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Speaker 1: Hello, Uh, Hi, can you hear me? Hi?

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Speaker 2: Hey, I can. What's your name?

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Speaker 3: Uh?

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Speaker 2: Let's go with Jack, Jack. What's up Jack? That sounds

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Speaker 2: like something Joe. That sounds like something Joe Biden would say,

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Speaker 2: what's up Jack?

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Speaker 3: How you doing?

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Speaker 2: How's life?

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Speaker 1: Well, you know, it's it's upset, it's up, it's it stuns.

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Speaker 3: Up and down.

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Speaker 1: Found Uh lately I've actually kind of texted you, uh

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Speaker 1: some kind of broad strokes information about myself.

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Speaker 2: Uh well, I I I did not get your text?

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Speaker 2: Why don't you? Why don't you say it to us again?

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Speaker 1: Fair enough? Uh? So I'm an earth relatively new uh

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Speaker 1: started about a year ago. Uh, but I've been out

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Speaker 1: of work lately because of the knee injury, because of

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Speaker 1: a fight that I didn't want to get involved in,

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Speaker 1: but bachnically want until I got until other people stepped in.

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Speaker 1: Oh and I also recently lost my virginity.

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Speaker 2: You recently lost your virginity?

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Speaker 1: Yeah?

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Speaker 3: Yeah, yeah, I know.

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Speaker 2: How how is that? Tell me that? Tell me tell

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Speaker 2: me all the juicy details if you so desire.

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Speaker 1: Well, I mean technically nobody knows me, so why not?

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Speaker 1: It was a wonderful time. It was actually a first

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Speaker 1: date with a co worker, and you know, I would

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Speaker 1: have just been happy with just like a you know,

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Speaker 1: a date. But uh, you know, we were watching some anime,

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Speaker 1: some I think with death Notes, and eventually we started

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Speaker 1: to get a little freaky and uh yeah it was

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Speaker 1: pretty awesome. And uh, well what's really cool is there

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Speaker 1: seems to be a little uh spark between us, like, uh,

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Speaker 1: you know, we really enjoy each other's personality, like we

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Speaker 1: were co workers for like a year before we even

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Speaker 2: Wow. Pretty cool, Pretty cool. All right, So this isn't

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Speaker 2: just a uh uh an anime induced sexual rendezvous. This

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Speaker 1: I mean, don't get me wrong, those animated cities probably helped,

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Speaker 1: but I mean no, I think, uh, I mean, I think,

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Speaker 1: I mean because you really like you are the only

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Speaker 1: works a lot, which you know I give you know,

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Speaker 1: she she had a kid, so I mean she's gotta

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Speaker 1: you know, you know I want to see her. I

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Speaker 1: don't think uh yeah, no, no, no, it's like get dead.

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Speaker 1: You gotta take care of that kid. But I don't know.

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Speaker 1: I mean, you know what I mean, I'm trying to

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Speaker 1: be respectful dead, but it's also like I want to

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Speaker 1: spend time with her, And TJ also went to say,

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Speaker 1: that's like I really want to spend time with you too.

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Speaker 2: Interesting interesting, interesting.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, So it's like we both want it. We both

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Speaker 1: get there's natural reasons why there's barriers. We're both readable adults.

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Speaker 1: It's just we want to see each other more. It

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Speaker 1: would be nice.

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Speaker 2: What is the how many times have you guys rendezvous?

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Speaker 1: Oh? Well the first uh well, after that first day,

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Speaker 1: my parents were out of town for quite a few days,

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Speaker 1: we made good ships to that pretty good uh yeah, yeah,

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Speaker 1: but uh we have I have that on taking her

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Speaker 1: to well. I guess I shouldn't say excadinly why it

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Speaker 1: I've gentually been doing daily walks for about a mile

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Speaker 2: Mmm all right, so let me let me recap this.

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Speaker 2: All right, So you're taking this lady out on a

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Speaker 1: That, something like it. It's like a light show type thing.

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Speaker 2: Oh, very cool, very nice, guys. What I mean, you

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Speaker 2: what do you guys work at?

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Speaker 3: Like?

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Speaker 2: What kind of industry.

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Speaker 1: We work at? We both work in a hospital. We

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Speaker 2: Oh, holy fucking tits. Ye that's that's huge. That's a lot. Yeah, okay,

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Speaker 2: So you're both busy medical professionals and she has a kid.

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Speaker 1: Oh yeah, and she also had a second job that

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Speaker 1: she actually is gonna be starting back up soon too.

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Speaker 1: So it's like if I think she's busy, now, oh

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Speaker 2: Yeah, okay, but you're getting the vibe from her, because

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Speaker 1: Blowing you off. She's like like a teddy bear. She's

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Speaker 1: And I also really think that she had a problem.

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Speaker 1: She she hasn't been she had had ashe was just

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Speaker 2: Mm hmmm mm hmm. And so hmmm, uh how long

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Speaker 2: have you guys? So you got but you guys are

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Speaker 2: not like in a religious a fairly new thing happening.

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Speaker 2: But yeah, you're trying to you're trying to invest in

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Speaker 1: Yeah. Well, and also she was telling me about how

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Speaker 1: her one day, I really want to spoil you. It's

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Speaker 1: You never spoiled you. Never like you know, gate never

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Speaker 1: like gave you a bunch of like nice things. I'm like,

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Speaker 2: Okay, So you you're telling this lady, You're like, I

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Speaker 2: Cool man, cool, This sounds nice. This sounds nice. So

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Speaker 1: So it's like and she's really understanding of Also it's like, well,

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Speaker 1: I'm still trying to figure out what exactly is the

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Speaker 1: but it's also like, you know, I've never had these

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Speaker 2: Yeah, totally totally can ask how old you are?

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Speaker 1: Going on?

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Speaker 2: Really cool, very nice, very nice.

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Speaker 1: Right, here's a great thing about many it's now it's

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Speaker 1: not up because I used to be a virgin. Now

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Speaker 1: I'm an authentic man.

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Speaker 2: Very good, very nice. Do you feel different? Do you

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Speaker 1: Well, you know, honestly, there's this great analogy I've heard

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Speaker 1: It's like going to New York. You know, it's a

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Speaker 2: Right? Right, No, yes, you you're You're the same guy

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Speaker 2: It didn't. It didn't didn't really mature. It didn't. It doesn't. Yeah,

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Speaker 1: Yeah, well, well one thing it did change. I found

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Speaker 1: Basically I had like a maybe subpart uh, you know,

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Speaker 1: Well, I would say, dude, but.

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Speaker 2: Pretty good, pretty good. You saw well, look whether or

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Speaker 2: or life defining. It sounds like you're having a good time.

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Speaker 2: That's what matters.

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Speaker 1: I mean they barely elevated me after my knee got

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Speaker 1: Uh mainly that didn't that that didn't make me feel

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Speaker 2: And who who? Tell me more about who? Who is

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Speaker 2: this lady that you're seeing that as the kid, Like,

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Speaker 2: what's her? What's her deal?

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Speaker 3: Uh?

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Speaker 1: Well, she's been working as uh well, she's the work

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Speaker 1: I was working there. She'sn uh she's very uh health

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Speaker 1: But yeoing, it's going well. I mean, you know it

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Speaker 2: Wait which guy someone gave you a bad name?

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Speaker 5: Well?

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Speaker 1: Yeah, because that's what's going Why I have to have

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Speaker 2: Right, right, right, right right right? Did you tell me

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Speaker 2: Yeah, what happened with the fight? What?

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Speaker 3: So?

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Speaker 1: Okay, So I was down to the parade. I was

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Speaker 2: So, okay, hold on, I don't understand. I don't understand here.

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Speaker 2: You're at a parade, you're drunk. Why does he start

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Speaker 3: Is it?

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Speaker 2: Did you bump?

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Speaker 1: No? No, no, no no no he no, he's drunk. I'm

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Speaker 1: just like, I'm just like a little bit buzz maybe

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Speaker 2: Okay, so how did you So why did he But

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Speaker 1: Because he was drunk as hell and just with with

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Speaker 2: Hmm. Okay, so he was so okay, So you're telling

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Speaker 1: No, no, no, I was literally just passing this dude

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Speaker 1: But he was drunk and I did know what he

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Speaker 1: But I mean.

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Speaker 2: You're and you're telling you're telling me that the first

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Speaker 3: Uh?

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Speaker 1: The first time I did was well, basically, he swung

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Speaker 2: But still hope whoever, I hope, whoever is like in

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Speaker 2: But now, okay, so you grabbed the back of his

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Speaker 1: But uh, you know, he was swinging at me for

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Speaker 2: Pretty good? Pretty good.

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Speaker 1: It's even a video of it if you want to

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Speaker 2: But I mean, yeah, sure, yeah, you can, you can

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Speaker 1: Sure if it's just in the in the text.

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Speaker 2: Option with the sure, sure you can text that to me?

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Speaker 2: Wait can I can you text it to me right now?

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Speaker 2: And then I can live react to it?

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Speaker 1: Yeah? Yeah, absolutely, I mean I had pulled out really quick.

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Speaker 1: I have it. Take here some okay, Yeah.

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Speaker 2: I want to see this video of you beating this

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Speaker 1: It's uh, it's rude, I will say it's. Uh. It

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Speaker 2: Gonna be honest, it went viral like oh you where

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Speaker 2: where did you put it online?

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Speaker 1: I didn't do do anything. A bunch of other people,

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Speaker 1: like we were surrounded, sorry, doing a kind of same thing.

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Speaker 2: Let's see here. Okay, so you're on motherfucking world star here.

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Speaker 1: Something like that for sure. Oh, here's one of them.

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Speaker 1: Here's one of them, all.

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Speaker 2: Right, send it over. Yeah, let's see here, all right.

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Speaker 2: And okay, I'm actually looking at the text that you

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Speaker 2: listening to a lot of smooth jazz while taking weed

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Speaker 2: and nitrous. Okay, that sounds fun. All right, Let's see

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Speaker 2: this video that's on facebookund amazing. Oh all right, hold on,

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Speaker 2: let's see this. Hold on, Hold okay. The first I

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Speaker 2: did they both lose?

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Speaker 1: All right? Hold on? Well, well it's funny because it's

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Speaker 1: if it shows.

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Speaker 2: Sure we're actually really beating the ship out of this guy. Wow.

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Speaker 1: I wasn't gonna play fight mood, and I felt like

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Speaker 2: this sort of a high school. Where the fuck is this?

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00:21:38,640 --> 00:21:39,879
Speaker 1: How kind of a gas station?

443
00:21:42,040 --> 00:21:44,159
Speaker 2: Jesus Christ. You know this guy is like a lot

444
00:21:44,160 --> 00:21:44,960
Speaker 2: bigger than you too.

445
00:21:46,920 --> 00:21:49,160
Speaker 1: And I mean, I don't want to say too much,

446
00:21:49,200 --> 00:21:50,960
Speaker 1: but apparently he might have been a member of something

447
00:21:51,080 --> 00:21:51,480
Speaker 1: or something.

448
00:21:52,520 --> 00:21:52,840
Speaker 3: I don't know.

449
00:21:53,000 --> 00:21:56,000
Speaker 2: I don't know what that even means. Oh wait, okay,

450
00:21:56,640 --> 00:21:58,960
Speaker 2: he's pinned you, but he's on top of you. Now,

451
00:22:00,240 --> 00:22:05,000
Speaker 2: Oh yeah, he's stomping on you. Wait, hold on, hold

452
00:22:05,880 --> 00:22:07,440
Speaker 2: hold on. What's your name again, dude?

453
00:22:08,960 --> 00:22:10,680
Speaker 1: Uh? Jack? Jack?

454
00:22:10,760 --> 00:22:12,560
Speaker 2: I don't think you won this fight?

455
00:22:14,680 --> 00:22:18,080
Speaker 1: Well well again, well again, well again. I had in

456
00:22:18,160 --> 00:22:19,600
Speaker 1: control till the one dude jumped in.

457
00:22:20,280 --> 00:22:23,320
Speaker 2: Jack. I don't think Jack, I don't think you won

458
00:22:23,440 --> 00:22:24,080
Speaker 2: this fight.

459
00:22:24,240 --> 00:22:24,480
Speaker 1: Man.

460
00:22:24,880 --> 00:22:30,679
Speaker 2: This ended with this guy stop stomping on you, dude.

461
00:22:31,520 --> 00:22:33,960
Speaker 1: And believe it or not, the stopping barely did anything.

462
00:22:34,560 --> 00:22:39,080
Speaker 2: Uh let's see. Okay, I'm reading the comments. Now, why

463
00:22:39,119 --> 00:22:41,560
Speaker 2: are you guys saying they both lost? The big goofy

464
00:22:41,600 --> 00:22:48,919
Speaker 2: man got put on his face. That's extremely funny. Okay,

465
00:22:49,040 --> 00:22:54,879
Speaker 2: well now you got him. You had him in the

466
00:22:54,920 --> 00:22:57,520
Speaker 2: first half, though, I.

467
00:22:57,480 --> 00:22:59,960
Speaker 1: Mean, well, yeah, I mean what happened?

468
00:23:00,040 --> 00:23:00,639
Speaker 6: What I get what?

469
00:23:00,840 --> 00:23:03,199
Speaker 1: I should have just left him down, you know, I

470
00:23:03,240 --> 00:23:05,639
Speaker 1: got you know, I basically gave him my lege. That

471
00:23:05,760 --> 00:23:08,680
Speaker 1: was not my issue.

472
00:23:10,040 --> 00:23:14,199
Speaker 2: Wow, well, I feel like, uh, this is so this

473
00:23:14,280 --> 00:23:18,280
Speaker 2: is extremely funny. Are you are you okay? Well, look Jack,

474
00:23:18,480 --> 00:23:23,399
Speaker 2: I mean you you you had sex, you have a job,

475
00:23:23,680 --> 00:23:27,760
Speaker 2: or you have money coming in? Are you tell me

476
00:23:27,840 --> 00:23:31,159
Speaker 2: before we go? Are you planning on is? Did you

477
00:23:31,160 --> 00:23:33,240
Speaker 2: get everything out of your system? Are you ready to

478
00:23:33,280 --> 00:23:35,800
Speaker 2: not fight people anymore? Or or should the folks?

479
00:23:35,960 --> 00:23:37,960
Speaker 1: I didn't want to fight that dude to begin with that.

480
00:23:38,200 --> 00:23:41,560
Speaker 2: I was, bro, you look in the video you look

481
00:23:41,720 --> 00:23:43,200
Speaker 2: very excited to fight this guy.

482
00:23:45,119 --> 00:23:47,879
Speaker 1: No, No, what I looked like with pissed off, like

483
00:23:47,960 --> 00:23:50,440
Speaker 1: he was annoying the fuck out of me. I told him,

484
00:23:50,520 --> 00:23:52,480
Speaker 1: leave me alone. I'm not in a playfy mood. He

485
00:23:52,520 --> 00:23:54,240
Speaker 1: can't follow followed me.

486
00:23:55,800 --> 00:23:59,680
Speaker 2: He told he unfortunate. Look, believe whatever you want. But

487
00:24:00,080 --> 00:24:02,680
Speaker 2: he kind of looks like he won the fight. He

488
00:24:03,440 --> 00:24:05,199
Speaker 2: was at the by the end of the fight, you

489
00:24:05,280 --> 00:24:08,399
Speaker 2: were on the ground and he was stomping on you

490
00:24:08,480 --> 00:24:10,639
Speaker 2: and people had to take him away.

491
00:24:12,080 --> 00:24:16,040
Speaker 1: Yeah. Yeah, Well, well when he taggled into me when

492
00:24:16,040 --> 00:24:22,080
Speaker 1: I was doing my atl Yeah so I good. Understanding

493
00:24:22,240 --> 00:24:26,160
Speaker 1: was kind of difficult by that point.

494
00:24:26,440 --> 00:24:31,359
Speaker 2: Well, Jack stay out of trouble. Hopefully you and this

495
00:24:31,520 --> 00:24:35,399
Speaker 2: girl will get married and have beautiful children in a

496
00:24:35,440 --> 00:24:39,399
Speaker 2: beautiful life, or he'll be a beautiful step dad. Is

497
00:24:39,400 --> 00:24:40,680
Speaker 2: there anything else you want to say to the people

498
00:24:40,680 --> 00:24:41,680
Speaker 2: of the computer before we go?

499
00:24:45,400 --> 00:24:48,480
Speaker 1: Yeah, be smart out there.

500
00:24:48,520 --> 00:24:51,840
Speaker 3: It's dangerous, all right.

501
00:24:51,880 --> 00:24:53,320
Speaker 2: Well, take care, Jack, good.

502
00:24:53,280 --> 00:24:56,600
Speaker 1: Luck you as well, Gek you as well. I wish

503
00:24:56,640 --> 00:24:58,480
Speaker 1: you blessings on blessings.

504
00:24:58,800 --> 00:24:59,880
Speaker 2: Hey, you two men, take care.

505
00:25:00,960 --> 00:25:01,720
Speaker 1: I bet that.

506
00:25:03,880 --> 00:25:06,080
Speaker 2: For respect of that guy's privacy, I'm not going to

507
00:25:06,080 --> 00:25:09,040
Speaker 2: share the video, but I do wish that I could

508
00:25:09,080 --> 00:25:13,760
Speaker 2: jump somehow show it to the listeners. It is funny

509
00:25:13,760 --> 00:25:16,560
Speaker 2: because now that I watched that video where he pretty

510
00:25:16,560 --> 00:25:21,200
Speaker 2: clearly lost to the fight, it brings into credible I'm

511
00:25:21,200 --> 00:25:25,000
Speaker 2: not Here's the thing I'm when this podcast as a whole.

