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And when you head to curetur dot 10 00:00:29,160 --> 00:00:34,639 Speaker 1: com that cur at eur dot com, you'll receive an 11 00:00:34,640 --> 00:00:46,800 Speaker 1: exclusive offer. Hi everyone, I'm Rachel Zoe and you're listening 12 00:00:46,800 --> 00:00:50,800 Speaker 1: to Climbing and Heels. This show is all about celebrating 13 00:00:50,840 --> 00:00:54,120 Speaker 1: the most extraordinary superwoman who will be sharing their incredible 14 00:00:54,200 --> 00:00:57,720 Speaker 1: journeys to the top, all while staying Plummer. Today with me, 15 00:00:57,920 --> 00:01:02,200 Speaker 1: we have the very talented model, actress, author and beauty 16 00:01:02,400 --> 00:01:06,319 Speaker 1: guru Mollie Sims on the pot. We cover a lot 17 00:01:06,360 --> 00:01:09,000 Speaker 1: of ground in this episode and Mollie talks about the 18 00:01:09,000 --> 00:01:13,280 Speaker 1: toxicity of the fashion industry, dealing with rejection, finding love. 19 00:01:13,480 --> 00:01:14,520 Speaker 2: And starting a family. 20 00:01:14,840 --> 00:01:18,600 Speaker 1: Just to mention a few Mollie shares a lot about 21 00:01:18,959 --> 00:01:23,480 Speaker 1: her resilience and how leaving modeling industry really jump started 22 00:01:23,520 --> 00:01:28,160 Speaker 1: her acting career, but then really kind of faced the 23 00:01:28,200 --> 00:01:31,120 Speaker 1: reality and started to really worry about the expiration date 24 00:01:31,360 --> 00:01:36,520 Speaker 1: because I mean, you know, it kind of does have one, 25 00:01:36,720 --> 00:01:38,640 Speaker 1: even though no one really wants to talk about that. 26 00:01:38,959 --> 00:01:42,360 Speaker 1: But okay, I'm very excited for all of you to 27 00:01:42,480 --> 00:01:45,000 Speaker 1: listen to this episode, and I know you're going to 28 00:01:45,080 --> 00:01:51,760 Speaker 1: learn a lot and you're going to love it, so enjoy. 29 00:01:54,360 --> 00:01:56,320 Speaker 3: First of all, thank you for having me, because I 30 00:01:56,360 --> 00:01:57,360 Speaker 3: love this podcast. 31 00:01:57,600 --> 00:01:59,640 Speaker 4: I love that. I love that. 32 00:02:00,120 --> 00:02:03,200 Speaker 3: You know, it is really you know, not to quote 33 00:02:03,240 --> 00:02:06,960 Speaker 3: Miley Cyrus, but it is really the climb. I think 34 00:02:07,000 --> 00:02:11,200 Speaker 3: the climb, I think the climb started. I'm from Murray, Kentucky. 35 00:02:11,360 --> 00:02:15,520 Speaker 3: It's in a little western tip part. It's above Tennessee. 36 00:02:15,680 --> 00:02:18,560 Speaker 4: It's in a little little corner. I went to public school. 37 00:02:19,000 --> 00:02:22,960 Speaker 3: I dreamed of going and getting out from a very 38 00:02:23,160 --> 00:02:26,680 Speaker 3: young age. My parents also traveled, though, so they really 39 00:02:26,720 --> 00:02:30,960 Speaker 3: opened my eyes to not just Kentucky, Tennessee, Alabama, but 40 00:02:31,240 --> 00:02:34,440 Speaker 3: to you know, maybe New York or Florida or I 41 00:02:34,480 --> 00:02:35,840 Speaker 3: mean really not California. 42 00:02:35,880 --> 00:02:38,560 Speaker 4: But they definitely opened my eyes to the world of 43 00:02:38,880 --> 00:02:40,320 Speaker 4: beauty and fashion. 44 00:02:40,840 --> 00:02:45,200 Speaker 3: And they were very big on doing your own thing, 45 00:02:46,080 --> 00:02:50,799 Speaker 3: meaning that I saw them take massive chances in their life. 46 00:02:51,040 --> 00:02:54,480 Speaker 3: My dad was the guy who bought back your books 47 00:02:54,520 --> 00:02:56,440 Speaker 3: at the end of the year because it went from 48 00:02:56,480 --> 00:02:57,040 Speaker 3: a first. 49 00:02:56,919 --> 00:02:58,079 Speaker 4: Edition to a second edition. 50 00:02:58,080 --> 00:03:00,200 Speaker 3: And you're like, okay, I'll give you twenty bucks, Like, 51 00:03:00,200 --> 00:03:01,120 Speaker 3: but I've paid fifty. 52 00:03:01,480 --> 00:03:04,360 Speaker 4: We're like, tell your teachers. But that was my dad, right. 53 00:03:04,560 --> 00:03:08,480 Speaker 3: And he left a company when I think I was 54 00:03:08,480 --> 00:03:10,800 Speaker 3: like five years old, and we got down to like 55 00:03:10,919 --> 00:03:14,280 Speaker 3: five dollars and thirty eight cents and a freezer. My 56 00:03:14,320 --> 00:03:16,440 Speaker 3: mom grew up on a farm not far you know, 57 00:03:16,639 --> 00:03:20,520 Speaker 3: far away and just an italics machine on concrete blocks 58 00:03:20,520 --> 00:03:24,600 Speaker 3: in the basement. Oh my god, I know, right, so 59 00:03:25,200 --> 00:03:27,800 Speaker 3: you see all of those little things and listen. I 60 00:03:27,840 --> 00:03:30,239 Speaker 3: had an iodyllic childhood. 61 00:03:30,360 --> 00:03:34,239 Speaker 4: We played sports, We were you know, very like a 62 00:03:34,360 --> 00:03:35,040 Speaker 4: small town. 63 00:03:35,240 --> 00:03:39,640 Speaker 1: Small town, like knew everybody walked everywhere. Like I mean, 64 00:03:39,720 --> 00:03:41,600 Speaker 1: by the way, don't you dream that for our kids? 65 00:03:41,800 --> 00:03:43,640 Speaker 1: I mean I do, I wish, I. 66 00:03:43,560 --> 00:03:44,240 Speaker 4: Mean, we did want. 67 00:03:44,280 --> 00:03:46,480 Speaker 3: I think you know a lot of people talk about 68 00:03:46,560 --> 00:03:49,840 Speaker 3: you know, la being you know this or that, but 69 00:03:49,880 --> 00:03:51,960 Speaker 3: I have to say I think we especially Rachel and 70 00:03:52,000 --> 00:03:55,720 Speaker 3: I have created this little pocket that our kids can 71 00:03:55,800 --> 00:03:59,240 Speaker 3: have that experience. And I do think it's you know, 72 00:03:59,240 --> 00:04:02,880 Speaker 3: well it's not you know, thirty years ago, forty years ago. 73 00:04:03,520 --> 00:04:05,800 Speaker 3: There are all certain things that will always be and 74 00:04:05,880 --> 00:04:08,880 Speaker 3: that's community. And my mom had a really good community. 75 00:04:09,040 --> 00:04:12,240 Speaker 3: But I think through her traveling, him, traveling, my mom 76 00:04:12,280 --> 00:04:15,800 Speaker 3: and my dad, they always wanted more for us, meaning 77 00:04:16,000 --> 00:04:19,719 Speaker 3: not that they saw Kentucky was bad or just you know, 78 00:04:19,839 --> 00:04:22,440 Speaker 3: your hometown, but they really always pushed us to be 79 00:04:22,560 --> 00:04:24,640 Speaker 3: like what do you want to be? Like they never 80 00:04:25,480 --> 00:04:29,440 Speaker 3: they never did the you can't leave here, you can't 81 00:04:29,480 --> 00:04:30,760 Speaker 3: you can't be that right. 82 00:04:31,000 --> 00:04:32,600 Speaker 4: Like Broke flipped me dead. 83 00:04:32,360 --> 00:04:36,159 Speaker 3: In the eye the other day and my trainer, Erica, 84 00:04:36,520 --> 00:04:39,120 Speaker 3: he was talking to her. He comes down in six 85 00:04:39,320 --> 00:04:43,719 Speaker 3: twenty his uniform on and starts to chat and he 86 00:04:43,839 --> 00:04:46,400 Speaker 3: was like, you know, Erica, Mom, He's like, I really. 