WEBVTT - “I FINALLY LOST MY VIRGINITY”

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<v Speaker 1>Hello, Uh, Hi, can you hear me? Hi?

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<v Speaker 2>Hey, I can. What's your name?

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<v Speaker 3>Uh?

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<v Speaker 2>Let's go with Jack, Jack. What's up Jack? That sounds

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<v Speaker 2>like something Joe. That sounds like something Joe Biden would say,

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<v Speaker 2>what's up Jack?

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<v Speaker 3>How you doing?

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<v Speaker 2>How's life?

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<v Speaker 1>Well, you know, it's it's upset, it's up, it's it stuns.

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<v Speaker 3>Up and down.

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<v Speaker 1>Found Uh lately I've actually kind of texted you, uh

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<v Speaker 1>some kind of broad strokes information about myself.

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<v Speaker 2>Uh well, I I I did not get your text?

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<v Speaker 2>Why don't you? Why don't you say it to us again?

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<v Speaker 1>Fair enough? Uh? So I'm an earth relatively new uh

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<v Speaker 1>started about a year ago. Uh, but I've been out

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<v Speaker 1>of work lately because of the knee injury, because of

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<v Speaker 1>a fight that I didn't want to get involved in,

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<v Speaker 1>but bachnically want until I got until other people stepped in.

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<v Speaker 1>Oh and I also recently lost my virginity.

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<v Speaker 2>You recently lost your virginity?

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah?

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah, yeah, I know.

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<v Speaker 2>How how is that? Tell me that? Tell me tell

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<v Speaker 2>me all the juicy details if you so desire.

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<v Speaker 1>Well, I mean technically nobody knows me, so why not?

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<v Speaker 1>It was a wonderful time. It was actually a first

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<v Speaker 1>date with a co worker, and you know, I would

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<v Speaker 1>have just been happy with just like a you know,

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<v Speaker 1>a date. But uh, you know, we were watching some anime,

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<v Speaker 1>some I think with death Notes, and eventually we started

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<v Speaker 1>to get a little freaky and uh yeah it was

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<v Speaker 1>pretty awesome. And uh, well what's really cool is there

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<v Speaker 1>seems to be a little uh spark between us, like, uh,

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<v Speaker 1>you know, we really enjoy each other's personality, like we

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<v Speaker 1>were co workers for like a year before we even

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<v Speaker 1>thought of doing anything.

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<v Speaker 2>Wow. Pretty cool, Pretty cool. All right, So this isn't

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<v Speaker 2>just a uh uh an anime induced sexual rendezvous. This

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<v Speaker 2>is uh the potential buds of something that could could

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<v Speaker 2>could last a while.

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<v Speaker 1>I mean, don't get me wrong, those animated cities probably helped,

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<v Speaker 1>but I mean no, I think, uh, I mean, I think,

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<v Speaker 1>I mean because you really like you are the only

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<v Speaker 1>thing that might might worry me is you know, she

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<v Speaker 1>works a lot, which you know I give you know,

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<v Speaker 1>she she had a kid, so I mean she's gotta

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<v Speaker 1>care for her care for her kid. But I mean,

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<v Speaker 1>you know, you know I want to see her. I

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<v Speaker 1>don't think uh yeah, no, no, no, it's like get dead.

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<v Speaker 1>You gotta take care of that kid. But I don't know.

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<v Speaker 1>I mean, you know what I mean, I'm trying to

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<v Speaker 1>be respectful dead, but it's also like I want to

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<v Speaker 1>spend time with her, And TJ also went to say,

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<v Speaker 1>that's like I really want to spend time with you too.

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<v Speaker 2>Interesting interesting, interesting.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, So it's like we both want it. We both

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<v Speaker 1>get there's natural reasons why there's barriers. We're both readable adults.

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<v Speaker 1>It's just we want to see each other more. It

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<v Speaker 1>would be nice.

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<v Speaker 2>What is the how many times have you guys rendezvous?

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<v Speaker 1>Oh? Well the first uh well, after that first day,

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<v Speaker 1>my parents were out of town for quite a few days,

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<v Speaker 1>so you know, we had to have for ourselves, so

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<v Speaker 1>we made good ships to that pretty good uh yeah, yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>but uh we have I have that on taking her

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<v Speaker 1>to well. I guess I shouldn't say excadinly why it

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<v Speaker 1>is because uh you know right now I'm doing a

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<v Speaker 1>pretty good job and keep my calfe ambiguous. But it's

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<v Speaker 1>a really nice little uh little things that I would

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<v Speaker 1>have a nice little air on beyond romance to it

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<v Speaker 1>that she's really like only downside of the time falls a

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<v Speaker 1>lot of walking. But I can do it with my life.

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<v Speaker 1>I've gentually been doing daily walks for about a mile

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<v Speaker 1>or two to try to build up strength for my

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<v Speaker 1>knee surgery that's coming up.

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<v Speaker 2>Mmm all right, so let me let me recap this.

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<v Speaker 2>All right, So you're taking this lady out on a

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<v Speaker 2>romantic date to like a what like to like a

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<v Speaker 2>fucking botanical garden or something like.

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<v Speaker 1>That, something like it. It's like a light show type thing.

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<v Speaker 2>Oh, very cool, very nice, guys. What I mean, you

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<v Speaker 2>don't have to tell me the nitty gritty, but what

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<v Speaker 2>what do you guys work at?

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<v Speaker 3>Like?

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<v Speaker 2>What kind of industry.

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<v Speaker 1>We work at? We both work in a hospital. We

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<v Speaker 1>both work on a neurosurgical form.

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<v Speaker 2>Oh, holy fucking tits. Ye that's that's huge. That's a lot. Yeah, okay,

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<v Speaker 2>So you're both busy medical professionals and she has a kid.

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<v Speaker 1>Oh yeah, and she also had a second job that

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<v Speaker 1>she actually is gonna be starting back up soon too.

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<v Speaker 1>So it's like if I think she's busy, now, oh

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<v Speaker 1>you know what I mean?

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, okay, but you're getting the vibe from her, because

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<v Speaker 2>I mean, that's the thing, right, is that like it's

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<v Speaker 2>hard to tell. I mean some some sometimes you kind

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<v Speaker 2>of sometimes your gut tells you and you can decide

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<v Speaker 2>whether or not you want to believe it. But it's

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<v Speaker 2>like hard to tell whether or not. It's like somebody

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<v Speaker 2>is like a lot of the times, yes, people are

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<v Speaker 2>like actually genuinely fucking busy. Like do you get the

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<v Speaker 2>vibe that she's like genuinely actually busy and wants to

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<v Speaker 2>wants to make it work. And she's not like.

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<v Speaker 1>Blowing you off. She's like like a teddy bear. She's

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<v Speaker 1>so sweet.

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<v Speaker 3>I don't.

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<v Speaker 1>And I also really think that she had a problem.

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<v Speaker 1>She she hasn't been she had had ashe was just

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<v Speaker 1>saying it before.

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<v Speaker 2>Mm hmmm mm hmm. And so hmmm, uh how long

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<v Speaker 2>have you guys? So you got but you guys are

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<v Speaker 2>not like in a religious a fairly new thing happening.

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<v Speaker 2>But yeah, you're trying to you're trying to invest in

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<v Speaker 2>the relationship with the hope being that it can become

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<v Speaker 2>a stable thing.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah. Well, and also she was telling me about how

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<v Speaker 1>uh well her baby dad yould tell I was telling

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<v Speaker 1>her one day, I really want to spoil you. It's

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<v Speaker 1>just like, oh, never handache. But it's like, wait, do

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<v Speaker 1>you have a you have a kid, your baby's dad

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<v Speaker 1>You never spoiled you. Never like you know, gate never

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<v Speaker 1>like gave you a bunch of like nice things. I'm like,

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<v Speaker 1>Mother's ding dope bony thing tacuts for Mother's Day from

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<v Speaker 1>him with a with a balloon, which is like that

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<v Speaker 1>is ridiculous.

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<v Speaker 2>Okay, So you you're telling this lady, You're like, I

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<v Speaker 2>want to spoil you. I want to get you all

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<v Speaker 2>these nice things and and all that.

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<v Speaker 1>I mean, I mean, I mean, nothing too crazy, I mean,

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<v Speaker 1>but I mean, I mean I want to I want

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<v Speaker 1>to give her some you know, nice things. A little

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<v Speaker 1>bit like uh I gave her this, Uh well, I

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<v Speaker 1>gave her this one. Uh this one break like like

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<v Speaker 1>you know, very you know, relatively cheap. She said, she doesn't,

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<v Speaker 1>you know, go for like the really nice things. So

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<v Speaker 1>I said, okay, some mean it'll flucks, but looks good,

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<v Speaker 1>you know what I mean. And I think it turned

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<v Speaker 1>out very nice.

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<v Speaker 2>Cool man, cool, This sounds nice. This sounds nice. So

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<v Speaker 2>this is this is your first first foray into like

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<v Speaker 2>a relationship.

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah.

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<v Speaker 1>So it's like and she's really understanding of Also it's like, well,

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<v Speaker 1>I'm still trying to figure out what exactly is the

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<v Speaker 1>difference between you know, you know, thinking you have feelings

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<v Speaker 1>and actually having the feelings. I think I have the feelings,

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<v Speaker 1>but it's also like, you know, I've never had these

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<v Speaker 1>feelings before, you know what I mean?

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, totally totally can ask how old you are?

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<v Speaker 1>Going on?

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<v Speaker 2>Really cool, very nice, very nice.

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<v Speaker 1>Right, here's a great thing about many it's now it's

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<v Speaker 1>not up because I used to be a virgin. Now

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<v Speaker 1>I'm an authentic man.

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<v Speaker 2>Very good, very nice. Do you feel different? Do you

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<v Speaker 2>feel like you know you've you've shed some metaphor weight?

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<v Speaker 1>Well, you know, honestly, there's this great analogy I've heard

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<v Speaker 1>about having sex before that I thought and I still

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<v Speaker 1>think it's great sex, especially having sex for the first time.

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<v Speaker 1>It's like going to New York. You know, it's a

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<v Speaker 1>lot of fun. You know, it's a it's a new experience,

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<v Speaker 1>and you get to kind of connect with others because

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<v Speaker 1>you now have because by going to New York, you

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<v Speaker 1>have experience to kind of draw upon when you talk

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<v Speaker 1>about your students, you know, going to New York. At

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<v Speaker 1>the end of the day, it doesn't really change you.

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<v Speaker 1>You're not any different as a result. You just went

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<v Speaker 1>to New York. How was it? Did you have fun?

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<v Speaker 2>Right? Right, No, yes, you you're You're the same guy

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<v Speaker 2>before and after you had sex for the first time.

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<v Speaker 2>It didn't. It didn't didn't really mature. It didn't. It doesn't. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 2>I guess if I mean so, some people have varying

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<v Speaker 2>degrees of UH it's shame or whatever associated with UH

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<v Speaker 2>for unity or whatever. But it's like, at the end

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<v Speaker 2>of the day, there's no you are the same person

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<v Speaker 2>before and after you lost your virginity. It didn't really

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<v Speaker 2>do it didn't. It didn't ultimately do much to change

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<v Speaker 2>your identity or your life.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, well, well one thing it did change. I found

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<v Speaker 1>out that differently. I've been brainwashed by porn and the

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<v Speaker 1>thinking that a that ache, that a actually big dick

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<v Speaker 1>isn't a big dick. And I found that out personally.

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<v Speaker 1>You know what I means.

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<v Speaker 2>I actually hold on, let me see if I know

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<v Speaker 2>what you mean. Okay, you were brainwashed by porn into

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<v Speaker 2>thinking that. Okay, porn brainwashed you into thinking that.

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<v Speaker 1>Basically I had like a maybe subpart uh, you know,

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<v Speaker 1>machinery at best during that and then actually.

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<v Speaker 2>Have it turns out you actually have a huge cock.

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<v Speaker 1>Well, I would say, dude, but.

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<v Speaker 2>Pretty good, pretty good. You saw well, look whether or

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<v Speaker 2>not look whether or not this experience was identity shaping

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<v Speaker 2>or life defining. It sounds like you're having a good time.

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<v Speaker 2>That's what matters.

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<v Speaker 1>I mean they barely elevated me after my knee got

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<v Speaker 1>you went out and not being able to work that

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<v Speaker 1>Uh mainly that didn't that that didn't make me feel

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<v Speaker 1>super great about myself, and then that made me feel awesome.

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<v Speaker 1>I would I would have, but I'm like one of

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<v Speaker 1>those like cane dances that like you see like Sinatra

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<v Speaker 1>doing those old movies. If it wasn't for the fact

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<v Speaker 1>that I should twigged this thing.

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<v Speaker 2>And who who? Tell me more about who? Who is

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<v Speaker 2>this lady that you're seeing that as the kid, Like,

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<v Speaker 2>what's her? What's her deal?

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<v Speaker 3>Uh?

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<v Speaker 1>Well, she's been working as uh well, she's the work

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<v Speaker 1>as a healthcare worker there for quite a while before

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<v Speaker 1>I was working there. She'sn uh she's very uh health

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<v Speaker 1>centric focused. She's in uh very focused. She's heavily focused

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<v Speaker 1>on making trying to make sure she uh you know,

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<v Speaker 1>uh keeps your mental in check. And uh it's not

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<v Speaker 1>that's the lose the way. It's a little bit harder

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<v Speaker 1>because she has to like metabolic. That's a let her unfortunately.

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<v Speaker 1>So it's it's so it's for I mean honestly because

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<v Speaker 1>it's it's worse really for her because like you know,

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<v Speaker 1>you know, your your body is the one that took

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<v Speaker 1>made me. H man, So I think it's beautiful, But

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<v Speaker 1>I mean I also understand how you know, you also

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<v Speaker 1>want to you know, benefit yourself from a health perspective,

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<v Speaker 1>and you know all that. So I also support you

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<v Speaker 1>trying to, you know what I mean. So it's like

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<v Speaker 1>I'm having to trade both sides of I think you're beautiful,

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<v Speaker 1>but also I support you, you know what I mean.

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<v Speaker 2>It's sweet, that's very nice. You sound like a sweet

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<v Speaker 2>good Jack. You sound like a sweet guy.

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<v Speaker 1>Thank you, thank you. I it's coming for you especially.

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<v Speaker 1>I appreciate that it finds you to be kind of

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<v Speaker 1>a very in such full person.

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<v Speaker 2>Oh thanks man, God damn h are you are you sound?

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<v Speaker 2>Are you happy?

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<v Speaker 1>Jack?

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<v Speaker 2>You sound like you're you sound like a joyful man.

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<v Speaker 1>Well, well that's what part is. Because of my b

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<v Speaker 1>being on disability, my dad said, I can only do

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<v Speaker 1>uh stationary work. And I'm not sure if you really

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<v Speaker 1>notice what nurses, especially on surgical floors do, but uh,

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<v Speaker 1>none of what they do is really stationary. They're constantly

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<v Speaker 1>moving up exactly. It's exactly. So it's like that basically

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<v Speaker 1>means Okay, you have to stay home and just focus

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<v Speaker 1>on recovery. And the ponts aroblem is with how the

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<v Speaker 1>system is set up. I mean, I basically have to

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<v Speaker 1>wait a month before my surgery and I did it

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<v Speaker 1>today if I if it is that with an option

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<v Speaker 1>and then the recovery for that, it's like a month.

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<v Speaker 1>So it's like that's two months that I can't work

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<v Speaker 1>or get full pay. So it's like, you know, but

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<v Speaker 1>I mean, I'm taking that, but it's also like I'm

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<v Speaker 1>getting paid also does not work? Is another way to

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<v Speaker 1>look at it.

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<v Speaker 2>Do you and you still you live with your parents?

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<v Speaker 3>Right?

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<v Speaker 2>Do you have? Are you hoping to move out at

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<v Speaker 2>some point soon now that you have like you know,

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<v Speaker 2>you got your money coming in, you.

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<v Speaker 1>Know, I am, I'm making ill want plans for it

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<v Speaker 1>right now. The plan is because especially I just had

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<v Speaker 1>my associates. My plan is to get my uh bachelor's uh,

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<v Speaker 1>which will allow me to get the certificates that allows

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<v Speaker 1>me to better specialize in my field. Make a bunch

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<v Speaker 1>of money, and then you know, paying for rents gonna

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<v Speaker 1>be just trump change.

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<v Speaker 3>You know what I mean?

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, for sure, for sure.

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<v Speaker 1>I mean like it say I still, here's the thing

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<v Speaker 1>is now that I have a girlfriend, strug girl about that.

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<v Speaker 1>Now that I have a girlfriend and that I'm paid,

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<v Speaker 1>I kind of don't have a reason delete the house

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<v Speaker 1>at the public.

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<v Speaker 2>Is it? But before you get ahead of yourself, is

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<v Speaker 2>this lady your girlfriends yet?

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<v Speaker 1>I mean we we definitely think it's something. I think

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<v Speaker 1>she would she would be opposed to the term girlf

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<v Speaker 1>And apparently she's already told everybody at works had we've

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<v Speaker 1>you know, uh she you know did did that?

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<v Speaker 2>She she she already she told everyone to work that

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<v Speaker 2>you guys had sex.

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<v Speaker 1>Apparently.

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<v Speaker 2>I mean that's, I guess a good sign. That means

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<v Speaker 2>that there was.