512
00:25:25,080 --> 00:25:29,760
Speaker 2: I'm not a big I'm not big on pressing people

513
00:25:29,800 --> 00:25:31,320
Speaker 2: as to whether or not I believe that they are

514
00:25:31,320 --> 00:25:35,600
Speaker 2: telling the truth. But it does bring into question. It

515
00:25:35,640 --> 00:25:44,520
Speaker 2: does bring this gentleman's credibility into question. He probably had sex.

516
00:25:44,680 --> 00:25:47,120
Speaker 2: Even if it didn't have whatever, whatever this man did

517
00:25:47,119 --> 00:25:51,440
Speaker 2: with his life was probably fine. I wish him good luck.

518
00:25:52,240 --> 00:25:54,240
Speaker 2: I hope he had hope he continues to have sex.

519
00:25:55,080 --> 00:25:59,640
Speaker 2: I hope he stays out of fights and uh may

520
00:25:59,680 --> 00:26:04,400
Speaker 2: ill oh bless him. Hello, Hey, what's up man? What's

521
00:26:04,400 --> 00:26:09,160
Speaker 2: your name? I'll go by Chudley, Chudley? What's happened in Shudley?

522
00:26:09,200 --> 00:26:11,520
Speaker 2: How can I? How can I get you today? What's

523
00:26:11,560 --> 00:26:13,160
Speaker 2: going on with you? Sir?

524
00:26:13,520 --> 00:26:13,720
Speaker 5: Oh.

525
00:26:15,000 --> 00:26:17,159
Speaker 3: I have been really vibing with the conversations you've been

526
00:26:17,160 --> 00:26:19,400
Speaker 3: having lately with the last couple of people about kind

527
00:26:19,440 --> 00:26:23,159
Speaker 3: of having a decent or good life. I feel like

528
00:26:23,240 --> 00:26:26,520
Speaker 3: that arc from people being like, oh, my life's really

529
00:26:26,520 --> 00:26:29,560
Speaker 3: shitty to kind of finding that like piece and redemption,

530
00:26:30,000 --> 00:26:32,399
Speaker 3: like whether it be through Like I've been really vibing

531
00:26:32,440 --> 00:26:34,120
Speaker 3: with the talk about SSR eyes.

532
00:26:35,040 --> 00:26:36,160
Speaker 2: I work in the medical.

533
00:26:35,840 --> 00:26:39,200
Speaker 3: Field, so it's always like yeah, it's always like I

534
00:26:39,240 --> 00:26:41,920
Speaker 3: don't know, people like villainize it because I work in

535
00:26:41,960 --> 00:26:43,440
Speaker 3: the emergency room. So you see a lot of people

536
00:26:43,440 --> 00:26:45,520
Speaker 3: who come in with like you know, they're on like

537
00:26:45,560 --> 00:26:48,199
Speaker 3: a huge list of these SSR eyes, and people just

538
00:26:48,200 --> 00:26:50,679
Speaker 3: see them as crazy. So it's kind of nice to

539
00:26:50,680 --> 00:26:53,399
Speaker 3: be able to see like, no, this actually helps like

540
00:26:53,440 --> 00:26:56,480
Speaker 3: normal people, Like this is you know, something very helpful

541
00:26:56,520 --> 00:27:00,760
Speaker 3: and not just his zombie drug to make crazy people

542
00:27:00,800 --> 00:27:01,400
Speaker 3: not crazy.

543
00:27:01,520 --> 00:27:06,320
Speaker 2: So yeah, yeah, yeah, I don't know. I mean, I'm

544
00:27:06,359 --> 00:27:11,080
Speaker 2: on my own ssri I journey right now. Who fucking

545
00:27:11,160 --> 00:27:13,800
Speaker 2: knows where it's gonna lead. But I mean, are you

546
00:27:13,920 --> 00:27:17,520
Speaker 2: do you are you into pills? Do you like popping pills.

547
00:27:19,080 --> 00:27:21,480
Speaker 3: For a little bit. I was just doing like they

548
00:27:21,520 --> 00:27:23,440
Speaker 3: have like anti anxiety mens. I don't know if you've

549
00:27:23,440 --> 00:27:26,440
Speaker 3: ever heard of like like people sometimes people use like bendryl.

550
00:27:26,520 --> 00:27:28,920
Speaker 3: You can use like super simple like allergy meds is

551
00:27:29,000 --> 00:27:31,560
Speaker 3: like a way to like calm yourself down. Like when

552
00:27:31,560 --> 00:27:34,120
Speaker 3: I was in college, I used to Yeah, it's it's

553
00:27:34,119 --> 00:27:36,400
Speaker 3: pretty nice. Well it's not gnarly. It's actually really cool

554
00:27:36,400 --> 00:27:40,479
Speaker 3: because they're they're like as needed use. You know how

555
00:27:40,560 --> 00:27:42,240
Speaker 3: like with your meds right now, you probably have to

556
00:27:42,240 --> 00:27:44,040
Speaker 3: take them for like six weeks before you start seeing

557
00:27:44,119 --> 00:27:45,120
Speaker 3: like any kind of effect.

558
00:27:45,720 --> 00:27:47,720
Speaker 2: Yeah.

559
00:27:46,400 --> 00:27:49,760
Speaker 3: Yeah, these ones you can take like you're like, holy shit,

560
00:27:49,800 --> 00:27:51,680
Speaker 3: I feel like I'm gonna like puke from how much

561
00:27:51,720 --> 00:27:54,080
Speaker 3: I'm like shaking. So you could be like, all right, cool,

562
00:27:54,119 --> 00:27:56,840
Speaker 3: I'm just gonna take one of these and then I'll

563
00:27:56,840 --> 00:27:57,720
Speaker 3: feel a little bit better.

564
00:27:58,320 --> 00:28:00,240
Speaker 2: Well that's the thing is they tell you they're like, yeah,

565
00:28:00,240 --> 00:28:01,920
Speaker 2: it's gonna start working in six weeks, and I'm like,

566
00:28:01,960 --> 00:28:04,119
Speaker 2: who the fuck has six weeks?

567
00:28:04,640 --> 00:28:07,960
Speaker 3: Right? It's it's And then sometimes what happens is after

568
00:28:08,040 --> 00:28:09,880
Speaker 3: six weeks is up, You're like, well, fuck, I don't

569
00:28:09,880 --> 00:28:11,960
Speaker 3: feel any different, so now I gotta shine new one.

570
00:28:12,320 --> 00:28:16,240
Speaker 2: Oh Jesus Christ, I don't know. I I kind of

571
00:28:16,359 --> 00:28:19,320
Speaker 2: talked about this to freaking death on this show. But

572
00:28:19,400 --> 00:28:22,520
Speaker 2: it's like, I who knows, if you know, I don't know,

573
00:28:22,520 --> 00:28:25,320
Speaker 2: if I don't know if having a magic pill is

574
00:28:25,359 --> 00:28:29,359
Speaker 2: going to fix everything. It's it's uh, it's a little

575
00:28:29,359 --> 00:28:37,320
Speaker 2: bit of a balancing act. But what's your name again, Chudley, Chudley? Well,

576
00:28:37,320 --> 00:28:40,160
Speaker 2: tell me about yourself, Chudley, what's going? Who are you?

577
00:28:40,480 --> 00:28:41,479
Speaker 2: Who are you? Chudley?

578
00:28:42,720 --> 00:28:48,840
Speaker 3: Well? I guess currently, I don't know how I describe myself.

579
00:28:48,920 --> 00:28:50,520
Speaker 3: I work in and you are I want to go

580
00:28:50,600 --> 00:28:54,520
Speaker 3: into medicine. I'm applying a medical school, so that's the plan,

581
00:28:55,960 --> 00:28:59,200
Speaker 3: but my work kind of I don't know if you've

582
00:28:59,200 --> 00:29:00,720
Speaker 3: ever worked a job or kind of been in like

583
00:29:00,720 --> 00:29:02,120
Speaker 3: a field where you're like, this is what I want

584
00:29:02,120 --> 00:29:03,520
Speaker 3: to get into. Like, I know you've talked about doing

585
00:29:03,520 --> 00:29:06,080
Speaker 3: film and comedy, and then you actually see like the

586
00:29:06,160 --> 00:29:09,000
Speaker 3: nitty gritty of it, like the I guess, for lack

587
00:29:09,000 --> 00:29:11,200
Speaker 3: of better words, of blood and guts and you're like,

588
00:29:11,280 --> 00:29:13,880
Speaker 3: oh fuck, it's just really what I'm cut out to do,

589
00:29:13,960 --> 00:29:16,040
Speaker 3: Like am I really? Am I going to do this

590
00:29:16,080 --> 00:29:18,160
Speaker 3: for the rest of my life? That's kind of where

591
00:29:18,160 --> 00:29:21,600
Speaker 3: I'm at right now. It's not I know, I know

592
00:29:21,640 --> 00:29:23,920
Speaker 3: you've been talking about like the existential dread a lot lately,

593
00:29:24,000 --> 00:29:27,480
Speaker 3: but like it's that's how it feels. Unfortunately, I feel

594
00:29:27,480 --> 00:29:28,960
Speaker 3: like that's the epitomy of kind of what I'm dealing

595
00:29:28,960 --> 00:29:31,680
Speaker 3: with right now. I'm at like that weird liminal like

596
00:29:31,840 --> 00:29:33,840
Speaker 3: do I keep going through this or do I just

597
00:29:33,960 --> 00:29:36,640
Speaker 3: drop everything and do something completely different?

598
00:29:36,840 --> 00:29:40,200
Speaker 2: So uh yeah, yeah, no you can, can't you You

599
00:29:40,320 --> 00:29:41,960
Speaker 2: kind of can get it, get in your head an

600
00:29:41,960 --> 00:29:44,040
Speaker 2: idea of like what a lifestyle is like, or of

601
00:29:44,040 --> 00:29:45,800
Speaker 2: what a path is like, and then right you go

602
00:29:45,840 --> 00:29:48,160
Speaker 2: and you actually see it and you're like, oh fuck,

603
00:29:48,160 --> 00:29:50,600
Speaker 2: I didn't know I had to like actually do things.

604
00:29:51,200 --> 00:29:52,480
Speaker 2: That's a fucking yeah bomber.

605
00:29:53,560 --> 00:29:57,440
Speaker 3: It's it's crazy. I mean, I guess, specifically in the

606
00:29:57,440 --> 00:29:59,320
Speaker 3: New York's I'm like, you're always seeing like the craziest

607
00:29:59,320 --> 00:30:01,840
Speaker 3: shit that's like where you all the crazy stories, like

608
00:30:01,680 --> 00:30:05,520
Speaker 3: I have so many stories, Like it's actually so funny.

609
00:30:05,560 --> 00:30:07,600
Speaker 3: It's like all this crazy shit that you see all

610
00:30:07,640 --> 00:30:10,960
Speaker 3: the time. But then also like some of the doctors

611
00:30:11,000 --> 00:30:13,160
Speaker 3: and they just fucking hate themselves. They just hate their

612
00:30:13,240 --> 00:30:15,640
Speaker 3: jobs and they like hate themselves. They just I feel

613
00:30:15,680 --> 00:30:17,320
Speaker 3: like a lot of those people get into those professions

614
00:30:17,360 --> 00:30:19,280
Speaker 3: and then it's like something you get too far into

615
00:30:19,320 --> 00:30:21,440
Speaker 3: and you're like, well, it's like kind of the sunk

616
00:30:21,480 --> 00:30:23,840
Speaker 3: costs fallacy. You're like, fuck, I'm already too deep in.

617
00:30:24,320 --> 00:30:25,520
Speaker 3: I just have to keep pushing through.

618
00:30:26,360 --> 00:30:29,760
Speaker 2: Okay. It makes you feel like these people hate themselves.

619
00:30:31,320 --> 00:30:34,600
Speaker 3: They speak so poorly of the job, just in the

620
00:30:34,640 --> 00:30:37,160
Speaker 3: sense of like I'm like, you know, we have other people.

621
00:30:37,200 --> 00:30:39,480
Speaker 3: I have worked with other people. I'm a scribe, so

622
00:30:39,520 --> 00:30:42,400
Speaker 3: I'm like a glorified secretary. It's like you just write

623
00:30:42,440 --> 00:30:46,760
Speaker 3: down everything. You're just a con conscientious like spectator. I

624
00:30:46,800 --> 00:30:49,400
Speaker 3: don't touch anyone, I don't do anything. I'm just making

625
00:30:49,400 --> 00:30:52,840
Speaker 3: the charts. So I'm like a quote unquote perspective like

626
00:30:53,360 --> 00:30:55,480
Speaker 3: person for the field. So when I ask some of

627
00:30:55,520 --> 00:30:58,080
Speaker 3: these doctors, I'm like, hey, like I'm super interested in

628
00:30:58,120 --> 00:31:00,200
Speaker 3: doing this I've had people blade us like straight up

629
00:31:00,240 --> 00:31:03,040
Speaker 3: just tell me, like no, don't do it, Like this sucks,

630
00:31:03,080 --> 00:31:04,880
Speaker 3: Like do you see how tired I am? And you

631
00:31:04,920 --> 00:31:07,200
Speaker 3: see like all the crazy shit that's going on, it's

632
00:31:07,240 --> 00:31:09,360
Speaker 3: not gonna get any better, it's just getting worse. So

633
00:31:09,360 --> 00:31:12,440
Speaker 3: they just have this like very distinct like oh man,

634
00:31:12,480 --> 00:31:15,720
Speaker 3: it's like it's like a loading for themselves but also

635
00:31:15,720 --> 00:31:18,320
Speaker 3: for the people around them. They just become horrible, horrible

636
00:31:18,360 --> 00:31:21,960
Speaker 3: pieces of shit, which is like really it's really hard

637
00:31:22,000 --> 00:31:23,520
Speaker 3: to see because you're like, this is my doctor, Like

638
00:31:23,560 --> 00:31:25,400
Speaker 3: this is a potential person that I could see like

639
00:31:25,840 --> 00:31:28,800
Speaker 3: when I'm in pain or like when I'm like suffering

640
00:31:28,840 --> 00:31:31,360
Speaker 3: at my lowest, and they just hate themselves so much.

641
00:31:31,840 --> 00:31:32,720
Speaker 2: Yeah, So that's.

642
00:31:32,640 --> 00:31:34,440
Speaker 3: That's that's kind of a trippy thing to think about.

643
00:31:34,440 --> 00:31:38,480
Speaker 3: I don't know, I'm only speaking for my like from

644
00:31:38,520 --> 00:31:40,080
Speaker 3: where I'm at, so I don't know if that's more

645
00:31:40,080 --> 00:31:42,400
Speaker 3: of a widespread kind of systemic thing, but I would

646
00:31:42,440 --> 00:31:45,080
Speaker 3: assume everyone's got the same shit going on everywhere, so

647
00:31:45,120 --> 00:31:47,520
Speaker 3: it's probably similar at different places.

648
00:31:48,400 --> 00:31:50,760
Speaker 2: How old are these doctors? These are like you know

649
00:31:51,040 --> 00:31:52,680
Speaker 2: like people in the like fifties and forties.

650
00:31:53,800 --> 00:31:56,720
Speaker 3: No, you'd be surprised. Some of them are like I'm

651
00:31:56,720 --> 00:31:58,840
Speaker 3: not like super privy to like exactly how old they are,

652
00:31:58,880 --> 00:32:02,440
Speaker 3: but some of them are maybe mid thirties, early forties.

653
00:32:03,440 --> 00:32:05,080
Speaker 3: Most of the older guys there that are like in

654
00:32:05,120 --> 00:32:07,880
Speaker 3: their fifties, that kind of I feel like that's like

655
00:32:07,920 --> 00:32:11,360
Speaker 3: what they wanted to do. But it's also, uh, maybe

656
00:32:11,360 --> 00:32:12,880
Speaker 3: they kind of just swallow their pride and they're like

657
00:32:12,920 --> 00:32:16,520
Speaker 3: fuck it whatever, Like I'm already doing this, And I

658
00:32:16,560 --> 00:32:18,480
Speaker 3: hate to villainize the entire career because I feel like

659
00:32:18,480 --> 00:32:21,000
Speaker 3: the way that I'm speaking about it is very like reductionary.

660
00:32:21,160 --> 00:32:23,200
Speaker 3: Because then on the flip side, you have people who

661
00:32:23,200 --> 00:32:27,000
Speaker 3: are super like altruistic, who like will go like spend

662
00:32:27,040 --> 00:32:28,680
Speaker 3: thirty minutes with someone when they really only need to

663
00:32:28,720 --> 00:32:31,640
Speaker 3: spend like five minutes with them. And that's like, you know,

664
00:32:31,680 --> 00:32:33,920
Speaker 3: I can't speak to the entire profession, like I don't

665
00:32:33,960 --> 00:32:38,280
Speaker 3: want to taint the entire fucking I'm just speaking from

666
00:32:38,320 --> 00:32:41,120
Speaker 3: my own personal experiences and my grievances that I'm like, man,

667
00:32:41,160 --> 00:32:43,680
Speaker 3: this sucks. Like we have a lot of people here

668
00:32:43,720 --> 00:32:47,680
Speaker 3: who English isn't their first language, so that also comes

669
00:32:47,680 --> 00:32:48,960
Speaker 3: into play a lot too, where a lot of these

670
00:32:49,000 --> 00:32:52,240
Speaker 3: providers just become like super bitter. They're like, oh, you

671
00:32:52,240 --> 00:32:54,000
Speaker 3: don't speak English, all right, cool, We're gonna see the

672
00:32:54,040 --> 00:32:57,440
Speaker 3: next person. And I'm like, what the fuck, Like that's crazy,

673
00:32:57,560 --> 00:32:59,720
Speaker 3: Like just because they don't speak you are English, It's

674
00:32:59,760 --> 00:33:02,600
Speaker 3: like you're just gonna fucking skip him. Like it's not

675
00:33:02,920 --> 00:33:04,440
Speaker 3: it's this crazy stuff that goes.

