: at the same time could be factual. But because his

835
00:43:17,680 --> 00:43:21,680
Speaker 1: body is his business and he is considering he's the trainer,

836
00:43:21,719 --> 00:43:24,160
Speaker 1: then she should already be proud of his body, considering

837
00:43:24,760 --> 00:43:30,080
Speaker 1: entering physique competitions, like they study their bodies like crazy. Yeah, okay,

838
00:43:30,080 --> 00:43:32,640
Speaker 1: but they don't take naked pictures themselves. Maybe he's studying

839
00:43:32,800 --> 00:43:36,120
Speaker 1: his pain too, No, that's no, sorry, no, But maybe

840
00:43:36,160 --> 00:43:38,120
Speaker 1: he's getting his legs maybe it's just all in one.

841
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Speaker 1: He could have put underwear on. But I would just say,

842
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Speaker 1: go through his text messages and then if not, go

843
00:43:42,160 --> 00:43:46,960
Speaker 1: to his phone bill. Crazy crazy alert. I went with,

844
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Speaker 1: here's my thought on it. Don't worry about it until

845
00:43:50,640 --> 00:43:52,799
Speaker 1: there's more to worry about. Like, don't you think she'd

846
00:43:52,800 --> 00:43:54,439
Speaker 1: have a gut feeling if there was something to worry about?

847
00:43:54,440 --> 00:43:58,240
Speaker 1: So feeling she's emailing us, that's a gut feeling. I'm

848
00:43:58,320 --> 00:44:00,400
Speaker 1: hoping for the best. Like I'm not worried about it

849
00:44:00,520 --> 00:44:03,040
Speaker 1: or like whatever, it's fine. Maybe he was going to

850
00:44:03,120 --> 00:44:05,000
Speaker 1: send it to her at some point you would have

851
00:44:05,000 --> 00:44:09,400
Speaker 1: said that though true. Good point, Michael, I'm still not

852
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Speaker 1: worried about it. Shoot, yeah, yeah he probably, but still ye, Hey,

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Speaker 1: what's up. I'm Stephanie Pratt. You may know me from

854
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Speaker 1: the Hills, and I'm wells Adams from like Batchroom Paradise,

855
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Speaker 1: and I don't know I dated someone that's famous. Okay,

856
00:44:28,880 --> 00:44:32,080
Speaker 1: you guys, he's he's wells Adam, Sarah Highland's boyfriend. Can

857
00:44:32,160 --> 00:44:35,680
Speaker 1: that not be, my moniker? It's no, it should be.

858
00:44:35,800 --> 00:44:37,799
Speaker 1: So when we start the show, you're just gonna be like,

859
00:44:37,880 --> 00:44:43,239
Speaker 1: hey about you and Sarah Highland's boyfriend. We're going for it.

860
00:44:43,560 --> 00:44:47,920
Speaker 1: Enough about Wells, this is actually the Pratt Cast and

861
00:44:48,239 --> 00:44:51,160
Speaker 1: it's going to be about the Hills and we'll be

862
00:44:51,200 --> 00:44:53,880
Speaker 1: talking about things you can't hear anywhere else. Having castmates

863
00:44:53,920 --> 00:44:59,880
Speaker 1: come on talking about Wells his dating life with Sarah.

864
00:45:00,400 --> 00:45:02,440
Speaker 1: I was looking at you. My bad. They've locked us

865
00:45:02,440 --> 00:45:04,719
Speaker 1: in this freaking studio together and they won't let us

866
00:45:04,719 --> 00:45:07,640
Speaker 1: out until we have your new favorite obsession. So please

867
00:45:07,680 --> 00:45:10,880
Speaker 1: subscribe to Pratt Cast after you finished this episode, or

868
00:45:10,920 --> 00:45:13,239
Speaker 1: just do it right now because you're probably bored of

869
00:45:13,280 --> 00:45:16,399
Speaker 1: this episode and literally we want to get out. It's lunchtime. Yes,

870
00:45:16,440 --> 00:45:20,640
Speaker 1: it's home sweating right now? Can we turn on the

871
00:45:20,680 --> 00:45:24,520
Speaker 1: air most all right on three one two three? You

872
00:45:24,560 --> 00:45:27,719
Speaker 1: won't regret it. I do want to say something though,

873
00:45:27,960 --> 00:45:30,080
Speaker 1: speaking of guys, why is it that you can't do

874
00:45:30,320 --> 00:45:34,040
Speaker 1: two things at once? I really really want to know that,

875
00:45:34,120 --> 00:45:36,720
Speaker 1: for example, because it's better to do one thing great

876
00:45:37,000 --> 00:45:39,680
Speaker 1: than multiple things. Okay, like when you want to pick