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<v Speaker 1>Apparently like a huge like flirt, so like apparently like

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<v Speaker 1>she it that I exactly new for her. So most

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<v Speaker 1>of mean it's all good things to too.

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<v Speaker 4>I mean, well, Jack, it sounds like it sounds like, uh,

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<v Speaker 4>it sounds like everything is correct me if I'm wrong,

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<v Speaker 4>But from our fifteen minutes together, it sounds like things

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<v Speaker 4>are actually going pretty well in your universe.

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<v Speaker 1>But yeoing, it's going well. I mean, you know it

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<v Speaker 1>could be better, but I mean, you know you can't

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<v Speaker 1>control people. I mean, you know, it just says I

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<v Speaker 1>forgave that guy that you know give you a bad

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<v Speaker 1>knee from now on?

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<v Speaker 2>Wait which guy someone gave you a bad name?

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<v Speaker 5>Well?

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, because that's what's going Why I have to have

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<v Speaker 1>the bad knee and uh some surgery comment up, It's because,

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<v Speaker 1>like I got, I got in some fight that I

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<v Speaker 1>didn't want to at a like a parade, right.

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<v Speaker 2>Right, right, right, right right right? Did you tell me

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<v Speaker 2>the story of this fight earlier in this call?

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<v Speaker 1>I don't think so. I think I taught touched on it,

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<v Speaker 1>but uh, you know you got but initally I kind

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<v Speaker 1>of threw a lot of interesting things that he is.

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<v Speaker 1>So it's uh aga, I'm playing for Game detected.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, what happened with the fight? What?

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<v Speaker 3>What?

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<v Speaker 2>What?

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<v Speaker 3>What?

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<v Speaker 2>What transpired?

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<v Speaker 3>So?

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<v Speaker 1>Okay, So I was down to the parade. I was

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<v Speaker 1>trying to I was trying to just jill get some booze,

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<v Speaker 1>and this guy just uh won't please, won't leave me alone.

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<v Speaker 1>He starts swinging at me. I take him down the

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<v Speaker 1>first time, tell him to leave me alone. And then

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<v Speaker 1>he starts following me. I should have just uh, I

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<v Speaker 1>could have just uh, I would have just kept walking

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<v Speaker 1>because honestly, he was so drunk, and so he's take

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<v Speaker 1>down the first time. If I would have, uh would

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<v Speaker 1>have made it like a yard before stumbling on his

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<v Speaker 1>own face. But I got in my head about how

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<v Speaker 1>I didn't want to be looking over my shoulder the

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<v Speaker 1>whole time while I was at the parade, so I decided, okay,

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<v Speaker 1>let's just take care of this. And then uh, I

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<v Speaker 1>was only waiting to fight. But then uh, some other

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<v Speaker 1>people jumped in and uh then the way he uh,

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<v Speaker 1>he was able to rest his arms around my leg

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<v Speaker 1>and away where he was able to basically tackle into

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<v Speaker 1>my knee, and that caused my a cl and my

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<v Speaker 1>ladder o miniscus to get torn as a result.

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<v Speaker 2>So, okay, hold on, I don't understand. I don't understand here.

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<v Speaker 2>You're at a parade, you're drunk. Why does he start

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<v Speaker 2>swinging first?

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<v Speaker 3>Is it?

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<v Speaker 2>Did you bump?

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<v Speaker 1>No? No, no, no no no he no, he's drunk. I'm

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<v Speaker 1>just like, I'm just like a little bit buzz maybe

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<v Speaker 1>a little uh, you know, stoned. You know, I'm mostly

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<v Speaker 1>trying to like, you know, get it, get it the lag.

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<v Speaker 1>This is before I had a girlfriend.

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<v Speaker 2>Okay, so how did you So why did he But

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<v Speaker 2>why did he swing at you?

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<v Speaker 1>Because he was drunk as hell and just with with

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<v Speaker 1>intention to do harm. He was trying to from my understanding,

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<v Speaker 1>he was trying to fight people all day.

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<v Speaker 2>Hmm. Okay, so he was so okay, So you're telling

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<v Speaker 2>me this guy was just you didn't like to hit

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<v Speaker 2>on his girlfriend or something.

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<v Speaker 1>No, no, no, I was literally just passing this dude

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<v Speaker 1>by barely. Wait you try to try to talk to me.

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<v Speaker 1>But he was drunk and I did know what he

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<v Speaker 1>was saying and didn't like the way he was saying

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<v Speaker 1>to me. So I may have told him to funk off,

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<v Speaker 1>But I mean.

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<v Speaker 2>You're and you're telling you're telling me that the first

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<v Speaker 2>you took him down, you like, what how would you do?

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<v Speaker 3>Uh?

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<v Speaker 1>The first time I did was well, basically, he swung

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<v Speaker 1>at me, so I uh, I grabbed like, uh, I

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<v Speaker 1>did the typical white boy thing of grabbing the back

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<v Speaker 1>of his shirt and swing and swinging at at the

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<v Speaker 1>back of his shirt and swinging at him while taking

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<v Speaker 1>him down, just because I didn't even want to fight

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<v Speaker 1>the dude, So why would I fight fair?

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<v Speaker 5>Uh?

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<v Speaker 2>But still hope whoever, I hope, whoever is like in

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<v Speaker 2>charge of it administering your disability didn't see you beat

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<v Speaker 2>this guy up.

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<v Speaker 3>Because then.

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<v Speaker 1>I was trying I can join my Dodger said, just

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<v Speaker 1>so that way they know exactly, because I'm pretty sure

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<v Speaker 1>when he tagled into my knee that was what tore

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<v Speaker 1>up my ato.

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<v Speaker 2>But now, okay, so you grabbed the back of his

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<v Speaker 2>shirt and then just started like punching him.

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<v Speaker 1>Oh yeah, yeah, yeah, just started swinging at him while

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<v Speaker 1>also bringing him down into the ground.

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<v Speaker 2>Okay, and then what'd you do? You were like, all right,

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<v Speaker 2>now leave me alone, and then you walked.

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<v Speaker 3>Away, uh more or less.

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<v Speaker 1>I mean, I may have. And they have also called

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<v Speaker 1>him a super drunk, super dumb drunk or something like that.

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<v Speaker 1>But uh, you know, he was swinging at me for

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<v Speaker 1>no reason, I mean, kind of warranted, you know what

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<v Speaker 1>I mean.

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<v Speaker 2>And then he starts following you.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, yeah, he starts following me, you know, he you know,

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<v Speaker 1>he starts spearing up and then I take him down,

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<v Speaker 1>and then somebody and then something somebody else jumps in,

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<v Speaker 1>which allows him to uh that's up my knee and

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<v Speaker 1>I and then some things have it, but I'm as

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<v Speaker 1>to get away, uh more or less, mine's the knee on.

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<v Speaker 2>Pretty good? Pretty good.

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<v Speaker 1>It's even a video of it if you want to

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<v Speaker 1>see it. I mean I don't want to, like I

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<v Speaker 1>want to show it the rest of the people because

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<v Speaker 1>my state sent it.

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<v Speaker 2>But I mean, yeah, sure, yeah, you can, you can

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<v Speaker 2>send it. I can look at this video of you

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<v Speaker 2>beating up a guy in my free time.

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<v Speaker 1>Sure if it's just in the in the text.

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<v Speaker 2>Option with the sure, sure you can text that to me?

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<v Speaker 2>Wait can I can you text it to me right now?

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<v Speaker 2>And then I can live react to it?

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah? Yeah, absolutely, I mean I had pulled out really quick.

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<v Speaker 1>I have it. Take here some okay, Yeah.

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<v Speaker 2>I want to see this video of you beating this

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<v Speaker 2>guy up.

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<v Speaker 1>It's uh, it's rude, I will say it's. Uh. It

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<v Speaker 1>even kind of when viral first.

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<v Speaker 2>Gonna be honest, it went viral like oh you where

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<v Speaker 2>where did you put it online?

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<v Speaker 1>I didn't do do anything. A bunch of other people,

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<v Speaker 1>like a bunch of people you see in the video,

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<v Speaker 1>like we were surrounded, sorry, doing a kind of same thing.

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<v Speaker 2>Let's see here. Okay, so you're on motherfucking world star here.

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<v Speaker 1>Something like that for sure. Oh, here's one of them.

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<v Speaker 1>Here's one of them, all.

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<v Speaker 2>Right, send it over. Yeah, let's see here, all right.

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<v Speaker 2>And okay, I'm actually looking at the text that you

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<v Speaker 2>sent me before you said, Hey, gek, I'm a nurse

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<v Speaker 2>out of work because of a bad knee. I've been

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<v Speaker 2>listening to a lot of smooth jazz while taking weed

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<v Speaker 2>and nitrous. Okay, that sounds fun. All right, Let's see

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<v Speaker 2>this video that's on facebookund amazing. Oh all right, hold on,

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<v Speaker 2>let's see this. Hold on, Hold okay. The first I

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<v Speaker 2>haven't watched the video yet, but the top comment this

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<v Speaker 2>is a I'm watching this on Facebook. You sent me

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<v Speaker 2>a Facebook link. The top comment is how the fuck

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<v Speaker 2>did they both lose?

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<v Speaker 1>All right? Hold on? Well, well it's funny because it's

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<v Speaker 1>like you E would tell like to do somebody like

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<v Speaker 1>with kicking the other dude didn't. Well I'm not sure

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<v Speaker 1>if it shows.

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<v Speaker 2>Sure we're actually really beating the ship out of this guy. Wow.

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<v Speaker 1>I wasn't gonna play fight mood, and I felt like

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<v Speaker 1>this lank him.

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<v Speaker 3>All right?

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<v Speaker 2>Hold up, Oh, there's like a bunch of what was

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<v Speaker 2>this sort of a high school. Where the fuck is this?

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<v Speaker 1>How kind of a gas station?

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<v Speaker 2>Jesus Christ. You know this guy is like a lot

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<v Speaker 2>bigger than you too.

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<v Speaker 1>And I mean, I don't want to say too much,

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<v Speaker 1>but apparently he might have been a member of something

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<v Speaker 1>or something.

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<v Speaker 3>I don't know.

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<v Speaker 2>I don't know what that even means. Oh wait, okay,

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<v Speaker 2>he's pinned you, but he's on top of you. Now,

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<v Speaker 2>Oh yeah, he's stomping on you. Wait, hold on, hold

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<v Speaker 2>hold on. What's your name again, dude?

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<v Speaker 1>Uh? Jack? Jack?

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<v Speaker 2>I don't think you won this fight?

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<v Speaker 1>Well well again, well again, well again. I had in

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<v Speaker 1>control till the one dude jumped in.

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<v Speaker 2>Jack. I don't think Jack, I don't think you won

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<v Speaker 2>this fight.

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<v Speaker 1>Man.

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<v Speaker 2>This ended with this guy stop stomping on you, dude.

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<v Speaker 1>And believe it or not, the stopping barely did anything.

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<v Speaker 2>Uh let's see. Okay, I'm reading the comments. Now, why

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<v Speaker 2>are you guys saying they both lost? The big goofy

0:22:41.600 --> 0:22:48.919
<v Speaker 2>man got put on his face. That's extremely funny. Okay,

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<v Speaker 2>well now you got him. You had him in the

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<v Speaker 2>first half, though, I.

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<v Speaker 1>Mean, well, yeah, I mean what happened?

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<v Speaker 6>What I get what?

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<v Speaker 1>I should have just left him down, you know, I

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<v Speaker 1>got you know, I basically gave him my lege. That

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<v Speaker 1>was not my issue.

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<v Speaker 2>Wow, well, I feel like, uh, this is so this

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<v Speaker 2>is extremely funny. Are you are you okay? Well, look Jack,

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<v Speaker 2>I mean you you you had sex, you have a job,

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<v Speaker 2>or you have money coming in? Are you tell me

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<v Speaker 2>before we go? Are you planning on is? Did you

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<v Speaker 2>get everything out of your system? Are you ready to

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<v Speaker 2>not fight people anymore? Or or should the folks?

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<v Speaker 1>I didn't want to fight that dude to begin with that.

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<v Speaker 2>I was, bro, you look in the video you look

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<v Speaker 2>very excited to fight this guy.

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<v Speaker 1>No, No, what I looked like with pissed off, like

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<v Speaker 1>he was annoying the fuck out of me. I told him,

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<v Speaker 1>leave me alone. I'm not in a playfy mood. He

0:23:52.520 --> 0:23:54.240
<v Speaker 1>can't follow followed me.

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<v Speaker 2>He told he unfortunate. Look, believe whatever you want. But

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<v Speaker 2>he kind of looks like he won the fight. He

0:24:03.440 --> 0:24:05.199
<v Speaker 2>was at the by the end of the fight, you

0:24:05.280 --> 0:24:08.399
<v Speaker 2>were on the ground and he was stomping on you

0:24:08.480 --> 0:24:10.639
<v Speaker 2>and people had to take him away.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah. Yeah, Well, well when he taggled into me when

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<v Speaker 1>I was doing my atl Yeah so I good. Understanding

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<v Speaker 1>was kind of difficult by that point.

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<v Speaker 2>Well, Jack stay out of trouble. Hopefully you and this

0:24:31.520 --> 0:24:35.399
<v Speaker 2>girl will get married and have beautiful children in a

0:24:35.440 --> 0:24:39.399
<v Speaker 2>beautiful life, or he'll be a beautiful step dad. Is

0:24:39.400 --> 0:24:40.680
<v Speaker 2>there anything else you want to say to the people

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<v Speaker 2>of the computer before we go?

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, be smart out there.

0:24:48.520 --> 0:24:51.840
<v Speaker 3>It's dangerous, all right.

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<v Speaker 2>Well, take care, Jack, good.

0:24:53.280 --> 0:24:56.600
<v Speaker 1>Luck you as well, Gek you as well. I wish

0:24:56.640 --> 0:24:58.480
<v Speaker 1>you blessings on blessings.

0:24:58.800 --> 0:24:59.880
<v Speaker 2>Hey, you two men, take care.

0:25:00.960 --> 0:25:01.720
<v Speaker 1>I bet that.

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<v Speaker 2>For respect of that guy's privacy, I'm not going to

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<v Speaker 2>share the video, but I do wish that I could

0:25:09.080 --> 0:25:13.760
<v Speaker 2>jump somehow show it to the listeners. It is funny

0:25:13.760 --> 0:25:16.560
<v Speaker 2>because now that I watched that video where he pretty

0:25:16.560 --> 0:25:21.200
<v Speaker 2>clearly lost to the fight, it brings into credible I'm

0:25:21.200 --> 0:25:25.000
<v Speaker 2>not Here's the thing I'm when this podcast as a whole.

0:25:25.080 --> 0:25:29.760
<v Speaker 2>I'm not a big I'm not big on pressing people

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<v Speaker 2>as to whether or not I believe that they are

0:25:31.320 --> 0:25:35.600
<v Speaker 2>telling the truth. But it does bring into question. It

0:25:35.640 --> 0:25:44.520
<v Speaker 2>does bring this gentleman's credibility into question. He probably had sex.

0:25:44.680 --> 0:25:47.120
<v Speaker 2>Even if it didn't have whatever, whatever this man did

0:25:47.119 --> 0:25:51.440
<v Speaker 2>with his life was probably fine. I wish him good luck.

0:25:52.240 --> 0:25:54.240
<v Speaker 2>I hope he had hope he continues to have sex.

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<v Speaker 2>I hope he stays out of fights and uh may

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<v Speaker 2>ill oh bless him. Hello, Hey, what's up man? What's

0:26:04.400 --> 0:26:09.160
<v Speaker 2>your name? I'll go by Chudley, Chudley? What's happened in Shudley?

0:26:09.200 --> 0:26:11.520
<v Speaker 2>How can I? How can I get you today? What's

0:26:11.560 --> 0:26:13.160
<v Speaker 2>going on with you? Sir?

0:26:13.520 --> 0:26:13.720
<v Speaker 5>Oh.

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<v Speaker 3>I have been really vibing with the conversations you've been

0:26:17.160 --> 0:26:19.400
<v Speaker 3>having lately with the last couple of people about kind

0:26:19.440 --> 0:26:23.159
<v Speaker 3>of having a decent or good life. I feel like

0:26:23.240 --> 0:26:26.520
<v Speaker 3>that arc from people being like, oh, my life's really

0:26:26.520 --> 0:26:29.560
<v Speaker 3>shitty to kind of finding that like piece and redemption,

0:26:30.000 --> 0:26:32.399
<v Speaker 3>like whether it be through Like I've been really vibing

0:26:32.440 --> 0:26:34.120
<v Speaker 3>with the talk about SSR eyes.

0:26:35.040 --> 0:26:36.160
<v Speaker 2>I work in the medical.

0:26:35.840 --> 0:26:39.200
<v Speaker 3>Field, so it's always like yeah, it's always like I

0:26:39.240 --> 0:26:41.920
<v Speaker 3>don't know, people like villainize it because I work in

0:26:41.960 --> 0:26:43.440
<v Speaker 3>the emergency room. So you see a lot of people

0:26:43.440 --> 0:26:45.520
<v Speaker 3>who come in with like you know, they're on like

0:26:45.560 --> 0:26:48.199
<v Speaker 3>a huge list of these SSR eyes, and people just

0:26:48.200 --> 0:26:50.679
<v Speaker 3>see them as crazy. So it's kind of nice to

0:26:50.680 --> 0:26:53.399
<v Speaker 3>be able to see like, no, this actually helps like

0:26:53.440 --> 0:26:56.480
<v Speaker 3>normal people, Like this is you know, something very helpful

0:26:56.520 --> 0:27:00.760
<v Speaker 3>and not just his zombie drug to make crazy people

0:27:00.800 --> 0:27:01.400
<v Speaker 3>not crazy.