676
00:33:04,320 --> 00:33:07,200
Speaker 2: On all of them that's really crazy. Yeah, And so

677
00:33:07,320 --> 00:33:10,120
Speaker 2: you're a right now, you're a scribe and like all

678
00:33:10,160 --> 00:33:14,720
Speaker 2: these people that you're seeing in the er who like

679
00:33:14,840 --> 00:33:17,840
Speaker 2: fucking hate themselves, You're over here like, oh no, if

680
00:33:17,840 --> 00:33:19,920
Speaker 2: I keep going down this road, I'm gonna turn into

681
00:33:19,920 --> 00:33:22,360
Speaker 2: one of these people who hate themselves.

682
00:33:22,960 --> 00:33:25,480
Speaker 3: That is one hundred percent my fear, Like currently as

683
00:33:25,480 --> 00:33:27,760
Speaker 3: it stands, I'm like, that is my fear, Like I

684
00:33:27,800 --> 00:33:29,960
Speaker 3: because I'm so I also see myself as like this

685
00:33:30,080 --> 00:33:32,200
Speaker 3: naive like twenty four year old. I'm like, dude, I'm

686
00:33:32,360 --> 00:33:35,200
Speaker 3: so like fresh and young, and I'm like, oh, I'm

687
00:33:35,240 --> 00:33:37,360
Speaker 3: gonna I'm gonna change the world, like I'm gonna do

688
00:33:37,440 --> 00:33:39,760
Speaker 3: all these things, and but I don't know what I'm

689
00:33:39,760 --> 00:33:41,800
Speaker 3: gonna be like twenty years from now. Like I talked

690
00:33:41,800 --> 00:33:43,720
Speaker 3: to my deurpist about that all the time. I'm like, dude,

691
00:33:43,720 --> 00:33:47,000
Speaker 3: this is like, that's my existential dread. That is what

692
00:33:47,040 --> 00:33:49,960
Speaker 3: I'm so concerned about, is that the pressures of the

693
00:33:50,080 --> 00:33:53,040
Speaker 3: job or whatever the other external factors are. These people

694
00:33:53,080 --> 00:33:55,240
Speaker 3: might have just looked just like me when they were

695
00:33:55,240 --> 00:33:57,920
Speaker 3: my age, but now twenty years down the line, they're

696
00:33:57,920 --> 00:34:01,280
Speaker 3: like a completely different person because I spend you know,

697
00:34:01,400 --> 00:34:06,280
Speaker 3: day and day out exposed to all this prap. So

698
00:34:06,360 --> 00:34:08,399
Speaker 3: that's that's that's a big fear of mind for sure.

699
00:34:08,440 --> 00:34:11,799
Speaker 3: It's like, yeah, I don't know how to control that.

700
00:34:12,120 --> 00:34:14,640
Speaker 3: There's no way that it's like trying to control the future.

701
00:34:15,520 --> 00:34:19,080
Speaker 2: What did your therapists have to say about that? I'm curious.

702
00:34:20,480 --> 00:34:24,839
Speaker 3: It's actually really interesting because I have I have two therapists,

703
00:34:25,560 --> 00:34:28,799
Speaker 3: not because not for any particular reason, but I have

704
00:34:28,840 --> 00:34:30,480
Speaker 3: the therapist that I've had for like the last like

705
00:34:30,520 --> 00:34:33,279
Speaker 3: four years, and she's not covered by my insurance. But

706
00:34:33,320 --> 00:34:34,799
Speaker 3: then the other one is, so I just have two

707
00:34:35,000 --> 00:34:37,920
Speaker 3: by chance. But anyways, one of them goes down the

708
00:34:37,920 --> 00:34:41,400
Speaker 3: physiological kind of logic behind it of like you know,

709
00:34:41,440 --> 00:34:43,120
Speaker 3: once you get twenty five to twenty six, your brain

710
00:34:43,200 --> 00:34:46,400
Speaker 3: kind of stops like making you neural pathways. So the

711
00:34:46,440 --> 00:34:48,560
Speaker 3: person that you are at like twenty five twenty six

712
00:34:48,760 --> 00:34:51,440
Speaker 3: is most likely the person that you're gonna be twenty

713
00:34:51,480 --> 00:34:55,960
Speaker 3: thirty forty years down the line. It sucks, I know, right,

714
00:34:56,000 --> 00:34:59,919
Speaker 3: that's like it's it's like fuck, Like well, okay, it's

715
00:35:00,080 --> 00:35:02,480
Speaker 3: kind of puts you in a box. But then my

716
00:35:03,000 --> 00:35:05,320
Speaker 3: other therapist kind of goes down this more like holistic

717
00:35:05,400 --> 00:35:09,040
Speaker 3: like spiritual route of like, well, all of the experiences

718
00:35:09,080 --> 00:35:12,080
Speaker 3: and everything that you've like lived throughout your life to

719
00:35:12,080 --> 00:35:14,560
Speaker 3: get to where you are now, I have like made

720
00:35:14,560 --> 00:35:16,760
Speaker 3: you the person that you are today, and that doesn't

721
00:35:16,800 --> 00:35:19,560
Speaker 3: necessarily dictate what's going to happen twenty thirty years down

722
00:35:19,560 --> 00:35:22,160
Speaker 3: the line because you have this like I'm not trying

723
00:35:22,200 --> 00:35:23,719
Speaker 3: to speak like to my ego or anything, but I

724
00:35:23,760 --> 00:35:28,239
Speaker 3: really do genuine genuinely feel like I'm a decent human being,

725
00:35:28,239 --> 00:35:29,960
Speaker 3: Like I actually try to like go above and be

726
00:35:30,000 --> 00:35:32,680
Speaker 3: hones specifically missetting, Like if someone a lot of the

727
00:35:32,719 --> 00:35:35,960
Speaker 3: times we have Spanish speakers, I'm bilingual, so I'll try

728
00:35:35,960 --> 00:35:37,600
Speaker 3: to help as much as possible, and I'm like spending

729
00:35:37,600 --> 00:35:39,120
Speaker 3: extra time with them when I'm not supposed to be,

730
00:35:39,160 --> 00:35:41,279
Speaker 3: like I've actually gotten in trouble for so spending more

731
00:35:41,320 --> 00:35:43,719
Speaker 3: time with them, which I'm like, that's so stupid, Like

732
00:35:43,760 --> 00:35:46,000
Speaker 3: why am I getting in trouble because I'm helping these people.

733
00:35:46,760 --> 00:35:51,200
Speaker 3: So I say that because I agree with the holistic

734
00:35:51,280 --> 00:35:54,279
Speaker 3: therapist kind of perspective of like if I don't want

735
00:35:54,320 --> 00:35:56,719
Speaker 3: to become those people twenty forty whatever you years down

736
00:35:56,719 --> 00:35:59,359
Speaker 3: the line, I won't because I'll just keep coming back

737
00:35:59,400 --> 00:36:01,479
Speaker 3: to the crux of who I am. And they always

738
00:36:01,480 --> 00:36:05,239
Speaker 3: speak about like you're developing your principles now, like what

739
00:36:05,280 --> 00:36:09,120
Speaker 3: are your principles that you can't like certain things that

740
00:36:09,160 --> 00:36:11,200
Speaker 3: you can't sway, those are going to be things that

741
00:36:11,239 --> 00:36:13,000
Speaker 3: are going to be you know, further down the line,

742
00:36:13,080 --> 00:36:15,800
Speaker 3: like I won't be able to compromise on these things,

743
00:36:15,880 --> 00:36:18,319
Speaker 3: and then those are just going to dictate like your relationships,

744
00:36:18,520 --> 00:36:21,800
Speaker 3: your workplace relationships, and then even just like your beliefs.

745
00:36:21,880 --> 00:36:25,839
Speaker 3: Like so I don't know that's the I lean into

746
00:36:25,880 --> 00:36:28,480
Speaker 3: that more. I hope that that's I stay true to

747
00:36:28,480 --> 00:36:33,959
Speaker 3: who I am. So that's the plan. But yeah, I'm sorry,

748
00:36:33,960 --> 00:36:36,640
Speaker 3: I hate to get like all spiritual and deep with you.

749
00:36:36,680 --> 00:36:39,040
Speaker 3: I feel like conversations.

750
00:36:39,080 --> 00:36:42,839
Speaker 2: Get get spiritual and deep, get spiritual and deep, it's

751
00:36:42,880 --> 00:36:49,080
Speaker 2: all it's. Yeah, that therapy gecko has has slowly become

752
00:36:49,520 --> 00:36:52,920
Speaker 2: therapy for the gecko. So it's interesting to hear or

753
00:36:52,960 --> 00:37:00,600
Speaker 2: hear other people's perspectives on these on these things. Yeah yeah, old,

754
00:37:01,040 --> 00:37:02,160
Speaker 2: go ahead, yeah, go ahead.

755
00:37:02,640 --> 00:37:05,080
Speaker 3: I'm sorry. I was just gonna say that when I

756
00:37:05,080 --> 00:37:07,120
Speaker 3: first started listening to you, it's actually really funny. It's

757
00:37:07,160 --> 00:37:08,719
Speaker 3: a funny story that I'd always wanted to tell you.

758
00:37:08,760 --> 00:37:11,160
Speaker 3: So I started listening to you in twenty twenty one,

759
00:37:11,200 --> 00:37:15,719
Speaker 3: I think, and I was right. So I was kind

760
00:37:15,719 --> 00:37:18,840
Speaker 3: of going through like a relationship breakup and then my dogs,

761
00:37:19,160 --> 00:37:21,560
Speaker 3: both my dogs had just died, and I was like

762
00:37:22,320 --> 00:37:24,719
Speaker 3: so distraught that I couldn't even listen to music. And

763
00:37:24,760 --> 00:37:26,279
Speaker 3: I was like, dude, I have to do something, because

764
00:37:26,280 --> 00:37:27,920
Speaker 3: every time I got to my car, I was like crying.

765
00:37:28,440 --> 00:37:30,200
Speaker 3: And I literally was like, I think I was on

766
00:37:30,239 --> 00:37:32,120
Speaker 3: TikTok or something. I saw you pop up and I

767
00:37:32,239 --> 00:37:34,719
Speaker 3: was like, let me just listen to him, and you

768
00:37:34,800 --> 00:37:37,399
Speaker 3: were literally the only thing that was like I don't

769
00:37:37,400 --> 00:37:40,840
Speaker 3: know what it was like. I mean, you're awesome, You're fantastic,

770
00:37:40,880 --> 00:37:43,720
Speaker 3: but like something about like hearing about other people's stories

771
00:37:43,800 --> 00:37:46,200
Speaker 3: like was able to just calm me down. I was

772
00:37:46,239 --> 00:37:48,239
Speaker 3: like saying, oh, my god, I'm so distraught about all

773
00:37:48,280 --> 00:37:51,799
Speaker 3: this stuff, But somehow hearing about other people's plights kind

774
00:37:51,840 --> 00:37:53,879
Speaker 3: of made me feel like, Okay, I'm not the only

775
00:37:53,880 --> 00:37:57,360
Speaker 3: person in this world who's like, you know, suffering or

776
00:37:57,400 --> 00:38:01,040
Speaker 3: feeling like shitty, like kind of like that collect of like, okay, yeah,

777
00:38:01,080 --> 00:38:03,520
Speaker 3: we're all No one is perfect, like we're all kind

778
00:38:03,560 --> 00:38:05,280
Speaker 3: of all in this together.

779
00:38:05,440 --> 00:38:06,520
Speaker 2: So interesting.

780
00:38:06,719 --> 00:38:11,000
Speaker 3: I retrospectively thank you for that, like recroactively for sure.

781
00:38:11,160 --> 00:38:14,480
Speaker 2: For sure. It's funny because it's funny to hear you

782
00:38:14,520 --> 00:38:18,000
Speaker 2: say that, because I've been yeah lately, for me to

783
00:38:18,040 --> 00:38:21,200
Speaker 2: calm down, I listened. I like to listen to things

784
00:38:21,200 --> 00:38:25,120
Speaker 2: that have like nothing to do with real life, Like

785
00:38:25,480 --> 00:38:28,319
Speaker 2: I'm listening to I'm listening to a lot of old

786
00:38:28,440 --> 00:38:35,880
Speaker 2: come down episodes. I'm listening to a lot of like

787
00:38:36,560 --> 00:38:40,120
Speaker 2: ranking all of the appearances of Walla Oigi and the

788
00:38:40,160 --> 00:38:43,000
Speaker 2: Mario Party games, like just ship that has nothing to

789
00:38:43,040 --> 00:38:46,880
Speaker 2: do with anything. It's interesting. I guess it's interesting to

790
00:38:46,880 --> 00:38:49,000
Speaker 2: me that when you're feeling down, you want to listen

791
00:38:49,080 --> 00:38:53,800
Speaker 2: to other people other things that are like life y,

792
00:38:54,719 --> 00:38:58,000
Speaker 2: you know, because it feel less alone. Yeah, instead of

793
00:38:58,040 --> 00:39:00,920
Speaker 2: like dround, instead of just like tuning completely out.

794
00:39:03,200 --> 00:39:05,359
Speaker 3: It's yeah, No, I don't know. I don't. I wonder

795
00:39:05,360 --> 00:39:07,239
Speaker 3: if it's like feeding, Like sometimes I feel kind of

796
00:39:07,239 --> 00:39:08,840
Speaker 3: like weird about it. I'm like, am I feeding it?

797
00:39:08,920 --> 00:39:10,839
Speaker 3: Kind of like what you spoke about a couple episodes ago.

798
00:39:10,880 --> 00:39:13,960
Speaker 3: You were like, oh, if I'm like constantly telling myself

799
00:39:14,000 --> 00:39:16,399
Speaker 3: that I'm like depressed, or if I have these things,

800
00:39:16,440 --> 00:39:18,200
Speaker 3: then it's just going to become the identity that I live.

801
00:39:18,480 --> 00:39:20,440
Speaker 3: That's like sometimes my concern is, I'm like, if I

802
00:39:20,520 --> 00:39:22,319
Speaker 3: keep listening to this, am I just going to keep

803
00:39:22,360 --> 00:39:26,440
Speaker 3: reinforcing these thought patterns? But then you also the all

804
00:39:26,480 --> 00:39:27,640
Speaker 3: on the flip side of it too. I feel like

805
00:39:27,680 --> 00:39:29,399
Speaker 3: you also have that self awareness to know like, oh,

806
00:39:29,400 --> 00:39:32,200
Speaker 3: I'm already thinking about this, so it can't be my

807
00:39:32,280 --> 00:39:35,200
Speaker 3: reality because I know both sides right now, so I

808
00:39:35,239 --> 00:39:38,040
Speaker 3: can kind of like stop it. I know. It's like

809
00:39:39,239 --> 00:39:41,800
Speaker 3: you can split hairs. You can just split hairs intimately

810
00:39:41,880 --> 00:39:46,680
Speaker 3: with this, it's it's yeah, so yeah, I don't. I

811
00:39:46,719 --> 00:39:48,880
Speaker 3: try not to do that, and then I just I

812
00:39:48,960 --> 00:39:50,560
Speaker 3: do something like you said, like I watch all it,

813
00:39:50,719 --> 00:39:54,000
Speaker 3: I'll watch old episodes come down, or I'll do like

814
00:39:54,320 --> 00:39:57,080
Speaker 3: what else do I watch? Watch? Kso I feel like

815
00:39:57,080 --> 00:39:58,880
Speaker 3: that it's kind of like brand dead content. You just

816
00:39:58,960 --> 00:40:00,680
Speaker 3: kind of like tearing your brain off. He's just like,

817
00:40:01,320 --> 00:40:02,399
Speaker 3: oh man, so.

818
00:40:04,800 --> 00:40:08,760
Speaker 2: What was I gonna say to you? Yeah, I guess yeah.

819
00:40:08,840 --> 00:40:11,680
Speaker 2: It's interesting. I feel that way too, where I'm thinking, like, Okay,

820
00:40:11,719 --> 00:40:18,920
Speaker 2: how do I don't want to hate myself in twenty years.