87 00:04:46,200 --> 00:04:47,440 Speaker 4: Don't know what I'm going to do. 88 00:04:47,640 --> 00:04:51,240 Speaker 3: I mean, I could be an NBA player, or I 89 00:04:51,279 --> 00:04:53,560 Speaker 3: could be a PLL there, a professional crosslayer. 90 00:04:53,960 --> 00:04:58,280 Speaker 4: I still't know. And you know, I could see her 91 00:04:58,440 --> 00:04:59,640 Speaker 4: trying not to flinch. 92 00:05:00,000 --> 00:05:02,320 Speaker 3: I'm not going to be either of the two, but 93 00:05:03,000 --> 00:05:05,440 Speaker 3: might just take the money and in that moment, you 94 00:05:05,520 --> 00:05:08,520 Speaker 3: don't say, oh, you're never gonna, never gonna be that, 95 00:05:08,600 --> 00:05:11,520 Speaker 3: but do you think you know, my parents are really 96 00:05:11,560 --> 00:05:15,160 Speaker 3: good with you know, you know, the dream chasing, like 97 00:05:15,200 --> 00:05:18,080 Speaker 3: they let us, they let us chase it, they let 98 00:05:18,160 --> 00:05:19,200 Speaker 3: us believe in it. 99 00:05:19,279 --> 00:05:23,960 Speaker 1: That's very important though, that's very like it's funny because 100 00:05:24,120 --> 00:05:27,120 Speaker 1: you touch on that and realize it. It's funny that 101 00:05:27,160 --> 00:05:31,680 Speaker 1: you recognize it now that they were so kind of 102 00:05:31,839 --> 00:05:35,919 Speaker 1: free with that because I think, especially thirty years ago, 103 00:05:36,200 --> 00:05:39,240 Speaker 1: I think parents were very traditional and very My parents 104 00:05:39,279 --> 00:05:42,479 Speaker 1: weren't the same and not the norm. Their friends were 105 00:05:42,640 --> 00:05:45,560 Speaker 1: very like go to IVY League to their kids like 106 00:05:45,640 --> 00:05:45,960 Speaker 1: all that. 107 00:05:46,520 --> 00:05:47,560 Speaker 2: My parents weren't that. 108 00:05:47,600 --> 00:05:50,960 Speaker 1: And I think now when I look at it, I'm like, huh, 109 00:05:51,120 --> 00:05:54,280 Speaker 1: I'm like listening to your kids with those pure thoughts 110 00:05:54,400 --> 00:05:55,800 Speaker 1: like like Brooks, you like. 111 00:05:56,320 --> 00:05:58,760 Speaker 2: Will I be a lacrosse player? Will be an NBA player? 112 00:05:58,920 --> 00:06:03,120 Speaker 4: Like great, you're in fourth grade, Like. 113 00:06:04,960 --> 00:06:07,520 Speaker 1: Think all the dreams and go because you have the 114 00:06:07,560 --> 00:06:10,919 Speaker 1: next like fifteen years right that you're going to this 115 00:06:11,160 --> 00:06:13,279 Speaker 1: Your mind is going to change four hundred times about 116 00:06:13,320 --> 00:06:13,960 Speaker 1: all of these things. 117 00:06:14,360 --> 00:06:18,240 Speaker 3: But also pure, you know, it's pure, and also they 118 00:06:18,360 --> 00:06:22,080 Speaker 3: really you know, whether you think your kids are picking 119 00:06:22,160 --> 00:06:25,840 Speaker 3: up on certain things or not picking up I was like, 120 00:06:25,920 --> 00:06:28,479 Speaker 3: I remember being like my restaurant, my brother and I. 121 00:06:29,080 --> 00:06:31,320 Speaker 3: He pretended that he was blind and deaf, and he 122 00:06:31,440 --> 00:06:33,600 Speaker 3: was my customer in the restaurant. Well, the restaurant was 123 00:06:33,640 --> 00:06:36,039 Speaker 3: called the Vanderbilt. But where do you think I got 124 00:06:36,040 --> 00:06:40,320 Speaker 3: the Vanderbilt from? Because Vanderbilt was where my dad would 125 00:06:40,320 --> 00:06:43,640 Speaker 3: do the book buy and my mom would go to Nasville. 126 00:06:43,760 --> 00:06:47,440 Speaker 3: And so it's a great university. It's a great school. 127 00:06:47,640 --> 00:06:49,640 Speaker 4: You know. So all those little things that were kind 128 00:06:49,640 --> 00:06:50,159 Speaker 4: of set. 129 00:06:50,000 --> 00:06:52,800 Speaker 3: In motion, even though they didn't really want us to 130 00:06:52,880 --> 00:06:56,320 Speaker 3: have an education, but they didn't think that you got it. 131 00:06:56,400 --> 00:06:58,840 Speaker 3: Like my brother went to Murray, say, for two years, 132 00:06:58,880 --> 00:07:01,560 Speaker 3: and then he turned pro and was a professional golfer 133 00:07:01,600 --> 00:07:05,000 Speaker 3: for twenty years. I went to Vanderbilt, became a tried 134 00:07:05,040 --> 00:07:07,960 Speaker 3: out and you know, I would say to my mom 135 00:07:08,000 --> 00:07:09,600 Speaker 3: and like, why does it like even like the high 136 00:07:09,600 --> 00:07:11,760 Speaker 3: school football games, I'm like, why don't we all have 137 00:07:11,840 --> 00:07:12,840 Speaker 3: to have the same mom? 138 00:07:13,480 --> 00:07:16,520 Speaker 4: Right, Like why do we all have to have. 139 00:07:16,440 --> 00:07:18,440 Speaker 3: The same Like my mom would be like, okay, all 140 00:07:18,440 --> 00:07:21,640 Speaker 3: the girls are wearing their hairs curly, right. I was like, 141 00:07:21,680 --> 00:07:25,240 Speaker 3: you know that all seemed strange spread yeah, purple broadline. 142 00:07:25,360 --> 00:07:28,880 Speaker 1: No, well, the you know, the Julia Roberts of it all, 143 00:07:29,520 --> 00:07:31,040 Speaker 1: the Adam Sandler movie of it. 144 00:07:31,040 --> 00:07:32,560 Speaker 4: All, exactly. 145 00:07:32,840 --> 00:07:35,640 Speaker 3: And so she'd be like, you know, all the college 146 00:07:35,640 --> 00:07:39,480 Speaker 3: girls are wearing their hair straight, and I was like really, 147 00:07:39,760 --> 00:07:41,600 Speaker 3: I was like, yeah, because it's called the straining iron. 148 00:07:41,640 --> 00:07:42,840 Speaker 4: I was like, I don't even know what that is, 149 00:07:42,880 --> 00:07:43,480 Speaker 4: because me neither. 150 00:07:44,000 --> 00:07:48,360 Speaker 3: But she was just very good about She just was, 151 00:07:48,520 --> 00:07:53,320 Speaker 3: you know, and I also eminently someone who you know, 152 00:07:53,480 --> 00:07:56,320 Speaker 3: it's curious, yeah, right, like I've always been always well, 153 00:07:56,360 --> 00:07:59,840 Speaker 3: I mean I have like nine dogs, nine careers, nine lines, yeah, Gemini, 154 00:08:00,160 --> 00:08:02,120 Speaker 3: and so you know, I went to Vanderbilt and then 155 00:08:02,160 --> 00:08:04,920 Speaker 3: I got an opportunity to go to New York to model, 156 00:08:05,480 --> 00:08:07,520 Speaker 3: to go for a summer, just to see and I 157 00:08:07,560 --> 00:08:11,160 Speaker 3: remember being like, we're going to like we'd only I 158 00:08:11,160 --> 00:08:14,080 Speaker 3: think I'd only been on a flight I went to 159 00:08:14,120 --> 00:08:17,160 Speaker 3: my my junior year in high school, I went to France. 