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<v Speaker 2>So yeah, yeah, yeah, I don't know. I mean, I'm

0:27:06.359 --> 0:27:11.080
<v Speaker 2>on my own ssri I journey right now. Who fucking

0:27:11.160 --> 0:27:13.800
<v Speaker 2>knows where it's gonna lead. But I mean, are you

0:27:13.920 --> 0:27:17.520
<v Speaker 2>do you are you into pills? Do you like popping pills.

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<v Speaker 3>For a little bit. I was just doing like they

0:27:21.520 --> 0:27:23.440
<v Speaker 3>have like anti anxiety mens. I don't know if you've

0:27:23.440 --> 0:27:26.440
<v Speaker 3>ever heard of like like people sometimes people use like bendryl.

0:27:26.520 --> 0:27:28.920
<v Speaker 3>You can use like super simple like allergy meds is

0:27:29.000 --> 0:27:31.560
<v Speaker 3>like a way to like calm yourself down. Like when

0:27:31.560 --> 0:27:34.120
<v Speaker 3>I was in college, I used to Yeah, it's it's

0:27:34.119 --> 0:27:36.400
<v Speaker 3>pretty nice. Well it's not gnarly. It's actually really cool

0:27:36.400 --> 0:27:40.479
<v Speaker 3>because they're they're like as needed use. You know how

0:27:40.560 --> 0:27:42.240
<v Speaker 3>like with your meds right now, you probably have to

0:27:42.240 --> 0:27:44.040
<v Speaker 3>take them for like six weeks before you start seeing

0:27:44.119 --> 0:27:45.120
<v Speaker 3>like any kind of effect.

0:27:45.720 --> 0:27:47.720
<v Speaker 2>Yeah.

0:27:46.400 --> 0:27:49.760
<v Speaker 3>Yeah, these ones you can take like you're like, holy shit,

0:27:49.800 --> 0:27:51.680
<v Speaker 3>I feel like I'm gonna like puke from how much

0:27:51.720 --> 0:27:54.080
<v Speaker 3>I'm like shaking. So you could be like, all right, cool,

0:27:54.119 --> 0:27:56.840
<v Speaker 3>I'm just gonna take one of these and then I'll

0:27:56.840 --> 0:27:57.720
<v Speaker 3>feel a little bit better.

0:27:58.320 --> 0:28:00.240
<v Speaker 2>Well that's the thing is they tell you they're like, yeah,

0:28:00.240 --> 0:28:01.920
<v Speaker 2>it's gonna start working in six weeks, and I'm like,

0:28:01.960 --> 0:28:04.119
<v Speaker 2>who the fuck has six weeks?

0:28:04.640 --> 0:28:07.960
<v Speaker 3>Right? It's it's And then sometimes what happens is after

0:28:08.040 --> 0:28:09.880
<v Speaker 3>six weeks is up, You're like, well, fuck, I don't

0:28:09.880 --> 0:28:11.960
<v Speaker 3>feel any different, so now I gotta shine new one.

0:28:12.320 --> 0:28:16.240
<v Speaker 2>Oh Jesus Christ, I don't know. I I kind of

0:28:16.359 --> 0:28:19.320
<v Speaker 2>talked about this to freaking death on this show. But

0:28:19.400 --> 0:28:22.520
<v Speaker 2>it's like, I who knows, if you know, I don't know,

0:28:22.520 --> 0:28:25.320
<v Speaker 2>if I don't know if having a magic pill is

0:28:25.359 --> 0:28:29.359
<v Speaker 2>going to fix everything. It's it's uh, it's a little

0:28:29.359 --> 0:28:37.320
<v Speaker 2>bit of a balancing act. But what's your name again, Chudley, Chudley? Well,

0:28:37.320 --> 0:28:40.160
<v Speaker 2>tell me about yourself, Chudley, what's going? Who are you?

0:28:40.480 --> 0:28:41.479
<v Speaker 2>Who are you? Chudley?

0:28:42.720 --> 0:28:48.840
<v Speaker 3>Well? I guess currently, I don't know how I describe myself.

0:28:48.920 --> 0:28:50.520
<v Speaker 3>I work in and you are I want to go

0:28:50.600 --> 0:28:54.520
<v Speaker 3>into medicine. I'm applying a medical school, so that's the plan,

0:28:55.960 --> 0:28:59.200
<v Speaker 3>but my work kind of I don't know if you've

0:28:59.200 --> 0:29:00.720
<v Speaker 3>ever worked a job or kind of been in like

0:29:00.720 --> 0:29:02.120
<v Speaker 3>a field where you're like, this is what I want

0:29:02.120 --> 0:29:03.520
<v Speaker 3>to get into. Like, I know you've talked about doing

0:29:03.520 --> 0:29:06.080
<v Speaker 3>film and comedy, and then you actually see like the

0:29:06.160 --> 0:29:09.000
<v Speaker 3>nitty gritty of it, like the I guess, for lack

0:29:09.000 --> 0:29:11.200
<v Speaker 3>of better words, of blood and guts and you're like,

0:29:11.280 --> 0:29:13.880
<v Speaker 3>oh fuck, it's just really what I'm cut out to do,

0:29:13.960 --> 0:29:16.040
<v Speaker 3>Like am I really? Am I going to do this

0:29:16.080 --> 0:29:18.160
<v Speaker 3>for the rest of my life? That's kind of where

0:29:18.160 --> 0:29:21.600
<v Speaker 3>I'm at right now. It's not I know, I know

0:29:21.640 --> 0:29:23.920
<v Speaker 3>you've been talking about like the existential dread a lot lately,

0:29:24.000 --> 0:29:27.480
<v Speaker 3>but like it's that's how it feels. Unfortunately, I feel

0:29:27.480 --> 0:29:28.960
<v Speaker 3>like that's the epitomy of kind of what I'm dealing

0:29:28.960 --> 0:29:31.680
<v Speaker 3>with right now. I'm at like that weird liminal like

0:29:31.840 --> 0:29:33.840
<v Speaker 3>do I keep going through this or do I just

0:29:33.960 --> 0:29:36.640
<v Speaker 3>drop everything and do something completely different?

0:29:36.840 --> 0:29:40.200
<v Speaker 2>So uh yeah, yeah, no you can, can't you You

0:29:40.320 --> 0:29:41.960
<v Speaker 2>kind of can get it, get in your head an

0:29:41.960 --> 0:29:44.040
<v Speaker 2>idea of like what a lifestyle is like, or of

0:29:44.040 --> 0:29:45.800
<v Speaker 2>what a path is like, and then right you go

0:29:45.840 --> 0:29:48.160
<v Speaker 2>and you actually see it and you're like, oh fuck,

0:29:48.160 --> 0:29:50.600
<v Speaker 2>I didn't know I had to like actually do things.

0:29:51.200 --> 0:29:52.480
<v Speaker 2>That's a fucking yeah bomber.

0:29:53.560 --> 0:29:57.440
<v Speaker 3>It's it's crazy. I mean, I guess, specifically in the

0:29:57.440 --> 0:29:59.320
<v Speaker 3>New York's I'm like, you're always seeing like the craziest

0:29:59.320 --> 0:30:01.840
<v Speaker 3>shit that's like where you all the crazy stories, like

0:30:01.680 --> 0:30:05.520
<v Speaker 3>I have so many stories, Like it's actually so funny.

0:30:05.560 --> 0:30:07.600
<v Speaker 3>It's like all this crazy shit that you see all

0:30:07.640 --> 0:30:10.960
<v Speaker 3>the time. But then also like some of the doctors

0:30:11.000 --> 0:30:13.160
<v Speaker 3>and they just fucking hate themselves. They just hate their

0:30:13.240 --> 0:30:15.640
<v Speaker 3>jobs and they like hate themselves. They just I feel

0:30:15.680 --> 0:30:17.320
<v Speaker 3>like a lot of those people get into those professions

0:30:17.360 --> 0:30:19.280
<v Speaker 3>and then it's like something you get too far into

0:30:19.320 --> 0:30:21.440
<v Speaker 3>and you're like, well, it's like kind of the sunk

0:30:21.480 --> 0:30:23.840
<v Speaker 3>costs fallacy. You're like, fuck, I'm already too deep in.

0:30:24.320 --> 0:30:25.520
<v Speaker 3>I just have to keep pushing through.

0:30:26.360 --> 0:30:29.760
<v Speaker 2>Okay. It makes you feel like these people hate themselves.

0:30:31.320 --> 0:30:34.600
<v Speaker 3>They speak so poorly of the job, just in the

0:30:34.640 --> 0:30:37.160
<v Speaker 3>sense of like I'm like, you know, we have other people.

0:30:37.200 --> 0:30:39.480
<v Speaker 3>I have worked with other people. I'm a scribe, so

0:30:39.520 --> 0:30:42.400
<v Speaker 3>I'm like a glorified secretary. It's like you just write

0:30:42.440 --> 0:30:46.760
<v Speaker 3>down everything. You're just a con conscientious like spectator. I

0:30:46.800 --> 0:30:49.400
<v Speaker 3>don't touch anyone, I don't do anything. I'm just making

0:30:49.400 --> 0:30:52.840
<v Speaker 3>the charts. So I'm like a quote unquote perspective like

0:30:53.360 --> 0:30:55.480
<v Speaker 3>person for the field. So when I ask some of

0:30:55.520 --> 0:30:58.080
<v Speaker 3>these doctors, I'm like, hey, like I'm super interested in

0:30:58.120 --> 0:31:00.200
<v Speaker 3>doing this I've had people blade us like straight up

0:31:00.240 --> 0:31:03.040
<v Speaker 3>just tell me, like no, don't do it, Like this sucks,

0:31:03.080 --> 0:31:04.880
<v Speaker 3>Like do you see how tired I am? And you

0:31:04.920 --> 0:31:07.200
<v Speaker 3>see like all the crazy shit that's going on, it's

0:31:07.240 --> 0:31:09.360
<v Speaker 3>not gonna get any better, it's just getting worse. So

0:31:09.360 --> 0:31:12.440
<v Speaker 3>they just have this like very distinct like oh man,

0:31:12.480 --> 0:31:15.720
<v Speaker 3>it's like it's like a loading for themselves but also

0:31:15.720 --> 0:31:18.320
<v Speaker 3>for the people around them. They just become horrible, horrible

0:31:18.360 --> 0:31:21.960
<v Speaker 3>pieces of shit, which is like really it's really hard

0:31:22.000 --> 0:31:23.520
<v Speaker 3>to see because you're like, this is my doctor, Like

0:31:23.560 --> 0:31:25.400
<v Speaker 3>this is a potential person that I could see like

0:31:25.840 --> 0:31:28.800
<v Speaker 3>when I'm in pain or like when I'm like suffering

0:31:28.840 --> 0:31:31.360
<v Speaker 3>at my lowest, and they just hate themselves so much.

0:31:31.840 --> 0:31:32.720
<v Speaker 2>Yeah, So that's.

0:31:32.640 --> 0:31:34.440
<v Speaker 3>That's that's kind of a trippy thing to think about.

0:31:34.440 --> 0:31:38.480
<v Speaker 3>I don't know, I'm only speaking for my like from

0:31:38.520 --> 0:31:40.080
<v Speaker 3>where I'm at, so I don't know if that's more

0:31:40.080 --> 0:31:42.400
<v Speaker 3>of a widespread kind of systemic thing, but I would

0:31:42.440 --> 0:31:45.080
<v Speaker 3>assume everyone's got the same shit going on everywhere, so

0:31:45.120 --> 0:31:47.520
<v Speaker 3>it's probably similar at different places.

0:31:48.400 --> 0:31:50.760
<v Speaker 2>How old are these doctors? These are like you know

0:31:51.040 --> 0:31:52.680
<v Speaker 2>like people in the like fifties and forties.

0:31:53.800 --> 0:31:56.720
<v Speaker 3>No, you'd be surprised. Some of them are like I'm

0:31:56.720 --> 0:31:58.840
<v Speaker 3>not like super privy to like exactly how old they are,

0:31:58.880 --> 0:32:02.440
<v Speaker 3>but some of them are maybe mid thirties, early forties.

0:32:03.440 --> 0:32:05.080
<v Speaker 3>Most of the older guys there that are like in

0:32:05.120 --> 0:32:07.880
<v Speaker 3>their fifties, that kind of I feel like that's like

0:32:07.920 --> 0:32:11.360
<v Speaker 3>what they wanted to do. But it's also, uh, maybe

0:32:11.360 --> 0:32:12.880
<v Speaker 3>they kind of just swallow their pride and they're like

0:32:12.920 --> 0:32:16.520
<v Speaker 3>fuck it whatever, Like I'm already doing this, And I

0:32:16.560 --> 0:32:18.480
<v Speaker 3>hate to villainize the entire career because I feel like

0:32:18.480 --> 0:32:21.000
<v Speaker 3>the way that I'm speaking about it is very like reductionary.

0:32:21.160 --> 0:32:23.200
<v Speaker 3>Because then on the flip side, you have people who

0:32:23.200 --> 0:32:27.000
<v Speaker 3>are super like altruistic, who like will go like spend

0:32:27.040 --> 0:32:28.680
<v Speaker 3>thirty minutes with someone when they really only need to

0:32:28.720 --> 0:32:31.640
<v Speaker 3>spend like five minutes with them. And that's like, you know,

0:32:31.680 --> 0:32:33.920
<v Speaker 3>I can't speak to the entire profession, like I don't

0:32:33.960 --> 0:32:38.280
<v Speaker 3>want to taint the entire fucking I'm just speaking from

0:32:38.320 --> 0:32:41.120
<v Speaker 3>my own personal experiences and my grievances that I'm like, man,

0:32:41.160 --> 0:32:43.680
<v Speaker 3>this sucks. Like we have a lot of people here

0:32:43.720 --> 0:32:47.680
<v Speaker 3>who English isn't their first language, so that also comes

0:32:47.680 --> 0:32:48.960
<v Speaker 3>into play a lot too, where a lot of these

0:32:49.000 --> 0:32:52.240
<v Speaker 3>providers just become like super bitter. They're like, oh, you

0:32:52.240 --> 0:32:54.000
<v Speaker 3>don't speak English, all right, cool, We're gonna see the

0:32:54.040 --> 0:32:57.440
<v Speaker 3>next person. And I'm like, what the fuck, Like that's crazy,

0:32:57.560 --> 0:32:59.720
<v Speaker 3>Like just because they don't speak you are English, It's

0:32:59.760 --> 0:33:02.600
<v Speaker 3>like you're just gonna fucking skip him. Like it's not

0:33:02.920 --> 0:33:04.440
<v Speaker 3>it's this crazy stuff that goes.

0:33:04.320 --> 0:33:07.200
<v Speaker 2>On all of them that's really crazy. Yeah, And so

0:33:07.320 --> 0:33:10.120
<v Speaker 2>you're a right now, you're a scribe and like all

0:33:10.160 --> 0:33:14.720
<v Speaker 2>these people that you're seeing in the er who like

0:33:14.840 --> 0:33:17.840
<v Speaker 2>fucking hate themselves, You're over here like, oh no, if

0:33:17.840 --> 0:33:19.920
<v Speaker 2>I keep going down this road, I'm gonna turn into

0:33:19.920 --> 0:33:22.360
<v Speaker 2>one of these people who hate themselves.

0:33:22.960 --> 0:33:25.480
<v Speaker 3>That is one hundred percent my fear, Like currently as

0:33:25.480 --> 0:33:27.760
<v Speaker 3>it stands, I'm like, that is my fear, Like I

0:33:27.800 --> 0:33:29.960
<v Speaker 3>because I'm so I also see myself as like this

0:33:30.080 --> 0:33:32.200
<v Speaker 3>naive like twenty four year old. I'm like, dude, I'm

0:33:32.360 --> 0:33:35.200
<v Speaker 3>so like fresh and young, and I'm like, oh, I'm

0:33:35.240 --> 0:33:37.360
<v Speaker 3>gonna I'm gonna change the world, like I'm gonna do

0:33:37.440 --> 0:33:39.760
<v Speaker 3>all these things, and but I don't know what I'm

0:33:39.760 --> 0:33:41.800
<v Speaker 3>gonna be like twenty years from now. Like I talked

0:33:41.800 --> 0:33:43.720
<v Speaker 3>to my deurpist about that all the time. I'm like, dude,

0:33:43.720 --> 0:33:47.000
<v Speaker 3>this is like, that's my existential dread. That is what

0:33:47.040 --> 0:33:49.960
<v Speaker 3>I'm so concerned about, is that the pressures of the

0:33:50.080 --> 0:33:53.040
<v Speaker 3>job or whatever the other external factors are. These people

0:33:53.080 --> 0:33:55.240
<v Speaker 3>might have just looked just like me when they were

0:33:55.240 --> 0:33:57.920
<v Speaker 3>my age, but now twenty years down the line, they're

0:33:57.920 --> 0:34:01.280
<v Speaker 3>like a completely different person because I spend you know,

0:34:01.400 --> 0:34:06.280
<v Speaker 3>day and day out exposed to all this prap. So

0:34:06.360 --> 0:34:08.399
<v Speaker 3>that's that's that's a big fear of mind for sure.