821
00:40:19,800 --> 00:40:24,319
Speaker 2: I'm pretty young, and I'm like, what decisions do I

822
00:40:24,440 --> 00:40:29,000
Speaker 2: need to make today? And as the days go on

823
00:40:30,040 --> 00:40:33,120
Speaker 2: to uh make it so that I don't I don't

824
00:40:33,200 --> 00:40:36,200
Speaker 2: hate myself. I see a lot of lately. I don't

825
00:40:36,200 --> 00:40:37,920
Speaker 2: know if I talked about this on the podcast slightly,

826
00:40:37,960 --> 00:40:40,920
Speaker 2: but I've been meeting a lot of like old people,

827
00:40:41,040 --> 00:40:46,279
Speaker 2: like older people who are happy. This isn't meeting. But

828
00:40:46,440 --> 00:40:49,240
Speaker 2: I hung out with my dad. My dad is sixty six,

829
00:40:49,960 --> 00:40:53,440
Speaker 2: and I hung out with him the other week. I

830
00:40:53,480 --> 00:40:56,120
Speaker 2: hung out with him and my uncle, and my dad

831
00:40:56,200 --> 00:40:58,640
Speaker 2: is like talking with my uncle about TV shows and

832
00:40:58,680 --> 00:41:02,799
Speaker 2: he's joking around and he he's making you know, he's

833
00:41:02,840 --> 00:41:05,280
Speaker 2: just like happy. He's just like seemed happy and calm

834
00:41:05,320 --> 00:41:08,640
Speaker 2: and he's in the moment, you know. And I thought

835
00:41:08,680 --> 00:41:10,160
Speaker 2: that was And then I hung out with like my

836
00:41:10,280 --> 00:41:14,560
Speaker 2: friend's dad and he was making jokes and happy and

837
00:41:14,600 --> 00:41:16,759
Speaker 2: calm and in the moment. And it's funny because my dad,

838
00:41:16,800 --> 00:41:20,360
Speaker 2: my friend's dad. These people like they like I'm sitting

839
00:41:20,400 --> 00:41:23,400
Speaker 2: I'm twenty seven. I'm sitting over here like having a

840
00:41:23,400 --> 00:41:26,160
Speaker 2: existential dread and like afraid I'm gonna about like you know,

841
00:41:26,239 --> 00:41:28,239
Speaker 2: death or whatever. And it's like these older people that

842
00:41:28,280 --> 00:41:33,279
Speaker 2: I'm meeting. I met this guy in an Uber He

843
00:41:33,400 --> 00:41:36,360
Speaker 2: was my Uber driver and he was like sixty something

844
00:41:37,160 --> 00:41:38,759
Speaker 2: and I was just and he was talking to me

845
00:41:38,800 --> 00:41:41,160
Speaker 2: about how he's been driving Uber for thirty five years

846
00:41:41,160 --> 00:41:43,400
Speaker 2: and how he has like a thirty two year old

847
00:41:43,719 --> 00:41:45,879
Speaker 2: son and a thirty year old daughter and they all

848
00:41:45,920 --> 00:41:47,640
Speaker 2: live together and he's like just very happy. He was

849
00:41:47,680 --> 00:41:50,359
Speaker 2: just talking to this very like happy guy about his

850
00:41:50,400 --> 00:41:53,120
Speaker 2: family and his life. And it's funny because all these

851
00:41:53,120 --> 00:41:58,319
Speaker 2: guys are like way closer to death than I am,

852
00:41:58,680 --> 00:42:03,680
Speaker 2: and they have way less fucking anxiety. Like they're just

853
00:42:03,800 --> 00:42:07,840
Speaker 2: like they're these these like they're present, they're calm, they're chilling,

854
00:42:07,920 --> 00:42:13,160
Speaker 2: they're living their lives. And I'm like, uh hm, how

855
00:42:13,200 --> 00:42:17,800
Speaker 2: does how did they get there where they're just like chilling?

856
00:42:17,920 --> 00:42:20,359
Speaker 2: How do people get to that? Cause it is like

857
00:42:20,440 --> 00:42:25,000
Speaker 2: being alive, being alive. Being conscious is tremendously if you

858
00:42:25,160 --> 00:42:28,200
Speaker 2: from a certain point of view, and in the point

859
00:42:28,239 --> 00:42:29,680
Speaker 2: of view that I think I've been like kind of

860
00:42:29,719 --> 00:42:32,400
Speaker 2: locked into for the past couple of months, is that

861
00:42:32,400 --> 00:42:38,399
Speaker 2: like being alive is like a tremendously frightening thing, and

862
00:42:38,520 --> 00:42:40,440
Speaker 2: yet we live in a world where people are able

863
00:42:40,480 --> 00:42:43,239
Speaker 2: to just kind of handle it and be okay and

864
00:42:44,000 --> 00:42:48,279
Speaker 2: watch The Bachelor and you know, take a shit and

865
00:42:48,480 --> 00:42:51,279
Speaker 2: like be everything, like be normal and calm, which I

866
00:42:51,280 --> 00:42:55,600
Speaker 2: think is actually the what you're supposed to do is

867
00:42:55,760 --> 00:43:00,759
Speaker 2: just be normal and calm. I don't know, I don't

868
00:43:00,800 --> 00:43:02,279
Speaker 2: know how people get that. I don't know if I

869
00:43:02,280 --> 00:43:04,359
Speaker 2: don't know if that's like a medication thing. I don't

870
00:43:04,360 --> 00:43:05,960
Speaker 2: know if that's a lifestyle thing. I don't know if

871
00:43:05,960 --> 00:43:08,160
Speaker 2: that's I don't know if some people just have it

872
00:43:08,200 --> 00:43:14,200
Speaker 2: and some people don't. But yeah, yeah, you know what's.

873
00:43:14,440 --> 00:43:16,799
Speaker 3: I it's so interesting that you say that, because I

874
00:43:16,840 --> 00:43:18,680
Speaker 3: was thinking about that a lot. I kind of grapple

875
00:43:18,719 --> 00:43:21,360
Speaker 3: with mortality all the time too, about thinking exactly what

876
00:43:21,440 --> 00:43:22,960
Speaker 3: you're talking about, like especially in e or because you

877
00:43:22,960 --> 00:43:24,920
Speaker 3: see people just die all the time, right, But it's

878
00:43:24,960 --> 00:43:27,960
Speaker 3: so strange because you're, yeah, what you're saying too about

879
00:43:28,000 --> 00:43:30,000
Speaker 3: like I feel like the people who see there like

880
00:43:30,040 --> 00:43:33,600
Speaker 3: semi five and I'm like usually older, they're so calm,

881
00:43:33,800 --> 00:43:35,520
Speaker 3: and you know what the biggest I don't know because

882
00:43:35,520 --> 00:43:37,600
Speaker 3: this is a super antidotal I have no like hard

883
00:43:37,600 --> 00:43:40,480
Speaker 3: facts to back this, but it's like the support system

884
00:43:40,760 --> 00:43:42,120
Speaker 3: kind of like you're talking about with your dad and

885
00:43:42,160 --> 00:43:44,640
Speaker 3: your uncle, and I feel like they probably have a

886
00:43:44,680 --> 00:43:46,960
Speaker 3: good support system. They probably have like a networking of

887
00:43:47,160 --> 00:43:50,479
Speaker 3: you know, they're always talking to people. When you see

888
00:43:50,480 --> 00:43:52,600
Speaker 3: like families that have like you know, they come in

889
00:43:52,640 --> 00:43:55,040
Speaker 3: with their like ninety five year old grandma and she's

890
00:43:55,080 --> 00:43:58,279
Speaker 3: like just talking. She's super witty, she's super sharp, she's

891
00:43:58,360 --> 00:44:01,040
Speaker 3: usually just like lives on her own own, loves other people.

892
00:44:01,560 --> 00:44:03,480
Speaker 3: But it's just that I feel like it's that support system.

893
00:44:03,480 --> 00:44:05,080
Speaker 3: It's like you're able to like talk to someone on

894
00:44:05,120 --> 00:44:07,160
Speaker 3: a daily basis, and then you can people who come

895
00:44:07,160 --> 00:44:09,920
Speaker 3: in who are like sixty and they're like homeless unfortunately,

896
00:44:09,920 --> 00:44:11,879
Speaker 3: and they haven't talked to anyone in like a long

897
00:44:11,960 --> 00:44:15,000
Speaker 3: time or whatever, and they're just in these horrible, horrible conditions.

898
00:44:15,200 --> 00:44:18,759
Speaker 3: So I feel like it's just there's that like social somatic,

899
00:44:18,880 --> 00:44:22,600
Speaker 3: like you know, you have like access to like exactly

900
00:44:22,640 --> 00:44:24,640
Speaker 3: what you're talking about. So I don't know, that's that's

901
00:44:24,680 --> 00:44:26,480
Speaker 3: just kind of my guest. I do agree. I'm like,

902
00:44:26,560 --> 00:44:29,040
Speaker 3: I think maybe it is the family stuff, maybe these

903
00:44:29,080 --> 00:44:32,480
Speaker 3: the lifestyle stuff, but I yeah, I don't know. It's

904
00:44:32,560 --> 00:44:34,360
Speaker 3: I always wonder that too, because I'm.

905
00:44:34,160 --> 00:44:37,800
Speaker 2: Like you, like, you're one hundred percent right. It's a

906
00:44:37,840 --> 00:44:40,000
Speaker 2: fucking I think it's like a community thing and a

907
00:44:40,040 --> 00:44:44,400
Speaker 2: social support thing. Yeah, you know, and yeah, we like

908
00:44:44,520 --> 00:44:49,280
Speaker 2: the modern world is like a little it's the modern

909
00:44:49,320 --> 00:44:54,520
Speaker 2: world is very not conducive to that, and so you

910
00:44:54,640 --> 00:45:01,160
Speaker 2: kind of have to go out of your way to

911
00:45:01,200 --> 00:45:04,200
Speaker 2: figure out how to create that. If you know, a

912
00:45:04,200 --> 00:45:08,360
Speaker 2: lot of people are lucky enough that like community and

913
00:45:08,440 --> 00:45:13,840
Speaker 2: support systems are just like just kind of naturally occur

914
00:45:14,520 --> 00:45:16,880
Speaker 2: in their life through whatever it is they chose to

915
00:45:16,880 --> 00:45:18,759
Speaker 2: do for a living, or if they chose to have

916
00:45:18,800 --> 00:45:21,799
Speaker 2: a family or you know whatever. Some people aren't as

917
00:45:21,880 --> 00:45:24,960
Speaker 2: lucky and they did shit doesn't naturally occur and they

918
00:45:25,000 --> 00:45:26,799
Speaker 2: have to kind of go out and chase it and

919
00:45:26,840 --> 00:45:31,640
Speaker 2: look for it. But yeah, it's what you know. What's

920
00:45:31,640 --> 00:45:34,680
Speaker 2: funny is, Yeah, the modern world, I think it has

921
00:45:34,800 --> 00:45:40,560
Speaker 2: created a thing where it's been yeah, sure, isolating, but

922
00:45:40,719 --> 00:45:46,200
Speaker 2: it also conversely has given us a lot of tools

923
00:45:46,800 --> 00:45:51,960
Speaker 2: to break out of isolation. And yeah, I've talked about this.

924
00:45:52,120 --> 00:45:56,600
Speaker 2: I think I've been talking about the same three things

925
00:45:57,000 --> 00:45:58,800
Speaker 2: on this podcast for the past month.

926
00:45:58,920 --> 00:45:59,000
Speaker 3: No.

927
00:45:59,680 --> 00:46:02,920
Speaker 2: Yeah, but I don't know that they're they're they're the

928
00:46:02,920 --> 00:46:06,759
Speaker 2: they're the frequent things on my fucking mind. I you know,

929
00:46:06,760 --> 00:46:10,120
Speaker 2: it would be awesome because I hope somebody I don't know,

930
00:46:10,160 --> 00:46:12,239
Speaker 2: I hope maybe somebody listening to the who listens to

931
00:46:12,280 --> 00:46:15,760
Speaker 2: this podcast right early is like taking whatever, these same

932
00:46:15,920 --> 00:46:18,640
Speaker 2: three fucking things I'm talking about on the podcast, and

933
00:46:18,640 --> 00:46:21,160
Speaker 2: you maybe I get an email from them and they're like, hey,

934
00:46:21,239 --> 00:46:24,600
Speaker 2: I took those I took those three things you were

935
00:46:24,600 --> 00:46:27,320
Speaker 2: talking about on the podcast, and I made these changes

936
00:46:27,360 --> 00:46:29,240
Speaker 2: and I did these things, and now my life is different,

937
00:46:29,280 --> 00:46:30,640
Speaker 2: and I'll look at it and be like, oh shit,

938
00:46:30,719 --> 00:46:32,279
Speaker 2: I should do that too.

939
00:46:33,120 --> 00:46:37,239
Speaker 3: You know that you can make the therapy get go,

940
00:46:37,680 --> 00:46:40,520
Speaker 3: like you could sell like a masterclass. You could do

941
00:46:40,560 --> 00:46:42,160
Speaker 3: like one of these classes.

942
00:46:42,800 --> 00:46:43,960
Speaker 2: I would feel like.

943
00:46:43,680 --> 00:46:45,160
Speaker 3: I'm going to facilitate your life.

944
00:46:45,440 --> 00:46:47,720
Speaker 2: No, I would feel extreme. I think I'd feel extremely

945
00:46:47,800 --> 00:46:51,839
Speaker 2: uncomfortable doing like, uh something like that. Now, I feel

946
00:46:51,880 --> 00:46:54,439
Speaker 2: very uncomfortable doing something like that, although it is fun,

947
00:46:54,520 --> 00:46:57,120
Speaker 2: like coaching is fun because you don't have to do anything.

948
00:46:57,560 --> 00:46:59,120
Speaker 2: You just have to tell the people what to do.

949
00:46:59,160 --> 00:47:00,000
Speaker 2: It's way easier.

950
00:47:01,239 --> 00:47:02,839
Speaker 3: Like when have you ever heard of a client telling

951
00:47:02,840 --> 00:47:04,840
Speaker 3: a personal coach that they're fucking up their life? Like,

952
00:47:04,880 --> 00:47:06,840
Speaker 3: I feel like that's not You could just tell you

953
00:47:06,840 --> 00:47:08,960
Speaker 3: could tell them whatever you want. They'd be like, okay, cool, Yeah,

954
00:47:09,000 --> 00:47:11,400
Speaker 3: I'm gonna do it. And then if it's not happen.

955
00:47:12,360 --> 00:47:16,400
Speaker 2: No, there will There will never be a therapy Gecko course.

956
00:47:18,000 --> 00:47:22,000
Speaker 2: If you saw I think, I think I think that

957
00:47:22,120 --> 00:47:25,360
Speaker 2: you should you should have public You should have public

958
00:47:25,480 --> 00:47:31,600
Speaker 2: photos of the quality of your room first before you

959
00:47:31,640 --> 00:47:34,400
Speaker 2: sell a course, you know what I mean? Like, I

960
00:47:34,480 --> 00:47:37,080
Speaker 2: think if if people saw all the empty water bottles

961
00:47:37,080 --> 00:47:42,240
Speaker 2: and half filled diet mountain dew all over my fucking apartment,

962
00:47:42,600 --> 00:47:45,440
Speaker 2: they would they would not consider buying a course from me.

963
00:47:46,719 --> 00:47:49,080
Speaker 3: That's what the field of psychiatry says, is like a

964
00:47:49,120 --> 00:47:51,839
Speaker 3: bedroom is a window into someone's mind, is what they say.

965
00:47:52,160 --> 00:47:53,440
Speaker 3: I don't know if it's true though, but.

966
00:47:54,360 --> 00:47:57,720
Speaker 2: Yeah, don't tell don't open that diamountain dew and look inside,

967
00:47:57,760 --> 00:47:58,640
Speaker 2: because it'll show.

968
00:47:58,480 --> 00:47:58,759
Speaker 3: You some.

969
00:48:00,440 --> 00:48:05,120
Speaker 2: What's your name again, Chudley, Chudley, Chudley. It was nice

970
00:48:05,120 --> 00:48:08,399
Speaker 2: talking to you. I hope you find whatever the fuck

971
00:48:08,440 --> 00:48:09,839
Speaker 2: you're looking for in this crazy world.

972
00:48:10,960 --> 00:48:13,279
Speaker 3: Before we leave, can I tell you one er story

973
00:48:13,320 --> 00:48:14,719
Speaker 3: because that was just I just wanted to tell you

974
00:48:14,760 --> 00:48:19,440
Speaker 3: something funny to even out the spirituality of a fifth Yeah. So,

975
00:48:19,480 --> 00:48:22,680
Speaker 3: I mean you probably know people people put stuff in there,

976
00:48:22,680 --> 00:48:26,719
Speaker 3: but it happens pretty frequently. I think any orifice someone has,

977
00:48:26,760 --> 00:48:30,439
Speaker 3: he can do that. So we've had a we've had

978
00:48:30,440 --> 00:48:33,560
Speaker 3: a unnamed gentleman come in several times because he's gotten

979
00:48:33,600 --> 00:48:37,040
Speaker 3: something stuck in his butt. The first time it was

980
00:48:37,120 --> 00:48:40,120
Speaker 3: a brute shaving cream bottle. I don't know if you're

981
00:48:40,160 --> 00:48:42,920
Speaker 3: familiar with those. Like it's like a green bottle with

982
00:48:42,960 --> 00:48:47,600
Speaker 3: a very long stem. It's it's pretty sizable, Like when

983
00:48:47,640 --> 00:48:50,000
Speaker 3: you see it on the X You're like, how the

984
00:48:50,080 --> 00:48:52,000
Speaker 3: fuck did he get? Like I had no I had

985
00:48:52,080 --> 00:48:54,640
Speaker 3: no idea, and he walked in totally normal. You could

986
00:48:54,680 --> 00:48:56,520
Speaker 3: have just seen this guy walk down the sidewalk and

987
00:48:56,840 --> 00:48:59,839
Speaker 3: you would not have known that. He comes in says

988
00:48:59,840 --> 00:49:02,279
Speaker 3: that he tripped and fell and that it went up

989
00:49:02,320 --> 00:49:03,960
Speaker 3: his butt. They're like, all right, we're not going to

990
00:49:04,040 --> 00:49:07,000
Speaker 3: question you anymore. And then like a couple of weeks later,

991
00:49:07,560 --> 00:49:11,279
Speaker 3: dude comes back in samem and this time it was

992
00:49:11,360 --> 00:49:15,080
Speaker 3: a like a Suave shampoo bottle, which was like almost

993
00:49:15,080 --> 00:49:18,640
Speaker 3: twice the size of this thing. And even then den

994
00:49:18,640 --> 00:49:21,680
Speaker 3: I and I deny. He was like, I think a

995
00:49:21,719 --> 00:49:24,120
Speaker 3: friend put it up here, like I'm not sure how

996
00:49:24,120 --> 00:49:26,120
Speaker 3: I got up there, and that one was so far

997
00:49:26,160 --> 00:49:27,759
Speaker 3: that he actually had to get surgery to get that

998
00:49:27,800 --> 00:49:32,640
Speaker 3: one out. So and that that happens all the time.