160 00:08:17,640 --> 00:08:20,800 Speaker 3: My French name was Jacqueline, and I'm like, I'm going 161 00:08:20,880 --> 00:08:23,200 Speaker 3: to live here one day. And my mom was actually 162 00:08:23,240 --> 00:08:25,360 Speaker 3: one of the aprons. I think we'd been on a 163 00:08:25,400 --> 00:08:29,480 Speaker 3: flight maybe once or twice, and we were supposed to 164 00:08:29,480 --> 00:08:31,440 Speaker 3: go to New York for a week, and that lasted 165 00:08:31,480 --> 00:08:34,560 Speaker 3: three months, and then I wrote Vanderbilt, and I still 166 00:08:34,559 --> 00:08:37,280 Speaker 3: have the letter I wrote. I'm like, i just have 167 00:08:37,360 --> 00:08:41,400 Speaker 3: this amazing opportunity. I'm just going to take one semester off. 168 00:08:41,559 --> 00:08:44,760 Speaker 3: And then I got sent to Germany and then from 169 00:08:44,760 --> 00:08:49,079 Speaker 3: there to London and then Paris, and I lived in Italy, 170 00:08:49,320 --> 00:08:51,679 Speaker 3: and so I lived in Europe off and on for 171 00:08:51,840 --> 00:08:54,560 Speaker 3: seven years before I kind of came back to New 172 00:08:54,640 --> 00:08:57,920 Speaker 3: York for not for good, but then you make it 173 00:08:57,920 --> 00:08:58,640 Speaker 3: another jump. 174 00:08:58,720 --> 00:09:00,920 Speaker 4: So it was always but there I learned how to 175 00:09:01,000 --> 00:09:01,720 Speaker 4: dress right. 176 00:09:01,800 --> 00:09:05,960 Speaker 3: So in London I learned to be edgy and punky 177 00:09:06,040 --> 00:09:10,280 Speaker 3: and be like Doc Martiney with a dress and an oversize, 178 00:09:10,320 --> 00:09:13,680 Speaker 3: and in Paris side and a biker jacket. In Paris, 179 00:09:13,920 --> 00:09:16,120 Speaker 3: you know, I learned who Vivian Westwood was. And then 180 00:09:16,120 --> 00:09:17,520 Speaker 3: in Paris I learned. 181 00:09:17,320 --> 00:09:20,040 Speaker 4: I don't know just the the. 182 00:09:19,360 --> 00:09:23,160 Speaker 3: French girl, chic French girls seek the dressed up but 183 00:09:23,240 --> 00:09:25,240 Speaker 3: not dressed up, the makeup but no makeup. 184 00:09:26,120 --> 00:09:29,200 Speaker 4: In Italy I learned the sexiness of all of it. 185 00:09:29,800 --> 00:09:34,599 Speaker 1: Animal prints, embrace your womanhood, all the things about Italians 186 00:09:34,760 --> 00:09:35,880 Speaker 1: men that captivate you. 187 00:09:36,040 --> 00:09:38,760 Speaker 3: Right, and so I think, you know, through all of that, 188 00:09:38,800 --> 00:09:43,040 Speaker 3: it was truly my education, you know. And I just 189 00:09:43,080 --> 00:09:46,120 Speaker 3: got back from not being in Paris. I'm now gone 190 00:09:46,160 --> 00:09:49,079 Speaker 3: twice in the last four months and I hadn't gone. 191 00:09:49,360 --> 00:09:51,200 Speaker 4: Yeah, sin could a. 192 00:09:51,360 --> 00:09:54,560 Speaker 3: Twenty twenty January and how much I missed it and 193 00:09:54,600 --> 00:09:57,199 Speaker 3: how much I loved But it was truly an education 194 00:09:57,400 --> 00:10:01,800 Speaker 3: for me as much as modeling, you know, was an 195 00:10:01,960 --> 00:10:05,200 Speaker 3: education of its own. And yeah, growing up and life 196 00:10:05,280 --> 00:10:08,400 Speaker 3: and leaving your chocolate chip cookie dough, dipping your fry 197 00:10:08,400 --> 00:10:11,880 Speaker 3: in a winday's windy Sundays and going to a football game. 198 00:10:12,840 --> 00:10:17,040 Speaker 3: You know, it was definitely, Uh, it was definitely a change. 199 00:10:17,240 --> 00:10:20,640 Speaker 3: I think with every iteration you know, I I don't know, 200 00:10:20,720 --> 00:10:21,880 Speaker 3: but it all came. 201 00:10:21,720 --> 00:10:23,360 Speaker 4: Back to beauty and fashion. 202 00:10:23,520 --> 00:10:24,840 Speaker 2: Yeah, you know, like you. 203 00:10:24,960 --> 00:10:27,640 Speaker 3: I mean, I'm not as holistic as you, but I 204 00:10:28,080 --> 00:10:31,600 Speaker 3: do love the art of beauty and fashion. 205 00:10:31,280 --> 00:10:32,240 Speaker 4: And you've lived it. 206 00:10:32,320 --> 00:10:34,640 Speaker 1: But I think so to go from so, were you 207 00:10:34,720 --> 00:10:36,200 Speaker 1: like a great were you a great student? 208 00:10:36,240 --> 00:10:38,120 Speaker 2: Were you always a good student? I feel like you were. 209 00:10:39,040 --> 00:10:40,800 Speaker 3: You know, It's funny. We just had our Guaran teacher 210 00:10:40,840 --> 00:10:43,360 Speaker 3: conference and I my mom passed away as Rachel Nas 211 00:10:44,240 --> 00:10:47,559 Speaker 3: a few years ago and last year I had two 212 00:10:48,240 --> 00:10:53,400 Speaker 3: We openly sold our family home, and so I found 213 00:10:53,760 --> 00:10:55,319 Speaker 3: all the report cards. 214 00:10:56,480 --> 00:11:00,120 Speaker 4: Now, I you know, I am a word. 215 00:11:00,080 --> 00:11:00,840 Speaker 2: Group by yep. 216 00:11:02,000 --> 00:11:04,000 Speaker 4: I have always been a worker bee. 217 00:11:04,040 --> 00:11:07,040 Speaker 3: I just had a fiftieth, which sadly Rachel couldn't come 218 00:11:07,080 --> 00:11:11,120 Speaker 3: across three continents of this moment. And my colleague roommate 219 00:11:11,160 --> 00:11:14,080 Speaker 3: who I went to Vanderbilt with, was like, okay, so 220 00:11:14,160 --> 00:11:16,640 Speaker 3: she was in the pre law. She was like, and 221 00:11:16,720 --> 00:11:20,280 Speaker 3: I wish because you heard yourselves with her highlighter. I 222 00:11:20,400 --> 00:11:22,439 Speaker 3: was the worker bee, and I found me to report cards. 223 00:11:22,440 --> 00:11:25,160 Speaker 3: And I always thought my brother was smarter than me 224 00:11:25,240 --> 00:11:26,720 Speaker 3: because he just got it quicker. 225 00:11:26,760 --> 00:11:28,160 Speaker 4: He was a better test taker. 226 00:11:28,000 --> 00:11:28,720 Speaker 2: Different learner. 227 00:11:29,440 --> 00:11:31,120 Speaker 4: But I was like, are you fucking kidding me? I 228 00:11:31,400 --> 00:11:34,920 Speaker 4: facetimed him. I was like, you made like c's and 229 00:11:35,040 --> 00:11:37,280 Speaker 4: I go here, I am like a's and b's. 230 00:11:37,280 --> 00:11:41,520 Speaker 3: I mean, I knew I got into Vanderbilt. There's something 231 00:11:41,520 --> 00:11:45,680 Speaker 3: could have been going right. But like, I never thought 232 00:11:45,920 --> 00:11:49,280 Speaker 3: I'm good in certain way. We're all different learners, but 233 00:11:49,880 --> 00:11:53,320 Speaker 3: you did. You were a good student. I'm a good student, 234 00:11:53,400 --> 00:11:55,200 Speaker 3: but I was a worker. It took me a second 235 00:11:55,200 --> 00:11:57,520 Speaker 3: to get it. Once I did get it why I 236 00:11:57,559 --> 00:12:01,080 Speaker 3: can memorize fast now, but I've been memorizing for twenty years. 237 00:12:00,960 --> 00:12:05,720 Speaker 1: Right true, And so so okay, so you go, And 238 00:12:05,760 --> 00:12:09,160 Speaker 1: so obviously I would imagine and I could be making 239 00:12:09,200 --> 00:12:12,280 Speaker 1: this up, but I'm going to venture to guess, and 240 00:12:12,320 --> 00:12:14,440 Speaker 1: I may, in our very long friendship, have heard this 241 00:12:14,520 --> 00:12:15,240 Speaker 1: through the great mind. 242 00:12:15,320 --> 00:12:17,920 Speaker 2: Were you homecoming queen or something prompt queen? 