0:34:08.440 --> 0:34:11.799
<v Speaker 3>It's like, yeah, I don't know how to control that.

0:34:12.120 --> 0:34:14.640
<v Speaker 3>There's no way that it's like trying to control the future.

0:34:15.520 --> 0:34:19.080
<v Speaker 2>What did your therapists have to say about that? I'm curious.

0:34:20.480 --> 0:34:24.839
<v Speaker 3>It's actually really interesting because I have I have two therapists,

0:34:25.560 --> 0:34:28.799
<v Speaker 3>not because not for any particular reason, but I have

0:34:28.840 --> 0:34:30.480
<v Speaker 3>the therapist that I've had for like the last like

0:34:30.520 --> 0:34:33.279
<v Speaker 3>four years, and she's not covered by my insurance. But

0:34:33.320 --> 0:34:34.799
<v Speaker 3>then the other one is, so I just have two

0:34:35.000 --> 0:34:37.920
<v Speaker 3>by chance. But anyways, one of them goes down the

0:34:37.920 --> 0:34:41.400
<v Speaker 3>physiological kind of logic behind it of like you know,

0:34:41.440 --> 0:34:43.120
<v Speaker 3>once you get twenty five to twenty six, your brain

0:34:43.200 --> 0:34:46.400
<v Speaker 3>kind of stops like making you neural pathways. So the

0:34:46.440 --> 0:34:48.560
<v Speaker 3>person that you are at like twenty five twenty six

0:34:48.760 --> 0:34:51.440
<v Speaker 3>is most likely the person that you're gonna be twenty

0:34:51.480 --> 0:34:55.960
<v Speaker 3>thirty forty years down the line. It sucks, I know, right,

0:34:56.000 --> 0:34:59.919
<v Speaker 3>that's like it's it's like fuck, Like well, okay, it's

0:35:00.080 --> 0:35:02.480
<v Speaker 3>kind of puts you in a box. But then my

0:35:03.000 --> 0:35:05.320
<v Speaker 3>other therapist kind of goes down this more like holistic

0:35:05.400 --> 0:35:09.040
<v Speaker 3>like spiritual route of like, well, all of the experiences

0:35:09.080 --> 0:35:12.080
<v Speaker 3>and everything that you've like lived throughout your life to

0:35:12.080 --> 0:35:14.560
<v Speaker 3>get to where you are now, I have like made

0:35:14.560 --> 0:35:16.760
<v Speaker 3>you the person that you are today, and that doesn't

0:35:16.800 --> 0:35:19.560
<v Speaker 3>necessarily dictate what's going to happen twenty thirty years down

0:35:19.560 --> 0:35:22.160
<v Speaker 3>the line because you have this like I'm not trying

0:35:22.200 --> 0:35:23.719
<v Speaker 3>to speak like to my ego or anything, but I

0:35:23.760 --> 0:35:28.239
<v Speaker 3>really do genuine genuinely feel like I'm a decent human being,

0:35:28.239 --> 0:35:29.960
<v Speaker 3>Like I actually try to like go above and be

0:35:30.000 --> 0:35:32.680
<v Speaker 3>hones specifically missetting, Like if someone a lot of the

0:35:32.719 --> 0:35:35.960
<v Speaker 3>times we have Spanish speakers, I'm bilingual, so I'll try

0:35:35.960 --> 0:35:37.600
<v Speaker 3>to help as much as possible, and I'm like spending

0:35:37.600 --> 0:35:39.120
<v Speaker 3>extra time with them when I'm not supposed to be,

0:35:39.160 --> 0:35:41.279
<v Speaker 3>like I've actually gotten in trouble for so spending more

0:35:41.320 --> 0:35:43.719
<v Speaker 3>time with them, which I'm like, that's so stupid, Like

0:35:43.760 --> 0:35:46.000
<v Speaker 3>why am I getting in trouble because I'm helping these people.

0:35:46.760 --> 0:35:51.200
<v Speaker 3>So I say that because I agree with the holistic

0:35:51.280 --> 0:35:54.279
<v Speaker 3>therapist kind of perspective of like if I don't want

0:35:54.320 --> 0:35:56.719
<v Speaker 3>to become those people twenty forty whatever you years down

0:35:56.719 --> 0:35:59.359
<v Speaker 3>the line, I won't because I'll just keep coming back

0:35:59.400 --> 0:36:01.479
<v Speaker 3>to the crux of who I am. And they always

0:36:01.480 --> 0:36:05.239
<v Speaker 3>speak about like you're developing your principles now, like what

0:36:05.280 --> 0:36:09.120
<v Speaker 3>are your principles that you can't like certain things that

0:36:09.160 --> 0:36:11.200
<v Speaker 3>you can't sway, those are going to be things that

0:36:11.239 --> 0:36:13.000
<v Speaker 3>are going to be you know, further down the line,

0:36:13.080 --> 0:36:15.800
<v Speaker 3>like I won't be able to compromise on these things,

0:36:15.880 --> 0:36:18.319
<v Speaker 3>and then those are just going to dictate like your relationships,

0:36:18.520 --> 0:36:21.800
<v Speaker 3>your workplace relationships, and then even just like your beliefs.

0:36:21.880 --> 0:36:25.839
<v Speaker 3>Like so I don't know that's the I lean into

0:36:25.880 --> 0:36:28.480
<v Speaker 3>that more. I hope that that's I stay true to

0:36:28.480 --> 0:36:33.959
<v Speaker 3>who I am. So that's the plan. But yeah, I'm sorry,

0:36:33.960 --> 0:36:36.640
<v Speaker 3>I hate to get like all spiritual and deep with you.

0:36:36.680 --> 0:36:39.040
<v Speaker 3>I feel like conversations.

0:36:39.080 --> 0:36:42.839
<v Speaker 2>Get get spiritual and deep, get spiritual and deep, it's

0:36:42.880 --> 0:36:49.080
<v Speaker 2>all it's. Yeah, that therapy gecko has has slowly become

0:36:49.520 --> 0:36:52.920
<v Speaker 2>therapy for the gecko. So it's interesting to hear or

0:36:52.960 --> 0:37:00.600
<v Speaker 2>hear other people's perspectives on these on these things. Yeah yeah, old,

0:37:01.040 --> 0:37:02.160
<v Speaker 2>go ahead, yeah, go ahead.

0:37:02.640 --> 0:37:05.080
<v Speaker 3>I'm sorry. I was just gonna say that when I

0:37:05.080 --> 0:37:07.120
<v Speaker 3>first started listening to you, it's actually really funny. It's

0:37:07.160 --> 0:37:08.719
<v Speaker 3>a funny story that I'd always wanted to tell you.

0:37:08.760 --> 0:37:11.160
<v Speaker 3>So I started listening to you in twenty twenty one,

0:37:11.200 --> 0:37:15.719
<v Speaker 3>I think, and I was right. So I was kind

0:37:15.719 --> 0:37:18.840
<v Speaker 3>of going through like a relationship breakup and then my dogs,

0:37:19.160 --> 0:37:21.560
<v Speaker 3>both my dogs had just died, and I was like

0:37:22.320 --> 0:37:24.719
<v Speaker 3>so distraught that I couldn't even listen to music. And

0:37:24.760 --> 0:37:26.279
<v Speaker 3>I was like, dude, I have to do something, because

0:37:26.280 --> 0:37:27.920
<v Speaker 3>every time I got to my car, I was like crying.

0:37:28.440 --> 0:37:30.200
<v Speaker 3>And I literally was like, I think I was on

0:37:30.239 --> 0:37:32.120
<v Speaker 3>TikTok or something. I saw you pop up and I

0:37:32.239 --> 0:37:34.719
<v Speaker 3>was like, let me just listen to him, and you

0:37:34.800 --> 0:37:37.399
<v Speaker 3>were literally the only thing that was like I don't

0:37:37.400 --> 0:37:40.840
<v Speaker 3>know what it was like. I mean, you're awesome, You're fantastic,

0:37:40.880 --> 0:37:43.720
<v Speaker 3>but like something about like hearing about other people's stories

0:37:43.800 --> 0:37:46.200
<v Speaker 3>like was able to just calm me down. I was

0:37:46.239 --> 0:37:48.239
<v Speaker 3>like saying, oh, my god, I'm so distraught about all

0:37:48.280 --> 0:37:51.799
<v Speaker 3>this stuff, But somehow hearing about other people's plights kind

0:37:51.840 --> 0:37:53.879
<v Speaker 3>of made me feel like, Okay, I'm not the only

0:37:53.880 --> 0:37:57.360
<v Speaker 3>person in this world who's like, you know, suffering or

0:37:57.400 --> 0:38:01.040
<v Speaker 3>feeling like shitty, like kind of like that collect of like, okay, yeah,

0:38:01.080 --> 0:38:03.520
<v Speaker 3>we're all No one is perfect, like we're all kind

0:38:03.560 --> 0:38:05.280
<v Speaker 3>of all in this together.

0:38:05.440 --> 0:38:06.520
<v Speaker 2>So interesting.

0:38:06.719 --> 0:38:11.000
<v Speaker 3>I retrospectively thank you for that, like recroactively for sure.

0:38:11.160 --> 0:38:14.480
<v Speaker 2>For sure. It's funny because it's funny to hear you

0:38:14.520 --> 0:38:18.000
<v Speaker 2>say that, because I've been yeah lately, for me to

0:38:18.040 --> 0:38:21.200
<v Speaker 2>calm down, I listened. I like to listen to things

0:38:21.200 --> 0:38:25.120
<v Speaker 2>that have like nothing to do with real life, Like

0:38:25.480 --> 0:38:28.319
<v Speaker 2>I'm listening to I'm listening to a lot of old

0:38:28.440 --> 0:38:35.880
<v Speaker 2>come down episodes. I'm listening to a lot of like

0:38:36.560 --> 0:38:40.120
<v Speaker 2>ranking all of the appearances of Walla Oigi and the

0:38:40.160 --> 0:38:43.000
<v Speaker 2>Mario Party games, like just ship that has nothing to

0:38:43.040 --> 0:38:46.880
<v Speaker 2>do with anything. It's interesting. I guess it's interesting to

0:38:46.880 --> 0:38:49.000
<v Speaker 2>me that when you're feeling down, you want to listen

0:38:49.080 --> 0:38:53.800
<v Speaker 2>to other people other things that are like life y,

0:38:54.719 --> 0:38:58.000
<v Speaker 2>you know, because it feel less alone. Yeah, instead of

0:38:58.040 --> 0:39:00.920
<v Speaker 2>like dround, instead of just like tuning completely out.

0:39:03.200 --> 0:39:05.359
<v Speaker 3>It's yeah, No, I don't know. I don't. I wonder

0:39:05.360 --> 0:39:07.239
<v Speaker 3>if it's like feeding, Like sometimes I feel kind of

0:39:07.239 --> 0:39:08.840
<v Speaker 3>like weird about it. I'm like, am I feeding it?

0:39:08.920 --> 0:39:10.839
<v Speaker 3>Kind of like what you spoke about a couple episodes ago.

0:39:10.880 --> 0:39:13.960
<v Speaker 3>You were like, oh, if I'm like constantly telling myself

0:39:14.000 --> 0:39:16.399
<v Speaker 3>that I'm like depressed, or if I have these things,

0:39:16.440 --> 0:39:18.200
<v Speaker 3>then it's just going to become the identity that I live.

0:39:18.480 --> 0:39:20.440
<v Speaker 3>That's like sometimes my concern is, I'm like, if I

0:39:20.520 --> 0:39:22.319
<v Speaker 3>keep listening to this, am I just going to keep

0:39:22.360 --> 0:39:26.440
<v Speaker 3>reinforcing these thought patterns? But then you also the all

0:39:26.480 --> 0:39:27.640
<v Speaker 3>on the flip side of it too. I feel like

0:39:27.680 --> 0:39:29.399
<v Speaker 3>you also have that self awareness to know like, oh,

0:39:29.400 --> 0:39:32.200
<v Speaker 3>I'm already thinking about this, so it can't be my

0:39:32.280 --> 0:39:35.200
<v Speaker 3>reality because I know both sides right now, so I

0:39:35.239 --> 0:39:38.040
<v Speaker 3>can kind of like stop it. I know. It's like

0:39:39.239 --> 0:39:41.800
<v Speaker 3>you can split hairs. You can just split hairs intimately

0:39:41.880 --> 0:39:46.680
<v Speaker 3>with this, it's it's yeah, so yeah, I don't. I

0:39:46.719 --> 0:39:48.880
<v Speaker 3>try not to do that, and then I just I

0:39:48.960 --> 0:39:50.560
<v Speaker 3>do something like you said, like I watch all it,

0:39:50.719 --> 0:39:54.000
<v Speaker 3>I'll watch old episodes come down, or I'll do like

0:39:54.320 --> 0:39:57.080
<v Speaker 3>what else do I watch? Watch? Kso I feel like

0:39:57.080 --> 0:39:58.880
<v Speaker 3>that it's kind of like brand dead content. You just

0:39:58.960 --> 0:40:00.680
<v Speaker 3>kind of like tearing your brain off. He's just like,

0:40:01.320 --> 0:40:02.399
<v Speaker 3>oh man, so.

0:40:04.800 --> 0:40:08.760
<v Speaker 2>What was I gonna say to you? Yeah, I guess yeah.

0:40:08.840 --> 0:40:11.680
<v Speaker 2>It's interesting. I feel that way too, where I'm thinking, like, Okay,

0:40:11.719 --> 0:40:18.920
<v Speaker 2>how do I don't want to hate myself in twenty years.

0:40:19.800 --> 0:40:24.319
<v Speaker 2>I'm pretty young, and I'm like, what decisions do I

0:40:24.440 --> 0:40:29.000
<v Speaker 2>need to make today? And as the days go on

0:40:30.040 --> 0:40:33.120
<v Speaker 2>to uh make it so that I don't I don't

0:40:33.200 --> 0:40:36.200
<v Speaker 2>hate myself. I see a lot of lately. I don't

0:40:36.200 --> 0:40:37.920
<v Speaker 2>know if I talked about this on the podcast slightly,

0:40:37.960 --> 0:40:40.920
<v Speaker 2>but I've been meeting a lot of like old people,

0:40:41.040 --> 0:40:46.279
<v Speaker 2>like older people who are happy. This isn't meeting. But

0:40:46.440 --> 0:40:49.240
<v Speaker 2>I hung out with my dad. My dad is sixty six,

0:40:49.960 --> 0:40:53.440
<v Speaker 2>and I hung out with him the other week. I

0:40:53.480 --> 0:40:56.120
<v Speaker 2>hung out with him and my uncle, and my dad

0:40:56.200 --> 0:40:58.640
<v Speaker 2>is like talking with my uncle about TV shows and

0:40:58.680 --> 0:41:02.799
<v Speaker 2>he's joking around and he he's making you know, he's

0:41:02.840 --> 0:41:05.280
<v Speaker 2>just like happy. He's just like seemed happy and calm

0:41:05.320 --> 0:41:08.640
<v Speaker 2>and he's in the moment, you know. And I thought

0:41:08.680 --> 0:41:10.160
<v Speaker 2>that was And then I hung out with like my

0:41:10.280 --> 0:41:14.560
<v Speaker 2>friend's dad and he was making jokes and happy and

0:41:14.600 --> 0:41:16.759
<v Speaker 2>calm and in the moment. And it's funny because my dad,

0:41:16.800 --> 0:41:20.360
<v Speaker 2>my friend's dad. These people like they like I'm sitting

0:41:20.400 --> 0:41:23.400
<v Speaker 2>I'm twenty seven. I'm sitting over here like having a

0:41:23.400 --> 0:41:26.160
<v Speaker 2>existential dread and like afraid I'm gonna about like you know,

0:41:26.239 --> 0:41:28.239
<v Speaker 2>death or whatever. And it's like these older people that

0:41:28.280 --> 0:41:33.279
<v Speaker 2>I'm meeting. I met this guy in an Uber He

0:41:33.400 --> 0:41:36.360
<v Speaker 2>was my Uber driver and he was like sixty something

0:41:37.160 --> 0:41:38.759
<v Speaker 2>and I was just and he was talking to me

0:41:38.800 --> 0:41:41.160
<v Speaker 2>about how he's been driving Uber for thirty five years

0:41:41.160 --> 0:41:43.400
<v Speaker 2>and how he has like a thirty two year old

0:41:43.719 --> 0:41:45.879
<v Speaker 2>son and a thirty year old daughter and they all

0:41:45.920 --> 0:41:47.640
<v Speaker 2>live together and he's like just very happy. He was

0:41:47.680 --> 0:41:50.359
<v Speaker 2>just talking to this very like happy guy about his

0:41:50.400 --> 0:41:53.120
<v Speaker 2>family and his life. And it's funny because all these

0:41:53.120 --> 0:41:58.319
<v Speaker 2>guys are like way closer to death than I am,

0:41:58.680 --> 0:42:03.680
<v Speaker 2>and they have way less fucking anxiety. Like they're just

0:42:03.800 --> 0:42:07.840
<v Speaker 2>like they're these these like they're present, they're calm, they're chilling,

0:42:07.920 --> 0:42:13.160
<v Speaker 2>they're living their lives. And I'm like, uh hm, how

0:42:13.200 --> 0:42:17.800
<v Speaker 2>does how did they get there where they're just like chilling?