999
00:49:32,840 --> 00:49:35,239
Speaker 3: You see, I've seen a dude put a glass weed

1000
00:49:35,280 --> 00:49:36,920
Speaker 3: pipe up his butt and then he sat down and

1001
00:49:37,040 --> 00:49:40,680
Speaker 3: broke I've seen, Yeah, that one was horrible too. And

1002
00:49:40,680 --> 00:49:43,160
Speaker 3: now when he also said a friend, they never I

1003
00:49:43,200 --> 00:49:46,080
Speaker 3: get it. I understand it's a very vulnerable. They're trying

1004
00:49:46,080 --> 00:49:48,120
Speaker 3: to help you, but I'm like, you really, like you're

1005
00:49:48,160 --> 00:49:49,799
Speaker 3: in this position, you don't want to just mess up

1006
00:49:49,880 --> 00:49:52,399
Speaker 3: to it, Like I get it. But he's like, no, man,

1007
00:49:52,440 --> 00:49:55,120
Speaker 3: like someone I was asleep and someone put it in

1008
00:49:55,160 --> 00:49:57,840
Speaker 3: my butt and like I just I didn't know. I

1009
00:49:57,920 --> 00:49:58,799
Speaker 3: just didn't wake up.

1010
00:49:59,040 --> 00:50:01,239
Speaker 2: No, at that point, it's like, you know, I put

1011
00:50:01,239 --> 00:50:03,520
Speaker 2: this in my ass, Sorry that you have to now be.

1012
00:50:03,560 --> 00:50:06,840
Speaker 3: Here that Yeah, Now I get it. I'm just like,

1013
00:50:06,880 --> 00:50:08,799
Speaker 3: I get it, dude, I get it. Like, but just

1014
00:50:08,840 --> 00:50:12,440
Speaker 3: come on, dude, tarrott. We've seen that. We've seen a

1015
00:50:12,480 --> 00:50:13,520
Speaker 3: couple of vegetables.

1016
00:50:14,400 --> 00:50:18,839
Speaker 2: Carrot's Carrot's not that bad. Those are biodegradable, right, right,

1017
00:50:19,080 --> 00:50:21,879
Speaker 2: you do with the carrot after you take it out

1018
00:50:21,880 --> 00:50:23,040
Speaker 2: of a guy's ass.

1019
00:50:23,520 --> 00:50:25,840
Speaker 3: That's a very good question because I asked after the

1020
00:50:25,880 --> 00:50:28,080
Speaker 3: shampoo bottle and the shaving cream, I was like, did

1021
00:50:28,160 --> 00:50:29,560
Speaker 3: you give it back to him? Because it was full.

1022
00:50:29,640 --> 00:50:31,200
Speaker 3: You could see in the extra that there was still

1023
00:50:31,239 --> 00:50:33,759
Speaker 3: like a pat like there was still something in it,

1024
00:50:33,800 --> 00:50:36,399
Speaker 3: Like it wasn't just the bottle. They take it. They

1025
00:50:36,400 --> 00:50:39,040
Speaker 3: it's considered bio it's considered a bio hazard, and they

1026
00:50:39,040 --> 00:50:42,799
Speaker 3: throw it away. Yeah, so you don't get to keep

1027
00:50:42,800 --> 00:50:44,400
Speaker 3: any of that, you know, even if you get like

1028
00:50:44,520 --> 00:50:45,640
Speaker 3: I don't know if you've ever heard this, but if

1029
00:50:45,680 --> 00:50:47,279
Speaker 3: you get your leg cut off, your arm cut off,

1030
00:50:47,440 --> 00:50:49,880
Speaker 3: you don't get to keep it. They like, if you

1031
00:50:49,960 --> 00:50:51,399
Speaker 3: keep it, or if you try to keep it, it's

1032
00:50:51,440 --> 00:50:53,759
Speaker 3: a crime. I don't remember what the exact crime is,

1033
00:50:53,800 --> 00:50:56,239
Speaker 3: but they will like literally just throw it away, and

1034
00:50:56,360 --> 00:50:59,840
Speaker 3: you can't you can't trust it. Yeah, sometimes even your teeth.

1035
00:51:00,160 --> 00:51:02,000
Speaker 3: Sometimes some like I don't know what it is with

1036
00:51:02,040 --> 00:51:04,200
Speaker 3: certain gental procedures, but you're not even allowed to keep

1037
00:51:04,239 --> 00:51:07,600
Speaker 3: your your own teeth, which is the craziest thing to me.

1038
00:51:07,719 --> 00:51:10,200
Speaker 2: But where is there just like a band in the

1039
00:51:10,239 --> 00:51:12,919
Speaker 2: hospital or like they just didn't have a bunch of legs.

1040
00:51:13,800 --> 00:51:15,600
Speaker 3: I mean, at least at ours. I don't know if

1041
00:51:15,640 --> 00:51:19,160
Speaker 3: we have like incinerators and shit, I don't really. I

1042
00:51:19,160 --> 00:51:21,719
Speaker 3: don't think we do imputations at my hospital's pretty small.

1043
00:51:21,760 --> 00:51:24,400
Speaker 3: But when they do, I'm pretty sure they just throwing

1044
00:51:24,400 --> 00:51:28,120
Speaker 3: it anerator and it's just from dust to dirt, like

1045
00:51:28,200 --> 00:51:29,839
Speaker 3: you go back to the earth, I guess, I don't know.

1046
00:51:30,239 --> 00:51:33,200
Speaker 3: Or sometimes there's a whole other rabbit hole they have

1047
00:51:33,239 --> 00:51:36,360
Speaker 3: that illegal body exchange. They have like this whole black market.

1048
00:51:36,760 --> 00:51:41,360
Speaker 3: Barvard got in trouble for it recently for selling cadavers

1049
00:51:41,400 --> 00:51:43,560
Speaker 3: like dead people to like the military and too like

1050
00:51:44,160 --> 00:51:48,359
Speaker 3: other unfacilitated like medical facilities. They were making stupid money

1051
00:51:48,360 --> 00:51:50,720
Speaker 3: off of it. It was crazy. They were just taking

1052
00:51:51,160 --> 00:51:53,640
Speaker 3: dead people and just selling them for like hundreds of

1053
00:51:53,920 --> 00:51:56,719
Speaker 3: hundreds of dollars, like it was the nuttiest thing to

1054
00:51:56,760 --> 00:51:57,160
Speaker 3: think about.

1055
00:51:57,320 --> 00:52:01,040
Speaker 2: So well, look when I die, I mean, I don't.

1056
00:52:01,360 --> 00:52:03,600
Speaker 2: I'm not going to need my arms and legs anymore,

1057
00:52:03,680 --> 00:52:06,359
Speaker 2: so you can take them. Anyone can have them if

1058
00:52:06,400 --> 00:52:06,839
Speaker 2: they want them.

1059
00:52:10,160 --> 00:52:14,040
Speaker 3: I want to be stopped to about I don't know,

1060
00:52:14,200 --> 00:52:16,480
Speaker 3: fifty to one hundred pounds of fireworks, and I just

1061
00:52:16,520 --> 00:52:18,359
Speaker 3: want to be placed in like a public setting. Yeah,

1062
00:52:18,360 --> 00:52:22,000
Speaker 3: I launched off as fireworks. Yeah, yeah, that's the way

1063
00:52:22,040 --> 00:52:22,520
Speaker 3: I want to go.

1064
00:52:23,600 --> 00:52:27,520
Speaker 2: What's your name again, sir Chedley? Chedley? Is there anything

1065
00:52:27,520 --> 00:52:28,680
Speaker 2: else you want to say to the people of the

1066
00:52:28,680 --> 00:52:29,600
Speaker 2: computer before we go.

1067
00:52:32,360 --> 00:52:34,200
Speaker 3: If you ever go to the emergency room and you

1068
00:52:34,239 --> 00:52:37,799
Speaker 3: want to be seen super fast, this is so unethical,

1069
00:52:38,040 --> 00:52:39,960
Speaker 3: But if you really do want to be seen really fast,

1070
00:52:40,000 --> 00:52:42,040
Speaker 3: tell them you can't breathe, or tell them that you

1071
00:52:42,040 --> 00:52:45,080
Speaker 3: have cardiac history and you will be seeing a shap

1072
00:52:45,320 --> 00:52:47,360
Speaker 3: even if it's a bullshit complaint. But you did not

1073
00:52:47,400 --> 00:52:48,000
Speaker 3: hear that from me.

1074
00:52:48,640 --> 00:52:52,080
Speaker 2: Pretty good, Pretty good. I'm glad somebody got something out

1075
00:52:52,120 --> 00:52:53,360
Speaker 2: of this podcast.

1076
00:52:52,840 --> 00:52:54,919
Speaker 3: Hopefully, Yeah, I hope.

1077
00:52:54,960 --> 00:52:57,319
Speaker 2: So take care of Chedley. Thank you?

1078
00:52:58,480 --> 00:52:59,000
Speaker 3: Thanks Jack.

1079
00:53:03,440 --> 00:53:05,239
Speaker 2: What's up man? How you doing pretty good?

1080
00:53:05,280 --> 00:53:05,759
Speaker 5: How are you?

1081
00:53:06,239 --> 00:53:10,719
Speaker 2: I am hanging in there. I'm trying my best to

1082
00:53:10,760 --> 00:53:17,080
Speaker 2: be alive as a human being on the planet. What's

1083
00:53:17,360 --> 00:53:19,560
Speaker 2: what's up? Brother? What is it that made you want

1084
00:53:19,600 --> 00:53:23,280
Speaker 2: to call into my little Gecko show today.

1085
00:53:24,640 --> 00:53:26,719
Speaker 5: I've been listening to you for a long time, and

1086
00:53:27,680 --> 00:53:30,120
Speaker 5: I've tried to call about a bunch of random ship before.

1087
00:53:30,200 --> 00:53:34,360
Speaker 5: But I don't know. Lately, I just went through some

1088
00:53:34,360 --> 00:53:38,040
Speaker 5: shit at work and I worked for my girlfriend's parents.

1089
00:53:38,840 --> 00:53:41,480
Speaker 5: So now I'm looking for a new job, and it's

1090
00:53:41,520 --> 00:53:42,360
Speaker 5: fucking terrible.

1091
00:53:44,560 --> 00:53:47,200
Speaker 2: What kind of shit went on at the job with

1092
00:53:47,239 --> 00:53:48,960
Speaker 2: your girlfriend's parents.

1093
00:53:49,920 --> 00:53:53,480
Speaker 5: I the day after Saint Patrick's Day, I tried to

1094
00:53:53,480 --> 00:53:55,680
Speaker 5: call out of work and there's like a big old

1095
00:53:55,719 --> 00:53:57,040
Speaker 5: mess and they docked my pay.

1096
00:53:58,880 --> 00:54:01,800
Speaker 3: So, yeah, did.

1097
00:54:01,640 --> 00:54:03,560
Speaker 2: You get too fucked up on St Patrick's Day?

1098
00:54:04,440 --> 00:54:04,640
Speaker 3: Oh?

1099
00:54:04,680 --> 00:54:09,839
Speaker 2: Yeah, Well, I mean well, I mean, I mean look,

1100
00:54:09,920 --> 00:54:11,840
Speaker 2: I mean, I mean, you know, come.

1101
00:54:11,680 --> 00:54:13,680
Speaker 1: On, yeah, fair enough, fair enough.

1102
00:54:13,680 --> 00:54:16,719
Speaker 5: I didn't expect my pay to get docked, but I

1103
00:54:16,760 --> 00:54:20,120
Speaker 5: did expect, like, you know, for it to be some trouble.

1104
00:54:21,760 --> 00:54:25,560
Speaker 2: Well, I mean, yeah, what, well, Well, well you wanted

1105
00:54:25,600 --> 00:54:26,960
Speaker 2: to get like, oh, do I do you have like

1106
00:54:27,000 --> 00:54:28,040
Speaker 2: PTO or something?

1107
00:54:29,360 --> 00:54:29,959
Speaker 3: No, I don't.

1108
00:54:30,040 --> 00:54:30,840
Speaker 5: I don't have any of that.

1109
00:54:30,840 --> 00:54:31,319
Speaker 3: I don't got.

1110
00:54:31,200 --> 00:54:34,279
Speaker 5: Benefits or nothing. I'm doing like construction in the landscaping.

1111
00:54:35,360 --> 00:54:38,920
Speaker 2: Wait, so wouldn't your pay obviously get docked if you

1112
00:54:38,920 --> 00:54:40,680
Speaker 2: didn't if you don't go to work.

1113
00:54:41,880 --> 00:54:45,680
Speaker 5: No, No, I mean like permanently and minus three dollars

1114
00:54:45,719 --> 00:54:46,080
Speaker 5: an hour.

1115
00:54:47,040 --> 00:54:48,880
Speaker 2: Oh, you pay got permanently docked.

1116
00:54:49,800 --> 00:54:52,680
Speaker 5: Yeah. Yeah, I got to find a new job.

1117
00:54:53,960 --> 00:54:56,200
Speaker 2: And they were doing that as retaliation for calling out

1118
00:54:56,200 --> 00:54:56,520
Speaker 2: of work.

1119
00:54:57,560 --> 00:55:03,480
Speaker 1: Yeah, but the funny thing is I still went to work, attempted.

1120
00:55:02,600 --> 00:55:07,640
Speaker 2: To call out. You attempted to call out of work,

1121
00:55:08,560 --> 00:55:11,560
Speaker 2: and so then they got mad at you for trying

1122
00:55:11,600 --> 00:55:13,399
Speaker 2: to call out of work, so they docked your pay

1123
00:55:13,440 --> 00:55:15,040
Speaker 2: because you tried to call out of work.

1124
00:55:16,200 --> 00:55:16,399
Speaker 1: Yeah.

1125
00:55:16,440 --> 00:55:19,319
Speaker 5: It was a messy argument, and then I just threw

1126
00:55:19,360 --> 00:55:23,920
Speaker 5: in the towel, was like, okay, fine, I'll go and yeah,

1127
00:55:23,920 --> 00:55:24,399
Speaker 5: that's rough.

1128
00:55:25,800 --> 00:55:27,520
Speaker 2: Are you still with your girlfriends?

1129
00:55:28,640 --> 00:55:28,839
Speaker 1: Yeah?

1130
00:55:28,920 --> 00:55:32,120
Speaker 5: Yeah, we've been together coming up six years.

1131
00:55:32,680 --> 00:55:35,440
Speaker 2: Okay, but so are you still in the job or

1132
00:55:35,480 --> 00:55:37,520
Speaker 2: did you quit? And now you're looking for a new ship.

1133
00:55:38,600 --> 00:55:42,840
Speaker 5: I'm currently wiping off of tile, so I'm still I'm looking.

1134
00:55:43,880 --> 00:55:47,080
Speaker 5: But yeah, I'm kind of stuck at the moment.

1135
00:55:49,000 --> 00:55:52,200
Speaker 2: Did this like damage your relationship with your girlfriend's parents.

1136
00:55:54,000 --> 00:55:57,879
Speaker 5: For like, for a couple of weeks, things seem normal now.

1137
00:55:57,920 --> 00:56:02,480
Speaker 5: But obviously I'm not happy slave a way for you know,

1138
00:56:02,760 --> 00:56:03,880
Speaker 5: all that rush money.

1139
00:56:04,719 --> 00:56:08,279
Speaker 2: Yeah, yeah, what is your girlfriend? Is your girlfriend on

1140
00:56:08,320 --> 00:56:10,160
Speaker 2: your side with this? Or is she like, yeah, you

1141
00:56:10,200 --> 00:56:10,719
Speaker 2: fucked up?

1142
00:56:11,920 --> 00:56:13,240
Speaker 3: I don't know. She's kind of in between.

1143
00:56:13,360 --> 00:56:16,239
Speaker 5: She's like, it's you know, your fault because it would

1144
00:56:16,239 --> 00:56:19,240
Speaker 5: have never happened. But she agrees that it's stupid.

1145
00:56:22,520 --> 00:56:23,879
Speaker 2: Yeah, what kind of job are you trying to get

1146
00:56:23,880 --> 00:56:24,480
Speaker 2: outside of this?

1147
00:56:26,200 --> 00:56:28,520
Speaker 5: Well, that's what I'm on the sense on her now.

1148
00:56:28,800 --> 00:56:34,000
Speaker 5: The plan was to go into plumbing, and but no

1149
00:56:34,280 --> 00:56:37,719
Speaker 5: plumbing apprenticeships are hitting me back. I don't know if

1150
00:56:37,719 --> 00:56:40,799
Speaker 5: I should like try to, you know, get like a

1151
00:56:40,840 --> 00:56:44,279
Speaker 5: serving job and just wait up the summer, or I

1152
00:56:44,280 --> 00:56:46,480
Speaker 5: have no idea. I'm living on an island right now.

1153
00:56:47,239 --> 00:56:49,320
Speaker 2: You live on an island? What islands?

1154
00:56:50,120 --> 00:56:51,240
Speaker 5: Tybee Island?

1155
00:56:52,040 --> 00:56:56,279
Speaker 2: Tybee Island. I'm gonna okay, wait, I'm gonna fucking we're

1156
00:56:56,280 --> 00:56:59,320
Speaker 2: pulling out the maps. We're pulling out maps.

1157
00:57:00,000 --> 00:57:02,920
Speaker 5: I hope nobody uh on the island knows.

1158
00:57:02,800 --> 00:57:04,520
Speaker 3: Your show hold on?

1159
00:57:04,760 --> 00:57:05,760
Speaker 2: Okay? What is it called?