877
00:45:39,760 --> 00:45:42,000
Speaker 1: up your brother, one of the reasons where you going

878
00:45:42,000 --> 00:45:43,759
Speaker 1: there was to talk to the baggage claim person. You

879
00:45:43,840 --> 00:45:46,160
Speaker 1: didn't even talk to the baggage claim person, like the

880
00:45:46,520 --> 00:45:48,200
Speaker 1: reason that you were going to pick up your brother,

881
00:45:48,320 --> 00:45:50,440
Speaker 1: and I'm like, Michael, He's like, oh, I forgot. I'm

882
00:45:50,440 --> 00:45:52,560
Speaker 1: like that was the whole damn reason why you It

883
00:45:52,600 --> 00:45:54,400
Speaker 1: wouldn't even matter because they couldn't have done it. But

884
00:45:54,480 --> 00:45:57,960
Speaker 1: I'm just saying, like why, Like it's the principle and

885
00:45:57,960 --> 00:46:00,040
Speaker 1: the pull up the other day, why couldn't you? I

886
00:46:00,080 --> 00:46:03,600
Speaker 1: literally texted you know, and I don't remember every single thing,

887
00:46:03,719 --> 00:46:06,799
Speaker 1: texted you it and I forgot Jesus. I just feel

888
00:46:06,800 --> 00:46:09,200
Speaker 1: like guys, like I could be acting the dishwasher, responding

889
00:46:09,239 --> 00:46:11,920
Speaker 1: to a text, doing a social media thing like putting

890
00:46:11,920 --> 00:46:14,880
Speaker 1: on makeup, holding Jay's giving him a bottle, and still

891
00:46:15,200 --> 00:46:18,800
Speaker 1: like you're like ironing and cooking, Yeah, ironing and cooking,

892
00:46:18,840 --> 00:46:28,120
Speaker 1: and he doesn't okay, But I'm just I just don't

893
00:46:28,200 --> 00:46:31,360
Speaker 1: understand why you can't, Like why guys physically can't do

894
00:46:31,400 --> 00:46:34,000
Speaker 1: more than one thing at once. Our listeners email in

895
00:46:34,080 --> 00:46:38,720
Speaker 1: an example of this, I have like millions in general.

896
00:46:39,160 --> 00:46:43,120
Speaker 1: I don't want to be generalizer, but guys cannot do

897
00:46:43,360 --> 00:46:46,160
Speaker 1: more than one thing at the same time, and girls

898
00:46:46,239 --> 00:46:49,440
Speaker 1: can do that's right, single minded focused, which I think

899
00:46:49,480 --> 00:46:51,440
Speaker 1: is a better way to say it. They're focused on

900
00:46:51,480 --> 00:46:53,040
Speaker 1: the one thing they're gonna do it. They're gonna do

901
00:46:53,080 --> 00:46:55,000
Speaker 1: it right, they're going to finish it onto the next

902
00:46:55,280 --> 00:46:57,600
Speaker 1: whereas we do not do that. We're doing four and

903
00:46:57,640 --> 00:47:00,920
Speaker 1: twelve things at the same time, maybe not all perfectly,

904
00:47:00,960 --> 00:47:05,479
Speaker 1: but we're getting it done. Maybe not all perfectly. Yeah. See,

905
00:47:05,520 --> 00:47:07,640
Speaker 1: when we get something done, it's through and through, it's

906
00:47:07,640 --> 00:47:13,239
Speaker 1: efficient and there's no mistakes. Okay, next email, alrighty soon,

907
00:47:13,360 --> 00:47:17,960
Speaker 1: give your take. I mean, my wife asked me to

908
00:47:18,000 --> 00:47:19,560
Speaker 1: do something, and I'll be doing it, and then she

909
00:47:19,640 --> 00:47:22,840
Speaker 1: asked me to do uh, the next thing, and she's

910
00:47:23,080 --> 00:47:25,200
Speaker 1: thinking about a million things at the same time, and

911
00:47:25,239 --> 00:47:27,200
Speaker 1: so she's just you know, expecting me to do that too,

912
00:47:27,239 --> 00:47:28,680
Speaker 1: And I'm like, well, do you want me to stop

913
00:47:28,760 --> 00:47:31,759
Speaker 1: right now? And why can't she like, why can't you

914
00:47:31,760 --> 00:47:33,400
Speaker 1: just like bookmark it in your head, Like, Okay, I'm

915
00:47:33,400 --> 00:47:35,319
Speaker 1: gonna do that after this. But you guys get so

916
00:47:35,440 --> 00:47:39,880
Speaker 1: like like squirrel dog bone exactly why I don't understand

917
00:47:39,960 --> 00:47:43,839
Speaker 1: to biologically things in my brain afterwards. It makes me

918
00:47:43,920 --> 00:47:46,640
Speaker 1: very so, but it makes me very anxious too, because

919
00:47:46,680 --> 00:47:49,200
Speaker 1: I hate that. I told her, told her I hate

920
00:47:49,200 --> 00:47:51,600
Speaker 1: when I get overloaded. They asked me to do one

921
00:47:51,640 --> 00:47:53,520
Speaker 1: thing and don't be like, hey, can you do this

922
00:47:53,560 --> 00:47:55,080
Speaker 1: and then do this and then do that and do this.