0:42:17.920 --> 0:42:20.359
<v Speaker 2>How do people get to that? Cause it is like

0:42:20.440 --> 0:42:25.000
<v Speaker 2>being alive, being alive. Being conscious is tremendously if you

0:42:25.160 --> 0:42:28.200
<v Speaker 2>from a certain point of view, and in the point

0:42:28.239 --> 0:42:29.680
<v Speaker 2>of view that I think I've been like kind of

0:42:29.719 --> 0:42:32.400
<v Speaker 2>locked into for the past couple of months, is that

0:42:32.400 --> 0:42:38.399
<v Speaker 2>like being alive is like a tremendously frightening thing, and

0:42:38.520 --> 0:42:40.440
<v Speaker 2>yet we live in a world where people are able

0:42:40.480 --> 0:42:43.239
<v Speaker 2>to just kind of handle it and be okay and

0:42:44.000 --> 0:42:48.279
<v Speaker 2>watch The Bachelor and you know, take a shit and

0:42:48.480 --> 0:42:51.279
<v Speaker 2>like be everything, like be normal and calm, which I

0:42:51.280 --> 0:42:55.600
<v Speaker 2>think is actually the what you're supposed to do is

0:42:55.760 --> 0:43:00.759
<v Speaker 2>just be normal and calm. I don't know, I don't

0:43:00.800 --> 0:43:02.279
<v Speaker 2>know how people get that. I don't know if I

0:43:02.280 --> 0:43:04.359
<v Speaker 2>don't know if that's like a medication thing. I don't

0:43:04.360 --> 0:43:05.960
<v Speaker 2>know if that's a lifestyle thing. I don't know if

0:43:05.960 --> 0:43:08.160
<v Speaker 2>that's I don't know if some people just have it

0:43:08.200 --> 0:43:14.200
<v Speaker 2>and some people don't. But yeah, yeah, you know what's.

0:43:14.440 --> 0:43:16.799
<v Speaker 3>I it's so interesting that you say that, because I

0:43:16.840 --> 0:43:18.680
<v Speaker 3>was thinking about that a lot. I kind of grapple

0:43:18.719 --> 0:43:21.360
<v Speaker 3>with mortality all the time too, about thinking exactly what

0:43:21.440 --> 0:43:22.960
<v Speaker 3>you're talking about, like especially in e or because you

0:43:22.960 --> 0:43:24.920
<v Speaker 3>see people just die all the time, right, But it's

0:43:24.960 --> 0:43:27.960
<v Speaker 3>so strange because you're, yeah, what you're saying too about

0:43:28.000 --> 0:43:30.000
<v Speaker 3>like I feel like the people who see there like

0:43:30.040 --> 0:43:33.600
<v Speaker 3>semi five and I'm like usually older, they're so calm,

0:43:33.800 --> 0:43:35.520
<v Speaker 3>and you know what the biggest I don't know because

0:43:35.520 --> 0:43:37.600
<v Speaker 3>this is a super antidotal I have no like hard

0:43:37.600 --> 0:43:40.480
<v Speaker 3>facts to back this, but it's like the support system

0:43:40.760 --> 0:43:42.120
<v Speaker 3>kind of like you're talking about with your dad and

0:43:42.160 --> 0:43:44.640
<v Speaker 3>your uncle, and I feel like they probably have a

0:43:44.680 --> 0:43:46.960
<v Speaker 3>good support system. They probably have like a networking of

0:43:47.160 --> 0:43:50.479
<v Speaker 3>you know, they're always talking to people. When you see

0:43:50.480 --> 0:43:52.600
<v Speaker 3>like families that have like you know, they come in

0:43:52.640 --> 0:43:55.040
<v Speaker 3>with their like ninety five year old grandma and she's

0:43:55.080 --> 0:43:58.279
<v Speaker 3>like just talking. She's super witty, she's super sharp, she's

0:43:58.360 --> 0:44:01.040
<v Speaker 3>usually just like lives on her own own, loves other people.

0:44:01.560 --> 0:44:03.480
<v Speaker 3>But it's just that I feel like it's that support system.

0:44:03.480 --> 0:44:05.080
<v Speaker 3>It's like you're able to like talk to someone on

0:44:05.120 --> 0:44:07.160
<v Speaker 3>a daily basis, and then you can people who come

0:44:07.160 --> 0:44:09.920
<v Speaker 3>in who are like sixty and they're like homeless unfortunately,

0:44:09.920 --> 0:44:11.879
<v Speaker 3>and they haven't talked to anyone in like a long

0:44:11.960 --> 0:44:15.000
<v Speaker 3>time or whatever, and they're just in these horrible, horrible conditions.

0:44:15.200 --> 0:44:18.759
<v Speaker 3>So I feel like it's just there's that like social somatic,

0:44:18.880 --> 0:44:22.600
<v Speaker 3>like you know, you have like access to like exactly

0:44:22.640 --> 0:44:24.640
<v Speaker 3>what you're talking about. So I don't know, that's that's

0:44:24.680 --> 0:44:26.480
<v Speaker 3>just kind of my guest. I do agree. I'm like,

0:44:26.560 --> 0:44:29.040
<v Speaker 3>I think maybe it is the family stuff, maybe these

0:44:29.080 --> 0:44:32.480
<v Speaker 3>the lifestyle stuff, but I yeah, I don't know. It's

0:44:32.560 --> 0:44:34.360
<v Speaker 3>I always wonder that too, because I'm.

0:44:34.160 --> 0:44:37.800
<v Speaker 2>Like you, like, you're one hundred percent right. It's a

0:44:37.840 --> 0:44:40.000
<v Speaker 2>fucking I think it's like a community thing and a

0:44:40.040 --> 0:44:44.400
<v Speaker 2>social support thing. Yeah, you know, and yeah, we like

0:44:44.520 --> 0:44:49.280
<v Speaker 2>the modern world is like a little it's the modern

0:44:49.320 --> 0:44:54.520
<v Speaker 2>world is very not conducive to that, and so you

0:44:54.640 --> 0:45:01.160
<v Speaker 2>kind of have to go out of your way to

0:45:01.200 --> 0:45:04.200
<v Speaker 2>figure out how to create that. If you know, a

0:45:04.200 --> 0:45:08.360
<v Speaker 2>lot of people are lucky enough that like community and

0:45:08.440 --> 0:45:13.840
<v Speaker 2>support systems are just like just kind of naturally occur

0:45:14.520 --> 0:45:16.880
<v Speaker 2>in their life through whatever it is they chose to

0:45:16.880 --> 0:45:18.759
<v Speaker 2>do for a living, or if they chose to have

0:45:18.800 --> 0:45:21.799
<v Speaker 2>a family or you know whatever. Some people aren't as

0:45:21.880 --> 0:45:24.960
<v Speaker 2>lucky and they did shit doesn't naturally occur and they

0:45:25.000 --> 0:45:26.799
<v Speaker 2>have to kind of go out and chase it and

0:45:26.840 --> 0:45:31.640
<v Speaker 2>look for it. But yeah, it's what you know. What's

0:45:31.640 --> 0:45:34.680
<v Speaker 2>funny is, Yeah, the modern world, I think it has

0:45:34.800 --> 0:45:40.560
<v Speaker 2>created a thing where it's been yeah, sure, isolating, but

0:45:40.719 --> 0:45:46.200
<v Speaker 2>it also conversely has given us a lot of tools

0:45:46.800 --> 0:45:51.960
<v Speaker 2>to break out of isolation. And yeah, I've talked about this.

0:45:52.120 --> 0:45:56.600
<v Speaker 2>I think I've been talking about the same three things

0:45:57.000 --> 0:45:58.800
<v Speaker 2>on this podcast for the past month.

0:45:58.920 --> 0:45:59.000
<v Speaker 3>No.

0:45:59.680 --> 0:46:02.920
<v Speaker 2>Yeah, but I don't know that they're they're they're the

0:46:02.920 --> 0:46:06.759
<v Speaker 2>they're the frequent things on my fucking mind. I you know,

0:46:06.760 --> 0:46:10.120
<v Speaker 2>it would be awesome because I hope somebody I don't know,

0:46:10.160 --> 0:46:12.239
<v Speaker 2>I hope maybe somebody listening to the who listens to

0:46:12.280 --> 0:46:15.760
<v Speaker 2>this podcast right early is like taking whatever, these same

0:46:15.920 --> 0:46:18.640
<v Speaker 2>three fucking things I'm talking about on the podcast, and

0:46:18.640 --> 0:46:21.160
<v Speaker 2>you maybe I get an email from them and they're like, hey,

0:46:21.239 --> 0:46:24.600
<v Speaker 2>I took those I took those three things you were

0:46:24.600 --> 0:46:27.320
<v Speaker 2>talking about on the podcast, and I made these changes

0:46:27.360 --> 0:46:29.240
<v Speaker 2>and I did these things, and now my life is different,

0:46:29.280 --> 0:46:30.640
<v Speaker 2>and I'll look at it and be like, oh shit,

0:46:30.719 --> 0:46:32.279
<v Speaker 2>I should do that too.

0:46:33.120 --> 0:46:37.239
<v Speaker 3>You know that you can make the therapy get go,

0:46:37.680 --> 0:46:40.520
<v Speaker 3>like you could sell like a masterclass. You could do

0:46:40.560 --> 0:46:42.160
<v Speaker 3>like one of these classes.

0:46:42.800 --> 0:46:43.960
<v Speaker 2>I would feel like.

0:46:43.680 --> 0:46:45.160
<v Speaker 3>I'm going to facilitate your life.

0:46:45.440 --> 0:46:47.720
<v Speaker 2>No, I would feel extreme. I think I'd feel extremely

0:46:47.800 --> 0:46:51.839
<v Speaker 2>uncomfortable doing like, uh something like that. Now, I feel

0:46:51.880 --> 0:46:54.439
<v Speaker 2>very uncomfortable doing something like that, although it is fun,

0:46:54.520 --> 0:46:57.120
<v Speaker 2>like coaching is fun because you don't have to do anything.

0:46:57.560 --> 0:46:59.120
<v Speaker 2>You just have to tell the people what to do.

0:46:59.160 --> 0:47:00.000
<v Speaker 2>It's way easier.

0:47:01.239 --> 0:47:02.839
<v Speaker 3>Like when have you ever heard of a client telling

0:47:02.840 --> 0:47:04.840
<v Speaker 3>a personal coach that they're fucking up their life? Like,

0:47:04.880 --> 0:47:06.840
<v Speaker 3>I feel like that's not You could just tell you

0:47:06.840 --> 0:47:08.960
<v Speaker 3>could tell them whatever you want. They'd be like, okay, cool, Yeah,

0:47:09.000 --> 0:47:11.400
<v Speaker 3>I'm gonna do it. And then if it's not happen.

0:47:12.360 --> 0:47:16.400
<v Speaker 2>No, there will There will never be a therapy Gecko course.

0:47:18.000 --> 0:47:22.000
<v Speaker 2>If you saw I think, I think I think that

0:47:22.120 --> 0:47:25.360
<v Speaker 2>you should you should have public You should have public

0:47:25.480 --> 0:47:31.600
<v Speaker 2>photos of the quality of your room first before you

0:47:31.640 --> 0:47:34.400
<v Speaker 2>sell a course, you know what I mean? Like, I

0:47:34.480 --> 0:47:37.080
<v Speaker 2>think if if people saw all the empty water bottles

0:47:37.080 --> 0:47:42.240
<v Speaker 2>and half filled diet mountain dew all over my fucking apartment,

0:47:42.600 --> 0:47:45.440
<v Speaker 2>they would they would not consider buying a course from me.

0:47:46.719 --> 0:47:49.080
<v Speaker 3>That's what the field of psychiatry says, is like a

0:47:49.120 --> 0:47:51.839
<v Speaker 3>bedroom is a window into someone's mind, is what they say.

0:47:52.160 --> 0:47:53.440
<v Speaker 3>I don't know if it's true though, but.

0:47:54.360 --> 0:47:57.720
<v Speaker 2>Yeah, don't tell don't open that diamountain dew and look inside,

0:47:57.760 --> 0:47:58.640
<v Speaker 2>because it'll show.

0:47:58.480 --> 0:47:58.759
<v Speaker 3>You some.

0:48:00.440 --> 0:48:05.120
<v Speaker 2>What's your name again, Chudley, Chudley, Chudley. It was nice

0:48:05.120 --> 0:48:08.399
<v Speaker 2>talking to you. I hope you find whatever the fuck

0:48:08.440 --> 0:48:09.839
<v Speaker 2>you're looking for in this crazy world.

0:48:10.960 --> 0:48:13.279
<v Speaker 3>Before we leave, can I tell you one er story

0:48:13.320 --> 0:48:14.719
<v Speaker 3>because that was just I just wanted to tell you

0:48:14.760 --> 0:48:19.440
<v Speaker 3>something funny to even out the spirituality of a fifth Yeah. So,

0:48:19.480 --> 0:48:22.680
<v Speaker 3>I mean you probably know people people put stuff in there,

0:48:22.680 --> 0:48:26.719
<v Speaker 3>but it happens pretty frequently. I think any orifice someone has,

0:48:26.760 --> 0:48:30.439
<v Speaker 3>he can do that. So we've had a we've had

0:48:30.440 --> 0:48:33.560
<v Speaker 3>a unnamed gentleman come in several times because he's gotten

0:48:33.600 --> 0:48:37.040
<v Speaker 3>something stuck in his butt. The first time it was

0:48:37.120 --> 0:48:40.120
<v Speaker 3>a brute shaving cream bottle. I don't know if you're

0:48:40.160 --> 0:48:42.920
<v Speaker 3>familiar with those. Like it's like a green bottle with

0:48:42.960 --> 0:48:47.600
<v Speaker 3>a very long stem. It's it's pretty sizable, Like when

0:48:47.640 --> 0:48:50.000
<v Speaker 3>you see it on the X You're like, how the

0:48:50.080 --> 0:48:52.000
<v Speaker 3>fuck did he get? Like I had no I had

0:48:52.080 --> 0:48:54.640
<v Speaker 3>no idea, and he walked in totally normal. You could

0:48:54.680 --> 0:48:56.520
<v Speaker 3>have just seen this guy walk down the sidewalk and

0:48:56.840 --> 0:48:59.839
<v Speaker 3>you would not have known that. He comes in says

0:48:59.840 --> 0:49:02.279
<v Speaker 3>that he tripped and fell and that it went up

0:49:02.320 --> 0:49:03.960
<v Speaker 3>his butt. They're like, all right, we're not going to

0:49:04.040 --> 0:49:07.000
<v Speaker 3>question you anymore. And then like a couple of weeks later,

0:49:07.560 --> 0:49:11.279
<v Speaker 3>dude comes back in samem and this time it was

0:49:11.360 --> 0:49:15.080
<v Speaker 3>a like a Suave shampoo bottle, which was like almost

0:49:15.080 --> 0:49:18.640
<v Speaker 3>twice the size of this thing. And even then den

0:49:18.640 --> 0:49:21.680
<v Speaker 3>I and I deny. He was like, I think a

0:49:21.719 --> 0:49:24.120
<v Speaker 3>friend put it up here, like I'm not sure how

0:49:24.120 --> 0:49:26.120
<v Speaker 3>I got up there, and that one was so far

0:49:26.160 --> 0:49:27.759
<v Speaker 3>that he actually had to get surgery to get that

0:49:27.800 --> 0:49:32.640
<v Speaker 3>one out. So and that that happens all the time.

0:49:32.840 --> 0:49:35.239
<v Speaker 3>You see, I've seen a dude put a glass weed

0:49:35.280 --> 0:49:36.920
<v Speaker 3>pipe up his butt and then he sat down and

0:49:37.040 --> 0:49:40.680
<v Speaker 3>broke I've seen, Yeah, that one was horrible too. And

0:49:40.680 --> 0:49:43.160
<v Speaker 3>now when he also said a friend, they never I

0:49:43.200 --> 0:49:46.080
<v Speaker 3>get it. I understand it's a very vulnerable. They're trying

0:49:46.080 --> 0:49:48.120
<v Speaker 3>to help you, but I'm like, you really, like you're

0:49:48.160 --> 0:49:49.799
<v Speaker 3>in this position, you don't want to just mess up

0:49:49.880 --> 0:49:52.399
<v Speaker 3>to it, Like I get it. But he's like, no, man,

0:49:52.440 --> 0:49:55.120
<v Speaker 3>like someone I was asleep and someone put it in

0:49:55.160 --> 0:49:57.840
<v Speaker 3>my butt and like I just I didn't know. I

0:49:57.920 --> 0:49:58.799
<v Speaker 3>just didn't wake up.

0:49:59.040 --> 0:50:01.239
<v Speaker 2>No, at that point, it's like, you know, I put

0:50:01.239 --> 0:50:03.520
<v Speaker 2>this in my ass, Sorry that you have to now be.

0:50:03.560 --> 0:50:06.840
<v Speaker 3>Here that Yeah, Now I get it. I'm just like,

0:50:06.880 --> 0:50:08.799
<v Speaker 3>I get it, dude, I get it. Like, but just

0:50:08.840 --> 0:50:12.440
<v Speaker 3>come on, dude, tarrott. We've seen that. We've seen a

0:50:12.480 --> 0:50:13.520
<v Speaker 3>couple of vegetables.