243 00:12:18,040 --> 00:12:20,480 Speaker 1: I feel like you were some kind of queen, that 244 00:12:21,360 --> 00:12:23,040 Speaker 1: queen something that life. 245 00:12:23,280 --> 00:12:28,760 Speaker 3: Yeah, oh yeah, miss Kaliley County. I was phenomenal, Alison, 246 00:12:29,040 --> 00:12:32,960 Speaker 3: I remember this. Oh yeah, I had the puby, I 247 00:12:33,040 --> 00:12:36,319 Speaker 3: made the newspaper. I sold the most amount of Girl 248 00:12:36,400 --> 00:12:37,560 Speaker 3: Scout Chris, you did. 249 00:12:38,240 --> 00:12:41,079 Speaker 1: Oh yeah, but that's the thing. That's the thing, and 250 00:12:41,120 --> 00:12:46,840 Speaker 1: that to me, to me, it's funny. Being a good student, 251 00:12:46,920 --> 00:12:49,800 Speaker 1: to me is never about an IQ. It's sort of like, 252 00:12:50,920 --> 00:12:54,000 Speaker 1: you know, did you put the work in right? And 253 00:12:54,120 --> 00:12:56,520 Speaker 1: ultimately I always joke. So I went to college. I 254 00:12:56,559 --> 00:12:59,880 Speaker 1: got the whole thing, my degree. In hindsight, had my 255 00:13:00,200 --> 00:13:02,120 Speaker 1: parents said you don't have to go and you can 256 00:13:02,160 --> 00:13:05,000 Speaker 1: go start working, I a thousand percent would have started. 257 00:13:05,040 --> 00:13:07,280 Speaker 1: I would have started working and started my career at 258 00:13:07,320 --> 00:13:11,520 Speaker 1: sixteen one thousand percent and I think that, like I 259 00:13:11,600 --> 00:13:14,679 Speaker 1: always like to talk about education on this podcast because 260 00:13:14,840 --> 00:13:17,200 Speaker 1: I really stand by that your education in no way 261 00:13:17,240 --> 00:13:21,280 Speaker 1: defines you. I think for some people, they hold that 262 00:13:21,360 --> 00:13:23,679 Speaker 1: in a very certain place and they continue to reference 263 00:13:23,720 --> 00:13:26,599 Speaker 1: it throughout their lives, right like doctors and Laura's a 264 00:13:26,640 --> 00:13:30,200 Speaker 1: very specific, you know, profession. But I have gone on 265 00:13:30,280 --> 00:13:32,720 Speaker 1: to see And this is not to say don't go 266 00:13:32,760 --> 00:13:35,079 Speaker 1: to college, don't try hard to. It's nothing that's such 267 00:13:35,120 --> 00:13:38,360 Speaker 1: a different conversation. But I do think that some of 268 00:13:38,400 --> 00:13:41,040 Speaker 1: the most successful people I know have either dropped out 269 00:13:41,040 --> 00:13:43,280 Speaker 1: of high school, have not gone to college, have gone 270 00:13:43,320 --> 00:13:47,000 Speaker 1: to college and left college have gone on to be 271 00:13:47,240 --> 00:13:50,840 Speaker 1: so incredibly successful in so many different ways. But I 272 00:13:50,880 --> 00:13:53,440 Speaker 1: want to talk about modeling for a second, because you 273 00:13:53,640 --> 00:13:58,480 Speaker 1: said how that educated you? And I've had models on 274 00:13:58,520 --> 00:14:02,200 Speaker 1: the podcast, stylists, all people throughout the industry, actors to 275 00:14:02,240 --> 00:14:05,040 Speaker 1: me coming up styling models. 276 00:14:05,400 --> 00:14:05,600 Speaker 2: Right. 277 00:14:06,000 --> 00:14:07,320 Speaker 1: I was asked to be a model when I was 278 00:14:07,360 --> 00:14:10,439 Speaker 1: in college and I thought, God, no, I'm terrified. 279 00:14:10,480 --> 00:14:12,000 Speaker 2: I'm too insecure, I could never do this. 280 00:14:12,160 --> 00:14:16,600 Speaker 1: I'm short all the things I lasted one day because 281 00:14:16,760 --> 00:14:18,040 Speaker 1: I literally was. 282 00:14:18,160 --> 00:14:23,120 Speaker 2: It was almost like I needed to be driving. 283 00:14:24,040 --> 00:14:27,560 Speaker 1: The story, right, and I was like, this is an 284 00:14:27,600 --> 00:14:32,960 Speaker 1: exercise in a lot of rejection, a lot of like right, 285 00:14:33,160 --> 00:14:38,520 Speaker 1: and also for you, I can only imagine like everyone 286 00:14:38,600 --> 00:14:42,160 Speaker 1: in Kentucky constantly telling you how beautiful you were growing up, right, 287 00:14:42,240 --> 00:14:45,360 Speaker 1: Like I can only imagine them being like, oh, like 288 00:14:45,600 --> 00:14:48,760 Speaker 1: pretty sick. And I had someone on the pod recently 289 00:14:49,280 --> 00:14:52,320 Speaker 1: who very admittedly made this very good point, And I think, 290 00:14:52,360 --> 00:14:57,360 Speaker 1: as you're raising a daughter, I think who is breathtaking? 291 00:14:58,240 --> 00:14:58,680 Speaker 2: I do. 292 00:15:00,080 --> 00:15:04,120 Speaker 1: Recognize that when you hear very young how beautiful you are, 293 00:15:05,040 --> 00:15:08,000 Speaker 1: how that can be. I hate to use the word toxic, 294 00:15:08,040 --> 00:15:09,920 Speaker 1: but I think it can be in some ways, right, 295 00:15:10,000 --> 00:15:12,320 Speaker 1: because it starts to make you think this is what 296 00:15:12,400 --> 00:15:14,400 Speaker 1: I am, this is what I'm worth, this is what 297 00:15:14,440 --> 00:15:14,840 Speaker 1: I'm doing. 298 00:15:14,880 --> 00:15:17,920 Speaker 2: Everything relies on this, right, But it also can be. 299 00:15:17,920 --> 00:15:21,200 Speaker 1: This positive that you're like, hey, Okay, yeah I'm really pretty, 300 00:15:21,240 --> 00:15:22,960 Speaker 1: but you know what, I'm really freaking smart and I'm 301 00:15:23,000 --> 00:15:25,000 Speaker 1: really driven and I can do a million things right. 302 00:15:25,440 --> 00:15:28,400 Speaker 1: So it's it's it's getting that information on what you 303 00:15:28,480 --> 00:15:30,920 Speaker 1: do with it. But what I've seen since the day 304 00:15:30,960 --> 00:15:35,760 Speaker 1: I met you is obviously being beautiful and being like 305 00:15:36,080 --> 00:15:37,800 Speaker 1: forty feet taller than me and all. 306 00:15:37,680 --> 00:15:40,560 Speaker 4: These things, But so beyond that. 307 00:15:40,800 --> 00:15:44,400 Speaker 1: I never thought of you in that regard because you 308 00:15:44,440 --> 00:15:45,880 Speaker 1: were always such this. 309 00:15:46,120 --> 00:15:49,480 Speaker 4: Like strong presence to me of. 310 00:15:50,640 --> 00:15:53,680 Speaker 1: Okay, blah blah blah, like we're gonna do this, Okay, 311 00:15:53,720 --> 00:15:53,920 Speaker 1: what do. 312 00:15:53,920 --> 00:15:54,400 Speaker 4: You think about? 313 00:15:54,440 --> 00:15:54,720 Speaker 2: Okay? 314 00:15:54,840 --> 00:15:58,640 Speaker 1: This is a like a thousand jobs, a thousand ideas. 315 00:15:59,240 --> 00:16:01,840 Speaker 2: Saying no to you it was not an option, and 316 00:16:02,000 --> 00:16:02,880 Speaker 2: so I. 317 00:16:02,720 --> 00:16:04,960 Speaker 4: Think, like, my yes will agree. 318 00:16:05,240 --> 00:16:08,480 Speaker 1: Right of course, I told Stupert he has no chance, 319 00:16:08,520 --> 00:16:10,240 Speaker 1: like I told him that long ago. But I was like, 320 00:16:10,720 --> 00:16:12,160 Speaker 1: and then he had Scarlet, and I was like, you 321 00:16:12,200 --> 00:16:13,080 Speaker 1: really have no chance. 