1160
00:57:07,000 --> 00:57:07,960
Speaker 5: Tybee Island?

1161
00:57:08,760 --> 00:57:15,479
Speaker 2: Ruh t y b e Tybee Island? Georgia. Oh shit,

1162
00:57:15,840 --> 00:57:19,160
Speaker 2: I don't know Georgia had a fucking island. Oh shit, yeah,

1163
00:57:19,160 --> 00:57:22,520
Speaker 2: you're right, okay, yeah, yeah, all right, you're right outside

1164
00:57:22,520 --> 00:57:26,080
Speaker 2: of Savannah. Hold on, oh it's really an island. Is

1165
00:57:26,080 --> 00:57:28,560
Speaker 2: this really an island? This isn't really an island. There's

1166
00:57:28,640 --> 00:57:33,240
Speaker 2: like a it's connected to land, right.

1167
00:57:33,600 --> 00:57:37,720
Speaker 1: Well, it appears that way, but when the tide comes up,

1168
00:57:38,000 --> 00:57:40,400
Speaker 1: you can only get to the island through the man

1169
00:57:40,440 --> 00:57:40,960
Speaker 1: made road.

1170
00:57:41,920 --> 00:57:44,080
Speaker 2: Is this like I've never heard of this fucking place?

1171
00:57:44,080 --> 00:57:45,919
Speaker 2: This is interesting. Is this like a like a beach

1172
00:57:46,000 --> 00:57:48,600
Speaker 2: town where people who like Savannah folks like go to

1173
00:57:48,640 --> 00:57:49,720
Speaker 2: fucking go on vacation.

1174
00:57:50,840 --> 00:57:51,760
Speaker 3: Yeah, exactly.

1175
00:57:51,800 --> 00:57:54,200
Speaker 5: People from all over the world actually end up here

1176
00:57:54,280 --> 00:57:55,680
Speaker 5: amid a lot of crazy people.

1177
00:57:56,480 --> 00:57:59,000
Speaker 2: Cool. Are you trying to stay on Tybee Island?

1178
00:58:00,960 --> 00:58:05,880
Speaker 5: I'm staying till September. It's really expensive to live out here,

1179
00:58:05,960 --> 00:58:08,600
Speaker 5: so we're gonna move into Savannah.

1180
00:58:08,680 --> 00:58:11,919
Speaker 2: So Tybee Island is more expensive than Savannah, like living

1181
00:58:11,960 --> 00:58:13,000
Speaker 2: in the proper city.

1182
00:58:14,040 --> 00:58:18,040
Speaker 5: Yeah, yeah, much more expensive. It's like dominated by short

1183
00:58:18,120 --> 00:58:22,080
Speaker 5: term vacation rentals. So the housing market's pretty rough.

1184
00:58:23,320 --> 00:58:28,440
Speaker 2: Interesting. Interesting. How's what's the cost of living like in Savannah?

1185
00:58:28,560 --> 00:58:34,680
Speaker 5: It's I mean, it's uh, it's not terrible. It's hard

1186
00:58:34,720 --> 00:58:36,720
Speaker 5: to find a good place because of you know, it's

1187
00:58:36,720 --> 00:58:40,480
Speaker 5: like a college stun and all that. But you can

1188
00:58:40,520 --> 00:58:43,280
Speaker 5: find a good spot if you if you wait around

1189
00:58:43,360 --> 00:58:43,680
Speaker 5: for it.

1190
00:58:44,720 --> 00:58:49,400
Speaker 2: You live on an island in Georgia. I mean, look,

1191
00:58:49,520 --> 00:58:52,040
Speaker 2: if you're thinking about going into the service industry, I'll

1192
00:58:52,080 --> 00:58:56,040
Speaker 2: say this. I mean, I've never been a waiter, a

1193
00:58:56,040 --> 00:59:00,160
Speaker 2: bartender or anything like that by friends who have, and uh,

1194
00:59:00,200 --> 00:59:02,400
Speaker 2: I mean if you're doing it for a summer. I

1195
00:59:02,440 --> 00:59:05,880
Speaker 2: have a friend he was he fucking like hated his

1196
00:59:05,960 --> 00:59:08,880
Speaker 2: life and his job and everything, and he moved to

1197
00:59:09,920 --> 00:59:13,760
Speaker 2: Rehoboth Beach to be a server over there, and now

1198
00:59:13,800 --> 00:59:15,800
Speaker 2: he's like killing it. He has all these like fucking

1199
00:59:16,160 --> 00:59:19,120
Speaker 2: other like server friends, and he's like in the whole

1200
00:59:19,920 --> 00:59:25,919
Speaker 2: restaurant industry and the community and whatnot. So I don't

1201
00:59:25,920 --> 00:59:31,040
Speaker 2: have firsthand experience being a server at a like in

1202
00:59:31,080 --> 00:59:35,480
Speaker 2: a beach town or whatever, but uh, it's what are

1203
00:59:35,480 --> 00:59:39,640
Speaker 2: you doing now? You're scraping grout off of a yeah,

1204
00:59:40,000 --> 00:59:43,480
Speaker 2: a tile off a tile. I mean, I look, I

1205
00:59:43,480 --> 00:59:44,960
Speaker 2: don't know what kind of person you are. I don't

1206
00:59:44,960 --> 00:59:48,439
Speaker 2: know what what makes you tick, but like, at least

1207
00:59:48,520 --> 00:59:51,000
Speaker 2: I guess with the service. With the service industry stuff,

1208
00:59:51,040 --> 00:59:54,440
Speaker 2: like you get to be like people facing. You know,

1209
00:59:55,560 --> 01:00:00,000
Speaker 2: there's you're working with other folks, you're outside of the

1210
01:00:00,160 --> 01:00:05,280
Speaker 2: closed knit of your girlfriend's parents and ship.

1211
01:00:05,560 --> 01:00:05,760
Speaker 1: You know.

1212
01:00:05,920 --> 01:00:07,960
Speaker 2: I feel like if you're in, if you want like, uh,

1213
01:00:09,320 --> 01:00:11,560
Speaker 2: you know, if you want to be a little rascal,

1214
01:00:12,400 --> 01:00:13,680
Speaker 2: that's the better place to do it.

1215
01:00:15,440 --> 01:00:15,720
Speaker 3: Yeah.

1216
01:00:15,800 --> 01:00:19,160
Speaker 5: Well, my boss is pulling up right now. Nice talking

1217
01:00:19,160 --> 01:00:19,360
Speaker 5: to you.

1218
01:00:19,400 --> 01:00:20,480
Speaker 3: I will call it suck.

1219
01:00:20,600 --> 01:00:22,560
Speaker 2: Too, all right, cool man, Well, good luck, good luck

1220
01:00:22,600 --> 01:00:23,680
Speaker 2: with whatever you choose to do.

1221
01:00:24,800 --> 01:00:26,040
Speaker 5: Thank you all.

1222
01:00:26,040 --> 01:00:30,720
Speaker 2: Take care, Broye. I don't know. I'm not. I haven't.

1223
01:00:31,000 --> 01:00:35,520
Speaker 2: I never worked as a bartender, but I fucking every

1224
01:00:35,560 --> 01:00:37,640
Speaker 2: once in all here in New York. Every once in

1225
01:00:37,640 --> 01:00:41,040
Speaker 2: a while, when I get bored, I volunteer at my

1226
01:00:41,160 --> 01:00:47,160
Speaker 2: friend's comedy club. Shout out Sesh comedy. Every once in

1227
01:00:47,200 --> 01:00:48,920
Speaker 2: a while, when I get bored, I go down there

1228
01:00:48,920 --> 01:00:54,080
Speaker 2: and I'll sling I'll sling beers for him, and it's

1229
01:00:53,840 --> 01:00:59,040
Speaker 2: it's it's kind of fun to like like have a

1230
01:00:59,360 --> 01:01:01,240
Speaker 2: I mean, it's so funny because that's what I do

1231
01:01:01,320 --> 01:01:04,439
Speaker 2: with this podcast. But it's kind of fun to have

1232
01:01:04,560 --> 01:01:10,240
Speaker 2: like forced social interaction where like people have to talk

1233
01:01:10,280 --> 01:01:15,160
Speaker 2: to you and you know, the parameters of the social

1234
01:01:15,200 --> 01:01:22,880
Speaker 2: interaction are predetermined, and it's like it's good to have

1235
01:01:22,920 --> 01:01:28,160
Speaker 2: something to do with your fucking hands, right like after

1236
01:01:28,280 --> 01:01:34,440
Speaker 2: living in like the crazy abyss. Just having someone be like, hello,

1237
01:01:34,520 --> 01:01:37,040
Speaker 2: I would like to buy a beer and I go, hey, man,

1238
01:01:37,080 --> 01:01:39,640
Speaker 2: how you doing? I'm doing good? Can I get this beer?

1239
01:01:39,680 --> 01:01:41,520
Speaker 2: And I go yes? And then I go and I

1240
01:01:41,560 --> 01:01:45,320
Speaker 2: get them the beer and they go thanks. Something about

1241
01:01:45,320 --> 01:01:51,120
Speaker 2: that that felt very makes you feel present in what

1242
01:01:51,240 --> 01:01:56,040
Speaker 2: you're doing. I guess that's why fucking diner dash is

1243
01:01:56,080 --> 01:02:00,920
Speaker 2: so popular. I don't know, I don't know what I'm

1244
01:02:00,960 --> 01:02:06,320
Speaker 2: fucking talking about, but uh yeah, it's fun. It's it's

1245
01:02:06,320 --> 01:02:07,960
Speaker 2: a it's a fun thing. I think. I don't know,

1246
01:02:08,000 --> 01:02:10,040
Speaker 2: it sounds it's about if if like if you have

1247
01:02:10,080 --> 01:02:12,840
Speaker 2: to like get like a you know, if you need

1248
01:02:12,880 --> 01:02:14,960
Speaker 2: a gig. I feel like that's probably better than like,

1249
01:02:15,760 --> 01:02:18,200
Speaker 2: you know, working out in a in a field or

1250
01:02:18,200 --> 01:02:23,760
Speaker 2: anything like that. Just to be around some people. Hello, Hello, Hi,

1251
01:02:23,840 --> 01:02:24,360
Speaker 2: what's your name?

1252
01:02:24,440 --> 01:02:26,360
Speaker 3: My name is Billy, Billy.

1253
01:02:26,720 --> 01:02:28,600
Speaker 2: What's up, Billy? How you doing? How's life?

1254
01:02:29,000 --> 01:02:32,400
Speaker 6: While it's so great to talk to you, I'm I'm

1255
01:02:32,440 --> 01:02:34,520
Speaker 6: taking a break from doing taxes at the.

1256
01:02:34,440 --> 01:02:38,240
Speaker 2: Moment, Oh, yeah, tax season's coming up. Tax Season's coming up.

1257
01:02:39,360 --> 01:02:41,600
Speaker 6: It is I'm very nervous. It's the first time I'm

1258
01:02:42,040 --> 01:02:43,480
Speaker 6: I'm doing it. But I have a I have a

1259
01:02:43,520 --> 01:02:44,520
Speaker 6: couple of things that I want.

1260
01:02:44,400 --> 01:02:45,040
Speaker 3: To talk to you about.

1261
01:02:45,080 --> 01:02:47,160
Speaker 2: If that's okay, Yeah, let's do it. Hit me.

1262
01:02:48,400 --> 01:02:51,680
Speaker 6: Yeah, so I have we can we can either go

1263
01:02:51,800 --> 01:02:57,560
Speaker 6: with So I used to be a bouncer on Broadway

1264
01:02:57,600 --> 01:03:01,600
Speaker 6: in Nashville, and I have some interesting stories that I

1265
01:03:01,640 --> 01:03:06,600
Speaker 6: could tell you, or or I am starting a I

1266
01:03:06,600 --> 01:03:09,920
Speaker 6: can tell you about. I'm starting a touring fan activations company,

1267
01:03:10,480 --> 01:03:12,640
Speaker 6: like a touring fan engagement company like go on the

1268
01:03:12,680 --> 01:03:15,040
Speaker 6: road with different artists and stuff.

1269
01:03:16,120 --> 01:03:20,040
Speaker 2: A touring fan activation company. Well, let's do the self

1270
01:03:20,080 --> 01:03:21,920
Speaker 2: promo at the end. Well, yeah, go ahead. Do you

1271
01:03:22,000 --> 01:03:27,320
Speaker 2: have a story about Yeah, working at nash working on Broadway, Broadway,

1272
01:03:27,400 --> 01:03:29,440
Speaker 2: I do, I have a place. Yeah, I'm curious what

1273
01:03:29,520 --> 01:03:30,760
Speaker 2: kind of characters you run into.

1274
01:03:32,680 --> 01:03:35,120
Speaker 6: So I'm not going to mention the bar that I

1275
01:03:35,200 --> 01:03:38,160
Speaker 6: used to work at. But I used to work night

1276
01:03:38,200 --> 01:03:42,000
Speaker 6: shifts and I used to go in starting at like

1277
01:03:42,160 --> 01:03:48,520
Speaker 6: five thirty and then I'd go and work until like

1278
01:03:48,600 --> 01:03:50,400
Speaker 6: three in the morning, and then I have to walk

1279
01:03:50,440 --> 01:03:53,720
Speaker 6: to walk back to this really sketchy parking garage. I

1280
01:03:53,720 --> 01:03:56,320
Speaker 6: mean it wasn't sketchy, but it's like a couple of

1281
01:03:56,360 --> 01:04:00,080
Speaker 6: blocks away and you got to walk past like some

1282
01:04:00,160 --> 01:04:02,840
Speaker 6: people that are are out at three in the morning,

1283
01:04:03,440 --> 01:04:06,720
Speaker 6: and I'd rather not do that, So I don't work

1284
01:04:06,760 --> 01:04:10,800
Speaker 6: there anymore. But there was I'll tell you one story.

1285
01:04:11,080 --> 01:04:15,320
Speaker 6: So we ended up. It was one of my first

1286
01:04:15,440 --> 01:04:21,160
Speaker 6: days there, and one of there was it was late

1287
01:04:21,200 --> 01:04:23,240
Speaker 6: at night and one of the there were some girls

1288
01:04:23,240 --> 01:04:27,959
Speaker 6: coming in and so I'm standing at the front door

1289
01:04:28,800 --> 01:04:31,560
Speaker 6: at this place and then my coworker, who is also

1290
01:04:31,600 --> 01:04:36,720
Speaker 6: a bouncer, was standing next to me, and there are

1291
01:04:36,760 --> 01:04:41,120
Speaker 6: these girls that are coming in and she just pulls

1292
01:04:41,120 --> 01:04:43,200
Speaker 6: something out of her purse and just hands it to

1293
01:04:43,240 --> 01:04:47,320
Speaker 6: him and just says and I'm like, okay, you know

1294
01:04:47,480 --> 01:04:52,680
Speaker 6: what the fuck's going on here? And he's just like,

1295
01:04:53,280 --> 01:04:55,480
Speaker 6: he tells me the story, He looks at it, it tells

1296
01:04:55,560 --> 01:04:58,480
Speaker 6: me a story later about what it is, and he's like,

1297
01:04:58,800 --> 01:05:02,720
Speaker 6: she just handed me a picture of her, like a

1298
01:05:02,720 --> 01:05:06,400
Speaker 6: photo booth reel of her topless and just walked away,

1299
01:05:06,520 --> 01:05:08,880
Speaker 6: and like she didn't even leave him her number or anything.

1300
01:05:08,920 --> 01:05:09,600
Speaker 3: But it's just like.

1301
01:05:09,520 --> 01:05:14,840
Speaker 6: Full titties and everything, and like didn't even didn't even

1302
01:05:15,200 --> 01:05:18,480
Speaker 6: go and try to do anything afterwards. It was just

1303
01:05:18,600 --> 01:05:22,040
Speaker 6: like like why are you giving me this here? And

1304
01:05:22,080 --> 01:05:25,200
Speaker 6: then also it's just like my my thought, it was

1305
01:05:25,280 --> 01:05:28,640
Speaker 6: just like do you just walk around with pictures of yourself?

1306
01:05:28,880 --> 01:05:31,000
Speaker 6: Just do you just carry that in your purse and

1307
01:05:31,440 --> 01:05:33,560
Speaker 6: just walking around and like hand them out to people?

1308
01:05:33,600 --> 01:05:35,760
Speaker 6: Like I don't even think she was probably most likely

1309
01:05:35,800 --> 01:05:38,320
Speaker 6: a Taurus. Like there was no she didn't even write

1310
01:05:38,360 --> 01:05:40,600
Speaker 6: any like OnlyFans or anything on there. It was just

1311
01:05:41,760 --> 01:05:43,479
Speaker 6: it was it was there.

1312
01:05:44,600 --> 01:05:48,040
Speaker 2: But I don't I respect that she's doing it for

1313
01:05:48,080 --> 01:05:48,840
Speaker 2: the love of the game.

1314
01:05:50,680 --> 01:05:53,439
Speaker 6: She definitely of the game.

1315
01:05:53,640 --> 01:05:53,880
Speaker 3: Yeah.

1316
01:05:53,920 --> 01:05:56,840
Speaker 2: And then also it's kind of like, uh, like how

1317
01:05:56,880 --> 01:06:00,160
Speaker 2: the Joker leaves his like calling card, you know, you

1318
01:06:00,200 --> 01:06:03,160
Speaker 2: know what I mean. It's a little like that, Yeah,

1319
01:06:03,280 --> 01:06:04,959
Speaker 2: a little action.