0:50:14.400 --> 0:50:18.839
<v Speaker 2>Carrot's Carrot's not that bad. Those are biodegradable, right, right,

0:50:19.080 --> 0:50:21.879
<v Speaker 2>you do with the carrot after you take it out

0:50:21.880 --> 0:50:23.040
<v Speaker 2>of a guy's ass.

0:50:23.520 --> 0:50:25.840
<v Speaker 3>That's a very good question because I asked after the

0:50:25.880 --> 0:50:28.080
<v Speaker 3>shampoo bottle and the shaving cream, I was like, did

0:50:28.160 --> 0:50:29.560
<v Speaker 3>you give it back to him? Because it was full.

0:50:29.640 --> 0:50:31.200
<v Speaker 3>You could see in the extra that there was still

0:50:31.239 --> 0:50:33.759
<v Speaker 3>like a pat like there was still something in it,

0:50:33.800 --> 0:50:36.399
<v Speaker 3>Like it wasn't just the bottle. They take it. They

0:50:36.400 --> 0:50:39.040
<v Speaker 3>it's considered bio it's considered a bio hazard, and they

0:50:39.040 --> 0:50:42.799
<v Speaker 3>throw it away. Yeah, so you don't get to keep

0:50:42.800 --> 0:50:44.400
<v Speaker 3>any of that, you know, even if you get like

0:50:44.520 --> 0:50:45.640
<v Speaker 3>I don't know if you've ever heard this, but if

0:50:45.680 --> 0:50:47.279
<v Speaker 3>you get your leg cut off, your arm cut off,

0:50:47.440 --> 0:50:49.880
<v Speaker 3>you don't get to keep it. They like, if you

0:50:49.960 --> 0:50:51.399
<v Speaker 3>keep it, or if you try to keep it, it's

0:50:51.440 --> 0:50:53.759
<v Speaker 3>a crime. I don't remember what the exact crime is,

0:50:53.800 --> 0:50:56.239
<v Speaker 3>but they will like literally just throw it away, and

0:50:56.360 --> 0:50:59.840
<v Speaker 3>you can't you can't trust it. Yeah, sometimes even your teeth.

0:51:00.160 --> 0:51:02.000
<v Speaker 3>Sometimes some like I don't know what it is with

0:51:02.040 --> 0:51:04.200
<v Speaker 3>certain gental procedures, but you're not even allowed to keep

0:51:04.239 --> 0:51:07.600
<v Speaker 3>your your own teeth, which is the craziest thing to me.

0:51:07.719 --> 0:51:10.200
<v Speaker 2>But where is there just like a band in the

0:51:10.239 --> 0:51:12.919
<v Speaker 2>hospital or like they just didn't have a bunch of legs.

0:51:13.800 --> 0:51:15.600
<v Speaker 3>I mean, at least at ours. I don't know if

0:51:15.640 --> 0:51:19.160
<v Speaker 3>we have like incinerators and shit, I don't really. I

0:51:19.160 --> 0:51:21.719
<v Speaker 3>don't think we do imputations at my hospital's pretty small.

0:51:21.760 --> 0:51:24.400
<v Speaker 3>But when they do, I'm pretty sure they just throwing

0:51:24.400 --> 0:51:28.120
<v Speaker 3>it anerator and it's just from dust to dirt, like

0:51:28.200 --> 0:51:29.839
<v Speaker 3>you go back to the earth, I guess, I don't know.

0:51:30.239 --> 0:51:33.200
<v Speaker 3>Or sometimes there's a whole other rabbit hole they have

0:51:33.239 --> 0:51:36.360
<v Speaker 3>that illegal body exchange. They have like this whole black market.

0:51:36.760 --> 0:51:41.360
<v Speaker 3>Barvard got in trouble for it recently for selling cadavers

0:51:41.400 --> 0:51:43.560
<v Speaker 3>like dead people to like the military and too like

0:51:44.160 --> 0:51:48.359
<v Speaker 3>other unfacilitated like medical facilities. They were making stupid money

0:51:48.360 --> 0:51:50.720
<v Speaker 3>off of it. It was crazy. They were just taking

0:51:51.160 --> 0:51:53.640
<v Speaker 3>dead people and just selling them for like hundreds of

0:51:53.920 --> 0:51:56.719
<v Speaker 3>hundreds of dollars, like it was the nuttiest thing to

0:51:56.760 --> 0:51:57.160
<v Speaker 3>think about.

0:51:57.320 --> 0:52:01.040
<v Speaker 2>So well, look when I die, I mean, I don't.

0:52:01.360 --> 0:52:03.600
<v Speaker 2>I'm not going to need my arms and legs anymore,

0:52:03.680 --> 0:52:06.359
<v Speaker 2>so you can take them. Anyone can have them if

0:52:06.400 --> 0:52:06.839
<v Speaker 2>they want them.

0:52:10.160 --> 0:52:14.040
<v Speaker 3>I want to be stopped to about I don't know,

0:52:14.200 --> 0:52:16.480
<v Speaker 3>fifty to one hundred pounds of fireworks, and I just

0:52:16.520 --> 0:52:18.359
<v Speaker 3>want to be placed in like a public setting. Yeah,

0:52:18.360 --> 0:52:22.000
<v Speaker 3>I launched off as fireworks. Yeah, yeah, that's the way

0:52:22.040 --> 0:52:22.520
<v Speaker 3>I want to go.

0:52:23.600 --> 0:52:27.520
<v Speaker 2>What's your name again, sir Chedley? Chedley? Is there anything

0:52:27.520 --> 0:52:28.680
<v Speaker 2>else you want to say to the people of the

0:52:28.680 --> 0:52:29.600
<v Speaker 2>computer before we go.

0:52:32.360 --> 0:52:34.200
<v Speaker 3>If you ever go to the emergency room and you

0:52:34.239 --> 0:52:37.799
<v Speaker 3>want to be seen super fast, this is so unethical,

0:52:38.040 --> 0:52:39.960
<v Speaker 3>But if you really do want to be seen really fast,

0:52:40.000 --> 0:52:42.040
<v Speaker 3>tell them you can't breathe, or tell them that you

0:52:42.040 --> 0:52:45.080
<v Speaker 3>have cardiac history and you will be seeing a shap

0:52:45.320 --> 0:52:47.360
<v Speaker 3>even if it's a bullshit complaint. But you did not

0:52:47.400 --> 0:52:48.000
<v Speaker 3>hear that from me.

0:52:48.640 --> 0:52:52.080
<v Speaker 2>Pretty good, Pretty good. I'm glad somebody got something out

0:52:52.120 --> 0:52:53.360
<v Speaker 2>of this podcast.

0:52:52.840 --> 0:52:54.919
<v Speaker 3>Hopefully, Yeah, I hope.

0:52:54.960 --> 0:52:57.319
<v Speaker 2>So take care of Chedley. Thank you?

0:52:58.480 --> 0:52:59.000
<v Speaker 3>Thanks Jack.

0:53:03.440 --> 0:53:05.239
<v Speaker 2>What's up man? How you doing pretty good?

0:53:05.280 --> 0:53:05.759
<v Speaker 5>How are you?

0:53:06.239 --> 0:53:10.719
<v Speaker 2>I am hanging in there. I'm trying my best to

0:53:10.760 --> 0:53:17.080
<v Speaker 2>be alive as a human being on the planet. What's

0:53:17.360 --> 0:53:19.560
<v Speaker 2>what's up? Brother? What is it that made you want

0:53:19.600 --> 0:53:23.280
<v Speaker 2>to call into my little Gecko show today.

0:53:24.640 --> 0:53:26.719
<v Speaker 5>I've been listening to you for a long time, and

0:53:27.680 --> 0:53:30.120
<v Speaker 5>I've tried to call about a bunch of random ship before.

0:53:30.200 --> 0:53:34.360
<v Speaker 5>But I don't know. Lately, I just went through some

0:53:34.360 --> 0:53:38.040
<v Speaker 5>shit at work and I worked for my girlfriend's parents.

0:53:38.840 --> 0:53:41.480
<v Speaker 5>So now I'm looking for a new job, and it's

0:53:41.520 --> 0:53:42.360
<v Speaker 5>fucking terrible.

0:53:44.560 --> 0:53:47.200
<v Speaker 2>What kind of shit went on at the job with

0:53:47.239 --> 0:53:48.960
<v Speaker 2>your girlfriend's parents.

0:53:49.920 --> 0:53:53.480
<v Speaker 5>I the day after Saint Patrick's Day, I tried to

0:53:53.480 --> 0:53:55.680
<v Speaker 5>call out of work and there's like a big old

0:53:55.719 --> 0:53:57.040
<v Speaker 5>mess and they docked my pay.

0:53:58.880 --> 0:54:01.800
<v Speaker 3>So, yeah, did.

0:54:01.640 --> 0:54:03.560
<v Speaker 2>You get too fucked up on St Patrick's Day?

0:54:04.440 --> 0:54:04.640
<v Speaker 3>Oh?

0:54:04.680 --> 0:54:09.839
<v Speaker 2>Yeah, Well, I mean well, I mean, I mean look,

0:54:09.920 --> 0:54:11.840
<v Speaker 2>I mean, I mean, you know, come.

0:54:11.680 --> 0:54:13.680
<v Speaker 1>On, yeah, fair enough, fair enough.

0:54:13.680 --> 0:54:16.719
<v Speaker 5>I didn't expect my pay to get docked, but I

0:54:16.760 --> 0:54:20.120
<v Speaker 5>did expect, like, you know, for it to be some trouble.

0:54:21.760 --> 0:54:25.560
<v Speaker 2>Well, I mean, yeah, what, well, Well, well you wanted

0:54:25.600 --> 0:54:26.960
<v Speaker 2>to get like, oh, do I do you have like

0:54:27.000 --> 0:54:28.040
<v Speaker 2>PTO or something?

0:54:29.360 --> 0:54:29.959
<v Speaker 3>No, I don't.

0:54:30.040 --> 0:54:30.840
<v Speaker 5>I don't have any of that.

0:54:30.840 --> 0:54:31.319
<v Speaker 3>I don't got.

0:54:31.200 --> 0:54:34.279
<v Speaker 5>Benefits or nothing. I'm doing like construction in the landscaping.

0:54:35.360 --> 0:54:38.920
<v Speaker 2>Wait, so wouldn't your pay obviously get docked if you

0:54:38.920 --> 0:54:40.680
<v Speaker 2>didn't if you don't go to work.

0:54:41.880 --> 0:54:45.680
<v Speaker 5>No, No, I mean like permanently and minus three dollars

0:54:45.719 --> 0:54:46.080
<v Speaker 5>an hour.

0:54:47.040 --> 0:54:48.880
<v Speaker 2>Oh, you pay got permanently docked.

0:54:49.800 --> 0:54:52.680
<v Speaker 5>Yeah. Yeah, I got to find a new job.

0:54:53.960 --> 0:54:56.200
<v Speaker 2>And they were doing that as retaliation for calling out

0:54:56.200 --> 0:54:56.520
<v Speaker 2>of work.

0:54:57.560 --> 0:55:03.480
<v Speaker 1>Yeah, but the funny thing is I still went to work, attempted.

0:55:02.600 --> 0:55:07.640
<v Speaker 2>To call out. You attempted to call out of work,

0:55:08.560 --> 0:55:11.560
<v Speaker 2>and so then they got mad at you for trying

0:55:11.600 --> 0:55:13.399
<v Speaker 2>to call out of work, so they docked your pay

0:55:13.440 --> 0:55:15.040
<v Speaker 2>because you tried to call out of work.

0:55:16.200 --> 0:55:16.399
<v Speaker 1>Yeah.

0:55:16.440 --> 0:55:19.319
<v Speaker 5>It was a messy argument, and then I just threw

0:55:19.360 --> 0:55:23.920
<v Speaker 5>in the towel, was like, okay, fine, I'll go and yeah,

0:55:23.920 --> 0:55:24.399
<v Speaker 5>that's rough.

0:55:25.800 --> 0:55:27.520
<v Speaker 2>Are you still with your girlfriends?

0:55:28.640 --> 0:55:28.839
<v Speaker 1>Yeah?

0:55:28.920 --> 0:55:32.120
<v Speaker 5>Yeah, we've been together coming up six years.

0:55:32.680 --> 0:55:35.440
<v Speaker 2>Okay, but so are you still in the job or

0:55:35.480 --> 0:55:37.520
<v Speaker 2>did you quit? And now you're looking for a new ship.

0:55:38.600 --> 0:55:42.840
<v Speaker 5>I'm currently wiping off of tile, so I'm still I'm looking.

0:55:43.880 --> 0:55:47.080
<v Speaker 5>But yeah, I'm kind of stuck at the moment.

0:55:49.000 --> 0:55:52.200
<v Speaker 2>Did this like damage your relationship with your girlfriend's parents.

0:55:54.000 --> 0:55:57.879
<v Speaker 5>For like, for a couple of weeks, things seem normal now.

0:55:57.920 --> 0:56:02.480
<v Speaker 5>But obviously I'm not happy slave a way for you know,

0:56:02.760 --> 0:56:03.880
<v Speaker 5>all that rush money.

0:56:04.719 --> 0:56:08.279
<v Speaker 2>Yeah, yeah, what is your girlfriend? Is your girlfriend on

0:56:08.320 --> 0:56:10.160
<v Speaker 2>your side with this? Or is she like, yeah, you

0:56:10.200 --> 0:56:10.719
<v Speaker 2>fucked up?

0:56:11.920 --> 0:56:13.240
<v Speaker 3>I don't know. She's kind of in between.

0:56:13.360 --> 0:56:16.239
<v Speaker 5>She's like, it's you know, your fault because it would

0:56:16.239 --> 0:56:19.240
<v Speaker 5>have never happened. But she agrees that it's stupid.

0:56:22.520 --> 0:56:23.879
<v Speaker 2>Yeah, what kind of job are you trying to get

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<v Speaker 2>outside of this?

0:56:26.200 --> 0:56:28.520
<v Speaker 5>Well, that's what I'm on the sense on her now.

0:56:28.800 --> 0:56:34.000
<v Speaker 5>The plan was to go into plumbing, and but no

0:56:34.280 --> 0:56:37.719
<v Speaker 5>plumbing apprenticeships are hitting me back. I don't know if

0:56:37.719 --> 0:56:40.799
<v Speaker 5>I should like try to, you know, get like a

0:56:40.840 --> 0:56:44.279
<v Speaker 5>serving job and just wait up the summer, or I

0:56:44.280 --> 0:56:46.480
<v Speaker 5>have no idea. I'm living on an island right now.

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<v Speaker 2>You live on an island? What islands?

0:56:50.120 --> 0:56:51.240
<v Speaker 5>Tybee Island?

0:56:52.040 --> 0:56:56.279
<v Speaker 2>Tybee Island. I'm gonna okay, wait, I'm gonna fucking we're

0:56:56.280 --> 0:56:59.320
<v Speaker 2>pulling out the maps. We're pulling out maps.

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<v Speaker 5>I hope nobody uh on the island knows.

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<v Speaker 3>Your show hold on?

0:57:04.760 --> 0:57:05.760
<v Speaker 2>Okay? What is it called?

0:57:07.000 --> 0:57:07.960
<v Speaker 5>Tybee Island?

0:57:08.760 --> 0:57:15.479
<v Speaker 2>Ruh t y b e Tybee Island? Georgia. Oh shit,

0:57:15.840 --> 0:57:19.160
<v Speaker 2>I don't know Georgia had a fucking island. Oh shit, yeah,

0:57:19.160 --> 0:57:22.520
<v Speaker 2>you're right, okay, yeah, yeah, all right, you're right outside

0:57:22.520 --> 0:57:26.080
<v Speaker 2>of Savannah. Hold on, oh it's really an island. Is

0:57:26.080 --> 0:57:28.560
<v Speaker 2>this really an island? This isn't really an island. There's

0:57:28.640 --> 0:57:33.240
<v Speaker 2>like a it's connected to land, right.

0:57:33.600 --> 0:57:37.720
<v Speaker 1>Well, it appears that way, but when the tide comes up,

0:57:38.000 --> 0:57:40.400
<v Speaker 1>you can only get to the island through the man

0:57:40.440 --> 0:57:40.960
<v Speaker 1>made road.

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<v Speaker 2>Is this like I've never heard of this fucking place?

0:57:44.080 --> 0:57:45.919
<v Speaker 2>This is interesting. Is this like a like a beach

0:57:46.000 --> 0:57:48.600
<v Speaker 2>town where people who like Savannah folks like go to

0:57:48.640 --> 0:57:49.720
<v Speaker 2>fucking go on vacation.

0:57:50.840 --> 0:57:51.760
<v Speaker 3>Yeah, exactly.

0:57:51.800 --> 0:57:54.200
<v Speaker 5>People from all over the world actually end up here

0:57:54.280 --> 0:57:55.680
<v Speaker 5>amid a lot of crazy people.

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<v Speaker 2>Cool. Are you trying to stay on Tybee Island?

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<v Speaker 5>I'm staying till September. It's really expensive to live out here,

0:58:05.960 --> 0:58:08.600
<v Speaker 5>so we're gonna move into Savannah.

0:58:08.680 --> 0:58:11.919
<v Speaker 2>So Tybee Island is more expensive than Savannah, like living

0:58:11.960 --> 0:58:13.000
<v Speaker 2>in the proper city.