322 00:16:13,120 --> 00:16:15,920 Speaker 4: But I was like, here's the thing to me. 323 00:16:16,760 --> 00:16:20,480 Speaker 1: Your beauty, your height, like your presence, that's all to me, 324 00:16:20,680 --> 00:16:24,960 Speaker 1: just like the bonus. That's to me, the package for 325 00:16:25,080 --> 00:16:28,360 Speaker 1: all the things. Because you never stopped. Like I remember 326 00:16:28,400 --> 00:16:30,200 Speaker 1: after you had Gray and we were sitting on the 327 00:16:30,200 --> 00:16:32,800 Speaker 1: beach at the end of the summer and you said 328 00:16:32,840 --> 00:16:34,720 Speaker 1: to me, I'm gonna do it. 329 00:16:34,920 --> 00:16:37,560 Speaker 2: I'm like, do what And You're like, I'm going back 330 00:16:38,320 --> 00:16:40,480 Speaker 2: back grade. You're like, I'm going back to work. 331 00:16:40,760 --> 00:16:42,480 Speaker 4: You're going going back again, You're. 332 00:16:42,320 --> 00:16:44,400 Speaker 1: Going back in and you're like, I'm going back to work. 333 00:16:44,400 --> 00:16:47,480 Speaker 1: I'm like, but moll, you do work. You're like, no, no, 334 00:16:47,720 --> 00:16:49,600 Speaker 1: I'm really going back. And I was like, oh my god, 335 00:16:49,680 --> 00:16:53,360 Speaker 1: and I and I understood what you meant once you 336 00:16:53,400 --> 00:16:56,000 Speaker 1: came back into that year. And so I want to 337 00:16:56,040 --> 00:17:00,520 Speaker 1: talk about that because you left college a great college, 338 00:17:00,560 --> 00:17:02,440 Speaker 1: and you went off to model and you traveled the world, 339 00:17:02,480 --> 00:17:06,920 Speaker 1: which I would argue is probably a bigger learning and 340 00:17:07,119 --> 00:17:09,560 Speaker 1: education than you can ever have in any textbook in 341 00:17:09,600 --> 00:17:12,880 Speaker 1: any school, right. And I want to talk about modeling 342 00:17:12,920 --> 00:17:15,160 Speaker 1: because I think a lot of people look at modeling say, 343 00:17:15,680 --> 00:17:17,200 Speaker 1: oh my god, you get to fly around the world 344 00:17:17,280 --> 00:17:20,240 Speaker 1: and get paid to be beautiful. Okay, great, But there's 345 00:17:20,280 --> 00:17:22,760 Speaker 1: a lot that goes with modeling that I do think 346 00:17:22,840 --> 00:17:25,919 Speaker 1: really helps shape who you are in this world. 347 00:17:26,400 --> 00:17:28,879 Speaker 4: Right, Yeah, listen, I mean I think you know, for 348 00:17:29,119 --> 00:17:30,200 Speaker 4: me being so. 349 00:17:30,720 --> 00:17:35,480 Speaker 3: Nurtured and kept so in your safe bubble, and it's 350 00:17:35,480 --> 00:17:38,399 Speaker 3: our safe bubble, not just because of where I was young. 351 00:17:38,480 --> 00:17:40,960 Speaker 4: I mean I wasn't even from Atlanta where all. 352 00:17:40,920 --> 00:17:44,960 Speaker 3: The Buckheads girls, or from Dallas or Houston, from Highland 353 00:17:45,000 --> 00:17:49,040 Speaker 3: Park or Garden City, you know, was it? So even 354 00:17:49,080 --> 00:17:52,600 Speaker 3: the jump from Murray, Kentucky to Nashville, Tennessee was a 355 00:17:52,640 --> 00:17:53,359 Speaker 3: massive jump. 356 00:17:53,359 --> 00:17:53,880 Speaker 4: But when you. 357 00:17:53,960 --> 00:17:57,280 Speaker 3: Jump to parent City to parents to Europe. It was 358 00:17:57,280 --> 00:17:59,959 Speaker 3: definitely listen I to your point. You know, I'd always 359 00:18:00,119 --> 00:18:03,320 Speaker 3: told oh you're pretty, or oh god, you're with worse, 360 00:18:03,359 --> 00:18:07,440 Speaker 3: you're really tall when you're so little. But I got 361 00:18:07,440 --> 00:18:11,840 Speaker 3: into Germany, and you know, I was supposed to be 362 00:18:11,880 --> 00:18:14,760 Speaker 3: starting my junior year of college, and all of a sudden, 363 00:18:14,800 --> 00:18:18,920 Speaker 3: they were like, oh, I don't know, you're you're too 364 00:18:19,400 --> 00:18:23,600 Speaker 3: heavy to start modeling. And I was like, okay, well 365 00:18:23,640 --> 00:18:26,440 Speaker 3: they had they also advanced you a ticket, right, so. 366 00:18:26,400 --> 00:18:27,720 Speaker 4: I'm like, oh my god, how am I going to 367 00:18:27,720 --> 00:18:29,560 Speaker 4: pay back the seven and thirty seven doors? 368 00:18:29,600 --> 00:18:32,040 Speaker 3: But at that point, my mom and dad had money 369 00:18:32,119 --> 00:18:34,000 Speaker 3: a little bit, so I knew that at one point 370 00:18:34,440 --> 00:18:36,480 Speaker 3: and I called her, Yeah, And I called her and 371 00:18:36,480 --> 00:18:37,399 Speaker 3: I'm like, I got. 372 00:18:37,280 --> 00:18:37,680 Speaker 2: To come home. 373 00:18:37,720 --> 00:18:41,000 Speaker 3: And she was like, just just let's give it two days. Yeah, 374 00:18:41,600 --> 00:18:42,600 Speaker 3: I give it two more days. 375 00:18:42,600 --> 00:18:43,840 Speaker 4: I called back. I'm like, I want. 376 00:18:43,880 --> 00:18:46,440 Speaker 3: I mean when when they went to you know, go 377 00:18:46,440 --> 00:18:48,600 Speaker 3: get your jeans out of your you're a suit k 378 00:18:49,640 --> 00:18:51,919 Speaker 3: and they're like, oh, you're a size four and you 379 00:18:51,960 --> 00:18:53,080 Speaker 3: need to be a size zero. 380 00:18:54,760 --> 00:18:57,679 Speaker 4: It was a little it was a little daunting, but 381 00:18:57,840 --> 00:18:59,320 Speaker 4: then one day. 382 00:19:00,800 --> 00:19:03,399 Speaker 3: It changed, right, And it was about two weeks later 383 00:19:04,280 --> 00:19:06,880 Speaker 3: and this photographer he was like, I'm going to book 384 00:19:06,880 --> 00:19:07,480 Speaker 3: you again tomorrow. 385 00:19:07,520 --> 00:19:09,879 Speaker 4: I'm like really and uh. 386 00:19:10,920 --> 00:19:14,480 Speaker 3: And you know, they were really hard on me my agency, 387 00:19:14,520 --> 00:19:17,639 Speaker 3: which you know, I'm not gonna kind of say who 388 00:19:17,720 --> 00:19:18,360 Speaker 3: they were. 389 00:19:18,200 --> 00:19:21,880 Speaker 1: But well, in those days, so Mollie, there was no mercy. 390 00:19:22,440 --> 00:19:26,200 Speaker 1: No one cared about hurting anybody's feelings. I mean, let's 391 00:19:26,200 --> 00:19:26,480 Speaker 1: be real. 392 00:19:26,600 --> 00:19:28,679 Speaker 3: I started working in Germany and all of a sudden, 393 00:19:28,680 --> 00:19:32,000 Speaker 3: the photography be like, can you go a little bit 394 00:19:32,040 --> 00:19:32,960 Speaker 3: to the left of your face? 395 00:19:33,080 --> 00:19:34,440 Speaker 4: Can you go a little bit to the right? 396 00:19:34,560 --> 00:19:38,800 Speaker 3: I go, Ollie, I said, you know, everyone keeps saying 397 00:19:38,840 --> 00:19:41,800 Speaker 3: that to me. Is there something like not symmetrical about 398 00:19:41,800 --> 00:19:42,320 Speaker 3: my face? 399 00:19:42,520 --> 00:19:47,199 Speaker 4: Or do it? He goes, your nose is crooked, and 400 00:19:47,240 --> 00:19:47,920 Speaker 4: I go wow. 401 00:19:49,960 --> 00:19:52,400 Speaker 3: I mean I'd spent twenty two years or twenty one 402 00:19:52,480 --> 00:19:55,440 Speaker 3: years not knowing that my nose was kushing. So I 403 00:19:55,480 --> 00:20:02,159 Speaker 3: was like, oh, okay, that's always good to know. But 404 00:20:02,240 --> 00:20:05,040 Speaker 3: it was something like that, something you never thought of, 405 00:20:05,320 --> 00:20:08,639 Speaker 3: something that you never focused on. That was the hardest 406 00:20:08,680 --> 00:20:12,120 Speaker 3: part about modeling, because you know where your body dysmorphia 407 00:20:12,280 --> 00:20:14,280 Speaker 3: kicked in, you know, would kick it, whether it's be 408 00:20:14,320 --> 00:20:17,200 Speaker 3: your blonde you're too dark, you're not tall enough, you're 409 00:20:17,240 --> 00:20:20,560 Speaker 3: not skinny enough, you're too muscular, you're not muscular enough. 