923
00:47:55,160 --> 00:47:57,040
Speaker 1: I'm like, whoa hold the phone? But how do you

924
00:47:57,040 --> 00:47:59,160
Speaker 1: think about me? I have like fifty things in my brain.

925
00:47:59,560 --> 00:48:02,120
Speaker 1: That's your fault. No it's not. I'm a woman and

926
00:48:02,160 --> 00:48:05,480
Speaker 1: I ruled the world, so it's like, you know what

927
00:48:05,560 --> 00:48:07,360
Speaker 1: I mean, like I'd like to unload some of this

928
00:48:07,560 --> 00:48:11,200
Speaker 1: baggage in my brain. I will say, it's actually, uh

929
00:48:11,360 --> 00:48:15,080
Speaker 1: not even borderline impressive. It's extremely impressive. How if I

930
00:48:15,120 --> 00:48:17,799
Speaker 1: just get out of her way, how much she can accomplish,

931
00:48:18,120 --> 00:48:21,200
Speaker 1: It's astronomical. I left with my brother. My brother and

932
00:48:21,239 --> 00:48:23,200
Speaker 1: I went and my brother and I went and saw

933
00:48:23,480 --> 00:48:26,400
Speaker 1: Aquaman last weekend when he was in town. Good flick

934
00:48:27,080 --> 00:48:31,560
Speaker 1: and uh Eastern. We can rap about that later. We

935
00:48:31,640 --> 00:48:33,720
Speaker 1: come and we had talked about taking down the Christmas

936
00:48:33,760 --> 00:48:37,440
Speaker 1: decorations that last this past weekend. I come home. You

937
00:48:37,440 --> 00:48:40,880
Speaker 1: would have thought that Christmas was last year, that was

938
00:48:40,920 --> 00:48:44,240
Speaker 1: six months ago, because there wasn't a single thing except

939
00:48:44,239 --> 00:48:47,320
Speaker 1: for the exterior lights because that was my job. Nothing

940
00:48:47,360 --> 00:48:50,200
Speaker 1: in the house ever resembled like not even like a

941
00:48:50,200 --> 00:48:54,359
Speaker 1: speck of glitter. Everything gone, The entire Christmas tree, all

942
00:48:54,400 --> 00:48:56,600
Speaker 1: the ornaments down, the tree was packed, putting the box

943
00:48:56,600 --> 00:48:59,120
Speaker 1: and put in the garage, and she had both kids

944
00:48:59,800 --> 00:49:01,960
Speaker 1: and Andy. And let me tell you, I did it

945
00:49:01,960 --> 00:49:04,600
Speaker 1: before Joey's nap, so it took me forty six minutes

946
00:49:04,960 --> 00:49:07,799
Speaker 1: to She didn't even do it when Jolie was nappy,

947
00:49:07,840 --> 00:49:09,480
Speaker 1: and which I figured she would do. She did all

948
00:49:09,520 --> 00:49:11,839
Speaker 1: before that, and I walked I walked in, and I

949
00:49:11,880 --> 00:49:13,440
Speaker 1: was like, you know what, even you still impress me.

950
00:49:13,840 --> 00:49:16,759
Speaker 1: So maybe I've seen to leave more often and just

951
00:49:16,800 --> 00:49:20,400
Speaker 1: get out of your way. YEP, sounds about right. I

952
00:49:20,480 --> 00:49:27,160
Speaker 1: live like Jane everybody, that's what w w J d uh.

953
00:49:27,160 --> 00:49:29,680
Speaker 1: This is from Caitlin. I'm a single mom of a

954
00:49:29,719 --> 00:49:31,480
Speaker 1: two and a half year old girl and her father

955
00:49:31,600 --> 00:49:34,520
Speaker 1: has never met her from lack on his part. When

956
00:49:34,520 --> 00:49:36,440
Speaker 1: I was four months pregnant, I found out he was

957
00:49:36,520 --> 00:49:39,200
Speaker 1: married and has been since before we met. I tried

958
00:49:39,239 --> 00:49:41,000
Speaker 1: to keep him involved, but he wants nothing to do

959
00:49:41,080 --> 00:49:43,279
Speaker 1: with her. So my question for you is how do

960
00:49:43,320 --> 00:49:45,399
Speaker 1: I get back into dating. I'd like to find out

961
00:49:45,400 --> 00:49:47,160
Speaker 1: who I am again and find her a father figure

962
00:49:47,160 --> 00:49:49,680
Speaker 1: in the process. She's calling every male she sees daddy

963
00:49:49,719 --> 00:49:51,960
Speaker 1: because she thinks that that's what males are called. It

964
00:49:52,000 --> 00:49:53,920
Speaker 1: breaks my heart and she doesn't even know what a

965
00:49:54,040 --> 00:49:59,320
Speaker 1: daddy is. Advice Please, that breaks my heart? Oh that hurts?