0:58:14.040 --> 0:58:18.040
<v Speaker 5>Yeah, yeah, much more expensive. It's like dominated by short

0:58:18.120 --> 0:58:22.080
<v Speaker 5>term vacation rentals. So the housing market's pretty rough.

0:58:23.320 --> 0:58:28.440
<v Speaker 2>Interesting. Interesting. How's what's the cost of living like in Savannah?

0:58:28.560 --> 0:58:34.680
<v Speaker 5>It's I mean, it's uh, it's not terrible. It's hard

0:58:34.720 --> 0:58:36.720
<v Speaker 5>to find a good place because of you know, it's

0:58:36.720 --> 0:58:40.480
<v Speaker 5>like a college stun and all that. But you can

0:58:40.520 --> 0:58:43.280
<v Speaker 5>find a good spot if you if you wait around

0:58:43.360 --> 0:58:43.680
<v Speaker 5>for it.

0:58:44.720 --> 0:58:49.400
<v Speaker 2>You live on an island in Georgia. I mean, look,

0:58:49.520 --> 0:58:52.040
<v Speaker 2>if you're thinking about going into the service industry, I'll

0:58:52.080 --> 0:58:56.040
<v Speaker 2>say this. I mean, I've never been a waiter, a

0:58:56.040 --> 0:59:00.160
<v Speaker 2>bartender or anything like that by friends who have, and uh,

0:59:00.200 --> 0:59:02.400
<v Speaker 2>I mean if you're doing it for a summer. I

0:59:02.440 --> 0:59:05.880
<v Speaker 2>have a friend he was he fucking like hated his

0:59:05.960 --> 0:59:08.880
<v Speaker 2>life and his job and everything, and he moved to

0:59:09.920 --> 0:59:13.760
<v Speaker 2>Rehoboth Beach to be a server over there, and now

0:59:13.800 --> 0:59:15.800
<v Speaker 2>he's like killing it. He has all these like fucking

0:59:16.160 --> 0:59:19.120
<v Speaker 2>other like server friends, and he's like in the whole

0:59:19.920 --> 0:59:25.919
<v Speaker 2>restaurant industry and the community and whatnot. So I don't

0:59:25.920 --> 0:59:31.040
<v Speaker 2>have firsthand experience being a server at a like in

0:59:31.080 --> 0:59:35.480
<v Speaker 2>a beach town or whatever, but uh, it's what are

0:59:35.480 --> 0:59:39.640
<v Speaker 2>you doing now? You're scraping grout off of a yeah,

0:59:40.000 --> 0:59:43.480
<v Speaker 2>a tile off a tile. I mean, I look, I

0:59:43.480 --> 0:59:44.960
<v Speaker 2>don't know what kind of person you are. I don't

0:59:44.960 --> 0:59:48.439
<v Speaker 2>know what what makes you tick, but like, at least

0:59:48.520 --> 0:59:51.000
<v Speaker 2>I guess with the service. With the service industry stuff,

0:59:51.040 --> 0:59:54.440
<v Speaker 2>like you get to be like people facing. You know,

0:59:55.560 --> 1:00:00.000
<v Speaker 2>there's you're working with other folks, you're outside of the

1:00:00.160 --> 1:00:05.280
<v Speaker 2>closed knit of your girlfriend's parents and ship.

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<v Speaker 1>You know.

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<v Speaker 2>I feel like if you're in, if you want like, uh,

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<v Speaker 2>you know, if you want to be a little rascal,

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<v Speaker 2>that's the better place to do it.

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah.

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<v Speaker 5>Well, my boss is pulling up right now. Nice talking

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<v Speaker 5>to you.

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<v Speaker 3>I will call it suck.

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<v Speaker 2>Too, all right, cool man, Well, good luck, good luck

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<v Speaker 2>with whatever you choose to do.

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<v Speaker 5>Thank you all.

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<v Speaker 2>Take care, Broye. I don't know. I'm not. I haven't.

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<v Speaker 2>I never worked as a bartender, but I fucking every

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<v Speaker 2>once in all here in New York. Every once in

1:00:37.640 --> 1:00:41.040
<v Speaker 2>a while, when I get bored, I volunteer at my

1:00:41.160 --> 1:00:47.160
<v Speaker 2>friend's comedy club. Shout out Sesh comedy. Every once in

1:00:47.200 --> 1:00:48.920
<v Speaker 2>a while, when I get bored, I go down there

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<v Speaker 2>and I'll sling I'll sling beers for him, and it's

1:00:53.840 --> 1:00:59.040
<v Speaker 2>it's it's kind of fun to like like have a

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<v Speaker 2>I mean, it's so funny because that's what I do

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<v Speaker 2>with this podcast. But it's kind of fun to have

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<v Speaker 2>like forced social interaction where like people have to talk

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<v Speaker 2>to you and you know, the parameters of the social

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<v Speaker 2>interaction are predetermined, and it's like it's good to have

1:01:22.920 --> 1:01:28.160
<v Speaker 2>something to do with your fucking hands, right like after

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<v Speaker 2>living in like the crazy abyss. Just having someone be like, hello,

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<v Speaker 2>I would like to buy a beer and I go, hey, man,

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<v Speaker 2>how you doing? I'm doing good? Can I get this beer?

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<v Speaker 2>And I go yes? And then I go and I

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<v Speaker 2>get them the beer and they go thanks. Something about

1:01:45.320 --> 1:01:51.120
<v Speaker 2>that that felt very makes you feel present in what

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<v Speaker 2>you're doing. I guess that's why fucking diner dash is

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<v Speaker 2>so popular. I don't know, I don't know what I'm

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<v Speaker 2>fucking talking about, but uh yeah, it's fun. It's it's

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<v Speaker 2>a it's a fun thing. I think. I don't know,

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<v Speaker 2>it sounds it's about if if like if you have

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<v Speaker 2>to like get like a you know, if you need

1:02:12.880 --> 1:02:14.960
<v Speaker 2>a gig. I feel like that's probably better than like,

1:02:15.760 --> 1:02:18.200
<v Speaker 2>you know, working out in a in a field or

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<v Speaker 2>anything like that. Just to be around some people. Hello, Hello, Hi,

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<v Speaker 2>what's your name?

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<v Speaker 3>My name is Billy, Billy.

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<v Speaker 2>What's up, Billy? How you doing? How's life?

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<v Speaker 6>While it's so great to talk to you, I'm I'm

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<v Speaker 6>taking a break from doing taxes at the.

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<v Speaker 2>Moment, Oh, yeah, tax season's coming up. Tax Season's coming up.

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<v Speaker 6>It is I'm very nervous. It's the first time I'm

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<v Speaker 6>I'm doing it. But I have a I have a

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<v Speaker 6>couple of things that I want.

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<v Speaker 3>To talk to you about.

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<v Speaker 2>If that's okay, Yeah, let's do it. Hit me.

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<v Speaker 6>Yeah, so I have we can we can either go

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<v Speaker 6>with So I used to be a bouncer on Broadway

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<v Speaker 6>in Nashville, and I have some interesting stories that I

1:03:01.640 --> 1:03:06.600
<v Speaker 6>could tell you, or or I am starting a I

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<v Speaker 6>can tell you about. I'm starting a touring fan activations company,

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<v Speaker 6>like a touring fan engagement company like go on the

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<v Speaker 6>road with different artists and stuff.

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<v Speaker 2>A touring fan activation company. Well, let's do the self

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<v Speaker 2>promo at the end. Well, yeah, go ahead. Do you

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<v Speaker 2>have a story about Yeah, working at nash working on Broadway, Broadway,

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<v Speaker 2>I do, I have a place. Yeah, I'm curious what

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<v Speaker 2>kind of characters you run into.

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<v Speaker 6>So I'm not going to mention the bar that I

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<v Speaker 6>used to work at. But I used to work night

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<v Speaker 6>shifts and I used to go in starting at like

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<v Speaker 6>five thirty and then I'd go and work until like

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<v Speaker 6>three in the morning, and then I have to walk

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<v Speaker 6>to walk back to this really sketchy parking garage. I

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<v Speaker 6>mean it wasn't sketchy, but it's like a couple of

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<v Speaker 6>blocks away and you got to walk past like some

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<v Speaker 6>people that are are out at three in the morning,

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<v Speaker 6>and I'd rather not do that, So I don't work

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<v Speaker 6>there anymore. But there was I'll tell you one story.

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<v Speaker 6>So we ended up. It was one of my first

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<v Speaker 6>days there, and one of there was it was late

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<v Speaker 6>at night and one of the there were some girls

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<v Speaker 6>coming in and so I'm standing at the front door

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<v Speaker 6>at this place and then my coworker, who is also

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<v Speaker 6>a bouncer, was standing next to me, and there are

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<v Speaker 6>these girls that are coming in and she just pulls

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<v Speaker 6>something out of her purse and just hands it to

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<v Speaker 6>him and just says and I'm like, okay, you know

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<v Speaker 6>what the fuck's going on here? And he's just like,

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<v Speaker 6>he tells me the story, He looks at it, it tells

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<v Speaker 6>me a story later about what it is, and he's like,

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<v Speaker 6>she just handed me a picture of her, like a

1:05:02.720 --> 1:05:06.400
<v Speaker 6>photo booth reel of her topless and just walked away,

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<v Speaker 6>and like she didn't even leave him her number or anything.

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<v Speaker 3>But it's just like.

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<v Speaker 6>Full titties and everything, and like didn't even didn't even

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<v Speaker 6>go and try to do anything afterwards. It was just

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<v Speaker 6>like like why are you giving me this here? And

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<v Speaker 6>then also it's just like my my thought, it was

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<v Speaker 6>just like do you just walk around with pictures of yourself?

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<v Speaker 6>Just do you just carry that in your purse and

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<v Speaker 6>just walking around and like hand them out to people?

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<v Speaker 6>Like I don't even think she was probably most likely

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<v Speaker 6>a Taurus. Like there was no she didn't even write

1:05:38.360 --> 1:05:40.600
<v Speaker 6>any like OnlyFans or anything on there. It was just

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<v Speaker 6>it was it was there.

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<v Speaker 2>But I don't I respect that she's doing it for

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<v Speaker 2>the love of the game.

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<v Speaker 6>She definitely of the game.

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah.

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<v Speaker 2>And then also it's kind of like, uh, like how

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<v Speaker 2>the Joker leaves his like calling card, you know, you

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<v Speaker 2>know what I mean. It's a little like that, Yeah,

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<v Speaker 2>a little action.

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<v Speaker 6>Yeah, so I have that. What else was there? So

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<v Speaker 6>a co worker was walking back to the parking garage

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<v Speaker 6>at three in the morning, well late at night, and

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<v Speaker 6>some random dudes followed him and like jumped in, like

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<v Speaker 6>almost jumped them. They pulled up in a van and

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<v Speaker 6>almost got out and you know, said hey, get in

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<v Speaker 6>the van, but he ended up running and just diving

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<v Speaker 6>into one of the the parking garages and they were

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<v Speaker 6>chasing after him and stuff. But you know, it comes,

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<v Speaker 6>it comes with the territory and in being Internashville, I guess.

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<v Speaker 3>So I don't know, but.

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<v Speaker 6>Yeah, so there's there's that, And I'm trying to think

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<v Speaker 6>of some other interesting stories at this particular bar that

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<v Speaker 6>I worked at, So I don't I don't particularly drink alcohol,

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<v Speaker 6>how I were at the At the bar that I

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<v Speaker 6>worked at, they would give you a free shift drink,

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<v Speaker 6>free shift drink after each each shift, so you get

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<v Speaker 6>done at three in the morning and then you get

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<v Speaker 6>a free beer and whatever. And it's just I don't know,

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<v Speaker 6>it's not particularly my thing, like it might be some people's,

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<v Speaker 6>it's not mine. But I don't know, I have something.

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<v Speaker 6>I can't think of any other interesting interesting stories from there.

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<v Speaker 2>But did you ever get any fights? Did you ever

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<v Speaker 2>get fucked up? Oh?

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<v Speaker 6>I had a couple of people try to fight me,

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<v Speaker 6>like and it was mostly and two evers listening to

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<v Speaker 6>this like nothing against Irish people, like I might you know,

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<v Speaker 6>it's I I'm got to I'm so fortunate I got

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<v Speaker 6>to meet like everyone from all across the world like

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<v Speaker 6>I got to meet some dude from Japan who didn't

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<v Speaker 6>even speak English, like it was so cool, you know,

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<v Speaker 6>I met people from Russia and whatever like, but the

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<v Speaker 6>only people that have ever tried to fight me were

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<v Speaker 6>from Ireland, like not even halfway drunk people either they're

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<v Speaker 6>just like pissed that they couldn't get in or or whatever,

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<v Speaker 6>or maybe they are like drunk or whatever. They just

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<v Speaker 6>did only people And this is this could be stereotype.

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<v Speaker 6>I'm not not at all trying to stereotype, but the

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<v Speaker 6>only people who have ever tried to fight me on

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<v Speaker 6>Broadway are people of Irish descent. But there's there's We're

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<v Speaker 6>also some really cool Irish people.

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<v Speaker 2>What's your build? Like are you are you pretty jacked?

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<v Speaker 2>Were you able to like if somebody did like step

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<v Speaker 2>up to you, would you have been able to handle

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<v Speaker 2>the situation?

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<v Speaker 6>So that's the crazy thing. Like, so, well, to answer

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<v Speaker 6>your question, now, I'm not like particularly jacked. I mean,

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<v Speaker 6>I'm fit and I've I've done martial arts, so like

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<v Speaker 6>I can handle myself, which is the only reason why

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<v Speaker 6>I decided to even.

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<v Speaker 3>Take the job.

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<v Speaker 6>I mean because of that, and I just couldn't find

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<v Speaker 6>a job. But no, the thing was that legally you

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<v Speaker 6>can't even fight You can't even fight them. It's like

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<v Speaker 6>you can't at this particular bar. We we didn't have

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<v Speaker 6>any earpieces or any communication whatsoever, and like legally you

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<v Speaker 6>can't like physically escort them out out of the bar.

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<v Speaker 6>So they're already drunk, they're in a very loud environment,

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<v Speaker 6>and you know, you can't you can't really do anything

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<v Speaker 6>about it, which is so interesting, and it doesn't help

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<v Speaker 6>with people like trying to, you know, trying to pick

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<v Speaker 6>fights either, because because you know, you just yell at people,

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<v Speaker 6>say hey, get out here, and like what are what

1:09:46.760 --> 1:09:48.920
<v Speaker 6>are they going to do? Like they're they're they're already

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<v Speaker 6>on vacation, having a good time whatever, which like there's

1:09:52.000 --> 1:09:55.800
<v Speaker 6>absolutely nothing wrong with that. I love that, you know,

1:09:55.840 --> 1:09:57.680
<v Speaker 6>I love to see people smile and have a good

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<v Speaker 6>time and whatever. But when it comes to the point

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<v Speaker 6>where you're just like being rowdy and whatever, and I

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<v Speaker 6>don't know, but yeah, that's the thing. We can't even

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<v Speaker 6>we couldn't even physically escort people out of like off

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<v Speaker 6>the premises, and since we didn't have any communication, we

1:10:16.880 --> 1:10:20.759
<v Speaker 6>couldn't really call anybody to help us either. And luckily

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<v Speaker 6>I didn't run into a whole lot of terrible situations

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<v Speaker 6>like that, but it was there were there were times

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<v Speaker 6>where it was like really close. Like there was this

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<v Speaker 6>lady one time where it was her and her husband

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<v Speaker 6>and they were just they were being obnoxious and she

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<v Speaker 6>was just kept blowing a bubble gun inside of the

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<v Speaker 6>place that I worked at. I'm like, no, no, we

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<v Speaker 6>can't keep doing this, and her husband got pissed, and

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<v Speaker 6>you know, I just kept I kept saying, okay, well,

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<v Speaker 6>you know, we need to get you out of here,

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<v Speaker 6>like come on, come follow me, and they wouldn't listen.

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<v Speaker 6>So I had to go and find I had to

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<v Speaker 6>leave the door and go find the coworker and say, hey,

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<v Speaker 6>we need to get these people out of here. But

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<v Speaker 6>I don't know, it was it was. It was an

1:11:10.680 --> 1:11:13.760
<v Speaker 6>interesting job, like I got to see and meet some

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<v Speaker 6>really cool people. Aside from like patrons, we would have

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<v Speaker 6>people come in who had just played The Ryman. For

1:11:22.560 --> 1:11:26.320
<v Speaker 6>anyone that doesn't know the Ryman Auditorium is, it's right downtown.

1:11:26.360 --> 1:11:31.559
<v Speaker 6>It's one of the most famous venues in Nashville and

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<v Speaker 6>in country particularly. But we had a lot of interesting

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<v Speaker 6>people just come in from the Ryman and then from

1:11:42.160 --> 1:11:45.240
<v Speaker 6>you know, from from that that area after they got

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<v Speaker 6>done playing the shows, to either just come hang out

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<v Speaker 6>or if they wanted to do an extra set or whatever.

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<v Speaker 6>Then it was interesting to see, like it was a

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<v Speaker 6>really fun job, but just not one that I care

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<v Speaker 6>to have anymore. It's just too dangerous. Got to get

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<v Speaker 6>you for me what you do now?

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<v Speaker 3>So I do a.

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<v Speaker 6>Lot of things, which is why I'm I'm working on tactics.