410 00:20:20,960 --> 00:20:23,480 Speaker 3: You lost too much weight, you gained too much weight. 411 00:20:24,080 --> 00:20:29,200 Speaker 3: So it definitely you bekill you became. I became very 412 00:20:29,240 --> 00:20:35,320 Speaker 3: resilient in my youth too, Like it knocks you down. 413 00:20:35,440 --> 00:20:37,840 Speaker 3: I mean, it just can't not knock you down. Sure, 414 00:20:38,560 --> 00:20:41,280 Speaker 3: then you get back up. So that at the time 415 00:20:41,359 --> 00:20:45,040 Speaker 3: I started acting for yourself, you know, my agent, my 416 00:20:45,119 --> 00:20:47,480 Speaker 3: agent was like, you know, you're gonna get a little 417 00:20:47,520 --> 00:20:49,880 Speaker 3: feedback you might not want to hear. And I looked 418 00:20:49,880 --> 00:20:53,520 Speaker 3: at her and I was like, yeah, that's that's actually 419 00:20:53,520 --> 00:20:57,520 Speaker 3: no problem. Like I think I've heard everything known to 420 00:20:57,640 --> 00:21:00,199 Speaker 3: man about what is wrong with me, what I could be, 421 00:21:00,320 --> 00:21:02,639 Speaker 3: what I'm not, how I could do this, you know. 422 00:21:02,720 --> 00:21:06,080 Speaker 3: And so in that way, yes, I think, you know, 423 00:21:06,280 --> 00:21:09,920 Speaker 3: next to probably being a ballerina, the pressure, and yes, 424 00:21:10,000 --> 00:21:13,000 Speaker 3: you get to fly around the world, but you're. 425 00:21:12,880 --> 00:21:14,640 Speaker 2: A lonely it's lonely. 426 00:21:15,560 --> 00:21:18,080 Speaker 4: It's lonely. It's right. 427 00:21:18,119 --> 00:21:20,879 Speaker 3: I was telling somebody I had to reorder part of 428 00:21:20,880 --> 00:21:23,720 Speaker 3: my business, and I want this girl to get another job. 429 00:21:23,760 --> 00:21:25,199 Speaker 3: And I said, you know, I'm going to give you 430 00:21:25,280 --> 00:21:28,679 Speaker 3: a piece of advice to go, don't be afraid to change, 431 00:21:29,119 --> 00:21:30,040 Speaker 3: and which. 432 00:21:29,920 --> 00:21:30,720 Speaker 4: Change is hard. 433 00:21:30,840 --> 00:21:33,440 Speaker 3: But right when I got comfortable in Germany, they moved 434 00:21:33,520 --> 00:21:36,119 Speaker 3: me to London. Right when I got comfortable in London, 435 00:21:36,160 --> 00:21:38,639 Speaker 3: they moved me to Paris, and then they moved me 436 00:21:38,720 --> 00:21:39,800 Speaker 3: to New York and then back. 437 00:21:39,880 --> 00:21:42,280 Speaker 4: So I have to say I. 438 00:21:42,240 --> 00:21:46,439 Speaker 3: Am very good with change, and nat is one of 439 00:21:46,480 --> 00:21:49,560 Speaker 3: the best advice for anyone listening who have kids or 440 00:21:49,640 --> 00:21:54,320 Speaker 3: also just want to change, maybe change their life forty 441 00:21:54,440 --> 00:21:59,040 Speaker 3: fifty thirty. Pivot like pivot, it's important to pivot. It 442 00:21:59,119 --> 00:22:01,840 Speaker 3: keeps you younger, it keeps your brain, it keeps you 443 00:22:02,560 --> 00:22:06,560 Speaker 3: in the conversation. I think you know, to Rachel's point, 444 00:22:07,560 --> 00:22:09,639 Speaker 3: what she's also done with her career. 445 00:22:09,760 --> 00:22:11,560 Speaker 4: And you change and you grow. And it's not to 446 00:22:11,600 --> 00:22:14,680 Speaker 4: say you don't go back to certain things because. 447 00:22:15,480 --> 00:22:17,960 Speaker 2: But differently but differently, but differently. 448 00:22:18,359 --> 00:22:22,880 Speaker 3: But yeah, I mean I think modeling and then acting. 449 00:22:23,640 --> 00:22:24,280 Speaker 4: With then acting. 450 00:22:24,359 --> 00:22:27,479 Speaker 3: And that was also never clicky, right like she knows 451 00:22:27,520 --> 00:22:31,320 Speaker 3: about me or a girl girl, I was never clicky. 452 00:22:31,359 --> 00:22:32,320 Speaker 4: I could be a boys girl. 453 00:22:32,320 --> 00:22:34,080 Speaker 3: I could be in the band, I could be in 454 00:22:34,119 --> 00:22:36,160 Speaker 3: the Corty, I could be in the nerds, I could 455 00:22:36,200 --> 00:22:39,199 Speaker 3: be in the the. 456 00:22:38,400 --> 00:22:39,720 Speaker 2: They're nice to everybody. 457 00:22:39,800 --> 00:22:42,560 Speaker 1: I think that's where you're like southern kind of like 458 00:22:42,760 --> 00:22:44,960 Speaker 1: I always see that come out, like when you meet 459 00:22:45,000 --> 00:22:48,440 Speaker 1: new people, you know, like I always know you always 460 00:22:48,520 --> 00:22:50,920 Speaker 1: know how people were raised by how they say hello 461 00:22:50,960 --> 00:22:53,800 Speaker 1: to people, in my opinion, because some people just kind 462 00:22:53,800 --> 00:22:56,280 Speaker 1: of have no interest. Some people like look away, some 463 00:22:56,320 --> 00:22:58,080 Speaker 1: people look down out good to me, you don't care. 464 00:22:58,640 --> 00:22:59,960 Speaker 2: You always look at new people. 465 00:23:00,280 --> 00:23:02,919 Speaker 1: You give them such attention, you give them like you 466 00:23:03,000 --> 00:23:06,480 Speaker 1: engage with them. You give that like southern like smile 467 00:23:06,760 --> 00:23:10,119 Speaker 1: that like very polite, like I care who you are 468 00:23:10,240 --> 00:23:12,360 Speaker 1: right now, Like I care who you are, Oh, where 469 00:23:12,359 --> 00:23:12,720 Speaker 1: are you from? 470 00:23:12,720 --> 00:23:13,240 Speaker 2: You know? 471 00:23:13,560 --> 00:23:16,560 Speaker 1: And I think that those things are so those are 472 00:23:16,600 --> 00:23:19,239 Speaker 1: like life skills, those are life gifts, right, and I 473 00:23:19,240 --> 00:23:20,920 Speaker 1: think those are the kinds of things we try and 474 00:23:20,960 --> 00:23:23,960 Speaker 1: teach our kids. But I think to go from modeling 475 00:23:24,000 --> 00:23:26,960 Speaker 1: to acting, right, and I want to touch on that, 476 00:23:27,080 --> 00:23:30,600 Speaker 1: and then you go into well then you go into 477 00:23:30,600 --> 00:23:33,360 Speaker 1: personal life, right, but you go into acting, and then 478 00:23:33,400 --> 00:23:37,119 Speaker 1: you go into having three children, we'll go to that, 479 00:23:37,720 --> 00:23:39,720 Speaker 1: and then you go into launching like one hundred different 480 00:23:39,760 --> 00:23:40,639 Speaker 1: parts of businesses. 481 00:23:40,760 --> 00:23:43,960 Speaker 2: Right. So acting so that definitely kicks your ass. 482 00:23:44,160 --> 00:23:47,440 Speaker 1: I mean, I mean I know that funny not first 483 00:23:47,480 --> 00:23:48,879 Speaker 1: act because I would never do it when. 484 00:23:48,760 --> 00:23:51,119 Speaker 3: I was so afraid because it was it was you know, 485 00:23:51,320 --> 00:23:52,600 Speaker 3: it was at the time. 486 00:23:52,440 --> 00:23:58,239 Speaker 4: When certain girls were like, I, you know, I'm not 487 00:23:58,280 --> 00:23:59,480 Speaker 4: a model, sure. 488 00:23:59,320 --> 00:24:03,480 Speaker 3: And you know, I was always very grateful, still a 489 00:24:03,600 --> 00:24:06,720 Speaker 3: pret people. I saw this Sports Illustrated clip of being 490 00:24:06,720 --> 00:24:09,199 Speaker 3: like I'm not an actors, you know, or like I 491 00:24:09,240 --> 00:24:10,960 Speaker 3: am an actress, I'm not a model. 