1320
01:06:07,560 --> 01:06:12,400
Speaker 6: Yeah, so I have that. What else was there? So

1321
01:06:13,040 --> 01:06:17,120
Speaker 6: a co worker was walking back to the parking garage

1322
01:06:17,200 --> 01:06:21,080
Speaker 6: at three in the morning, well late at night, and

1323
01:06:22,160 --> 01:06:25,320
Speaker 6: some random dudes followed him and like jumped in, like

1324
01:06:25,400 --> 01:06:28,600
Speaker 6: almost jumped them. They pulled up in a van and

1325
01:06:28,920 --> 01:06:31,600
Speaker 6: almost got out and you know, said hey, get in

1326
01:06:31,680 --> 01:06:34,160
Speaker 6: the van, but he ended up running and just diving

1327
01:06:34,200 --> 01:06:36,960
Speaker 6: into one of the the parking garages and they were

1328
01:06:37,040 --> 01:06:40,400
Speaker 6: chasing after him and stuff. But you know, it comes,

1329
01:06:40,480 --> 01:06:43,280
Speaker 6: it comes with the territory and in being Internashville, I guess.

1330
01:06:43,320 --> 01:06:45,120
Speaker 3: So I don't know, but.

1331
01:06:46,840 --> 01:06:50,080
Speaker 6: Yeah, so there's there's that, And I'm trying to think

1332
01:06:50,120 --> 01:06:54,640
Speaker 6: of some other interesting stories at this particular bar that

1333
01:06:54,720 --> 01:06:58,400
Speaker 6: I worked at, So I don't I don't particularly drink alcohol,

1334
01:06:59,680 --> 01:07:02,040
Speaker 6: how I were at the At the bar that I

1335
01:07:02,080 --> 01:07:04,439
Speaker 6: worked at, they would give you a free shift drink,

1336
01:07:04,720 --> 01:07:09,120
Speaker 6: free shift drink after each each shift, so you get

1337
01:07:09,120 --> 01:07:10,560
Speaker 6: done at three in the morning and then you get

1338
01:07:10,560 --> 01:07:14,160
Speaker 6: a free beer and whatever. And it's just I don't know,

1339
01:07:14,280 --> 01:07:17,800
Speaker 6: it's not particularly my thing, like it might be some people's,

1340
01:07:17,880 --> 01:07:20,560
Speaker 6: it's not mine. But I don't know, I have something.

1341
01:07:20,880 --> 01:07:24,600
Speaker 6: I can't think of any other interesting interesting stories from there.

1342
01:07:24,720 --> 01:07:27,240
Speaker 2: But did you ever get any fights? Did you ever

1343
01:07:27,240 --> 01:07:29,400
Speaker 2: get fucked up? Oh?

1344
01:07:29,520 --> 01:07:31,640
Speaker 6: I had a couple of people try to fight me,

1345
01:07:31,760 --> 01:07:34,360
Speaker 6: like and it was mostly and two evers listening to

1346
01:07:34,440 --> 01:07:37,960
Speaker 6: this like nothing against Irish people, like I might you know,

1347
01:07:38,200 --> 01:07:41,400
Speaker 6: it's I I'm got to I'm so fortunate I got

1348
01:07:41,440 --> 01:07:43,880
Speaker 6: to meet like everyone from all across the world like

1349
01:07:43,920 --> 01:07:45,920
Speaker 6: I got to meet some dude from Japan who didn't

1350
01:07:45,920 --> 01:07:49,640
Speaker 6: even speak English, like it was so cool, you know,

1351
01:07:49,720 --> 01:07:53,280
Speaker 6: I met people from Russia and whatever like, but the

1352
01:07:53,320 --> 01:07:57,080
Speaker 6: only people that have ever tried to fight me were

1353
01:07:57,080 --> 01:08:03,080
Speaker 6: from Ireland, like not even halfway drunk people either they're

1354
01:08:03,120 --> 01:08:06,240
Speaker 6: just like pissed that they couldn't get in or or whatever,

1355
01:08:06,400 --> 01:08:08,920
Speaker 6: or maybe they are like drunk or whatever. They just

1356
01:08:09,080 --> 01:08:13,080
Speaker 6: did only people And this is this could be stereotype.

1357
01:08:13,080 --> 01:08:15,840
Speaker 6: I'm not not at all trying to stereotype, but the

1358
01:08:15,840 --> 01:08:18,160
Speaker 6: only people who have ever tried to fight me on

1359
01:08:18,200 --> 01:08:23,360
Speaker 6: Broadway are people of Irish descent. But there's there's We're

1360
01:08:23,360 --> 01:08:25,160
Speaker 6: also some really cool Irish people.

1361
01:08:28,040 --> 01:08:30,679
Speaker 2: What's your build? Like are you are you pretty jacked?

1362
01:08:30,720 --> 01:08:33,719
Speaker 2: Were you able to like if somebody did like step

1363
01:08:33,800 --> 01:08:37,120
Speaker 2: up to you, would you have been able to handle

1364
01:08:37,120 --> 01:08:37,719
Speaker 2: the situation?

1365
01:08:39,240 --> 01:08:42,920
Speaker 6: So that's the crazy thing. Like, so, well, to answer

1366
01:08:42,960 --> 01:08:47,599
Speaker 6: your question, now, I'm not like particularly jacked. I mean,

1367
01:08:47,600 --> 01:08:49,960
Speaker 6: I'm fit and I've I've done martial arts, so like

1368
01:08:50,000 --> 01:08:53,320
Speaker 6: I can handle myself, which is the only reason why

1369
01:08:53,439 --> 01:08:54,679
Speaker 6: I decided to even.

1370
01:08:54,560 --> 01:08:55,160
Speaker 3: Take the job.

1371
01:08:56,840 --> 01:08:58,960
Speaker 6: I mean because of that, and I just couldn't find

1372
01:08:59,000 --> 01:09:05,040
Speaker 6: a job. But no, the thing was that legally you

1373
01:09:05,120 --> 01:09:09,240
Speaker 6: can't even fight You can't even fight them. It's like

1374
01:09:10,160 --> 01:09:13,760
Speaker 6: you can't at this particular bar. We we didn't have

1375
01:09:13,800 --> 01:09:19,840
Speaker 6: any earpieces or any communication whatsoever, and like legally you

1376
01:09:19,920 --> 01:09:23,880
Speaker 6: can't like physically escort them out out of the bar.

1377
01:09:24,360 --> 01:09:28,040
Speaker 6: So they're already drunk, they're in a very loud environment,

1378
01:09:28,920 --> 01:09:33,200
Speaker 6: and you know, you can't you can't really do anything

1379
01:09:33,240 --> 01:09:37,360
Speaker 6: about it, which is so interesting, and it doesn't help

1380
01:09:37,439 --> 01:09:41,080
Speaker 6: with people like trying to, you know, trying to pick

1381
01:09:41,120 --> 01:09:44,840
Speaker 6: fights either, because because you know, you just yell at people,

1382
01:09:44,840 --> 01:09:46,680
Speaker 6: say hey, get out here, and like what are what

1383
01:09:46,760 --> 01:09:48,920
Speaker 6: are they going to do? Like they're they're they're already

1384
01:09:49,040 --> 01:09:51,679
Speaker 6: on vacation, having a good time whatever, which like there's

1385
01:09:52,000 --> 01:09:55,800
Speaker 6: absolutely nothing wrong with that. I love that, you know,

1386
01:09:55,840 --> 01:09:57,680
Speaker 6: I love to see people smile and have a good

1387
01:09:57,680 --> 01:10:00,320
Speaker 6: time and whatever. But when it comes to the point

1388
01:10:00,360 --> 01:10:04,920
Speaker 6: where you're just like being rowdy and whatever, and I

1389
01:10:04,920 --> 01:10:09,280
Speaker 6: don't know, but yeah, that's the thing. We can't even

1390
01:10:09,800 --> 01:10:13,479
Speaker 6: we couldn't even physically escort people out of like off

1391
01:10:13,560 --> 01:10:16,840
Speaker 6: the premises, and since we didn't have any communication, we

1392
01:10:16,880 --> 01:10:20,759
Speaker 6: couldn't really call anybody to help us either. And luckily

1393
01:10:20,800 --> 01:10:23,880
Speaker 6: I didn't run into a whole lot of terrible situations

1394
01:10:23,960 --> 01:10:26,880
Speaker 6: like that, but it was there were there were times

1395
01:10:26,880 --> 01:10:29,080
Speaker 6: where it was like really close. Like there was this

1396
01:10:29,200 --> 01:10:33,519
Speaker 6: lady one time where it was her and her husband

1397
01:10:33,880 --> 01:10:37,760
Speaker 6: and they were just they were being obnoxious and she

1398
01:10:37,920 --> 01:10:42,040
Speaker 6: was just kept blowing a bubble gun inside of the

1399
01:10:42,080 --> 01:10:43,960
Speaker 6: place that I worked at. I'm like, no, no, we

1400
01:10:44,360 --> 01:10:48,920
Speaker 6: can't keep doing this, and her husband got pissed, and

1401
01:10:49,200 --> 01:10:51,800
Speaker 6: you know, I just kept I kept saying, okay, well,

1402
01:10:52,240 --> 01:10:53,840
Speaker 6: you know, we need to get you out of here,

1403
01:10:53,960 --> 01:10:57,439
Speaker 6: like come on, come follow me, and they wouldn't listen.

1404
01:10:57,479 --> 01:10:58,760
Speaker 6: So I had to go and find I had to

1405
01:10:58,840 --> 01:11:02,960
Speaker 6: leave the door and go find the coworker and say, hey,

1406
01:11:04,080 --> 01:11:06,000
Speaker 6: we need to get these people out of here. But

1407
01:11:07,840 --> 01:11:10,680
Speaker 6: I don't know, it was it was. It was an

1408
01:11:10,680 --> 01:11:13,760
Speaker 6: interesting job, like I got to see and meet some

1409
01:11:13,960 --> 01:11:17,240
Speaker 6: really cool people. Aside from like patrons, we would have

1410
01:11:17,320 --> 01:11:22,519
Speaker 6: people come in who had just played The Ryman. For

1411
01:11:22,560 --> 01:11:26,320
Speaker 6: anyone that doesn't know the Ryman Auditorium is, it's right downtown.

1412
01:11:26,360 --> 01:11:31,559
Speaker 6: It's one of the most famous venues in Nashville and

1413
01:11:31,640 --> 01:11:35,360
Speaker 6: in country particularly. But we had a lot of interesting

1414
01:11:35,400 --> 01:11:39,840
Speaker 6: people just come in from the Ryman and then from

1415
01:11:42,160 --> 01:11:45,240
Speaker 6: you know, from from that that area after they got

1416
01:11:45,280 --> 01:11:47,120
Speaker 6: done playing the shows, to either just come hang out

1417
01:11:47,200 --> 01:11:49,240
Speaker 6: or if they wanted to do an extra set or whatever.

1418
01:11:49,360 --> 01:11:52,200
Speaker 6: Then it was interesting to see, like it was a

1419
01:11:52,240 --> 01:11:55,240
Speaker 6: really fun job, but just not one that I care

1420
01:11:55,320 --> 01:11:58,679
Speaker 6: to have anymore. It's just too dangerous. Got to get

1421
01:11:58,720 --> 01:12:00,519
Speaker 6: you for me what you do now?

1422
01:12:02,600 --> 01:12:03,320
Speaker 3: So I do a.

1423
01:12:03,240 --> 01:12:06,040
Speaker 6: Lot of things, which is why I'm I'm working on tactics.

1424
01:12:06,439 --> 01:12:09,960
Speaker 6: I do a lot of independent contract work, so I

1425
01:12:09,960 --> 01:12:13,200
Speaker 6: I can't say too much, but I'm I'm an assistant

1426
01:12:13,240 --> 01:12:17,960
Speaker 6: to an artist and we're working on a couple of things,

1427
01:12:18,000 --> 01:12:20,040
Speaker 6: and that's all. That's all. I'll just leave it at that.

1428
01:12:20,280 --> 01:12:21,960
Speaker 2: You work for ken, don't you.

1429
01:12:23,200 --> 01:12:25,640
Speaker 6: It's always you know, I would love to work for

1430
01:12:26,120 --> 01:12:30,280
Speaker 6: Kendrick honestly, like he's I love him as a lyricist.

1431
01:12:30,360 --> 01:12:33,880
Speaker 2: When like somewhere somewhere along the line, when you say artist,

1432
01:12:33,960 --> 01:12:38,280
Speaker 2: you mean a musician, right, yes, when did somewhere along

1433
01:12:38,320 --> 01:12:41,640
Speaker 2: the line, I don't know, Like we used to it

1434
01:12:41,720 --> 01:12:45,960
Speaker 2: used to just be like rapper or like singer songwriter

1435
01:12:46,360 --> 01:12:50,599
Speaker 2: or like DJ or whatever. But now and like when

1436
01:12:50,640 --> 01:12:53,760
Speaker 2: you when you thought of artist, you always it would

1437
01:12:53,760 --> 01:12:56,479
Speaker 2: always come to mind, like, uh, like someone who makes

1438
01:12:56,560 --> 01:13:02,439
Speaker 2: like visual art. And now artists like a type yea, yeah,

1439
01:13:02,479 --> 01:13:04,080
Speaker 2: like a ball Bross type. And that was kind of

1440
01:13:04,080 --> 01:13:07,120
Speaker 2: what it meant up until I swear on my life,

1441
01:13:07,320 --> 01:13:13,840
Speaker 2: like in the last like five years. Artist Now now

1442
01:13:14,200 --> 01:13:20,120
Speaker 2: artists more often than not means a musician of some kind,

1443
01:13:20,240 --> 01:13:22,400
Speaker 2: like it used to mean, like when you said an artist,

1444
01:13:22,479 --> 01:13:24,920
Speaker 2: you thought like a Pablo Picasso or like a fucking

1445
01:13:25,160 --> 01:13:30,720
Speaker 2: like someone who makes like like a physical art of

1446
01:13:30,760 --> 01:13:35,800
Speaker 2: some kind. But now now it almost unanimously goes to

1447
01:13:36,000 --> 01:13:39,800
Speaker 2: mean a musician of some kind. Why do you think,

1448
01:13:39,840 --> 01:13:41,719
Speaker 2: why do you think that switch happened?

1449
01:13:42,880 --> 01:13:44,760
Speaker 6: Well, I'm gonna you know what. You may hate me

1450
01:13:44,800 --> 01:13:46,439
Speaker 6: for this, but I'm going to turn the question back

1451
01:13:46,479 --> 01:13:51,040
Speaker 6: on you. Since like art, do comedians consider themselves artists?

1452
01:13:51,160 --> 01:13:53,080
Speaker 6: Because it kind of is an art form, It most

1453
01:13:53,120 --> 01:13:54,320
Speaker 6: definitely is an art form.

1454
01:13:54,400 --> 01:13:58,320
Speaker 2: No, comedians do not consider themselves artists, and uh if

1455
01:13:58,360 --> 01:14:00,160
Speaker 2: they did, they would get made fun of.

1456
01:14:02,040 --> 01:14:06,720
Speaker 6: Okay, I could see that, all right, Yeah, But to

1457
01:14:06,720 --> 01:14:10,600
Speaker 6: answer your question, you know, I don't know, I I

1458
01:14:10,720 --> 01:14:13,519
Speaker 6: don't know. I don't know when that would would That's

1459
01:14:13,560 --> 01:14:17,719
Speaker 6: an interesting point, like when would it have turned from

1460
01:14:17,760 --> 01:14:22,479
Speaker 6: like Hey, I'm just a performer to you know, being

1461
01:14:22,560 --> 01:14:26,439
Speaker 6: an artist, but I don't.

1462
01:14:26,479 --> 01:14:27,000
Speaker 3: I don't know.

1463
01:14:27,040 --> 01:14:29,679
Speaker 6: That's that's interesting. I never really thought about it that way.

1464
01:14:29,920 --> 01:14:30,599
Speaker 3: That's cool though.

1465
01:14:31,000 --> 01:14:32,479
Speaker 2: So you do what do you What is it that

1466
01:14:32,520 --> 01:14:34,880
Speaker 2: you were saying earlier? You do like a thing with

1467
01:14:35,120 --> 01:14:36,479
Speaker 2: touring with the people.

1468
01:14:37,920 --> 01:14:44,400
Speaker 6: Yeah, well yeah, so I'm starting a touring fan engagement company.

1469
01:14:44,439 --> 01:14:47,920
Speaker 6: Because when I say I, the term is activations, So

1470
01:14:48,040 --> 01:14:51,360
Speaker 6: which is which I'm gonna I'm gonna rephrase it to

1471
01:14:51,400 --> 01:14:54,920
Speaker 6: fan engagement because it just means it's just easier to explain.

1472
01:14:55,040 --> 01:14:59,120
Speaker 2: So an activation is when like the Monster Energy truck

1473
01:14:59,200 --> 01:15:04,120
Speaker 2: comes to campus then gives out monster energy.

1474
01:15:02,680 --> 01:15:03,760
Speaker 1: Yes exactly.

1475
01:15:04,400 --> 01:15:07,040
Speaker 6: And the reason why I phrase it like that is that,

1476
01:15:07,400 --> 01:15:09,600
Speaker 6: you know, people when I go to explain it, like

1477
01:15:09,680 --> 01:15:11,720
Speaker 6: people don't understand what it is, and that like I

1478
01:15:11,760 --> 01:15:14,240
Speaker 6: didn't understand what it is. I didn't come into this

1479
01:15:14,439 --> 01:15:17,920
Speaker 6: understanding like, hey, this is what an activation is. Like

1480
01:15:18,000 --> 01:15:20,040
Speaker 6: I had to be explained to something. Like I sat

1481
01:15:20,080 --> 01:15:22,160
Speaker 6: down with someone and they were just like, oh, well,

1482
01:15:22,280 --> 01:15:25,360
Speaker 6: you're looking to do activations and like what the hell

1483
01:15:25,400 --> 01:15:27,680
Speaker 6: is an activation? And so I was just looking it up.