966
00:50:01,160 --> 00:50:05,120
Speaker 1: Where to end on a downer? Do you want to start? Oh?

967
00:50:07,080 --> 00:50:09,759
Speaker 1: I will say this, I think the first of all,

968
00:50:09,760 --> 00:50:14,000
Speaker 1: I'm really sorry, but I don't like the that you're

969
00:50:14,000 --> 00:50:19,040
Speaker 1: trying to find someone to be her father figure. Why. Well,

970
00:50:19,080 --> 00:50:21,000
Speaker 1: because I think she just needs to focus on like

971
00:50:21,080 --> 00:50:23,279
Speaker 1: herself and like being a mom and like not not

972
00:50:23,320 --> 00:50:25,839
Speaker 1: because when I actively search for a relationship, that's when

973
00:50:25,920 --> 00:50:28,080
Speaker 1: it's like I'm messing I had a child, Like I

974
00:50:28,320 --> 00:50:30,440
Speaker 1: would be like, okay, like this guy is gonna be

975
00:50:30,440 --> 00:50:32,120
Speaker 1: her father, like, but if it's not the right one,

976
00:50:32,120 --> 00:50:34,000
Speaker 1: then you're going to have like all these multiple men

977
00:50:34,200 --> 00:50:36,480
Speaker 1: that aren't going to be the right person. And then

978
00:50:36,520 --> 00:50:40,680
Speaker 1: she's calling everybody like her dad. Right. But I understand

979
00:50:40,760 --> 00:50:43,680
Speaker 1: the assumption behind that. But maybe she is, Maybe she

980
00:50:43,840 --> 00:50:46,000
Speaker 1: is like just focused on herself. But I think she

981
00:50:46,120 --> 00:50:48,280
Speaker 1: probably wants to do enough for her but for her daughter,

982
00:50:48,680 --> 00:50:50,719
Speaker 1: so her daughter can have a male presence. Her daughter

983
00:50:50,760 --> 00:50:52,839
Speaker 1: deserves the father. It's got to be the right person. Though,

984
00:50:53,760 --> 00:50:57,360
Speaker 1: I just focus on like you, right, But I I

985
00:50:57,480 --> 00:51:01,399
Speaker 1: get her her drive to to find she can still

986
00:51:01,400 --> 00:51:04,840
Speaker 1: actively find somebody and try to find the right person.

987
00:51:04,960 --> 00:51:06,800
Speaker 1: She wouldn't just have to find the next guy she sees,

988
00:51:06,840 --> 00:51:08,560
Speaker 1: but find the right person, do the work to find

989
00:51:08,600 --> 00:51:11,080
Speaker 1: that that that mail that can be your father figure

990
00:51:11,120 --> 00:51:13,480
Speaker 1: for her daughter. I can see why she would really

991
00:51:13,480 --> 00:51:16,360
Speaker 1: want that. But this is I'm really sad. Yeah, that

992
00:51:16,400 --> 00:51:22,799
Speaker 1: makes me sad. Oh we have a birthday shout out? Okay, um,

993
00:51:22,800 --> 00:51:24,239
Speaker 1: this is from Kelly. I was hoping that I could

994
00:51:24,239 --> 00:51:26,360
Speaker 1: get a birthday shout out on our on your podcast.

995
00:51:26,400 --> 00:51:30,880
Speaker 1: I'm training twenty four on January three. Happy birthday. Um,

996
00:51:30,880 --> 00:51:33,000
Speaker 1: it was yesterday. I'm an avid listener to the podcast

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00:51:33,040 --> 00:51:35,080
Speaker 1: each week. I also would love to know how has

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00:51:35,120 --> 00:51:37,000
Speaker 1: life been different for you too now that you have

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Speaker 1: two kids? How do you divide and conquer all of

1000
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Speaker 1: your responsibilities that you have? I just do everything all right? Well,

1001
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Speaker 1: thank you and um, this was a great winding down.

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Speaker 1: First of all, happy birthday, Kelly, Happy birthday. Second of all,

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Speaker 1: fun here on location in Santa Monica. We're super excited

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