492 00:24:10,920 --> 00:24:11,159 Speaker 4: You know. 493 00:24:11,560 --> 00:24:14,919 Speaker 3: I never I always was really hey, like you're a 494 00:24:14,920 --> 00:24:17,879 Speaker 3: fine with it for the experience, yes, But when I 495 00:24:17,960 --> 00:24:21,840 Speaker 3: ended up starting to audition, I ended up taking I 496 00:24:21,960 --> 00:24:22,440 Speaker 3: moved to. 497 00:24:23,920 --> 00:24:26,360 Speaker 4: In August with the fashion world. 498 00:24:26,640 --> 00:24:28,320 Speaker 3: I know, if you follow Rachel you know this, but 499 00:24:28,400 --> 00:24:31,880 Speaker 3: the fashion industry kind of shuts down for about four 500 00:24:31,880 --> 00:24:33,800 Speaker 3: to five weeks, and so I flew to La. 501 00:24:33,920 --> 00:24:34,440 Speaker 4: I was living. 502 00:24:35,240 --> 00:24:37,880 Speaker 3: I was still living in Paris a lot, mainly New York. 503 00:24:38,119 --> 00:24:40,360 Speaker 3: But I flew to LA and I took an intensive 504 00:24:40,400 --> 00:24:44,639 Speaker 3: acting class. I'd started getting I'd gotten House of Style, 505 00:24:44,800 --> 00:24:48,919 Speaker 3: and then I'd gotten a cover Girl contract, and then 506 00:24:48,960 --> 00:24:53,399 Speaker 3: I got like six or five words only at Old Navy. 507 00:24:54,200 --> 00:24:56,840 Speaker 4: And so it was with Matthew Ralston. 508 00:24:58,040 --> 00:25:01,679 Speaker 1: Oh my god, Matthew Ralston got fine words for whole life. 509 00:25:01,480 --> 00:25:03,960 Speaker 3: Is coming back to me right a model, and so 510 00:25:04,880 --> 00:25:07,040 Speaker 3: I don't know, like I been working for them for 511 00:25:07,119 --> 00:25:10,119 Speaker 3: quite a while. It was cover girl, and I I 512 00:25:10,200 --> 00:25:13,720 Speaker 3: knew that deep down, like and not that I thought 513 00:25:13,760 --> 00:25:17,200 Speaker 3: I was just a code hanger, because I didn't actually didn't. 514 00:25:17,280 --> 00:25:18,359 Speaker 4: I actually, by the. 515 00:25:18,359 --> 00:25:19,960 Speaker 1: Way, I'm all that to tell me why you were 516 00:25:19,960 --> 00:25:23,120 Speaker 1: great at it though, because you didn't consider yourself. 517 00:25:22,720 --> 00:25:25,600 Speaker 3: That you knew that there was more, you know, you know, 518 00:25:25,960 --> 00:25:28,119 Speaker 3: I think that even though they could give two fucks 519 00:25:28,160 --> 00:25:30,600 Speaker 3: about what I said or what I thought, I don't 520 00:25:30,640 --> 00:25:34,199 Speaker 3: say it anyway, like I like this, look, I'm like 521 00:25:34,920 --> 00:25:37,400 Speaker 3: this really tells our story and our narrative. 522 00:25:37,840 --> 00:25:39,880 Speaker 4: They're like, just stuck a bit on the clothes and 523 00:25:40,119 --> 00:25:40,520 Speaker 4: get up. 524 00:25:40,560 --> 00:25:46,040 Speaker 3: But that being said, you know, I I I did 525 00:25:46,240 --> 00:25:49,600 Speaker 3: they I didn't. I knew I couldn't do what I 526 00:25:49,680 --> 00:25:52,960 Speaker 3: was doing forever. And also I don't mean it's in 527 00:25:53,000 --> 00:25:54,520 Speaker 3: a bad way. I knew there was some sort of 528 00:25:54,560 --> 00:25:55,480 Speaker 3: expiration day. 529 00:25:55,560 --> 00:25:57,240 Speaker 2: Of course, of course, you. 530 00:25:57,200 --> 00:26:00,720 Speaker 4: Know, not that it's or worse. 531 00:26:00,800 --> 00:26:03,200 Speaker 3: I just knew that I wanted something else. I didn't 532 00:26:03,240 --> 00:26:05,399 Speaker 3: know what, and so I took this class. It was 533 00:26:05,400 --> 00:26:08,919 Speaker 3: an intensive for a month, and then they had a 534 00:26:08,960 --> 00:26:12,840 Speaker 3: two year program that was three nights a week, and 535 00:26:12,960 --> 00:26:15,120 Speaker 3: at the end of it, I was like, really like this, 536 00:26:15,480 --> 00:26:20,720 Speaker 3: really like this this method, and I ended up graduating. 537 00:26:20,920 --> 00:26:23,000 Speaker 3: Even living in Europe, I would take I took like 538 00:26:23,080 --> 00:26:25,840 Speaker 3: seventy seven Red Eyes and I completed. 539 00:26:26,040 --> 00:26:28,280 Speaker 1: I was going to say, there wasn't zoom man or anything. 540 00:26:28,400 --> 00:26:31,560 Speaker 1: You actually did it in person. I'm like, God, you 541 00:26:31,600 --> 00:26:34,240 Speaker 1: are not afraid of an airplane, Molly, that's for sure. 542 00:26:34,359 --> 00:26:35,879 Speaker 4: I know you a fire. 543 00:26:36,480 --> 00:26:37,400 Speaker 2: Really. 544 00:26:38,080 --> 00:26:40,320 Speaker 4: I think that's why I can't leep anywhere. Yeah, talent, 545 00:26:40,400 --> 00:26:41,480 Speaker 4: I have ploped, but. 546 00:26:43,359 --> 00:26:46,600 Speaker 3: That that, you know, gave me skills. But I remember 547 00:26:46,640 --> 00:26:51,359 Speaker 3: going into audi in for Vegas and I had to 548 00:26:51,359 --> 00:26:53,479 Speaker 3: have a different accent, which I didn't even though they 549 00:26:53,520 --> 00:26:54,679 Speaker 3: gave it to me. And then I had to have 550 00:26:54,720 --> 00:26:58,920 Speaker 3: a dialog coach. Clearly, I'm not from New York to 551 00:26:58,960 --> 00:27:01,320 Speaker 3: play to be Gone Zutter, but I went in a 552 00:27:01,400 --> 00:27:05,640 Speaker 3: Camel's Lage T shirt. My showrunner Gary Scott Thompson called 553 00:27:05,720 --> 00:27:07,919 Speaker 3: my agents to this day and he told me the 554 00:27:07,920 --> 00:27:12,560 Speaker 3: story the other day flip blops and gee, and they 555 00:27:12,560 --> 00:27:16,600 Speaker 3: were like, does she not wanta does she not want 556 00:27:16,600 --> 00:27:18,600 Speaker 3: to be like pretty or sexy? Or does she not, 557 00:27:19,400 --> 00:27:22,320 Speaker 3: and my agent said to her, she wants you to 558 00:27:22,320 --> 00:27:24,000 Speaker 3: take her serious. 