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<v Speaker 6>I do a lot of independent contract work, so I

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<v Speaker 6>I can't say too much, but I'm I'm an assistant

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<v Speaker 6>to an artist and we're working on a couple of things,

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<v Speaker 6>and that's all. That's all. I'll just leave it at that.

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<v Speaker 2>You work for ken, don't you.

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<v Speaker 6>It's always you know, I would love to work for

1:12:26.120 --> 1:12:30.280
<v Speaker 6>Kendrick honestly, like he's I love him as a lyricist.

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<v Speaker 2>When like somewhere somewhere along the line, when you say artist,

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<v Speaker 2>you mean a musician, right, yes, when did somewhere along

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<v Speaker 2>the line, I don't know, Like we used to it

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<v Speaker 2>used to just be like rapper or like singer songwriter

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<v Speaker 2>or like DJ or whatever. But now and like when

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<v Speaker 2>you when you thought of artist, you always it would

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<v Speaker 2>always come to mind, like, uh, like someone who makes

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<v Speaker 2>like visual art. And now artists like a type yea, yeah,

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<v Speaker 2>like a ball Bross type. And that was kind of

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<v Speaker 2>what it meant up until I swear on my life,

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<v Speaker 2>like in the last like five years. Artist Now now

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<v Speaker 2>artists more often than not means a musician of some kind,

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<v Speaker 2>like it used to mean, like when you said an artist,

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<v Speaker 2>you thought like a Pablo Picasso or like a fucking

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<v Speaker 2>like someone who makes like like a physical art of

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<v Speaker 2>some kind. But now now it almost unanimously goes to

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<v Speaker 2>mean a musician of some kind. Why do you think,

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<v Speaker 2>why do you think that switch happened?

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<v Speaker 6>Well, I'm gonna you know what. You may hate me

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<v Speaker 6>for this, but I'm going to turn the question back

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<v Speaker 6>on you. Since like art, do comedians consider themselves artists?

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<v Speaker 6>Because it kind of is an art form, It most

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<v Speaker 6>definitely is an art form.

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<v Speaker 2>No, comedians do not consider themselves artists, and uh if

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<v Speaker 2>they did, they would get made fun of.

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<v Speaker 6>Okay, I could see that, all right, Yeah, But to

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<v Speaker 6>answer your question, you know, I don't know, I I

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<v Speaker 6>don't know. I don't know when that would would That's

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<v Speaker 6>an interesting point, like when would it have turned from

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<v Speaker 6>like Hey, I'm just a performer to you know, being

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<v Speaker 6>an artist, but I don't.

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<v Speaker 3>I don't know.

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<v Speaker 6>That's that's interesting. I never really thought about it that way.

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<v Speaker 3>That's cool though.

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<v Speaker 2>So you do what do you What is it that

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<v Speaker 2>you were saying earlier? You do like a thing with

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<v Speaker 2>touring with the people.

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<v Speaker 6>Yeah, well yeah, so I'm starting a touring fan engagement company.

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<v Speaker 6>Because when I say I, the term is activations, So

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<v Speaker 6>which is which I'm gonna I'm gonna rephrase it to

1:14:51.400 --> 1:14:54.920
<v Speaker 6>fan engagement because it just means it's just easier to explain.

1:14:55.040 --> 1:14:59.120
<v Speaker 2>So an activation is when like the Monster Energy truck

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<v Speaker 2>comes to campus then gives out monster energy.

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<v Speaker 1>Yes exactly.

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<v Speaker 6>And the reason why I phrase it like that is that,

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<v Speaker 6>you know, people when I go to explain it, like

1:15:09.680 --> 1:15:11.720
<v Speaker 6>people don't understand what it is, and that like I

1:15:11.760 --> 1:15:14.240
<v Speaker 6>didn't understand what it is. I didn't come into this

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<v Speaker 6>understanding like, hey, this is what an activation is. Like

1:15:18.000 --> 1:15:20.040
<v Speaker 6>I had to be explained to something. Like I sat

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<v Speaker 6>down with someone and they were just like, oh, well,

1:15:22.280 --> 1:15:25.360
<v Speaker 6>you're looking to do activations and like what the hell

1:15:25.400 --> 1:15:27.680
<v Speaker 6>is an activation? And so I was just looking it up.

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<v Speaker 6>So yeah, so I'm starting a company where I am

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<v Speaker 6>going the ideas to go on tour with different artists

1:15:38.720 --> 1:15:43.120
<v Speaker 6>and to interact with their general admission fans through just

1:15:43.160 --> 1:15:48.439
<v Speaker 6>different activations, like different games, different surprise merch giveaways, you know,

1:15:48.640 --> 1:15:53.640
<v Speaker 6>just different interesting, like cool things, and it's all curated

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<v Speaker 6>like directly to the artists and their fan base because

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<v Speaker 6>they're not going to you know, you're not going to

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<v Speaker 6>be interacting with let's say, Jimmy Buffett's fans. You're not

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<v Speaker 6>going to be interacting with his fans the same way

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<v Speaker 6>that you would with like I don't know, like I

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<v Speaker 6>don't know, Pink Floyds fans or whatever like something like that.

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<v Speaker 6>So it's all curated directly to the artists and their

1:16:20.320 --> 1:16:23.920
<v Speaker 6>fan bases to like what they want to do. And

1:16:23.960 --> 1:16:26.680
<v Speaker 6>it's all pre show. It's it's pre show because you

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<v Speaker 6>have to think about it, like you have doors that

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<v Speaker 6>open typically like so you as I don't know if

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<v Speaker 6>this is how it works for comedy, but like for artists,

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<v Speaker 6>typically they'll get in you know, around like an hour

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<v Speaker 6>or two, a couple hours before doors open so that

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<v Speaker 6>they can go in for sound check and set up

1:16:45.720 --> 1:16:52.120
<v Speaker 6>and do everything. And but doors will open at like

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<v Speaker 6>let's say the show's at eight. Doors will open at six,

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<v Speaker 6>so they they all have from six until eight o'clock

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<v Speaker 6>to either find their seat, to sit and figure out

1:17:02.760 --> 1:17:06.559
<v Speaker 6>what they're doing, and then you know, you find your seat.

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<v Speaker 6>And I'm not necessarily an anti social person, but I'm like,

1:17:10.400 --> 1:17:12.200
<v Speaker 6>I don't want to talk to the person that I'm

1:17:12.240 --> 1:17:15.479
<v Speaker 6>sitting next to if I can come with them. But so,

1:17:15.720 --> 1:17:20.640
<v Speaker 6>like you have, there's there's a missed marketing opportunity in

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<v Speaker 6>my opinion, to where you can just get two hours

1:17:25.320 --> 1:17:29.040
<v Speaker 6>of you know, and not you have two hours that

1:17:29.080 --> 1:17:32.679
<v Speaker 6>you're missing in between when doors open and then when

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<v Speaker 6>the actually show actually start marketing.

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<v Speaker 2>What are we what are we supposed to market?

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<v Speaker 6>It's well, I mean it's not necessarily it's marketing in

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<v Speaker 6>the sense that you are just strengthening your fan base.

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<v Speaker 6>I'm not saying you like this totally. I promise you.

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<v Speaker 6>This is not a pitch, Like I just wanted to

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<v Speaker 6>come here and just explain it the like you're it

1:17:55.640 --> 1:17:59.080
<v Speaker 6>would be your fan base, your your marketing. Like let's

1:17:59.080 --> 1:18:01.920
<v Speaker 6>say you have an album release and whatever, and you're

1:18:02.160 --> 1:18:05.800
<v Speaker 6>you're solely doing something for the album release, like a

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<v Speaker 6>I don't know, you have like a song or something

1:18:09.439 --> 1:18:11.800
<v Speaker 6>that you really want to push, but it's it's kind

1:18:11.840 --> 1:18:15.080
<v Speaker 6>of you know, you're really trying to get it out there.

1:18:17.400 --> 1:18:21.040
<v Speaker 6>You know, you do stuff based on that, that the

1:18:21.160 --> 1:18:23.599
<v Speaker 6>album or the song. So if you wanted to look

1:18:23.640 --> 1:18:26.800
<v Speaker 6>at it from like a marketing standpoint, then that's that's

1:18:26.840 --> 1:18:31.920
<v Speaker 6>what you would do. But from like a fan engagement standpoint,

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<v Speaker 6>you're just looking to just connect all the fans in

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<v Speaker 6>every way.

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<v Speaker 2>Wait, okay, so hold on, hold on, hold on here,

1:18:39.000 --> 1:18:39.719
<v Speaker 2>hold on here, what's.

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<v Speaker 6>Your Yeah, my name's Billy.

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<v Speaker 2>Billy, I gotta be honest with you. Well, so what, so,

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<v Speaker 2>what the hell are you actually talking about?

1:18:48.200 --> 1:18:48.439
<v Speaker 1>What are you?

1:18:48.520 --> 1:18:50.600
<v Speaker 2>What are you supposed to? What are you supposed to

1:18:50.640 --> 1:18:53.480
<v Speaker 2>be doing during this time? What is the marketing opportunity?

1:18:53.479 --> 1:18:54.479
<v Speaker 2>What are we what are we doing?

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<v Speaker 6>It's so the marketing opportunity is too for fans to

1:19:00.600 --> 1:19:03.680
<v Speaker 6>just interact with, so I would be an extension of

1:19:03.720 --> 1:19:11.519
<v Speaker 6>the artist, and the marketing opportunity is to just connect

1:19:11.560 --> 1:19:15.240
<v Speaker 6>with general emission fans so that it's like on on,

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<v Speaker 6>like pre show.

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<v Speaker 2>Okay, So so the the idea is like, all right,

1:19:21.600 --> 1:19:24.080
<v Speaker 2>so if I have my live show and the door

1:19:24.120 --> 1:19:25.880
<v Speaker 2>is open at seven, but the show is at eight.

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<v Speaker 2>I just I just chat with people from seven to eight.

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<v Speaker 6>No, no, no, no, that's where I come in, because

1:19:32.920 --> 1:19:35.880
<v Speaker 6>you have I'm saying, you know, as as the artist.

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<v Speaker 6>We'll just say the artist. The artist is getting ready,

1:19:40.240 --> 1:19:43.840
<v Speaker 6>being like prepping for the show, just getting ready in

1:19:43.920 --> 1:19:46.439
<v Speaker 6>the green room, you know, just doing their thing. They

1:19:46.479 --> 1:19:48.000
<v Speaker 6>don't want to It's not that they don't want to

1:19:48.040 --> 1:19:50.760
<v Speaker 6>deal with everybody beforehand, but like, so.

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<v Speaker 2>What, so what are you? What are you supposed to

1:19:53.560 --> 1:19:57.200
<v Speaker 2>do as an extension of the of the artists?

1:19:57.280 --> 1:19:57.599
<v Speaker 1>Yeah?

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<v Speaker 6>So I play games with I play predetermined games with

1:20:02.280 --> 1:20:06.200
<v Speaker 6>the general emission fan base. That's like at the show.

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<v Speaker 3>Does this? Does this make sense?

1:20:07.920 --> 1:20:10.000
<v Speaker 2>You're like a pre show jesture.

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<v Speaker 6>Yeah, sure, if you want to put it that way.

1:20:14.800 --> 1:20:17.839
<v Speaker 2>That makes that makes some sense, That makes some sense. Yeah,

1:20:18.000 --> 1:20:25.320
<v Speaker 2>what's yeah? Okay, that makes some sense. Would you you play?

1:20:25.479 --> 1:20:27.160
<v Speaker 2>So you play games with?

1:20:27.520 --> 1:20:27.600
<v Speaker 3>So?

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<v Speaker 2>All right, so let's say the fans are going to

1:20:30.760 --> 1:20:35.040
<v Speaker 2>go see uh the I don't why do why? Why

1:20:35.080 --> 1:20:37.000
<v Speaker 2>can't I name a single band?

1:20:37.040 --> 1:20:37.360
<v Speaker 3>All right?

1:20:37.400 --> 1:20:39.479
<v Speaker 2>Let's say we're going to go see The Grateful Dead

1:20:40.600 --> 1:20:44.800
<v Speaker 2>and we're there two hours early. You come over and

1:20:44.880 --> 1:20:50.719
<v Speaker 2>you you start playing Grateful Dead themed games with us. Yes, okay,

1:20:50.800 --> 1:20:54.200
<v Speaker 2>that's fun. I like that that could work. Yeah, can

1:20:54.240 --> 1:20:56.560
<v Speaker 2>we win? I can we win the prizes?

1:20:58.080 --> 1:20:58.439
<v Speaker 3>Yeah?

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<v Speaker 6>So that's that's exactly what it. So you go and

1:21:01.320 --> 1:21:04.519
<v Speaker 6>it's all predetermined, like I would work on the like

1:21:04.680 --> 1:21:10.240
<v Speaker 6>with artists and their team to then go and say, hey,

1:21:10.320 --> 1:21:12.080
<v Speaker 6>you know this is what we know. You have a

1:21:12.080 --> 1:21:14.960
<v Speaker 6>show coming up on X y Z date right, and

1:21:15.000 --> 1:21:19.120
<v Speaker 6>then it's like, well, we have preset giveaways and you know,

1:21:19.320 --> 1:21:23.960
<v Speaker 6>like different, I have a if you've ever seen one

1:21:24.000 --> 1:21:26.920
<v Speaker 6>of them spinning wheel things, like the colorful spinning wheel things,

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<v Speaker 6>I have one of them with like the whiteboard things.

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<v Speaker 6>Well right on it.

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<v Speaker 2>Well, well, Billy, look well I'll say this is I

1:21:34.960 --> 1:21:38.000
<v Speaker 2>think if you can if I like, if I were

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<v Speaker 2>on the Shark Tank right and you were pitching me

1:21:40.240 --> 1:21:46.360
<v Speaker 2>this idea, I would say something like, you know, well, normally, see,

1:21:46.360 --> 1:21:49.040
<v Speaker 2>here's the thing is, this is already normally when people

1:21:49.120 --> 1:21:51.599
<v Speaker 2>arrive early to a show, they already have a thing

1:21:51.640 --> 1:21:58.920
<v Speaker 2>that they do, which is they get really drunk. Also,

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<v Speaker 2>I'll say this, Billy, I'll say this before we go,

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<v Speaker 2>is if you can come up with an idea for

1:22:05.920 --> 1:22:10.679
<v Speaker 2>a pre show thing that is more fun than getting

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<v Speaker 2>really drunk. Then you got yourself a good idea in

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<v Speaker 2>your hands.

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<v Speaker 3>Cool.

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<v Speaker 2>But I I but I I you know. I wish

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<v Speaker 2>you good luck with this idea. I wish you good

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<v Speaker 2>luck with this idea.

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<v Speaker 3>Thank you.

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<v Speaker 2>I appreciate Is there is there anything else you want

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<v Speaker 2>to say to the people of the computer before we go.

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<v Speaker 6>Not to the computer.

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<v Speaker 1>I do have a quick.

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<v Speaker 2>Question for you, though, Yeah, please hit me.

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<v Speaker 3>So.

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<v Speaker 6>For the longest time I've been trying.

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<v Speaker 5>To figure and if you can't say, then that's fine.

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<v Speaker 6>For the longest time, I've been trying to figure out

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<v Speaker 6>what the background music is with the flute.

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<v Speaker 3>That is that a topic?

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<v Speaker 6>Is that a no go topic?

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<v Speaker 2>If you go to the music, if you go to

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<v Speaker 2>YouTube and you search royalty free jazz music, it's one

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<v Speaker 2>of those. That's what I did. Okay, so I went

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<v Speaker 2>to Royalty Free Jazz music and so it's one of those.

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<v Speaker 2>It's one of those.

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<v Speaker 6>Cool, awesome, all right, cool, thanks Lyle. I really appreciate you.

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<v Speaker 2>Of course, take care, Billy, bye bye.

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<v Speaker 3>I have a good one. Bite.

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<v Speaker 2>That's an interesting idea. I hope he makes it. I

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<v Speaker 2>hope it works. Maybe that's funny. Maybe next maybe next year,

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<v Speaker 2>when you go to a Therapy Gecko show, Billy will

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<v Speaker 2>be out there juggling and playing Tic Tac dough with everyone,

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<v Speaker 2>and everyone will be you know, this is actually a

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<v Speaker 2>pretty good idea. Hello, folks, it's Lyle here. That's the

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<v Speaker 2>why why are you? Why are you financially supporting this person?

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<v Speaker 1>Uh? I completely love her.

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<v Speaker 2>To guess here's what I'm gonna do. I'm gonna I'm

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<v Speaker 2>just gonna tell you a bunch of stuff. I'm just

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<v Speaker 2>gonna rant at you for a second. U Right, Okay,

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<v Speaker 2>you gotta at a certain point be able to protect

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<v Speaker 2>your own peace right because you're just You're only fucking

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<v Speaker 2>nineteen and she's only fucking nineteen. And it's great that

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<v Speaker 2>you love each other, but you both have to like

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<v Speaker 2>figure out your own shit before you try to, you know,

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<v Speaker 2>support somebody else. Man, you have nothing to give. You

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<v Speaker 2>have nothing else to say.

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<v Speaker 1>Therepy goes on the line, taking your phone calls every night.

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<v Speaker 2>Therepy goes to a side.

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<v Speaker 4>He's teaching you Cloud in the mead of your life,

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<v Speaker 4>but he's not really an expert.