1484
01:15:27,760 --> 01:15:34,880
Speaker 6: So yeah, so I'm starting a company where I am

1485
01:15:35,240 --> 01:15:38,120
Speaker 6: going the ideas to go on tour with different artists

1486
01:15:38,720 --> 01:15:43,120
Speaker 6: and to interact with their general admission fans through just

1487
01:15:43,160 --> 01:15:48,439
Speaker 6: different activations, like different games, different surprise merch giveaways, you know,

1488
01:15:48,640 --> 01:15:53,640
Speaker 6: just different interesting, like cool things, and it's all curated

1489
01:15:53,880 --> 01:15:57,160
Speaker 6: like directly to the artists and their fan base because

1490
01:15:57,360 --> 01:15:59,160
Speaker 6: they're not going to you know, you're not going to

1491
01:15:59,200 --> 01:16:05,000
Speaker 6: be interacting with let's say, Jimmy Buffett's fans. You're not

1492
01:16:05,000 --> 01:16:07,840
Speaker 6: going to be interacting with his fans the same way

1493
01:16:07,880 --> 01:16:12,200
Speaker 6: that you would with like I don't know, like I

1494
01:16:12,240 --> 01:16:15,679
Speaker 6: don't know, Pink Floyds fans or whatever like something like that.

1495
01:16:16,920 --> 01:16:20,280
Speaker 6: So it's all curated directly to the artists and their

1496
01:16:20,320 --> 01:16:23,920
Speaker 6: fan bases to like what they want to do. And

1497
01:16:23,960 --> 01:16:26,680
Speaker 6: it's all pre show. It's it's pre show because you

1498
01:16:26,800 --> 01:16:29,479
Speaker 6: have to think about it, like you have doors that

1499
01:16:29,560 --> 01:16:33,040
Speaker 6: open typically like so you as I don't know if

1500
01:16:33,080 --> 01:16:35,599
Speaker 6: this is how it works for comedy, but like for artists,

1501
01:16:36,280 --> 01:16:39,840
Speaker 6: typically they'll get in you know, around like an hour

1502
01:16:39,960 --> 01:16:43,760
Speaker 6: or two, a couple hours before doors open so that

1503
01:16:43,800 --> 01:16:45,680
Speaker 6: they can go in for sound check and set up

1504
01:16:45,720 --> 01:16:52,120
Speaker 6: and do everything. And but doors will open at like

1505
01:16:52,240 --> 01:16:54,920
Speaker 6: let's say the show's at eight. Doors will open at six,

1506
01:16:55,400 --> 01:16:58,919
Speaker 6: so they they all have from six until eight o'clock

1507
01:17:00,160 --> 01:17:02,760
Speaker 6: to either find their seat, to sit and figure out

1508
01:17:02,760 --> 01:17:06,559
Speaker 6: what they're doing, and then you know, you find your seat.

1509
01:17:06,600 --> 01:17:10,320
Speaker 6: And I'm not necessarily an anti social person, but I'm like,

1510
01:17:10,400 --> 01:17:12,200
Speaker 6: I don't want to talk to the person that I'm

1511
01:17:12,240 --> 01:17:15,479
Speaker 6: sitting next to if I can come with them. But so,

1512
01:17:15,720 --> 01:17:20,640
Speaker 6: like you have, there's there's a missed marketing opportunity in

1513
01:17:20,680 --> 01:17:25,160
Speaker 6: my opinion, to where you can just get two hours

1514
01:17:25,320 --> 01:17:29,040
Speaker 6: of you know, and not you have two hours that

1515
01:17:29,080 --> 01:17:32,679
Speaker 6: you're missing in between when doors open and then when

1516
01:17:32,680 --> 01:17:34,960
Speaker 6: the actually show actually start marketing.

1517
01:17:35,040 --> 01:17:36,840
Speaker 2: What are we what are we supposed to market?

1518
01:17:38,240 --> 01:17:42,640
Speaker 6: It's well, I mean it's not necessarily it's marketing in

1519
01:17:42,680 --> 01:17:45,960
Speaker 6: the sense that you are just strengthening your fan base.

1520
01:17:46,000 --> 01:17:48,800
Speaker 6: I'm not saying you like this totally. I promise you.

1521
01:17:48,880 --> 01:17:51,160
Speaker 6: This is not a pitch, Like I just wanted to

1522
01:17:51,160 --> 01:17:55,640
Speaker 6: come here and just explain it the like you're it

1523
01:17:55,640 --> 01:17:59,080
Speaker 6: would be your fan base, your your marketing. Like let's

1524
01:17:59,080 --> 01:18:01,920
Speaker 6: say you have an album release and whatever, and you're

1525
01:18:02,160 --> 01:18:05,800
Speaker 6: you're solely doing something for the album release, like a

1526
01:18:07,160 --> 01:18:09,400
Speaker 6: I don't know, you have like a song or something

1527
01:18:09,439 --> 01:18:11,800
Speaker 6: that you really want to push, but it's it's kind

1528
01:18:11,840 --> 01:18:15,080
Speaker 6: of you know, you're really trying to get it out there.

1529
01:18:17,400 --> 01:18:21,040
Speaker 6: You know, you do stuff based on that, that the

1530
01:18:21,160 --> 01:18:23,599
Speaker 6: album or the song. So if you wanted to look

1531
01:18:23,640 --> 01:18:26,800
Speaker 6: at it from like a marketing standpoint, then that's that's

1532
01:18:26,840 --> 01:18:31,920
Speaker 6: what you would do. But from like a fan engagement standpoint,

1533
01:18:31,960 --> 01:18:36,559
Speaker 6: you're just looking to just connect all the fans in

1534
01:18:36,560 --> 01:18:36,920
Speaker 6: every way.

1535
01:18:36,920 --> 01:18:39,000
Speaker 2: Wait, okay, so hold on, hold on, hold on here,

1536
01:18:39,000 --> 01:18:39,719
Speaker 2: hold on here, what's.

1537
01:18:39,640 --> 01:18:42,240
Speaker 6: Your Yeah, my name's Billy.

1538
01:18:42,760 --> 01:18:46,600
Speaker 2: Billy, I gotta be honest with you. Well, so what, so,

1539
01:18:46,640 --> 01:18:48,200
Speaker 2: what the hell are you actually talking about?

1540
01:18:48,200 --> 01:18:48,439
Speaker 1: What are you?

1541
01:18:48,520 --> 01:18:50,600
Speaker 2: What are you supposed to? What are you supposed to

1542
01:18:50,640 --> 01:18:53,480
Speaker 2: be doing during this time? What is the marketing opportunity?

1543
01:18:53,479 --> 01:18:54,479
Speaker 2: What are we what are we doing?

1544
01:18:55,479 --> 01:19:00,240
Speaker 6: It's so the marketing opportunity is too for fans to

1545
01:19:00,600 --> 01:19:03,680
Speaker 6: just interact with, so I would be an extension of

1546
01:19:03,720 --> 01:19:11,519
Speaker 6: the artist, and the marketing opportunity is to just connect

1547
01:19:11,560 --> 01:19:15,240
Speaker 6: with general emission fans so that it's like on on,

1548
01:19:15,880 --> 01:19:16,800
Speaker 6: like pre show.

1549
01:19:17,280 --> 01:19:21,559
Speaker 2: Okay, So so the the idea is like, all right,

1550
01:19:21,600 --> 01:19:24,080
Speaker 2: so if I have my live show and the door

1551
01:19:24,120 --> 01:19:25,880
Speaker 2: is open at seven, but the show is at eight.

1552
01:19:25,960 --> 01:19:28,720
Speaker 2: I just I just chat with people from seven to eight.

1553
01:19:30,000 --> 01:19:32,880
Speaker 6: No, no, no, no, that's where I come in, because

1554
01:19:32,920 --> 01:19:35,880
Speaker 6: you have I'm saying, you know, as as the artist.

1555
01:19:35,960 --> 01:19:40,160
Speaker 6: We'll just say the artist. The artist is getting ready,

1556
01:19:40,240 --> 01:19:43,840
Speaker 6: being like prepping for the show, just getting ready in

1557
01:19:43,920 --> 01:19:46,439
Speaker 6: the green room, you know, just doing their thing. They

1558
01:19:46,479 --> 01:19:48,000
Speaker 6: don't want to It's not that they don't want to

1559
01:19:48,040 --> 01:19:50,760
Speaker 6: deal with everybody beforehand, but like, so.

1560
01:19:51,600 --> 01:19:53,519
Speaker 2: What, so what are you? What are you supposed to

1561
01:19:53,560 --> 01:19:57,200
Speaker 2: do as an extension of the of the artists?

1562
01:19:57,280 --> 01:19:57,599
Speaker 1: Yeah?

1563
01:19:57,680 --> 01:20:02,120
Speaker 6: So I play games with I play predetermined games with

1564
01:20:02,280 --> 01:20:06,200
Speaker 6: the general emission fan base. That's like at the show.

1565
01:20:06,320 --> 01:20:07,639
Speaker 3: Does this? Does this make sense?

1566
01:20:07,920 --> 01:20:10,000
Speaker 2: You're like a pre show jesture.

1567
01:20:11,640 --> 01:20:13,400
Speaker 6: Yeah, sure, if you want to put it that way.

1568
01:20:14,800 --> 01:20:17,839
Speaker 2: That makes that makes some sense, That makes some sense. Yeah,

1569
01:20:18,000 --> 01:20:25,320
Speaker 2: what's yeah? Okay, that makes some sense. Would you you play?

1570
01:20:25,479 --> 01:20:27,160
Speaker 2: So you play games with?

1571
01:20:27,520 --> 01:20:27,600
Speaker 3: So?

1572
01:20:27,680 --> 01:20:30,720
Speaker 2: All right, so let's say the fans are going to

1573
01:20:30,760 --> 01:20:35,040
Speaker 2: go see uh the I don't why do why? Why

1574
01:20:35,080 --> 01:20:37,000
Speaker 2: can't I name a single band?

1575
01:20:37,040 --> 01:20:37,360
Speaker 3: All right?

1576
01:20:37,400 --> 01:20:39,479
Speaker 2: Let's say we're going to go see The Grateful Dead

1577
01:20:40,600 --> 01:20:44,800
Speaker 2: and we're there two hours early. You come over and

1578
01:20:44,880 --> 01:20:50,719
Speaker 2: you you start playing Grateful Dead themed games with us. Yes, okay,

1579
01:20:50,800 --> 01:20:54,200
Speaker 2: that's fun. I like that that could work. Yeah, can

1580
01:20:54,240 --> 01:20:56,560
Speaker 2: we win? I can we win the prizes?

1581
01:20:58,080 --> 01:20:58,439
Speaker 3: Yeah?

1582
01:20:58,479 --> 01:21:01,280
Speaker 6: So that's that's exactly what it. So you go and

1583
01:21:01,320 --> 01:21:04,519
Speaker 6: it's all predetermined, like I would work on the like

1584
01:21:04,680 --> 01:21:10,240
Speaker 6: with artists and their team to then go and say, hey,

1585
01:21:10,320 --> 01:21:12,080
Speaker 6: you know this is what we know. You have a

1586
01:21:12,080 --> 01:21:14,960
Speaker 6: show coming up on X y Z date right, and

1587
01:21:15,000 --> 01:21:19,120
Speaker 6: then it's like, well, we have preset giveaways and you know,

1588
01:21:19,320 --> 01:21:23,960
Speaker 6: like different, I have a if you've ever seen one

1589
01:21:24,000 --> 01:21:26,920
Speaker 6: of them spinning wheel things, like the colorful spinning wheel things,

1590
01:21:26,920 --> 01:21:29,120
Speaker 6: I have one of them with like the whiteboard things.

1591
01:21:29,360 --> 01:21:30,080
Speaker 6: Well right on it.

1592
01:21:31,400 --> 01:21:34,920
Speaker 2: Well, well, Billy, look well I'll say this is I

1593
01:21:34,960 --> 01:21:38,000
Speaker 2: think if you can if I like, if I were

1594
01:21:38,040 --> 01:21:40,160
Speaker 2: on the Shark Tank right and you were pitching me

1595
01:21:40,240 --> 01:21:46,360
Speaker 2: this idea, I would say something like, you know, well, normally, see,

1596
01:21:46,360 --> 01:21:49,040
Speaker 2: here's the thing is, this is already normally when people

1597
01:21:49,120 --> 01:21:51,599
Speaker 2: arrive early to a show, they already have a thing

1598
01:21:51,640 --> 01:21:58,920
Speaker 2: that they do, which is they get really drunk. Also,

1599
01:21:58,960 --> 01:22:01,240
Speaker 2: I'll say this, Billy, I'll say this before we go,

1600
01:22:01,400 --> 01:22:05,840
Speaker 2: is if you can come up with an idea for

1601
01:22:05,920 --> 01:22:10,679
Speaker 2: a pre show thing that is more fun than getting

1602
01:22:10,760 --> 01:22:14,720
Speaker 2: really drunk. Then you got yourself a good idea in

1603
01:22:14,800 --> 01:22:15,360
Speaker 2: your hands.

1604
01:22:16,960 --> 01:22:17,240
Speaker 3: Cool.

1605
01:22:17,400 --> 01:22:19,080
Speaker 2: But I I but I I you know. I wish

1606
01:22:19,120 --> 01:22:20,840
Speaker 2: you good luck with this idea. I wish you good

1607
01:22:20,880 --> 01:22:21,679
Speaker 2: luck with this idea.

1608
01:22:22,880 --> 01:22:23,320
Speaker 3: Thank you.

1609
01:22:23,479 --> 01:22:25,840
Speaker 2: I appreciate Is there is there anything else you want

1610
01:22:25,880 --> 01:22:28,320
Speaker 2: to say to the people of the computer before we go.

1611
01:22:29,880 --> 01:22:30,839
Speaker 6: Not to the computer.

1612
01:22:31,040 --> 01:22:32,200
Speaker 1: I do have a quick.

1613
01:22:32,040 --> 01:22:33,880
Speaker 2: Question for you, though, Yeah, please hit me.

1614
01:22:35,600 --> 01:22:35,720
Speaker 3: So.

1615
01:22:35,880 --> 01:22:38,320
Speaker 6: For the longest time I've been trying.

1616
01:22:38,000 --> 01:22:40,200
Speaker 5: To figure and if you can't say, then that's fine.

1617
01:22:40,439 --> 01:22:42,800
Speaker 6: For the longest time, I've been trying to figure out

1618
01:22:43,240 --> 01:22:45,880
Speaker 6: what the background music is with the flute.

1619
01:22:46,479 --> 01:22:47,920
Speaker 3: That is that a topic?

1620
01:22:48,080 --> 01:22:49,280
Speaker 6: Is that a no go topic?

1621
01:22:50,320 --> 01:22:52,960
Speaker 2: If you go to the music, if you go to

1622
01:22:53,120 --> 01:22:57,840
Speaker 2: YouTube and you search royalty free jazz music, it's one

1623
01:22:57,880 --> 01:23:00,439
Speaker 2: of those. That's what I did. Okay, so I went

1624
01:23:00,479 --> 01:23:04,920
Speaker 2: to Royalty Free Jazz music and so it's one of those.

1625
01:23:05,040 --> 01:23:05,679
Speaker 2: It's one of those.

1626
01:23:06,960 --> 01:23:10,120
Speaker 6: Cool, awesome, all right, cool, thanks Lyle. I really appreciate you.

1627
01:23:10,320 --> 01:23:11,920
Speaker 2: Of course, take care, Billy, bye bye.

1628
01:23:12,680 --> 01:23:13,759
Speaker 3: I have a good one. Bite.

1629
01:23:18,040 --> 01:23:20,120
Speaker 2: That's an interesting idea. I hope he makes it. I

1630
01:23:20,160 --> 01:23:23,120
Speaker 2: hope it works. Maybe that's funny. Maybe next maybe next year,

1631
01:23:23,160 --> 01:23:26,040
Speaker 2: when you go to a Therapy Gecko show, Billy will

1632
01:23:26,080 --> 01:23:30,040
Speaker 2: be out there juggling and playing Tic Tac dough with everyone,

1633
01:23:30,520 --> 01:23:32,040
Speaker 2: and everyone will be you know, this is actually a

1634
01:23:32,080 --> 01:23:35,599
Speaker 2: pretty good idea. Hello, folks, it's Lyle here. That's the

1635
01:23:35,720 --> 01:23:39,360
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1646
01:24:23,439 --> 01:24:26,760
Speaker 1: Uh? I completely love her.

1647
01:24:26,760 --> 01:24:30,080
Speaker 2: To guess here's what I'm gonna do. I'm gonna I'm

1648
01:24:30,120 --> 01:24:32,080
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1649
01:24:32,200 --> 01:24:36,080
Speaker 2: gonna rant at you for a second. U Right, Okay,

1650
01:24:36,240 --> 01:24:38,599
Speaker 2: you gotta at a certain point be able to protect

1651
01:24:38,640 --> 01:24:41,639
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1653
01:24:46,560 --> 01:24:48,880
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1654
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1655
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1656
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1661
01:25:14,560 --> 01:25:15,960
Speaker 2: have nothing else to say.

1662
01:25:17,200 --> 01:25:21,320
Speaker 1: Therepy goes on the line, taking your phone calls every night.

1663
01:25:21,680 --> 01:25:23,559
Speaker 2: Therepy goes to a side.

1664
01:25:23,680 --> 01:25:25,840
Speaker 4: He's teaching you Cloud in the mead of your life,

1665
01:25:26,200 --> 01:25:29,160
Speaker 4: but he's not really an expert.