559 00:27:24,520 --> 00:27:28,959 Speaker 4: Yeah, yes, yeah. So it was an interesting and they 560 00:27:28,960 --> 00:27:30,320 Speaker 4: were like the job. 561 00:27:30,320 --> 00:27:33,080 Speaker 3: You know, I ended up getting the job, but they 562 00:27:33,119 --> 00:27:34,439 Speaker 3: called me and they were like, and. 563 00:27:34,480 --> 00:27:36,600 Speaker 4: I'm like, no, but I want them to, like I want. 564 00:27:36,400 --> 00:27:41,280 Speaker 5: Them to see the gowns, the fucking nun with gild I, 565 00:27:41,840 --> 00:27:45,119 Speaker 5: you know, and Josh and I being you know, on 566 00:27:45,200 --> 00:27:48,280 Speaker 5: set with Jimmy Kahn, who will be like, put your 567 00:27:48,280 --> 00:27:50,520 Speaker 5: fucking hands down, don't. 568 00:27:50,240 --> 00:27:53,159 Speaker 4: Move your head as much. You know. I didn't know 569 00:27:53,200 --> 00:27:56,320 Speaker 4: how to walk and talk. I didn't know how to word. 570 00:27:57,680 --> 00:28:01,679 Speaker 1: It's hard. People look at actors and they're like, I 571 00:28:01,680 --> 00:28:04,720 Speaker 1: can do that. I'm like, oh my god, it is. 572 00:28:04,880 --> 00:28:05,240 Speaker 4: It is. 573 00:28:05,400 --> 00:28:06,679 Speaker 2: Acting is hard. 574 00:28:07,240 --> 00:28:10,879 Speaker 1: That is a skill and a gift and something you 575 00:28:11,119 --> 00:28:13,600 Speaker 1: have to work hard at. I mean, I think it's. 576 00:28:13,720 --> 00:28:16,640 Speaker 3: And it's like what you tell any child, don't worry, 577 00:28:16,680 --> 00:28:18,679 Speaker 3: it's never going to get picked up if you just 578 00:28:18,760 --> 00:28:21,719 Speaker 3: do it for six months, don't worry, it's never going 579 00:28:21,800 --> 00:28:25,040 Speaker 3: to go. And I'm like, okay, well, I'm like I'm 580 00:28:25,080 --> 00:28:29,679 Speaker 3: the shit now. It's like I'm liking I'm actually making money. 581 00:28:30,800 --> 00:28:33,800 Speaker 3: And they're like, yeah, no problem, and so sure, enough 582 00:28:35,640 --> 00:28:39,200 Speaker 3: it was a hit, and I would have to somehow 583 00:28:39,320 --> 00:28:42,080 Speaker 3: balance my I didn't want to lose what I had 584 00:28:42,120 --> 00:28:49,200 Speaker 3: worked so hard for, and so my ad and my 585 00:28:49,200 --> 00:28:52,680 Speaker 3: my showrunner, and they would let me leave on a 586 00:28:52,720 --> 00:28:55,880 Speaker 3: Thursday or a Tuesday for me at the time, I 587 00:28:55,920 --> 00:28:59,960 Speaker 3: can't believe how many chances I took, because it's not like. 588 00:29:00,080 --> 00:29:02,600 Speaker 4: A model, modeling or even like any job. 589 00:29:02,680 --> 00:29:06,760 Speaker 3: It's like, if you're not there, they lose money. 590 00:29:06,800 --> 00:29:07,800 Speaker 2: You have to show up. 591 00:29:08,400 --> 00:29:10,880 Speaker 4: Yeah, it's not like, oh, be there in thirty minutes. 592 00:29:11,160 --> 00:29:15,280 Speaker 1: It doesn't know, which is another lesson, by the way, 593 00:29:15,320 --> 00:29:17,200 Speaker 1: But I did that for almost six years. 594 00:29:17,440 --> 00:29:20,600 Speaker 4: And was it six years? It was five and a 595 00:29:20,640 --> 00:29:22,800 Speaker 4: half years. 596 00:29:22,840 --> 00:29:26,080 Speaker 3: And you know, it's funny the strike is happening if yeah, 597 00:29:26,120 --> 00:29:29,800 Speaker 3: you guys are listening, and NOZAG and WGA and well 598 00:29:29,880 --> 00:29:34,200 Speaker 3: TJ just settled. But but again, it gave me time 599 00:29:34,280 --> 00:29:37,000 Speaker 3: to focus on finding a prince and staying. 600 00:29:36,600 --> 00:29:47,040 Speaker 1: In one way, it's that time in the show when 601 00:29:47,080 --> 00:29:49,920 Speaker 1: I answer to listener questions. So let's see what we 602 00:29:50,080 --> 00:29:54,400 Speaker 1: have today. First question, what bathing suit brands do you like? Oh, 603 00:29:54,440 --> 00:29:58,040 Speaker 1: my goodness, I love Zimmerman bathing suits. I think they're 604 00:29:58,080 --> 00:30:00,560 Speaker 1: beautiful because they're just very fashioning, but like in a 605 00:30:00,560 --> 00:30:06,120 Speaker 1: bathing suit form, I love Joanna Ortis, I love Eras. Yeah, 606 00:30:06,200 --> 00:30:09,280 Speaker 1: those are probably my favorite bathing suits because I like 607 00:30:09,320 --> 00:30:12,920 Speaker 1: bathing suits that look a bit more unexpected and just 608 00:30:12,960 --> 00:30:15,400 Speaker 1: like have a bit of drama, and I think they're beautiful. 609 00:30:15,960 --> 00:30:18,720 Speaker 1: What I move back to New York once my boys 610 00:30:18,840 --> 00:30:22,840 Speaker 1: are grown, I don't know. I have to really see 611 00:30:23,000 --> 00:30:25,280 Speaker 1: where my life takes me over the next several years, 612 00:30:25,280 --> 00:30:27,280 Speaker 1: because I think the idea is that once your kids leave, 613 00:30:27,280 --> 00:30:29,440 Speaker 1: you're supposed to kind of chill out more. And I 614 00:30:29,440 --> 00:30:31,680 Speaker 1: would say that New York is probably the opposite of 615 00:30:32,080 --> 00:30:34,480 Speaker 1: chilling out. When I'm in New York, I go out 616 00:30:34,640 --> 00:30:37,240 Speaker 1: seven nights a week until on godly hours of the night. 617 00:30:37,320 --> 00:30:40,360 Speaker 1: But it could be that when my kids go to college, 618 00:30:40,440 --> 00:30:42,440 Speaker 1: maybe I'm going to want to do that and maybe 619 00:30:42,480 --> 00:30:44,800 Speaker 1: I'm going to want to start dancing on tables again 620 00:30:45,000 --> 00:30:49,840 Speaker 1: as an adult. But I do miss it, and I 621 00:30:49,880 --> 00:30:53,600 Speaker 1: wouldn't say no, because I could see myself living between 622 00:30:53,640 --> 00:30:55,800 Speaker 1: New York City and maybe the Hampton's and having a 623 00:30:55,840 --> 00:30:58,480 Speaker 1: house out there to sort of really spend long stretches 624 00:30:58,520 --> 00:31:01,040 Speaker 1: of time on. But I would not of full time 625 00:31:01,120 --> 00:31:02,600 Speaker 1: only in New York City again. 626 00:31:02,720 --> 00:31:05,240 Speaker 2: I just couldn't do it. So I hope that answers 627 00:31:05,280 --> 00:31:05,720 Speaker 2: the question. 628 00:31:06,120 --> 00:31:09,560 Speaker 1: Don't forget to submit your questions for next week's episode. 629 00:31:09,600 --> 00:31:11,280 Speaker 1: All you have to do is d m us your 630 00:31:11,360 --> 00:31:14,280 Speaker 1: questions to at Climbing and Hills Pod on Instagram and 631 00:31:14,320 --> 00:31:17,920 Speaker 1: I might just answer your question. I want to thank 632 00:31:18,480 --> 00:31:21,680 Speaker 1: Mollie so much for coming on the podcast. She's really 633 00:31:21,760 --> 00:31:24,720 Speaker 1: one of the most well traveled and well spoken women. 634 00:31:25,000 --> 00:31:25,360 Speaker 3: I know. 635 00:31:25,680 --> 00:31:28,080 Speaker 1: We've known each other a really long time. Mollie and 636 00:31:28,120 --> 00:31:30,120 Speaker 1: I were really in a role this week. So we're 637 00:31:30,160 --> 00:31:33,400 Speaker 1: actually going to come back next week with part two 638 00:31:33,720 --> 00:31:37,480 Speaker 1: of my interview with Mollie Simp because we had so 639 00:31:37,640 --> 00:31:40,240 Speaker 1: much to talk about that we just couldn't stop. 640 00:31:40,440 --> 00:31:42,360 Speaker 2: So we actually have broken this out. 641 00:31:42,120 --> 00:31:45,200 Speaker 1: Into two ha episodes because I think you're going to 642 00:31:45,240 --> 00:31:48,240 Speaker 1: learn a lot more. It's good. If you want more 643 00:31:48,400 --> 00:31:50,960 Speaker 1: climbing and heals content, follow me. I'm at Rachel go 644 00:31:51,080 --> 00:31:53,920 Speaker 1: and at Climbing and Hills Pod on Instagram for more 645 00:31:54,040 --> 00:31:58,760 Speaker 1: updates on upcoming guests episodes. It's all Securre Tour because 646 00:31:59,200 --> 00:32:03,800 Speaker 1: next